WEBVTT - Get It Out, Girl!

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<v Speaker 1>Today's episode will be interesting. We're recording this at like

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<v Speaker 1>it feels like the crack of dawn.

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<v Speaker 2>It's seven am.

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<v Speaker 3>I watched really the sunrise as I drove over here

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<v Speaker 3>this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>This is early for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, I feel like ocean sleeps in now that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>So now my schedule has adjusted. By the way, Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>my loves. Welcome to the Give Them La La podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>My voice is still waking up.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning everyone.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of like this though, because I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>we get a lot of dms that are like, I

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<v Speaker 3>listen to this on my drive to work, and surely

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<v Speaker 3>their drive to work has to be some people's drive

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<v Speaker 3>to work has to be like probably seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Am, eight am.

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<v Speaker 3>So totally we're there with you this morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I also feel like I'm burning the candle at both ends. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you've been working NonStop.

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<v Speaker 1>We've and working NonStop. I feel like I cannot catch

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<v Speaker 1>a break. And then the second I get a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of free time, like this morning, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to sleep in tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 2>Bam. How to get the podcast done? Yeah, yeah, we can't.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess go into detail on your schedule, but Lala

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<v Speaker 3>basically works seven days a week and anytime she gets

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote off is with Miss Ocean Kent. So it's

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<v Speaker 3>just your going, going going.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it feels good, though, I like me, you're busy.

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<v Speaker 1>If I have too much time to think, that's bad

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<v Speaker 1>for everyone around me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of Miss Ocean Kent, I took her diaper off

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<v Speaker 1>the other day.

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<v Speaker 2>And I just wanted to let her roam around.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, nothing feels better than being naked, and imagine being

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<v Speaker 1>stuck in a diaper like.

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<v Speaker 2>All the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you take the diaper off and you gotta

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<v Speaker 1>put a new one on. So I was like letting

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<v Speaker 1>her walk around. She goes missing. All the gates are closed,

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<v Speaker 1>so I know she is not trying to She's so brave.

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<v Speaker 2>She goes missing.

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<v Speaker 1>She goes missing, but like in an open area. But

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, where'd she go?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I see her in the corner taking a dom

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<v Speaker 2>the floor. Stop, no diaper? Just was she squatting? Just

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<v Speaker 2>poopy squatting, full on squat pooping on the floor. What

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<v Speaker 2>did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, no, I said, get it out, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>you did? Yeah, Mama will clean it up. And the

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<v Speaker 2>dog Lily's watching her. Lily's watching her. Dead stair as

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<v Speaker 2>it falls out, and I'm.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, Lily's probably like, you're supposed to do that outside, honey,

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<v Speaker 3>you're supposed to do that outside.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so funny and I I did clean it up,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but it was just so funny to see

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<v Speaker 1>her face because she does any thing where it's like

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<v Speaker 1>where she pushes.

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<v Speaker 2>And her eyes kind of start to water. Get it out, girls,

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<v Speaker 2>Get it out girls. So that happened. It was amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like a few things that I I also wanted

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<v Speaker 1>Okay to like, so I had asked, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>Ocean has started hitting again, and when they're that young,

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<v Speaker 1>like they don't understand when you're when you tell them

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<v Speaker 1>not to do something, maybe they do. She definitely doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>listen to me. But we talked about about it on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast and this woman sent me a DM and

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<v Speaker 1>she said when Ocean hits, rather than tell her don't hit,

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<v Speaker 1>use positive reinforcement and say are you trying to love me?

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<v Speaker 2>And it fucking worked. Stop that worked. It totally worked.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember this woman's name so we can? I

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<v Speaker 2>so wish I did. What do you mean, like, tell

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<v Speaker 2>me an example.

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<v Speaker 1>So ocean will go in to hit me, or the

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<v Speaker 1>other day she had a fist full of hair ripping,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, are you trying?

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<v Speaker 2>She should love me? Are you loving me? Ripping?

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<v Speaker 3>Just like.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you your teeth? That's what it was. And then

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<v Speaker 2>when she do go and put her head down on

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<v Speaker 2>my on my shoulder.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby, See, she's so sweet that I know she's not

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<v Speaker 3>and you know this too. Obviously she's not trying to

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<v Speaker 3>be mean. She's just I bet, like we've talked about before,

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<v Speaker 3>she probably gets laughs elsewhere, and so to her it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna make mommy laugh too.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it don't make mommy laugh, it makes mommy a

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<v Speaker 2>rill ups. I do not like being splashed touched in

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<v Speaker 2>the face.

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<v Speaker 1>And my child's like the Incredible Hulk. She's strong, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she's very strong, and her hits Like when she was

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<v Speaker 1>death gripping my hair, all I could think about was

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<v Speaker 1>all the split ends that she was creating.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh but it worked, it did work.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, you guys were back at the kind of o

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<v Speaker 3>G place where at La.

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<v Speaker 2>La Now I could not a seven in the morning

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<v Speaker 2>get to the office.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry this so it might be echo wey oh,

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<v Speaker 1>here comes mom, Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Lisa Bella, the whole family is away. Yeah, we have

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<v Speaker 2>a big long It is way too early.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what I'm saying, so apologies on

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>But what were we talking about. We were talking so

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<v Speaker 2>sexy baby, so good this morning. The positive reinforcement.

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<v Speaker 1>She also when she hits, she then when I tell

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<v Speaker 1>her not to, and I like, now I use positive reinforcement.

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<v Speaker 1>But before and I would sad feast, Yeah it hurts, mama.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she'd hit herself like it doesn't hurt that bad.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, do that. She's like showing you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's all good. It's silly.

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<v Speaker 3>It's silly, mom, she's so smart. There was a sticker

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<v Speaker 3>on the floor and I was just watching her. You

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<v Speaker 3>and your mom were talking. I was watching her, and

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<v Speaker 3>she walked over the sticker, like stepped on it on purpose,

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<v Speaker 3>and then looked behind her and saw the sticker was gone.

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<v Speaker 3>So then she sat down and she lifted up the

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<v Speaker 3>bottom of her foot and unstuck it like like she

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<v Speaker 3>was processing, like, Okay, stepped on the sticker and it's

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<v Speaker 3>not there anymore. So it's obviously on the bottom of

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<v Speaker 3>my shoe.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that really happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, it was an Amazon stickery she's doing might Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to talk about this because I saw

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<v Speaker 1>this on Instagram that that Pete Davidson broke into Kim

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<v Speaker 1>Kardashian's house and bit Northwest. It's not real. That can't

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<v Speaker 1>be real, right, No, okay? So I have learned that,

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<v Speaker 1>like in any legitimate publication, people have to be extremely

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<v Speaker 1>careful about what they write, right. Yeah, you can't just

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<v Speaker 1>put anything out there now, So how the fuck can

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<v Speaker 1>these people on Instagram with millions of followers, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>these little gossip things write a full caption about how

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<v Speaker 1>Pete Davidson rolled into Kim Kay's house and bit her kid.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. They're like, he's fully lost it. He's

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<v Speaker 2>biding Northwest now what her stuff? No, that didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Second, I have learned that if there's and this is

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<v Speaker 3>so annoying, if there's a slight bit of truth to

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<v Speaker 3>a story, other people like like, they won't sue this

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<v Speaker 3>Instagram publication because they're like, Okay, there's a slight bit

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<v Speaker 3>of truth. So for example, when Kim and Pete were together,

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<v Speaker 3>who knows, but like North was playing and then her

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<v Speaker 3>arm hit Pete's teeth and there was like a little

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<v Speaker 3>teethmark and then they just take that and run. Who knows,

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<v Speaker 3>but like it's insane what people can do.

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<v Speaker 1>So they glombed onto the fact that yes, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's even true.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying if it was in their length the

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<v Speaker 3>caption was in length really and it like described it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it just didn't seem real.

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<v Speaker 3>If that's real, if that comes out that it's real,

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<v Speaker 3>I will I don't know what's real anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Well, remember we were at the grocery store. The

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<v Speaker 1>National Inquirer was in there, and they was like hoarders

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<v Speaker 1>behind the scenes of these stars hell holes and it

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<v Speaker 1>like shows Chloe Kardashian and like mounds of trash.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, she's like, can they print this?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, the National Inquirer at this point is just like

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<v Speaker 3>it's a joke, Like it's I mean, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Always been a joke, I think, has it? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>People just like, no, it's almost it's reading fiction, that's true.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, oh, let's see what they made up this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Because Chloe Kardashian is one of the most organized people.

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<v Speaker 3>She has like she has like she's admittedly so, or

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<v Speaker 3>she has like a form of OCD about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, didn't they have to do do some thing with

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<v Speaker 1>her where they like moved things around.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, they had like an OCD or whatever a person

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<v Speaker 3>come in and like try and help help her, like.

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<v Speaker 1>If things are out of place. Yeah it's okay. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's more of a control thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, because totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Like obviously OCD is a real thing and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people struggle with it. But if you live in

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<v Speaker 1>a world where you have like virtually no control of

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<v Speaker 1>your life, because you know, Kardashians are prime examples of this.

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<v Speaker 1>All the money and power in the world. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>they are like caged animals because.

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<v Speaker 3>They can't go anywhere without being chased down, as that

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<v Speaker 3>what you mean, kind of chase down.

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<v Speaker 2>Their every move is watched.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, like I have the luxury of going

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<v Speaker 1>to the grove and yeah, maybe a couple people recognize

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<v Speaker 1>me or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Who cares if I look a hot mess? Prove it, bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>prove it, you know, right, Kardashians can literally go nowhere.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like animals in a cage.

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<v Speaker 3>Cut to twenty four hours from now A photo of

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<v Speaker 3>you in your robe at the Grove.

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<v Speaker 2>Someone proved it. They send it and they're like, too,

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<v Speaker 2>they don't even do I will. You just look at

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<v Speaker 2>my Instagram you can see it there.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I couldn't do it. I'd go crazy. I would

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<v Speaker 2>go crazy too.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I give them so much credit. Every little

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<v Speaker 3>thing scrutinized. I'm like, Nope, couldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 1>I the other day said that I had pegged someone Because.

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<v Speaker 2>It's two words.

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<v Speaker 3>It means like, oh I, I Oh, I pegged you

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<v Speaker 3>for being a golf player or something, but he's really

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<v Speaker 3>a football player.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct. Yeah, that's what I thought it was. Who would

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<v Speaker 2>you say it to? I said it to a.

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<v Speaker 1>Group of friends, and someone in the group yeah, was

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<v Speaker 1>like if you pegged some much. I was like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>pegged them for who they really are? And she said

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<v Speaker 1>that means you put a strap on on and put

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<v Speaker 1>it in their ass, right?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what it means?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, That's how I learned it from Broad City because

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<v Speaker 3>Abby the show Broad City. Because in the show Abby

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<v Speaker 3>meets this dream guy but then he wants her. He's

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<v Speaker 3>like perfect, but he wants her to peg him. Jeremy's

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<v Speaker 3>his name, and she's like oh, and she has to

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<v Speaker 3>basically deal with the fact that he's perfect, but she

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't know if she wants to peg him. Yeah, like

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<v Speaker 3>he's perfect, but she doesn't know. I can't believe you

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know what pegging meant. I joke about I joke

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<v Speaker 3>about it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, now I feel like I need to, like StEB

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<v Speaker 2>my game up. That's so funny.

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<v Speaker 3>I as a female me who has a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>like masculine traits as far as like control, and that's

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<v Speaker 3>just how I am.

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<v Speaker 2>I know myself.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got a lot of like emotionally masculine traits, and

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<v Speaker 3>I can like hide my emotion when they need to

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<v Speaker 3>be hidden, and when something serious happens, I immediately go calm.

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<v Speaker 3>That is the last thing I would ever do because

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<v Speaker 3>like in the bedroom, it's like all feminine for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Me too, yeah one, because outside of the bedroom, it's

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<v Speaker 3>like mostly masculine.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, though, I do the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I can. I can walk out into the world

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<v Speaker 1>and I would say I have more masculine and yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm kind of I would say so too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have the soft sides of a female and obviously

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<v Speaker 1>a mother.

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<v Speaker 2>But in the bedroom. I am all feminine.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I always like I play like the what if

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<v Speaker 3>with Kyle.

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<v Speaker 2>Because is it only pegging? Wait?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I just don't want to forget that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, ask the question because were you going to say,

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<v Speaker 3>is that only pegging if a woman does it to

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<v Speaker 3>a man?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? No? Or is it only pegging? I was actually

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say, is it only pegging if it's strap on?

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<v Speaker 3>I think so, yeah, it's only pegging if it's a

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<v Speaker 3>strap on. So I've like asked Kyle. I'm like, what

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<v Speaker 3>if I wanted you to peg me? And he's like what,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, it just like you met me and I

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<v Speaker 3>was perfect in every way, but I wanted you to

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<v Speaker 3>peg me And I was like, but not with your

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<v Speaker 3>penis with like a strap on. He's like, no, that'd

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<v Speaker 3>be so weird because I like always say these situations

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<v Speaker 3>or I'm like he's like, no, I thank god neither of.

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<v Speaker 2>Us like butt stuff. Ugh.

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<v Speaker 3>If I met a man who liked butt stuff, I'd

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<v Speaker 3>be like, I'm so sorry I'm not the one.

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<v Speaker 2>My friends are always shocked when I tell them I've

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<v Speaker 2>never done anal.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well you have to try it to make sure

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<v Speaker 3>you don't like it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know a dude try it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Well, it like slipped out and went into the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong area and it was antful.

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<v Speaker 3>That's like unexpected. I feel like it's almost like a

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<v Speaker 3>high school slush college thing. It's like for me and

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<v Speaker 3>my friends, it was something we all tried when with

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<v Speaker 3>like our long term boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 2>My friend can really only get off when she does

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<v Speaker 2>it the other way.

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<v Speaker 3>Some women can. I think it has to do with

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<v Speaker 3>like how it feels to me. It feels absolutely repulsive.

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<v Speaker 2>I just know what comes out of mine poop.

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<v Speaker 3>Spoiler alert, it's poop poop.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, to each their own in the bedroom. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, just get your rocks off.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yeah, anyone, Because, like I know women who

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<v Speaker 3>have sex with women, I think pegging happens a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>I have a friend who is a lesbian and she

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<v Speaker 3>loves it, loves women, would never date a man, but

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<v Speaker 3>loves pegging yeah, with her partners. So I'm like, oh, interesting,

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<v Speaker 3>do you boo?

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<v Speaker 1>I just literally thought that it meant like there was

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<v Speaker 1>one meaning, and it's like I know exactly who you are.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, pegged you? Well, I've pegged him so and they're

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<v Speaker 2>like what.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of pegging and just being humans. I also saw

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<v Speaker 1>another thing on ig that I wanted to get your

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<v Speaker 1>opinion on.

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<v Speaker 2>Hah.

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<v Speaker 1>So this happened a few days ago, but is their name?

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<v Speaker 1>Willow Smith came out defending will saying that people's humanness

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<v Speaker 1>is not easily accepted. Okay, and again, like there are

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<v Speaker 1>some there are things on Instagram that I sometimes want

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<v Speaker 1>to comment on because you know, I love a good opinion,

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<v Speaker 1>and opinions are like assholes everyone else? Right, Yeah, we see,

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<v Speaker 1>That's why it was a full circle with the asshole moment, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But like I just I get so worried about what's

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<v Speaker 1>going to get picked up on right right, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, unless they offer me a check for it, right,

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<v Speaker 2>then I'll get involved. Then you'll get involved.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what do you think? What did you think about

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<v Speaker 3>that statement? That We've talked about this a million times

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<v Speaker 3>on the podcast. I'm like, I don't think that putting

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<v Speaker 3>your hands on someone is humanness humanness.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it seems more.

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<v Speaker 1>Like animalistic, not that animals have hands, but it's just like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that type of energy just doesn't seem like we're evolved, right, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like use your words when you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Upset, and I mean, especially here's I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 3>have to see what she was talking about, because I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't see that. I wonder if.

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<v Speaker 1>She met at the headline you did, which is why

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<v Speaker 1>I do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I've got the whole story figured out.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I do that too. And Kyle's like, did

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<v Speaker 3>you even read I might? I say the whole story,

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<v Speaker 3>I say, and this is what she said. And He's like,

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<v Speaker 3>is it actually what she said? And I said, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but I bet it's something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>But here's what I think. If I wonder if Willow Smith,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know if she goes by like Willow

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<v Speaker 3>Smith or just Willow, but I wonder if she was

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<v Speaker 3>coming out saying that, because will Smith actually came out

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<v Speaker 3>with a very sincere, in my opinion, apology video, and

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<v Speaker 3>I wonder if he got kind of dragged for that

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<v Speaker 3>apology video.

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<v Speaker 2>And then she said she very well could have done that,

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<v Speaker 2>because in that case, I would agree with her.

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<v Speaker 3>Where it's like will kind of disappeared for a couple

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<v Speaker 3>months or however long ago.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a while.

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<v Speaker 3>It seems like he's done the work and he realizes.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, in that apology video, he says, like I

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<v Speaker 3>was close to Chris Rock's parents, like I let them down.

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<v Speaker 3>It seems like he's done the work, and who am

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<v Speaker 3>I or who are we to be like not good enough?

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<v Speaker 3>Like that to me is cancel culture. It's like you

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<v Speaker 3>do something wrong and then you do the work, and

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<v Speaker 3>you're doing the work to work on it, and you

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<v Speaker 3>realize you did it wrong and then everyone's like, nope,

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<v Speaker 3>too late. That I don't agree with No, I don't

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<v Speaker 3>agree with it either. So I don't know what she meant,

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<v Speaker 3>but I do think obviously what he did was wrong.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I think that his apology video seemed very

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<v Speaker 3>genuine in my opinion, and I was like, hell, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Will Smith, you do the work, You do your thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And another thing he said, too, which was very telling,

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<v Speaker 3>is he said you could tell he's like working on

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<v Speaker 3>this in therapy, or at least seems that way. He said,

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<v Speaker 3>disappointing people is my I don't know what the phrase

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<v Speaker 3>he used, and I don't want to mess it up,

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<v Speaker 3>but basically that's like his that's like his trigger, it

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<v Speaker 3>seems is like disappointing people and that means family, fans, everyone,

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<v Speaker 3>so into my mind.

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<v Speaker 2>I go, oh, that's his trigger.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, in that moment he laughs for a second at

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<v Speaker 3>Chris Rock's joke. He looks at his wife, who then

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<v Speaker 3>looks disappointed, and it triggered him. Not that any what

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<v Speaker 3>he did was good at all, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I think people, yeah, should be allowed grace

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<v Speaker 1>after an apology, Like he gave.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes totally, and it seems like he's done the work.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't just like do some quick little you know

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<v Speaker 3>nobler months. Yeah, he threw up on Instagram. You can

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<v Speaker 3>tell he's been doing the work.

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<v Speaker 1>So I and if he rolls up on anyone and

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<v Speaker 1>hits him again, then we can reevaluate that. Then we

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<v Speaker 1>can say, well, I mean he's Will Smith. He's been

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but an incredible talent and just from what I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen a human being.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is is cancel culture is the outside world

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<v Speaker 1>weighing in on someone who has a platform, and it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we dig into your past? Why do we

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<v Speaker 1>put a camera on you and see how you're living

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<v Speaker 1>your life?

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly as someone said the other day, it wasn't the

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<v Speaker 3>other day. It was like a few months ago, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>sure this has been said a million times, but you've

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<v Speaker 3>already done what you would get canceled for. And that

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<v Speaker 3>made me think like, yeah, that's true. There are plenty

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<v Speaker 3>people out there who are like, they've already done it.

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<v Speaker 3>But fortunately for them, eighty percent of people out there

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<v Speaker 3>don't have the cameras on them and don't have the

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<v Speaker 3>people looking into their past being like, oh look, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I just think that I think he did the work

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<v Speaker 3>in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just my That's.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably what she meant. One side is not accepted. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she was referring to to the apology that maybe wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>accepted by everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe I read the full thing. I do that

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<v Speaker 2>all the time. No, I do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>I need to start reading full things because there are

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<v Speaker 1>times where I see headlines.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the perfect example.

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<v Speaker 1>With my book, there were so many stories that I

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<v Speaker 1>had put in really wanting to share why I got sober,

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<v Speaker 1>because when I got sober, there were a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people around me that didn't understand why. So in the

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<v Speaker 1>book I told stories that were you know, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>if you read them you could laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>But Bird's eye view not funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Not funny Okay, so I'm talking to some publication doing

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<v Speaker 1>press and you know, really deep diving into the things

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<v Speaker 1>that I did that led me to get sober. And

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<v Speaker 1>the headline was that I put a toothbrush in my.

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<v Speaker 2>Butt, right, that happened so many times? Right, And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>come on, right, like I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely headline worthy, Definitely going to get some clicks, Definitely

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<v Speaker 1>going to get a lot of judgment, but like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>look at the bigger picture. I'm not telling this story

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<v Speaker 1>because I think that it's I mean now I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's fucking hysterical, but yeah, grand scheme of things like

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<v Speaker 1>not funny, like you were.

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<v Speaker 3>Telling the reasons you got sober, Like, oh, maybe you

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<v Speaker 3>didn't see it out in public, but here are the

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<v Speaker 3>things I did that right, I felt we're crossing the

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<v Speaker 3>line at the time or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then they take that like.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's look behind the scenes, yes, peak behind the curtain

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<v Speaker 1>as to why I am where I am today.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and that was the fucking headline. It's like so insane.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, so I should know not. I'll read articles

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, eugh, judging and it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, bitch, what are you doing? Bitch? Fall in line. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to listen to some voice small. Do we

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<v Speaker 2>have any Yes? Do we do?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey? Laala, this is a kiss from Atlanta listening to your

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<v Speaker 4>episode with your brother, and it's so funny. I love

0:22:08.080 --> 0:22:11.600
<v Speaker 4>your relations I love regularly you yelling at him and

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<v Speaker 4>he exactly's doing something crazy. So I have to ask,

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<v Speaker 4>as the older sister, do you think you are more

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<v Speaker 4>protective of your brother? Do you think that when if

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<v Speaker 4>you were to find a girlfriend, you would like really

0:22:23.880 --> 0:22:26.480
<v Speaker 4>screen her for him, or what do you think you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to be like when he starts dating or finding

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<v Speaker 4>someone serious. Thanks? Love, you have a great rest of

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<v Speaker 4>your day.

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<v Speaker 3>Bye.

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<v Speaker 2>The family episode was still one of my most favorite episodes.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that was so fun.

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<v Speaker 3>We've got to get them back on and we have

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<v Speaker 3>to get live and said.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I spent like the whole weekend in Newport

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<v Speaker 1>with them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we wanted to get them but there was too much,

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<v Speaker 3>too much to be done.

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<v Speaker 2>Too much to be done.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm going to get them on because I think

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<v Speaker 1>they have really funny stories. I've known them since I

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<v Speaker 1>was born. I know with Easton, you know Easton twenty nine,

0:23:00.880 --> 0:23:03.760
<v Speaker 1>so he's I call him my little brother, but he's

0:23:03.960 --> 0:23:07.720
<v Speaker 1>like a grown up. Yes, yeah, and he's dated here

0:23:07.800 --> 0:23:13.399
<v Speaker 1>and there, but he's he's not like I remember wanting

0:23:13.440 --> 0:23:15.280
<v Speaker 1>to bring him out to La and he comes often.

0:23:15.359 --> 0:23:16.600
<v Speaker 2>But my friend was like.

0:23:17.400 --> 0:23:19.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're gonna take him out. We're gonna find him,

0:23:19.640 --> 0:23:23.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, hot bitches. And my brother is like so sweet.

0:23:23.480 --> 0:23:25.119
<v Speaker 1>He's like, I don't really want to find hot bitches.

0:23:25.200 --> 0:23:26.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm just.

0:23:26.040 --> 0:23:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Gonna like crack it Trullee on the couch and like

0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:33.479
<v Speaker 1>watch them Seinfeld, you know. Yeah, And he's brought really

0:23:33.560 --> 0:23:36.720
<v Speaker 1>cute girls around. He's just like such a gentleman, Like

0:23:36.760 --> 0:23:38.760
<v Speaker 1>he's not sitting here like, oh I got a fuck.

0:23:39.000 --> 0:23:39.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know.

0:23:40.320 --> 0:23:42.439
<v Speaker 3>As you know, when he was on not the Family

0:23:42.480 --> 0:23:44.720
<v Speaker 3>episode but before it was a few months back, but

0:23:44.800 --> 0:23:46.760
<v Speaker 3>we did it in there, so it wasn't too long ago.

0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:51.159
<v Speaker 3>He said he was going he was practicing celibacy at

0:23:51.160 --> 0:23:51.560
<v Speaker 3>the moment.

0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:53.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think it worked out well.

0:23:53.400 --> 0:23:56.680
<v Speaker 3>Okay, but but that shows you that he's not all

0:23:56.720 --> 0:23:59.760
<v Speaker 3>about just like sticking his penis in the next thing.

0:23:59.840 --> 0:24:03.240
<v Speaker 1>No, he's definitely not. And I'm very protective of him.

0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:06.199
<v Speaker 1>He had a girlfriend for a really long time and

0:24:06.240 --> 0:24:08.240
<v Speaker 1>she was so cute. We loved her. I felt like

0:24:08.280 --> 0:24:11.520
<v Speaker 1>she fit right in. But then she kind of started

0:24:11.560 --> 0:24:13.880
<v Speaker 1>messing with him and making him like every other day.

0:24:13.880 --> 0:24:16.480
<v Speaker 1>He was on edge thinking that she was going to

0:24:16.520 --> 0:24:18.960
<v Speaker 1>break up with him, and I was in Utah and

0:24:19.000 --> 0:24:22.240
<v Speaker 1>I took his phone and I basically broke up with her.

0:24:22.400 --> 0:24:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, thinking that he was okay with this because

0:24:26.080 --> 0:24:27.159
<v Speaker 1>I was like, give me your phone, I'm going to

0:24:27.240 --> 0:24:29.560
<v Speaker 1>do it, you know, because he was in turmoil. I

0:24:29.600 --> 0:24:32.960
<v Speaker 1>can tell it was his first like real relationship, and

0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:37.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, I dealt with dudes toying with my heart before.

0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:38.879
<v Speaker 1>It's not a great feeling, but like I shake it off.

0:24:38.880 --> 0:24:42.280
<v Speaker 1>When you see your sibling dealing with it, you want

0:24:42.320 --> 0:24:45.400
<v Speaker 1>to tell them how to maneuver. You know, Oh it's

0:24:45.520 --> 0:24:46.880
<v Speaker 1>not worth it, call it a day.

0:24:47.080 --> 0:24:49.199
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, now you want to get in there and

0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:50.480
<v Speaker 3>take a phone and send a text.

0:24:50.480 --> 0:24:53.239
<v Speaker 2>What the texts say you? Basically, I'm going to make

0:24:53.400 --> 0:24:55.000
<v Speaker 2>your job really easy right now. I'm done.

0:24:55.119 --> 0:24:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Have a great life. And he was really upset about

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:01.479
<v Speaker 1>it later, like thinking about it that I that I

0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:03.240
<v Speaker 1>did that, because he's like, I really didn't want that

0:25:03.359 --> 0:25:05.879
<v Speaker 1>to happen, and you forced me to do it. You

0:25:05.920 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 1>took my phone, and I believe they ended up getting

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 1>back together and then finally he called it quits again. Yeah,

0:25:13.960 --> 0:25:16.960
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I think I'll do background checks. I want

0:25:16.960 --> 0:25:18.719
<v Speaker 1>to know what their motive is.

0:25:19.640 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and he is so like Easton again, I'll say this,

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:27.040
<v Speaker 3>I pride myself on reading people. Yes, at this point

0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:28.800
<v Speaker 3>in time, I have to admit I've been wrong a

0:25:28.840 --> 0:25:31.919
<v Speaker 3>couple times, but maybe two to three times in my

0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:35.760
<v Speaker 3>life tops. And when you meet someone and I'm like,

0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:40.040
<v Speaker 3>this is a good person. Easton though, Like he just

0:25:40.119 --> 0:25:44.000
<v Speaker 3>has a big heart and he cares. Easton is one

0:25:44.040 --> 0:25:46.159
<v Speaker 3>of the sweetest people I've ever met, And so I

0:25:46.600 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 3>do think when he eventually finds someone that he's like,

0:25:51.240 --> 0:25:54.520
<v Speaker 3>this is it, this is her. I think that you

0:25:54.560 --> 0:25:56.840
<v Speaker 3>guys are going to click because I think, no matter

0:25:56.880 --> 0:25:58.560
<v Speaker 3>what I think, it's not even going to be like,

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 3>sure you could background checker, but I think he'll bring

0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:03.120
<v Speaker 3>around and he'll be like, this is my person. And

0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:05.280
<v Speaker 3>he's got such a good heart. I don't see him

0:26:05.280 --> 0:26:08.719
<v Speaker 3>not being with someone who he's serious about who isn't

0:26:08.760 --> 0:26:11.840
<v Speaker 3>just as like good as him, don't you think.

0:26:11.840 --> 0:26:13.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't. I don't think he would want me

0:26:13.600 --> 0:26:14.600
<v Speaker 2>to do a background check.

0:26:14.680 --> 0:26:18.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't mean, you know, he probably you'd have to

0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:19.720
<v Speaker 3>do it, probably secretly.

0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:19.760
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:22.120
<v Speaker 1>But then if I found something and I went to him,

0:26:22.160 --> 0:26:24.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel like he'd feel a little betrayed.

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:24.560
<v Speaker 2>The trade.

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:31.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm also I'm also a little wounded. People scare me.

0:26:32.640 --> 0:26:36.359
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, people are scary. People are scary. Do you

0:26:36.400 --> 0:26:40.840
<v Speaker 3>think it's different with men and women. Do you think

0:26:40.880 --> 0:26:43.760
<v Speaker 3>that as a woman you should do more background checks

0:26:43.760 --> 0:26:46.400
<v Speaker 3>and maybe as like a man. I'm just asking because

0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:48.439
<v Speaker 3>I know that's like some people are like, yeah, Well,

0:26:48.480 --> 0:26:51.160
<v Speaker 3>as a woman, you have to because in most situations,

0:26:51.240 --> 0:26:56.119
<v Speaker 3>not all, but most, you can't physically defend yourself against

0:26:56.160 --> 0:26:59.480
<v Speaker 3>a man, usually unless you have like pepper spray or something,

0:26:59.560 --> 0:27:02.160
<v Speaker 3>if it's like like body to body, but.

0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:03.640
<v Speaker 2>The other way around.

0:27:04.720 --> 0:27:09.360
<v Speaker 3>Most of the time a man could physically defend himself

0:27:09.560 --> 0:27:12.879
<v Speaker 3>or you know, absolutely So, do you think it's maybe

0:27:12.920 --> 0:27:16.639
<v Speaker 3>not as pressing to do background checks like for your brother?

0:27:17.040 --> 0:27:21.639
<v Speaker 2>No, I think, well, let's just look at it for

0:27:21.680 --> 0:27:22.199
<v Speaker 2>what it is.

0:27:22.359 --> 0:27:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Most of the time when shit happens, a man is responsible.

0:27:26.359 --> 0:27:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I was watching a show on Netflix and it said

0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:35.880
<v Speaker 1>that eight thousand people are murdered in the United States.

0:27:36.880 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I think it's each year, and less than ten percent

0:27:41.760 --> 0:27:47.399
<v Speaker 1>of those are women, females doing it. I know that

0:27:47.560 --> 0:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>there's crazy bitches out there, you know, Yeah, but there's

0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:56.880
<v Speaker 1>something about men just maneuver differently, they think differently than women.

0:27:56.920 --> 0:28:00.840
<v Speaker 1>They don't have for the most part, they don't have

0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:05.840
<v Speaker 1>that like sensitive side. They're kind of a one track mind.

0:28:05.960 --> 0:28:07.399
<v Speaker 1>And there are a lot of great men. I mean

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:13.399
<v Speaker 1>my best friend Olivia who we spent time with in Newport, Like,

0:28:13.520 --> 0:28:17.359
<v Speaker 1>her husband is like, you marry that dude, right?

0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:21.760
<v Speaker 2>She did's he's so sweet Lance right? Her?

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:25.760
<v Speaker 1>No, Lance is her brother, her husband, okay is His

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:29.960
<v Speaker 1>name's Chris, and he's just like the sweetest, most amazing

0:28:30.040 --> 0:28:31.119
<v Speaker 1>human being in the world.

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:33.520
<v Speaker 2>You can see it in his eyes. See.

0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 3>That's what I think it is when I say, oh,

0:28:35.160 --> 0:28:37.440
<v Speaker 3>I can read people. I pride myself on reading people.

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 3>I know within the first few seconds if they're a

0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:40.160
<v Speaker 3>good person or not.

0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:44.800
<v Speaker 1>Right, Like, there's many people who I used to know

0:28:45.320 --> 0:28:48.120
<v Speaker 1>that I think back looking into their eyes and being.

0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:51.280
<v Speaker 2>Like they were so vacant. I should have known just

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:52.640
<v Speaker 2>off the eyes, right.

0:28:52.760 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 3>And Easton's got the sweetest he's just got He's like

0:28:56.200 --> 0:28:57.920
<v Speaker 3>one of the ones it's like looking into your eyes

0:28:58.000 --> 0:29:01.640
<v Speaker 3>or your mom's eyes or oh can size just the

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 3>sweetest soul, the sweetest soul.

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:05.320
<v Speaker 2>And whoever ends up with Easton?

0:29:05.440 --> 0:29:07.560
<v Speaker 1>I think that's why I'm so protective of him, because

0:29:07.640 --> 0:29:09.360
<v Speaker 1>he is such a little treasure.

0:29:09.800 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 2>He's a treasure, you know, the way he treats my mom,

0:29:13.240 --> 0:29:14.520
<v Speaker 2>the way he treats.

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:17.040
<v Speaker 1>Me, and he's so funny, Like you're gonna laugh your

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:18.920
<v Speaker 1>ass off with Easton hilarious.

0:29:18.960 --> 0:29:20.160
<v Speaker 2>I feel like people only saw it.

0:29:20.160 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 3>People are like, he was so funny on the Family episode,

0:29:22.400 --> 0:29:24.480
<v Speaker 3>but he's like, that's just the tip of the iceberg.

0:29:24.680 --> 0:29:26.960
<v Speaker 1>I know the Family episode, he was really upset because

0:29:26.960 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>he did get a call from his work that said

0:29:28.920 --> 0:29:31.760
<v Speaker 1>we do need you back tomorrow and we were in

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 1>LA and he was thinking he could stay through the weekend.

0:29:34.320 --> 0:29:36.800
<v Speaker 2>Yes, but they needed him and.

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:40.120
<v Speaker 3>He was like kind of bummed out and he was

0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 3>still hilarious and he was still funny. People love the

0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 3>laugh is everything. I understand being protective though, like the

0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 3>rest of my siblings I love. But like mister Bubbs,

0:29:49.280 --> 0:29:51.840
<v Speaker 3>the first guy he brings home, I'm gonna be like, ahha,

0:29:52.520 --> 0:29:55.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be like, you know, just asking him all

0:29:55.200 --> 0:29:58.400
<v Speaker 3>the questions, what are your intentions with mister Bubbs.

0:29:58.520 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 2>Well, mister Bubbs is a gem. He's a gem. He

0:30:01.320 --> 0:30:01.840
<v Speaker 2>is a gem.

0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:04.600
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and this will be the first time that he's

0:30:04.680 --> 0:30:08.480
<v Speaker 1>like the first person you ever meet. Yeah, well, you know,

0:30:09.480 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 1>because he came out to your family, Like how long

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:12.920
<v Speaker 1>ago it.

0:30:12.960 --> 0:30:16.000
<v Speaker 3>Was probably I think two years ago at this point.

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:19.160
<v Speaker 2>And has he ever brought home a girl? No, I

0:30:19.200 --> 0:30:22.320
<v Speaker 2>never brought home a guy. No, he never brought home

0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:23.040
<v Speaker 2>a girl or a guy.

0:30:23.760 --> 0:30:26.800
<v Speaker 3>But growing up, it was like, yeah, he'd bring He's

0:30:26.880 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 3>like his group of five girlfriends would come spend the night.

0:30:29.480 --> 0:30:32.560
<v Speaker 2>So it was like that vibe. Everyone loves girl time,

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:33.640
<v Speaker 2>I know. And that's what like.

0:30:33.720 --> 0:30:36.280
<v Speaker 3>Mister Bubbs is like, like, my sister's getting married, and

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:38.840
<v Speaker 3>he's like like asking my sister, please don't make me

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 3>go to the bachelor party.

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:40.320
<v Speaker 2>Please let me.

0:30:40.360 --> 0:30:42.040
<v Speaker 3>And she's like, you're coming to the bachelorette party.

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:45.280
<v Speaker 2>He's like, oh, thank god, that is so cute. Wait,

0:30:45.360 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 2>is he a groomsman?

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:50.000
<v Speaker 3>He's a groomsman. Yes, she's getting married in September. He's

0:30:50.040 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 3>a groomsman. Actually, I need to clarify because he might

0:30:53.680 --> 0:30:55.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't know which side he's standing on. If it

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:57.280
<v Speaker 3>were up to mister Bubb's he'd be with the ladies,

0:30:57.440 --> 0:31:00.680
<v Speaker 3>but he might he support you know, of course he

0:31:00.720 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 3>supports my sister's fiance too, but so. But my point

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:07.800
<v Speaker 3>in saying that was he brought quote unquote brought home girls,

0:31:07.800 --> 0:31:10.400
<v Speaker 3>but it was more like mom and dad, the girls

0:31:10.400 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 3>are coming, and it'd be like five best friends.

0:31:13.280 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 2>I love that, no love interests.

0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:18.320
<v Speaker 3>So yes, when he brings he had one guy that

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 3>he was talking to that he it seemed like it

0:31:21.280 --> 0:31:25.560
<v Speaker 3>might be something. And then mister Bubbs is also picky

0:31:25.560 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 3>and bougie. We know that and we love that about him.

0:31:28.240 --> 0:31:30.520
<v Speaker 3>So I don't think it worked out because of his bouchiness.

0:31:31.400 --> 0:31:35.360
<v Speaker 3>But eventually, when he brings home a guy, I'm going

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:38.560
<v Speaker 3>to be so protective, so protective, I'll probably do a

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:40.440
<v Speaker 3>background check, I'll hire.

0:31:40.200 --> 0:31:43.120
<v Speaker 2>A well I know somebody, I know, I know somebody.

0:31:43.280 --> 0:31:47.440
<v Speaker 2>I know somethe real good too, I know no, I

0:31:47.440 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 2>I mean mister Bubbs loves girl time. I love girl timey.

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:55.360
<v Speaker 1>My goal is to buy a large home once we're

0:31:55.360 --> 0:32:00.200
<v Speaker 1>out of this lease, fill it with chicks. Love you

0:32:00.200 --> 0:32:03.480
<v Speaker 1>know me the mom of a spot for Easton Obviously

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:07.440
<v Speaker 1>my gaze and then like my girlfriends, who are you know,

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:10.560
<v Speaker 1>kind of just like figuring life out. Yeah, well, I'll

0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>obviously have our own rooms. If you would like to

0:32:12.920 --> 0:32:16.200
<v Speaker 1>bring a boy home, you are most welcome. Set my

0:32:16.280 --> 0:32:17.840
<v Speaker 1>mom she cannot.

0:32:19.040 --> 0:32:21.200
<v Speaker 2>Sorry, they She'll have a vibrator in the drawer.

0:32:21.280 --> 0:32:23.960
<v Speaker 1>This is all you need, bitch. I'm funny about that.

0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:26.640
<v Speaker 1>So many people have asked me how I feel about

0:32:26.640 --> 0:32:29.480
<v Speaker 1>my mom dating. I think I'm getting I think I'm

0:32:30.320 --> 0:32:32.520
<v Speaker 1>softening up on the idea. I mean, she tells me

0:32:32.560 --> 0:32:35.840
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't want to find anybody because men.

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.440
<v Speaker 2>Are a lot of work. Like they want to say,

0:32:37.440 --> 0:32:38.360
<v Speaker 2>we're a lot of work.

0:32:38.880 --> 0:32:40.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean if I'm not boinking you every night and

0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:43.200
<v Speaker 1>kicking you a good meal, and even then you still

0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:44.320
<v Speaker 1>may straight And.

0:32:44.440 --> 0:32:48.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't want a deal right now. You're a sloppy ass.

0:32:49.440 --> 0:32:53.640
<v Speaker 2>You know, toilet seats lift up? Yeah, what do you do?

0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:55.719
<v Speaker 3>I know, the more people talk about men, I'm like,

0:32:55.960 --> 0:32:56.760
<v Speaker 3>I've got a good one.

0:32:57.080 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 2>You have a great one. He's cleaner than I am. No,

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:01.760
<v Speaker 2>you have a great one. Kyle's amazing. He's a good one.

0:33:01.840 --> 0:33:03.920
<v Speaker 3>But yes, men are a lot of work. But are

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:06.080
<v Speaker 3>you warming up to the idea? If one day your

0:33:06.080 --> 0:33:07.640
<v Speaker 3>mom was like, I met this really great guy.

0:33:08.280 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 2>That's so I would for sure background check that I'm motherfucker.

0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:13.680
<v Speaker 2>Of course, one hundred percent. Of course he would be

0:33:13.720 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 2>background checked.

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 1>But and it wasn't too long ago that anytime someone

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:20.000
<v Speaker 1>would bring it up, it would It's like a very

0:33:20.040 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>simple thing to bring up. Right, my dad's been gone

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 1>for four years. Someone's saying, what about your mom dating?

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:26.920
<v Speaker 1>I would start sobbing, and.

0:33:26.880 --> 0:33:28.880
<v Speaker 2>Then they would say, well, my mom, and I'm like.

0:33:29.240 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Your parents got divorced. Very different, yes, very different. Yes,

0:33:33.320 --> 0:33:36.560
<v Speaker 1>if my mom had gotten divorced, I would be helping

0:33:36.560 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 1>her find somebody, right, I'd be helping my dad find somebody.

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:42.800
<v Speaker 2>Right. Maybe not. I like to think i'd be like that,

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 2>But I'm.

0:33:43.520 --> 0:33:49.480
<v Speaker 1>Like, I go into my mind goes a thousand steps ahead.

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 1>If she finds someone, that guy could be holding my kid.

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 1>You're telling me that there's this guy who's gonna be

0:33:56.680 --> 0:33:59.240
<v Speaker 1>holding my kid when my own father hasn't held my kid.

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:03.000
<v Speaker 1>There exactly what's fucking happening? Look at me, I'm getting

0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:05.640
<v Speaker 1>into my moat. I'm like, I got my fingers pointed.

0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 2>Well, it breaks me out.

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:09.719
<v Speaker 3>I couldn't imagine I mean, I couldn't imagine what you

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:12.560
<v Speaker 3>went through and have gone through having a baby, and

0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:16.120
<v Speaker 3>you're you know, and your sweet dad never I mean,

0:34:16.440 --> 0:34:18.560
<v Speaker 3>let's be honest. Your dad's here all the time, we

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:20.600
<v Speaker 3>know it. Your dad's around ocean. Your dad is seen

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:25.000
<v Speaker 3>but in like human form, being able to hold right.

0:34:25.080 --> 0:34:27.120
<v Speaker 3>And so I'm sure, like you said, your mind goes

0:34:27.120 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 3>a million steps ahead and you go, oh no, no, no, no, man,

0:34:30.239 --> 0:34:31.280
<v Speaker 3>besides my dad.

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:35.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, going to be And then I also I also

0:34:35.880 --> 0:34:38.600
<v Speaker 1>selfishly think, well, what if hurt finding a dude?

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:39.480
<v Speaker 2>What does that mean for me?

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Like I need my mom, so is gonna step in

0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:44.360
<v Speaker 1>here and be like my mom's gonna say.

0:34:44.280 --> 0:34:48.600
<v Speaker 2>I can't come tonight. Joe wants a burger and I

0:34:48.640 --> 0:34:53.719
<v Speaker 2>got a grill. No, that's not what we do right right,

0:34:54.200 --> 0:34:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Tell Joe it's a fucking boys night.

0:34:57.000 --> 0:35:00.640
<v Speaker 3>It's yeah, go hang with your boys, Joe. I don't

0:35:00.640 --> 0:35:02.440
<v Speaker 3>think it's anything either of you have to stress over.

0:35:02.520 --> 0:35:04.799
<v Speaker 3>I think when and if the time ever came, I

0:35:04.800 --> 0:35:07.480
<v Speaker 3>think it would be a little more simple and seamless

0:35:07.520 --> 0:35:09.759
<v Speaker 3>than you either of you.

0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:12.160
<v Speaker 1>Think my mom's gonna hear this right now, and she'll

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 1>probably chime in. But I did notice she felt a

0:35:15.680 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 1>little bit neglected and betrayed when I told her I

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:18.440
<v Speaker 1>had sex.

0:35:21.400 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 2>Please listen, I get it. She claims it's because I

0:35:25.560 --> 0:35:28.600
<v Speaker 2>told her I couldn't drive to Newport. Yeah, this was

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:30.879
<v Speaker 2>like obviously a while ago. Yeah, and that she would

0:35:30.920 --> 0:35:33.040
<v Speaker 2>have to go by herself because I had to work. Yeah.

0:35:33.440 --> 0:35:35.800
<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, you got funny when I dropped

0:35:36.360 --> 0:35:37.160
<v Speaker 2>the sex card.

0:35:38.600 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 3>She did, there's something about sex and you know what

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:45.480
<v Speaker 3>I did hear that this is it sixties.

0:35:46.120 --> 0:35:47.960
<v Speaker 2>I say this all that every year. I'm like going

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:49.319
<v Speaker 2>up in age. But I'm like, I.

0:35:49.320 --> 0:35:53.280
<v Speaker 3>Heard, like fifties or sixties are the new, like thirties

0:35:53.320 --> 0:35:57.120
<v Speaker 3>and forties. Like women's sex drive doesn't even be like Spikes.

0:35:57.520 --> 0:35:59.839
<v Speaker 3>It's like it's Spikes mid thirties and then it goes

0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:03.360
<v Speaker 3>down and then Spike's mid forties, then mid fifties, mid sixties.

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:06.960
<v Speaker 1>We'll look at Sonia Morgan. Tell me Sonia Morgan's sex

0:36:07.040 --> 0:36:08.399
<v Speaker 1>drive is like nothing I've ever seen.

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:11.239
<v Speaker 2>Same with lou Anne. How old is Sonia? Do we know?

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 2>And I'm just basing this off of the show. By

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:17.799
<v Speaker 2>the way, I think they're in their fifties, Okay, yeah, see.

0:36:18.120 --> 0:36:21.480
<v Speaker 1>And they're like ready to fucking rumble and Sonya the

0:36:21.480 --> 0:36:25.319
<v Speaker 1>second she stepped onto Real Housewives talked about the importance

0:36:25.520 --> 0:36:27.960
<v Speaker 1>of having sex right, which then makes me feel bad.

0:36:27.960 --> 0:36:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Mom, if you need to, like go do

0:36:29.719 --> 0:36:32.080
<v Speaker 1>your thing, got it, But like, look at all of

0:36:32.120 --> 0:36:34.760
<v Speaker 1>these vibrators you did.

0:36:35.280 --> 0:36:36.200
<v Speaker 2>You did get a lot.

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I got a gifts. I got a lot of vibrators

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:41.759
<v Speaker 1>for gifts because they were good. And you should have seen.

0:36:41.840 --> 0:36:44.400
<v Speaker 1>Like my sister in law came to visit for Christmas,

0:36:45.080 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 1>she was going through I have a whole.

0:36:46.920 --> 0:36:50.360
<v Speaker 2>The whole cabinet. Your mom gave me one. I think

0:36:51.560 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 2>it's like, thank you, Lese. Yeah. Yeah.

0:36:55.640 --> 0:36:57.839
<v Speaker 3>Sexual health is important well.

0:36:57.840 --> 0:37:00.400
<v Speaker 1>By the way, even if you have a dude, like

0:37:00.400 --> 0:37:03.239
<v Speaker 1>people like I don't masturbate, I have a man.

0:37:03.320 --> 0:37:07.360
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, but still it's like it's way different to me.

0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:09.640
<v Speaker 2>It is different, and it's much quicker.

0:37:09.880 --> 0:37:13.000
<v Speaker 3>It's quicker, and it's like it's almost like the vibrators

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:13.439
<v Speaker 3>for health.

0:37:13.520 --> 0:37:14.040
<v Speaker 2>This is for me.

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:17.279
<v Speaker 3>The vibrators just for sexual health. The man is for

0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:21.600
<v Speaker 3>a connection. It's for the human to human connection.

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 2>By the way, a vibrator on a man's.

0:37:26.040 --> 0:37:31.600
<v Speaker 3>Penis falls falls, oh stop is something to explore.

0:37:31.440 --> 0:37:34.480
<v Speaker 2>Something to explore. Never know that I don't may or

0:37:34.520 --> 0:37:38.440
<v Speaker 2>may not have done this before. I may. Yeah, it's

0:37:38.480 --> 0:37:40.600
<v Speaker 2>good to know. That's a tip for all your little

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:43.799
<v Speaker 2>mouth action with the vibrator to the Yeah, ladies and men,

0:37:44.280 --> 0:37:47.040
<v Speaker 2>men and women tips, but again, ask your partner.

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:51.319
<v Speaker 1>I learned that from when we did the podcast sex

0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:54.879
<v Speaker 1>with Emily. She's got like an insane podcast, yes, and

0:37:54.960 --> 0:37:58.400
<v Speaker 1>she was talking about how men and women should communicate

0:37:58.480 --> 0:38:03.600
<v Speaker 1>about because like, there's a purpose to having sex probviously, right, Yes,

0:38:03.680 --> 0:38:05.760
<v Speaker 1>we want to feel good, we want to have fun.

0:38:06.600 --> 0:38:08.080
<v Speaker 1>So what's the point of doing it if you're not

0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>doing this? So you have to communicate with your partner.

0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 3>And everyone's purpose might be different. Well probably it's different.

0:38:13.600 --> 0:38:16.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Like what's going to happen for you and what

0:38:16.200 --> 0:38:17.839
<v Speaker 1>gets you off may not get your partner off.

0:38:17.920 --> 0:38:18.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:23.160
<v Speaker 1>And the last dude that I hooked up with, it

0:38:23.280 --> 0:38:27.359
<v Speaker 1>was so crazy because he like, wow, we're getting into death,

0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:28.239
<v Speaker 1>you know.

0:38:28.280 --> 0:38:31.799
<v Speaker 3>And I just realized too, we're talking about sex and

0:38:31.840 --> 0:38:33.760
<v Speaker 3>it came from a question about your brother.

0:38:35.120 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, we're like.

0:38:37.360 --> 0:38:42.520
<v Speaker 3>But anyway, keep going, Well, these are the tangent you're

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:42.959
<v Speaker 3>talking about.

0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I know, But he like made sure I was happy

0:38:45.960 --> 0:38:50.200
<v Speaker 1>before he started doing his thing to make himself.

0:38:50.000 --> 0:38:51.000
<v Speaker 2>And you know what's wild.

0:38:51.040 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 3>I was like, that's never happened to me, That is

0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 3>what's wild. You told me that, And I was like,

0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 3>I felt so sad for you that you've never been

0:38:58.239 --> 0:39:01.719
<v Speaker 3>with a partner who like that was never And men

0:39:01.760 --> 0:39:03.640
<v Speaker 3>and women, if you're listening and you've never been with

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 3>a partner who make sure you're feeling satisfied and you

0:39:07.680 --> 0:39:11.720
<v Speaker 3>you are feeling good before he or she's feeling good,

0:39:11.800 --> 0:39:15.239
<v Speaker 3>I think that you need to revisit maybe and have

0:39:15.280 --> 0:39:17.359
<v Speaker 3>a conversation because well.

0:39:17.280 --> 0:39:18.800
<v Speaker 2>I can't believe you were so shocked by that. I

0:39:18.880 --> 0:39:20.719
<v Speaker 2>thought that that was just like a common thing that

0:39:20.800 --> 0:39:24.400
<v Speaker 2>like dudes come in, they get in, get out, you know,

0:39:24.440 --> 0:39:25.839
<v Speaker 2>and you're left Like that was fun.

0:39:25.880 --> 0:39:28.719
<v Speaker 3>But like for like one to me, even for like

0:39:28.800 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 3>one night's stand stuff that I've had, I've been like

0:39:30.680 --> 0:39:33.640
<v Speaker 3>who wha, whoa hold on, We're good. No, no, no, I'm

0:39:33.680 --> 0:39:36.799
<v Speaker 3>not not there yet. Take it because I know it's

0:39:36.800 --> 0:39:38.160
<v Speaker 3>going to be one night stand. So I'm like, what

0:39:38.160 --> 0:39:39.759
<v Speaker 3>am I just doing this for your fun?

0:39:39.880 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 2>No, that's true, we're both in this. No, that is

0:39:42.520 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 2>so true.

0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not just a little you know here for you.

0:39:45.880 --> 0:39:48.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so that happened and I was excited about them,

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:50.279
<v Speaker 1>all right, that's very important saying that.

0:39:50.400 --> 0:39:53.480
<v Speaker 2>The conversation went from are you protective of Easton? To

0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:54.879
<v Speaker 2>like sex.

0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:58.760
<v Speaker 3>Vibraiders out in guys balls mom having sex.

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:02.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I have another voicemail.

0:40:02.680 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 5>I love that. I am such a huge fan. I

0:40:05.480 --> 0:40:07.560
<v Speaker 5>have been following you ever since you got on Vanner

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:12.920
<v Speaker 5>Pump and I absolutely adore you, your lip kits, everything.

0:40:13.239 --> 0:40:16.799
<v Speaker 5>I am a fan. So my question for you is,

0:40:17.200 --> 0:40:21.040
<v Speaker 5>my boyfriend and I are moving in together after four years.

0:40:21.160 --> 0:40:25.640
<v Speaker 5>Very excited, more excitement than nervous. But but that being said,

0:40:25.680 --> 0:40:28.920
<v Speaker 5>that's a lot of change. We're both very independent people,

0:40:29.400 --> 0:40:31.879
<v Speaker 5>and I would just love to hear kind of what

0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:36.439
<v Speaker 5>your advice is on, you know, cohabitating in the same

0:40:36.560 --> 0:40:38.799
<v Speaker 5>space and living with a male.

0:40:39.680 --> 0:40:40.000
<v Speaker 3>All right.

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:42.319
<v Speaker 5>I'd like forward to hearing from you, and hopefully you

0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:45.520
<v Speaker 5>and your podcast will come to Chicago because we definitely

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:48.160
<v Speaker 5>want to see you. Thanks guys, but bye ooh.

0:40:48.239 --> 0:40:50.640
<v Speaker 1>I love this question because I had never lived with

0:40:50.680 --> 0:40:54.960
<v Speaker 1>a dude before. My last one was like and by

0:40:55.000 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 1>the way, it was absolutely horrific, Like saying, god, he

0:40:57.560 --> 0:40:59.200
<v Speaker 1>had a housekey where they came three days a week,

0:40:59.200 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 1>because I think I would have lost my mind. I

0:41:01.120 --> 0:41:04.760
<v Speaker 1>was just like repulsive, disgusting. I didn't know that people

0:41:04.800 --> 0:41:08.359
<v Speaker 1>lived that way, you know, yes, And it would stay

0:41:08.360 --> 0:41:11.520
<v Speaker 1>that way had the housekeeper not come. And I'm neat

0:41:11.600 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 1>and tidy, Like I can get messy when my day

0:41:15.280 --> 0:41:18.600
<v Speaker 1>is crazy, but I have even an organized mess you know.

0:41:18.840 --> 0:41:19.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:41:19.960 --> 0:41:24.640
<v Speaker 1>But like there's a difference between dirty, yes and messy Yeah, Okay,

0:41:25.560 --> 0:41:29.920
<v Speaker 1>huge difference. I think the best advice obviously you're going

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:33.120
<v Speaker 1>to move in, You're gonna see how things flow, You're

0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:34.880
<v Speaker 1>gonna see things that aren't working. Then you got to

0:41:34.920 --> 0:41:38.080
<v Speaker 1>have a meeting, a coming of the minds. Is that

0:41:38.120 --> 0:41:39.759
<v Speaker 1>how you say it? Coming up a meeting of the

0:41:39.760 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>minds and say this is the way I like to

0:41:44.000 --> 0:41:46.000
<v Speaker 1>do things. He's gonna tell you this is the way

0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:48.880
<v Speaker 1>he likes to do things. That's when compromise comes into play.

0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:51.920
<v Speaker 1>But I think, you know, something as simple as it

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:55.360
<v Speaker 1>bothers me. When there's clothes on the ground, here's the hamper.

0:41:55.719 --> 0:41:57.960
<v Speaker 1>This is gonna be how we do it. Maybe it's

0:41:58.000 --> 0:41:59.880
<v Speaker 1>a his and hers. I've always been the type of

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:03.520
<v Speaker 1>when people tell me, like they do their laundry separately.

0:42:03.560 --> 0:42:05.520
<v Speaker 2>All I go into is like, oh my gosh, what

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:10.279
<v Speaker 2>a waste of water and supplies one hundred thousands, Like

0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:12.359
<v Speaker 2>do the fucking laundry together? Can?

0:42:12.520 --> 0:42:17.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe switch off. Maybe his job is doing the dishes,

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:20.440
<v Speaker 1>you do the laundry. But there's got to be like

0:42:21.320 --> 0:42:23.680
<v Speaker 1>compromise involved. I mean, what do you think, how do

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:27.480
<v Speaker 1>you and Kyle do things? I relied on a housekeeper.

0:42:27.680 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 2>Yes, so we keep up on it.

0:42:29.520 --> 0:42:32.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so we know that during the week he has

0:42:32.280 --> 0:42:34.960
<v Speaker 3>more flexible schedule because he does fitness training and he

0:42:35.280 --> 0:42:36.880
<v Speaker 3>creates his schedule with his clients.

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:38.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm more so gone.

0:42:38.600 --> 0:42:40.880
<v Speaker 3>So we know that I give Margot walks in the

0:42:40.880 --> 0:42:44.840
<v Speaker 3>mornings before I come to work. He sort of I

0:42:44.880 --> 0:42:48.520
<v Speaker 3>mean and like, I appreciate this. I understand not a

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:50.759
<v Speaker 3>lot of partners do this, but I'll just say it.

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:54.239
<v Speaker 3>He keeps the house clean, and he kind of like

0:42:54.320 --> 0:42:57.760
<v Speaker 3>does laundry and does all the dishes throughout the week,

0:42:58.200 --> 0:43:01.719
<v Speaker 3>and then knowing on the weekend that I will I

0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.239
<v Speaker 3>sort of do like a big clean. So I'm like Saturday,

0:43:04.320 --> 0:43:08.160
<v Speaker 3>from like whatever, nine thirty two noon, I'm doing like

0:43:08.200 --> 0:43:09.320
<v Speaker 3>a big clean and we're.

0:43:09.120 --> 0:43:11.040
<v Speaker 2>Doing it together so much.

0:43:12.080 --> 0:43:14.719
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, I mean it's literally just what you said,

0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:15.960
<v Speaker 3>it's dividing up the chores.

0:43:16.080 --> 0:43:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, right now, I call my mom my wife, yes,

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:21.960
<v Speaker 1>because like she does the cooking, the cleaning. Yeah, when

0:43:22.000 --> 0:43:23.800
<v Speaker 1>I have to go and work, she takes care of ocean.

0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:27.919
<v Speaker 2>Oh, it's got to stop. I love you so much.

0:43:28.680 --> 0:43:31.439
<v Speaker 2>And then I go out and work and you know, yeah,

0:43:32.280 --> 0:43:34.120
<v Speaker 2>or a living because my wife too.

0:43:34.280 --> 0:43:39.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, which, by the way, it could be very well.

0:43:39.440 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm an all household, yes, And I'm just being silly

0:43:42.440 --> 0:43:45.200
<v Speaker 3>because like obviously there's no gender to that.

0:43:45.239 --> 0:43:48.440
<v Speaker 2>There's no such thing as gender role role. Yeah, it

0:43:48.480 --> 0:43:49.240
<v Speaker 2>doesn't exist.

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:51.319
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I just call her the wife because I think

0:43:51.320 --> 0:43:53.919
<v Speaker 1>it's cute and I think it's exactly you know, it's

0:43:53.920 --> 0:43:55.799
<v Speaker 1>just like silly, but there's no such thing. I mean,

0:43:55.800 --> 0:43:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm a woman and I'm out on these streets trying

0:43:57.520 --> 0:43:59.960
<v Speaker 1>to hustle my ass off exactly to make it.

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:03.240
<v Speaker 2>Like many men and women are doing.

0:44:03.840 --> 0:44:06.839
<v Speaker 1>And there's so many women out there who work full

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 1>time and could have more than one job and are

0:44:11.239 --> 0:44:13.800
<v Speaker 1>single mothers, and it's a lot of work, and we

0:44:14.160 --> 0:44:16.719
<v Speaker 1>struggle with the guilt of it. You know, we have

0:44:16.840 --> 0:44:19.600
<v Speaker 1>these beautiful babies, and we want to be so a

0:44:19.640 --> 0:44:22.239
<v Speaker 1>part of their lives, but we know we got to

0:44:22.239 --> 0:44:25.640
<v Speaker 1>put food on the table. So I have such a

0:44:25.680 --> 0:44:28.080
<v Speaker 1>soft spot for mamas who are doing.

0:44:27.880 --> 0:44:28.960
<v Speaker 2>It all same.

0:44:29.560 --> 0:44:34.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know how, Like even with Kyle, I'm like, damn,

0:44:34.280 --> 0:44:36.160
<v Speaker 3>it's quite a it's quite a thing to have both

0:44:36.160 --> 0:44:37.560
<v Speaker 3>of us have a job and keep up with the

0:44:37.560 --> 0:44:40.520
<v Speaker 3>house chores. Single moms, I'm like, wait, but how do

0:44:40.640 --> 0:44:42.200
<v Speaker 3>they actually do it with what?

0:44:42.480 --> 0:44:43.320
<v Speaker 2>No? Single moms?

0:44:43.360 --> 0:44:46.000
<v Speaker 1>And I before we sign off of this podcast, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're a single mama, I want you to know that

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<v Speaker 1>I really sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I see you, and I feel for you. It's been

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<v Speaker 6>a lot. I have to I've been working NonStop. Yeah

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<v Speaker 6>you might try to, you know, see my baby as

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<v Speaker 6>much as I.

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<v Speaker 2>Can, which I do.

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<v Speaker 6>I see her a lot. I'm very grateful. But I

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<v Speaker 6>just want my mamas to see that you're doing it

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<v Speaker 6>all right. And our kids are going to grow up

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<v Speaker 6>and watch us hustle and create lives for them and

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<v Speaker 6>they're going to be proud.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, that was such a weird moment.

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<v Speaker 1>They are going to be proud.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I'm just tired. Maybe I'm going to start my.

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<v Speaker 3>Period, you're literally doing the thing. I mean, you're you're

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<v Speaker 3>a single mom who works. This is what people need

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<v Speaker 3>to hear. You've been working NonStop and maybe it's coming

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<v Speaker 3>out right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I just keep thinking about there's you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to get Ocean into a nice home. I want

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<v Speaker 2>her to have a backyard to plan if she decides

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<v Speaker 2>one day, like I would really like to go to college.

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<v Speaker 2>I have to make sure that I can do that

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<v Speaker 2>for her. So I see my single mamas. I see

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<v Speaker 2>all my mamas. Yeah, the ones that get to spend

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<v Speaker 2>all day every day and maybe the guy is out

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<v Speaker 2>working or the dad.

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<v Speaker 1>Is home, Like just being a parent is something else. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you always wonder if you're doing it right. Give you

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<v Speaker 1>all credit. You're all literal heroes to me. I love

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<v Speaker 1>to leave on a sensitive note. Thank you guys for

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<v Speaker 1>setting in your voicemails. I love you guys so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you enjoyed this episode. I'm my voice, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure is like, does it sound a little gravelly?

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<v Speaker 2>No, just at the beginning, but now it's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? You guys are going to be so excited. I

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<v Speaker 2>I will catch you next week.