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Speaker 1: Today's episode will be interesting. We're recording this at like

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Speaker 1: it feels like the crack of dawn.

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Speaker 2: It's seven am.

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Speaker 3: I watched really the sunrise as I drove over here

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Speaker 3: this morning.

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Speaker 2: This is early for me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I feel like ocean sleeps in now that's good.

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Speaker 1: So now my schedule has adjusted. By the way, Good morning,

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Speaker 1: my loves. Welcome to the Give Them La La podcast.

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Speaker 1: My voice is still waking up.

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Speaker 2: Good morning everyone.

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Speaker 3: I kind of like this though, because I feel like

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Speaker 3: we get a lot of dms that are like, I

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Speaker 3: listen to this on my drive to work, and surely

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Speaker 3: their drive to work has to be some people's drive

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Speaker 3: to work has to be like probably seven.

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Speaker 2: Am, eight am.

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Speaker 3: So totally we're there with you this morning.

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Speaker 2: I also feel like I'm burning the candle at both ends. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you've been working NonStop.

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Speaker 1: We've and working NonStop. I feel like I cannot catch

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Speaker 1: a break. And then the second I get a little

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Speaker 1: bit of free time, like this morning, I was like,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to sleep in tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: Bam. How to get the podcast done? Yeah, yeah, we can't.

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Speaker 3: I guess go into detail on your schedule, but Lala

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Speaker 3: basically works seven days a week and anytime she gets

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Speaker 3: quote unquote off is with Miss Ocean Kent. So it's

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Speaker 3: just your going, going going.

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Speaker 1: I know it feels good, though, I like me, you're busy.

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Speaker 1: If I have too much time to think, that's bad

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Speaker 1: for everyone around me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Speaking of Miss Ocean Kent, I took her diaper off

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Speaker 1: the other day.

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Speaker 2: And I just wanted to let her roam around.

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Speaker 1: Well, nothing feels better than being naked, and imagine being

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Speaker 1: stuck in a diaper like.

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Speaker 2: All the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you take the diaper off and you gotta

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Speaker 1: put a new one on. So I was like letting

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Speaker 1: her walk around. She goes missing. All the gates are closed,

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Speaker 1: so I know she is not trying to She's so brave.

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Speaker 2: She goes missing.

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Speaker 1: She goes missing, but like in an open area. But

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Speaker 1: it's like, where'd she go?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I see her in the corner taking a dom

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Speaker 2: the floor. Stop, no diaper? Just was she squatting? Just

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Speaker 2: poopy squatting, full on squat pooping on the floor. What

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Speaker 2: did you do?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, I said, get it out, girl,

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Speaker 2: you did? Yeah, Mama will clean it up. And the

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Speaker 2: dog Lily's watching her. Lily's watching her. Dead stair as

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Speaker 2: it falls out, and I'm.

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Speaker 3: Like, Lily's probably like, you're supposed to do that outside, honey,

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Speaker 3: you're supposed to do that outside.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: It was so funny and I I did clean it up,

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Speaker 1: I mean, but it was just so funny to see

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Speaker 1: her face because she does any thing where it's like

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Speaker 2: And her eyes kind of start to water. Get it out, girls,

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Speaker 2: Get it out girls. So that happened. It was amazing.

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Speaker 1: There's like a few things that I I also wanted

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Speaker 1: Okay to like, so I had asked, you know, because

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Speaker 1: Ocean has started hitting again, and when they're that young,

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Speaker 1: like they don't understand when you're when you tell them

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Speaker 1: not to do something, maybe they do. She definitely doesn't

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Speaker 1: listen to me. But we talked about about it on

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Speaker 1: the podcast and this woman sent me a DM and

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Speaker 1: she said when Ocean hits, rather than tell her don't hit,

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Speaker 1: use positive reinforcement and say are you trying to love me?

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Speaker 2: And it fucking worked. Stop that worked. It totally worked.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember this woman's name so we can? I

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Speaker 2: so wish I did. What do you mean, like, tell

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Speaker 2: me an example.

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Speaker 1: So ocean will go in to hit me, or the

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Speaker 1: other day she had a fist full of hair ripping,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, are you trying?

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Speaker 2: She should love me? Are you loving me? Ripping?

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Speaker 3: Just like.

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Speaker 2: Are you your teeth? That's what it was. And then

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Speaker 2: when she do go and put her head down on

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Speaker 3: Baby, See, she's so sweet that I know she's not

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Speaker 3: and you know this too. Obviously she's not trying to

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna make mommy laugh too.

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Speaker 2: Well, it don't make mommy laugh, it makes mommy a

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Speaker 2: rill ups. I do not like being splashed touched in

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Speaker 1: And my child's like the Incredible Hulk. She's strong, Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's very strong, and her hits Like when she was

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Speaker 1: death gripping my hair, all I could think about was

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Speaker 1: all the split ends that she was creating.

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Speaker 2: Oh but it worked, it did work.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, you guys were back at the kind of o

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Speaker 3: G place where at La.

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Speaker 2: La Now I could not a seven in the morning

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Speaker 2: get to the office.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry this so it might be echo wey oh,

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Speaker 1: here comes mom, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Lisa Bella, the whole family is away. Yeah, we have

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Speaker 2: a big long It is way too early.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what I'm saying, so apologies on

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Speaker 1: this podcast.

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Speaker 2: But what were we talking about. We were talking so

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Speaker 2: sexy baby, so good this morning. The positive reinforcement.

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Speaker 1: She also when she hits, she then when I tell

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Speaker 1: her not to, and I like, now I use positive reinforcement.

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Speaker 1: But before and I would sad feast, Yeah it hurts, mama.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she'd hit herself like it doesn't hurt that bad.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no, do that. She's like showing you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's all good. It's silly.

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Speaker 3: It's silly, mom, she's so smart. There was a sticker

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Speaker 3: on the floor and I was just watching her. You

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Speaker 3: and your mom were talking. I was watching her, and

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Speaker 3: she walked over the sticker, like stepped on it on purpose,

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Speaker 3: and then looked behind her and saw the sticker was gone.

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Speaker 3: So then she sat down and she lifted up the

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Speaker 3: bottom of her foot and unstuck it like like she

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Speaker 3: was processing, like, Okay, stepped on the sticker and it's

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Speaker 3: my shoe.

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Speaker 2: Did that really happen?

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was an Amazon stickery she's doing might Yeah,

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Speaker 1: So I want to talk about this because I saw

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Speaker 1: this on Instagram that that Pete Davidson broke into Kim

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Speaker 1: Kardashian's house and bit Northwest. It's not real. That can't

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Speaker 1: be real, right, No, okay? So I have learned that,

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Speaker 1: like in any legitimate publication, people have to be extremely

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Speaker 1: careful about what they write, right. Yeah, you can't just

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Speaker 1: these people on Instagram with millions of followers, by the way,

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Speaker 1: these little gossip things write a full caption about how

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Speaker 1: Pete Davidson rolled into Kim Kay's house and bit her kid.

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Speaker 2: You know what. They're like, he's fully lost it. He's

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Speaker 2: biding Northwest now what her stuff? No, that didn't happen.

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Speaker 3: Second, I have learned that if there's and this is

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Speaker 3: of truth. So for example, when Kim and Pete were together,

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Speaker 3: who knows, but like North was playing and then her

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Speaker 3: arm hit Pete's teeth and there was like a little

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Speaker 3: teethmark and then they just take that and run. Who knows,

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Speaker 3: but like it's insane what people can do.

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Speaker 1: So they glombed onto the fact that yes, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's even true.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying if it was in their length the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it just didn't seem real.

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Speaker 3: If that's real, if that comes out that it's real,

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Speaker 3: I will I don't know what's real anymore.

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Speaker 1: No, Well, remember we were at the grocery store. The

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Speaker 1: National Inquirer was in there, and they was like hoarders

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Speaker 1: like shows Chloe Kardashian and like mounds of trash.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she's like, can they print this?

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Speaker 3: Well, the National Inquirer at this point is just like

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Speaker 3: it's a joke, Like it's I mean, it's.

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Speaker 2: Always been a joke, I think, has it? Yes?

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Speaker 3: People just like, no, it's almost it's reading fiction, that's true.

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Speaker 3: They're like, oh, let's see what they made up this week.

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Speaker 3: Because Chloe Kardashian is one of the most organized people.

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Speaker 3: She has like she has like she's admittedly so, or

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Speaker 3: she has like a form of OCD about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't they have to do do some thing with

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Speaker 3: Yes, they had like an OCD or whatever a person

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Speaker 1: If things are out of place. Yeah it's okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's more of a control thing.

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Speaker 1: Like obviously OCD is a real thing and a lot

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Speaker 1: of people struggle with it. But if you live in

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Speaker 1: your life, because you know, Kardashians are prime examples of this.

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Speaker 3: They can't go anywhere without being chased down, as that

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Speaker 3: what you mean, kind of chase down.

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Speaker 2: Their every move is watched.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like I have the luxury of going

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Speaker 2: Who cares if I look a hot mess? Prove it, bitch,

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Speaker 2: prove it, you know, right, Kardashians can literally go nowhere.

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Speaker 2: They're like animals in a cage.

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Speaker 3: Cut to twenty four hours from now A photo of

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Speaker 2: Someone proved it. They send it and they're like, too,

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Speaker 2: they don't even do I will. You just look at

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Speaker 2: my Instagram you can see it there.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: No, I couldn't do it. I'd go crazy. I would

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Speaker 3: That's why I give them so much credit. Every little

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I the other day said that I had pegged someone Because.

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Speaker 2: It's two words.

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Speaker 3: It means like, oh I, I Oh, I pegged you

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Speaker 3: for being a golf player or something, but he's really

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Speaker 3: a football player.

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Speaker 2: Correct. Yeah, that's what I thought it was. Who would

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Speaker 2: you say it to? I said it to a.

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Speaker 1: Group of friends, and someone in the group yeah, was

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Speaker 1: like if you pegged some much. I was like, like,

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Speaker 1: pegged them for who they really are? And she said

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Speaker 1: that means you put a strap on on and put

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Speaker 1: it in their ass, right?

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Speaker 2: Is that what it means?

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Speaker 3: Yes, That's how I learned it from Broad City because

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Speaker 3: like perfect, but he wants her to peg him. Jeremy's

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Speaker 2: That's just my That's.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I read the full thing. I do that

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Speaker 3: Telling the reasons you got sober, Like, oh, maybe you

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Speaker 1: Let's look behind the scenes, yes, peak behind the curtain

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Speaker 1: I know, so I should know not. I'll read articles

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Speaker 2: have any Yes? Do we do?

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00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 4: Hey? Laala, this is a kiss from Atlanta listening to your

443
00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 4: episode with your brother, and it's so funny. I love

444
00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 4: your relations I love regularly you yelling at him and

445
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 4: he exactly's doing something crazy. So I have to ask,

446
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 4: as the older sister, do you think you are more

447
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 4: protective of your brother? Do you think that when if

448
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 4: you were to find a girlfriend, you would like really

449
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 4: screen her for him, or what do you think you're

450
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 4: going to be like when he starts dating or finding

451
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 4: someone serious. Thanks? Love, you have a great rest of

452
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 4: your day.

453
00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 3: Bye.

454
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,399
Speaker 2: The family episode was still one of my most favorite episodes.

455
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 2: I know that was so fun.

456
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 3: We've got to get them back on and we have

457
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 3: to get live and said.

458
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I spent like the whole weekend in Newport

459
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:45,920
Speaker 1: with them.

460
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, we wanted to get them but there was too much,

461
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 3: too much to be done.

462
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 2: Too much to be done.

463
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 1: But I'm going to get them on because I think

464
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 1: they have really funny stories. I've known them since I

465
00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,680
Speaker 1: was born. I know with Easton, you know Easton twenty nine,

466
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 1: so he's I call him my little brother, but he's

467
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: like a grown up. Yes, yeah, and he's dated here

468
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 1: and there, but he's he's not like I remember wanting

469
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: to bring him out to La and he comes often.

470
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 2: But my friend was like.

471
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna take him out. We're gonna find him,

472
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: you know, hot bitches. And my brother is like so sweet.

473
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't really want to find hot bitches.

474
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm just.

475
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: Gonna like crack it Trullee on the couch and like

476
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:33,479
Speaker 1: watch them Seinfeld, you know. Yeah, And he's brought really

477
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 1: cute girls around. He's just like such a gentleman, Like

478
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: he's not sitting here like, oh I got a fuck.

479
00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

480
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 3: As you know, when he was on not the Family

481
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 3: episode but before it was a few months back, but

482
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 3: we did it in there, so it wasn't too long ago.

483
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:51,159
Speaker 3: He said he was going he was practicing celibacy at

484
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: the moment.

485
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it worked out well.

486
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:56,680
Speaker 3: Okay, but but that shows you that he's not all

487
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 3: about just like sticking his penis in the next thing.

488
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: No, he's definitely not. And I'm very protective of him.

489
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,199
Speaker 1: He had a girlfriend for a really long time and

490
00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 1: she was so cute. We loved her. I felt like

491
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: she fit right in. But then she kind of started

492
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,880
Speaker 1: messing with him and making him like every other day.

493
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,480
Speaker 1: He was on edge thinking that she was going to

494
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 1: break up with him, and I was in Utah and

495
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:22,240
Speaker 1: I took his phone and I basically broke up with her.

496
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 1: Really yeah, thinking that he was okay with this because

497
00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:27,159
Speaker 1: I was like, give me your phone, I'm going to

498
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 1: do it, you know, because he was in turmoil. I

499
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 1: can tell it was his first like real relationship, and

500
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,160
Speaker 1: you know, I dealt with dudes toying with my heart before.

501
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 1: It's not a great feeling, but like I shake it off.

502
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 1: When you see your sibling dealing with it, you want

503
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 1: to tell them how to maneuver. You know, Oh it's

504
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,880
Speaker 1: not worth it, call it a day.

505
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, now you want to get in there and

506
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 3: take a phone and send a text.

507
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,239
Speaker 2: What the texts say you? Basically, I'm going to make

508
00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 2: your job really easy right now. I'm done.

509
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: Have a great life. And he was really upset about

510
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,479
Speaker 1: it later, like thinking about it that I that I

511
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: did that, because he's like, I really didn't want that

512
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: to happen, and you forced me to do it. You

513
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 1: took my phone, and I believe they ended up getting

514
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: back together and then finally he called it quits again. Yeah,

515
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,960
Speaker 1: but yeah, I think I'll do background checks. I want

516
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,719
Speaker 1: to know what their motive is.

517
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, and he is so like Easton again, I'll say this,

518
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 3: I pride myself on reading people. Yes, at this point

519
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 3: in time, I have to admit I've been wrong a

520
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:31,919
Speaker 3: couple times, but maybe two to three times in my

521
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 3: life tops. And when you meet someone and I'm like,

522
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 3: this is a good person. Easton though, Like he just

523
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 3: has a big heart and he cares. Easton is one

524
00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 3: of the sweetest people I've ever met, And so I

525
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 3: do think when he eventually finds someone that he's like,

526
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 3: this is it, this is her. I think that you

527
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 3: guys are going to click because I think, no matter

528
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: what I think, it's not even going to be like,

529
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 3: sure you could background checker, but I think he'll bring

530
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,120
Speaker 3: around and he'll be like, this is my person. And

531
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 3: he's got such a good heart. I don't see him

532
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:08,719
Speaker 3: not being with someone who he's serious about who isn't

533
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 3: just as like good as him, don't you think.

534
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't think he would want me

535
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 2: to do a background check.

536
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 3: I don't mean, you know, he probably you'd have to

537
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 3: do it, probably secretly.

538
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: I know.

539
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: But then if I found something and I went to him,

540
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,120
Speaker 1: I feel like he'd feel a little betrayed.

541
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 2: The trade.

542
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm also I'm also a little wounded. People scare me.

543
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, people are scary. People are scary. Do you

544
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 3: think it's different with men and women. Do you think

545
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 3: that as a woman you should do more background checks

546
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,400
Speaker 3: and maybe as like a man. I'm just asking because

547
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 3: I know that's like some people are like, yeah, Well,

548
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 3: as a woman, you have to because in most situations,

549
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 3: not all, but most, you can't physically defend yourself against

550
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 3: a man, usually unless you have like pepper spray or something,

551
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 3: if it's like like body to body, but.

552
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 2: The other way around.

553
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 3: Most of the time a man could physically defend himself

554
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 3: or you know, absolutely So, do you think it's maybe

555
00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:16,639
Speaker 3: not as pressing to do background checks like for your brother?

556
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 2: No, I think, well, let's just look at it for

557
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:22,199
Speaker 2: what it is.

558
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 1: Most of the time when shit happens, a man is responsible.

559
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:31,120
Speaker 1: I was watching a show on Netflix and it said

560
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 1: that eight thousand people are murdered in the United States.

561
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: I think it's each year, and less than ten percent

562
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 1: of those are women, females doing it. I know that

563
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:52,160
Speaker 1: there's crazy bitches out there, you know, Yeah, but there's

564
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 1: something about men just maneuver differently, they think differently than women.

565
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: They don't have for the most part, they don't have

566
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: that like sensitive side. They're kind of a one track mind.

567
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,399
Speaker 1: And there are a lot of great men. I mean

568
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: my best friend Olivia who we spent time with in Newport, Like,

569
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: her husband is like, you marry that dude, right?

570
00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 2: She did's he's so sweet Lance right? Her?

571
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 1: No, Lance is her brother, her husband, okay is His

572
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: name's Chris, and he's just like the sweetest, most amazing

573
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: human being in the world.

574
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 2: You can see it in his eyes. See.

575
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 3: That's what I think it is when I say, oh,

576
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 3: I can read people. I pride myself on reading people.

577
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 3: I know within the first few seconds if they're a

578
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 3: good person or not.

579
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 1: Right, Like, there's many people who I used to know

580
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 1: that I think back looking into their eyes and being.

581
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: Like they were so vacant. I should have known just

582
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:52,640
Speaker 2: off the eyes, right.

583
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 3: And Easton's got the sweetest he's just got He's like

584
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 3: one of the ones it's like looking into your eyes

585
00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 3: or your mom's eyes or oh can size just the

586
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 3: sweetest soul, the sweetest soul.

587
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: And whoever ends up with Easton?

588
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: I think that's why I'm so protective of him, because

589
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: he is such a little treasure.

590
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: He's a treasure, you know, the way he treats my mom,

591
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 2: the way he treats.

592
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 1: Me, and he's so funny, Like you're gonna laugh your

593
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 1: ass off with Easton hilarious.

594
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 2: I feel like people only saw it.

595
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: People are like, he was so funny on the Family episode,

596
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 3: but he's like, that's just the tip of the iceberg.

597
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: I know the Family episode, he was really upset because

598
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 1: he did get a call from his work that said

599
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 1: we do need you back tomorrow and we were in

600
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: LA and he was thinking he could stay through the weekend.

601
00:29:34,320 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 2: Yes, but they needed him and.

602
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 3: He was like kind of bummed out and he was

603
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: still hilarious and he was still funny. People love the

604
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: laugh is everything. I understand being protective though, like the

605
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 3: rest of my siblings I love. But like mister Bubbs,

606
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 3: the first guy he brings home, I'm gonna be like, ahha,

607
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like, you know, just asking him all

608
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 3: the questions, what are your intentions with mister Bubbs.

609
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 2: Well, mister Bubbs is a gem. He's a gem. He

610
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 2: is a gem.

611
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and this will be the first time that he's

612
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: like the first person you ever meet. Yeah, well, you know,

613
00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:12,120
Speaker 1: because he came out to your family, Like how long

614
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 1: ago it.

615
00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 3: Was probably I think two years ago at this point.

616
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:19,160
Speaker 2: And has he ever brought home a girl? No, I

617
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 2: never brought home a guy. No, he never brought home

618
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 2: a girl or a guy.

619
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: But growing up, it was like, yeah, he'd bring He's

620
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 3: like his group of five girlfriends would come spend the night.

621
00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 2: So it was like that vibe. Everyone loves girl time,

622
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 2: I know. And that's what like.

623
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 3: Mister Bubbs is like, like, my sister's getting married, and

624
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 3: he's like like asking my sister, please don't make me

625
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 3: go to the bachelor party.

626
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 2: Please let me.

627
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 3: And she's like, you're coming to the bachelorette party.

628
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 2: He's like, oh, thank god, that is so cute. Wait,

629
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 2: is he a groomsman?

630
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 3: He's a groomsman. Yes, she's getting married in September. He's

631
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 3: a groomsman. Actually, I need to clarify because he might

632
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 3: I don't know which side he's standing on. If it

633
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 3: were up to mister Bubb's he'd be with the ladies,

634
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,680
Speaker 3: but he might he support you know, of course he

635
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 3: supports my sister's fiance too, but so. But my point

636
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 3: in saying that was he brought quote unquote brought home girls,

637
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 3: but it was more like mom and dad, the girls

638
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 3: are coming, and it'd be like five best friends.

639
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 2: I love that, no love interests.

640
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 3: So yes, when he brings he had one guy that

641
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 3: he was talking to that he it seemed like it

642
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 3: might be something. And then mister Bubbs is also picky

643
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 3: and bougie. We know that and we love that about him.

644
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 3: So I don't think it worked out because of his bouchiness.

645
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 3: But eventually, when he brings home a guy, I'm going

646
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 3: to be so protective, so protective, I'll probably do a

647
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 3: background check, I'll hire.

648
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 2: A well I know somebody, I know, I know somebody.

649
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: I know somethe real good too, I know no, I

650
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: I mean mister Bubbs loves girl time. I love girl timey.

651
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: My goal is to buy a large home once we're

652
00:31:55,360 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: out of this lease, fill it with chicks. Love you

653
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: know me the mom of a spot for Easton Obviously

654
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: my gaze and then like my girlfriends, who are you know,

655
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: kind of just like figuring life out. Yeah, well, I'll

656
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: obviously have our own rooms. If you would like to

657
00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: bring a boy home, you are most welcome. Set my

658
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: mom she cannot.

659
00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 2: Sorry, they She'll have a vibrator in the drawer.

660
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 1: This is all you need, bitch. I'm funny about that.

661
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: So many people have asked me how I feel about

662
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 1: my mom dating. I think I'm getting I think I'm

663
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: softening up on the idea. I mean, she tells me

664
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 1: she doesn't want to find anybody because men.

665
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 2: Are a lot of work. Like they want to say,

666
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 2: we're a lot of work.

667
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 1: I mean if I'm not boinking you every night and

668
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: kicking you a good meal, and even then you still

669
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: may straight And.

670
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: I don't want a deal right now. You're a sloppy ass.

671
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 2: You know, toilet seats lift up? Yeah, what do you do?

672
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:55,719
Speaker 3: I know, the more people talk about men, I'm like,

673
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 3: I've got a good one.

674
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 2: You have a great one. He's cleaner than I am. No,

675
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 2: you have a great one. Kyle's amazing. He's a good one.

676
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 3: But yes, men are a lot of work. But are

677
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 3: you warming up to the idea? If one day your

678
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 3: mom was like, I met this really great guy.

679
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 2: That's so I would for sure background check that I'm motherfucker.

680
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 2: Of course, one hundred percent. Of course he would be

681
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: background checked.

682
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 1: But and it wasn't too long ago that anytime someone

683
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: would bring it up, it would It's like a very

684
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 1: simple thing to bring up. Right, my dad's been gone

685
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: for four years. Someone's saying, what about your mom dating?

686
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: I would start sobbing, and.

687
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 2: Then they would say, well, my mom, and I'm like.

688
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: Your parents got divorced. Very different, yes, very different. Yes,

689
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 1: if my mom had gotten divorced, I would be helping

690
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: her find somebody, right, I'd be helping my dad find somebody.

691
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 2: Right. Maybe not. I like to think i'd be like that,

692
00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 2: But I'm.

693
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: Like, I go into my mind goes a thousand steps ahead.

694
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: If she finds someone, that guy could be holding my kid.

695
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 1: You're telling me that there's this guy who's gonna be

696
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 1: holding my kid when my own father hasn't held my kid.

697
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 1: There exactly what's fucking happening? Look at me, I'm getting

698
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: into my moat. I'm like, I got my fingers pointed.

699
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: Well, it breaks me out.

700
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine I mean, I couldn't imagine what you

701
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 3: went through and have gone through having a baby, and

702
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 3: you're you know, and your sweet dad never I mean,

703
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 3: let's be honest. Your dad's here all the time, we

704
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 3: know it. Your dad's around ocean. Your dad is seen

705
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 3: but in like human form, being able to hold right.

706
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,120
Speaker 3: And so I'm sure, like you said, your mind goes

707
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 3: a million steps ahead and you go, oh no, no, no, no, man,

708
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:31,280
Speaker 3: besides my dad.

709
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, going to be And then I also I also

710
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: selfishly think, well, what if hurt finding a dude?

711
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 2: What does that mean for me?

712
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,239
Speaker 1: Like I need my mom, so is gonna step in

713
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: here and be like my mom's gonna say.

714
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 2: I can't come tonight. Joe wants a burger and I

715
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 2: got a grill. No, that's not what we do right right,

716
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 2: Tell Joe it's a fucking boys night.

717
00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 3: It's yeah, go hang with your boys, Joe. I don't

718
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 3: think it's anything either of you have to stress over.

719
00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 3: I think when and if the time ever came, I

720
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 3: think it would be a little more simple and seamless

721
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 3: than you either of you.

722
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: Think my mom's gonna hear this right now, and she'll

723
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: probably chime in. But I did notice she felt a

724
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: little bit neglected and betrayed when I told her I

725
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: had sex.

726
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 2: Please listen, I get it. She claims it's because I

727
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 2: told her I couldn't drive to Newport. Yeah, this was

728
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 2: like obviously a while ago. Yeah, and that she would

729
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 2: have to go by herself because I had to work. Yeah.

730
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 2: I was like, no, you got funny when I dropped

731
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: the sex card.

732
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 3: She did, there's something about sex and you know what

733
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 3: I did hear that this is it sixties.

734
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 2: I say this all that every year. I'm like going

735
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,319
Speaker 2: up in age. But I'm like, I.

736
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 3: Heard, like fifties or sixties are the new, like thirties

737
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 3: and forties. Like women's sex drive doesn't even be like Spikes.

738
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:59,839
Speaker 3: It's like it's Spikes mid thirties and then it goes

739
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,360
Speaker 3: down and then Spike's mid forties, then mid fifties, mid sixties.

740
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 1: We'll look at Sonia Morgan. Tell me Sonia Morgan's sex

741
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: drive is like nothing I've ever seen.

742
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: Same with lou Anne. How old is Sonia? Do we know?

743
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 2: And I'm just basing this off of the show. By

744
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 2: the way, I think they're in their fifties, Okay, yeah, see.

745
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 1: And they're like ready to fucking rumble and Sonya the

746
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: second she stepped onto Real Housewives talked about the importance

747
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: of having sex right, which then makes me feel bad.

748
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, Mom, if you need to, like go do

749
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: your thing, got it, But like, look at all of

750
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:34,760
Speaker 1: these vibrators you did.

751
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 2: You did get a lot.

752
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 1: I got a gifts. I got a lot of vibrators

753
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: for gifts because they were good. And you should have seen.

754
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 1: Like my sister in law came to visit for Christmas,

755
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: she was going through I have a whole.

756
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 2: The whole cabinet. Your mom gave me one. I think

757
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 2: it's like, thank you, Lese. Yeah. Yeah.

758
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 3: Sexual health is important well.

759
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: By the way, even if you have a dude, like

760
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:03,239
Speaker 1: people like I don't masturbate, I have a man.

761
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, but still it's like it's way different to me.

762
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 2: It is different, and it's much quicker.

763
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 3: It's quicker, and it's like it's almost like the vibrators

764
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:13,439
Speaker 3: for health.

765
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 2: This is for me.

766
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 3: The vibrators just for sexual health. The man is for

767
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 3: a connection. It's for the human to human connection.

768
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 2: By the way, a vibrator on a man's.

769
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 3: Penis falls falls, oh stop is something to explore.

770
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 2: Something to explore. Never know that I don't may or

771
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 2: may not have done this before. I may. Yeah, it's

772
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 2: good to know. That's a tip for all your little

773
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,799
Speaker 2: mouth action with the vibrator to the Yeah, ladies and men,

774
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 2: men and women tips, but again, ask your partner.

775
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 1: I learned that from when we did the podcast sex

776
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 1: with Emily. She's got like an insane podcast, yes, and

777
00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: she was talking about how men and women should communicate

778
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 1: about because like, there's a purpose to having sex probviously, right, Yes,

779
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 1: we want to feel good, we want to have fun.

780
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: So what's the point of doing it if you're not

781
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 1: doing this? So you have to communicate with your partner.

782
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 3: And everyone's purpose might be different. Well probably it's different.

783
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: Yes, Like what's going to happen for you and what

784
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,839
Speaker 1: gets you off may not get your partner off.

785
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

786
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: And the last dude that I hooked up with, it

787
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 1: was so crazy because he like, wow, we're getting into death,

788
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: you know.

789
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 3: And I just realized too, we're talking about sex and

790
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,760
Speaker 3: it came from a question about your brother.

791
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we're like.

792
00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 3: But anyway, keep going, Well, these are the tangent you're

793
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:42,959
Speaker 3: talking about.

794
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: I know, But he like made sure I was happy

795
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: before he started doing his thing to make himself.

796
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: And you know what's wild.

797
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 3: I was like, that's never happened to me, That is

798
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 3: what's wild. You told me that, And I was like,

799
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 3: I felt so sad for you that you've never been

800
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 3: with a partner who like that was never And men

801
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 3: and women, if you're listening and you've never been with

802
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 3: a partner who make sure you're feeling satisfied and you

803
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 3: you are feeling good before he or she's feeling good,

804
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 3: I think that you need to revisit maybe and have

805
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 3: a conversation because well.

806
00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 2: I can't believe you were so shocked by that. I

807
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:20,719
Speaker 2: thought that that was just like a common thing that

808
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 2: like dudes come in, they get in, get out, you know,

809
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 2: and you're left Like that was fun.

810
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,719
Speaker 3: But like for like one to me, even for like

811
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 3: one night's stand stuff that I've had, I've been like

812
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 3: who wha, whoa hold on, We're good. No, no, no, I'm

813
00:39:33,680 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 3: not not there yet. Take it because I know it's

814
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 3: going to be one night stand. So I'm like, what

815
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 3: am I just doing this for your fun?

816
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: No, that's true, we're both in this. No, that is

817
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 2: so true.

818
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not just a little you know here for you.

819
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:48,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that happened and I was excited about them,

820
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 1: all right, that's very important saying that.

821
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 2: The conversation went from are you protective of Easton? To

822
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:54,879
Speaker 2: like sex.

823
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 3: Vibraiders out in guys balls mom having sex.

824
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 2: Oh, I have another voicemail.

825
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 5: I love that. I am such a huge fan. I

826
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 5: have been following you ever since you got on Vanner

827
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 5: Pump and I absolutely adore you, your lip kits, everything.

828
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 5: I am a fan. So my question for you is,

829
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 5: my boyfriend and I are moving in together after four years.

830
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 5: Very excited, more excitement than nervous. But but that being said,

831
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 5: that's a lot of change. We're both very independent people,

832
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 5: and I would just love to hear kind of what

833
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:36,439
Speaker 5: your advice is on, you know, cohabitating in the same

834
00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 5: space and living with a male.

835
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 3: All right.

836
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 5: I'd like forward to hearing from you, and hopefully you

837
00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 5: and your podcast will come to Chicago because we definitely

838
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 5: want to see you. Thanks guys, but bye ooh.

839
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 1: I love this question because I had never lived with

840
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: a dude before. My last one was like and by

841
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: the way, it was absolutely horrific, Like saying, god, he

842
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: had a housekey where they came three days a week,

843
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: because I think I would have lost my mind. I

844
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 1: was just like repulsive, disgusting. I didn't know that people

845
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:08,359
Speaker 1: lived that way, you know, yes, And it would stay

846
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 1: that way had the housekeeper not come. And I'm neat

847
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 1: and tidy, Like I can get messy when my day

848
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: is crazy, but I have even an organized mess you know.

849
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:19,720
Speaker 2: Yeah.

850
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: But like there's a difference between dirty, yes and messy Yeah, Okay,

851
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: huge difference. I think the best advice obviously you're going

852
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: to move in, You're gonna see how things flow, You're

853
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: gonna see things that aren't working. Then you got to

854
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: have a meeting, a coming of the minds. Is that

855
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: how you say it? Coming up a meeting of the

856
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: minds and say this is the way I like to

857
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 1: do things. He's gonna tell you this is the way

858
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: he likes to do things. That's when compromise comes into play.

859
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 1: But I think, you know, something as simple as it

860
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 1: bothers me. When there's clothes on the ground, here's the hamper.

861
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: This is gonna be how we do it. Maybe it's

862
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,880
Speaker 1: a his and hers. I've always been the type of

863
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: when people tell me, like they do their laundry separately.

864
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 2: All I go into is like, oh my gosh, what

865
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: a waste of water and supplies one hundred thousands, Like

866
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,359
Speaker 2: do the fucking laundry together? Can?

867
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe switch off. Maybe his job is doing the dishes,

868
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:20,440
Speaker 1: you do the laundry. But there's got to be like

869
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: compromise involved. I mean, what do you think, how do

870
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,480
Speaker 1: you and Kyle do things? I relied on a housekeeper.

871
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,399
Speaker 2: Yes, so we keep up on it.

872
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we know that during the week he has

873
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 3: more flexible schedule because he does fitness training and he

874
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 3: creates his schedule with his clients.

875
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Speaker 2: I'm more so gone.

876
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,880
Speaker 3: So we know that I give Margot walks in the

877
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 3: mornings before I come to work. He sort of I

878
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 3: mean and like, I appreciate this. I understand not a

879
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 3: lot of partners do this, but I'll just say it.

880
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 3: He keeps the house clean, and he kind of like

881
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,760
Speaker 3: does laundry and does all the dishes throughout the week,

882
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,719
Speaker 3: and then knowing on the weekend that I will I

883
00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 3: sort of do like a big clean. So I'm like Saturday,

884
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 3: from like whatever, nine thirty two noon, I'm doing like

885
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 3: a big clean and we're.

886
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: Doing it together so much.

887
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Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean it's literally just what you said,

888
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 3: it's dividing up the chores.

889
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, right now, I call my mom my wife, yes,

890
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Speaker 1: because like she does the cooking, the cleaning. Yeah, when

891
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 1: I have to go and work, she takes care of ocean.

892
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,919
Speaker 2: Oh, it's got to stop. I love you so much.

893
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,439
Speaker 2: And then I go out and work and you know, yeah,

894
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 2: or a living because my wife too.

895
00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, which, by the way, it could be very well.

896
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Speaker 3: I'm an all household, yes, And I'm just being silly

897
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 3: because like obviously there's no gender to that.

898
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 2: There's no such thing as gender role role. Yeah, it

899
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:49,240
Speaker 2: doesn't exist.

900
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:51,319
Speaker 1: Yes, I just call her the wife because I think

901
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,919
Speaker 1: it's cute and I think it's exactly you know, it's

902
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: just like silly, but there's no such thing. I mean,

903
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: I'm a woman and I'm out on these streets trying

904
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: to hustle my ass off exactly to make it.

905
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,240
Speaker 2: Like many men and women are doing.

906
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: And there's so many women out there who work full

907
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: time and could have more than one job and are

908
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:13,800
Speaker 1: single mothers, and it's a lot of work, and we

909
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: struggle with the guilt of it. You know, we have

910
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: these beautiful babies, and we want to be so a

911
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: part of their lives, but we know we got to

912
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: put food on the table. So I have such a

913
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 1: soft spot for mamas who are doing.

914
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:28,960
Speaker 2: It all same.

915
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know how, Like even with Kyle, I'm like, damn,

916
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 3: it's quite a it's quite a thing to have both

917
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 3: of us have a job and keep up with the

918
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 3: house chores. Single moms, I'm like, wait, but how do

919
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 3: they actually do it with what?

920
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 2: No? Single moms?

921
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: And I before we sign off of this podcast, if

922
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: you're a single mama, I want you to know that

923
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 1: I really sorry.

924
00:44:57,480 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 6: I see you, and I feel for you. It's been

925
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 6: a lot. I have to I've been working NonStop. Yeah

926
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 6: you might try to, you know, see my baby as

927
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:08,439
Speaker 6: much as I.

928
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 2: Can, which I do.

929
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 6: I see her a lot. I'm very grateful. But I

930
00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 6: just want my mamas to see that you're doing it

931
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 6: all right. And our kids are going to grow up

932
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Speaker 6: and watch us hustle and create lives for them and

933
00:45:24,040 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 6: they're going to be proud.

934
00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:26,760
Speaker 2: Sorry, that was such a weird moment.

935
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:27,720
Speaker 1: They are going to be proud.

936
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 2: Maybe I'm just tired. Maybe I'm going to start my.

937
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 3: Period, you're literally doing the thing. I mean, you're you're

938
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 3: a single mom who works. This is what people need

939
00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,759
Speaker 3: to hear. You've been working NonStop and maybe it's coming

940
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 3: out right now.

941
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Speaker 2: Well, I just keep thinking about there's you know, I

942
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 2: want to get Ocean into a nice home. I want

943
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 2: her to have a backyard to plan if she decides

944
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 2: one day, like I would really like to go to college.

945
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 2: I have to make sure that I can do that

946
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:58,319
Speaker 2: for her. So I see my single mamas. I see

947
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:01,280
Speaker 2: all my mamas. Yeah, the ones that get to spend

948
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,399
Speaker 2: all day every day and maybe the guy is out

949
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 2: working or the dad.

950
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: Is home, Like just being a parent is something else. Yeah,

951
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: you always wonder if you're doing it right. Give you

952
00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: all credit. You're all literal heroes to me. I love

953
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Speaker 1: to leave on a sensitive note. Thank you guys for

954
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955
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956
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Speaker 1: sure is like, does it sound a little gravelly?

957
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Speaker 2: No, just at the beginning, but now it's not.

958
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Speaker 1: Oh? You guys are going to be so excited. I

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962
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966
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968
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969
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Speaker 3: And when we were on the tour, sold the pink

970
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971
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972
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973
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