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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of the Blackout Tess Podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'm your host, Rod, joined as always by my cost

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Speaker 2: k and we are live early in the morning on

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Speaker 2: I finally learned to start tipping, says guy who don't run.

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Speaker 2: I've been listening to this podcast since I first moved

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Speaker 2: Rid and Karen, My sister Zimzi, Oh, this is from Nigeria.

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Speaker 2: although I can guess Rod would do Nicholas Cage when

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Speaker 2: to you guys both back in twenty fourteen to twenty fifteen.

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Speaker 2: I f be a left two comments. Okay, I get it,

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Speaker 2: the bad white people came from here. But also I

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Speaker 2: just learned something new from you. The word slave comes

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Speaker 2: from slives because Slives were often forcing the slavery in

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Speaker 2: the Middle Ages. Guess who is ninety percent genetically Slavic me.

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Speaker 2: I can't help my Slavic origin literally named slavery, and

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Speaker 2: I still have to be in the category with the

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Speaker 2: other awful white people. That is sad. Yeah, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: gotta be in there. You know it's it's it is sad.

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Speaker 2: But don't blame me. Blame the whites.

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Speaker 1: Okay, they the one that made the rules, not us.

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Speaker 2: They're the ones that showed up looking the same. Okay,

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Speaker 2: we couldn't tell the difference.

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Speaker 1: My bad, I'm bad.

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Speaker 2: No, not my bad. Oh no, I'm not apologized. You

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Speaker 2: over there with them, And yeah, that's just a damn shame,

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Speaker 2: ain't it. It's just it is what it is. For

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Speaker 2: the privilege. Sometimes you gotta you gotta, you gotta pay,

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Speaker 2: you know. But uh, yes, So then the poe was,

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Speaker 2: did you by anything on Black Friday? Yes or no?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Thirty two percent of our audience did. Sixty eight percent

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Speaker 2: of our audience didn't. And I'm starting to think I

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Speaker 2: wonder if the reason for that is actually the fact

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Speaker 2: that people don't the Black Friday, Cyber Sunday thing, Amazon Day, whatever,

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Speaker 2: It's all become such a blur. Yeah, I wonder if

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Speaker 2: people are actually like, yeah, I can't you know what

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I'm probably about three, maybe four

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Speaker 1: years ago, maybe two some running there. Everybody got to

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Speaker 1: the point where you look up and they started pumping

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Speaker 1: these specials two months ahead of time. So now you're

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Speaker 1: dealing with two months of them pushing, pushing, pushing, pushing,

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Speaker 1: and now, particularly Amazon, the Amazon Prime Day is like

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Speaker 1: several times a year now, and then you know, so

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Speaker 1: now you've boombarding people with DA and then you boom

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Speaker 1: blinding people with the week before, and you're boom blinded

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Speaker 1: with people up to the week and then you're because

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Speaker 1: because I'm just realized it's just been a big push

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Speaker 1: and promotion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's something different. I think it's something different.

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Speaker 2: I think it's when the pandemic hit and we stopped

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Speaker 2: leaving the house to go to these sales.

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Speaker 1: And physically go to the stores.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because now I feel like Black Friday is just

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Speaker 2: it's really not Black Friday. It's actually Cyber Monday. A

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Speaker 2: few days to a week earlier. I actually got a

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Speaker 2: Black Friday deal on a video game, but it wasn't

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Speaker 2: on Black Friday. It was actually like a week or

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Speaker 2: two before Black Friday. It was like Xbox Black Friday sale.

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Speaker 2: And then I went and bought this game for thirty

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Speaker 2: dollars off, and I was like, wait, it's not even Monday.

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Speaker 2: It's not even Cyber Monday. It's not even Black Friday.

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Speaker 2: It's like it's it's like the week before Thanksgiving and

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Speaker 2: y'all are giving me this discount, and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Black Friday doesn't really mean what it used to mean.

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Speaker 2: As far as the day of yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure maybe somebody has done a study. I

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Speaker 1: wonder pre pandemic and post pandemic not quote unquote, have

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Speaker 1: they done studies to be like, hey, since the pandemic,

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Speaker 1: the percentage of people that are actually physically going to

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Speaker 1: the stores and shit like that has dropped because you've

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Speaker 1: had something like sure, you've had some places that's actually

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Speaker 1: made it a big staple to be like we are

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Speaker 1: closed on Thanksgiving Day and we are closed that like

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Speaker 1: they make a thing to be like, don't bring y'all

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Speaker 1: as us here, we are closed.

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Speaker 2: No comments on the YouTube, and then the poll on

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Speaker 2: the Spotify was of course higher for yes, because these

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Speaker 2: people have money, so they're buying things on Black Friday. Duh.

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Speaker 2: So thirty nine percent said yeah, sixty one percent said no,

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Speaker 2: which totally makes sense. And then the episode of Q

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Speaker 2: and A was clean out your junk Drawer. June said

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Speaker 2: from Hallow says I'm feeling harassed. Petia said never. Carly says,

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Speaker 2: already on the list to do over the holidays, got

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Speaker 2: some drawer organizers in order. Jeff says, I just closed

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Speaker 2: the drawer harder not to look at any of the junk.

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Speaker 2: Raphael says, the junk I got in my kids toys

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Speaker 2: before I know what to get rid of. Parents keep

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Speaker 2: adding to the grandparents, keep adding to the pal asked

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Speaker 2: the kid to pick up what she liked to give

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Speaker 2: away and got hustled. I was proud of the hustle,

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Speaker 2: but that would make sense?

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Speaker 1: Did you try to say you NFT's baby?

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Speaker 2: Roger says I need everything in there, including the hot

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Speaker 2: cone that hasn't been used since East of three And

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Speaker 2: drewsoh eighty two says, mind joe business, All right, that's

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Speaker 2: on me.

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Speaker 1: It ain't a drunk Deorge a clean joy? Then what's

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Speaker 1: the porter call of the drunk draw up? It's clean?

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Speaker 2: Uh TEPCNI thirty nine Top con was the title. We

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Speaker 2: got nine comments on this episode for most of the week.

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Speaker 1: I don't y'all have some to say?

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Speaker 2: Maron Ganghi says, it depends on the coworkers. Some jobs, yes,

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Speaker 2: Also two thirds of my jobs I get from friends,

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Speaker 2: so I know them already. And I guess that's a

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Speaker 2: response to the poll, which was do you enjoy partying

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Speaker 2: with coworkers? We'll get to that at the end. Let's

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Speaker 2: see Appa says, I'm a strong extrovert when I'm outside,

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Speaker 2: but I also need lots of quiet time in the evening.

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Speaker 2: So one part of me was very sad the lockdown.

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Speaker 2: At the lockdown situation, I get it. My brain is

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Speaker 2: a colorful pony making somersaults on a strong computer, and

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Speaker 2: they're are friends, and they are friends. In law school,

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Speaker 2: I did a seminar that was also about the different

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Speaker 2: amounts that can sue for. You can sue for in

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Speaker 2: the US and Europe. It was said that the reason

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Speaker 2: was in Europe the court see the reasonable in foreign

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Speaker 2: citizen as a baseline. I'm sorry for what that implies.

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Speaker 2: And because we have a social net for the poor

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Speaker 2: and the sick, they don't depend on the courts to

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Speaker 2: give them money to live so they can't work anymore

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Speaker 2: for example. Oh also, lots of mediocre white men are

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Speaker 2: seen as smart or twelve level genius. That's true. But

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Speaker 2: also you yourself said that people would excuse Kanye with

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Speaker 2: the twelve level genius shit five minutes later, so maybe

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Speaker 2: it's not just whites. I am a white immigrant in

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Speaker 2: Germany and always knew I had to be better than

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Speaker 2: others to succeee. I don't feel it so much anymore

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Speaker 2: because I achieved stuff. But from the age of twelve,

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Speaker 2: when we're riding in Germany to maybe thirty five, I

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Speaker 2: felt it very strongly. I said one in reprot of this,

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Speaker 2: Kanye is a musical genius. Facts. I don't even know

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Speaker 2: if that's debatable. It's sad, but he's a musical genius,

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Speaker 2: and that doesn't make him a genius genius in any

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Speaker 2: other angle, any other levels.

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Speaker 1: That's just field.

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Speaker 2: These white men are being called geniuses and like life

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Speaker 2: like it doesn't extend it, just like, oh, he's a

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Speaker 2: business genius. It's like, oh, Elon Musk is a genius.

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Speaker 2: We should listen to him talk about flying. We should

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Speaker 2: listen to him take over social media and freedom of speech.

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Speaker 2: We should listen to him talk about electric cars. We

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Speaker 2: should listen to his stock market advice like comes something

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Speaker 2: different that is not what kin Kanye, even when considered

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Speaker 2: a musical genius, has always been relegated to like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: he might know what he's talking about with music.

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Speaker 1: But nothing else, nothing else.

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Speaker 2: Number two, I didn't say only white men get called geniuses.

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Speaker 2: So I didn't say only white men, but white men

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Speaker 2: probably benefit the most from this casual like environment of

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Speaker 2: get of knighting someone a genius just for being like

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Speaker 2: a white dude with some money.

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Speaker 1: And nobody else is gonna say so with this.

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Speaker 2: People normally use a turn to excuse bad behavior people

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Speaker 2: they are fans of, so it can happen the more

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Speaker 2: than just white men. But it's mostly a label people

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Speaker 2: reserved for white man, she said, true, it's mostly white men.

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Speaker 2: Probably from this, I agree. When Kanye invites some right

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Speaker 2: wing activists to a meeting with Trump, it's not like

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Speaker 2: this is about his musical talent. I would doubt that

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Speaker 2: they are even talking much about music at all. I

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Speaker 2: wanted heard Trump's favorite song was Memories from Cats or

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Speaker 2: so this doesn't sound like much like Kanye. Now I

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Speaker 2: how to sell memories in my head, great job. Here's

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Speaker 2: the thing, no one was helling Kanye for being a

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00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:08,319
Speaker 2: genius at that meaning, so I don't even know where

642
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 2: it would come up, Like if there's some corner of

643
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,720
Speaker 2: the internet that's calling everything Kanye is doing a genius.

644
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 2: They don't represent many people and there's not enough for

645
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,360
Speaker 2: them to really be a voice. And you probably not

646
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 2: privy to that much American news. But turn on any

647
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 2: channel when they talked about Kanye, no one says the

648
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 2: word genius. Ever, It's not coming up like the idea

649
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 2: of him being a genius as a defense to his

650
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:37,319
Speaker 2: terribleness is a very small pocket of people that have

651
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,320
Speaker 2: no voice on this show and no voice in my life.

652
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 2: I don't talk. Even when I see people react to

653
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 2: it on social media. I always think that's sad that

654
00:35:44,880 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 2: you haven't decluttered your life of those people, because it

655
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 2: wasn't a lot of people, and I never see it.

656
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying, like, I'm not that interested.

657
00:35:54,640 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 2: And part of that is my isolationists introvert tendencies, meaning

658
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 2: I don't need to have a connection with people just

659
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: because they black. So if they say some bullshit to me,

660
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh okay, cool, you be on some bullshit

661
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: and I don't talk to them anymore. But yeah, I

662
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:17,760
Speaker 2: think the Kanye is a genius thing is is crossing

663
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: some wires for Appia in that she thinks it's the

664
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,359
Speaker 2: same as what people call like Elon Musk genius or

665
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 2: Bill Gates a genius, or the dude that died from

666
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 2: Apple genius or whatever. I'm and I don't think it

667
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,920
Speaker 2: is the same, you know, I look at it actually

668
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 2: very similar to people that to like conspiracy theorists and shit,

669
00:36:45,080 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: people that think Kyrie Irvin is making a point. Like

670
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 2: those people to me, just there's not enough of them

671
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 2: for me to care. Straight Blossom says in a recent

672
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,240
Speaker 2: job and if you always asked how I would connect

673
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 2: with our business partners and build a rapport, I said

674
00:36:57,520 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: I'd be dependable and let my work speak for itself.

675
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 2: They were like Noah, outside of work though, I didn't

676
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 2: have an answer for them, and I'm pretty sure they

677
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:05,800
Speaker 2: held that against me. I didn't get that position, and

678
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 2: I'm glad I'm not trying to be one of their

679
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 2: little friends. They can miss me with that bs.

680
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 1: Right, who g as the fuck? Like unless my job

681
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 1: requires me to interact and take them own shit, But

682
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: I'm still at work, So what are we talking about?

683
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: You know how some jobs you take people travel expenses,

684
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,320
Speaker 1: that you take people out to dinner or lunch or whatever.

685
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 1: We're still at work, so I don't get it, like, like,

686
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 1: why is that question relevant to the job.

687
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 2: It's also fucked up because one, it's more work outside

688
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 2: of work. You don't get paid for that part, right

689
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 2: for sure? And then two like, it's one of those

690
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 2: things where like, let's say you because we're conditioned to

691
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 2: want the job, we're an interviewed for the job, you

692
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 2: condition don't want to get it. Most people don't think

693
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 2: of it the other way, which is do I even

694
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: want this shit? And one of the things I've always

695
00:37:56,640 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 2: found interesting when it comes to that is, let's say

696
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:05,799
Speaker 2: you lied. Let's say you got the job because you're like, oh,

697
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 2: I've realized the answer they want. You're gonna just be miserable.

698
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 2: You're gonna hate that part of the job more than likely. Now, look, look,

699
00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 2: every once in a while you do something uncomfortable when

700
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 2: you fuck around and find out that you love it,

701
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: So that's possible, but more than likely, you're gonna end

702
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 2: up being like, I'm not the person that wants to

703
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 2: go out for drinks with clients every night or whatever

704
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 2: the fuck it is. I like my going home or

705
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: I like my social life with my friends and family,

706
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 2: and here I am doing this shit and this is

707
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: part of the job. Might suck to you, so I

708
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 2: get it. Side note, I did end up getting a

709
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: new position with a dope leadership that that directly addressed

710
00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: quiet quitting during the team meeting and how she thinks

711
00:38:45,760 --> 00:38:48,480
Speaker 2: that rebranding of work life balance is a negative is awful.

712
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 2: I was so happy I could have cried in that meeting.

713
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:54,320
Speaker 2: Sean says, wait Rod charges extra for sleeping with coworkers.

714
00:38:54,360 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 2: Is that because Kerr has ice cold feet? Exactly? Sean said,

715
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 2: maybe Musk is just seeking the approof of his dad.

716
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 2: I mean, yes, must started his fortune based on the

717
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 2: apartheid earnings of his dad. However, he made most of

718
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 2: his money by getting lucky during the dot com bubble.

719
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 2: He figures that if he destroys Twitter, then true social

720
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 2: will become the predominant social media platform, which will allow

721
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 2: Trump to return and usher're in a racial totalitarian state

722
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:24,359
Speaker 2: to allow for a return to American apartheid. That way,

723
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: he can use neo Nazis, he can use neo slavery

724
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 2: to make another fortune the same way as daddy did.

725
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 2: Then his dad would finally love him. I mean, that's

726
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 2: what it looks like. He's doing edit just to be

727
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 2: certain this is all and jests. I don't think Musk

728
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: is fine enough to actually have a plan. That's but

729
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 2: it is hilarious though, and that is how people be talking. Yes,

730
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 2: even he says, the man called the cops on that

731
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 2: little girl, knew it was a little girl and knew

732
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: the exact words to say to get the cop to

733
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 2: come out to harass her. Fuck him, and I hope

734
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 2: he gets the biggest hemorrhoids and never has a peaceful

735
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: shit for the rest of his miserable racist life. Yeah,

736
00:39:55,080 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: that little black woman shit was whack my god. All right,

737
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: let's get into the poll. Oh sorry, we got a

738
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 2: couple comments on YouTube too, and Harmon says Karen counting

739
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 2: the wings I love heart emoji and then the Hugh

740
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 2: took me out. Lol. Yeah, a couple of people like

741
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,880
Speaker 2: that that that line. Thank you. I'm glad y'all enjoyed

742
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 2: that one. And then of course the poe do you

743
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 2: enjoy partying with co workers? Yes?

744
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 1: No?

745
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: Or I don't have any coworkers?

746
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 1: No?

747
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 2: For Karen, so, seventy eight percent of y'all said no.

748
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,760
Speaker 1: If I'm not on the clock, the fuck we doing together?

749
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:38,439
Speaker 2: Seventy eight percent of y'all said no, fourteen percent said yes,

750
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 2: and eight percent of y'all don't have any coworkers. Meanwhile,

751
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 2: on Spotify, fifteen percent said yes. It's slightly higher just

752
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:50,080
Speaker 2: one percentage higher. Seventy four percent said no, and then

753
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 2: eleven percent don't have any co workers because they probably

754
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 2: CEOs and they don't count the people that work for

755
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 2: them as their coworkers. They count them as their henchmending underlings.

756
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 1: I get it, and the thing is it is, and

757
00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 1: I think just work and people's relationship with working and

758
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,799
Speaker 1: understanding would work more as they get older. And it's

759
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 1: one of those things to where you know, I got

760
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: to a point where I was like, hey, I need

761
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: more work life balance. I also got to a point

762
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:26,839
Speaker 1: where I realized, hey, if this thing coworking turns into

763
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: a friendship, I'll communicate with you specific person outside of work,

764
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,799
Speaker 1: but as a collective in the group. No, if I'm

765
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: not required to be there, no, And you know, a

766
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: lot of depending on the job, people make you look

767
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: crazy because you'd be like they'd be like, we're having

768
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: a function. You want to put into bank? No you

769
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 1: want to do this? No, we off the clock, we

770
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: want to meet someone. No, you're like, no, I got

771
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: shit to do. You know, the eight to ten hours

772
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,320
Speaker 1: a day we spent that's enough.

773
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. The thing for me with the coworkership that's interesting

774
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: is I've had good times with coworkers, but it's never

775
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:05,480
Speaker 2: the it's almost never the way that they would measure

776
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 2: what a good time is. And it's just because I

777
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:11,759
Speaker 2: don't have good times like that in my regular life.

778
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 2: That has nothing to do with the coworkers, to be honest,

779
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 2: Because like I had a great time with Game Theory

780
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 2: going out to like that bar that was next to

781
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 2: where I stayed and sitting down and talking to my

782
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 2: coworkers a couple of times throughout the season and just

783
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,320
Speaker 2: eating some food, drinking a couple of drinks and talking.

784
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 2: I loved that. That was very fun. I had a

785
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 2: good time. Everybody was so funny. And you know, I

786
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 2: didn't have much of a social life up there, and

787
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 2: it's COVID, so you know, I'm probably not gonna the

788
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 2: numbers up there are basically we got a mask again

789
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 2: and everything. So it's probably not gonna be a good

790
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 2: social time for at least a couple of months anyway,

791
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: And that's fine with me. The times that i've whether

792
00:42:57,280 --> 00:43:00,040
Speaker 2: you have that that coworker party thing that like the

793
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,880
Speaker 2: company Christmas party, those are the things that I find

794
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 2: more nerve wracking, anxiety and ducing. I'm not a party

795
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: person like that. It feels very forced and coursed, and

796
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 2: because a lot of times these aren't really your friends,

797
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:15,920
Speaker 2: and the things you know about each other is work,

798
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 2: and I kind of like that separation too, so having

799
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: to like, I don't like going into situations where the

800
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: best case scenario is I didn't have a terrible time.

801
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 2: That's the best case scenario. With these company parties, It's

802
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 2: not for me. It's never been a the best case

803
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 2: scenario is, oh my god, that was awesome. It's always

804
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:38,920
Speaker 2: been like, uh, it wasn't the worst thing in the world.

805
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: But you know, and I know some people that are

806
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 2: really good at that stuff. You know. I remember I

807
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: worked with this dude work. He was like a upper

808
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 2: management black dude, and like him at the fucking Christmas

809
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 2: party was just it's like he was made to be mister.

810
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 2: At the Christmas party, he knew how to like do

811
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: some day answers or teach people how to dance. They

812
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 2: had like a karaoke or thing, and he sang like

813
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 2: some Christmas song to everybody, and like like it was

814
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: just some people are that's just their laying and he

815
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: probably loves doing that shit every year. It's just a

816
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 2: my it's not my thing.

817
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:18,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Also, I just said that's the difference

818
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: between something that's separate and then something that's work functioned,

819
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: because the thing about the work function for a lot

820
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: of people, you're still a motherfucking work like, like, Okay,

821
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: we're here, but I'm still at work. And so you know,

822
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 1: for a lot of people they had that, you still

823
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: got to put on the workface. You still got to

824
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: put on the work for it. You still, particularly for

825
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 1: black and brown and marginalized people, I still I can't

826
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: do certain things. I can't.

827
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 2: I'm not really relaxing, and if you do, you're scared

828
00:44:47,200 --> 00:44:49,240
Speaker 2: the what are the consequences of my relaxing?

829
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: Right? You have some people there go and they was like,

830
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: I'm not drinking nothing but fucking coke and soda. You know,

831
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 1: I get too drinks, and all of a sudden, this

832
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: rumored that I'm alcoholics, Like, you know, because people are

833
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: very judgment like that's real. So you're like, I don't

834
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:02,839
Speaker 1: want to be by and you have to deal with

835
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: people who normally don't want to say anything. I just

836
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: want to be nosy, just coming and ask you all

837
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 1: types of person on the in basic questions because they

838
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: don't have any of the time to talk to you

839
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: about it, and you're like, this is not the time.

840
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 1: We're still at work.

841
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. The other thing, too, is the cliche of the uh,

842
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 2: the cliche of like the coworkers who get slappy drunk

843
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 2: and fuck each other and they come to work the

844
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 2: next day hungover, come to work the next day with

845
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 2: the like awkward, Oh did they you know? The gossip?

846
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 2: I feel like hopefully me Too movement killed that. Yes, sir,

847
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 2: I'll you know what I mean. I mean the pandemic too,

848
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 2: But hopefully the Me Too movement killed like it showed

849
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 2: people that dangers are like fraternizing with alcohol and co workers.

850
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 2: It might not be it might not be the cliche

851
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 2: from a movie that you see where it's just like

852
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,000
Speaker 2: funny and a bit regretful and awkward. Who knows what

853
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 2: the fuck people are thinking? And so I think I

854
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 2: remember that happened when I was at at one of

855
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 2: my jobby jobs, and that was like, oh, my manager

856
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 2: slept with this girl and from another department, everybody had

857
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 2: jokes about it coming by his desk and shit, and

858
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm not saying how either one of

859
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 2: them should feel. But this is hell awkward, and I

860
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 2: could see somebody.

861
00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: Awkward going to the HI department.

862
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can see someone easily being like this is

863
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: not appropriate, or feeling ashamed or feeling guilty or whatever

864
00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: the fuck. So hopefully that shit is over with. I

865
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 2: don't you know, maybe it'll come back, because motherfuckers always forget.

866
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: But I think it's for the best that people stop

867
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,560
Speaker 2: looking at coworkers. It's and jobs is placed to get

868
00:46:46,600 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 2: like fucked up and drunk and have a good time

869
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,479
Speaker 2: and then come back to work like nothing happened, because

870
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 2: a lot of shit has some I mean not just

871
00:46:54,960 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 2: being black there, but how many people are worried about

872
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,479
Speaker 2: white people getting drunk and saying some fucked up shit? Yes,

873
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:01,959
Speaker 2: you know, yes.

874
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,879
Speaker 1: And also it's, uh, you know, one of those things

875
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:07,239
Speaker 1: like you said, you're talking about nighttime hr now you're

876
00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: talking about other shit this cause, like I said, you're

877
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: still literally at work, and so you know, even though

878
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: we're doing this quote unquote after hours, and for some people,

879
00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: their time is precious and they're go, you have my

880
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: time doing this time and that time after that. I

881
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 1: want my time to be free, and I don't want

882
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: to be I don't want to have no obligations to

883
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,319
Speaker 1: you like and some people that's how the functions and

884
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,319
Speaker 1: some jobs don't understand it. That's what people draw the line.

885
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: If I don't have to be here, make it optional,

886
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: you know, like for some people that go as a

887
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 1: mentor lunch, well, bench, I didn't expert this. I might

888
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: have planned on doing something for my lunch. Now my

889
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: lunch is tied up on your time.

890
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 4: Uh.

891
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 2: Then we had some the poll or uh, I'm not

892
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 2: the poe. Then we had the Q and A on Spotify.

893
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,520
Speaker 2: Jalen Brown might be a hotel Petition says might be.

894
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 2: I think you mean definitely. Dan Yell says yes. Lol. Uh.

895
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 2: Song says with a long name pronounced with a silent

896
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 2: might be in quotes. Uh. Raphael says Jalen is a king,

897
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 2: said in the Stephen A. Smith voice. Uh oh, I'm sorry,

898
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 2: I wasn't prepared for this. Jalen is a king, up

899
00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 2: and coming MVP and I love his brother. We go

900
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:29,919
Speaker 2: way back. However, he balks like a tip and I'm

901
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 2: sorry I had to say call him a goddamn hotipu

902
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 2: arean Golli says we was goofse Uh that shirt is

903
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 2: in our story, by the way, shout shout out Debosi.

904
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:49,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's just uh yeah, man, unfortunate. But I

905
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 2: think Jalen is a tip dog. Oh you hate to

906
00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 2: see it, you really do. But because he's uh, he

907
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 2: seemed like such a straight up dude. But found that

908
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 2: it's showing through the tweets, it's showing through the some

909
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 2: of the decisions he's making with his money where you

910
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 2: like brouh. I feel like we are constantly on the

911
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,800
Speaker 2: verge of just one controversy away from him just fully

912
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,919
Speaker 2: coming out and saying some wild shit and it's gonna

913
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 2: be like, no, put him back in the box. What happened?

914
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 2: You know? All right? Episode twenty six to forty Monkey

915
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 2: Pirate Ship. Oh, I was wrong. Last episode was not

916
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 2: the most comments. This oneast twelve.

917
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,799
Speaker 1: Oh oh, people did the same thing with your tube.

918
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 2: No, I don't wait, what was that guy? I'm sure

919
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 2: they did. Okay, why I.

920
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 1: Didn't know you saw you covered YouTube comments?

921
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: I did? Yeah, it was the chicken wings and the

922
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 2: you okay, oh yeah, I'm on top of a baby

923
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 2: bad all right. Episode twenty six forty, Max says Rod

924
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: and Karen. I saw Wakinda Forever over the holiday weekend.

925
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,640
Speaker 2: During the opening sequence, I couldn't help but think back

926
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 2: to the old episodes when one y'all said, Chad with

927
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 2: Bosan should be Black Panther after having played every black

928
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 2: historical figures, every all of them. Yeah, and listen, I

929
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 2: have to do this, Okay, I said, not y'all. Everybody

930
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 2: got on board with me. But as far as I know,

931
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 2: I was the first nigga ever on the Internet to

932
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 2: be like, why is it Chadwick Boseman the only nigga

933
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 2: that could play Black Panther? Because I swear to god,

934
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:26,239
Speaker 2: I walked out of forty two.

935
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 1: Yeah he got them, ay, and.

936
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 2: I said, oh, I found black Panther dog. No one

937
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 2: else can do it? And man did I call that?

938
00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:38,360
Speaker 2: That was one of the original ride was right moments

939
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 2: that just will never be It'll never be undone because I,

940
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,480
Speaker 2: as far as I knew, I was and like I was.

941
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 2: I deleted my old tweets, but I was so adamant

942
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:54,959
Speaker 2: about this, like people were trying to bring up, people

943
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 2: were trying to like hop on the bandwagon, be like yeah,

944
00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 2: and I'm so Tyresse writ and I'm like, no, Nigga

945
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 2: heard track with Boothmen and then like goddamn. I'm like,

946
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 2: I'm like, go watch forty two come back and then

947
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 2: apologize like I was that passionate about it because he

948
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:13,240
Speaker 2: had them.

949
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:16,600
Speaker 1: These white folks getting on my nerves. I was like, yes,

950
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: giving on.

951
00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 2: My eyes, Like I remember doing the podcast about it

952
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:31,160
Speaker 2: being so passionate. That was just an original y yep, yeah,

953
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:37,680
Speaker 2: it was right. So that was that one was an original?

954
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 2: Uh original ride was right moment. So yeah, I'm so

955
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: proud of that.

956
00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 1: Oh and h nothing to get off topic, but I

957
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: had forgotten. I'm gonna go back. Uh. One reason why

958
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 1: I think a lot of the coworker parties and interactions

959
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 1: and things might go down. You talk about to me too.

960
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: For a lot of companies, particular people working from home,

961
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:01,960
Speaker 1: a lot of companies are saving money. They're like, you

962
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 1: know what the amount of money per person we would

963
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 1: invest in his twenty five or fifty dollars or whatever,

964
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 1: he's a bonus. We're just not gonna have the party.

965
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: We're just gonna scrap it. So we just don't have

966
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: to deal with it all together, because you know, depend

967
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 1: on the company. It's a huge expense you know, depending

968
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 1: on the structure of your company due to these far

969
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,720
Speaker 1: because some companies go all out with their purchasing alcohol,

970
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: they have all these foods. Some companies, you know, just

971
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: after working and you know, you're dressing up and you know,

972
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,720
Speaker 1: the service like it could be hundreds of thousands of dollars,

973
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: So it's cheaper to be like, you know what the

974
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: money we would have spent, here's the money per person.

975
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: Just send them cards. Everybody work from home. Ain't no

976
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 1: reason to pay people pile up in here for you

977
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 1: to get three percent of the people to come, because

978
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 1: most people are gonna like the fuck I'm coming in

979
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: there for I'm working from home.

980
00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:45,239
Speaker 2: Nah, that's a great point. And then back to the

981
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 2: comment number two the episode after the announcement that Chad

982
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 2: would will be playing Black Panther. Yeah, man, I was

983
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: so excited. Think I might have played No Flex Zone

984
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 2: one hundred times?

985
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:58,280
Speaker 1: Did we was on repeat?

986
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? What a day. Coming full circle from the proposition

987
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 2: to the confirmation to Black Panther. The Chadi was passing

988
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 2: in the funeral kind of forever just really made me

989
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: appreciate the whole ride and your party in it. Thanks

990
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:12,799
Speaker 2: for that. Take care of Mac. Thank you Mac, and yeah, man,

991
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 2: what a full circle moment. Really obviously hate that that

992
00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 2: brother's gone, but I've loved that a fucking multi billion

993
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:28,080
Speaker 2: dollar company understood that it was a loss that needed

994
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 2: to be settled and dealt with and mourned and not

995
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 2: just a corporate capitalistic construct to just you know, throw

996
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 2: another actor in there and pretend that it didn't happens

997
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: as a means to like escapism. And I have so

998
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 2: many other things I could say about it, but shout

999
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 2: out to Ryan Cooler and their whole cast and crew

1000
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 2: and Kevin Fight and all the people that empowered them

1001
00:53:56,000 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 2: to tell the story their way. And you know, I

1002
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:01,920
Speaker 2: just don't think there was a better way to tell

1003
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 2: the story. And I think a lot of people have

1004
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 2: issues around death, we all do, and they've been in denial,

1005
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 2: and so that's why they just want to recastab with

1006
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 2: Bosman and move on. But that's because they in their

1007
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 2: quest for like their own selfish escapism, I think they've

1008
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 2: completely ignored the very real reality of that being a

1009
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 2: human being and having friends and connections.

1010
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: Correct, and we knew him as an actor, but the people,

1011
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:33,839
Speaker 1: the staff and the crew and all they knew him

1012
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:38,359
Speaker 1: as a person, and Agital Bassett said something that I

1013
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 1: was like, Wow. She was saying that doing their first

1014
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 1: few days of recording, before they actually started recording, she

1015
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: said that they took all the staff, all the crew,

1016
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:55,879
Speaker 1: all the product production crew, like everybody that was there,

1017
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 1: like when they first got there, and they actually flew

1018
00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: to where he was buried, and she would saying that

1019
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: they sat around and she was saying that they were

1020
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 1: allowed to actually mourn, and she was saying that they

1021
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: actually everybody from like the boats my new person to

1022
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: like the biggest person all shared stories because they was

1023
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 1: like he was so interactive with everybody. They was like

1024
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:20,479
Speaker 1: he knew people's names. They was like he made sure

1025
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 1: to interact with you and stuff like that. And that's

1026
00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 1: the shit that lost when people just go we cast.

1027
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: You go know these people that actually had a real

1028
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: functioning relationship with this man, and they can't just fucking

1029
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:35,319
Speaker 1: be like it don't matter no more.

1030
00:55:37,440 --> 00:55:41,280
Speaker 2: Yep, let's see double bitch says Listen. Karen was rough

1031
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,120
Speaker 2: and stuff with her afropuffs. Tonight love your hair, ma'am

1032
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 2: uh swabey p says ah. The case of the Pirate

1033
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 2: Monkey Karen's Freudian slip had me dying. Her uncanny ability

1034
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,200
Speaker 2: to get the name of any and everything completely wrong

1035
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,840
Speaker 2: rivals on me that adjusting on Boston Sports.

1036
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 1: That's about as bad a last night what I said

1037
00:56:01,560 --> 00:56:06,920
Speaker 1: a lady this case. She say, I like your horness hoodie,

1038
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:09,760
Speaker 1: and so I don't remember where I got it from.

1039
00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:11,719
Speaker 1: So I came back down, I said, Roderick, I said,

1040
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 1: where do you get this hoodie from the fantastic site?

1041
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 1: Roger was like, it's not fantastic, it's fanatics.

1042
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 2: Rod, I demand that you go to a corporate with

1043
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,759
Speaker 2: this case. Oh wait, corporate for you means reporting right

1044
00:56:23,800 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 2: back to that racist Karen.

1045
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:25,439
Speaker 1: Poor Rod.

1046
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,399
Speaker 2: Poor Rod. Anyway, Rod, you're a spot on about white

1047
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 2: people in the word monkey. They love it. They use

1048
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:32,240
Speaker 2: it all the time. I remember I had a similar

1049
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 2: action as you when I first heard them using it

1050
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 2: at work. They would call someone a slide monkey as

1051
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: a person that's creating PowerPoint slides. Took me a while

1052
00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:42,440
Speaker 2: to realize every time I heard that turn they were

1053
00:56:42,480 --> 00:56:45,360
Speaker 2: referring to another white person. They used monkey for everything.

1054
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. I could easily see that starbus worker thinking

1055
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 2: someone actually said their name was monkey after that great

1056
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 2: show Swab. Yeah. I don't necessarily know everything about white people,

1057
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 2: but the time that I was around them, I did

1058
00:56:57,719 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 2: know that, like they see monkeys so differently, And the

1059
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 2: reason that it occurred to me was because monkey always

1060
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:09,399
Speaker 2: hits my racism radar. It doesn't even matter which way

1061
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 2: they use it. I don't know why, but for my

1062
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 2: whole life, I've been conditioned to be like, monkey, what

1063
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 2: you what this means somebody about to get lynched or something,

1064
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 2: you know?

1065
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: And so they even't have children songs about it. Five

1066
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Speaker 1: of the monkeys jumping on the bed fell off and

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00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 1: bumped his head like so they don't think, they don't

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Speaker 1: think twice about it.

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Speaker 2: And so it's only because racism has robbed me of

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00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 2: my ability, or it had robbed me. I reclaimed my shit,

1071
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,360
Speaker 2: but it had robbed me of my ability to hear

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00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 2: somebody say monkey without thinking it was racism. And then

1073
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 2: now I'm just and honestly dog no offense. I love

1074
00:57:45,560 --> 00:57:47,600
Speaker 2: being black and I love my people, I really do.

1075
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:51,840
Speaker 2: But there's a certain amount of shit that I find

1076
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:55,120
Speaker 2: to be resistance, which is I'm not giving them everything right,

1077
00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 2: I'm not giving them a hair trigger for me for shit,

1078
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 2: like it's certain shit I do get, like someone's called

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00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 2: me the N word or some shit like obviously that's

1080
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:10,920
Speaker 2: that's different. But like a white person makes this mistake

1081
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 2: at work and I immediately have to call the fucking news.

1082
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 2: If that's what you do, that's cool. I'm not I'm

1083
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 2: not gonna do it. It's just now it's more fucking

1084
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,280
Speaker 2: headache for me for something that probably was just they

1085
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:24,120
Speaker 2: fucked up and it should be the end of it.

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00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 1: I just you know, maybe right, but I A, you

1087
00:58:26,560 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: might want to train your employees and just I don't

1088
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:30,040
Speaker 1: even I wouldn't even know.

1089
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 2: I'mna be honest, I wouldn't even do that. I wouldn't

1090
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,720
Speaker 2: even ask for a Starbus gift card. I just would

1091
00:58:34,760 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 2: be like, oh, they misheard me. If my name was

1092
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 2: anything close to that, I just they misheard me. I

1093
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,480
Speaker 2: know what happened here. Move the fuck on.

1094
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't fight that bad that, you know, Because

1095
00:58:44,840 --> 00:58:46,520
Speaker 1: the thing is, I've realized you have to pick and

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00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:48,400
Speaker 1: choose your battle. And we live in a society now

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00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 1: where people go every battle is a battle, and you go.

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00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 2: No, I'm just like you ain't tired.

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00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: That's the thing. Everybody, everything that, everything that happens to

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00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:58,960
Speaker 1: you can't be a battle. You're gonna exhaust yourself. Yeah.

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00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:00,960
Speaker 2: When I heard the story, I was like, okay, so

1102
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 2: what happened, Because, to be honest, my immediate response was like, okay,

1103
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 2: so some racists happened. What happened to this black woman?

1104
00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:10,840
Speaker 2: And then she's like, yeah, my name is Monique or

1105
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 2: something and they and I'm like, oh, they thought, okay,

1106
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,000
Speaker 2: so they heard you wrong and they fucked up. You know,

1107
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 2: maybe this is the super clever white person that just

1108
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 2: had the time to be racist and wanted to throw

1109
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 2: their whole career away at Starbucks. Maybe that is what happened.

1110
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 2: And I'm just under counting the percentage, but to me,

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00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 2: it seemed pretty open and shit.

1112
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:31,880
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1113
00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 1: And also I understand, you know, different people have different

1114
00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 1: levels of sensitivity, but it's one of those things where

1115
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,400
Speaker 1: also our generation was kind of taught to let shit slide,

1116
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 1: like Okay, that's not that important. You kind of pick

1117
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:45,000
Speaker 1: and choose, and.

1118
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 2: You know, now we definitely were, but I think this

1119
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:51,480
Speaker 2: is not the same. Okay, this is not a I'm

1120
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 2: letting it slide. This is not I think it's racist,

1121
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 2: and I'm letting it slide. This is me saying I

1122
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 2: don't think it was racist.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's completely different.

1124
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:01,000
Speaker 2: Yes, like and I would like I think everything after

1125
01:00:01,040 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 2: that point was a waste of time. And you know,

1126
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 2: that's just my opinion on it. Obviously, that person that

1127
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 2: happened to doesn't agree, and that's fine. It's not like

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01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 2: my agreeance is gonna make or break that story for

1129
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 2: that person. But when I heard the story, it was

1130
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 2: very obvious to me what happened, and then I was

1131
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 2: able to just be like, oh, okay, so I'm moving on.

1132
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 2: Apple says you got us white people very good. One

1133
01:00:22,600 --> 01:00:26,959
Speaker 2: word use for everything is fantastic for communication and avoiding misunderstanding.

1134
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:30,240
Speaker 2: I often say I will m word the N word

1135
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 2: in the N word next to the N word, white

1136
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 2: people will understand. But this monkey discussion was good for me,

1137
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 2: as my taste in music is the whitest thing about

1138
01:00:39,480 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 2: my inner self. I liked the song Twisted Transistor by

1139
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 2: Corn and the video black musicians play the group members.

1140
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 2: One person called snoop the M word, and now I

1141
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 2: checked out, and it's monkey with a you and not

1142
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 2: monkey with a oh. I wonder for years about that.

1143
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,800
Speaker 2: Now I read about it, and finally, in response to

1144
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,919
Speaker 2: the show can finally close this brain tap still one

1145
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 2: three four two two four to go? But still uh,

1146
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 2: i'ma be honest, I don't know. Sounds very white, and

1147
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 2: I don't care.

1148
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm about to say that's a completely different word.

1149
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 1: Go ahead, I'm sorry.

1150
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 2: I don't know. There is a completely different word. I

1151
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 2: don't think if you call a black person a monkey

1152
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 2: with you, that's still gonna be offended. So I don't even.

1153
01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 2: I just don't care about Corn the music video or

1154
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 2: Snoop being in it or what happens. So I'm just

1155
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 2: moving on out of the sake of light. I don't care. Uh,

1156
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 2: and Snoop will do so much shit for money. I

1157
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,840
Speaker 2: wouldn't be shocked if they said monkey and he was like,

1158
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 2: that's fine for chizzle, just right. To Jack Sewn Sean

1159
01:01:42,440 --> 01:01:44,920
Speaker 2: not saying Snoop is a coon, but just I know

1160
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 2: what snoops After the money, Sean says, wait, why did

1161
01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:51,440
Speaker 2: the D programmed women sound like a co acolyte? Methinks

1162
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 2: they have their terminology. Inverse, Apple says the Balenciaga stuff

1163
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 2: is just weird. The BDSM Teddy Bears are just in

1164
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 2: poor taste. But what's worse is when you're zoom in

1165
01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 2: on another campaign there's a document saying that child porns

1166
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 2: should be covered by free speech. What the fuck? That's

1167
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 2: too much for me. They use the child it's too

1168
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 2: much for everybody. Apparently they use their child porns.

1169
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: We get agree on that, Appia.

1170
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,400
Speaker 2: They use a child porn expression themselves. Should this provocative?

1171
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,120
Speaker 2: Should this be provocative and edgy? Are they really in

1172
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:22,080
Speaker 2: the child porn? Wouldn't you want to hone it? I

1173
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 2: don't know, Lucky, this stuff is too ugly, too expensive

1174
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 2: for anyway for me, As she says, I give you

1175
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 2: now five dollars a monthly. You got me? Ernest says,

1176
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 2: regarding these episode poll this episode post, some of us

1177
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 2: just had to take what we can get. When the

1178
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:40,680
Speaker 2: poll was situationships, yes or no, Abia says, situationships depending

1179
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:42,480
Speaker 2: on the life phase. As Rod said, I'm off the

1180
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 2: market since twenty two thousand and six, But if I

1181
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 2: was twenty five and had no children, get or other responsibilities,

1182
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 2: it could be fun. Now I need a partner who

1183
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 2: can get excited with me by changing the bedroom windows

1184
01:02:55,520 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 2: next year to floor deep, and my excitement comes about

1185
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:03,200
Speaker 2: ninety percent from my job. The upside is money, AJ

1186
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 2: says high Riding Queen Careen great episodes as always. I've

1187
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,120
Speaker 2: been an avid listener for years and just renew my

1188
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 2: premium subscription. My mother and I have had a weekly

1189
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 2: game that we started in October twenty twenty on Fridays,

1190
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,440
Speaker 2: and one of the games we played occasionally is Monopoly. However,

1191
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 2: we play it with an hour time limit and whoever

1192
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 2: has the most money at the end of the hour

1193
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 2: winnsda game. Some other games were ones we discovered at

1194
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:28,480
Speaker 2: the library, such as Jai por Sushi Roll, and Machi Korro.

1195
01:03:29,120 --> 01:03:32,120
Speaker 2: Love the show and keep the content coming. Austin Oh,

1196
01:03:33,080 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 2: a new listener listening forever, says, Hey, y'all, I'm here

1197
01:03:37,920 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 2: from for all Nerds. I've loved all of y'all's appearances,

1198
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 2: and when I found out that y'all recapped them Thrones episodes,

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Speaker 2: I quickly brought my ass over to where I needed

1200
01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:49,760
Speaker 2: to be. I'm playing catch up from my first the

1201
01:03:49,800 --> 01:03:52,280
Speaker 2: first recap episode, and I'm on twenty six thirty three

1202
01:03:52,280 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 2: and I love you this podcast. Y'all have heard this

1203
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 2: several times. I completely agree, y'all are hilarious. I have

1204
01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:01,280
Speaker 2: inappropriately screen labed in public several times now because of y'all.

1205
01:04:01,280 --> 01:04:04,160
Speaker 2: In this episode, Rob mentioned how we not seeing these

1206
01:04:04,240 --> 01:04:07,280
Speaker 2: niggas celebrating Hanikah or playing with a dredo, and I screamed,

1207
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 2: but that's a truth. That's all I'm saying. You're gonna

1208
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 2: be there, here is the lights. Then I'm gonna need

1209
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 2: y'all the motherfucker pull out that massa ball suit or

1210
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:17,160
Speaker 2: something all in. Y'all can't just have some of the jewishness.

1211
01:04:17,240 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 2: Nah right, put the yamaka on. Let's fucking go. Then

1212
01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 2: Kyrie Karen mentioned looking inwardly at why we don't like

1213
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 2: people to try to figure out the true reason. It

1214
01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 2: was a word. I've done this and it's always effective.

1215
01:04:30,080 --> 01:04:33,520
Speaker 2: So excited to add y'all to my podcast rotation, Thank you,

1216
01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 2: PS love episode with DJ Ben I Mean and Doctor

1217
01:04:36,720 --> 01:04:39,800
Speaker 2: Wynn Grant, especially the latter. I didn't think I was

1218
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:41,640
Speaker 2: gonna like it, but I'm so go ahead. I listened,

1219
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:43,439
Speaker 2: I loved it and learned a lot. Y'all are great.

1220
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 2: Left my five stars on Spotify at a bowler.

1221
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Speaker 1: Thank you, and uh shout out to DJ being Many Tatiana.

1222
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Speaker 1: We love them. We actually I really enjoy them and

1223
01:04:55,240 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 1: being on their podcast at uh uh the Doctor her

1224
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 1: I went back and I went to the beginning of

1225
01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 1: her podcast, and like, running through that podcast, y'all is outstanding.

1226
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Speaker 1: The episodes are not long, and because I listened, but

1227
01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: I actually went like to the beginning because she was

1228
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: sharing stuff that I, you know, I didn't know. Oh

1229
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 1: my goodness, it is a great podcast.

1230
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's called Going Wild with Doctor ray Way Grant.

1231
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Speaker 2: So if y'all haven't checked it out, you check it

1232
01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 2: out so everywhere you get podcasts, and uh yeah, thank

1233
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 2: you for listening. And I'm glad. I love that you

1234
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 2: said you didn't think you'd enjoy an episode and you did,

1235
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 2: because I think one of the things that happens is certain.

1236
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:43,040
Speaker 2: The feedback show is a good example. It's not much

1237
01:05:43,080 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 2: fall off. This is just a little bit, and when

1238
01:05:45,640 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 2: we do less episodes, it's even less fall off. But

1239
01:05:48,680 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 2: like say, ten percent of people will listen to a

1240
01:05:51,440 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 2: regular episode but not a feedback episode, And I always

1241
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 2: feel like, man, you kind of fucked up. You missing out,

1242
01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 2: Like if you enjoyed those other once, you will enjoy

1243
01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 2: this one because you actually did all the work. You

1244
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 2: know the conversations that are happening, and sometimes this is

1245
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 2: where some of the best funny stuff happens because we

1246
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:11,920
Speaker 2: get to hear from our listeners and they bring new

1247
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:15,640
Speaker 2: perspectives or maybe you listening you thought, man, they really

1248
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 2: missed the drop the ball on this. Well here's your

1249
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 2: chance to be like, Okay, well here's here's another perspective.

1250
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,960
Speaker 2: And I think also it's a great exercise in like

1251
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 2: caring and empathy and stuff that happens between our listeners

1252
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 2: and ourselves. You listen to other people shows, you see

1253
01:06:33,120 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 2: how they talk to the motherfuckers that are write in

1254
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 2: and shit, man, it's like, you know, like we give

1255
01:06:37,760 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 2: a fuck, And I think same thing with like certain interviews,

1256
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 2: certain guests. You don't know what you're gonna hear because

1257
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:49,080
Speaker 2: our interviews, to me are like hot fire. We fucking

1258
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 2: do the research and talk to the people and give

1259
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:57,200
Speaker 2: them more in depth answers and questions than ninety nine

1260
01:06:57,240 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 2: point nine percent of the fucking interviews out there, you know.

1261
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:03,640
Speaker 2: So yeah, but I hear you though, I'm just glad

1262
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 2: you gave it a chance. Eve He says, I always

1263
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:09,400
Speaker 2: thought Lizo made music that empowers women, Black women, particularly

1264
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,560
Speaker 2: based on her videos. But when you're black and you

1265
01:07:11,600 --> 01:07:13,439
Speaker 2: get to a certain level of fame where your white

1266
01:07:13,440 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 2: fan base it comes as large or larger than you're black,

1267
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,560
Speaker 2: when jealousy comes into play to some extent, even though

1268
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:21,760
Speaker 2: the reason a lot of talented black artists don't crossovers

1269
01:07:21,800 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 2: because the industry is racist and don't support black art

1270
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,000
Speaker 2: to the same degree as they do white entertainers.

1271
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: Right.

1272
01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:29,200
Speaker 2: I also think to some degree there may be resentment

1273
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 2: towards Lizo because she doesn't fit the typical mode of

1274
01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:34,720
Speaker 2: mega superstar because she's a big woman. Fat phobia seems

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01:07:34,720 --> 01:07:36,600
Speaker 2: to be one of the quietly accept the forms of

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01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 2: discrimination because people can hide their fat phobia under the

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01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 2: gouds of caring about a person's health.

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01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 1: Yes, and it's not real for a lot of people.

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01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you mean not real?

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01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:48,480
Speaker 1: Like you know, they're claiming health. It's like, no, you

1281
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:51,280
Speaker 1: actually don't actually give a fuck. You're just saying that

1282
01:07:51,360 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 1: because that's the thing to say, right when it's a

1283
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 1: difference between you, quote unquote caring about somebody's health and

1284
01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:00,400
Speaker 1: you're just saying that as a slight Again, it's them

1285
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: because of the way they look and the thing is

1286
01:08:04,280 --> 01:08:06,439
Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with health. There are people

1287
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 1: of all different sizes that are healthy, and therese people

1288
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 1: of all different sizes that have blood person how cholestrameent

1289
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:13,680
Speaker 1: and that has nothing to do with the world.

1290
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 2: It's personal to them, right like it's between them and

1291
01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:21,160
Speaker 2: they doctor and whatever their goals are in life and shit.

1292
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:23,799
Speaker 2: Like I just always find it funny that people think

1293
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:27,080
Speaker 2: the person who is fat and at the center of

1294
01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 2: all this attention has not thought about it, like they

1295
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:34,600
Speaker 2: probably thought about it. They have whatever conclusions, whatever mentality

1296
01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:37,759
Speaker 2: they have about it. But the other thing with Lizzo

1297
01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 2: is that some of it was artists being jealous of

1298
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 2: Lizzo and her success. I'll still I was also disappointed

1299
01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:47,720
Speaker 2: in so many people when I think it was Ari

1300
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 2: Lennox that shit it on Lizo for win a Soul

1301
01:08:50,160 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 2: Train Award. And then you saw so many particularly black

1302
01:08:54,479 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 2: women that were fans of Ari Lennox just come out

1303
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 2: and just avis Lizzo like she wasn't shit, like she

1304
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:06,360
Speaker 2: was just some propped up, untalented black woman, Like all

1305
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 2: the stuff that she represented, all the positive stuff, it

1306
01:09:08,760 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 2: went immediately into like she was some type of racial sellout,

1307
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 2: and it wasn't everybody, but it was enough people that

1308
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:18,679
Speaker 2: it was given serious consideration. People had to write about

1309
01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:21,400
Speaker 2: it and stuff, and it was like, damn man, all

1310
01:09:21,439 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 2: she did was win. She didn't say nothing bad, she

1311
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 2: didn't do nothing wrong. Like, I don't know. I think

1312
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:31,000
Speaker 2: that's part of just my dogma is I tried not

1313
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 2: to attach negative feelings and emotions to people that just

1314
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:36,680
Speaker 2: haven't done anything right. There's too many people that have

1315
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 2: literally done and said the stuff that people get mad about.

1316
01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 2: My yeah, like if you want to be mad, there's

1317
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 2: so many people that are jumping to the front of

1318
01:09:45,200 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 2: the line like please be mad at me, and Lizzo's

1319
01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:50,559
Speaker 2: not one of them. You know, this is not related,

1320
01:09:50,600 --> 01:09:52,519
Speaker 2: but who knows when we'll get to talk about this.

1321
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 2: But there's a clip of Trevor Noah going around where

1322
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 2: it was his last day on The Daily Show. He

1323
01:09:58,000 --> 01:10:00,360
Speaker 2: took like a couple minutes to just think back women,

1324
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 2: specifically for his show The Personal Life his uh success

1325
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,680
Speaker 2: challenging him and him and saying like black women are

1326
01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 2: the women I listen to the most, or the people

1327
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:16,640
Speaker 2: I listen to the most, because in America, they're the

1328
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 2: ones that can't funk around to find out and he's

1329
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:21,360
Speaker 2: naming them by name, and then he kind of ran

1330
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:23,360
Speaker 2: like obviously TV show you don't have all the time.

1331
01:10:23,439 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 2: But it's like he had to stop himself because he

1332
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:27,840
Speaker 2: could have kept naming them. And it's something that's always

1333
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 2: struck me about Trevor No because he does all these

1334
01:10:30,000 --> 01:10:32,639
Speaker 2: interviews and to me, he's the best interview on TV

1335
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 2: because he reads people's books and talk to the research. Yeah,

1336
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 2: if he doesn't read them, he does it. He makes

1337
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 2: it look like he does so well. That is it's

1338
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,080
Speaker 2: summarize of it. It's always surprising to the guest. And

1339
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 2: I watched because I watched the show all the time,

1340
01:10:47,479 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 2: and under his stewardship, they've had the most black women

1341
01:10:53,120 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 2: and black and brown people in general, but most black

1342
01:10:55,520 --> 01:10:59,040
Speaker 2: women ever, like not under John Stewart anybody before that.

1343
01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 2: And he and young girl black people and stuff, and

1344
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 2: he really do listen and relate and then within like

1345
01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:09,360
Speaker 2: a day I saw somebody well if he uh. I

1346
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:12,000
Speaker 2: don't like it when people think black women but they

1347
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,679
Speaker 2: not dating a black woman or whatever, or they don't

1348
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:16,680
Speaker 2: date black women, which is a big which is a

1349
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:19,920
Speaker 2: big thing that people say. That's very misleading because there's

1350
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 2: the there's the don't date black women, and there's the

1351
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 2: we haven't publicly seen them with a black woman, or

1352
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:30,120
Speaker 2: they haven't been a long term relationship with a famous

1353
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 2: black or whatever, and then people will they Basically it's

1354
01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 2: a way of assuming the worst. It's a way of

1355
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 2: you're hinting towards like he is racist against black women

1356
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 2: sexually on some John Mayer type shit. He just has

1357
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 2: never said it and would never say it. But but

1358
01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 2: clearly everything you know whatever, And it's the measuring the macro.

1359
01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:52,720
Speaker 2: It's the measuring the macro versus the micro, right, it's

1360
01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 2: the So anyway, all that to say, like, but Trevor Noah,

1361
01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 2: just like Lizzo, I have never heard him say anything

1362
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 2: or wrong about black women, not even in like a joke.

1363
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 1: And as long as that's the.

1364
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 2: But it's a sliding gold post, is my point. So

1365
01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:12,559
Speaker 2: the way I feel about Lizzo is how I feel

1366
01:12:12,560 --> 01:12:16,840
Speaker 2: about Trevor Lawrence. Trevor Noah is where it's like, did

1367
01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 2: he say something or did he do something? Didn't know.

1368
01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:22,760
Speaker 2: I refuse to participate in the negative part of this

1369
01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 2: thing where I have to pre dislike this person for

1370
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:29,759
Speaker 2: something I can't really prove that they did or feel

1371
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:35,080
Speaker 2: or said. It's just me deciding this motherfucker ain't shit. Uh.

1372
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:37,599
Speaker 2: I think that's the weird part. And I think that's

1373
01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:40,479
Speaker 2: the negativity I'm always fighting against in my own heart,

1374
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,160
Speaker 2: in my own brain, because that's not really of me.

1375
01:12:43,640 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 2: And I need a clean, healthy mental space. So I

1376
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 2: have to set out boundaries in my brain of like,

1377
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:51,320
Speaker 2: I don't if I don't know for a fact that

1378
01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 2: this person they did the same thing with Michael B.

1379
01:12:53,400 --> 01:12:57,000
Speaker 2: Jordan Tilly dated Laurie Harvey, which I don't know if

1380
01:12:57,000 --> 01:12:58,640
Speaker 2: they feel like they bullied him into that or what.

1381
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:01,920
Speaker 2: But to me, that thing was always kind of ridiculous.

1382
01:13:02,080 --> 01:13:02,519
Speaker 2: It was.

1383
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: It was, and a lot of times these are people

1384
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:08,600
Speaker 1: insecurity is just shining on both sides, and you know,

1385
01:13:08,880 --> 01:13:12,840
Speaker 1: it's just ridiculous. And the majority of black women, because

1386
01:13:12,840 --> 01:13:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm a black woman, y'all, M give a fuck who

1387
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:16,800
Speaker 1: you put your dick in. Guys, as long as you

1388
01:13:16,840 --> 01:13:20,000
Speaker 1: don't come out towards us, we're good.

1389
01:13:20,120 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 2: I think that's true, and I hope that's true. It's

1390
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 2: just that when this stuff happens, I always go, wait

1391
01:13:26,040 --> 01:13:28,600
Speaker 2: a minute, what is the real gobos? Because I'm not

1392
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 2: saying this is not some other people saying it's black women.

1393
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:33,559
Speaker 2: I saw say this and retweeted and all this shit.

1394
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:36,800
Speaker 2: So it is like, a is that true or is

1395
01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 2: that not true? You know what I'm saying, because this

1396
01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 2: motherfucker has never It's not that he's never even said

1397
01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:45,960
Speaker 2: anything bad. Trevor Noah's never not said anything good. You

1398
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. I'm not arguing with you. I'm

1399
01:13:48,320 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 2: just saying what I saw, which is like I would

1400
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:54,280
Speaker 2: imagine the solent majority of people is like, yeah, you

1401
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:57,600
Speaker 2: know what, I don't care either way, But it's just

1402
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:00,640
Speaker 2: always interesting when it does trend or does come up

1403
01:14:00,680 --> 01:14:03,720
Speaker 2: and you're like, but that dude, isn't what y'all said.

1404
01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:06,560
Speaker 2: Y'all get mad about you know. Sometimes you see it

1405
01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:09,479
Speaker 2: and you're like, of course, yeah, that motherfucker said some wild,

1406
01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:12,240
Speaker 2: fucked up, flagrant shit. And then it's people where you're

1407
01:14:12,240 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 2: just like, wait, Michael be Jordan, what did he do?

1408
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? So anyway, the comments on

1409
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 2: the YouTube, let's get to those real quick. As Carter

1410
01:14:22,200 --> 01:14:24,600
Speaker 2: Thomas says, there was a show on HBO that was

1411
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 2: about the fight to get the abortion bill passed. Can't

1412
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 2: remember what it was called, but it was last year.

1413
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 2: I think any who, the main white woman that was

1414
01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:32,799
Speaker 2: against the bill felt that feminism was the real problem

1415
01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 2: and set a set back to women, that the so

1416
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 2: called patriarchy was just the right way, and trying to

1417
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:39,880
Speaker 2: make women equal to men or at the same level

1418
01:14:39,960 --> 01:14:42,679
Speaker 2: was actually going to be the downfall of women, obviously

1419
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:45,519
Speaker 2: white women. So of course the white women's family didn't

1420
01:14:45,720 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 2: believe in patriarchy or that it was harmful because in

1421
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:51,960
Speaker 2: conservative circles gender rows are natural and necessary. They are,

1422
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:54,640
Speaker 2: at least a few I know, they wrap themselves in

1423
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:57,680
Speaker 2: those rolls and act as if it actually gives them

1424
01:14:57,720 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 2: more freedom. I think that's very true, and I think

1425
01:15:00,800 --> 01:15:03,000
Speaker 2: white women obviously aren't the only ones that can fall

1426
01:15:03,040 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 2: for that. Black men fall for that all the time,

1427
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:08,760
Speaker 2: Latin X people fall for that. Latino people follow that

1428
01:15:08,800 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 2: all the time. Yeah, it's just people. If you can

1429
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:16,480
Speaker 2: get access to this cloak of white privilege or patriarchy

1430
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:18,360
Speaker 2: and you think you can make it work for yourself,

1431
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 2: it's very tempting for people to just throw every throw

1432
01:15:21,600 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 2: everything else out of the way. Like nope, my mom says,

1433
01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:28,720
Speaker 2: looel let the monopoly about the Monopoly game, do not

1434
01:15:28,760 --> 01:15:32,000
Speaker 2: pass go go straight to jail. Definitely not taking a

1435
01:15:32,200 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 2: packing to go plate. Kevin says, I'm not a Lizo

1436
01:15:36,960 --> 01:15:40,759
Speaker 2: fan Lizo music fan, but I appreciate her background in music.

1437
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:43,720
Speaker 2: We know the society sees black women as overly sexualized.

1438
01:15:44,000 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 2: She doesn't need to show her backside to get attention.

1439
01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:50,040
Speaker 2: Let her background in music shine and show young Black

1440
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:52,519
Speaker 2: girls there are there's more than showing off their bodies

1441
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 2: to get attention. Kevin h who I just gave a

1442
01:15:56,280 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 2: thumbs down on his comment.

1443
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,320
Speaker 1: Yes, but you don't say this about nobody else out

1444
01:16:00,320 --> 01:16:00,639
Speaker 1: of here.

1445
01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I always find it interesting and I go to Rihanna,

1446
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 2: but it literally could be any other black women. We

1447
01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:08,719
Speaker 2: do not have a problem with these other black women

1448
01:16:08,800 --> 01:16:11,559
Speaker 2: showing out their sexuality in that way. But let's say

1449
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:13,719
Speaker 2: that Kevin has a problem with all black women showing

1450
01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:16,680
Speaker 2: off their sexuality because of the young black girls. But

1451
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:18,920
Speaker 2: that's for some shit for you to get over. To

1452
01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 2: be honest, a grown woman shouldn't have to like worry

1453
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 2: about the some other people's children like I'm their mother,

1454
01:16:27,479 --> 01:16:30,880
Speaker 2: I'm rapping, And we definitely don't apply this standard to

1455
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:33,880
Speaker 2: the men that often you know, Nigga's been rapped about

1456
01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:36,960
Speaker 2: killing each other and jury and fucking women and all

1457
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 2: kinds of shit without this concern trolling for years and

1458
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:44,120
Speaker 2: so it's just some real corny shit for Kevin s.

1459
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:44,559
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1460
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:47,120
Speaker 1: I know. So it's one of those things with do

1461
01:16:47,160 --> 01:16:48,600
Speaker 1: these people to come up. Do you ever say this

1462
01:16:48,640 --> 01:16:52,200
Speaker 1: about men, men put your shirt on, discussed on our daughters? No?

1463
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 2: Then yeah, exactly, so I don't. I don't. I don't know.

1464
01:16:56,160 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 2: I just find that to be a non starter for me.

1465
01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:02,000
Speaker 2: Anytime you say so somebody else got to raise somebody's kids,

1466
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:04,720
Speaker 2: I'm immediately turned off by because I don't have I

1467
01:17:04,760 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 2: don't believe in that. No, I'm not your parents be

1468
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:11,960
Speaker 2: a parent to your child. Agreed. Listen, niggas was doing

1469
01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 2: wild shit and music and videos and everywhere when I

1470
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:18,160
Speaker 2: was growing up. But I had two fucking parents that

1471
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 2: was telling me other things, you know what I mean.

1472
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:25,639
Speaker 2: My dad wasn't coming home and talking about fucking bitches

1473
01:17:25,680 --> 01:17:29,120
Speaker 2: and getting money and shit, so I you know that's

1474
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:32,439
Speaker 2: not on I. At no point did I go, well, Dad,

1475
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I can't listen to you. I was

1476
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:38,719
Speaker 2: listening to Easy and he said, like, no, that's crazy

1477
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 2: Me for Me says partnership is a very often used

1478
01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 2: shipping option for many resellers eBay, Amazon and small businesses,

1479
01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 2: so the company is legit, but that was clearly shady.

1480
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:51,559
Speaker 2: My mom says, great show, very informal conversation on mental health,

1481
01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 2: institrating on men. It's imperative for our male kind of

1482
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 2: parts to evolve to become a better version for themselves

1483
01:17:57,120 --> 01:18:03,960
Speaker 2: in our society. I agree. I agree. Then on Spotify's

1484
01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:06,599
Speaker 2: the poll, and I don't think I said the results

1485
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:11,320
Speaker 2: on the site. Thirty eight percent on our site are

1486
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:15,759
Speaker 2: saying yes the situationships, sixty two percent say no, thirty

1487
01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 2: four percent on Spotify and sixty six percent respectively, So

1488
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:28,200
Speaker 2: less yay's on Spotify by a small percentage. And the

1489
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:32,599
Speaker 2: Q and A was what will he do next? Marvin

1490
01:18:32,720 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 2: W says, I spit my damn coffee out when you

1491
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:36,760
Speaker 2: said that. Rob My secretary looked in on me because

1492
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 2: I was coughing and laughing. I figured you'd have a

1493
01:18:40,400 --> 01:18:44,280
Speaker 2: secretary being at your own Spotify. On Oh Heaven, Kevin says,

1494
01:18:44,600 --> 01:18:47,519
Speaker 2: I love regular news beats, and they really come all

1495
01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:49,960
Speaker 2: the way together. When Karen starts freestyling some lyrics on

1496
01:18:50,000 --> 01:18:52,320
Speaker 2: that you sound great, care and you crack me up.

1497
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:53,360
Speaker 2: Another episode, as.

1498
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:56,120
Speaker 1: Always, yay, I think I'm terrible, but yay.

1499
01:18:56,280 --> 01:18:59,040
Speaker 2: Another person said he wasn't stalking that woman, he wanted

1500
01:18:59,080 --> 01:19:04,160
Speaker 2: to get next to her. Sandy says, in my Roseanne,

1501
01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:06,719
Speaker 2: I thought she said my name is monkey.

1502
01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:09,360
Speaker 1: After ANX was.

1503
01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 2: Hit, Raphael says, first, I don't appreciate being associated with

1504
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:15,040
Speaker 2: basic scams. I go for the bearns. I listened to

1505
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:19,200
Speaker 2: DJ College motivational speeches. That's why I'm opening mansa Musa

1506
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:22,840
Speaker 2: and shun shipping in LLC and Charlotte a sap. Well,

1507
01:19:22,840 --> 01:19:27,160
Speaker 2: maybe DJ College is stand in shoe closet Jus says.

1508
01:19:27,479 --> 01:19:31,840
Speaker 2: Doctor Uzzo says, uh, he might have to tough out

1509
01:19:31,880 --> 01:19:35,880
Speaker 2: this next bid in prison. He does like a bit

1510
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:37,559
Speaker 2: of a rough neck, so I think he'll be able

1511
01:19:37,720 --> 01:19:43,439
Speaker 2: to handle it. Episode twenty six forty one, calling the

1512
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:48,040
Speaker 2: prime out. We got five comments on this one, and

1513
01:19:49,040 --> 01:19:52,760
Speaker 2: let's go to him, all right. Appia says, we pay

1514
01:19:52,800 --> 01:19:54,760
Speaker 2: a trash bill. We are the owners of our home.

1515
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 2: That sounds pretty bragging, but I don't know how to

1516
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 2: tell her it's a semi attached house. So to a

1517
01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:02,240
Speaker 2: second house to sound less like a rich person. A

1518
01:20:02,320 --> 01:20:05,640
Speaker 2: renter doesn't pay for the trash directly, but indirectly for utilities.

1519
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:08,240
Speaker 2: Pretty sure this also is how it goes in the US.

1520
01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 2: If not, sorry America, I don't know. I don't have

1521
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:12,400
Speaker 2: a house.

1522
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 1: There's lots of rules of regulations I know here in

1523
01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:17,960
Speaker 1: North Carolina. Depends on if you're in the county and

1524
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:20,160
Speaker 1: the city and things like that. You get certain fees.

1525
01:20:20,280 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 1: But like I said, it probably very prestate.

1526
01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 2: J Full says about the Yell lawsuit. When I was

1527
01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:29,080
Speaker 2: doing a PhD in economics at Cornell, another Ivy League school,

1528
01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:31,919
Speaker 2: I started to experience my first symptoms of bipolar disorder.

1529
01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 2: Cornell is an extremely stressful school and then isolated town

1530
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:37,840
Speaker 2: that gets snow six months a year, and it's well

1531
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:40,599
Speaker 2: known for a student suicide. While I was there, we

1532
01:20:40,640 --> 01:20:42,720
Speaker 2: had so many suicides one school year that we had

1533
01:20:42,720 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 2: prison style fencing and twenty four hour police patrols on

1534
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 2: every bridge on campus. It was not uncommon to have

1535
01:20:48,600 --> 01:20:50,760
Speaker 2: to take a detour home because somebody jumped into the

1536
01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 2: gorge during the fifty minutes you were in class, no exaggeration.

1537
01:20:54,880 --> 01:20:56,400
Speaker 2: This took a toll on my mental health, but the

1538
01:20:56,439 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 2: Medical League policies were so restricted that I couldn't take

1539
01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 2: away time from school without losing all my funding and

1540
01:21:01,439 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 2: possibly not be able to return. This is also pre Obamacare,

1541
01:21:04,439 --> 01:21:07,040
Speaker 2: so mental health coverage was not well covered under our

1542
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,519
Speaker 2: student health insurance. So not only were the mental health

1543
01:21:09,560 --> 01:21:12,640
Speaker 2: services on complete campus trash, I couldn't really lead to

1544
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:15,479
Speaker 2: get help elsewhere. Ultimately, I decided to drop out for

1545
01:21:15,560 --> 01:21:18,960
Speaker 2: good once a guy my PhD program committed suicide. The

1546
01:21:19,000 --> 01:21:21,920
Speaker 2: suicides hit too close to home. It's sad to see

1547
01:21:21,920 --> 01:21:24,880
Speaker 2: that not much has changed in ten plus years. I

1548
01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 2: do think the Universe university have a responsibility to provide

1549
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 2: generous mental health resources and policies, especially the schools with

1550
01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 2: as much money as these ivies. If these schools are

1551
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:39,680
Speaker 2: going to recap reap the social capital of their vigorous reputations,

1552
01:21:39,720 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 2: they need to invest in mental health resources and policies

1553
01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:44,400
Speaker 2: that help the students succeed. I think it is in

1554
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:47,840
Speaker 2: Yale's best interest to settle and invest heavily in resources

1555
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 2: and policy. Overall, it'll be good pr and it helps everyone.

1556
01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 2: More successful graduates equal more alumni donations, so even if

1557
01:21:55,760 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 2: they do it selfishly, it'll help the students. Yeah, that's

1558
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:05,200
Speaker 2: definitely interesting that they're Yeah, like I like, I think

1559
01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:07,760
Speaker 2: the students are fighting for something good and I hope

1560
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:12,160
Speaker 2: they're able to quote unquote when and I think the

1561
01:22:12,320 --> 01:22:15,760
Speaker 2: rigor of these universities and the way that some of

1562
01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 2: them take pride in the fact that like we watch

1563
01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:21,360
Speaker 2: people out and I'm sure they wouldn't say they take

1564
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 2: pride and people obviously dying by suicide, but there's definitely

1565
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:31,000
Speaker 2: a we're we're tough and that's why that's that's why

1566
01:22:31,080 --> 01:22:34,719
Speaker 2: we're weird. We're the best degree, Yeah, we're the best

1567
01:22:34,720 --> 01:22:38,000
Speaker 2: because we're tough. And it's like, okay, but do you

1568
01:22:38,120 --> 01:22:40,800
Speaker 2: have to be tough to be the best? Like, it's

1569
01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:43,679
Speaker 2: just interesting, Sean says, been thinking that I could add

1570
01:22:43,800 --> 01:22:45,840
Speaker 2: what I could add As a tenured assistant professor at

1571
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:48,599
Speaker 2: Japanese university, I worked at three of the top four

1572
01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:51,960
Speaker 2: university in the Kinki region, and they are they all

1573
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:54,679
Speaker 2: have a limited amount of mental health support. Unfortunately, it's

1574
01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 2: not well advertising administration is not allowed to tell the

1575
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 2: teaching staff about students with no mental health issues because

1576
01:22:59,800 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 2: of obviously issues. I particularly understand mental health statement in

1577
01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:05,360
Speaker 2: Japan is no joke, but it's kind of hard to

1578
01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:07,760
Speaker 2: offer support when being kept in the dark. The one

1579
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:12,000
Speaker 2: excession was, yeah, that's that is interesting that kids are like, yeah,

1580
01:23:12,040 --> 01:23:13,679
Speaker 2: what is the line net where it's like we want

1581
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:16,639
Speaker 2: our staff and we want people to support us. At

1582
01:23:16,640 --> 01:23:20,320
Speaker 2: the same time, it's like you're right to your privacy.

1583
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:25,040
Speaker 2: How they're gonna be some students who don't want teachers

1584
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:26,639
Speaker 2: to know, and.

1585
01:23:26,600 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 1: It's a catch twenty two. And you know, if you

1586
01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:32,760
Speaker 1: know the school does this, there's gonna have to be

1587
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:36,200
Speaker 1: a lot of heavy rules, regulations and lines. It's gonna

1588
01:23:36,240 --> 01:23:38,600
Speaker 1: be like the student has to initiate it, because we

1589
01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:42,240
Speaker 1: can't initiate this because, like you say, some students they

1590
01:23:42,439 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 1: you know, they might be getting help outside. They might

1591
01:23:44,400 --> 01:23:46,360
Speaker 1: not want nobody to know, you know, all of a sudden,

1592
01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: their classmates, there's other people might treat them differently. And

1593
01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:52,439
Speaker 1: then then you did with the lawsuit of discrimination because

1594
01:23:52,479 --> 01:23:54,960
Speaker 1: of their mental illness and things like that. Like those

1595
01:23:55,400 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: like their company, those are things that nobody thinks about,

1596
01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:00,880
Speaker 1: but the company has to think about the things.

1597
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:05,240
Speaker 2: He says. I parsonally Oh, he says, the one session

1598
01:24:05,240 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 2: was when I was teaching special classes, and he can

1599
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 2: Maury Hikiko Moury acute social withdrawal students. I knew that situation.

1600
01:24:14,280 --> 01:24:15,680
Speaker 2: I could help them when they showed up too long.

1601
01:24:15,760 --> 01:24:18,520
Speaker 2: Didn't read deal with mental health academic institution. It's difficult

1602
01:24:19,479 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 2: him deal says so. Another perspective on this yellow mental

1603
01:24:22,200 --> 01:24:24,599
Speaker 2: health situation. People in a college of mental health issues

1604
01:24:24,640 --> 01:24:26,800
Speaker 2: they knew about and hear from the college because of

1605
01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:28,719
Speaker 2: the image they need to portray to get into the college.

1606
01:24:28,760 --> 01:24:32,280
Speaker 2: It happens all the time because mental illness is still stigmatized. Likewise,

1607
01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:34,439
Speaker 2: people are age eighteen to twenty four more likely to

1608
01:24:34,520 --> 01:24:37,200
Speaker 2: develop mental health issues while in college. Please look it up.

1609
01:24:37,520 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 2: College ain't easy and life don't stop lifing. Yeah, I

1610
01:24:40,479 --> 01:24:43,599
Speaker 2: think a lot of binge drinking is people's mental health

1611
01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:47,960
Speaker 2: issues showing up in a very stressful situation in college

1612
01:24:48,000 --> 01:24:51,920
Speaker 2: for the first time, and we think it's just college life, like, oh,

1613
01:24:51,960 --> 01:24:53,800
Speaker 2: you get drunk, it's just what we do. And it's

1614
01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 2: like that's someone's coping mechanism and probably not a healthy one.

1615
01:24:57,600 --> 01:25:00,719
Speaker 1: For various different way things. A lot of it's sadness,

1616
01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:02,840
Speaker 1: a lot of this depression, a lot of it's mental health,

1617
01:25:03,040 --> 01:25:04,760
Speaker 1: a lot of it's missing family and friends, a lot

1618
01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:07,320
Speaker 1: of them being alone quote unquote on your own for

1619
01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:10,240
Speaker 1: the first time. A lot of these factors, uh not always,

1620
01:25:10,280 --> 01:25:12,479
Speaker 1: but factor into a lot of the beings drinking that

1621
01:25:12,560 --> 01:25:14,000
Speaker 1: happens on college campuses.

1622
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:17,400
Speaker 2: But colleges ain't mental health treatment facilities. Colleges are businesses,

1623
01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,559
Speaker 2: and as much as people want to call some of

1624
01:25:19,600 --> 01:25:22,000
Speaker 2: them bashes of liberal thinking or places that care about students,

1625
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:25,200
Speaker 2: blah blah blah, they are businesses. Their businesses education not

1626
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,400
Speaker 2: treating mental health, and there is a privilege associated with

1627
01:25:27,479 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 2: being able to access one, regardless of your sees. I've

1628
01:25:32,200 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 2: had access to mental health service in college that I

1629
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:37,960
Speaker 2: never could have accessed before college. Paying for therapy now

1630
01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 2: is a working adult can be challenged. So I don't

1631
01:25:40,439 --> 01:25:43,000
Speaker 2: understand how people can expect these businesses of education to

1632
01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:45,759
Speaker 2: be more than they are. Also, where's the for scope

1633
01:25:45,800 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 2: of humanity here? If a person enters college and tries

1634
01:25:47,880 --> 01:25:50,680
Speaker 2: to kill and doesn't succeed, how are they or I

1635
01:25:50,760 --> 01:25:53,080
Speaker 2: guess tries to kill themselves and doesn't succeed, how are

1636
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:55,200
Speaker 2: they going ready to go back to class? How are

1637
01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 2: they ready to just roll back to a dorm room

1638
01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:59,680
Speaker 2: and spend the time necessary to work through an attempted suicide.

1639
01:26:00,360 --> 01:26:03,040
Speaker 2: Who's going to watch and monitor this person in twenty

1640
01:26:03,040 --> 01:26:05,440
Speaker 2: four to seven to make sure they don't make another attempt?

1641
01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:07,880
Speaker 2: How do you stay at a college and not do

1642
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:11,080
Speaker 2: college because of your mental health? What are the me well,

1643
01:26:11,280 --> 01:26:14,679
Speaker 2: so some of these questions you're asking, I'm not sure

1644
01:26:14,720 --> 01:26:18,280
Speaker 2: that that's even what they want. Like it sounds like

1645
01:26:18,320 --> 01:26:21,760
Speaker 2: people are saying they would not mind the idea of

1646
01:26:21,920 --> 01:26:25,240
Speaker 2: you have to go and take a break, possibly, but

1647
01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:28,040
Speaker 2: then they don't want to be penalized upon re entry.

1648
01:26:28,200 --> 01:26:31,000
Speaker 2: They were likely so like I did go to a facility,

1649
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:34,439
Speaker 2: or I did do whatever, and now I'm at a

1650
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:37,719
Speaker 2: place where I am or feel more healthier. I shouldn't

1651
01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:41,240
Speaker 2: have lost all my funding. I shouldn't be penalized. I

1652
01:26:41,240 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 2: shouldn't be knocked for classes. Maybe if I'm in a

1653
01:26:44,320 --> 01:26:46,599
Speaker 2: mental health facility, I'm not able to quote unquote keep

1654
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:50,200
Speaker 2: up with my work. That should be okay, and then

1655
01:26:50,240 --> 01:26:52,599
Speaker 2: I should be allowed back in. I think it feels

1656
01:26:52,640 --> 01:26:56,200
Speaker 2: like a very Republican mindset. Not you, but just a

1657
01:26:56,240 --> 01:26:58,760
Speaker 2: lot of people's approach to stuff. There's always this idea

1658
01:26:58,800 --> 01:27:01,439
Speaker 2: of someone's trying to get old, and that if we

1659
01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:04,280
Speaker 2: allow a person to get over like someone is just

1660
01:27:04,320 --> 01:27:07,320
Speaker 2: a lazy or bad student and so they claim mental

1661
01:27:07,320 --> 01:27:10,600
Speaker 2: health to extend their STAD in college somehow. And it

1662
01:27:10,760 --> 01:27:13,599
Speaker 2: always makes me feel weird because it's like, I would

1663
01:27:13,600 --> 01:27:16,559
Speaker 2: love to know the percentages agree, Like how many people

1664
01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:19,760
Speaker 2: are we putting in a weird mental health limbo to

1665
01:27:19,840 --> 01:27:24,800
Speaker 2: stop Possibly a handful, if not zero, people that would

1666
01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:27,600
Speaker 2: just game the system. That's always interesting to me.

1667
01:27:27,800 --> 01:27:31,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, the percentages are solow, you know, And this is

1668
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:35,760
Speaker 1: why for a lot of people, they waste all this

1669
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:39,080
Speaker 1: money and trying to quote unquote catch these crooks when

1670
01:27:39,120 --> 01:27:41,240
Speaker 1: people go, well, the money you invest in to catch

1671
01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:42,880
Speaker 1: them is to waste the money, and it's the money

1672
01:27:42,920 --> 01:27:45,200
Speaker 1: you actually could have been funding your system. And that

1673
01:27:45,360 --> 01:27:47,880
Speaker 1: one percent of the three people is not worth you

1674
01:27:47,960 --> 01:27:51,040
Speaker 1: quote unquote, making it twice as hard for everybody involved

1675
01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:53,040
Speaker 1: because you want to get this one or two percent,

1676
01:27:53,040 --> 01:27:54,799
Speaker 1: and a lot of times you don't catch them, bitches,

1677
01:27:54,960 --> 01:27:56,080
Speaker 1: you're wasting time.

1678
01:27:56,680 --> 01:27:59,040
Speaker 2: What about mental health of people that don't know the

1679
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:02,360
Speaker 2: person personally but are affected by someone their attempt to

1680
01:28:02,479 --> 01:28:05,719
Speaker 2: kill themselves. What about the people who themselves are survivors suicide.

1681
01:28:05,720 --> 01:28:09,040
Speaker 2: What about the person of the people who most often

1682
01:28:09,160 --> 01:28:11,439
Speaker 2: other students that may have found that person that tried

1683
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:12,920
Speaker 2: to kill themselves a call, and now I want one

1684
01:28:12,960 --> 01:28:15,519
Speaker 2: services to save their life. What about their mental health?

1685
01:28:15,560 --> 01:28:17,519
Speaker 2: What if you're the person roommate, how do you just

1686
01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:20,400
Speaker 2: return to the room with them or without them? Well,

1687
01:28:20,479 --> 01:28:24,160
Speaker 2: oftentimes I think there's even clauses for the roommates and

1688
01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:27,200
Speaker 2: the people stuff like that too. I ask all these

1689
01:28:27,280 --> 01:28:30,320
Speaker 2: quaches because I thought about this with college going kids,

1690
01:28:30,439 --> 01:28:32,639
Speaker 2: what's crazy to me? And some colleges can't disclose personal

1691
01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:35,439
Speaker 2: information to me, even as a person paying tuition without

1692
01:28:35,439 --> 01:28:38,280
Speaker 2: my kids express permission because of the Family Education Rights

1693
01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:42,320
Speaker 2: and Privacy Act. And when I learned about a kid

1694
01:28:42,479 --> 01:28:44,680
Speaker 2: from my kid, or email from their school, or on

1695
01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:47,120
Speaker 2: the news that a kid killed themselves, I'm sadden First.

1696
01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:49,639
Speaker 2: Then I wonder who knew, I mean, really knew about

1697
01:28:49,640 --> 01:28:52,559
Speaker 2: this person mental health challenges. I bet money every time

1698
01:28:52,800 --> 01:28:55,360
Speaker 2: on the parents and guardian and some close friends way

1699
01:28:55,400 --> 01:28:57,960
Speaker 2: before I would believe a college knew a thing. College

1700
01:28:58,000 --> 01:29:01,720
Speaker 2: kids can be so well. I'll say this though that

1701
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 2: might be true, But also in some cases when kids

1702
01:29:05,040 --> 01:29:09,160
Speaker 2: are leaving home, it is possible that the college and

1703
01:29:09,360 --> 01:29:11,759
Speaker 2: the people around them would know stuff that the parents

1704
01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 2: and the people before they went to college did not.

1705
01:29:15,160 --> 01:29:16,960
Speaker 2: You know, I think I saw that a lot where

1706
01:29:17,000 --> 01:29:20,600
Speaker 2: like kids were almost forced to either hide or conform

1707
01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:23,599
Speaker 2: or whatever, you know, and then they get to school

1708
01:29:23,680 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 2: and they able to like get some other alternatives. Sometimes

1709
01:29:27,120 --> 01:29:29,960
Speaker 2: you're even able to see things that you didn't understand

1710
01:29:30,000 --> 01:29:33,920
Speaker 2: were unhealthy or bad because they were so normalized that

1711
01:29:34,040 --> 01:29:36,040
Speaker 2: maybe your parents don't even know they're bad, you know,

1712
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:38,080
Speaker 2: they like, oh, that's just how it is. You just

1713
01:29:38,120 --> 01:29:39,519
Speaker 2: got to pray on it or something. And you get

1714
01:29:39,520 --> 01:29:41,519
Speaker 2: to college and somebody's like, no, that's not normal. You

1715
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:44,120
Speaker 2: need therapy or you need to talk to someone about that.

1716
01:29:44,320 --> 01:29:49,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, and also the thing is these questions that

1717
01:29:49,720 --> 01:29:56,760
Speaker 1: you're asking, you know, a college to do quote unquote,

1718
01:29:57,200 --> 01:29:59,000
Speaker 1: you know, those are things that the college would have

1719
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:01,720
Speaker 1: to discuss. You know, a lot of colleges are like,

1720
01:30:02,720 --> 01:30:05,160
Speaker 1: you know, we can do things up to a certain extent.

1721
01:30:05,280 --> 01:30:07,599
Speaker 1: And my thing is, there are a lot of people

1722
01:30:07,640 --> 01:30:11,200
Speaker 1: with mental issues that don't quote unquote show or exhibit

1723
01:30:11,240 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 1: mental issues, and so everybody, you know, so it might

1724
01:30:14,360 --> 01:30:15,880
Speaker 1: be one of those things where something happened and they

1725
01:30:15,920 --> 01:30:18,120
Speaker 1: might not have told nobody, They might not have said anything.

1726
01:30:18,160 --> 01:30:19,840
Speaker 1: They might not have come in on anything, because some

1727
01:30:19,880 --> 01:30:24,519
Speaker 1: people actually really do keep things to themselves and they

1728
01:30:24,560 --> 01:30:27,519
Speaker 1: don't share these things. So it's not always that people

1729
01:30:27,520 --> 01:30:29,720
Speaker 1: see the signs. Sometimes people don't see the signs.

1730
01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:35,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree, And honestly, we're asking it's a quagmar

1731
01:30:35,680 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 2: with we're talking in very broad strokes, but a lot

1732
01:30:40,360 --> 01:30:45,439
Speaker 2: of these problems are very individualized and not necessarily one

1733
01:30:45,520 --> 01:30:49,320
Speaker 2: size fits all for some people, like like just the

1734
01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:52,680
Speaker 2: disclosure of privacy thing. For some people that might be

1735
01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:55,040
Speaker 2: the trigger and for other people that might be what

1736
01:30:56,040 --> 01:30:59,040
Speaker 2: brings in the help. And the other thing too is

1737
01:30:59,280 --> 01:31:02,240
Speaker 2: and I've I never know one hundred percent the best

1738
01:31:02,240 --> 01:31:07,120
Speaker 2: way to discuss these things, but we always discuss this

1739
01:31:07,200 --> 01:31:12,439
Speaker 2: from an idea that we can solve the idea of

1740
01:31:12,479 --> 01:31:15,640
Speaker 2: someone wanting to take their own life or wanting to

1741
01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:20,000
Speaker 2: die by suicide. And I think that is part of

1742
01:31:20,040 --> 01:31:25,240
Speaker 2: the problem. And because once we once we act like

1743
01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 2: that is the default, we also didn't start feeling like

1744
01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:33,720
Speaker 2: we should blame someone. And that's why you get all

1745
01:31:33,760 --> 01:31:38,240
Speaker 2: the check on your strong friends and the you know,

1746
01:31:38,320 --> 01:31:41,240
Speaker 2: when someone dies of a drug overdose, people started finding

1747
01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:42,720
Speaker 2: the other people that knew them to be like it's

1748
01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:45,840
Speaker 2: your fault, like there's something in us that wants to

1749
01:31:45,880 --> 01:31:48,360
Speaker 2: assign blame. And in this case, whether it be the college,

1750
01:31:48,400 --> 01:31:51,559
Speaker 2: their friends, their parents, there's like a blame that has

1751
01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:53,880
Speaker 2: to be going around, And a lot of these questions

1752
01:31:54,760 --> 01:31:57,799
Speaker 2: really are more about who are we gonna blame. College

1753
01:31:57,840 --> 01:31:59,439
Speaker 2: kids be so afraid to tell a friend to go

1754
01:31:59,439 --> 01:32:01,559
Speaker 2: get professional help or say this too much for me

1755
01:32:01,600 --> 01:32:04,600
Speaker 2: to handle because of the way it feels seems intrinsically

1756
01:32:04,880 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 2: to them. They want to be supportive with no professional

1757
01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:11,760
Speaker 2: background in therapy or mental health. Yes, colleges, yeah, yes,

1758
01:32:11,840 --> 01:32:14,080
Speaker 2: colleges can be in the know about kids mental health,

1759
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:16,560
Speaker 2: but only if the person is using college services or

1760
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:19,080
Speaker 2: people are worried about their safety. But I think in general,

1761
01:32:19,120 --> 01:32:21,439
Speaker 2: colleges find out shit when it's too late related to

1762
01:32:21,479 --> 01:32:24,000
Speaker 2: mental illness. And this is because I believe anybody can

1763
01:32:24,000 --> 01:32:26,759
Speaker 2: develop mental health issues at any time. People don't normally

1764
01:32:26,760 --> 01:32:30,080
Speaker 2: go advertising they're thinking about killing themselves. Just like no

1765
01:32:30,120 --> 01:32:32,479
Speaker 2: one wakes up and says, yep, my mental illness is

1766
01:32:32,560 --> 01:32:34,960
Speaker 2: just about ready. I say all that and ask all

1767
01:32:34,960 --> 01:32:37,400
Speaker 2: these questions because there are no reasonable answers or solutions.

1768
01:32:37,439 --> 01:32:40,200
Speaker 2: Mental illness is real and very difficult to manage me

1769
01:32:40,600 --> 01:32:44,360
Speaker 2: or address. I guess manage or address for me. I

1770
01:32:44,439 --> 01:32:48,120
Speaker 2: accept financial resources outside myself, especially my own, are limited

1771
01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:51,240
Speaker 2: for my kids well being. Sometimes college is an educational

1772
01:32:51,240 --> 01:32:53,280
Speaker 2: place with limits, but I want my kids college to

1773
01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:56,000
Speaker 2: have equitable access to all college things for their well being.

1774
01:32:56,400 --> 01:32:57,160
Speaker 2: Life be lifeing.

1775
01:32:57,600 --> 01:33:01,040
Speaker 1: That's true. That's true, and it's also balls down to

1776
01:33:01,400 --> 01:33:05,679
Speaker 1: And it's not to sound mean or cruel, but the

1777
01:33:05,800 --> 01:33:08,919
Speaker 1: expectations of what parents have for college and what colleges

1778
01:33:09,000 --> 01:33:13,360
Speaker 1: can actually and weakly do are two different things. Yeah,

1779
01:33:13,439 --> 01:33:15,880
Speaker 1: you know, I think a lot of parents send their

1780
01:33:15,960 --> 01:33:17,920
Speaker 1: kids off to school thinking the college is going to

1781
01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:20,360
Speaker 1: be exactly like home, and baby it is not.

1782
01:33:21,200 --> 01:33:23,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also home ain't always good for people. Agreed,

1783
01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 2: they might not be coming from a great home situation.

1784
01:33:26,479 --> 01:33:29,240
Speaker 2: Eve East, But I for I'm not knocking him down.

1785
01:33:29,280 --> 01:33:31,799
Speaker 2: I think all these questions are very valid, good questions.

1786
01:33:31,840 --> 01:33:34,520
Speaker 2: I agree it, And it just shows you the complexity

1787
01:33:34,520 --> 01:33:36,599
Speaker 2: of what the school I have to deal with. And

1788
01:33:37,320 --> 01:33:40,200
Speaker 2: it's easy for us to cherry pick apart the questions

1789
01:33:40,360 --> 01:33:43,000
Speaker 2: be like it's this, But to be honest, it's never

1790
01:33:43,240 --> 01:33:46,240
Speaker 2: just one thing for everybody. There's gonna be some people

1791
01:33:46,240 --> 01:33:49,679
Speaker 2: that it's like, Yeah, while we're just missing this thing,

1792
01:33:50,040 --> 01:33:54,200
Speaker 2: it's affecting this other person, and we're meant we're missing

1793
01:33:54,240 --> 01:33:58,320
Speaker 2: the thing that that's bothering them. So great points. Eve says,

1794
01:33:58,360 --> 01:34:00,719
Speaker 2: I think the people who continue to get yeah platform

1795
01:34:00,720 --> 01:34:03,639
Speaker 2: to spew his bullshit is even more complicit than Kanye

1796
01:34:03,720 --> 01:34:05,559
Speaker 2: at this point because they know he's unwell and just

1797
01:34:05,640 --> 01:34:08,840
Speaker 2: using for clicks or I've been on that. Yeah. I

1798
01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:11,160
Speaker 2: think the hard part for most people is to get

1799
01:34:11,240 --> 01:34:18,120
Speaker 2: past the like the high of disliking Kanye, And I'm

1800
01:34:18,200 --> 01:34:21,680
Speaker 2: just past the highest, Like it doesn't give me anything

1801
01:34:22,640 --> 01:34:26,560
Speaker 2: to be like, I hate this unwell dude, I assume

1802
01:34:27,360 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 2: and maybe this mother fault, but I would assume all

1803
01:34:30,560 --> 01:34:33,479
Speaker 2: of us hate the things he's saying and doing. So

1804
01:34:33,520 --> 01:34:36,679
Speaker 2: it's almost like it can go without saying. Like it's

1805
01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:41,559
Speaker 2: like R Kelly had an album drop and then get

1806
01:34:41,600 --> 01:34:45,519
Speaker 2: pulled from Spotify and streaming platforms yesterday, But there were

1807
01:34:45,560 --> 01:34:47,240
Speaker 2: people that went out of their way to talk about

1808
01:34:47,240 --> 01:34:51,040
Speaker 2: how they weren't gonna listen, and I was like, isn't

1809
01:34:51,040 --> 01:34:54,280
Speaker 2: that the default? Well, who the fuck the people that

1810
01:34:54,680 --> 01:34:56,160
Speaker 2: need to be speaking up of the ones it's like

1811
01:34:56,240 --> 01:34:58,760
Speaker 2: I did listen because those are the ones, I'm like,

1812
01:34:58,880 --> 01:35:01,400
Speaker 2: you a weird motherfucker, you know what I mean? Like,

1813
01:35:01,640 --> 01:35:05,280
Speaker 2: I saw somebody on my Facebook. One person said, I listened,

1814
01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:06,920
Speaker 2: it was a good album. Even though I do think

1815
01:35:06,960 --> 01:35:08,640
Speaker 2: he did it, I'm like, what an album's called? I

1816
01:35:08,680 --> 01:35:13,360
Speaker 2: did it? What the fuck like? It's not like good

1817
01:35:13,400 --> 01:35:16,320
Speaker 2: congratulations for being the one weird motherfucker that needed to

1818
01:35:16,800 --> 01:35:19,880
Speaker 2: know and wanted to tell everybody how jamming it was

1819
01:35:19,920 --> 01:35:24,880
Speaker 2: to you. But I just thought, Yeah, the other version

1820
01:35:25,000 --> 01:35:28,280
Speaker 2: of that gives me nothing. Guys, I'm not listening.

1821
01:35:28,600 --> 01:35:31,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, shit, you wouldn't listen to no way? Who

1822
01:35:31,400 --> 01:35:31,760
Speaker 1: the fuck?

1823
01:35:31,920 --> 01:35:32,040
Speaker 2: Like?

1824
01:35:32,400 --> 01:35:33,799
Speaker 1: Okay, if you were.

1825
01:35:33,840 --> 01:35:35,000
Speaker 2: Why would you tell anyone?

1826
01:35:35,120 --> 01:35:37,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I think a lot of people get a

1827
01:35:37,240 --> 01:35:38,120
Speaker 1: kick out of faux cotton.

1828
01:35:38,560 --> 01:35:41,559
Speaker 2: Yeah. Unfortunately, Kanye Will continues downwards fire or because he

1829
01:35:41,560 --> 01:35:44,040
Speaker 2: has a prosecution complex, and I believe in his mind

1830
01:35:44,240 --> 01:35:46,240
Speaker 2: that the more people turn against him, the more he

1831
01:35:46,240 --> 01:35:47,960
Speaker 2: feels like he's right, So he's gonna keep it up.

1832
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:49,719
Speaker 2: That's exactly what I think it's happened in his brain.

1833
01:35:50,320 --> 01:35:52,920
Speaker 2: And no, it doesn't make sense because he's mentally ill

1834
01:35:53,120 --> 01:35:59,040
Speaker 2: and he's in this very unchecked, untherapied, unmedicated, and I

1835
01:35:59,080 --> 01:36:03,679
Speaker 2: haven't heard anything new or interesting about Kanye in months

1836
01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:08,960
Speaker 2: now and if not years, And I don't know if

1837
01:36:09,000 --> 01:36:11,680
Speaker 2: it's a fatigue thing or just we're addicted to like

1838
01:36:11,880 --> 01:36:16,360
Speaker 2: needing somebody to dislike. But everything he does that people

1839
01:36:16,360 --> 01:36:20,519
Speaker 2: find disgusting, I'm like, yeah, but you kind of keep going,

1840
01:36:20,560 --> 01:36:24,160
Speaker 2: but come smell this, but come smell this man don't distinct.

1841
01:36:24,200 --> 01:36:28,800
Speaker 2: It's like, we know what Kanye smells like. It's been years.

1842
01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:33,120
Speaker 2: I don't know that there's anything he can do that's

1843
01:36:33,120 --> 01:36:35,719
Speaker 2: gonna truly make me be like, well, this is relevant

1844
01:36:35,720 --> 01:36:39,400
Speaker 2: and news. His brain is clearly out of control and

1845
01:36:39,520 --> 01:36:43,360
Speaker 2: just doing the worst shit, and people are just addicted to,

1846
01:36:43,479 --> 01:36:47,720
Speaker 2: like the outrage of he was on another platform and

1847
01:36:47,760 --> 01:36:50,360
Speaker 2: he said this. Did you hear what he said last?

1848
01:36:50,360 --> 01:36:55,400
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I honestly, it don't matter, all right,

1849
01:36:55,479 --> 01:37:00,960
Speaker 2: And then the comments on YouTube. No comments on this one,

1850
01:37:02,439 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 2: but we did have the Poe Deona leaving for Colorado.

1851
01:37:06,240 --> 01:37:08,400
Speaker 2: Love it, hate it, I don't care. I'm staying out

1852
01:37:08,400 --> 01:37:12,200
Speaker 2: of this one. Four point eight percent, about five percent

1853
01:37:12,240 --> 01:37:16,840
Speaker 2: say they love it, fifteen percent say they hate it,

1854
01:37:17,680 --> 01:37:21,880
Speaker 2: forty four percent do not care, and thirty six and

1855
01:37:21,920 --> 01:37:25,400
Speaker 2: a half percent say they staying out of it. All

1856
01:37:25,479 --> 01:37:28,719
Speaker 2: those percentages kind of make sense. I think it's interesting

1857
01:37:29,040 --> 01:37:32,840
Speaker 2: how few people love it, because I think that's the

1858
01:37:33,920 --> 01:37:37,600
Speaker 2: that's the contingent I've seen fighting the most is the

1859
01:37:37,640 --> 01:37:41,679
Speaker 2: people that love it or hate it. And I think

1860
01:37:43,000 --> 01:37:46,240
Speaker 2: the people that love it, to me, are equally as

1861
01:37:46,280 --> 01:37:49,160
Speaker 2: fucked up as the people that like are calling him

1862
01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:51,240
Speaker 2: a coon and shit like to me, they are both

1863
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:53,960
Speaker 2: the same side of the coin when it comes to

1864
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:57,280
Speaker 2: the way that they're dismissing everything in between.

1865
01:37:57,080 --> 01:37:59,000
Speaker 1: Right, and the average person is in between.

1866
01:37:59,520 --> 01:38:03,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just not a very convenient It's just not

1867
01:38:03,720 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 2: a very convenient thing. It's just this. But yeah, so

1868
01:38:07,320 --> 01:38:10,479
Speaker 2: Deona leaving for Colorado on Spotify eleven percent love it.

1869
01:38:10,479 --> 01:38:12,519
Speaker 2: Of course they get into the money. They get it come.

1870
01:38:12,479 --> 01:38:14,200
Speaker 1: On his mentality.

1871
01:38:14,360 --> 01:38:17,719
Speaker 2: That's double what it was on our website. Eighteen percent hated,

1872
01:38:18,040 --> 01:38:20,559
Speaker 2: which is actually higher too. So I don't know. Maybe

1873
01:38:20,600 --> 01:38:23,040
Speaker 2: they're like, he already rich, he can do what you want.

1874
01:38:23,520 --> 01:38:24,920
Speaker 2: I don't carry the way thirty seven.

1875
01:38:24,920 --> 01:38:27,519
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like I invested and lost. I lost my

1876
01:38:27,560 --> 01:38:28,519
Speaker 1: money on my investment.

1877
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:29,879
Speaker 2: What an investment.

1878
01:38:30,280 --> 01:38:32,800
Speaker 1: There was like they were the people in the city.

1879
01:38:32,840 --> 01:38:34,880
Speaker 1: They was like I was in the city I love.

1880
01:38:35,040 --> 01:38:37,519
Speaker 1: I supported put my money in that, and now my

1881
01:38:37,600 --> 01:38:38,439
Speaker 1: money's gone.

1882
01:38:38,600 --> 01:38:42,400
Speaker 2: Nope, I don't know where an investment came from, but yes,

1883
01:38:42,560 --> 01:38:45,120
Speaker 2: scaring I did. I don't I don't want to fight.

1884
01:38:45,479 --> 01:38:47,840
Speaker 2: Thirty seven percent say I don't carry the way at

1885
01:38:47,880 --> 01:38:49,840
Speaker 2: thirty four percent say I'm staying out of this one.

1886
01:38:51,760 --> 01:38:55,920
Speaker 2: And then the last the comment was must have been

1887
01:38:55,960 --> 01:39:01,599
Speaker 2: the money, Addie Boler, says Alex Jones, who just lost

1888
01:39:01,640 --> 01:39:05,360
Speaker 2: a defamation lawsuit. Yeah, you had Kanye on and was like, Kanye,

1889
01:39:05,400 --> 01:39:07,080
Speaker 2: you need to chill out. You're going too hard on

1890
01:39:07,120 --> 01:39:12,800
Speaker 2: the Jews. Jed Domo eight says, so so right about

1891
01:39:12,800 --> 01:39:15,679
Speaker 2: the tough environment. We had several suicides at Georgia Tech,

1892
01:39:15,720 --> 01:39:19,080
Speaker 2: and we as students total the departments about the toxic

1893
01:39:19,120 --> 01:39:22,240
Speaker 2: work yourself to death. Culture needs to change. Yeah, it's

1894
01:39:22,320 --> 01:39:25,639
Speaker 2: just that's the thing that's like, I'm on the kids

1895
01:39:25,760 --> 01:39:31,479
Speaker 2: side on this. I just wonder. I just think it's

1896
01:39:31,520 --> 01:39:36,760
Speaker 2: gonna take a total re read word am I looking for.

1897
01:39:37,320 --> 01:39:42,160
Speaker 2: It's gonna take a complete complete overhaul of what people

1898
01:39:42,240 --> 01:39:47,599
Speaker 2: think college. What makes a college good? Right, That's what

1899
01:39:47,640 --> 01:39:49,559
Speaker 2: I meant. I guess that's the simplest way to say

1900
01:39:49,560 --> 01:39:51,960
Speaker 2: what I was trying to say last week. And I

1901
01:39:52,000 --> 01:39:55,280
Speaker 2: think most people can understand that what makes a college

1902
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Speaker 2: good to a lot of people is what makes people

1903
01:39:59,160 --> 01:40:03,800
Speaker 2: mentally break and that and you can't have both in

1904
01:40:03,840 --> 01:40:06,519
Speaker 2: my opinion, and so I would love to see those

1905
01:40:06,600 --> 01:40:10,599
Speaker 2: kids win, but I also think it won't matter unless

1906
01:40:10,600 --> 01:40:14,679
Speaker 2: the college changes the very nature of what it means

1907
01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:17,000
Speaker 2: to be like Ivy League and shit, I agreed.

1908
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Speaker 1: Uh.

1909
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Speaker 2: Keith just says it's always about the money, and Jane says,

1910
01:40:22,200 --> 01:40:25,400
Speaker 2: obviously wishing well at the reading Twitter comments on HBCUs

1911
01:40:25,479 --> 01:40:28,559
Speaker 2: versus Pwit debate and people dragging on Shannon Sharp, I'm

1912
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Speaker 2: staying away from this, like how I voted. It's giving

1913
01:40:31,160 --> 01:40:36,040
Speaker 2: me a headache. I feel, yeah, it got it got

1914
01:40:36,040 --> 01:40:39,040
Speaker 2: to be a bit much. I found everybody going too

1915
01:40:39,200 --> 01:40:42,520
Speaker 2: hard one way or the other to be mildly annoying

1916
01:40:43,320 --> 01:40:45,320
Speaker 2: to be frank. It was just like, Okay, so you

1917
01:40:45,439 --> 01:40:50,639
Speaker 2: just completely are just completely don't understand the other side

1918
01:40:50,640 --> 01:40:53,640
Speaker 2: of this at all. That seems a bit of a reach, like, right,

1919
01:40:54,000 --> 01:40:56,600
Speaker 2: you everyone should be understanding being able to understand the

1920
01:40:56,640 --> 01:40:58,840
Speaker 2: other side of this one. This ain't that deep to me,

1921
01:40:59,760 --> 01:41:02,920
Speaker 2: Like like he got a better job for more money,

1922
01:41:03,080 --> 01:41:08,760
Speaker 2: totally makes sense. He definitely lied and overplayed and over

1923
01:41:08,800 --> 01:41:11,719
Speaker 2: sold some shit and use some of the race rhetoric.

1924
01:41:12,120 --> 01:41:14,200
Speaker 2: Definitely makes sense. People will feel away about it. Don't

1925
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Speaker 2: understand how it ain't that supple right. Episode twenty six

1926
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Speaker 2: forty two, Sneaky LinkedIn Appia says here gas is also

1927
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Speaker 2: lower again. It's still higher than it used to be

1928
01:41:23,720 --> 01:41:26,479
Speaker 2: maybe a year ago, but it went down a lot. Yes,

1929
01:41:27,280 --> 01:41:33,120
Speaker 2: in America is back to before Putin invaded Ukraine. That's

1930
01:41:33,160 --> 01:41:35,880
Speaker 2: still higher than it used to be, but less than

1931
01:41:36,000 --> 01:41:39,040
Speaker 2: it was at the highest. Eve says they've been proposing

1932
01:41:39,080 --> 01:41:41,519
Speaker 2: real ID since nine to eleven. At this point, I

1933
01:41:41,520 --> 01:41:43,920
Speaker 2: don't think it's ever gonna happen. Besides, it's a hassle

1934
01:41:44,000 --> 01:41:46,040
Speaker 2: to actually get one in my state. They cost more,

1935
01:41:46,360 --> 01:41:48,840
Speaker 2: and not all the license centers can do them, so

1936
01:41:48,880 --> 01:41:51,760
Speaker 2: they're not always inconvenient locations, and since you only really

1937
01:41:51,760 --> 01:41:54,160
Speaker 2: need them to fly, a lot of people just won't

1938
01:41:54,160 --> 01:41:57,880
Speaker 2: get them. Yep, I got see that too, right, all

1939
01:41:57,920 --> 01:41:59,840
Speaker 2: to keep the quarter a crocked terrace off the plane.

1940
01:42:00,520 --> 01:42:03,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna have the vast majority of population not

1941
01:42:03,280 --> 01:42:06,519
Speaker 1: get one, not investing one, just like the vast majority

1942
01:42:06,600 --> 01:42:11,080
Speaker 1: of the and the population doesn't have like, uh, passports,

1943
01:42:11,080 --> 01:42:12,280
Speaker 1: but they have driver's licenses.

1944
01:42:12,280 --> 01:42:13,240
Speaker 2: Why is my driver.

1945
01:42:13,120 --> 01:42:15,479
Speaker 1: License valid enough because it's going through your system?

1946
01:42:16,280 --> 01:42:22,200
Speaker 2: Uh? And then comments on the YouTube Carrie Moon one said,

1947
01:42:22,280 --> 01:42:27,360
Speaker 2: sounds like hurts hurts always using the price, my mom says.

1948
01:42:27,960 --> 01:42:29,800
Speaker 2: My mom says he got that twinkle in his eyes

1949
01:42:29,800 --> 01:42:32,880
Speaker 2: when he talking and smiling. Come on over here, a girl,

1950
01:42:32,920 --> 01:42:36,200
Speaker 2: I got to twinkle in my pants too. Sorry about

1951
01:42:36,240 --> 01:42:41,759
Speaker 2: TJ Holmes sneaky LinkedIn the way I we says sugar

1952
01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:45,840
Speaker 2: and spice for thank you, glad you enjoyed that one.

1953
01:42:46,400 --> 01:42:48,760
Speaker 2: And I think that's all the comments for some reason

1954
01:42:48,880 --> 01:42:51,040
Speaker 2: telling me it's four comments, but I only see, Oh

1955
01:42:51,360 --> 01:42:55,360
Speaker 2: what if some are in spam? Okay, give me one

1956
01:42:55,360 --> 01:42:58,839
Speaker 2: second to see if there's some type of comment that didn't.

1957
01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:01,719
Speaker 1: Get it was like I'll recognize you, Yeah.

1958
01:43:01,720 --> 01:43:06,960
Speaker 2: I know. Sometimes they have things where like the comment

1959
01:43:07,760 --> 01:43:10,000
Speaker 2: is held for moderation.

1960
01:43:10,439 --> 01:43:11,040
Speaker 1: To prove it.

1961
01:43:11,640 --> 01:43:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so once it's hell for moderation. Yeah, like

1962
01:43:15,080 --> 01:43:17,519
Speaker 2: if someone and who knows somebody be clicking on this

1963
01:43:17,560 --> 01:43:20,960
Speaker 2: ship and it's gonna be like I hate you blacks,

1964
01:43:20,960 --> 01:43:27,320
Speaker 2: you know, I don't I don't know, I don't know. Okay,

1965
01:43:27,400 --> 01:43:29,360
Speaker 2: it's not hell for moderation. I don't know. For some reason,

1966
01:43:29,360 --> 01:43:32,719
Speaker 2: it's just not showing one person's comment did not get shown.

1967
01:43:32,920 --> 01:43:34,280
Speaker 1: Were sorry for the one person?

1968
01:43:34,600 --> 01:43:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, buddy, we didn't get it all right. Back

1969
01:43:38,040 --> 01:43:41,760
Speaker 2: to the poll, which is real will real id ever

1970
01:43:41,840 --> 01:43:45,679
Speaker 2: be in forced? Yes or no?

1971
01:43:45,680 --> 01:43:45,800
Speaker 1: No?

1972
01:43:46,520 --> 01:43:49,080
Speaker 2: Forty two percent of people say yes, fifty eight percent

1973
01:43:49,120 --> 01:43:55,040
Speaker 2: of people say no. It's fifty fifty on Spotify. Uh,

1974
01:43:55,680 --> 01:44:01,120
Speaker 2: lou tell us no is the comment. Steve and says, damn,

1975
01:44:01,400 --> 01:44:04,240
Speaker 2: what's with the big dig against mechanics. Shit, we can

1976
01:44:04,280 --> 01:44:07,600
Speaker 2: be excellent too, lous all love sorry about that. You

1977
01:44:07,600 --> 01:44:10,800
Speaker 2: know somebody had to catch a straight. Jay says, I

1978
01:44:10,840 --> 01:44:12,920
Speaker 2: think it went more like littelius.

1979
01:44:13,000 --> 01:44:14,320
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes.

1980
01:44:16,080 --> 01:44:18,880
Speaker 2: White Family says this episode is double flame emojis. I

1981
01:44:19,000 --> 01:44:20,920
Speaker 2: was yesterday years old when I found out that Amy

1982
01:44:21,000 --> 01:44:24,040
Speaker 2: Robox axes Andrew Shoe, who is the younger brother of

1983
01:44:24,080 --> 01:44:28,519
Speaker 2: actress of hollywo Hollywood hollow Man and the Boys Fame

1984
01:44:28,560 --> 01:44:32,200
Speaker 2: Elizabeth Shoe. Love the show. Ms. Mary Smile says we

1985
01:44:32,280 --> 01:44:35,360
Speaker 2: need merch, with Karen saying oh no, and her emphathatic

1986
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Speaker 2: emphat emphatic right.

1987
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Speaker 4: Oh.

1988
01:44:40,720 --> 01:44:45,000
Speaker 2: Adabola says I wonder how many of these people are

1989
01:44:45,000 --> 01:44:48,879
Speaker 2: mad Deon Sanders for leaving the HBCU also supporting defend Kanye.

1990
01:44:49,479 --> 01:44:51,519
Speaker 2: I just feel like people are pro black when they

1991
01:44:51,560 --> 01:44:56,200
Speaker 2: want to be in dependent on the logic huh man, damn.

1992
01:44:56,920 --> 01:44:58,720
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be honest, I would need to see the

1993
01:44:58,760 --> 01:45:01,280
Speaker 2: overlap on that vandager. I don't think those circle, at

1994
01:45:01,360 --> 01:45:03,799
Speaker 2: least from what I've seen. I don't think those circles overlap.

1995
01:45:04,760 --> 01:45:07,559
Speaker 2: But who knows, you know what I'm saying, Like, I

1996
01:45:07,560 --> 01:45:09,639
Speaker 2: guess there's a type of hotel that would be mad,

1997
01:45:10,520 --> 01:45:12,120
Speaker 2: you know what. I don't dig in them circles, so

1998
01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:14,760
Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe you're right. I just do not

1999
01:45:14,800 --> 01:45:18,680
Speaker 2: fuck with them people bothe You know, if you if

2000
01:45:18,680 --> 01:45:20,760
Speaker 2: you've been defending Kanye, I actually don't know what you've

2001
01:45:20,800 --> 01:45:21,200
Speaker 2: been up to.

2002
01:45:21,320 --> 01:45:23,320
Speaker 1: So I have no idea what you've been up from.

2003
01:45:23,320 --> 01:45:27,720
Speaker 2: Well, I think doctor Umar was on Doctor Umar was

2004
01:45:27,760 --> 01:45:30,439
Speaker 2: on the Breakfast Club, so he's probably definitely one of

2005
01:45:30,479 --> 01:45:34,120
Speaker 2: the people that defended Who's mad at Deon Sanders for

2006
01:45:34,240 --> 01:45:38,400
Speaker 2: leaving a black university and probably did defend Kanye's anti

2007
01:45:38,479 --> 01:45:40,599
Speaker 2: Jewish shit. I can see, but I don't know too

2008
01:45:40,600 --> 01:45:43,840
Speaker 2: many people like him, He's a rarity. Roger says, I

2009
01:45:43,880 --> 01:45:46,840
Speaker 2: wonder if his wife got her superpowers on December twenty first,

2010
01:45:46,880 --> 01:45:51,040
Speaker 2: twenty twenty. If so, I'm calling corporate James the black

2011
01:45:51,080 --> 01:45:55,519
Speaker 2: Woman's superpower. Jane says his soon to be ex wife,

2012
01:45:55,520 --> 01:45:58,640
Speaker 2: who happens to be a lawyer, would ask Alexa to

2013
01:45:58,680 --> 01:46:01,519
Speaker 2: please play Junior Mafia's get money while counting her divorced

2014
01:46:01,560 --> 01:46:04,080
Speaker 2: money and securing the back. TJ shouldn't shouldn't should have

2015
01:46:04,120 --> 01:46:08,200
Speaker 2: known better, and Raphael says TJ Holmes brother, Now, if

2016
01:46:08,240 --> 01:46:11,000
Speaker 2: he had gone for a pog, I would have offered

2017
01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:15,519
Speaker 2: him a holiday discount, holiday discount on the Vanilla Morning

2018
01:46:15,600 --> 01:46:21,439
Speaker 2: Side NFT launching in January twenty twenty three, discount to

2019
01:46:21,520 --> 01:46:28,120
Speaker 2: all Decades Challenge participants. Hilarious. All right, let's go to

2020
01:46:28,160 --> 01:46:33,639
Speaker 2: the last episode of the week, which is Penophobic Episode

2021
01:46:33,680 --> 01:46:39,759
Speaker 2: twenty six forty three got four comments. Let's see Brooklyn

2022
01:46:39,800 --> 01:46:41,439
Speaker 2: shoe Ba says, I need the full story from the

2023
01:46:41,439 --> 01:46:43,960
Speaker 2: person who voted yes in the poll. It may be

2024
01:46:44,040 --> 01:46:46,240
Speaker 2: that house nurse and then Shan says, it may be

2025
01:46:46,320 --> 01:46:49,200
Speaker 2: that house nurse from Curby Enthusiasm Season five, episode eight.

2026
01:46:49,600 --> 01:46:54,000
Speaker 2: Listen to this podcast because the poe was, have you

2027
01:46:54,040 --> 01:46:56,519
Speaker 2: ever lost a job due to your genital size? Yes?

2028
01:46:56,640 --> 01:46:59,600
Speaker 2: Or no? And maybe he's talking about the nurse that

2029
01:46:59,640 --> 01:47:04,679
Speaker 2: had a wide vagina. Appia from Germany says, we didn't

2030
01:47:04,680 --> 01:47:07,200
Speaker 2: get COVID for the second time yet, it's really surprising.

2031
01:47:07,439 --> 01:47:08,880
Speaker 2: Let's see how the rest of the winner will go.

2032
01:47:09,439 --> 01:47:11,840
Speaker 2: Eve He says that penis God probably wears super tight

2033
01:47:11,880 --> 01:47:13,960
Speaker 2: pants because even if it's as big as he claims,

2034
01:47:14,280 --> 01:47:16,280
Speaker 2: can't he strap it into your thigh or something. I

2035
01:47:16,280 --> 01:47:19,120
Speaker 2: don't have a penis, so I don't know how I feel.

2036
01:47:20,479 --> 01:47:20,639
Speaker 5: Now.

2037
01:47:20,680 --> 01:47:22,360
Speaker 2: Don't they make boxes with penis pockets?

2038
01:47:22,360 --> 01:47:22,519
Speaker 1: Now?

2039
01:47:22,680 --> 01:47:25,360
Speaker 2: Shit? Sounds like he wants everyone to know his thing

2040
01:47:25,479 --> 01:47:27,559
Speaker 2: is thanging. I think so too. I mean, he called

2041
01:47:27,560 --> 01:47:30,200
Speaker 2: the news, you know, like you did a documentary.

2042
01:47:30,240 --> 01:47:30,439
Speaker 4: Sir.

2043
01:47:30,720 --> 01:47:34,639
Speaker 2: This is not the way to downplay your penis. Kim

2044
01:47:34,720 --> 01:47:36,599
Speaker 2: doc says, hey, y'all. So, my best friend asked if

2045
01:47:36,600 --> 01:47:39,080
Speaker 2: I believed in voting, like truly believed in it. The

2046
01:47:39,160 --> 01:47:41,320
Speaker 2: truth is I don't. I don't really even believe in

2047
01:47:41,320 --> 01:47:44,080
Speaker 2: the Constitution because where are the new amendments. They should

2048
01:47:44,160 --> 01:47:47,160
Speaker 2: still be adding to them since the country has changed

2049
01:47:47,160 --> 01:47:49,439
Speaker 2: since whatever they hell the last amendment actually was but

2050
01:47:49,479 --> 01:47:51,240
Speaker 2: my answer is similar to a sentiment. I feel like

2051
01:47:51,320 --> 01:47:53,599
Speaker 2: Rod Shad a few years back. I want power. I

2052
01:47:53,600 --> 01:47:55,080
Speaker 2: want all the power on the side that is at

2053
01:47:55,120 --> 01:47:57,040
Speaker 2: least trying to benefit the ideas that matter to me,

2054
01:47:57,400 --> 01:47:59,760
Speaker 2: and I do not want the other side to have it.

2055
01:48:00,080 --> 01:48:02,080
Speaker 2: We see what their agenda is when they get powered.

2056
01:48:02,120 --> 01:48:04,560
Speaker 2: They do not walk into gum. They want to investigate

2057
01:48:04,600 --> 01:48:07,400
Speaker 2: and not legislate. What the fuck does the laptop have

2058
01:48:07,439 --> 01:48:09,599
Speaker 2: to do with helping their states. It's only a priority

2059
01:48:09,640 --> 01:48:12,240
Speaker 2: to dirty of Biden the way they did Hillary. Anyway,

2060
01:48:12,400 --> 01:48:14,320
Speaker 2: that was my answer. Listen to your show and strengthen

2061
01:48:14,360 --> 01:48:16,439
Speaker 2: my civics and heart for social justice. Thank you and

2062
01:48:16,479 --> 01:48:19,559
Speaker 2: congrat all your success, truly, all love Kim doc slash

2063
01:48:19,560 --> 01:48:26,080
Speaker 2: Money Yeah, man, Like I think you'd be hard pressed

2064
01:48:26,080 --> 01:48:32,439
Speaker 2: to find black people that believed in America patriotism, voting

2065
01:48:32,479 --> 01:48:35,599
Speaker 2: the Constitution, all that stuff in the way that white

2066
01:48:35,680 --> 01:48:41,120
Speaker 2: people tend to advertise their belief in faith in America,

2067
01:48:41,680 --> 01:48:45,720
Speaker 2: you know, the whole best country in the world. Democracy.

2068
01:48:46,360 --> 01:48:50,479
Speaker 2: We've we have lived too many of their lives to

2069
01:48:50,920 --> 01:48:53,840
Speaker 2: act as if they are telling the truth, right, because

2070
01:48:53,880 --> 01:48:58,439
Speaker 2: as they can tell themselves something patriotic, we almost one

2071
01:48:58,520 --> 01:49:01,760
Speaker 2: hundred percent of time to they can go and say,

2072
01:49:02,120 --> 01:49:05,719
Speaker 2: but that wasn't true for us, right, So I don't

2073
01:49:05,720 --> 01:49:10,160
Speaker 2: think any of us, did you All black people are

2074
01:49:10,200 --> 01:49:14,040
Speaker 2: pragmatic and cynical to when compared to white counterparts to

2075
01:49:14,120 --> 01:49:18,200
Speaker 2: a certain extent. And I think there's some that have

2076
01:49:18,360 --> 01:49:21,400
Speaker 2: managed to like grift their ways into certain circles. But

2077
01:49:21,520 --> 01:49:23,959
Speaker 2: even when I see them, I don't believe they're real believers.

2078
01:49:24,040 --> 01:49:25,880
Speaker 2: Like when I see that Brianna Joy Gray person, I

2079
01:49:25,920 --> 01:49:28,000
Speaker 2: don't think she really believed what she'd be talking about.

2080
01:49:28,400 --> 01:49:31,120
Speaker 2: I say, she's just hustling, because there's no black people

2081
01:49:31,120 --> 01:49:36,240
Speaker 2: that really truly think socialism is coming and racism will

2082
01:49:36,360 --> 01:49:39,639
Speaker 2: end and everyone will be grade and it'll all works

2083
01:49:39,640 --> 01:49:41,880
Speaker 2: itself out. And you can tell because like even when

2084
01:49:41,880 --> 01:49:44,759
Speaker 2: around Brianna Joy Gray, when something racist happens with her colleagues,

2085
01:49:44,800 --> 01:49:48,040
Speaker 2: she just ignored. Like so that's still the cost of

2086
01:49:48,120 --> 01:49:51,040
Speaker 2: doing business over there is She's never gonna be outspoken

2087
01:49:51,080 --> 01:49:54,000
Speaker 2: about anything. The only time her being a black woman

2088
01:49:54,040 --> 01:49:57,960
Speaker 2: comes up is when someone criticizes her who's black and goes, hey,

2089
01:49:58,000 --> 01:49:59,880
Speaker 2: I noticed that you've led a lot of racist shits,

2090
01:50:00,320 --> 01:50:03,479
Speaker 2: or I noticed that you're you know, whatever, you said

2091
01:50:03,560 --> 01:50:05,280
Speaker 2: was fucked up. Then it's like I'm a black woman.

2092
01:50:05,960 --> 01:50:07,920
Speaker 2: All that to say, not to single her out, but

2093
01:50:08,080 --> 01:50:12,120
Speaker 2: she is an example of what I think even someone

2094
01:50:12,280 --> 01:50:15,799
Speaker 2: like that I would never believe was one hundred percent.

2095
01:50:16,040 --> 01:50:19,200
Speaker 2: Like you know, we we do the things that we

2096
01:50:19,240 --> 01:50:22,840
Speaker 2: think will help, but none of us we have our

2097
01:50:23,200 --> 01:50:25,680
Speaker 2: experience too much of the things that are supposed to

2098
01:50:25,760 --> 01:50:31,120
Speaker 2: work not working. Let's see and then we got let's

2099
01:50:31,120 --> 01:50:34,799
Speaker 2: see comments on the web site, I mean on YouTube.

2100
01:50:34,800 --> 01:50:38,080
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, those are the comments on the website YouTube

2101
01:50:38,320 --> 01:50:42,599
Speaker 2: or any comments? No comments? Okay? Cool. The poll was

2102
01:50:43,400 --> 01:50:45,280
Speaker 2: have you ever lost a job to be a general size?

2103
01:50:45,360 --> 01:50:47,320
Speaker 2: Yes or no? Or I never had a job?

2104
01:50:48,520 --> 01:50:48,640
Speaker 1: Uh?

2105
01:50:49,200 --> 01:50:52,880
Speaker 2: Ten percent say yes and ninety percent said no. Now

2106
01:50:52,880 --> 01:50:56,040
Speaker 2: it's only two people on the website on the poll

2107
01:50:56,240 --> 01:51:02,240
Speaker 2: for Spotify. Nine percent yes, zero percent never had a job.

2108
01:51:02,640 --> 01:51:04,720
Speaker 1: So oh, they can't a job. You there talking about

2109
01:51:04,720 --> 01:51:05,439
Speaker 1: the people with the money.

2110
01:51:05,560 --> 01:51:07,519
Speaker 2: So it seemed like about ten percent of people.

2111
01:51:07,600 --> 01:51:09,120
Speaker 1: It was like, ain't no bro boys over here?

2112
01:51:09,320 --> 01:51:12,320
Speaker 2: Ten percent of people. Now my question is how I.

2113
01:51:12,240 --> 01:51:14,599
Speaker 1: Don't know the people that Spotify is like, you got

2114
01:51:14,600 --> 01:51:16,960
Speaker 1: to have a jay yo be if you gotta be

2115
01:51:17,240 --> 01:51:19,080
Speaker 1: with me, that's the model.

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01:51:19,240 --> 01:51:21,320
Speaker 2: I'm just wondering if somebody like pulled, they dick out

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01:51:21,400 --> 01:51:22,080
Speaker 2: or some shit like.

2118
01:51:22,000 --> 01:51:23,599
Speaker 1: What what's happening?

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01:51:24,479 --> 01:51:27,559
Speaker 2: Uh, let's see in she and slavery? Now is the

2120
01:51:27,640 --> 01:51:30,880
Speaker 2: comment Say says could have freed a thousand she in

2121
01:51:31,000 --> 01:51:34,960
Speaker 2: slaves if I'd only pay for shipping and Hammon Uh,

2122
01:51:35,080 --> 01:51:39,000
Speaker 2: Kisser says, please, Langston says Rob, Please, for the love

2123
01:51:39,040 --> 01:51:40,360
Speaker 2: of all that is good in the world, save the

2124
01:51:40,400 --> 01:51:43,040
Speaker 2: sound clip of the white man love it MLK, hold

2125
01:51:43,080 --> 01:51:44,920
Speaker 2: it tight because that's funny as hell to me. Oh,

2126
01:51:44,960 --> 01:51:47,200
Speaker 2: I've been saved it. I loved it. I love it.

2127
01:51:47,240 --> 01:51:50,120
Speaker 2: I just rarely, very rarely is there a reason use it?

2128
01:51:50,320 --> 01:51:52,519
Speaker 1: Like, but that was a perfect chance to pull it

2129
01:51:52,560 --> 01:51:53,680
Speaker 1: out the crates.

2130
01:51:53,360 --> 01:51:56,599
Speaker 2: Darn Rovel was in his motherfucking bag that day, y'all

2131
01:51:57,160 --> 01:52:00,280
Speaker 2: he did that. He's like, a white man can't love

2132
01:52:00,400 --> 01:52:04,280
Speaker 2: m o K. Like what you woke up and thought

2133
01:52:04,320 --> 01:52:07,000
Speaker 2: that was a good thing to say. I'm sorry.

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01:52:07,160 --> 01:52:10,639
Speaker 6: I'm sorry if people think that a white man can't

2135
01:52:10,720 --> 01:52:15,639
Speaker 6: enjoy black history. I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I really am.

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01:52:16,080 --> 01:52:19,920
Speaker 6: I'm sorry as people think that a white man uh

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01:52:20,240 --> 01:52:23,200
Speaker 6: can't uh love Martin Luther King?

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01:52:24,439 --> 01:52:29,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, Uh, that that is so good? So good. And

2139
01:52:29,800 --> 01:52:30,920
Speaker 2: then of course this one too.

2140
01:52:31,120 --> 01:52:31,559
Speaker 1: You got me.

2141
01:52:32,080 --> 01:52:33,040
Speaker 2: That one is so good.

2142
01:52:33,240 --> 01:52:34,760
Speaker 1: Yes, you got me, you got me.

2143
01:52:34,960 --> 01:52:39,519
Speaker 2: There's nothing better than There's nothing whiter than that. Kaylane says,

2144
01:52:39,560 --> 01:52:43,040
Speaker 2: I remember when Karen's called it, the called it, called

2145
01:52:43,080 --> 01:52:46,120
Speaker 2: it in the robots. She be knowing for sure she

2146
01:52:46,160 --> 01:52:50,280
Speaker 2: did call it. Lee says, I don't know about that. Honestly, though,

2147
01:52:50,280 --> 01:52:52,680
Speaker 2: if she and stops her slavery, the next company will

2148
01:52:52,720 --> 01:52:54,760
Speaker 2: come in and just do the same thing she and

2149
01:52:54,840 --> 01:52:56,600
Speaker 2: slavery is wrong. But you have to go to the

2150
01:52:56,680 --> 01:52:59,200
Speaker 2: root of the issue. Well, you can't get to the

2151
01:52:59,240 --> 01:53:03,040
Speaker 2: root if you don't start. Was she in first? I mean, listen,

2152
01:53:03,080 --> 01:53:04,920
Speaker 2: they don't want to invest in the fifteen million in

2153
01:53:04,960 --> 01:53:09,280
Speaker 2: their facilities, not me. Raphaela says Karen was on fire.

2154
01:53:09,520 --> 01:53:12,800
Speaker 2: I moved to motion to retrieve her name back from

2155
01:53:12,840 --> 01:53:15,519
Speaker 2: the Whites. I'm so dedicated to this cause that I've

2156
01:53:15,600 --> 01:53:18,200
Speaker 2: even begun a GoFundMe to achieve this mission. Let's get

2157
01:53:18,200 --> 01:53:20,719
Speaker 2: it done, safe travels, let's get it done. Don't donate

2158
01:53:20,760 --> 01:53:24,920
Speaker 2: to this gofund me. Guys, scam so scam is a trap.

2159
01:53:25,080 --> 01:53:29,200
Speaker 2: Don't don't don't, don't fall for it. Everybody, all right,

2160
01:53:29,320 --> 01:53:34,599
Speaker 2: let's go ahead and get into the voicemails, all right,

2161
01:53:34,640 --> 01:53:37,080
Speaker 2: So the voicemail line seven O four five five seven

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01:53:37,160 --> 01:53:39,960
Speaker 2: zero one eight six. Make sure it's two minutes or less.

2163
01:53:39,960 --> 01:53:41,639
Speaker 2: You'll get cut off and then you'll be a weirdo

2164
01:53:41,720 --> 01:53:43,800
Speaker 2: that has to call back more than once. Here's the

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01:53:43,800 --> 01:53:50,920
Speaker 2: first voicemail for Katrina and this is from November thirtieth,

2166
01:53:51,160 --> 01:53:53,639
Speaker 2: So this is a little bit old Ben a while

2167
01:53:53,720 --> 01:53:54,519
Speaker 2: since he did a show.

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01:53:56,840 --> 01:54:01,519
Speaker 5: Hi, Karen and rod Isa, And this way of calling

2169
01:54:01,600 --> 01:54:05,639
Speaker 5: in is much easier for me than emailing, even though

2170
01:54:05,640 --> 01:54:08,400
Speaker 5: I'm kind of laborn. But I just parted listening to

2171
01:54:09,040 --> 01:54:13,320
Speaker 5: the last show, and I want to talk about your

2172
01:54:13,320 --> 01:54:19,160
Speaker 5: discussion of the article about men not having friendships, you know,

2173
01:54:19,360 --> 01:54:23,040
Speaker 5: just not engaging a lot. And I agree with so

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01:54:23,160 --> 01:54:25,960
Speaker 5: much of what you said. There's one thing, a word

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01:54:26,080 --> 01:54:29,759
Speaker 5: really that Rob. You used a couple of time labor

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01:54:30,120 --> 01:54:35,040
Speaker 5: and emotional labor, and it was rubbing me wrong because

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01:54:36,000 --> 01:54:38,880
Speaker 5: I thought about it and I was like, when we're

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01:54:38,920 --> 01:54:42,520
Speaker 5: in relationship that we want to be in, whether they

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01:54:42,600 --> 01:54:47,960
Speaker 5: be friendships or you know, marriage or famillion familial ones,

2180
01:54:48,320 --> 01:54:50,680
Speaker 5: just something that we want to be in. Yeah, sometimes

2181
01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:55,520
Speaker 5: it does feel hard because emotions we're experiencing or distress

2182
01:54:55,560 --> 01:54:59,200
Speaker 5: from life is not good. But to call it emotional

2183
01:54:59,720 --> 01:55:03,880
Speaker 5: labor or labor that we're putting in does increase the

2184
01:55:04,240 --> 01:55:09,200
Speaker 5: transactional dynamics, which is already a problem people have these

2185
01:55:09,320 --> 01:55:13,560
Speaker 5: days and thinking about our relationship, speak to each other

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01:55:13,600 --> 01:55:17,040
Speaker 5: and how we treat each other. To me, it's effort

2187
01:55:17,200 --> 01:55:21,160
Speaker 5: and it's energy that you're putting in, not necessarily labor.

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01:55:21,600 --> 01:55:26,880
Speaker 5: I associate labor with again transaction I give and a

2189
01:55:26,880 --> 01:55:31,800
Speaker 5: reward or compensation at the end, and I think relationships

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01:55:31,800 --> 01:55:35,840
Speaker 5: that we choose to be in shouldn't be looked.

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01:55:35,560 --> 01:55:36,240
Speaker 2: At that way.

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01:55:36,960 --> 01:55:40,280
Speaker 5: So yeah, I guess this is more like a me thing.

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01:55:40,440 --> 01:55:43,920
Speaker 5: I'm not folding you. I'm just saying that what it

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01:55:44,040 --> 01:55:47,480
Speaker 5: made me think of that. Yeah, to me, it's effort

2195
01:55:47,640 --> 01:55:52,000
Speaker 5: and energy and not labor. Okay, I hope you guys

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01:55:52,000 --> 01:55:54,080
Speaker 5: are while it's all I wanted to say, Okay, love you.

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01:55:55,600 --> 01:55:58,720
Speaker 2: More. Voicemail. Let me just play it and then you

2198
01:55:58,760 --> 01:56:02,680
Speaker 2: can go. First look at me.

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01:56:02,760 --> 01:56:08,600
Speaker 5: I'm turning into the afia of voicemail. I forgot I

2200
01:56:08,640 --> 01:56:12,120
Speaker 5: had one other thing from the show. To break up

2201
01:56:12,200 --> 01:56:16,600
Speaker 5: the discussion about Lizzo. You guys are on point and exactly.

2202
01:56:16,800 --> 01:56:21,360
Speaker 5: It really bothers me when people try to invent the

2203
01:56:21,440 --> 01:56:26,640
Speaker 5: hyteria for blackness, especially in music, and that if it's

2204
01:56:26,680 --> 01:56:29,440
Speaker 5: not you know, ladies, things are blues, or you're not

2205
01:56:29,520 --> 01:56:33,960
Speaker 5: talking about protests, or you're not talking about some kind

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01:56:34,040 --> 01:56:37,960
Speaker 5: of oppressions, that somehow your music or your show or

2207
01:56:37,960 --> 01:56:41,720
Speaker 5: whatever isn't black, And that's a really dangerous association with

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01:56:41,960 --> 01:56:47,520
Speaker 5: blackness and black people. Sometimes it happens with like class issues,

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01:56:47,560 --> 01:56:53,040
Speaker 5: that it's not about poverty, or you're not some you know,

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01:56:53,240 --> 01:56:57,240
Speaker 5: showing things like that from a specific angle of blackness,

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01:56:57,280 --> 01:57:02,120
Speaker 5: and somehow your shit is left authentic. And because Lizzo

2212
01:57:02,280 --> 01:57:06,160
Speaker 5: doesn't sing about those topics, if you listen to the

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01:57:06,240 --> 01:57:10,240
Speaker 5: lyrics of her music, is very black experience. The same

2214
01:57:10,280 --> 01:57:13,880
Speaker 5: thing happened in a different way with Beyonce when she

2215
01:57:14,200 --> 01:57:17,680
Speaker 5: hit the Lemonade Stride. Then suddenly people are like, oh,

2216
01:57:17,760 --> 01:57:20,680
Speaker 5: Beyonce is black. Now, she's always been black. She's been

2217
01:57:20,720 --> 01:57:24,320
Speaker 5: singing about black ass shit since Destiny's Child, but specifically

2218
01:57:24,400 --> 01:57:31,360
Speaker 5: she got more outspoken about oppression and and you know,

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01:57:31,400 --> 01:57:37,920
Speaker 5: sort of like linking historical movements and intergenerational trauma around

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01:57:37,960 --> 01:57:41,240
Speaker 5: some shit. And then suddenly her music became black when

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01:57:41,800 --> 01:57:45,080
Speaker 5: the self titled album was black Foo when she was

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01:57:45,080 --> 01:57:48,320
Speaker 5: thinking about feminism and things that women you know, go through,

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01:57:48,400 --> 01:57:50,480
Speaker 5: but no one really saw it that way. So we

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01:57:50,560 --> 01:57:55,240
Speaker 5: choose to see blackness and very specific experiences that I think,

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01:57:55,360 --> 01:57:57,600
Speaker 5: you know needs to be exam All right, let me

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01:57:57,640 --> 01:57:58,640
Speaker 5: go before the steps me up.

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Speaker 2: Bye. That was exactly two minutes. Canna say.

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01:58:02,760 --> 01:58:05,400
Speaker 1: Oh, what I was going to say is that they

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01:58:05,400 --> 01:58:08,680
Speaker 1: could be both. I understand what you're saying about. You know,

2230
01:58:08,800 --> 01:58:11,280
Speaker 1: the semantics own it, but they could be both because

2231
01:58:11,280 --> 01:58:15,480
Speaker 1: people underestimate when you say labor, it means effort. When

2232
01:58:15,480 --> 01:58:19,240
Speaker 1: you said labor, the reward is particularly emotional labor. The

2233
01:58:19,280 --> 01:58:22,440
Speaker 1: reward is you being a better person the reward and

2234
01:58:22,720 --> 01:58:26,360
Speaker 1: my this is just my definition of it, that's the reward.

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01:58:26,440 --> 01:58:30,480
Speaker 1: Because the thing about emotional labor is that, like I

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01:58:30,520 --> 01:58:34,040
Speaker 1: said before, most women, particularly straight women, I kind of

2237
01:58:34,120 --> 01:58:36,720
Speaker 1: taught these things. It's kind of built into us. These

2238
01:58:36,760 --> 01:58:38,600
Speaker 1: are the things that you need to do to make

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01:58:38,640 --> 01:58:42,040
Speaker 1: you a quote unquote a well rounded person. But when

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01:58:42,040 --> 01:58:44,960
Speaker 1: you're somebody who this, you've never been taught these things.

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01:58:45,040 --> 01:58:48,400
Speaker 1: It is gonna take labor. It's gonna take effort. It's

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01:58:48,440 --> 01:58:51,760
Speaker 1: gonna take something within you that some people just don't have.

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01:58:51,880 --> 01:58:55,240
Speaker 1: It's gonna take skills. Because the thing about labor, people

2244
01:58:55,280 --> 01:58:57,560
Speaker 1: when when you go to work, yes it is a transaction.

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01:58:57,840 --> 01:59:00,960
Speaker 1: The transaction is I'm a better person. You know. Sometimes

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01:59:00,960 --> 01:59:02,800
Speaker 1: when you people go labor, they always think it has

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01:59:02,880 --> 01:59:05,440
Speaker 1: to be something with money. But labor does not always

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01:59:05,560 --> 01:59:09,280
Speaker 1: have to be something that's financially that this a financial transaction.

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01:59:09,640 --> 01:59:13,000
Speaker 1: Sometimes the transaction could be something bigger or something better

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01:59:13,240 --> 01:59:15,800
Speaker 1: other than just money. A transaction. I put in this

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01:59:15,840 --> 01:59:18,720
Speaker 1: emotional labor the benefit I'm a better person, you know.

2252
01:59:18,800 --> 01:59:20,720
Speaker 1: I put in this a measure of the labor. Now

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01:59:20,840 --> 01:59:22,600
Speaker 1: I can talk better to my family and friends and

2254
01:59:22,640 --> 01:59:24,520
Speaker 1: things like that. Like I said, it's to me it's

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01:59:24,520 --> 01:59:27,840
Speaker 1: a semitic things, but to me they can actually be both.

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01:59:28,120 --> 01:59:30,880
Speaker 2: Okay and for me, I've made the point that she

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01:59:31,120 --> 01:59:34,120
Speaker 2: made just now. I don't know if it just got

2258
01:59:34,160 --> 01:59:37,839
Speaker 2: lost in the translation or I just use some shorthand

2259
01:59:37,920 --> 01:59:42,800
Speaker 2: for something. But I'm also not big and labeling things

2260
01:59:42,880 --> 01:59:48,320
Speaker 2: labor and friendships and relationships. I'm just not. I think

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01:59:49,000 --> 01:59:55,760
Speaker 2: it does lend itself to commodification. I think that being said,

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01:59:55,800 --> 01:59:58,200
Speaker 2: I think whatever you want to call it work in

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01:59:58,240 --> 01:59:59,960
Speaker 2: a relationship, if that's what you want to call it.

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02:00:00,400 --> 02:00:03,400
Speaker 2: I think it is due on both sides. I think

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02:00:03,640 --> 02:00:07,120
Speaker 2: once there's a person keeping a tally, it becomes something different.

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02:00:08,560 --> 02:00:12,280
Speaker 2: And if you're find yourself either keeping a tally or

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02:00:12,320 --> 02:00:16,320
Speaker 2: having a tally kept that you did not necessarily consent

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02:00:16,400 --> 02:00:19,400
Speaker 2: to or see it that way, it's probably best to

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02:00:19,440 --> 02:00:23,880
Speaker 2: separate yourself from that person because either you're keeping because

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02:00:24,240 --> 02:00:26,560
Speaker 2: I've known people that do this kind of pastor aggressive

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02:00:26,640 --> 02:00:30,360
Speaker 2: keeping tabs on shit, and I find that to be

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02:00:30,840 --> 02:00:33,720
Speaker 2: as infuriating as like the friend zone shit where it's

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02:00:33,760 --> 02:00:36,960
Speaker 2: just like I listen to you talk about your job

2274
02:00:37,200 --> 02:00:41,960
Speaker 2: and you're just like that. I thought that was a thing.

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02:00:42,080 --> 02:00:44,960
Speaker 2: Neither one of us would keep tabs on, you know

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02:00:45,000 --> 02:00:46,520
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So like, if I'm talking to you

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02:00:46,560 --> 02:00:49,880
Speaker 2: and I consider labor to be listening to you talk

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02:00:49,960 --> 02:00:54,160
Speaker 2: about your marriage, then I would say our relationship isn't

2279
02:00:54,160 --> 02:00:58,520
Speaker 2: that good because I've never kept a tally of stuff

2280
02:00:58,560 --> 02:01:00,320
Speaker 2: like that. You know, I either have a friend or

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02:01:00,320 --> 02:01:01,880
Speaker 2: I don't have a friend. We either talk about life

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02:01:01,960 --> 02:01:05,920
Speaker 2: or we don't talk about life. So I think the

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02:01:06,040 --> 02:01:08,839
Speaker 2: term emotional labor is shorthand in a lot of cases,

2284
02:01:08,840 --> 02:01:11,600
Speaker 2: but because of social media, it's become very front it's

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02:01:11,640 --> 02:01:15,840
Speaker 2: become very loaded as a term and weaponized as a term,

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02:01:16,080 --> 02:01:18,560
Speaker 2: and it's never truly defined. I just asked the chat

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02:01:18,640 --> 02:01:21,240
Speaker 2: right now, what are some examples of emotional labor to y'all?

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02:01:21,880 --> 02:01:23,800
Speaker 2: And I mean, we only have twenty people in the chat,

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02:01:23,800 --> 02:01:25,240
Speaker 2: I get it, so it's not a lot of people.

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02:01:25,240 --> 02:01:29,360
Speaker 2: But I haven't really seen people bring up any examples

2291
02:01:29,360 --> 02:01:32,320
Speaker 2: because I think it's gonna look just like what a

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02:01:32,360 --> 02:01:36,680
Speaker 2: friend would do for a friend, not like some specific

2293
02:01:36,720 --> 02:01:40,880
Speaker 2: thing you did for this person that they owe you

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02:01:40,920 --> 02:01:43,400
Speaker 2: for you should be compensated for. So yeah, I'm with

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02:01:43,440 --> 02:01:47,600
Speaker 2: her on just that term is a triggering. Not triggering

2296
02:01:48,040 --> 02:01:52,880
Speaker 2: is the term that I notice a lot, and I've

2297
02:01:53,000 --> 02:01:56,000
Speaker 2: seen used in some very cynical ways. So yeah, I

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02:01:56,000 --> 02:01:58,240
Speaker 2: am a bit wary of the term. I'm surprised that

2299
02:01:58,520 --> 02:02:01,760
Speaker 2: it must have either been in the article or something.

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02:02:01,800 --> 02:02:04,000
Speaker 2: But yeah, it's not a term I even use in

2301
02:02:04,000 --> 02:02:05,880
Speaker 2: my personal life. It's not a term I've ever said

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02:02:05,880 --> 02:02:06,839
Speaker 2: I've done for somebody.

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02:02:07,200 --> 02:02:12,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also, just listening to you talk, I unders

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02:02:13,240 --> 02:02:15,080
Speaker 1: I do still agree that it could be both. But

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02:02:15,160 --> 02:02:19,840
Speaker 1: also I understand the words do mean things, And I

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02:02:20,000 --> 02:02:24,160
Speaker 1: understand when it comes to quote unquote emotional labor, a

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02:02:24,200 --> 02:02:27,560
Speaker 1: lot of the labor part is put on women or

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02:02:27,760 --> 02:02:30,920
Speaker 1: in the relationship where it's like for a lot of

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02:02:30,960 --> 02:02:33,040
Speaker 1: men that go, well, this is quote unquote work. Now

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02:02:33,200 --> 02:02:34,120
Speaker 1: this is so.

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02:02:34,040 --> 02:02:36,720
Speaker 2: What are some examples you would say of emotional labor

2312
02:02:36,760 --> 02:02:40,240
Speaker 2: that these women are doing that men don't don't or

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02:02:40,280 --> 02:02:41,080
Speaker 2: care or won't.

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02:02:40,960 --> 02:02:43,760
Speaker 1: Do a lot of it is when it comes to

2315
02:02:44,880 --> 02:02:49,200
Speaker 1: this is just yeah, a lot of times when women

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02:02:49,240 --> 02:02:53,960
Speaker 1: have children, a lot of the children it's basically her

2317
02:02:54,120 --> 02:02:56,680
Speaker 1: a lot of times. But most households women do the cooking.

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02:02:57,280 --> 02:03:01,320
Speaker 2: So what you're describing to me is labor. It's not emotional.

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02:03:01,880 --> 02:03:06,120
Speaker 2: That's work, yes, child cares work, yes, But it's also.

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02:03:05,960 --> 02:03:09,800
Speaker 1: The emotional connection to the children, the emotional connection to

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02:03:09,840 --> 02:03:13,440
Speaker 1: your husband, everybody emotionally depending on you to always keep

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02:03:13,440 --> 02:03:15,880
Speaker 1: it together and lead them in the right direction. That

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02:03:15,880 --> 02:03:18,280
Speaker 1: that shit is emotional too to me, Like, it's more

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Speaker 1: than just the labor part. It's the labor and the

2325
02:03:20,400 --> 02:03:24,840
Speaker 1: emotion combined. Because the thing is, it's quote unquote what

2326
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Speaker 1: you because a lot of people have this thing. Once

2327
02:03:26,880 --> 02:03:28,880
Speaker 1: a woman has a child, you're supposed to just drop everything,

2328
02:03:28,920 --> 02:03:31,960
Speaker 1: and you're supposed to automatically just become this transformer, be

2329
02:03:32,000 --> 02:03:34,320
Speaker 1: this mother things, just have all these answers.

2330
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Speaker 2: So, okay, I find an interesting way you're going. We

2331
02:03:37,160 --> 02:03:40,640
Speaker 2: weren't talking about that. We're talking about friendships, men and

2332
02:03:40,680 --> 02:03:45,040
Speaker 2: their friendships, not relationships or you know what I'm saying.

2333
02:03:45,880 --> 02:03:49,080
Speaker 2: It wasn't about it was about men not having friends

2334
02:03:49,080 --> 02:03:52,040
Speaker 2: in this article. Remember what we talked about with the article.

2335
02:03:52,720 --> 02:03:56,760
Speaker 2: I agree with you about just labor in general, especially

2336
02:03:58,600 --> 02:04:03,840
Speaker 2: in a relationships had relationship, often women's labor and work

2337
02:04:03,920 --> 02:04:09,000
Speaker 2: being undervalued, underappreciated because it's women doing this specifically. We

2338
02:04:09,400 --> 02:04:12,960
Speaker 2: one hundred percent agree there. So in a friendship though, right,

2339
02:04:13,040 --> 02:04:16,600
Speaker 2: in a friendship, what would you call emotional labor? Not? So,

2340
02:04:16,680 --> 02:04:21,040
Speaker 2: I just want to take relationship of sexual stuff out

2341
02:04:21,080 --> 02:04:24,720
Speaker 2: and just go to straight like people being friends. If

2342
02:04:24,760 --> 02:04:27,120
Speaker 2: a man is a friend with a woman, what labor

2343
02:04:27,200 --> 02:04:30,240
Speaker 2: do you think they're talking about or what? Or just

2344
02:04:30,760 --> 02:04:32,320
Speaker 2: even a friend man with a man, what do you

2345
02:04:32,360 --> 02:04:34,560
Speaker 2: think emotional labor would be? And I'm not saying that

2346
02:04:34,600 --> 02:04:37,360
Speaker 2: they like set you up or nothing. I'm genuinely asking

2347
02:04:37,400 --> 02:04:39,880
Speaker 2: because I was trying to answer this question myself and

2348
02:04:39,920 --> 02:04:42,720
Speaker 2: I was drawing a blankets to what is emotional labor

2349
02:04:42,880 --> 02:04:44,640
Speaker 2: to me that I would pick out and be like

2350
02:04:44,720 --> 02:04:48,840
Speaker 2: this friend, I did emotional labor for this friend.

2351
02:04:49,560 --> 02:04:52,720
Speaker 1: And the reason why and maybe this is just something

2352
02:04:52,720 --> 02:04:54,800
Speaker 1: I'm getting hung olver. The reason why I keep saying

2353
02:04:54,840 --> 02:04:58,880
Speaker 1: that because the whole purpose was that men don't have

2354
02:04:58,920 --> 02:05:01,400
Speaker 1: these connections because and a lot of times we talked

2355
02:05:01,400 --> 02:05:04,600
Speaker 1: about like the relationship piece of it. And that's why

2356
02:05:04,640 --> 02:05:07,280
Speaker 1: I keep talking about when you when you talk about

2357
02:05:07,320 --> 02:05:09,520
Speaker 1: the labor piece, is it has to be a balance there.

2358
02:05:09,760 --> 02:05:13,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm conceding that in order for us to move on. Okay,

2359
02:05:13,360 --> 02:05:16,680
Speaker 2: I'm not disagreeing or pushing back. I'm saying, okay, just

2360
02:05:16,720 --> 02:05:19,920
Speaker 2: take I can't imagine anyone that doesn't agree with that,

2361
02:05:20,120 --> 02:05:23,160
Speaker 2: Like women don't do so much work that is just

2362
02:05:23,320 --> 02:05:28,960
Speaker 2: unconversated and unrequired in a lot of relationships. So let's

2363
02:05:29,040 --> 02:05:33,640
Speaker 2: just pull fully go Yes, So now let's go to friendships.

2364
02:05:34,160 --> 02:05:37,040
Speaker 2: What are examples of like emotional labor And it's cool

2365
02:05:37,080 --> 02:05:38,360
Speaker 2: if you don't have I couldn't come up with the

2366
02:05:38,360 --> 02:05:40,240
Speaker 2: answer my fuck himself to be honest.

2367
02:05:39,960 --> 02:05:42,280
Speaker 1: And and and and I guess for a lot of it,

2368
02:05:42,920 --> 02:05:45,240
Speaker 1: a lot of this is almost individualiz It varies per

2369
02:05:45,240 --> 02:05:48,040
Speaker 1: person because you know, when it comes to emotional labor,

2370
02:05:48,120 --> 02:05:52,200
Speaker 1: it might be what I call it, somebody just y'all

2371
02:05:52,240 --> 02:05:56,320
Speaker 1: have a relationship and one person is constantly draining the

2372
02:05:56,440 --> 02:05:59,520
Speaker 1: other person as far as they tell you everything that's wrong,

2373
02:05:59,640 --> 02:06:02,520
Speaker 1: they everything in their life. They dump all these things

2374
02:06:02,560 --> 02:06:05,640
Speaker 1: on you, but then when it's reciprocated, they don't have time.

2375
02:06:05,840 --> 02:06:10,120
Speaker 2: And I think in that case that one that's not

2376
02:06:10,200 --> 02:06:13,280
Speaker 2: just a man thing that I feel like a lot

2377
02:06:13,320 --> 02:06:15,200
Speaker 2: of people would describe their relationships with a lot of

2378
02:06:15,200 --> 02:06:24,160
Speaker 2: women that way. But I feel like if that is happening,

2379
02:06:24,480 --> 02:06:27,200
Speaker 2: that is more of a fact that you either don't

2380
02:06:27,240 --> 02:06:31,080
Speaker 2: have boundaries or you don't you are not really friends

2381
02:06:31,080 --> 02:06:34,600
Speaker 2: with that person. Labor, to me, I think is transactional,

2382
02:06:35,880 --> 02:06:39,080
Speaker 2: and by which I mean when you do work, you

2383
02:06:39,120 --> 02:06:41,520
Speaker 2: want to be compensated. It's a transaction.

2384
02:06:41,800 --> 02:06:42,960
Speaker 1: Okay, when you.

2385
02:06:42,920 --> 02:06:45,760
Speaker 2: Go to your job, is that a relationship you have

2386
02:06:45,840 --> 02:06:47,520
Speaker 2: with your job or is that labor you're doing for

2387
02:06:47,560 --> 02:06:47,920
Speaker 2: your job?

2388
02:06:48,080 --> 02:06:51,040
Speaker 1: Oh, that's labor and the end result is I'm getting paid.

2389
02:06:51,240 --> 02:06:54,680
Speaker 2: Right, So when we say labor for things that aren't

2390
02:06:54,760 --> 02:07:00,280
Speaker 2: really compensatory in that way, that aren't necessarily that are

2391
02:07:00,320 --> 02:07:08,600
Speaker 2: supposed to be reciprocally beneficial, but not necessarily on a

2392
02:07:08,640 --> 02:07:11,720
Speaker 2: one to one basis. I think when we started using

2393
02:07:11,720 --> 02:07:16,240
Speaker 2: the language of like capitalism and commerce for our personal relationships,

2394
02:07:16,640 --> 02:07:19,280
Speaker 2: to me, that's a big turn off. Like I would

2395
02:07:19,360 --> 02:07:23,760
Speaker 2: never there's no friend, I've kept a tally on and

2396
02:07:23,760 --> 02:07:26,480
Speaker 2: been like, I do more labor for them than they

2397
02:07:26,520 --> 02:07:26,960
Speaker 2: do for me.

2398
02:07:28,160 --> 02:07:31,680
Speaker 1: Okay, okay. So so so from that particular piece, the

2399
02:07:31,720 --> 02:07:38,200
Speaker 1: way you described that, I understand because once you tag

2400
02:07:39,320 --> 02:07:42,160
Speaker 1: labor onto it, and I guess I want to look

2401
02:07:42,160 --> 02:07:43,560
Speaker 1: at it from the point of a labor. I was

2402
02:07:43,600 --> 02:07:45,040
Speaker 1: looking for the point of emotions.

2403
02:07:45,320 --> 02:07:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you are, okay, and so that's fine. But yeah,

2404
02:07:48,040 --> 02:07:50,160
Speaker 2: I think that's why I agree with what she said

2405
02:07:50,240 --> 02:07:53,040
Speaker 2: is because I'm like, yeah, if I if I were

2406
02:07:53,080 --> 02:07:55,520
Speaker 2: to tell you, Karen, I'm doing a lot of emotional

2407
02:07:55,600 --> 02:07:59,240
Speaker 2: labor for you, I would that would feel wrong to me,

2408
02:07:59,520 --> 02:08:02,200
Speaker 2: Like like what, First of all, that's what we agreed

2409
02:08:02,280 --> 02:08:06,480
Speaker 2: to do when we signed up for this, But then two,

2410
02:08:06,840 --> 02:08:09,760
Speaker 2: like what does that mean? And how am I calculating

2411
02:08:09,840 --> 02:08:11,120
Speaker 2: my ship versus jo ship?

2412
02:08:12,160 --> 02:08:14,440
Speaker 1: And all of a sudden, you've put a quote unquote

2413
02:08:14,720 --> 02:08:15,760
Speaker 1: dollar value on it.

2414
02:08:16,200 --> 02:08:17,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, some value on it.

2415
02:08:17,960 --> 02:08:19,920
Speaker 1: Even though that's not what it is. And some of

2416
02:08:19,920 --> 02:08:20,640
Speaker 1: this stuff.

2417
02:08:22,000 --> 02:08:26,400
Speaker 2: Stuff to me, is friendship, Like friendship is sometimes your

2418
02:08:26,400 --> 02:08:28,480
Speaker 2: friend just wants to bitch about something and you just

2419
02:08:28,480 --> 02:08:33,600
Speaker 2: gotta let them, you know. Friendship is to somebody that

2420
02:08:33,720 --> 02:08:36,480
Speaker 2: don't text you all the time, but then they text

2421
02:08:36,520 --> 02:08:38,160
Speaker 2: you a lot one day and then you don't hear

2422
02:08:38,200 --> 02:08:41,520
Speaker 2: from for three months. To me, that's still friendship. I agree,

2423
02:08:41,640 --> 02:08:45,200
Speaker 2: there's no friend I'm keeping tallies on like that. I've

2424
02:08:45,200 --> 02:08:48,440
Speaker 2: even had people apologize to me for like, Man, I'm

2425
02:08:48,440 --> 02:08:50,560
Speaker 2: sorry i haven't texted you in a while. I've been

2426
02:08:50,600 --> 02:08:53,240
Speaker 2: going through some things and if anything, I would like

2427
02:08:53,320 --> 02:08:55,560
Speaker 2: I want to extend to them how much I don't

2428
02:08:56,480 --> 02:08:59,240
Speaker 2: hold it against them, because to me, that's a barrier

2429
02:08:59,280 --> 02:09:02,120
Speaker 2: to our friendship. If I'm feeling like, well, it's I mean,

2430
02:09:02,160 --> 02:09:04,080
Speaker 2: I was going through things and you wasn't checking off

2431
02:09:04,240 --> 02:09:07,400
Speaker 2: so like, and I find it to me to be

2432
02:09:07,520 --> 02:09:11,200
Speaker 2: so transactional, and so once you throw labor in there,

2433
02:09:11,760 --> 02:09:15,160
Speaker 2: I don't do work without getting paid, So once you

2434
02:09:15,160 --> 02:09:17,200
Speaker 2: throw that in there, I just it just to me

2435
02:09:17,320 --> 02:09:21,280
Speaker 2: becomes something that's so transactional. I would personally prefer not

2436
02:09:21,400 --> 02:09:24,600
Speaker 2: to be involved in relationships of that type. But it's

2437
02:09:24,600 --> 02:09:28,840
Speaker 2: something I did have to learn, right. So, so if

2438
02:09:28,880 --> 02:09:31,080
Speaker 2: I find a person to be draining all the time,

2439
02:09:31,560 --> 02:09:33,440
Speaker 2: I don't look at it as I'm doing labor. I

2440
02:09:33,480 --> 02:09:35,320
Speaker 2: look at it as they're draining me, and I don't

2441
02:09:35,320 --> 02:09:37,880
Speaker 2: want to be their friend. Not like I don't then

2442
02:09:37,920 --> 02:09:40,240
Speaker 2: start looking at it this is work I'm clocking in

2443
02:09:40,840 --> 02:09:42,720
Speaker 2: and to me, and I'm not trying to be a

2444
02:09:42,800 --> 02:09:46,080
Speaker 2: jerk about it. To me, this shows that you may

2445
02:09:46,240 --> 02:09:49,560
Speaker 2: lack communication skills or lack the ability to stand up

2446
02:09:49,600 --> 02:09:51,760
Speaker 2: for yourself, because one of the things I learned was

2447
02:09:51,760 --> 02:09:53,520
Speaker 2: you got to stand up for yourself. There's people that

2448
02:09:53,640 --> 02:09:57,400
Speaker 2: used to call me and whatever issue they would have

2449
02:09:57,520 --> 02:09:59,760
Speaker 2: or whatever they'd always it always be something. I was

2450
02:09:59,800 --> 02:10:01,520
Speaker 2: just like, I don't have to pick up the phone

2451
02:10:01,560 --> 02:10:04,919
Speaker 2: for this shit. I don't like, we're not really friends.

2452
02:10:05,000 --> 02:10:07,360
Speaker 2: You just want to call me like you need a therapist. Cool,

2453
02:10:07,480 --> 02:10:10,480
Speaker 2: We're just that's fine. Everybody can't be friends, you know.

2454
02:10:10,680 --> 02:10:12,760
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of that stuff comes into

2455
02:10:12,760 --> 02:10:13,160
Speaker 2: play too.

2456
02:10:13,440 --> 02:10:18,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And also from that perspective, that makes more more

2457
02:10:19,000 --> 02:10:21,920
Speaker 1: sense because I'm like you, I don't keep talents, I

2458
02:10:21,920 --> 02:10:24,400
Speaker 1: don't keep taks because I have off types of friends

2459
02:10:24,440 --> 02:10:27,040
Speaker 1: I have, oh, one of my best friends. We've been

2460
02:10:27,080 --> 02:10:28,560
Speaker 1: friends for like since I've been in my twenties, like

2461
02:10:28,560 --> 02:10:33,520
Speaker 1: twenty some years, and I may see her every few years.

2462
02:10:33,840 --> 02:10:36,520
Speaker 1: We might text a talk a few times out the year,

2463
02:10:36,800 --> 02:10:39,120
Speaker 1: and then sometimes we went like a few years and

2464
02:10:39,200 --> 02:10:41,800
Speaker 1: did not communicate with each other. But every time we talked,

2465
02:10:41,840 --> 02:10:44,080
Speaker 1: we picked up. And so I'm like you, I don't

2466
02:10:44,120 --> 02:10:44,960
Speaker 1: consider that labor.

2467
02:10:45,080 --> 02:10:46,240
Speaker 2: I was never keeping the talent.

2468
02:10:46,640 --> 02:10:48,040
Speaker 1: I wasn't probably for friendship.

2469
02:10:48,080 --> 02:10:50,800
Speaker 2: Well, my phone wasn't buzzn't I wasn't running up the

2470
02:10:50,920 --> 02:10:53,840
Speaker 2: interest rate or whatever the other thing people are bringing up.

2471
02:10:53,880 --> 02:10:55,000
Speaker 2: And this is one of the reason I don't like

2472
02:10:55,040 --> 02:10:57,680
Speaker 2: the term. In the chat. Most of the people's example

2473
02:10:57,760 --> 02:11:00,960
Speaker 2: of what they would call emotional labor is caring or

2474
02:11:01,000 --> 02:11:04,200
Speaker 2: supporting a person. To me, that is the default. I

2475
02:11:04,240 --> 02:11:06,680
Speaker 2: do not count that as labor. You see what I'm saying.

2476
02:11:06,720 --> 02:11:10,240
Speaker 2: If I care about the relationship with my friend, that's

2477
02:11:10,280 --> 02:11:12,680
Speaker 2: just what it's supposed to be. If it's a friendship,

2478
02:11:13,080 --> 02:11:15,640
Speaker 2: if it's a fomanship, I would never call it labor.

2479
02:11:15,680 --> 02:11:18,680
Speaker 2: So anyway, I agree with Katrina on that. I'm not

2480
02:11:18,720 --> 02:11:20,720
Speaker 2: sure where the wires got crossed. It probably was just

2481
02:11:20,880 --> 02:11:23,200
Speaker 2: we were talking about something and it just I didn't

2482
02:11:23,640 --> 02:11:25,320
Speaker 2: have time or want to make the same point I

2483
02:11:25,400 --> 02:11:29,400
Speaker 2: always make. But yeah, I don't believe in keeping itally

2484
02:11:29,400 --> 02:11:29,600
Speaker 2: of that.

2485
02:11:29,680 --> 02:11:33,000
Speaker 1: Yeah know so I think for a lot of people,

2486
02:11:33,160 --> 02:11:36,160
Speaker 1: just from hearing you talk, I think for when you

2487
02:11:36,200 --> 02:11:38,200
Speaker 1: talk about boundaries and all that stuff, I think that

2488
02:11:38,360 --> 02:11:42,400
Speaker 1: for a lot of people, they've been abused and they've

2489
02:11:42,440 --> 02:11:45,600
Speaker 1: been through things, and once they have been abused and

2490
02:11:45,720 --> 02:11:49,440
Speaker 1: been hurt, for some people, they changed, they that they

2491
02:11:49,520 --> 02:11:50,880
Speaker 1: morph it into a transaction.

2492
02:11:50,960 --> 02:11:53,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why I said I didn't want to be mean.

2493
02:11:54,560 --> 02:11:56,720
Speaker 2: And I'm talking about myself here too, because I don't

2494
02:11:56,760 --> 02:11:59,040
Speaker 2: want to be mean to my past self. But that

2495
02:11:59,200 --> 02:12:01,960
Speaker 2: was a lack of bound that was a lack of

2496
02:12:02,160 --> 02:12:05,040
Speaker 2: standing up for myself. That was a lack of good communication.

2497
02:12:05,640 --> 02:12:08,760
Speaker 2: Because now now if somebody tried that ship, I'll be like, no,

2498
02:12:09,760 --> 02:12:12,320
Speaker 2: I'm not picking on my fucking phone and listening to

2499
02:12:12,360 --> 02:12:16,600
Speaker 2: you fucking complain every day. No, if it's feeling like work,

2500
02:12:17,280 --> 02:12:20,520
Speaker 2: then it's not really a friendship anymore in that in

2501
02:12:20,560 --> 02:12:23,600
Speaker 2: that way, because and it doesn't mean that friendships don't

2502
02:12:23,600 --> 02:12:25,800
Speaker 2: take work. What it means is that when it's working,

2503
02:12:25,920 --> 02:12:31,200
Speaker 2: don't feel like work to me. Like when like I

2504
02:12:31,240 --> 02:12:34,400
Speaker 2: was telling somebody they were talking about marriage or something,

2505
02:12:35,320 --> 02:12:37,760
Speaker 2: and I can't remember who it was, but they were

2506
02:12:37,800 --> 02:12:40,720
Speaker 2: talking about something that that I you know, that that

2507
02:12:40,800 --> 02:12:44,920
Speaker 2: happened in like you know, their personal life with their

2508
02:12:44,960 --> 02:12:47,360
Speaker 2: family or whatever, and like, you know, how do you

2509
02:12:47,400 --> 02:12:49,480
Speaker 2: get through that? Blah blah. I said, I'm gonna be real, bro,

2510
02:12:50,080 --> 02:12:52,320
Speaker 2: you gotta have that dog and you gotta want to

2511
02:12:52,360 --> 02:12:55,280
Speaker 2: be the person that's there for that. Like if you

2512
02:12:55,360 --> 02:12:57,360
Speaker 2: don't want to be the person that's there for that,

2513
02:12:57,440 --> 02:13:00,120
Speaker 2: then it's kind of like you signed up for the

2514
02:13:00,160 --> 02:13:02,840
Speaker 2: wrong gig, because everybody's got to be the person that's

2515
02:13:02,880 --> 02:13:04,800
Speaker 2: there for that. I see single people do this all

2516
02:13:04,840 --> 02:13:07,240
Speaker 2: the time, and it's totally they're right. But one of

2517
02:13:07,280 --> 02:13:09,680
Speaker 2: the things I always thought was funny with single people,

2518
02:13:09,760 --> 02:13:12,880
Speaker 2: especially those who aspire to be in relationships, is the

2519
02:13:12,960 --> 02:13:18,200
Speaker 2: amount of wanting someone to do stuff for them without

2520
02:13:18,400 --> 02:13:26,000
Speaker 2: reciprocating truly, and the casualness that they approach it with

2521
02:13:26,000 --> 02:13:28,800
Speaker 2: with on some like well, I don't see, like COVID

2522
02:13:28,840 --> 02:13:32,240
Speaker 2: has been a great example. Well, if my man got COVID,

2523
02:13:32,320 --> 02:13:33,880
Speaker 2: he on his own or some shit, And I'm like,

2524
02:13:34,480 --> 02:13:37,040
Speaker 2: if you're married and sickness and health. More than likely

2525
02:13:37,760 --> 02:13:39,920
Speaker 2: you are gonna be sitting right there while they got

2526
02:13:39,920 --> 02:13:42,800
Speaker 2: that COVID and you might maybe move to a different

2527
02:13:42,800 --> 02:13:44,880
Speaker 2: part of the house, maybe wear a mask, but the

2528
02:13:44,920 --> 02:13:47,080
Speaker 2: whole like, I'll be back in two weeks. Hope you

2529
02:13:47,080 --> 02:13:51,040
Speaker 2: don't die. That sounds good and funny and it's very

2530
02:13:51,120 --> 02:13:54,920
Speaker 2: hilarious to tweet, but that's not what a marriage is

2531
02:13:54,960 --> 02:13:58,200
Speaker 2: gonna be. Because let's imagine you're the sick motherfucker right,

2532
02:13:58,640 --> 02:14:01,440
Speaker 2: your husband gets up and leaves for two weeks. I

2533
02:14:01,720 --> 02:14:05,360
Speaker 2: hope you hope you don't die. Our text, You're gonna

2534
02:14:05,440 --> 02:14:07,320
Speaker 2: you're gonna feel a fucking way about that, and then

2535
02:14:07,320 --> 02:14:10,280
Speaker 2: when you do live, it's gonna be it's gonna forever

2536
02:14:10,400 --> 02:14:13,440
Speaker 2: change your relationship. You know, when you had surgery and

2537
02:14:13,480 --> 02:14:16,440
Speaker 2: I was sleeping in the hospital every night, I thought

2538
02:14:16,440 --> 02:14:19,000
Speaker 2: it was interesting how many people were shocked and thought

2539
02:14:19,000 --> 02:14:20,640
Speaker 2: I was a good husband for sleeping in.

2540
02:14:23,560 --> 02:14:24,200
Speaker 1: You still here.

2541
02:14:24,680 --> 02:14:27,200
Speaker 2: I had never thought that it was an option not

2542
02:14:27,320 --> 02:14:29,960
Speaker 2: to because you know what I'm saying.

2543
02:14:29,720 --> 02:14:31,960
Speaker 1: Like, this is what I signed up for when you

2544
02:14:32,040 --> 02:14:32,760
Speaker 1: was in a hospital.

2545
02:14:33,000 --> 02:14:36,160
Speaker 2: Time is what I signed up for.

2546
02:14:36,320 --> 02:14:38,480
Speaker 1: It's not I can't consider any of them.

2547
02:14:38,640 --> 02:14:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the only thing I would caution is to

2548
02:14:40,720 --> 02:14:42,880
Speaker 2: know what you signed up for. But it's also this

2549
02:14:43,000 --> 02:14:44,760
Speaker 2: is a great example why I don't say I got

2550
02:14:44,800 --> 02:14:47,480
Speaker 2: a lot of friends, right, I just have a few

2551
02:14:47,720 --> 02:14:50,880
Speaker 2: friends that men and women are just a few of them,

2552
02:14:51,280 --> 02:14:53,920
Speaker 2: because I don't count this ship as labor. Once you

2553
02:14:54,400 --> 02:14:56,360
Speaker 2: I think about this all the time, like people that

2554
02:14:56,480 --> 02:14:58,080
Speaker 2: maintained I was singing out this the other day for

2555
02:14:58,120 --> 02:15:00,800
Speaker 2: some reason, people that have a whole lot of friendships

2556
02:15:00,840 --> 02:15:03,400
Speaker 2: and they're always checking on everybody's birthday and everybody's this,

2557
02:15:03,560 --> 02:15:06,040
Speaker 2: and calling all these people. I said, that is work,

2558
02:15:06,680 --> 02:15:08,760
Speaker 2: because because it's like a full time job, and at

2559
02:15:08,760 --> 02:15:10,960
Speaker 2: some point you gotta admit you can't be that tight

2560
02:15:11,040 --> 02:15:13,720
Speaker 2: with all the people. You can't not with everybody, and

2561
02:15:13,760 --> 02:15:15,880
Speaker 2: the people that's keeping a tally on that kind of

2562
02:15:15,880 --> 02:15:19,280
Speaker 2: probably some dicks. I've never kept itally, Like you know,

2563
02:15:19,600 --> 02:15:22,760
Speaker 2: I've never said in my life to anybody, not once

2564
02:15:22,800 --> 02:15:25,840
Speaker 2: I'm forty four years old. I've never said, man, you

2565
02:15:25,840 --> 02:15:29,680
Speaker 2: didn't check on me on my birthday? Not one I don't.

2566
02:15:29,920 --> 02:15:32,480
Speaker 2: It's not you got a whole life, a.

2567
02:15:32,440 --> 02:15:33,400
Speaker 1: Whole ass life.

2568
02:15:33,480 --> 02:15:35,320
Speaker 2: So it's just the stuff that I hear to find

2569
02:15:35,320 --> 02:15:38,600
Speaker 2: as labor are things that I would not care about,

2570
02:15:38,720 --> 02:15:42,800
Speaker 2: so I guess either. And I've never been accused of

2571
02:15:42,880 --> 02:15:44,960
Speaker 2: or you Like a friend, I'm not a person that

2572
02:15:45,000 --> 02:15:47,800
Speaker 2: calls people only need to complain and waste their time.

2573
02:15:47,840 --> 02:15:50,960
Speaker 2: But at the same time, I just I don't value

2574
02:15:51,040 --> 02:15:53,920
Speaker 2: that stuff in that way, so it's not labor to me.

2575
02:15:53,960 --> 02:15:55,600
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the next one. This is

2576
02:15:55,880 --> 02:15:58,040
Speaker 2: a girl d Ramsey PhD.

2577
02:16:00,440 --> 02:16:04,280
Speaker 7: Hey riding Karen. This is d calling from the DFW.

2578
02:16:04,840 --> 02:16:07,960
Speaker 7: Of course I'm on Spotify looking at the wrap. I

2579
02:16:08,080 --> 02:16:10,280
Speaker 7: hate that I missed it last night, but y'all are

2580
02:16:10,480 --> 02:16:15,000
Speaker 7: so freaking cute doing this unwrapped. And once again, we

2581
02:16:15,560 --> 02:16:19,560
Speaker 7: the Tippers appreciate every single thing that y'all do for us.

2582
02:16:19,840 --> 02:16:25,000
Speaker 7: The laughter, the political commentary, the social commentary. We just

2583
02:16:25,080 --> 02:16:28,880
Speaker 7: appreciate you all going above and beyond so that we're

2584
02:16:28,920 --> 02:16:33,360
Speaker 7: informed and we hopefully become better people. Wish you all

2585
02:16:33,440 --> 02:16:37,199
Speaker 7: messing but peace and blessings and growth as we prepare

2586
02:16:37,240 --> 02:16:40,360
Speaker 7: to end twenty two and go into twenty twenty three.

2587
02:16:40,840 --> 02:16:44,840
Speaker 7: Love y'all, and hopefully I can make the show this

2588
02:16:44,959 --> 02:16:47,560
Speaker 7: weekend because I've missed all the live shows this week.

2589
02:16:47,720 --> 02:16:48,760
Speaker 1: All right, love y'all.

2590
02:16:48,840 --> 02:16:54,600
Speaker 2: Bye, ah, thank you. That's very very beautiful, very nice centiment.

2591
02:16:55,400 --> 02:16:58,560
Speaker 2: And yeah, Spotify rap was fun and adorable, and we

2592
02:16:58,640 --> 02:17:00,560
Speaker 2: just felt like we needed to share that with audience

2593
02:17:00,600 --> 02:17:03,480
Speaker 2: because that really is the data that is y'all.

2594
02:17:03,720 --> 02:17:04,720
Speaker 1: You know, that's y'all.

2595
02:17:05,720 --> 02:17:07,880
Speaker 2: Man, I have one more point about the emotion everything.

2596
02:17:07,959 --> 02:17:11,480
Speaker 2: I just fucking lost it. Uh, I'll try to come

2597
02:17:11,520 --> 02:17:12,879
Speaker 2: back to it. All right, let's play the next.

2598
02:17:14,400 --> 02:17:14,600
Speaker 5: Uh.

2599
02:17:14,680 --> 02:17:19,360
Speaker 2: It wasn't just that, it was fuck. I couldn't remember

2600
02:17:19,400 --> 02:17:22,120
Speaker 2: what it is. It's it's it's fine. We really nailed

2601
02:17:22,120 --> 02:17:25,119
Speaker 2: that segment. Anyway, This is Nikki.

2602
02:17:26,600 --> 02:17:29,920
Speaker 4: Is nicky again. I won't be living a long point

2603
02:17:29,959 --> 02:17:32,240
Speaker 4: to know about how my baby had RSP. Yes, he's

2604
02:17:32,280 --> 02:17:35,280
Speaker 4: alive and well, eighteen months causing the rug and he's

2605
02:17:35,320 --> 02:17:37,360
Speaker 4: good only ling green things he has asked us. But

2606
02:17:37,440 --> 02:17:41,240
Speaker 4: that's not what I'm calling about. So smash you happy.

2607
02:17:41,680 --> 02:17:42,160
Speaker 2: I get you.

2608
02:17:42,280 --> 02:17:42,360
Speaker 6: Not.

2609
02:17:42,560 --> 02:17:46,800
Speaker 4: About a year ago, and while I was in the

2610
02:17:46,800 --> 02:17:49,480
Speaker 4: protece section and it's near the entrance, I just heard

2611
02:17:49,520 --> 02:17:52,959
Speaker 4: people be like, hey, hey, hey, you gotta stop, you

2612
02:17:53,040 --> 02:17:55,959
Speaker 4: gotta stop. I see this niggas black dude with a

2613
02:17:56,160 --> 02:18:00,520
Speaker 4: carful little fucking steaks, chicken, all of that running full

2614
02:18:00,560 --> 02:18:03,720
Speaker 4: speed out. I'm like, ain't my business. I'm gonna keep

2615
02:18:03,720 --> 02:18:07,200
Speaker 4: getting this produce. Some white dude walking in the store

2616
02:18:07,280 --> 02:18:10,320
Speaker 4: starts pulling the cart back from him, starts fighting this

2617
02:18:10,400 --> 02:18:13,680
Speaker 4: old black dude. The black dude takes the cart and

2618
02:18:13,760 --> 02:18:16,440
Speaker 4: pushes it into this white guy's stomach and kind of

2619
02:18:16,440 --> 02:18:19,800
Speaker 4: like runs him over. And then some other black people

2620
02:18:19,800 --> 02:18:22,760
Speaker 4: who must have been helping him come from the parking

2621
02:18:22,760 --> 02:18:25,039
Speaker 4: lot grasb some the stakes and stuff and walk out,

2622
02:18:25,320 --> 02:18:28,520
Speaker 4: I mean run out, and the white dude, the customer

2623
02:18:28,600 --> 02:18:31,440
Speaker 4: was still trying to chase after him and fight. So

2624
02:18:31,640 --> 02:18:34,160
Speaker 4: you know, I was just like, oh, okay, that ain't

2625
02:18:34,160 --> 02:18:38,160
Speaker 4: my money, ain't mistakes. And the white dude was looking

2626
02:18:38,200 --> 02:18:41,039
Speaker 4: when we came back in all the shovel and then

2627
02:18:41,040 --> 02:18:43,120
Speaker 4: back because the people who were at the store, they

2628
02:18:43,160 --> 02:18:46,920
Speaker 4: stopped running after the guy. They stopped chasing the guy

2629
02:18:46,959 --> 02:18:49,160
Speaker 4: the minute he walked right out of the store, sat

2630
02:18:49,280 --> 02:18:51,760
Speaker 4: right and they stopped. So the white guy was yelling

2631
02:18:51,760 --> 02:18:54,720
Speaker 4: at the employees and they were like, we can't do anything.

2632
02:18:55,080 --> 02:18:57,080
Speaker 4: All we can do is get him to stop, like

2633
02:18:57,240 --> 02:19:00,840
Speaker 4: once he walks out, that's his need. Yes it is,

2634
02:19:00,959 --> 02:19:05,400
Speaker 4: of course in Arizona, I'm the only black person around.

2635
02:19:05,800 --> 02:19:07,959
Speaker 4: Why they're looking at me like I knew that nigga.

2636
02:19:08,000 --> 02:19:11,600
Speaker 4: There was this old black guy. He also old black

2637
02:19:11,600 --> 02:19:14,000
Speaker 4: people say like, we don't know that nigga. I mean

2638
02:19:14,040 --> 02:19:16,879
Speaker 4: her buying my groceries. I ain't got to steal no sticks,

2639
02:19:17,920 --> 02:19:20,920
Speaker 4: but I do see on face Time to time people

2640
02:19:21,000 --> 02:19:22,640
Speaker 4: will advertise.

2641
02:19:22,080 --> 02:19:26,240
Speaker 2: Like she got cut off, said she wasn't gona leave

2642
02:19:26,240 --> 02:19:29,080
Speaker 2: a long forcemail. She got cut off, two many but

2643
02:19:29,160 --> 02:19:31,000
Speaker 2: she called back. Don't worry about it.

2644
02:19:31,360 --> 02:19:35,080
Speaker 1: I us mailed Queen Bee, like you know what, no.

2645
02:19:35,120 --> 02:19:38,200
Speaker 2: Yes, Sam man at the Apollo up in here. The

2646
02:19:38,320 --> 02:19:42,200
Speaker 2: times started going off and the broom come out, wrap

2647
02:19:42,240 --> 02:19:42,480
Speaker 2: it up.

2648
02:19:43,120 --> 02:19:43,800
Speaker 1: We don't control.

2649
02:19:44,440 --> 02:19:47,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's taking a second to load this email for

2650
02:19:47,600 --> 02:19:51,160
Speaker 2: some reason. I mean this voicemail. Sorry, I'll try to

2651
02:19:51,240 --> 02:19:54,440
Speaker 2: let love in the background, but yeah, shout to raise

2652
02:19:54,480 --> 02:19:55,000
Speaker 2: in Arizona.

2653
02:19:55,080 --> 02:19:57,879
Speaker 4: Shorty'll make it quick. But I'm gonna says there's a

2654
02:19:57,879 --> 02:20:01,400
Speaker 4: group called black while in Arizona on Facebook. Time to time,

2655
02:20:01,440 --> 02:20:04,520
Speaker 4: I keep stolen, I keep quote unquote meat for sale.

2656
02:20:04,840 --> 02:20:10,840
Speaker 4: So I wonder if there's like an underground lobster all that,

2657
02:20:11,160 --> 02:20:13,520
Speaker 4: and they're just telling this week, you gotta get it today,

2658
02:20:13,520 --> 02:20:15,680
Speaker 4: you gotta get it today. That's all I gotta say.

2659
02:20:15,800 --> 02:20:19,720
Speaker 4: So keep on Facebook. Might be some stolen meat. If

2660
02:20:19,760 --> 02:20:21,480
Speaker 4: you want to buy meet from a stranger, that's on you.

2661
02:20:21,560 --> 02:20:29,000
Speaker 4: I would do it, all right, guys.

2662
02:20:25,840 --> 02:20:26,760
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do it either.

2663
02:20:27,959 --> 02:20:32,800
Speaker 2: It looks like this the last voicemail. This is from today,

2664
02:20:34,640 --> 02:20:36,720
Speaker 2: But yeah, that's fucking hilarious.

2665
02:20:37,840 --> 02:20:40,400
Speaker 3: Hey, good morning, Rod. I was listening to the show live.

2666
02:20:40,520 --> 02:20:41,039
Speaker 2: I hope it.

2667
02:20:41,200 --> 02:20:43,400
Speaker 3: I wasn't going to disturb the show, but I want

2668
02:20:43,440 --> 02:20:49,520
Speaker 3: to leave a message about the Deyon Sandra situation and

2669
02:20:49,720 --> 02:20:52,119
Speaker 3: what I think a lot of black people are going through.

2670
02:20:53,360 --> 02:20:57,160
Speaker 3: I think black people go through so much disappointment in

2671
02:20:57,200 --> 02:21:02,120
Speaker 3: our lives that when in a situation like this, it's

2672
02:21:02,160 --> 02:21:05,959
Speaker 3: hard to rationalize a lot of situations and think about

2673
02:21:06,120 --> 02:21:12,360
Speaker 3: other people's disappointments about certain things. I would just wanted

2674
02:21:12,360 --> 02:21:16,480
Speaker 3: to leave that. I wanted to comment, but I forgot

2675
02:21:16,480 --> 02:21:21,879
Speaker 3: to do it. But you remind me. This morning's feedback

2676
02:21:21,920 --> 02:21:24,360
Speaker 3: show reminded me of that. So love you guys.

2677
02:21:24,560 --> 02:21:25,320
Speaker 7: Talk to y'all later.

2678
02:21:25,760 --> 02:21:28,920
Speaker 2: And he called back and left another quick voice, so

2679
02:21:29,040 --> 02:21:29,800
Speaker 2: let me hear that one.

2680
02:21:30,640 --> 02:21:33,040
Speaker 3: Oh, this is Jackie Collin Bank. I forgot to say

2681
02:21:33,080 --> 02:21:35,000
Speaker 3: this about the Britney grinder situation.

2682
02:21:35,440 --> 02:21:36,480
Speaker 1: It brought like.

2683
02:21:38,120 --> 02:21:42,480
Speaker 2: I thought that, you know, because I say personally, I

2684
02:21:42,520 --> 02:21:44,560
Speaker 2: put out a post saying.

2685
02:21:44,240 --> 02:21:48,720
Speaker 4: That I'm glad she's free, and it brought out all day.

2686
02:21:49,360 --> 02:21:51,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was coming out of thework.

2687
02:21:52,320 --> 02:21:55,400
Speaker 3: Obviously it was dudes that was saying this, and I

2688
02:21:55,520 --> 02:21:57,039
Speaker 3: just I just thought it.

2689
02:21:57,040 --> 02:22:00,520
Speaker 2: Would have been a layup for us.

2690
02:22:00,400 --> 02:22:01,800
Speaker 3: To be happy that she's home.

2691
02:22:02,520 --> 02:22:04,480
Speaker 2: But then people started.

2692
02:22:04,200 --> 02:22:08,080
Speaker 3: Twisting this this orange dealer that was locked up for

2693
02:22:08,120 --> 02:22:12,480
Speaker 3: fourteen years to like he's gonna he's he's gonna be

2694
02:22:12,640 --> 02:22:16,320
Speaker 3: to want to help, he's gonna start selling the world,

2695
02:22:16,440 --> 02:22:19,520
Speaker 3: start enterprises with me. I just wanted to get that

2696
02:22:19,520 --> 02:22:19,800
Speaker 3: off my.

2697
02:22:21,720 --> 02:22:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, dog, that was terrible. And yeah, the Dion thing, man,

2698
02:22:26,080 --> 02:22:29,200
Speaker 2: I really think there was a moment miss here for

2699
02:22:29,360 --> 02:22:33,720
Speaker 2: everybody that was really so hard and so angry about it. Uh.

2700
02:22:33,920 --> 02:22:38,880
Speaker 2: There's an emotional attachment that people have both ways on

2701
02:22:38,959 --> 02:22:42,400
Speaker 2: this to blackness and what it means. And there's a

2702
02:22:42,440 --> 02:22:47,359
Speaker 2: way to feel what Dion did is representative and positive

2703
02:22:47,520 --> 02:22:51,400
Speaker 2: for black people that want to see black coaches get

2704
02:22:51,400 --> 02:22:54,920
Speaker 2: the coach uh in these Big five conferences, Power five

2705
02:22:54,959 --> 02:22:57,480
Speaker 2: Conferences and ship there's a way that there's a way

2706
02:22:57,480 --> 02:23:01,000
Speaker 2: that that is a positive story to them, you know,

2707
02:23:01,400 --> 02:23:04,160
Speaker 2: just especially to even see a black coach from an

2708
02:23:04,280 --> 02:23:08,200
Speaker 2: HBCU get to the p wi's it's really been fucking

2709
02:23:08,240 --> 02:23:10,600
Speaker 2: impossible until now. Only one coach is done in the

2710
02:23:10,600 --> 02:23:13,800
Speaker 2: past and it was a white guy. So there's ways

2711
02:23:13,800 --> 02:23:16,440
Speaker 2: to feel good about that that I don't think make

2712
02:23:16,520 --> 02:23:20,640
Speaker 2: you a bad person. And then vice versa. I think

2713
02:23:20,640 --> 02:23:23,400
Speaker 2: there's ways that feel bad and disappointing about how Dion

2714
02:23:23,600 --> 02:23:26,000
Speaker 2: left and some of the things he said on his

2715
02:23:26,120 --> 02:23:31,480
Speaker 2: way to you know, to rising to get this job.

2716
02:23:31,800 --> 02:23:33,800
Speaker 2: There's a way to feel bad about those, and you're

2717
02:23:33,800 --> 02:23:36,480
Speaker 2: not a bad person or a coon or sellout. And

2718
02:23:36,560 --> 02:23:40,280
Speaker 2: the macro things that people were bringing up felt like excuses.

2719
02:23:40,320 --> 02:23:44,320
Speaker 2: You know, black people don't give enough to HBCUs, which

2720
02:23:44,480 --> 02:23:49,720
Speaker 2: completely strips the context out of generational wealth legacies, the

2721
02:23:49,920 --> 02:23:52,560
Speaker 2: student loan debt and who's hampered by and the shit

2722
02:23:52,680 --> 02:23:56,400
Speaker 2: completely stripped, so all contexts thrown out the window. Shit

2723
02:23:56,440 --> 02:24:01,120
Speaker 2: people got mad at Joe Biden for not and made

2724
02:24:01,200 --> 02:24:03,680
Speaker 2: him go give money for student loans and pail grants

2725
02:24:03,680 --> 02:24:06,040
Speaker 2: and shit, knowing that those things are strapping black people down,

2726
02:24:06,080 --> 02:24:08,600
Speaker 2: but then just making it seem like black people are

2727
02:24:08,680 --> 02:24:10,680
Speaker 2: inferior and just don't want to get back to their

2728
02:24:10,800 --> 02:24:15,000
Speaker 2: universities bullshit, you know they you know, it's just a

2729
02:24:15,000 --> 02:24:17,439
Speaker 2: lot of macro things that got heaped in this conversation

2730
02:24:17,560 --> 02:24:21,320
Speaker 2: were just very sad, you know, even people saying like

2731
02:24:22,360 --> 02:24:25,800
Speaker 2: they broke into his office like it was motherfucking east

2732
02:24:25,840 --> 02:24:31,640
Speaker 2: Side High and our HBCUs is just criminal crime written places.

2733
02:24:31,680 --> 02:24:34,280
Speaker 2: And it was just a lot of dog whistling stuff

2734
02:24:34,280 --> 02:24:39,120
Speaker 2: that black people participated in. And I thought it was

2735
02:24:39,160 --> 02:24:42,760
Speaker 2: all kind of sad that, you know, so much of

2736
02:24:42,760 --> 02:24:46,520
Speaker 2: that conflict was on display rather than empathy, you know,

2737
02:24:46,720 --> 02:24:49,080
Speaker 2: towards the people that felt hurt and the people that

2738
02:24:49,400 --> 02:24:51,800
Speaker 2: felt priud like I have empathy with both those people.

2739
02:24:53,800 --> 02:25:03,520
Speaker 2: Emails Crystal Miscrystal Rising. Let car and tell her story, y'all, y'all,

2740
02:25:03,560 --> 02:25:06,560
Speaker 2: I'm not. I'm just not. I'm not just talking about

2741
02:25:06,560 --> 02:25:09,720
Speaker 2: my boot things, Rogering and Karah. I'm talking to the

2742
02:25:09,720 --> 02:25:12,440
Speaker 2: tippers who heard Karen talk about her heartburn journey in

2743
02:25:12,480 --> 02:25:15,640
Speaker 2: a jovial tone, but thought she was talking about talking

2744
02:25:15,640 --> 02:25:18,720
Speaker 2: from beyond the grave up at I see you, come on, buddy,

2745
02:25:18,760 --> 02:25:22,359
Speaker 2: context clues, y'all, My baby daddy, Karen talking all upbeating

2746
02:25:22,440 --> 02:25:24,959
Speaker 2: happy with her full voice and y'all acting like you

2747
02:25:25,000 --> 02:25:28,000
Speaker 2: think the conclusion of the story was die Just like,

2748
02:25:28,280 --> 02:25:31,400
Speaker 2: just come on, buddy, caring your perfection and I'm glad

2749
02:25:31,480 --> 02:25:35,040
Speaker 2: you're good to do your thing. Baby girl, Rob, I

2750
02:25:35,120 --> 02:25:37,280
Speaker 2: understand where you're coming from, but you gotta get canceled

2751
02:25:37,280 --> 02:25:39,600
Speaker 2: for interrupting the black woman. You spoiled the whole movie.

2752
02:25:41,680 --> 02:25:44,360
Speaker 2: She was like, I'm gonna tell y'all to well, it's

2753
02:25:44,480 --> 02:25:48,520
Speaker 2: contradictory what she's about to say, Like it's contradicted. She

2754
02:25:48,560 --> 02:25:50,800
Speaker 2: was about to contradict herself in this next sentence, which

2755
02:25:50,840 --> 02:25:53,960
Speaker 2: I think is funny because the whole thing is like

2756
02:25:54,760 --> 02:25:57,520
Speaker 2: our we all know Karen's okay, so it's no big deal.

2757
02:25:57,600 --> 02:25:59,520
Speaker 2: But then she's like, you spoiled the movie. How I'll

2758
02:25:59,520 --> 02:26:02,720
Speaker 2: spoil it if you know she okay? If anything, I

2759
02:26:02,800 --> 02:26:06,200
Speaker 2: added more humor to the to the situation you suppiled

2760
02:26:06,240 --> 02:26:08,320
Speaker 2: the whole movie. If folks were in suspense, in the

2761
02:26:08,320 --> 02:26:10,520
Speaker 2: words of the illustrious may He Forever Reign and power

2762
02:26:10,600 --> 02:26:14,440
Speaker 2: King Joffy Joffer, let them wait. Let Karen tell her

2763
02:26:14,480 --> 02:26:17,720
Speaker 2: story in her own way, since she is a whole

2764
02:26:17,760 --> 02:26:20,920
Speaker 2: half of the Blackout cinematic universe. If folks blood pressure

2765
02:26:20,959 --> 02:26:23,120
Speaker 2: went up a little bit. Tell them they welcome for

2766
02:26:23,200 --> 02:26:27,000
Speaker 2: that Cado cardiovascular journey. Even if Karen was like and

2767
02:26:27,040 --> 02:26:29,000
Speaker 2: then I found out I had cancer her it's her

2768
02:26:29,040 --> 02:26:31,720
Speaker 2: story to tell whom. Y'all don't mind me. Y'all just

2769
02:26:31,760 --> 02:26:35,000
Speaker 2: turned forty and don't know how to act. I love

2770
02:26:35,040 --> 02:26:37,640
Speaker 2: you both, Ma, Ma and Ma wah, Mammy titty hug

2771
02:26:37,800 --> 02:26:42,400
Speaker 2: Ma Ma wa mis Oh, Miss Criscival, you are too

2772
02:26:42,480 --> 02:26:46,879
Speaker 2: much our girl. Neur Geek Ninja Mon wrote in, Hey,

2773
02:26:46,959 --> 02:26:48,480
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen just wanted to write in to give

2774
02:26:48,520 --> 02:26:50,520
Speaker 2: you a little update about Bobby, the little black girl

2775
02:26:50,560 --> 02:26:52,960
Speaker 2: who was racially targeted for grewing the great service to

2776
02:26:53,080 --> 02:27:01,320
Speaker 2: nature killing them the UH. Recently, doctor Egoma Opera Apara,

2777
02:27:01,440 --> 02:27:03,640
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, got in touch with her family and led

2778
02:27:03,680 --> 02:27:06,520
Speaker 2: them on a black girl sides toward Yelle. I'm adding

2779
02:27:06,560 --> 02:27:09,080
Speaker 2: screenshots from IG and the short article about it. I'm

2780
02:27:09,080 --> 02:27:11,120
Speaker 2: just glad other black women in Stem are helping this

2781
02:27:11,240 --> 02:27:13,720
Speaker 2: baby heal and continue to be curious about the world

2782
02:27:13,760 --> 02:27:16,080
Speaker 2: around her. My daughter is eleven and also loves collecting

2783
02:27:16,080 --> 02:27:19,160
Speaker 2: bugs and rocks to examine. I usually only let her

2784
02:27:19,280 --> 02:27:22,480
Speaker 2: in our backyard on supervised UH. If she is out

2785
02:27:22,480 --> 02:27:24,560
Speaker 2: front I watched her from the window, and this story

2786
02:27:24,720 --> 02:27:25,880
Speaker 2: is why love them on?

2787
02:27:26,520 --> 02:27:26,800
Speaker 1: Right?

2788
02:27:27,280 --> 02:27:31,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is dope that the community was able to

2789
02:27:31,959 --> 02:27:34,280
Speaker 2: gather around her and celebrate her. I always worry about

2790
02:27:34,320 --> 02:27:37,840
Speaker 2: these children and the things they're experiencing from this fucking racism.

2791
02:27:37,920 --> 02:27:40,360
Speaker 2: It's just so sad because we don't get to be kids.

2792
02:27:40,840 --> 02:27:42,800
Speaker 2: Our kids don't get to be kids that long. There's

2793
02:27:42,800 --> 02:27:44,959
Speaker 2: always some fucking thing that's interrupting it.

2794
02:27:45,840 --> 02:27:49,760
Speaker 1: But that little woman, yeah, as kid.

2795
02:27:50,080 --> 02:27:53,440
Speaker 2: So it's dope to see these black women pull her

2796
02:27:53,480 --> 02:27:59,720
Speaker 2: in and and celebrate her and uh and and come

2797
02:27:59,760 --> 02:28:05,080
Speaker 2: out to support. That's just that's super dope. So yeah,

2798
02:28:05,320 --> 02:28:09,480
Speaker 2: shout out to shout out to them, and let's go

2799
02:28:09,520 --> 02:28:14,680
Speaker 2: to the next one, Earle says regarding Garland, takes the game,

2800
02:28:14,720 --> 02:28:18,680
Speaker 2: win the shot. He says, when I watched the verdict

2801
02:28:18,800 --> 02:28:22,039
Speaker 2: come down on the oath Keepers Sedition conspiracy trial, I

2802
02:28:22,120 --> 02:28:25,000
Speaker 2: was reminded of Donald Trump's legal entanglements. I've often heard

2803
02:28:25,000 --> 02:28:28,160
Speaker 2: you praise the job Mary Garland is doing. Indeed, he

2804
02:28:28,240 --> 02:28:32,000
Speaker 2: has been deliberate, disciplined, and objectively non partisan in his approach. However,

2805
02:28:32,320 --> 02:28:34,600
Speaker 2: I liken it to a star athlete who delivers during

2806
02:28:34,600 --> 02:28:36,879
Speaker 2: the regular season. I'm not a lawyer, but I can't

2807
02:28:36,920 --> 02:28:40,360
Speaker 2: fathom how Trump isn't guilty of miss handling federal documents. Ironically,

2808
02:28:40,400 --> 02:28:42,920
Speaker 2: Trump signed a new law making this a felony to

2809
02:28:42,920 --> 02:28:46,640
Speaker 2: target Hillary Clinton. Garland's postseason is about after the Special

2810
02:28:46,959 --> 02:28:50,039
Speaker 2: Council recommends indicting Trump, will he be clutch or will

2811
02:28:50,040 --> 02:28:52,400
Speaker 2: he choke? If he chokes, I'm sure he doesn't think

2812
02:28:52,440 --> 02:28:54,480
Speaker 2: the case is winnable, but win or lose, the country

2813
02:28:54,480 --> 02:28:57,039
Speaker 2: needs him take the shot. Earl. I agree, you need

2814
02:28:57,040 --> 02:29:00,800
Speaker 2: to take the shot. That's a good analogy. And uh,

2815
02:29:01,200 --> 02:29:03,160
Speaker 2: the only thing I'll push back on is the stuff

2816
02:29:03,200 --> 02:29:09,560
Speaker 2: with the the stuff with it being like a regular season.

2817
02:29:09,680 --> 02:29:12,200
Speaker 2: This is all overtime shit. This is all clutch. This

2818
02:29:12,280 --> 02:29:15,600
Speaker 2: is like it wouldn't feel that way if so many

2819
02:29:15,640 --> 02:29:18,160
Speaker 2: people hadn't pushed back on just him even doing this.

2820
02:29:18,280 --> 02:29:20,840
Speaker 2: They said he wouldn't even do this. So to me,

2821
02:29:20,920 --> 02:29:24,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, well, I'm seeing oathkeepers get found guilty of

2822
02:29:24,440 --> 02:29:27,040
Speaker 2: fucking treason. I don't know, seemed like a pretty big

2823
02:29:27,120 --> 02:29:29,200
Speaker 2: fucking deal that y'all said he wasn't gonna do it

2824
02:29:29,200 --> 02:29:31,879
Speaker 2: wouldn't happen. So you can't have it both ways when

2825
02:29:31,879 --> 02:29:33,480
Speaker 2: you shot on the man say you wouldn't do it,

2826
02:29:33,520 --> 02:29:36,280
Speaker 2: not you girl. But people can't have it both ways

2827
02:29:36,280 --> 02:29:38,560
Speaker 2: where they shit on the dude and then when he

2828
02:29:38,640 --> 02:29:40,720
Speaker 2: do stuff be like it's not a big deal. You

2829
02:29:40,800 --> 02:29:42,440
Speaker 2: made it a big deal when you said he couldn't it,

2830
02:29:42,440 --> 02:29:46,240
Speaker 2: wouldn't do it. He's doing a good job and they

2831
02:29:46,440 --> 02:29:49,760
Speaker 2: just got that fucking special old Master thrown out with

2832
02:29:49,879 --> 02:29:53,440
Speaker 2: the uphill, which is also good because that that was

2833
02:29:53,480 --> 02:29:56,240
Speaker 2: some bullshit that Trump upointed judge through it. There they

2834
02:29:56,240 --> 02:29:58,640
Speaker 2: are fighting to fight. It's just the legal system ain't

2835
02:29:58,640 --> 02:30:01,800
Speaker 2: as fast as Twitter and everybody he is on Twitter.

2836
02:30:02,800 --> 02:30:05,760
Speaker 2: It's like they get paid and promoting anxiety and just

2837
02:30:06,040 --> 02:30:09,039
Speaker 2: disappointment and cynicism. And that's not his job.

2838
02:30:09,280 --> 02:30:12,800
Speaker 1: That's the reward because as far as their concern, they

2839
02:30:12,800 --> 02:30:15,320
Speaker 1: don't have any consequences of repercussions on what happens and

2840
02:30:15,400 --> 02:30:17,039
Speaker 1: does not happen based off of the shit that they

2841
02:30:17,080 --> 02:30:17,680
Speaker 1: put online.

2842
02:30:17,840 --> 02:30:19,440
Speaker 2: That's not his job. His job is to do the

2843
02:30:19,680 --> 02:30:21,920
Speaker 2: job he was hired to do, not to win Twitter

2844
02:30:22,000 --> 02:30:25,080
Speaker 2: or the media circle. So I appreciate the brother. He's

2845
02:30:25,080 --> 02:30:28,320
Speaker 2: doing a great job and I'll keep saying that until

2846
02:30:28,320 --> 02:30:30,920
Speaker 2: he's not. But I'm not going to assume he's doing

2847
02:30:30,959 --> 02:30:32,840
Speaker 2: a bad job and try to work backwards like these

2848
02:30:32,840 --> 02:30:36,800
Speaker 2: motherfuckers because they never accept any evidence to the contrary

2849
02:30:36,840 --> 02:30:39,959
Speaker 2: or their premise. Whenever that something happens that shows he's

2850
02:30:40,000 --> 02:30:43,480
Speaker 2: been working, it is working. Some people are getting convicted,

2851
02:30:43,640 --> 02:30:47,080
Speaker 2: they're constantly on top of things, and they're adding more shit.

2852
02:30:47,879 --> 02:30:50,360
Speaker 2: No one ever goes, oh, yeah, well shit, I mean,

2853
02:30:51,040 --> 02:30:52,720
Speaker 2: he's the right man for the job. He's doing a

2854
02:30:52,720 --> 02:30:55,120
Speaker 2: good job. No one ever fucking says that. It's so

2855
02:30:55,400 --> 02:30:58,800
Speaker 2: goddamn infuriating to see these people, you know, when he's

2856
02:30:58,840 --> 02:31:03,520
Speaker 2: fucking getting the water in Jackson under control, in addition

2857
02:31:03,600 --> 02:31:08,080
Speaker 2: to the seditious insurrection charges and shit that he's throwing

2858
02:31:08,120 --> 02:31:12,360
Speaker 2: at people like you just never see anybody back off

2859
02:31:12,400 --> 02:31:14,960
Speaker 2: and be like, yeah, he's fucking doing the job. He's

2860
02:31:14,959 --> 02:31:19,200
Speaker 2: going above me on and that dude, Doug what's his name,

2861
02:31:19,240 --> 02:31:23,840
Speaker 2: from either Alabama or whatever, like we Doug Jones. I

2862
02:31:23,920 --> 02:31:27,320
Speaker 2: think anyway, we have no fucking reason or proof that

2863
02:31:27,400 --> 02:31:31,440
Speaker 2: he would be any fucking different, right, there's just people's

2864
02:31:31,480 --> 02:31:37,680
Speaker 2: saying shit. Steven says family a fair part too. Riding car.

2865
02:31:37,879 --> 02:31:39,360
Speaker 2: This is my first time writing the show, even though

2866
02:31:39,360 --> 02:31:41,760
Speaker 2: I've been a listener since twenty seventeen. The email you

2867
02:31:41,800 --> 02:31:44,320
Speaker 2: read on episode twenty six, twenty nine, Julie the line

2868
02:31:44,400 --> 02:31:46,920
Speaker 2: prompted me to contact the show. You can imagine my

2869
02:31:46,959 --> 02:31:49,680
Speaker 2: surprise when I heard it was from my stepdaughter Carrington,

2870
02:31:50,400 --> 02:31:53,000
Speaker 2: just like you both. My response was all then when

2871
02:31:53,040 --> 02:31:55,240
Speaker 2: I listened to the sweet sentiment that she shared with you.

2872
02:31:55,720 --> 02:31:58,480
Speaker 2: I knew that she, her dad, and her brother listened

2873
02:31:58,480 --> 02:32:00,360
Speaker 2: to the show because we discussed it befo, but I

2874
02:32:00,400 --> 02:32:02,600
Speaker 2: had no idea she written any of you guys. There's

2875
02:32:02,600 --> 02:32:04,000
Speaker 2: a little more to the story that I wanted to

2876
02:32:04,000 --> 02:32:06,160
Speaker 2: share with you. I'm originally from North Carolina. I begain

2877
02:32:06,240 --> 02:32:08,560
Speaker 2: listening to the show on probably one of the worst

2878
02:32:08,640 --> 02:32:10,959
Speaker 2: days of my life. I'll spare the details, but just

2879
02:32:11,080 --> 02:32:13,240
Speaker 2: know you and Kara kept me company on the long

2880
02:32:13,360 --> 02:32:15,760
Speaker 2: ride and even made me laugh out loud, even though

2881
02:32:15,760 --> 02:32:18,000
Speaker 2: I didn't feel like it. I've been listening ever since.

2882
02:32:18,080 --> 02:32:21,120
Speaker 2: Carington's mother and I started as online friends, but our

2883
02:32:21,160 --> 02:32:24,000
Speaker 2: connection deepen during the pandemic. As an essential government worker,

2884
02:32:24,080 --> 02:32:26,040
Speaker 2: she got the COVID vaccine very early and we met

2885
02:32:26,080 --> 02:32:28,600
Speaker 2: in person for the first time. And Charlotte, North Carolina

2886
02:32:28,600 --> 02:32:32,320
Speaker 2: in February twenty twenty one, a world wind courtship ensued

2887
02:32:32,360 --> 02:32:34,400
Speaker 2: and I realized that I'd found the right one for me,

2888
02:32:34,520 --> 02:32:37,879
Speaker 2: so I decided to relocate from Greensboro to Kansas in

2889
02:32:37,920 --> 02:32:41,199
Speaker 2: February twenty twenty two. It was only like that's thirteen

2890
02:32:41,200 --> 02:32:41,720
Speaker 2: months later.

2891
02:32:41,760 --> 02:32:42,200
Speaker 1: Okay.

2892
02:32:42,879 --> 02:32:44,920
Speaker 2: I found a great job, sold my house, and we

2893
02:32:44,920 --> 02:32:49,360
Speaker 2: were married in August of this year. Wow's cute. Even

2894
02:32:49,400 --> 02:32:53,400
Speaker 2: though I'm a Midwestern and Westerner, now, North Carolina will

2895
02:32:53,400 --> 02:32:55,200
Speaker 2: always be in my heart. So I hold all the

2896
02:32:55,240 --> 02:32:57,160
Speaker 2: things that remind me of my home state very near

2897
02:32:57,160 --> 02:32:59,520
Speaker 2: and there, and that includes the Blackout Tips and UNC

2898
02:32:59,640 --> 02:33:03,480
Speaker 2: Basketba Gohills so much so, I wanted to include a

2899
02:33:03,480 --> 02:33:06,119
Speaker 2: picture on my Blackout Tips family. Even though my wife

2900
02:33:06,160 --> 02:33:08,560
Speaker 2: isn't a listener, she still hears the show and she

2901
02:33:08,760 --> 02:33:11,840
Speaker 2: even sometimes comments on what's being said. She doesn't listen

2902
02:33:11,920 --> 02:33:14,360
Speaker 2: to podcasts, but I'm working on her. We love to

2903
02:33:14,440 --> 02:33:17,119
Speaker 2: laugh at Joke's one of our love languages, so I'm

2904
02:33:17,160 --> 02:33:20,680
Speaker 2: going to convert her. And then he included this beautiful

2905
02:33:20,800 --> 02:33:24,920
Speaker 2: photo of the wedding. Look at this wedding picture.

2906
02:33:27,640 --> 02:33:30,280
Speaker 1: Look at y'all a door ball.

2907
02:33:32,000 --> 02:33:35,680
Speaker 2: We literally love to see it. Okay, thank you. Pictures

2908
02:33:35,720 --> 02:33:39,640
Speaker 2: like that, Wow, I can't watch podcasts part of somebody's

2909
02:33:39,640 --> 02:33:43,760
Speaker 2: love story. I will never get over that. It's multiple

2910
02:33:43,800 --> 02:33:45,879
Speaker 2: times people have written in to tell us like, Yo,

2911
02:33:46,000 --> 02:33:48,600
Speaker 2: I met this person or I saw it, and I'm

2912
02:33:48,640 --> 02:33:52,040
Speaker 2: always just like amazing honored to be a part of

2913
02:33:52,120 --> 02:33:56,800
Speaker 2: y'all story. So thank you. Steve says, oh boy, hey, y'all,

2914
02:33:56,840 --> 02:33:59,320
Speaker 2: just wanted to write in about the Kanye Oh Steph,

2915
02:33:59,360 --> 02:34:01,520
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Steph's writ saying, oh boy, just want to

2916
02:34:01,560 --> 02:34:04,160
Speaker 2: write in about the Kanye situation. Uh, what the fuck

2917
02:34:04,280 --> 02:34:06,480
Speaker 2: was that? You know you're in over your head when

2918
02:34:06,480 --> 02:34:09,640
Speaker 2: Alex Jone looks visibly uncomfortable when you're praising the activities

2919
02:34:09,640 --> 02:34:12,160
Speaker 2: of Nazis. He went on the damn program and show

2920
02:34:12,200 --> 02:34:15,240
Speaker 2: both testes and a whole. At this point, they should

2921
02:34:15,400 --> 02:34:17,640
Speaker 2: there should not be anyone defending him, but the last

2922
02:34:17,640 --> 02:34:19,520
Speaker 2: that's not the world we live in. Rabbit fans of

2923
02:34:19,560 --> 02:34:21,959
Speaker 2: his are still saying this is some part of some

2924
02:34:22,080 --> 02:34:24,600
Speaker 2: playing what plan. They don't know either at this point,

2925
02:34:24,680 --> 02:34:26,960
Speaker 2: like these stories always go unless he gets the help

2926
02:34:27,000 --> 02:34:29,120
Speaker 2: he needs, we're basically waiting for him to do something

2927
02:34:29,120 --> 02:34:31,480
Speaker 2: that he cannot ever come back from. I remember when

2928
02:34:31,560 --> 02:34:33,760
Speaker 2: Dave Chappelle and other famous black man went over the

2929
02:34:33,760 --> 02:34:35,600
Speaker 2: whole i'man to visit him, and Dave said that he

2930
02:34:35,680 --> 02:34:38,480
Speaker 2: was fine, insane. He was clearly lying and we all knew.

2931
02:34:38,560 --> 02:34:41,360
Speaker 2: Everyone enable this. Now I think it's too late. M

2932
02:34:41,560 --> 02:34:45,560
Speaker 2: m yeah, basically everything he said. I like, yeah, I

2933
02:34:45,640 --> 02:34:47,280
Speaker 2: have nothing new to add to this shit. It's just

2934
02:34:47,320 --> 02:34:51,760
Speaker 2: the same shit. Like I love to have a different take,

2935
02:34:52,160 --> 02:34:55,880
Speaker 2: but I'll tell you what my different take is. I'm

2936
02:34:55,920 --> 02:34:59,760
Speaker 2: tired of people covering it just to dunk on it.

2937
02:35:01,160 --> 02:35:02,760
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, because that's what a lot

2938
02:35:02,760 --> 02:35:06,240
Speaker 2: of this is is, like it's it's I shouldn't say

2939
02:35:06,320 --> 02:35:11,720
Speaker 2: I'm tired of it. It's just from a content creator perspective,

2940
02:35:12,240 --> 02:35:17,040
Speaker 2: it's a layup. It's too easy, Like I want something

2941
02:35:17,040 --> 02:35:19,680
Speaker 2: a little more complicated than that for my podcast. So

2942
02:35:19,720 --> 02:35:22,520
Speaker 2: that's why we really don't talk about him in detail

2943
02:35:22,560 --> 02:35:25,640
Speaker 2: and play the clips and and oh, I can't believe

2944
02:35:25,680 --> 02:35:27,320
Speaker 2: he said that. Don't make no sense. I think he

2945
02:35:27,400 --> 02:35:31,039
Speaker 2: lied about this. It don't make no We know the

2946
02:35:31,120 --> 02:35:34,920
Speaker 2: Balenciaga stuff looked normal to me at first. Everyone online

2947
02:35:35,040 --> 02:35:36,800
Speaker 2: was like, ooh, it looks so bad to me. From

2948
02:35:36,800 --> 02:35:39,640
Speaker 2: the beginning. That's a lie. It was someone who always

2949
02:35:40,280 --> 02:35:42,320
Speaker 2: is online who zoomed in on some of the papers

2950
02:35:42,320 --> 02:35:43,959
Speaker 2: on the desk and saw legal papers that made us

2951
02:35:44,000 --> 02:35:46,280
Speaker 2: all aware of it. I don't think any normal person

2952
02:35:46,400 --> 02:35:48,119
Speaker 2: just looking at the ad would have noticed this, Even

2953
02:35:48,120 --> 02:35:50,320
Speaker 2: the people who worked on the thing didn't either. I

2954
02:35:50,360 --> 02:35:52,440
Speaker 2: personally think it was some weirdo person who sneaked that

2955
02:35:52,440 --> 02:35:54,440
Speaker 2: crap in there and ruined everything for that brand and

2956
02:35:54,480 --> 02:35:57,360
Speaker 2: the people involved. Everyone seems to care about this sort

2957
02:35:57,360 --> 02:36:00,480
Speaker 2: of thing only what seles and big brands are involved. Meanwhile,

2958
02:36:00,560 --> 02:36:03,920
Speaker 2: laws involved child crimes are still an antiquated and not

2959
02:36:04,280 --> 02:36:08,800
Speaker 2: have not been updated. Uh. Yeah, it totally went over

2960
02:36:08,840 --> 02:36:11,360
Speaker 2: my head shot through my man Bob from Firestar. He

2961
02:36:11,360 --> 02:36:13,720
Speaker 2: had d M me to tell me about the like

2962
02:36:14,640 --> 02:36:17,280
Speaker 2: the papers in there and people had zoomed in and

2963
02:36:17,320 --> 02:36:21,160
Speaker 2: it was like clear like trying to dog not dog whistle,

2964
02:36:21,200 --> 02:36:24,200
Speaker 2: would like bring up some pedophile shit as like an

2965
02:36:24,320 --> 02:36:27,400
Speaker 2: edgy way to promote this campaign and yeah, they getting

2966
02:36:27,400 --> 02:36:30,160
Speaker 2: fried and they deserve it. One more thing to Chris

2967
02:36:30,160 --> 02:36:32,400
Speaker 2: Brown almost performance from last week. I think the reason

2968
02:36:32,400 --> 02:36:35,240
Speaker 2: he couldn't perform was because Carucci has a lifelong restraining

2969
02:36:35,280 --> 02:36:37,959
Speaker 2: order against him. She was presenting that night to judge

2970
02:36:38,160 --> 02:36:40,640
Speaker 2: heard the voicemails he left her years ago, and order

2971
02:36:40,920 --> 02:36:44,080
Speaker 2: and ordered one. But nobody seems to talk about those things.

2972
02:36:44,080 --> 02:36:47,360
Speaker 2: People say, if Rihannack forgave you, you should you should too,

2973
02:36:47,840 --> 02:36:49,720
Speaker 2: as if she the only one he heard in that way,

2974
02:36:50,160 --> 02:36:53,720
Speaker 2: that we should forgive and move on personality or no,

2975
02:36:53,840 --> 02:36:56,840
Speaker 2: thank personally, no thanks, sorry for the rent, thanks off

2976
02:36:56,959 --> 02:36:59,959
Speaker 2: truly for the shelf step. From my understanding, once again,

2977
02:37:00,040 --> 02:37:02,200
Speaker 2: and secondhand information, I don't know if it's your y'all,

2978
02:37:02,280 --> 02:37:07,520
Speaker 2: let me know from my understanding, the caruci's restraining order

2979
02:37:07,560 --> 02:37:12,800
Speaker 2: has expired, so that they're saying that's not the reason.

2980
02:37:13,600 --> 02:37:16,280
Speaker 2: But a friend did hit me up and said, who

2981
02:37:16,520 --> 02:37:20,040
Speaker 2: is in the industry somewhat and she said it was

2982
02:37:20,440 --> 02:37:25,600
Speaker 2: him doing a tribute to Michael Jackson, who, regardless of

2983
02:37:25,600 --> 02:37:28,400
Speaker 2: how black people feel, for the most part, white people

2984
02:37:28,400 --> 02:37:32,600
Speaker 2: definitely think Michael Jackson did that shit. I mean, they

2985
02:37:32,640 --> 02:37:34,840
Speaker 2: make so many jokes about it and so much of

2986
02:37:34,879 --> 02:37:40,039
Speaker 2: their content. I know Black people are incomplete either denial

2987
02:37:40,280 --> 02:37:42,800
Speaker 2: or defense, you pick aside. I'm not trying to fight

2988
02:37:42,879 --> 02:37:46,720
Speaker 2: y'all today, but they black people are like Mike. You know,

2989
02:37:46,760 --> 02:37:49,039
Speaker 2: a lot of us are at a bigger percentage of

2990
02:37:49,080 --> 02:37:51,720
Speaker 2: us are more prone to be like either Mike didn't

2991
02:37:51,720 --> 02:37:53,480
Speaker 2: do it or they ain't got nothing to do with

2992
02:37:53,520 --> 02:37:54,160
Speaker 2: Mike's music.

2993
02:37:54,360 --> 02:37:54,480
Speaker 7: Right.

2994
02:37:55,640 --> 02:37:58,320
Speaker 2: White people don't feel that way, so they may have

2995
02:37:58,360 --> 02:38:03,320
Speaker 2: thought it was too much to have former or accused

2996
02:38:03,400 --> 02:38:07,480
Speaker 2: abuser and confirmed abuser in some cases, Chris Brown doing

2997
02:38:07,480 --> 02:38:11,199
Speaker 2: a tribute to Michael Jackson regardless of the fans picking

2998
02:38:11,240 --> 02:38:14,600
Speaker 2: his album and winning. The one thing that still does

2999
02:38:14,640 --> 02:38:18,080
Speaker 2: not make sense to me is, even with that reasoning,

3000
02:38:19,080 --> 02:38:23,200
Speaker 2: the Fan Choice awards booing the dude who won is

3001
02:38:23,240 --> 02:38:26,280
Speaker 2: still weird and it don't matter how you try to

3002
02:38:26,320 --> 02:38:29,680
Speaker 2: spend it. I can it can't have nothing to do

3003
02:38:29,720 --> 02:38:32,640
Speaker 2: with why he didn't perform. That had to be some

3004
02:38:32,800 --> 02:38:36,480
Speaker 2: weird stand shit like oh no, we wanted so and

3005
02:38:36,520 --> 02:38:41,720
Speaker 2: so to win because it don't make sense anyway, or no, no, no, sorry,

3006
02:38:41,760 --> 02:38:44,480
Speaker 2: it can make sense. There could be like some online

3007
02:38:44,600 --> 02:38:47,280
Speaker 2: contingent of people that just didn't show up who voted

3008
02:38:47,320 --> 02:38:50,560
Speaker 2: for Chris Brown or bots or something, and he's not

3009
02:38:50,680 --> 02:38:54,120
Speaker 2: really the most popular fan choice person and they were

3010
02:38:54,160 --> 02:38:56,240
Speaker 2: booing that. They were like, I didn't vote for this nigga,

3011
02:38:56,280 --> 02:39:00,000
Speaker 2: and everybody boo. I don't know anyway, not a big

3012
02:39:00,120 --> 02:39:03,680
Speaker 2: mystery to solve mister West. Mandy writ saying, dear Ryane Caroen,

3013
02:39:03,720 --> 02:39:07,200
Speaker 2: glad you all taking some carry yourself with some mean

3014
02:39:07,240 --> 02:39:10,120
Speaker 2: time during this holiday season. About Kanye West, I'm very

3015
02:39:10,160 --> 02:39:12,720
Speaker 2: perplexed about his actions and the public reactions to his

3016
02:39:12,840 --> 02:39:15,520
Speaker 2: recent ran against the Jews. If this was some white

3017
02:39:15,520 --> 02:39:18,920
Speaker 2: person that said all the anti Semitism rhetoric, people would

3018
02:39:18,920 --> 02:39:22,120
Speaker 2: want them to issue an apology, speak with Jewish organizations,

3019
02:39:22,160 --> 02:39:24,440
Speaker 2: and cancel him. How can I say this? It's like

3020
02:39:24,520 --> 02:39:26,720
Speaker 2: Kanye's saying, I said white lives matter, Let me prove

3021
02:39:26,760 --> 02:39:29,240
Speaker 2: it to you by being antisemitic and having white privilege

3022
02:39:29,440 --> 02:39:32,280
Speaker 2: because I'm wealthy and famous. If that makes sense, hope

3023
02:39:32,280 --> 02:39:35,800
Speaker 2: you get what I was trying to say. I don't

3024
02:39:35,800 --> 02:39:38,360
Speaker 2: think it necessarily makes sense because I don't think what

3025
02:39:38,440 --> 02:39:41,320
Speaker 2: Kanye's thinking makes sense right now. And that may be

3026
02:39:41,440 --> 02:39:45,120
Speaker 2: what he's thinking, it just don't There's no real logic

3027
02:39:45,200 --> 02:39:53,160
Speaker 2: to it. And I think also you're kind of glossing

3028
02:39:53,200 --> 02:39:57,120
Speaker 2: over that people do want him to apologize. People do

3029
02:39:57,160 --> 02:39:59,800
Speaker 2: want him to speak with Jewish organizations, and they have.

3030
02:40:00,000 --> 02:40:03,160
Speaker 2: I've canceled much of his contracts and money stuff. He

3031
02:40:03,400 --> 02:40:06,680
Speaker 2: just in his brain is not even calculating this as

3032
02:40:06,920 --> 02:40:10,120
Speaker 2: I should apologize and get my money back. He's like

3033
02:40:10,879 --> 02:40:12,640
Speaker 2: in his brain, he's like, this means I'm the savior.

3034
02:40:14,440 --> 02:40:16,400
Speaker 2: But none of that has yet to happen to Kanye though,

3035
02:40:16,440 --> 02:40:19,959
Speaker 2: because he is black and rich. No, no, man, he's

3036
02:40:19,959 --> 02:40:23,080
Speaker 2: skipping up. It has happened. He's lost there's some billions

3037
02:40:23,240 --> 02:40:26,200
Speaker 2: dollars or some shit, like he not a billionaire no more.

3038
02:40:26,360 --> 02:40:29,760
Speaker 2: He has lost things. I just don't think he cares. Nope,

3039
02:40:29,800 --> 02:40:34,560
Speaker 2: I don't think one. He'll never be broke broke, like

3040
02:40:34,879 --> 02:40:38,440
Speaker 2: like you know, eating that CC's pizza broke. So he

3041
02:40:38,560 --> 02:40:42,000
Speaker 2: gonna always have some level of money and fame. And

3042
02:40:42,080 --> 02:40:46,240
Speaker 2: I just don't think he cares. He'll sacrifice the status.

3043
02:40:46,520 --> 02:40:49,920
Speaker 2: His brain right now saying I will sacrifice being a

3044
02:40:50,040 --> 02:40:54,320
Speaker 2: billionaire to tell the quote unquote truth. So there's no pressure.

3045
02:40:55,080 --> 02:40:57,680
Speaker 2: I think this is the frustrating thing about Kanye. Everyone's

3046
02:40:57,720 --> 02:41:02,080
Speaker 2: engaging him like he's not mentally ill, right, Like there's

3047
02:41:02,080 --> 02:41:05,120
Speaker 2: a logic and a reason. Yeah, there's some point where

3048
02:41:05,120 --> 02:41:08,720
Speaker 2: he's gonna go, oh, I see, He's never gonna see

3049
02:41:09,400 --> 02:41:11,600
Speaker 2: and so you have to It's like a drug addict

3050
02:41:11,640 --> 02:41:14,440
Speaker 2: that won't get help. You just have to be like,

3051
02:41:14,480 --> 02:41:16,119
Speaker 2: well you can't come in my house and keep stealing

3052
02:41:16,160 --> 02:41:18,960
Speaker 2: my silverware, right, So I'm just locking the door, and

3053
02:41:19,040 --> 02:41:20,880
Speaker 2: that's what I've mentally done. I've just locked the door

3054
02:41:20,879 --> 02:41:25,440
Speaker 2: on Kanye. But yeah, hey, this hate. Just like Lebron

3055
02:41:25,520 --> 02:41:28,120
Speaker 2: is saying, the media needs to go get on Jerry

3056
02:41:28,160 --> 02:41:30,080
Speaker 2: Jones for what he did and the old pick in

3057
02:41:30,080 --> 02:41:32,760
Speaker 2: the nineteen fifties during segregation in the lead Kyrie alone

3058
02:41:33,080 --> 02:41:36,200
Speaker 2: for his anti semitism. I hate when statements are made

3059
02:41:36,320 --> 02:41:38,280
Speaker 2: like that from black people because it's saying let black

3060
02:41:38,320 --> 02:41:41,520
Speaker 2: people be and it's the phobic person because white people

3061
02:41:41,560 --> 02:41:43,400
Speaker 2: get away with that and we need to get that

3062
02:41:43,440 --> 02:41:45,720
Speaker 2: same treatment as well. First of all, that's not really

3063
02:41:45,720 --> 02:41:49,840
Speaker 2: what Lebron said, and Lebron was the person that spoke

3064
02:41:49,840 --> 02:41:53,720
Speaker 2: out against Kyrie Irvans anti semitism. I think what Lebron said,

3065
02:41:54,320 --> 02:41:55,920
Speaker 2: and you can disagree with her, of course, but what

3066
02:41:56,000 --> 02:42:01,920
Speaker 2: he said was Kyrie's apologized and done steps to redress

3067
02:42:01,959 --> 02:42:06,160
Speaker 2: the harm. It's time to move on. That's what he

3068
02:42:06,320 --> 02:42:10,720
Speaker 2: was saying. Jerry Jones has never apologized, He's does not

3069
02:42:10,959 --> 02:42:15,640
Speaker 2: addressed any harm. He's sixty something years later going it

3070
02:42:15,680 --> 02:42:17,360
Speaker 2: was no big deal. I was just there to see

3071
02:42:17,360 --> 02:42:19,720
Speaker 2: what was happening. I don't even know why this will

3072
02:42:19,760 --> 02:42:22,360
Speaker 2: be something to apologize for, so I do think those

3073
02:42:22,400 --> 02:42:26,320
Speaker 2: are two different things. But also most importantly, he didn't

3074
02:42:26,320 --> 02:42:29,840
Speaker 2: even really say hold Jerry Jones accountable. That's given Lebron

3075
02:42:29,879 --> 02:42:31,560
Speaker 2: a little too much credit. What he really said was

3076
02:42:31,560 --> 02:42:34,600
Speaker 2: why didn't y'all ask me about Jerry Jones? So who

3077
02:42:34,600 --> 02:42:36,959
Speaker 2: knows what the fuck he would us said. He might

3078
02:42:37,000 --> 02:42:38,280
Speaker 2: have been like, I don't have a problem with it,

3079
02:42:38,360 --> 02:42:40,440
Speaker 2: or he might have been like, you know, it's bad,

3080
02:42:40,520 --> 02:42:44,200
Speaker 2: but it ain't that bad, you know, Like I think

3081
02:42:44,240 --> 02:42:46,360
Speaker 2: he implied a lot of past aggressive stuff, but he

3082
02:42:46,360 --> 02:42:50,279
Speaker 2: didn't really. That was the weird thing about Lebron's statement.

3083
02:42:50,320 --> 02:42:53,960
Speaker 2: He didn't really say anything. I mean, he pointed out

3084
02:42:53,959 --> 02:43:02,320
Speaker 2: the hypocricy of media rooms not not understanding like racial

3085
02:43:02,400 --> 02:43:05,400
Speaker 2: questions and stuff like that, like they want to ask

3086
02:43:05,440 --> 02:43:08,640
Speaker 2: him about Black Lives Matter and Kaepernick but not Jerry Jones.

3087
02:43:09,120 --> 02:43:12,320
Speaker 2: That's a valid point, but it wasn't. He didn't really

3088
02:43:12,360 --> 02:43:14,600
Speaker 2: put a stance down in any of that. And it's

3089
02:43:14,600 --> 02:43:17,320
Speaker 2: been days now and I'm thinking about it. He's never

3090
02:43:17,360 --> 02:43:21,080
Speaker 2: really updated us with us stance. So whatever happened the

3091
02:43:21,080 --> 02:43:22,879
Speaker 2: next time he got interviewed or whatever. It's not like

3092
02:43:22,959 --> 02:43:24,800
Speaker 2: they brought up Jerry Jones and then Lebron had some

3093
02:43:24,840 --> 02:43:29,240
Speaker 2: deep shit to say. So it's very weird. Black people

3094
02:43:29,280 --> 02:43:31,000
Speaker 2: need to be held accountable for our actions. Just because

3095
02:43:31,000 --> 02:43:32,720
Speaker 2: I'm Black does not mean I have to engage in

3096
02:43:32,760 --> 02:43:36,160
Speaker 2: any ism or phobia whatsoever towards anyone. But everyone's just

3097
02:43:36,200 --> 02:43:38,400
Speaker 2: saying Kanye needs health. He's crazy, He's going through it.

3098
02:43:38,800 --> 02:43:40,840
Speaker 2: He will get over this, but it's not working. I

3099
02:43:40,879 --> 02:43:42,760
Speaker 2: hate to say this, but this is how we navigate

3100
02:43:42,760 --> 02:43:45,280
Speaker 2: mental illness in the black community. It's sad to say this,

3101
02:43:45,440 --> 02:43:47,400
Speaker 2: but it's true. People do not care about as well

3102
02:43:47,440 --> 02:43:49,680
Speaker 2: being really because it's all the money game and clout.

3103
02:43:50,120 --> 02:43:51,760
Speaker 2: It just does not sit well with me. I do

3104
02:43:52,720 --> 02:43:55,320
Speaker 2: not want to say I hope his lost on Kanye,

3105
02:43:55,440 --> 02:43:56,240
Speaker 2: but I'm disgusted.

3106
02:43:57,280 --> 02:44:00,600
Speaker 1: Also, he's responsible for his own mental health. Once you

3107
02:44:00,640 --> 02:44:03,760
Speaker 1: get to that foundation, a lot of the responsibility is

3108
02:44:03,840 --> 02:44:05,680
Speaker 1: taking off of you because he is.

3109
02:44:06,720 --> 02:44:08,480
Speaker 2: And you know, it's.

3110
02:44:08,320 --> 02:44:12,280
Speaker 1: One of those things too, to where like like I said,

3111
02:44:12,280 --> 02:44:15,560
Speaker 1: people are responding and saying these things, Yes, he's still accountable.

3112
02:44:16,040 --> 02:44:18,440
Speaker 1: Both can be true. He is accountable for his own

3113
02:44:18,480 --> 02:44:20,840
Speaker 1: mental health, and he's saying fucked up shit. They both

3114
02:44:20,879 --> 02:44:22,800
Speaker 1: could be true, but a lot of people that like

3115
02:44:22,920 --> 02:44:25,080
Speaker 1: acting like the mental illness piece is just not there,

3116
02:44:26,000 --> 02:44:27,360
Speaker 1: and that's the problem.

3117
02:44:27,879 --> 02:44:31,199
Speaker 2: Also, Like I just feel like, man, the's glossing over things.

3118
02:44:31,920 --> 02:44:34,280
Speaker 2: When you say hold him accountable, you mean like what

3119
02:44:34,520 --> 02:44:40,280
Speaker 2: take away his Adidas contract, close his school, lose you

3120
02:44:40,280 --> 02:44:43,760
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, lose all his money in his

3121
02:44:43,879 --> 02:44:49,200
Speaker 2: shoes and his and his fashions. Like he is being

3122
02:44:49,280 --> 02:44:52,480
Speaker 2: held accountable. I don't think in some ways, I don't

3123
02:44:52,480 --> 02:44:56,560
Speaker 2: think he cares right, And in this current climate, every

3124
02:44:56,640 --> 02:44:59,320
Speaker 2: single one of these people, even the worst of the worst,

3125
02:44:59,760 --> 02:45:01,720
Speaker 2: have there's a group of people that will back them

3126
02:45:01,840 --> 02:45:05,040
Speaker 2: to the grave. Yes, it don't matter what Alex Jones

3127
02:45:05,080 --> 02:45:08,160
Speaker 2: still got fans like. It's just so if we're looking

3128
02:45:08,200 --> 02:45:12,800
Speaker 2: for a one hundred percent complete ostracization of Kanye West,

3129
02:45:13,280 --> 02:45:15,600
Speaker 2: it's never gonna happen. And as long as you make

3130
02:45:15,640 --> 02:45:18,360
Speaker 2: that your goal, you're gonna always feel bad. But I

3131
02:45:18,400 --> 02:45:21,360
Speaker 2: think in a low, low key you're pathologizing black people

3132
02:45:21,360 --> 02:45:24,160
Speaker 2: in a way that's unfair to us, cause you're saying

3133
02:45:24,200 --> 02:45:28,040
Speaker 2: like we should have some monolithic response to this dude

3134
02:45:28,440 --> 02:45:33,199
Speaker 2: that is never in any other area when it comes

3135
02:45:33,240 --> 02:45:35,760
Speaker 2: to within the group. Really, you know what I'm saying,

3136
02:45:35,760 --> 02:45:38,360
Speaker 2: there's no group that doesn't have a person or two

3137
02:45:39,320 --> 02:45:42,760
Speaker 2: like this that some that some people within the group

3138
02:45:43,040 --> 02:45:45,560
Speaker 2: make excuses for, whether it be women, whether it be

3139
02:45:45,640 --> 02:45:48,400
Speaker 2: Jewish people, whether it be gay people, whether there's always

3140
02:45:48,400 --> 02:45:52,039
Speaker 2: some level of like contingent within the group that's like, yeah,

3141
02:45:52,160 --> 02:45:54,480
Speaker 2: but you see what I'm saying, And so I don't

3142
02:45:54,480 --> 02:45:58,280
Speaker 2: think black people are any exception of that. I just

3143
02:45:58,400 --> 02:46:02,560
Speaker 2: do not listen to or with them niggas period. If

3144
02:46:02,600 --> 02:46:04,640
Speaker 2: you're out here collins Man and genius, you're saying he

3145
02:46:04,720 --> 02:46:06,840
Speaker 2: making some good points. If you're thinking he needs to

3146
02:46:06,840 --> 02:46:09,280
Speaker 2: be interviewed, you're listening to every interview, you're thinking he

3147
02:46:09,320 --> 02:46:12,879
Speaker 2: should uh, you know, if you're thinking like his mental

3148
02:46:12,920 --> 02:46:15,920
Speaker 2: illness is like an excuse and that he can't be,

3149
02:46:16,480 --> 02:46:19,279
Speaker 2: you know, he can't be. He shouldn't be losing contracts

3150
02:46:19,280 --> 02:46:22,200
Speaker 2: and shit, demand just ain't healthy. If you're one of

3151
02:46:22,240 --> 02:46:25,320
Speaker 2: these people, I really not fucking with you anyway. So

3152
02:46:25,400 --> 02:46:29,480
Speaker 2: I guess that's why for me, it's very cut and dry, like, yes,

3153
02:46:29,520 --> 02:46:32,560
Speaker 2: he's mentally ill, Yes he does, he should get help,

3154
02:46:33,080 --> 02:46:36,840
Speaker 2: and no, that shouldn't stop anybody from not fucking with him.

3155
02:46:37,080 --> 02:46:40,320
Speaker 2: That's all that's to me is very simple. But like

3156
02:46:40,360 --> 02:46:42,520
Speaker 2: I said, I get it and it's right in again

3157
02:46:42,560 --> 02:46:45,480
Speaker 2: to say, dear Roddy Caan just just came to me.

3158
02:46:45,480 --> 02:46:47,120
Speaker 2: What if the main reason no one wants to label

3159
02:46:47,200 --> 02:46:50,720
Speaker 2: Kanye as an anti semic because people will use having

3160
02:46:50,720 --> 02:46:54,800
Speaker 2: a mental illness or episode causes anti Semitism, racism, and homophobia.

3161
02:46:55,080 --> 02:46:57,560
Speaker 2: I noticed people are trying to dance around labeling him

3162
02:46:57,560 --> 02:46:59,840
Speaker 2: anti Semitic, and I and don't want to sound racist

3163
02:46:59,840 --> 02:47:06,480
Speaker 2: by saying so maybe I think there's a weird thing

3164
02:47:06,560 --> 02:47:10,400
Speaker 2: that people are doing. And I'm really not trying to

3165
02:47:10,440 --> 02:47:12,680
Speaker 2: be controversial, but I think it's weird when we tell

3166
02:47:12,760 --> 02:47:17,240
Speaker 2: somebody what mental illness won't do. I just think it's weird.

3167
02:47:17,360 --> 02:47:19,320
Speaker 2: I think I think if mental illness can make a

3168
02:47:19,360 --> 02:47:23,320
Speaker 2: person murder their mother, then there then mental illness can

3169
02:47:23,400 --> 02:47:27,880
Speaker 2: probably make somebody uh glim onto some racism or bigotry.

3170
02:47:27,920 --> 02:47:30,840
Speaker 2: I think it can and just the same way I

3171
02:47:30,840 --> 02:47:33,160
Speaker 2: think what happens is people didn't go. So you're saying

3172
02:47:33,240 --> 02:47:36,720
Speaker 2: all racism and bigotry is mental illness. No, I'm not

3173
02:47:36,760 --> 02:47:40,200
Speaker 2: saying that, but I'm saying the brain chemistry is the

3174
02:47:40,240 --> 02:47:43,840
Speaker 2: brain chemistry. There's people that weren't acting like whatever, they

3175
02:47:43,840 --> 02:47:47,120
Speaker 2: were acting like, weren't taking their meds, and then just

3176
02:47:47,160 --> 02:47:50,320
Speaker 2: fucking do some wild, out of character shit or go

3177
02:47:50,400 --> 02:47:53,320
Speaker 2: on some weird fucking tangent and out into my brain.

3178
02:47:54,320 --> 02:47:56,800
Speaker 2: I'm so privileged to have a brain that only got

3179
02:47:56,840 --> 02:47:59,680
Speaker 2: to deal with like anxiety or whatever. I just go,

3180
02:47:59,840 --> 02:48:03,480
Speaker 2: I do not understand everything the brain is capable of.

3181
02:48:04,160 --> 02:48:06,240
Speaker 2: That's not my fight, of my struggle, And I don't

3182
02:48:06,280 --> 02:48:10,800
Speaker 2: feel any need to vilify them or like stand on

3183
02:48:10,840 --> 02:48:14,080
Speaker 2: my soapbox or like what I when I was off

3184
02:48:14,160 --> 02:48:17,200
Speaker 2: my mass, I didn't hate Jewish people. It's like, well,

3185
02:48:17,280 --> 02:48:20,440
Speaker 2: you're not supposed to, Like duh, nigga, that's not your fight,

3186
02:48:20,600 --> 02:48:25,440
Speaker 2: you know. So even there's grades to bipolar, there's grades

3187
02:48:25,520 --> 02:48:28,280
Speaker 2: just chizophrenia. Like a lot of this stuff is just

3188
02:48:28,360 --> 02:48:33,000
Speaker 2: not quantifiable in a black and white way. So I

3189
02:48:33,040 --> 02:48:36,119
Speaker 2: do think people have written themselves into a weird corner

3190
02:48:36,120 --> 02:48:41,480
Speaker 2: where they can't say what they probably believe, which is

3191
02:48:42,240 --> 02:48:47,720
Speaker 2: we think Kanye's anti Semitism is strongly connected to his

3192
02:48:48,000 --> 02:48:52,160
Speaker 2: untreated bipolar disorder. No, I just think people are because

3193
02:48:52,200 --> 02:48:55,160
Speaker 2: we've said too often, like it's no excuse there's no Okay,

3194
02:48:55,640 --> 02:48:59,120
Speaker 2: mental health does not make you racist. Okay, it can't.

3195
02:48:59,160 --> 02:49:02,120
Speaker 2: It's impossible, and racist people don't need no excuses. It's

3196
02:49:02,120 --> 02:49:04,640
Speaker 2: not a mental illness. And we've done it so much

3197
02:49:04,680 --> 02:49:07,160
Speaker 2: that when we're watching it happen to somebody, we're like,

3198
02:49:07,440 --> 02:49:09,360
Speaker 2: that can't be what it is. I don't know. It's

3199
02:49:09,360 --> 02:49:12,120
Speaker 2: been a couple of years. The motherfucker won't take his

3200
02:49:12,200 --> 02:49:14,440
Speaker 2: mens and he won't stop talking about these Jews. It

3201
02:49:14,520 --> 02:49:18,920
Speaker 2: wasn't happening. They hell of a coincidence, hell of a coincidence.

3202
02:49:19,440 --> 02:49:22,560
Speaker 2: So I don't know. Maybe, but yeah, if you want

3203
02:49:22,560 --> 02:49:24,600
Speaker 2: to call it anti semitic, I've heard people say that.

3204
02:49:24,720 --> 02:49:26,800
Speaker 2: I really haven't seen a lot of pushback against call

3205
02:49:26,879 --> 02:49:30,200
Speaker 2: him at ta semitic. But I also once again will

3206
02:49:30,240 --> 02:49:33,240
Speaker 2: highlight I do not talk to these motherfuckers y'all talk to.

3207
02:49:34,200 --> 02:49:37,920
Speaker 2: So if there's somebody making these weird defenses of him,

3208
02:49:38,280 --> 02:49:40,240
Speaker 2: your boy has missed out on it, because I would

3209
02:49:40,280 --> 02:49:42,280
Speaker 2: never waste my motherfucking time. We don't get a lot

3210
02:49:42,280 --> 02:49:44,320
Speaker 2: of time on this earth. None of it's gonna be

3211
02:49:44,360 --> 02:49:48,879
Speaker 2: wasted with Kanye defenders. Period. Hello twenty six forty one

3212
02:49:48,959 --> 02:49:50,920
Speaker 2: calling a prime out Aaron says hell, all right, and Karen,

3213
02:49:50,920 --> 02:49:52,400
Speaker 2: I used to work in financial aid and I had

3214
02:49:52,400 --> 02:49:55,040
Speaker 2: to deal with students who didn't meet the GPA requirements

3215
02:49:55,120 --> 02:49:56,680
Speaker 2: during the year, and that grants and loans will be

3216
02:49:56,720 --> 02:49:59,280
Speaker 2: canceled until they brought that GPA up, so that meant

3217
02:49:59,280 --> 02:50:01,720
Speaker 2: paying for class the pocket until your GPA was good.

3218
02:50:02,040 --> 02:50:04,600
Speaker 2: Students could appeal to get their aid back in the

3219
02:50:04,600 --> 02:50:06,960
Speaker 2: head of the Financial aid department with review each situation

3220
02:50:07,040 --> 02:50:10,039
Speaker 2: with their team. Students who were in a situation like divorce,

3221
02:50:10,120 --> 02:50:13,280
Speaker 2: death or family member car accident, etc. Would most likely

3222
02:50:13,320 --> 02:50:15,959
Speaker 2: have their appeal excepted because the situation happened and they

3223
02:50:16,040 --> 02:50:19,320
Speaker 2: were able to agree properly or have a resolution. With

3224
02:50:19,400 --> 02:50:24,039
Speaker 2: mental health circumstances, unless they indicate they were in therapy

3225
02:50:24,160 --> 02:50:28,160
Speaker 2: or on medication, those appeals usually didn't pass because if

3226
02:50:28,240 --> 02:50:32,120
Speaker 2: they still are going through the same thing, was it

3227
02:50:32,200 --> 02:50:36,080
Speaker 2: What is to say that they will now be successful Now.

3228
02:50:36,120 --> 02:50:38,879
Speaker 2: We were in an online university, so we didn't have

3229
02:50:39,000 --> 02:50:43,000
Speaker 2: the assistances for students and with mental health problems. But

3230
02:50:43,080 --> 02:50:45,680
Speaker 2: I think even though Yale and other institutions are business,

3231
02:50:45,680 --> 02:50:47,680
Speaker 2: they should try to help the students instead of just

3232
02:50:47,760 --> 02:50:49,600
Speaker 2: kicking them out and not letting them back in. But

3233
02:50:49,680 --> 02:50:51,959
Speaker 2: I also understand because many schools want to keep the

3234
02:50:51,959 --> 02:50:55,800
Speaker 2: money flowing to have a strong reputation. Aaron, Yeah, Real

3235
02:50:55,840 --> 02:50:58,199
Speaker 2: Cash twenty two. But I'm on your side of the

3236
02:50:58,200 --> 02:51:00,560
Speaker 2: they should they should do, they should air on the

3237
02:51:00,560 --> 02:51:01,720
Speaker 2: side of helping these kids.

3238
02:51:02,160 --> 02:51:03,960
Speaker 1: Oh, very completely understandable.

3239
02:51:04,160 --> 02:51:06,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, Alicia says, hey, y'all, I had to stop this

3240
02:51:06,480 --> 02:51:09,040
Speaker 2: episode to type the cmail real quick, y'all. This man

3241
02:51:09,080 --> 02:51:11,720
Speaker 2: lost a job opportunity because Penis was too big. Get

3242
02:51:11,879 --> 02:51:14,520
Speaker 2: out of here, either heline or the HR and the

3243
02:51:14,600 --> 02:51:17,039
Speaker 2: hiring manager saw what was going on with TJ and

3244
02:51:17,080 --> 02:51:19,120
Speaker 2: Amy and said, not on my watch.

3245
02:51:19,160 --> 02:51:20,440
Speaker 1: Shut out on my watch.

3246
02:51:20,640 --> 02:51:23,000
Speaker 2: They took one look at that slong and said thanks,

3247
02:51:23,000 --> 02:51:23,800
Speaker 2: but no thanks.

3248
02:51:25,680 --> 02:51:28,160
Speaker 1: They looked at that Penis they said, get get hair.

3249
02:51:28,560 --> 02:51:31,400
Speaker 2: I love schlang. That's a good reference, good gook. That's

3250
02:51:31,440 --> 02:51:35,080
Speaker 2: a good funny slang. And the fact that he's devastated

3251
02:51:35,200 --> 02:51:37,480
Speaker 2: about it reminds me of that story y'all cover years

3252
02:51:37,480 --> 02:51:40,440
Speaker 2: ago about the guy who had uncontrollable orgasms. I remember

3253
02:51:40,520 --> 02:51:43,160
Speaker 2: riding justin laughing so hard at that man. When y'all

3254
02:51:43,200 --> 02:51:46,160
Speaker 2: covered that story, I was still working in the vaccine

3255
02:51:46,200 --> 02:51:48,440
Speaker 2: lad where everyone was quiet, kind of Seriously, I took

3256
02:51:48,520 --> 02:51:51,280
Speaker 2: all I had to keep from laughing out loud when

3257
02:51:51,360 --> 02:51:53,200
Speaker 2: y'all played the clip of him crying because he had

3258
02:51:53,240 --> 02:51:55,720
Speaker 2: an orgasm at one of his parents' funeral. If you

3259
02:51:55,840 --> 02:51:58,400
Speaker 2: can't remember the episode that was, please let me know.

3260
02:51:58,800 --> 02:52:00,760
Speaker 2: I might have to run that one on the days

3261
02:52:00,760 --> 02:52:02,800
Speaker 2: where y'all don't put out a show. Thanks y'all. The

3262
02:52:02,840 --> 02:52:06,000
Speaker 2: other Alicia who used to write into the show, Oh man,

3263
02:52:06,080 --> 02:52:10,320
Speaker 2: I don't remember the title of that one either, but yo,

3264
02:52:10,480 --> 02:52:13,520
Speaker 2: that man that was one of the top stories we've

3265
02:52:13,560 --> 02:52:19,120
Speaker 2: ever covered on the show because that man, that man

3266
02:52:19,360 --> 02:52:26,560
Speaker 2: was straight up losing losing it. Let's see we have

3267
02:52:27,040 --> 02:52:29,440
Speaker 2: so I'll just put an orgasm on our website to

3268
02:52:29,480 --> 02:52:33,440
Speaker 2: go look at some of these episodes, so maybe this

3269
02:52:33,480 --> 02:52:37,880
Speaker 2: will be one of them. We have one where we

3270
02:52:37,879 --> 02:52:42,440
Speaker 2: were joined by justin seven eighty seven positively orgasmic. Yeah,

3271
02:52:42,440 --> 02:52:44,480
Speaker 2: I think this is the one because this is the

3272
02:52:44,480 --> 02:52:48,760
Speaker 2: picture of the man from the article I remember, so yeah,

3273
02:52:48,879 --> 02:52:54,280
Speaker 2: check out seven eighty seven positively orgasmic, because I think

3274
02:52:55,120 --> 02:52:58,959
Speaker 2: that's the one. Yeah, we just wrote in the description

3275
02:52:59,080 --> 02:53:01,320
Speaker 2: for him is just organ as a man. So I'm

3276
02:53:01,320 --> 02:53:06,640
Speaker 2: pretty sure. I'm pretty hell pretty sure that's it if.

3277
02:53:06,480 --> 02:53:08,400
Speaker 1: It's simple over here, straight to the point.

3278
02:53:09,000 --> 02:53:13,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think that's probably the one. If not

3279
02:53:13,520 --> 02:53:19,000
Speaker 2: my bad, but I can't find a better example. All right,

3280
02:53:19,080 --> 02:53:23,800
Speaker 2: let's talk about the next voicemail I mean email email,

3281
02:53:24,000 --> 02:53:28,520
Speaker 2: I say, voicemail John right saying this is the last one.

3282
02:53:29,320 --> 02:53:31,720
Speaker 2: Good morning, Riding, Karen, Karen, what is happening here? First

3283
02:53:31,760 --> 02:53:33,959
Speaker 2: you call Ride a monkey? Then you're out here sending

3284
02:53:34,040 --> 02:53:36,920
Speaker 2: get well soon calls to Vladimir Putin? Are we six

3285
02:53:36,959 --> 02:53:40,720
Speaker 2: weeks away from you change your name to Karen? Yay? Huh?

3286
02:53:40,760 --> 02:53:43,000
Speaker 2: We were all rooting for you. I know what was

3287
02:53:43,080 --> 02:53:46,000
Speaker 2: up with that. I don't okay, I didn't do any

3288
02:53:46,040 --> 02:53:52,360
Speaker 2: of this. Yes you did, oh be Yeah, and you

3289
02:53:52,480 --> 02:53:57,199
Speaker 2: definitely called you definitely call me monkey. I'm calling the news.

3290
02:53:57,320 --> 02:54:01,240
Speaker 2: I'm calling the news. I'm offended the story about the family.

3291
02:54:01,240 --> 02:54:06,280
Speaker 1: I call you a mucky them. I didn't before.

3292
02:54:06,440 --> 02:54:09,000
Speaker 2: You definitely said the right, the white racist way like

3293
02:54:09,040 --> 02:54:10,040
Speaker 2: you did say it before.

3294
02:54:10,040 --> 02:54:11,119
Speaker 1: I'm hard.

3295
02:54:15,480 --> 02:54:18,440
Speaker 2: This is why YouTube took our episode off the air.

3296
02:54:19,480 --> 02:54:20,600
Speaker 1: They did, they took it down.

3297
02:54:20,720 --> 02:54:23,080
Speaker 2: They took an episode off. I don't know what we did.

3298
02:54:23,120 --> 02:54:25,440
Speaker 2: They just said they violated the hate speech was probably

3299
02:54:25,440 --> 02:54:27,840
Speaker 2: played guest the race, and I'm just telling you now,

3300
02:54:28,560 --> 02:54:30,880
Speaker 2: they like, y'all got one more strike and you off

3301
02:54:30,959 --> 02:54:33,120
Speaker 2: the off of YouTube, and I think they said, we

3302
02:54:33,240 --> 02:54:36,640
Speaker 2: have a we can't upload the episode for a week,

3303
02:54:37,280 --> 02:54:39,920
Speaker 2: so I don't know how long we're gonna last on

3304
02:54:39,959 --> 02:54:42,280
Speaker 2: YouTube because I didn't think we did not wrong and

3305
02:54:42,360 --> 02:54:44,879
Speaker 2: I appealed it and they said, no, y'all, y'all definitely

3306
02:54:45,000 --> 02:54:45,800
Speaker 2: racist or whatever.

3307
02:54:45,920 --> 02:54:50,720
Speaker 1: So mmm uh that story if I think y'all don't.

3308
02:54:50,840 --> 02:54:53,600
Speaker 1: The thing is, y'all havet robots running. Y'all don't give

3309
02:54:53,600 --> 02:54:55,640
Speaker 1: people a list of words, and then you who know,

3310
02:54:55,720 --> 02:54:57,120
Speaker 1: nobody knows what is happening.

3311
02:54:57,320 --> 02:54:59,480
Speaker 2: I know, even if you could have just told me

3312
02:54:59,520 --> 02:55:01,440
Speaker 2: what part of it was, I could have clipped it out.

3313
02:55:01,480 --> 02:55:03,920
Speaker 2: But they don't even do that. It's like, it's hey, speech,

3314
02:55:03,959 --> 02:55:07,000
Speaker 2: watch the whole thing. I'm like, which part am I

3315
02:55:07,200 --> 02:55:10,360
Speaker 2: watching for? Be mindful of all the rules and watch

3316
02:55:10,440 --> 02:55:12,959
Speaker 2: this hour and forty five minutes, Like, okay, you.

3317
02:55:12,920 --> 02:55:15,720
Speaker 1: Don't give me a book of the rules. The fuck?

3318
02:55:16,120 --> 02:55:19,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? But yeah. The story about the family hiring tennis

3319
02:55:19,520 --> 02:55:22,720
Speaker 2: coach to d program that daughter's brainwashing from attending a

3320
02:55:22,800 --> 02:55:25,320
Speaker 2: liberal university is the whitest thing ever. Just another example

3321
02:55:25,360 --> 02:55:28,680
Speaker 2: of conservatives having everything backwards. What the family fears is

3322
02:55:28,720 --> 02:55:31,000
Speaker 2: that her colleague experience will give her the tools and

3323
02:55:31,080 --> 02:55:34,400
Speaker 2: lived experienced a challenge, and I learned their brainwashing both

3324
02:55:34,480 --> 02:55:37,680
Speaker 2: whatever Christian morals Dave indoctrinated her in sense birth, as

3325
02:55:37,680 --> 02:55:40,920
Speaker 2: well as with all the white supremacist, patriarchal bullshit that

3326
02:55:41,040 --> 02:55:43,120
Speaker 2: is everywhere in our society. I've seen this sort of

3327
02:55:43,160 --> 02:55:46,120
Speaker 2: thing firsthand. My dad is an old school buck Buckley

3328
02:55:46,240 --> 02:55:49,600
Speaker 2: style conservative, and he had a list of schools that

3329
02:55:49,720 --> 02:55:51,640
Speaker 2: my sister and I couldn't go to because he thought

3330
02:55:51,959 --> 02:55:55,320
Speaker 2: we would both get indoctrinated with radical feminism or such

3331
02:55:55,560 --> 02:55:58,840
Speaker 2: some such. This fear of woke or PC college campuses

3332
02:55:58,920 --> 02:56:02,080
Speaker 2: is real and has been probably since integration is so silly,

3333
02:56:02,120 --> 02:56:05,400
Speaker 2: but it's real among white people. Rod. I really appreciate

3334
02:56:05,400 --> 02:56:07,840
Speaker 2: the deep dive on friendship for adult man. It's something

3335
02:56:07,879 --> 02:56:10,760
Speaker 2: I've realized that I need more recently. Like you said,

3336
02:56:11,280 --> 02:56:13,280
Speaker 2: as much as I love my wife and she will

3337
02:56:13,280 --> 02:56:15,279
Speaker 2: always be my best friend, it's not fair and healthy

3338
02:56:15,280 --> 02:56:19,360
Speaker 2: for us to have nobody else mm hm, because that

3339
02:56:19,520 --> 02:56:22,120
Speaker 2: does broach into what Karen was talking about, and I

3340
02:56:22,160 --> 02:56:25,400
Speaker 2: think that's where Karen was going earlier that I completely

3341
02:56:25,600 --> 02:56:27,320
Speaker 2: the only reason I was like, we don't even have

3342
02:56:27,360 --> 02:56:30,680
Speaker 2: to talk about it, because I completely agree if these

3343
02:56:30,760 --> 02:56:33,880
Speaker 2: men that go, I don't have any male healthy friendships.

3344
02:56:34,320 --> 02:56:38,520
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna just dump everything onto my wife and

3345
02:56:38,560 --> 02:56:41,480
Speaker 2: she needs to be my therapist and my best friend

3346
02:56:41,520 --> 02:56:46,320
Speaker 2: and my only outlet. That to me seems so shortsighted

3347
02:56:46,560 --> 02:56:51,600
Speaker 2: and intense. And if you start throwing in the actual labor,

3348
02:56:51,680 --> 02:56:55,760
Speaker 2: not just emotional, but the actual labor divide in our household,

3349
02:56:56,320 --> 02:56:58,720
Speaker 2: and you see that a lot of times women do

3350
02:56:58,840 --> 02:57:02,320
Speaker 2: the bulk of it and get the least amount of reciprocation.

3351
02:57:03,200 --> 02:57:06,279
Speaker 2: Once you add that in there, it's just a fucking uh.

3352
02:57:07,520 --> 02:57:11,160
Speaker 2: It's just like a blueprint for a fucked up relationship.

3353
02:57:11,480 --> 02:57:12,320
Speaker 4: M m m.

3354
02:57:12,520 --> 02:57:16,720
Speaker 1: And then all all people that I've made equally, there's

3355
02:57:16,760 --> 02:57:19,680
Speaker 1: so women to go fuck this and fuck you and

3356
02:57:19,720 --> 02:57:21,520
Speaker 1: they're like, I'm not doing this no more.

3357
02:57:22,160 --> 02:57:24,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, of course, I mean, yeah, that's what I'm saying.

3358
02:57:24,400 --> 02:57:26,960
Speaker 2: It's it's almost like you're making it for where a

3359
02:57:26,959 --> 02:57:29,040
Speaker 2: woman would want to do that. It's like all I

3360
02:57:29,080 --> 02:57:30,920
Speaker 2: got to do all the fucking work around here, and

3361
02:57:31,160 --> 02:57:34,160
Speaker 2: just like who, I can't really vent to you, You're

3362
02:57:34,160 --> 02:57:36,760
Speaker 2: always venting to me, I can't really lean on you.

3363
02:57:36,760 --> 02:57:39,080
Speaker 2: You always leaning on me, and I'm a break you know.

3364
02:57:39,280 --> 02:57:42,240
Speaker 2: M huh. But yeah. Another thing I've noticed is that

3365
02:57:42,280 --> 02:57:45,400
Speaker 2: once we men start to settle down with wives and partners,

3366
02:57:45,400 --> 02:57:47,600
Speaker 2: et cetera, we also realized that a lot of our

3367
02:57:47,600 --> 02:57:49,840
Speaker 2: friends circle was based primarily on going out and trying

3368
02:57:49,879 --> 02:57:52,320
Speaker 2: to get laid. I realized that I had several friends

3369
02:57:52,360 --> 02:57:55,760
Speaker 2: who were really nothing more than that. Yeah, yeah, for sure,

3370
02:57:55,840 --> 02:57:58,879
Speaker 2: I see that. Like the worst is when you are

3371
02:57:58,920 --> 02:58:00,640
Speaker 2: married and you go out with one of those type

3372
02:58:00,680 --> 02:58:04,040
Speaker 2: of people and you've realized in the middle of the

3373
02:58:04,160 --> 02:58:09,360
Speaker 2: night or whatever, like I'm not friends with this nigga, Like, yeah,

3374
02:58:09,440 --> 02:58:11,840
Speaker 2: it's like this motherfucker is just out trying to holler

3375
02:58:11,840 --> 02:58:13,879
Speaker 2: at every chick at this bar. Why the fuck did

3376
02:58:13,920 --> 02:58:15,720
Speaker 2: I come out? I thought we were gonna watch the

3377
02:58:15,760 --> 02:58:18,200
Speaker 2: game and eat potato skins or some ship, you know,

3378
02:58:18,320 --> 02:58:21,600
Speaker 2: Like I was ready for a complete wash night engine

3379
02:58:21,600 --> 02:58:23,840
Speaker 2: at ten am, ten at night at.

3380
02:58:23,760 --> 02:58:25,880
Speaker 1: The latest, they like we stayed out tire too.

3381
02:58:26,080 --> 02:58:28,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, these motherfuckers trying to go all night long and

3382
02:58:28,400 --> 02:58:32,040
Speaker 2: go to several clubs and parties. I don't do this, y'all.

3383
02:58:32,080 --> 02:58:34,879
Speaker 2: Have me absolutely down with that TJ. Reynolds cheating story.

3384
02:58:34,879 --> 02:58:39,680
Speaker 2: I think Holmes like Karen with young rappers. I have

3385
02:58:39,760 --> 02:58:41,560
Speaker 2: no idea who any of these people are what we

3386
02:58:41,600 --> 02:58:45,080
Speaker 2: could tell because you said TJ. Reynolds, not TJ. Holmes,

3387
02:58:45,360 --> 02:58:50,600
Speaker 2: You're like me. Who Yeah, TJ. Reynolds is the best

3388
02:58:50,600 --> 02:58:55,320
Speaker 2: selling author of Eternal Online. Oh shit, So I don't

3389
02:58:55,920 --> 02:58:59,600
Speaker 2: that's some nerves stuff like caring with young rappers. I

3390
02:58:59,640 --> 02:59:02,000
Speaker 2: know I did. These people are except Andrew Shoe, who

3391
02:59:02,080 --> 02:59:05,360
Speaker 2: I remember from Melrose Place. But it was still absolutely hilarious.

3392
02:59:05,400 --> 02:59:07,960
Speaker 2: Right if I may ask, where is that I told you?

3393
02:59:08,040 --> 02:59:08,120
Speaker 1: So?

3394
02:59:08,360 --> 02:59:11,800
Speaker 2: Didn't I tell you? Clip from with Everything Happening? Oh?

3395
02:59:11,959 --> 02:59:13,880
Speaker 2: That clip is from Family Guy.

3396
02:59:14,080 --> 02:59:15,960
Speaker 1: From Family Guy, it's the fucking best.

3397
02:59:16,360 --> 02:59:20,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh god man, there's a couple of clips that.

3398
02:59:20,440 --> 02:59:22,760
Speaker 1: We ran to get to use. Thats the fucking best.

3399
02:59:23,320 --> 02:59:25,280
Speaker 2: I told you? What did I tell you?

3400
02:59:25,480 --> 02:59:26,440
Speaker 7: Didn't I tell you?

3401
02:59:26,640 --> 02:59:30,120
Speaker 2: Cause I told you? And when did I tell you

3402
02:59:30,280 --> 02:59:32,680
Speaker 2: a long time ago? And what did I say? What

3403
02:59:32,800 --> 02:59:33,880
Speaker 2: happened when I told you?

3404
02:59:34,160 --> 02:59:36,200
Speaker 1: Exactly? What does happen? Now?

3405
02:59:36,440 --> 02:59:38,959
Speaker 2: This clip is what I was I wasn't gonna say

3406
02:59:38,959 --> 02:59:40,480
Speaker 2: the clips I really get to use. I was gonna

3407
02:59:40,520 --> 02:59:43,039
Speaker 2: end this sent it's totally different. What I'm saying is

3408
02:59:43,480 --> 02:59:47,119
Speaker 2: there's a couple of clips that I find how fucking

3409
02:59:47,200 --> 02:59:51,480
Speaker 2: ilarious that are wrong on so many levels. Oh, I

3410
02:59:51,520 --> 02:59:53,640
Speaker 2: can see that, and this is one of those. It's

3411
02:59:53,680 --> 02:59:57,320
Speaker 2: like the I think the cutaway was something like, oh, well,

3412
02:59:57,320 --> 03:00:01,240
Speaker 2: that's like when a black woman told told you something

3413
03:00:01,240 --> 03:00:03,160
Speaker 2: and you didn't listen and they have to let you know,

3414
03:00:03,320 --> 03:00:05,360
Speaker 2: like whatever it was. And then it cuts to like

3415
03:00:05,400 --> 03:00:07,640
Speaker 2: a black woman in a beauty salon. It's clearly a

3416
03:00:07,680 --> 03:00:11,959
Speaker 2: white man doing his voice of what a black woman

3417
03:00:12,040 --> 03:00:16,400
Speaker 2: sounds like, and that even makes it more hilarious. And

3418
03:00:16,480 --> 03:00:19,199
Speaker 2: I get that some people will find that extremely offensive

3419
03:00:19,280 --> 03:00:21,320
Speaker 2: or whatever, and I'm not arguing with them there that's

3420
03:00:21,320 --> 03:00:25,279
Speaker 2: their bird crossed the bear. But for me, it god damn,

3421
03:00:25,280 --> 03:00:27,200
Speaker 2: that shit was so funny. And then another one that

3422
03:00:27,280 --> 03:00:29,440
Speaker 2: stands out to me that I have never even saved

3423
03:00:30,040 --> 03:00:37,959
Speaker 2: to do on this show, but it's Robot Chicken and this, uh,

3424
03:00:39,040 --> 03:00:45,240
Speaker 2: it was this clip where I don't even know how

3425
03:00:45,240 --> 03:00:48,000
Speaker 2: to find it, but it was this clip where it

3426
03:00:48,120 --> 03:00:54,199
Speaker 2: was like a like twelve angry men spoof, right, and

3427
03:00:54,520 --> 03:01:00,480
Speaker 2: the one black person on the black character because animated

3428
03:01:00,520 --> 03:01:03,280
Speaker 2: show kind of the one black character in the spoof

3429
03:01:03,879 --> 03:01:08,760
Speaker 2: talks real for lack of a better term, slavey to talk,

3430
03:01:08,840 --> 03:01:12,480
Speaker 2: you know, And so they had the person like the

3431
03:01:12,600 --> 03:01:15,560
Speaker 2: character like talk like. It was like and how do

3432
03:01:15,600 --> 03:01:18,240
Speaker 2: you rule or whatever. It's like, oh yo, honor, we

3433
03:01:18,440 --> 03:01:22,760
Speaker 2: find the defend that, right, And so there's this beat

3434
03:01:22,840 --> 03:01:28,760
Speaker 2: because it's like this offensive racial like accent and probably

3435
03:01:28,800 --> 03:01:32,480
Speaker 2: done by a white man. But then the dude looks

3436
03:01:32,480 --> 03:01:36,480
Speaker 2: at the camera and says, what every black person on

3437
03:01:36,560 --> 03:01:40,120
Speaker 2: TV got to be a positible tear role model, And

3438
03:01:40,440 --> 03:01:46,000
Speaker 2: oh my god, it's not just funny. It's extremely smart. Like,

3439
03:01:46,040 --> 03:01:49,760
Speaker 2: it's not just funny. Like the only thing truly quote

3440
03:01:49,840 --> 03:01:53,320
Speaker 2: unquote offensive about it to me is a white person

3441
03:01:53,360 --> 03:01:55,320
Speaker 2: made the joke. But I'm not. But if I'm being frank,

3442
03:01:55,400 --> 03:01:57,640
Speaker 2: I'm not even really offended. I think funny is funny,

3443
03:01:58,120 --> 03:02:02,160
Speaker 2: but it's so goddamn funny and right and it's relevant.

3444
03:02:02,240 --> 03:02:06,600
Speaker 2: I think of this almost every time a black person

3445
03:02:06,879 --> 03:02:12,400
Speaker 2: gets real respectable about representation on TV, social media, whatever.

3446
03:02:12,879 --> 03:02:16,359
Speaker 2: I always think, like, why isn't our race gotta always

3447
03:02:16,360 --> 03:02:20,880
Speaker 2: one hundred have positive role models. Some people are just

3448
03:02:21,040 --> 03:02:24,720
Speaker 2: fucked up and people like them, or they're charismatic but

3449
03:02:24,800 --> 03:02:28,280
Speaker 2: it has no reflection on me. Like Chris Brown might

3450
03:02:28,320 --> 03:02:31,160
Speaker 2: be fucked up. That ain't got shit to do with me.

3451
03:02:31,280 --> 03:02:32,800
Speaker 2: If you think Chris Brown's fucked up, you know what

3452
03:02:32,840 --> 03:02:35,360
Speaker 2: I mean? Pick the person actually I shouldn't even said

3453
03:02:35,360 --> 03:02:37,200
Speaker 2: the name, but pick a person that you are like,

3454
03:02:37,240 --> 03:02:40,680
Speaker 2: that person's the worst. I'm not sitting around being like

3455
03:02:40,760 --> 03:02:43,680
Speaker 2: and that person represents how I feel, you know what

3456
03:02:43,760 --> 03:02:46,920
Speaker 2: I mean? And that's that ah and that just and

3457
03:02:47,160 --> 03:02:49,600
Speaker 2: or like insecure when they're like, we're out the condoms

3458
03:02:49,600 --> 03:02:52,360
Speaker 2: and I just want that that clip. I'm gonna go

3459
03:02:52,400 --> 03:02:54,680
Speaker 2: find that clip. I just want that clip for the dude.

3460
03:02:54,760 --> 03:02:57,320
Speaker 2: Like every black person on TV got to be a

3461
03:02:57,400 --> 03:03:00,480
Speaker 2: positive room model, cause I'm like, yes, what the fuck?

3462
03:03:00,520 --> 03:03:02,760
Speaker 2: Why did we have to do that? That's not fair

3463
03:03:02,840 --> 03:03:03,440
Speaker 2: to us.

3464
03:03:04,200 --> 03:03:06,680
Speaker 1: Because we don't have no diversity and not trying funny

3465
03:03:06,840 --> 03:03:09,320
Speaker 1: all that positive part of this shit. Y'all niggas, don't

3466
03:03:09,360 --> 03:03:11,640
Speaker 1: watch it. You lied. I watched the ship. Did y'all

3467
03:03:11,680 --> 03:03:15,400
Speaker 1: claim that? Y'all y'all wanted. Nobody watched that ship, so

3468
03:03:15,480 --> 03:03:16,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to hear it no more.

3469
03:03:16,879 --> 03:03:22,840
Speaker 2: Anyway. I'm just saying it's it's hilarious and uh, sad

3470
03:03:22,840 --> 03:03:25,039
Speaker 2: that white people made the best joke about it. But

3471
03:03:26,280 --> 03:03:28,640
Speaker 2: that clip, I'm gonna find it. With everything happening in

3472
03:03:28,640 --> 03:03:30,600
Speaker 2: the DLJ and Jacksmith, I feel like I'm gonna need

3473
03:03:30,640 --> 03:03:32,840
Speaker 2: to put that clip into heavy use. That didn't I

3474
03:03:32,840 --> 03:03:37,039
Speaker 2: tell you? Yes, uh ps, congrasso season to a game theory.

3475
03:03:37,040 --> 03:03:39,280
Speaker 2: I'll be on the lookout for a toilet snake joke.

3476
03:03:40,480 --> 03:03:43,720
Speaker 2: Cheers and stay safe. John oh Man, I don't know

3477
03:03:43,720 --> 03:03:48,000
Speaker 2: what jokes are gonna get worked into there, but uh yeah, man, that's.

3478
03:03:48,080 --> 03:03:52,680
Speaker 1: I'm root for pretty tang. That's what my that's what

3479
03:03:52,760 --> 03:03:53,440
Speaker 1: my vote is.

3480
03:03:54,879 --> 03:03:56,920
Speaker 2: Well, we did get a couple of things in the mail.

3481
03:03:57,080 --> 03:04:00,760
Speaker 2: I think some cards we haven't said out yet, and

3482
03:04:00,760 --> 03:04:02,440
Speaker 2: it'll probably be a while. Like I said, some of

3483
03:04:02,520 --> 03:04:06,160
Speaker 2: y'all these cars might not be coming for to act

3484
03:04:06,200 --> 03:04:09,160
Speaker 2: the way after the holiday season. But thank you for

3485
03:04:09,240 --> 03:04:11,800
Speaker 2: those who emailed us, are mailing addresses, and those who

3486
03:04:11,879 --> 03:04:20,199
Speaker 2: sent theirs already. This one is from uh the Smiths,

3487
03:04:20,720 --> 03:04:24,760
Speaker 2: and it says we hope this season brings you many

3488
03:04:24,760 --> 03:04:27,520
Speaker 2: great memories and wonderful reasons to smile. May every day

3489
03:04:27,560 --> 03:04:30,360
Speaker 2: of twenty twenty three bring new opportunities for joy and laughter, warmth,

3490
03:04:30,400 --> 03:04:33,480
Speaker 2: and love and everything you desire. And it's this beautiful

3491
03:04:33,480 --> 03:04:34,440
Speaker 2: couple right here.

3492
03:04:34,640 --> 03:04:38,160
Speaker 1: Can y'all see this all a dum ball?

3493
03:04:38,760 --> 03:04:41,320
Speaker 2: They got pajama the match of pajamas, and then they

3494
03:04:41,360 --> 03:04:42,800
Speaker 2: got like a whole photo shoot.

3495
03:04:43,520 --> 03:04:45,480
Speaker 1: Yay, they got like the cat.

3496
03:04:45,800 --> 03:04:47,879
Speaker 2: You know, the cat is in there. I don't now listen,

3497
03:04:47,920 --> 03:04:50,400
Speaker 2: I don't know what's over these pet lovers. Y'all gotta

3498
03:04:50,400 --> 03:04:52,880
Speaker 2: stop giving your animals credit. Okay, they didn't do shit.

3499
03:04:52,959 --> 03:04:56,039
Speaker 2: You bought the card, you took the picture. These little

3500
03:04:56,040 --> 03:05:00,760
Speaker 2: motherfuckers getting by on y'all's on y'all's generosity. I said,

3501
03:05:00,800 --> 03:05:04,879
Speaker 2: the cat didn't buy nothing, no no photo h we got.

3502
03:05:06,200 --> 03:05:08,880
Speaker 2: We got this beautiful one that's just like Christmas ornaments

3503
03:05:08,920 --> 03:05:11,520
Speaker 2: hanging on the front, and they're like tactile you can

3504
03:05:11,520 --> 03:05:16,920
Speaker 2: fill on on the inside. It says, uh, Dear Rod

3505
03:05:16,959 --> 03:05:18,880
Speaker 2: and Caaren, may your Christmas be filled with all the

3506
03:05:18,959 --> 03:05:20,880
Speaker 2: joy that makes this the most special time of years.

3507
03:05:20,920 --> 03:05:24,720
Speaker 2: And silly tippers Mike and Debbie. Thank you Mike and Debbie. Oh.

3508
03:05:25,200 --> 03:05:27,760
Speaker 1: I like the cars. I can put it over here

3509
03:05:27,760 --> 03:05:29,680
Speaker 1: with the other cars that I've been collected like an

3510
03:05:29,680 --> 03:05:31,680
Speaker 1: old grandma since they first started coming in.

3511
03:05:31,800 --> 03:05:33,720
Speaker 2: We do have all y'all's cards in this house somewhere.

3512
03:05:33,879 --> 03:05:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we do all of them. I'm not gonna lie.

3513
03:05:37,840 --> 03:05:41,800
Speaker 2: Yep, all right, And this is the last one I believe,

3514
03:05:44,280 --> 03:05:47,080
Speaker 2: and it's yeah, it's the last one I see. And

3515
03:05:47,120 --> 03:05:49,680
Speaker 2: if I missed one, that's on me. But I think

3516
03:05:49,760 --> 03:05:50,800
Speaker 2: I got everything you did.

3517
03:05:51,360 --> 03:05:51,480
Speaker 1: Uh.

3518
03:05:51,520 --> 03:05:54,320
Speaker 2: It's got two snowmen on the front, snow people. I

3519
03:05:54,320 --> 03:05:57,280
Speaker 2: don't know what they genders. Why did I sound? It's

3520
03:05:57,320 --> 03:05:59,920
Speaker 2: got two snow days. I don't know the right thing.

3521
03:06:01,200 --> 03:06:05,520
Speaker 2: And it says on the inside, may you always have

3522
03:06:05,640 --> 03:06:08,720
Speaker 2: fun in the snow, and it says made this beautiful

3523
03:06:08,720 --> 03:06:13,200
Speaker 2: holiday season. Fill your heart with love your Uh you

3524
03:06:13,320 --> 03:06:16,840
Speaker 2: have your heart, your home with joy, and your life

3525
03:06:16,840 --> 03:06:21,160
Speaker 2: with laughter. And it looks like Carl and a bearra

3526
03:06:21,480 --> 03:06:24,520
Speaker 2: or a Burda something like that. I hope they mess

3527
03:06:24,600 --> 03:06:28,439
Speaker 2: up anybody's name, too bad, But thank you everybody, Thank you.

3528
03:06:28,480 --> 03:06:32,000
Speaker 1: Just know you can find our address at the Black

3529
03:06:32,000 --> 03:06:35,440
Speaker 1: Guy Hoo TIFFs dot com. Uh what about us?

3530
03:06:35,640 --> 03:06:39,480
Speaker 2: Slash about slash about the amount of times Karen goes

3531
03:06:39,560 --> 03:06:43,960
Speaker 2: on just a limb? I do not know, but I'm

3532
03:06:43,959 --> 03:06:47,520
Speaker 2: gonna just say something and hope that Rod is here

3533
03:06:48,360 --> 03:06:51,000
Speaker 2: to make it right. Is crazy when you think about it,

3534
03:06:51,920 --> 03:06:53,880
Speaker 2: because she could wait like a second, and of course

3535
03:06:54,080 --> 03:06:55,920
Speaker 2: I could say it, or she could ask, but she

3536
03:06:56,040 --> 03:06:57,400
Speaker 2: was like, no, I don't need to know the end

3537
03:06:57,440 --> 03:07:00,560
Speaker 2: of this thing. He'll figure it out that that's a

3538
03:07:00,720 --> 03:07:02,840
Speaker 2: that's that should be a drinking game. The amount of

3539
03:07:02,840 --> 03:07:05,440
Speaker 2: times saying does that and the amount of time she

3540
03:07:05,520 --> 03:07:08,640
Speaker 2: finishes my sentences with something I wasn't gonna say because

3541
03:07:08,680 --> 03:07:11,080
Speaker 2: she's good for that one too. Yeah, I'm like, this

3542
03:07:11,280 --> 03:07:13,400
Speaker 2: reminds me of It's like the kind of this. I'm like,

3543
03:07:13,440 --> 03:07:15,080
Speaker 2: that's not what I was gonna say, but this is

3544
03:07:15,120 --> 03:07:19,080
Speaker 2: what I would have said if I would have been

3545
03:07:19,120 --> 03:07:20,720
Speaker 2: allowed to wait.

3546
03:07:20,440 --> 03:07:21,840
Speaker 1: A few seconds.

3547
03:07:22,080 --> 03:07:25,520
Speaker 2: It's all good. I love you, thanksful listening. Everybody will

3548
03:07:25,520 --> 03:07:29,200
Speaker 2: be back soon. Like I said, I have a lot

3549
03:07:29,200 --> 03:07:30,640
Speaker 2: of ship that I have to do in the next

3550
03:07:31,160 --> 03:07:36,000
Speaker 2: a week or so. And unfortunately, or I guess fortunately

3551
03:07:36,040 --> 03:07:39,879
Speaker 2: and fortunately bittersweet, I'll be recording in New York next

3552
03:07:39,879 --> 03:07:44,480
Speaker 2: time that we record, and uh, it'll be but it

3553
03:07:44,520 --> 03:07:47,080
Speaker 2: will also be meaning that I'm making money from doing

3554
03:07:47,120 --> 03:07:49,280
Speaker 2: season to a game theory, so that'll be good, you know.

3555
03:07:49,760 --> 03:07:51,840
Speaker 2: So all right, y'all will talk to y'all soon. Until then,

3556
03:07:51,920 --> 03:07:53,119
Speaker 2: I love you,