1 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 2: Hey, everybody, welcome to the Misspelling Podcast. My friend Tory 3 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 2: is still sick and outsell I'm filling in for her, 4 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: and I am very very excited because I get to 5 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: sit down with one of my really good friends and 6 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 2: newscast mates of the Valley Persian Style, Tanna Nickpay, Hi Jann, Hello, 7 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: thank you for having me. 8 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 3: Thanks for being here girl. 9 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,639 Speaker 2: I'm happy to fill in for Toy and I can't 10 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 2: wait to see her get better because I have a 11 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:47,279 Speaker 2: little bone to. 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 3: Pick with her. 13 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,959 Speaker 4: But everybody's not feeling good right now. 14 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's going to be a really good podcast. Tune 15 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 3: into that one. I'm excited to do this. 16 00:00:57,640 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: This is weird, though, because we're such good friends, and 17 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 2: I feel weird like asking you questions. 18 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 3: But just pretend I'm Tori. 19 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 2: Blonde, beautiful, like live in life, boss. 20 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: Stop just pretend that's me. Please. 21 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 2: If you had to let the world know a little 22 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 2: bit about yourself, like, what would. 23 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 3: You want them to know? 24 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 4: I guess just a little bit about my background. 25 00:01:21,760 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: I was born in Iran, you know, I was kind 26 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: of born and raised in Iran. I even went to 27 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: high school there. So I read and write Farsi. I 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,480 Speaker 1: moved around all my childhood. I lived in Dubai for 29 00:01:33,560 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: a bit, London for a bit, but I moved from 30 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:39,040 Speaker 1: Iran when I was sixteen years old, and I moved 31 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: to the Bay Area and graduated high school right when 32 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: I got into Palalto and yeah, and then I ended 33 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: up moving to la in twenty ten. I really got 34 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: into hospitality at the time. I was in it for 35 00:01:53,400 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: about twenty two years. I got into tech industry after that, 36 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: and then now here I am doing reality TV. But 37 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: that's just really a short cut of little background of 38 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: kind of where I've been and what I've done. 39 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 2: And that's like kind of like how we met. You know, 40 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: we met because we had a mutual friend and at 41 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 2: that time, you were definitely in the hospitality world and 42 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 2: you were connected to everything, and it was like, if 43 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: you ever want to get into a restaurant, if you 44 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: ever want to get anything booked, like call a tan 45 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 2: and that's what we hadually on speed dial. Girl, Like 46 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 2: I remember that I transition from that into the tech world. 47 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 2: It was just it was the stress was still the 48 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 2: same for you, because I saw you in both worlds 49 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 2: and you were just a lot of stress, hard work 50 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: and all that. 51 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 3: You're a hard worker though. 52 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: You know, it was always operations and it was different 53 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 1: products for me. So tech was tech and hospitality was hospitality. 54 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: But in so many ways, managing people and operating a business, 55 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: it all really kind of comes down to be very similar. 56 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 4: So yeah, I know, but I know that's how we met. 57 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: We met in Seattle, actually not even in la and 58 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: that's when I was to deal a hospitality project with 59 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 1: a mutual friend of ours. 60 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 2: Do you think your life has changed at all once 61 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 2: you said yes to the show compared to what your 62 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 2: life was like before cameras were on it. 63 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: Absolutely, I mean I don't think, I uh, it has 64 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: fully registered because it's still very new, so but I 65 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: already can tell it's changed. I don't think I really 66 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 1: thought this through now that it's airing. 67 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 3: I mean, you watched me go through it right with Shaws. 68 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 3: For years. You were always around. 69 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 2: I mean I always say people like go through all 70 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 2: the seasons and binge it. 71 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 3: I'm sure they would see you in the background of you. 72 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 2: Know, different events and different parties and stuff like that 73 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 2: we had on Shaws. 74 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 3: So I mean it is different, Like even I'm. 75 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: Curious, Like I obviously before you said yes to doing this, 76 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 2: I gave you my thoughts and I was like, listen, 77 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: this is a smart move to make you get to 78 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: not only open up. 79 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 3: Your whole life for people to wigh in and judge 80 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 3: you every single step of the way. 81 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 2: But and I'm saying this in the words of Tori 82 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 2: Spelling because she's a branding and marketing genius, so I know. 83 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: She would do this. 84 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 2: But it's a huge platform to put your businesses and 85 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,479 Speaker 2: what we're working on out there into the world. And 86 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 2: you have an amazing skincare line, which you know, everyone 87 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 2: got a little chance in an. 88 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 3: Episode to see. 89 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 2: I would like to know how did you come up 90 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 2: with this product? And then how did it get to 91 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 2: that point to that scene, you know, So let's start 92 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 2: from how the product came about. 93 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean this product I've been working on since 94 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: twenty nineteen. 95 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,039 Speaker 4: Then that was the passion project for me. 96 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I was very much more focusing on running 97 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:52,480 Speaker 1: other people's company than you know, thinking of this product 98 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:55,360 Speaker 1: as being anything other than for myself. So this is 99 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: what I've been using on my skin for Well, we 100 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: start in twenty nineteen, but I've really been using it 101 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: for three and a half years, non stuff. I were 102 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: it three times a day, but it was a passion project. 103 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 1: And then when this came about, which I don't know 104 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: if you really warned me about reality TV that much. 105 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,760 Speaker 1: You were telling me all the positive things. I don't 106 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: think you really covered the negative things. 107 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Now I told you the good stuff. I 108 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 3: told you the perks. 109 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 5: I told you the perks, and then you know, it 110 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 5: was really a risk for me to take because being 111 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 5: an operator in a tech company and then being a 112 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 5: reality TV cast, it may risk like me getting another 113 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 5: job in that world, right, because not everyone's going to 114 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 5: be like, oh I can't have my chief operating or whatever, 115 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 5: be like some reality TV like I don't know, it 116 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 5: could take away from that. 117 00:05:44,880 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: So it really came out of time that I was 118 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:49,479 Speaker 1: really ready to part ways with that. I was with 119 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: the last company for six years and this product was 120 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 1: something I just really believe in. 121 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 4: So I was like, you know what, this show. 122 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: Is coming at it at a very specific time, I'm 123 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 1: ready to kind of part with from that specific company, 124 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: and then now I'm ready to launch this product. So 125 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: I think it all really just happened at the same 126 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: time and you saw me unveil my product to a friend. 127 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 2: I mean, I I because I know you so well, 128 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 2: it's hard for me to not want to put my 129 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 2: feelings and input into a lot of the things, you know, 130 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: along with this product. But we did see you take 131 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 2: your product to your best friend house, you know, and 132 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 2: she rubbed it all over her dogs. You seeing that scene, 133 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 2: I obviously wasn't there. So I'm looking at your face. 134 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, she doesn't look. 135 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 3: Very happy about. 136 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 2: This, you know, but it just kind of seemed like 137 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 2: it was laughed off and you know, brushed under. Well, 138 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,719 Speaker 2: did you feel a certain way to see that? Were 139 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 2: you expecting something different from your friend? 140 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 141 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: I mean listen, they asked me, how do you want 142 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: to unvail your product? I said, I want to do 143 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: it to my best friends. So obviously my expectation was 144 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 1: a little different. 145 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 3: And by the way, this is a. 146 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: Cruelty free product. We don't really test this on animals, 147 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: so it's a it's not for that. Actually, I remember, 148 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: right before she put it on the dog, she asked 149 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: me if this is for your face? So you know, no, 150 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: that was not the expectations and not a not everything 151 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: was shown there, but it was you know, she did 152 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: rub it on the dogs for quite some time, and 153 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:28,239 Speaker 1: I just did not expect that from someone I picked 154 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: to unveil my. 155 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 4: Product too, So yeah, it was. 156 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: It was a little bit more disappointing that I probably 157 00:07:33,600 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: portrayed on the scene. 158 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: So will we will we get a chance to see 159 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 2: more about your product all throughout the season? 160 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: You will, absolutely, I mean I think that scene ended 161 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:48,239 Speaker 1: up being an interesting scene in this whole season. 162 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 4: But yes, you will definitely see a lot more on 163 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 4: my product. I hope. 164 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, I don't get to see the episodes either, 165 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: but I hope you will get to see a lot more. 166 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 2: Well, I'm excited. I'm excited to see those scenes. I mean, 167 00:07:59,760 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: people don't realize this. We get to see this show for. 168 00:08:03,560 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: The first time along with the audience, and it's like 169 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 3: we're like, oh, wow, she's doing that. It looks amazing, 170 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 3: like seeing you. You know that? So I'm excited. 171 00:08:12,760 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 2: All right, So you're on the show, you have this product, 172 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 2: you've been in hospitality tech, and you're married to my 173 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 2: brother Greg, not my real brother, but he's like my 174 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 2: soul brother. 175 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 3: And it's been an interesting, interesting. 176 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 2: And very entertaining process to watch you guys, I know 177 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,880 Speaker 2: you personally, and I get to now watch you guys 178 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 2: on TV, and I just want to lead with thank 179 00:08:40,760 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 2: you for being so authentic and open and vulnerable, because 180 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: to me, I very very rarely get a chance to 181 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:54,560 Speaker 2: see a couple on TV that I identify with myself, 182 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 2: because I feel like everyone has their guards up so 183 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 2: much and they're protecting so much, and it's like it's fake, 184 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: and we know it's fake. Like relationships have crazy ways, 185 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: they're up there down I just want to say thanks 186 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: for showing that, because I really do relate to you. 187 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,679 Speaker 3: I always thought I was. 188 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 2: Crazy because I want to be in a relationship, but 189 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 2: I can't sleep next to someone. I don't fall asleep. 190 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 2: I just don't fall asleep, you know. So I was like, 191 00:09:21,480 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 2: oh my god, that's so relatable. 192 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 3: So it's not just me. I can get married. 193 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: Then, you know, like all these thoughts go through my mind. 194 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 2: But then you see the opposite reaction and you see that, 195 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:36,920 Speaker 2: you know, there's just this friendship dynamic between you and Greg. 196 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:41,200 Speaker 2: And then there's this scene about him giving his number. 197 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 3: And people calling him. It's two am, and you know, 198 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 3: so there's just this roller coaster. 199 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,600 Speaker 2: But if people are now seeing your relationship for the 200 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 2: first time, what do you say to them, Like, what's 201 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 2: the process? 202 00:09:53,120 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 3: What are we expecting out of this? 203 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: I mean listen, like, yeah, I was surprised to honestly 204 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: kind of put it all out there too, Especially as newbies. 205 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,280 Speaker 4: We were kind of like, you know what. 206 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: That's just who we are and you know me, like, 207 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: this is how we are in person too, And maybe 208 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: you know, what's so good about this show is kind 209 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: of therapeutic because as I'm watching these scenes, I'm like, 210 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: oh wow, like some of these are bigger problems and 211 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: some of them are not that bad, you know. So 212 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: it's very interesting as you watch yourself on TV. 213 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 4: And because it's all real, none of it was made up. 214 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 4: So I don't know. 215 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: I think some of the things like sleeping in different rooms, 216 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: I hope we can normalize it. I think that, you know, 217 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 1: I see a lot of feedback where people are like, 218 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:40,840 Speaker 1: thank god you're saying it, because we all do it, 219 00:10:40,880 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: but no one ever talks about it. So I think 220 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: no one has a perfect marriage. If you do, then 221 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 1: something is probably wrong more than you thought. So I 222 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 1: just think that for us, it worked, it worked for 223 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: us to sleep in separate rooms. 224 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 4: Yesterday I went to get to my hairdresser, was. 225 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: Like, thank you for saying that, because I also sleep 226 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 1: separate rooms. Like I went and told my mother in law, like, look, 227 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: everybody else. 228 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 4: Is doing it. 229 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 1: So the only time that it's a problem is the 230 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: two of you both one of you is upset about it. 231 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 1: Then that's a whole different situation and you have to 232 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,319 Speaker 1: work on. We're both very happy about that. But as 233 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: far as our marriage, listen, we have our communication problems. 234 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,440 Speaker 1: We still do and we're still trying to figure it out. 235 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: And the text message was not I know, it was 236 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: really blown out of proportion. I think it was the 237 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: more the hypocrisy of the conversation that made me kind 238 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 1: of put him in his place quickly. 239 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 2: But I mean, I think people out there need to 240 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 2: also understand one very important fact. You are a Scorpio 241 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 2: and he's a Sagittarius, And as a sagittarius, I don't 242 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: think I would ever. 243 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 3: Be able to be with a scorpio. So my hat is. 244 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 2: Off to Greg because your more best friend style to 245 00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:58,200 Speaker 2: a sagittarius. 246 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. 247 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 2: So I get where relationships marriages can get a little 248 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 2: lost sometimes when the friendship is so rock solid. You know, 249 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:08,640 Speaker 2: I've seen that a lot, but I love him and 250 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 2: I see. 251 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 3: How he loves you. 252 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 2: I think as a Sagittarius, we show our love in 253 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: certain ways, just like a Scorpio. You know, you cook, 254 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 2: you clean, you make sure that house is perfect, you take. 255 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 3: Care of everything. You know, we all show it differently, 256 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 3: and I'm excited for people to see that. 257 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 2: Was there anything for you that you thought maybe you 258 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 2: don't want to bring forward, or things that you just 259 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: thought are better left not on camera. 260 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not. 261 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 2: Saying you have to bring it up because of what 262 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 2: I'm saying is, like what Shaw's a sense that we 263 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 2: as a group at that time came up with this 264 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:54,320 Speaker 2: deal that we would never go there with each other's families, 265 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 2: like certain things should be off limits sometimes because we 266 00:12:58,320 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 2: have to protect our families. 267 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:03,000 Speaker 3: So was there anything for you that was you know 268 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 3: like that. 269 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 4: I think for me it was family dynamics too. 270 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:10,079 Speaker 1: But I also didn't think I was going to come 271 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: so forward with my marriage, like you know, just bringing 272 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: everything out very quickly. So I guess I ended up 273 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: bringing most of it out, to be honest, But yes, 274 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: I usually would say family dynamics. 275 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 4: I wouldn't really want to muddy that water too much. 276 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, you were very open, I mean your openness and 277 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:33,240 Speaker 2: vulnerability by sharing those. 278 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 3: Photos of yourself after your accident. 279 00:13:35,880 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 2: It was made me very very very I don't know, 280 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 2: just oh, I wanted to hug you so much, you know. 281 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 3: And I remember you. 282 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:49,000 Speaker 2: First sent me those photos like right after it had happened, 283 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 2: and you were asking me where to buy hair from 284 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, like backup. 285 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 3: What what what just happened? What are you talking about? 286 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 3: And that was a lot for you to share. Your 287 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 3: accident was a big deal. 288 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 2: How did that feel for you to know that you 289 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 2: pretty much were supposed to be dead? Does that change 290 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 2: your life's perspective? Like do you look at life differently? 291 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:18,199 Speaker 2: Does anything change? 292 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:19,479 Speaker 4: Absolutely? 293 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 1: I think I think if I need to remind myself 294 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: of that every morning when I wake up, because I 295 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: think there's a level of gratitude you. 296 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 4: Reach when something like that, you know. 297 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 1: Happens, because because then I was like, I'm just the 298 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 1: luckiest person, Like I not only I was meant to 299 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: be dead. If I were to be alive, I'm meant 300 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: to I would I was really the five time percent 301 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 1: that made it to still be able to finish my 302 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: sentences and be able to talk to you right now 303 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: or somewhat have a memory even though my memory sucks. 304 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:53,360 Speaker 4: But you know, it's just I'm so lucky. 305 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:58,000 Speaker 1: So the gratitude level is so high and and honestly, 306 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: it makes a lot of things in life very instant magnificant. 307 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 1: So some of the bigger issues are not as significant 308 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 1: to me than maybe when someone tells me about it, 309 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: where I'm like, girl, there's like so much more shit 310 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 1: you could be going through that, So that's so much 311 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: worse that, like, things could be just so much worse. 312 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: So you have to and I have to kind of 313 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: remember that too, because there are times that I'm just 314 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: so upset about the silliest shit and I'm like, dude, 315 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: like this is nothing you know and do what other 316 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:28,800 Speaker 1: people deal with? 317 00:15:29,760 --> 00:15:32,120 Speaker 2: What type of reaction have you been getting so far 318 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 2: from sharing stuff like your accident and your marriage all 319 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:36,560 Speaker 2: this stuff. 320 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 3: Have you been getting trolls? Have you been getting positive feedback? 321 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 3: What's it been like. 322 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 1: I've been getting both, honestly, but I've actually felt a 323 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 1: lot of support so far, which has been very heartwarming. 324 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 1: I feel like the accident alone, Like I didn't realize 325 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: that we're going to show those pictures. I don't I 326 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: don't usually show those photo Most people don't like to 327 00:15:57,440 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: see photos like that, So I was very surprised that 328 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 1: it was like intense. 329 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 3: It was very intense. I mean to see that on 330 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 3: the big screen like that. 331 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 2: Like it was just like, oh wow, I was so 332 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: just I've just been so proud of you every step 333 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 2: of the way so far. 334 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 4: Thank you. And that's that's like a small part of it. 335 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: I had my jaw broken, I had my coavical have 336 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: a metal in here at my scapulous, So there was 337 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:26,000 Speaker 1: a lot that happened during that car crash. But yeah, no, absolutely, 338 00:16:26,040 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 1: I just think your your perspective on life completely changes. 339 00:16:30,000 --> 00:16:32,640 Speaker 2: That's I mean, it makes sense you become a little 340 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:36,520 Speaker 2: bit more like accepting of all types of human beings, 341 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 2: like your best friend. But wall, we'll let this, We'll 342 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 2: let the show speak for itself in the episodes to come. 343 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 3: Where were we on this question? 344 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 2: Have you ever watched an episode back and thought like 345 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 2: that's not kind of like how it felt in real life, 346 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 2: or maybe that's not how it was, or something has 347 00:16:58,760 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: that happened. 348 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 4: It has already happened on a couple of things. 349 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: I would say, actually the oil on the dog thing 350 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,880 Speaker 1: was even more extreme than what you saw. And even 351 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: like the last episode on the Trunk Show, I feel 352 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: like there was just so much more that maybe happened. 353 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 1: But listen, there's a lot of us, so it's very 354 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 1: hard to cover everything. 355 00:17:18,160 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 4: So what's in my mind that matters? 356 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,199 Speaker 1: Like, it's hard to like put everything in one So 357 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,640 Speaker 1: there's a lot that's in my mind missed. But I'm 358 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 1: hoping that by the end of the show the narrative 359 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:30,360 Speaker 1: stays authentic to who we all are. 360 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 5: For sure. 361 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, girl, girl, I I got a bunch 362 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,160 Speaker 6: of seasons under my bow, and I'll tell you season 363 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:44,000 Speaker 6: after season, episode after episode, you're like, but wait a minute, but. 364 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:47,040 Speaker 3: Wait a minute, that's not how well, you know what. 365 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 2: It also sort of opened my own mind to the 366 00:17:49,760 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 2: fact that perception, you know, we really do have different 367 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,679 Speaker 2: sets of perception from person to person, from the cameraman 368 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 2: to the editing person to our producer, to each other, 369 00:18:01,640 --> 00:18:06,160 Speaker 2: and it's not always up to us what people decide 370 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 2: to take away from that. It's only our decision what 371 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 2: we give, you know, then it's up to everyone else. 372 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:13,440 Speaker 3: So it does sometimes feel that way. 373 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 2: And it's not that it's fake, it's just it was 374 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 2: seen through a different lens. 375 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 3: You know. That's the interesting part of reality TV. 376 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 2: But like, listen this this episode from you know this, 377 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 2: this newest episode for I'm livid that they did not 378 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:39,359 Speaker 2: show after you know home Skellet tried to address me 379 00:18:39,640 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: about smoking weed, she took the joint out of my 380 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 2: hand and started puffing on it. So right after she 381 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 2: had just said that she doesn't smoke weed every day, 382 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:54,239 Speaker 2: but she does drink wine every day at home, and 383 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, wow, you know, because my son's 384 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 2: never seen me drink before ever, not ever ever, you know, 385 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,239 Speaker 2: So you know, I guess it's okay to be, you know, 386 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,879 Speaker 2: an alcoholic and smoke weed every now and then while 387 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 2: you're going off on someone about not smoking weed. So 388 00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 2: I do get upset as well that they don't show 389 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 2: certain things. 390 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 1: I was very surprised they didn't show what you just said. 391 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 1: I was very surprised about that. 392 00:19:19,520 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, perspective, perspective, But well, we'll see. There's a lot 393 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 3: of seasons. 394 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 2: I mean, there's still a lot of episodes to come, 395 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 2: and there's more seasons to come, hopefully hopefully, so I 396 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 2: think I think we'll be redeeming ourselves very soon. What 397 00:19:36,840 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: would you say there's one thing that viewers would be 398 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 2: surprised the most to learn about you that maybe didn't 399 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 2: make it on camera this season. 400 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, if hopefully it shows, maybe they would 401 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 1: be surprised to know that I love to host and 402 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 1: have gatherings and cook for my loved ones and family 403 00:19:58,840 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: like twenty fours. 404 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 4: Maybe I would say that, I don't know. I'm sure, 405 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:04,639 Speaker 4: I don't know. 406 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: I mean, there's so many things to my life from 407 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: my career and then to my personal life where you know, 408 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: you have different aspects of how you are with people, 409 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: So I'm sure not all of it will be shown 410 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,719 Speaker 1: on this show. So I think it'll take I don't know. 411 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:22,440 Speaker 1: Maybe by the end of the season I watch it 412 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 1: and be like, yeah, this all of it is shown, 413 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 1: so I'll have to decide. 414 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, like for me as knowing you personally, 415 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,080 Speaker 2: and I think it's very difficult. 416 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,040 Speaker 3: People don't realize how it does. 417 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:37,719 Speaker 2: Take some getting acclimated to when you have like twenty 418 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,399 Speaker 2: cameras all over the place staring at you and a 419 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 2: microphone pack and you know, a battery pack on the 420 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,680 Speaker 2: back and all the lights and everything. 421 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:48,240 Speaker 3: You got to remember to be in your natural zone. 422 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:51,160 Speaker 2: But it's also sometimes it takes a little getting used 423 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 2: to that. 424 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 3: But for me watching you while we were filming, I 425 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 3: wished that maybe you would have been. 426 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:02,760 Speaker 2: More vocal about out certain feelings you were having where 427 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 2: I could see were. 428 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 3: Going through your mind, that you were. 429 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 7: Thinking the feelings like when they saw the oil going 430 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 7: on the dogs. I wish there was like a translator 431 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,480 Speaker 7: in your brain that could like sign language or caption 432 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 7: the screen for what you were thinking in that moment. 433 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,200 Speaker 4: I don't know if you noticed. 434 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,199 Speaker 1: I literally started stuttering because I was talking about my 435 00:21:24,280 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 1: oil and I was like yeah and uh, but I 436 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: was like I didn't even I couldn't really talk. 437 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,640 Speaker 4: So to be honest, I was as shocked as you were. 438 00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 1: It was still authentic to who I am, because I 439 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 1: genuinely was like just more like it took me like 440 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 1: a couple of days to register what happened. You know, 441 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,400 Speaker 1: I was like, because I love dogs, and like I said, 442 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 1: there was more that happened that day. Some other questions 443 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: from her about my oil that I was like, interesting, like, 444 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: I just did not feel supported unfortunately in that scene, 445 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 1: and I did tell her two days later, I did 446 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: call her and tell her about it. 447 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, well, I mean, Satan comes in all shapes. 448 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:19,359 Speaker 2: Where do all your relationships stand with the cast members? 449 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 3: Are you getting along with everyone? Are you not getting 450 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 3: along without having to let everyone know what's going to 451 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 3: happen or is happening or will happen or whatever. You know. 452 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 1: I've been very surprised by the amount of support I 453 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 1: have received from some of the cast members that I 454 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:42,280 Speaker 1: never expected support from. I'll be honest with the ogs. 455 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: I thought you guys were going to be like the 456 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: worst to deal with. In my head, originally, I was like, 457 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,360 Speaker 1: we're they're gonna slaughter us and we're just gonna be terrible. 458 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:52,240 Speaker 4: Like I just expected the. 459 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 1: Worst from the beginning, and I really genuinely was shocked 460 00:22:57,359 --> 00:23:01,399 Speaker 1: by how supportive and and how much advice you guys 461 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:05,160 Speaker 1: gave me. So it's funny because people that I expected 462 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: the most from I was very disappointed by, and people 463 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: that I expected the least from are have become very 464 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:17,359 Speaker 1: very close to. So I won't name names because you 465 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 1: have to watch, but it's it's interesting how it all 466 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,360 Speaker 1: unfolded and really truly who I am now and I'm 467 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: going to start this year. It helped me so much 468 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: to open my eyes to friendships and reality of who 469 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:32,000 Speaker 1: is really there for you. 470 00:23:31,960 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 3: And who's not? Yeah, what about with you and grad? 471 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:40,480 Speaker 3: Do you watch Do you guys watch it together? Do 472 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 3: you watch it separately? 473 00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 2: Do you guys talk about it just laugh about it? 474 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 2: Where do you guys? How do you guys feel about 475 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:48,640 Speaker 2: watching your relationship play out? 476 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: Well, you know, we actually do watch it together, and 477 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:53,760 Speaker 1: it's it's it's fine. 478 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:55,720 Speaker 4: I think he's a sagittarius, like. 479 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: You said, so it kind of rolls off his shoulder 480 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,399 Speaker 1: a little bit more than it probably would with me, 481 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 1: And I think we feel strong enough for now to 482 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:11,400 Speaker 1: not let this affect us so much as much as 483 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: it probably would with other people. 484 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:15,159 Speaker 4: I think we've always been this way with people. 485 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,919 Speaker 1: It's there's no surprise nobody's watching this and being like 486 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 1: calling us, being like wow, I can't believe this is 487 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 1: what's going on. Everyone's like yeah, that's how you guys 488 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 1: are all the time, like what's new? Like tell me 489 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: something new, you know, But it has opened our eyes 490 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 1: in you know what it is I'll tell you what 491 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,480 Speaker 1: the biggest things between us and setting boundaries. We are 492 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: such good friends. That's like everything's just kind of out 493 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:41,119 Speaker 1: the window. I'll say whatever he says, whatever we're starting. 494 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. 495 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 2: I love that about him, you know, I'm I'm. I 496 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 2: feel very connected to Greg because we are so similar 497 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 2: to each other. Han and I and I think we 498 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,240 Speaker 2: love personalities like you or You're just no nonsense. 499 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 3: You know, you get to it. I cut you, I 500 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,639 Speaker 3: call you a cutthroat bitch. You are your very cutthroat 501 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 3: for me. 502 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 2: I thrive on your type of personality. So I see 503 00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 2: why you and Greg work so well. And I think 504 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,240 Speaker 2: just having watched you guys since the filming. 505 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,360 Speaker 3: Process and the airing now of. 506 00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 2: The few episodes, I feel like you and Greg have 507 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 2: gotten closer somehow. And I don't know if that's just me, 508 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 2: but I just feel like you guys are bonding over something, 509 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 2: and I haven't seen you guys have a thing to 510 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 2: bond over in a while. So it's really been endearing, 511 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 2: you know, to see that. 512 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 3: I really like that. Do you feel that way at all? 513 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 4: Yes, this was a very therapeutic. 514 00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 1: Season for us so but but we like even a 515 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,280 Speaker 1: couple of days ago, I was like, let's remind ourselves 516 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,600 Speaker 1: what was wrong and what we were working on, because 517 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:48,080 Speaker 1: you know. 518 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 4: Again, you when things are fresh, even. 519 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,560 Speaker 1: With my accident, it's like for five years you might 520 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 1: be grateful and then after that you're kind of like whatever. 521 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,680 Speaker 1: It's the same thing with us, like marriage, you got 522 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: to work at it all the fucking time. Like it's 523 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: not like it's not something that you can you know, 524 00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:06,560 Speaker 1: and you know, we probably maybe have to see someone 525 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 1: like a third party to mediate our communication for us 526 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 1: to really see where. 527 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 4: This all this all goes. 528 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 3: But I've had. 529 00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: This, uh this this season really really brought us closer 530 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:24,639 Speaker 1: together crazy enough. 531 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 3: Absolutely. I love that. 532 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 2: It really does make you face what the truth is, 533 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 2: the reality is, and it either makes you or breaks you. 534 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 3: And I think it's been really working for you guys. 535 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:42,120 Speaker 3: If there's another season, if if, if, would. 536 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: You be willing to be a part of it, and 537 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 2: if so, would you do anything differently? 538 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 1: I would, of course I would consider it, And I honestly. 539 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 4: Want to see the whole season. Yeah, I really want 540 00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 4: to see list. 541 00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: As long as at the end it's it's true to 542 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: how we all are, then I would I would be 543 00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 1: I would be down. But if I feel like, damn, 544 00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: like this is just not it, like this was not true, 545 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: then that would I think change my perspective and go 546 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: on about, you know, focusing on my career and you know, 547 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:16,879 Speaker 1: maybe not doing this. 548 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,680 Speaker 4: But I want to see. 549 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,119 Speaker 1: I need to see the whole season and see and 550 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 1: I know the next this episode, next one are going 551 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 1: to be pretty groundbreaking. 552 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 4: Us through a lot of shit going down. 553 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh. Yeah. 554 00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean just we know what went down in 555 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 2: Palm Springs, and the world has watched the scenes in 556 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 2: the trailer, and I'm nervous because I mean, not to 557 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 2: point fingers, but I'm. 558 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:49,960 Speaker 3: Going to point fingers. It's all your fault. It's all 559 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 3: your fault because. 560 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 2: Well no, because I can't stand the woman anyways. But 561 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 2: you made it easy for me because just seeing the 562 00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:04,720 Speaker 2: way things were going down and mistreating and stuff being 563 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:09,240 Speaker 2: said behind people's backs, I feel like it's all about 564 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 2: to come out in Palm Springs, and it's very explosive. 565 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 2: It's so massive, you know, and I'm anxious about seeing, 566 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 2: you know, what's next, because I only know. 567 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,679 Speaker 3: I only know from what I experienced, not from what 568 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 3: y'all were doing. 569 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,119 Speaker 1: Then I would love to say this was my fault 570 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 1: and take all the credibility, But girl, that some people 571 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 1: dig their own you know, they kind of you know, 572 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 1: make their bed and lay in it. 573 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 4: And that's really what's going on here. And I. 574 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 1: Expected the best for all of us and all the casts, 575 00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 1: but I think everybody portrayed who are they are, whether 576 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:56,600 Speaker 1: they're authentic or whether they're authentically fake and however, and 577 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 1: I think that maybe made a lot of the cast 578 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: members be uncomfortable and feel a certain way, and it 579 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:06,120 Speaker 1: all kind of came out. 580 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 2: One question I wanted to ask you myself, is in 581 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 2: times like this, with things that are going on in 582 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 2: Iran right now, being an Iranian an American here being 583 00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 2: able to show our culture, show who we are as Iranians, 584 00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 2: do you feel like others are putting added pressure or 585 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 2: do you feel more personal pressure to represent something or 586 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 2: to stand up and have a voice. 587 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: First, let me just say this, shout out to everything, 588 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: the women, the strong women and men that are in 589 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 1: Iran battling freedom and liberation for Iran. 590 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 4: And I watch, like, oh, I get. 591 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: Emotional because I watch all these dead bodies on the streets, 592 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 1: and people are just sacrificing their own their lives just 593 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 1: to for you know, for each other and for the 594 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 1: fellow Iranians. 595 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 4: And people that are living there. 596 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 1: It's just it's so hard to watch, and they're silenced. 597 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 4: They have no voice. 598 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: They there's no electricity, there's no internet. I just want 599 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 1: to say, the least we can do as the cast 600 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: members is to share and amplify their voice. At the 601 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 1: least we can do as Iranians. And I beg my 602 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:28,040 Speaker 1: non Iranian friends to share that with us, because you know, 603 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: I don't think there's enough media coverage for what's happening there, 604 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: so we are really relying. 605 00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 4: On socials and to amplify their voice. 606 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: And I just really hope that we can kind of 607 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 1: at least that's the least we can do. 608 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,520 Speaker 4: These people are dying, there's uh they're they're burning our 609 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 4: cities down, you know. 610 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: So so yes, I back to your question. I feel 611 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: the pressure of how we represent you know, Persians. I 612 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: hope we do it justice, but I will also say 613 00:30:56,360 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: we're in no way representing you know, we're a bunch 614 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: of couples, or we're a bunch of singles that are 615 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 1: just living our lives and we're just happened to be Persian. 616 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 1: There's so much more more to Iran, to the history, 617 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 1: to the art and architecture and so beautiful. 618 00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,680 Speaker 4: So it's way more than that. 619 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:18,720 Speaker 1: It's way more educated than this show being represented as 620 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: you know, what. 621 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 4: Every Persian is. That's definitely not what I claim. 622 00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 1: But I hope that we at least show some of 623 00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: the family values, some of the cuisine, some of the hospitality, 624 00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: really more of the fun aspects. 625 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 4: But as far as really have we rich this history. 626 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 1: Of Irans and Persians and how far it goes, I 627 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: highly that we can represent all of that. 628 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and I would love for people out there, I think, 629 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 2: to know there's a misconception. I think for a lot 630 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 2: of people sometimes they confuse reality TV with live TV. 631 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 2: And you know, we filmed this show before this current revolution, 632 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 2: and if you pay attention, we are really having all 633 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 2: eyes on Iran and being supportive. So for those who 634 00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,000 Speaker 2: say you're over there smoking four thousand dollars worth of 635 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 2: weed when you could be helping, listen, this. 636 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,520 Speaker 3: Show has filmed before. 637 00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 2: I just we are all here supporting. Everyone deserves equal rights. 638 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,840 Speaker 2: We believe that, so power to the people of you want. Tannan, 639 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 2: thank you so much for coming along this ride. I 640 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 2: was not expecting Tori to still be sick and we 641 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 2: do wish her well. 642 00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 3: We wish you well, Tori get better. Thank you for 643 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 3: being here. 644 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 2: Everyone should chime in to Bravo or Peacock and watch. 645 00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 3: The Valley Persian style because I have literally passed the 646 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 3: baton over to Tanning. She is the new It's girl. 647 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 3: Watch her. 648 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you beb love you, bye bye