Speaker 1: That's what's it's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephaniew Santiago,
Speaker 1: I'm g G McGuire, Sarah Vivan. All right, if there
Speaker 1: were some pausing, it's because everybody's on Snapchat and posting that,
Speaker 1: because you know, that's what let's ladies do nowadays, and
Speaker 1: you guys to now a lot of you are posting
Speaker 1: selfies and eggplant photos, egg photos. I think that's so horrible.
Speaker 1: I think guys have just got to stop, you think, so, yeah,
Speaker 1: leave the thoughts to the girls. Guys that thoughts now
Speaker 1: on Instagram. But on Instagram, you know how girls post
Speaker 1: pictures of their cleavage and all that. Now guys are
Speaker 1: posting like their picks. So you don't think that's sexy. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think it sucks if you're sex if you
Speaker 1: got a sexy body and it's not, you know, it's
Speaker 1: a nice print. I don't like in the mail. I
Speaker 1: don't want thick in the mail. And I don't want
Speaker 1: dick in my d M s. And I don't want
Speaker 1: to dig on my timeline. I don't want it just
Speaker 1: in your mouth. I wanted in my mouth here all right, Now,
Speaker 1: we always start up lip service with some tips. Alright,
Speaker 1: so today's tip is how do you cheat and not
Speaker 1: get caught? What are some tips that you can do?
Speaker 1: And I know everybody in here at some point it's cheated,
Speaker 1: So how do you cheat and not get cart road
Speaker 1: to me? What's that with you? Well, I'm not in
Speaker 1: a relationship, but I can say in the past, in
Speaker 1: the past, damn. What is the way that you can
Speaker 1: make sure you don't get cut cheating? How do you
Speaker 1: cover your tracks? Burner phone, burner phone. That's a whole
Speaker 1: new phone, a whole little secret situation, too much to
Speaker 1: keep up with. I'm not gonna lie. I've had a
Speaker 1: couple of secret phones in my line. So where do
Speaker 1: you put the phone? And you're you just leave it
Speaker 1: somewhere like and then like the panties draw or the
Speaker 1: trunk of the car, the trunk of a car, yet
Speaker 1: the phone in the trunk? When you okay, burning your
Speaker 1: bat line slat line, bling stephanitily with your your tip
Speaker 1: on how I think you know? If you don't want
Speaker 1: to get caught, you gotta get race everything. I always
Speaker 1: got court cheating because I don't race any like my boy,
Speaker 1: My boy. My boy actually uses snap dam because he
Speaker 1: knows it disappears, you know, like yeah, like even like no,
Speaker 1: like if you write somebody and it disappeared, it goes
Speaker 1: down in the dam. Well, you know they say the
Speaker 1: best place to hide something is right out in the open.
Speaker 1: Talk about it. I'm not cheating, but I'm saying, but
Speaker 1: you're having the past. Yeah, of course, all right, So
Speaker 1: you're saying, what do you mean by that, I don't know. Open.
Speaker 1: I mean when you try to go too hard and
Speaker 1: try to be too suspicious and try to like go
Speaker 1: too hard at covering something up, then that's when you
Speaker 1: get caught, you know, when you don't gotta lock your
Speaker 1: phone and you feel like you don't got nothing to hide. Man,
Speaker 1: you know, so he doesn't go through your phone if
Speaker 1: you've never had somebody go through it when you yeah,
Speaker 1: I've had, So that doesn't really work. That ship my
Speaker 1: phone going through. I mean, you know, you live and
Speaker 1: you learn, okay, and that's a terrible tip. Doesn't work, Sarah,
Speaker 1: what about you tips? It's really bad attitude that can cut.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think the erasing is the best one.
Speaker 1: You gotta make sure the face no tice. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta make sure also that they're involved in something too,
Speaker 1: so they don't try to come back. So we're cheating
Speaker 1: on each other person. Yeah, you both each other's side piece,
Speaker 1: so you don't have nothing to lose. Now. The only
Speaker 1: thing I will say about erasing stuff is sometimes it's
Speaker 1: really obvious that someone's cheating when you go and look
Speaker 1: at their phone and there's two messages like we're having
Speaker 1: on everything that was on your phone? You here, how
Speaker 1: many people you cheating with it? You only got two
Speaker 1: people left? You know what I'm saying that if you
Speaker 1: delete everything and there's barely anything in your phone, like okay,
Speaker 1: I know your phone was going off, or if you
Speaker 1: delete phone calls and you're like, okay, they hold it
Speaker 1: WHENY calls and I only see seven listed, that means
Speaker 1: sometimes cheating with too many people, you gotta calm down.
Speaker 1: That's too much, alright. So those are your all your
Speaker 1: tips on how to cheat and not get caught. And
Speaker 1: I would say another tip on how to cheat and
Speaker 1: not get caught is to make sure that you cover
Speaker 1: your tracks ahead of time. Sometimes. Yeah see, I was
Speaker 1: just about to say that you could you know, you
Speaker 1: got a block people throughout certain times in your life.
Speaker 1: You use that use that the iPhone block and a
Speaker 1: lot of things days for a couple of hours if
Speaker 1: you aren't cheating, and make sure that person you're cheating
Speaker 1: with is aware that they are the side piece, because
Speaker 1: then they can help you and like, you know, if
Speaker 1: they're not a hater. The blocking thing is new man.
Speaker 1: You know I've been. I haven't been in a serious
Speaker 1: relationship like the way I was with my son's follower
Speaker 1: for so long that you just were in a serious relationship.
Speaker 1: But you know what, Ralph, I wouldn't block people. I
Speaker 1: would put people on do not disturb. That's the kind
Speaker 1: of the same thing that is okay, forget it's just kidding.
Speaker 1: I've never used that in one of those questions. How
Speaker 1: many women want out of tend How many women do
Speaker 1: you think cheat? Um, I've only ever cheated twice. It's
Speaker 1: not like a reoccurring thing. I would say probably about half,
Speaker 1: and they deserved it. But I think women cheat for
Speaker 1: different reasons than men. A woman might cheat because she
Speaker 1: knows you're all about to break up. So a lot
Speaker 1: of times women will go and find somebody to kind
Speaker 1: of distract them so that they can have the strength
Speaker 1: and the courage and the things to do so they
Speaker 1: can break up with you. Also, sometimes women because they
Speaker 1: know you're cheating, so maybe sometimes it makes them feel better.
Speaker 1: You know how that tip things? How? What's the percentage
Speaker 1: of women you think cheat? Um? And I think when
Speaker 1: you get older? For I think I think half. I
Speaker 1: think guys cheat more than girls girls. What wrote to me?
Speaker 1: Would you say the percentage of men to cheat? I e. Eight?
Speaker 1: Not nine? I think I think nine. I think kidding,
Speaker 1: I'm kidding nine nine point one. What have you ever
Speaker 1: cheered and gone? No? Never, you're caught now got caught,
Speaker 1: but you cheated. Okay, So you're good at having your
Speaker 1: tracks is basically what you're saying. So what are you
Speaker 1: that makes you really care? No? But so how do
Speaker 1: you cover your tracks? You should be giving these tips? Oh? Well,
Speaker 1: one thing I did was the blocking. I did that
Speaker 1: then before I had the phone, I had two phones.
Speaker 1: And then um, it's like a drug dealer with it, okay,
Speaker 1: and then um, and then I switched the names like
Speaker 1: I put a girl. I wasn't the fourth first name
Speaker 1: you ever used Lisa? Wait, you made the girl's name Lisa.
Speaker 1: Why don't you make it a guy's name? Oh? So
Speaker 1: I think you said, who was a girl? I cheated? No, no,
Speaker 1: shout out to Lisa and now you know, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You change the name, changed the name
Speaker 1: you guys name, God forbid. Should go through your phone
Speaker 1: and see Peter texting you like I miss you. Nick.
Speaker 1: I used to talk to this a y'all last night.
Speaker 1: Man when you me and my credible, it was the
Speaker 1: thing was like no, no, no, So she knew I
Speaker 1: was in a relationship, so she would just always just
Speaker 1: call me so it would just be my boy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was like she was down. See, And that's why
Speaker 1: I said, it's important to tell the other person because
Speaker 1: then they'll, you know, you give them the decision. But
Speaker 1: when you don't tell somebody and they get mad if
Speaker 1: they find out you're in a relationship, like oh yeah
Speaker 1: we had a girl, all right, that I'm blast it's
Speaker 1: a headache. That's a headache when it happened. So you
Speaker 1: just trying to avoid all that, like the situation. You
Speaker 1: can be ru than that and still look you for that, sir,
Speaker 1: because most men they had just put you in a
Speaker 1: situation and for you to figure it out once the
Speaker 1: goddamn shi hit the fan, and I just feel like
Speaker 1: if a guy put you in a situation and he
Speaker 1: allows you to make that choice, then I mean you
Speaker 1: better off in the morm one. Some people might say
Speaker 1: if a guy cheasing you and or it doesn't tell you,
Speaker 1: that means he really cares about you or all. No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying like you, I'm not saying cheating. I'm saying
Speaker 1: or if you wanted to side and he doesn't tell you, man,
Speaker 1: just you know, I'm saying, if you like side piece
Speaker 1: like the Stipe pie, should know what she getting herself. Like,
Speaker 1: if you're dating a married man, you should know he's married.
Speaker 1: He should He should give you that much respect to
Speaker 1: let you know what you get yourself into. No important.
Speaker 1: Now here's another question we're going to discuss, and we're
Speaker 1: gonna start with you with this one. G as she
Speaker 1: gets herself. Yeah, man, it's handy, strong, I know, be
Speaker 1: a big girl's holiday, Hennessey. That was the coke. It's
Speaker 1: not that type of Some people have TV deals here. Okay,
Speaker 1: Now let's say that media. Now Sarah and I n
Speaker 1: Sarah's streets in Atlanta. And now we were discussing this
Speaker 1: earlier about people putting people people on blasts and social
Speaker 1: media and um, whether or not you should do that. Now,
Speaker 1: let's discuss what you said since first, well, let's say
Speaker 1: what you said, and we're gonna let g tell her story.
Speaker 1: But I just feel like it's not everybody's business, Like
Speaker 1: if somebody does something, let's say, for example, my son's father,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, if we go through things,
Speaker 1: that's between us, you know what I mean, And from
Speaker 1: the outside looking in, everything's great, and for the most
Speaker 1: part it is. But everybody has issues that's just not
Speaker 1: for everybody else to be talking about. Yeah, I might
Speaker 1: call him and cause him out or come see whoever,
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to put that on social media
Speaker 1: for everybody else to know. So you're not gonna be like,
Speaker 1: stop calling me, trying to see me, stop stop telling
Speaker 1: me you love me. Christina Milian did that is what
Speaker 1: she's that girl? All right? Now, what I was saying
Speaker 1: is this, Now I've I've never put anybody on blasting
Speaker 1: social media. But I also feel like if you're telling
Speaker 1: the truth and it's your relationship and you want to
Speaker 1: do that, you kind of have the right to do
Speaker 1: that if somebody messes up, as long as you're not
Speaker 1: lying about what happened, and you put it out there.
Speaker 1: That's really just you know, you got to just chalk
Speaker 1: it up. If you cheated on your wife, you cheated
Speaker 1: on your girl, and somebody exposes you and you really
Speaker 1: did it, you can't be mad at nobody but yourself.
Speaker 1: I understand you're saying you wouldn't do it, But I
Speaker 1: don't really fault anybody else for that, because you know
Speaker 1: I've never done that. I mean, I'm you know what,
Speaker 1: who knows? I just never have. I can't say I
Speaker 1: never would now, G. I was, I'm I'm very emotional, okay,
Speaker 1: and I was going through an emotional state and I
Speaker 1: posted some things about my relationship. Now, I didn't go
Speaker 1: into detail. I'm not gonna lie. We was screenshining that
Speaker 1: and putting that in the chat. Like wrote, I going
Speaker 1: into more detail about that situation with you guys on
Speaker 1: the show, more than I have on social media. However,
Speaker 1: I had posted on about it on social media, and
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna chalk it up to me being emotional
Speaker 1: and everything I said it was true. I ain't on you, nigga.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what G wrote five hours ago.
Speaker 1: She said, for those of you all who want to
Speaker 1: know what I'm doing and where I've been. My snap
Speaker 1: is Gez McGuire. I really only post my dogs, Tyson
Speaker 1: and Maggie at hashtag, the estate with the family, and
Speaker 1: me managing the dances at Vandity Grant. Oh and when
Speaker 1: I'm coasting live service, I post that too. I'll be
Speaker 1: sure to post me teaching and let them sweech this
Speaker 1: Saturday as well. I had no idea there were so
Speaker 1: many of you interested in my little life. I thought
Speaker 1: y'all stopped carrying back in October twelve when I stopped
Speaker 1: stripping hashtag misshow me the money? What was that about?
Speaker 1: Because man, people just always want to be talking and
Speaker 1: blabbing and typing and behind keyboards with all of this
Speaker 1: she this and she that, and y'a don't know what
Speaker 1: you're talking about. And you know, maybe if you fall
Speaker 1: at my snapchat, because I pull more on there these days,
Speaker 1: and then you will be able to have a more
Speaker 1: better insight on what I am. So when you do
Speaker 1: decide to talk about me, you can speak the truth.
Speaker 1: I don't mind you talking about me, just know what
Speaker 1: you're talking about. And I'm so open with mine that
Speaker 1: it's not really hard to figure out where I'm at
Speaker 1: and what I'm doing. No, I'm not stripping. I managed
Speaker 1: to strip club. There's a difference. You know. It feels
Speaker 1: like you were getting some hate though about your relationship
Speaker 1: and you wanted to address it. Yeah. I mean, you
Speaker 1: know it's gonna happen, and it is what it is.
Speaker 1: I'm happy, he's happy. We're happy. Alright, happy. Now what's
Speaker 1: Jared take on that road? Timmy? I mean, I think
Speaker 1: it's petty, you know, I think, you know, especially people
Speaker 1: lying and take the time to fabricate situations. I think
Speaker 1: that's stupid. But I feel like if you if you
Speaker 1: had a situation with somebody where you're actually cool, this
Speaker 1: should be a level of respect there too, you know,
Speaker 1: to not you know, bash or do anything. So I
Speaker 1: think it's corny and I think it's just a cry
Speaker 1: for attention sometimes. But if it's something that needs to
Speaker 1: be said that will help other people, then okay. But
Speaker 1: in terms of personally just been dead and that's stupid.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, took about you for a second because
Speaker 1: you know I'm gonna do this alright. Super Head posted
Speaker 1: about you. Yeah, and she said I've never seen a
Speaker 1: man go on vacation while the mother of his dead
Speaker 1: child hurts so badly or sing knowing he had a
Speaker 1: hand in stifling the breath of his own. Alright, So
Speaker 1: now what happened with that? Where you shocked when that
Speaker 1: came out on social media? Yeah? Yeah, very you know,
Speaker 1: because again, like this is all so new to me,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, this part of my life.
Speaker 1: So when things are fabricare I've heard so many different
Speaker 1: things about different situations, and that one just happened to stick.
Speaker 1: That's just you know, not really what it is. So
Speaker 1: it's just a shot. You don't know how to handle it.
Speaker 1: How did you handle it? I mean again, there's nothing
Speaker 1: you can say to something that you know of that wild.
Speaker 1: So it's just just my team was just like like
Speaker 1: just don't just don't nderstand her, So you didn't hit
Speaker 1: her up like bit stopped, Like let's give him somebody
Speaker 1: too much attention and too much you know, power over
Speaker 1: the situation. Did you know her personally though? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: knew her. Yeah, knew it. Yeah, you don't have no video,
Speaker 1: We're gonna see it. That's the thing. It's it's you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I knew her for sure, but in
Speaker 1: terms of you know all that, it's just crazy. We
Speaker 1: were talking about this downstairs before we came up, and
Speaker 1: g what did you say about about super Head. It's
Speaker 1: not too many nickers that meet her that's gonna turn
Speaker 1: down her sexual advances. They're not gonna turn down that
Speaker 1: super hid. They they're gonna test that. My fat their
Speaker 1: mouth is legend theory. What anybody saying? And would you yeah,
Speaker 1: Mr Marcus Wright, So you know if somebody that is
Speaker 1: named super Head, you're not gonna turn that down. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean, it depends on who you are. I did
Speaker 1: not say, no, you gotta get it depends she's looks
Speaker 1: give us so, looks hot, she looks good. Hey, he's
Speaker 1: got some friends. Were on Instagram are Yeah, so you'd
Speaker 1: be seeing all kinds of crazy po No, yeah, she
Speaker 1: posted it, but she's really like cool, Like she's in
Speaker 1: my comments, so she's cool. Yeah, but I don't think now.
Speaker 1: I know. Wayne had some issues with super mentioned a
Speaker 1: new mixtape he did. On that song My Name Is,
Speaker 1: he called her ancient and tired because she keeps speaking
Speaker 1: out of turn. I feel like like we all know
Speaker 1: you you know, you dealt with him, so that was
Speaker 1: your time. If you're still dealing with him whatever, But
Speaker 1: if he's going through something with somebody else, that's not
Speaker 1: really your place. Everybody keep asking me why I don't
Speaker 1: speak on it. I don't know what that man is doing.
Speaker 1: Like we speak about our child. You're not gonna go
Speaker 1: on there be Like he's for everybody, right, he's community property, right,
Speaker 1: even though that you know, you may feel a certain way,
Speaker 1: and nobody's saying we don't feel any type of way,
Speaker 1: but it's not your that's not your business. Right. You're
Speaker 1: not with him, so it doesn't matter to you what
Speaker 1: he does. You don't ask him. Do you care? Like
Speaker 1: now all three of you have children, Timmy, you don't
Speaker 1: have any kids yet that you claim, But does it
Speaker 1: bother you? Like when you see you know your child's
Speaker 1: father going through any type of drama, do you step in,
Speaker 1: do you say anything? Definitely? No, whatever drawing my child's
Speaker 1: father is going through, he can deal with it on
Speaker 1: his own. That's none of my business. I don't I
Speaker 1: don't never. I don't even care, no, because I I
Speaker 1: mean I he and I are over. We've been over
Speaker 1: for years already. So it's like, you know what you
Speaker 1: put yourself in that situation. As long as my child
Speaker 1: is good and it has nothing to do with my kid,
Speaker 1: and nobody's disrespecting my kid. Your problems are your problems.
Speaker 1: Minds are mine, not what do you think? Well, personally, Um,
Speaker 1: my dad's father passed away years and years ago, but
Speaker 1: I feel like taking it if he were still alive
Speaker 1: and we still had a relationship that we had before
Speaker 1: he passed away, I would not get myself involved in
Speaker 1: things that wearing my business. But if he asked me
Speaker 1: to insert where he asked me for my opinion, you know,
Speaker 1: because we were that close. We were more like friends
Speaker 1: at the time. So I can see him if he
Speaker 1: was to get into something with his you know at
Speaker 1: the time girlfriend where his other baby's mother to say,
Speaker 1: you know, would you would you think? You know? I
Speaker 1: wouldn't and yeah, and I wouldn't just yeah, but I
Speaker 1: wouldn't just jump in and assert myself. Weird, wasn't my business?
Speaker 1: What about you, Sarah? Do you say anything about all this? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we ain't be having a lot of drama, you
Speaker 1: know way, and you don't tell him like dude, you
Speaker 1: gotta chill out. No, if it doesn't involve my son.
Speaker 1: Then there's nothing really just to me. How do you
Speaker 1: feel about dating women with kids? I haven't. I haven't,
Speaker 1: you never have. I'm not. I'm not now like I'm
Speaker 1: not opposed like you know, feeling somebody like that, But
Speaker 1: I haven't personally know how he's His birthday just passed
Speaker 1: by the way, happy birth. I love sagittarious fun. They
Speaker 1: are cool people. Now, if you were dating women who
Speaker 1: had a child, how important is it for you to like,
Speaker 1: when do you think it's appropriate time to say, Okay,
Speaker 1: I want to meet your son or daughter. Oh when
Speaker 1: we know we're like serious serious, I wouldn't want to
Speaker 1: meet you know, the child early because anything can happen,
Speaker 1: and then I don't want not necessarily from me, but
Speaker 1: for the child to see different people coming to you know,
Speaker 1: the mom's life and you know, remember, oh my mom
Speaker 1: had this friend and this friend and his friend. So
Speaker 1: until like my daddy's on power. How long do you wait? Like?
Speaker 1: How like? So sometimes females we think it's serious, but
Speaker 1: it's like in our head it's not really that seriously.
Speaker 1: You got can kind of wait sometime. How long do
Speaker 1: you wait, m um? Like, what's a good amount of time?
Speaker 1: For you to be like, I'm serious. Do you'd be like, look,
Speaker 1: it's just me and you girl, You're gonna be my girl? Like,
Speaker 1: how do you know what's serious? Do you do? Like
Speaker 1: the serious? Because I just sat here and kind of
Speaker 1: thought back on how long I've made God's weak and
Speaker 1: I had boyfriend's instantanea and it just felt right your
Speaker 1: daughter right away? No, not me, my daughter, but like
Speaker 1: I've had relationships, like I fell out of one relationship
Speaker 1: and into the next in very short periods of time.
Speaker 1: I always make I always make people wait to meet
Speaker 1: my daughter. How long do you wait? I can't really
Speaker 1: put a time stamp on me, but I know when
Speaker 1: I feel comfortable enough to bring that person around my child.
Speaker 1: Usually like what was the earliest weeks or months? And
Speaker 1: you know what you're doing? So how much time I
Speaker 1: spent with the person? And now your jode has grown?
Speaker 1: So like your instance, when um, when I first met Track,
Speaker 1: even though we were never you know, intimate or anything
Speaker 1: like that, but when I first met him and all
Speaker 1: of his centred songs, When I first met him and
Speaker 1: all of his people, I was around them every day, um,
Speaker 1: for about two weeks straight before I bought my daughter
Speaker 1: because it was so many men around. We were in
Speaker 1: the studio house, and you know, even though um, you know,
Speaker 1: Delante was there and you know, we're all family, it's
Speaker 1: still like, my daughter is nine years old and it's
Speaker 1: like six men in his house. Like, I just didn't
Speaker 1: really feel comfortable bringing her around until I felt comfortable
Speaker 1: each and every single one. And I wasn't having sex
Speaker 1: with any of them. But the fact that I was
Speaker 1: going to have my daughter around all of these men
Speaker 1: and influenced by all of this was you know, what's
Speaker 1: going on in this house? I just really felt like
Speaker 1: I had to know for sure that there was environment
Speaker 1: I wanted to her to be in. And years later
Speaker 1: we ended up moving into the same house together. Um
Speaker 1: Troy Taylor, which is her which is trades um mentor
Speaker 1: ended up being her golfather like to this day she
Speaker 1: called some day it so and all of that came
Speaker 1: from you know, way back then. But I just that
Speaker 1: one particular situation just stuck out to me because I remember, like,
Speaker 1: I'm not about to take you over there. It's just
Speaker 1: too much it going on. And it wasn't even nothing bad.
Speaker 1: It was just too many men that I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I'm just needing and that's your daughter. It's really weird
Speaker 1: to bring your like a daughter around. About you guys,
Speaker 1: if you don't know, I think for me, I probably
Speaker 1: it probably takes some months month at least at least
Speaker 1: I'm only considered my kids meaning one person. And it
Speaker 1: was two years. And yeah, I still got cussed out
Speaker 1: for that. I was with rom I never with my son,
Speaker 1: and he's never my my son, has never my my son.
Speaker 1: That was that a conscious decision? Yeah, because my son,
Speaker 1: I felt yourself. We were fighting a lot. You know.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't bring my son a or right now, you know,
Speaker 1: And um, I just feel like, you know, if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna bring my son into somebody's life, they have to
Speaker 1: be permanent, you know what I mean. Me and Rath
Speaker 1: was so up and down never never yeah you um
Speaker 1: he wanted to meet my son and I told him, no,
Speaker 1: I've never brought a man ever around, not one of
Speaker 1: my guy friends, nobody, no man to my son, never,
Speaker 1: not even one. The only reason why I considered it
Speaker 1: is because he lived in another city and was asking
Speaker 1: me to move to that city so we could get closer.
Speaker 1: And obviously my kids are a big part of that decision.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, if I'm gonna move, they have to Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have to see how they get along, how you
Speaker 1: can even deal with kids because he doesn't have any.
Speaker 1: So but yeah, it didn't work out getting serious. So
Speaker 1: that's a good time it was. Yeah. Yeah, well Ralph
Speaker 1: he kind of had an idea that he wanted me
Speaker 1: to be around his kids, and I was like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: so you didn't want to do that. No, I didn't
Speaker 1: want to be around I don't want to mean nobody
Speaker 1: in your family if I don't know what's going on,
Speaker 1: Like seriously, I don't like people, like how many people
Speaker 1: have you really brought around? And also because I just
Speaker 1: don't want people being like, oh what happened is that
Speaker 1: I don't want to bring anybody around my family and
Speaker 1: I don't want to meet anybody in your family if
Speaker 1: I don't feel like this is like my man, you know,
Speaker 1: because what's the point. I mean? I felt like Ralph
Speaker 1: was my man, and I yeah, that's my man, and
Speaker 1: I love him and I still love him, but you know,
Speaker 1: my son is just it's way more precious than relationship.
Speaker 1: It's just that's very sensitive material for me. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean. Now, let me ask you this because
Speaker 1: I remember you posted a picture of Ralph from one
Speaker 1: time on Instagram, but it wasn't like a full picture,
Speaker 1: it was just a picture of his face. Did you
Speaker 1: delete it? No? I got like three pictures of Ralph
Speaker 1: on my Instagram. I haven't deleted them, even though we're
Speaker 1: not together. I haven't deleted them because I mean, it's
Speaker 1: a timeline, you know what I mean. That's it to me.
Speaker 1: When you date a girl, if y'all break up, do
Speaker 1: you delete air off Instagram? It was a part of
Speaker 1: my life, you mean, delete the pictures, Delete the pictures.
Speaker 1: I don't post pictures though of my relationship. But I
Speaker 1: totally unfollow you. And it's not because I'm sorry, and Charlotte,
Speaker 1: it just helps me get over it because if I'm
Speaker 1: not seeing your face, I unfollow your friends. I had somebody,
Speaker 1: the same person, his nephew hit me in the d
Speaker 1: M like you gonna follow me with the you know,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's nothing personal, baby, It's just like
Speaker 1: I kind of a picture of him and I saw
Speaker 1: I'm okay, I'll pass on your vacation with the new bitch.
Speaker 1: What g what do you think unfollowed and delete, delete
Speaker 1: everything everything, y'all. Listen, I'll be at my feelings, y'all.
Speaker 1: I'll get a pass for that, like for real. No, um,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I've deleted pictures of us.
Speaker 1: I don't even really post a lot of picture of us.
Speaker 1: I don't think I delete the pictures of us when
Speaker 1: we broke up, but I did unfollowed and blocked him
Speaker 1: from following me. And then after we got back together,
Speaker 1: then everything was cool. But I unblocked onto his friends,
Speaker 1: and I mean I blocked one of his friends and
Speaker 1: that person is still block because he pissed me off.
Speaker 1: We're like, he pissed me off, so he's still blocked.
Speaker 1: But um, yeah, sometimes you just gotta, you know, to
Speaker 1: try to create closure. But you know what I because
Speaker 1: you know we really be back together. What you can't do.
Speaker 1: You can try to block the person, you can try
Speaker 1: to not be around the person. You can in your
Speaker 1: mind say that person who is coming to earth. But
Speaker 1: what you cannot do is you cannot make yourself all
Speaker 1: out of love back. If you love somebody, there's no
Speaker 1: off switch to that. You just can't turn that off.
Speaker 1: And I tried. I tried to make him the fucking
Speaker 1: scum of the earth. I tried to make my worst enemy,
Speaker 1: and deep down the side of my little teeny hert
Speaker 1: I still loved him, which is why we back together.
Speaker 1: So you can't now what if he would have not
Speaker 1: wanted to be back together. You think there was nothing
Speaker 1: he could have done to make you not love him anymore,
Speaker 1: when you really he did a lot, He did a lot,
Speaker 1: but there was nothing he could have did he did,
Speaker 1: he did a lot. Oh, he did a lot. But
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just when you really truly love somebody,
Speaker 1: even if you don't get back together, I feel like
Speaker 1: you always love them. I agree let him get away
Speaker 1: with a lot of things. I might saying, never really
Speaker 1: truly love nobody, because I definitely have this, I know,
Speaker 1: because I definitely felt like I might have thought that I,
Speaker 1: you know, was and you know what difference to be
Speaker 1: in love and love? Yeah, that's right, you know, definitely
Speaker 1: like I could love somebody like Okay, I love him.
Speaker 1: If he, you know, died, I'd probably be upset, but
Speaker 1: I probably I'll be like Dan, that's sucked up. You
Speaker 1: wouldn't go to the funeral. It depends. You might I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, you love somebody when it hurts,
Speaker 1: when they're out around when it really hurts. But I
Speaker 1: think that's also being accustomed to somebody too. Sometimes you're
Speaker 1: just sometimes it makes you real shitty, and you so
Speaker 1: used to them and them between you shitty that you
Speaker 1: just used to it. And I've had breakups where I'm
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, whatever is over, you know, leave
Speaker 1: it to God, and then other breakups that I'm like
Speaker 1: the thought of the person just brings me to tears,
Speaker 1: and I'm just my broth thinking about them. Deny, call
Speaker 1: me all right? Now, how many details do you want
Speaker 1: to know about somebody that you're dating? Now? I'm talking
Speaker 1: about this because the guy was telling me about, you know,
Speaker 1: how disgusting he used to be, And he told me
Speaker 1: hystory about how he had sex with the girl in
Speaker 1: the room with other guys and he didn't take none
Speaker 1: of his clothes off. All he did was unzipped his pants,
Speaker 1: pull his dick out, and a girl right there for
Speaker 1: of his boys in the room. And I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I wanted to know all the
Speaker 1: information and all those details, because that's really disgusting. And
Speaker 1: now I kind of like you're cooking at the sideways?
Speaker 1: How much information do you want to know? Ro to
Speaker 1: me about a girl? Like if she's like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: know one time in college, these guys ran a train
Speaker 1: on me and everybody people came on me, and I
Speaker 1: would have to I want to know that. You would
Speaker 1: want to know that, yeah, because I don't want to
Speaker 1: deal with it. But it was too late. What if
Speaker 1: you already was like you always day? But yeah, what
Speaker 1: have you? Fall? A little girl? And then you'll get
Speaker 1: so like she's comfortable enough to tell you anything and
Speaker 1: she comes out and tell you she got gang bange
Speaker 1: and what is it? Call certain things? Certain things, certain
Speaker 1: things you don't have to say, certain things you don't
Speaker 1: need to know. But ms of like especially in the industry,
Speaker 1: the industry small, so you don't want to ever look stupid.
Speaker 1: You know, you need to know. I need to know
Speaker 1: certain things. I need to know maybe who you've been
Speaker 1: with that I might know so I don't walk into
Speaker 1: But she's like, yeah, a couple of times I fifty
Speaker 1: you wouldn't want to know that? Oh yeah, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? If I'm if I'm in love with yeah,
Speaker 1: and she should she tell you right away. She waits,
Speaker 1: She needs to tell me that right away because she
Speaker 1: knows the relationship between That's the same thing fifty came along.
Speaker 1: So you've been doing with her then fifty came along,
Speaker 1: and then you're like, oh and then you know if
Speaker 1: you do that? Laugh? Yeah, Oh you mean like I
Speaker 1: would have to know? Yes, I would want to. Would
Speaker 1: it be a deal breaker? I don't know he was
Speaker 1: going to get the role man who knew it could be?
Speaker 1: She helped you get the deal. Damn. If I'm already
Speaker 1: all in, then I just have to get over that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Would you go and be like like, I know you
Speaker 1: my girl. I haven't talked to him about it happened,
Speaker 1: but you know, yeah she was good. He would say that,
Speaker 1: he would say that. Let now, But that's a good question.
Speaker 1: I think I'd stay I stay still if I was
Speaker 1: in love, Yes, if I was just planning and I
Speaker 1: would take you. What if he was like dash your girl? Okay,
Speaker 1: that is a different conversation. So yeah, But I mean
Speaker 1: that somebody's past matter. If it was five years before
Speaker 1: she met you. Um again, if it's people that I
Speaker 1: know that I'm not informed about it like that, you
Speaker 1: know that I know them, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's important, so especially in this industry
Speaker 1: because maybe she want to wait until you fall in
Speaker 1: love and until you after. Like, I feel like the
Speaker 1: industry is small. We're talking about industry like it's a
Speaker 1: it's a small group of people. Not everybody is in
Speaker 1: the industry. So I feel like you like, don't I
Speaker 1: don't want to know anything. You don't want to know anything,
Speaker 1: And I'm taking everything to my grave unless it comes
Speaker 1: down to it, like all right, listen, I was with
Speaker 1: him a few times, you know what I mean. Otherwise
Speaker 1: I'm taking everything to imself. You don't want to know
Speaker 1: because you don't want to tell. No, I don't want
Speaker 1: to know. I don't want to know. I don't for me,
Speaker 1: whether it's in the industry or not, I don't for me.
Speaker 1: I don't like know when who your ex is. I
Speaker 1: don't like know when you used to funk with x
Speaker 1: y Z girl, because it's expecting you want to know
Speaker 1: step that he used to do. Maybe not, but when
Speaker 1: if he was like man, I remember one time. No,
Speaker 1: because like, if you're telling me, oh, I had a
Speaker 1: threesome with this girl and we went row, I'm like Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't need I don't know. Yeah, I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't ever mention names like I want, but scription of
Speaker 1: a person that i've been with, and I don't because
Speaker 1: you know what, when I find out when I'm dating
Speaker 1: a guy, when I'm working with a guy, and I
Speaker 1: find out other girls that he's been with and they
Speaker 1: don't match up to me, it's a turnoff. That's a
Speaker 1: lot of things. Yeah, And and I don't No, I
Speaker 1: judged him. I judge it. So that's why you don't
Speaker 1: want to like this guy. I'm this guy I was dating.
Speaker 1: He's working with this girl. She has like green teeth.
Speaker 1: Her teeth are bad, as she's been all for it.
Speaker 1: Gon have bad teeth? She do? She got a nice body,
Speaker 1: her body is all right. She's a cute girl, but
Speaker 1: her teeth are bad. Don't given crazy about zensel hygiene teeth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she probably gives amazing hit because you don't. If you don't,
Speaker 1: so you would let those green teeth on your pens
Speaker 1: exactly and kiss your answer you after you were kissing
Speaker 1: the green seat. Nah, it's a total turn off. I
Speaker 1: don't even exaggerating. God Like, in the club in the nighttime,
Speaker 1: they look green said, she being a club. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: seen her in the club a few times for years.
Speaker 1: Though for you, she always had bad seats like she's
Speaker 1: known for. I get that. Why does she get it
Speaker 1: fixed because she broke damn, But I mean whatever, you know,
Speaker 1: she's a nice girl, she's cool. But I just don't
Speaker 1: think that a nigga that I don't think a nigga
Speaker 1: that sucks me should be able to get his zick
Speaker 1: harse because I got seat for clean mouth, Like no,
Speaker 1: but sexy mouth is a big part of sex, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? You know, kissing, sucking, spitting, all
Speaker 1: of that is you have to have goods. That's what
Speaker 1: hodgen to even be considered somebody that I would even.
Speaker 1: You know, that guy asked you questions about your past, though,
Speaker 1: Are you gonna be honest? Are you gonna it depends
Speaker 1: on the questions. If he's like, alright, stuff, did you
Speaker 1: sleep with this guy? And I did sleep with him,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna say yes. If we're
Speaker 1: in the same room and he doesn't ask me no
Speaker 1: a lot he says anything, I'm not gonna blow it up.
Speaker 1: If you keep it up, I'm gonna keep it load
Speaker 1: because it's weird. And if he and if he does
Speaker 1: tell like, yo, you know I know her and he
Speaker 1: approaches me about it like did you do this, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be like, yeah, see, I'm the other way. I
Speaker 1: gotta tell you the first he's jumping the gun. You
Speaker 1: might you might play forget away with it, damn played
Speaker 1: with because you know what these guys in the industry,
Speaker 1: they sleep with every girl and each other. But you
Speaker 1: will be sitting you will take a picture with the
Speaker 1: girl and posted up on your Instagram and you think
Speaker 1: that you guys are friends and they will not tell you, like, hey,
Speaker 1: you know friend, and she ain't gonna tell you. And
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna tell you either, So why should I?
Speaker 1: Why should I? If the guy blows it up, I'll
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, it's pride though, Like if I find
Speaker 1: out like I was in the same room and you
Speaker 1: knew that I had, Like, it's a possibility that he
Speaker 1: can tell me that and he comes out he's petty
Speaker 1: I was with that, and you girls should tell if
Speaker 1: one of my friends at that bathy and you know,
Speaker 1: you know one of my friends had that issue though
Speaker 1: with her man because he found out about a couple
Speaker 1: of guys that she sucked and he didn't. She didn't
Speaker 1: tell him. He found out through other people, and it
Speaker 1: damn They broke up their relationship because he thought and
Speaker 1: she felt like, well, that was ten years ago. You
Speaker 1: know that I didn't really want to when I fring
Speaker 1: out my relationship. I was very clean and came clean
Speaker 1: with everything that I thought he may have found out,
Speaker 1: because the last thing I wanted was for somebody to
Speaker 1: tell him. I ready to tell her much did he respect?
Speaker 1: And even know he respected the funk out of me
Speaker 1: for that? Like her Man used to be like, you
Speaker 1: know what I like about Gig is that a lot
Speaker 1: of these girls out there holes but they don't admit it,
Speaker 1: and they don't suck this person, and they try to
Speaker 1: act like the angels. He was like, Gig is straight
Speaker 1: up blunt, tell you I did this, I did that,
Speaker 1: I did this. She's rear with it. I don't never
Speaker 1: think that they're not gonna tell I'm gonna say this story.
Speaker 1: I don't care what I did. You're not telling me
Speaker 1: in your whole past. I'm not gonna tell you mind.
Speaker 1: If it comes up, I'll be honest about it. But
Speaker 1: otherwise pictures. I'm not talking. I was talking to somebody
Speaker 1: and they're not friends, but they have the same profession.
Speaker 1: So I let them know, like, Okay, I used to
Speaker 1: talk to this person and we like actually dated that
Speaker 1: with each other. So once night we're out in the
Speaker 1: club and it was like lue to day weekend in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: We were in the club. I know exactly who we're
Speaker 1: talking about, the other one. You were there and the
Speaker 1: old one walks to the new one while I'm standing
Speaker 1: there and he was like, oh, yeah, she used to
Speaker 1: be a my thing, but it's okay, you can have
Speaker 1: her now. And I thank god I already told him
Speaker 1: because he was like, and so what bro like now?
Speaker 1: He looked like, that's you know, that's a little disrespectful.
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Crazy. What I'm saying, that's that's that's that's
Speaker 1: what's what I'm saying. I have faith in all the
Speaker 1: men that I've been with, and I don't think that
Speaker 1: they would do me like that. Catack. I have faith
Speaker 1: in all of these If you had a few drinks
Speaker 1: in them, nah, that's not okay. He's still not okay.
Speaker 1: He was wasted. You know how to get down? You
Speaker 1: know what you know what's annointing when you tell a
Speaker 1: guy something and he bring it up all the time.
Speaker 1: That's why that's mine. Let me tell you. I told
Speaker 1: my hext boyfriend about one person in the industry who
Speaker 1: I know specifically has slept with everybody. He slipped with
Speaker 1: all of my friends. I'm like, we toss him around
Speaker 1: in the industry. Girls passed him around, and he's like
Speaker 1: that and he's an amazing thought. But I told my
Speaker 1: ex boyfriend, and I'm telling you will be arguing all
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do. You're gonna call x y z oh,
Speaker 1: this one's in sound, You're gonna go hang out at
Speaker 1: his party. Now. It's like, all right, now, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna keep everything to myself because you do Instagram stuck, Like,
Speaker 1: if you find out your guy used to date somebody,
Speaker 1: do you go on the girls Instagram just to see No,
Speaker 1: Because I'm telling you what turns me off and makes
Speaker 1: me not want to funk with him no more, right,
Speaker 1: because I'm like, look she's a cornbo Look she got
Speaker 1: green Seve, Look she doesn't like her kid. Look, look
Speaker 1: this is Cereble. Now listen, we are all getting ready
Speaker 1: for the holidays and a lot of major things coming up,
Speaker 1: such as presents. Okay, now to me, we know you
Speaker 1: trick a little based off of your mix tape. So
Speaker 1: if you start dinning and woman, or let's say you've
Speaker 1: been taking a like three girls in rotation because you're not,
Speaker 1: you know, tied down your single, do you buy them presents? No? Dang,
Speaker 1: not even that little for the holiday. My thing is
Speaker 1: this because especially now, like in terms of time, I
Speaker 1: make sure they're around, make sure around. So if I'm
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, I'm make sure I'll bring you out so
Speaker 1: we enjoyed moments together instead of just a gift. At
Speaker 1: this point, it's more. But a gift makes a moment nice.
Speaker 1: I'd rather have the company and then enjoyed the time together.
Speaker 1: What about the holidays? What if she's like, y'all talk
Speaker 1: all that. What if she got you again, she come
Speaker 1: up with a president? Why don't you feel terrible? Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't because I know that when we do it,
Speaker 1: I'll do a nice little dinner, I'll do massages for us,
Speaker 1: I'll do all those type of things that you know.
Speaker 1: He said, I'm always getting Christmas. But okay, so no
Speaker 1: presents for nobody. This year. I reserved that for my girl.
Speaker 1: But in terms of time, I like time. I think
Speaker 1: time is really important. What if it's not your girl yet,
Speaker 1: but somebody you really like, um, then it's different. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I probably a little something, a little something. So let's
Speaker 1: say it's holidays. Is somebody you've been dating for like
Speaker 1: three months, you like her? What's the what's a good
Speaker 1: amount of money to spend three months? Like a two
Speaker 1: that's good for It's not in my budget. I think that. Um.
Speaker 1: I think birthdays are more more important for a gift Christmas.
Speaker 1: For Christmas, you could get away without getting again. Now,
Speaker 1: the worst part is when you started dating somebody right
Speaker 1: and their birthday come up before yours. That just happened.
Speaker 1: I got yeah. But see, and another thing is is
Speaker 1: when they have more money than you and they have everything,
Speaker 1: and then you got to kind of have to get creative.
Speaker 1: So I, um I threesomes are free most of the time.
Speaker 1: Freesome freesome. That gave him a freesome No, But um
Speaker 1: I set up a massage because I was just like,
Speaker 1: you know, thanks, that's a good thing that people always
Speaker 1: eat a massage. I think it's dope to cater to
Speaker 1: somebody that you would be really dope if massage lessons
Speaker 1: and give him a massage. Yeah, I mean you could
Speaker 1: do that would just lead to sex though, and then
Speaker 1: it won't feel like like four play. Yeah, nothing wrong
Speaker 1: with that alright. So his birthday came before you, so
Speaker 1: you you thought of something specially to do. What do
Speaker 1: you expect for your birthday now? I don't know, just
Speaker 1: be cree. I just like thoughtful gifts, because the best
Speaker 1: gift you ever got, like thoughtful. Um. I got a
Speaker 1: watch for Christmas and it was It was funny because
Speaker 1: I didn't It was my first it was my first
Speaker 1: designer watch. Like I had never had a nice watch.
Speaker 1: I want a nice watch, and in my head I
Speaker 1: kept thinking I wanted one, but I never said it
Speaker 1: Outli before baby he knew it was cool. It was cute. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get Stephanie and watch because she'd be late. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I need one. I need one bad now. I think
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna get a watch for my birthday
Speaker 1: from the new guy. You're speaking, not that new guy
Speaker 1: from the guy, because you're like, I'm single, So I
Speaker 1: have mad boyfriends I have are single, but your good
Speaker 1: friends fake boyfriends and they fake boyfriends like, I'm sleeping
Speaker 1: like one guy and the rest of them are all
Speaker 1: like nuddies. Yeah, they're like like one guy that you're
Speaker 1: sleeping with, that you're going out with that the guys
Speaker 1: like say he hits you and remember next you know,
Speaker 1: I'm like, baby, you know I can't get no better
Speaker 1: than you. Where I'm gonna go through Bay where I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go from here? But she is single? What if
Speaker 1: he asked you where are you last night? He Um,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. I'll just be like I was home.
Speaker 1: You lie, but I'm not sleeping with anybody else. I'm
Speaker 1: not even spending I'll be home all But you tell
Speaker 1: a lie. You're supposed to tell a lie that's close
Speaker 1: to the truth. You can't say you was home if
Speaker 1: you was out. No, No, if I'm if I go out,
Speaker 1: I'll tell the truth, Like because I could. If I
Speaker 1: go to dinner with another guy and you say I wasn't,
Speaker 1: I want to have dinner at tal That's it what
Speaker 1: I mean. What if he says, yeah, who would you
Speaker 1: go with? Who would you go with? I wouldn't he
Speaker 1: and see that I Detroy? So I was with Angel
Speaker 1: Philly travel. I got a private jet, I hope be like,
Speaker 1: you know, my my best friends are pregnant. I have
Speaker 1: a couple of best friends that are pregnant. So I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, we want to eat the pregnant girl. You
Speaker 1: know they're gonna instagram. So worst is if you allow
Speaker 1: you to a whole story to ship just start santing fay.
Speaker 1: So you know my friends and pegny, so one of
Speaker 1: them they would it broke, so we have to go
Speaker 1: get the food to go. I went to and I
Speaker 1: ended up with destroy all the little How well, so
Speaker 1: what is that good amount of money for the guy
Speaker 1: that you're sleeping with to spend on you for the holidays,
Speaker 1: for the holiday, for my birthday? Because my birthday is coming,
Speaker 1: I don't really expect the Christmas gift because I don't
Speaker 1: really buy guys Christmas gifts. Like I have a child
Speaker 1: and he's really expensive during the holidays. So it's like
Speaker 1: you discuss it, like just so you know, you don't
Speaker 1: gotta get me a gift from Yeah, I do. I do, Like,
Speaker 1: don't worry about getting me a gift. I don't buy
Speaker 1: anybody gives about my grandmother and my son, okay, or
Speaker 1: you know witnesses. Yeah, and a lot of times. It
Speaker 1: don't still give me a gift. It's just don't expect
Speaker 1: me to return the gift. All right, I don't go
Speaker 1: for your birthday, I got you, Valencine's Day, I got you.
Speaker 1: But Christmas that's all for my sons. Thank you. Let
Speaker 1: me put us some music and give you a lap,
Speaker 1: then exactly, I'll definitely do so. How much money would
Speaker 1: you expect him to spend it for me on my
Speaker 1: birthday if we're sleeping together, I don't know, it's not
Speaker 1: I don't really care about how much the gift, cause
Speaker 1: it's more I like sense a mental value. And I
Speaker 1: was like, you know what I mean, like giving me
Speaker 1: money guys, that's that's like, that's what guys do. Like, Oh,
Speaker 1: here's three thousand dollars for your birthday. Here's five thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: There's a couple of rocks, you know, Like that's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't pay my bills. I don't pay some bills.
Speaker 1: You know, maybe I'll go buy a pair of shoes.
Speaker 1: But it's just money in the bank, you know. Not
Speaker 1: rather somebody buy me something, you wouldn't rather somebody value
Speaker 1: something and give you money. Though, isn't that more? No,
Speaker 1: I would rather than buy me something to give me money.
Speaker 1: Money is like every day I get money every day.
Speaker 1: That's special. That's what I mean. Do you give girls money?
Speaker 1: What if a girl asked you for money to pay
Speaker 1: her bills? What if she was like, hey, boo, you
Speaker 1: know things a little You know what I think? Like, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. You don't want to date a girl who
Speaker 1: can't pay her bills Because listen, I know girls who
Speaker 1: guys give them money, And I'm like, how does that happen?
Speaker 1: Like do they ask for their mouth and ask for
Speaker 1: so if the girl asked you, you say no, yes,
Speaker 1: run run? What if it's not a lot, But if
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, I gotta get this Brazilian waxes seventy dollars.
Speaker 1: I know you like to don't got no cash for you?
Speaker 1: I don't take credit cards? Yeah? What's like? What if
Speaker 1: she's like you comes back to you in Jersey, I
Speaker 1: need gas money and told money. No, that's crazy, it's
Speaker 1: a little crazy. But would you do it? It's not
Speaker 1: a lot, it depends how depend on what kind of
Speaker 1: cars she has, A big takes. But if she if
Speaker 1: she asks you like Hey, I need three thousand dollars
Speaker 1: to covering around bows this month. No, no, like, girl,
Speaker 1: go get a job. And I know that's the party.
Speaker 1: Everybody can't go host the damn party. Like everybody looks
Speaker 1: like no. But now I think that's I think that's corny.
Speaker 1: You know, it's like really bad and doesn't want that. No,
Speaker 1: that's stupid, and I feel like you're trying to use me.
Speaker 1: So it becomes a different conversation. Now look at you differently.
Speaker 1: But she's like, this is so difficult for me to
Speaker 1: ask you. And normally I usually don't do this. What're
Speaker 1: the first time doing this? What is she stuck in
Speaker 1: your dick? And she looks at at you and she's like,
Speaker 1: and it's really good. And she's like, I need somebody anything, anything,
Speaker 1: anything you want? Don't please you may chook? You want
Speaker 1: me to win? Are to you? And then said, but
Speaker 1: you'd be like what I don't remember that? That was right?
Speaker 1: What about g Yes? Do you ever problem just asking
Speaker 1: for some money? Now I'm as Jesus. Views on money
Speaker 1: is different. I think because I was a stripper, So
Speaker 1: money falls out the sky. What did she said? It
Speaker 1: just falls out to right and magic city, the money
Speaker 1: fell out the sky. Guys are supposed to pay for ship.
Speaker 1: They are, but pay for what everybody? No, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: not everything. But there are some things that if a
Speaker 1: god knows you need it, and he should just provide
Speaker 1: it if your tracks is falling out and he's not
Speaker 1: like boo boo, let's get that tightened up. So you
Speaker 1: expect the man to pay your rent. No, come to
Speaker 1: my own rent. But let's just say that I get
Speaker 1: into whatever situation. Let's say I get locked up, damn G.
Speaker 1: Not just saying I get locked up, you're not. I'll
Speaker 1: be having a weed in the car. So you know,
Speaker 1: I get locked up and the man and I'm sucking.
Speaker 1: I call my home girl and she she's like, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna call you, dude, and
Speaker 1: we're gonna get this bail money. And he goes send
Speaker 1: that bare money. Right. No necessities, things that I really
Speaker 1: really really need, not something I should be able to
Speaker 1: provide for myself, not something that I should be working
Speaker 1: for myself, but things like if something was to come
Speaker 1: up and I didn't have it, then the next the
Speaker 1: next best person that's gonna make sure it's there is
Speaker 1: the man. I don't spread my legs were and if not,
Speaker 1: then I'm shutting my legs. Pepper. Now, what do you
Speaker 1: expect for the holidays? Like, say you've been dating somebody
Speaker 1: is fairly new. Is he supposed to get you a present?
Speaker 1: Because this is what's fairly let's just say it's three months. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's fairly new. But it's you know, something that's a
Speaker 1: little consistent. Yeah, I think I think a president at
Speaker 1: three months is a nice gesture and then got to
Speaker 1: be not a brand president. I don't think it's a necessity.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be mad. You know. That's kind of the moment,
Speaker 1: you know around that time. It's like it's only been
Speaker 1: three months, or it's been three months. You know, that's
Speaker 1: kind of like a fine line across. So I wouldn't
Speaker 1: feel type of way if he didn't give me something.
Speaker 1: But if he did get me something, I would love that.
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't expect for it to be nothing. Create
Speaker 1: like I don't want to roll except three months, you
Speaker 1: know I do. I mean I would, but I'm not.
Speaker 1: After three you look at him differently. If you did
Speaker 1: give you a role, I would think it was fake
Speaker 1: like wouldn't make you like somebody more than they got you,
Speaker 1: like an incredible present. It will help. I mean it
Speaker 1: does help. And I fired like, let's say, um, we're
Speaker 1: in that metal place that you know we're not kissing,
Speaker 1: we're friend zone, but there's like a thin line that
Speaker 1: you might could be my boyfriend and then get to
Speaker 1: take Yeah if you say, if you get all right,
Speaker 1: you're like, we might. We might if I can't even
Speaker 1: be friends when people they accept the gifts is sometimes
Speaker 1: when you accept the gift a big gift to prematurely
Speaker 1: than the guy that gives it to you expect some
Speaker 1: pussy in return, and then we just not. At three,
Speaker 1: I said premature, No, guys are buying that guy to
Speaker 1: get me the jeans and ast me spend a night
Speaker 1: with me wearing some jeans. It was like, can I
Speaker 1: stay with you? Nigga? We should have bought a hotel
Speaker 1: room for tonight. We're talking about that today. Um do
Speaker 1: so if I pay for you to get your nails done,
Speaker 1: I'm getting the pussy. No, because you don't they last longer?
Speaker 1: Do you judge a person like off based off the
Speaker 1: first time you have sex with them? Because I feel
Speaker 1: like sometimes you can't really tell. Now you can't. You
Speaker 1: always got to give it the first time, Like the
Speaker 1: first time can be all so much pressure. The first
Speaker 1: time you gotta juste. But I feel like the first
Speaker 1: time it should be one of the best times because
Speaker 1: you're feeling is to each other, like you get just
Speaker 1: it's new and it's thrill. Thrill. There, I give you
Speaker 1: the thrill. And that's why it's a let down, because
Speaker 1: you've got too much hype behind it. That's why it's
Speaker 1: not much pressure. You gotta give them a second chance.
Speaker 1: Bad first experiences like you bested too quick, or you
Speaker 1: I'm Nigerian, so we're just a different breed of mine.
Speaker 1: We go, we go. But now I think I think
Speaker 1: you gotta get somebody a second chance because so many
Speaker 1: we don't know each other. I don't know what you
Speaker 1: truly like. You know, you don't know what I really like.
Speaker 1: It's bad, I'll definitely give them a second not even bad.
Speaker 1: If it's bad. If it's bad, then though, but if
Speaker 1: it's like, oh that was cool, Oh it's cool, it's
Speaker 1: come better, it could be better. But then it's like
Speaker 1: it becomes chemistry, you know, you know what makes the
Speaker 1: girl whack in bed. You just lay like a starfish
Speaker 1: and just don't do you just stay there like you know,
Speaker 1: and I like and I like talking. I like, you know,
Speaker 1: choking and like that so well you want to know
Speaker 1: that that you'd be scared to do that because you
Speaker 1: don't know if I like it. So different things, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, you like her to choke. You know,
Speaker 1: I like choking, and if you don wouldn't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know she like it. I don't she wouldn't know
Speaker 1: if I like doing it. You know, different things right here.
Speaker 1: That's the worst thing. That's the worst thing about the
Speaker 1: first time for me is that, like I got a coach.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you put your hand on my face, damn
Speaker 1: out yourself. Take it easy, you know, like I have
Speaker 1: to put my hands guy's hands to put it int.
Speaker 1: You got it? Yeah, I definitely do for sure. That's
Speaker 1: the only part that like I could do what all
Speaker 1: went sleeping? When somebody knew the girl has tracks in
Speaker 1: the hair? Do you care about any of that? As
Speaker 1: long as it looks good? She'd be like, don't put
Speaker 1: that ship like that. You're right, Stephanie, you slap the shower.
Speaker 1: It's good. I like that ship. Hello, I like it.
Speaker 1: I'm like trying. I'm like taking the guy's hand and
Speaker 1: I'm slapping myself harder with his big man hands, like
Speaker 1: I like the rough ship. So it's hard like is
Speaker 1: no no, no, especially drinking, like drinking moments like I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm getting hampered out of my face. I don't want
Speaker 1: to get you choke like like choke that. I don't falling.
Speaker 1: You know, I don't wear a weave and this is
Speaker 1: I wear. I don't put fake hair in, so pull
Speaker 1: my hair like wrap it around your hand. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: like that all the time. Slap set me back. If
Speaker 1: you slap me, I may be like I like it.
Speaker 1: You can go no, but I mean you can't, Like
Speaker 1: you can't slap slop me in morning sex, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. That's the stuff you're doing the nights exactly.
Speaker 1: You know, like the morning is more of a passionate thing.
Speaker 1: You know, like you're going to kiss each other, but
Speaker 1: you're not because you're scared. Can he be like you sucking?
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I like bitch. I call I
Speaker 1: curse a lot in bad like I say a lot
Speaker 1: of motherfucker's and ship like that. Yeah, but don't call me.
Speaker 1: Don't call me a whore. You can slut, you could
Speaker 1: get away with? What about yeah, like my slut? Exactly?
Speaker 1: What if he's like, you can dirty little homeless bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm like, what kind of playing? You're right? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I don't know where you're gonna be like, yes,
Speaker 1: like dirty because I'm so I'm so crazy about cleansiness.
Speaker 1: I don't like dirty. Don't call me. Don't mean it
Speaker 1: that way though, can't say so? Yeah? Does that sound better?
Speaker 1: Know what kind of quanta reaking? Man? Are you sleeping?
Speaker 1: I got it? Ain't in Spanish in high school? Thank you?
Speaker 1: I know a lot. No, Like, there's something I think
Speaker 1: a guy could get away with slut, slut bitch, not horror,
Speaker 1: not ho No, no, I'll be like, wait, who are
Speaker 1: you talking to? Hold on? If it does? Would you
Speaker 1: stop it if it was good? If it was good,
Speaker 1: I might doe like curse after wait till you call
Speaker 1: me like, can we talk for a minute? And what
Speaker 1: about you with a gunny clause you are home or
Speaker 1: a slut? No? I like my bitch, you know, like
Speaker 1: you said you put in front of it, not my
Speaker 1: hole though? No, not my whole that's horrible slut right,
Speaker 1: like you can get on avoit with my little slut,
Speaker 1: little napping my lasty bit. Wait wait, the guy I
Speaker 1: asked you, like, has they ever been like so, what
Speaker 1: was little Wayne like in bed? God? A man? Guy
Speaker 1: have asked you? Don't know that. They do ask some
Speaker 1: really ridiculous questions about him, but not that. No, they's
Speaker 1: just be like, you know, can you still listen to
Speaker 1: his music? Like what the bills of every don't you
Speaker 1: every word? He no seiling soup? What if you are
Speaker 1: making love? And he puts some like how to love
Speaker 1: or something that weird. Oh that was like like if
Speaker 1: you're if you're having sex and that actually has happened before.
Speaker 1: Of course it has. I'm not gonna lie. I've been
Speaker 1: in bed with a guy and somebody got slug what
Speaker 1: comes on on the radio and sometimes you know, I'm
Speaker 1: telling you the one I told him that man, we
Speaker 1: got like music Choice, music Choice playing in the background
Speaker 1: and boomed the guy and we just had an argument
Speaker 1: about if I should go see the guy because he's
Speaker 1: in town. And then we're like we've been a gather
Speaker 1: music choice. A picture of him and me sucking as dick.
Speaker 1: I'm like, you change the chance na. He was fine,
Speaker 1: he went what about My friend was like, yo, what
Speaker 1: are you doing when when there's two guys in a
Speaker 1: picture that you slept with and you slept with them both,
Speaker 1: you just more than one guy in the picture that
Speaker 1: you slept like like you right? Since that double chat,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna double you know what? The industry is small.
Speaker 1: That happened, But what if the caption is we don't
Speaker 1: suck some of the same bitches. I'm not gonna like it.
Speaker 1: Like you know, I followed two thousands of people I
Speaker 1: didn't see. But it's not just an industry. Let that
Speaker 1: industry thing go. Like when you was in high school,
Speaker 1: if you was in the band, you was sucking the
Speaker 1: color guard. If you was on you know, the football team,
Speaker 1: he was sucking a cheerleaders. You stayed in your circle,
Speaker 1: right exactly? I agree to me. Have you had a
Speaker 1: lot of threesomes? You have? How does that get set off? Now?
Speaker 1: I've had a couple of people tell me that they're
Speaker 1: trying to figure out how to have a threesome. Do
Speaker 1: you suggested or do the women suggested? It's been uh,
Speaker 1: half and half, but I'm usually with somebody who wants
Speaker 1: to do that, so she'll get another girl. She'll be
Speaker 1: the one that said, oh she's pretty, let's bring up back.
Speaker 1: Could you date a woman who doesn't do that or
Speaker 1: do you think that's in the sense I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't think. I don't think. I don't. I wouldn't want
Speaker 1: it in my relationship because then it causes a lot
Speaker 1: of issue because it's insecurity sometimes, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: and my boys dealing with that now actually, so he's
Speaker 1: like yo, like, well he got caught texting the girls.
Speaker 1: That's one of the rules, right, so it kind of communications.
Speaker 1: I don't want to deal with that. I don't want
Speaker 1: that as a birthday, give nothing. I just want that
Speaker 1: that's just fun to you know what I mean. That's
Speaker 1: not a girl. You could be serious with this what
Speaker 1: you're saying. No, I can't be. But I personally don't
Speaker 1: want to do it because it just calls dance. You
Speaker 1: don't even want to really do three sims in a relationship,
Speaker 1: not in relationship in terms of everything else. Was really
Speaker 1: she was cool with it, like you followed the rules,
Speaker 1: you were respectful, You wasn't on your homeboys ship but
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and I would I would
Speaker 1: never bring it up. If she brings it up as
Speaker 1: a let's do it, then was something she wanted if
Speaker 1: she wanted to do I'll never bring it up in
Speaker 1: a relationship. I think that's too much, right, I agree
Speaker 1: with that. What about you, Sarah? What do you think
Speaker 1: if a guy asked you to do with three sim?
Speaker 1: Are you with it? I've done it before, But to me,
Speaker 1: we have to be in a really serious relationship to
Speaker 1: be able to have that trust to where it's no
Speaker 1: insecurities and we're not tripping, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Because you can't just do that with anybody that's did
Speaker 1: you want to do it? Or did you do it
Speaker 1: because he wanted to do it? I wanted to do it.
Speaker 1: I mean I didn't bring it up, but it wasn't
Speaker 1: like he course me or like I did it for him,
Speaker 1: like because if you're doing it for him, then that's
Speaker 1: all kinds of problems. Yeah. That's most of the time
Speaker 1: too though. Today. So now, if you are having three
Speaker 1: sims in your relationship, is it okay for you to
Speaker 1: be with the girl without him around? Okay? What if
Speaker 1: he's if he's okay? With it. Do you want to
Speaker 1: do it or does he need to be involved. I'm
Speaker 1: learning to just girls like that. It's got to be okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a sexual thing. It's like four play or toys
Speaker 1: or what it's like, know proper? Yeah exactly. Do you
Speaker 1: remember you saying you all were looking for a girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Is that's still true? No? No more, she said, no,
Speaker 1: I was just talking shit. You know, I'm a ship talker. Um,
Speaker 1: it would be something you know, to let to, you know,
Speaker 1: to make this is the thing the guy is going
Speaker 1: to His eyes are gonna wander his you know. So
Speaker 1: I feel like if you dangle it in find of
Speaker 1: him them, he won't have no reason to leave. But no,
Speaker 1: it doesn't work. You know that don't work. But it's
Speaker 1: just still to tell you can have three sims in
Speaker 1: your relationship. Well yeah, of course we haven't since since
Speaker 1: we got back together, but it's been a top of
Speaker 1: the discussion, Like all right, and we're back on track.
Speaker 1: Can we get back to you? You know, we like
Speaker 1: to collect them. We like to have three sums when
Speaker 1: we collect passport stamp. So maybe we might be going
Speaker 1: on the trip, so when we can make that happen.
Speaker 1: But other than you. Is he about that? Like? I
Speaker 1: feel like so that's that's a good question. Do you
Speaker 1: want to know the girl so that you can at
Speaker 1: least know what type? When? Not when I've indulged in
Speaker 1: foreign relations saying that I can call it you import it.
Speaker 1: I just never went in like I'm gonna let that
Speaker 1: girl do everything to me, And I'm not really gonna
Speaker 1: do much to her but a little tinkle tinkle. I'm
Speaker 1: not really gonna put my mom thing like that. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let her do all the work. So that's
Speaker 1: how it works, Okay, that's how you'd be safe. What
Speaker 1: do you say about that, Sarah, because I could tell
Speaker 1: you had some Do you know the girl? I just
Speaker 1: I'm like her. I just just want to know and
Speaker 1: make sure she's okay. Like, I don't know what you'd
Speaker 1: be doing when I'm you know what I'm saying. I mean,
Speaker 1: you really never know anyway, but I would like to
Speaker 1: to at least have been around you a few times.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a good judge of character, more
Speaker 1: have a sense of I mean, I got you know,
Speaker 1: I'm same as having a one nice man, right, that's
Speaker 1: not really I never have to see this bitch again,
Speaker 1: and I know she'll never see my nigga again. That
Speaker 1: bitches in the Dominican that I mean, I would prefer
Speaker 1: not having to see the girl again versus it being
Speaker 1: one of the home girl t V and aids in
Speaker 1: Dominican Republic. I couldn't even imagine having sex with somebody
Speaker 1: over there. I couldn't pre yourself. No, I don't even
Speaker 1: want your mouth on me. No, you can still get
Speaker 1: her bees with. You can get all types of ship
Speaker 1: from your mouth, and you can get all types of
Speaker 1: ship anywhere, New York, anywhere. I just I would have
Speaker 1: way too much anxiety to do it in a foreign country.
Speaker 1: Oh have you ever had a scared like a condom
Speaker 1: broke and he was nervous? Nervous sho. Don't you know
Speaker 1: when it cond of breaks? Though you can't feel it
Speaker 1: now if you drunk as hell, Sometimes you feel like
Speaker 1: she might have broken on purpose. Now, I was in college.
Speaker 1: I was like in college, and we were just yeah,
Speaker 1: it was just a wild, wild night, and so you
Speaker 1: just didn't I don't even remember that. I just opened it.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, she is a hole in this
Speaker 1: ship right and comes nowhere in here tested Yeah, you
Speaker 1: have to of course, you know, but it's just yea,
Speaker 1: she's like, I ain't taking that ship. You feel like
Speaker 1: you've got to be more careful now though, I mean
Speaker 1: you know obviously now you got hit song on the radio,
Speaker 1: you're on power Hit Show. Do you feel like now okay,
Speaker 1: things have changed up a little more? Of course. Of course,
Speaker 1: my team, my circle of the people I deal with,
Speaker 1: like not dressed with bitches with with everybody, everybody, everybody,
Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm focused, especially now there's two cruise over
Speaker 1: time to like play around. He thinks better for you
Speaker 1: to be single or would you rather be in a relationship. Um,
Speaker 1: I battle that. I think right now for me to
Speaker 1: be it's best for me to be single. But ideally
Speaker 1: I would want a relationship so I can just focus
Speaker 1: on what I have to do and just focus on
Speaker 1: one person and just have some money that you know
Speaker 1: understands and it's cool. You believe in monogamy, Yeah, I do.
Speaker 1: I do. I do. It's hard, I mean obviously, but
Speaker 1: I believe it's something that I would truly want. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I've heard people say monogamy just isn't natural. Um well, again,
Speaker 1: like my family is Nigerian. So I have uncles who
Speaker 1: have three four wives and they look at me like, yo, me,
Speaker 1: what are you doing? You your fine boy? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: should be so like he's like, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 1: You know? So? And I'll tell him about one person
Speaker 1: and he'd just be like, yeah, what's going on? So
Speaker 1: it's just different cultures believe in different things. But I
Speaker 1: think I think you mean, I think honestly, it's harder.
Speaker 1: I think it's harder for a man to do it
Speaker 1: because that like nature naturally we like options. But yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, that's just instinct, but it's
Speaker 1: a conscious decision to you know, not make that decision.
Speaker 1: You know, that's when you let love win and all
Speaker 1: that stuff, all that stuff. So, yeah, it's different. Don't
Speaker 1: that make you want to download that mix tape right
Speaker 1: now Wednesdays Timmy music dot Com. Yes, row Wednesday. But
Speaker 1: it's I think I would prefer that for sure. So
Speaker 1: if you get in a relationship when we're talking about
Speaker 1: this question, how soon do you start posting or letting
Speaker 1: people know? Which would you post post? I wouldn't. I wouldn't.
Speaker 1: What if she wanted you to, She's like, listen, all
Speaker 1: these bitches leaving comments. You need to let these bitches
Speaker 1: know you are in a relationship. Do you say, my girl,
Speaker 1: this is my girl that always it on a low
Speaker 1: and I want to protect it. Man, everything else is
Speaker 1: to the people. You want to keep it sacred. I
Speaker 1: think when you start posting up your lover on the internets,
Speaker 1: when you're sucking it up, it's the worst decisions. That's
Speaker 1: the worst decision because once people start knowing your business,
Speaker 1: that's when when you're when they start hating on and
Speaker 1: then trying to talk keeping it to me last week, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like she said, yourself, as long as you can,
Speaker 1: I'll be more greater. So it's natural to be excited
Speaker 1: and want to share that you're happy. But in the
Speaker 1: world that we live in right now, you can't do that,
Speaker 1: especially in this business, you know what I mean, in
Speaker 1: the industry, like you, I regret even me being in
Speaker 1: the industry and my ex boyfriend not being in the industry.
Speaker 1: I regret posting him up on the internet. I regret it.
Speaker 1: I liked it. He got more followers. You know, it's
Speaker 1: because once girls started because you know, I'm a look
Speaker 1: for a guy, you know what I mean? Angela you're
Speaker 1: a look. You know, you're a look. No, not even
Speaker 1: trying to flex, you know. And you know, girls, you
Speaker 1: you pull out this guy that nobody ever seen before.
Speaker 1: Now she's with you. Girls take answer to like, oh,
Speaker 1: he's talking with him. He must be let me check
Speaker 1: for him. He must have good dick or he must
Speaker 1: be rich. Right, he's amazing, you know, Like, let me
Speaker 1: let me say Stephanie's due from her. Okay, we take
Speaker 1: her man exactly, you know, and that's just stuff that
Speaker 1: that can be avoided. But to me, what if your
Speaker 1: girl is like, so you're not going to post us
Speaker 1: like you're just not gonna act like you have a girl?
Speaker 1: What if it's her birthday? She's like, I can't get
Speaker 1: an Instagram shout out? Why do you want that? What
Speaker 1: does it have to do it with? Maybe she wants
Speaker 1: people to know you have a girl, But why does
Speaker 1: that matter? Why? I don't know, Maybe make it feel
Speaker 1: more's conversation. I got her followers people, I'm saying, why
Speaker 1: is that? Why is that important? Why is that important?
Speaker 1: Do you understand? Like people are paying attention to what's happening,
Speaker 1: so it becomes a different thing, and then they'll be
Speaker 1: like Are you ready for that? Are you? You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? So it's just why why do you
Speaker 1: want that? Just at the moment. But when you guys
Speaker 1: are always like, oh, you don't show me no love
Speaker 1: on Instagram, that you'll stop all these other niggas promoters
Speaker 1: you post up that's a female trade, but you don't
Speaker 1: post me. I've gotten that, Oh my god, But I do.
Speaker 1: I do think it's respectable to to let people know
Speaker 1: you are taking right have a man you don't have.
Speaker 1: Some don't have to know who is exactly. I agree
Speaker 1: with that, but then people, I'm trying to figure it out.
Speaker 1: Y'all can figure y'all can look y'all can there? Well,
Speaker 1: you let anybody know about your situation that you never
Speaker 1: mean it, and I'm right away when who was? Yeah,
Speaker 1: what made you decide that? Okay, I can do that now.
Speaker 1: I think he kind of wanted me to a loon.
Speaker 1: I really do. And I still don't. Like I don't
Speaker 1: post a lot of pictures of us. I never really did. Um.
Speaker 1: In the very beginning that relationship, I would never say
Speaker 1: who he was. I would always just call him Mr
Speaker 1: Big and tex. Yeah. Think I'm careful, Um, but I
Speaker 1: think It was probably Air three where maybe like two
Speaker 1: years and it was his birthday and I added him
Speaker 1: on a birthday post but the imposed a picture. But
Speaker 1: like I added him. I think that was one of
Speaker 1: it was like out there that that's who I was dating.
Speaker 1: But damn um, I never did you feel like that
Speaker 1: made other chicks win him since we were all talking
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, look, they know the type of bitch
Speaker 1: you are, they know the type of moves you're making,
Speaker 1: they know the type of man that you want to have,
Speaker 1: and they want that and he could be a piece
Speaker 1: of ship. Nigga, who's going to jail? And girls are
Speaker 1: you're talking about? Not just that bit, just love a
Speaker 1: man a girlfriend if he's capable doing that for her.
Speaker 1: Stephany has said previously she don't even want girls to know.
Speaker 1: Like we were like her house and she said, oh
Speaker 1: he's all right, he's not that good man. No, if
Speaker 1: a girl access me like girl, it's a dick. Good
Speaker 1: outside comes first. Fine, it's okay, I love him, want
Speaker 1: to be like it's amazing, but you don't want nobody
Speaker 1: to know. I don't know what each other about. Girls
Speaker 1: like do you be like man, I had the most
Speaker 1: amazing pussy last night. Guys to do that, and I do,
Speaker 1: like with my best friends with your boy, what if
Speaker 1: that girl tends out to be like serious later, do
Speaker 1: you feel like, damn, I shouldn't have told him no, no,
Speaker 1: because now they know why he's sprunk. And then my
Speaker 1: friend Mary guy, and she had told all of us
Speaker 1: in the beginning, She's like, man, he's dick is so little.
Speaker 1: Every time I see them together, I be like, man,
Speaker 1: I feel so married, like a little dick guy. You know,
Speaker 1: we'd be in a group chest like damn. Do you
Speaker 1: see how she swears she's flying a little bickus a little.
Speaker 1: They look happy, but it's dick little. That's why sometimes
Speaker 1: you can't tell people stuff like that though, you know,
Speaker 1: you gotta keep it teased right that you listen. I've
Speaker 1: had guys that I know talk to tell me, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm doting this girl. Whatever I with her. She a hole,
Speaker 1: but whatever, And then they end up three months later,
Speaker 1: pret and you'd be like, ship, that's the same girl.
Speaker 1: I mean, what is the whole nowadays? Anyway? What see? Okay?
Speaker 1: That's feel about it. I feel like this brings up
Speaker 1: the Amber Rose situation with the sluptwalk right because you
Speaker 1: were you were very you defended that campaign, well, the
Speaker 1: actual campaign, you know, because I just aware derived from
Speaker 1: so and I and I do think it's good that
Speaker 1: she bought attention to it. People donated money, you know,
Speaker 1: toward women who don't want to come forward about being
Speaker 1: raped and stuff. So do you feel like she was
Speaker 1: the right person to be the face of that? I
Speaker 1: think it would have been great for her to team
Speaker 1: up with somebody else, Yeah, because for me, she made
Speaker 1: the slot walk all about slut shammon and what it
Speaker 1: was about. It was about that, It was about that,
Speaker 1: but a bunch of all the things too. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I think that the message got lost and a
Speaker 1: lot of people didn't understand where derived from. Because it
Speaker 1: would have been great, and she would have teamed up
Speaker 1: with somebody that was completely opposite of who she is
Speaker 1: that could spread that message, or somebody that is a
Speaker 1: voice that can say, look, you know, I was raped
Speaker 1: and I reported it and I was treated like I
Speaker 1: was you know, like it was my fault. It was
Speaker 1: what I had on. That would have been powerful to
Speaker 1: me to have somebody walkers for right, But that message
Speaker 1: wasn't that message wasn't delivered. But what is the definition
Speaker 1: of a hope? You could define what the hoe is.
Speaker 1: I just feel like it's the reason for why you're
Speaker 1: having sex, Because you could be somebody who just loves
Speaker 1: to have sex. But if you're out here and it's
Speaker 1: for some status, some attention, some money, um, some other things.
Speaker 1: So I could sit at the table and the club
Speaker 1: with you and your yeah for some like yeah, that's
Speaker 1: that's just doing too much. Alright, what's the definition of
Speaker 1: a home? I mean that Handy got me a little out? Um,
Speaker 1: I agree. I'm not gonna tell anybody what you said
Speaker 1: about Handy earlier. Yeah, she said, handy help you getting
Speaker 1: the ass said wow, maybe I'll try that. I was like,
Speaker 1: don't do that. You know, it isn't heney that makes
Speaker 1: you wrote, I don't know. I may sundy you guys,
Speaker 1: that's my work for me, alright, we're what's the definition
Speaker 1: of a well? I agree? I mean, it's all about
Speaker 1: your reason. It's it's about your drive, it's about why
Speaker 1: you're out here being as crazy as who are? Like,
Speaker 1: are you doing it just for nothing? Are you just
Speaker 1: to be fucking like? Are you doing point this? Fucking
Speaker 1: if this fucking is getting you to where of life,
Speaker 1: then you shouldn't be still she gets you somewhere like
Speaker 1: but you cause that's the ope, just for sure, for sure?
Speaker 1: What's your definition of the hell? Stephanie? Sorry? And I
Speaker 1: was like, is a woman who has a price on
Speaker 1: her pussy? She will suck you for a handbag, She
Speaker 1: will suck you for somebody. She will fuck you to
Speaker 1: get her for free. That's okay, No, they hold sup.
Speaker 1: But that's a different that's a different level. Now, if
Speaker 1: you're just dating and you know, um, you sleep, you sleep,
Speaker 1: and you know you're sleeping with somebody, and you know
Speaker 1: you're sleeping with that one person for a while, and
Speaker 1: then it doesn't work out and you end up sleeping
Speaker 1: with somebody else, you're not being a hole. You're just
Speaker 1: testing the waters. You're enjoying their fruits, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? But I another hole of a woman who's
Speaker 1: married as she's sleeping for nigga for a hand bad
Speaker 1: sucking water nigga because she wants to be a bartender,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I just want to
Speaker 1: be purpose. It makes you a hole? Yeah, I just
Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, I like, But if you're saying you're
Speaker 1: hand sucking and you ain't getting nothing, but you if
Speaker 1: you're sucking and not getting nothing, at least have emotions
Speaker 1: in it, you know what I mean. Be with somebody
Speaker 1: you like because you're having good conversation with them, you're
Speaker 1: going to dinners with them, you're getting to know each other,
Speaker 1: and you end up having sex. That's that's a normal things.
Speaker 1: But when that's the way you're supposed to be sleeping.
Speaker 1: But if you're sucking because you got drunk in the
Speaker 1: club and you and you're hanging out at the table
Speaker 1: and you bounced with the security and you got sucked
Speaker 1: in the back of the of the van, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, You're a hole. You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: If you're selling pussy, you were in your homegirl and
Speaker 1: friend you're sucking your home girl's boyfriends left there from
Speaker 1: a man wrote Timmy, Yeah, Timmy, Or if it's a
Speaker 1: one night stand? Are you judging? No? Because I feel
Speaker 1: like to answer your question, I think energy is though.
Speaker 1: If you have a certain type of energy chemistry is flowing,
Speaker 1: then you can't judge it. I judge how what happens
Speaker 1: after that, So that's what makes me judge it. But
Speaker 1: the actual notice like we're vibing, we're having a good time,
Speaker 1: and then just don't when it goes down. I think
Speaker 1: a woman or a dude that just compromises their morals
Speaker 1: over and over and over and over again sexually, they
Speaker 1: just I don't think man could be hold because they
Speaker 1: have A girl can definitely be holst. They are super
Speaker 1: I could be promiscuous, you know what I mean. But
Speaker 1: it's like it's so empty. It's so like, you know,
Speaker 1: like a deep passage that just got passed around it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's to save the home. Yes, I think like a thing.
Speaker 1: The term term, the term, but I think the meaning
Speaker 1: is the saying said they could be bitches. But I think, man,
Speaker 1: it's it's okay. It's a lot of you know, I
Speaker 1: know we live in a world where everything is equal
Speaker 1: and you know, woman, but I think, you know, I
Speaker 1: think it's I think because a man's you know, because
Speaker 1: a man's general organs are on the outside. You know what,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, it's still the laz because I know
Speaker 1: somebody who celebrity celebrity chicks. Because then you know, there's
Speaker 1: definitely yes in this industry, male groupie niggas who want
Speaker 1: to suck these girls because of their status. That's a
Speaker 1: true he's a hole. I say what I think the
Speaker 1: home is, and in my opinion, I think you can
Speaker 1: do whatever you want to do is you're safe in
Speaker 1: your single right. I think a hole with somebody who
Speaker 1: fo say friends man, that's supposed to be your home
Speaker 1: girl and you're sucking her man or her husband, that
Speaker 1: makes you a help. You're home if I can't leave
Speaker 1: your home guy, If I can't trust you around my man,
Speaker 1: then you will help. Are you at home? If you're
Speaker 1: fucking with your ex's friend, y'all not together no more?
Speaker 1: You're done. But they're cool separately, like you didn't know
Speaker 1: you're friends. I mean, listen, you may not have necessarily
Speaker 1: met them person through him, you know. But I think
Speaker 1: stuff like that happens all the time. I'm not talking
Speaker 1: about Yeah, I understand each other's number. They hit each
Speaker 1: other up once in a while. I'm not sorry. I
Speaker 1: don't think that makes you do, especially when you're If
Speaker 1: you're not with him no more, you can you know,
Speaker 1: you can't help, like you if you're it is popular,
Speaker 1: you know, he knows everybody what't you definitely can't help.
Speaker 1: Put you in you know what I mean, what are
Speaker 1: you supposed to And if he's taking you seriously and
Speaker 1: he really cares about you, any guy that's with you
Speaker 1: when he cares about to you not a home to him.
Speaker 1: You know, best friends and that's bad. Read like five
Speaker 1: five years apart and you meet the best friend five
Speaker 1: years later you were the best friends. That means he went, hell,
Speaker 1: didn't just meet him? If if we got really stating,
Speaker 1: then if I've never met your best friend, no no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's the best friend. But you see him five years later,
Speaker 1: you broke up with his best friend five years ago,
Speaker 1: unless you chronically do that. Yeah, this might make you hope.
Speaker 1: You're talking about how particular situation's thinking a little. He
Speaker 1: was options he wanted to. Yeah, So what I'm saying like,
Speaker 1: do you feel like, do you feel like if they're
Speaker 1: still best friends, would you do it? Okay? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and they throw that best friend word around loosely. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about real best friends. Well, young ducks say that,
Speaker 1: do you throw a brother around? Oh that's growing swam.
Speaker 1: But yeah, the last night, I really I really just
Speaker 1: think that like if you dudes and you don't have
Speaker 1: no morals to care about like friendships. I just think, really,
Speaker 1: what makes you can I think you can sleep with
Speaker 1: whoever you want. Just be safe, right, be single, don't
Speaker 1: have a man and running all crazy and buck wild.
Speaker 1: But as long as it's as you're doing what you
Speaker 1: want to do and it ain't affecting nobody or hurting nobody,
Speaker 1: you're good. Yeah. I agree with that's all. I agree
Speaker 1: with that. Okay, okay, all right, well still winning? Yes, girl, listen,
Speaker 1: I think that phases going out divorce. They get in sidelines,
Speaker 1: they get Yeah, that's going out. That's not the regular
Speaker 1: chick is getting that too. That's just you know, ho
Speaker 1: was on the company thin the good girls winning. I'm
Speaker 1: not saying the good girls are winning, but I think
Speaker 1: the holes played themselves. I think the in the peasant
Speaker 1: girls who ain't holing all winning. Yeah, I think the
Speaker 1: girls who got it like, look I got my all car,
Speaker 1: I got my all house, I got my all jaw.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna to be tied to paying for my
Speaker 1: own ship. Sometimes we're like I'll be like, okay, do
Speaker 1: I gotta keep my own che bags? More like Monica said,
Speaker 1: the real one has always been in right exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it do feel good to know that like I
Speaker 1: ain't you know, I could buy my own house, my
Speaker 1: own shoes and own bags and everything. So all good,
Speaker 1: All right, well, well to me, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for joining us. I've been trying to get him to
Speaker 1: come up here for a while. I thought he was nervous.
Speaker 1: But you you had the dam when it was starting again.
Speaker 1: We started back up in May. Okay, we feel, we
Speaker 1: feel we film it right now. We're halfway through filming.
Speaker 1: We end filming U March, okay, so you back up
Speaker 1: in May. The mixtape is available now. Yeah. Music it's um.
Speaker 1: It's doing very very well. UM. And we just found
Speaker 1: out that Lottos the number one added song. Song is
Speaker 1: super catchy. Thank you and the video if you haven't
Speaker 1: had a chance to see the video. We were talking
Speaker 1: about debating earlier, do you consider yourself a singer or
Speaker 1: a rapper? Because you do a little bit of boat right?
Speaker 1: What I'm saying if the thing I thought I heard
Speaker 1: you play some stuff before and I thought you were rapping,
Speaker 1: he's the thing. Maybe it was somebody else on their rapping, yeah,
Speaker 1: probably probably, but now it was I sing so and
Speaker 1: I love that because the curiosity of of like, yo,
Speaker 1: can he really do this? Is he dope? For real?
Speaker 1: Is what's making people tune into really yeah? You know,
Speaker 1: and then they here and the I'm like, oh that
Speaker 1: was so so it's a blessing man. Yeah, but it's
Speaker 1: it's true, true armlet's be taking his shirt off and stuff.
Speaker 1: You know. That's yeah, that's nice. Could you do? What
Speaker 1: would you be? He wasn't in shape? Me? Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I think, I think, I'm I'm I think from now on,
Speaker 1: I have a certain Stanzard of where a guy's health
Speaker 1: should be. I I no, I want my guy to
Speaker 1: have a nice body right now. I want the tone chest.
Speaker 1: And just found something out. No, I mean not to
Speaker 1: talk about, but my ex boyfriend's body, he was frail.
Speaker 1: He didn't he wasn't he didn't have an athletic body. Okay,
Speaker 1: and I think my body is pretty awesome. It looks
Speaker 1: good with an athletic body. Site the good in pictures
Speaker 1: right on video. Does that matter to you, Sarah? Skinny
Speaker 1: or in shape is cool. I'm not with the chubby either.
Speaker 1: I can't do that. But I don't mind if you're
Speaker 1: like super skinny. What about a big No, I just
Speaker 1: said I can't do or frail would have cant do belly,
Speaker 1: I can't do nothing. Or maybe once we're together for
Speaker 1: a long time and like we grow old and I
Speaker 1: get fat too, then that's quite together. Not when we
Speaker 1: first getting together. What about you doesn't matter. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't need like nobody builder, but I don't want
Speaker 1: fat Albert either. I'm about to definity my whole life
Speaker 1: to my fitness. So like I need my man to
Speaker 1: be a beast, I need motivation, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm a slacker right now because if he's three years, no,
Speaker 1: but I'm dedicating my whole life to my fitness. And
Speaker 1: three years I haven't gone. And I'm sure there's one
Speaker 1: in your building. So you bet there's a luxury resource.
Speaker 1: I light bow and I die it. So it's not
Speaker 1: like I'll be eating burgers all the time, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So I I you know, you give one,
Speaker 1: give and take. I'm dedicating my whole life to about fitness. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna I'm gonna document my struggles because I
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna be ruggling in the beginning everything. And yeah,
Speaker 1: I have a personal trainer, I have somebody recording it,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be like Dad, it's gonna be hilarious.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be really good. I'm gonna cry. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna give up, but I will. I will drink once
Speaker 1: in a while. I'm not gonna give up drinking forever
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna not smoke weed anymore. So I need
Speaker 1: some kind of vice. Are you gonna smoking cigarettes? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop smoking cigarettes. I'm just gonna stop smoking cigarettes.
Speaker 1: And just a couple of days I've already started to
Speaker 1: prepare for that's ten me. Just like whatever, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: a lot. That's a lot. I'm gonna stop pork. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna stop already stopped. I ate my last meal out Peter. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like that's gonna feel like Jill Stephanie is crazy for
Speaker 1: the record, right, No, I have somebody that's gonna prep
Speaker 1: my meal. So I'm not gonna I'm gonna try not
Speaker 1: to eat all side, but I'm not eating I'm gonna
Speaker 1: eat meat, so I'm just not eating run meat and
Speaker 1: I'm not eating pork. I'm gonna I don't even met
Speaker 1: to pork, and I don't need seafood. That's not hard. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all she eats this chicken, chicken in vegetables. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: oh yeah. We had a dinner with Chef Rob and
Speaker 1: they had to make chicken just to me because I
Speaker 1: ain't eat the rest of the stuff. Yeah I didn't.
Speaker 1: You have plenty of food. I had to fight you
Speaker 1: for your pieces, but all I had was chicken. Now
Speaker 1: I don't appreciate if I'm at the table there's seafood.
Speaker 1: You had fault you bouge, know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all this other food to choose from. You want my
Speaker 1: chicken break? I was like, do you want some chicken?
Speaker 1: Because I just till me nice? He said yeah. I
Speaker 1: was like, I remembering me. Thank you so much much again.
Speaker 1: I mane, I'm seven in Santiago. I'm Maguire and our
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Speaker 1: Movie back next week. Happy holidays and make sure you
Speaker 1: get a great present. And remember this. No such thing
Speaker 1: as being a home unless you suck my man, and
Speaker 1: then you're