WEBVTT - Episode 29 Ft Rotimi 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:12.760 That's what's it's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Stephaniew Santiago, 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:17.280 I'm g G McGuire, Sarah Vivan. All right, if there 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:22.160 were some pausing, it's because everybody's on Snapchat and posting that, 0:00:22.239 --> 0:00:25.159 because you know, that's what let's ladies do nowadays, and 0:00:25.239 --> 0:00:28.280 you guys to now a lot of you are posting 0:00:28.280 --> 0:00:33.839 selfies and eggplant photos, egg photos. I think that's so horrible. 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.640 I think guys have just got to stop, you think, so, yeah, 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:39.720 leave the thoughts to the girls. Guys that thoughts now 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:43.880 on Instagram. But on Instagram, you know how girls post 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:46.159 pictures of their cleavage and all that. Now guys are 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:49.280 posting like their picks. So you don't think that's sexy. No, 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:51.600 I don't think it sucks if you're sex if you 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:54.760 got a sexy body and it's not, you know, it's 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:58.200 a nice print. I don't like in the mail. I 0:00:58.200 --> 0:00:59.680 don't want thick in the mail. And I don't want 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.240 dick in my d M s. And I don't want 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.960 to dig on my timeline. I don't want it just 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:09.120 in your mouth. I wanted in my mouth here all right, Now, 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.400 we always start up lip service with some tips. Alright, 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.160 so today's tip is how do you cheat and not 0:01:14.360 --> 0:01:16.280 get caught? What are some tips that you can do? 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:18.720 And I know everybody in here at some point it's cheated, 0:01:18.760 --> 0:01:20.400 So how do you cheat and not get cart road 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:23.640 to me? What's that with you? Well, I'm not in 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:25.880 a relationship, but I can say in the past, in 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:28.080 the past, damn. What is the way that you can 0:01:28.120 --> 0:01:29.560 make sure you don't get cut cheating? How do you 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:36.679 cover your tracks? Burner phone, burner phone. That's a whole 0:01:36.680 --> 0:01:38.880 new phone, a whole little secret situation, too much to 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.720 keep up with. I'm not gonna lie. I've had a 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:43.000 couple of secret phones in my line. So where do 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:45.120 you put the phone? And you're you just leave it 0:01:45.160 --> 0:01:47.560 somewhere like and then like the panties draw or the 0:01:47.600 --> 0:01:52.200 trunk of the car, the trunk of a car, yet 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:56.120 the phone in the trunk? When you okay, burning your 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:59.640 bat line slat line, bling stephanitily with your your tip 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:02.040 on how I think you know? If you don't want 0:02:02.080 --> 0:02:04.200 to get caught, you gotta get race everything. I always 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:10.079 got court cheating because I don't race any like my boy, 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:13.320 My boy. My boy actually uses snap dam because he 0:02:13.360 --> 0:02:16.880 knows it disappears, you know, like yeah, like even like no, 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:21.040 like if you write somebody and it disappeared, it goes 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:24.359 down in the dam. Well, you know they say the 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:26.440 best place to hide something is right out in the open. 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:31.880 Talk about it. I'm not cheating, but I'm saying, but 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.320 you're having the past. Yeah, of course, all right, So 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.440 you're saying, what do you mean by that, I don't know. Open. 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:38.320 I mean when you try to go too hard and 0:02:38.440 --> 0:02:40.720 try to be too suspicious and try to like go 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:42.880 too hard at covering something up, then that's when you 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:45.440 get caught, you know, when you don't gotta lock your 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:47.720 phone and you feel like you don't got nothing to hide. Man, 0:02:48.280 --> 0:02:50.519 you know, so he doesn't go through your phone if 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:53.640 you've never had somebody go through it when you yeah, 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:56.600 I've had, So that doesn't really work. That ship my 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.000 phone going through. I mean, you know, you live and 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:04.480 you learn, okay, and that's a terrible tip. Doesn't work, Sarah, 0:03:04.520 --> 0:03:07.639 what about you tips? It's really bad attitude that can cut. 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:11.079 I mean, I think the erasing is the best one. 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:13.639 You gotta make sure the face no tice. Yeah, you 0:03:13.720 --> 0:03:17.200 gotta make sure also that they're involved in something too, 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:19.000 so they don't try to come back. So we're cheating 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:24.880 on each other person. Yeah, you both each other's side piece, 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:26.960 so you don't have nothing to lose. Now. The only 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:29.880 thing I will say about erasing stuff is sometimes it's 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.520 really obvious that someone's cheating when you go and look 0:03:32.560 --> 0:03:35.480 at their phone and there's two messages like we're having 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:38.440 on everything that was on your phone? You here, how 0:03:38.480 --> 0:03:40.160 many people you cheating with it? You only got two 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.160 people left? You know what I'm saying that if you 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.160 delete everything and there's barely anything in your phone, like okay, 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:46.440 I know your phone was going off, or if you 0:03:46.520 --> 0:03:49.520 delete phone calls and you're like, okay, they hold it 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:53.120 WHENY calls and I only see seven listed, that means 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:55.320 sometimes cheating with too many people, you gotta calm down. 0:03:55.840 --> 0:03:58.880 That's too much, alright. So those are your all your 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:00.880 tips on how to cheat and not get caught. And 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:03.000 I would say another tip on how to cheat and 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.440 not get caught is to make sure that you cover 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.920 your tracks ahead of time. Sometimes. Yeah see, I was 0:04:07.960 --> 0:04:09.880 just about to say that you could you know, you 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:12.520 got a block people throughout certain times in your life. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:17.800 You use that use that the iPhone block and a 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:19.680 lot of things days for a couple of hours if 0:04:19.680 --> 0:04:21.479 you aren't cheating, and make sure that person you're cheating 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:24.080 with is aware that they are the side piece, because 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:27.719 then they can help you and like, you know, if 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:30.440 they're not a hater. The blocking thing is new man. 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:33.359 You know I've been. I haven't been in a serious 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:35.839 relationship like the way I was with my son's follower 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:40.160 for so long that you just were in a serious relationship. 0:04:40.440 --> 0:04:42.560 But you know what, Ralph, I wouldn't block people. I 0:04:42.600 --> 0:04:45.440 would put people on do not disturb. That's the kind 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:50.360 of the same thing that is okay, forget it's just kidding. 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:54.440 I've never used that in one of those questions. How 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.680 many women want out of tend How many women do 0:04:56.760 --> 0:05:01.480 you think cheat? Um, I've only ever cheated twice. It's 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:06.400 not like a reoccurring thing. I would say probably about half, 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:09.960 and they deserved it. But I think women cheat for 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.880 different reasons than men. A woman might cheat because she 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:15.160 knows you're all about to break up. So a lot 0:05:15.200 --> 0:05:17.160 of times women will go and find somebody to kind 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:19.840 of distract them so that they can have the strength 0:05:19.920 --> 0:05:21.880 and the courage and the things to do so they 0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:24.839 can break up with you. Also, sometimes women because they 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:28.000 know you're cheating, so maybe sometimes it makes them feel better. 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:33.080 You know how that tip things? How? What's the percentage 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:37.680 of women you think cheat? Um? And I think when 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:48.120 you get older? For I think I think half. I 0:05:48.240 --> 0:05:52.120 think guys cheat more than girls girls. What wrote to me? 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:56.200 Would you say the percentage of men to cheat? I e. Eight? 0:05:56.360 --> 0:06:04.240 Not nine? I think I think nine. I think kidding, 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:12.120 I'm kidding nine nine point one. What have you ever 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:17.760 cheered and gone? No? Never, you're caught now got caught, 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:22.680 but you cheated. Okay, So you're good at having your 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:25.640 tracks is basically what you're saying. So what are you 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:28.600 that makes you really care? No? But so how do 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:31.320 you cover your tracks? You should be giving these tips? Oh? Well, 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:35.520 one thing I did was the blocking. I did that 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.200 then before I had the phone, I had two phones. 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:43.080 And then um, it's like a drug dealer with it, okay, 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.520 and then um, and then I switched the names like 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:49.360 I put a girl. I wasn't the fourth first name 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:54.440 you ever used Lisa? Wait, you made the girl's name Lisa. 0:06:54.520 --> 0:06:56.560 Why don't you make it a guy's name? Oh? So 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:58.640 I think you said, who was a girl? I cheated? No, no, 0:06:58.880 --> 0:07:01.480 shout out to Lisa and now you know, you know 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:04.680 what I'm saying. You change the name, changed the name 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:07.880 you guys name, God forbid. Should go through your phone 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:10.520 and see Peter texting you like I miss you. Nick. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:20.800 I used to talk to this a y'all last night. 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:25.640 Man when you me and my credible, it was the 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.080 thing was like no, no, no, So she knew I 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:30.200 was in a relationship, so she would just always just 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:33.480 call me so it would just be my boy. Yeah, 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:36.680 it was like she was down. See, And that's why 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:38.679 I said, it's important to tell the other person because 0:07:38.720 --> 0:07:41.080 then they'll, you know, you give them the decision. But 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:43.320 when you don't tell somebody and they get mad if 0:07:43.360 --> 0:07:45.320 they find out you're in a relationship, like oh yeah 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:47.880 we had a girl, all right, that I'm blast it's 0:07:47.880 --> 0:07:49.800 a headache. That's a headache when it happened. So you 0:07:49.880 --> 0:07:52.560 just trying to avoid all that, like the situation. You 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:56.840 can be ru than that and still look you for that, sir, 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.080 because most men they had just put you in a 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:01.240 situation and for you to figure it out once the 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.600 goddamn shi hit the fan, and I just feel like 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:05.320 if a guy put you in a situation and he 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:07.960 allows you to make that choice, then I mean you 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:10.160 better off in the morm one. Some people might say 0:08:10.160 --> 0:08:12.120 if a guy cheasing you and or it doesn't tell you, 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:15.520 that means he really cares about you or all. No, 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:18.600 I'm saying like you, I'm not saying cheating. I'm saying 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:21.720 or if you wanted to side and he doesn't tell you, man, 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:24.800 just you know, I'm saying, if you like side piece 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:26.800 like the Stipe pie, should know what she getting herself. Like, 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:28.800 if you're dating a married man, you should know he's married. 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:30.600 He should He should give you that much respect to 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:37.040 let you know what you get yourself into. No important. 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:41.800 Now here's another question we're going to discuss, and we're 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:44.079 gonna start with you with this one. G as she 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:47.640 gets herself. Yeah, man, it's handy, strong, I know, be 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:54.439 a big girl's holiday, Hennessey. That was the coke. It's 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:59.120 not that type of Some people have TV deals here. Okay, 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:05.120 Now let's say that media. Now Sarah and I n 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:11.959 Sarah's streets in Atlanta. And now we were discussing this 0:09:12.080 --> 0:09:15.000 earlier about people putting people people on blasts and social 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:18.920 media and um, whether or not you should do that. Now, 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:22.800 let's discuss what you said since first, well, let's say 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:24.520 what you said, and we're gonna let g tell her story. 0:09:24.640 --> 0:09:27.120 But I just feel like it's not everybody's business, Like 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:32.840 if somebody does something, let's say, for example, my son's father, 0:09:33.200 --> 0:09:35.560 you know what I mean, if we go through things, 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:38.240 that's between us, you know what I mean, And from 0:09:38.280 --> 0:09:41.079 the outside looking in, everything's great, and for the most 0:09:41.120 --> 0:09:43.599 part it is. But everybody has issues that's just not 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.160 for everybody else to be talking about. Yeah, I might 0:09:46.200 --> 0:09:48.680 call him and cause him out or come see whoever, 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:50.679 but I'm not going to put that on social media 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:52.640 for everybody else to know. So you're not gonna be like, 0:09:52.760 --> 0:09:55.920 stop calling me, trying to see me, stop stop telling 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:59.480 me you love me. Christina Milian did that is what 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:06.040 she's that girl? All right? Now, what I was saying 0:10:06.280 --> 0:10:09.800 is this, Now I've I've never put anybody on blasting 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:12.880 social media. But I also feel like if you're telling 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:14.480 the truth and it's your relationship and you want to 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:15.880 do that, you kind of have the right to do 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:18.040 that if somebody messes up, as long as you're not 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.400 lying about what happened, and you put it out there. 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:23.400 That's really just you know, you got to just chalk 0:10:23.480 --> 0:10:25.080 it up. If you cheated on your wife, you cheated 0:10:25.160 --> 0:10:27.160 on your girl, and somebody exposes you and you really 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:29.440 did it, you can't be mad at nobody but yourself. 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.199 I understand you're saying you wouldn't do it, But I 0:10:32.240 --> 0:10:34.559 don't really fault anybody else for that, because you know 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:39.839 I've never done that. I mean, I'm you know what, 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:43.079 who knows? I just never have. I can't say I 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:48.240 never would now, G. I was, I'm I'm very emotional, okay, 0:10:48.280 --> 0:10:50.920 and I was going through an emotional state and I 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:53.480 posted some things about my relationship. Now, I didn't go 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:56.280 into detail. I'm not gonna lie. We was screenshining that 0:10:56.360 --> 0:11:00.280 and putting that in the chat. Like wrote, I going 0:11:00.360 --> 0:11:02.640 into more detail about that situation with you guys on 0:11:02.720 --> 0:11:05.240 the show, more than I have on social media. However, 0:11:05.400 --> 0:11:07.719 I had posted on about it on social media, and 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:10.680 I'm just gonna chalk it up to me being emotional 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:13.000 and everything I said it was true. I ain't on you, nigga. 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:15.360 Let me tell you what G wrote five hours ago. 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:19.719 She said, for those of you all who want to 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.240 know what I'm doing and where I've been. My snap 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:25.280 is Gez McGuire. I really only post my dogs, Tyson 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:28.559 and Maggie at hashtag, the estate with the family, and 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:31.840 me managing the dances at Vandity Grant. Oh and when 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:34.480 I'm coasting live service, I post that too. I'll be 0:11:34.520 --> 0:11:36.360 sure to post me teaching and let them sweech this 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.959 Saturday as well. I had no idea there were so 0:11:39.080 --> 0:11:41.960 many of you interested in my little life. I thought 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:44.800 y'all stopped carrying back in October twelve when I stopped 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.679 stripping hashtag misshow me the money? What was that about? 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:51.120 Because man, people just always want to be talking and 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:54.280 blabbing and typing and behind keyboards with all of this 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:56.839 she this and she that, and y'a don't know what 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:58.880 you're talking about. And you know, maybe if you fall 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:01.240 at my snapchat, because I pull more on there these days, 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:02.640 and then you will be able to have a more 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:04.280 better insight on what I am. So when you do 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.480 decide to talk about me, you can speak the truth. 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:08.160 I don't mind you talking about me, just know what 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:10.280 you're talking about. And I'm so open with mine that 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.200 it's not really hard to figure out where I'm at 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:14.480 and what I'm doing. No, I'm not stripping. I managed 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.319 to strip club. There's a difference. You know. It feels 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:19.360 like you were getting some hate though about your relationship 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:21.959 and you wanted to address it. Yeah. I mean, you 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.000 know it's gonna happen, and it is what it is. 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:28.920 I'm happy, he's happy. We're happy. Alright, happy. Now what's 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:31.079 Jared take on that road? Timmy? I mean, I think 0:12:31.120 --> 0:12:33.680 it's petty, you know, I think, you know, especially people 0:12:33.760 --> 0:12:37.360 lying and take the time to fabricate situations. I think 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:40.559 that's stupid. But I feel like if you if you 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:44.040 had a situation with somebody where you're actually cool, this 0:12:44.080 --> 0:12:46.120 should be a level of respect there too, you know, 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.839 to not you know, bash or do anything. So I 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:50.439 think it's corny and I think it's just a cry 0:12:50.520 --> 0:12:53.839 for attention sometimes. But if it's something that needs to 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:56.760 be said that will help other people, then okay. But 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.080 in terms of personally just been dead and that's stupid. 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.160 All right, Well, took about you for a second because 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:03.800 you know I'm gonna do this alright. Super Head posted 0:13:03.800 --> 0:13:05.920 about you. Yeah, and she said I've never seen a 0:13:06.000 --> 0:13:07.920 man go on vacation while the mother of his dead 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.120 child hurts so badly or sing knowing he had a 0:13:10.200 --> 0:13:13.240 hand in stifling the breath of his own. Alright, So 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:15.319 now what happened with that? Where you shocked when that 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.280 came out on social media? Yeah? Yeah, very you know, 0:13:18.440 --> 0:13:21.400 because again, like this is all so new to me, 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:23.120 you know what I mean, this part of my life. 0:13:23.160 --> 0:13:26.880 So when things are fabricare I've heard so many different 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:30.040 things about different situations, and that one just happened to stick. 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.360 That's just you know, not really what it is. So 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:34.640 it's just a shot. You don't know how to handle it. 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:37.880 How did you handle it? I mean again, there's nothing 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.920 you can say to something that you know of that wild. 0:13:41.040 --> 0:13:43.280 So it's just just my team was just like like 0:13:43.400 --> 0:13:45.760 just don't just don't nderstand her, So you didn't hit 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:48.439 her up like bit stopped, Like let's give him somebody 0:13:48.480 --> 0:13:51.480 too much attention and too much you know, power over 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:54.240 the situation. Did you know her personally though? Yeah? I 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:56.240 knew her. Yeah, knew it. Yeah, you don't have no video, 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:59.760 We're gonna see it. That's the thing. It's it's you know, 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:01.640 I'm not gonna I knew her for sure, but in 0:14:01.840 --> 0:14:04.280 terms of you know all that, it's just crazy. We 0:14:04.360 --> 0:14:06.559 were talking about this downstairs before we came up, and 0:14:06.880 --> 0:14:09.400 g what did you say about about super Head. It's 0:14:09.440 --> 0:14:11.280 not too many nickers that meet her that's gonna turn 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.760 down her sexual advances. They're not gonna turn down that 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:16.920 super hid. They they're gonna test that. My fat their 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:20.440 mouth is legend theory. What anybody saying? And would you yeah, 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:27.880 Mr Marcus Wright, So you know if somebody that is 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.480 named super Head, you're not gonna turn that down. I mean, 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:35.520 I mean, it depends on who you are. I did 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:42.520 not say, no, you gotta get it depends she's looks 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:46.880 give us so, looks hot, she looks good. Hey, he's 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:50.720 got some friends. Were on Instagram are Yeah, so you'd 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:52.720 be seeing all kinds of crazy po No, yeah, she 0:14:52.840 --> 0:14:56.040 posted it, but she's really like cool, Like she's in 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:59.360 my comments, so she's cool. Yeah, but I don't think now. 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:01.920 I know. Wayne had some issues with super mentioned a 0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:04.400 new mixtape he did. On that song My Name Is, 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:08.720 he called her ancient and tired because she keeps speaking 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:10.640 out of turn. I feel like like we all know 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:13.000 you you know, you dealt with him, so that was 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.360 your time. If you're still dealing with him whatever, But 0:15:15.440 --> 0:15:18.640 if he's going through something with somebody else, that's not 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:21.080 really your place. Everybody keep asking me why I don't 0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:23.480 speak on it. I don't know what that man is doing. 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:26.440 Like we speak about our child. You're not gonna go 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:30.840 on there be Like he's for everybody, right, he's community property, right, 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.320 even though that you know, you may feel a certain way, 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:36.360 and nobody's saying we don't feel any type of way, 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:39.520 but it's not your that's not your business. Right. You're 0:15:39.560 --> 0:15:41.840 not with him, so it doesn't matter to you what 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:44.160 he does. You don't ask him. Do you care? Like 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:47.840 now all three of you have children, Timmy, you don't 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:52.280 have any kids yet that you claim, But does it 0:15:52.400 --> 0:15:55.400 bother you? Like when you see you know your child's 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:58.080 father going through any type of drama, do you step in, 0:15:58.200 --> 0:16:03.080 do you say anything? Definitely? No, whatever drawing my child's 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:05.640 father is going through, he can deal with it on 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:08.800 his own. That's none of my business. I don't I 0:16:08.840 --> 0:16:11.120 don't never. I don't even care, no, because I I 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:13.680 mean I he and I are over. We've been over 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:16.600 for years already. So it's like, you know what you 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:18.920 put yourself in that situation. As long as my child 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:21.120 is good and it has nothing to do with my kid, 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:25.000 and nobody's disrespecting my kid. Your problems are your problems. 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:29.520 Minds are mine, not what do you think? Well, personally, Um, 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:32.160 my dad's father passed away years and years ago, but 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:35.680 I feel like taking it if he were still alive 0:16:35.720 --> 0:16:37.720 and we still had a relationship that we had before 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:40.280 he passed away, I would not get myself involved in 0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:42.840 things that wearing my business. But if he asked me 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:46.360 to insert where he asked me for my opinion, you know, 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:48.160 because we were that close. We were more like friends 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:50.840 at the time. So I can see him if he 0:16:51.000 --> 0:16:53.360 was to get into something with his you know at 0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:55.640 the time girlfriend where his other baby's mother to say, 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:57.760 you know, would you would you think? You know? I 0:16:57.800 --> 0:17:00.800 wouldn't and yeah, and I wouldn't just yeah, but I 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:03.640 wouldn't just jump in and assert myself. Weird, wasn't my business? 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:07.320 What about you, Sarah? Do you say anything about all this? Yeah, 0:17:07.400 --> 0:17:10.200 because we ain't be having a lot of drama, you 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.119 know way, and you don't tell him like dude, you 0:17:12.160 --> 0:17:14.760 gotta chill out. No, if it doesn't involve my son. 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:18.240 Then there's nothing really just to me. How do you 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.879 feel about dating women with kids? I haven't. I haven't, 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:24.920 you never have. I'm not. I'm not now like I'm 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:27.159 not opposed like you know, feeling somebody like that, But 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:32.679 I haven't personally know how he's His birthday just passed 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:39.479 by the way, happy birth. I love sagittarious fun. They 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:43.159 are cool people. Now, if you were dating women who 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:45.280 had a child, how important is it for you to like, 0:17:45.359 --> 0:17:47.840 when do you think it's appropriate time to say, Okay, 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:49.879 I want to meet your son or daughter. Oh when 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:52.520 we know we're like serious serious, I wouldn't want to 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:55.960 meet you know, the child early because anything can happen, 0:17:56.000 --> 0:17:58.520 and then I don't want not necessarily from me, but 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:02.159 for the child to see different people coming to you know, 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:05.200 the mom's life and you know, remember, oh my mom 0:18:05.320 --> 0:18:06.840 had this friend and this friend and his friend. So 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:16.080 until like my daddy's on power. How long do you wait? Like? 0:18:16.200 --> 0:18:20.320 How like? So sometimes females we think it's serious, but 0:18:20.440 --> 0:18:22.760 it's like in our head it's not really that seriously. 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:25.560 You got can kind of wait sometime. How long do 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:29.320 you wait, m um? Like, what's a good amount of time? 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:31.360 For you to be like, I'm serious. Do you'd be like, look, 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:33.440 it's just me and you girl, You're gonna be my girl? Like, 0:18:33.520 --> 0:18:36.159 how do you know what's serious? Do you do? Like 0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:39.800 the serious? Because I just sat here and kind of 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:42.240 thought back on how long I've made God's weak and 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:45.480 I had boyfriend's instantanea and it just felt right your 0:18:45.560 --> 0:18:47.359 daughter right away? No, not me, my daughter, but like 0:18:47.359 --> 0:18:49.600 I've had relationships, like I fell out of one relationship 0:18:49.640 --> 0:18:51.800 and into the next in very short periods of time. 0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:54.119 I always make I always make people wait to meet 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:56.880 my daughter. How long do you wait? I can't really 0:18:56.920 --> 0:18:58.720 put a time stamp on me, but I know when 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:00.960 I feel comfortable enough to bring that person around my child. 0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:05.280 Usually like what was the earliest weeks or months? And 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:06.680 you know what you're doing? So how much time I 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:09.040 spent with the person? And now your jode has grown? 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:13.040 So like your instance, when um, when I first met Track, 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:14.920 even though we were never you know, intimate or anything 0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:16.920 like that, but when I first met him and all 0:19:16.960 --> 0:19:19.600 of his centred songs, When I first met him and 0:19:19.800 --> 0:19:23.199 all of his people, I was around them every day, um, 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.400 for about two weeks straight before I bought my daughter 0:19:25.440 --> 0:19:26.800 because it was so many men around. We were in 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:29.560 the studio house, and you know, even though um, you know, 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:31.800 Delante was there and you know, we're all family, it's 0:19:31.800 --> 0:19:34.160 still like, my daughter is nine years old and it's 0:19:34.200 --> 0:19:35.800 like six men in his house. Like, I just didn't 0:19:35.800 --> 0:19:38.040 really feel comfortable bringing her around until I felt comfortable 0:19:38.119 --> 0:19:40.200 each and every single one. And I wasn't having sex 0:19:40.240 --> 0:19:41.760 with any of them. But the fact that I was 0:19:41.800 --> 0:19:43.919 going to have my daughter around all of these men 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:46.040 and influenced by all of this was you know, what's 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:47.879 going on in this house? I just really felt like 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:49.639 I had to know for sure that there was environment 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:51.720 I wanted to her to be in. And years later 0:19:51.800 --> 0:19:54.119 we ended up moving into the same house together. Um 0:19:54.240 --> 0:19:57.560 Troy Taylor, which is her which is trades um mentor 0:19:57.840 --> 0:19:59.480 ended up being her golfather like to this day she 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:01.600 called some day it so and all of that came 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:03.560 from you know, way back then. But I just that 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:07.359 one particular situation just stuck out to me because I remember, like, 0:20:07.720 --> 0:20:09.040 I'm not about to take you over there. It's just 0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:11.160 too much it going on. And it wasn't even nothing bad. 0:20:11.320 --> 0:20:12.680 It was just too many men that I didn't know. 0:20:12.960 --> 0:20:15.480 I'm just needing and that's your daughter. It's really weird 0:20:15.600 --> 0:20:18.040