1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for gifting my mom a book 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:06,080 Speaker 1: about cheating after she left my dad for another man? 3 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: Okayop, this is OKAYOP. I'm Samuel Daughter. 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: And I'm John Fry and I'm Nameless James. 5 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 3: We actually have someone new on the pod today, Nameless James, 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:25,640 Speaker 3: otherwise known as Jack Jack. Can you tell me about 7 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 3: your most embarrassing point of your life? 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: Oh? I remember tucking my shirt into my boxers and 9 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 1: not noticing for like hours one day at school and 10 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: I had like little cartoon fish on my boxers. 11 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:39,160 Speaker 2: I was probably did anyone say anything? 12 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: People laugh? But who's laughing now? 13 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just. 14 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:44,200 Speaker 1: Kidding, I don't It was pretty funny. 15 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 3: I actually have a similar story where I was a 16 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 3: swimmer and you know like the jammers, You know jammers, 17 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 3: they're like they're like kind of like long, super tight, 18 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 3: like almost like a speedo, but it goes like just 19 00:00:55,600 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 3: above your knees. 20 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: Did we do this thing called a flip turn? 21 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 3: So you jump off the blocks you're swimming something, and 22 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 3: then you flip at the other wall and then go 23 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 3: back the other way. Did a flip and I guess 24 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 3: booty too big and it just sa ripped right along 25 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 3: the crack, and I saw it to finish the rat 26 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 3: the race, but that that bomb is being bare to 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 3: the sky and I had to use it a kickboard 28 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 3: to maintain my dignity. 29 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 4: No one can ever say that Samuel Donner is not 30 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 4: a finisher, damn straight, ask my girlfriend. But uh, to 31 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 4: you John, now it's your turn. Oh yeah, most embarrassing 32 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 4: moment in like eighth grade Spanish class, we got extra 33 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 4: credit if we like sang or like presented the like 34 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 4: our ABC's or whatever the teacher. And uh, I was 35 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 4: occasionally like randomly like a very nervous and anxious child, 36 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 4: And so I went up to sing my my Spanish 37 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 4: alphabet and then bruh, I just started crying, just started crying. Luckily, 38 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 4: thank god it was like it wasn't to the whole class. 39 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 4: It was just the teacher, so it wasn't as bad 40 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 4: as it could be. 41 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: Those are the worst, Like when you get those tears 42 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: behind your eyes, I feel the lump in your feel it, 43 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: and you don't know why you're sitting there like I'm 44 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: a little nervous, maybe I'm a little anxious, I'm stressed out, 45 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: But why am I crying? But you can't hold it. 46 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 2: You can't hold it, you know, but. 47 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: I've been in that situation many times. 48 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 3: You gotta let it out, though, you gotta let it out. 49 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 3: Did you at least cry in Spanish? 50 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 2: Though? 51 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: Like? 52 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 2: Okay? Low key? 53 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 3: Most of our stories are like Telenevella, bro Tell Novella. 54 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: Sponsor us, dude, that's a great idea, right idea, dude? 55 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 4: They have some juicy, juicy plot I really do speaking 56 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 4: of juicy plot. 57 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,239 Speaker 2: Lines, nameless James, what he got for us? 58 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,240 Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for gifting my mom a book 59 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:40,359 Speaker 1: about cheating after she left my dad for another man. 60 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if you're an asshole, but you're petty. Oh, 61 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: and I kind of like it. James. I'm sixteen, male 62 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: and I love my mom thirty five. But when I 63 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: was ten, she had an affair and left us. 64 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,160 Speaker 2: Oh. 65 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: I visited her as often as I could, and she 66 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: always seems so happy when I was there. But I 67 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 1: hated her new family, so I stopped visiting. 68 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 2: Damn. That's like, that's a doozy to start out, kind. 69 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: Of a run on sentence. I didn't know where to put. 70 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 2: Honestly, grammarly, sponsor us make these run it first. 71 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: Honestly, we rarely ever saw each other after just for 72 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: my birthday and events. Really she wants us to be close, 73 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: but I want nothing to do with her new husband, 74 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: so I kept my distance. 75 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 3: Makes sense, dude, I mean, like the stepdad, you don't 76 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: really you don't really want to be close to unless 77 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 3: like you're on the hub and then it's being filmed 78 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:40,360 Speaker 3: and then it's like stepdad. 79 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,400 Speaker 4: My brain was literally like calculating like Zach galafanak as 80 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:46,280 Speaker 4: mem and I was like. 81 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: Oh, except on February twentieth, my dad announced he'd be 82 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: out on business till the twelfth, and my grandparents are 83 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: stuck visiting relatives in Italy, and so I really had 84 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: nowhere to go, and my mom jumped at the chance 85 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: to have me stay with her, and just my luck 86 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: that my mom's anniversary with her husband was on Sunday. 87 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: Mmmms getting spicy. 88 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 2: I feel like there's gonna be some plot coming. Oh yeah, 89 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: the plot will thickened. 90 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: I haven't had a good time here at allso all 91 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: I do is stay in my room doing homework or 92 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: go out with friends to avoid family activities because it 93 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,679 Speaker 1: sucks seeing how lovey dove she is with her husband 94 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: and how they seem like the perfect family with their daughters. 95 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: I hate how she's happy. 96 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: You know, I feel that, But I don't know. He's 97 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: probably just a little stressed about the new relationship. He 98 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: doesn't like the news. 99 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 2: He's loyal to his original family. 100 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and but you have you have a good point though, 101 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: with like maybe be happy for mom. Yeah, but yeah, 102 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: that's why we you know, we're still learning to contrac 103 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,359 Speaker 1: so I don't know who sat him on yet. The 104 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: morning before her anniversary day, she came to my bed 105 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: and tried to cut it with me, like before she 106 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 1: left us. But it made me angry, like we can't 107 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 1: go back in time and pretend it's how it was. 108 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: So I just pretended to be asleep and stayed curled 109 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: up and frozen until she left. 110 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: Oh that's that's it's rough for everyone involved. 111 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough, man. I started crying because of that, 112 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: and I felt angry and snarky. And my mom majored 113 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: in literature, so I got a copy of Anna Corinina. 114 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 3: And a Karna and a Krinana coin. I think that's 115 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:14,560 Speaker 3: a Russian author, right, Yeah, maybe. 116 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 1: My mom majored in literature, So I got her a 117 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 1: copy of Anna Karnana for her anniversary. That book's about 118 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: a lady who leaves her husband and son for her lover. 119 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 2: Oh. 120 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 1: I've never read it, but I watched the movie with 121 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: my girlfriend and I hated it. 122 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 2: I hated this. 123 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:37,280 Speaker 1: It's now a gift that is so funny. 124 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,719 Speaker 4: Wow, that's also like the classic. I feel like like 125 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 4: teenage thing like. 126 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: I hated it. 127 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: I hate everything that's pretty. That's pretty petty. The anniversary 128 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: party was on Sunday. Everyone was having fun but me, 129 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: and then people gave their gifts. I gave mine and 130 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: when my mom saw what it was, she seems shocked 131 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: but just said thanks. The party ended like an hour after, 132 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,599 Speaker 1: but at night, when she was in her room, I 133 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: heard her crying really loudly, so I kind of eased 134 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: out a little and heard her saying stuff about that 135 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: book and me and her husband trying to calm her. 136 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: The next day, at breakfast, she left for work early 137 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 1: before I woke up, and her husband straight up called 138 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,599 Speaker 1: me an asshole and other stuff for gifting them that. 139 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: It's been a few days now and my mom has 140 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: barely talked to me. Honestly, I feel so wrong. I 141 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: made non cry, but at the same time, I don't 142 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: want to be here and she knows that, So am 143 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:23,800 Speaker 1: I really the asshole? 144 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 3: But I mean it's like it's been a year. It 145 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 3: seems like the mom's happy. It seems like the mom 146 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:33,600 Speaker 3: is actually trying to like create this relationship with Op, 147 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:37,279 Speaker 3: and OP is just like spitting in her face every 148 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,480 Speaker 3: time she tries. And this book is I mean, it's 149 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 3: it's literally like a thought out petty gift. It's like 150 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 3: it's like it's one thing to say something in like 151 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 3: the like throes of passion, like I hate you, mom, 152 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 3: but to like take the time to watch a movie, 153 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 3: find the book, buy the book, wrap the book, and 154 00:06:55,839 --> 00:07:00,559 Speaker 3: give it to your mom for a presence, Like that's 155 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 3: that's pretty. 156 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 2: It's pretty. A holy, that's a good point. 157 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 4: I didn't I never thought about it like that. But yeah, 158 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 4: like he literally had all this time where he could 159 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 4: have stopped himself and been like maybe it is a 160 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 4: little bit too much like this is that? And I think, 161 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 4: like obviously, like it's not a great situation for him, 162 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 4: Like I'm sure we all feel for him, but like, 163 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 4: if we have to classify it, he's I definitely think 164 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 4: he's the a hole in the situation like it's just 165 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 4: it's just too much. 166 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 3: I mean, it just sounds like this person needs, you know, 167 00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 3: a little bit of support. 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