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Speaker 1: its perks? Really, Didjewels Show? Yeah? Call us up right now.

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Speaker 1: But if you date someone who's a car thief right

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Speaker 1: Doctor Phil. Yeah. Yeah, So my mom records Doctor Phil

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Speaker 1: I was getting wine. She was watching Doctor Phil. But

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Speaker 1: Hona civics because those are that they steal. You nailed it,

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Speaker 1: mornings onwentes Hello, hey, hi there, this is Pete Eagan's

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Speaker 1: calling from Pianos. I was looking for Valerie. This is me, Hey,

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Speaker 1: val how are you? I'm great? Thank you? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I am doing pretty good today. I'm I like to say,

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Speaker 1: If that's the case, well, Gus is one of them.

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Speaker 1: I'm making the phone. Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna calm down.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna come down and we're gonna talk about this rationally.

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Speaker 1: Understand why you might buy What are we gonna do?

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Speaker 1: I completely understand how I'm upsetting this would be that, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I just youah, like shit, So I'll put back together,

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Speaker 1: You can't pay the piano that's it thirty thousand pieces

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Speaker 1: corporate and have you reported? Pete Ekids is my name?

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Speaker 1: War of the Roses only on The Jewil Show. Angie

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Speaker 1: Oh she does, Okay, I know I don't mean that

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Speaker 1: and you get it made your point? Will thank you whatever? Will?

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Speaker 1: you know, well, I will, I will. I'm dead. She's

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Speaker 1: I'm lap. I mean that's not cheating. Are you happy

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Speaker 1: good luck, thanks, I need it. Well, good luck man.

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Speaker 1: And you know, every tough thing in life is a lesson.

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Speaker 1: So on the other side, you'll be able to go

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Speaker 1: have to worry about somebody coming home with lipstick on

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Speaker 1: there sir. You know it's a win win for all

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Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, I guess I don't know, right. Good

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Speaker 1: luck to you, will good luck well alright kid, The

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Speaker 1: Jewels show on demand Jebils Dirty Little Secret. Hello, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: what's up? How are you good? How are you good?

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Speaker 1: So you have a dirty little secret? I do hie.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I thank you for being so ready

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Speaker 1: and willing. Yeah, that's it's a fifteen year old secret,

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Speaker 1: so it's about time it comes out. Okay. So there's

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Speaker 1: a little backstory. So my mom and dad had my

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Speaker 1: brother and I. My mom wanted like the Brady Bunch kids,

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Speaker 1: and I guess my dad didn't. After my brother was born,

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Speaker 1: he went and got an affect to me. Okay, Um,

435
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Speaker 1: turns out my dad and mom it didn't work out.

436
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Speaker 1: My dad's not a great person, and no, it's fine.

437
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Speaker 1: It's so they divorced and my mom got soul custody

438
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Speaker 1: of us, and years later my dad remarried and they

439
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Speaker 1: were trying to adopt. And I was about nineteen years

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Speaker 1: old when I got the first call So this is

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Speaker 1: like fifteen years ago from an adoption agency and they

442
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Speaker 1: wanted to adopt. And I was like, why would you

443
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Speaker 1: give someone a kid who didn't have custody of their

444
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Speaker 1: own kids? Which shocked the adoption agency. Um, and so

445
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Speaker 1: then I had They asked if I had proof of this? Yeah,

446
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 1: So I snucked my mom's house, got the divorce decree

447
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Speaker 1: to send to them, and they were never able to

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Speaker 1: adopt because of me. Oh, do you feel bad about

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Speaker 1: it or do you feel like you did the right thing? Oh? No,

450
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Speaker 1: I did the right thing. Yeah, it sounds like you did. Well.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's that's my dirty little secrets, great dirty little

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Speaker 1: secret there is. Thank you, Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: sharing You're Anna. I have to say you are such

454
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Speaker 1: a great addition to the show. I absolutely love you.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, thank you so much. It's been tough adjecting,

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Speaker 1: so I really appreciate that. Thank you for telling us

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Speaker 1: your dirty little secret. Absolutely have a good one day

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Speaker 1: show on demand Police right now eight to eight three

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Speaker 1: four three one six one text in four one o

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Speaker 1: six one. Did you or someone you know get married

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Speaker 1: young and did it work out? That's the question we're asking.

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Speaker 1: We're asking it because Nina told us a story about

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Speaker 1: Millie Bobby Brown. Yeah, Millie Bobby Brown got engaged to

464
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Speaker 1: John bon Jovi's son, Jake bon Jovi. She's nineteen and

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Speaker 1: he's twenty. And so the biggest thing with this, aside

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Speaker 1: from being like, hey, congratulations, it's more like you're nineteen,

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Speaker 1: why are you getting married? You know? And I understand that,

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Speaker 1: but before you pooh pooh on somebody, you know, there's

469
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Speaker 1: got to be some good stuff about getting engaged young too, right. Also,

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Speaker 1: she is the star of Stranger Things. By the way,

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Speaker 1: if you don't know who Millie Bobby Brown is, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say I didn't really know who she was,

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Speaker 1: but I've heard the name a ton Okay, so that's

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Speaker 1: who she is. And then bon Jovie's son. What do

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Speaker 1: you think bon Jovi is saying about that? Do you

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Speaker 1: think he's upset like their parents? Like you if your kid, Nina,

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Speaker 1: if you had kids, Yeah, and if they were nineteen

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Speaker 1: and twenty and they just gotten engaged, how would you

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Speaker 1: react to that? I would say, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Have your whole life to live, Let's stop this right now.

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Speaker 1: So I am that judge person at the same time.

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Speaker 1: That's why I'm like, let's just open my eye a

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Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah, because it does work out. Can you imagine, like,

484
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Speaker 1: think about who you were at nineteen though, like who

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Speaker 1: I was at nineteen, There's no way I could have

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Speaker 1: been married and million Bobby Brown, she's lived a million lives,

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Speaker 1: you know. But yeah, I was actually engaged young on accident.

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Speaker 1: I got engaged on accident when I was younger. I

489
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Speaker 1: was like eighteen years old. And how is it an accident?

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Speaker 1: It's always weird when I say that, people don't understand.

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Speaker 1: But what happened was I was with a girl in

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Speaker 1: high school and we're still together a little while out

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Speaker 1: of high school. And one day we were laying in

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Speaker 1: bed together and it was in the morning. I was

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Speaker 1: like exhausted, right, and this is exactly what I said.

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Speaker 1: I said, you know, if we're together for like a

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Speaker 1: few more years, maybe we should think about getting married. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was what I said. And when I said that,

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Speaker 1: she turned over to me and started crying and said yes,

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Speaker 1: and I was like, huh. And then before I could

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Speaker 1: even say anything, she was out of bed on the

502
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Speaker 1: phone called her mom and said he just asked me

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Speaker 1: to marry him, and then pass the phone to me

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Speaker 1: to talk to her mom. And I was like, hey, yeah,

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Speaker 1: no ring yet, No ring yet, because it didn't mean

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Speaker 1: to do that. Oh man. He took about a year

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Speaker 1: and I have to buy a ring. And I only

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Speaker 1: got a ring because it was Christmas time and I

509
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Speaker 1: was still talking to my family then, and my dad

510
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Speaker 1: was like, if you're engaged, you should probably buy her

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Speaker 1: a ring, and I was like, good points, Christmas. I

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Speaker 1: guess I'll go to his ails. Yeah. Yeah, I've made

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Speaker 1: a lot of mistakes relationships of my time, so don't

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Speaker 1: trust my judgment on things. Call us up right now

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Speaker 1: eight eight eight three four three one six one texten

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Speaker 1: four one oh six one. Did you get married young

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Speaker 1: and how did that work out for you? Hello Curtis

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Speaker 1: where you come from? Calling from Victoria. Oh hey, a

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Speaker 1: Canadian listener booting the Boot listen to the show. That's great.

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Speaker 1: What's up dude? How many people know that I speak Canadian?

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Speaker 1: That's cool? Yeah, well I looked at you guys every

522
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Speaker 1: day and they get you like Crystal Clear over here.

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Speaker 1: I was just calling about the getting engaged, you know

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Speaker 1: topic you guys were chatting about there. Yeah, Hi, Curtis,

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Speaker 1: this is Nina. Did you get engaged? Yeah? We got

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Speaker 1: engaged young, like seventeen and Mary at eighteen and seventeen

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Speaker 1: years later, I got two kids. I would definitely got

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Speaker 1: lots of hate. Like, for sure, I feel like people

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Speaker 1: always want to think the worst, and I guess you

530
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Speaker 1: know what you think. When it's physically they're probably right.

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Speaker 1: But you know, everyone's different and everyone's journey is different,

532
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Speaker 1: and whatever works for you, it works for you, and

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Speaker 1: it doesn't really matter with anybody else. That's true, Curtis.

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Speaker 1: Just because some people can't do it doesn't mean that

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work sometimes, Curtis, what do you think it

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Speaker 1: was about your love that made you want to do

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Speaker 1: that so early? I'm not hating, I'm just genuinely curious

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Speaker 1: you know, it's a good question. I just knew I

539
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: didn't want to do with anybody else, and she was

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Speaker 1: the same thing, and there was just something I can't

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Speaker 1: really fully describe it, but yeah, I just thought I

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Speaker 1: would share that because of course people are going to

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Speaker 1: say bad thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah. People love to young people,

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Speaker 1: they do. And I wonder how many couples that got

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Speaker 1: engaged young and married young would have actually made it

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Speaker 1: if they would have had more positive people in their life.

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Speaker 1: That's a great point. What's the secret to success for

548
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Speaker 1: you guys, because that's a lot of challenge. It's hard.

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Speaker 1: Like we've done counseling. You've done you know, individual counseling,

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Speaker 1: couple of counseling. You know, you're constantly working on your

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Speaker 1: relationship because especially when you start young, you know, you

552
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: change and you're not always going to be the exact

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Speaker 1: same person that you were. Um so, if you know,

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Speaker 1: but if that love is there, you have to kind

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00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 1: of find ways to you know, to say connected. Not

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Speaker 1: for me, I think a big thing is having your

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00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 1: own interests, in having your own hobbies and and you like,

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00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: you know, you live your life that way, and I

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Speaker 1: think it's if it works out to be works out

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Speaker 1: pretty good, Curtis, thank you for your phone call. I'm

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Speaker 1: looking forward to the video that goes viral when you're

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Speaker 1: like seventy and you and your wife were talking about

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Speaker 1: how you've been together since you were seventeen, because I

564
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Speaker 1: cry every single time that I see one of those.

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Speaker 1: So I can't wait to look at your Instagram one

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Speaker 1: day and just bawl my eyes out. What a thing

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Speaker 1: to say it is. Can't wait for you to make

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Speaker 1: thanks Manna, have a good days here bye. Um see

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Speaker 1: it as possible. Yeah, people do make it so Millie,

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Speaker 1: Bobby Brown and John bon Joey's kid. I keep calling

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Speaker 1: to call them Ron bon Jovi, Jake. I think that

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Speaker 1: they're gonna be together forever. Some Goods Crossed The Jewels

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Speaker 1: Show on demand