Speaker 1: It wasn't real life. Just know that it was real life.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Okay, I'll share one thing only I'll
Speaker 2: go ahead and share one thing to let y'all know
Speaker 2: how not real life it was. So one of my
Speaker 2: boyfriends was more subby than the other boyfriend.
Speaker 1: But there was a.
Speaker 2: Third nigga that, yeah, he's definitely more subby. Oh like girl,
Speaker 2: I was slapping him. He was like, it was great.
Speaker 2: So at one of the dinners, I sit down and
Speaker 2: I find myself somehow crafting the experience of two slaves.
Speaker 1: Hear me out, it was amazing.
Speaker 2: So I had my one boyfriend on the right of me,
Speaker 2: and then I had another nigga on the the So, no,
Speaker 2: my boyfriend's on the left of me, the other nigga
Speaker 2: was on the right of me. So I'm at dinner
Speaker 2: and as y'all know, it's like buffet style. So I
Speaker 2: go and make sure we skip the line because I
Speaker 2: wanted a lobster tail.
Speaker 1: So we go get the lobster tail.
Speaker 2: I come back, sit my plate down and immediately, bro,
Speaker 2: I'm sitting there like a queen, and I look at
Speaker 2: my boyfriend and I'm like, uh, can you go give
Speaker 2: me a drink like I'm thirsty. Like he knows my
Speaker 2: drink is vodka soda lime, So go get my drink
Speaker 2: for me. Girl, maybe the guys saw me. Go tell
Speaker 2: him to give him a drink. Immediately, bro, he picks
Speaker 2: up a fork, puts it in my plate, and starts
Speaker 2: feeding me.
Speaker 3: So bitch, I'm sitting there in between two men six' five, plus.
Speaker 2: Both look, good and literally one is picking up the
Speaker 2: fork and putting the food on my plate in my,
Speaker 2: Mouth so. Bitch at this, Point i'm eating waiting for my.
Speaker 2: Drink so he comes back with my drink AND i
Speaker 2: taste it And i'm, like this Ain't this ain't the right.
Speaker 2: Drink go get me another. One this doesn't taste. RAY
Speaker 2: i feel like it's, gin not, vodka and he was drinking.
Speaker 2: Gin so he repeats my. Drink so he repeats my.
Speaker 2: DRINK i, say, yeah that's WHAT i told you to,
Speaker 2: Get so can you go back and get it.
Speaker 1: Because this isn't the right. Drink and he's, like oh my,
Speaker 1: God i'm so.
Speaker 2: Sorry i'm gonna, bitch puts it, down goes back and
Speaker 2: gets my mother fucking. Drink you ready comes? Back is
Speaker 2: seeing the nigga feeding, me so. Bitch he takes the
Speaker 2: cup with the straw and puts the straw in my.
Speaker 2: MOUTH i can't eat, them motherfucking, drink. BITCH i can't
Speaker 2: make this. Up so then one of the other girls
Speaker 2: shout Out kelly's she was.
Speaker 1: There she's one of the.
Speaker 2: Patrons she's sitting across from me with her beautiful self
Speaker 2: or her little light.
Speaker 1: Eyes and she, said.
Speaker 2: Across from me witnessing these two niggas feeding, Me and
Speaker 2: So i'm literally.
Speaker 1: Just, like this can't be. Real then my little boyfriend
Speaker 1: is real. Friendly so THEN i see him like talking
Speaker 1: to somebody else AND i have to.
Speaker 2: Call i'd be, LIKE i come, here, BITCH i choke
Speaker 2: him at the dinner, table AND i, say WHAT i
Speaker 2: tell you about being so goddamn, friendly sit your ass
Speaker 2: right here Till i'm done, eating. Bitch and WHEN i tell,
Speaker 2: you they just Both and THEN i got, full because
Speaker 2: y'all KNOW i don't eat a.
Speaker 1: Lot so BUT i was just, LIKE i was, like
Speaker 1: this isn't real. Life why you ain't?
Speaker 2: Fucking so the other, NIGGA i didn't fuck at. All
Speaker 2: we didn't even make. Out he was just somebody THAT
Speaker 2: i was talking to all. Weekend he actually lives.
Speaker 1: In, atlanta.
Speaker 2: Damn but but on the boat he was talking heavily
Speaker 2: to my best Friend, Crystal SO i want to step on,
Speaker 2: that even though she found a boyfriend for the weekend.
Speaker 2: Too now the other NIGGA i had, Already, bitch we
Speaker 2: had ate, breakfast he spent the.
Speaker 1: Night we was. Cuddling we was hold, On i'm gonna
Speaker 1: just send, you send.
Speaker 3: You a picture if you look Bro, okay first, off
Speaker 3: we was legit.
Speaker 1: Together. AnyWho that was one of the EXPERIENCES i. Had
Speaker 1: and it was all the looking his bitched.
Speaker 3: Eyes WHEN i see, this if it's even her eyes
Speaker 3: and not just her, ass let's.
Speaker 1: SEE i mean, now, oh, bitch we was we were together.
Speaker 3: Together, Okay so Currently i'm, Looking i'm looking at three.
Speaker 3: Photos let's just say it's like it gives two thousands photo.
Speaker 3: Booth mandy is wearing a thong Baiting. Sue, no it was, lingery.
Speaker 3: Bitch oh it's long, Litter, okay.
Speaker 1: It was so this one makeup is absolutely.
Speaker 3: Gone she looks like she just got no.
Speaker 1: No but there was no. Makeup this was a party
Speaker 1: at night, Outside that's What i'm.
Speaker 3: Saying, face it looked like you just got fuck, bitch
Speaker 3: and that first one to eye a little. Hazy let
Speaker 3: me just grab. It i'm looking at he's a. Cutie
Speaker 3: he's Holding mandy across the. Waist they look like rags
Speaker 3: that are going a little too close in the first.
Speaker 3: Photo the second photo, below he's just Getting mandy a kiss.
Speaker 1: On the cheek and she's gagging.
Speaker 3: Smiling then the third photo they are closing their eyes
Speaker 3: kissing each. Other she got her hands on his, face
Speaker 3: the short nails one on his eye and the other
Speaker 3: one buy his, ear bitch booted hoole nails on his.
Speaker 1: Nigga and, yeah she has a.
Speaker 2: BOYFRIEND i have a, boyfriend mind, you it's still the
Speaker 2: really nice oh.
Speaker 1: Is he has a beautiful.
Speaker 2: Smile then the other boyfriend is now refrigerator because he
Speaker 2: is the.
Speaker 1: Subnigga this is the sub. Nigga, okay this is the
Speaker 1: Subg you said the other boyfriends on my? Fridge is
Speaker 1: that what you just?
Speaker 2: Said, yeah because he took me to the ferris wheel
Speaker 2: because he came to my house and was mad he
Speaker 2: wasn't on my.
Speaker 1: Fridge this isn't the one that flew. In, no this
Speaker 1: is the other.
Speaker 2: One lord that You i'll share how we fucked in
Speaker 2: another episode BECAUSE i fucked.
Speaker 1: Him he did not fuck, me but we'll get into.
Speaker 4: That.
Speaker 1: Bitch i've had a.
Speaker 2: Blast shout out To Chaco, blizz shout out to, friends
Speaker 2: he shout out To, jazz shout out to the twenty
Speaker 2: Two Wore hive members that were, there everyone who bought
Speaker 2: the book because they were bringing up they brought the.
Speaker 1: Book so many people brought the. Book uh sent signed
Speaker 1: copies to some.
Speaker 2: People and WHEN i tell, you it wasn't real, life
Speaker 2: AND i was, like oh my, god but this is
Speaker 2: How like.
Speaker 3: He, said y'all even gotta pay me next. Year oh, no, no,
Speaker 3: No i'm going next, year already. GOING i haven't signed
Speaker 3: the contract, yet But i'm.
Speaker 1: Going so.
Speaker 3: This is a great thing that this episode is in real,
Speaker 3: time because you guys just heard the episode last week
Speaker 3: about me quote unquote ghosting a girl.
Speaker 1: And we met up with.
Speaker 3: Her, okay so shorty they said we ghosted, her Which
Speaker 3: i'm not gonna. LIE i felt very validated by this
Speaker 3: One patreon, comment AND i know everybody feels back and,
Speaker 3: forth but this one was interesting to me AND i
Speaker 3: wanted to read it out loud BECAUSE i was, like.
Speaker 1: Hmm, okay SO i.
Speaker 3: Agreed someone on YouTube was, like you gotta double text
Speaker 3: somebody to get, Ghosted like you got to write back
Speaker 3: to get. Ghosted this girl said on our patron about.
Speaker 1: It what was she?
Speaker 3: Say, sorry, Y'all i'm trying to find, it but it
Speaker 3: just got my brain, thinking, okay SO i keep backing
Speaker 3: Like i'm about to read this. EHEM i don't feel
Speaker 3: Like weezy ghosted that. GIRL i feel like ghosting is
Speaker 3: when they reached out and you don't. Respond if she was,
Speaker 3: interested she could have, said, hey how are you, anything
Speaker 3: but she didn't once in eight. Months But i'm definitely,
Speaker 3: learning and this is from a. WOMAN a lot of
Speaker 3: women are sensitive or can't handle casual. Sex SO i
Speaker 3: agree communications definitely necessarily regarding expectations around the board in any.
Speaker 3: Situation so here's WHY i semi agree with. THAT i
Speaker 3: don't know how both of us went that long without
Speaker 3: writing each, other but WHAT i do know is the
Speaker 3: PRESSURE i feel right now to write her.
Speaker 1: Back is almost so intense THAT i almost can't be.
Speaker 3: Natural LIKE i never ignored the, girl not one, time
Speaker 3: but NOW i feel LIKE i can't let an hour
Speaker 3: go by without responding because of how bad she felt last,
Speaker 3: time like it's it's.
Speaker 1: A little bit.
Speaker 3: Much so we start off our, night we pick her,
Speaker 3: up we go, bowling and this was the funny thing about,
Speaker 3: Bowling so we go To Lucky strike and anyone that's
Speaker 3: ever been to Any Lucky, strike it's kind of like
Speaker 3: a sexy or vibe for, bowling got.
Speaker 1: Nice little the couch is a qute date.
Speaker 3: Night so we're all like getting to know each other
Speaker 3: again and she's, like whe were you guys up to this?
Speaker 3: Summer we're, chatting, flirting and then suddenly some streamer comes
Speaker 3: in with a camera crew five and like fifteen niggas
Speaker 3: and we're, like what did you know the? Streamer, no,
Speaker 3: okay we kept trying to figure it, out but he Spoke.
Speaker 3: Spanish but he must have been a big streamer because
Speaker 3: he had a security.
Speaker 1: Guard so then this IS.
Speaker 3: LA i take that to say everybody wants to be
Speaker 3: somebody In. La so basically we had a moment where
Speaker 3: we were all about to kiss and then we looked
Speaker 3: to the right and she's, like ah, Shit Like jay was,
Speaker 3: streaming streaming all four different. ACCOUNTS a YouTube of TikTok
Speaker 3: ig was the whole. Thing so we have a few.
Speaker 3: Drinks we end up going back to her. Place according To,
Speaker 3: mamia me and this bitch were cert so, nervous we
Speaker 3: couldn't shut the fuck. Up we had a hike at seven.
Speaker 3: Am we all went on the date at seven. Thirty
Speaker 3: she had early one and two. Dog it went on
Speaker 3: an hour before a kiss or, anything and he's she's
Speaker 3: in the, middle he's sitting behind, her and he looking
Speaker 3: at me, Like, nigga what.
Speaker 1: The fuck make a move? Right so this is how
Speaker 1: in my HEAD i.
Speaker 3: WAS i didn't know what to do or how much
Speaker 3: attention to give because of the whole ordeal about. GHOSTING
Speaker 3: i at one point wanted to fuck my own nigga
Speaker 3: during the threesome and felt bag BECAUSE i didn't want
Speaker 3: to make her feel left. OUT i was so fucked
Speaker 3: up about that whole. Thing and JUST, fyi, everybody the
Speaker 3: threesome happened around episode. Time so Now i'm just LIKE
Speaker 3: i can't handle, This like this is too much, NOW i,
Speaker 3: mean what do you?
Speaker 1: Mean the threesome happened around episode. Time it was BEFORE
Speaker 1: i LEFT.
Speaker 3: La it was a day ago there or two. Ago
Speaker 3: so the episode came out during this. Time, wait did
Speaker 3: she did? She did she watch the? EPISODE i don't think.
Speaker 3: So but WHAT i can tell you is we don't
Speaker 3: follow each. OTHER i don't know she know WHO i.
Speaker 3: Am but she did make a mention, like, oh while
Speaker 3: we weren't, talking you just got a little taste of
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Speaker 3: on before it became a? Relationship how many? Dates how many?
Speaker 3: Weeks what is the conversation like about being exclusive and
Speaker 3: in a?
Speaker 1: Relationship what do people call it these?
Speaker 3: Days for a, Reference i'm in my late twenties early,
Speaker 3: thirties is the, Partner And i've been personally very unlucky
Speaker 3: in the dating field as people are dating so many
Speaker 3: people at. Once there's a lot of situationships going. On
Speaker 3: AND i used to THINK i could be exclusive to
Speaker 3: someone by one to two, months using the boyfriend girlfriend
Speaker 3: titled by three. Months it doesn't seem that that's the reality.
Speaker 3: Today can everyone?
Speaker 1: Elaborate? Now we all live In New York city where
Speaker 1: the options are. ENDLESS i know you said a year one,
Speaker 1: time which.
Speaker 4: Is, YEAH i did a year for what are you
Speaker 4: to get to know?
Speaker 1: Somebody it took twelve, months three hundred and sixty five.
Speaker 5: Days oh, No i'm saying Like i'm willing to take
Speaker 5: up to a year to get to know somebody to
Speaker 5: determine whether or NOT i think we're gonna mesh and
Speaker 5: get into a Fo oh so.
Speaker 6: You like coworkers or like people that you like or
Speaker 6: church or school or. Something, yeah, like is it would
Speaker 6: take a year of you to be engaged with someone
Speaker 6: or a? FRIEND i guess what do you mean being
Speaker 6: around being around someone union?
Speaker 1: Date?
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh he is talking about to give the. Title
Speaker 3: oh my, god it's even more. Perplexity he's thinking that
Speaker 3: you're saying a year to get to know like, yeah,
Speaker 3: no oh my, God, no you will be inside of
Speaker 3: them at the same.
Speaker 1: TIME i don't have to be, okay, SHIP.
Speaker 4: I don't have to say, Yeah i'll.
Speaker 6: YOU i just been THINKING i think that's a crazy
Speaker 6: amount of. Time BUT i, Mean i'm not. JUDGING i think.
Speaker 5: That's kind of a reflection of what's wrong with. Society
Speaker 5: like a year is not that. Long you don't even
Speaker 5: know somebody in a.
Speaker 1: Year you see what you, see what men?
Speaker 4: DO i spend, Artist.
Speaker 5: BUT i really think that's like society. Doesn't this hasn't
Speaker 5: even got nothing to do with the question. Anyway the
Speaker 5: question is about the, days right.
Speaker 3: Wait, wait, wait, no but, actually, like without being judgmental and,
Speaker 3: silly right, now why do you what is wrong with
Speaker 3: society if we think of yours too?
Speaker 6: Long?
Speaker 1: ONE i think it.
Speaker 4: IS i think IT'S i think to get to know.
Speaker 5: Somebody first of, all people are not even showing up
Speaker 5: as their true, salves you know WHAT i, mean because
Speaker 5: you don't want. To you want to give the. Best
Speaker 5: you're curating the best of what you. Got and so
Speaker 5: WHEN i and that's just we sign. It but it's
Speaker 5: true you've done. It i've done, It we've all everybody
Speaker 5: in the room has done. It so What i'm saying
Speaker 5: is is LIKE i think about dating and the aspect
Speaker 5: of like marriage and, family you know WHAT i. Mean
Speaker 5: so it's, like if we're going to go the big time,
Speaker 5: distance let me just make SURE i know what's going.
Speaker 5: On i'm not saying it's, perfect but it's like the
Speaker 5: intention is to be.
Speaker 6: Careful that's why before a baby can, walk it needs to. Crawl,
Speaker 6: INDEED i think that those beginning stages are not just like.
Speaker 6: THOROUGHWAYS i think that they're a part of the get to.
Speaker 6: Knowing whether it be, day ten, day thirty twelve, months
Speaker 6: it's a part of. It so you're saying that a
Speaker 6: person can be their real true selves. TWELVE i don't
Speaker 6: think that's necessarily. TRUE i think you are being your
Speaker 6: true self in those beginning in.
Speaker 4: Truth, OH i, know.
Speaker 1: It's a part of. THAT i think it's a part of. It,
Speaker 1: ACTUALLY i think it's. Imperence BUT i actually think it
Speaker 1: takes a second for the.
Speaker 4: Wait mask the master come.
Speaker 6: Off, sure but that's an experience that you shouldn't be cheated.
Speaker 6: OF i think that there's all that's also a part
Speaker 6: of like. Courting it's like noticing that and like really
Speaker 6: being enamored by it when it. Happens it's a part of.
Speaker 6: It it's not like the.
Speaker 5: Secondary, well it depends on what comes up, though you
Speaker 5: know WHAT i. Mean you're not gonna be enamored by something.
Speaker 6: Or the, Opposite, well you wouldn't be in a relationship
Speaker 6: with that. Person i'm only talking about someone that you
Speaker 6: would be in relation.
Speaker 5: With, YEAH i just like the idea of getting to know.
Speaker 5: Somebody i'm not saying it has to be a. Year
Speaker 5: i'm saying, like.
Speaker 1: No longer here, ever, time.
Speaker 5: Not even, That i'm just saying LIKE i Don't i'm
Speaker 5: not in a, Rush that's All i'm, Saying like if it's,
Speaker 5: real because it's like a, tattoo, right youre thinking about
Speaker 5: getting a tattoo while Rush when as soon as you get,
Speaker 5: it it's, done you know WHAT i.
Speaker 4: Mean it's a forever.
Speaker 5: Thing like you might have got it at twenty, one
Speaker 5: you're gonna have it when you're sixty.
Speaker 4: Seven.
Speaker 1: There have you ever had.
Speaker 3: A scenario then where you dated someone almost six to
Speaker 3: eight months and then you didn't end up with? Them?
Speaker 4: PROBABLY i can't think of anybody right, Now but is
Speaker 4: that not a?
Speaker 1: Situationship that's?
Speaker 4: INTERESTING a lot of people think of it like. THAT i.
Speaker 5: DON'T i don't look at it like a situationship BECAUSE
Speaker 5: i think a situationship is more like.
Speaker 4: It's a little bit it's a little bit.
Speaker 5: Messier you know WHAT i. Mean, like let's Say i'm
Speaker 5: seriously dating. Somebody i'm probably not dating other. People i'm
Speaker 5: probably not doing a whole lot of like intermingling with other.
Speaker 5: PEOPLE i don't have a roster at that, moment you
Speaker 5: get know What i'm. Saying So i'm like really locked
Speaker 5: in on getting to know this.
Speaker 1: Person why isn't that? OKAY i agree with? This this
Speaker 1: is the. Problem is this really.
Speaker 3: Exposing how serious and scary commitment? IS i was dating
Speaker 3: someone a few years back who wasn't seeing anyone. Else
Speaker 3: we got into the five or six month after, Guy
Speaker 3: but why aren't you calling me your? Girlfriend you don't
Speaker 3: even want to date anyone, else you don't want intimate
Speaker 3: see with someone. Else why are we not saying we're?
Speaker 1: Together?
Speaker 4: Then what's the?
Speaker 5: Difference it's the same difference between like if you're if
Speaker 5: you live with somebody for four, years why don't you
Speaker 5: call them your?
Speaker 4: Wife or why aren't you calling them your? Husband you
Speaker 4: know WHAT i?
Speaker 5: Mean it's like you could easily, say like what we're
Speaker 5: doing all the things a husband and a wife would,
Speaker 5: Do but there's something different about crossing that line in
Speaker 5: the saying. Between so that title has power to.
Speaker 6: Me the fact that there's confusion about that six months
Speaker 6: in tells me that there is a level of dishonesty
Speaker 6: between that relationship THAT i would not participate.
Speaker 1: In if there's.
Speaker 6: Confusion or ambiguity and what this is or why isn't
Speaker 6: he that that has been the relationship is already done
Speaker 6: before it even.
Speaker 1: Started why SHOULD i have brought up THAT i need this. Pace, absolutely,
Speaker 1: yes why wouldn't that?
Speaker 6: Sure and the fact that you didn't feel safe a
Speaker 6: safe space enough to do that tells you, enough tells
Speaker 6: you everything you need to.
Speaker 3: Know you, KNOW i actually didn't feel like it wasn't
Speaker 3: a safe space in this. Scenario i've been that girl,
Speaker 3: before but in this, ONE i just thought it would.
Speaker 1: HAPPEN i am so used to ending up in.
Speaker 3: Relationships mm. Hmm this actually fucked me. UP i realized
Speaker 3: some of my rejection. SHIT i feel Like i've been
Speaker 3: chosen a, lot so when it don't, Happen i'd be, like,
Speaker 3: oh going, on we're we're not, together like a little,
Speaker 3: dolulu which started to teach me more my new relationship
Speaker 3: of requiring. Things excuse, me let me use a different,
Speaker 3: word making vocal WHAT i need out of a, manager
Speaker 3: as everybody.
Speaker 4: SHOULD i think it's just.
Speaker 1: Maturity, yeah BUT i really was, like, Oh i'll understand
Speaker 1: how we're not.
Speaker 4: To Get, yeah, YEAH i think that's.
Speaker 5: Fair like if you, like if somebody was to be
Speaker 5: LIKE i don't got six months in, me and it's,
Speaker 5: like that's, valid you know WHAT i? Mean you can't
Speaker 5: force somebody to do. Nothing they all we should all
Speaker 5: be doing what feels comfortable to us and at.
Speaker 6: The end of the day we really are talking like semantics.
Speaker 6: Here it could be you don't have a benchmark. Time
Speaker 6: it depends on the person to sit, down areo your
Speaker 6: living experience like demends on so many different.
Speaker 1: Elements for six, months it could be something, else could be,
Speaker 1: two you, know, yeah it Could it should be three to,
Speaker 1: me three to.
Speaker 4: FOUR i don't. KNOW i don't.
Speaker 1: KNOW i don't believe it any hardened times, two three.
Speaker 4: Months you don't know nobody after three to four.
Speaker 3: Month If i'm not your girlfriend and we've been fucking
Speaker 3: and getting to know each, other now my head is
Speaker 3: starting to be, like, well you're waiting for something. Else for,
Speaker 3: EXAMPLE i have a friend of mine right. Now you
Speaker 3: overheard that. Conversation he's been dating a girl atter over a,
Speaker 3: year and he's just, like why DO i have to
Speaker 3: do this? Thing why DO i have to put this
Speaker 3: title on?
Speaker 1: It what the?
Speaker 3: Fuck, Like i'm not really romantically pursuing other, Women but
Speaker 3: to me it speaks volumes because it's, like you, know
Speaker 3: this girl's mid, thirties so were You what.
Speaker 1: The fuck is she supposed to?
Speaker 3: Think if it isn't happening yet, yeah you feel Like
Speaker 3: i'm not. Valued another thing is LIKE i feel like
Speaker 3: you're looking for something, else and to be, honest will
Speaker 3: be uncovered by the end of the. Call was he
Speaker 3: kind of Was he's locked in with her in terms
Speaker 3: of like how he feels about. Her there's no one
Speaker 3: Else i'm gonna bring around for the. Holidays but MAYBE
Speaker 3: i am secretly saying a lot. Better you, KNOW i
Speaker 3: Love european. Men this doesn't really happen In. Europe there
Speaker 3: is no there's no such thing as like this whole.
Speaker 3: SITUATION i literally only Had.
Speaker 6: Europeans, no but not get it for this reason or
Speaker 6: not Even, europeans just like a Non american situations.
Speaker 1: Don't Happen europeans, CRAZY i, KNOW i hate. IT i
Speaker 1: hate cut The caucasian. Out we're.
Speaker 4: Go On.
Speaker 1: Jesus first of, all one of them Was Middle eastern. Better,
Speaker 1: no that's not even, wait that's not. No i'm saying, No,
Speaker 1: no they don't use situationships over. There you know who don't.
Speaker 1: Either caribbean. Men now they might have four. Girlfriends, YEAH.
Speaker 6: I was gonna say for, them it's like if they
Speaker 6: are having sex with, you if they're taking you out
Speaker 6: to dinner if they're going dates together like you are their. Girlfriend,
Speaker 6: like as far as that's, concerned like you, are it's
Speaker 6: not even something that there's a conversation.
Speaker 1: Around it's for. Unceremonious it just.
Speaker 6: Happened we, Otherwise, yeah otherwise they just wouldn't be taking
Speaker 6: you out on dinners or.
Speaker 1: Whatever they wouldn't do. IT i want to wrote virtualistic
Speaker 1: ass like.
Speaker 3: That you, know my boyfriend did the circle yes or
Speaker 3: no with roses all of, It, like oh that's.
Speaker 1: Cute, yeah remember that he wrote like every.
Speaker 3: Thing, yeah he wrote a little thing and put will
Speaker 3: you be my? Girlfriend and it's to me we're in our.
Speaker 1: Thirties off of it's.
Speaker 6: Ridiculous you know what's crazy is that kind of stuff
Speaker 6: at this. Stage IF i had found like love, YOUNGER
Speaker 6: i would have like been, like, Now i'm at a
Speaker 6: stage where maybe it's jadedness or maybe IT'S i don't
Speaker 6: know what it, is But I'M i loving the NONCHALANT i.
Speaker 1: SAW i witnessed a nonchalant. Proposal what is?
Speaker 4: That?
Speaker 1: Oh? Kids it was.
Speaker 6: Delicious this two couple they were having dinner like in their,
Speaker 6: apartment and he literally all he does is like like
Speaker 6: at the end of the, dinner he like pulls out
Speaker 6: the rink and she was just like what like she
Speaker 6: it was just like a little cute intimate moment in their,
Speaker 6: kitchen and like he, proposed it was the most.
Speaker 1: UNCEREMONIOUS i love.
Speaker 4: THAT i, like that's kind of clarify real. Quick you like.
Speaker 4: That that's?
Speaker 1: Different CAN i just say that's?
Speaker 4: Different that's very. Different let's go pull.
Speaker 6: The tapes of, this you, know BUT I i need
Speaker 6: the rate to be a fantastic sensational hold.
Speaker 4: On hold. On what is the ethnicity of this?
Speaker 1: Guy the one that?
Speaker 4: Matters that. Matters So i'm about to draw a correlation real.
Speaker 4: Quick i'm just saying the ethnicity of this person Because
Speaker 4: i'm like.
Speaker 5: ANY i CAN'T i cannot imagine the thing in that
Speaker 5: world THAT i hear that'd be like.
Speaker 6: No, no in the in the we're talking about in
Speaker 6: the TikTok THAT i, saw it was the the guy Was,
Speaker 6: asian the girl was.
Speaker 1: Could have been, white could have been, ambiguous but the
Speaker 1: guy Was.
Speaker 5: Asian all the black women that are listening to this right,
Speaker 5: now please leave the one in the. Chat if you
Speaker 5: get the fuck out of that would not, Rock that
Speaker 5: would not.
Speaker 6: Rock, Well, no, no not, actually actually, NO i. Do
Speaker 6: i'm not saying THAT i want. That i'm saying there
Speaker 6: was something really like delicious about. It it's like a little.
Speaker 1: MISS i like.
Speaker 6: Miss i'm attracted to. MISFITS i don't know how WELL
Speaker 6: i have to say. IT i like what people don't.
Speaker 6: DO i like what people don't. Like i'm attracted to.
Speaker 6: THAT i like.
Speaker 4: That how was that not low effort?
Speaker 1: Though oh, no, no, no, no, no no. No here's the.
Speaker 6: Thing the person who did it wouldn't have done it
Speaker 6: if their girl wasn't into, That and in that, moment
Speaker 6: she was into.
Speaker 1: That So i'm assuming he knows, this he knows his. Art,
Speaker 1: yeah that's a great.
Speaker 3: Part NOW i will tell you Something i've asked. FOR
Speaker 3: i don't want anybody else. AROUND i don't like surprise,
Speaker 3: SHIT i. DON'T i want it to be a moment
Speaker 3: that's very. Realistic one of my favorite moments in any
Speaker 3: relationship was the first TIME i don't know if you guys,
Speaker 3: REMEMBER i used to say the guy that left me
Speaker 3: For Jesus.
Speaker 1: Luis he's his. Name he loved. It.
Speaker 3: MAN i was king and him And vinnie were in the.
Speaker 3: KITCHEN i was twenty twenty or twenty one.
Speaker 1: And me And vinnie were living. Together he came to the.
Speaker 1: Bathroom he, GOES i gotta get it out right.
Speaker 3: Now i'm really in love with. You AND i was
Speaker 3: on the toilet and he was like Pit and we
Speaker 3: weren't drunk or. Anything he's, LIKE i JUST i got
Speaker 3: to get it out of. It thinking about, IT i
Speaker 3: know how to say, It AND i was, like whoa number.
Speaker 3: One that was one of my most memorable moments because
Speaker 3: it was so, unconventional so.
Speaker 1: Urgent, Yes AND i don't know IF i told.
Speaker 3: You In, london my boyfriend came to me out of
Speaker 3: the bathroom AND i never told him this. Story we
Speaker 3: were and this was the day after Seeing obay In.
Speaker 3: London he came up to. ME i was eating a
Speaker 3: pizza and he was, like, YO i feel like a
Speaker 3: tear could come out right. Now JUST i really got
Speaker 3: to tell you how MUCH i love. YOU i have
Speaker 3: every intention of like being with you. Forever like you
Speaker 3: were the person that talking about family, planning marri my.
Speaker 1: Dad he came out all at, Once damn the, hole
Speaker 1: keep it. TOGETHER i was talking about, mom love you over,
Speaker 1: here dying, shit get you a, tissue leave.
Speaker 4: It on the why leave it on a? Why BUT
Speaker 4: i liked.
Speaker 3: That, now SAYING i like that may mean a surprise,
Speaker 3: ring BUT i would be remiss to say it would
Speaker 3: not bother me THAT i never had a man get
Speaker 3: down on one day for. Me, YEAH i would always
Speaker 3: be in my head and it would always make me
Speaker 3: think why DIDN'T i deserve?
Speaker 1: It why DIDN'T i get to have This cinderell?
Speaker 3: Moment AND i Think i'm a little too misfit already
Speaker 3: for some of the. Shit it's probably Why i'm so into.
Speaker 3: Marriage i'm the person that has sex with other people
Speaker 3: and my, boyfriend BUT i.
Speaker 1: Want this normal.
Speaker 6: Marriage knows that he has to get on when you but,
Speaker 6: actually oh sorry, sorry but he's actually believe it or,
Speaker 6: NOT i actually think he. Is he would be down
Speaker 6: to not do, it but he knows that you would want,
Speaker 6: that oh you, know and he would do.
Speaker 1: That you, know it depends on who you're. DATING i
Speaker 1: also hate, surprises like you like the lavish? Thing you like?
Speaker 1: It you know What i'm, Saying, LIKE i.
Speaker 3: DON'T i want to be alone at home Though i'm
Speaker 3: shocked by, that BUT i love, that yes.
Speaker 4: TOO i don't need like you, know people invite the
Speaker 4: whole family.
Speaker 1: Out it's also hitting me too with HOW i want
Speaker 1: a courthouse. Wedding suddenly me.
Speaker 3: TOO i don't know What i'm gonna happen one but
Speaker 3: you know what's. Crazy you know how we growing up
Speaker 3: and people go broke for. Marriages, yes Now i'm at
Speaker 3: the place Where i'm dating someone where we could afford
Speaker 3: a big.
Speaker 1: Wedding i'm, like now we'll tell. Y'all do want Of
Speaker 1: africa to throw that? Money? Oh that's, right, Yeah well
Speaker 1: he told me his brother made twenty FIVE k from the.
Speaker 3: WEDDING i, said, oh let's, yes let's run that you
Speaker 3: made twenty five does?
Speaker 1: He does your boyfriend also come from? Money Ain't, african BUT.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's, money BUT i would say
Speaker 3: very Like american dream like everyone is successful in his,
Speaker 3: family love, It, nigerie, uh, education.
Speaker 1: Medical most of. Them.
Speaker 3: Actually at one, POINT i was so overwhelmed the first
Speaker 3: time at his family when both sister and laws were
Speaker 3: nurses and ship and the brothers was one of the.
Speaker 1: Antetdiologist i'm, like.
Speaker 4: Oh, yeah high.
Speaker 3: Achievers i'm a, podcaster love it And i'm not fully
Speaker 3: black Or.
Speaker 1: African what are you guys gonna do?
Speaker 3: Here?
Speaker 4: Yes hear any old.
Speaker 6: Podcast it's, different you know, What it's, true it's the
Speaker 6: Big if you weren't, successful they probably have a problem with.
Speaker 1: It sometimes they're not coming.
Speaker 3: There And i'm the only daughter that you, know not
Speaker 3: not daughter in law yet but you know What i'm,
Speaker 3: saying only girlfriend to?
Speaker 1: Do have you thinking of? Myself?
Speaker 6: Nah BUT i matched some you guys are a match,
Speaker 6: though because he's also the like black.
Speaker 1: Sheep but they've never questioned.
Speaker 4: To even judge you because it's like what we accept.
Speaker 1: Him the only judgment we ever had was With. Nina
Speaker 1: what is this so the dog comes in the? House?
Speaker 1: Definitely how? Much what does the healthy relationship look like
Speaker 1: in the?
Speaker 3: Beginning this is something that's in The reddit thread dating,
Speaker 3: advice and people are saying they're not sure BECAUSE i
Speaker 3: am so used to love bombing and getting. EXCITED i
Speaker 3: don't know what healthiness feels. Like can we all just
Speaker 3: share before getting out of? Here how you knew you
Speaker 3: were in a healthy relationship even if it, ended even
Speaker 3: if it didn't go well in the. End but what
Speaker 3: like the start of healthiness was? Like because when relationships
Speaker 3: and at some point it can't get a little toxic or.
Speaker 1: Whatever BUT i won't even pinpoint this. One but, yeah
Speaker 1: curious with.
Speaker 4: Yours i'll just say a heavy, communication.
Speaker 3: Like like you're texting every day, talking, Okay so.
Speaker 5: Like ocean, transparency, vulnerability really getting into like the nooks
Speaker 5: and crannies of your brain and your mind and what you're.
Speaker 5: THINKING a lot of time we think it should be not.
Speaker 5: Saying so if you're in a healthy, relationship you, speaking
Speaker 5: you know WHAT i. Mean so there's no mystery to your.
Speaker 5: PARTNER i think confute mystery with your partner outside of
Speaker 5: a sexy context is not.
Speaker 4: Good you know WHAT i. MEAN i should know what's going.
Speaker 1: On oh do you know what's? Crazy what you're saying is.
Speaker 3: Uh we were out With andre In Philly Andre. Power
Speaker 3: you guys heard me talk about him, before AND i
Speaker 3: said something about an ARGUMENT i got in with my.
Speaker 3: Boyfriend i'm like in front of him like this nigga
Speaker 3: be talking About he's, like You ain hit me in a
Speaker 3: minute about some, shit AND i was, Like i'm gonna
Speaker 3: hit you with the.
Speaker 1: AFTERMATH i think it's with you.
Speaker 3: TOO i might talk about little stuff that irritates, me
Speaker 3: but for the most, part we kind of figure it
Speaker 3: out in the, moment which feels good.
Speaker 1: BECAUSE i wasn't like that in the beginning of this.
Speaker 3: RELATIONSHIP i wanted advice everybody BEFORE i came to. Him
Speaker 3: and WHAT i realized is that's not healthy at, All
Speaker 3: LIKE i might need a little. Bit what the fuck
Speaker 3: are we doing this ship? For like why AM i
Speaker 3: telling everybody all this ship BEFORE i tell?
Speaker 1: You like what.
Speaker 4: Talk to that? Nigga he don't?
Speaker 1: Want who going to help you have that conversation with
Speaker 1: you about this? Today? Oh? Bit, Sorry i'm sharing your. Time,
Speaker 1: yeah n has sharing my?
Speaker 6: Friends stop it to me, too just like in, general stop?
Speaker 6: It yeah when IF.
Speaker 4: I ever let you?
Speaker 3: Stray BUT i don't think you do that always in the.
Speaker 3: Beginning AND i could be. WRONG i could be an
Speaker 3: unhealthy thing or an insecure, thing BUT i in the
Speaker 3: beginning of a.
Speaker 1: Relationship, SURE i don't know how. TO i don't know
Speaker 1: what kind of COMMUNICATOR i.
Speaker 3: AM i don't know If i'll come off too, STRONG
Speaker 3: i don't know If i'll seem insecure by.
Speaker 1: SOMETHING i need a lot of communication gon to be.
Speaker 3: Needy so THEN i try to weed out What i'm
Speaker 3: going through with the friends First.
Speaker 1: Okay a lot of makes them with three of your.
Speaker 1: Friends that's fine in the, beginning.
Speaker 4: That makes sense to you put it like.
Speaker 3: That But i've been at the point where it's, unhealthy
Speaker 3: Where i'm just holding it out at dinner And i'm
Speaker 3: bringing something, up.
Speaker 1: Yeah you know WHAT i.
Speaker 3: Mean and also things THAT i get worried about making
Speaker 3: them look bad over. PARTNERS i know my ex girlfriend.
Speaker 1: AND i really she had a lot.
Speaker 3: Of things THAT i was very scared to bring up
Speaker 3: surrounding just us being.
Speaker 4: Out.
Speaker 1: Yeah and WHEN i say, THAT i mean coming.
Speaker 4: Out.
Speaker 1: YEAH i was, Like, okay IF i tell my.
Speaker 3: Friends then maybe her mom doesn't know where. Dating are
Speaker 3: they going to be, like, ah well. Weazy you're the
Speaker 3: one who's saying that everybody should BE x Y z
Speaker 3: and your girlfriend doesn't do Like i'm just like again
Speaker 3: back to, protecting LIKE i think it's all hurt.
Speaker 1: THEM i ain't saying ship.
Speaker 5: Because especially you might share something to a, person they're
Speaker 5: not in the, relationship so they don't have them passion
Speaker 5: or the empathy you. Have so then you bring them,
Speaker 5: back you continue to deal with, him and she's still.
Speaker 5: Mad oh she's still. Mad she's, Like i'm still mad
Speaker 5: at the nigger for doing you like. That so that's
Speaker 5: another reason why we should kind of keep my mouth
Speaker 5: shut or find like one safe person that's a good,
Speaker 5: one probably your person or one other person dead, it
Speaker 5: you know WHAT i, mean just dead that.
Speaker 3: Shit that's a no Hold bard safety chapter be, honest is?
Speaker 3: There BUT i talk about how. Safety at first the
Speaker 3: chapter WAS i THOUGHT i was gonna be like sexual,
Speaker 3: safety AND i was gonna be like condoms and. COMMUNICATION
Speaker 3: i was, like oh, no the friends of the emotional
Speaker 3: safety because being a non monogamous person over a, DECADE
Speaker 3: i can tell you right, Now i've called homegirls crowded
Speaker 3: him on the phone and hang up and they laugh about.
Speaker 1: Me it's another, bitch.
Speaker 3: Damn but like for, real because they're, like, oh, well
Speaker 3: she's going through this because she's in an open.
Speaker 1: Relationship did y'all be crying in monoglar and you're?
Speaker 4: Whatever, yeah.
Speaker 3: Exactly it is very difficult to talk about being open,
Speaker 3: relationship especially with someone who's not in.
Speaker 1: One but we don't need a lot of people to
Speaker 1: live like, this so so listen objectively that safety for.
Speaker 3: Real, yeah but you could also do too. Much i've
Speaker 3: definitely dumped a little too much of friends.
Speaker 6: Too when you love someone and you're like my, sister
Speaker 6: it's just. Different what AM i going to do change? You,
Speaker 6: No i'm going to accept you And i'm gonna.
Speaker 1: Listen thanks for letting.
Speaker 4: Me i'm not share your secrets. Too what?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah do you know what secrets turn? Here thinking
Speaker 1: about this? Podcast, boy y'all niggas have seen some ship
Speaker 1: y'all that's.
Speaker 4: Near or, new some shipn't heard a.
Speaker 3: Lot we were in the L a studio having a,
Speaker 3: moment and you, Know mandy AND i we're.
Speaker 1: Professionals we bounced, back we figured it.
Speaker 3: Out we had a new photographer in there who see
Speaker 3: us before that nigg was sitting there holding camera.
Speaker 1: Up they was, like it's a fun fight AND i
Speaker 1: saw him slug slightly lower.
Speaker 5: It he's, like, well the that's how my first day
Speaker 5: working with y'all. WERE i swear the guy AND i
Speaker 5: Remembering Mary. VIVID i didn't, understand you know WHAT i?
Speaker 4: MEAN i didn't get it at. ALL i was, like
Speaker 4: are they? Friends you know WHAT i?
Speaker 1: Mean Like i've been doing it for so.
Speaker 5: Long but it's like it's professional at one of the highest,
Speaker 5: heights because like business come. First and THEN i don't
Speaker 5: fuck with. You you know What i'm, saying, BIG i
Speaker 5: mean it is what it. Is listen to the show
Speaker 5: for how many of you are?
Speaker 4: There abody? Know you know?
Speaker 1: What we have such a good.
Speaker 3: Chemistry that's it's weird because people have said to me
Speaker 3: sometimes like great?
Speaker 4: Chemistry is this?
Speaker 1: Phony is this?
Speaker 3: Real And i'd be, like oh, No like When i'm sitting,
Speaker 3: there this is a very real energy you're feeling, like
Speaker 3: that's why it's.
Speaker 1: Good, yeah it's not like a drag for me to pull.
Speaker 3: Something, ACTUALLY i had maybe two percent of my episodes
Speaker 3: With mandy that needed to be like, ye that dragged
Speaker 3: on for the most.
Speaker 1: Part we can't stop.
Speaker 6: TALKING i think the rigidity of it has tremendous.
Speaker 1: Comforts by the, way but have you met me with
Speaker 1: The imbrianda never had. Rigidity they're that that tension that you.
Speaker 1: Feel but we were just. DESCRIBING i feel like that's lost.
Speaker 4: Rigidity go go go.
Speaker 1: UYS i mean.
Speaker 6: DICTIONARIES i think that rigidity is what like reads that
Speaker 6: authenticity that gets people to keep.
Speaker 1: Watching, OH i know what you.
Speaker 6: Mean it's not there's a very little room for like again,
Speaker 6: sorry a veneer like a performance it's, like, no when you.
Speaker 3: Have learned a lot about podcasts breaking up and, why,
Speaker 3: yeah nothing has taught me more About LIKE i just
Speaker 3: did this podcast behind the, likes so y'all go check it.
Speaker 1: Out they're very. Popular shy In winter shout out to.
Speaker 3: Them and one of the comments left was, like please
Speaker 3: don't turn into them talking About mandy AND i BECAUSE
Speaker 3: i made the, Comment, oh our lack of best friend you,
Speaker 3: know best friendship or whatever like has made for us
Speaker 3: to actually sustain. THIS i truly believe, this but it
Speaker 3: made me feel bad Because i'm, Like i'm not saying
Speaker 3: it's the only. Way i'm just saying that friends break
Speaker 3: up more than true business partner people have worked at
Speaker 3: a job where they don't know someone's name for ten.
Speaker 3: Years not Saying mandy AND i like that we're inter.
Speaker 3: Twined BUT i, mean, like, Oh i'm really being serious
Speaker 3: WHEN i said them friends be breaking.
Speaker 6: Up that's What i'm. Saying canceled podcasts just. Ended like it's,
Speaker 6: like you guys have outlived so many podcasts where the
Speaker 6: coasts were. Friends so there's something to.
Speaker 1: It i'm not.
Speaker 5: Sure and it's really a beautiful thing because it's like
Speaker 5: an ecosystem of people that survived because of y'all's. Relationship and,
Speaker 5: FURTHERMORE i think a lot of the time y'all don't
Speaker 5: like each, other that's. Evident but one THING i know
Speaker 5: for a, fact y'all love.
Speaker 1: Each other, Though and y'all love.
Speaker 4: Money i've seen, it y'all love.
Speaker 5: It y'all love each, other you, KNOW i mean, honestly
Speaker 5: y'all like be behind the stage crying together before you
Speaker 5: hit the stage and, Earybody oh.
Speaker 1: Oh my, god start bringing up that one time in Doubtas.
Speaker 5: I'm just, saying you know WHAT i? Mean, nah not
Speaker 5: even DULLAS i think it's some somewhere in The east.
Speaker 3: Coast so wait really, yeah so for me to be the,
Speaker 3: emol we'd be crying to get crying holding.
Speaker 4: Hands y'all love each, other you know WHAT i?
Speaker 6: Mean, yeah.
Speaker 3: Of course it's part like, Absolutely like we did a
Speaker 3: show With Girls Gotta eat where they.
Speaker 1: Were laughing, like, wait is this? Real is this a?
Speaker 3: Bit they're so cute they used to be here AT
Speaker 3: Wtf Ashtey Raina's There's.
Speaker 1: AND i was, like of COURSE i Love, Mandy like
Speaker 1: that's an easy thing for me to.
Speaker 3: Say AND i Wouldn't it wouldn't even Be it's like
Speaker 3: instantaneous out of my. Mouth BUT i think it's also
Speaker 3: Because i've Known mandy SINCE i was. Fifteen you know
Speaker 3: What i'm. Saying now we have family members we don't
Speaker 3: get along with and shit like. That but like you're
Speaker 3: telling me That i've done all of this in my, Life,
Speaker 3: like of, COURSE i.
Speaker 6: Have a sneaking suspicion, that like the real bow at
Speaker 6: the end of this is going to happen.
Speaker 1: When y'all are in your fifties sixties and you guys
Speaker 1: are going to be like super amicable for.
Speaker 4: Real oh for.
Speaker 3: Sure you think we're going to be Sixty, yeah BUT
Speaker 3: i don't think the podcast is gonna last that, long.
Speaker 1: NIGGA i don't think. Podcasting yeah, YEAH.
Speaker 3: Wtf have to be A tv production. Studio, yeah and
Speaker 3: by that point you're gonna be a. Billionaire oh, wait
Speaker 3: NOW i will tell. Y'all just while we ended on some,
Speaker 3: tea the best fight in here breakup this HOW i
Speaker 3: knew it was, good. Y'all SO wtf media always has camera,
Speaker 3: going camera's, going and we mainly actually do that for
Speaker 3: the protection of the engine years because there were one
Speaker 3: or two instances where like something went. MISSING i think
Speaker 3: at the, beginning do you remember, that do both a
Speaker 3: camera went?
Speaker 4: Missing it was, like, yeah a whole camera went, missing
Speaker 4: and it.
Speaker 3: Was, like, okay he was employees the people that were
Speaker 3: there or you're And i'm, like why the fuck would
Speaker 3: our people? Still but we never had a camera very
Speaker 3: very early, on so really it's for us because, like oh, nah,
Speaker 3: y'all did this ship not our?
Speaker 1: People so long story, short somebody was fighting.
Speaker 3: In this bitch it is tea or baby will fit
Speaker 3: there and they were, like oh, shit like, y'all like
Speaker 3: we had to quiet them down to me And alex
Speaker 3: talking about pull the funny and we watching this ship
Speaker 3: like it was a robbery, breath, like oh custiny chick steak.
Speaker 1: Pu's he bit for that? Ship?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah do you remember that the cameras were rolling
Speaker 3: WHEN i forgot the, key cameras got me. Run, anyway,
Speaker 3: y'all if you enjoyed, this you'll enjoy more of OUR
Speaker 3: ygd and you can actually see the video on patreon dot.
Speaker 3: Com Backslash Horrible decisions because it didn't go anywhere and
Speaker 3: it's still.
Speaker 1: Here and we're still. Hoes don't tell Me, ANDY i
Speaker 1: said THAT i am not a.
Speaker 4: HOE i was about to SAY i ain't.
Speaker 1: Know i'm happy to.
Speaker 4: Be she does Like europeans