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Speaker 1: Am I they hold for being mad at my fiance

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Speaker 1: secretly spending our small travel funds sounds terrible. Break up

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Speaker 1: divorce be richer. This comes from Junaro Frinia, who says hello,

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Speaker 1: longtime worker and commenter, in need of some judgment here.

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Speaker 1: A few months ago, my fiance whom I will call Jack,

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Speaker 1: and I decided to start a small travel fund. I

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Speaker 1: told Jack that when in my twenties I used to

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Speaker 1: save money for trips, that I never used my travel

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Speaker 1: cash when I really needed it. It helped me save

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Speaker 1: plenty without burning a hole in my pocket once I

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Speaker 1: was on the road, and he liked that idea very

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Speaker 1: smart financial moves right there, Yeah, money moves. I made

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Speaker 1: it explicitly clear that this was super important to me

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Speaker 1: because we don't have super high earnings and anything we

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Speaker 1: can save for the fund would be lovely since we

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Speaker 1: were planning to travel to Italy this year.

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Speaker 2: Oohomy, it's a bad pasta boolachiao, fame espresso.

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Speaker 1: Hmm, it's me. I go it to Italy, offending every

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Speaker 1: Italian person. I love doing that. Oh, now you're really

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Speaker 1: getting into it. For three to four months. We both

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Speaker 1: contributed to the fund and we saved up enough to

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Speaker 1: cover accommodation expenses, which made me excited. A few days ago,

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Speaker 1: I was cleaning up and something made me look into

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Speaker 1: our fund. Now, the fund is in an envelope. I know,

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Speaker 1: I know, And I opened it just to remind myself

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Speaker 1: how much we saved an envelope an envelope. He stole it?

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Speaker 1: Sure that jack off? Are you sure it wasn't like

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Speaker 1: triple the size? And she's like, whoa, how much is

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Speaker 1: there so munch money? Uh? Maybe, but I think he

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Speaker 1: stole it, That's what I'm thinking. I opened it just

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Speaker 3: How did you think he was gonna get away with this?

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm wondering, Like robbery burglar. Yeah, but like

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Speaker 3: she's gotta know, and then she's gonna break up with you?

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Speaker 3: Actually should could she? Trust's? Where's her proof?

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Speaker 1: That's true? That's true.

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Speaker 4: It was the dog put in stocks to grow over time.

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Speaker 1: And then you're like, babe, I three extra money.

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Speaker 3: He put it in the video like a year ago,

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Speaker 3: worth like at least three times.

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Speaker 1: That a year ago. The video that you did that. No,

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Speaker 1: it was like maybe like six months ago. I was

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Speaker 1: about to say, but bro, video imagine if you did

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Speaker 1: the roof. No responses. At this point, the money was gone.

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Speaker 1: When Jack came back from a store, I asked him

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Speaker 1: where the money was, and he said he spent half

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Speaker 1: of it on a gift he recently bought me. It

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Speaker 1: was very happy and grateful when I received it. Jack

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Speaker 1: wouldn't say where the other half was. For his secret girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's my conspiracy theory, dude, Yeah, that could be.

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Speaker 1: Could you lead enough of these stories? You know? You

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Speaker 1: know there's always a secret girlfriend, always, always a fair

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Speaker 1: baby or a partner. Yep, one of the two, ap

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Speaker 1: or ab. That's what I always say. Jack wouldn't say

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Speaker 1: where the other half was. I was livid. Not because

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Speaker 1: he spent it without telling me, which like, that's that's

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Speaker 1: it's called trust. Trust and you what what do you do?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: You violated it?

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Speaker 3: That's right, dump his booty, get out of here. As

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Speaker 1: Ope, he was like pretty explicit and like she's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I don't spend it on other things, and this is

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Speaker 3: Also they contributed, let's say they contributed equally or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he just stole our money. Yes, he just called the police.

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Speaker 3: Call the police, Lock him up, crucify him. What more

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Speaker 3: can we do? Crucify, tie him up, Leave him on

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Speaker 3: a piece of wood. Desert islands, desert island. See see

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Speaker 3: how he likes surviving?

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Speaker 1: You want to ruin our trip? I'm gonna tend you

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Speaker 1: one way trip to an island and guess what, and

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Speaker 1: guess what. Here's what you have to survive? What the

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Speaker 3: You're gonna start with nothing, that's right, Good luck rubbing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna have to eat the envelope, you idiot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe a coconuts? How do I open a coconut?

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Speaker 3: Figure it out? You figured out how to steal my

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Speaker 3: Money's right? How about you figure out how to steal

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Speaker 1: It's right, you little turn did on it. Yeah. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: his excuse is he paying for his dead grandma or

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Speaker 1: he's like using the money because his grandma. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: actually using it for like the most loyal, noble posible. Yeah, totally,

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Speaker 1: that's exactly what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 3: He used it because he wanted to buy her the

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Speaker 1: That they already planned though that. Honestly, I could see

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Speaker 1: that happening too. Well. They didn't, he didn't. They didn't

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's like, Babe, I know we were eating

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Speaker 3: I made you think I stole it. Made you think

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Speaker 3: I stole it to take care of it, to take

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Speaker 1: His excuse is he didn't take me seriously when I

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Speaker 1: said that this was important to me. Oh, what a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me let me tell you. Let me tell

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Speaker 3: you a better excuse, Like, but I don't know where

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Speaker 3: the money is stolen. Yeah, exactly, another one. I'm not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he said, Oh, you said this thing was important

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Speaker 1: was a severe violation of trust. From my point of view.

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Speaker 1: Jack said I was being an a hole about it,

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Speaker 1: We're we're just getting started here, but real quick, just

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Speaker 1: her money was stolen from her, and the fact that

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Speaker 1: he's I forgot is there is there a word for this,

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Speaker 1: but like.

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Speaker 3: When you get mad at someone and then they get

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Speaker 1: What's that called? Is it gas lighting? Maybe? Is that gaslighting?

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Speaker 1: What is that? I think? I think it's the ta lamps.

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Speaker 1: L you've you haven't heard Riley's whole spiel about gas lamping?

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Speaker 4: Gas lamping?

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Speaker 1: What's gas lamping? Okay, go go ahead, Ryley, give it

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Speaker 1: Tom quick.

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Speaker 5: So it started from whenever a guy and a woman

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Speaker 5: think that she was crazy. So every time she came

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Speaker 5: into the house, into the living room, he would brighten

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Speaker 5: be like it's so bright new He's like, no, you're normal,

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Speaker 5: And then he would keep doing it, keep increasing the

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Speaker 5: And that's where the gas lamping came from, which I

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Speaker 5: don't know where gas lighting came from, but it is

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Speaker 1: Which I probably just I don't know. Over time change also,

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Speaker 1: that is the best definition of gas lamping slash lighting

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Speaker 1: so much better. Have you ever used a gas lamp?

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Speaker 1: I've never used a gas lamp. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: a gas lamp looks like. But it's like it's the

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Speaker 1: whole thing of Oh you don't know what it looks like. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it looks like a lamp. I guess. Yeah, it's like

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Speaker 1: the lampy thing, just with I guess without the handle

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Speaker 1: gas lamps would be sick to have Harry those things.

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Speaker 1: They're so nice. Those are pretty sick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he would just increase it, decrease it maker seem crazy.

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Speaker 1: I want a gas lamp now, I want a gas lamp.

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Speaker 3: I want to get that, and I want to adjust

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Speaker 3: it too, relate and make y'all your reality.

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Speaker 1: Dude. We love that. We could do that with the

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Speaker 1: with the with the show just and we could do

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Speaker 1: with it dimmer too. I could just be like, dude,

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Speaker 1: what are you talking about? It's it's the same, and

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Speaker 1: the comments are going crazy like it is clearly changing,

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Speaker 1: Like no, no, what are you talking about talking about?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about you know what I'm talking about, Sam.

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Speaker 3: This next comment, that's right, And if you haven't already subscribed,

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Speaker 1: Now onto this edit. Wow, I didn't expect this kind

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Speaker 1: And if any one of you who have given me

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Speaker 1: me go forward. I will have another serious discussion with

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Speaker 1: Jack and see where the rest of the money went,

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Speaker 1: because it's not like he flatly rejected telling me. It's

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Speaker 1: if anyone wants to read more about my drama, feel

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Speaker 1: free to check back tomorrow this time. And we got

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Speaker 1: know about your drama. That's true. We're drama man, for

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Speaker 1: it was here for the check.

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Speaker 3: In, bregnated us with that first story, and now we're

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Speaker 3: we're gonna deliver those drama baby the truth.

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Speaker 1: That's right. This commenter says she didn't say it was

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Speaker 1: a birthday gift. I think it was a don't be

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Speaker 1: pissed at me because you got something out of it

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Speaker 1: to gift. Oh that's that's a good yes. Wait say again,

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Speaker 1: the commenter said she didn't say it was a birthday gift.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a don't be pissed at me

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Speaker 1: it's like, Hey, I went and splurged the money on

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Speaker 1: some Hello Kitty spoilers on my on my Honda, but

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Speaker 1: don't be mad at me because also when I spent

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Speaker 1: all of it, I got you this little comic book uhoiler. Oh.

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Speaker 3: So it's like he spent like, let's say there's like

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Speaker 3: Exactly this man's thinking, bro, he's a master manipulator.

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Speaker 3: Like slammed modded cars that have like Hello Kitty stickers

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Speaker 1: That's a bro great question. I see those all the

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Speaker 1: like like cheap Japanese cars are the Actually, Noel Miller

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Speaker 3: I don't think he does that, but he does, like

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Speaker 1: Any description below, that's our discord link. But Opie responds

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying. I received this gift in March,

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, hey, he's good giving thoughtful gifts, so

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Speaker 1: Hey mom, dad, I know I drained your retirement fund,

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Speaker 1: but here's your Bugatti. Wow. Yes, yes, that's what it is.

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Speaker 6: It's freaking sick. They're like, we want a comfy home

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Speaker 1: You know my son anymore? I never wanted to be fine.

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Speaker 1: I'll take the Bugatti. Yeah, I guess because making me

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Speaker 1: great improv. Wow we start good. Commenter says, not the

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Speaker 1: a hole. He needs a clean That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying, Not the a hole. He needs

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Speaker 1: of the money on and return the money. Absolutely. The

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Speaker 1: I suggest opening a savings account for this purpose, Opie.

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Speaker 1: I have a hunch he either gave it to a

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Speaker 1: buddy of his who's always struggling. Oh, that would be bad.

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Speaker 1: I received in March, And now I'm mad again. Girls

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Speaker 1: get hell of gifts. He's getting a lot of gifts

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Speaker 1: like one gift a month? Pretty good? How many gifts

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Speaker 1: do you give your partner? Not one a month? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I am lacking, right, Have you get? How many gifts?

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Speaker 1: I bro, what did you give her last time? I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna you didn't just say that?

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Speaker 4: No, I get her flowers?

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Speaker 1: Like sorry, flowers the greatest gift of all time. This

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Speaker 4: There's something here and there flowers. I think is that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what else to get her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what do women like? Yeah? I think a candle, lamp, candles, Yeah, candles,

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Speaker 1: a candle lamper strong, Yeah, like a guest never heard

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Speaker 1: of a candle lamp, a candlelight? Then I changed every day.

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Speaker 5: A candle lamp is like you put the candle there

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Speaker 5: and you don't have to light the lamp. Or you

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Speaker 5: put the lamp there and you put the candle on

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Speaker 1: Oh, it just melts the candle for the scent. It's

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Speaker 1: not it's not like actually on fire. Yeah, it's basically

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Speaker 1: like a candle melter instead of like fire safety, instead

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Speaker 3: Half of the candle that you would it's the fire.

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Speaker 3: It's the abbiance. You light a candle, bark room. The

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Speaker 3: Like some people are pro roma are you? Are you

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Speaker 3: pro light or pro roma? I'm pro lighte these Look

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Speaker 3: at these pro light and aroma at these. Oh it's

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Speaker 3: literally a light that melts it. But yeah, it doesn't

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Speaker 3: have the same the same. This is capitalism at its fire. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Are our candle lamps dumb? Let us know, let's let's

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Speaker 1: we don't know. We need a subtle is dumb. There's

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Speaker 1: that have these lamps. City lamp up. You are dumb. Wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm saying it, dude, fighting words. Our audience might revolt

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Speaker 1: against you. Dude, candle speak up, y'all speak of Let's

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Speaker 1: let's go grazy right here. Let me ask you this.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you val on Tine's Day. Yes, it's

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Speaker 3: at night. You're going into smooch mode, right, Oh, baby,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna light a candle. Boo, you turn on a

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Speaker 3: freaking light bulb or babe, I'm gonna light a candle.

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Speaker 1: I'm on your side. I'm on your side. I guess

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 5: Let's say it's not sexy mode and you're just reading

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Speaker 3: What do you mean, name a time. I don't want

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Speaker 3: to be in sexy mode. I'm sexy all the time.

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Speaker 3: You maybe not sexy all the time.

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Speaker 1: Look at that? Look at that lighting. Yeah, yeah, lighting,

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Speaker 4: But some people don't want to feel sexy all the time.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes they just want to feel like book.

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Speaker 1: I light a candle every day. I'm not exaggerated, and

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Speaker 1: look how sexy he is. Look at it. It can't

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Speaker 1: argue with facts. Look at it. Argue with facts.

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Speaker 3: There is a direct correlation between fire, candles and sexiness.

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Speaker 4: But what about, like, you're not in a sexy mood,

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Speaker 1: You're always in a sexy mood. Yeah, guys, guys, please

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Speaker 1: this is I'm getting back to the story. Comt okay,

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Speaker 1: so getting back to this commentary here. I bet he

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Speaker 1: until the money was gone. Some people just can't resist

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Speaker 1: What is the couple? Yes, the comments need to we

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Speaker 1: couple and candle lips. That's what I want to agree.

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Speaker 1: Let's go. Another commenter says, not the ahole. I know

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Speaker 1: he doesn't take you seriously. I agree. You can't take

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Speaker 1: Opie says, I mean, yeah, he literally told me he

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Speaker 1: not exaggering at all. I would be absolutely furious if

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Speaker 1: my so called partner stole money from me. That wasn't

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Speaker 1: a slip. He knew exactly what he was doing. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: he knew what he was doing. He's stealing money. How

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Speaker 1: do you if you don't know that, you're dumb? Totally

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Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, he told me he used it for

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Speaker 1: he's not believing it. Another commenter says, where are people

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Speaker 1: Opie says. Welcome to Bosnia. Haha. Actually it's super common

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Speaker 1: that's got out Bosnia in the building. Yeah, that's great,

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Speaker 1: let's up, let's go there for a month. Yeah, I know, Bosia, guys,

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Speaker 1: looks great. What if like one fan in our show

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Speaker 3: want it, well, hate it.

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Speaker 1: But let us know. Yeah, Y'll let us know. Commenter says,

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. Like he said, he'd give the

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Speaker 1: interested in these excuses at all. I started to wonder

430
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Speaker 1: if I'm exaggerating, which is why I came here for insight.

431
00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:01,080
Speaker 1: The thing is now I can't even look at my

432
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:03,320
Speaker 1: gift without feeling icky about it. And I was so

433
00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:06,040
Speaker 1: happy when I got it. Another commenter says, you should

434
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,680
Speaker 1: be mad someone you trusted stole from you. How do

435
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 1: you not see this betrayal as something mad worthy? Opie says,

436
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,359
Speaker 1: I do. I am mad, and it is mad worthy.

437
00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 1: But when you're the kind of person that doesn't always

438
00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:22,160
Speaker 1: regulate emotions properly, I'm endy do go to therapy. It's

439
00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,400
Speaker 1: not helping much for this issue. You come to wonder

440
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:28,680
Speaker 1: if this is another case where it's okay, divergent neurodivergent.

441
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 1: That's what I think. I don't know, is that right?

442
00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 1: People are definitely datd'ro divergent. Let's freaking god know what

443
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,919
Speaker 1: the thought? Yeah, nero divergent.

444
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 4: I'm a part of that community. That's I mean, pretty lit.

445
00:20:40,880 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 4: But I didn't know that was me.

446
00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:43,480
Speaker 1: You're in there, you're in there.

447
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 5: You're in there too for what adhd doghd?

448
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:48,359
Speaker 4: Dude?

449
00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,160
Speaker 1: Yes you do? And John you're in there too, right? Huh?

450
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:53,120
Speaker 1: Got him? John?

451
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:59,639
Speaker 4: You're in there too, right? A divergent, aren't you?

452
00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:04,879
Speaker 1: You're right? Did not know the people look at us.

453
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 1: I get us a bunch of boys, virgin boys in

454
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,720
Speaker 1: a room. Let's go just hanging out, you know? Anyways,

455
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,119
Speaker 1: I've nerd a virgin, do go to therapy. It's not

456
00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 1: helping much for this issue. You come to wonder if

457
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 1: this is another case where it's okay to be mad,

458
00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,440
Speaker 1: but not for days in the exact same intensity. In

459
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 1: response to a long comment, Opie says, it's so very

460
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: complicated because we have traveled before, shared finances, but not

461
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 1: saved together, and he has never exhibited this kind of

462
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,040
Speaker 1: behavior or irresponsibility to me, It's not complex. He just

463
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,159
Speaker 1: took your money. Pretty simple, yeah and dry, That's what

464
00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And yes, I am European, so I can

465
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,040
Speaker 1: have my own account and I do et cetera, et cetera.

466
00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 1: Nothing is holding me back in that way. The reason

467
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: we ended up with an envelope is because it felt

468
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,600
Speaker 1: like a silly, little piggybank thing, and we even use

469
00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 1: those same words to refer to our fund. I have

470
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,080
Speaker 1: no proof that he gave the money to his buddy.

471
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 1: I only have a hunch because that buddy asked for

472
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,960
Speaker 1: some cash once before, and my fiance feels obligated because

473
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 1: this buddy took him in at one point in his

474
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 1: life and gave him a bed to sleep on. Don't

475
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 1: want to disclose because it's not my story to share further.

476
00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 1: I will, however, reevaluate everything, ask for my money back,

477
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,919
Speaker 1: and have a serious talk about our relationship going forward.

478
00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 1: Comments like yours have been so helpful. Oh thank you.

479
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,120
Speaker 1: We have an update that will close us out. Ladies

480
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Have we changed our stance? Is OPI the ahole?

481
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 1: And is OPI doing everything right? Is there anything OP

482
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: should change?

483
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:30,040
Speaker 3: I mean I think OP should be less wishy washy

484
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 3: on thinking that this guy is doing anything but stealing

485
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:34,600
Speaker 3: her money.

486
00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's pretty cut and dry. She's very yeah, like

487
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: when she was like always like very complicated. No, it's

488
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 1: not complicated. Stole from you, I mean like bomb he's

489
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:47,639
Speaker 1: up boom boom bomb absolutely. Uh yeah. So I think like, hey,

490
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 1: I mean, you can give him another chance if you want,

491
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:50,320
Speaker 1: if you.

492
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 3: Have any extra money you go for Yeah, But I

493
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: mean this is you know, it seems like he's been

494
00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,199
Speaker 3: a good boyfriend beforehand and stuff. So maybe you can

495
00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 3: give him another chance if you feel like it. But

496
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 3: he'd he stole money from you unless he has Does

497
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,120
Speaker 3: he have any intention of paying that back? He said,

498
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,440
Speaker 3: he said he's going to, but at least me to

499
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 3: another question. Break Uparnah comments, Sam, the issue is not

500
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 3: that he took the money, it's that he took the

501
00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 3: money without asking. If he had simply said, Hey, I

502
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 3: wanted to get you a gift. I didn't have the

503
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 3: money because my paycheck or whatever, and so I took

504
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 3: the money out of here.

505
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: But don't worry.

506
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 3: Once my paycheck hits, I'm gonna put the money back.

507
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 3: Then I think that's fine. But the issue here is

508
00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 3: the or he took the money without even asking.

509
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: If this was me, and he's spent it on a

510
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,520
Speaker 1: mystery thing, he's still he's still at this point, has

511
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 1: not told her what the mystery thing is. I think

512
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: that's like more. I mean, how long have they been

513
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 1: dating him? Oh, that's a good question. Their fiances, So

514
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: we have to say at least I don't know if

515
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,120
Speaker 1: we know how long. Maybe a couple of years. Yeah,

516
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 1: I think in early twenties. Then meant thirties because she

517
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:54,560
Speaker 1: said in my twenties. Ah okay.

518
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 3: So I mean if it's been like, you know, five

519
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 3: year relationship, I probably would be like, all right, I'll

520
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna let this one slide. But like, this is

521
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 3: not okay for you to do. I expect you to

522
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 3: put the money back when you get your paycheck. I

523
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 3: also expect you to tell me where you spent that

524
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 3: other money, because absolutely you know that's that was mine

525
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 3: and this obviously I told you this was important to me.

526
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 3: So I don't think I would if this was me.

527
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 3: If it's like a five year relationship, I don't think

528
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 3: I break up off that. But thin ice the nice,

529
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 3: and the ice has to thicken.

530
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 1: Well, let's see if it freezes over onto this next update.

531
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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you all for the comments and

532
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: valuable insights. I've tried to respond to everyone's comments and advice,

533
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 1: but it quickly became impossible with hundreds of comments flooding in,

534
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,200
Speaker 1: which is not something I expected. So yes, thank you.

535
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm not sure this is how you do an update.

536
00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:40,920
Speaker 1: I hope everyone who is interested in this update will

537
00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 1: be able to see it. But first, let me address

538
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: one thing that I now realize I left unclear in

539
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: my original post. The fiance did not refuse to say

540
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: where he spent the money. I was the one that

541
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: clammed him up by impulsively saying I didn't care. I

542
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 1: was so upset I couldn't even be in the same

543
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 1: room let alone listen to what he had to say,

544
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 1: and that's on me. Secondly, a lot of you said, yes,

545
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: that he might be gambling or cheating. Oh, those are good,

546
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:06,919
Speaker 1: we didn't think of gambling. Good. Yes, many gambling stories.

547
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: That's true. True, he is doing neither, Thank goodness. Lol,

548
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 1: I can vouch for that. Did we know? Where's the proof?

549
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: I mean, I would believe it. She feels, you know,

550
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:16,719
Speaker 1: she believed. I don't believe it. I believe that if

551
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: I'm a dirty dirty gambling right now, Onto the update.

552
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 1: I got up this morning and woke him up, saying

553
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: I wanted to readdress the money thing. He immediately got

554
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: up and we started to talk. I told him that

555
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: I wanted my share back as soon as possible, within

556
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 1: this week, preferably. I didn't care how he would get

557
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,560
Speaker 1: the money back, and I told him he was free

558
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,119
Speaker 1: to sell the comics if he needed to. Now onto

559
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 1: the comics. He didn't lie about the price. He showed

560
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: me the receipt and yes, it did cost as much

561
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: as he told me it cost. I just wanted to

562
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: clear that up now that I also have proof. Anyways,

563
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:50,280
Speaker 1: I asked him about where the money went, and here

564
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: is what he said, and provided texts for me to see.

565
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: He started off with an apology and said that he'd

566
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 1: give the money back. He restated the gift thing he

567
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: ordered it back in February, and as for the shop site,

568
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 1: didn't expect it to the end of March. Just tell

569
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 1: me what you spent the other money on.

570
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:08,399
Speaker 3: God really drawing this out now, I'm very curious what

571
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 3: he did spend the money on. Right, all right, thanks

572
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 3: for successfully making me interested. All right, we're here. We

573
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 3: want to know you've won your battles.

574
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 4: Please.

575
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: It might sound strange to people from normal countries, but

576
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 1: I've waited for pa is a.

577
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 3: Normal country, That's what I'm saying. It's around the Mediterranean. See,

578
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 3: I knew that off top. He didn't even have to

579
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 3: look it up.

580
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,400
Speaker 1: But I've waited for packages up to two months. Sometimes.

581
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 1: He expected he'd get his salary right on time to

582
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: pay for the comic, but this didn't happen, as his

583
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: pay ran two days late, which it was I remember that,

584
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: and the package arrived on time. So he, in his

585
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: own words, carelessly took the money with the intention of

586
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: returning it. I asked why he didn't return it, apologized

587
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: and said he wanted to, but that wasn't enough for me.

588
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: The rest of the money went to pay for a

589
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: bill from the apartment he rented prior to us moving together.

590
00:26:56,160 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: Long story short, that same buddy I mentioned, but I

591
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 1: forget the buddy broke buddy had moved into that apartment

592
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: when my fiance had moved out and he and I

593
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: moved in together, and that buddy stayed for like a

594
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: month and left without paying that month's utilities. Instead of

595
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 1: calling the police, the owner of the flat called my

596
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: fiance since he knew his buddy couldn't pay for the

597
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,399
Speaker 1: dang bill. He ended up paying it, so she didn't

598
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: call the police on his buddy. This buddy sucks, dude,

599
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: get him out of your life. Yeah, come on, with

600
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: buddies like these, who needs enemies? Big facts. I saw

601
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: the text message exchange with the buddy. When asked why

602
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 1: he didn't tell me, he said he knew I'd be

603
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:41,959
Speaker 1: very upset, but that he felt it was the right

604
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: thing to do to pay for the bill, and now

605
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 1: he realizes just how stupid he was. It was the

606
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: wrong thing to do to steal from your partner without

607
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: telling them to cover it.

608
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,479
Speaker 3: And also I feel like in this case, maybe your

609
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 3: partner would have understood why you said you're going to

610
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 3: pay back the money. Two, like you were using some

611
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 3: of it for a gift and you had to pay

612
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 3: for it because it was pay on arrival and he

613
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 3: thought you'd get your paycheck. And Three, if he didn't

614
00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 3: pay this rent thing, he may have gotten his good friend,

615
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 3: I don't know, in trouble or whatever. So maybe maybe

616
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: she would understand, but you would never know unless you

617
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 3: actually took the time to tell her and be transparent.

618
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 1: Literally, he took from the fund twice without telling her. Yeah,

619
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 1: that's whack, dude. He kept on apologizing for calling me

620
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: an ass for being mad earlier. I told him my

621
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: trust is very hard to be earned back, and that

622
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: should we stay together, I will not be interested in

623
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,239
Speaker 1: mutual savings or anything similar to that. I gave him

624
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: a two week deadline to give me my money back,

625
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 1: and he said he'd give it back sooner than that.

626
00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: We'll see. I told him I will save on my

627
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: own and that he's free to do what he wants

628
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: with his money. Oh, this trust is broken. This is

629
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: going downhill. Yeah, feel like a fertile ground. He asked

630
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: me if I would reconsider and start a travel fund again,

631
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: this time using a proper bank account, et cetera, and

632
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 1: a pretty I won't I won't take it. I will

633
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 1: do it. Shut up, idiot, I refused and will not

634
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: entertain the idea. That's the energy I want. We have

635
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 1: decided to stay together, but I am super cautious about

636
00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: moving forward. I have suggested couples counseling so we can

637
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:21,240
Speaker 1: figure out why in the world he does such mindless

638
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:24,120
Speaker 1: things without asking me or even trusting me. And he

639
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 1: has agreed to the idea, so we will see. There's

640
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: a lot to build, so last rebuild, but at least

641
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: now I know what has actually transpired. I'm still mad

642
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: at him, but yes, thank you all that.

643
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 3: I mean, hey, stronger position by the end, Like I

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Speaker 3: feel like this, this feels more along lines of what

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Speaker 3: she should do. This guy is a butt at and

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Speaker 3: deserves some kind of distancing or punishment. Definitely, don't put

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Speaker 3: your finances together again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like, can we could we try it again? Like,

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Speaker 1: bro give her some time. Yeah, come on the brakes.

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Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of how this relationship ends

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Speaker 3: out is going to be does he give back the

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Speaker 1: The two weeks. I wish we had an update on that.

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Speaker 1: That would I know, that's so important. Pretty big cliffhanger there, yeah,

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Speaker 1: pretty big cliffhanir.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we'll get an update at a later time, which

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