WEBVTT - TO GO OR NOT TO GO? (PART 2)

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<v Speaker 1>To go or not to go to college? Part two.

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<v Speaker 1>This is such a hot topic right now, the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>that millions of families are having, weighing the pros and

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<v Speaker 1>cons that benefits versus the cost. We hope these two

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<v Speaker 1>episodes will contribute to those discussions. Part one featured two

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<v Speaker 1>young entrepreneurs who bypassed college to carve their own paths.

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<v Speaker 1>The focus for this episode making the most of college years.

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<v Speaker 1>It features three guests who took control of their own educations,

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<v Speaker 1>shaping college to fit their needs, avoiding the pitfalls that

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<v Speaker 1>too many students fall into, and we'll get to those.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a tendency to get a little worked up

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<v Speaker 1>about wasted opportunities. My three guests are all applying lessons

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<v Speaker 1>they learned outside classrooms, accountability, reliability, leadership, teamwork as they

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<v Speaker 1>take on new chapters. First, to hear from James Kinoff,

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<v Speaker 1>who took a gap here and volunteered for some life

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<v Speaker 1>changing challenges before heading to Stanford and then co created

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<v Speaker 1>the phenomenal nonprofit farm Link. Then two former college athletes,

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<v Speaker 1>Clemson linebacker and captain Kendall Joseph, a part of two

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<v Speaker 1>national championship teams, and Morgan william who was the hero

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<v Speaker 1>of two runs by Mississippi State to the women's Final four.

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<v Speaker 1>Morgan hit the long buzzer beater to snap the one

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<v Speaker 1>D eleven game winning streak of Yukon, the team that

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<v Speaker 1>had beaten the Bulldogs by sixty the previous year. Billyhams

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<v Speaker 1>three sec It's to Morgan Williams. Morgan Williams just going

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<v Speaker 1>to put it up, fires it up, and it is

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<v Speaker 1>it's It's going to the national championship. Morgan Williams. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>stop believing Hellos are playing five title Morgan william at

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<v Speaker 1>the buzzer, ho my good move. Control your own destiny.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know what your cap beloved, not hard,

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<v Speaker 1>you worked for something. You know your strengths and weaknesses.

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<v Speaker 1>You know opportunities where you can capitalize on. Why why

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<v Speaker 1>put someone else in control your Like for me, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it just just reality hit Chris. I knew that, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I have two degrees I have I do have an education.

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<v Speaker 1>I can be successful in the next step of life.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like, do I want to continue to chase

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<v Speaker 1>this and pursue this or am I a piece? And

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<v Speaker 1>and and realizing that everything that God gave me to

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<v Speaker 1>that point, I supposed to be appreciative. Well, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of that. That was just my mindset because I

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot of people that they enter a dark

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<v Speaker 1>space after their their football career is over and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what direction they're gonna go in, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>still training and they're hoping for a call. And I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want to just be hanging around waiting and training

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<v Speaker 1>and waiting for a call. I wanted to take action.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think if I just come straight from high school,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be missing the why why are we doing this?

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<v Speaker 1>To beginning with? What is the purpose? What are we

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<v Speaker 1>gonna use all that we're learning to actually go do

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<v Speaker 1>in the world? Um? And otherwise you're gonna make like

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<v Speaker 1>the uber for dog walking apps that that will be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like, oh, you take all your learnings to

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<v Speaker 1>go do that, um, And you'd really be missing the

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<v Speaker 1>why and kind of the purpose. James sense of purpose

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<v Speaker 1>is very powerful for someone his age or any age.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it his fifth year at Stanford, a super senior

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<v Speaker 1>who is set to graduate in the spring. He grew

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<v Speaker 1>up in l A. His family emphasized the importance of

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<v Speaker 1>gratitude and giving back, so James two weeks before you

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<v Speaker 1>were set to start at Stanford, one of the world's

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<v Speaker 1>great schools. You make a decision, a pretty quick pivot.

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<v Speaker 1>What happened and what was behind it? Yeah, two weeks

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<v Speaker 1>before starting school. Uh, I ultimately decided that I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to take a year off. Um. And that was

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of felt like you were kind of on

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of career treadmill where you go from one

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<v Speaker 1>thing to the next to the next and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>race through school to get your job, to go, go, go,

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<v Speaker 1>go go. Uh And I wanted to take just a

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<v Speaker 1>second too, to pause, um and see if there's other

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<v Speaker 1>ways that I can kind of give back. What was

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<v Speaker 1>the spark of that idea? The spark of that idea

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<v Speaker 1>was was a friend who was actually as older as

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<v Speaker 1>as a journalist. Um. And he was just encouraging me

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<v Speaker 1>to do this and kind of pushing me, saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you should really just take a year off. Hey, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to some NGOs. You're you're half decent at

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<v Speaker 1>making little films. You could shoot some things for them. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's what I ended up doing. And out

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<v Speaker 1>of that decision, go over with with your parents or

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<v Speaker 1>Stanford or other people they had to run it by

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<v Speaker 1>because it's a little bit of a surprising move, as

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<v Speaker 1>you knew at the time. Yeah, so I'm the I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the fourth child in my family, so I think at

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<v Speaker 1>this point that kind of given up and they're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll figure it out. I think if I was the

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<v Speaker 1>first child, that would have been a much more difficult conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was maybe one of three or four

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<v Speaker 1>people from our school of I guess like maybe four

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<v Speaker 1>students graduating that took a year off, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>out of minimum coming out of high school. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely a different a different path. James emailed twenty humanitarian

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<v Speaker 1>groups volunteering to film their efforts in Africa in the

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<v Speaker 1>Middle eat East. He got one reply soon after. He

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<v Speaker 1>was in South Sudan documenting lives ravaged by civil war

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<v Speaker 1>and man made famine. Next was Syria, as the only

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<v Speaker 1>American and a small group doing human rights work in

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<v Speaker 1>Damascus at a very dangerous time. Later in his gap year,

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<v Speaker 1>James and her friend spent a month in Nicaragua making

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<v Speaker 1>a film about college students in crisis. At the time,

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<v Speaker 1>the government was having a major crackdown on student protesters.

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<v Speaker 1>Um they were ultimately literally kidnapping students from the classrooms,

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<v Speaker 1>taking them because they had been protesting. And the students

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<v Speaker 1>there ultimately rebelled and they kicked out the teachers, to school, everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and they took over their university. They put up barricades

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<v Speaker 1>around it, uh and basically defended it from paramilitary and

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<v Speaker 1>police that were trying to come in to take these students.

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<v Speaker 1>H We got in touch with a couple of students

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<v Speaker 1>that were down there that were kind of leading some

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<v Speaker 1>of this um, and ultimately decided that we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to go tell their story. So you're really talking to

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<v Speaker 1>the peers, kids who were slightly older than you at

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<v Speaker 1>the time. What what did you take away from your

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<v Speaker 1>experience talking to college students in another country? What what

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<v Speaker 1>seems to be a different environment. But on the other hand,

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<v Speaker 1>the world of college students, some would say, is there

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<v Speaker 1>worth is rather flat because there are universal experiences regardless

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<v Speaker 1>of the culture. Man, what did you take away from

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<v Speaker 1>your action with them that you later were able to

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<v Speaker 1>reflect them when you got to Stanford. They're willing to

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<v Speaker 1>throw away um, their entire future to fight for something

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<v Speaker 1>that they believed in. You know, they were seeing their

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<v Speaker 1>transcripts were going to be deleted everything, they would risk

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<v Speaker 1>go into prison, never literally never leaving. And they were

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<v Speaker 1>willing to put all of that on the line to

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<v Speaker 1>fight for something that they believed in and to stand

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<v Speaker 1>up for something that they saw was wrong, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the government's oppression. That to me was incredibly inspiring. And

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<v Speaker 1>I remember what kind of being at Stanfordius the first

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<v Speaker 1>day walking around and he was like, would that happen here?

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<v Speaker 1>Would would people here do the same thing? Humbling to

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<v Speaker 1>see that experience absolutely it's it was absolutely humbling too

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<v Speaker 1>to see and experience that. And yeah, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're just struggling for words here. I still think about

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<v Speaker 1>it because ultimately students that we followed they had to

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately flee the country. UM. And we ended up, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, fleeing the country and they're still there and

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<v Speaker 1>then you know they still can't go back, um, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's kind of a hard thing because meanwhile, like

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<v Speaker 1>well this, I'm I'm down there for you know, a month. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I ultimately get to go back to my life. I

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<v Speaker 1>go to go back home, I get to go to school. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't have you kept in touch with some of

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<v Speaker 1>those students are you still in contact with them, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>every week. UM, I'm still talking with with my to

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<v Speaker 1>them and hoping that they are going to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to return home soon. How has your experience been at

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<v Speaker 1>Stanford different from if you had been one of those

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<v Speaker 1>fresh faced kids that came right out of high school

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<v Speaker 1>in southern California and walked down a college campus and

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<v Speaker 1>not had that year and I had those experiences, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I'd be missing the why. So Stanford has so

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<v Speaker 1>much to offer and you can learn so much and

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately it's really it's an amazing and it's a special place. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think if I just come straight from high school,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be missing the why. Why are we doing this

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<v Speaker 1>to begin with? What is the purpose? What are we

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<v Speaker 1>going to use all that we're learning to actually go

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<v Speaker 1>doing the world? Um? And otherwise you're gonna make like

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<v Speaker 1>the uber for dog walking apps that that will be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like all you take all your learnings to

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<v Speaker 1>go do that, um, and you'd really be missing the

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<v Speaker 1>why and kind of the purpose. I think everyone comes

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<v Speaker 1>with such a unique perspective that they kind of bring. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Granted mind was a little bit different, um, but everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>perspective is valuable and nonetheless, And I think what I

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<v Speaker 1>ultimately realized is that a majority of people want to

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<v Speaker 1>They really do want to make a difference. And the

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<v Speaker 1>question is like, how do you bridge this gap between

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<v Speaker 1>like the economic and innovation hub um largely of the

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<v Speaker 1>world UM, and then everything else that's going on and

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<v Speaker 1>all the problems and can we actually are there things

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<v Speaker 1>we can do? Like can do these worlds have to

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<v Speaker 1>live like this and be entirely separate? Um? Or can

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<v Speaker 1>we put them together? And are there ways that we

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<v Speaker 1>can take learnings from each to really build a better

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<v Speaker 1>future what you expected it would be versus how it's been.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm talking about when you are in classes, not

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<v Speaker 1>when you're taking taking the breaks from studies. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>so amazed by all the people. Honestly, that has been

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<v Speaker 1>like the students sitting side by side and always feeling

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<v Speaker 1>like wow, I did they mess up and letting me

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<v Speaker 1>in here? Was this a mistake? Like g it is brilliant,

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<v Speaker 1>or like that was the most beautiful thing I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard someone say. UM, So I think that part has

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<v Speaker 1>been amazing. Like you said, it's it's not the place,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really the people UM. And I feel really really

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<v Speaker 1>fortunate to just get to be a small part of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I try not to preach younger people, but I endued

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<v Speaker 1>joy giving ideas when I'm asked. Learning from other students

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<v Speaker 1>in college is one of the least tapped into resources

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<v Speaker 1>people your age. Education too often is viewed as a

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<v Speaker 1>linear thing from the educator to the students who just

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<v Speaker 1>listen and absorb. It's such a horizontal thing learning from

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<v Speaker 1>each other. I tell if you just like open your eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>open your ears, open your heart, you can come away

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<v Speaker 1>from your college experience infinitely richer just from learning from

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<v Speaker 1>other students. Forget what the professor is saying, if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even hear what they're saying, and never take a note,

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<v Speaker 1>you can learn so much by the folks that are

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<v Speaker 1>around you in college. That's that's spot on. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>we always say, you're gonna learn a lot more in

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<v Speaker 1>your dorm room than you are in the classroom. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of those late night conversations. Um, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>I think where you really learned. And that's that's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the biggest values I think of of of college

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<v Speaker 1>in general. Something mostly concerns me James is this begins

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<v Speaker 1>really young in life. This begins, as you said, the treadmill.

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<v Speaker 1>For a lot of kids, the treadmill starts about ten

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<v Speaker 1>years old or even sooner. Living part of the time

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<v Speaker 1>in New York City. Maybe it's the same in l A.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're in the private school system. I mean, by

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<v Speaker 1>age three, you're sort of tracking towards something and your

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<v Speaker 1>future is mapped out and you're expected to be a

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<v Speaker 1>high achiever, and the pressure is so realized. Actually, um,

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<v Speaker 1>not funny, because the pressure takes its toll on kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and you see the amount of anxiety and depression and

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<v Speaker 1>kids who wrestle with all kinds of mental health issues,

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<v Speaker 1>self esteem and and so on. And it's because of

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<v Speaker 1>that pressure from such a young age finding a way

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of release that, to keep it in perspective,

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<v Speaker 1>what's been important for you to do that? What are

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<v Speaker 1>the tools have you used to to not get into

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<v Speaker 1>that trap so many students are. I think taking the

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<v Speaker 1>year off before school was the best decision that that

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever made, um And I think that that's given

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot of perspective to really not It's not

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<v Speaker 1>even like a tool to not fall into the trap.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's now it's just how am I going

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<v Speaker 1>to get all stressed out of a test the night

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<v Speaker 1>before that I might not be prepared of prepared for. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's those problems feel like relatively typally small, and you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of realized that that like feeling of kind of

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<v Speaker 1>perpetual competition is really artificial, UM, And then it's really

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<v Speaker 1>it matters more about kind of what you do. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because the feeling of perpetual competition is so

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<v Speaker 1>real for so many students from much younger ages than college,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's fostered by the sister them. It's a part

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<v Speaker 1>of the system, it's built into the system. It's in

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<v Speaker 1>some ways considered a key to success of elite schools

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<v Speaker 1>to foster that competition, to pitt students against each other. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is the part that I don't you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't fully understand. UM. You know, it makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to instill values of hard work, um into students,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a really important thing. UM. But like the perpetual

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<v Speaker 1>kind of competition where you just kind of keep moving

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<v Speaker 1>up and up and up until you finally find other

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<v Speaker 1>students who are like exactly like you, and therefore then

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<v Speaker 1>you don't feel special, Like that doesn't make any sense.

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<v Speaker 1>And like how many kids who go into college freshman

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<v Speaker 1>year and have all these dreams about what they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to go on to do end up getting crushed by

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<v Speaker 1>that system. Um, that's the part that that does bother me.

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<v Speaker 1>But but just to clarify, I have not I have

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<v Speaker 1>not experienced that at Sanford UM, which I have been

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<v Speaker 1>really really grateful for, and I think that is a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit different than some other schools, no doubt. Something

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<v Speaker 1>else I notice when I talked to young people, not

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<v Speaker 1>just college but even earlier than that, is this intense

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<v Speaker 1>focus on their future, on what's next, on what they're

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<v Speaker 1>getting ready to do, as opposed to what they're actually

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<v Speaker 1>doing that day in the moment. I do my best

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<v Speaker 1>as an older person to express some ideas that what's

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<v Speaker 1>most important is what's going on right now with you today,

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<v Speaker 1>And if there's a way to not get preoccupied with

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<v Speaker 1>always getting ready for something else, what's down the road.

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<v Speaker 1>That's part of that perpetual pressure and competition. If if

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing now, you know, is never good enough,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always the next thing, the next big step. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a tough way to live man, and people are

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<v Speaker 1>out in the real world way beyond college still live

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<v Speaker 1>that way. It's because we're trained to live that way

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<v Speaker 1>from a really young age. I think it's really important.

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<v Speaker 1>Um yeah, if you perpetually are on the strength of like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the next thing to this? And then if I

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<v Speaker 1>do that, if I just work for a couple more years,

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<v Speaker 1>then I'll be there there there. I think that's when

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<v Speaker 1>you wake up at sixty and realize you you wish

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<v Speaker 1>you would have done something else with your life. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>That I think this is. I think this is changing.

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<v Speaker 1>Um and I see this when I'm at when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at Stanford, I think a lot of people, um are

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<v Speaker 1>living more in the moment and are thinking more of

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<v Speaker 1>the present. And maybe maybe it's the pandemic that has

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<v Speaker 1>caused us. There's a consciousness raising in that area, you think,

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<v Speaker 1>where people are reshuffling their priorities and understanding not to

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<v Speaker 1>take the present moment for granted. Absolutely that it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>not taking the present moment for granted, and then it's

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<v Speaker 1>not over optimizing for yourself, like if all your thoughts

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<v Speaker 1>are going into like what am I going to do next? Etcetera?

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<v Speaker 1>This this, this h and rather like shifting more into

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<v Speaker 1>the present moment and what can I do for others

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Not what can I do for others in

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<v Speaker 1>the future, but what can I do for others right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I think that shift is happening, and I see it

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<v Speaker 1>across campus. There's a lot of problems UM and it's

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<v Speaker 1>messed up, and we have a long way to go.

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<v Speaker 1>And you actually have the agency to do something about it.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been you know, one the lottery and been able

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<v Speaker 1>to go to this amazing school and have this amazing education.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you gonna do with it? Are you going

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<v Speaker 1>to do it to kind of like continue your success

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<v Speaker 1>or you're gonna do it to try to help others

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<v Speaker 1>and try to level the plane field a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that that has to be the focus going forward.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't think we can really sustain UM, like

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<v Speaker 1>in this kind of globalized world. I don't think we

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<v Speaker 1>can sustain this level of inequality. This mindset led James

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<v Speaker 1>and his buddy Aiden Riley, who was a student at Brown,

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<v Speaker 1>to create farm Link. It's an amazing all volunteer group

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<v Speaker 1>about a hundred and fifties students around the country fighting

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<v Speaker 1>dual problems, massive food waste, which is also very harmful

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<v Speaker 1>to the ozone and widespread food insecurity. What was the

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<v Speaker 1>spark for this not for profit student run organization that

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<v Speaker 1>is UH done incredible work in a short amount of time.

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<v Speaker 1>So when the pandemic first hit UM, in addition to

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<v Speaker 1>the health crisis that was going on, there was an

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<v Speaker 1>economic one. Millions of families were forced to flood a

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<v Speaker 1>charitable food system that was never really designed for a

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<v Speaker 1>crisis UM. And at the same time that that was

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<v Speaker 1>happening as a result of closures to schools, hotels, and restaurants,

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<v Speaker 1>farmers were being forced to throw away billions and billions

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<v Speaker 1>of pounds of food. So eight and I were seeing

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<v Speaker 1>that really really big problem. And then the problem became

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<v Speaker 1>really really small when our local food bank and put

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<v Speaker 1>out a statement saying that they if they couldn't raise

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<v Speaker 1>more money or find more source of food, that they

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<v Speaker 1>could have to close their doors and start turning people away.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we said, Okay, here's this really big probleming

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<v Speaker 1>of these two things, maybe there's something we could do

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<v Speaker 1>UM And that's how we got started. So you've got

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<v Speaker 1>an idea that's a long way from making it reality.

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<v Speaker 1>How how do you do the work of locating farmers,

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<v Speaker 1>getting them to understand what was going to happen to

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<v Speaker 1>their wasted food who they couldn't get to market. They

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<v Speaker 1>were going to benefit from it financially, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>going to go to the help other people. And then

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<v Speaker 1>linked the food banks. Because it's one thing to have

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<v Speaker 1>an idea to know it's a problem. Be awareness is

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<v Speaker 1>an essential, amazing part of it, but it doesn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the job done. Yeah. So, and this is what we

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<v Speaker 1>always say. I don't think it's actually that impressive an idea,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think probably thousands of other people read those

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<v Speaker 1>same articles and had the same idea, like, wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>makes no sense. We should connect these two things. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And what we tried to do is take that really

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<v Speaker 1>big problem and make it really, really small. And so

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<v Speaker 1>what that meant was literally getting on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>calling hundreds of farmers trying to find surplus, talking with

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<v Speaker 1>hundreds of food banks to try to understand what items

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<v Speaker 1>they were actually looking for. Initially, we just spoke with

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<v Speaker 1>our local food bank. They needed eggs, so we called

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<v Speaker 1>about a hundred and fifty egg farmers got hung up

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<v Speaker 1>on most of the time. One of them happened to

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<v Speaker 1>have surplus, and that was kind of the start. At

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<v Speaker 1>the time, we didn't have transportation, so we rented a truck,

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<v Speaker 1>drove to the farm, picked up the stuff, and actually

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<v Speaker 1>delivered it to the food bank. Very hands on. How

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<v Speaker 1>did it grow? What was the growth process like? And

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<v Speaker 1>and listing other students to do this. Yeah, yeah, without

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<v Speaker 1>getting paid for it. I mean, friends, family, like, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to help. Um, wow, yeah, let's let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's figure out and just slowly we took a really

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<v Speaker 1>open approach that anyone who wants to join just jump

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<v Speaker 1>on our team. H and put it out on social

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<v Speaker 1>media and other people started saying, hey, we have the

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<v Speaker 1>same problem. I want to do this in my town. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>And pretty soon we had college students from across the

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<v Speaker 1>country calling farmers locating surplus. People were Americans were seeing

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<v Speaker 1>this through news that it started to pick it up,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were starting to just send us money. They're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>here's ten bucks. It's it's all I have right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know you guys will put it to good use.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's really how this got started. The reaction and

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<v Speaker 1>the enthusiasm from a number of other college students from

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<v Speaker 1>around the country. What was your reaction to that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>people of my generation certainly voice feelings pretty frequently about

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<v Speaker 1>people of your generation and what what their priorities are

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<v Speaker 1>and all the shortcomings and all the cranky old person

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that we say. What did you perhaps learn or

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<v Speaker 1>figure out about your peers people in your generation by

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<v Speaker 1>the response to the farm link idea. I think when

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<v Speaker 1>when there's a crisis, that's when we have to come together. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not an option. And I think we saw that

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<v Speaker 1>through the farm, like through hundreds and even thousands of

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<v Speaker 1>students saying, hey, let me help. Yes, I'm in I

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<v Speaker 1>have free time right now. How can I how can

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<v Speaker 1>I do my part, whether it's a big act or

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<v Speaker 1>a small act. And there's like the classic view of

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<v Speaker 1>like the the entitled millennial or I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what are we gen z or um you forget about labels.

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<v Speaker 1>People who are you know, approaching college age, in college,

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<v Speaker 1>just out of college. That's the generation we're talking about her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>people who are just that. People want to make a difference,

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<v Speaker 1>People want to make the world a better place. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes that you just need to spark um. That

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<v Speaker 1>allows for a pathway to do that, and so that's

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<v Speaker 1>what we really tried to create. Yeah, wanting to is

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<v Speaker 1>not quite the same as busting your butt and doing

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<v Speaker 1>it and figuring out a way to do it and

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<v Speaker 1>staying committed. Saying committed not not because it's a novel act,

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<v Speaker 1>not because it makes you feel good for fifteen minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>but because the hard ass work that it takes, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>day after day, week after week, month after month. This

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<v Speaker 1>problem isn't going away, and it's it's really, in some

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<v Speaker 1>ways you could say, continues to worsen despite everybody's efforts. Yeah, absolutely,

0:21:43.119 --> 0:21:48.239
<v Speaker 1>people like the pandemic has broughten out like sadly, like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like the worst UM and people at

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<v Speaker 1>least kind of through the lens of the news. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And in this example, this is something of bringing out

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<v Speaker 1>the best in people. Where you have college students who

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<v Speaker 1>are doing everything they can to try to help others,

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<v Speaker 1>talking to as many farmers as they can, finding surplus,

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<v Speaker 1>delivering it to food banks, just doing everything they can

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<v Speaker 1>so Americans can keep food on their dinner table. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And you'd expect that maybe, like you know, we're a

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<v Speaker 1>year into this, UM, it's only picking up speed. There's

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<v Speaker 1>only more students who want to do this. There's only

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<v Speaker 1>people who want to put in more time. People have

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<v Speaker 1>been there for a year doing this as a volunteer

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<v Speaker 1>and they're still driving forward. That to me is really

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<v Speaker 1>inspiring and it gives me a lot of hope that

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<v Speaker 1>we are going to come out of this stronger. For

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<v Speaker 1>the second time, you put your college education on the hold.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time is your choice have experiences. The second

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<v Speaker 1>time is to grow farm like I mean that that's

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<v Speaker 1>a that's an interesting path and it prolongs I guess

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<v Speaker 1>your time at Stanford, but you just felt that there

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<v Speaker 1>was no other way. The time was now to sort

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<v Speaker 1>of stop and give full attention to farm link. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is this crisis is something that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the time where you have to set up,

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<v Speaker 1>You need to put aside whatever is going on in

0:23:00.880 --> 0:23:02.719
<v Speaker 1>your life, whatever it's like can mean for you at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and if you're able to, you want to

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<v Speaker 1>step up to help others. It's it's times of crisis

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<v Speaker 1>that really form character and who we are as people,

0:23:11.000 --> 0:23:14.800
<v Speaker 1>as a country, just as as humans. It's these crisses

0:23:14.800 --> 0:23:16.679
<v Speaker 1>that are going to define us, and it's what you

0:23:16.760 --> 0:23:19.040
<v Speaker 1>do in them that matters. Did you kind of escape

0:23:19.040 --> 0:23:21.040
<v Speaker 1>and slip away or did you try to step up

0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:24.360
<v Speaker 1>to help those around you? Um, it was a no brainer.

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<v Speaker 1>You talked a lot about the importance, the crucial role,

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<v Speaker 1>the gap you're played. What would you say though, the

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<v Speaker 1>people who say, yeah, that's great, but I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any money, my parents don't have the resources to fund

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<v Speaker 1>me doing this. Obviously, you know you had to knock

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<v Speaker 1>on a lot of doors, deal with a lot of nose,

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<v Speaker 1>so you've got the one yes to eventually head to

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<v Speaker 1>Africa be a part of that group. But it's still

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<v Speaker 1>fortunate that during the circumstances be able to do that.

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:58.800
<v Speaker 1>A lot of kids are not able to. So what

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<v Speaker 1>would you say, Hey, there's still ways to gain experience,

0:24:02.880 --> 0:24:05.960
<v Speaker 1>to gain perspective in between high school and college or

0:24:06.560 --> 0:24:10.159
<v Speaker 1>after college before the quote unquote real world, if they

0:24:10.160 --> 0:24:14.320
<v Speaker 1>don't have a pile of cash to use. I think

0:24:14.359 --> 0:24:20.879
<v Speaker 1>it's all it's about service and finding ways to serve,

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:25.040
<v Speaker 1>no matter kind of where you are um in your life,

0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:28.120
<v Speaker 1>whether that means kind of finding ways just to volunteer

0:24:28.200 --> 0:24:31.159
<v Speaker 1>your local foodbank while you're while you're at school or

0:24:31.600 --> 0:24:33.119
<v Speaker 1>it's after school. Maybe like a lot of people they

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<v Speaker 1>join the Peace Corps or US like a IDEA, or

0:24:36.600 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>doctors without orders or all these different perhaps finding finding

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<v Speaker 1>a different finding a different path. I think it doesn't

0:24:44.560 --> 0:24:46.199
<v Speaker 1>need to be someone else's past. It has to be

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>your own unique path, and that's going to give you

0:24:49.040 --> 0:24:52.240
<v Speaker 1>a perspective that that that will then be valuable, UM

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:54.399
<v Speaker 1>and that you can ultimately use to probably try to

0:24:54.440 --> 0:24:58.640
<v Speaker 1>make the world a better place. So I think it's

0:25:00.160 --> 0:25:03.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just it's finding ways to serve throughout your life.

0:25:05.520 --> 0:25:07.960
<v Speaker 1>For those of us that took some time off ended

0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:11.600
<v Speaker 1>up just traveling and um meeting people and drinking the

0:25:11.640 --> 0:25:15.360
<v Speaker 1>various local beverages and um going to a lot of museums,

0:25:15.400 --> 0:25:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I really feel unworthy of the time after talking to you,

0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:23.000
<v Speaker 1>I wish I'd had those thoughts occur to me. But

0:25:23.119 --> 0:25:26.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, I thinking my time off was also really beneficial.

0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:29.800
<v Speaker 1>I think we grow from all experiences. I just wasn't, uh,

0:25:30.000 --> 0:25:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't giving a lot back other than giving back

0:25:32.480 --> 0:25:35.200
<v Speaker 1>to the the local economies of the bars where I

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:40.679
<v Speaker 1>visited there's and tipping as well as I could as

0:25:40.720 --> 0:25:47.119
<v Speaker 1>a college student. You know, I think it's just you

0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:51.160
<v Speaker 1>kind of just said it there. It's it's about realizing,

0:25:51.640 --> 0:25:54.760
<v Speaker 1>just even being aware that you're on this treadmill. Um,

0:25:54.800 --> 0:25:56.600
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of pushing you the next thing. The next

0:25:56.640 --> 0:26:00.320
<v Speaker 1>thing is perpetual artificial competition. And as soon as whatever

0:26:00.400 --> 0:26:05.040
<v Speaker 1>it is you travel and you all fuel the local

0:26:05.080 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>bar economy, if you leave that with that perspective and realize, hey,

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:13.159
<v Speaker 1>there's more to this than this kind of perpetual competition,

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Like what are we actually competing for? Wait a sec

0:26:16.000 --> 0:26:21.399
<v Speaker 1>um that matters. You speak about farm like in the

0:26:21.440 --> 0:26:25.359
<v Speaker 1>mission with great clarity and persuasiveness. Is this how you

0:26:25.400 --> 0:26:27.760
<v Speaker 1>are walking around every day? I mean, do you do

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:31.679
<v Speaker 1>you have to resist you know, proselytizing and spreading the

0:26:31.720 --> 0:26:34.800
<v Speaker 1>Gospel and trying to get everyone to commit their life

0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:38.480
<v Speaker 1>to service and doing good and and reducing inequality and

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:40.560
<v Speaker 1>things like that. The people do your friends just kind

0:26:40.560 --> 0:26:43.200
<v Speaker 1>of roll their eyes out. Here comes James again. It's gone,

0:26:43.880 --> 0:26:47.240
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do that again? No, No, absolutely not. I

0:26:47.320 --> 0:26:50.320
<v Speaker 1>think that's like almost the worst thing you can do

0:26:50.480 --> 0:26:53.880
<v Speaker 1>is like, oh, I'm so yeah, I know that. It's

0:26:53.920 --> 0:26:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like shut up, you don't know anything. I don't know anything. Um.

0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:00.080
<v Speaker 1>I prefer to I prefer to have this conversation and

0:27:00.119 --> 0:27:01.320
<v Speaker 1>at a bar, and I think it would sound a

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<v Speaker 1>little different. James and his friends since junior high, Aid

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<v Speaker 1>and Riley were honored by the Congressional Medal of Honor

0:27:10.240 --> 0:27:14.160
<v Speaker 1>Society with the Citizens Honor Award for co founding farm Link.

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:17.680
<v Speaker 1>They accepted it with real humility, deflecting credit to the

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:20.880
<v Speaker 1>dedicated team of farm Link volunteers who have already delivered

0:27:20.920 --> 0:27:24.240
<v Speaker 1>almost fifty million pounds of food to people in need.

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.199
<v Speaker 1>They plan to serve about a hundred million meals this

0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:30.200
<v Speaker 1>coming winter. To learn more about the problems they're fighting,

0:27:30.359 --> 0:27:33.000
<v Speaker 1>or to contribute, go to farm Link project dot org.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that my two guests, who met the challenges of

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:40.679
<v Speaker 1>playing college sports at an elite level, will also earning

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:43.560
<v Speaker 1>their degrees. Of course, most of the college students have

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:45.840
<v Speaker 1>gotten to know over the last thirty years or so

0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:49.800
<v Speaker 1>have been athletes, of course, and so often I've been

0:27:49.840 --> 0:27:52.000
<v Speaker 1>so impressed with the players I've gotten to know, not

0:27:52.080 --> 0:27:56.440
<v Speaker 1>just their toughness and resilience, but also maturity, intelligence, perspective,

0:27:56.480 --> 0:28:00.919
<v Speaker 1>wisdom beyond their years. Both Kendall Joseph and Morgan William

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:04.480
<v Speaker 1>fit that description. They both told me they are very

0:28:04.520 --> 0:28:07.840
<v Speaker 1>grateful for the opportunities athletics provided them, starting by that

0:28:07.960 --> 0:28:12.200
<v Speaker 1>full scholarship, but also the advantages academic support, tutoring, medical care,

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:16.200
<v Speaker 1>mental health support are typically easier for athletes to get

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:20.560
<v Speaker 1>the non athletes, but of course there are the obvious challenges,

0:28:20.680 --> 0:28:22.960
<v Speaker 1>the mental and physical wear and tear, the demands on

0:28:23.040 --> 0:28:27.400
<v Speaker 1>their time. Many athletes are reminded why they're in college.

0:28:27.920 --> 0:28:30.040
<v Speaker 1>They told me they have to push back to create

0:28:30.119 --> 0:28:33.040
<v Speaker 1>time for their school and some piece of a normal

0:28:33.080 --> 0:28:36.959
<v Speaker 1>college life. Kendall Joseph was a three year starter at

0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:40.320
<v Speaker 1>middle linebacker for Clemson. He was chosen captain. I covered

0:28:40.320 --> 0:28:43.280
<v Speaker 1>the Tigers games a lot, and I saw Kendall achieve

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:47.880
<v Speaker 1>the kind of championship career everyone dreams about. A CC titles,

0:28:48.080 --> 0:28:52.640
<v Speaker 1>college football playoff bids every season, winning two national titles,

0:28:53.200 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 1>a victory formation, and a fifty five. For this Clemson

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:07.000
<v Speaker 1>senior class, the Tigers reclaimed their crown by crushing Alabama. So, Kennall,

0:29:07.000 --> 0:29:09.800
<v Speaker 1>when you thought about your life path, did it always

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 1>involve going to college somewhere? And was going to college

0:29:13.520 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 1>always linked with being a football player? Um? I would?

0:29:17.640 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 1>I would definitely say in the beginning, before I really

0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 1>fell in love with the game of football, it was

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 1>more just education and wanting to go to college and

0:29:25.080 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 1>experience that. Right. I always heard that was a great experience,

0:29:27.880 --> 0:29:30.880
<v Speaker 1>So that was something I always wanted to do. UM

0:29:30.880 --> 0:29:32.760
<v Speaker 1>When I started fall in love with football, and I

0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:35.520
<v Speaker 1>would say really fall in love with it's probably anthem

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 1>not great UM. And by tenth grade, I thought, okay,

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I might have the ability to actually go play football

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 1>at the next level and receive athletic scholarship. So once

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I knew that was a possibility, once I knew I

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 1>had a window to receive an education for fruit per se, um,

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I knew that was what I wanted to do. I

0:29:54.880 --> 0:29:56.960
<v Speaker 1>knew that was something I needed to do. I wanted

0:29:56.960 --> 0:29:59.240
<v Speaker 1>to make my mom and family proud and and so

0:29:59.320 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 1>in high school was really focused on that. And I

0:30:01.320 --> 0:30:03.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't care what school it was. I didn't care if

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 1>it was d D two or whatever it was. I

0:30:06.680 --> 0:30:09.200
<v Speaker 1>just wanted the opportunity to, you know, get an education

0:30:09.280 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 1>for free. Well, you chose to school, it's definitely not

0:30:12.280 --> 0:30:14.360
<v Speaker 1>D two. It was at the pinnacle of the highest

0:30:14.400 --> 0:30:17.479
<v Speaker 1>level of college football. So you get and we'll talk

0:30:17.480 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 1>about quote unquote free ride, because nothing's free in life.

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 1>But you get to go to a great academic school,

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:25.080
<v Speaker 1>it's in your home state, and the program is competing

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:29.440
<v Speaker 1>for championships. Was was your sense? And when you got

0:30:29.480 --> 0:30:31.280
<v Speaker 1>there and you got surrounded by these guys that their

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:35.520
<v Speaker 1>choices were based mostly on football and what might prepare

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:39.080
<v Speaker 1>them for the NFL versus the whole college experience and

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:43.600
<v Speaker 1>and the pursuit of a degree. Right, Um, I would say,

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:45.800
<v Speaker 1>you know, you definitely have the majority of the guys,

0:30:45.920 --> 0:30:48.120
<v Speaker 1>or not even a majority, but some guys that definitely

0:30:48.200 --> 0:30:51.239
<v Speaker 1>chose plumpson because at that time, that was, you know,

0:30:51.440 --> 0:30:54.920
<v Speaker 1>a highway ticket to the NFL. But I think one

0:30:54.880 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 1>of one of the things that separates Plempson is the

0:30:57.040 --> 0:31:00.480
<v Speaker 1>fact that they do recruit based on the audiology. Uh, hey,

0:31:00.520 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>this is a family here, and the community is great

0:31:03.440 --> 0:31:05.840
<v Speaker 1>and it's all you know, just a really a tight

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:09.200
<v Speaker 1>knit group. Um. I think that that resonated with a

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:10.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of the people that they were able to bring

0:31:10.680 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 1>in a lot of these athletes they wanted, They wanted

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:15.760
<v Speaker 1>something that felt like a family. Um. They didn't want

0:31:15.800 --> 0:31:17.680
<v Speaker 1>to be an NFFL yet, right, They didn't want to

0:31:17.680 --> 0:31:20.320
<v Speaker 1>go to a college program that just ran like an

0:31:20.400 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 1>NFL program. And so I think with Clipson, the family aspect,

0:31:24.920 --> 0:31:27.440
<v Speaker 1>all the resources that you got outside of football, those

0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:31.160
<v Speaker 1>were really the main reasons why people chose clumpson. So

0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:32.560
<v Speaker 1>that kind of makes it important to you and your

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 1>family growing up. You arrive at college and you look

0:31:36.760 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 1>around and realize this is gonna be very demanding in

0:31:39.640 --> 0:31:43.600
<v Speaker 1>my time. How did you immediately balance the commitment it

0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:46.000
<v Speaker 1>takes to get the most out of yourself and football

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.880
<v Speaker 1>and the academic piece. Knowing that you arrived as a

0:31:48.960 --> 0:31:51.160
<v Speaker 1>three star recruit, I mean, a good football player, but

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 1>you were surrounded by guys that were more hyped and

0:31:55.000 --> 0:31:57.880
<v Speaker 1>more sort of NFL targeted than you were. So what

0:31:57.920 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 1>was that balance between sports and that makes when you

0:32:00.320 --> 0:32:03.960
<v Speaker 1>first got there? UM, it's it's definitely it's a lot.

0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:06.160
<v Speaker 1>It's definitely a lot of a freshman UM. You have

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 1>the eight am classes, you have all the mandatory tutor

0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:13.080
<v Speaker 1>tutor sessions. I mean, your schedule is jem packed as

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:17.240
<v Speaker 1>a freshman UM. Thank thank god. I was used to

0:32:17.320 --> 0:32:19.840
<v Speaker 1>kind of having a little bit of responsibility UM as

0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 1>far as just time management and and doing what I

0:32:23.080 --> 0:32:25.880
<v Speaker 1>need to do right. So for me, it wasn't too

0:32:25.920 --> 0:32:27.840
<v Speaker 1>tough to go to class when you need to go

0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 1>to class, they have a well ride out, you know,

0:32:30.480 --> 0:32:32.240
<v Speaker 1>rode out schedule for you. All you have to do

0:32:32.280 --> 0:32:35.239
<v Speaker 1>is follow wood, follow it and be on time. And

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 1>so from our experience, it wasn't too hard, but it

0:32:37.680 --> 0:32:39.840
<v Speaker 1>definitely takes a lot of maturity to be able to

0:32:39.880 --> 0:32:44.440
<v Speaker 1>handle all the responsibility. A lot of college players and

0:32:44.480 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 1>their progress would all say encouraged to get a degree,

0:32:48.000 --> 0:32:51.160
<v Speaker 1>to take their school seriously, but the time commitment is

0:32:51.200 --> 0:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>so tough that many feel limited by the choices they have,

0:32:56.840 --> 0:32:59.120
<v Speaker 1>what degrees they can pursue, what kind of classes they

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:02.040
<v Speaker 1>can take because you're competing in the classhipgainst folks that

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:05.000
<v Speaker 1>don't have that that responsibility. The hours that it takes

0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:09.880
<v Speaker 1>to be a college athlete, did you ever feel kind

0:33:09.880 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 1>of forced in one direction or steered away from a

0:33:12.280 --> 0:33:14.280
<v Speaker 1>direction you would have liked to pursue because it just

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>didn't make sense for the amount of time it took

0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:20.560
<v Speaker 1>for those classes. Um. Not not for me. Uh just

0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:23.560
<v Speaker 1>with the major's health science. UM, I knew that's what

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:25.800
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do. Um. But when you speak about

0:33:25.840 --> 0:33:28.120
<v Speaker 1>the instances like that, you're thinking about some of the

0:33:28.120 --> 0:33:31.240
<v Speaker 1>engineers and guys where the program is a lot is

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:33.440
<v Speaker 1>very demanding and at the end of the day, there's

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>sometimes there's classes that happened at three or four o'clock

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>in the afternoon, and obviously we're on the football field

0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:42.400
<v Speaker 1>bout then. I can say from my experience at Clemson,

0:33:42.480 --> 0:33:45.240
<v Speaker 1>there were a few guys um walking on in a

0:33:45.240 --> 0:33:48.360
<v Speaker 1>few a few other players that did have you know,

0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:51.160
<v Speaker 1>majors where it was a little bit more extensive, and

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:54.600
<v Speaker 1>Sweeney definitely worked with those guys. Right. Um, I can

0:33:54.800 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>I can only speak for coach Sweeney and pumps and

0:33:57.200 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 1>football program, but um, there were times where people did

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:02.600
<v Speaker 1>miss meetings because they had to go to this class

0:34:02.760 --> 0:34:05.480
<v Speaker 1>or there was a study session that somebody really really

0:34:05.520 --> 0:34:09.000
<v Speaker 1>needed to get to. Okay, we'll make it work. Um.

0:34:09.040 --> 0:34:11.799
<v Speaker 1>In my in my experience, UM, like I did have

0:34:11.840 --> 0:34:14.880
<v Speaker 1>a tough class and anatomy where there were study sessions

0:34:14.880 --> 0:34:17.160
<v Speaker 1>and labs and things that all the other students were

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:19.759
<v Speaker 1>doing that I just didn't have the access to. Right,

0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:21.960
<v Speaker 1>So we try to make that up with tutoring that's

0:34:21.960 --> 0:34:25.120
<v Speaker 1>provided to us and things like that. And it can

0:34:25.200 --> 0:34:27.640
<v Speaker 1>be tough. You're gonna miss some study groups, You're not

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:29.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna be in the library as much as some people

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:34.719
<v Speaker 1>maybe um, you just have to find that balance. Was

0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:37.680
<v Speaker 1>the message delivered to you. Hey, we want you to

0:34:37.680 --> 0:34:40.960
<v Speaker 1>take your acnake seriously. But remember, Kendall, you here in

0:34:40.960 --> 0:34:43.760
<v Speaker 1>a football scholarship. I mean, the coaches have one idea

0:34:43.800 --> 0:34:48.759
<v Speaker 1>about what your main job is. Professors might have another idea. Yeah, yeah,

0:34:48.800 --> 0:34:52.399
<v Speaker 1>you you They might not say it outright, would you

0:34:52.400 --> 0:34:55.400
<v Speaker 1>you understand? Hey, you're you're here. You're here to play football?

0:34:55.600 --> 0:34:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Um uh, you know, to make sure you show up

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:00.440
<v Speaker 1>the class and be a great student. Actually, and you know,

0:35:00.520 --> 0:35:03.520
<v Speaker 1>put everything you happen to that. But more so when

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:05.960
<v Speaker 1>you walk into the facility, it's time to lock in.

0:35:06.040 --> 0:35:09.279
<v Speaker 1>Whatever happened in your day, whatever happened in class, leave

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:11.799
<v Speaker 1>it at the door, and give some football everything you have.

0:35:13.360 --> 0:35:17.759
<v Speaker 1>No doubt part of college is getting to know people

0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:20.879
<v Speaker 1>from different backgrounds that are different than yourself. How much

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:23.640
<v Speaker 1>contact were you able to have in your busy schedule

0:35:23.719 --> 0:35:26.319
<v Speaker 1>with non athletes, with folks who didn't share that same

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 1>experience as you were having. I mean you had you

0:35:30.600 --> 0:35:35.160
<v Speaker 1>had pretty good access in class um um, around campus,

0:35:35.400 --> 0:35:37.480
<v Speaker 1>whether you're in the liberry and things like that. It's

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 1>definitely friendship that you do outside of the football community.

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:43.720
<v Speaker 1>But as much time as you spend around your brothers

0:35:43.719 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>and your teammates and people like that, that's that's what

0:35:46.239 --> 0:35:49.360
<v Speaker 1>you're really around. So um, you definitely have that balance,

0:35:49.440 --> 0:35:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, after games, you know, we're all out and

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:53.919
<v Speaker 1>doing the wins after the games and things like that.

0:35:54.040 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 1>But I mean, you if you're really committed, you're either

0:35:58.000 --> 0:36:00.400
<v Speaker 1>in class or you're at the facility, whether that getting

0:36:00.400 --> 0:36:04.839
<v Speaker 1>training or treatment, you're doing some rehab is. There's all

0:36:04.880 --> 0:36:07.600
<v Speaker 1>kinds of stuff that you can be doing, watching film. Um,

0:36:07.600 --> 0:36:09.640
<v Speaker 1>just certain stuff like that that can take up your time.

0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 1>So it's not a lot of time to hang out.

0:36:11.760 --> 0:36:13.920
<v Speaker 1>A lot of college students, athletes are not living a

0:36:13.920 --> 0:36:16.640
<v Speaker 1>bubble and they have to work hard to connect with

0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:19.640
<v Speaker 1>people outside of that bubble. And was that the case

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:22.799
<v Speaker 1>do you think for for most athletes that the opportunities

0:36:22.800 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 1>are there, like you said, whether it's in a classroom,

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:26.839
<v Speaker 1>if you've got time at a party, but you have

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:29.160
<v Speaker 1>to you have to take those chances. You have to

0:36:29.239 --> 0:36:31.560
<v Speaker 1>work to have those connections. Otherwise you could come through

0:36:31.560 --> 0:36:34.360
<v Speaker 1>the experience and knowing only people that are doing the

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:37.360
<v Speaker 1>same thing you're doing. Yep, exactly, And it's you know,

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:41.160
<v Speaker 1>it's really just about having that awareness. Um, some guys

0:36:41.160 --> 0:36:42.920
<v Speaker 1>out of side, out of mind, but for some people

0:36:42.960 --> 0:36:45.480
<v Speaker 1>they realize like, oh man, it's the there's are these

0:36:45.520 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 1>are a lot more connections and resources that you can

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:51.239
<v Speaker 1>be making down the line, right, and you're when you're

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:54.239
<v Speaker 1>done with football and you're in the professional world. All

0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:56.319
<v Speaker 1>these students that you're sitting in class with, that's who

0:36:56.400 --> 0:36:58.480
<v Speaker 1>you're either going to be working with their meeting or

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 1>somehow you know, connecting. If so, it's it's pretty smart

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:04.080
<v Speaker 1>to just make sure you're kind of your balanced as

0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:06.480
<v Speaker 1>far as your free grouping. You know, you got your

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:08.879
<v Speaker 1>football guys, but you have guys that you know, live

0:37:08.880 --> 0:37:11.520
<v Speaker 1>a whole different lifestyle and you have different experiences, and

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 1>you know there's something to learn from them as well.

0:37:14.040 --> 0:37:16.600
<v Speaker 1>The personal growth in college outside of improving as a

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:20.480
<v Speaker 1>player and going to class, just gaining life experience, gaining

0:37:20.480 --> 0:37:23.319
<v Speaker 1>confidence being in front of people, and and having the

0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:27.279
<v Speaker 1>opportunity as a captain of a really popular, prominent team

0:37:27.280 --> 0:37:29.840
<v Speaker 1>to meet all kinds of people from all walks of life.

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:31.920
<v Speaker 1>Did you sense early on that that might be an

0:37:31.960 --> 0:37:37.160
<v Speaker 1>important part for your future. Yeah, Well, as a young player,

0:37:37.239 --> 0:37:40.279
<v Speaker 1>you you don't necessarily thinking about it, Um, but as

0:37:40.320 --> 0:37:42.439
<v Speaker 1>you grow, as you get closer to that finished line,

0:37:42.520 --> 0:37:44.680
<v Speaker 1>that's that's something you want to start thinking about. And

0:37:45.440 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 1>again closing and the Paul Journey program, everything that they

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:51.440
<v Speaker 1>have there, they're they're trying to help help guys have

0:37:51.480 --> 0:37:54.799
<v Speaker 1>that awareness. Right, Hey, you're you're beating all these people.

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:56.520
<v Speaker 1>You get to speak in front of these people. You're

0:37:56.560 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>doing interviews every week, UM, so they can see how

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:02.000
<v Speaker 1>you speak, they can see how you know, just your

0:38:02.080 --> 0:38:04.759
<v Speaker 1>your mannerisms and things like that. There's a lot of

0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 1>opportunities to impress people and to make a good first impression.

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:11.040
<v Speaker 1>And so I would definitely say by my junior and

0:38:11.080 --> 0:38:14.640
<v Speaker 1>senior year, I understood the advantages that the advantages of

0:38:15.200 --> 0:38:19.040
<v Speaker 1>UM saying yes, the different commitments outside of football where

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 1>you can just get in front of these people and

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.160
<v Speaker 1>beat them and you know, make those connections. And at

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:24.719
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, it's it's not a hard

0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:27.120
<v Speaker 1>connection to make, right, they love him, your your crops

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:31.439
<v Speaker 1>of football player, So UM, just going and be yourself. Yeah. Yeah,

0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:33.239
<v Speaker 1>I mean there's a lot of very successful people who

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:35.839
<v Speaker 1>are Clemson graduates and fans and they want to pat

0:38:35.960 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you on the back if things are going great, you're

0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:40.680
<v Speaker 1>winning rings and trophies. Did you have any sense that, hey,

0:38:40.800 --> 0:38:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I'll give them this, I'll give them this some time here.

0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:45.560
<v Speaker 1>It's not bad to be praised, but maybe I can

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:48.600
<v Speaker 1>get something out of this, Maybe this might lead somewhere

0:38:48.600 --> 0:38:51.399
<v Speaker 1>in life after football. Yeah, and it's and it's hard

0:38:51.440 --> 0:38:53.440
<v Speaker 1>to think like that. You know, for some people it

0:38:53.520 --> 0:38:57.239
<v Speaker 1>is that that might not necessarily feel authentic. Um, but

0:38:57.320 --> 0:38:59.360
<v Speaker 1>it's a part of the game. And if you're meeting

0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:01.799
<v Speaker 1>these people made, they want to take some of your

0:39:01.800 --> 0:39:03.600
<v Speaker 1>time and they want to meet with you, and you

0:39:03.600 --> 0:39:05.279
<v Speaker 1>know they're patting you on the back, make sure you're

0:39:05.320 --> 0:39:08.040
<v Speaker 1>you're building that connection or your acting questions like what

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:10.400
<v Speaker 1>do you do? How did you get into that? You know,

0:39:10.640 --> 0:39:13.319
<v Speaker 1>all all these kind of conversations, because really open your

0:39:13.360 --> 0:39:18.400
<v Speaker 1>mind to you know, different avenues after football. Hey man,

0:39:18.440 --> 0:39:21.720
<v Speaker 1>there's times in the sport when it's tough, um mentally

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:23.880
<v Speaker 1>and physically. You come back from a road trip. You

0:39:23.880 --> 0:39:27.399
<v Speaker 1>didn't lose room any games in your career, but win

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 1>or lose, it's a demanding experience. How many times you

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:34.040
<v Speaker 1>have to see that alarm clock go off, get up

0:39:34.360 --> 0:39:36.320
<v Speaker 1>and go do a commitment to be a college student

0:39:36.320 --> 0:39:38.919
<v Speaker 1>and did you ever have to wrestle with that and say, Man,

0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:41.800
<v Speaker 1>this is tough, this is suffer than I thought it

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 1>was gonna be. Yeah, it's it's um, it's a lot

0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>to handle. Um. Like you said, it's some women's or

0:39:50.560 --> 0:39:52.640
<v Speaker 1>we I might have played eighty snaps in the game,

0:39:52.680 --> 0:39:55.400
<v Speaker 1>and that's a late Saturday night game. You're back at

0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:58.800
<v Speaker 1>the facility on Sunday to get treatment and to watch film,

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:01.560
<v Speaker 1>and then you have that at least five dirty alarm

0:40:01.640 --> 0:40:04.319
<v Speaker 1>on Monday morning to go live weights and you're you're

0:40:04.360 --> 0:40:08.279
<v Speaker 1>still feeling everything that you felt from the game on Saturday. Um.

0:40:08.320 --> 0:40:11.120
<v Speaker 1>It's situations like that where it starts to catch up

0:40:11.120 --> 0:40:13.120
<v Speaker 1>on you when you really get into the thick of

0:40:13.120 --> 0:40:17.080
<v Speaker 1>the season. The great players are all the great players

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 1>I was around. They were able to keep that mental

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:23.560
<v Speaker 1>toughness throughout the entire season because it's long, it's monotonous.

0:40:23.560 --> 0:40:25.960
<v Speaker 1>You're doing the same thing every day. You have these weights,

0:40:26.040 --> 0:40:28.239
<v Speaker 1>you have this treatment you need to do, you have

0:40:28.320 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>all this film you need to study, and as a linebacker,

0:40:30.719 --> 0:40:33.279
<v Speaker 1>it was a lot of film to study. UM. So

0:40:33.320 --> 0:40:36.200
<v Speaker 1>there's there's days where you kind of just don't feel it.

0:40:36.239 --> 0:40:39.359
<v Speaker 1>And that's Okay, you're gonna have those days, and but

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:41.279
<v Speaker 1>you have to be consistent and just kind of, you know,

0:40:41.360 --> 0:40:45.280
<v Speaker 1>just just be even about it. So you're a starting

0:40:45.320 --> 0:40:48.640
<v Speaker 1>linebacker for three years at the highest level of college football.

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:51.960
<v Speaker 1>But still many folks don't realize what a small percentage

0:40:52.320 --> 0:40:54.960
<v Speaker 1>of even elite college players are lucky enough to play

0:40:55.000 --> 0:40:58.279
<v Speaker 1>in the NFL and stick with the team. So your

0:40:58.320 --> 0:41:01.360
<v Speaker 1>expectations are probably that. But the draft comes and goes

0:41:01.480 --> 0:41:03.680
<v Speaker 1>and your name is not called. At what point did

0:41:03.680 --> 0:41:08.280
<v Speaker 1>you start to feel like, wow, life after football just began,

0:41:08.800 --> 0:41:12.759
<v Speaker 1>and how did you feel about that? Yeah, you know,

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:15.520
<v Speaker 1>I think I had the two tryouts with the Kansas

0:41:15.560 --> 0:41:18.279
<v Speaker 1>City Chiefs and the Miami Dolphins, and I didn't get

0:41:18.320 --> 0:41:21.360
<v Speaker 1>signed with either one of those teams. And you know,

0:41:21.400 --> 0:41:23.840
<v Speaker 1>it was at that point where you know, I was

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:26.000
<v Speaker 1>either going to go to the Canadian Football League or

0:41:26.000 --> 0:41:29.000
<v Speaker 1>the XFL at the time, or or I was gonna

0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:31.040
<v Speaker 1>start my career. And I definitely had a long talk

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 1>to my family and and they actually they wanted me

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:35.200
<v Speaker 1>to keep pursuing it. They know how much I had

0:41:35.239 --> 0:41:37.239
<v Speaker 1>to vote it to the game, and you know, we

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:39.160
<v Speaker 1>were shot that we didn't get an opportunity in the

0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:44.840
<v Speaker 1>NFL um But for me, uh, it just just reality

0:41:44.920 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 1>hit Chris. I knew that, hey, I have two degrees

0:41:47.719 --> 0:41:49.560
<v Speaker 1>I have I do have an education, I can't be

0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:52.319
<v Speaker 1>successful in the next step of life. And it's like,

0:41:52.400 --> 0:41:54.480
<v Speaker 1>do I want to continue to chase this and pursue

0:41:54.560 --> 0:41:57.520
<v Speaker 1>this or am I a piece and and and realizing

0:41:57.560 --> 0:41:59.480
<v Speaker 1>that everything that God gave me to that point I

0:41:59.480 --> 0:42:01.960
<v Speaker 1>should just be appreciative of. And that's kind of that.

0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:04.719
<v Speaker 1>That was just my mindset because I know a lot

0:42:04.760 --> 0:42:07.360
<v Speaker 1>of people that they enter a dark space after their

0:42:07.440 --> 0:42:09.440
<v Speaker 1>their football career is over and they don't know what

0:42:09.480 --> 0:42:12.200
<v Speaker 1>direction they're gonna go in, and they're still training and

0:42:12.239 --> 0:42:14.960
<v Speaker 1>they're hoping for a call. And I didn't want to

0:42:15.080 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 1>just be hanging around waiting and training and waiting for

0:42:17.760 --> 0:42:20.759
<v Speaker 1>a call. I wanted to take action. And so it's

0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:23.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, there's really no no advice or guidance you

0:42:23.920 --> 0:42:27.520
<v Speaker 1>can give for a situation like that. Everybody it ampacks differently,

0:42:27.600 --> 0:42:30.080
<v Speaker 1>But for me, it was just like, Okay, I had

0:42:30.120 --> 0:42:33.719
<v Speaker 1>a really impactful season of my life at Clempson. Now

0:42:33.840 --> 0:42:35.719
<v Speaker 1>let's go do it in the professional world. And so

0:42:35.760 --> 0:42:38.759
<v Speaker 1>that was my mindset. What kept you from going to

0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:41.120
<v Speaker 1>that dark place, even for a short time. What skills

0:42:41.160 --> 0:42:43.279
<v Speaker 1>did you have or what mindset that you adopted this

0:42:43.520 --> 0:42:46.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna go down that path when I'm faced

0:42:46.360 --> 0:42:51.800
<v Speaker 1>with the reality the football is over. It was gratitude, um,

0:42:52.000 --> 0:42:55.279
<v Speaker 1>gratitude that I did experience everything I did experience, Gratitude

0:42:55.280 --> 0:42:58.760
<v Speaker 1>that a little three star started three seasons for Clemson

0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:01.120
<v Speaker 1>football and was a captain and you know, all a

0:43:01.239 --> 0:43:04.439
<v Speaker 1>CC selection. Nobody had had that written on my name.

0:43:05.000 --> 0:43:08.399
<v Speaker 1>And so for me, it was just like I said, gratitude. Man,

0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:10.640
<v Speaker 1>that was an amazing experience of my life. And I

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:14.040
<v Speaker 1>can either, you know, now reflect on it and always

0:43:14.080 --> 0:43:15.839
<v Speaker 1>have this pain about it, or I can say, man,

0:43:15.920 --> 0:43:18.799
<v Speaker 1>that was a great opportunity and now I have all

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 1>these resources and all these connections to help me in

0:43:21.080 --> 0:43:22.839
<v Speaker 1>my next step of life. And so that was just

0:43:22.880 --> 0:43:25.680
<v Speaker 1>the mindset I chose. It wasn't easy, but if you

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:28.400
<v Speaker 1>can continue to just be, you know, grateful for everything

0:43:28.440 --> 0:43:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you have, and you'll be all right. Great mindset, great mindset.

0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:36.279
<v Speaker 1>I know it's a lot of things, but if you

0:43:36.320 --> 0:43:38.439
<v Speaker 1>were to say one or two things that you got

0:43:38.480 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 1>out of the some totally your college experience, athletics, academics

0:43:42.640 --> 0:43:45.960
<v Speaker 1>that are helping you right now as you begin a career,

0:43:46.160 --> 0:43:50.719
<v Speaker 1>what would they be? Um? The first thing that comes

0:43:50.719 --> 0:43:55.360
<v Speaker 1>to mind is accountability. Accountability excuse me, um, just as

0:43:55.440 --> 0:43:57.960
<v Speaker 1>far as being a football player and a students, you know,

0:43:58.000 --> 0:44:00.120
<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of a lot of responsibility on you,

0:44:00.239 --> 0:44:04.319
<v Speaker 1>but you have to be accountable. Nobody's gonna, um make

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:06.640
<v Speaker 1>you be accountable. But when you can stand up and say, hey,

0:44:06.640 --> 0:44:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I made a mistake or this is my responsibility, I'll

0:44:09.080 --> 0:44:12.080
<v Speaker 1>take care of it, that's really bottle in life. Um.

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:14.920
<v Speaker 1>So that's the biggest thing. And then, uh, something that

0:44:14.920 --> 0:44:17.600
<v Speaker 1>always rings with me is just being a servant leader. Um.

0:44:17.600 --> 0:44:19.440
<v Speaker 1>This is more or so from the crimps and football

0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:23.240
<v Speaker 1>side of things, But how can I serve others and

0:44:23.360 --> 0:44:26.319
<v Speaker 1>in turn you know that that helped them out and

0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:28.640
<v Speaker 1>benefit their life? Right, That's what I think of. When

0:44:28.640 --> 0:44:30.520
<v Speaker 1>you're being a leader, you're looking for ways to serve

0:44:30.560 --> 0:44:34.040
<v Speaker 1>others and no matter whether that's in professional world or

0:44:34.320 --> 0:44:36.440
<v Speaker 1>when I have a wife and kids five years, five

0:44:36.480 --> 0:44:38.400
<v Speaker 1>or teen years down the line, you know, being a

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:41.640
<v Speaker 1>servant leader that would be really effective. So those are

0:44:41.640 --> 0:44:44.640
<v Speaker 1>just two random things that come to my head. Yeah,

0:44:44.680 --> 0:44:47.400
<v Speaker 1>the lessons learned O the Great Memories. Now you're a

0:44:47.480 --> 0:44:51.239
<v Speaker 1>cardio as killer ultrasound sales specialists for GE Healthcare. Your

0:44:51.280 --> 0:44:56.640
<v Speaker 1>your regions are Georgia and Alabama. Alabama the team against him.

0:44:56.640 --> 0:45:01.200
<v Speaker 1>You played four consecutive national championship games. They got you twice,

0:45:01.480 --> 0:45:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you got them twice. How do your experiences as a

0:45:04.360 --> 0:45:07.960
<v Speaker 1>football player impact your dealings with people in that state

0:45:08.360 --> 0:45:12.160
<v Speaker 1>in a business in a business arena. Yeah, I think

0:45:12.160 --> 0:45:14.600
<v Speaker 1>it's just having that confidence when you walk in the door, right,

0:45:14.880 --> 0:45:18.400
<v Speaker 1>um uh. I think that's just the biggest thing that

0:45:18.440 --> 0:45:20.160
<v Speaker 1>I can take away from it. And it's like, Okay,

0:45:20.200 --> 0:45:21.520
<v Speaker 1>if I can go play in front of the eight

0:45:21.600 --> 0:45:24.440
<v Speaker 1>thou people, surely I can walk into this hospital department

0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:27.239
<v Speaker 1>and and make these connections and and find a way

0:45:27.320 --> 0:45:30.320
<v Speaker 1>to build a poor and just at the end of

0:45:30.360 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 1>the day, in the in the field I'm in, it's

0:45:31.960 --> 0:45:34.880
<v Speaker 1>about being a solid, consistent person. Can they trust you

0:45:35.000 --> 0:45:38.399
<v Speaker 1>enough to even give you their money? Um? So for me,

0:45:38.520 --> 0:45:40.399
<v Speaker 1>that was kind of the things that I was able

0:45:40.440 --> 0:45:44.040
<v Speaker 1>to translate and at the end of the day, hard work. Um,

0:45:44.560 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 1>no matter what what area you are in the life

0:45:47.200 --> 0:45:50.120
<v Speaker 1>and what job you're doing, Um, if you can apply

0:45:50.239 --> 0:45:52.719
<v Speaker 1>the hard work that you learned when you had a

0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:55.680
<v Speaker 1>five thirty am workouts and things like that, it's gonna

0:45:55.719 --> 0:45:57.960
<v Speaker 1>be okay, and so those are those are things that

0:45:58.000 --> 0:46:00.879
<v Speaker 1>really helped me just make the transition. Um I would

0:46:00.880 --> 0:46:04.080
<v Speaker 1>say that. And then just again accountability, being able to

0:46:04.520 --> 0:46:07.799
<v Speaker 1>manage my time, manage my schedule, because in the in

0:46:07.840 --> 0:46:09.880
<v Speaker 1>the field I'm in, you know, I pretty much have

0:46:09.960 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 1>free reign. I had to build my schedule and decide

0:46:12.040 --> 0:46:13.399
<v Speaker 1>who I need to go see and who I need

0:46:13.440 --> 0:46:16.200
<v Speaker 1>to go take care of. So um I would say

0:46:16.200 --> 0:46:19.719
<v Speaker 1>the footballers possibilities definitely helped me with that. A lot

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:22.600
<v Speaker 1>of folks who graduate college who were in athletes get

0:46:22.640 --> 0:46:25.040
<v Speaker 1>out in the real world and they're now faced with

0:46:25.080 --> 0:46:27.600
<v Speaker 1>the experiences they were exciting to them and very intense

0:46:27.640 --> 0:46:29.759
<v Speaker 1>in a new way. But when you've experienced as a

0:46:29.760 --> 0:46:33.600
<v Speaker 1>college student holding a trophy for the national championship, being

0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:36.120
<v Speaker 1>part of that brotherhood, get into the pot of goal

0:46:36.160 --> 0:46:37.960
<v Speaker 1>to the end of the rainbow, and also coming short

0:46:38.040 --> 0:46:41.319
<v Speaker 1>that wide variety of intense experiences, then you go into

0:46:41.320 --> 0:46:44.000
<v Speaker 1>a business world. I mean many people I feel like,

0:46:44.080 --> 0:46:47.600
<v Speaker 1>oh man, I am never gonna live anything like that.

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I peaked when I'm twenty one or twenty two, and seriously,

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:53.760
<v Speaker 1>that nause at people. So your day to day world

0:46:53.760 --> 0:46:59.360
<v Speaker 1>does not include chasing a trophy, But how is the

0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:01.600
<v Speaker 1>excitement of what you're doing day to day if it

0:47:01.680 --> 0:47:03.440
<v Speaker 1>can match it or at least not be a come

0:47:03.480 --> 0:47:07.319
<v Speaker 1>down from that? Right, Well, that's a great point that

0:47:07.360 --> 0:47:09.960
<v Speaker 1>you even made. Um just speaking with other guys that

0:47:10.360 --> 0:47:13.080
<v Speaker 1>you know play football now are doing different things. The

0:47:13.160 --> 0:47:15.319
<v Speaker 1>point you made and the fact that you know you

0:47:15.400 --> 0:47:17.920
<v Speaker 1>have these kids that's had this dream their entire life.

0:47:18.280 --> 0:47:20.920
<v Speaker 1>They worked as hard as they possibly could, played college

0:47:20.920 --> 0:47:23.640
<v Speaker 1>football at one of the top programs. You have everybody

0:47:23.680 --> 0:47:26.680
<v Speaker 1>knowing your name, you're flying on planes, you're eating filet

0:47:26.719 --> 0:47:29.920
<v Speaker 1>me on and steak and lobster, and you're doing all

0:47:29.960 --> 0:47:32.400
<v Speaker 1>these things and then it's done at twenty two. Like

0:47:32.520 --> 0:47:35.799
<v Speaker 1>you said, some people in the professional world, they might

0:47:35.840 --> 0:47:38.040
<v Speaker 1>not technically reach their goal and their peak to their

0:47:38.080 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 1>forty years old. And now you know, you have these

0:47:40.760 --> 0:47:43.400
<v Speaker 1>kids that have feel like they reached their peak and

0:47:43.400 --> 0:47:45.800
<v Speaker 1>it's now what. So that's a great point that you made.

0:47:46.480 --> 0:47:51.440
<v Speaker 1>And for me, I think it's hard to master the

0:47:51.440 --> 0:47:55.319
<v Speaker 1>excitement and intensity of football and the competition level. But

0:47:55.400 --> 0:47:57.080
<v Speaker 1>I will say that's why I got into the world

0:47:57.080 --> 0:48:00.279
<v Speaker 1>of selves because I'm able to compete against myself. Um.

0:48:00.320 --> 0:48:02.920
<v Speaker 1>There's a leaderboard, just like there is in football to

0:48:02.960 --> 0:48:05.040
<v Speaker 1>see how many who had the most tackles this game?

0:48:05.520 --> 0:48:07.680
<v Speaker 1>We have who had the most sales? You know, things

0:48:07.760 --> 0:48:11.200
<v Speaker 1>like that. So it's very competitive in this field. And UM,

0:48:11.239 --> 0:48:12.880
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, you have to you know,

0:48:13.000 --> 0:48:16.440
<v Speaker 1>have that competition against yourself. You you have to hold

0:48:16.480 --> 0:48:19.200
<v Speaker 1>that standard. Hey, I want to succeed. I want to

0:48:19.200 --> 0:48:21.640
<v Speaker 1>be successful. How can I translate that into the next

0:48:21.640 --> 0:48:24.800
<v Speaker 1>step of life? Man, if you do that, you'll be Okay,

0:48:26.200 --> 0:48:28.440
<v Speaker 1>that's awesome. Advice to what would you say to young

0:48:28.480 --> 0:48:31.480
<v Speaker 1>people who are entering into college and the opportunity to

0:48:31.480 --> 0:48:34.200
<v Speaker 1>play a sport but don't fully yet understand the challenges

0:48:34.239 --> 0:48:36.279
<v Speaker 1>about what's ahead for them and what they need to

0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:41.080
<v Speaker 1>make sure they accomplish to get where they're going to go. Um,

0:48:41.120 --> 0:48:43.880
<v Speaker 1>I would say it, always tell the truth to yourself,

0:48:44.560 --> 0:48:49.279
<v Speaker 1>hold yourself accountable and um really assessed. Okay, Am I

0:48:49.320 --> 0:48:51.160
<v Speaker 1>ready for this next step? Man? Am I ready to?

0:48:51.320 --> 0:48:53.520
<v Speaker 1>Am I willing to put in the work? Um? I

0:48:53.560 --> 0:48:56.640
<v Speaker 1>think that's the first step and then it's just uh,

0:48:56.760 --> 0:48:59.040
<v Speaker 1>more than anything, just staying a balance. You can't get

0:48:59.040 --> 0:49:01.200
<v Speaker 1>too high, you can't get too low because you're competing

0:49:01.200 --> 0:49:03.240
<v Speaker 1>each and every day. You're gonna have good days of priordays,

0:49:03.280 --> 0:49:06.839
<v Speaker 1>bad days. You're gonna have good days of class, bad days. Um,

0:49:06.880 --> 0:49:09.000
<v Speaker 1>and if you're like this, it's hard to really fund

0:49:09.000 --> 0:49:11.320
<v Speaker 1>that consistency, and it's hard for your your teammates and

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:13.520
<v Speaker 1>trust you. So I would say, just, you know, try

0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:15.759
<v Speaker 1>to be even killed and take each day, you know,

0:49:15.840 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 1>with the you know, optimistic outlook, and uh, just just

0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:21.680
<v Speaker 1>show up each day and just give it your best

0:49:21.719 --> 0:49:23.759
<v Speaker 1>each day. And if you show up each day, you'll

0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:27.960
<v Speaker 1>be okay. And that was fun. I really enjoyed reconnecting

0:49:28.000 --> 0:49:30.800
<v Speaker 1>with a guy whose college career I had covered pretty closely.

0:49:30.840 --> 0:49:33.280
<v Speaker 1>And I think even bigger things or ahead for Kendall

0:49:33.400 --> 0:49:37.160
<v Speaker 1>Joseph Now, like Kendall Morgan, william has already gained a

0:49:37.200 --> 0:49:40.480
<v Speaker 1>foothold in the business world. She's a sales district leader

0:49:40.600 --> 0:49:44.880
<v Speaker 1>for PEPSI injuries kept Morgan from pursuing a w NBA career.

0:49:45.160 --> 0:49:47.920
<v Speaker 1>She played with pain throughout her Mississippi state time, A

0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:51.400
<v Speaker 1>serious stress factor in her ship. A steel rod inserted

0:49:51.480 --> 0:49:53.680
<v Speaker 1>from her knee to her ankle. She also had her

0:49:53.680 --> 0:49:57.360
<v Speaker 1>nose broken. Now, Morgan's mom remarried when she was three.

0:49:57.480 --> 0:49:59.600
<v Speaker 1>It was her stepdad who first put a ball in

0:49:59.640 --> 0:50:01.960
<v Speaker 1>her hands. End she grew up with stepbrothers who were

0:50:02.000 --> 0:50:05.160
<v Speaker 1>also passionate about sports. But if I have to, she

0:50:05.320 --> 0:50:09.080
<v Speaker 1>was told you're too small by many colleges. She grew

0:50:09.120 --> 0:50:11.279
<v Speaker 1>up in the state of Alabama, but wasn't recruited by

0:50:11.280 --> 0:50:14.600
<v Speaker 1>the Crimson Tide or Auburn Tigers, and Morgan told me

0:50:14.960 --> 0:50:18.360
<v Speaker 1>she never lost to either school in her college career.

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:22.040
<v Speaker 1>She made the most of her time in Starkville, but sadly,

0:50:22.400 --> 0:50:26.000
<v Speaker 1>her stepdad wasn't alive to see it through every challenge.

0:50:26.320 --> 0:50:31.000
<v Speaker 1>Morgan perseveres, what was that feeling when you're walking across

0:50:31.040 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 1>the stage. You know what's gonna happen, You're on track,

0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:35.960
<v Speaker 1>It's been the plan all along. But when you get

0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:39.839
<v Speaker 1>that that final moment when you realize you've achieved it

0:50:40.200 --> 0:50:41.840
<v Speaker 1>and you've done it. Can you take yourself back to

0:50:41.880 --> 0:50:45.960
<v Speaker 1>that moment when the when the diplomas handed to you. Um,

0:50:45.960 --> 0:50:48.320
<v Speaker 1>it was a very special moments. I have for stiblance

0:50:48.440 --> 0:50:51.080
<v Speaker 1>some second to lads. So I saw my oldest brother

0:50:51.120 --> 0:50:55.040
<v Speaker 1>graduated from Tennessee. My brother's here older than me graduate

0:50:55.080 --> 0:50:57.600
<v Speaker 1>from South Alabama. So it was just like it's a

0:50:57.600 --> 0:50:59.719
<v Speaker 1>cycle foot of family and name my sisters five years

0:50:59.760 --> 0:51:03.080
<v Speaker 1>younger me. So she just graduated chico Um like a

0:51:03.160 --> 0:51:06.320
<v Speaker 1>week ago. So for me during that time, it was

0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:09.319
<v Speaker 1>just like, I don't know, is this what's supposed to do?

0:51:09.480 --> 0:51:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Kind of de side bill. Uh. My mom was crying

0:51:12.800 --> 0:51:14.600
<v Speaker 1>and that was pretty nice to see Herry just so

0:51:14.800 --> 0:51:17.920
<v Speaker 1>super proud of me and ecstatic everything that I've done,

0:51:18.160 --> 0:51:21.839
<v Speaker 1>and I couldn't did it without her. Graduates get a

0:51:21.880 --> 0:51:24.200
<v Speaker 1>special patch on their game jerseys when their athletes in

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.919
<v Speaker 1>Mississippi State. I understand you went in there the next day.

0:51:27.239 --> 0:51:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Let's get that patch on the jersey. Because this was

0:51:29.960 --> 0:51:31.239
<v Speaker 1>the middle of the year, so it's in the middle

0:51:31.239 --> 0:51:33.520
<v Speaker 1>of basketball season. Get that patch on the jersey so

0:51:33.560 --> 0:51:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I can show him. I graduate right away, and then

0:51:35.360 --> 0:51:39.759
<v Speaker 1>very next game it's like, I did it. Go to

0:51:39.800 --> 0:51:42.840
<v Speaker 1>Passbay to get the degrees, so I mean, I gotta

0:51:42.920 --> 0:51:49.040
<v Speaker 1>do it. The college experience away from basketball, how did

0:51:49.080 --> 0:51:52.680
<v Speaker 1>it match up to what you expected? When you think about, okay,

0:51:52.719 --> 0:51:55.759
<v Speaker 1>not just playing hoops, but going to class, pursuing a read,

0:51:55.800 --> 0:51:59.480
<v Speaker 1>getting good class grades, and then all the outside things

0:52:00.040 --> 0:52:02.319
<v Speaker 1>going to being a student. How did that experience match

0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:07.480
<v Speaker 1>up with what you expected in the real world. Yeah, no,

0:52:07.640 --> 0:52:10.320
<v Speaker 1>just while you were at school. How did the college

0:52:10.320 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 1>experience what you imagine it was gonna bate versus what

0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:19.160
<v Speaker 1>it was? Well, college sports was not what I imagined.

0:52:19.280 --> 0:52:21.799
<v Speaker 1>It was definitely ten times harder. I thought I worked

0:52:21.800 --> 0:52:25.160
<v Speaker 1>out enough, I thought I was in good shape. I wasn't. Um,

0:52:25.200 --> 0:52:27.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you could really match the college intensity

0:52:27.760 --> 0:52:33.319
<v Speaker 1>until you get there. As far as school, um, it was,

0:52:33.800 --> 0:52:36.880
<v Speaker 1>it was good. I just feel like it's definitely difficult

0:52:36.920 --> 0:52:38.880
<v Speaker 1>to not do well the student athlete because you have

0:52:38.960 --> 0:52:41.359
<v Speaker 1>so many resources, so many people around you study hall

0:52:42.160 --> 0:52:44.759
<v Speaker 1>um that you everyone should be have to graduated within

0:52:44.800 --> 0:52:47.560
<v Speaker 1>three and a half years. I feel like, unless obviously

0:52:47.560 --> 0:52:50.080
<v Speaker 1>if you're engineer and premid and stuff like they had

0:52:50.120 --> 0:52:53.759
<v Speaker 1>to have extra classes. But um, everything else, I mean,

0:52:53.840 --> 0:52:56.480
<v Speaker 1>school was it was cool, and like I said, you

0:52:56.520 --> 0:52:59.360
<v Speaker 1>have so many resources, But athletics it was. It was tough.

0:52:59.560 --> 0:53:00.719
<v Speaker 1>It was a lot of the days where I was

0:53:00.760 --> 0:53:05.200
<v Speaker 1>just like, yeah, I'm not built for this, especially freshman year.

0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:08.319
<v Speaker 1>But you know, because I almost didn't go to college. Um,

0:53:08.440 --> 0:53:11.680
<v Speaker 1>like I said, myself. Fall passed two months before I

0:53:11.719 --> 0:53:14.759
<v Speaker 1>went off to college in March. When I went out

0:53:14.800 --> 0:53:18.040
<v Speaker 1>to school, like June, first, I wasn't gonna go. I

0:53:18.080 --> 0:53:20.120
<v Speaker 1>was also wear four in college. I ended up changing

0:53:20.320 --> 0:53:22.279
<v Speaker 1>too because you were you were two in college at

0:53:22.280 --> 0:53:25.480
<v Speaker 1>Stamford University, and I didn't like it when he passed,

0:53:25.520 --> 0:53:27.399
<v Speaker 1>I can work out for a whole month, and then

0:53:27.440 --> 0:53:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I had a month like I should start preparing or

0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:33.600
<v Speaker 1>am I even gonna go? So freshman was definitely tough.

0:53:34.080 --> 0:53:36.360
<v Speaker 1>I think it was just the was a deviating but

0:53:36.360 --> 0:53:38.480
<v Speaker 1>it was just tough to find the motivation at that

0:53:38.520 --> 0:53:43.640
<v Speaker 1>point after he passed away. And then um, we started

0:53:43.640 --> 0:53:45.040
<v Speaker 1>working out in the summer because it was going on

0:53:45.040 --> 0:53:48.239
<v Speaker 1>the European trip in August. So like June, I had

0:53:48.360 --> 0:53:51.560
<v Speaker 1>my first couple of days weeks of practice and I

0:53:51.640 --> 0:53:54.080
<v Speaker 1>told my point guard close like, I can't do this.

0:53:55.480 --> 0:53:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not physically mentally strong enough to do this right now? Yeah,

0:54:00.000 --> 0:54:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she pulled me inside. I was just like, uh,

0:54:03.239 --> 0:54:05.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, this isn't gonna be easy. But I know

0:54:05.440 --> 0:54:07.640
<v Speaker 1>your father, he wouldn't wants you to get up and

0:54:07.760 --> 0:54:10.160
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah. You know. Gave me a pep talking.

0:54:10.320 --> 0:54:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she stayed close to me throughout the freshman

0:54:13.000 --> 0:54:15.840
<v Speaker 1>year and so on. But yeah, it's times where I

0:54:15.840 --> 0:54:18.600
<v Speaker 1>wanted to quip before I got hurt. I mean, it's tough.

0:54:19.560 --> 0:54:22.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm losing someone he's been known forever and then going

0:54:22.800 --> 0:54:25.360
<v Speaker 1>to live on you know, the things we talked about,

0:54:25.400 --> 0:54:27.040
<v Speaker 1>like go be the best point guard, will be the

0:54:27.080 --> 0:54:30.040
<v Speaker 1>best playing sec, go do all these things, and then

0:54:30.040 --> 0:54:31.640
<v Speaker 1>when it's time for you to go, he's not there.

0:54:32.080 --> 0:54:33.880
<v Speaker 1>So it was just like, I feel I got for

0:54:34.000 --> 0:54:35.840
<v Speaker 1>a minute to have the hit that I had just

0:54:35.880 --> 0:54:39.600
<v Speaker 1>lost my purpose. I mean, that was him, that was

0:54:39.680 --> 0:54:42.239
<v Speaker 1>me and him thing, and then it's just me and

0:54:42.280 --> 0:54:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm seventeen at the time, so it was weird. Do

0:54:48.120 --> 0:54:50.880
<v Speaker 1>you believe that he's stayed connected with you? Do you

0:54:50.880 --> 0:54:53.920
<v Speaker 1>feel his presence and whether you're on the court or

0:54:53.920 --> 0:54:55.600
<v Speaker 1>off the court, do you still feel that there's a

0:54:55.640 --> 0:54:58.000
<v Speaker 1>strength and a guidance there that even though he's not

0:54:58.040 --> 0:55:03.440
<v Speaker 1>physically around, he's helping you. Yeah. Uh, I don't know.

0:55:03.480 --> 0:55:06.359
<v Speaker 1>They always say that people know that when it's time's coming.

0:55:06.400 --> 0:55:08.759
<v Speaker 1>I feel like the last couple of months, he kept

0:55:08.760 --> 0:55:11.200
<v Speaker 1>talking to me about stuff, and I'm just like, dude,

0:55:11.719 --> 0:55:13.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm seventeen. You know, I we're talking about this. I

0:55:13.640 --> 0:55:16.879
<v Speaker 1>don't want to talk about it. He's the last couple

0:55:16.880 --> 0:55:18.160
<v Speaker 1>of months. He was just like, you know, the boss

0:55:18.239 --> 0:55:20.359
<v Speaker 1>gonna stop bossing one day, you know, make sure you

0:55:20.560 --> 0:55:24.359
<v Speaker 1>lost college and resources, get your degree and figure it out,

0:55:24.400 --> 0:55:26.000
<v Speaker 1>like what is you want to do? Because it was like,

0:55:26.040 --> 0:55:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I know, you want to have a family and kids

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:29.759
<v Speaker 1>one day and you're not gonna be playing to your

0:55:29.800 --> 0:55:33.320
<v Speaker 1>forty more again. So I think him having those conversations

0:55:33.360 --> 0:55:36.960
<v Speaker 1>early on with made my transition of you know, walking

0:55:37.040 --> 0:55:41.680
<v Speaker 1>with from athletics more easier because I have been hearing

0:55:41.680 --> 0:55:45.120
<v Speaker 1>it for a while. College athletes to a lot of

0:55:45.120 --> 0:55:47.000
<v Speaker 1>people are living the dream because they're getting to do

0:55:47.120 --> 0:55:50.160
<v Speaker 1>something they love. But the challenges you mentioned too, and

0:55:50.600 --> 0:55:55.640
<v Speaker 1>it's extra challenging there that two do the class work,

0:55:56.080 --> 0:55:58.000
<v Speaker 1>to stay on track, to get your degree, to have

0:55:58.000 --> 0:55:59.920
<v Speaker 1>a little enjoyment in life, to have a little fun

0:56:00.520 --> 0:56:02.000
<v Speaker 1>in college, which is supposed to be part of the

0:56:02.040 --> 0:56:06.040
<v Speaker 1>college experience. Any regrets at all or was that the

0:56:06.080 --> 0:56:08.719
<v Speaker 1>path that that you chose and you just you knew

0:56:08.760 --> 0:56:12.799
<v Speaker 1>what you were getting into. No regrets. I'm thanking for it.

0:56:13.440 --> 0:56:16.440
<v Speaker 1>I went to college forum on a scholarship, so I

0:56:16.480 --> 0:56:21.320
<v Speaker 1>don't have any student loans. Uh. I think that's when um,

0:56:21.360 --> 0:56:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, what's it called the waste when athletes

0:56:23.480 --> 0:56:25.480
<v Speaker 1>starts getting paid. Then we started getting paid like my

0:56:25.520 --> 0:56:28.400
<v Speaker 1>sophomore year, so we started getting stifers and stuff like that.

0:56:28.440 --> 0:56:30.480
<v Speaker 1>So all that's a blessing, you know, because I know

0:56:30.560 --> 0:56:32.560
<v Speaker 1>some of my regular friends like they didn't have it,

0:56:33.719 --> 0:56:37.680
<v Speaker 1>so you know, I mean, it's it's a blessing to say,

0:56:37.680 --> 0:56:40.400
<v Speaker 1>at least because student athletes we we it's a privilege.

0:56:40.480 --> 0:56:42.880
<v Speaker 1>Looking back on it, I think some of us take

0:56:42.880 --> 0:56:45.399
<v Speaker 1>advantage of at the time, some people, like you say,

0:56:45.520 --> 0:56:47.919
<v Speaker 1>some people don't finish, some people transfer and it doesn't

0:56:47.920 --> 0:56:49.759
<v Speaker 1>work out for him, and then there's still being a

0:56:49.760 --> 0:56:52.279
<v Speaker 1>regular student. And it's kind of just like a damn ship.

0:56:52.400 --> 0:56:54.840
<v Speaker 1>Took more advantage of this because I had all these

0:56:55.400 --> 0:56:57.960
<v Speaker 1>all these access to things. It was successful, it was free,

0:56:58.120 --> 0:57:02.160
<v Speaker 1>and I just kind of ruined it. I can safe

0:57:02.200 --> 0:57:04.120
<v Speaker 1>to say you didn't ruin it. You you took advantage

0:57:04.120 --> 0:57:07.040
<v Speaker 1>of the opportunities. And what do you think you learned

0:57:07.760 --> 0:57:11.120
<v Speaker 1>from athletics that you can now apply your career and

0:57:11.160 --> 0:57:14.239
<v Speaker 1>PEPSI And it's a it's a very good job in

0:57:14.239 --> 0:57:16.880
<v Speaker 1>a competitive business world. What did you take away from

0:57:16.880 --> 0:57:18.440
<v Speaker 1>the sports that have helped you and are helping you

0:57:18.520 --> 0:57:29.280
<v Speaker 1>right now? S accountability, um, step outside your comfort zone, persistent,

0:57:30.920 --> 0:57:33.680
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things. I was a point guard, so

0:57:34.080 --> 0:57:36.520
<v Speaker 1>times had to lead the pack, but I'm just silent.

0:57:36.600 --> 0:57:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I did by example now I mean sales kind of

0:57:39.480 --> 0:57:42.080
<v Speaker 1>just like you have to be vocal with the trust

0:57:42.080 --> 0:57:44.280
<v Speaker 1>your team that they're gonna go do it are executed.

0:57:44.800 --> 0:57:46.800
<v Speaker 1>But I'm kind of like a hands on. But can

0:57:46.840 --> 0:57:49.200
<v Speaker 1>I always be hands on? Like that's why you have

0:57:49.440 --> 0:57:52.480
<v Speaker 1>a team, so they can help you to become very

0:57:52.560 --> 0:57:55.880
<v Speaker 1>leader and whatnot. But I would say athletics have a

0:57:55.880 --> 0:58:00.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of transfer transferable skills. As far as um, I

0:58:00.360 --> 0:58:02.280
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I think we'll just go talk any stranger.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think a lot of people do that. I

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<v Speaker 1>would say when I hit the shot against you, con

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<v Speaker 1>I was definitely an entry, which I still am. But

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<v Speaker 1>when I came back to campus that that week later,

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<v Speaker 1>whenever we came back, She's like, everybody want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me and take pictures, and I was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do that, and it's not because what

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<v Speaker 1>I did I wasn't doing that beforehand, so like it

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<v Speaker 1>was like the culture shock, and then like when people

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to me and take pictures at that time,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't want to do it. They were just

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<v Speaker 1>like she's there and she's this, and I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse you, Like I've always been in the same place.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't want to take pictures and do all

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff all the time. So um, that's that's a

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<v Speaker 1>different phase. But just going through that whole celebrity fame

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<v Speaker 1>status is definitely tough for me because I wasn't outspoken.

0:58:50.800 --> 0:58:54.120
<v Speaker 1>I was an outgoing I went sociable, but defice blessing

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<v Speaker 1>the skies and alcoholm and still so I do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of that. So I talk strangers, don't interact with people.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to err it, interact with the networry.

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<v Speaker 1>But now I'm starting to enjoy It's like I became

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<v Speaker 1>a social butifly when I'm altbum my home is just

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<v Speaker 1>like after Morgan's heroic shot to beat you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the final four. The Bulldogs lost the National Championship Game

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<v Speaker 1>to their nemesis South Carolina, but the next year morgan

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<v Speaker 1>senior season, they made another deep run in the n

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<v Speaker 1>c A tournament. The next year though, you got you

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<v Speaker 1>guys make it back to the championship game. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>so hard to do that. It's so hard to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it together. You get back to the championship game, it's

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<v Speaker 1>Notre Dame. It's a game that's close, back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>And after you hit the buzzer beater year before to

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<v Speaker 1>put you guys in the championship game, you now lose

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<v Speaker 1>the Notre Dame for the National Championship on a buzzer

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<v Speaker 1>beater and are denied Mississippi States first ever team n

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<v Speaker 1>c A championship. I know how badly you guys wanted that.

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<v Speaker 1>That had to sting back to back years losing at

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<v Speaker 1>the last stage. Yeah, I mean, we definitely should have

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<v Speaker 1>won that last year. I could think about karma, like

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<v Speaker 1>lou be someone buzzer beater, You lose someone buzzer beater, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know we should lost their game up sixteen going

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<v Speaker 1>to have It's just things happen. It is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would say me, my teammates, we enjoyed those,

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<v Speaker 1>experienced those moments. Any athlete you know who has opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to the n c A tournament to keep advancing especial

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<v Speaker 1>or something you always remember in charans for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. What did you gain from that? All

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<v Speaker 1>experience provides growth. If it's an intense experience, it can

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<v Speaker 1>equal intense growth, even if it's a deep disappointment. What,

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<v Speaker 1>if anything, could you take away from that pair of

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<v Speaker 1>championship game wasson and say I'm a better, stronger person

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<v Speaker 1>for that experience. Yeah, at least you thinks. The first

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<v Speaker 1>thing I can think of right now is attention to

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<v Speaker 1>tail is so important? Uh, marginal era, he slammed to none.

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<v Speaker 1>When you get down to the bottom of the barrel

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of teams, everything really matters, preparation, everything leading

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<v Speaker 1>up to it. Um, I would just say focus, attention

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<v Speaker 1>to to That's that's what I followed a little again, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot believe you said attention to detail. That is

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<v Speaker 1>my selling point to your young people. I'm gonna sound

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<v Speaker 1>like an old person talking to young people now, but

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<v Speaker 1>I think attention to detail in an era where everybody's

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<v Speaker 1>attention is so scattered, and everybody's trying to do three

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<v Speaker 1>or four things at once, and it's so easy to

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<v Speaker 1>lose focus, and it's so easy to not pay attention

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<v Speaker 1>to details. I mean, now you are in a in

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<v Speaker 1>a kind of a pressure situation. You're expected to sell

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<v Speaker 1>big corporation, very competitive industry, you know, the colal worst.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean attention to detail. The fact that you got

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<v Speaker 1>that as a takeaway. I wish more people could come

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<v Speaker 1>away from their tough experience is realizing that is so

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<v Speaker 1>much of what doing a good job is about is

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<v Speaker 1>the small things. Being reliable with the details is so crucial.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's rare exactly that those one or two things

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<v Speaker 1>you don't focus on, you get about it. Those things

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<v Speaker 1>they follow up. Everything comes back for a circle. So

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<v Speaker 1>you don't everything serious, like everything you prepared for everything

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<v Speaker 1>that matters. If you come away from the college experience

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<v Speaker 1>with friends for life too. And that's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things we haven't talked about, but I think that the

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<v Speaker 1>bonds that people make and create during college years are powerful.

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<v Speaker 1>You still have a core group that you stay in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with, you're close to from from your planning days,

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<v Speaker 1>not that they were that long ago. You know. It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>My junior year when after a famous shot, I think

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<v Speaker 1>up making like two regular friends, like outside of athletics

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<v Speaker 1>and Missy State. That was like my best friends now

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<v Speaker 1>and as far as like my teammates, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>talked to some of them. There is my roommate all

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<v Speaker 1>four years, but we still kind of like stay in touch.

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody else kind of like I was just growing up.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not like I can't come but hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we haven't been talking forever, but we spend so

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<v Speaker 1>much talking with someone for four years straight, all day

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<v Speaker 1>every day. It's just like, I mean great, like like

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<v Speaker 1>I think my mad junior year, I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and I leave practice, I don't see any

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<v Speaker 1>of I don't even want see my roommate. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to go see normal people and not talk about basketball.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanna talk about practice, I wanna talk about game.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about anything. I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to be normal. That's a sentiment a lot of college

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<v Speaker 1>athletes share. If you could talk to yourself back when

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<v Speaker 1>you were in high school and struggling and not sure

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<v Speaker 1>what to do, when not sure if college was for you,

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<v Speaker 1>not not sure basketball was gonna be a passion for you,

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<v Speaker 1>or talk to someone else who was in your position

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<v Speaker 1>who was told repeat, really not good enough, too small

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<v Speaker 1>to this, to that? What would the message be now

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<v Speaker 1>that you've gained some experience and gained some wisdom. M

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you control your own destiny. I mean you

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<v Speaker 1>know what your cap beloved and not hard. You work

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<v Speaker 1>for something, you know your strengthen with weaknesses. You know

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<v Speaker 1>opportunities where you can capitalize on. Um Why why put

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<v Speaker 1>someone else to control your life? Well, I think those

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<v Speaker 1>are pretty wise words to leave you with, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very grateful to James Kinnoff, Kendall, Joseph, and Morgan William

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<v Speaker 1>for sharing their stories and their perspectives. We hope that

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<v Speaker 1>both episodes of To Go or Not to Go help

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<v Speaker 1>contribute to the conversations going on around this interesting topic.

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<v Speaker 1>If you know others who might benefit from the words

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<v Speaker 1>of our five guests, you hope you'll spread the word

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<v Speaker 1>thank somebody co executive producer Jennifer Dempster and the Jason

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<v Speaker 1>whitehelp for is that any skills? And help in this

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<v Speaker 1>episode to Miles Coplin, Tim Brey, Holly Row and Josh

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<v Speaker 1>Lively and is Zach keating for help in Part one

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<v Speaker 1>our next episode of Filer. Who You've Got, We've got

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<v Speaker 1>a very old friend, Lance Armstrong. It's a powerful, honest,

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<v Speaker 1>emotional conversation if you want to check it out and

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<v Speaker 1>I'll talk to you soon