1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:02,559 Speaker 1: All right, Steve. 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 2: This is from EJ on Facebook. EJ says, how can 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: I convince my mom to get rid of the old 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: pictures of fat me? I have dropped over one hundred 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 2: and fifty pounds and have worked hard to get my 6 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 2: body and mind right after years of neglect. However, every 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 2: time I go to her house, I see it plastered 8 00:00:21,880 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 2: with pictures of the old me and none of the 9 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: of the man that I am today. It makes me 10 00:00:27,720 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: not want to come over. My mom won't take them 11 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 2: down and says they should make me proud to see 12 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 2: how far I've come and how I've changed the problem 13 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 2: is that there are no updated pictures, and seeing all 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 2: of them makes me digress into a negative headspace, which 15 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 2: in turn makes me not want to visit her. How 16 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 2: can I convince her of how helpful it would be 17 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: if she would take them down. 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: Well, that's a problem, sir, because look ishi mama's house, 19 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,520 Speaker 1: and those pictures are memories and the fact that you 20 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: don't have and the fact that you don't have Look. Look, 21 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: I appreciate the fact that you've lost weight in all 22 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 1: like this, but those are memories to your mother. That's 23 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 1: a lot of weight now when your little big ass 24 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: go back over there, and you got to see all 25 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: these people. 26 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:26,839 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, what ever, just think about what you say 27 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:32,040 Speaker 2: before it comes out ever. 28 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: You know, like I said, and before I was so 29 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 1: rudely interrupted by you know y'all. That that's you know, 30 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: when you take your little big ass back over to 31 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,320 Speaker 1: the house. These are pictures of their memories that your 32 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:47,119 Speaker 1: mama has. It's like when Luther was living. We had 33 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: big Luther, we had little Luther. And that was a 34 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: debate constantly of which one they preferred. I prefer them 35 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: both because the voice was the same, and they probably 36 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: prefer you because you are the same. You're the same 37 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: kind person you was when your ass were huge, huge, 38 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: because you because you couldn't be mean. You was a 39 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: nice guy. Because I ain't no need to fat ass 40 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 1: over that mean to dumbody like no fat. 41 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 2: Ass means three times. 42 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: Well, I just he's not that anymore. So it's not 43 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: fat shaming. It's I'm fat glamining. It's called fat lambing. 44 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: You'm fat lamb. I'm congratulating getting rid of the fat. 45 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 1: And now she you tired of her because she posted 46 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: old pictures. That's who you was, Dough Ain't it good 47 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: to go over there and see who you was and 48 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: realize who you are now? You're not enjoying the blessing 49 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: and the journey of who you become. Why don't you 50 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: look at the pictures differently? You know, instead of the 51 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: glass being half empty, it could be half four. Why 52 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,839 Speaker 1: don't you look at the pictures and go, Wow, I've 53 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: really come along way. I'm proud of myself, and you 54 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:57,239 Speaker 1: could become an encouragement to other people. But you want 55 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: all them pictures gone so you can walk along and see. 56 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: That's what That's what kill me about people when they 57 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: make it. Some people try to make it and then 58 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: act like they've been there their whole life, and they 59 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: won't forget where they come from. That ain't hot a work? 60 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: You could be an inspiration to people, bro, if you 61 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: would just shed them pictures. You ope before and after 62 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: that it's real better? Okay, But then let me put 63 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,679 Speaker 1: a button on it so the next time you take 64 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: your little, bigger ass over there, why complimentary? 65 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 2: Is this mama's house? 66 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: His mama's house. He don't want to see all them 67 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:30,960 Speaker 1: pictures again? Mama? Can you take some of these down? 68 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: At one point? Now, this what's your roami? Now you're 69 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: not finna tell me that. 70 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 2: Now. 71 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: We loved at you when you was big wish to 72 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: come over here and eat just balls or rice. You 73 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: remember you didn't care nothing about no proteins. You ain't 74 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: never saying nothing to be about, no cobs or nothing. 75 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 1: Now you're in here with all this healthy talk and everything. 76 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 1: We can't even job. We can't even a big old bowl, 77 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: no more than nothing. 78 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 2: And not with you. Are you quite done? 79 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: You remember that time you and your brother Robin ate 80 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:19,280 Speaker 1: them two gallons of vanilla ice cree watching the football game. 81 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,520 Speaker 2: Don't nobody want to remind about that? 82 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,119 Speaker 1: I said, Lord Jesus, look at the I hate cream 83 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 1: and you ate it only melted a little bit, y'all 84 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: was and that's what you was romy You were just 85 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 1: big Sweden. 86 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 2: We'll have more of this ignorant show coming up in 87 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: twenty minutes right after this. 88 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: We're so glad to see you, a little big ass 89 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: doughg 90 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: You're listening Hard Morning show