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Speaker 1: All right, nephew, time for the letter. Let's holds strong an.

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Speaker 1: This one is Corris, say thank you, Tommy subject potential polygamist, polygamist,

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Speaker 1: you know more than one whatever. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: a lot is. This let us starts out great. I

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Speaker 1: love it, Good morning everybody. I love this radio station

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Speaker 1: and I listened to you guys every morning. Okay, here's

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Speaker 1: my story. I'm a twenty eight year old black female.

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Speaker 1: I'm a wife of six years and a mother of

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Speaker 1: two lovely girls. I love my husband and my family,

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Speaker 1: and I truly know that he is my best friend. Well,

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Speaker 1: here goes. My husband is nine years my senior. That's

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Speaker 1: not the problem because I love older men. The problem

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Speaker 1: is my husband is not a sexual tiger like I am.

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Speaker 1: About one year ago, I found some gent sing pills

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Speaker 1: and energy drinks in the trunk of his car. I

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Speaker 1: asked about them, and he said he has been having

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Speaker 1: a He has been having a hard time sexually keeping

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Speaker 1: up with me. Now, I will admit that I love sex,

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Speaker 1: and I am constantly jumping my husband's bones in the morning, afternoon,

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Speaker 1: on lunch breaks, nighttime, middle of the night, whenever I can.

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Speaker 1: Right now, all right, let me read on. I feel

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Speaker 1: that he should have let me know that I was

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Speaker 1: too sexually demanding and he was tired. Well after he

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Speaker 1: told me, I tried to calm down. I only had

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Speaker 1: sex with him in the morning and at night, even

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Speaker 1: though even though it just about killed me in parentheses,

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Speaker 1: I am really frustrated. So here comes the drama. I

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Speaker 1: started college in two thousand five. While attending a ball,

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Speaker 1: I kissed a fellow classmate. He had a fiance. Long

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Speaker 1: story short. He and I have been sleeping together since

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Speaker 1: four years. Okay, they've been sleeping together for four years.

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Speaker 1: It's like I am living two different lives. My husband

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Speaker 1: provides financially, mentally, and emotionally. The other guy is here physically,

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Speaker 1: financially and emotionally too. Needless to say, I love this

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Speaker 1: other guy, but I am still in love with my husband.

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Speaker 1: I'm never going to leave my husband, but I don't

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Speaker 1: want to let this other guy go. I know the

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Speaker 1: situation is wrong, but it isn't it. Is it possible

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Speaker 1: to love more than one person at a time, or

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention the other guy also married last year.

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Speaker 1: It's not just about the sex with this other guy.

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Speaker 1: We do lots of other things together. I even met

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Speaker 1: his family. I feel like a polygamist because I am

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Speaker 1: really living two different lives. The problem is my husband

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Speaker 1: is really a good man aside from the low sex drive.

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Speaker 1: The other man is a good man with a high

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Speaker 1: sex drive. They both take good care of me, but

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Speaker 1: my heart is heavy with guilt. Please give me your

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Speaker 1: opinions with surely, Mrs Steve Harvey, crack it code Cracker.

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Speaker 1: I know you will. Thanks potential for like Wow. Alright, Steve,

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Speaker 1: come on with part two of your response. What you got?

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Speaker 1: Here's a letter potential politically. Good morning everybody, I love this, ready,

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Speaker 1: shar I listen you guys every morning. Okay, here's my story.

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Speaker 1: I'm a twenty year old black female. I'm a wife

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Speaker 1: for six years and a mother of two lovely girls.

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Speaker 1: I love my husband and my family, and I truly

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Speaker 1: know that he is my best friend. Well, here goes.

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Speaker 1: My husband of is nine years my senior. That's not

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Speaker 1: the problem because I love older men. The problem is

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Speaker 1: my husband is not is not a sexual tiger like

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Speaker 1: I am. After one about a year ago, I found

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Speaker 1: some gin sing peals and energy drinks in the trunk

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Speaker 1: of his car. I asked about me, and he said

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Speaker 1: he's been having a hard time sexually keeping up with me. Now,

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Speaker 1: I will admit that I love sex, and I'm constantly

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Speaker 1: then the a night whenever I can. I feel that

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Speaker 1: Well after he told me, I tried to calm down.

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Speaker 1: I only had sex with him in the morning and

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Speaker 1: really frustrated. So here goes the drama. I started college

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Speaker 1: a fellow classmate. He had a fiance. Long story short

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Speaker 1: here and I've been sleeping together since parentheses for years.

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Speaker 1: It's like I'm living two different lives. My husband provides financially,

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Speaker 1: mentally and emotionally. The other guys here physically, financially, emotionally

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Speaker 1: too needless to say, I love this other guy, but

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Speaker 1: let this other guy go. I know the situation wrong,

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Speaker 1: but isn't isn't it possible to love more than one

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Speaker 1: this other guy also got married last year. It's not

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Speaker 1: just about sex with this other guy. We do lots

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Speaker 1: of things together. I've even met his family. I feel

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Speaker 1: like a polygamist because I'm really living two different lives.

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Speaker 1: The problem is my husband is really good man aside

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Speaker 1: from the low sex drive, and the other man is

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Speaker 1: a good man with a high sex drive. They both

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Speaker 1: take good care of me, but my heart is heavy

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Speaker 1: with guilt. Please give me your opinions, Miss Shirley and

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Speaker 1: Mr Steve Harvey Cole crack it, cold, Cracker. I know

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Speaker 1: you will. Thanks, potential polygamus, You know what I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know where to start in the trifling

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Speaker 1: nous of it all. There's so much triflingness in here.

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Speaker 1: Where do I start? First of all, why do we

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Speaker 1: get so many letters about from women who have good men?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? But because of something here they are tripping.

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Speaker 1: Now you are all outside your marriage with another dude

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Speaker 1: because you are a bunny rabbit. See you're just a

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Speaker 1: little rabbit. You have sex in the morning, in the

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Speaker 1: afternoon on lunch breaks, in the evening, at night, in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the night. Your man that did the

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Speaker 1: best he can do. He went out, got some gensing

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Speaker 1: up with you. That ain't enough for you. So you

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Speaker 1: go to college, you at a ball, you kiss a classmate.

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Speaker 1: Then you're gonna abbreviate it. Long story short. We've been

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Speaker 1: sleeping together for four years. Okay, we're supposed to not

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Speaker 1: see through this right here. You want us to think

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Speaker 1: it was just a kiss. Now you've been with just

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Speaker 1: dude four years. You're talking about how your man provides

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Speaker 1: for you financially, mentally, financially, all this here, but he

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Speaker 1: had a low sex drive. Your new guy provides for

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Speaker 1: you financially, mentally, emotionally, but he got a high six drive.

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Speaker 1: That problem is he wouldn't get married so much for

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Speaker 1: what he think. Are you now, let's really get down

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Speaker 1: to the subject of this letter. Potential polygamus. You upset

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Speaker 1: because you feel like a polygamus because I'm really living

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Speaker 1: two different lives. Then you ask me, is it possible

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Speaker 1: to love more than one person at one time? Yes,

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Speaker 1: it is, obviously that's But then what we talk about

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Speaker 1: we're talking about we're talking about can you do two

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Speaker 1: is married. That's see, that's different from loving two people

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Speaker 1: my husband really good man. Aside from his low sex

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Speaker 1: You gott a damn problem. See. First of all, if

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Speaker 1: You need to go to college and get a job.

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Speaker 1: And she's a mother, she's got two girls. By time

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Speaker 1: something right there. See, your problem is you ain't got

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Speaker 1: enough to do. Come on, it ain't your sex drive.

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Speaker 1: You're trying to fill it. But I'm gonna just get

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Speaker 1: to this now. This is what email is gonna come in.

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Speaker 1: The subject is potential politamous. You have really what's called

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Speaker 1: h l T. You think we're saying hello, but h

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Speaker 1: l T is you have hook like tenders. You have

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Speaker 1: a disease called h L T C l Okay, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you know we got to get out of here. You

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