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Speaker 1: You got to have a big blood an pe Calm

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Speaker 1: Welcome Everybody to the Big Show.

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Speaker 3: I am quickly just bruising the sports section here.

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Speaker 1: Do you we are?

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Speaker 1: What two weeks away from? One week away? Was the

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Speaker 1: super Bowl last weekend?

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Speaker 1: I don't even I don't even remember was the super

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Speaker 1: Bowl last week? I think so?

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Speaker 1: Was it? I think?

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Speaker 2: So? My god?

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Speaker 1: How embarrassing. I literally it's February seventeenth as we sit

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Speaker 1: you miss last weekend? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: How much do I miss football? I'll tell you when

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Speaker 1: It's like that thing where it's like during football season,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I just wish it was on your own.

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Speaker 1: Guys are starting to talk about their contracts. Seahawks unlikely

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Speaker 1: He turned into Jared Stole third fourth line center penalty

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Speaker 1: your you know, urine test, you got to make sure

430
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Speaker 1: you're not pregnant, like they run a tight shot with

431
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 1: that acutane. But let me tell you what that shit works.

432
00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 1: And I had no problem as a girl that doesn't

433
00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 1: like following instructions, I was like letter of the law

434
00:20:50,040 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 1: on that because it's like, as long as I'm acne free,

435
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 1: I'll go get that blood drawn and'll do whatever you want. Well,

436
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:56,240
Speaker 1: I haven't been on it for a long time. So

437
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,960
Speaker 1: like every you know, getting my blood drawn every day.

438
00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 1: So I go in to the place and anyone knows

439
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,520
Speaker 1: that's like the waiting er is full. And I don't

440
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,760
Speaker 1: made it a point. I no fertility clinics, but it's

441
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 1: not probably like so it's a smorgasbord of people that

442
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,320
Speaker 1: are in there. People could be getting, you know, have

443
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:16,000
Speaker 1: to do a drug test, you'urine thing for work. There's

444
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,640
Speaker 1: a myriad of different reasons why you're in there. It's

445
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,600
Speaker 1: not just for blood, it's like different kinds of you know,

446
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:25,679
Speaker 1: medical testing, and there is just a lot of different

447
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,160
Speaker 1: kinds of people in there. You don't know what you're

448
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 1: going to get. And it's my fault because I didn't

449
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 1: make an appointment because I thought like, oh, it's middle

450
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: of the day, people are working, no one's going to

451
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: be in there. We need to get the blood jacked,

452
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,960
Speaker 1: jammed packed. I'm like, I was in the wrong business.

453
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 1: I should have owned these centers. So bless this sweet angel.

454
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,119
Speaker 1: So I finally get in. I mean we're talking like

455
00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:46,200
Speaker 1: an hour and a half, okay. So I finally get

456
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 1: in and the girl that is drawing my blood I

457
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 1: have shitty veins. You know this because we've got these

458
00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 1: anyds and I'm always you know. Anyways, so she's trying

459
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:56,680
Speaker 1: and she's like, I'm so sorry, I'm gonna have to

460
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,399
Speaker 1: prick you again. And I said, how are you so patient?

461
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: Because first, well you're in the medical profession again, what

462
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,240
Speaker 1: they have to deal with and what they have to see,

463
00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: and first of all, like people are sick or whatever

464
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 1: the circumstances. She couldn't have been lovelier, and I like

465
00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:14,200
Speaker 1: thought she was great. She goes and she said something

466
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 1: that I will never forget. She goes, I used to

467
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: be really mean and have have no patience for people,

468
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: and then when they when they would leave, and I

469
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: would like snap at them because they weren't doing what

470
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 1: I needed them to do. She goes, I would feel

471
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 1: so guilty. So she's like the guilt was like not

472
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: worth feeling that every day. So I just decided to

473
00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 1: change my whole perspective and just be nice. And I'm like,

474
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 1: oh my god, I love that. Anyways, but we're in there,

475
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 1: I'm getting made by John. But I'm like, what's there?

476
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,919
Speaker 1: What's the order on all this stuff? Like where's this?

477
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 1: Are we sure? This is me. Are we sure that's

478
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: going to end up in the right place because there's

479
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:48,840
Speaker 1: so many different things, and then you have to go

480
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: when you have to pee. So now I'm putting the cup,

481
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 1: you know, in the little area, and then this me

482
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:54,439
Speaker 1: making sure that it's like someone picking that up and

483
00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 1: making sure it's going to the right place because there's

484
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 1: like I mean, it's like a it's it is like

485
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 1: a warehouse of blood and pea everywhere, And I'm like,

486
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,679
Speaker 1: don't you feel like you do the pee? Did I

487
00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: do enough? Did I do too much? Sure? I don't

488
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:10,840
Speaker 1: know if I can go exactly. I had just went

489
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: and then she's like and I didn't know I had

490
00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: to be. I thought it was just the blood and

491
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: she's like, okay, and then I was like and then

492
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,239
Speaker 1: I'm in there and then it's the whole. Like I

493
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: felt great because I even got it in. It's so

494
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 1: warm and there wasn't like it's so much. And then

495
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe I'm not hydrated. It's like a little thing,

496
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 1: you know. But I was so excited that I got

497
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: it like in the cup and it didn't go everywhere.

498
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:32,200
Speaker 1: But then I'm like, yeah, I'm peeing the cups feeling

499
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 1: up fast and oh yeah, oh I can't it not

500
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: big golf shirt. So I got there with a bat fee.

501
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: Is this enough? Is this what you wanted? But I

502
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: just was like looking around and I felt like I

503
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,159
Speaker 1: just want to make sure that my stuff ended up

504
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 1: where it was supposed to, so it gets to them

505
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 1: to the right lap, because I'll tell you what we

506
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,600
Speaker 1: didn't need. We don't need that little tag getting switched.

507
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 1: And now the results are different. Things are wild out

508
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: there in the streets. But yeah, it is just really

509
00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 1: wondering how that whole went. But yeah, anyways, I hope,

510
00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 1: oh eventually, yeah there was like seventeen pricks, but again

511
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 1: not the girl's fault. I got shitty veins, really, but yeah,

512
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:15,359
Speaker 1: the whole getting your blood drawing thing is really something.

513
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,640
Speaker 1: And also this is me. I'm looking around. I want

514
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 1: to be like, what are you in for? What do

515
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,120
Speaker 1: you what do you got going on? Like I want

516
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 1: to start asking questions and people back the time, well

517
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,880
Speaker 1: because I'm so bored. It was like, I'm really trying

518
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: to be better. As you know, I've been carrying a

519
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 1: book around right because I like, I don't want to

520
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: be scrolling so much. Okay, so I carry my I

521
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 1: carry I don't have my book in there to begin with,

522
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 1: and then go and see like now I'm waiting a

523
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:38,119
Speaker 1: long time, and go back out to the car and

524
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: get the book. And I'm in there, but I can't

525
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 1: concentrate on reading because I'm looking around and I want

526
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: to be like make eye contact with someone and be

527
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 1: like what are you going in for? And I want

528
00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: to see what's happening, Like who are these people? How

529
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: much did you fill up the cup? Yeah? You got

530
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 1: to have a blood and pe? Okay, I'm just like

531
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 1: so that people, that's a lot to ask. I mean,

532
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 1: that was it every day in the fertility clinic, blood

533
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: and pee. But you're like, oh, oh my god, oh

534
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 1: I know so much. Hey, because they have these options

535
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,640
Speaker 1: for us, you're killing them. He killed it. What else

536
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 1: is on our list of to do?

537
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 3: Oh?

538
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

539
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 3: What else do you have here? No use of location

540
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 3: when things don't need it?

541
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 1: What is that? Well? I got a lot to say today, apparently, Hey, we.

542
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 3: Spent the whole weekend with each other and this is

543
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 3: our best episode ever.

544
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 1: It's like I didn't know if we'd have anything to

545
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 1: talk about.

546
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 3: We never not have, We never had a basic have

547
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,959
Speaker 3: we kind of are this sign we never have podcasts.

548
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 3: It's like the podcast about Nothing. I thought about this

549
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 3: at four forty five this morning. It's the podcast about

550
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 3: nothing and it becomes a show.

551
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: Jerry, you know what's so interesting about that? So you

552
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: know how we're going to tape episodes and stuff like

553
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 1: that because we've got a lot of questions and we're

554
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: going to get involved in all that kind of stuff.

555
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: Then I had this thing. I was like, nobody wants

556
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: to keep listening to us. It's just I'm just we're

557
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 1: rambling and we're rambling, and I'm like, hey, yeah, if

558
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: you do, I got more where that came from. Here's

559
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: my latest ran though my last thing, and then we

560
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 1: can get some headlines. What is with the location for everything?

561
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,679
Speaker 1: I understand if I have to order a coffee, you

562
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 1: need my location. You're going to try to find the

563
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 1: local coffee place. That's fine, ask for my location then,

564
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 1: but you do not need my location If I am

565
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: signing an e file form from my accountant, if why

566
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 1: are you asking for my location? It's like always with

567
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: the pop ups, I'm literally signing an e file DOCU

568
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: sign thing and up pop up location accuracy yes or no?

569
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,400
Speaker 1: And I'm like, why, yeah, do you need to know that?

570
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: Oh girl, you'll pay attention to it now. The location

571
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: accuracy pop ups are getting real cocky. We don't need

572
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,439
Speaker 1: my location when I'm signing an e file form or

573
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: when I'm just, you know, perusing the internet for god

574
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: knows what for new roofers. Like, maybe you need the

575
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 1: location then because you want to send the right guy.

576
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, if it's not geo important whatever the

577
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 1: actual word is geo location important or prevalent, don't ask

578
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: me my location. Okay, I'm just looking up how to

579
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 1: decorate a garden shed. You don't need to know that.

580
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 1: I'm currently on the corner of you know, Help Avenue

581
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: and go fuck yourself, Like it's just you don't need

582
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:16,800
Speaker 1: that location.

583
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 3: Of that corner by the way, Yeah, I mean it's

584
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:21,640
Speaker 3: like it's where I like to live.

585
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 1: I need a little help and a little go fuck yourself.

586
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: You're not getting my location. Okay. You guys are getting

587
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: real cocky with the information. You know my I already

588
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: go on a rant about how you're trying to get

589
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: my emails and my phone numbers. You don't need the

590
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 1: location all the time. You don't, I got to start

591
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 1: paying attention to that, yes, because here's what happens. They

592
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,640
Speaker 1: catch you in a moment when they know you're just like, hey,

593
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 1: enough with the pop ups, like these cookies. The cookie

594
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: pop ups are crazy, Like what are the cookies? Even

595
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 1: means I was cooking?

596
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 3: You meant crumbles like the Cookie company cookies that you

597
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 3: need the location for.

598
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: So we is a cookie? What is a cookie? Current?

599
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: What is accept the cookies? And if I don't accept

600
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 1: the cookies, I can't look at the website, but what

601
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: is the cookies? It's probably just another form of location accuracy.

602
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:09,800
Speaker 1: So I'm just saying yes because I want all the

603
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 1: pop ups to go away. This is what I'm doing.

604
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 1: Just yes, yes, yes, yes to everything. And I have

605
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:19,679
Speaker 1: literally no privacy left exactly. I mean, it's just you have.

606
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't have a firstborn. But I'm sure you've taken

607
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: that too, because you know the location of the fertility clinic.

608
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: So you went in there and you took my shout out.

609
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: I love that McDonald. So anyways, I just think that

610
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:35,719
Speaker 1: location and the cookies and the pop ups when I'm

611
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,919
Speaker 1: trying to do something, then you try to trick me

612
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: with that little pop up. Now I got to go

613
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: look around for that little X. And now I didn't

614
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: hit the X. I actually hit the ad because the

615
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: X was so small. Now the ads popped up. I'm

616
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:48,480
Speaker 1: putting the arrow back, trying to get back to the

617
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: original website or E file docu sign. Just trying to

618
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 1: pay my taxes and be a good person and drink

619
00:28:56,720 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: more water. Hey have a pack jug huh. All we're

620
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: on a tangent.

621
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 3: Just because Steve's just sent a text, I do think

622
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 3: we should address this.

623
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 1: You had mentioned this a while ago. Steve just send this.

624
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: We're running hot right now.

625
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: I think we go ahead and do it, and we'll

626
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 3: have Brian and Kurt made a little clip on this.

627
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 3: We have somebody out there that is claiming to be

628
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 3: our producer, I'm assuming, and we have had multiple people

629
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 3: reach out to us and say, hey, I'm so excited

630
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 3: to do the show. These emails are fake. This guy

631
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 3: is bullshit. We don't know who he is. We are

632
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 3: trying our very best to stop this and put a

633
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 3: pin in it, but not able to yet. I was

634
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 3: going to say this CT feel free and Ryan, you

635
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 3: can interject when you put this on Instagram for us

636
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,080
Speaker 3: with the caption if you think you have been booked

637
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 3: by us DM our account and we'll let you know

638
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 3: if this isn't crap. I was just going to say,

639
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 3: because we've had multiple people be like, oh, we're coming

640
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 3: on the show that I'm like friends of ours, right,

641
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I'm I'm so sorry, Like we we

642
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 3: didn't book anybody.

643
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: We haven't. We're so sorry this is happening, I know,

644
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 1: because then it also makes us look like it's our

645
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 1: fault or not professional in terms of how we're running

646
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 1: our operation over here. But it's somebody fraudulently pretending to

647
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: be us a producer or booker and throwing out these

648
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: emails and Steve yeah, I was like, wait what he said. Yeah,

649
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 1: it's another one that's completely fake.

650
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 3: So, yeah, trying to get your personal information speaking of

651
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 3: privacy or cookie or whatever. They probably want your location, yeah,

652
00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 3: probably location and all.

653
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: Jokes aside the location things bullshit. But this is not cool.

654
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: I'm over You're right Errand we try to be like, hey,

655
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: we'll just you know, be able to fix it away. Nope,

656
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: We're going to go back at the corner of help

657
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: and go fuck yourself. Stop sending emails pretending to be

658
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: a calm down podcast producer. Get a lawyer, We'll get

659
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: I will see you in court.

660
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 3: You again, just DMS and we will get back to

661
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 3: you really, really quick. One of the four of us

662
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 3: are always on that account, and we'll let you know

663
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 3: if this is if this is valid, not valid, crocus

664
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 3: shit all of it.

665
00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: We are so sorry that this so sorry.

666
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, people are freaks, breaks in the streets.

667
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 1: Got a headline, sister, and we want to get to

668
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,520
Speaker 1: I got a lot of headlines. Okay. The rise of

669
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: a placeholder partner. Interesting.

670
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 3: A friend of mine got out of a six year

671
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 3: relationship only to have her ex mary someone new within

672
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,480
Speaker 3: six months. Whoa Another woman I met at a networking

673
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 3: event recently has been with her boyfriend for a decade,

674
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 3: waiting on a ring. Every time they go on vacation,

675
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: she wonders if this holiday will be the one where

676
00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 3: he proposes, only to be dejected on the flight home back.

677
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 3: I've never had the heart to tell these women they

678
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 3: were placeholders.

679
00:31:49,400 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 2: Oh.

680
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: Interesting.

681
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 3: According to social media, a placeholder partner is good enough

682
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:57,360
Speaker 3: to date, live with, or even spend years alongside, but

683
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 3: never the person their partner actually plans to commit to

684
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 3: in the long term. No, damn it, No, I know

685
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 3: I don't miss that crap. No, but I also okay,

686
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,880
Speaker 3: I want to need more information. I can totally understand

687
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 3: the idea of a placeholder. Sure, because people, I mean,

688
00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: I wouldn't.

689
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: Ever classify people I've been with as a placeholder, but

690
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: I will say I'm I'm I'm a monogamous Like I

691
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 1: like being in a relationship. I definitely have a track

692
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,160
Speaker 1: record of Like I went from boyfriend to boyfriend, and

693
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 1: people make jokes about, oh, we'll just get married again. Oh, hey,

694
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: you're adorable. Hey how's your going over there? Yeah, yeah,

695
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: you're ugly. Anyways, it's just this thing where I'm like,

696
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 1: I like being in a relationship that said, nothing wrong

697
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: with it. I don't think like that. I ever, you know,

698
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: let anybody on and give any I'm very open with

699
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: See we're not getting married. I love you more than

700
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 1: anything in the whole world. You're the best thing that's

701
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: ever happened to me. But like, I don't want to

702
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 1: get a marrigan. So I think that this idea of

703
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: a placeholder, like yeah, if you're if you're with your boyfriend,

704
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: for a decade, and he like, what do those conversations

705
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: look like? Is he saying like, oh, I don't want

706
00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: to get married, and maybe you're just hoping you can

707
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: change him. We all know those women and men do

708
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: it too, so it's not just a one thing. But

709
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: get in relationships and they say, oh, I'm fine with it.

710
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: I'm fine if you don't want to get married, or

711
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm fine if you don't want to have kids, And

712
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: then they're like, I can I can change him? Right

713
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: like wink wink, Like I'm going to be the one

714
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 1: that whatever. So is this person actually a placeholder or

715
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: is it just like a different set of situations, like

716
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: a circumstances in the relationship. I don't know. This sounds

717
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 1: like such.

718
00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 3: As sex in the City episode back in the day,

719
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 3: You're a placeholder.

720
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: I'm a place placeholder. Can't be a placeholder? God, the

721
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: writing you're a placeholder? Old? What's Samantha? Yeah, yeah, we

722
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 1: definitely we need I need more information on this, but

723
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 1: I think it's the any and I should also be

724
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: as like, if I didn't have to go back to

725
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 1: school and get my PhD in it, I would love

726
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 1: to be a therapist because there's real I've done enough

727
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:07,040
Speaker 1: therapy to know, like the tactical approach. I'm like, they've

728
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: got to sit and there's a lot of listening, you know,

729
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: because I hold on writing it, write it down that

730
00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: when you sit in the office, when you have a

731
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: patient like me, this is me, the whole hour goes

732
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: by out of time, and then they go we're all

733
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: out of time. I'm like, you haven't said anything. You've

734
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: literally not said one word. It's the easiest five hundred

735
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: and fifty dollars because I am going to say everything.

736
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: And then the therapists like, well, how did that make

737
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:36,840
Speaker 1: you feel? And I'm like that's it, yeah, yeah, and

738
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: then I go on another ramp for another forty five minutes.

739
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 1: But I think in my own mind, i'd be a

740
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: good therapist, but I'd probably be worst therapist because I

741
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: would just do all the talking and the patient's like,

742
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 1: I haven't been able to get a goddamn word, and

743
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:50,320
Speaker 1: the therapist thinks that she's getting paid by the word

744
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: over here. But I like helping people. That's what I

745
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 1: want to do.

746
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 3: You do and you ask really really great questions, Like

747
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 3: yesterday on the plane, I was watching you and Kelly

748
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 3: talk about things and you were like ask you were

749
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 3: being so engaged.

750
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: I was like what, But I just thought, yeah, you're

751
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: really good.

752
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 3: At like asking the hard hitting questions with friends and

753
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 3: like finding the reason.

754
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: My goal is the doctor Phil, why is this happening?

755
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 3: What is the app Like? Where are how you? How

756
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 3: does that make you feel? And where is this coming from?

757
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,879
Speaker 1: That is a very you question because and by the way,

758
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: when you do ask that question, it's always the right

759
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: because then I start crying and I'm like, this is

760
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,280
Speaker 1: if I'm going on a rant about something. I'm like, oh,

761
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: the garbage can is too full, and you're like, okay, well,

762
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: where's what's happening here? There's more, It's not about the

763
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: garbage can. There's actually something else going on. And then

764
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 1: there always is and I'm like.

765
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I do that with myself, and it's crazy.

766
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 1: What's this?

767
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 3: Students are skipping the hardest part of growing up?

768
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: What is that? You've probably heard of extreme cases in

769
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:56,160
Speaker 1: which people treat bots as lovers, therapists or friends, Okay,

770
00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:00,439
Speaker 1: but many more have them intervene and they're social lives

771
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: in subtler ways. In subtler ways, subtle you're just having

772
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 1: a conversation on dating apps, people are leaning on AI

773
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 1: to help them seem more educated or confident. One app,

774
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 1: Hinge reports that many younger users quote vibe check messages

775
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: with AI before sending them. Oh I hate this this

776
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: young man was talking about. I know, we need good

777
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 1: social judgment to get along with one another. Good judgment

778
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 1: comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment. It

779
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: sounds odd to say that we have to preserve space

780
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 1: for humans to screw up socially, but yeah, it is

781
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:31,240
Speaker 1: so true.

782
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 3: You have to grow up socially, Like socially you have

783
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 3: to mature. And we were just having a really well

784
00:36:37,920 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 3: educated more educated than I could ever Like even those.

785
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 1: Conversations turned me on so much. I love them, Oh

786
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 1: my god.

787
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 3: But we were just having a conversation with somebody who

788
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 3: was fully educated on having it about AI and where

789
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 3: we're going with it, and just talking about losing certain

790
00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 3: what is this called not attributes, but what is this

791
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 3: called social certain skills?

792
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: And you're like the you know how we say all

793
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: the time, like this person has no social etiquette, They

794
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 1: have no so they can't take were cues, they have

795
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 1: no social awareness, like all that all of that comes

796
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: from experience, like where you know, like, hey, don't say

797
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,239
Speaker 1: anything in this situation. But if we outsource all of

798
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 1: that to AI, and by the way, there is there's

799
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: a time and a place for AI. Like there's so

800
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: many benefits to it and we know that. And it's

801
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: a little bit of the wild West, very similar to

802
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 1: when the Internet came out and everyone's like, whoa, what

803
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: is this crazy thing? And it's going to get bad

804
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 1: and then it has to police itself and there's like

805
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: a whole system to it. Said, it's just like what

806
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,080
Speaker 1: these people like, like something as simple as like outsourcing texts,

807
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 1: so like you can seem cooler and smarter to like

808
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: the boyfriend, But then what happens, as I was saying,

809
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: even on that app with like sports stuff or whatever,

810
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: like that's fun and funny. But if you're outsourcing your

811
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: whole life and you're it's not your identity, then that's

812
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: not who you are. That's a robot that's manufacturing these

813
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 1: text messages. So you going to do when you sit

814
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: down in front of the person and have dinner, They're

815
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,760
Speaker 1: like that person was not the funny person that I

816
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: was talking to on text, So you're misrepresenting yourself. I

817
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: actually think it's like fraudulent in a way, like you're

818
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 1: pretending to be someone that you aren't. It was like

819
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 1: when I got my first Victoria's Secret push up broad

820
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: and it looked like I had huge boobs, and then

821
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: I was like, what happens when I started making out

822
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:22,759
Speaker 1: with this guy and I have to take my bra off?

823
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: Like it's like it's fake, Like seriously, I was like,

824
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: these look incredible, but that's not real, Like I don't

825
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: you know, like you can't so good present yourself that

826
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 1: way or you can and then just you're gonna hide

827
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 1: behind your AI text chains for the rest of your

828
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 1: life and never really meet anyone. You have to make

829
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: the mistakes in life to learn from them and get better.

830
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: It's a wild world.

831
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 3: And you're kind of talking about like around the fire,

832
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 3: but also on the plane where you know, social media

833
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 3: and we are now starting to see the effects that

834
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 3: it's having on children and bullying and people thinking that

835
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 3: a lot of this crap is reality and it's not.

836
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 1: And now like what is is that?

837
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 3: Is that Max generation that I'm going to see what

838
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 3: AI it will.

839
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:14,440
Speaker 1: Do for them and may hurt him, you know, So

840
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 1: it gets scary. I just wish that. When I'm watching

841
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 1: these dog videos and the little dog and the little

842
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 1: girl are sitting there having a conversation, I'm like, oh

843
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: my god, that dog's so well trained. I'm like, that's

844
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: not a real dog. That's an AI situation. You need

845
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: to have a watermark. So I don't like get invested

846
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 1: in this life. That's what's veresome. But you know what's

847
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 1: so crazy though, too, is like I mean again, this

848
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 1: is a whole other tangent and I mean whatever, but

849
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,319
Speaker 1: it's like what is like someone could say, remember there

850
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: was a story where like, yeah, took a picture of us,

851
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 1: and it's like, but it wasn't real. That was a

852
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: fake AI picture And then they're using it as like no,

853
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: but I saw you there. Look that's you guys. And

854
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:53,359
Speaker 1: it's like what technology like needs to be or maybe

855
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:55,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure it is already developed, we're just

856
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 1: like not privy to it.

857
00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 3: But to police that because that is wild behavior, This

858
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 3: is deep dark shit, And I'll say it. I mean,

859
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Speaker 3: it's what happened with everything that I went through online.

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Speaker 3: There was nothing to police it.

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Speaker 1: Is, there was nothing.

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Speaker 3: You can just post that shit without being any sort

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Speaker 3: of legal jurisdiction, and yeah, my case helped that, but

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to be the person to do that.

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Speaker 1: You know, snook and that and that.

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Speaker 3: Is really, really, really really what I worry about with

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Speaker 3: AI because it's moving so quickly, there's no time to

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Speaker 3: make laws about it.

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Speaker 1: And everything you went through is horrific. And I got

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Speaker 1: my phone hacked too. I had to spend all this

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Speaker 1: money for cause and assist when stuff went on the

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Speaker 1: internet on all these sites that you have no jurisdiction

873
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Speaker 1: of because there been god knows where, paid all this

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Speaker 1: money to have them taken down and then they put

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Speaker 1: them right back up because you can't police it. It's

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Speaker 1: like it's dangerous. And it's like there's as much as

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Speaker 1: we love technology and it allows so much advancement in

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Speaker 1: the medical field or transportation or all of these things,

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00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 1: it's like there's every action has an opposite and equal reaction.

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00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: It's like we're going this way and that's also great,

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00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: but also what are all the pitfalls of that? And that?

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Speaker 1: And we live in a society that if you see it,

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00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 1: you're like, but I saw that, You're like, that wasn't

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00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: all click. It wasn't real. So anyways, I'll tell you

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00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,839
Speaker 1: what's real. I mean this, this skin coloring from this

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00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: garage light guy's eye look like I need to go

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Speaker 1: back to get my blood drawn. Is she alive?

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00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 3: Is she I'm two tone? Who's using her summertime makeup?

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Speaker 1: February? You know what I mean? This is like I'm purple,

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Speaker 1: I swear I'm alive. How many colors?

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Speaker 3: Dominique, Denise, we got a real situation on our hands.

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Speaker 1: How about the blending situation? Okay about this move? You

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Speaker 1: get in the natural night or you get in your

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Speaker 1: car in the rear view mirror and you're like, what

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Speaker 1: the well, who's going to do a school play later?

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Speaker 1: I mean, my god, she used all the Krans in

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Speaker 1: the cram box. Hey, I love your keys, hold on,

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Speaker 1: drop their case. Oh you're doing great? All right? Well,

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Speaker 1: I love you. You've wrapped up three sessions and one

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Speaker 1: you know. I love you great. I love you so much, Kurt,

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Speaker 1: You're the best. Everybody listening, stay safe out there, and

902
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: remember if you get an email from us, we love you.

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Speaker 1: But we did point that and dm us because we

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Speaker 1: want to crack down on all the nonsense. For sure.

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