1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:21,880 Speaker 1: million bucks things. And it's to be true. Good Steve 4 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: Hart to the mother for I don't join joining You 5 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: gotta use that turn you. You gotta turn to turn 6 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: them out. Turn You got to turn them out to 7 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: turn turn the water the water go. Come come on 8 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: your thing, huh, I sure will. A good morning everybody. 9 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: You're listening to the voice, Come on, come on, y'all 10 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a 11 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: radio show man. Is God good to me? Unbelievable? Yeah? 12 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 1: It is. And and I can only attribute it to 13 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: one thing. It's just been a turnaround in my life. 14 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:27,519 Speaker 1: It's it's been me finally making a decision to see 15 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: what all God has from me, but at the same 16 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: time trying to be more God wants me to be 17 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: instead of more what I want to be. That's the 18 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 1: trade off. You know, you gotta do something now. You know, 19 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: you know you want God's blessings, you gotta be willing 20 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 1: to do something on his behalf. Now. I'm not saying 21 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 1: I got it right right now, because I'm just being 22 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: real with you. I don't. I don't have it all 23 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: together by any stretch of imagination. I'm trying to get 24 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: better in several areas. I'm praying about it, I'm working 25 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: on it, but you know, it's surprised and I've I've 26 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:05,040 Speaker 1: grown to accept the process. But I'm improving in a 27 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: lot of areas from day to day. But I'll tell 28 00:03:07,440 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 1: you what, man, my success all is going on with 29 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 1: me I can only attribute to this turnaround. And the 30 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: turnaround was simple. I turned around and started looking at God. 31 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: That was a simple move. Man. I just turned around 32 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,359 Speaker 1: and started looking at him, and I was going, Okay, 33 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 1: I get it. Now, you created me. You're the creator. 34 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: You have a purpose for me. I understand that. Now. 35 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: Now let me just walk in that purpose and let 36 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: me get to doing that purpose. Now, my purpose and 37 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: your purpose and their purpose and anybody's perfect purpose could 38 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: be different, and the way you go about the purpose 39 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: can be different. And that's the part that I've really 40 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: grown up to. I've opened up my mind to understanding 41 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: that everybody's different, nobody's quite the same, and that is 42 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: not my right or position to judge, but to be 43 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,800 Speaker 1: of a forgiving spirit and understand and forgive those as 44 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: I ask God to forgive me. See that's the key. 45 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: That's the key, y'all. So when you out here and 46 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 1: you stuck on this unforgiveness, understand in the large prayer 47 00:04:18,040 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: as a segment that says, forgive us our trust passes, 48 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 1: as we forgive those who trust pass against us. There's 49 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 1: another version says forgive us our debts as we forgive 50 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 1: our debt us. It's two different versions, but either one 51 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: it means the exact same thing. It means simply this, 52 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 1: that you are asking God to forgive yours like you 53 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,720 Speaker 1: forgive others. Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive 54 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: those who trust pass against us when I crossed the 55 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: line with you, God handle me the way I handle 56 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,559 Speaker 1: people when they cross the line with me. You feel 57 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying to you, See you understand that. That's 58 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: the breakdown of it. Best way I can give it 59 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: to you. Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive 60 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: those who trust pass against us. Forgive me God for 61 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: stepping over the line, like I forgive those that step 62 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: over the line on me. That's the hard part, man, 63 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: that's the part man. I've really been working on. I've 64 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: been really trying to get that together, and so I've 65 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: learned forgiveness a lot better over the past five years 66 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: than I have before, and it's paid off. I can't 67 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: tell you how I was paid off, because now God's 68 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: mercy and grace is all over me, because I've learned 69 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 1: to become more graceful. Now I ain't graceful like him, 70 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: I ain't merciful like him, but I've learned to become 71 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: more more graceful, more merciful, because man, I can't live 72 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: my life like that. I just got sick of me. Man, 73 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: you're mad at me, now I'm mad at you. You 74 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: hate on me, Now I'm gonna hate on you. I 75 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: ain't got time for that. Man, I've got you. Look here, 76 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 1: you got somewhere to go. Hate take up time. It's 77 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: time consuming. Hating Trying to seek revenge, it's time consuming. 78 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: It take up way too much of your time to 79 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 1: seek revenge When vengeance ain't really yours. That's another one. 80 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: Vengeance is mine, say if the lord it ain't yours. 81 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: So now when you go to seek it to take 82 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 1: it out, guess what you're doing. You're doing something now, man, 83 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 1: Now you off into area that you got no business 84 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: being in. And instead of steady climbing your letter like 85 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: you're supposed to, you didn't take out time for vengeance 86 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: to hate. I'm a hater. I'm gonna be a blogger. 87 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: I'm a blog about so and so. When you're blogging 88 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,039 Speaker 1: about somebody, and most of these people you don't even 89 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: know when you're blogging about somebody, what you're doing, what 90 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: you're hating. It takes time to hate. Man. I just decided, Man, 91 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: I gotta take all my time and instead of have 92 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: doing time and being active, I got to be proactive. 93 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: See some people get that confused, being active and being 94 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: pro active. Pro is positive. Pro means to move forward. 95 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,160 Speaker 1: You know, if you put pro in front of most words, 96 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 1: it's a positive influence. You know, does the pros and 97 00:07:23,720 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: the cons. The pros is the good side, the cons 98 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 1: is what can go wrong the bad side. You know, 99 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: if you're active, that's one thing. But if you're pro active, 100 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: you're going forward in a positive direction. When you become 101 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: a pro that means you the best of the best 102 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: at whatever it is you chosen to be. I'm a 103 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: pro so somehow, and I know English teacher, grammatical God 104 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: the word pro a lot of times when you put 105 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: it in front of something, means positiveness. So now a 106 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: lot of people think that if you just active, something 107 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: are to happen. Well, I'm doing something, and that's what happens. Man. 108 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: We just find ourselves doing a lot of busy work 109 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: that really ain't bout nothing. It ain't going the way. 110 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: It ain't got no direction or no purpose because we 111 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: haven't tried to find out the direction of a purpose. 112 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: So you wake up and you and your wheels are spinning. 113 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: You a hamster on a tread meal. You're running real fast, 114 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,520 Speaker 1: but you're just going in the same spot. You understand 115 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: that's because you're just out here being active instead of proactive. 116 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: Why don't you get God in your life. Why don't 117 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 1: you turn and face your creative and find out how 118 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,959 Speaker 1: to become more proactive so you can do things to 119 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: move yourself forward. How you can get your life off 120 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: the ground and get off the tread meal and really 121 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 1: get it rolling in the direction that it need to 122 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 1: be going. Man, I'm telling you God can make that 123 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 1: change for you if he see you making the change 124 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 1: for him. See the whole key man, the whole kids. 125 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,839 Speaker 1: You got to be willing to do something. You got 126 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: to give God something to bless bless me God, and 127 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: then you go sit on your couch and you ain't trying. Okay, 128 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: bless me God with what what? What? What are you 129 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 1: working with? He can't have the people hire you if 130 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: you ain't put the app in. Come on, man, the 131 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: blessing comes when you make a proactive step, when you 132 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 1: try to do something on the positive side. Look, man, 133 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,439 Speaker 1: I'm gonna quit messing around with all these people. I'm 134 00:09:25,440 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 1: gonna start going home. I'm gonna leave these women loan 135 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,199 Speaker 1: out here. You got to say, all right, man, I 136 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: ain't going over that at night. I just ain't gonna 137 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: get Then God can work with you. God help me 138 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 1: stop seeing all these women. But you steady going over 139 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: there calling them setting up stuff. We can't nobody help 140 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: you because once you get over there, you already know. See, 141 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: you gotta get proactive. You gotta do something yourself. You 142 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. That that's the key, man. 143 00:09:55,520 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 1: So come on, y'all you're listening show, ladies and gentlemen. 144 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 1: I need it undivided attention is all. It's a promise 145 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: that I make every day that this show will never 146 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 1: start the same way two days in a row, so 147 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: why would I change it today? Junior, Yes, sir, hit 148 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: me with one Jodice cut Ah, take my mud, same boy, 149 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: my house in my car. Come on boy, just hit 150 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: up you. You can't have it all. Let meging love. 151 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: Come on boy, every time we do good words than 152 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 1: drums and I'm an attic for you got me going great? Okay, 153 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: leave you alone? Hey man. Them two wrote a song 154 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: and had the word drugs in it. Yeah, PHOENI wow 155 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: you No, no, thank you, Junior, I'll be judging. No, 156 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: no good see it got good to it? No. Yeah. 157 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 1: In the verse two, Charley Strawberry, Hey, good morning, Steve, 158 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: call for I'm a Joonasy fan too. What up, Junior, Steve, 159 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:46,880 Speaker 1: Tommy nephew Tommy, I am in the building. He hit 160 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: it on the nose this morning. Yes, sir, Tommy, you 161 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: the only ones can't sing at all? Mm hmm No, 162 00:11:53,920 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: Hank can No. No, I never never heard say that. 163 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: You're the one thing you can say. You don't want 164 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: to try to. I know I can't. But wait a minute, 165 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 1: No you don't take don't run over that. No, I 166 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: know I can, but I'm saying you just you just 167 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 1: had a song out. Trump is gone. I'll do what 168 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: I can do. I can preach. I preach it to 169 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: be on a song I was on. I don't hate 170 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:32,080 Speaker 1: on it. I think Tommy can mimic the song. I think, Mimi, Well, 171 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 1: let him sing something right now, like Junior, stop doing 172 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: one because I'm about the ruin the image of the 173 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: style that you used to I look funny, but yo, 174 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,199 Speaker 1: I'm making run and see right now baby that I 175 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: ain't saying as a rap. We'll take it. We'll take 176 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:56,760 Speaker 1: it whatever, take what you can get. College just said 177 00:12:56,840 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: you're a star on a scale of one to ten. Yeah, 178 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 1: what level star would you consider yourself? Oh god, I'm 179 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: so far down there. I'd say four or five. I'm 180 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 1: not a big star. No, come on there, I don't 181 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: think something I got. No, the average person time and 182 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: listen to him, ain't on nothing. You're on the radio 183 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: and TV. You don't understand home. You in the upper 184 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 1: one point one percent. Really, that's a blessing all of you. 185 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: All right, we gotta go. Wow, that's interesting though. Coming 186 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: up in thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the 187 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building right 188 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show Time 189 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:51,319 Speaker 1: Now for ask the clo this one. Chief Love Officer 190 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey is from Janessa and Chattanooga. Janessa says, I'm 191 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: fifty two and my husband is fifty seven, and he's 192 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:02,199 Speaker 1: having trouble performing in the bedroom. The doctor told him 193 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:06,079 Speaker 1: it's because of too much Hennessey, so he cut back 194 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: to drinking a few nights a week. That didn't work, 195 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: so now we're barely having sex at all. I asked 196 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: him to try a pill to see help, but he 197 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: refused to. He can drink all of the Hennessey in Tennessee, 198 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: but he can't take a little blue pill from me. 199 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: Should I crush the pill up in his food? Put 200 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: it in the yak, put it in the yak? I don't. 201 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 1: I don't understand that. That don't make no sense that 202 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: he don't want to He wouldn't do it. Well, obviously 203 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: he don't want to have sex. That's because, brother, you 204 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: go to the average man and you tell him you 205 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: can fix his sex problem. He fit about all that. Yes, 206 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: and then dog and so and then some refields. Yeah, 207 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,120 Speaker 1: this dude has another issue. I ain't taking no pill. 208 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: What he must not want to house set. That's the 209 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 1: only thing I can do. Even if people don't like 210 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: to take pills and stuff. Maybe he's one what you 211 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: don't like take a peel or you don't like having sex, 212 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: which one in you won't do being hit shooting in 213 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: peels up. I have so much of that bitter mess 214 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: in the back of my throat. I had a raise 215 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: a blade out. You swear, I'm up in him selling dope. 216 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: I'd be cutting that peel up. So fine, Well, she 217 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 1: should just crush it up in this food. Yeah, be 218 00:15:28,840 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 1: snorting viagra. Oh all right, Florentine. We're moving on. Florentine 219 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 1: in New York says I just met a man that 220 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: doesn't have a car, so he uses public transportation. He 221 00:15:41,280 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: comes to my house by train and a bus. And 222 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: before he gets to my house, I put a blanket 223 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 1: over my sofa so he won't have his street clothes 224 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:52,120 Speaker 1: on my furniture. I also required that he thoroughly washed 225 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 1: his hands and his face before he touches me. He 226 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 1: is irritated by my house rules, So should I be 227 00:15:59,000 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 1: concerned about his overall hygiene? We haven't had sex, and 228 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 1: I don't want any surprises down there. Wow, he don't 229 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: have a car. How old is it? And what city 230 00:16:13,120 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: do you live in? If you live in New York, 231 00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 1: that's common. People don't have cars in New York, that's common. 232 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: A lot of people live downtown Chicago don't have cars common. 233 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:29,040 Speaker 1: So I'm not saying that's a deal breaker. But hygiene 234 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: is a deal breaker. And if he's aggravated, I don't know. 235 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't know, now, don't know, I don't know. It 236 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 1: depends on where you live and how older man is. 237 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:39,920 Speaker 1: He ain't got a car. So if he ain't got 238 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: a car, what else he wash? Your face? Washing? Is 239 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: all that? Public transportation? Yeah? What's wrong with that? He's 240 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: touching things and yeah, sitting down on public transportation? Yeah, 241 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 1: I get it. Sound like he needs to come over 242 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: there with some more clothes. Yeah, you go to bed 243 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: bath from beyond and buy his ass a road, right, 244 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 1: or you could just make him put on a hazmat 245 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: suit when he come in. She's probably thought of it. 246 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:25,160 Speaker 1: If Florentine in New York, all right, butch in Columbia, 247 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 1: South Carolina says, I'm a forty four year old man 248 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:31,119 Speaker 1: and I have never been married, nor do I want to. 249 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 1: I have a life partner that recently moved in with 250 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: me after we dated for three years. Her parents are 251 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: not supportive of our arrangement, and they tell me whenever 252 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 1: they're around me. She doesn't defend us or correct her parents, 253 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: even though the life partner thing was her idea. Shouldn't 254 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 1: she be the one to tell her parents to let 255 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 1: it go? Or should I say something? This is to 256 00:17:54,080 --> 00:18:02,360 Speaker 1: butch now they still good Butcher? Butch? Yes? Wold Wait, 257 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:06,919 Speaker 1: I did I miss something? What you meant? Forty four 258 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:09,719 Speaker 1: year old man, never been married? It's a woman. If 259 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: that's what you're thinking, My partner threw you off. Okay, 260 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: wait a minute. So it's a forty four year old 261 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 1: man who is a woman. No, no, no, no, no, Steve, 262 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: he's forty four years old, he's been married, he's never 263 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:28,920 Speaker 1: been married. He doesn't he dating a woman? Now, he's 264 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,000 Speaker 1: dating a woman who moved in with him, and they 265 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: calling theirselfs like Paul call. She thought of that term, 266 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 1: and it's been since three years, but her parents don't 267 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: approve of it, and she doesn't check them. He wants 268 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: to know, should he, Well, yeah, you can going and 269 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 1: check them. But it's really y'all's business. But you know, 270 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: I guess you made a decision that you didn't want 271 00:18:48,320 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: to be married, and she didn't went along with it, 272 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: so ain't nothing nobody really can do about it. I 273 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: don't know what the discussion is. She went along with 274 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: his life part in the business. Y'all cool with it. 275 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: That's what it is. M I don't know what else 276 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:08,159 Speaker 1: do we do? Okay, okay, Well, moving on Justice in 277 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: Baltimore says, my seventy seven year old dad recently moved 278 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 1: into a move to a memory care facility because of 279 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: his dementia, and my mother is acting like she's single. 280 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 1: She goes to every she goes to the casino every weekend, 281 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: and she sleeps over at her girlfriend's home a few 282 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: nights a week. This is all during COVID and she 283 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:35,719 Speaker 1: doesn't believe in the vascination, in the vaccine. She's been 284 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:39,880 Speaker 1: married for fifty years, so I'm I'm glad she's having 285 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,280 Speaker 1: fun and getting out, But how do I convince her 286 00:19:42,840 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 1: to get the vaccine? I can't help. She's seventy seven, 287 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: she don't want a vaccine. You know, there's some people 288 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 1: that don't want to get it. I gave up trying 289 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 1: to convince people. You know your decision. I don't know 290 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 1: how you convince your mamma to get to vac scene. 291 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: She acting single. I don't know, man, that's a tough one. 292 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 1: Any suggestions, ladies. I got my second shot yesterday, and 293 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: I'll tell you after you get the vaccination. There's a 294 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:21,879 Speaker 1: sense of relief. I feel relieved, you know. I don't know, 295 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 1: I just feel it like seven. Yeah, she's seventy seven 296 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: and she's doing things. She's social gathering, she's going to 297 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 1: the casino. She's doing things to put her health at 298 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:38,840 Speaker 1: risk so that she really needs to consider. Maybe she 299 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 1: thinks seventy seven is a good enough run. Wow. Oh 300 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:47,679 Speaker 1: he's living her best life right now. Sounds like all right, 301 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,720 Speaker 1: thank you, seeing l O, thank you. Coming up next, 302 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: it is a nephew would run that prank back right 303 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening. Coming up at the top of 304 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: the hour, Miss Anna's ending by with today's weather and 305 00:21:01,840 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: national news and entertainment news. Carlo is here with today's 306 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 1: music news and the first Dogs are back. They are 307 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 1: back at the White House. Got that all worked out. 308 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 1: We'll talk about all of these stories at the top 309 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 1: of the hour. But right now the nephew is here, 310 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: would run that brank back. What you got for us? Now? 311 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 1: My refrigerator, my refrigerator, let's go. K Hello, Hello, I'm 312 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:30,639 Speaker 1: trying to reach out mister please miss This is Jackson. 313 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,160 Speaker 1: I'm the driver, man, I'm actually the delivery guy that's 314 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:37,040 Speaker 1: bringing you refrigerator over the day. Okay, what's going on? Okay, listen, 315 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: I know we had a window that was from eight 316 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 1: to twelve this morning eleven thirty now, so we run 317 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: a little bit behind schedule. Man, we have some problems 318 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: at the yard getting everything loaded up. Man, come on, man, 319 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: you killing man? I can't y'all y'all running behind. We're 320 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 1: a little bit behind schedule. Man, we're gonna have we 321 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 1: we'll beat up somewhere between twelve and four. Oh, come on, man, 322 00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: y'all know then do better than that, now, man, job, 323 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: I understand, sir, I understand. Actually it's it's actually I 324 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,639 Speaker 1: got a man. I got all my food in here 325 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 1: and this and coolers and stuff. Man, I got every where. 326 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: I man, So I mean, what's what's what's going on? 327 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 1: Y'all ain't got the refrigerator. I'm trying to figure out. No, No, 328 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 1: we loaded up. You know, we just had some problems. 329 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: I think one of the fourth lifts went out, and 330 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,720 Speaker 1: you know, it kind of pushed us back. So that 331 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 1: four hour wind that we had from eight to twelve, man, 332 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: just got ruined. And now we're pushing things from our 333 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 1: twelve to four. So between twelve and four, man, we 334 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: would definitely be there. Man, y'all don't have to be brothers. 335 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: And I spoke to yesterday. Actually the warehouse supervisor, he's 336 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: actually out today. He's not here, So he's not here. Yeah, man, Yeah, 337 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm supposed work here one You said, y'all are gonna 338 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: be here till in between twelve and four. I'm supposed 339 00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 1: to be it work here. We want to Clark, I 340 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 1: understand it, man, I greatly apologize. Man, this rarely happens, 341 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,920 Speaker 1: and it just so happened this morning and fourkliph was 342 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 1: down and we had a lot of stuf up to 343 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: load up. You know, we got I got ten refrigerators 344 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,040 Speaker 1: on this truck, man, and one of them is definitely yours, sir. 345 00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,719 Speaker 1: So I'm definitely gonna be getting into you as soon 346 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 1: as I can't, man, y'all. So so many. I'm pushing it. 347 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:13,040 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to work, and then I scheduled everything, yes, 348 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 1: around this, because I'm supposed to you know, I gotta 349 00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:17,000 Speaker 1: have a refrigerator. Had on my food and stuff and 350 00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,919 Speaker 1: in the kitchen and whatnot. The refrigerator went out. Did 351 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,199 Speaker 1: the refrigerator went out? Is that what happened? Yeah, it's 352 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: very so there. I mean I had it for quite 353 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,320 Speaker 1: some times, which you know, so it's just amount of 354 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: time for we'll go out. So I try to go 355 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: even get the newest, you know, right, that's why. Well, 356 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,440 Speaker 1: now I can scared you. I can scaredu you next 357 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: week sometime if you want me to. I mean I can't. 358 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: I can't afford that we're gonna pave this food that 359 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 1: I got to hear all over the floor. Let me 360 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,199 Speaker 1: let me get the hustler. Man. See if I can 361 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 1: move as quick as I can. But twelve to four 362 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 1: is the window. Man. Like I said, I apologize, mister, 363 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: We'll be that man. We're gonna we're gonna we're gonna 364 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 1: be that what you're refrigerated day. Okay, okay, So so 365 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: when you when you on your way, how about I 366 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 1: want you to call me and let me know that 367 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: you on your way, so I know what's going on. 368 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: We don't know. We don't know the call when we're 369 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 1: on our way. We just come on in and get 370 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 1: things set up. What do you mean you don't call not? 371 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,800 Speaker 1: You just called me just now, didn't. Yeah? Yeah, like 372 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:11,679 Speaker 1: I said, the problem is on us. Man, I give 373 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 1: you a call when we're in a round. Okay, okay, 374 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,640 Speaker 1: I appreciate this. Now you said twere you said between 375 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 1: twelve and four. Now, ye yes, sir, tween twelve and four. 376 00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,879 Speaker 1: We definitely be there. We got your on the truck man. Okay, 377 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want to, miss man. No, no, 378 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:23,639 Speaker 1: we got you, We got you. We'll see you in 379 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:29,960 Speaker 1: a minute. Man, all right, they can hello, miss This 380 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: is Jackson again, the delivery guy man with refrigerator. Well yeah, listen, listen, 381 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,879 Speaker 1: battis man. We run into a few more problems here. Man. 382 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,920 Speaker 1: It looks like we're probably not gonna get that refrigerator 383 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: out till tomorrow. Sometimes you said, you said, what we 384 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 1: run into a few more problems, man, It looks like 385 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,600 Speaker 1: we're probably not gonna get that refrigerator out till tomorrow. 386 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: A few more problems a few more problems like what 387 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 1: s we got some problems with some um some more 388 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,320 Speaker 1: delivers we got just with all the delivers we got 389 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 1: it just don't see, we're gonna make it on your 390 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,480 Speaker 1: side of town to bear to get this thing taken. 391 00:24:58,560 --> 00:24:59,959 Speaker 1: You're not gonna make it on my side of town. 392 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 1: What is that you use? You decide you want to 393 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 1: take my money when I pay for when I paid 394 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: for it, But you're gonna tell me you don't, and 395 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna make it on my side of town. Well, well, 396 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:10,879 Speaker 1: we can definitely get out there to morrow. Man, we 397 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 1: definitely can't get out there the mar. I can't. I 398 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: can't have him out here tomorrow. I got chicken and 399 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 1: beef and uh and man briscuited all over here in 400 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: my floake, and you're gonnall him. You can't make it 401 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:23,960 Speaker 1: in here just a mar that uh you you ain't 402 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 1: got no answers for me on that. I understand, No, no, no, 403 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think you understand. So because I 404 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: got sitting, I got food and ice and city in here. 405 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 1: I am coolers, all of them the floor of my kitchen. 406 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 1: You're gonna tell me that I did just you can't 407 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 1: make it in here to tomorrow with my with my 408 00:25:37,119 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 1: with my frigera here because because you you you you 409 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: you yelling on the back of Ram yesterday the word 410 00:25:44,040 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: that is I know you spoke about I told him 411 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 1: yesterday I had to have my work at one o'clock. 412 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: I told him that, I said that you gotta have 413 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 1: that refrigerator here own time because I gotta grasp my 414 00:25:56,440 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 1: d work. Well, I don't talk to you the more 415 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,880 Speaker 1: like I said, stain not working today. He's not. He's 416 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,880 Speaker 1: not in the days in charge. Well, actually the lady 417 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,919 Speaker 1: name one that's actually in charge when Larry leaves. But uh, 418 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,960 Speaker 1: I don't even know if I saw mom. But but 419 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:18,680 Speaker 1: you you what do y'all doing over there? Now? I did, 420 00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 1: We're gonna have it there. I took out my job, 421 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:27,119 Speaker 1: but y'all had a refrigerator. I'm here there at home now. 422 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: You called me back, and so all I can tell 423 00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 1: you is we're gonna be there tomorrow. Okay, I'm not 424 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: gonna go back and forth. Don't you know? You know 425 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:42,399 Speaker 1: what you refrigerator? Sorry, y'all you take the refrigerator so 426 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:46,119 Speaker 1: you stick there in figerator. And I don't want to 427 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: no more. I'm gonna school in my neighbor refrigerator and 428 00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go give me another from somewhere else because 429 00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,479 Speaker 1: you playing around. I ain't got time for your men, Sir. 430 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if I don't know if that's refunnible. 431 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 1: You know what I'm you mean, you don't want refundable 432 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,360 Speaker 1: when you got time? You take my money and you're 433 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: gonna tell me that I can't have my money back. 434 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:07,040 Speaker 1: You can't get my frigerate on your own time, sir. Listen, 435 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: there's one more thing I need to talk to say 436 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: to me because okay, but I have one more thing 437 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,119 Speaker 1: I need to tell you. Okay, are you listening? This 438 00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 1: will probably help everything. This is Nephew Timmy from the 439 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,560 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning to Show. You just got pranked by 440 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:31,159 Speaker 1: your wife. You know what, I'm gonna fix her so frigerator. 441 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,920 Speaker 1: That's what I want to they showed up the show. 442 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: Do you hate when you're getting the delivery? That window? 443 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: Just you know you hate that eight to twelve, twelve 444 00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,520 Speaker 1: to four? Man, you know how much time I got 445 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 1: to wait on y'all? I do hate that though. Man, Yeah, 446 00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 1: you knew you was gonna be at eleven thirty, right, 447 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: yet you knew that earlier. We'll beat us somewhere between 448 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 1: twelve and five. That's the whole day. Then they call 449 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 1: you about four forty five, were about thirty minutes out. 450 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: Are you serious? They play? Come check your boy out 451 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 1: of coming to Burmingham, Alabama the Ham Baby b Ham. 452 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: That is April sixteen through the eighteen at the Star 453 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 1: Dum Comedy Club, Bruce in the building. The nephew was 454 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 1: coming to town. Right at the same time, Magic City 455 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 1: Classic Football Game will be going on. Yeah, that's right, everybody, 456 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 1: that's the Alabama and Alabama state is Who is it? 457 00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 1: Who is it? Julia Junia? No more about sports. Just 458 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: sell the show, boy, don't wear about who I got? 459 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:55,360 Speaker 1: This shows to hell and hell no anyway, I'll be 460 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: at the start du tunkboo. And despite all the negativity 461 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: of my comrade as a fight there. Okay, come see 462 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:11,000 Speaker 1: you boy. Thanks haters, haters coming up at the top 463 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 1: of the hour, entertainment and national news right after this. 464 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Come on, Carla, you're 465 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:23,840 Speaker 1: here with today's music news. What you got, what you got? 466 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:27,800 Speaker 1: What you got? Well, Sharley girl, Okay, so we all 467 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,959 Speaker 1: know the big Versus battle is going down on Easter 468 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: Sunday in fire. Come on see versus the Eisley Brothers. 469 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 1: We know what is happening, right, so get ready because 470 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:45,719 Speaker 1: Mother's Day weekend, that's Saturday before Mother's Day. The Versus 471 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:51,960 Speaker 1: battle is set. It is the first girl group back. Okay, 472 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 1: all right, get ready, fans from the nineties R and B, 473 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:07,240 Speaker 1: s WV Versus Escape, it's down. Yeah, that's gonna be good. Yes, 474 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 1: girl group fans getting ready. S w V Versus Escape 475 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:16,600 Speaker 1: just kicking it right here. I can't wait. I can't wait. 476 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of both girl groups. Yeah, yeah, 477 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: that's sweet. And they're all, you know, most of my 478 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: all practically mothers. So that's cool. Mother's Day weekend, Hey, 479 00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,880 Speaker 1: you go, Versus is doing the thing. Versus Battle. Shout 480 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: out to Swiss and Timberland. They stacking it up. What 481 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: is all that huffing and puffing? You just can't wait 482 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,600 Speaker 1: till Easter Sunday. You're talking about what's gonna have my 483 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,520 Speaker 1: Mother's Day weekend? When what's popping off at the relation. 484 00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:52,920 Speaker 1: That's what you really need to be He lives right 485 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: after Jesus coming back earth Win the fire and right 486 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: after that group come back. That's all the music news, 487 00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:06,400 Speaker 1: Shirley girl. All right, thank you, Carla, thank you. Another 488 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,880 Speaker 1: entertainment news. Guess who was spotting at the White House 489 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: on the lawn two big German shepherds, Major and Champ. Well, 490 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: yes they are back. The first dogs have been reading 491 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: before you tell the story, Shirley, Can I say so? 492 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:26,800 Speaker 1: Of course anybody give a day, yes, don lovers everywhere everywhere, 493 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: all right. So you know they they had a two 494 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: week separation because there was an incident. So they had 495 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 1: to go back for more training. Well, President Biden's dogs, um, 496 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,280 Speaker 1: you know, to have some discipline. You remember the story. 497 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,440 Speaker 1: The President's dogs were sent away earlier this month for 498 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 1: discipline training. They needed more because the younger shepherd Major 499 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 1: uh misbehaven acted very aggressively toward a White House security agent. 500 00:31:55,200 --> 00:32:07,480 Speaker 1: President it was it was just he's only three years old. Major, 501 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: so um. Anyway, President Biden said in an interview that 502 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: Major did not bite someone and penetrate the skin. But 503 00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: it was a biting incident. Yeah, So it was a 504 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: biting incident. He beat the same lawsuit if he bite me. Yeah, 505 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:34,600 Speaker 1: the President, I'm suing somebody in his house because that's 506 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: the president's house. So you in. But the dog bit me. 507 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 1: Yeah it was guess what they said. Yeah that's true. Yeah, 508 00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: Well I'm glad the first dog, the first pets are back. Well, 509 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,680 Speaker 1: I mean, dog lovers everywhere are happy. They like the 510 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: white was. So what are they dog affairs throughout the country, 511 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: for the country, what are they doing? You got a 512 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,959 Speaker 1: dog too, what if? But mine ain't doing a damn thing. 513 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: But just do you welcome tell me at least all right, 514 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: let's go to the news with miss Anne. Come on, 515 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne trip, thank you very much. 516 00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: And everybody out there knows I'm a dog lover, a 517 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: fierce dog lover. This is an trip with the news. 518 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: North Korea launched missiles into the sea in Japan. This week. 519 00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,560 Speaker 1: President Biden holds his first news conference, by the way, 520 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 1: as president, this afternoon, later on this well early this 521 00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 1: afternoon or maybe as early as noonish. But he's gonna 522 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,040 Speaker 1: hold his first president a news conference as president. So 523 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: a lot of folks are going to be covering that, 524 00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 1: and so will I authority to say that migrant crossings 525 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: at the southern border are on the way to reaching 526 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 1: its highest level in twenty years. President Biden says it 527 00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: although this news search started with the last administration, that 528 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 1: it's now his administration's responsibility to end it. So to 529 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: accomplish that, mister Biden has sent out a diplomatic team 530 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: headed by Vice President Harris to try and work the 531 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: problem out with the governments of Mexico, Guatemala, El Salador, 532 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 1: and Honduras. Virginia's Governor, Grant Northam, has signed a measure 533 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,319 Speaker 1: getting rid of capital punishment in that state. Virginia has 534 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: been second only to Texas and the number of people 535 00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 1: is put to death one hundred and thirteen since the 536 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 1: Supreme Court reinstated the death penalty in nineteen seventy six. 537 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,200 Speaker 1: Virginia now the twenty third state to abolish the chair. 538 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,920 Speaker 1: Prosecutors say that two alleged members of the racist Proud 539 00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,000 Speaker 1: Boys group have pled not guilty to conspiracy and other 540 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:34,400 Speaker 1: charges in connection with the Capitola Hill right in January. 541 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,280 Speaker 1: The two men, amongst several alleged members of the extremist 542 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,719 Speaker 1: group charge in connection with the insurrection. Authorities accused Ethan 543 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: Ordained and Joseph Biggs are trying to disrupt Congress's certification 544 00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,439 Speaker 1: of Joe Biden's presidential win, coordinate with other Proud Boys 545 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:49,640 Speaker 1: on where to meet and how to storm the capital. 546 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: According to pro Publica at the same time talking about 547 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 1: that day, lots of black Metro DC police officers have 548 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 1: long complained about their white racist colleagues, but they say 549 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:02,040 Speaker 1: nothing's were done about. The report says since two thousand 550 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:04,719 Speaker 1: and one, hundreds of black cops have sued the DC 551 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:08,040 Speaker 1: Police Department for racial discrimination. They say white cops would 552 00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,920 Speaker 1: call black officers the N word. One officer found a 553 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: nuse on his locker, and white officers who were friendly 554 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: with their black colleagues would call fogs, which stands for 555 00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 1: friends of gangsters. History was made in Beantown yesterday as 556 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:26,080 Speaker 1: Boston got its first black and first female mayor. As 557 00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 1: president of Boston's a City Council, Kim Janey automatically replaces 558 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,200 Speaker 1: Marty Walsh becomes the acting mayor. Walsh has just been 559 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,520 Speaker 1: confirmed as president of Blaton's new labor Secretary, and Marty 560 00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:39,799 Speaker 1: Walsh is making his own history. By the way, Marty 561 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 1: Walsh is the first former union leader to ever be 562 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 1: given the job of US Secretary of labor. A lot 563 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: of folks really happy about that. When Kim Janey, by 564 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 1: the way, was nearly eleven years old, she says she 565 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,320 Speaker 1: was chased away from school, the one that she was integrating, 566 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 1: by white men and women throwing rocks and at blacks 567 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,840 Speaker 1: and bricks, yelling for her and her black friends to 568 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 1: go back to Africa. Still, she says she loves her city. Finally, 569 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 1: Folsted chrisphy Creme giving folks who have vaccinate the glaze 570 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: donut sweet if you get there with the right car. 571 00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:12,400 Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening show? 572 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,560 Speaker 1: All right, Junior is here with guests. Fludd Now the poem, 573 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,719 Speaker 1: but sports talk a little early. What you got going on? Sure? 574 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what's going on here people. Okay, 575 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 1: yesterday I told you that the fight between Mike Tyson 576 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:26,520 Speaker 1: Devanny holler Field was canceled. Yeah you did. You said 577 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,920 Speaker 1: it was what U is back on. They were to 578 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:31,840 Speaker 1: make the old lass minds up. I don't know what 579 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:34,840 Speaker 1: I want to fight a knocking. I don't know what 580 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:40,320 Speaker 1: to do. Somebody didn't have a glasses on the contract 581 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:46,320 Speaker 1: said twenty five thousand when they saw that other Comma 582 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,440 Speaker 1: and that other zero and found out that wasn't a 583 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 1: deathmo that it was twenty five million boys. Stop, it's 584 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,520 Speaker 1: back home, man. So Mike Tyson confirmed to take a listen. 585 00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: I don't want anybody to know. You know, the fight 586 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 1: is wrong with me and Holy Field. Holy still the 587 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:04,080 Speaker 1: humble man. I know that needs the man to God, 588 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 1: and I'm God's man, and I'm listening. I'm gonna be 589 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 1: successful May twenty nine, come on More Day weekend. You know, 590 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 1: in all actuality, I'm gonna knock his ass out, all 591 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 1: no actuality, all actuality, I'm gonna knock his ass out. 592 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: We're friends, and we've been friends of a long time 593 00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,400 Speaker 1: and got past the old thing and me biting e 594 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 1: the year, nor that we got past that. Now we're 595 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 1: good friends. But still, even though we're good friends, I'm 596 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,160 Speaker 1: gonna knock his dass out and ben't gonna smoke some 597 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:50,799 Speaker 1: week because that's what I do. Now, you who's gonna win? 598 00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:55,160 Speaker 1: Who's gonna You know? I got my money, Mike, you know, 599 00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,439 Speaker 1: I mean, you know it's hard to vote against Mike, 600 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,839 Speaker 1: but I'm tasting man. Holy feels a great shape. He's 601 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: a piece I kind of don't want nobody to get 602 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:11,239 Speaker 1: knocked out in a fight. Like No, Steve, they both 603 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:15,440 Speaker 1: hit hard. They're gonna have like the leve thing on 604 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,680 Speaker 1: and over their heads. Well it's a real fight, huh. 605 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 1: If you holy feel do you go back in the 606 00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:27,799 Speaker 1: rain without g protection? Do you do that without ear protection? Yeah? Yeah, 607 00:38:27,840 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 1: he should tape his heel down. Just trust Mike because 608 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,279 Speaker 1: he want to fight again. I mean, you gotta takes 609 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,880 Speaker 1: like some jd Ill headphones in there at home. I 610 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:45,960 Speaker 1: would take your muffs or something. We just can't trust relapsed. 611 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 1: You don't never know. But I like the I mean 612 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,799 Speaker 1: I don't think they could do it. Steve, you tell 613 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,759 Speaker 1: me or Junior? Can they go in with head gear 614 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,399 Speaker 1: in a fight like this? I mean they couldn't because 615 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 1: if they fight, it's an exhibition. Really, but there's too 616 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,839 Speaker 1: many rounds they not. I'm doing three and I think 617 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 1: how many rounds? Is it eight? About eight rounds? So 618 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 1: they could, but they not because the warriors they're not 619 00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,319 Speaker 1: gonna do that. I hope head here all right? Well, 620 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,799 Speaker 1: thank you, Junior. Coming up at the thirty four after 621 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:19,520 Speaker 1: the hour, social media relationship expert Derek Jackson is still 622 00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 1: trending we'll talk about it right after this. He's absolutely stupid. 623 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:32,240 Speaker 1: I'd listened through the guy. You're listening too well. Still trending, 624 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:37,320 Speaker 1: you guys. YouTube relationship expert Derek Jackson, who just admitted 625 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 1: to cheating on his wife. Well, a lot of people, 626 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 1: including us, had no idea who Derek Jackson is and 627 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,960 Speaker 1: or was until recently. Um, you know, the video was 628 00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,800 Speaker 1: released and he admitted on it that he was cheating 629 00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 1: on his wife, Denia. So two women claimed they had 630 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: an affair with Derek, and they said he told them 631 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: at the time. He was separated from his wife for 632 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:04,640 Speaker 1: four years now. In this viral confession video, the couple 633 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,800 Speaker 1: tried to put up a united front while holding his 634 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:11,439 Speaker 1: wife's hand. Derek confessed on cheating, to cheating and having 635 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,360 Speaker 1: sex with other women. The comments about the video were crazy. 636 00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 1: A lot of people said that Derek is full of 637 00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 1: it because he referred to himself and the third person 638 00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 1: saying yes, Derek Jackson cheated. His wife also addressed her 639 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:28,759 Speaker 1: fans in the video, and she released another video. Miss 640 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,800 Speaker 1: Jackson said she would not tolerate his cheating and she 641 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 1: did leave, but now that her husband is seeking God, 642 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:42,480 Speaker 1: she is at peace. By his side. You know what, Yeah, 643 00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 1: if Will and Jada going on television has sparked this 644 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,760 Speaker 1: rash of let's go talk about it in front of everybody, 645 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 1: but the man, go sit your ass down somewhere. Man, 646 00:40:57,480 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 1: when you're trying to work it out with your family, manage, 647 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: just go working out. What does y'all keep going public? Fault? Yeah, 648 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,360 Speaker 1: I don't understand that. It is the need for likes 649 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:13,320 Speaker 1: and views so big now that you're willing to you 650 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 1: want views for everything. I mean, both of them, to 651 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 1: me look crazy. He looked crazy up there talking about it. 652 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 1: She looked crazy, responded to it, And I mean literally, 653 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 1: they just look crazy. Man, Just damn. I don't know, 654 00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:35,279 Speaker 1: so I guess a blogger. He got a muscle shirt on, 655 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,879 Speaker 1: she got a bonnet on. What's what y'all doing? Yeah, 656 00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,680 Speaker 1: but people are talking about it. Maybe that's what they 657 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,959 Speaker 1: wanted people, you know, but dress up, look like y'all 658 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 1: wanted to stay together. Y'all still look like y'all offending 659 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:53,719 Speaker 1: the divorce. Well, they were holding hands, Steve, I hold 660 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,600 Speaker 1: hands at Thanksgiving at the family reunion with people I 661 00:41:56,640 --> 00:42:04,279 Speaker 1: don't even like either. Oh no, she just I just him. Yes, Yes, 662 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 1: Derek I cheated. Yes, Derek Jackson, I cheating. He is 663 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 1: standing there holding her hand. It just didn't look like 664 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:14,279 Speaker 1: she was just all the way cool with what he 665 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,960 Speaker 1: was saying. No, she didn't look like she wanted to 666 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:21,799 Speaker 1: be there. I don't why ain't out because he's trying 667 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: to save you know that part of what he's doing 668 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:27,840 Speaker 1: on YouTube giving relationship advice. I'm sure he's trying to 669 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:32,760 Speaker 1: save that, you know, come back with a testimony or whatever, 670 00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:40,000 Speaker 1: you know, the we separated thing. See, that's a lot 671 00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 1: of comments. Yeah, man, who don't only heard that one? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 672 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 1: you're saying that. Men say that when they're cheating. But 673 00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:51,919 Speaker 1: let me ask you right, let me ask you guys, 674 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,239 Speaker 1: this has anyone heard? Did you guys know who he 675 00:42:55,520 --> 00:43:03,759 Speaker 1: was before? Yeah? And it ain't even interested. Yeah, but 676 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 1: his name is out there now. I'm just mad at 677 00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 1: them now for sitting up there on the edge of 678 00:43:09,719 --> 00:43:18,759 Speaker 1: that bed looking like that. Just don't look right. They 679 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 1: look like to you though, they just looked destitute, like 680 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:30,000 Speaker 1: they was in the unemployment line. Someone like to just 681 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: go over there and sit down and and you're not 682 00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: you're not getting any benefits. They're going through so naturally, 683 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,319 Speaker 1: they're gonna look sad and you know, like they're going through, 684 00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:45,759 Speaker 1: like they have issues and problems in their marriage. Yeah 685 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:51,120 Speaker 1: we cheated. Yeah, they're not gonna come on looking happy 686 00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: and yeah, I mean, hey, you have an argument or something, 687 00:43:57,800 --> 00:44:00,839 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, how many black women are you're 688 00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,160 Speaker 1: sitting there? Hold his hand? Though? That don't happen at all? 689 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 1: Who do it? He's junior looking to God. Now, I'm 690 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:09,440 Speaker 1: just saying that. I was looking at him, say, I 691 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 1: feel like I was on a zoom call with dam 692 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:19,080 Speaker 1: I didn't even feel impressionable. Well, we hope they work 693 00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,399 Speaker 1: it out. Coming up next, the nephew with today's prank 694 00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:27,240 Speaker 1: phone call. Right aft, look at it. You're listening to show. 695 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,879 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about 696 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,520 Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today. The 697 00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:39,879 Speaker 1: subject he facetimes me when he's with her. Huh. We'll 698 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:44,080 Speaker 1: get into that in just a few but right now 699 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:47,320 Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What 700 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:54,680 Speaker 1: you got for its next? My bones all week? I'll 701 00:44:54,719 --> 00:45:03,000 Speaker 1: say it again, my bones are weak. Let's go cat dog. Hello, Hello, 702 00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to uh, I'm trying to speak to Ron. Ron, Hey, Ron, 703 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,359 Speaker 1: how you doing. It's folly man. How are you brother? 704 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 1: I'm doing folly? Hey Hey. I wanted to congratulate you 705 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 1: man on the on the baby. Man. I wasn't able 706 00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,360 Speaker 1: to make it to the baby shower, man, but I 707 00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 1: want to congratulate you on the baby, man and and 708 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: all of that. Man. Much success to you man, you 709 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:26,879 Speaker 1: and the wife. Thank you, thank you. You appreciate that. Folly. Yeah, 710 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 1: well you're fully man. I didn't get to you know, 711 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:32,759 Speaker 1: my my wife denieda she came to the to the 712 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:36,080 Speaker 1: to the baby shower man, so you know, she was 713 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,560 Speaker 1: telling me how how how nice it was, how successful 714 00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 1: it was. Man. So I just you want, you know, 715 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: I wanted to give you big ups you. I heard 716 00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,960 Speaker 1: the baby came and everything, and I wanted to just 717 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,640 Speaker 1: a little girl, a little girl. Y'all had a little girl. Yeah, yeah, 718 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:51,560 Speaker 1: all right, we'll congratulations man. Congratulations Ron. I wanted to 719 00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: definitely call and congratulate man and um baby real quick? 720 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,359 Speaker 1: What um? What baby shower? Was your wife that because 721 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: we had two, we had one for my side of 722 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 1: the family, and he went from my wife's side because 723 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 1: you know, they lived different places and stuff. Man, so 724 00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: which one do you think she was at? Um? Probably 725 00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:11,839 Speaker 1: on your wife's side, you know. Okay, okay, she knows 726 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,239 Speaker 1: my wife. Well now I see see de Nita is 727 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: actually friends with uh with Kendra. Now you know Kendra? Right? 728 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:20,160 Speaker 1: Oh yeah I know Kindra. Yeah yeah, that's good thing 729 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 1: she was. She was with Kendra. Okay, yeah she comes. 730 00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:26,520 Speaker 1: They played cards, you know. Okay, okay, yeah she she 731 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 1: was with Kendra. Man, and um, she was just telling 732 00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 1: me how successful man, how nice it was, and you know, 733 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:33,799 Speaker 1: laid out baby shower. I wasn't able to make it. Man, 734 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 1: I've been a little under the weather, bro, you know, 735 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:37,920 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, with with God's help, man, I'll 736 00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,200 Speaker 1: be able to get back on my feet. You know 737 00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,960 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's all right, hey man, I just 738 00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:45,799 Speaker 1: you know, congratulations again man. You know a beautiful baby girl. 739 00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 1: I man, that's a beautiful thing. Yeah, thank you, thank you. Um, 740 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, bro to her. I just I can't 741 00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,320 Speaker 1: fold me. I'm trying to remember you and trying to 742 00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 1: place you in I just I can't do it. Have 743 00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,320 Speaker 1: we met no, no, no, no, no no no, my 744 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,520 Speaker 1: bad man. I'm sorry job nah me and you we 745 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,759 Speaker 1: haven't we haven't met at all. Um. Like I said, 746 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 1: you know, my wife knows Kendrill and they hang out, 747 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 1: and uh, I guess she's she's dabbled a couple of 748 00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,239 Speaker 1: times and been around. You know, your wife is uh, 749 00:47:16,400 --> 00:47:20,279 Speaker 1: your wife is Maryland, right, Yeah, that's no wife, Okay, Yeah, 750 00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 1: I guess she's been been in the presence of Maryland. Man. 751 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,360 Speaker 1: So you know, you know, I kind of got your 752 00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,920 Speaker 1: number from uh, from my wife, man um, and she 753 00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:31,759 Speaker 1: got it from Kendrell. So I kind of wanted to 754 00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 1: hollight you, you know, which weren't hard on me to 755 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,879 Speaker 1: have actually, Man, Like I said, Man, I've been I've 756 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,279 Speaker 1: been down for a minute, you know. And uh I 757 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:45,920 Speaker 1: uh actually you know, came from doctor yesterday and and 758 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:53,200 Speaker 1: my my bones, man, they my bones are deteriorating. You know. 759 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 1: Uh that's that's kind of what I'm what I've been 760 00:47:56,239 --> 00:48:01,120 Speaker 1: going through, man um. And if I don't uh get 761 00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,520 Speaker 1: the proper medication that I need, man in the week, 762 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:08,319 Speaker 1: you know it within the next three months here, dog, 763 00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: it could get pretty bad. You know what I'm saying. Well, man, 764 00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:17,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that. Bro Um. It's you know, 765 00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:22,120 Speaker 1: all I can do is for you man, and you know, well, man, 766 00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:30,360 Speaker 1: I the doctor told me that it's bron. The doctor 767 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:33,239 Speaker 1: told me, man that you know, if I get the 768 00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:37,239 Speaker 1: right medication man, that you know, I could get back 769 00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,279 Speaker 1: up to seventy five eight healthy again. You know what 770 00:48:40,360 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So you know, it's just a rare type 771 00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,880 Speaker 1: of thing that I need to try and get. And 772 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 1: I think that you might be I think you can't 773 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: help me. Be strong, man, be strong, just man, see down, 774 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,319 Speaker 1: man strong. It's gonna be all right. But I think 775 00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:02,360 Speaker 1: it's gonna be all right. God is with you. I 776 00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,640 Speaker 1: pray for you. I do all I can. You know, 777 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:09,640 Speaker 1: I don't know well actually actually uh, the doctor told me, 778 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:14,560 Speaker 1: man that if for six months, if I drunk breast milk, 779 00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:18,200 Speaker 1: it will it will It would put enough calseum and 780 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 1: stuff back into my bones that would get me back 781 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,879 Speaker 1: up to seventy to eighty five percent healthy. Breast. Yeah, 782 00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 1: I ain't got no breast. But you know it's not 783 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,759 Speaker 1: it's not you Ron. You you don't you know, but 784 00:49:33,360 --> 00:49:38,239 Speaker 1: you know your your wife does. Thought. Whoa, you're talking 785 00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:41,960 Speaker 1: about my wife's breast. Man. I'm not not directly man, 786 00:49:42,040 --> 00:49:45,759 Speaker 1: I'm just saying that chickens you know. I mean if 787 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:49,359 Speaker 1: I had her breast milk for like six months straight, man, 788 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:53,120 Speaker 1: I could get back hold again. Man, Oh you'll talk 789 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 1: about a man's wife or her breast. Now, I gotta, 790 00:49:55,719 --> 00:50:01,600 Speaker 1: I gotta. I'm just just all. I'm t breast milk man. Man, 791 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,359 Speaker 1: I'm just asking y'all to share for six were kid 792 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,360 Speaker 1: seeing the breast milk with you? Man? You got the 793 00:50:07,480 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 1: wrong one, man, the wrong one, and you think your 794 00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:16,719 Speaker 1: name was vo is wrong? Man, it's wrong. Wrong. No, 795 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,960 Speaker 1: we're just talking about six months of breast milk, man, 796 00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,560 Speaker 1: six months my wife's prest milk. We were talking about 797 00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,839 Speaker 1: just a little best No. I understand, I fress little man. 798 00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,800 Speaker 1: I understand that. Man. But we're talking about you saving 799 00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:33,280 Speaker 1: a life. Man, a life. I ain't the one. Okay, 800 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 1: let me ask you this one off. Y'all would have 801 00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:38,080 Speaker 1: had twins, man, y'all would have been press seeding two babies. 802 00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:41,279 Speaker 1: Just look at it as if we're twins. The man, 803 00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 1: I'm getting the pup this phone because I don't know 804 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,759 Speaker 1: who you are. You need to chilly, man, You need 805 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,320 Speaker 1: to go get on your knees, trade that your bones 806 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:54,239 Speaker 1: get healed or whatever. You got the wrong number. Man, listen, man, 807 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,239 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I got one more thing I 808 00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,840 Speaker 1: want to save and then I'll get on. I just 809 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 1: want to get off the phone called Kendra and kind 810 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,920 Speaker 1: of I gave you my number because that's how you 811 00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:06,680 Speaker 1: got Can I say one more saying? Man, go ahead, 812 00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,960 Speaker 1: go ahead? Can I say it? Damn man? This is 813 00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:13,560 Speaker 1: nephew taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kendra 814 00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:17,200 Speaker 1: and your wife Maryland got me to prank phone call 815 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:28,279 Speaker 1: you Hello ro Ron, Yeah, man, y'all a good man? 816 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 1: Whoa man? My white man? Man? Ke Did I get you? Man? Yeah? 817 00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 1: Y'all got it? Man, y'all having me? And I got 818 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,600 Speaker 1: them too. They don't started something? Hey, one more thing. 819 00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio station in the land? Man, man? 820 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:50,319 Speaker 1: It is the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Man, Wow, man, 821 00:51:52,880 --> 00:52:04,880 Speaker 1: come on est so pressed milk to small white? And 822 00:52:05,040 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 1: what if? What if? What if you all have had twins? 823 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:11,120 Speaker 1: What was that then it would have been you know, 824 00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,600 Speaker 1: you would have been taking care too, so you know 825 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:23,720 Speaker 1: stay strong though? Yeah, you know I like your build 826 00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:29,800 Speaker 1: up though, I really did. Yeah. Well, it's also building 827 00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:32,120 Speaker 1: up to April seconds. Surely Ready to Love is on 828 00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:34,440 Speaker 1: its way. April second. I got a lot of twists 829 00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 1: and turns. I got some surprises, and I'm talking about 830 00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 1: at the Gate day one, April second, nine, eight easton 831 00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:43,840 Speaker 1: on the Own Network, Ready to Love Season four. I 832 00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:48,640 Speaker 1: got surprises, I got curveballs. I got beautiful men. I 833 00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:51,279 Speaker 1: got beautiful women. They are going to be there straight 834 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 1: up out of Houston, Texas, and White got beautiful men 835 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,879 Speaker 1: on the show Dog Well, handsome men. Let me put 836 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,200 Speaker 1: it that way. Handsome men, well say it'd be some 837 00:52:58,280 --> 00:53:02,120 Speaker 1: decent looking dudes on them. It's some good little guys. Yeah, yeah, 838 00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:06,160 Speaker 1: good at all. Now, now they all ripped, and they 839 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:10,160 Speaker 1: from Houston. Now what gym that is? I've never been there. 840 00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,799 Speaker 1: That ain't the one I go to. I don't look 841 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,560 Speaker 1: like that. I've been trying to get ripped Tommy for 842 00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:23,080 Speaker 1: twelve years. I ain't got it. Last. This is it, 843 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:27,160 Speaker 1: This is it. This is last. Junior is getting ripped. 844 00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:36,200 Speaker 1: All right? All right, well, thank you, neph you coming up. 845 00:53:36,280 --> 00:53:39,239 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, he facetimed me while he was with her. 846 00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,920 Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Steve 847 00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:47,480 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And 848 00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:51,480 Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 849 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,560 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey 850 00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:58,120 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry letter. We could 851 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,320 Speaker 1: be reading your letter are live on the air, just 852 00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,759 Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right now. 853 00:54:04,840 --> 00:54:07,160 Speaker 1: Buggle up, Hold on tight. We got it for you here. 854 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,560 Speaker 1: It is very letta subject he facetimed me while he 855 00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:14,520 Speaker 1: was with her. Dear Stephen Shirley. I met the love 856 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,640 Speaker 1: of my life seven years ago and I was twenty 857 00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 1: one years old at the time. He's three years older 858 00:54:19,719 --> 00:54:22,560 Speaker 1: than me and had already had a child. He was 859 00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,120 Speaker 1: my first everything, and he influenced everything I did. I 860 00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 1: overlooked a lot of things he did because I was 861 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,840 Speaker 1: young and crazy in love. He would be intimate with 862 00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,080 Speaker 1: the mother of his child, and he didn't try to 863 00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:36,480 Speaker 1: hide it. It made me feel like I wasn't good 864 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,520 Speaker 1: enough or skilled enough at sex because he kept on 865 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,160 Speaker 1: having sex with her. She threw it up in my 866 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:46,239 Speaker 1: face whenever she could, so I finally broke up with him. 867 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:49,799 Speaker 1: I was heartbroken, but managed to stay friends with him. 868 00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,800 Speaker 1: He ended up having another child with this lady and 869 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,600 Speaker 1: told me that it was a big mistake. Then he 870 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,719 Speaker 1: started dating this lady he worked with, and they had 871 00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:02,120 Speaker 1: a baby together. After his third child was born, he 872 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:05,360 Speaker 1: came to me humbly and said he was so tired 873 00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:08,160 Speaker 1: of how he'd been doing things and he wanted me back. 874 00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,040 Speaker 1: He also said he was ready to get married. We 875 00:55:11,160 --> 00:55:15,680 Speaker 1: got back together eight months ago, and I'm pregnant. He 876 00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,360 Speaker 1: seemed to be happy when I told him, and he 877 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 1: said he would have my dream wedding. We would have 878 00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:23,800 Speaker 1: my dream wedding, but that's on hold for now. A 879 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:27,120 Speaker 1: week ago, he went to visit his youngest son and 880 00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:30,719 Speaker 1: we were on FaceTime as he drove. When he got 881 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:33,200 Speaker 1: out of the car, he thought he had hung up 882 00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,480 Speaker 1: and he must have thrown his phone in his pocket. 883 00:55:36,840 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 1: I heard a female mumbling, and then I clearly heard 884 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,120 Speaker 1: her ask if he had a condom. Then I heard 885 00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:46,120 Speaker 1: a lot of moaning. I hung up and I got 886 00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,200 Speaker 1: physically ill. When he came back, I didn't let him 887 00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:52,040 Speaker 1: know what i'd heard. I'm about to deliver his fourth 888 00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:55,320 Speaker 1: child and he's still a liar and a cheater. I 889 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,920 Speaker 1: don't want to be a single parent. What should I 890 00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:01,880 Speaker 1: do now? Well, girl, you gotta get it together, I 891 00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:05,279 Speaker 1: mean quickly. And in a hurry, you're you're about to 892 00:56:05,360 --> 00:56:08,360 Speaker 1: deliver his fourth child. You gotta just stop being stupid. 893 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 1: These are some stupid moves you've been making, you know, 894 00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:14,200 Speaker 1: with this man. This guy's been using you, lying to 895 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:17,800 Speaker 1: you all along, and you keep on falling for it. 896 00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 1: I know you're young, but I mean you could have 897 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,480 Speaker 1: just asked him to use a condom. You could have 898 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,880 Speaker 1: to use protection. It's okay to to say that you 899 00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,719 Speaker 1: know or did you want to get pregnant by him. 900 00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 1: I'm not so sure you didn't, you know because you 901 00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,120 Speaker 1: were so happy to have him back. I mean, and 902 00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:40,839 Speaker 1: did you think that a baby would keep him well, 903 00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:44,840 Speaker 1: as you can clearly see, it didn't. And now although 904 00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:47,200 Speaker 1: you may not want to be a single parent, you 905 00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,719 Speaker 1: will be. This guy is a loser in every sense 906 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,880 Speaker 1: of the word, who just keeps dropping babies wherever he goes. 907 00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,680 Speaker 1: I mean, he's not thinking about protection. And you know 908 00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,920 Speaker 1: you never once said at least he's a good father, 909 00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:05,239 Speaker 1: because he doesn't. He's not. He's not, let's face it, 910 00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:09,560 Speaker 1: he's too busy making kids and he's immature like a kid. 911 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:12,719 Speaker 1: I'm sorry you loved him more than you loved you 912 00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:15,719 Speaker 1: and got yourself caught up in his game of lies 913 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 1: and deceit. But please know that it is not the 914 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,720 Speaker 1: end of the world for you. First of all, please 915 00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:25,480 Speaker 1: don't even consider marrying this guy right now. I mean 916 00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:29,720 Speaker 1: you need to walk away from this toxic relationship. It 917 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,920 Speaker 1: is now time to make plans for a future without him. 918 00:57:33,480 --> 00:57:35,720 Speaker 1: Use this time. I'm telling you to use this time 919 00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: to figure out how are you going to take care 920 00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:40,960 Speaker 1: of your baby and taking that baby daddy to court 921 00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 1: right now? Steve, Wow, Oh, let's love it here. Man. Listen. 922 00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 1: I feel bad for this lady right here, this young girl. 923 00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:59,200 Speaker 1: But this started wrong, and it's wrong from the very beginning, 924 00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,760 Speaker 1: and there are corrections being made along the way. And 925 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:04,960 Speaker 1: now you, faced with the ultimatum at the end of 926 00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,880 Speaker 1: this letter, you're simply saying, I don't want to be 927 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: a single parent. What should I do? Now? Well, let 928 00:58:12,320 --> 00:58:14,840 Speaker 1: me show you what has happened so I can paint 929 00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:18,280 Speaker 1: a clear picture. Fee you met the love of your 930 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:23,040 Speaker 1: life seven years ago. Stop saying that, because if this 931 00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,120 Speaker 1: is the love of your life, your life is headed 932 00:58:26,200 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 1: for a loveless, remaining livelihood. This can't be the love 933 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:35,040 Speaker 1: of your life. This was the love of your life, 934 00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 1: so you thought up until that point, but after you 935 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:42,880 Speaker 1: met him, he started proving to you he was not 936 00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,440 Speaker 1: the love of your life. You've got to get a 937 00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:49,040 Speaker 1: better definition of love of your life. You gotta learn 938 00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 1: how to let somebody else love you that knows how 939 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 1: to do it. Twenty one, he's three years older, he 940 00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 1: already had a child. He was my first everything. He 941 00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:03,320 Speaker 1: influenced everything I did. I overlooked a lot of things 942 00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: he did because I was young and crazy in love. 943 00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:12,040 Speaker 1: Right there, right there, you made the statement, young lady, 944 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,120 Speaker 1: that I want you to pay attention to I overlooked 945 00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 1: a lot of things he did because I was young 946 00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:21,600 Speaker 1: and crazy in love. He would be intimate with the 947 00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:25,320 Speaker 1: mother of his child. He didn't try to hide it, 948 00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:31,120 Speaker 1: so he just throw it up in your face. It 949 00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 1: made me feel like I wasn't good enough or skilled 950 00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:36,040 Speaker 1: enough at sex because he kept having sex with her, 951 00:59:37,360 --> 00:59:40,200 Speaker 1: and you knew he was kept having sex with her, 952 00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:44,280 Speaker 1: and you allowed him to have sex, and then he 953 00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:46,520 Speaker 1: kept having sexual and then the lady threw it up 954 00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,760 Speaker 1: in your face whenever she could. And now you got 955 00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:54,840 Speaker 1: other women calling you about the love of your life, 956 00:59:56,280 --> 00:59:58,920 Speaker 1: and the love of your life is screwing all these 957 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:04,800 Speaker 1: other people. I was heart broken, but I managed to 958 01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:11,000 Speaker 1: stay friends with him. Why why what has he done 959 01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 1: that's friendly towards you? You know, we need to do 960 01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:16,920 Speaker 1: two things right now. When we come back, we talk 961 01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:20,360 Speaker 1: about it. You need a new definition of friend and 962 01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:25,200 Speaker 1: you need a new definition of love. All right, Steve, 963 01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:27,560 Speaker 1: hold onto that thought. We'll get part two of your 964 01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:30,280 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour's 965 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:34,000 Speaker 1: subject he facetimed me while he was with her. We'll 966 01:00:34,040 --> 01:00:38,800 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening show, 967 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,040 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 968 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,160 Speaker 1: The subject he facetimed me when he was with her, 969 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:50,640 Speaker 1: This young lady who I have no jokes for because 970 01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm heartbroken for her because at twenty one, she claimed 971 01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 1: to have met the love of her life, which was 972 01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:58,000 Speaker 1: just the love of her life up at that point. 973 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:03,680 Speaker 1: But this guy has shown her no respect or love. 974 01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:07,040 Speaker 1: He was your first everything. He influenced everything you did, 975 01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 1: and a mistake you made was I overlooked a lot 976 01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,160 Speaker 1: of things he did because I was young and crazy 977 01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:15,440 Speaker 1: in love. So what did you do? You allowed him 978 01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,840 Speaker 1: to have sex with other women? Repeatedly that you knew 979 01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:22,400 Speaker 1: about it. They had other women called you to confront 980 01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:25,040 Speaker 1: you about them screwing that he was doing with them. 981 01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:29,200 Speaker 1: You allowed it, and you allowed him to put it 982 01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:33,160 Speaker 1: in front of your face because he didn't care that 983 01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,480 Speaker 1: you knew about it. Okay, these are the stuff you did. 984 01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: You allowed to happen because he was young and crazy 985 01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:45,600 Speaker 1: in love. Now let's move on. So finally you broke 986 01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:50,680 Speaker 1: up with him. You say, but y'all remain friends. Why 987 01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:56,280 Speaker 1: what friendly was he towards you? He's done nothing but 988 01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:59,880 Speaker 1: dog you the entire time. That ain't love or friendship. 989 01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:03,240 Speaker 1: I was heartbroken, but man of state friends with window. 990 01:02:03,640 --> 01:02:06,000 Speaker 1: He ended up having another child with this lady. So 991 01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:09,960 Speaker 1: now that lady they had another baby and told me 992 01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,520 Speaker 1: that it was a big mistake. Then he started dating 993 01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 1: a lady from work and they had a baby together. Now, 994 01:02:15,720 --> 01:02:18,920 Speaker 1: after the third child was born, he came to you 995 01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:21,960 Speaker 1: humbly and said he was so tired of how he's 996 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,600 Speaker 1: been doing things that he wanted you back. He also 997 01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,040 Speaker 1: said he was ready to get married. Oh, he said 998 01:02:28,080 --> 01:02:30,720 Speaker 1: everything you wanted to him. We got bit together eight 999 01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,880 Speaker 1: months ago, and I'm pregnant. He seemed to be so happy. 1000 01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:36,720 Speaker 1: When I told him, he said we would have my 1001 01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:41,320 Speaker 1: dream wedding. But all that's on the whole now. You 1002 01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 1: know why because a week ago he went to visit 1003 01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:47,479 Speaker 1: his youngest son and we were on FaceTime as he drove. 1004 01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,480 Speaker 1: When he got out the car, he thought he had 1005 01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:52,400 Speaker 1: hung up and he must have thrown his phone in 1006 01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:57,120 Speaker 1: his pocket. You heard a female mumling and you clearly 1007 01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,760 Speaker 1: heard her ask if he had a condom. Then I 1008 01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:01,800 Speaker 1: heard a lot of moaning. I hung up and I 1009 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:05,760 Speaker 1: got physically ill. When he came back, he goes to 1010 01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:10,120 Speaker 1: other mistakes. I did not let him know what I heard. 1011 01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:15,400 Speaker 1: Now I'm about to deliver his fourth child. He's still 1012 01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:18,479 Speaker 1: a liar and a cheetah, has been at the entire time, 1013 01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:21,200 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be a single parent. What 1014 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 1: should I do now? So, a young lady, you don't 1015 01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:25,680 Speaker 1: want to be a single parent, So the only other 1016 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:32,200 Speaker 1: option is this. You can get married and ruin your 1017 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:37,880 Speaker 1: entire remaining life by being married to this liar and 1018 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:44,600 Speaker 1: this cheetah. All you could take this blessing, this baby. 1019 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:50,680 Speaker 1: Learn from your mistakes. Never allow another person to walk 1020 01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:56,200 Speaker 1: over you. Take your child, raise him, and then wait 1021 01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:58,959 Speaker 1: on your real love of your life to come along. 1022 01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:02,800 Speaker 1: You still young, You're still young. This is not the 1023 01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,960 Speaker 1: end of the world for you. The baby is not 1024 01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:11,600 Speaker 1: a mistake. It's not. The baby is fine. The baby 1025 01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:14,640 Speaker 1: will you'll You'll be fine. You will manage, just like 1026 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:19,320 Speaker 1: every other single parent does. Do not marry this man. 1027 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,160 Speaker 1: Now he gonna have to get his But it's not 1028 01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,080 Speaker 1: up you. It's not up to you to give it 1029 01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:28,600 Speaker 1: to it. Let me tell you something, ladies, y'all waste 1030 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:32,880 Speaker 1: a lot of time being scorn, and I do understand it, 1031 01:04:34,000 --> 01:04:36,200 Speaker 1: and I ain't saying it shouldn't be that way. Because 1032 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:38,840 Speaker 1: you hurt, you hurt. He'll have no fury like a 1033 01:04:38,920 --> 01:04:41,000 Speaker 1: woman scorn. I used to think it was a Bible verse. 1034 01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:42,920 Speaker 1: I swear to God I did. I thought it was 1035 01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:47,120 Speaker 1: a Bible verse. It's not, but it sounds so true. 1036 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:50,240 Speaker 1: And they use the words scorn. Scorn is a biblical turn. 1037 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:54,080 Speaker 1: That's why I thought it was a Bible verse. But 1038 01:04:54,240 --> 01:04:58,120 Speaker 1: it's not. So. Now you have it, you have a 1039 01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:02,760 Speaker 1: decision to make. Cut your losses from this man. Stop 1040 01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:06,520 Speaker 1: giving yourself to this man. Stop thinking you can change 1041 01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:11,400 Speaker 1: this man, Stop hoping this man changes. You may have 1042 01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,640 Speaker 1: been the love he may have been the love of 1043 01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:16,480 Speaker 1: your life, but listen to me, young sister, you have 1044 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:21,800 Speaker 1: never been the love of his life ever and you 1045 01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:26,120 Speaker 1: are not now. So let God handle him. Oh please 1046 01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:30,320 Speaker 1: know he got his coming. Ladies dudes that do like this, 1047 01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,600 Speaker 1: they don't get away scott for him. Just why. I 1048 01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:35,000 Speaker 1: just need you to know that. And he'll probably have 1049 01:05:35,160 --> 01:05:39,000 Speaker 1: more kids, you know, with other women. Yeah. I mean 1050 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,600 Speaker 1: a lot of stuffs gonna happen, But it don't need 1051 01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:43,920 Speaker 1: to happen in your face though. No. You could take 1052 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,640 Speaker 1: your baby and get along and start over. And it 1053 01:05:46,760 --> 01:05:51,160 Speaker 1: happens all the time. There are men who accept women 1054 01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:57,080 Speaker 1: who have children with open arms. Become great fathers, great families, 1055 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,120 Speaker 1: They adopted kids, the kids take they name. All types 1056 01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:04,480 Speaker 1: of stuff happen. Don't think it's hopeless for you. But 1057 01:06:04,760 --> 01:06:07,360 Speaker 1: please do not let your yearning not to be a 1058 01:06:07,480 --> 01:06:10,640 Speaker 1: single parent, wanting not to be a single parent, be 1059 01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:14,120 Speaker 1: in your decision in fact of whether you marry this worthless, 1060 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:20,400 Speaker 1: no good human being. For don't compound your mistakes. Your 1061 01:06:20,440 --> 01:06:25,000 Speaker 1: mistake was taking him back. Don't compound it by keeping him. 1062 01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:31,760 Speaker 1: Let it go, little girl, Uncle Steve telling you walk off, 1063 01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:36,760 Speaker 1: cut your losses, Tell him what you know so he 1064 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:42,120 Speaker 1: knows ain't going about your Thank you Post your comments 1065 01:06:42,160 --> 01:06:45,080 Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram 1066 01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:47,960 Speaker 1: and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand 1067 01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:50,720 Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour from 1068 01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:54,480 Speaker 1: The Talk our girl Cheryl Underwood. Right after this you're 1069 01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:59,400 Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour, 1070 01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 1: Carlo Reality Update. But right now, get ready, Steve, please 1071 01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:07,080 Speaker 1: introduce a girl from the Talk Ladies in general without 1072 01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:11,000 Speaker 1: further a dude, Ladies in general without further dude. Here 1073 01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 1: she is Sheryl Underwood. Thank you, Save Harvey, and before 1074 01:07:15,320 --> 01:07:18,040 Speaker 1: I say anything else, I want everybody to watch the 1075 01:07:18,240 --> 01:07:23,800 Speaker 1: NAACP Awards this weekend on b et because that is 1076 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,280 Speaker 1: where I will announce the winners of the Meta Mucil 1077 01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:31,840 Speaker 1: HBCU Divine nine Challenge. I will be announcing the HBCU 1078 01:07:32,000 --> 01:07:34,840 Speaker 1: that gets the ten thousand dollars pack Rat Foundation for 1079 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:39,360 Speaker 1: Education Scholarship. That's my foundation. We gave ten thousand dollars 1080 01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:42,400 Speaker 1: for the winning HBCU, and I will be announcing the 1081 01:07:42,560 --> 01:07:46,520 Speaker 1: winning fraternity and the winning sorority. And we're doing this 1082 01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:50,600 Speaker 1: during the NAACP awards on b et this weekend. She'll 1083 01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:52,440 Speaker 1: want to see if you will be fair about that, 1084 01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:56,200 Speaker 1: because everything in me knows the Signals is gonna get 1085 01:07:56,240 --> 01:08:01,360 Speaker 1: it into zut. You know why we're playing this little 1086 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: Reagan ass game with you. Chill. But I will say this, 1087 01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:06,800 Speaker 1: thank you for the shout out to the Blue and 1088 01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:10,680 Speaker 1: White family five Beta Sigma and Zata five beta. But now, 1089 01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:15,000 Speaker 1: why are we talking about challenges? Okay, the best verses? Now, 1090 01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:17,599 Speaker 1: I know they had other verses and everybody was good 1091 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,600 Speaker 1: and everything, but the best one they about to have 1092 01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:24,040 Speaker 1: is the Osley brothers. What going up against the Elements? 1093 01:08:24,360 --> 01:08:29,640 Speaker 1: Barked when at fire Steve, ste Girl. They don't even know, 1094 01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:34,400 Speaker 1: they don't know, they know nobody on this versus that's 1095 01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:38,439 Speaker 1: in the head. The hitch that these boys got, that's right, right, 1096 01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,560 Speaker 1: that's right, that's right, that's right, and stuff that we recognize, 1097 01:08:42,840 --> 01:08:46,960 Speaker 1: and catalogs that go back decades and everything. I remember 1098 01:08:47,000 --> 01:08:49,360 Speaker 1: the first time I saw the Elements, I saw him 1099 01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:54,560 Speaker 1: with Brothers Johnson the Emotions Omaha Nebraska Civic Auditorium in 1100 01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:57,120 Speaker 1: the seventies, and matter of fact, it was the end 1101 01:08:57,160 --> 01:09:01,080 Speaker 1: of the sixties in the seventies. But oh, yeah, do 1102 01:09:01,760 --> 01:09:06,800 Speaker 1: it do it for y'all? Yes, that's all that dude 1103 01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,760 Speaker 1: of noncl Yeah, and you was looking around and see 1104 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:11,840 Speaker 1: what was happening. Yeah, you're looking around and see what's 1105 01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:21,800 Speaker 1: happening for y'all. Yes, Booty exploded me up out of 1106 01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:26,800 Speaker 1: my chail. The kids don't know about the good song devotion, 1107 01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:33,600 Speaker 1: keep your hands to the sky show. Yeah, that's what 1108 01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:36,639 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, Steve Hobey. But wait, mans, Steve, see, 1109 01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:39,000 Speaker 1: I gotta talk about the Osley Brothers though, because we're 1110 01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:41,400 Speaker 1: gonna get him some love too, because Me and Junior 1111 01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:45,200 Speaker 1: love song, Me and Junior love song is sensuality. And 1112 01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 1: then when he puts me out the house, he plays 1113 01:09:48,080 --> 01:09:50,760 Speaker 1: let me down easy to put me right out the house, 1114 01:09:51,479 --> 01:09:53,200 Speaker 1: right out the house, and it lets me down easy. 1115 01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:55,920 Speaker 1: I can drive all the way to the carib Junior 1116 01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:59,679 Speaker 1: put me out the house. Yeah, let me down easy. Share. 1117 01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:04,639 Speaker 1: I love you, Thank yous. Right, They're all I need, Junior, 1118 01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:08,360 Speaker 1: y'all all I need? Yes. Coming up at the top 1119 01:10:08,400 --> 01:10:12,400 Speaker 1: of the hour, Carla's reality Update. Right after this, you're 1120 01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:17,960 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Morning Show. All right, here we go. 1121 01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:23,080 Speaker 1: Tommy introduced a girl, Carla Ladies and gentlemen, she is here. 1122 01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:28,160 Speaker 1: She's got reality update. It's Carla Ferrell with what reality update? 1123 01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:32,960 Speaker 1: Thank you? Coming in hot, Yeah, coming in hot. All right, 1124 01:10:32,960 --> 01:10:34,760 Speaker 1: we're gonna flip the script this week. We're gonna talk 1125 01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:38,599 Speaker 1: about real households of Atlanta. The ladies and attended, well, 1126 01:10:38,640 --> 01:10:44,040 Speaker 1: they were invited to a boring Halloween party, I mean, 1127 01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:48,960 Speaker 1: so whack. And then things got bad because, yeah, the 1128 01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:53,880 Speaker 1: newcomer LaToya, she's rude. She's very very rude. She came 1129 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:57,000 Speaker 1: to the party, which was at one of the new castmates. 1130 01:10:57,080 --> 01:10:59,479 Speaker 1: She's a friend of the castmates on the show, and 1131 01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:01,920 Speaker 1: it was her name is Paulin. And they came to 1132 01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:05,960 Speaker 1: Falent House, I should say, and LaToya was disrespectful. She 1133 01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:08,559 Speaker 1: was saying, what you know, you got this big old house. 1134 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,040 Speaker 1: You don't have servants in here serving us. It was 1135 01:11:11,120 --> 01:11:13,160 Speaker 1: just what kind of who are you? Why do you 1136 01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,280 Speaker 1: say this kind of thing to this woman first time 1137 01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:19,120 Speaker 1: coming to her house? Anyway, that was that get to 1138 01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:23,200 Speaker 1: wearing sit Down's sister. Anyway, Kenya was salty with LaToya 1139 01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:29,000 Speaker 1: because Marlow told Kenya Marlow and Kenya friends go figure. 1140 01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:32,479 Speaker 1: But Marlow told Kenya that LaToya told all of her 1141 01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:35,559 Speaker 1: business regarding a divorce from her husband Mark, and Kenya 1142 01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:40,280 Speaker 1: didn't want some of that information out yet. So Kenya 1143 01:11:40,360 --> 01:11:42,439 Speaker 1: was talking to LaToya about that. So I remember now 1144 01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:44,960 Speaker 1: this was a Halloween party, so they were dressed in costumes. 1145 01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:48,920 Speaker 1: LaToya did not take Kenya seriously because Kenya had on 1146 01:11:49,000 --> 01:11:54,280 Speaker 1: this Native American costume and she had this Native American 1147 01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:58,840 Speaker 1: Indi head dress as part of her costume. And she 1148 01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:03,839 Speaker 1: and Brad vow they had to release an apology statement 1149 01:12:04,400 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 1: because after this particular episode aired, members of the Native 1150 01:12:09,280 --> 01:12:15,720 Speaker 1: American community they were offended by Kenya's costume and so Kenya, yeah, 1151 01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:19,559 Speaker 1: Kenyan brothe network they have issued apologies for filming Kenya 1152 01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:23,960 Speaker 1: wearing that Native American head dress, and that was deemed 1153 01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:27,519 Speaker 1: defensive and racist. So can you release a statement? She said, 1154 01:12:27,520 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 1: I want to sincerely apologize for inappropriately wearing the Native 1155 01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:35,040 Speaker 1: American head dress as a costume. I now realized that 1156 01:12:35,160 --> 01:12:38,720 Speaker 1: this was both disrespectful and insensitive and I would have 1157 01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:44,040 Speaker 1: never done it if I had knowledge and understanding beforehand beforehand. 1158 01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:45,920 Speaker 1: And then Kenya went on to say, when you know better, 1159 01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:51,080 Speaker 1: you do better. And I am genuinely sorry. So that 1160 01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:54,560 Speaker 1: was her apology. There you go. So she has apologized, 1161 01:12:54,600 --> 01:12:57,280 Speaker 1: but I still was wondering when when I saw the episode, 1162 01:12:57,320 --> 01:12:59,160 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, why did she wear that? Why 1163 01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:02,920 Speaker 1: didn't anybody say anything to her? Yeah about that? So anyway, 1164 01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:06,120 Speaker 1: shout out to newcomer Drew Sidora. I like her. She 1165 01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:09,479 Speaker 1: and her husband Ralph, they talked to her. She has 1166 01:13:09,479 --> 01:13:11,400 Speaker 1: a nine year old son. They are married and they 1167 01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:14,760 Speaker 1: have kids together. But she has a nine year old son, 1168 01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:19,599 Speaker 1: and she and her husband talked to her son about 1169 01:13:20,160 --> 01:13:23,360 Speaker 1: his biological dad and having a relationship because he's getting 1170 01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,280 Speaker 1: out of prison and the dad wants to have a 1171 01:13:26,400 --> 01:13:29,479 Speaker 1: relationship with the son, and the son is not quite 1172 01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 1: all the way there yet. But her husband, Ralph, he 1173 01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:36,720 Speaker 1: is really telling his son, his stepson, you need to 1174 01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,320 Speaker 1: have a relationship with your biological dad. So I thought 1175 01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:41,439 Speaker 1: that was just a cool moment to see them talk 1176 01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:44,360 Speaker 1: to him as a family. And you know, Ralph was 1177 01:13:44,400 --> 01:13:47,479 Speaker 1: telling his stepson, you know my dad wasn't around. It's 1178 01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:50,080 Speaker 1: important you got me. You got two dads. You got me, 1179 01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 1: and you have your dad that's about to be releasing. 1180 01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:57,000 Speaker 1: You know, you need to develop a relationship. The little 1181 01:13:57,040 --> 01:13:59,360 Speaker 1: boy wasn't trying to hear it. He's not ready yet, 1182 01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:02,240 Speaker 1: but they expect that and he said maybe. So they 1183 01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:04,839 Speaker 1: were making progress. But I thought that was cool, black family, 1184 01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:09,240 Speaker 1: black love. I thought that was a very cool, positive moment. Yeah, yeah, 1185 01:14:09,280 --> 01:14:12,000 Speaker 1: and moving on, married to medicine Simon and Jackie, Doctor 1186 01:14:12,120 --> 01:14:14,600 Speaker 1: Jackie and doctor Simone. They are still beef and I 1187 01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:16,600 Speaker 1: want them to be girls again. I want them to 1188 01:14:16,680 --> 01:14:20,760 Speaker 1: squash this beef. Come on, yes, yes, and Contessa, she 1189 01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:27,439 Speaker 1: went off at a needless cultural Indian family celebration. I 1190 01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:31,240 Speaker 1: didn't like how Contessa behaved on that particular episode. Come on, 1191 01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:33,320 Speaker 1: not Contesta. You got some manners. You can do better 1192 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,160 Speaker 1: than that. You are a doctor after all. So anyway, 1193 01:14:36,280 --> 01:14:40,080 Speaker 1: that is reality update. I am done. The countdown is 1194 01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:44,439 Speaker 1: on for Ready to Love, the reality dating show hosted 1195 01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,599 Speaker 1: by the Nephew And when is it coming out? Nephew? 1196 01:14:47,720 --> 01:14:52,040 Speaker 1: That is April second, nine, eighth Central on own. We'll 1197 01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:55,200 Speaker 1: be watching, all right, Thanks guys. More trending stories on 1198 01:14:55,280 --> 01:14:57,519 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after right 1199 01:14:57,560 --> 01:15:04,519 Speaker 1: after this, you're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show. Attention, Steve 1200 01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:08,439 Speaker 1: Harvey Nation, please join our forever first Lady, Michelle Obama 1201 01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,559 Speaker 1: in the fight for the Senate to pass the Four 1202 01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:15,160 Speaker 1: the People Act. The Four the People Act incorporates key 1203 01:15:15,280 --> 01:15:19,680 Speaker 1: measures that are urgently needed, including automatic voter registration and 1204 01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:24,080 Speaker 1: other steps to modernize our elections, and a national guarantee 1205 01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:29,880 Speaker 1: of free and fair elections without without voter suppression. Go 1206 01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:33,720 Speaker 1: to When We All Vote dot org to contact your 1207 01:15:33,840 --> 01:15:38,120 Speaker 1: senator today. Please stay woke. Our work is not done. 1208 01:15:38,280 --> 01:15:41,960 Speaker 1: We are not finished. We cannot put a fork in it. Okay, 1209 01:15:42,640 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 1: midterms are next year. Get ready. They worked it so 1210 01:15:46,080 --> 01:15:48,400 Speaker 1: hard on the stopping the vote, but they won't do 1211 01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:52,000 Speaker 1: gun laws. I know, I know. Meanwhile, people are just 1212 01:15:52,120 --> 01:15:56,000 Speaker 1: getting guns and you know, going crazy. They rather stop 1213 01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:59,080 Speaker 1: your vote to stop to kill it. Isn't that something? 1214 01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:01,840 Speaker 1: Isn't that something? I mean, no one has put it 1215 01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:04,400 Speaker 1: that way, but that's exactly what it is. That's it's 1216 01:16:04,560 --> 01:16:10,080 Speaker 1: very simple. The Republican Party, the senators, they are bought 1217 01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,680 Speaker 1: and paid for by the n r A. It's no 1218 01:16:12,840 --> 01:16:16,800 Speaker 1: way around that. It's you can't be a decent human 1219 01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:19,599 Speaker 1: being and not want to have some type of gun 1220 01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:25,080 Speaker 1: controls unless someone's paying you to not have gun controls. 1221 01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:28,400 Speaker 1: It's the only way, and you're willing to sacrifice a lot. 1222 01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:32,280 Speaker 1: But the problem has been Ain't nothing happened to none 1223 01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:35,880 Speaker 1: of their kids? Yeah yeah, or relatives and loved one 1224 01:16:36,000 --> 01:16:41,479 Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah, ye oh my god. All right, thank you, Steve. 1225 01:16:41,560 --> 01:16:43,679 Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Every Morning show coming 1226 01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:45,840 Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after 1227 01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:51,560 Speaker 1: this you're listening show, Junior is here with guess what 1228 01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,200 Speaker 1: not a poem but sports talk a little early. What 1229 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,439 Speaker 1: you got going on? I don't I don't know what's 1230 01:16:57,439 --> 01:16:59,640 Speaker 1: going on here people. Okay, yesterday I told you that 1231 01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:02,720 Speaker 1: the between Mike Tyson Devanny holy Field was canceled. Yeah 1232 01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:05,639 Speaker 1: you did, you said it was what it's back home. 1233 01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:08,360 Speaker 1: They have to make their old ass minds up. I 1234 01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:10,800 Speaker 1: don't know what I want to fight a knocking Field. 1235 01:17:11,200 --> 01:17:14,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what they're doing. Somebody didn't have their 1236 01:17:14,479 --> 01:17:21,640 Speaker 1: glasses on the contract said twenty five thousand. When they 1237 01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:24,240 Speaker 1: saw that the other a comma and then other zero 1238 01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:26,640 Speaker 1: and found out that wasn't a Deacimo, that it was 1239 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:30,400 Speaker 1: twenty five million. Boys. Stop, it's back home, man. So 1240 01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:33,200 Speaker 1: Mike Tyson confirmed to take a listen. I ain't want 1241 01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:35,479 Speaker 1: to anybody to know, you know, the fight is on 1242 01:17:35,720 --> 01:17:38,760 Speaker 1: with me and holy Field and Holy feel the humble man. 1243 01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:41,240 Speaker 1: I know that, and he's the man the guard, But 1244 01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:45,000 Speaker 1: I'm Guard's man, and I'm listening. I'm gonna be successful. 1245 01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:52,120 Speaker 1: May twenty ninth. Come on, Tommy on the field made 1246 01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:55,880 Speaker 1: twenty nights it on one day weekend. You know, in 1247 01:17:55,960 --> 01:18:01,360 Speaker 1: all actuality, I'm gonna knock his daft out and actuality, 1248 01:18:01,479 --> 01:18:07,920 Speaker 1: no actuality, they all actuality. I'm gonna knock his ass out. 1249 01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:10,080 Speaker 1: We're friends, and we've been friends of a long time 1250 01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:12,439 Speaker 1: and got past the whole thing in me biting the 1251 01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:14,599 Speaker 1: year and order that we got past that. Now we're 1252 01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:17,680 Speaker 1: good friends. But still even though we're good friends, I'm 1253 01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:20,040 Speaker 1: gonna knock his ass out and didn't gonna smoke some 1254 01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:27,640 Speaker 1: week because that's what I do. Now. If you're w 1255 01:18:28,439 --> 01:18:30,600 Speaker 1: who's gonna win this, Steve, you know I got my 1256 01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:34,040 Speaker 1: money off Mike, you know, I mean, you know it's 1257 01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:37,599 Speaker 1: hard to vote against Mike. But I'm gonna tell you something, Man, 1258 01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:41,519 Speaker 1: Holy Fields in great shape. I kind of don't want 1259 01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:43,680 Speaker 1: nobody to get knocked out in a fight like this. 1260 01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:48,240 Speaker 1: I don't think they no, Steve. They both hit hard. 1261 01:18:49,920 --> 01:18:53,120 Speaker 1: They're gonna have like the Leve thing on and over 1262 01:18:53,200 --> 01:18:56,680 Speaker 1: their heads. Well, okay, it's a real fight. Huh. If 1263 01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:58,680 Speaker 1: you holy feel do you go back in the rain 1264 01:18:58,720 --> 01:19:04,080 Speaker 1: without protection? Do you do that without ear protection? Yeah? Yeah, 1265 01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:09,760 Speaker 1: he should tape his eel down. You just trust Mike 1266 01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:11,360 Speaker 1: because he want to fight again. I mean, you gotta 1267 01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:13,640 Speaker 1: takets like some jd Iel headphones in there. Someone you 1268 01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:19,800 Speaker 1: just don't. I would take down muffs or something stupid. Well, 1269 01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:22,760 Speaker 1: you just change trust, you don't relapse. You don't never know. 1270 01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:25,680 Speaker 1: But I like the I mean I don't think they 1271 01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:27,840 Speaker 1: could do it, Steve, you tell me or a junior. 1272 01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:30,920 Speaker 1: Can they go in with headgear and a fight like this? 1273 01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,639 Speaker 1: I mean they could because as they fight, it's an exhibition, really, 1274 01:19:34,720 --> 01:19:37,640 Speaker 1: but there's too many rounds. They're not doing three and 1275 01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:40,800 Speaker 1: I think how many rounds is it eight? About eight rounds? 1276 01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:44,320 Speaker 1: So they could, but they not because they probably the warriors, 1277 01:19:44,439 --> 01:19:48,599 Speaker 1: They're not gonna do that. I vote for headgear. All right, Well, 1278 01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:51,000 Speaker 1: thank you, junior. Coming up, it is our last break 1279 01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:55,519 Speaker 1: of the day, and we'll have some closing remarks from 1280 01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:58,200 Speaker 1: the one and only Steve Harvey, and we have some 1281 01:19:58,400 --> 01:20:02,320 Speaker 1: news about him. At forty nine minutes after the hour, 1282 01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:06,599 Speaker 1: right after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1283 01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:09,519 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of 1284 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:13,679 Speaker 1: the day. It's been a good Thursday, and we gotta 1285 01:20:13,760 --> 01:20:17,800 Speaker 1: say congratulations. He's always winning. Can we have a drum 1286 01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:22,519 Speaker 1: roll please, ladies and gentlemen before he gets to the 1287 01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:25,679 Speaker 1: closing remarks of the day. Oh yeah, drum roll, Please 1288 01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:35,040 Speaker 1: stand to your feet. Congratulate the one and only Steve 1289 01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:39,639 Speaker 1: Harvey in Double Act. Image Award winner for Best Game 1290 01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:46,880 Speaker 1: Show for Celebrity Family few Congratulations game. What is this like, 1291 01:20:47,000 --> 01:20:52,560 Speaker 1: your Congratulations Image Award? This is so cool man, so 1292 01:20:52,840 --> 01:20:58,000 Speaker 1: big congratulations. That ain't number grace. When you just be 1293 01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:01,720 Speaker 1: going alone, you won't even be no and then he 1294 01:21:01,840 --> 01:21:05,960 Speaker 1: just give you something. Yes, that's the name number God. 1295 01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:12,760 Speaker 1: I think the Lord and my fans period. Yeah, congratulation 1296 01:21:13,640 --> 01:21:17,400 Speaker 1: Best Game Show for Celebrity Family Feuds. How does it feel? 1297 01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:21,040 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, the Image Awards are more important 1298 01:21:21,080 --> 01:21:24,400 Speaker 1: to me. And I'll tell you why. It's because I 1299 01:21:24,640 --> 01:21:28,840 Speaker 1: started with just a black fan base, that's all I had, 1300 01:21:30,280 --> 01:21:33,519 Speaker 1: and I've never left that fan base behind. You know, 1301 01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:43,120 Speaker 1: I've always I've always wanted to make black people, especially 1302 01:21:43,320 --> 01:21:46,519 Speaker 1: proud to turn on the TV. Or cut on the 1303 01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:49,680 Speaker 1: radio and say that's how I do. Steve he with us, 1304 01:21:50,600 --> 01:21:53,160 Speaker 1: you know, regardless as to what some people may say 1305 01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:58,120 Speaker 1: who don't know me, my heart has been for black people. 1306 01:21:59,000 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 1: Do I love all people? Yeah, But my efforts, my 1307 01:22:05,320 --> 01:22:11,360 Speaker 1: behind the scenes work, my foundation, the things I tried 1308 01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:14,600 Speaker 1: to be first at was for the uplifting edification of 1309 01:22:14,760 --> 01:22:19,439 Speaker 1: black people, whether it's in Africa or here in the 1310 01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:24,080 Speaker 1: United States. Even when I visit my dear friends in 1311 01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:29,280 Speaker 1: the UAE, I'm always talking about how do I expose 1312 01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:35,919 Speaker 1: black children to this? How can I help my country 1313 01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:40,640 Speaker 1: of Africa, you know, my continent of Africa? How do 1314 01:22:40,760 --> 01:22:45,160 Speaker 1: I I'm always thinking in terms of that. I'm always man, 1315 01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:47,840 Speaker 1: and so the image of wars are important to me 1316 01:22:48,080 --> 01:22:52,920 Speaker 1: because it's the image of us. It's how we see 1317 01:22:52,960 --> 01:22:55,600 Speaker 1: each other. And if don't know, nobody else recognize me, 1318 01:22:56,479 --> 01:23:01,320 Speaker 1: as long as mine recognized asked me, I'll be fine 1319 01:23:02,560 --> 01:23:06,600 Speaker 1: because I get canceled by everybody else. Black people have 1320 01:23:06,760 --> 01:23:12,840 Speaker 1: never canceled me ever, not one time ever. Love you, Steven, ever, 1321 01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:17,880 Speaker 1: You're the man. Give you love right back because you 1322 01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:24,080 Speaker 1: give us love. Lorn I. That's so evidently clear to me. Man, 1323 01:23:24,200 --> 01:23:26,240 Speaker 1: I mean I've tried to have a track record with 1324 01:23:26,400 --> 01:23:32,080 Speaker 1: us with black folk. You know, I've tried to skip that. 1325 01:23:32,240 --> 01:23:36,479 Speaker 1: I haven't tried I have and women, Oh lord, we 1326 01:23:36,640 --> 01:23:39,439 Speaker 1: know how much you love black women. I love black women. 1327 01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:42,639 Speaker 1: I stand up for black women. I don't let nobody 1328 01:23:42,760 --> 01:23:46,519 Speaker 1: dog them like I don't took Stacy Abrams under my wing. 1329 01:23:46,880 --> 01:23:52,280 Speaker 1: U first late, I mean first Vice president, Madam Vice President, 1330 01:23:52,760 --> 01:23:57,080 Speaker 1: Kamala Harris. I take all these sisters, man to Mika MARII, 1331 01:23:58,000 --> 01:24:00,720 Speaker 1: y'all not fit the dog, none of these sisters, not 1332 01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:03,760 Speaker 1: on my watch. I'm not gonna let you do it. 1333 01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:07,400 Speaker 1: This thing that the Republicans got to stop Stacey Abrams. 1334 01:24:07,479 --> 01:24:10,519 Speaker 1: No you're not. No, you're not keep your hands off 1335 01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:13,720 Speaker 1: of her now, because she got some men behind her 1336 01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:17,080 Speaker 1: too that care about her and respect and love what 1337 01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:21,920 Speaker 1: she hadnt done for us, you know. And so no, man, 1338 01:24:22,080 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm that way. This is I'm just so man. I'm 1339 01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:30,680 Speaker 1: just grateful. Man. You know, one of the things I 1340 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:33,759 Speaker 1: always asked God for, and this is kind of personal, 1341 01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:40,439 Speaker 1: you know, I've always got asked God to make me relevant. 1342 01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:45,720 Speaker 1: You know. I wanted to have a relevant life. You know, 1343 01:24:45,840 --> 01:24:48,240 Speaker 1: I wanted to have a life where it mattered that 1344 01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:51,519 Speaker 1: it wasn't just about me and what I bought or 1345 01:24:51,560 --> 01:24:55,160 Speaker 1: what I became, or what I had or how many shows. 1346 01:24:56,080 --> 01:25:00,640 Speaker 1: I wanted to be relevant. And what I meant by 1347 01:25:00,720 --> 01:25:05,080 Speaker 1: that was I wanted to mean something to people. I 1348 01:25:05,240 --> 01:25:07,760 Speaker 1: was playing golf in Orlando last week and I had 1349 01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:10,439 Speaker 1: on a mask and I was walking out this door 1350 01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:12,400 Speaker 1: to meet my buddy down at the golf course. And 1351 01:25:12,520 --> 01:25:18,680 Speaker 1: this big dude from Memphor said, Uncle, Uncle, UNC, and 1352 01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:20,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to hold down here, called me UNC. And 1353 01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:22,760 Speaker 1: I turned around as a black dude, and I turned 1354 01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:25,439 Speaker 1: I said, what's up, bro? He said, Man, you don't 1355 01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:27,920 Speaker 1: know me, but I just wanted to tell you. You 1356 01:25:28,080 --> 01:25:30,600 Speaker 1: change my life. Man. And he got emotional, and this 1357 01:25:30,680 --> 01:25:33,960 Speaker 1: is a big dude now, he said, Man, I used 1358 01:25:34,000 --> 01:25:37,200 Speaker 1: to I had a trap house, he said, because of you. 1359 01:25:37,320 --> 01:25:41,000 Speaker 1: I stopped. He said, I'm a trucker now, Man, I 1360 01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:43,880 Speaker 1: got four trucks out on the road, he said, I 1361 01:25:44,000 --> 01:25:47,800 Speaker 1: didn't took seven dudes out to trap house and got 1362 01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:51,000 Speaker 1: them driving their own rigs, making a couple hundred thousand 1363 01:25:51,000 --> 01:25:53,479 Speaker 1: dollars a year for their families. He said, this all 1364 01:25:53,640 --> 01:25:58,120 Speaker 1: causing you. Man. He wrote me a long letter and 1365 01:25:58,320 --> 01:26:00,400 Speaker 1: send it up to my room. And a gift. He 1366 01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:03,479 Speaker 1: gave me some socks. He just wanted to give me something. 1367 01:26:04,400 --> 01:26:07,320 Speaker 1: But he had nuggets round his neck and nugget rings 1368 01:26:07,400 --> 01:26:12,599 Speaker 1: on this. You understand it's real old, but he had 1369 01:26:12,680 --> 01:26:16,800 Speaker 1: a own. But he was serious. Man. He said, Man, 1370 01:26:16,960 --> 01:26:21,000 Speaker 1: you don't know how many of us out here listening 1371 01:26:21,040 --> 01:26:23,720 Speaker 1: to you, man, because you real with it. And I 1372 01:26:23,880 --> 01:26:26,280 Speaker 1: thank God for that, because that's all I wanted. I 1373 01:26:26,400 --> 01:26:30,439 Speaker 1: just wanted to be relevant. And God has done just 1374 01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:32,600 Speaker 1: that in my life. Man, and I hope that I 1375 01:26:32,720 --> 01:26:36,080 Speaker 1: got many more years. But God has made me relevant. 1376 01:26:36,120 --> 01:26:39,280 Speaker 1: And all the praise and honor go to God because 1377 01:26:39,520 --> 01:26:43,000 Speaker 1: I didn't even know how to make myself relevant. Everything 1378 01:26:43,120 --> 01:26:45,719 Speaker 1: I am to day, this off any value is because 1379 01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:49,400 Speaker 1: of my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, God Almighty is 1380 01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:54,200 Speaker 1: everything to me. Then my clothing remarks today, see y'all tomorrow. 1381 01:27:04,120 --> 01:27:07,000 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where 1382 01:27:07,080 --> 01:27:10,559 Speaker 1: prohibited Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen 1383 01:27:10,680 --> 01:27:14,320 Speaker 1: years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit 1384 01:27:14,400 --> 01:27:18,120 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the Steve 1385 01:27:18,240 --> 01:27:19,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.