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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Leah, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm good? Thanks, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's our pleasure, well usually it's our pleasure.

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Speaker 1: But we'll see what happens here. So you went out

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Speaker 1: with a gun named Alex. How did you meet? Tell

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Speaker 1: us about any dates you've been on, and then where

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Speaker 1: things are now?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So we met on bumble and we went out

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Speaker 3: once we went and had drinks and not.

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Speaker 2: It that's it. Yeah, that's a story. Good time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we had a really good time on

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Speaker 3: the date. And I don't understand, like it was weird.

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Speaker 3: Like I just don't get why I haven't heard from him, because.

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Speaker 1: Like if you went out and had drinks, didn't speak,

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Speaker 1: and then left, I can probably tell you why. You know,

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Speaker 1: it didn't work out, So I need a little more details.

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Speaker 1: So a little more details. So you you you had

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Speaker 1: a good conversation, good chemistry. You know, how many drinks

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Speaker 3: I had to drink?

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Speaker 2: Okay, because that.

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Speaker 1: Matters, because you did to drink minimum for an okay

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Speaker 1: to good date. If for some reason there was only

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Speaker 1: one date, I can tell you or one drink rather,

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Speaker 1: I can tell you that's the problem right there. If

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Speaker 1: it's over.

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Speaker 2: It's done. There's no point even investigating. Well, I felt like.

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Speaker 3: We really hit it off, like we had good chemistry.

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Speaker 3: He's super cute, like he was very funny. We never

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was a good time, Like it was a solid

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Speaker 1: So all sounds promising. Hey, Leah, Yeah, all right, let's

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Speaker 1: call Alex. You guys, you met on Bumble, the dating app,

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Speaker 1: You went on one date, you had some drinks.

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Speaker 2: You describe it as a really good date.

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Speaker 1: Except you haven't heard from this dude since then, and

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Speaker 1: it's bugging you as it would most people, and you

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Speaker 1: want to know why. Yeah, okay, let's call him now.

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Speaker 1: Good luck Banks hisus Alex, Alex, Hi, good morning. Is

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Speaker 1: Fred calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show.

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Speaker 1: And I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now, and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call. Can wh chat for just

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Speaker 1: a second? Would you mind? You can hang up anytime?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, cool?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: I mean his voice leg he got a little excited,

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Speaker 1: but I don't. We'll see, we'll see. In the second

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Speaker 1: here we're calling up Behalving a woman named Leah who

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Speaker 1: you met on bumble and you recently had drinks with.

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Speaker 2: Do you remember Leah? Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And there it is. There.

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Speaker 1: It is the range of emotions that we go through

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Speaker 1: in the first thirty seconds. What happened with this woman, Alex?

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Speaker 1: Because we talked to her and she had nice things

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Speaker 1: hoping to hear from you again to plan another date.

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Speaker 1: But then she hasn't, so are you ghosting her?

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Speaker 5: It would look like why, I mean, she's nice, but guys, guys, yeah,

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Speaker 5: she's a theater girl.

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Speaker 4: Okay, like like froll on all the time.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, okay, just like reciting lines from Beauty the

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Speaker 1: Beast to something like what like what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think I know what that means, But

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well it means that, like I mean, what it

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Speaker 4: isn't It isn't that she used to do theater or

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Speaker 4: anything like liking theater is fine. It's that she's got

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Speaker 4: I don't know any of that. I'm a sports guy.

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Speaker 1: Her improv group. Okay, I see an improv artist.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: And so okay, so you don't have anything in common,

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Speaker 4: No, No, I mean I mean, like I thought she

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Speaker 4: just no, No, there was not that connection.

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Speaker 1: Yes, sometimes with theater people, you know, there could be

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Speaker 2: You know, things can be a.

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Speaker 1: I've experienced this before. Was there some of that too,

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Speaker 4: Oh No, She's got that constant like always has to

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Speaker 1: Okay, so it's like pick me type stuff on It's

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Speaker 1: like what it's like pick me type stuff like like me, me, me,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I could see that.

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Speaker 4: It really is, like there's just she's always ready to

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Speaker 1: Oh that's karaoke. Oh yeah, wait a minute, well she

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Speaker 1: just okay karaoke. Well what does that have to do

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, well, I mean, like I thought that

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Speaker 4: this was obviously just so she could perform show tunes. Now,

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Speaker 1: Oh so you don't want to karaoke doing show tunes?

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Speaker 1: Like that's not okay, No, let me bring you here

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Speaker 1: to perform? Is Leah Lia's here? I forgot to mention

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Speaker 1: that I always forget that part. So is this true?

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Speaker 1: I mean, are you you know, are you a little

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Speaker 1: maybe there wasn't a whole you know, range of topics discussed.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is totally ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: You asked me what.

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Speaker 3: I was into, Like we went back and forth about

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Speaker 3: the things we're into, and now you just like decided

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Speaker 3: because you don't have the same interest as me, Like

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Speaker 3: there's something wrong with me, Like that's insane.

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Speaker 2: I didn't.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just I can't believe the reason.

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Speaker 2: Like you asked me what I was into.

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Speaker 3: You can't like them be like, oh, she talked about theater,

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Speaker 3: like you asked me. I had to listen to you

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Speaker 2: That's ridiculous, Okay.

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Speaker 4: I just I don't think I can give you the energy,

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Speaker 4: like all the attention that you require. I can't that

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Speaker 4: she is ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you haven't seen too over the top yet.

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Speaker 3: So she likes I'm like a normal human, Like I

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Speaker 3: don't understand, Like I feel like you're like creating this

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Speaker 3: you asked me what I was into. So I talked

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Speaker 3: about Broadway because I'm into Broadway shows. And I talked about.

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Speaker 2: Alex.

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Speaker 1: She could break down in tears if she wanted to

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Speaker 1: right now, she's not doing it. She has that ability

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Speaker 1: as a performer.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm prepared for it.

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Speaker 3: I just like can't believe, like just because you feel

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Speaker 3: Like that's embarrassing for you, not me.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I've never needed to it's it's come up literally

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Speaker 3: Well it just did. And I don't see what the

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Speaker 3: big deal is, Like, it's not like we have to

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Speaker 3: talk about it all the time. I just like can't

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Speaker 3: believe you'd be so close minded.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But to Cailyn's point, did you pick the karaoke

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Speaker 1: so that you could be the center of attention? Like

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Speaker 1: is that why you picked that activity because you wanted

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Speaker 1: to show off?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I picked it because I think karaoke is really fun

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Speaker 3: and I go and do it with my friends.

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Speaker 2: Did you do show tunes though? With your the rest

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Speaker 2: of it? Does the troop go sometimes or no?

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Speaker 5: Just you.

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Speaker 3: I don't think it's fair just because I suggested Summer eleven, as.

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Speaker 1: You would lose me right there. Yeah, you would lose

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Speaker 1: me right there if we were doing Summer eleven.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of due together. It's like a feature

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, all right, so this womans into something that

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Speaker 1: you were not, Alex. You don't see a world where

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Speaker 1: you could provide her with the focus that you believe

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Speaker 1: that she requires, and you also don't know anything about

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Speaker 1: her interests, so it's just not a match.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't.

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Speaker 3: Have it any Well, you know what, joke's on you

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Speaker 3: because my a guy from my improv troop just at

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Speaker 3: the app so like if you're lost anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not supposed to date with any improv troop

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Speaker 1: that I hear. That's not a good idea because you

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Speaker 1: know what, Hey, what happened? Do you have to find

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Speaker 1: a new troop if things don't work out? She doesn't

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Speaker 1: think that's funny. All right, I'm actually I think it's

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Speaker 1: kind of serious. But I might not do that. You

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Speaker 1: know what, if you guys, you might go to S

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Speaker 1: it falls apart.

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Speaker 3: If we went to together, that would be amazing and

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Speaker 3: that sounds really romantic, So okay

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Speaker 1: All right, well look, Alex, thank you for answering for

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Speaker 1: your time, and Leah, best of luck to you with

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Speaker 1: the new guy.