WEBVTT - Episode 215: Wack Ass Jordans (Feat. Sir) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:05.880 Let's what's up it slip service. I'm Angela yee, I'm 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:09.200 leaving Maguire, I'm stuffing in Santiago. I'm Larryoah, don't mess 0:00:09.280 --> 0:00:14.200 up the flow? How doing alright? Well, first of all, 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:18.880 welcome and congratulations on Chasing Summer. Thank you. We had 0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:21.360 to toast to that because, um, you came in here 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:22.480 and try to act like he wasn't gonna have a 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:26.000 drink with us? Are dead man? Y'all already know why 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:30.800 I came from. Yes, he already was drinking. Yeah, somebody 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:37.839 think they using shots fired. No, but seriously, congratulations. So 0:00:37.880 --> 0:00:41.600 it's now officially cuffing season, right, that's correct, That's correct. 0:00:41.840 --> 0:00:45.640 So what you're gonna do? I mean I'm coming of course. Alright, 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:49.320 So you cuffed already? Are you ready to cuff? Okay? Good? 0:00:49.720 --> 0:00:52.920 So is that a basis of some of this album? Yes, 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.440 I know a lot of this is like past experience 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:59.600 and you know, people that you know the things that 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.640 come as I've done a lot of traveling over the 0:01:01.680 --> 0:01:03.320 last like three years, and a lot of shows and 0:01:03.320 --> 0:01:05.399 stuff like that, and just you know the things I 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:07.640 see kind of you know, help you know me paint 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:09.200 pictures and stuff like that. But a lot of this 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:13.080 is personal experiencing, you know, it's it's growth. Really, It's 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:14.600 it's hard to talk about that kind of stuff, but 0:01:14.640 --> 0:01:17.000 it's it's the perfect stuff to be honest about because 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.640 a lot of people can relate and you know, even 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:21.520 though I'm in my situation, it doesn't mean I can't 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.200 relate to somebody in a separate situation. Like this song 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:26.000 is still Blue with Jill Scott was I really like, 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:28.760 but do you think that everybody at some point in 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:32.600 their relationship it just gets kind of like dough. Yes, 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:35.520 I think that. You know, that's the most important part 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:38.759 about a relationship is finding ways to keep it fun 0:01:38.840 --> 0:01:41.000 and you know, keep your interests where it should be, 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:43.399 you know what I mean? And like still Blue is 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:47.480 definitely a grass is Always Greener type song. So that's 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:49.520 the picture that I was trying to paint. And with 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:52.200 miss Jill, she made it easy, hurt her flow. It's 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:56.040 like forever, what was the longest relationship you've ever been in? 0:01:56.480 --> 0:02:05.360 I'm still currently in it. Um it's going on two weeks. Really, 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:14.280 all these other experiences happen, don't act like you been 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:17.880 in rough relations relationship is good now because you choose 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:19.240 for it to be that way, you know what I mean. 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:20.960 I think we've learned a lot about each other and 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.240 about other people, you know what I mean, through our 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:26.280 past experiences, and the respect is just way too high, 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:30.040 you know what I mean. So, so was it like 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:39.800 was it like is already with in Amana? You here? Girl? 0:02:40.520 --> 0:02:43.880 Thanks for every daily? Was it like an on and 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:47.239 off situation at some points or but you still counting 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:50.400 this fifteen years? Or was you together the whole entire time? No, 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:52.639 it was definitely on and off at the beginning. We've 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:57.600 been married for ten so you're married. Yes, marriage is 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:01.720 tough out here. No, I mean, it's what you make it. 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:03.919 Like anything else. Man, If you if you want to 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:05.480 be happy in your marriage, you will be. If you 0:03:05.480 --> 0:03:07.960 want to make your marriage and miserable messy, you will, 0:03:08.120 --> 0:03:09.320 you know what I mean. It just depends on what 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:11.680 you want. But don't you think that happens like at 0:03:11.720 --> 0:03:15.320 some point things are? It's inevitable, right in every relationship, 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:17.200 especially when you're together for a long time, there's gonna 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:19.360 be points where you feel like, I don't know if 0:03:19.360 --> 0:03:21.120 I want to be in this. There's gonna be points 0:03:21.120 --> 0:03:23.280 where you feel like this is boring? How can I 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:25.280 spice it up? There's going to be points, you know, 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:27.320 It's just you have to go through those things, right. 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.079 But it's like any other relationship, you just got to 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.000 choose what you want. You know, a lot of people 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:33.280 don't want to be in relationships that they're in, so 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:37.760 they do things to, you know, destroy I feel like 0:03:37.800 --> 0:03:41.080 guys do that more than girls. I feel like guys 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:43.600 who want to break up with them they don't want 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.440 to break up with your lady. I'm gonna hold my 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:50.520 tongue because it's four on one now. You know you 0:03:50.600 --> 0:03:53.000 got this all right? Now, I'll just say, man, I 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:55.600 think that you know, there's two sides to every coin, 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:58.400 So you know, men are guilty of I tell people 0:03:58.400 --> 0:03:59.760 all the time, I know what type of the guy, 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.160 you know what I mean, And at certain times I 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:05.480 can be an ancient ass nigga. But I know a 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:08.840 lot of women that you know, kind of mirror certain 0:04:08.880 --> 0:04:10.640 things that I do as a man to you know, 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:15.120 irritate their counterpart. And I've seen some really like vindictive 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.920 things from women, you know what I mean. And I've 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.479 also seen some really vindictive things from my homies. Trying 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:22.839 to get back at you know, their you know, love 0:04:22.960 --> 0:04:25.279 or whatever. And but about yourself, have you been vict 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:30.520 I'm a Scorpio, so I'm like, I'm you know, my 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:34.160 work in life with But but the thing about us 0:04:34.200 --> 0:04:36.080 is we're also like loyal to the core, like to 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:41.880 a dolt fault. Yeah, oh man, now, but you know, 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:44.880 it just depends on the person. I think. So, what 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:48.080 have you done that's been vindictive? Like, give me an example. 0:04:48.080 --> 0:04:55.960 That's something that you've done. Broken windows? Yeah, just a 0:04:56.320 --> 0:04:59.400 not even trying. I wasn't trying to. I wasn't trying to. 0:05:01.480 --> 0:05:03.000 I was like trying to get a vacuum. This was 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:05.400 a long time ago. This is probably like trying to 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:08.920 get something, you know what I mean. I was banging 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:10.640 my hand on the window and cracked the whole ship. 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:12.880 Why was there a vacuum in the back. Did you 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:15.839 replace the window? Yes? No, no, no, we were at 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:17.680 I mean we were at peace real quick. That's the thing. Man, 0:05:17.720 --> 0:05:20.640 Like I'm over the top when I get like angry, 0:05:20.680 --> 0:05:23.000 but I'm also very peaceable on the other side. So 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:24.919 I try to like make up for my mistakes, you know. 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.279 So I'm like I broke him into then I bought 0:05:27.279 --> 0:05:35.480 a new washing machine right the handheld joint? Yeah, what'd 0:05:35.480 --> 0:05:37.920 you intervene if you saw like a domestic situation. We've 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:41.400 been looking at all these men doing crazy ship. So 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.880 let's just say, because you know, sometimes people just want 0:05:43.880 --> 0:05:45.960 to mind it damn business. But let's just say you're 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:47.760 walking out to you, you know, you don't know what happened, 0:05:48.080 --> 0:05:51.080 and you see a man, you know, putting his hands 0:05:51.080 --> 0:05:55.040 on a woman. Yeah, for sure, no question, no question. 0:05:55.520 --> 0:05:57.800 You would help, definitely. I mean I would at least 0:05:57.800 --> 0:06:00.599 diffuse the situation you're intervening. Don't mean I gotta be 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.520 physical with him. But if I try to separate the 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:06.640 situation and he doesn't, you know, accept it like he should, 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:09.240 it might change things. But that all depends on the situation, 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:11.599 you know what I mean. But I'll definitely like diffuse 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:15.599 the bob call thee no, not right away. And now 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.240 you're gonna be careful. Sometimes the girls start beating you 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:23.320 up for touching him. Listen on my way here, I 0:06:23.440 --> 0:06:25.560 was walking down the street and it was two younger 0:06:25.680 --> 0:06:28.479 kids and they was arguing over the phone and with 0:06:28.560 --> 0:06:31.560 the phone, and he snatched her phone. So a white 0:06:31.640 --> 0:06:34.880 woman came running over, like is everything? Okay? I was 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:37.880 Stevie Wonder because I already know how to go, you 0:06:37.920 --> 0:06:39.600 know what I mean. He was either gonna slam that 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:42.320 phone or something was gonna happen. But that's not none 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:45.440 of my business. You's got to read the room for sure. 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:54.760 Once a white woman's involved and walked up. Yeah, domestic, 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:00.560 you can't tell me if you have ever had somebody 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:02.280 grab your phone. Have you ever had your wife grabbed 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:05.359 the phone out your hand? No, nothing you could do. 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.320 Somebody trying to steal my phone, and then my wife 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:10.800 she trying to steal your No not a girl, no no, no, no, no, 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.080 not no relationship. I'm from the hood. Somebody then like 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:14.880 try to push me in the bushes and take my phone. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:21.640 Shut out. Yeah, I'm from the hood to I got mine. 0:07:21.640 --> 0:07:24.000 Back in the days, they snatched my next toll ran 0:07:24.160 --> 0:07:30.760 twine you are did you pick them? That's it. Back 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.640 in the days, when you lost, the next time, it 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:35.880 was over. That's what the man. I remember the next time, 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:38.800 and that's it. It's like the no key to flip 0:07:38.800 --> 0:07:43.840 phone days. And you have to remember they had the 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:45.840 smart beat where you had to beat somebody, but you 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:50.440 had to pay. No, it was not noting sense. Every 0:07:50.440 --> 0:07:54.360 time you think he was rich, they you had to 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:58.920 pay to text them. Yeah you No, guy ain't never 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:01.240 tried to take none of your phone. Yeah that happened 0:08:01.240 --> 0:08:05.160 to me. Oh my god, date a boyfriend prepare? Yeah, yeah, 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.360 somebody I had a guy grabbed my phone running the 0:08:07.360 --> 0:08:12.880 bathroom and locked the door. It's no, he just read 0:08:12.920 --> 0:08:16.120 my iPad. Oh that's even worse because they get to 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:18.240 take their time. You know. The worst is when somebody 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.520 and he locked the door to the bathroom and then 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:23.040 I can't get in and I know you have my 0:08:23.080 --> 0:08:25.400 phone and you're trying to bang on that motherfucker. They 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:29.440 know you did. It's so corny to me, Like if 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:30.960 you do something like that, I'll never look at you 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:34.920 the same. Yeah. I have a question for y'all. What 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:39.360 do you think because I'm married, right, what do you 0:08:39.360 --> 0:08:43.200 think it is about like married men that like women 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:47.920 find interesting single women. Probably they figure you're a good 0:08:47.920 --> 0:08:55.240 guy because you're married. That's the biggest problem I running too, 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:58.640 is is just women that you know, say things that 0:08:58.720 --> 0:09:01.520 show that they don't give a fuck, you know, always 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:07.920 want somebody else's toy. Oh my god, I need to 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:13.320 do more evening shows, okay, and not just that. Sometimes 0:09:13.360 --> 0:09:17.520 people want what you sometimes want something with no strings attached. True, 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:20.040 now I can see that, and I don't got to 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:23.440 worry about him no strengths. Some people just don't. But 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:26.040 that's not how it work. I think the average woman 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:28.480 doesn't want to people to marry. I didn't say that. No, 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:33.640 that's that's what I'm talking about. Statistics. But we're not 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:36.600 talking about statistics. And this is just a question because 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.480 I want a female perspective. I know all my home 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:40.320 were talking about this all the time, like what is 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:43.640 going on? Some people like a challenge some of that, 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:47.520 I mean people some people probably just feel like that's 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:50.880 her problem. And and for you, sir, you're in a 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:55.120 different situation because you're also a celebrity. So you're married 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:58.240 and you're a celebrity, but just married. I got homies 0:09:58.240 --> 0:09:59.839 just married to go through the same thing I go through. 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:02.040 Is on different levels, and it's different people coming at you, 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:05.000 and it's all different situations, but they're probably on tender 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:10.280 like why are all these women hitting me? And snapshot? 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:13.240 But I felt like even a girlfriend, I don't even 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:16.080 like when a guy. If I got even a girlfriend, 0:10:16.840 --> 0:10:21.200 it's I think it's different. Yeah, but I feel like 0:10:21.280 --> 0:10:24.199 karma is a big part of the situation for me. 0:10:24.240 --> 0:10:26.480 So I felt like, you know what it is, I 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:30.160 went through something really really bad that involves somebody knowing 0:10:30.200 --> 0:10:33.080 that my guy at the time was in a relationship. 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:35.240 So I think after that, I felt like I was 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:37.560 getting on my karma for whatever bullshit I might have 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.719 did because he was in a relationship. Because he was 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:41.640 in a relationship, you know how you get him, how 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:43.920 you lose them, That's how you made him, It's how 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:47.920 you keep whatever is the same ship. So I just 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:50.640 felt like after that, I'm like, let me try to 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:54.120 my best to find out, really, trucker, you gotta did 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:56.880 because the nigga lie act like he's single at the 0:10:57.320 --> 0:11:00.680 Dollar Bell. Is there anyone who is nder the impression 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:07.520 that they've seen that relationship somebody I've been on that 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:10.360 as someone in a relationship with you. You do you 0:11:10.400 --> 0:11:12.360 have a girlfriend? No? Does your girlfriend? No? She's not 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:14.760 your girlfriend. Like, because you can date a guy not 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:18.600 even know he was in a relationship. It happens every day. 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:20.560 I remember I was dating a guy and he came 0:11:20.600 --> 0:11:23.160 to me and was like, so I just want to 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:26.080 know it's just gonna go somewhere, because if not, I 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:29.760 gotta tell my wife. He was going to propose to 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:33.360 another woman I didn't even know dating somebody was, but 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:34.960 he was like, but before I do that, I just 0:11:35.000 --> 0:11:37.199 want to see what's gonna happen here. I was like, 0:11:37.240 --> 0:11:41.520 you should go ahead and proport Yeah, yeah, I'm not 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:44.160 gonna even marrying her if you got a question if 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:46.079 something is going on with you, because then you know. 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:48.839 He was a nice guy. But I couldn't stand the 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:52.000 way he dressed. Like he wore clothes but huge logos 0:11:52.000 --> 0:11:54.760 on them. And this was back in like in the 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:59.240 day when it was like what brand it would be 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:10.360 like Mecca? Oh yeah, I was like, actually like the 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:18.439 baby blue, baby blue Mecca. It was offen names like 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:26.960 you you know, because he worked and he wears but 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:30.840 he always has suits. But terrible to know it and 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:34.760 you got it, guys, and pass it in your my 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.240 dad wears type of my dad has an excuse. He 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.560 has the age where he can do that. But if 0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:43.280 you're to wear an Italian cut, you might as well 0:12:43.320 --> 0:12:46.440 to go to the park a lot, even if it's homie. 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:49.640 For sure, we gotta fight h and G warehouse type 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:51.600 situation to take it to the cleaners and get it fitted, 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:53.839 and it looks like you gotta get a tailor doesn't 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:58.920 want to get it fitted than you paid for some 0:12:59.000 --> 0:13:01.880 cute little suits from and that you could finess, you 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:03.720 know what I mean? Like it ain't that bad up 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:08.880 in there well a while ago, but fit so ill 0:13:09.000 --> 0:13:11.800 And I was like, and then bad ship bast shoes 0:13:11.840 --> 0:13:15.840 really are a big deal with bad shoes? How bad shoes? Yeah, 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:18.760 Like it's just I was like, it's just just to 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:23.319 bother me? Is that superficial style is a part of everything? 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:27.120 Like if you ain't with wear and that's problem, right, 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.320 I hope you're not interesting to speak to you or 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:32.800 here you or anything. Now speaking of being superficial, right, 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:36.240 let's just say you're since you're married, But let's just 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.000 make a hypothetical situation. You're with a woman and she 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:41.360 decides that she wants to get some surgery done to 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:43.839 her body, some plastic surgery. Do you think she has 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:45.640 to consult with you first or can she just go 0:13:45.679 --> 0:13:49.679 ahead and do it? I definitely would appreciate her consultant 0:13:49.679 --> 0:13:52.640 with me, depending on our relationship, you know what, I mean, 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:56.320 let's say my wife asked, you know, it, was interested 0:13:56.360 --> 0:13:59.880 in it. She's gonna consult with me, and not not 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:01.920 just because I'm like, I'm that type of dude. I'm 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:05.640 like everything. It's just we got that kind of relationship. 0:14:06.080 --> 0:14:08.480 If I'm gonna give, you know, somebody in my family 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:11.040 five racks, I'm going to talk to her first. If 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.760 I'm gonna give somebody in my family forty dollars, right, 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:18.240 I'm gonna tell her first. You know. I'm just saying, like, 0:14:18.320 --> 0:14:20.400 it's that type of thing where it's easier for us 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:22.160 to be like, yeah, yo, this is what it is, 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:24.400 and she knows me if she said, yo, baby, I 0:14:24.400 --> 0:14:25.960 just want to get a little tummy tuck, a little 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:29.720 lift a little here, and then like made me go 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:31.720 do your thing, you know what I mean? And sometimes 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:34.320 those things that hurt for women to talk about too. No, 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.200 I agree, and baby, they made their mind up already. Sorry, no, Nor, 0:14:38.200 --> 0:14:41.640 It's okay. I'm every single um yeah, y'all know, I 0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:46.200 got plastic surgery. Every single surgery I've gotten, I've consulted 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:50.640 with a guy before I did it, a guy, the guy, 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:53.840 the guys guy I was with at the time because 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:57.320 I um my First, the first time I got a surgery, 0:14:57.440 --> 0:14:59.120 I was with my son's father. I was getting my 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:02.080 boobs done, and of course he was paying for it, 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:04.640 so okay, so he had to console him. And then 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:10.080 I did the Brazilian Brazilian but in Miami. Yeah, and 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.640 of course again I had to console him because he 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:16.800 was paying for But if he wasn't paying for it, 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:19.680 would you have words we were living together. It's it's 0:15:19.720 --> 0:15:23.760 like they don't when you like this. It's like more 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:26.760 about the money. He want to change yourself, you know 0:15:26.800 --> 0:15:28.560 what I mean? Because if somebody's in that state of 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:30.680 mind where that's what they want, you know what I mean, 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:33.120 it's gonna it's gonna help more than it's gonna hurt. 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:34.920 You know what I mean, I feel like and I 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:37.320 don't feel like me, you know, having an attitude about 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:39.480 it's gonna make her feel any better about herself, you 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:40.960 know what I mean. But if you didn't want her to, 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.280 what would you say? I mean, I say, I love 0:15:43.280 --> 0:15:45.560 you the way you are, and you know, hope that 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:48.640 she believed me, you know. Um. Speaking from someone who 0:15:48.680 --> 0:15:51.280 has also had plastic surgery, we hate when people say 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:54.000 you don't need you didn't need that because he didn't 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:55.680 made your mind up already on what you want it. 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.040 But it's not about what you what you think is 0:15:58.080 --> 0:15:59.840 about what I want is my body. I think that's 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:04.320 what go ahead after you know, I know what I'm saying, 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:18.920 like fight if I want to, Like yeah, alright, But 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:21.920 my son's father when he got me, he says, he 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:23.600 got me the surgery because he was tired of me 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.440 covering them up, the tide of me holding them. He 0:16:26.480 --> 0:16:28.880 could tell I was uncomfortable. He knew that it would 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:32.240 make me feel better about myself. That's why he even 0:16:32.280 --> 0:16:34.720 everything I need, any surgery he bought me. It was 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:39.520 because of that. Anybody don't do it. They always start 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:42.440 with no, you gotta talk to mentor you gotta open 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:46.960 up their mind. Yeah, well yeah, I was even my life. 0:16:46.960 --> 0:16:48.760 Well I was single, so you didn't console with the 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:52.320 motherfucking verse. Well, my ex was around when I got 0:16:52.360 --> 0:16:54.600 my breast done the second time, and he tried to 0:16:54.600 --> 0:17:01.200 convince me to go bigger. It was very doing. That's 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:04.240 interesting to me. It was very new in our relationship, 0:17:04.280 --> 0:17:06.360 Like it wasn't even technically inner relationship at the time. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.520 We had kind of just started like kicking it. So 0:17:08.680 --> 0:17:11.600 I didn't like consult with him, but I just told him, like, yeah, Thursday, 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.520 I got an appointment Dr j Offer and get a 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:16.600 little retouch on. You got your pussy done. It didn't 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:21.040 say nothing, Yeah, but that's not surgery. What is that? 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:25.960 I got laser rejuvenation, like stuck a laser in and 0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:29.040 you know that's not surgery. But you was going to 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:31.159 say something, and you said you was gonna remember, so 0:17:31.640 --> 0:17:36.879 I would love to hear what you had to. I 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:47.520 gotta have a boy. My wife paid for it. Three sixty. 0:17:51.880 --> 0:18:01.680 I've done to that, Drake say, I mean, I was 0:18:01.680 --> 0:18:04.280 gonna say self image is important. How you see yourself 0:18:04.400 --> 0:18:07.639 is the most important thing. This is like you can't 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:10.000 see past this, Like all I see is what's coming 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:11.760 out of my fucking eyes. I don't know what you're 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.400 looking at. I don't know how you perceive me. How 0:18:14.440 --> 0:18:18.520 I perceived myself is you know what I mean? It 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:21.000 gets me in this room. It makes me confident enough 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:22.520 to be in front of you guys, insane with y'all, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.960 y'all sitting here feeling comfortable right now because you look 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:30.640 in the mirror like boom, you know, so you know 0:18:30.960 --> 0:18:33.479 I think like, however you perceive yourself, it's very important 0:18:33.480 --> 0:18:35.680 if you need a little augmentation or you need some changeup. 0:18:35.720 --> 0:18:37.600 I ain't gonna hold that against you. As fat as 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:51.080 this table, I was like anyway, wasn't you See? I 0:18:51.080 --> 0:18:54.960 went from a d I was always thick, Like when 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:56.920 I was a kid, I was small on the top, 0:18:57.040 --> 0:19:00.119 like I had little boobs and a fat ass and 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:05.200 big dies. But yeah, but after I had my kid, 0:19:05.440 --> 0:19:09.320 I turned crackhead, skinny. My eyes was gone. That happens, 0:19:09.600 --> 0:19:12.680 you know, girls get fatter, I guess skinny. I turned 0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:15.560 into a crackhead after the baby sucks everything out of 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:24.280 me breastfeeding and eating vegetables. That might swear yeah, but no, 0:19:24.359 --> 0:19:27.040 but it's not the way you wanted because I hadn't 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:29.560 get a nice ass before I had my son. I 0:19:29.600 --> 0:19:31.439 was a stripper before I had my son, so I 0:19:31.480 --> 0:19:35.040 had muscles, you know, like, but then I just sucked out, 0:19:35.200 --> 0:19:42.040 like I just turned into it that by like everything, 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:45.439 and I swear like a pregnancy everything went bad, Like 0:19:45.520 --> 0:19:47.720 I felt like my body got really skinny, my teeth 0:19:47.760 --> 0:19:52.919 started hurt and everything, just like you really give life 0:19:52.960 --> 0:19:55.800 to the kids, you really knew and it takes a 0:19:55.800 --> 0:19:58.480 lot of my hair fell to get back. When did 0:19:58.520 --> 0:20:02.800 your teeth? When did your t my tea? I love 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:05.400 to see I got something. Luckily, I got my seat. 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:07.840 I went to the dentist because I'm always on top 0:20:07.880 --> 0:20:09.840 of my teeth, even before I got the Vende years, 0:20:10.160 --> 0:20:12.119 I've always been on top of my teeth. So luckily 0:20:12.160 --> 0:20:15.160 I went and I got work done before I got pregnant. 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:17.520 But they went bad. I ended up having to do 0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:20.920 a root canal everything after my son, they changed color 0:20:21.040 --> 0:20:23.960 and everything. Being pregnant is no joke. Do you guys 0:20:23.960 --> 0:20:29.359 ever have surgery that you regret having done? Like anything done? Well, 0:20:29.400 --> 0:20:32.320 y'all know, I got illegal bud shots and I don't 0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:35.080 regret it. No, I don't regret it, but I wish 0:20:35.160 --> 0:20:37.640 that I did it before b b L. And even 0:20:37.640 --> 0:20:38.960 if there was a b BL, I was a hundred 0:20:38.960 --> 0:20:42.200 and ten pounds, so yeah, you know what I'm saying. 0:20:42.280 --> 0:20:44.720 So you know, I wish that I would have not 0:20:44.880 --> 0:20:47.560 done that and went the safer route, but I mean 0:20:47.600 --> 0:20:50.320 it's in there now, so right. I don't regret the 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:52.840 bus shots. I loved them. There was a period of 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:56.120 time that you remember, There was a period of time 0:20:56.119 --> 0:20:59.280 that I love get you. I got skinny, I no, 0:20:59.440 --> 0:21:02.439 I remember want everybody where I did a surgery and 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:05.959 I got myself. I know what happened was the Brazilian 0:21:06.000 --> 0:21:12.960 buttlet expired. You know what I'm saying, like, yeah, yeah, 0:21:15.359 --> 0:21:18.679 that's true. Yeah, so it goes again because I'm a 0:21:18.760 --> 0:21:22.640 small person, like I'm not like, I'm not a thicker person. 0:21:22.840 --> 0:21:26.560 I'm always lean, you know, like long and lean. So 0:21:27.160 --> 0:21:29.560 eventually I was gonna lose the weight from the Brazilian 0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:32.000 but lift, so the ass was gone. Everybody thinks I 0:21:32.040 --> 0:21:34.080 got a surgery to take it out. No, when they 0:21:34.160 --> 0:21:37.240 left what I did? I got bus shots. Damn, I 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:43.680 can't live with all that. Listen to me for forty 0:21:43.720 --> 0:21:50.480 days and lost water and yes, unhealthy there like I 0:21:50.520 --> 0:21:57.040 saw it. I no ask no money. Nobody wanted to 0:21:57.040 --> 0:22:00.320 book me a no party, so I wasn't had no 0:22:00.480 --> 0:22:02.359 likes on it. He's like, let me put this ship back. 0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:04.680 I mean, I'm glad. She start something about money. I 0:22:05.520 --> 0:22:08.000 know you mentioned money. You said you wouldn't give forty 0:22:08.040 --> 0:22:10.480 dollars without talking to your wife about it. Do you 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:12.439 talk to her about how much money you make for 0:22:12.560 --> 0:22:16.760 things that? Yeah, so you'd be like I got this 0:22:16.800 --> 0:22:19.760 for this and like does she work as well? I 0:22:19.800 --> 0:22:23.040 mean not to getting that four days ago? Did you 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:27.280