1 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:05,880 Speaker 1: Let's what's up it slip service. I'm Angela yee, I'm 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: leaving Maguire, I'm stuffing in Santiago. I'm Larryoah, don't mess 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 1: up the flow? How doing alright? Well, first of all, 4 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: welcome and congratulations on Chasing Summer. Thank you. We had 5 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 1: to toast to that because, um, you came in here 6 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 1: and try to act like he wasn't gonna have a 7 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: drink with us? Are dead man? Y'all already know why 8 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: I came from. Yes, he already was drinking. Yeah, somebody 9 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: think they using shots fired. No, but seriously, congratulations. So 10 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: it's now officially cuffing season, right, that's correct, That's correct. 11 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: So what you're gonna do? I mean I'm coming of course. Alright, 12 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,320 Speaker 1: So you cuffed already? Are you ready to cuff? Okay? Good? 13 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: So is that a basis of some of this album? Yes, 14 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: I know a lot of this is like past experience 15 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: and you know, people that you know the things that 16 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: come as I've done a lot of traveling over the 17 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: last like three years, and a lot of shows and 18 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: stuff like that, and just you know the things I 19 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: see kind of you know, help you know me paint 20 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 1: pictures and stuff like that. But a lot of this 21 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: is personal experiencing, you know, it's it's growth. Really, It's 22 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:14,600 Speaker 1: it's hard to talk about that kind of stuff, but 23 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: it's it's the perfect stuff to be honest about because 24 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: a lot of people can relate and you know, even 25 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,520 Speaker 1: though I'm in my situation, it doesn't mean I can't 26 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: relate to somebody in a separate situation. Like this song 27 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: is still Blue with Jill Scott was I really like, 28 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:28,760 Speaker 1: but do you think that everybody at some point in 29 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: their relationship it just gets kind of like dough. Yes, 30 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 1: I think that. You know, that's the most important part 31 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 1: about a relationship is finding ways to keep it fun 32 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: and you know, keep your interests where it should be, 33 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And like still Blue is 34 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: definitely a grass is Always Greener type song. So that's 35 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: the picture that I was trying to paint. And with 36 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: miss Jill, she made it easy, hurt her flow. It's 37 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: like forever, what was the longest relationship you've ever been in? 38 00:01:56,480 --> 00:02:05,360 Speaker 1: I'm still currently in it. Um it's going on two weeks. Really, 39 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 1: all these other experiences happen, don't act like you been 40 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 1: in rough relations relationship is good now because you choose 41 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 1: for it to be that way, you know what I mean. 42 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: I think we've learned a lot about each other and 43 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: about other people, you know what I mean, through our 44 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,280 Speaker 1: past experiences, and the respect is just way too high, 45 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So, so was it like 46 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: was it like is already with in Amana? You here? Girl? 47 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: Thanks for every daily? Was it like an on and 48 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,239 Speaker 1: off situation at some points or but you still counting 49 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: this fifteen years? Or was you together the whole entire time? No, 50 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,639 Speaker 1: it was definitely on and off at the beginning. We've 51 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: been married for ten so you're married. Yes, marriage is 52 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: tough out here. No, I mean, it's what you make it. 53 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: Like anything else. Man, If you if you want to 54 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 1: be happy in your marriage, you will be. If you 55 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: want to make your marriage and miserable messy, you will, 56 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:09,320 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It just depends on what 57 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:11,680 Speaker 1: you want. But don't you think that happens like at 58 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: some point things are? It's inevitable, right in every relationship, 59 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: especially when you're together for a long time, there's gonna 60 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: be points where you feel like, I don't know if 61 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 1: I want to be in this. There's gonna be points 62 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: where you feel like this is boring? How can I 63 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: spice it up? There's going to be points, you know, 64 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: It's just you have to go through those things, right. 65 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 1: But it's like any other relationship, you just got to 66 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: choose what you want. You know, a lot of people 67 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: don't want to be in relationships that they're in, so 68 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: they do things to, you know, destroy I feel like 69 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: guys do that more than girls. I feel like guys 70 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: who want to break up with them they don't want 71 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: to break up with your lady. I'm gonna hold my 72 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: tongue because it's four on one now. You know you 73 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: got this all right? Now, I'll just say, man, I 74 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: think that you know, there's two sides to every coin, 75 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: So you know, men are guilty of I tell people 76 00:03:58,400 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: all the time, I know what type of the guy, 77 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And at certain times I 78 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: can be an ancient ass nigga. But I know a 79 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: lot of women that you know, kind of mirror certain 80 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 1: things that I do as a man to you know, 81 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: irritate their counterpart. And I've seen some really like vindictive 82 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: things from women, you know what I mean. And I've 83 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: also seen some really vindictive things from my homies. Trying 84 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 1: to get back at you know, their you know, love 85 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: or whatever. And but about yourself, have you been vict 86 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm a Scorpio, so I'm like, I'm you know, my 87 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,160 Speaker 1: work in life with But but the thing about us 88 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: is we're also like loyal to the core, like to 89 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: a dolt fault. Yeah, oh man, now, but you know, 90 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: it just depends on the person. I think. So, what 91 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,080 Speaker 1: have you done that's been vindictive? Like, give me an example. 92 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:55,960 Speaker 1: That's something that you've done. Broken windows? Yeah, just a 93 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: not even trying. I wasn't trying to. I wasn't trying to. 94 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: I was like trying to get a vacuum. This was 95 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: a long time ago. This is probably like trying to 96 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 1: get something, you know what I mean. I was banging 97 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: my hand on the window and cracked the whole ship. 98 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: Why was there a vacuum in the back. Did you 99 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:15,839 Speaker 1: replace the window? Yes? No, no, no, we were at 100 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: I mean we were at peace real quick. That's the thing. Man, 101 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: Like I'm over the top when I get like angry, 102 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: but I'm also very peaceable on the other side. So 103 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 1: I try to like make up for my mistakes, you know. 104 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: So I'm like I broke him into then I bought 105 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: a new washing machine right the handheld joint? Yeah, what'd 106 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: you intervene if you saw like a domestic situation. We've 107 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: been looking at all these men doing crazy ship. So 108 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: let's just say, because you know, sometimes people just want 109 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: to mind it damn business. But let's just say you're 110 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: walking out to you, you know, you don't know what happened, 111 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: and you see a man, you know, putting his hands 112 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: on a woman. Yeah, for sure, no question, no question. 113 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: You would help, definitely. I mean I would at least 114 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: diffuse the situation you're intervening. Don't mean I gotta be 115 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: physical with him. But if I try to separate the 116 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 1: situation and he doesn't, you know, accept it like he should, 117 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 1: it might change things. But that all depends on the situation, 118 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But I'll definitely like diffuse 119 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:15,599 Speaker 1: the bob call thee no, not right away. And now 120 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: you're gonna be careful. Sometimes the girls start beating you 121 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: up for touching him. Listen on my way here, I 122 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: was walking down the street and it was two younger 123 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: kids and they was arguing over the phone and with 124 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: the phone, and he snatched her phone. So a white 125 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: woman came running over, like is everything? Okay? I was 126 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 1: Stevie Wonder because I already know how to go, you 127 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: know what I mean. He was either gonna slam that 128 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: phone or something was gonna happen. But that's not none 129 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 1: of my business. You's got to read the room for sure. 130 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: Once a white woman's involved and walked up. Yeah, domestic, 131 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: you can't tell me if you have ever had somebody 132 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,280 Speaker 1: grab your phone. Have you ever had your wife grabbed 133 00:07:02,279 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 1: the phone out your hand? No, nothing you could do. 134 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: Somebody trying to steal my phone, and then my wife 135 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: she trying to steal your No not a girl, no no, no, no, no, 136 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: not no relationship. I'm from the hood. Somebody then like 137 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: try to push me in the bushes and take my phone. 138 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: Shut out. Yeah, I'm from the hood to I got mine. 139 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: Back in the days, they snatched my next toll ran 140 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: twine you are did you pick them? That's it. Back 141 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: in the days, when you lost, the next time, it 142 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: was over. That's what the man. I remember the next time, 143 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: and that's it. It's like the no key to flip 144 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: phone days. And you have to remember they had the 145 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: smart beat where you had to beat somebody, but you 146 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:50,440 Speaker 1: had to pay. No, it was not noting sense. Every 147 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: time you think he was rich, they you had to 148 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: pay to text them. Yeah you No, guy ain't never 149 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: tried to take none of your phone. Yeah that happened 150 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: to me. Oh my god, date a boyfriend prepare? Yeah, yeah, 151 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: somebody I had a guy grabbed my phone running the 152 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 1: bathroom and locked the door. It's no, he just read 153 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: my iPad. Oh that's even worse because they get to 154 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 1: take their time. You know. The worst is when somebody 155 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 1: and he locked the door to the bathroom and then 156 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: I can't get in and I know you have my 157 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 1: phone and you're trying to bang on that motherfucker. They 158 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: know you did. It's so corny to me, Like if 159 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: you do something like that, I'll never look at you 160 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,920 Speaker 1: the same. Yeah. I have a question for y'all. What 161 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: do you think because I'm married, right, what do you 162 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: think it is about like married men that like women 163 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: find interesting single women. Probably they figure you're a good 164 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 1: guy because you're married. That's the biggest problem I running too, 165 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: is is just women that you know, say things that 166 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,520 Speaker 1: show that they don't give a fuck, you know, always 167 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: want somebody else's toy. Oh my god, I need to 168 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: do more evening shows, okay, and not just that. Sometimes 169 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:17,520 Speaker 1: people want what you sometimes want something with no strings attached. True, 170 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: now I can see that, and I don't got to 171 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: worry about him no strengths. Some people just don't. But 172 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,040 Speaker 1: that's not how it work. I think the average woman 173 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:28,480 Speaker 1: doesn't want to people to marry. I didn't say that. No, 174 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: that's that's what I'm talking about. Statistics. But we're not 175 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: talking about statistics. And this is just a question because 176 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:38,480 Speaker 1: I want a female perspective. I know all my home 177 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 1: were talking about this all the time, like what is 178 00:09:40,320 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: going on? Some people like a challenge some of that, 179 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: I mean people some people probably just feel like that's 180 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: her problem. And and for you, sir, you're in a 181 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 1: different situation because you're also a celebrity. So you're married 182 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: and you're a celebrity, but just married. I got homies 183 00:09:58,240 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 1: just married to go through the same thing I go through. 184 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 1: Is on different levels, and it's different people coming at you, 185 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: and it's all different situations, but they're probably on tender 186 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: like why are all these women hitting me? And snapshot? 187 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: But I felt like even a girlfriend, I don't even 188 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,080 Speaker 1: like when a guy. If I got even a girlfriend, 189 00:10:16,840 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: it's I think it's different. Yeah, but I feel like 190 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 1: karma is a big part of the situation for me. 191 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 1: So I felt like, you know what it is, I 192 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: went through something really really bad that involves somebody knowing 193 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: that my guy at the time was in a relationship. 194 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: So I think after that, I felt like I was 195 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: getting on my karma for whatever bullshit I might have 196 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 1: did because he was in a relationship. Because he was 197 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: in a relationship, you know how you get him, how 198 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: you lose them, That's how you made him, It's how 199 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: you keep whatever is the same ship. So I just 200 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: felt like after that, I'm like, let me try to 201 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 1: my best to find out, really, trucker, you gotta did 202 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: because the nigga lie act like he's single at the 203 00:10:57,320 --> 00:11:00,680 Speaker 1: Dollar Bell. Is there anyone who is nder the impression 204 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 1: that they've seen that relationship somebody I've been on that 205 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: as someone in a relationship with you. You do you 206 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 1: have a girlfriend? No? Does your girlfriend? No? She's not 207 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: your girlfriend. Like, because you can date a guy not 208 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 1: even know he was in a relationship. It happens every day. 209 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: I remember I was dating a guy and he came 210 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 1: to me and was like, so I just want to 211 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: know it's just gonna go somewhere, because if not, I 212 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: gotta tell my wife. He was going to propose to 213 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: another woman I didn't even know dating somebody was, but 214 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 1: he was like, but before I do that, I just 215 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 1: want to see what's gonna happen here. I was like, 216 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: you should go ahead and proport Yeah, yeah, I'm not 217 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: gonna even marrying her if you got a question if 218 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 1: something is going on with you, because then you know. 219 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: He was a nice guy. But I couldn't stand the 220 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: way he dressed. Like he wore clothes but huge logos 221 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 1: on them. And this was back in like in the 222 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: day when it was like what brand it would be 223 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: like Mecca? Oh yeah, I was like, actually like the 224 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 1: baby blue, baby blue Mecca. It was offen names like 225 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: you you know, because he worked and he wears but 226 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: he always has suits. But terrible to know it and 227 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 1: you got it, guys, and pass it in your my 228 00:12:34,840 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: dad wears type of my dad has an excuse. He 229 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: has the age where he can do that. But if 230 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: you're to wear an Italian cut, you might as well 231 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 1: to go to the park a lot, even if it's homie. 232 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: For sure, we gotta fight h and G warehouse type 233 00:12:49,640 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 1: situation to take it to the cleaners and get it fitted, 234 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,839 Speaker 1: and it looks like you gotta get a tailor doesn't 235 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: want to get it fitted than you paid for some 236 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: cute little suits from and that you could finess, you 237 00:13:01,920 --> 00:13:03,720 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like it ain't that bad up 238 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: in there well a while ago, but fit so ill 239 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: And I was like, and then bad ship bast shoes 240 00:13:11,840 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: really are a big deal with bad shoes? How bad shoes? Yeah, 241 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 1: Like it's just I was like, it's just just to 242 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:23,319 Speaker 1: bother me? Is that superficial style is a part of everything? 243 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: Like if you ain't with wear and that's problem, right, 244 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: I hope you're not interesting to speak to you or 245 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: here you or anything. Now speaking of being superficial, right, 246 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:36,240 Speaker 1: let's just say you're since you're married, But let's just 247 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: make a hypothetical situation. You're with a woman and she 248 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:41,360 Speaker 1: decides that she wants to get some surgery done to 249 00:13:41,400 --> 00:13:43,839 Speaker 1: her body, some plastic surgery. Do you think she has 250 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:45,640 Speaker 1: to consult with you first or can she just go 251 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: ahead and do it? I definitely would appreciate her consultant 252 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: with me, depending on our relationship, you know what, I mean, 253 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:56,320 Speaker 1: let's say my wife asked, you know, it, was interested 254 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: in it. She's gonna consult with me, and not not 255 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,920 Speaker 1: just because I'm like, I'm that type of dude. I'm 256 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: like everything. It's just we got that kind of relationship. 257 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 1: If I'm gonna give, you know, somebody in my family 258 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: five racks, I'm going to talk to her first. If 259 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give somebody in my family forty dollars, right, 260 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell her first. You know. I'm just saying, like, 261 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: it's that type of thing where it's easier for us 262 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: to be like, yeah, yo, this is what it is, 263 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 1: and she knows me if she said, yo, baby, I 264 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: just want to get a little tummy tuck, a little 265 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: lift a little here, and then like made me go 266 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: do your thing, you know what I mean? And sometimes 267 00:14:31,720 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: those things that hurt for women to talk about too. No, 268 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: I agree, and baby, they made their mind up already. Sorry, no, Nor, 269 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:41,640 Speaker 1: It's okay. I'm every single um yeah, y'all know, I 270 00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: got plastic surgery. Every single surgery I've gotten, I've consulted 271 00:14:46,280 --> 00:14:50,640 Speaker 1: with a guy before I did it, a guy, the guy, 272 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: the guys guy I was with at the time because 273 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: I um my First, the first time I got a surgery, 274 00:14:57,440 --> 00:14:59,120 Speaker 1: I was with my son's father. I was getting my 275 00:14:59,160 --> 00:15:02,080 Speaker 1: boobs done, and of course he was paying for it, 276 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: so okay, so he had to console him. And then 277 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: I did the Brazilian Brazilian but in Miami. Yeah, and 278 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: of course again I had to console him because he 279 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: was paying for But if he wasn't paying for it, 280 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: would you have words we were living together. It's it's 281 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: like they don't when you like this. It's like more 282 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: about the money. He want to change yourself, you know 283 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 1: what I mean? Because if somebody's in that state of 284 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: mind where that's what they want, you know what I mean, 285 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: it's gonna it's gonna help more than it's gonna hurt. 286 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, I feel like and I 287 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: don't feel like me, you know, having an attitude about 288 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: it's gonna make her feel any better about herself, you 289 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 1: know what I mean. But if you didn't want her to, 290 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: what would you say? I mean, I say, I love 291 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 1: you the way you are, and you know, hope that 292 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 1: she believed me, you know. Um. Speaking from someone who 293 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: has also had plastic surgery, we hate when people say 294 00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: you don't need you didn't need that because he didn't 295 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:55,680 Speaker 1: made your mind up already on what you want it. 296 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 1: But it's not about what you what you think is 297 00:15:58,080 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: about what I want is my body. I think that's 298 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: what go ahead after you know, I know what I'm saying, 299 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: like fight if I want to, Like yeah, alright, But 300 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: my son's father when he got me, he says, he 301 00:16:22,000 --> 00:16:23,600 Speaker 1: got me the surgery because he was tired of me 302 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: covering them up, the tide of me holding them. He 303 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: could tell I was uncomfortable. He knew that it would 304 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 1: make me feel better about myself. That's why he even 305 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:34,720 Speaker 1: everything I need, any surgery he bought me. It was 306 00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: because of that. Anybody don't do it. They always start 307 00:16:39,560 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 1: with no, you gotta talk to mentor you gotta open 308 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: up their mind. Yeah, well yeah, I was even my life. 309 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: Well I was single, so you didn't console with the 310 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 1: motherfucking verse. Well, my ex was around when I got 311 00:16:52,360 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: my breast done the second time, and he tried to 312 00:16:54,600 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 1: convince me to go bigger. It was very doing. That's 313 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: interesting to me. It was very new in our relationship, 314 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,360 Speaker 1: Like it wasn't even technically inner relationship at the time. 315 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,520 Speaker 1: We had kind of just started like kicking it. So 316 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: I didn't like consult with him, but I just told him, like, yeah, Thursday, 317 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: I got an appointment Dr j Offer and get a 318 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: little retouch on. You got your pussy done. It didn't 319 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 1: say nothing, Yeah, but that's not surgery. What is that? 320 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: I got laser rejuvenation, like stuck a laser in and 321 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:29,040 Speaker 1: you know that's not surgery. But you was going to 322 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:31,159 Speaker 1: say something, and you said you was gonna remember, so 323 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:36,879 Speaker 1: I would love to hear what you had to. I 324 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 1: gotta have a boy. My wife paid for it. Three sixty. 325 00:17:51,880 --> 00:18:01,680 Speaker 1: I've done to that, Drake say, I mean, I was 326 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: gonna say self image is important. How you see yourself 327 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 1: is the most important thing. This is like you can't 328 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: see past this, Like all I see is what's coming 329 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:11,760 Speaker 1: out of my fucking eyes. I don't know what you're 330 00:18:11,800 --> 00:18:14,400 Speaker 1: looking at. I don't know how you perceive me. How 331 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: I perceived myself is you know what I mean? It 332 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 1: gets me in this room. It makes me confident enough 333 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: to be in front of you guys, insane with y'all, 334 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: y'all sitting here feeling comfortable right now because you look 335 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 1: in the mirror like boom, you know, so you know 336 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:33,479 Speaker 1: I think like, however you perceive yourself, it's very important 337 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 1: if you need a little augmentation or you need some changeup. 338 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold that against you. As fat as 339 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 1: this table, I was like anyway, wasn't you See? I 340 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:54,960 Speaker 1: went from a d I was always thick, Like when 341 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:56,920 Speaker 1: I was a kid, I was small on the top, 342 00:18:57,040 --> 00:19:00,119 Speaker 1: like I had little boobs and a fat ass and 343 00:19:00,520 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 1: big dies. But yeah, but after I had my kid, 344 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: I turned crackhead, skinny. My eyes was gone. That happens, 345 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 1: you know, girls get fatter, I guess skinny. I turned 346 00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:15,560 Speaker 1: into a crackhead after the baby sucks everything out of 347 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 1: me breastfeeding and eating vegetables. That might swear yeah, but no, 348 00:19:24,359 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 1: but it's not the way you wanted because I hadn't 349 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: get a nice ass before I had my son. I 350 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,439 Speaker 1: was a stripper before I had my son, so I 351 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 1: had muscles, you know, like, but then I just sucked out, 352 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 1: like I just turned into it that by like everything, 353 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,439 Speaker 1: and I swear like a pregnancy everything went bad, Like 354 00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 1: I felt like my body got really skinny, my teeth 355 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: started hurt and everything, just like you really give life 356 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 1: to the kids, you really knew and it takes a 357 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 1: lot of my hair fell to get back. When did 358 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: your teeth? When did your t my tea? I love 359 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,400 Speaker 1: to see I got something. Luckily, I got my seat. 360 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 1: I went to the dentist because I'm always on top 361 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 1: of my teeth, even before I got the Vende years, 362 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: I've always been on top of my teeth. So luckily 363 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,160 Speaker 1: I went and I got work done before I got pregnant. 364 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 1: But they went bad. I ended up having to do 365 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 1: a root canal everything after my son, they changed color 366 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,960 Speaker 1: and everything. Being pregnant is no joke. Do you guys 367 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 1: ever have surgery that you regret having done? Like anything done? Well, 368 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: y'all know, I got illegal bud shots and I don't 369 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: regret it. No, I don't regret it, but I wish 370 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:37,640 Speaker 1: that I did it before b b L. And even 371 00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: if there was a b BL, I was a hundred 372 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: and ten pounds, so yeah, you know what I'm saying. 373 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: So you know, I wish that I would have not 374 00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 1: done that and went the safer route, but I mean 375 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: it's in there now, so right. I don't regret the 376 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: bus shots. I loved them. There was a period of 377 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:56,120 Speaker 1: time that you remember, There was a period of time 378 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 1: that I love get you. I got skinny, I no, 379 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,439 Speaker 1: I remember want everybody where I did a surgery and 380 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,959 Speaker 1: I got myself. I know what happened was the Brazilian 381 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: buttlet expired. You know what I'm saying, like, yeah, yeah, 382 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:18,679 Speaker 1: that's true. Yeah, so it goes again because I'm a 383 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:22,640 Speaker 1: small person, like I'm not like, I'm not a thicker person. 384 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm always lean, you know, like long and lean. So 385 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:29,560 Speaker 1: eventually I was gonna lose the weight from the Brazilian 386 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,000 Speaker 1: but lift, so the ass was gone. Everybody thinks I 387 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: got a surgery to take it out. No, when they 388 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,240 Speaker 1: left what I did? I got bus shots. Damn, I 389 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: can't live with all that. Listen to me for forty 390 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: days and lost water and yes, unhealthy there like I 391 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: saw it. I no ask no money. Nobody wanted to 392 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: book me a no party, so I wasn't had no 393 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,359 Speaker 1: likes on it. He's like, let me put this ship back. 394 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm glad. She start something about money. I 395 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 1: know you mentioned money. You said you wouldn't give forty 396 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,480 Speaker 1: dollars without talking to your wife about it. Do you 397 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 1: talk to her about how much money you make for 398 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: things that? Yeah, so you'd be like I got this 399 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: for this and like does she work as well? I 400 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: mean not to getting that four days ago? Did you 401 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: want her? You want work for me? And she tells 402 00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:29,480 Speaker 1: you like not much? I mean, I just wonder if 403 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 1: everybody shares that in a relationship like this is much. 404 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:34,480 Speaker 1: It all depends on the relation. Like I said, we've 405 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: been together for such a long time. But it's not 406 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 1: like anything I would keep from her. She was with 407 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 1: you before you had she was with you before you 408 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: had ship. Yeah, old people at this point you couldn't 409 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: even ask about You couldn't even imagine we had a 410 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: great time. You couldn't even imagine starting over with somebody 411 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:58,919 Speaker 1: who don't even know you know. I tell her that 412 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 1: all the time, if if she ever leave me, or 413 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 1: if you know, some God forbid we ever like break up. 414 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 1: I'm never gonna get in a relationship like that. It's 415 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: tough out there. When you see other people on social 416 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: media and the relationship drama may be heaven with their 417 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 1: new relationships starting. We'll be looking in love for like 418 00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,920 Speaker 1: two hours and then like you go okay, I'll say, 419 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 1: like two rows of pictures go down to like the 420 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:31,920 Speaker 1: next one, and it's like you come back gone and 421 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 1: it's a single, You're like, it's over ready, And then 422 00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 1: they they'd be posting those deep subliminal you know, happy 423 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:44,440 Speaker 1: like you're talking about me right now, we're actually talking 424 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 1: about somebody else because I don't know who, but yeah, 425 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:52,080 Speaker 1: you've done it. But then yes, all those pictures get 426 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: him out of here. Gg will post a picture where 427 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:58,880 Speaker 1: she is standing there look like and say some subliminal ship. 428 00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: It's been ten years for me to learn myself and 429 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 1: now I made it winning pound sign, she's it, nig 430 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 1: get money, bigger pounds. But can you imagine like having 431 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:24,080 Speaker 1: that social media drama, like you're so lucky you don't 432 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,399 Speaker 1: got to go through that ship. Oh my god, you 433 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: know what I think? That like you bring the hell 434 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: into your life that you want, you know what I mean. 435 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,919 Speaker 1: And I've learned my lesson with that on a small scale, 436 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like just like having to 437 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 1: deal with just the thought of her being with another 438 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 1: nigga and that type ship and me like breaking up 439 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,119 Speaker 1: with her and seeing her like going out and having 440 00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: her fun and that type of should have fucked me up. 441 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:48,280 Speaker 1: And that's how I know, Like I ain't even I 442 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:54,960 Speaker 1: ain't with none of that. She with somebody else in you. 443 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,840 Speaker 1: That's what you do. That's when he broke the window 444 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 1: for the back. Give me that. She messed me a 445 00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 1: bad man, And I think that's that. We've been great 446 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: ever since. She proved her with the one, You're not 447 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: the only one. Got to give a guy a taste 448 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: of his own medicine. We never want to, We never 449 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:23,360 Speaker 1: want to be with another guy, but y'all forced us 450 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,560 Speaker 1: to give it to y'all, y'all force us, and then 451 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: it's then it's a hell and everything. Oh my god, 452 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 1: the whole world ended. Do tell me what happened. He 453 00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 1: was living in the jails. I was living with a 454 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 1: whole bunch of my homies. I had my brother and 455 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: his girl living there, and it was just haling my house. 456 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: I was stressed, and I was just projecting it all 457 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 1: on her, you know, just young. I was like twenty 458 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 1: two at the time, or twenty one or something like that, 459 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,280 Speaker 1: and I decided, I was like, we ain't gonna be together, 460 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,680 Speaker 1: and just you know, basically like almost cussed her out 461 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 1: and was just exactly like being stupid and got upon 462 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 1: and left and moved to Hollywoo It. I moved to 463 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 1: like Hollywood and Cherokee, like right on the boulevard and 464 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,160 Speaker 1: just was wilding out out there on drugs, on all 465 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: kind of ship and spent like six months by myself suffering. 466 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: And then my mama came and moved me back to 467 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 1: Inglewood and like had me in my own little you know, hole, 468 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,600 Speaker 1: so that I can like get healthy again and get 469 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: my mind right. And you know, during that whole time, 470 00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 1: we were broken up, and I found out through my 471 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: sister that she was going out with this nigg. I 472 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,679 Speaker 1: ain't gonna say his name, but she's going out with 473 00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:34,200 Speaker 1: this ni not even thank you, thank you because without you, 474 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I wouldn't have figured it out, 475 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But yeah, you know, once 476 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: I found out, we talked about it and she was like, yeah, 477 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 1: not really is whatever. You know what he did, like 478 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: his gesture, his gesture was like he bought her a 479 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: pair of James. He brought her some SHOs ya ya. 480 00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: So she brought the show them to me, matching. You know. 481 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,479 Speaker 1: I used to look at them shoes every day, like 482 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 1: just waiting for her to get she wore them, like 483 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: twice of both times she wore him like I was 484 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 1: just uncomfortable. She's like, what's wrong. I'm like sucking nothing, 485 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 1: you know, like that type man, Like, yeah, I was lost, bloodshot. 486 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,680 Speaker 1: She could see right the tongues out of them. Now 487 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: we got rid of those. Yeah, I forget it was 488 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: whack No, But I definitely a long time ago man. 489 00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,680 Speaker 1: And that's why we operate different, you know what I mean. 490 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 1: We're honest up front, and if we're not, you know 491 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: what I mean, the consequence. I don't know what that 492 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: looked like yet. Did the relationship change once you got 493 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,119 Speaker 1: on on like things that are popping, because you have 494 00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: to be aware of those things too, because the dynamics 495 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 1: can be different. Yeah, but it's adapter die and you 496 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 1: know what I mean, that's what anything I feel like. 497 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:56,720 Speaker 1: And I feel like I'm good at that, and we're 498 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:58,880 Speaker 1: good at that, and we communicate and if we don't, 499 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,440 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, it's a problem them. So 500 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 1: you know, as long as I'm you know, always keeping 501 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,160 Speaker 1: the lines of communication open, I'm coolchi And I think 502 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,600 Speaker 1: that goes for anybody. You know, relationships work on that. 503 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:11,840 Speaker 1: That's that's the biggest respect to show. And then communication. 504 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,119 Speaker 1: You know, I've been talking about this all month, like 505 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,919 Speaker 1: respected everything. Yeah, that's on some hood ship, that's on 506 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: some business ship, that's on everything. Like you're walking down 507 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 1: the street, you're looking a hand and his ire gonna 508 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 1: treat you different than wic for sure. They need both, 509 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 1: you know, they go to their hand and hand, you 510 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,120 Speaker 1: know what I mean. There's two sides to that coin. 511 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. You got enough respect for somebody, 512 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna be willing to communicate, you know what I mean? 513 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:41,760 Speaker 1: Respect definitely is first. For sure. I like to think 514 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 1: myself as a wise man. I've been through a lot 515 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: of ship man, so you know I wear it proudly. 516 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 1: I don't like running from my past or anything like that. 517 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 1: And you know, I know what I'm about, and I 518 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:52,920 Speaker 1: know what I'm focused on right now, and it's definitely 519 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 1: not sucking up my relationship. All right now, let's talk 520 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: about something, and y'all all got to answer this question. 521 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: Nobody could say nothing. The question is what is it 522 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 1: okay to lie about how much money you make? M 523 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: I have a question for that to who? What is 524 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 1: it okay to lot to who? About? To your significant other? 525 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: What is it okay to lie about her weight? Somebody 526 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: here pointing about point them out. I think line is uh. 527 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's okay, though, and that's why you gotta answer 528 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 1: the question you ain't gonna give. So it's okay to lie, 529 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 1: by the way, so okay to lie about how much 530 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: money you make lurial? What is it okay to lie about? Honestly? 531 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: And I know maybe people are gonna disagree with this, 532 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 1: but I feel like your relationship with certain people like 533 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 1: who you fucked? Nah, not even that, I mean your 534 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: friendship sometimes y'all need to let nobody know how cool 535 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 1: you are. That's because they take it the wrong way. 536 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: People don't understand because I'll not have a lot of 537 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: is that guys that I've been friends with it since 538 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,760 Speaker 1: I was young and I never sucked them, never nothing, 539 00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,840 Speaker 1: never thought about them that kind of way. And I 540 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:11,200 Speaker 1: felt like a lot of people wouldn't understand. I just 541 00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,160 Speaker 1: don't give a funk to like express my relationships that 542 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 1: that is really good. Thank you, guys. I'm dumping jumps 543 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:25,800 Speaker 1: to take that advice. I got that the hard way 544 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:28,800 Speaker 1: a long time ago. Yeah, what you get it thrown 545 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,960 Speaker 1: in your face? I was sometimes, oh, okay, I know 546 00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: what you're talking about. Don't need to bring it up. 547 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: But okay, um, Stephanie, what do you feel like it's 548 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:43,600 Speaker 1: okay to lie about um smoking cigarettes? I can kind 549 00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: of agree with that. Just rush your seat, put sue 550 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:52,160 Speaker 1: paste on your hands, you know what, some lotion on, 551 00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 1: spread yourself. Nobody's gonna know. I just don't smoke that much. 552 00:30:57,320 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: Cut it down like a year ago. Man, if you 553 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 1: haven't smoked that one cigarette, since it's okay to lie 554 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:07,240 Speaker 1: about this when drink. When you quit and then you drink, 555 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:10,000 Speaker 1: it's like it fires up. You want that nicotine boosts, 556 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: you want it bad. Smoke a not that that counts 557 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 1: as a cigarette. I mean this tobacco is the same thing. No, 558 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 1: I don't count that a cigarette. You got men like people. 559 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: You say you ain't addicted tobacco, woods, then I mean 560 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: if I are. I'm not saying raw cones and papers 561 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,560 Speaker 1: because I'm like, but I just think that that's I 562 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 1: don't like to smell me personally. I think sometimes you 563 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 1: know you're smoking a white paper and to go out 564 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: it smells like burnt out a cigarette. To me, I 565 00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,520 Speaker 1: can't stand that depends I smoked rice papers, so mine 566 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: is smoothing. We don't have that. You just bought a 567 00:31:51,440 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 1: fresh pack. We'd be so mad when we all we 568 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: only got papers. I gotta stop a cone or some 569 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: some just burn too fast, even if it doesn't give 570 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 1: me everything I need. Next time I pull up, I'm 571 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 1: a roll, y'all a real joint. So y'all can really 572 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 1: smoke a joint because somebody's rolling on some bullshit? If 573 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: because I and everything? Okay, but not with the Coppo 574 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: pre rolls because it's a blunt. But the other one 575 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 1: is just that's the difference. The Coppo one is a blunt. 576 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: That's the jones. You know that every one and is 577 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 1: regular paper. That's why you hate it all? Right, Now, 578 00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,880 Speaker 1: let's see what Let's see where you'all morals is at. Okay, 579 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: so let's just say, break up with somebody, but you 580 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 1: use his Netflix account? Want to have some funny? Do 581 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: you you're not just gonna let me go that easily? 582 00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 1: Do you still use the account? Can I answer for 583 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 1: that's patty? If you so? Listen. When I went back 584 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:05,480 Speaker 1: to my house to pick up all of my things, 585 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,120 Speaker 1: I went to watch TV, and my my and my 586 00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,520 Speaker 1: daughter's profile was no longer in the Netflix. The TV 587 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:20,240 Speaker 1: that's not the both of our names are going right? 588 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,360 Speaker 1: Just how about how about this race? He didn't change 589 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 1: the password, So what the is the point of that. 590 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you what the poin. I'm gonna tell 591 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 1: you what the point because when he had to pose 592 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: over there, you don't want them to go to watch 593 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:36,400 Speaker 1: you goddamn Chelsea Handler's documentary on Netflix, and okay, the 594 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: same reason why that's enough broke up? But I didn't 595 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: hadn't moved out yet. I still was living in here 596 00:33:43,400 --> 00:33:47,720 Speaker 1: like you, petty. But the password, that's how you know, 597 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:52,719 Speaker 1: starting to go and which is why I live in Atlanta. 598 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 1: Netflix account but I Netflix, Actually my AX was using 599 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 1: my Netflix account for like two months. I mean, this 600 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: ship is like seven dollars one everybody, why are we 601 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:13,799 Speaker 1: talking about talking about it? Was on the other foot, Yeah, 602 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna use this for sure. I think, Um, I 603 00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,240 Speaker 1: think I have broke up. I broke up. I stopped 604 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 1: talking to somebody that I never even slept with. But 605 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,239 Speaker 1: he had um he had gave me his star's password 606 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: or his HBO pass. It's lit right now. So last season, 607 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: so I was using his I was using his password, 608 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,480 Speaker 1: and then he changed the password on me, like a 609 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:36,399 Speaker 1: thought for like two weeks. But it was all good because, 610 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 1: like I said, everybody the whole hood used my Netflix. 611 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:43,400 Speaker 1: So I'll just called somebody up and got the it 612 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 1: was Netflix. What matter. When I was living in that 613 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,240 Speaker 1: apartment in Englewood, they have free WiFi in the building. 614 00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:56,800 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm never not that ye yea it was. 615 00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: She was, what about if you're telling yourself like that? 616 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:15,440 Speaker 1: She was like, no, no, not got nice parts. I 617 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 1: know that. Yeah. See I'm from the top side. I'm 618 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: from a nice parts where all the houses are. And 619 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: she like that. I mean, what is beautiful in general? 620 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: Like you go to the bottom over there, it's kind 621 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 1: of more like beautiful part of a wood. Not know 622 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: people who live in Anglewood, but I know Inglewood, New 623 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 1: Jersey is very nice. It's Inglewood, New Jersey. You what 624 00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:41,560 Speaker 1: about it? It's you, right, and you guys break up 625 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: and her cell phone is under your name, under your account, 626 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:50,080 Speaker 1: that's different. That's business. But I mean talking to other boyfriends. No, 627 00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 1: I've let it go because I don't need to be 628 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,400 Speaker 1: the neig. That's like going back and trying to like 629 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:55,880 Speaker 1: be like, hey, yeah, can I get the text message 630 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 1: from that second account? To the last on your credit card. 631 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 1: Nothing enough, but you gotta right, that's true. She's right, 632 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 1: I already already know the rules to the game. That's 633 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:09,200 Speaker 1: something that you know, my wife established. Like if it's over, 634 00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: it's total separation, like it wasn't though, Like you know, 635 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:14,160 Speaker 1: that's the last conversation we had, and that was probably 636 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: like eight nine years ago. You're like, if it's if 637 00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna call it quiz this time, I'm like, I'm 638 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 1: doucing you. You'll probably never see me again. I'll probably 639 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:23,200 Speaker 1: hit the corner if I see you walking down the 640 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 1: street just to avoid your or just move to whole 641 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: other states when you don't for real, you know what 642 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: I mean like that? Yeah, I right, child Camp. You know, 643 00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:43,600 Speaker 1: do you ever have a flashback? You know how like 644 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 1: as women right when our guy dates somebody else, even 645 00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,360 Speaker 1: if we're on a break, we still be bringing that 646 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 1: ship up years later and thinking about it. Do you 647 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:52,799 Speaker 1: ever still think about it or bring it up. No, 648 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:58,560 Speaker 1: I'm not paying I'm not paying it up. I don't 649 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:00,919 Speaker 1: know about them, so he don't us. I don't ever 650 00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 1: bring up other bitches like I feel like it's such 651 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:12,359 Speaker 1: a waste of my time. Yeah, I don't ever do that, 652 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 1: you know, but guys do it to me though they 653 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 1: never let it go. You find out one little hand 654 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 1: of me talking to somebody is never as a never 655 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,319 Speaker 1: ending story, I'll never get an under it. But me, 656 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: I I don't do that. I don't bring up other 657 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,600 Speaker 1: people like please a bit, I wish you a bitch? 658 00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 1: Was that special for me to be saying her name? 659 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 1: That's a good way to think of it. I swear 660 00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,759 Speaker 1: to God, that's a good way to look at. Don't 661 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,120 Speaker 1: ever do that. I mean when it's happening at the time, 662 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:47,920 Speaker 1: I'm a bad, dirty, dirty dirty dirty And then you know, 663 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 1: once I let it go, once we're already back to okay. 664 00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,480 Speaker 1: You know, everything is fine, We're getting along. I'm not 665 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,520 Speaker 1: bringing up and I'm not ever bringing up another bit. 666 00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,640 Speaker 1: But if you find out things that you are lied 667 00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 1: to about, so like say that saying or the person 668 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,960 Speaker 1: he was dating lied to you about specific things, you're 669 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: not gonna bring it up. And you found and I 670 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:10,360 Speaker 1: find out later Listen, I'm good and had an abortion, 671 00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:11,919 Speaker 1: and you just found out, like, oh no, a guy, 672 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:14,400 Speaker 1: a guy I was with, a guy was we had 673 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,680 Speaker 1: a whole secret baby I had I found out because 674 00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:21,440 Speaker 1: I found that sherman's cards in his house. He was responsible, right, 675 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,600 Speaker 1: he had insurance. And I didn't bring it up. I 676 00:38:23,640 --> 00:38:25,279 Speaker 1: didn't bring it up. I didn't bring it up for 677 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: you would have searched this house. No. No, I was 678 00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: making toast and it was the regular like a toast. 679 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:36,880 Speaker 1: You know a lot of women will be like, bib baby, 680 00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 1: have nice thing. No, I don't ever look through my 681 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: man Sex City City and carried down and she found 682 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,160 Speaker 1: the box and she was like what is this about? 683 00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: And it was like boy scout member and he was 684 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:54,319 Speaker 1: pisted us out. I've been like, you're a care boy scout. 685 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,640 Speaker 1: Have you ever cut anybody going through your stuff? No? 686 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:04,919 Speaker 1: Years ago? Never? Never, never, never, Because I mean I'm 687 00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm pretty straightforward. You know. If I'm on bullshit, this 688 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,439 Speaker 1: out on the table, you know what I mean? So so 689 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,320 Speaker 1: so funny. I keep pitching you breaking the window and 690 00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:14,160 Speaker 1: then they get in the back. Oh yeah, it wasn't 691 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,560 Speaker 1: like I like that. Mom. I was like, yeah, it wasn't. 692 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 1: I was like trying to bang like it was a driver. 693 00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:25,400 Speaker 1: He was trying to I don't know my own. I 694 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,800 Speaker 1: was just trying to pull her through that We're not 695 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 1: violent over here, like, yeah, let me burn it up. 696 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,959 Speaker 1: I know it is how to hear. Sorry, I'm straight. 697 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 1: I got like a wife beater under this. I knew 698 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 1: it was gonna be like this. We had to change 699 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: the name of wife beater. Yeah, I don't think you know, 700 00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 1: there is a second name. It's called sling shot. But 701 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 1: I think that's really like that, right, that's a one. 702 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 1: You had a tank tops a girl, Ye, exactly, that 703 00:39:54,960 --> 00:40:08,759 Speaker 1: guy singless thermal. So now it's just earlier you talked about, right, 704 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 1: girls liking men that are married, Why did they find 705 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: some women? Would you tell your wife if like certain women, 706 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,960 Speaker 1: that maybe somebody she knows was hitting you up? If 707 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:21,600 Speaker 1: somebody no, no, no, I think if if that happened, 708 00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,000 Speaker 1: I'd take that as disrespect for sure, you know what 709 00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,279 Speaker 1: I mean. Like, and I give her that because she 710 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,320 Speaker 1: hasn't really had an opportunity to let off. And I 711 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,279 Speaker 1: know she wants one, you know what I mean, not 712 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 1: like that, not like that, but she I mean, she's 713 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:35,400 Speaker 1: ready for that, for that type of disrespect, you know 714 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: what I mean. Yeah, But y'all, y'all be surprised. I 715 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,000 Speaker 1: was at the Homely Big b birthday party last week, 716 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,400 Speaker 1: and I brought my wife. Of course, we're just supposed 717 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:45,239 Speaker 1: to come in there real quick, takes pictures, get up 718 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,839 Speaker 1: on and of course the album had just dropped, so 719 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,279 Speaker 1: people were all walking on you know well, and this 720 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:54,279 Speaker 1: one girl in particular like decided to like walk up 721 00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:56,680 Speaker 1: and like tell me something real close in my ear 722 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 1: and like put her arm around and Kelly, I put 723 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 1: all the force into her arm. It was like, yeah, yeah, down, No, 724 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:15,719 Speaker 1: that type of should happen to me all the time. 725 00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 1: And you don't know who you're standing next to until 726 00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 1: she puts her hand on your chest and grabs your 727 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 1: brazier and pulls you out the way. And then I'm 728 00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: like that's Kelly, and she's holding your brazier while she's 729 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: shaking your hand, you know what I mean. Yeah, I 730 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 1: don't think I'd be with anybody else, And she wasn't 731 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:38,240 Speaker 1: like that should hurt a weird ago, Like I'm sticking 732 00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,000 Speaker 1: with you when I got arm and I'm walking down 733 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:44,359 Speaker 1: the street. Were friends, I know, nine times out of ten, 734 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,399 Speaker 1: and somebody come at me and try to like get 735 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 1: up in my space, It's gonna be awkward in general, 736 00:41:48,120 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: just because I'm with you as a friend. To my 737 00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:53,359 Speaker 1: wife next to me and somebody getting that close to 738 00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:58,919 Speaker 1: me and her not doing nothing hurt her. Oh yeah, 739 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:02,360 Speaker 1: she hit her with the hardest shirt. Also proud id. 740 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 1: Next day, I was like, hey, you see that. You 741 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 1: see that? Yeah? Yeah, in my lifetime for my boyfriend. 742 00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,200 Speaker 1: And it will be an issue if they got bad intentions, 743 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 1: but a lot of them just be drunk and be 744 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,520 Speaker 1: out of and you know, sometimes they don't know you. 745 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,440 Speaker 1: You give them that pause, and she definitely like once 746 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:21,839 Speaker 1: I was like, this is my wife, she was like, 747 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,200 Speaker 1: oh hello. And then Kelly, that's one thing about her. 748 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 1: She's like when she shakes your hand, even if she 749 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,520 Speaker 1: ain't mad at you or nothing, she's already gonna give 750 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:31,800 Speaker 1: you a firm handshake. But once you want that bullshit, 751 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: it's like a big grip. It's like some whole other. 752 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: Like I'm trying to like, has a woman ever tried 753 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:42,160 Speaker 1: to approach you for a threasome? Kelly ain't playing that ship. 754 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,440 Speaker 1: I believe that. And like I said, man, we had 755 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:47,520 Speaker 1: this conversation earlier. I think we both talked about it 756 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,319 Speaker 1: so much, like me and her just on something like, 757 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: you know, just having conversation and it's never gonna happen, 758 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 1: like on both sides because her thing is her thing 759 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,120 Speaker 1: is you know what I mean, if it were to happen, 760 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,880 Speaker 1: which it never will, what you never will, you know 761 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:05,080 Speaker 1: what I mean, it would be meet her and a dude, 762 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:12,880 Speaker 1: yeah and you But that's that's her stipulation and for 763 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 1: me it's the other way again. You know what I'm saying, 764 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,040 Speaker 1: but you know that, but that's what I'm saying. Like, 765 00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: and that's where She's just like, there's never gonna be 766 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,279 Speaker 1: another woman in our bed period. So the only way 767 00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: that's gonna happen is another nigg And I'm like, man, 768 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:30,160 Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen. So that's our staleman. And then 769 00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 1: we go to bed angry, nobody sucks and we don't 770 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,319 Speaker 1: talk about six months you like that ship get name. 771 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,600 Speaker 1: So yeah, so yeah, we definitely had the conversation. But 772 00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: we've never been approached by anybody. And I don't think 773 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. You see Kelly and you you meet her, 774 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:48,520 Speaker 1: and you know she's a different type of woman man, 775 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 1: and I respect her. I wouldn't even like put it 776 00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 1: to me. You gotta be careful because girls be acting 777 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,480 Speaker 1: cute like the girl who talks all up in your 778 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,400 Speaker 1: ear in front of her, like you never might. She 779 00:43:57,480 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 1: might come up to you and be like, oh, no, 780 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:01,839 Speaker 1: I was trying to talk to you, you Kelly, your 781 00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:05,560 Speaker 1: head butter, that's what you don't know. Yeah, go ahead 782 00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,120 Speaker 1: trying to I think that's one of her biggest pet peeves, 783 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,040 Speaker 1: somebody trying to play the bullshit, because she gets you 784 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: can see the bullshit what you're looking for, you know. 785 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 1: So yeah, I definitely know she ain't with that ship. 786 00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:19,560 Speaker 1: Somebody's gonna get beat up traveling as much as you 787 00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,480 Speaker 1: do. Do Do you have to talk to your wife every day? Yes, 788 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,800 Speaker 1: it's important. It's important for me, just for my sanity. 789 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 1: I get home sick and like that, I'd be tired 790 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,279 Speaker 1: of it, to be honest, And not that I'm tired 791 00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 1: of you guys. I love this is but like we'll 792 00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:32,560 Speaker 1: be on the road a lot, and even were like 793 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,759 Speaker 1: you're doing shows and like just sitting down with people 794 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,440 Speaker 1: you've never met over and over again, it gets tricky, man. 795 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 1: And like going to labels and like going to like 796 00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 1: these like uh DSPs and stuff like that, that's the 797 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 1: worst because those are like revolving doors where every time 798 00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,239 Speaker 1: you sit down it's a new nigg is sitting in 799 00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,719 Speaker 1: front of you, like, yeah, this is the new VP 800 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,600 Speaker 1: and this is the new head of this. From that 801 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 1: and you're like, hello, okay, hello, how are you doing 802 00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 1: my album? Hello? How are you doing here? Tap Dog 803 00:44:55,840 --> 00:45:06,840 Speaker 1: is very draining. Do you guys have children? Do you 804 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:11,440 Speaker 1: have children? I love children and my wife always talk 805 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 1: about it. But you know, we we were privileged enough 806 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:15,160 Speaker 1: to like be able to take our time and make 807 00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: that decision. A lot of people get tossed into that. 808 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:20,920 Speaker 1: That's a blessing because your life. Do you go on? 809 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,400 Speaker 1: Was the last vacation you'll take together? Cool? On my 810 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 1: thirty birth day? For five days? It was gorgeous, man, 811 00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 1: it was lovely. How's water skin was jes skin on 812 00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 1: the water And she doesn't swim well, she swims now, 813 00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how to swim. So she's been learning, 814 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 1: like she's we went to classes and all that said, 815 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 1: she's doing really good. Is she from? She from Jamaica? Okay, 816 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:48,120 Speaker 1: well from Jamaica, she from from San Pedro. But that's 817 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,720 Speaker 1: not just not just you know black people in America, 818 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:52,920 Speaker 1: like black people, a lot of black people that just 819 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:56,879 Speaker 1: don't swim. This show I don't know if you guys 820 00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: heard of it. It's called Adam ruins everything. Have you 821 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:04,719 Speaker 1: seen it? So what Adam ruins everything? He? Um, he 822 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: explains facts or whatever. He said that, Um, the reason 823 00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 1: why a lot of black people in America don't swim 824 00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 1: is because they segregated the swimming pools when they first 825 00:46:16,040 --> 00:46:18,360 Speaker 1: when they first built them, when they first made public 826 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:22,799 Speaker 1: swimming pools in America, they segregated them. So finally when 827 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 1: they when it was allowed for black people to come swim, 828 00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,720 Speaker 1: the white people were like no, they closed on the pool. 829 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,600 Speaker 1: So since then, it's just, you know, they never got 830 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: to see why. I don't know how to swim because 831 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:37,280 Speaker 1: when we was growing up, my brother took swimming lessons 832 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,560 Speaker 1: at the why and I wanted to wash cartoons instead. 833 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:42,759 Speaker 1: And then when I went to high school, I just 834 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:44,160 Speaker 1: didn't want to get in the pool. So I kept 835 00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 1: saying I had my period every time they tried to 836 00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:50,840 Speaker 1: because you had to. Yeah, I had to swim because 837 00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 1: you know, the ships came and took our ancestors away 838 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:57,480 Speaker 1: and turned us in the place the water Again for me, 839 00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:03,400 Speaker 1: I'm not a slim Well, then that's not like swims. 840 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: Her brothers used to dive off the high dog. It 841 00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: was babies. Yeah, we got listen. I grew up. My 842 00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 1: grandfather had an in grandpool and his nice house. That's nice. 843 00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:16,359 Speaker 1: And and I knew how to swim before I knew 844 00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: how to walk. Well, I grew up in Brooklyn, and 845 00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,879 Speaker 1: we don't really have in New York City. We didn't 846 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:24,839 Speaker 1: got to camp. I feel like everything I asked the camp, 847 00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:27,600 Speaker 1: we didn't have camp money. Know the camp was creaty. 848 00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:34,239 Speaker 1: You gotta do some research. Yeah, we everybody had Listen, 849 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:38,480 Speaker 1: everybody had a free camp. We have the money they 850 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,719 Speaker 1: sent you away. It was yeah, they had that free 851 00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,000 Speaker 1: three week camp. It was called Camp on Nita. It 852 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,480 Speaker 1: was all girls. I never live. I'm pretty sure it 853 00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 1: still exists. So for people that don't have money like 854 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: that and live in New York, me and all my 855 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:57,560 Speaker 1: sisters called camp needed. You want upstatesbody that ain't need? 856 00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:03,000 Speaker 1: Oh need? It was white people a bit I need 857 00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 1: to learn. My daughter went to Wendy Gap. It was 858 00:48:06,719 --> 00:48:10,359 Speaker 1: like some sleep away camp that was like affiliated through 859 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,359 Speaker 1: her house. No, no, she got throwing in the board. 860 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:21,799 Speaker 1: The baby my grandmother had and why would growing up 861 00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,320 Speaker 1: and once I was old enough to say that, I 862 00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,320 Speaker 1: didn't want to go anymore. I stopped going, but I 863 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 1: would go like every summer in my life, you know, 864 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:30,480 Speaker 1: as the kid. And then my dad when my daughter 865 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: was old enough to go with my dad, my dad 866 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 1: would take my daughter every summer. I haven't been since 867 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,319 Speaker 1: I was like fourteen. How did you learn how? This one? 868 00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,359 Speaker 1: The jesse Ons Jesse Owns Park is like the big 869 00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:43,040 Speaker 1: hood pool. It's like the only Olympic size pool that 870 00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,560 Speaker 1: I know of within like ten miles or anything. Y'all 871 00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:48,000 Speaker 1: should go Jesse once two hunh. It's like causing like 872 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,279 Speaker 1: a dollar to get in there. That give you a 873 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,239 Speaker 1: little ticket. You go, put your clothes and the thing 874 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,440 Speaker 1: had a hook on your ship. You're getting Jesse. And 875 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,359 Speaker 1: they had two diving boards that had the diving board 876 00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,239 Speaker 1: that was like three ft off the water and then 877 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 1: they had the Olympic diving boards. So we were younger, 878 00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,160 Speaker 1: my mom used to take us to Jest to just 879 00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 1: have us first of all, swimming across you know what 880 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:06,440 Speaker 1: I mean in the deep end. That was big. That 881 00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 1: was huge to be able to make it from one 882 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 1: side of the fool pool and you know an Olympic 883 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:13,399 Speaker 1: pool is it's different than that backyard pool ship. It's 884 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,239 Speaker 1: like a good like something. I think it's thirty ft 885 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:17,879 Speaker 1: and something like that and it's like twelve ft deep, 886 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 1: so you know, yeah, we uhould like jump off the 887 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:22,600 Speaker 1: high dive and like all types of ship when I 888 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,560 Speaker 1: was younger, you know what I mean. So yeah, like 889 00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,520 Speaker 1: we were in King Coo, I jumped off like a 890 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:29,319 Speaker 1: thirty foot like high rise or something like that. Yeah, 891 00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:33,759 Speaker 1: into the water. Yeah, David's or whatever. I don't like that. 892 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,839 Speaker 1: I'm scared of that. I feel like once you hit 893 00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,200 Speaker 1: the water for something with me, I'll be in Miami 894 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,480 Speaker 1: and you're on the yard and you go out to 895 00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:44,720 Speaker 1: the sand dunes and I don't jump in, And I'm 896 00:49:44,760 --> 00:49:51,600 Speaker 1: for sure adventure is like that water from Dolphins and 897 00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:54,840 Speaker 1: you might see a manatee. But you see in Florida, 898 00:49:55,000 --> 00:50:02,160 Speaker 1: seen in that part of the water. We've seen water over. Now, 899 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,680 Speaker 1: let me ask you this, how much do you believe 900 00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:06,919 Speaker 1: in relationships with no strings attached? Is they're really such 901 00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:10,600 Speaker 1: a thing? No? Never, That's why the situation ship, it's 902 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,719 Speaker 1: not a relationship. People get ghosted all the time. So 903 00:50:14,120 --> 00:50:16,879 Speaker 1: people love to like say no strings attached to ship 904 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,680 Speaker 1: like that, But if you're in a situation where you're 905 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:21,919 Speaker 1: trying to sun on somebody or you you know, y'all 906 00:50:21,960 --> 00:50:25,520 Speaker 1: take it that far, there's already feelings involved, or at 907 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,040 Speaker 1: least that's me. I know, I'm not ruthless enough to 908 00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:31,319 Speaker 1: just be like, I'm just gonna fucking like you're keeping. 909 00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't don't work like. That's why I don't do 910 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,759 Speaker 1: that type ship because I'm emotionally attached to Yeah, So 911 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,759 Speaker 1: you know, I already know if I'm like going to 912 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:42,040 Speaker 1: put that energy into something else, they're gonna feel some 913 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:44,399 Speaker 1: type of way after I'm done, because I'm not. I'm 914 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'm going in with the gust though. I 915 00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: just lived my life like that, so I don't even 916 00:50:48,800 --> 00:50:50,920 Speaker 1: want to ever put myself in that type of situation. 917 00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: I was thinking about this song That's why I Love 918 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:56,080 Speaker 1: You right, because that feels like a no strings attached 919 00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 1: type of relations exactly what the song is portrayed. But 920 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,759 Speaker 1: you see how many people relate the love that song. 921 00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 1: That's crazy. It took me four years to build up 922 00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,960 Speaker 1: the courage to even put that out, Like people like 923 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: to what what kind of attention? What kind of attention 924 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:12,920 Speaker 1: do you think I've gotten off of that song? Along 925 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 1: right situation. That's crazy, man, big dog? What's going on? Man? Hello? Damn? 926 00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:27,840 Speaker 1: Maybe he butt out you. He probably did, sway, I 927 00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:30,799 Speaker 1: love you man, I'm on a lip service man, cool man. 928 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:34,960 Speaker 1: That's cool. Oh he did TECHNI he said you're good? 929 00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:42,760 Speaker 1: Oh how budded out him? N? I was just kidding. 930 00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:45,799 Speaker 1: At least he called you back. Yeah, that's nice. You're 931 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:49,400 Speaker 1: gonna text me what we're doing an interview? He's like 932 00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:53,319 Speaker 1: that some important tell him Larry. I'll said, Hi, that's 933 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:58,080 Speaker 1: my brother. Um. It feels like we fell and went 934 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,920 Speaker 1: the house. I know it's out in here about that, 935 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:03,040 Speaker 1: but yeah, so you said we were talking about that's 936 00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:04,680 Speaker 1: why I love you? Right? So have y'all ever been 937 00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:06,680 Speaker 1: in a relationship there was no strings attached when you 938 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:08,440 Speaker 1: just have sex and that was it. I'm fresh off 939 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,920 Speaker 1: of a ten year relationship, newly single, and I've been 940 00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,280 Speaker 1: having sex with someone and you know, in a relationship, 941 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:14,400 Speaker 1: and I don't want to be in a relationship. You 942 00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,560 Speaker 1: feel like you love them though you have feelings, and 943 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,360 Speaker 1: when you when you fun, sometimes the feelings coming in 944 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: and go away. Open that door. It's so happy and 945 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,600 Speaker 1: I'm about to die. Yet I believe that you can't 946 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:28,920 Speaker 1: have that type of thing if both people are on 947 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:33,720 Speaker 1: the same page, on the same page situation agree. Sometimes 948 00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:35,759 Speaker 1: you just meet people that are just good for that. 949 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: I think what's important in that though two is like you, 950 00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:39,920 Speaker 1: you kind of have to be single, or you have 951 00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 1: to be like as honest as you possibly can with 952 00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:44,759 Speaker 1: who you need to be honest with. You know what 953 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 1: I mean. But it's always best if you're single. You 954 00:52:47,640 --> 00:52:49,600 Speaker 1: don't want to be in a relationship trying to be like, yeah, 955 00:52:49,640 --> 00:52:54,719 Speaker 1: this is no strings Dutch baby, of course. I feel 956 00:52:54,760 --> 00:52:57,400 Speaker 1: like it's better when you're not around that person, not 957 00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,240 Speaker 1: much like if y'all live then the way or something 958 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,000 Speaker 1: like that. I think because the more you're around somebody, 959 00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:05,759 Speaker 1: the more you start to care for them. I don't 960 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:08,839 Speaker 1: care who it is, you're gonna catch failings. If I'm 961 00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,080 Speaker 1: around you all the time, I'm gonna eventually start to 962 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,360 Speaker 1: care more for them or feel more away. That's what 963 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:19,600 Speaker 1: You're gonna be annoyed or away from me. But then 964 00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,880 Speaker 1: if I'm annoyed, you can't even get me in the 965 00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 1: room with you. Like I'm the kind of person that's 966 00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 1: like you annoyed me get the funk, like I can't 967 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 1: be annoyed. Could you fun with somebody that's stupid? No, 968 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:35,839 Speaker 1: damn no, there's so many. There's so many stupid people too, 969 00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,680 Speaker 1: just a lot of them. I'll say that at loud proudly. 970 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:40,840 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, just because I live based 971 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,400 Speaker 1: on logic, you're there are delusional people, which is to me, 972 00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,000 Speaker 1: it's not you're not stupid, because there can be people 973 00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:49,160 Speaker 1: that a books, smart and all that ship. But you 974 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:53,120 Speaker 1: know what I mean, they're just and not just common sense, 975 00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:56,840 Speaker 1: just just sense about like what's real. And you know 976 00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:59,160 Speaker 1: what I mean, what you know what I mean? Like, oh, 977 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,880 Speaker 1: I'm a singer, you know what, I'm gonna be an 978 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:05,440 Speaker 1: artist one day. You know, I got these two, these 979 00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 1: three songs, because that's how you know, that's how goofy 980 00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:11,480 Speaker 1: people have seen when they don't get it, you know 981 00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,920 Speaker 1: what I mean. And it goes to relationships, it goes 982 00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:16,960 Speaker 1: to everything, like girls falling for the bullshit, niggas be 983 00:54:17,000 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 1: on bullshit, and then niggas falling for the girls that 984 00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,960 Speaker 1: be on the bullshit. Everybody be like and a lot 985 00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 1: of things is like the imagery of things is what 986 00:54:24,160 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 1: sucks people up, Like what you see on Instagram and 987 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 1: when you look at Twitter and people posting and this 988 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:30,120 Speaker 1: and there, you're like, yeah, I like that, and then 989 00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:35,279 Speaker 1: you meet that person in person and different, just different. Man, 990 00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,800 Speaker 1: it's crazy, no substance. I don't care about that. I 991 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:42,560 Speaker 1: think that knowledge is attract Like somebody that's knowledgeable, has 992 00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:45,640 Speaker 1: wisdom and stuff like that. I think that's attractive to 993 00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 1: me because even if you could put me on the 994 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,359 Speaker 1: certain things or you know what I mean, I think 995 00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:53,680 Speaker 1: it's something about that that's just sexy to me. But 996 00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,800 Speaker 1: if you're like dumb, because I feel like people mask 997 00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,560 Speaker 1: the dumbness. So when you first meet them, you're like, oh, 998 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,000 Speaker 1: they look good. You like them when you're attractive and 999 00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:04,440 Speaker 1: and that's just that. But the more you start talking 1000 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,440 Speaker 1: to them is when you find out they're dumb. You 1001 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:09,360 Speaker 1: don't never know in the very beginning. But like with me, 1002 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:11,879 Speaker 1: once I found out you're a certain level of them, 1003 00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,000 Speaker 1: and I'm just like, get the you're not. I can't, 1004 00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:17,560 Speaker 1: I can't do it. That's really takes a while. Sometimes 1005 00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:19,319 Speaker 1: you know you might be with somebody for them need 1006 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 1: four or five months for you? What did you say? Right? No? 1007 00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,880 Speaker 1: But I like, you know, you know you think that 1008 00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:33,320 Speaker 1: you want to be with somebody who's really smart, you know, 1009 00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:35,879 Speaker 1: and I and for me to say that I don't 1010 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,880 Speaker 1: want to be with somebody dumb, it's a lot. I 1011 00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:40,560 Speaker 1: smoke a lot of weed. That's like saying a mouthful. 1012 00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 1: You know. Sometimes I feel like I'm seeing myself. I'm 1013 00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:48,839 Speaker 1: just airy as fuck. But I was with somebody who 1014 00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,920 Speaker 1: was so smart, like this guy, He's brilliant. He was 1015 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:56,080 Speaker 1: like my encyclopedia. I didn't need spell check, I didn't 1016 00:55:56,560 --> 00:56:03,239 Speaker 1: got Google, nothing everything I needed, Like, but he could 1017 00:56:03,280 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 1: be a Jeopardy champ. Seriously, we watched Jeopardy. He knows 1018 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:10,319 Speaker 1: all the answers. He's brilliant. But that's not me. Yeah, 1019 00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:14,360 Speaker 1: I'm smart, like I have common sense, but at the 1020 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,800 Speaker 1: end of the day, I know I'm still like a 1021 00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:19,439 Speaker 1: neangral thal like it. But you know, my my lady 1022 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:20,960 Speaker 1: makes me way better, you know what I mean. She 1023 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:24,480 Speaker 1: helps out a lot. Like I felt like I felt 1024 00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 1: like being with him kind of made me stupid. It 1025 00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 1: literally like I stopped forgetting I started forgetting how to 1026 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:36,920 Speaker 1: spell words, like I found like everything. Yeah, I was 1027 00:56:37,040 --> 00:56:39,880 Speaker 1: so difficult. Depending on himself was just like I felt 1028 00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:43,120 Speaker 1: like if he wasn't around, like I'm calling him, like, 1029 00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,279 Speaker 1: so what time does the DMV close? You know what 1030 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:54,000 Speaker 1: shows everything? So I'm not gonna fly. After he and 1031 00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 1: I separated, I was able to like get back into reading. 1032 00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:02,280 Speaker 1: And he was like leading you to the war you started. 1033 00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:03,800 Speaker 1: You forgot where the water was. You knew he was 1034 00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:05,880 Speaker 1: just gonna lead you to the water. I've never met 1035 00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:13,319 Speaker 1: anybody like that. Where's the water? You feel like? Women? 1036 00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:15,839 Speaker 1: I use you this smarter one in the relationship. Yeah, 1037 00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 1: like a medium. I like a medium. I like him 1038 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,520 Speaker 1: knowing some ship that I don't know, me being able 1039 00:57:21,560 --> 00:57:26,280 Speaker 1: to teach him to balance for sure? What would you 1040 00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:27,800 Speaker 1: rate yourself on the scale of one to ten in 1041 00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:31,080 Speaker 1: bed if you were being honest in what are of 1042 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:35,960 Speaker 1: my life just having sex? On a scale? Like you 1043 00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:39,200 Speaker 1: know what I mean? You know what I mean A 1044 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:42,400 Speaker 1: little littler now, I mean it starts to care. So 1045 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give myself a ten for show I care. 1046 00:57:44,680 --> 00:57:46,520 Speaker 1: And you know I'm carrying weight, so it ain't like 1047 00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:50,360 Speaker 1: I'm walking in there, you know, ashamed. I'm walking in confidence. 1048 00:57:51,240 --> 00:58:00,920 Speaker 1: What was your number? Yeah? I was Jack. Yeah, you 1049 00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:05,640 Speaker 1: don't sound like a tending now you know what I 1050 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:09,640 Speaker 1: will say? This was to be working with sounds heavy. 1051 00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:15,160 Speaker 1: We don't want in my relationship because we know each other. 1052 00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:17,480 Speaker 1: So we're going to it with a game plan. And 1053 00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:19,520 Speaker 1: they're like we just like, you know what I mean, 1054 00:58:19,560 --> 00:58:22,160 Speaker 1: We can't just be like exploring each other's bodies. No, 1055 00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:27,400 Speaker 1: in there, like you know what it is. You're never lazy, Yes, 1056 00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:35,640 Speaker 1: yes you can wait year. You can be lady. He 1057 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:37,160 Speaker 1: has the right to be lazy. They both have the 1058 00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 1: right another. At one point for that nine nine we're 1059 00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 1: taking one star. I'll say she initiate more. No, I'm 1060 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,920 Speaker 1: definitely the initiator for sure. But we talk about it's 1061 00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: like it's like it's sucked up because when I wanted, 1062 00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,560 Speaker 1: there's always things that can stop things from happening, but 1063 00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:02,880 Speaker 1: you wanted. Oh yeah you healthy, nigger, You're fine. I 1064 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:07,680 Speaker 1: know your your blood pressure is all good? That yeah, 1065 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:12,680 Speaker 1: exactly what your blood pressure? Yeah, you know what I mean. 1066 00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,240 Speaker 1: So I'll never get no passes like that. But what's 1067 00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:17,200 Speaker 1: the worst you've ever been? Like, can you recall the 1068 00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:21,040 Speaker 1: situation when you were like I need to do over? No, 1069 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:26,120 Speaker 1: I can't say that. You've had it off night for sure, 1070 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:28,760 Speaker 1: not but not like where I've been like so often 1071 00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,600 Speaker 1: I've wanted to take it back. No, he never couldn't 1072 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:35,080 Speaker 1: get hirt what No, I don't have those issues. It's 1073 00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 1: like fourty year old nigger issues. That's happening from happening. Yeah, Oh, 1074 00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:45,880 Speaker 1: you're taking jobs that you haven't probably getting hard. It 1075 00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:49,680 Speaker 1: could happen, if happen. Sometimes she has a problem getting hard. 1076 00:59:52,800 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not that I didn't you you you never 1077 01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,240 Speaker 1: come to quick at some point. Yeah, I can't say 1078 01:00:03,240 --> 01:00:09,600 Speaker 1: I ain't done that the wait wait, I look, I 1079 01:00:09,640 --> 01:00:15,240 Speaker 1: want to know how long you're here. You didn't even 1080 01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:27,360 Speaker 1: put it in. But how are you feeling about the 1081 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:31,400 Speaker 1: reception of the album? Because everybody's excited about it. It's 1082 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:33,680 Speaker 1: way better than we could have ever expected. Man. I mean, 1083 01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 1: we always go into this, me and my team just 1084 01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:38,680 Speaker 1: knowing that we're confident in it and knowing that you know, 1085 01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:41,120 Speaker 1: we we hope it's well received, but you know, us 1086 01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:43,080 Speaker 1: being confident is one of the most important things. So 1087 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,560 Speaker 1: I feel like by the time it was time for 1088 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,640 Speaker 1: us to release it, it had been like a month 1089 01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:50,920 Speaker 1: where we were just staring at the same stuff ready 1090 01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:53,960 Speaker 1: to go. So when we dropped it and people responded 1091 01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:56,560 Speaker 1: the way they did, it was just all joint man, 1092 01:00:56,600 --> 01:00:58,920 Speaker 1: We've just been chilling and having a good time. Man, 1093 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,040 Speaker 1: it's all love. I think we like they said forty 1094 01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:03,600 Speaker 1: million in the first three weeks so far, just on 1095 01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: streams and stuff like that, and I don't like crazy 1096 01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,240 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying because you're here and nothing like that. 1097 01:01:09,440 --> 01:01:17,040 Speaker 1: Once we knew because the album is literally fire and 1098 01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:19,160 Speaker 1: like you, I mean, we have a lot of artists 1099 01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:20,800 Speaker 1: come up here and I'd be like, okay when it 1100 01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:22,840 Speaker 1: come out and I probably ain't listened to it, but 1101 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:24,920 Speaker 1: that like, yes, ship is don't repeat for me. I 1102 01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:28,200 Speaker 1: ain't even gonna hold you. You got some amazing features 1103 01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 1: on that. Man, I'm proud of people that you put 1104 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:32,240 Speaker 1: me on too. That. I was like, who is this? Yeah? 1105 01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:36,320 Speaker 1: Where you finding new people at two Kady Bone. Shout 1106 01:01:36,360 --> 01:01:38,560 Speaker 1: out to Katy and she's amazing. Shout out to a 1107 01:01:38,560 --> 01:01:40,920 Speaker 1: Little Way Man. Shout out to die of course man, 1108 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,200 Speaker 1: much respect him, Miss jim Man taking her time out 1109 01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 1: of her busy schedule to just bless me. Man. That 1110 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:51,760 Speaker 1: was amazing. And it's a car everybody else featuring one right, 1111 01:01:52,000 --> 01:02:01,440 Speaker 1: I said, I'm saying check the teep, no, but really, congratulations. 1112 01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,960 Speaker 1: I'm glad that the album came out that we love 1113 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:05,640 Speaker 1: it so much. It's really good. It's a vibe like 1114 01:02:05,720 --> 01:02:08,080 Speaker 1: when I'm in the house chilling because I don't have 1115 01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:09,960 Speaker 1: a lot of time at home, but when I am, 1116 01:02:10,000 --> 01:02:11,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, what am I listening to? So I 1117 01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:15,240 Speaker 1: definitely been listened to beginning to say yes, absolutely, So 1118 01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:18,400 Speaker 1: what's your favorite song on that? It changes day to 1119 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:21,000 Speaker 1: day just because I'm all in my babies, So I 1120 01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 1: think right now it's Mood. We've been playing there on 1121 01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:25,840 Speaker 1: the most. Like Mood is definitely like it's the jam, 1122 01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:28,960 Speaker 1: it's a field and the car is one that really 1123 01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:30,880 Speaker 1: like blessed us with that man shout out to him. 1124 01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,640 Speaker 1: He he's definitely the mastermind behind that. Him and cow 1125 01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:36,080 Speaker 1: Banks and uh, I just I just wrote some verses. 1126 01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,480 Speaker 1: Really I feel like and you know, put everything together 1127 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:40,560 Speaker 1: and you know, kind of put it in the right place. 1128 01:02:40,680 --> 01:02:43,040 Speaker 1: But you know, I know that it takes a lot 1129 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,120 Speaker 1: more than just me to make things like this coming together. 1130 01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:47,120 Speaker 1: And I'm definitely like happy to have the team I 1131 01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:48,840 Speaker 1: god and the people around me that helped me to 1132 01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,160 Speaker 1: kind of like make this ship work all right. Well, 1133 01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:53,960 Speaker 1: this is all very inspirational and for people that have 1134 01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:56,280 Speaker 1: been in long term relationships, they always go through the 1135 01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:58,360 Speaker 1: break up period. Trust me, I work with two guys 1136 01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,400 Speaker 1: have gone through manythings throughout the course of our ten 1137 01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,760 Speaker 1: years being on the Breakfast Club, and I've seen a 1138 01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 1: lot of ups and downs happen in their relationships. But 1139 01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,840 Speaker 1: I think it's inspiration to see when people can go 1140 01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:11,680 Speaker 1: through it and work it through. But the question is 1141 01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:13,400 Speaker 1: when you'll take a break, do you have to say 1142 01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:17,200 Speaker 1: everything that happened during that break? I don't think we did, 1143 01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 1: but we did. We didn't have to, Yeah, we did, definitely, 1144 01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,360 Speaker 1: And you know, like me, I wasn't. You know, a 1145 01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,240 Speaker 1: lot of people thought you you think you're gonna break 1146 01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:29,240 Speaker 1: up with somebody and it's just gonna be like flying 1147 01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 1: at you. And guys, you learned that it's a cold 1148 01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:35,320 Speaker 1: game real quick, you know what I mean. And when 1149 01:03:35,360 --> 01:03:37,760 Speaker 1: you start, when you're looking for it in the wrong places, 1150 01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:39,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna find it and it's not gonna be what 1151 01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:41,640 Speaker 1: you expected. So I learned that the hard way. And 1152 01:03:41,760 --> 01:03:44,360 Speaker 1: she had an easy time because she's beautiful and she's kind, 1153 01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: and you know what I mean, she's something. You know, 1154 01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:48,880 Speaker 1: she's a catch, you know what I mean, She's something 1155 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,920 Speaker 1: to admire. So she had it easy. All she had 1156 01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,160 Speaker 1: to do is walk down the street, but asked, I'm 1157 01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:56,960 Speaker 1: the nigger walking down the street chasing her, you know 1158 01:03:57,000 --> 01:04:04,960 Speaker 1: what I mean? So with devil? What made you realize 1159 01:04:05,000 --> 01:04:07,840 Speaker 1: she was the one? My bullshit? Just you know that 1160 01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,520 Speaker 1: that situation in particular kind of set me straight. And 1161 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,560 Speaker 1: just you know, we've had thousands of conversations, man, before 1162 01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:15,400 Speaker 1: we got married, where we kind of just you know, 1163 01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,040 Speaker 1: we know each other too well, and we respect each 1164 01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:19,600 Speaker 1: other too much, and we love each other each other 1165 01:04:19,680 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 1: way too much too. You know, let anybody else like me. 1166 01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm really possessive. I know that about her, you know 1167 01:04:26,520 --> 01:04:30,640 Speaker 1: what you know? So you know, I just know that, 1168 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:33,360 Speaker 1: you know, I'd rather be with her than without, you 1169 01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 1: know what I mean? And you know, whatever I gotta do, 1170 01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:38,520 Speaker 1: you know, it's it's you know, it's not easy, especially 1171 01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,040 Speaker 1: the position I'm in for sure, But you know I've 1172 01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,120 Speaker 1: had years to like work on myself, and I think 1173 01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 1: I'm I'm much more mature than I was when we 1174 01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:47,800 Speaker 1: first got married. And it shines through. She trust me. 1175 01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:49,720 Speaker 1: She know I ain't don't know bullsh She know I 1176 01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,320 Speaker 1: take care of my business and I ain't got time 1177 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:53,080 Speaker 1: for the bullshit. We're making way too much money for 1178 01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 1: me to be out of here. The album she loves it, man, 1179 01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:03,320 Speaker 1: I don't know not. I think it might be. I 1180 01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:06,320 Speaker 1: think she likes New Sky, but you have to ask her. Okay, 1181 01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you so much, thank you for coming. 1182 01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: You guys appreciate it. Before we go, I want an 1183 01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:17,160 Speaker 1: actual question. I'm scared. How about y'all? I'm nervous? Am 1184 01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:22,120 Speaker 1: I the only one excited about our tour? Oh? My god? 1185 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:26,200 Speaker 1: You checked us? Scared to say? Now? Yes, Lift Service 1186 01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:28,320 Speaker 1: is going to be on tour and we kick it 1187 01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,800 Speaker 1: off on the October Twentie and Philly where gis from. 1188 01:05:32,240 --> 01:05:34,000 Speaker 1: And Julie she's excited. We are going to be at 1189 01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:35,640 Speaker 1: l A two by the way, maybe we can get 1190 01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:39,000 Speaker 1: Can we call Julie and yeah, hook it up. I 1191 01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,520 Speaker 1: know some people that know some people gosh, but yeah, 1192 01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,400 Speaker 1: So we are excited. Lift Service our first ever like 1193 01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:47,760 Speaker 1: for real nationwide tour. Yes, yeah, so thirteen cities with 1194 01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:52,000 Speaker 1: live nation. We're excited. I'm excited and we have locked 1195 01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:54,320 Speaker 1: in some guests already, right, A lot of good guys, 1196 01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:57,560 Speaker 1: are we saying? Anybody I know? We're doing g Herbo. 1197 01:05:57,800 --> 01:06:01,120 Speaker 1: We got what I found Lucci, We got Barnes coming, 1198 01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:05,360 Speaker 1: I watched Jazzy, We got who am I super super 1199 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:08,480 Speaker 1: super Man. We have a lot of people. Man, I 1200 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:12,600 Speaker 1: can't even think, Oh no, New York is gonna be special. Yeah, 1201 01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,480 Speaker 1: so anyway, I mean, but make sure you'll come check 1202 01:06:15,560 --> 01:06:17,560 Speaker 1: us out on tour. You can go to um take 1203 01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:19,520 Speaker 1: a mess to that common Live nation dot com and 1204 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:21,920 Speaker 1: make sure you go listen to sar this album chasing 1205 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 1: some of you guys. It's the perfect time for that 1206 01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:28,040 Speaker 1: because it's cussing season. Man. Megan said it was a 1207 01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:30,680 Speaker 1: hot girl fall. So Lucy, what you you gotta name 1208 01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:34,000 Speaker 1: the fall? What is it? Damn what you guys do 1209 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:41,320 Speaker 1: because they're saying like yeah, no no, but he gotta 1210 01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:47,640 Speaker 1: make up. You could have a good It could be already. 1211 01:06:47,680 --> 01:06:52,720 Speaker 1: It's season. It already has let your fall, Yeah, like 1212 01:06:55,320 --> 01:07:03,720 Speaker 1: you know what? And pussy Autumn. Somebody cut up glorios 1213 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:06,560 Speaker 1: I read that was service