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Speaker 1: Hey, I do Part two.

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Speaker 2: It's your favorite mentors, Susan Knowles and Kathy Schwartz from

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Speaker 2: The Golden Bachelor and the podcast Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 3: Today, we're going to catch up with a woman who

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Speaker 3: has really been her own warrior in her chapter two.

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Speaker 3: She's divorced, a single mom to two boys, and she's

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Speaker 3: been fighting to find answers with the medical nightmare she's

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Speaker 3: been trapped in for years.

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Speaker 2: From the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. It's our one

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Speaker 2: and only Brandy Glanville.

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Speaker 1: Brandy, Welcome, Welcome Brandy.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Kathy.

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Speaker 1: And I'm Susan and we finally meet. How are you.

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Speaker 5: I'm good.

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Speaker 6: I've been up all night with my dog, so I

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Speaker 6: have no makeup.

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Speaker 3: I've been up all night too, and I don't have

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Speaker 3: a dog, so you know, we just want to get

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Speaker 3: right into a Brandy, you have been so transparent in

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Speaker 3: the last few years about your health struggles.

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Speaker 4: First off, of course, is how are you doing today? Seriously?

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Speaker 5: I'm good, Like I have.

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Speaker 6: What's it called tonightis or something in my ear so

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Speaker 6: to it's ringing constantly, so I'm almost used.

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Speaker 5: To hear this for me, But it's hard to hear people.

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Speaker 5: And my friend, one of my friends, can't hear out

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Speaker 6: Lat deer, and I always get frustrated with him because

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Speaker 6: I would have to like repeat everything.

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Speaker 5: And now I'm like, I was such a bitch. I

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Speaker 5: am so sorry. I cannot like I literally a bitch.

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Speaker 4: Brandy Karmen is the bench is He's like I told you.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, Crandy, I have to share with you.

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Speaker 2: My daughter went through five years of hell and had

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Speaker 2: no idea what was wrong with her. And she actually

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Speaker 2: wrote a book about tatas and it was her breast implants.

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Speaker 2: Can you share with us your journey?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, honestly, it all started. I just started

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Speaker 6: feeling sick about three years ago, and it was all

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Speaker 6: like all my symptoms are really in my neck and

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Speaker 6: my head and not in my.

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Speaker 5: Head but my face.

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Speaker 1: So she says, yeah.

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Speaker 4: And now it's trouble to your ears.

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Speaker 5: Right, like the whole body's going.

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Speaker 6: But then my joints, like I felt like I was

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Speaker 6: one hundred years old, Like I would go to sit

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Speaker 6: down and it would take me like five minutes to

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Speaker 6: stand up, and it was just like I ate, I

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Speaker 6: can't even explain it. I just felt like I had

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Speaker 6: brain fog.

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Speaker 5: I still can't. It's coming back to me, so excuse me.

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Speaker 1: It's exactly what Brittany did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and how did you decide that the issue?

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Speaker 3: What made you decide to have the breastplant implants taken out?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean they were making me sick.

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Speaker 1: Did you know that was the cause? Though? How did

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Speaker 1: you figure that out? Or you didn't?

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Speaker 4: No, I mean it could have been menopause, It could

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Speaker 4: have been anything.

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Speaker 6: No, I had no idea, but I was go. I

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Speaker 6: went to twenty one doctors and not so I'm telling

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Speaker 6: you two.

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Speaker 5: Hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 6: Like I had insurance with the people at my insurance like.

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Speaker 5: Kaiser, let's just say sucks.

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Speaker 6: So I was like paying out of pocket to see specialists,

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Speaker 6: infectious disease doctors, you know when we're toologists, like every

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Speaker 6: doctor you can think of I.

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Speaker 3: Saw, and no one suggested it was the breast implants.

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Speaker 5: No, because I had mammograms that were fine.

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Speaker 3: And did they anyone say menopause or just a the

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Speaker 3: natural process of aging or anything.

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Speaker 4: Nothing?

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Speaker 5: No, No, because it wasn't.

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Speaker 6: It came on like overnight and I had like I

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Speaker 6: had weird lumps in my neck, like hard lumps. That's

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Speaker 6: like really really hard lumps. I still have them because

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Speaker 6: it's going to take some time for them to go away. Yes,

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Speaker 6: I can't explain, like the brain fog, the fatigue.

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Speaker 5: I would get up.

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Speaker 6: And go into the pantry and not know why I

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Speaker 3: But see what I'm saying, Brandy, I hear you. Obviously

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Speaker 3: you and Susan Starter have a lot in common.

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Speaker 1: Everything she's saying.

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Speaker 3: Kathy, I watched, but when I went through menopause, the

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Speaker 3: brain fog, that getting up and going to the room,

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Speaker 3: Why the hell am I hare?

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Speaker 4: I don't remember?

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Speaker 1: It's different.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, no, no, no, yeah, menopause is like hot flashes and

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Speaker 6: nice threats and.

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Speaker 1: All the fun was.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I did it. It was completely different from me.

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Speaker 5: And by the way that was done in COVID, so

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Speaker 5: I knew it wasn't that.

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Speaker 2: And when you had them taken out, did you feel

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Speaker 2: immediate something? Because my daughter felt immediately. I did a

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Speaker 2: thousand times better, not one hundred percent, but no, no,

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Speaker 2: a thousand times better.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: So I'm two weeks out right now. But the first

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Speaker 5: I was going in the kitchen.

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Speaker 6: I was actually doing too much because I was so

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Speaker 6: to stop. Like, I'm like, no, you know, Like for me,

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Speaker 6: all of my symptoms were on my left side, really,

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Speaker 6: but my right breast was ruptured and had like leaks,

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Speaker 6: and I had silicon and both my like both under

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Speaker 6: my arms and both my arms like silicon in my nose. However,

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Speaker 6: like the mammograms were saying you're fine, so I like,

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Speaker 6: literally not that long ago. Was like to my friend James,

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Speaker 6: who's gay, because the only love I get right.

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Speaker 3: Now, Damn, I was gonna ask if you would fix

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Speaker 3: me up when I heard a man's name was fix

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Speaker 6: Never mind, you don't want him. He to tell you

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Speaker 6: everything that's wrong with you.

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Speaker 4: Oh and that's a long list, Brandy, you have no idea.

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Speaker 6: Well, he would rattle it off, trust me, no, And

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Speaker 6: I said, James, because he's obsessed with boobs. And I

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Speaker 6: always tell him, I'm like, I don't think your mom

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Speaker 5: That's a problem. He's always wanted to take a picture.

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Speaker 6: Where his hands are over my boobs. I'm like we

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Speaker 5: Day, but I was just like why why? And so

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Speaker 5: I asked him. I said, James, is my right boob

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Speaker 6: And He's like, yes, I go and feel it, and

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Speaker 6: My boobs were fine, like nothing.

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Speaker 1: So I.

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Speaker 6: Got a new manager and I told her about my

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Speaker 6: and plant surgeries. She almost died from it. It took

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Speaker 6: her like five years. She goes, you need to get

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Speaker 6: a sonogram, like tomorrow. Yeah, And so I went to

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Speaker 6: this new place that like, usually sonograms give you six

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Speaker 3: You feel like I haven't asked, Wendy, do you feel

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Speaker 3: like you sort of have earned your medical degree by now?

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 6: My friend told me, she's like, if you know, if

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Speaker 6: you're on antibiotics to longly stopped working.

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Speaker 5: I'm my girl, I'm a doctor. I'm very aware of that.

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Speaker 6: At this point, I'm like, I kind of I've been

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Speaker 6: down every medical rabbit hole there is.

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Speaker 3: Wow, it's amazing. So so clearly you're beginning to feel better.

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Speaker 3: And this podcast, as you probably know, is all about

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Speaker 3: relationships and finding love. In chapter two, which we are

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Speaker 3: all in our chapter two, I'm.

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Speaker 1: On chapter three, Chapter three.

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, you're on Jepter three. I so we all

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Speaker 3: have our our you know, Susan's divorced. You're divorced. We're

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Speaker 3: going to get into that a little bit. I'm a widow,

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Speaker 3: which is sorry, yeah, thank you, it's in fact, today

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Speaker 3: is the seventh anniversary of his death, and he died

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Speaker 3: by suicide seven years ago today.

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Speaker 5: God, that's for I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, but this is about you today.

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Speaker 5: It was about you today too.

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Speaker 4: That's awesome day.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. I appreciate it. But I got

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Speaker 3: some great news today, and that's how life is. So

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Speaker 3: I'm doing great. I want to know, though, how I've

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Speaker 4: You know, I have three grown children. You have two

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Speaker 3: But I want to know how has it been going

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Speaker 2: And she mentioned her best friend was, you know, her

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Speaker 2: gay friend. At least I thought she had so much. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you know, and when you go healthy, did your ex

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Speaker 1: No? No, your sons.

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Speaker 6: so they're grown.

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Speaker 3: I mean they're they're oh trust me, trust me branding

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Speaker 4: They are not grown.

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Speaker 6: No, I mean, but they're eighteen and twenty two. Was

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Speaker 6: Like the boy, these kids too right now, they're not

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Speaker 5: I can't explain it.

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Speaker 4: Are you saying?

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Speaker 3: But then you know what, They'll get there and then

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Speaker 3: they'll be your biggest supporters. But I want to know

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Speaker 4: I'm going to take that as a no, he has not.

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Speaker 6: I mean, but you know, we are getting along and

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Speaker 6: that's all I can ask for. We like are together

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Speaker 6: on holidays. I missed a few because I was so

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Speaker 6: on you know, certain holidays I just I literally would

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what about like Leanne went through her her wellness

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Speaker 2: a concert.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys swap.

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Speaker 4: Stories or you just missed Brandy's eyes?

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Speaker 1: I saw.

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Speaker 4: I just want to know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, so I was over for Christmas and

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Speaker 6: which is great. They're so like, I feel like a

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Speaker 1: So missing every here and waiting for your implants.

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Speaker 5: And I kidnot exactly.

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Speaker 4: It's a bitch getting old, Brandy. It's a bitch getting old.

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Speaker 5: I know, well, I've had teeth that she's my whole life.

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Speaker 5: And I looked at Mason, He's like what she said?

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Speaker 3: Have you found a tribe? How have you learned to

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Speaker 5: Honestly? Like, I haven't had sex in three years.

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Speaker 6: The whole time I've been sick because I've I've lost

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Speaker 2: Well, you also suffered from some kind of facial yeah, site,

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Speaker 6: Mean I went to Africa. I mean I didn't have

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Speaker 3: But there's there's comfort. There's comfort in more brandy, there's comfort.

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Speaker 6: Is there comfort in numbers? I don't not, not when

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Speaker 3: Yes, I mean Susan is an expert on because her

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Speaker 1: No, no, but it's a definition and definition I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: And I know that I went through an incredibly hard

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know they've been.

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Speaker 6: They've been dark times because I've I've isolated myself because

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I know, I got I got the letters. How are

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Speaker 6: Exactly like, and you don't want to you don't want

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Speaker 2: And now today you're feeling a little bit more like yourself.

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Speaker 2: You're looking better, You're feeling healthier. How does that make

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm still working on my confidence, you know.

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Speaker 6: Do with like my hair fell out, and yeah, you know.

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Speaker 5: What I mean, Like it's just a lot of it

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Speaker 1: Feel good, you feel good.

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Speaker 3: Yes, But Brandy, let me say something first of all,

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Speaker 3: and believe me, I had them, I couldn't shower, I

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Speaker 3: no of condolence?

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Speaker 4: Sorry, yeah I can't one more, I'm sorry? And one more?

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Speaker 4: Can I do something for you?

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Speaker 3: Like I couldn't even think how to put my foot

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Speaker 4: And I got up and started walking. I journaled a

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Speaker 3: I started It sounds so silly now, but like, could

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Speaker 4: Like do something?

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Speaker 3: Because I was I was frozen, and I you know,

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Speaker 3: I want to know if you're doing any of those things.

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Speaker 1: Two weeks out of surgery.

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Speaker 4: Correct, But you can move, you can get out.

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Speaker 6: My god, I was like sweeping during the windows. I

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Speaker 6: they wheeled me out, I threw My'm like, yes, I threw.

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Speaker 5: My hands in the air.

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Speaker 4: They're like no.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, They're like, yeah, let's not do that yet.

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Speaker 5: You're you're feeling good right now, so what are you doing?

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Speaker 4: What are you doing to make yourself feel better right now?

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Speaker 5: Well, you're being a little pushy. I'm kidding.

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Speaker 1: Me, Kathy Brandy.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm the girl in the Golden Bachelor who told

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Speaker 4: So you know that's why I am.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, well is she divorced now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm still like I had my son and his

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Speaker 6: That makes me really happy, Like making fun of my children.

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Speaker 1: The same one that has your personality can get a

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Speaker 6: I mean, oh gosh, they they both have my wit

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Speaker 6: and like, I'm like, I used to be real quick,

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Speaker 5: And he saw that. He's like, uh oh, he's like mom's.

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Speaker 6: Like and his girlfriend I love her to death, and

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Speaker 5: Call him out. I'm like, you like, and now now

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Speaker 5: it's a joke.

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Speaker 6: I mean I would say what it is, but he's

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Speaker 5: So I'm not.

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Speaker 4: No, no, we don't want to.

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Speaker 2: And wat don't your son be in love having a girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: How does do you feel like someday you're gonna fall

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Speaker 1: And are you open?

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Speaker 3: And can I have your cast offs?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 5: You know what, I don't know if I even have.

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Speaker 6: Since my ex husband, I've had like relationships where I

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Speaker 4: I don't think it is.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I couldn't tell you. I didn't I've not I had butterflies.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good thing, that's a good feeling.

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Speaker 4: Butterflies turn into moss. What happened?

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Speaker 5: No, I haven't had butterflies.

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Speaker 4: Oh you haven't.

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Speaker 5: You're just soil a cone everywhere.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I will say it looks different for me. It's

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Speaker 4: I mean I wouldn't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, God, you might want you, I definitely I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't do.

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Speaker 2: Your sons ever say to you, mom, we want you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't want to get married.

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Speaker 5: But they want me to find a boyfriend. They're like,

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Speaker 4: So wait do they?

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Speaker 3: So they don't say, I mean the guys boys. I

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Speaker 3: If you think your boys are tough, have a daughter.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it'll put you'll be Yeah. Really we

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Speaker 3: to Eddie?

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Speaker 3: There was so yeah, so how would you look at

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Speaker 3: Like if you were considering it, how do you consider

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Speaker 6: Our sisters, I wouldn't I wouldn't get married again only

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Speaker 6: because getting unmarried was so difficult. Yes, like it was

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Speaker 6: But I would love to cohabitate. I would love to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because what would you look like? Give me what

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Speaker 2: Because you look for something different than what you did

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Speaker 5: They have to be confident and like, like I can

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Speaker 4: How tall are you ten?

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Speaker 6: But when I put on heels, you know you're six

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Speaker 6: And as long as they're confident that I can wear

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Speaker 5: But if they're like, can you put on flats?

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Speaker 2: We are breaking up? Yeah, because they're not comfortable in

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Speaker 5: And I love like ridges shoes, Like, what are you

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna say, Brandy, I don't think in that

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Speaker 5: Well it should be.

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Speaker 3: I mean we could, we could subtitle it under gifts

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Speaker 6: I mean I buy like I buy myself shoes, shoes

450
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:19,600
Speaker 6: and purses. I spend money on everything else.

451
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 5: I'm that target, Like.

452
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,080
Speaker 4: What size should do you wear?

453
00:21:22,880 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 5: Well, it's so sad.

454
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:26,720
Speaker 6: I went from a seven and a half when I

455
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:30,000
Speaker 6: was before kids, and now I'm a nine.

456
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 1: Damn I had to get.

457
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 5: Rid of all of my favorite like like I buy

458
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,880
Speaker 5: expensive shoes, Like I don't spend money on a lot,

459
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:39,240
Speaker 5: but like my shoes.

460
00:21:39,920 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 1: That's your thing. That's your thing.

461
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 2: You know, after all this time and being a prisoner

462
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:59,680
Speaker 2: literally in your own body, not knowing what was happening

463
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 2: to you, and now that you have an answer and

464
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,600
Speaker 2: you're moving forward, what will it take for you to

465
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 2: start loving your body again instead of being afraid of it?

466
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 4: Good sex yeah.

467
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 5: I mean if I remember how.

468
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 2: Brandy, three years you need a toy that's your first Oh,

469
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 2: I have.

470
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 5: Like I have buckets full of choys.

471
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 6: I didn't have the energy and no desire right the

472
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 6: desire to even use them.

473
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:30,840
Speaker 5: I mean I would go and get my hormones, like

474
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 5: you know, the P and it didn't do and it

475
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 5: gave me a little.

476
00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 1: Energy, but it was nothing.

477
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 5: I have the hottest doctor, but he's very married, and

478
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 5: I would just be like like that was like my

479
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,679
Speaker 5: big outing for the month, you know, like I'm going.

480
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,919
Speaker 4: To go into the to the doctor to get her

481
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,159
Speaker 4: ash shop. Wait, I want to know where she's looking.

482
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 3: If when you decide to start dating, tell me what

483
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 3: your procedure, what's your process going to because I'm taking

484
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: notes here, Okay, So.

485
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, i'd like on like dating websites, you

486
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 6: are on your favorite I mean, but I was before

487
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 6: it became it's like more like tender now.

488
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 3: Honestly, wait, I would think you would be nervous, Brandy,

489
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 3: because people know who you are. I would think you

490
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 3: would use a match maker. I thought that's what you

491
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 3: were going to say.

492
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 6: Actually, no, I mean, honestly, street men have no idea

493
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 6: Who I am?

494
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 5: I mean it's Gazings.

495
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:32,679
Speaker 1: No, that's okay.

496
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 6: That's actually wonderful for me because I have not judgment

497
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 6: that I've met on like a TV show and they

498
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 6: love the camera, and you have to you have to wonder.

499
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 6: I already have trust issues, so you have to wonder

500
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 6: are they here for me or are they here because.

501
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 5: They want to be on TV?

502
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: And so I mean the.

503
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 6: Past three years, I haven't moved out of my bed,

504
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 6: so that would be the problem. But I just I

505
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 6: you know, I think that I went out for Valentine's

506
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 6: Day with my girlfriend, not like girlfriend girlfriend, but like

507
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 6: just one of my friends, and that was big and

508
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 6: we were like flirting with the bartender, and like it

509
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 6: started to feel like I wanted to get dressed up

510
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 6: like I have not. I've been in my pajamas for

511
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 6: three years. You know, I'm like, I wanted to get

512
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 6: dressed up again. I want to wear my sexy clothes.

513
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 6: I want to put on lingerie. I want to I

514
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 6: just need it's been two weeks.

515
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, you need to be patient with yourself. You need

516
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 3: to get patient, Brandy. It's it all comes in time.

517
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 3: I just hearing you talk.

518
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 4: I hope. I mean I could be your mother almost.

519
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 5: No, you couldn't.

520
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 3: Well, I'm saying, I just hope that you don't let

521
00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:54,400
Speaker 3: others define your beauty, your self worth, your value, because

522
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,400
Speaker 3: that's a no win game.

523
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,160
Speaker 1: What about TV? Would you want to go back on TV?

524
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 5: I don't know.

525
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, I have I'm definitely finishing my book up.

526
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 6: Like it's hard for me because I I I'm sure

527
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 6: it's hard for everyone, but I grew up modeling and

528
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 6: then I fell into television.

529
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 5: Not on purpose. It found me.

530
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 6: I didn't find it. So I've kind of always been

531
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 6: defined by my looks. So I am extremely hard on myself.

532
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 6: It's not anyone else, like my kids are.

533
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 5: Like you look back to normal, and I'm like, I.

534
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 6: Go, look at this, and like, you know those things

535
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,879
Speaker 6: that come up on your phone from.

536
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 2: The past, Yes, the pictures, yes, yes, oh gone, look

537
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 2: how good I looked at the time.

538
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 5: At the time, I didn't think I look great.

539
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:45,719
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

540
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 1: We're old, not alone.

541
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 3: We're old enough now. I mean truly, we're old enough now.

542
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 3: We all do that. We look you know, ten years ago,

543
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 3: You're like, damn I was hot. Why didn't I know

544
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 3: it at the time exactly.

545
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 5: I know it's twenty twenty, but.

546
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 4: You know what you should learn from that?

547
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 5: I have I'm learning now.

548
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:08,639
Speaker 2: And La is La, do you ever consider a different

549
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 2: kind of life moving out of Los Angeles and doing

550
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: something different?

551
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,359
Speaker 5: Yeah? Only if my boys move. I have to be

552
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 5: near them.

553
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:20,679
Speaker 6: I'm like, I mean, I'm They're the loves of my

554
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 6: life on baby, so I I will go where they

555
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 6: go if they just if I'm like, you're going to college?

556
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 5: Is nearer one another?

557
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 6: And so luckily my eldest is that Chapman, so it's

558
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 6: not far away.

559
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

560
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: Is he the one that was modeling, Yes, he's still.

561
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 5: Modeling as well. And then my my youngest is taking

562
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 5: a little time after high school.

563
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,399
Speaker 4: He just got called a gap year. It's called a

564
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 4: gap year.

565
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, let's hope it's I mean, let's hope

566
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 5: it's one year. But he's in acting classes. Has he

567
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 5: just got a job.

568
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,920
Speaker 6: Because I was like, I if you look at my

569
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 6: Venmo history, it's my friend.

570
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 5: If I tard Vado with like, she's like.

571
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 6: You know your Vembo's public, I'm like, yeah, I do,

572
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 6: because I want to embarrass my children. I'm like, here's

573
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 6: one hundred dollars and it says what is this for?

574
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 5: And I'm like nothing, Lindziness and.

575
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 6: So she's like girl, She's like you need you need

576
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 6: to stop with that. I'm like, nope, because it's for nothing.

577
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,960
Speaker 6: Like they need to get jobs, like I had a

578
00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,679
Speaker 6: job when I was twelve, Like I worked my whole life.

579
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 4: Would you be okay with your boys being on TV?

580
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:32,360
Speaker 4: Would you like that or care?

581
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 5: So Mason is going to be on TV.

582
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 6: He did a reality show, but he decided it's not

583
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 6: for him. He literally shot the first episode with me,

584
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 6: and because they asked to shoot with me, and so

585
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 6: it's like the Housewives kids like Larsia Pippin's son is

586
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 6: friends with my son, and so they got all of

587
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 6: these I call rich kids of Calabasas.

588
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 5: I'm not rich there. He might be, but I'm not.

589
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 5: So he shot an episode and with me and he

590
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 5: made me cry.

591
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 1: First.

592
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 6: He told me all the things I couldn't talk about.

593
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 6: I go, do you think that's gonna work with with people?

594
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 5: With your friends?

595
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 6: I go, doesn't don't say anything, because the second you

596
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 6: tell them not to say it.

597
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 5: I'm pretty gonna don't say that yes.

598
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 6: And so he made me cry. And our friend I

599
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 6: was like, what are you talking about? Like like he was,

600
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm not allowed to talk about your stuff,

601
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 6: but you could talk about my stuff.

602
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 5: Yeah.

603
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 4: That's about right, that's about what kids you like.

604
00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:37,800
Speaker 6: Yeah.

605
00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, but he decided he did.

606
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 6: He did like, it's not air Jet, it's gonna be

607
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 6: on Netflix, and I don't know the actual title, but

608
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 6: he was like, I'm I'm it's not for me. It

609
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 6: makes it makes him anxious, and he's already a little.

610
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,600
Speaker 5: Bit anxious like his mama. So he was.

611
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 6: He was shaking his knee the whole time. I'm like, dude,

612
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:00,080
Speaker 6: you're with me.

613
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna right, come on. I said a few

614
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 5: things that embarrass him, but that's what I like to do.

615
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 3: So would you date How do you feel about dating

616
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 3: a guy who has children, maybe your kid's age or

617
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:15,959
Speaker 3: even younger.

618
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 4: Do you feel like you'd want to start reparenting younger

619
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 4: kids again?

620
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: Well? No, hell no, hell no, I did it.

621
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 5: I got them out of the house.

622
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 6: They're great boys, they have jobs, they haven't been to jail,

623
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 6: they haven't been to rehab.

624
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: We're good.

625
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 5: I'm not doing that again. No, way.

626
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 6: I mean older kids. Yes, they're great. You know, I

627
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 6: love I love family. Yes, like my family was all together?

628
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 6: Actually was it yesterday? Yesterday? Over the weekend, and like,

629
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 6: I'm still a little foggy.

630
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 5: Okay.

631
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 6: Mom sent me a picture. She's like, this is what

632
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 6: retirement looks like. And it was of this guy, this

633
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 6: really handsome guy. And I like, I was like, Mom,

634
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 6: are you trying to set me up?

635
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 5: I'm really not ready.

636
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 6: Two weeks from two weeks, Like, come on, I haven't

637
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 6: even looked at them yet.

638
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 5: Come on. She's like, Brandy, that's your little brother.

639
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.

640
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 6: Oh he threw his hair out and he grew a

641
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 6: beard and a mustache.

642
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,479
Speaker 5: And I haven't. I mean, last time I saw him,

643
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 5: he was like bald.

644
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 4: I'm like, wait, are you close with your family?

645
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 5: Yes?

646
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 6: Very close, I mocked ash still together. I have an

647
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 6: older sister, she's sixteen months older, and my brother is

648
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 6: two years younger. But they all live in northern California,

649
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 6: so you know, I don't go to the family barbecues.

650
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 5: I'm like, why are you even up?

651
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 6: It's ten My mom goes throughout at like nine and

652
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 6: like it's ten thirty.

653
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 5: She's like the Olympics. Brandy, I'm like, oh my gosh.

654
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 2: Brandy, you keep in touch with any of the other housewives.

655
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 2: Did any of them come to support you during this time?

656
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 5: Absolutely?

657
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 6: The girls from Girls Trip were I've been my biggest supporters,

658
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 6: Vickiy and Fedra and Eba, like those three, and Gretchen

659
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 6: as well, but like really Vicky, Fedra. Even Yolanda has

660
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 6: been very helpful because she was like, get your She

661
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 6: was like one of the first people to.

662
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: Take take them out, take them out.

663
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 5: I said, no, you know what she did.

664
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 2: And how do you feel moving forward about plastic surgery?

665
00:31:20,520 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 2: Would you get it?

666
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 5: I'm I'm not I'm not anti surgery, let's be clearer.

667
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 1: I mean I should have.

668
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 5: Had them like they should have not passed mammograms. Let's speak.

669
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,480
Speaker 1: That's another thing. No, I know my daughters did as well.

670
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, because also mammograms can cause a rupture. But you know,

671
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 6: I should have been more responsible. They were older, but

672
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 6: they looked.

673
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Speaker 3: I'm going to give you some more advice that you

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Speaker 3: don't want. Stop getting yourself up. I'm hearing this self flagellation.

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Speaker 4: Stop. You know you've got a lot of life left

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Speaker 4: to live.

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Speaker 1: You're young, you trade to ages.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're you're young, You've got two fabulous kids, you

679
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 3: have a lifetime of dating ahead of you. You're going

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Speaker 3: to hand off your the guys you don't want to

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Speaker 3: Susan and me. I mean, this is this is a

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Speaker 3: match speaking of matchmakers, this is one made in heaven.

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Speaker 4: But I want to know what your advice.

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00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 3: Would be because you have truly I am sympathetic to

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00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 3: everything you've been through. You know, and again, your life

686
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 3: has played out publicly and that's a whole that's a

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00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: whole other dimension to what you've been through. But anyone

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00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 3: who's listening, what would you want them to take away?

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Speaker 3: And I'm I'm interested in myself from your own lived experiences,

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00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 3: what would you want them to know?

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Speaker 5: I mean, like, I feel it's soon.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I'm as soon as I'm like feeling like

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Speaker 6: confident with myself.

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Speaker 5: I just like this ring my ear needs to stop.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to be like, huh, well out. Every

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Speaker 6: time I put my is on to read a menu,

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00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 6: I feel old. Like I'm like, this is let me

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Speaker 6: tell you, we all do that.

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Speaker 1: Don't worry about that.

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Speaker 6: You were my light and I'm like, because my vision

701
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 6: is super was perfect, and now it went it was

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Speaker 6: like super blurry. It's getting better, but you like you

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Speaker 6: don't even I'm like, I'm growing blind, you know, like

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Speaker 6: it was it was no I mean just through these

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Speaker 6: three years, like like I really couldn't like see that

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Speaker 6: well and it was hard. I had no energy at all.

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Speaker 6: I would like go up and the stairs and be like, oh,

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Speaker 6: that's my workout.

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Speaker 2: Can you say it's in behind you now? Stop dwelling

710
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Speaker 2: on everything that happened to you and start moving forward.

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Speaker 2: Think about what's the first exercise routine or what you're

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Speaker 2: going to take and start repairing your mind.

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Speaker 6: I'm not ready to say it's behind me now because

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Speaker 6: I'm still in the thick of it.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I have a doctor still. Yeah, yeah, I have

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Speaker 5: doctors trying me today.

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Speaker 1: Three I'll give you grace.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I appreciate that because I'm not gonna lie

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Speaker 5: to you yet. I would like to get a tooth in.

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Speaker 1: Before before your first.

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Speaker 5: Date, right, But of course I have to have a

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00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,919
Speaker 5: sinus lift. I'm like, can I get a facelift and not.

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Speaker 4: A what the hell is a sinus lift?

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Speaker 6: So my sinuses are very to my gums, and so

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Speaker 6: when they pulled the tooth, which is it dropped my

726
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 6: sinus stupure. I have to get a sinus lip first

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Speaker 6: and then an implant.

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Speaker 3: Because you see the three of us out together, we

729
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Speaker 3: got I could be your wing woman. I'm good at it.

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Speaker 5: I'm really good at it too. And like my girlfriend

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Speaker 5: Ha Nana, like on Valentine's Day, she was, she was,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, are you going to go out with the bartender?

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Speaker 5: I think I might.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh good, Brandy, we have had We've had

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Speaker 3: the chance to dig into so much with you, but

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Speaker 3: there was so much tomorrow we want to talk about.

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Speaker 3: So we're going to come back and join us all

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Speaker 3: again for Part two with Brandy Glanville h