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Speaker 1: All right. See this is from Nicole and Steve HARBFM.

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Speaker 1: Nicole says, my ex and I broke up nearly a

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Speaker 1: year ago, but because we share the same friend group,

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Speaker 1: he's still a regular part of my life. Recently told

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Speaker 1: me he started seeing someone new, and while he was

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Speaker 1: really respectful about how he shared it, it still hit

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Speaker 1: me like a punch in the gut. I don't want

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Speaker 1: to get back together with him, and I genuinely wish

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Speaker 1: him well, but I wasn't prepared for how hard it

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Speaker 1: would be to see him with someone else. He even

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Speaker 1: asked me for advice on date spots and gift ideas,

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Speaker 1: which feels painful. I don't want to make it awkward

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Speaker 1: for everyone else to lose my place in the group,

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Speaker 1: but I'm struggling emotionally. How do I keep things civil

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Speaker 1: when my heart still feels like a mess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll just send him a text, you know what,

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Speaker 2: saying what. Don't ask me nothing else because personally, I

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Speaker 2: hope you die for me.

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Speaker 1: I love you as.

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Speaker 2: I asked me nothing else about this female dog. Don't

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Speaker 2: ask me nothing else about this female dog and what

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Speaker 2: she want. I don't give it. What you buy her?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Yeah, okay, and get out the friend What do

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Speaker 1: you think clear? I mean, you know, start dating new friends?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, see see what we do to get over you,

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Speaker 2: we get another u immediately that evening.

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Speaker 1: That even the rules.

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Speaker 2: Be the same.

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Speaker 1: If she starts dating and bring how man around the

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Speaker 1: group the friend group.

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Speaker 2: He gonna he gonna wanna throw up too. See we

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Speaker 2: all be out there together throwing up, is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yes, how about just a new friend group period? New

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Speaker 1: friends moving on that too.

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Speaker 2: But see that's they are. They college people. They do

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Speaker 2: that the young They knew each other in college. So

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Speaker 2: they little friend group. Our sons got that.

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Speaker 1: They look group.

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Speaker 2: They look they little group too. Tell all right, so

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Speaker 2: you know what they specialize in? What faking? Like they

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Speaker 2: got money? That's their specialty. Facing like they got money?

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Speaker 1: What was what they drive? How they faking because you

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Speaker 1: got money?

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Speaker 2: How they faking your kid there in that group? They

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Speaker 2: be faking too.

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Speaker 1: But how they have money? You got money?

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Speaker 2: No? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, they don't know

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Speaker 2: they're don't. Yeah no I have money.

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Speaker 1: Yeah so they really affiliated with Yeah you affiliated?

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Speaker 2: But I have that? Do you have to know that?

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Speaker 2: Do they know that already? They do you have money?

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Speaker 2: They don't do they know they you're asking them.

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Speaker 1: Your kids.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna ask any one of my kids. They tell you,

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Speaker 2: he don't give us nothing.

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Speaker 1: No, no, all right, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 1: This is from Jordan on Steve HARVEFM. Jordan says, I

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Speaker 1: found an air tag hidden in my car. Then I

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Speaker 1: found another one in the pocket of a jacket I

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Speaker 1: always wear. I asked my girlfriend about it, and she's

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Speaker 1: been tracking me for a couple of months and she's

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Speaker 1: really happy that I've been honest with her about where

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Speaker 1: I say I'm going when we're not together. I guess

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Speaker 1: it was some kind of BS loyalty test. How much

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Speaker 1: of a red flag is this?

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Speaker 2: Well, you finding air tags?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's trying.

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Speaker 2: She tracking you, don iman, I think it may not

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Speaker 2: be for you. It made probably some baggage she has.

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Speaker 2: She's been cheated on before and that's her, that's her way,

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Speaker 2: So she has, like surely just saying some trust issues.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, there is a red flag or she has to.

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Speaker 2: You know, if she's not gonna trust you, that's not

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Speaker 2: gonna work. Even if you're not doing nothing, because if

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Speaker 2: I know you checking on me, and I ain't doing nothing,

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Speaker 2: then I'm gonna have to give you a reason you.

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Speaker 1: Can do something.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to. It's not right for you to

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Speaker 2: be checking for nothing.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to let you down. That's what they say.

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Speaker 1: When you're looking, you usually find some kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: So this is a red flag for him, you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I mean it is man. Because she's got to work

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Speaker 2: through some things. She may never fully trust you. That's

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Speaker 2: sad because the relationship is built on trust.

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