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Speaker 1: All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just falls home

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Speaker 2: many a Cat got you come and locking a brother,

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Speaker 2: ladies and felts. You just follow Anna spirit where it's

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Speaker 2: and the m but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you

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Speaker 2: can do it jes stop you feel things. This is

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Speaker 2: feeling things with Amy and Cat.

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Speaker 1: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm

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Speaker 1: Cat and Cat and I are back from our retreat.

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Speaker 1: So my feeling of the day is refreshed from our

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Speaker 1: time at Canyon Ranch. After a Cat and I wrote

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Speaker 1: Canyon Ranch, I flew to Colorado. And while that was

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Speaker 1: the good things. Wasn't as refreshing the Canyon Ranch legit

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Speaker 2: Was the chaos like the not refreshing chaos of just

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Speaker 1: We were just a lot happy, busy. There was a

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Speaker 2: Speaking of going to bed as early.

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Speaker 1: We went to bed so early on our trip, like

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Speaker 2: Night, we went to bed at seven o'clock.

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Speaker 1: Well, but that was nine o'clock our body clock, right, so,

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Speaker 2: That's true. But every night we would get in bed

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Kat was like she was out. I'd

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Speaker 2: I don't usually snorin. It's a pregnancy thing, baby, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's I do remember that. I was like in and

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Speaker 2: cat for gorot you to the show notes, and like

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Speaker 2: the nice thing to do would be like, oh, let

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Speaker 2: like that's your problem.

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Speaker 1: I forgot for the couch talks that day and I

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Speaker 2: Sorry I didn't help you.

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Speaker 2: But we did get up at like five to five

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Speaker 1: They're probably also used to the heat, and when you're

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Speaker 1: Though yeah it was more normal. Were the outnumber naked

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Speaker 2: I could not. I've only ever been to like a

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Speaker 2: But nobody else thought it was well, I guess if

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Speaker 2: But we can't probably go the same time of year

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Speaker 2: But honestly, I think that's the play to go to

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Speaker 1: Now you just there's all there's documents and things that

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Speaker 1: go back to some millennial things. But I just thought

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Speaker 1: price over you've got five five five star avenue at Gmail.

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Speaker 1: This was my tip to make me foler because this

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Speaker 1: Yes, murder She did not like me. We're best friends now.

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Speaker 2: Well, so maybe you did her a favor because she

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Speaker 1: Shouldn't like that?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's funny. I was not the perfect sister.

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Speaker 2: But I don't think I'd be alive today if I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, what's the most millennial thing you do? Oh?

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Speaker 2: I feel like I do a lot of millennial things

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Speaker 1: But I was thrown off by you saying lall, do

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 2: It is, but which is crazy because I started doing

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So I've been working on doing it a little less,

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Speaker 1: So I've seen that millennials are love wearing their yoga

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Speaker 2: I don't have any straight legs yoga pants.

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Speaker 1: You don't what do you mean?

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Speaker 2: What you don't? That's all I have? You don't have

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Speaker 2: You have leggings. Yeah, I only have leggings.

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Speaker 1: I don't have which straight leg do you mean the

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Speaker 2: I have sweatpants, yeah, and then you have leggings.

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Speaker 1: Which would be like yoga pants. Like when you see

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming you're gonn wed leggings, which are which.

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Speaker 1: Are yoga pants? Right?

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Speaker 2: That's what I like?

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Speaker 1: When I when we went to the airport.

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Speaker 2: I actually have no idea what we're talking about. I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, they are same thing, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I'm definitely not a gen z. I did find, though,

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Speaker 2: some of them. What are they? Joggers? Like, are not?

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Speaker 2: Are we not wearing joggers anymore?

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Speaker 1: I love jogs.

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Speaker 2: I love a jogger. I have more joggers than I

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00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 2: have straight leg yoga pants, skinny jeans, which like, yeah,

441
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,680
Speaker 2: we know, I do hear their coming back, so don't

442
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 2: get rid of them.

443
00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,240
Speaker 1: I've heard that a lot, though, and then I still

444
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: have yet to see them.

445
00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,280
Speaker 2: I also don't know if I want to go back there.

446
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I feel like I thought it looked.

447
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,520
Speaker 2: Good at the time, and looking back, I'm like, I

448
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,119
Speaker 2: don't know if that was the best look for my shape.

449
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 1: I like the genes that I have on right now,

450
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 1: which are more of like a straight leg cigarette. I

451
00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 1: can think they call it a cigarette cuts like a straight.

452
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 2: Leg little baggy.

453
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,040
Speaker 1: They're a little they're not like super tight skinny jeans

454
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:17,160
Speaker 1: are skinny at the ankle. They just go like straight down,

455
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: but they're not boot cut. They're more just cigarette.

456
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:30,359
Speaker 5: Got it, Okay, got leggings, Yeah, leggings, Okay, side part

457
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 5: which like, yeah, okay, I've been toying with the idea

458
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,000
Speaker 5: of going back to a side park.

459
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Speaker 1: But probably because you're pregnant, you're gonna be you're gonna

460
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Speaker 1: be a mom.

461
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Speaker 2: But what's crazy is I'm scared to go back to

462
00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 2: the side part. But for a while I was scared

463
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: to do a semi middle part. So I just got

464
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 2: to get the courage.

465
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 1: Sorry, did you say semi middle?

466
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,479
Speaker 2: I think sometimes it's off centered.

467
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 1: What you call it your your your goal is center though.

468
00:22:57,760 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, but I can never even really get it

469
00:22:59,320 --> 00:22:59,679
Speaker 2: quite right.

470
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Speaker 1: You Know what I do is I get a bobby

471
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: pin and I put it right in the center of

472
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: my nose, and then I take the bobby pin and

473
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,960
Speaker 1: I draw a line and then that makes it perfectly centered.

474
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: It's not semi.

475
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,359
Speaker 2: I do that with like I have a comb at

476
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 2: the end that's just like, oh fancy, it's like a

477
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:22,159
Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about. Then I do that too,

478
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 2: but then I always feel like I get off a

479
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 2: little bit so semi so I okay, peace signs and

480
00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 2: photos totally and I can't stop.

481
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Speaker 1: I'll ever see.

482
00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just is what it is. And I think

483
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,400
Speaker 2: gen zs do that too. I see little kids doing

484
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:40,680
Speaker 2: those poses and their snapchats. Little kids I don't see

485
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: their snapchats because they don't have Snapchatat's like all the

486
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 2: little kids.

487
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 1: I snap with they do peace sign.

488
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 2: I take that back. It's weird, Okay. Downloading physical copies.

489
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 1: Of things, yes, im printing them up.

490
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, doing things on a computer versus a phone, like

491
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 2: shopping or booking a flight or speaking.

492
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: Of me because I can't see on my face.

493
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 2: It's just and like it looks. It's you can have

494
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,439
Speaker 2: the windows and like you can have multiple things if

495
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 2: you're comparing. I just I like that the have you

496
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 2: ever done it? I did a thing? Post you like,

497
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,040
Speaker 2: posted a picture and you're like, I did a thing.

498
00:24:24,320 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: I see other people do it, and I think it's cute,

499
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:26,680
Speaker 1: but I've never done it.

500
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 2: I don't know that I've ever done it, but I.

501
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 1: Might have, like, if I get a haircut, I'd be like,

502
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: so I did a thing.

503
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: If you but if you like chopped your hair off,

504
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 2: or if you like, I don't know, bought a new

505
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: car and wanted to post.

506
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:41,439
Speaker 1: It, which, speaking of you're probably going to be like Amy, now,

507
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 1: don't I know. I know I'm not going to chop

508
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 1: my hair, but I want to. And I also really

509
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 1: really really really really want bangs.

510
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: You'll get your clippings.

511
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 1: No, I tried that. They don't stay in clippins. They

512
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: don't stay in. And Ella Langley said Banks changed her life,

513
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: her whole career.

514
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 2: You trying to change your career? No, but I mean no, Okay,

515
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 2: this is my thing with you. I think you look

516
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 2: so cute with short hair. You're somebody who really can

517
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 2: pull long, medium short off. I'm not trying to just yes,

518
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: but every time you do it, You've done it multiple

519
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 2: times since I've known you, you get annoyed immediately, like

520
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,120
Speaker 2: two weeks later, you're like, I want my hair back.

521
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 2: So I wish there was a way, Like you know

522
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 2: how if you have short hair you can get extensions.

523
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 2: I wish that if you had long hair you could

524
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,639
Speaker 2: get and it's old tape or something that I don't know,

525
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: because you like you just want it for like a week.

526
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,880
Speaker 1: I guess I could get a wig and you pull

527
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 1: your hair back and hair to fit into a short week. Yeah,

528
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: I see. I mean I think like if I was acting,

529
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: or maybe I just do it for whimsy, I get

530
00:25:59,280 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: a wig.

531
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 2: Or is there a way for you to get extensions

532
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:04,680
Speaker 2: that cut into bangs versus your actual hair?

533
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: Oh?

534
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,320
Speaker 2: Interesting, because I just don't what do you mean, I don't,

535
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. I still have to cut your actual hair.

536
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,240
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'll ask person. But it's a good question.

537
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: And then I feel like you would see the little

538
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:25,159
Speaker 1: extension beads coming down, It wouldn't look it.

539
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 2: Could be like a decoration thing. If you really want

540
00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: to do it, go for it. But I'm just telling

541
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:37,920
Speaker 2: you the pattern that I've seen. Okay, calling your husband hubby,

542
00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 2: did you ever do that? No? I have never done that.

543
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 2: I would. That feels great. That feels more boomer, not boomer,

544
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 2: but and not elder millennial, because I think we're elder millennials, but.

545
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: We're ten years apart.

546
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 2: I'm well, I was just trying to make you feel better.

547
00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: Thank you.

548
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 2: Uh it feels not. Yeah, this one I do relate

549
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 2: to looking at your phone when it rings and not answering. Yeah, well,

550
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:21,240
Speaker 2: what do you mean holding your phone somebody's calling me

551
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,719
Speaker 2: and being like, oh, not going to answer that one.

552
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 1: Is that a millennial thing or because like the bandwith thing.

553
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: Or like they say millennials are like afraid of phone calls.

554
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 1: Oh, I think that's the younger people than us that

555
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 1: are afraid of the phone. I mind the phone, it's

556
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: just sometimes if I'm over stimulated, I can't.

557
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I may not be able to answered. Tom relate

558
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 2: drinking out of a mason jar?

559
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

560
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 2: Do you that's what you do?

561
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: Don't you ordered new they were too little, everything complaining that.

562
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I's like, do you want a glass of water?

563
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 2: And it's literally like literally a shot of water.

564
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,639
Speaker 1: I love those little tiny mason jars that are like

565
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: the diamond shape. I remember and I still have them

566
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: in my cabinet. But so many people were like, Okay,

567
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 1: can I have water? So then I ordered glasses that

568
00:28:14,960 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 1: are at least like twelve ounces.

569
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 2: And that's why you drink out of a measuring cup.

570
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I want to order my measuring cup right now

571
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 1: is eight ounces. But I had an idea the other day,

572
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: and now I'm glad I'm reminding myself of it. I

573
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 1: need to go order it. I want to order my

574
00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: exact measuring cup, but double, so the sixteen ounce version.

575
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: I hope they make it where.

576
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 2: The rim is the same, that feels like a large. Yeah.

577
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: I want to start drinking sixteen ounces at a time.

578
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: It's my new thing, okay, because I used to just

579
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,040
Speaker 1: like throw back eight ounces and I'm like, you know,

580
00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: if this were double, I would get more water.

581
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,720
Speaker 2: Look what you're doing. You're scaffolding yourself because you started

582
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: with the four ounce cup, then you move to the

583
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 2: eight ounce measuring cup, and now you're gonna go to

584
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: a sixteen ounce What I also learned about you on

585
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 2: our trip, which I don't know if I knew this

586
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 2: about you before, but I guess it makes sense now

587
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 2: that I'm thinking about it. You like warm water.

588
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: I do not like cold. I love room temperature. It's

589
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: not warm.

590
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: It's a room tip that can feel warm.

591
00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes temperature the room is oh yeah, I don't ever

592
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: want it out of the She.

593
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 2: Never wants ice, and you don't put ice in your

594
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: like every night we would go to bed and would

595
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 2: fill up water cups and I would fill up one

596
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 2: full with ice, and you.

597
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 1: Just water straight tap or room, not as refreshing.

598
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 2: Maybe, okay, here's a thought. Maybe that's why I don't

599
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: drink as much water because it's not as like, like

600
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 2: I love a good cold crisp, especially in the middle

601
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 2: of the night when you just chug some cold water.

602
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: Because I don't want to get up and have to pee.

603
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've just never really liked it cold.

604
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, if it's a really hot day, then I'll.

605
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:03,280
Speaker 2: You'll want it was one hundred and five degrees an

606
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 2: a and not once since you drink a cold drink.

607
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 2: You drink your coffee hot in the morning when we

608
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 2: were outside hiking, Yeah, I you you're like you have

609
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 2: you know how we're warm blooded. I feel like you're

610
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 2: maybe cold blooded and that's why you don't.

611
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: Need But when we would get back, I would have

612
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: my eyes. It was cooler in the mornings there, and

613
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: I just I was having a little hot cappuccino and

614
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: then I was I'm like, and I huffing a puffy

615
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: latte after.

616
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 2: You know what else I do.

617
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 1: Is I am standing up for people on airplanes that

618
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,479
Speaker 1: yes you are, or standing up to people that are

619
00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: cutting the line, because it's always been one of my

620
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 1: biggest pet peeves. And I don't know that I ever

621
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: speak up. And maybe it was traveling with you being pregnant.

622
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: I was protective of you. But there were people when

623
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: we landed trying to get up and exit the plane

624
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,280
Speaker 1: when it wasn't their turn. There's a process to deplaning.

625
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: You get off the plane in the order of which

626
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: it trinkles back to you. Except for some people in

627
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: the back the plane parks and they get up and

628
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 1: immediately start walking forward and then they cause all these

629
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 1: little traffic jams without realizing it. It's like, do they

630
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 1: have no self awareness at all? I try to give

631
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: them the benefit of doubt and maybe assume this is

632
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 1: the first time they've traveled. Maybe they don't know the rules.

633
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 1: Or if you have a flight to catch, that is

634
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 1: the only exception to the rule. If you have somewhere

635
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: to be, then you make that known. Hey, I have

636
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: a connection to catch, we're a little behind. I'm cutting

637
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: it close. Do you mind if I go? And yes,

638
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: And that's politely. People are gonna let you go. It

639
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 1: wouldn't if they don't then kick them in the ship

640
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: and go like that's weird.

641
00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: It would be weird. I mean, don't because you could

642
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,479
Speaker 2: get like like, don't, don't kick them? But what Who's

643
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 2: why I wouldn't do that?

644
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: Who doesn't let somebody go if they have a flight

645
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: to catch. But if you have nowhere to be and

646
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 1: you're just marching your little button down the plane to

647
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: get off before everybody else, no, And there was someone

648
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: that was trying to actually multiple people trying to pass you,

649
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: and these two women I could barely even deal with

650
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: that were trying to do it. And then comes this man,

651
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 1: well a big old man.

652
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 2: I was already standing up because I was trying to

653
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: stretch my legs because I was sitting for so long.

654
00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: I'm afraid of getting blood cloths. So I'm standing up

655
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: kind of in the aisle, kind of in my seat halfway.

656
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 2: Then all these people show up and take it away

657
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 2: because you did all the talking.

658
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: Well, And then the women were so annoyed you were blocking.

659
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: But then the other people around us were annoyed at

660
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: those women too for coming up, and so of course

661
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: everyone was exchanging looks, and I was just being protective

662
00:32:56,080 --> 00:32:58,240
Speaker 1: of you, and they were not gonna be able to

663
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,719
Speaker 1: get by. And then I think they sold their way through.

664
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: Asked them, you said yeah, I said to catch.

665
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 2: And they said yes, and so you you go really nicely.

666
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 2: You said okay, well then go ahead. And as soon

667
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 2: as that happened.

668
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,680
Speaker 1: Okay, you're right, I let They didn't weasele the way through.

669
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: I let them through, which saw them in the airport later.

670
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 1: They did not have a flight to catch. No no, no,

671
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 1: no no, but they got through. Then here comes big

672
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: old man and he's walking down the aisle and I

673
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 1: put my hand up and I was like you.

674
00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: Literally go no no, I go no, no, no, no no.

675
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: And I was like, who am I I don't know why.

676
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: I just said had enough And it is a pet

677
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 1: peeve of mine. But again I normally don't speak up,

678
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: but I held my ground with that man and I

679
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: did not let him pass.

680
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 2: Well. I just thought it was crazy. I think that's

681
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 2: crazy when people did it in general. What was crazy

682
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 2: is after those two women went, like two other people

683
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 2: then rushed past, and then that guy was coming too,

684
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 2: and I'm visibly pregnant. Yeah, that's what I think. Blows

685
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: my mind. I was talking can chanting about this earlier

686
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 2: today that I thought when you're pregnant, people will treat

687
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,919
Speaker 2: you differently, like you live. You wouldn't let me lift

688
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: my suitcase, and that was really nice. If I had

689
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:13,279
Speaker 2: to do it, I would have been able to do it,

690
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 2: but it was nice that you that you didn't need to.

691
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 2: So I'm just thinking, like, I'm standing up, I'm pregnant.

692
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 2: You think this guy would just be like, go ahead.

693
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 2: Instead he tried to push me back into my seat,

694
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 2: and that's when you put the hand up, and I

695
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 2: was like, I feel like you're like my like my

696
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: mother bear right now. It was really sweet.

697
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: Oh you're welcome. Yeah, he annoyed me. And then I

698
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: saw him wandering through the airport. Later he had nowhere

699
00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:41,680
Speaker 1: to be. I when I got off the plane, you

700
00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:43,400
Speaker 1: were in the bathroom and these other people that were

701
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 1: near us, they came up and they were like, that

702
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,359
Speaker 1: was awesome, good job.

703
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:54,360
Speaker 2: And I was like, you're like a small hero. I

704
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: was like, anytime, no problem. I got you.

705
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,760
Speaker 1: But I just couldn't be I can't. So if you're listening,

706
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: and maybe you just don't have this knowledge yet, you

707
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: need to wait your turn to deplane. I really just

708
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 1: liked to assume people don't know. But then I'm like,

709
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 1: did they not have any self awareness? Remember that guy

710
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,760
Speaker 1: that was on the tram at atl and the Atlanta

711
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 1: airport and and it was abruptly starting and stopping because

712
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: we had already been on the tram, and he got

713
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: on with his kids, and I tried to tell the

714
00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 1: little kid, I'm like, hold on, hold on, hold on,

715
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: and the guy like looked at me like weird, like

716
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: stop talking to my kid, and then the tram took

717
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: off in the kid. They all fall over, and I

718
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, I was just trying to help.

719
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 2: The kid looked at you like, dad, she's trying to

720
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 2: steal me, Like it's like stranger danger. But that blew

721
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 2: my mind. Maybe they had never been to that airport

722
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 2: around before.

723
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: Had they never been on a tram before.

724
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 2: Because if that was me, I'd be like everybody, hold

725
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:57,240
Speaker 2: on kids. Yeah. The guy did a little tumbling.

726
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was like, well, sorry, I can only

727
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: help you so far.

728
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 2: You can only help people that want to be helped.

729
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: I can only have people that want to be helped. Yeah,

730
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: I do have three signs that you're annoying.

731
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 2: It's one of them. You run up to the front

732
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:11,680
Speaker 2: of the airplane.

733
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're deplain before it's your turn. Sign number one.

734
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:15,440
Speaker 2: No.

735
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 1: Three signs that you're annoying and no one's going to

736
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: tell you about it. Okay, So if you do any

737
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 1: of these three things like you might be annoying. However,

738
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,719
Speaker 1: I wonder if people even have the self awareness that

739
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: they're doing stuff like this, Like sign number one would be,

740
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: you complain all the time. Nothing is ever good enough.

741
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 1: Do you think the complainers know? No?

742
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 2: I think I mean I become aware when I complain.

743
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:43,320
Speaker 2: But I think that people that are doing it like this,

744
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 2: that's just like their baseline. They're never satisfied. I think

745
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 2: that's how they know.

746
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:50,720
Speaker 1: What about if you say whatever comes to your mind

747
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 1: and you think you're just being honest, but really you're

748
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: being inconsiderate because you're not really thinking through before you

749
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: say something that could potentially be hurtful. But you those

750
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: people might actually see it as like equality, they have

751
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: to speak their mind.

752
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 2: That reminds me when people are like, I'm not a

753
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,919
Speaker 2: bad word, I'm just being honest, or I just say

754
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 2: I just say what's on my mind, or I just

755
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 2: tell people the truth, and I'm like, that's not an it.

756
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 2: That doesn't work that way. Like, you don't always have

757
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 2: to say everything. So I think people that like do

758
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 2: that a lot. Yeah, you're right, think that it's okay.

759
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: They think that like, oh, this is just a quality

760
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: of mine.

761
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 1: I think it is good to speak your mind at

762
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: times and be one of those people will just tell

763
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: it like it is. But then you have to have

764
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: don't be mean awareness, sort of like the plane people

765
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 1: like you, there are appropriate times to deep plane. Yeah, early,

766
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: but yeah, you have to have awareness of that. Is

767
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 1: you don't have a flight to catch, you don't do it.

768
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: I tie everything back to getting off the plane early.

769
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: I could find that man and just send this episode

770
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 2: to him and give them a little lesson.

771
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: The third and final sign is you make every conversation

772
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 1: about you, no matter what someone else is saying. You

773
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: have this beautiful skill of turning the entire conversation to

774
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: something about you.

775
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 2: Here's a thought I'm having. I do all of these things.

776
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 2: Yeah at times, So would you like to tell me something?

777
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: No, you don't complain about everything, but you know that I.

778
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 2: Did talk to you recently about how I'm gonna try

779
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 2: to be more positive about things because I can get.

780
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 1: I can complain too. This is you complain about most everything,

781
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: and I don't put you in that category.

782
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 2: Okay, well I'm just checking in.

783
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 1: I know, well, I would check in on the one

784
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,439
Speaker 1: like I feel like a lot of times something's old.

785
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: I love how I'm like a lot of times sometimes

786
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 1: maybe just a little bit can actually talk about myself. Well,

787
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: I do that too, and some of that is our

788
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 1: with our we always have a story to tell. Yeah,

789
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 1: you know what they say that that's a that's an

790
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:10,719
Speaker 1: ADHD thing.

791
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 2: But I also think that's part of that's a finesse too,

792
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 2: Like that's a that's part of conversation. Is Okay, if

793
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: you relate to it, you can share your story, but

794
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 2: let's make sure that this person is done with their

795
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: like or I'm gonna share my story then come back.

796
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,399
Speaker 2: I do think that you do that a lot of times.

797
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: You'll share your thing, but then you'll you do come

798
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: back and like check in.

799
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: Well, because I think I'm actively trying. Because I'm shot,

800
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 1: I just say that about me, I better go circle back.

801
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: But it's also how conversation works. Sometimes it's like I

802
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: say something and they're like, oh, yeah, this happened to me.

803
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 1: And I've been doing that finger cross thing, like I'll

804
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 1: either move my ring to another finger or I'll cross

805
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: my finger. If I'm like, okay, I do have something

806
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: to say, and I don't want to forget, but I

807
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: want to let this person finish talking. I don't want

808
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: to interrupt up so then and then and then by

809
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: the time they get in talking, I'm like, why did

810
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: I cross my finger? And I don't remember, And then

811
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,919
Speaker 1: if if I don't remember, then oh well it wasn't

812
00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 1: meant to be.

813
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 2: I don't see you as somebody who does like says

814
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 2: like whatever comes to mind, and then it's just like,

815
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 2: I'm just honest, I don't get that that you don't

816
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: do that, But sometimes I I don't Okay.

817
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: No, I don't, No, I know, I know what this is.

818
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:27,799
Speaker 1: Like my daughter has this Okay, she speaks her mind

819
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: the word blunt, blunt, yes, and and we're working on

820
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: that because she you know, and she'll be like what

821
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 1: just I tell it like it is like, well, I

822
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: always have to do that. We need to look at

823
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 1: our company, who we're with. And while I don't want

824
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: to rob her of that, trait, like, because I do

825
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: think there is. It can be good, yes, and there

826
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 1: can be some courage in there, and it could be

827
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: brave at some points, like you know, to speak up

828
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 1: where others may not. Uh. And there are also are

829
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: times where it's just not appropriate. Like we were at

830
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 1: dinner the other night with a group of people and

831
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 1: she said something and I don't want to say it

832
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 1: because it's she could say it if she wanted to,

833
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: but involves other people. And I was like, we got

834
00:41:14,640 --> 00:41:17,680
Speaker 1: in the car. I had to say, like, I love

835
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: that you speak your mind, and that's great. I just

836
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: think that that comment in particular could be hurtful, even

837
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 1: though that other person wasn't there, and I know you

838
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 1: didn't mean anything bad. It's just not your cup of tea,

839
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:32,319
Speaker 1: and that's okay, But not everybody at the table needs

840
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,759
Speaker 1: to know it's not your cup of tea, because then

841
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,479
Speaker 1: it made somebody else uncomfortable because maybe it's a little

842
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: bit of their cup of tea.

843
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

844
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,160
Speaker 1: And she's like, well, what I don't, I don't it

845
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 1: was about this one particular person. She's like, what, I

846
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: don't like that person. I'm like, well, the other people

847
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:51,840
Speaker 1: at the table did, and now it's like you have

848
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: every right to not vibe with that person. That's totally great.

849
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: But do we need to announce to the whole table.

850
00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 2: No?

851
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 1: No, And I think I think, yeah, you can talk

852
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 1: to me about it all day long. Tell me more.

853
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 2: Why don't you.

854
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:05,719
Speaker 1: Now that we're in the car, let's go, what's up?

855
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: What happened? Who is it? You know what they do?

856
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 1: So, yeah, there's that. Something else that happened on our

857
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 1: trip was Kat was very emotional leading up to our

858
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:22,959
Speaker 1: trip and then on the trip and maybe even still.

859
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: And I don't want to bring it up right now

860
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: if you're going to cry that you cried a lot, and.

861
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 2: I think I did pretty good.

862
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: Like there was a baby crying on the plane and

863
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: that was making you cry, yes, And then there was

864
00:42:38,960 --> 00:42:42,400
Speaker 1: a mom that maybe we were guessing this is what happened.

865
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: We don't know for a fact, but a mom was

866
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 1: in on the flight deck with the pilots also known

867
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: as cockpit, and they were coming out. We have no

868
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: idea if he was just getting a little tour or

869
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: if you decided, oh, that kid must be anxious and

870
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 1: he's nervous about flying. So the pilots let.

871
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 2: Him go back there.

872
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:03,600
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's exactly what happened, but that

873
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 1: was making you emotional.

874
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 2: I think that is what I think.

875
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: I heard that, Okay, you did.

876
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 2: I think I heard the kid being like when they

877
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 2: were walking out of it, and I think that he

878
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 2: was like being calmed down, like he got to see

879
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 2: what was going on up there, They got to meet

880
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 2: the pilots, know who's flying the plane. And that got me,

881
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 2: Like that is so I think that got me because

882
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 2: that is so sweet that the pilots would do that.

883
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: Well, you were definitely or you're gonna cry right now,

884
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm making you cry.

885
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 2: I it just there's something about flying in kids. And

886
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 2: maybe it's because I have like future anxiety about like

887
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 2: what's it going to be like? And I and I

888
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 2: imagine taking kids on a flight. You don't want to

889
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 2: like annoy people or and you can't control a little

890
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 2: kid or a baby. You can't. You just can't control

891
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 2: if they have anxiety, they have anxiety, if they are crying,

892
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 2: their crying like baby's ear pressure. I don't know. And

893
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: so I think I make up that parents have more

894
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 2: anxiety maybe than they do. And then so I feel

895
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 2: that for them. Does that make sense?

896
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.

897
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 2: I didn't tell you this, but on my flight home

898
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: this was kind of crazy. I there was two babies

899
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 2: on the plane and then one pregnant lady. We all

900
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 2: sat in a line like did they put us together

901
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 2: for a reason because they know I'm not going to

902
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:30,200
Speaker 2: be annoyed if the baby's crying. But it was, Oh,

903
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: that was so sweet. It was a it was like

904
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 2: a young mom.

905
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:39,720
Speaker 1: Cats crying.

906
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:45,520
Speaker 2: She was with her sister. I don't know why crying

907
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 2: because it was not sad, but she was like it

908
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 2: was really sweet because she had her baby, like was

909
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 2: wearing her and then she was like trying to I've

910
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 2: got to go back to therapy and about this. But

911
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 2: she was trying to like get a couple things out

912
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 2: of her bag before she sat down in her seat,

913
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,120
Speaker 2: and she was like holding up the line. And then

914
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 2: the sister had all the stuff in her hands so

915
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 2: she couldn't help her, and so like all the people

916
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,399
Speaker 2: around her was like trying to help her get her.

917
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: And you were like, nobody self to me, I'm pregnant.

918
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:28,239
Speaker 2: I was just like screw this. It was just really

919
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:30,279
Speaker 2: sweet and you could tell that the girl was like

920
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 2: felt bad for holding up the line, but I was like,

921
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 2: don't worry about it, like these people can wait. And

922
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: then she had to sit by the window, and I

923
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:45,800
Speaker 2: know she did window. Why did she want because she

924
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,560
Speaker 2: asked the lady that was sitting in the aisle. Oh

925
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 2: my god. She asked the lady that was sitting in

926
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:55,759
Speaker 2: the aisle on her row, like, would it make you

927
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 2: more comfortable to sit by the window so I can say,

928
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 2: because you know, if the baby had to go to

929
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 2: the bathroom, something's easy for her to get up. And

930
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 2: the woman said no. That I was like, oh shoot,

931
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 2: you could tell that lady was like, I don't want

932
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 2: to be in this row. Everybody else had a baby

933
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 2: or was pregnant or was the sister of the And

934
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 2: I was sitting next to a woman with like a

935
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 2: more like she was probably like three months old, and

936
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:21,680
Speaker 2: a car seat, so there's only two people in her row.

937
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 2: And I almost offered my aisle seat, but I knew

938
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 2: I was gonna have to pee like four or five times,

939
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 2: and I knew that would be more annoying for her,

940
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 2: so I didn't. But that I felt like really bad

941
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 2: for her when she had the courage to ask like,

942
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 2: do you want to sit by the window, and the

943
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 2: woman just said no, like straight faced. So anyway, I

944
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:50,360
Speaker 2: did cry on that flight because the woman next to me,

945
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 2: the baby, cried a lot. I felt really bad for her.

946
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,759
Speaker 2: She was so calm the whole time. This is great.

947
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: Well, we did get a voicemail from Linda in Kansas

948
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: who was listening to our episode last week, and she

949
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: sent in a voicemail talking about how emotional she would

950
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 1: get as well. So this is a voicemail about moms

951
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: crying a lot, so get used to it.

952
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:35,399
Speaker 3: This is Linda from Kansas. I'm thirty four, love the show.

953
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,879
Speaker 3: I was listening to the show the podcast and Kat

954
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 3: gets emotional ab off the video on TikTok about what

955
00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 3: to pack and it's not even supposed to be emotional

956
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 3: and security said that she is an emotional person. I'm

957
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 3: just thinking, oh my gosh, Like becoming a mother like

958
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 3: makes you that much more emotional about everything. Like I

959
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,080
Speaker 3: was never this much of a crier before I became

960
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 3: a mom four years ago, and I just like I

961
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 3: cry at everything and the drop of the hat, and

962
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 3: it's just like, what is wrong with me? So good luck, Cat,

963
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 3: I know you're gonna be in an amazing mother, but

964
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 3: you're gonna cry a lot more, even more than what

965
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 3: you do now. So all right, love the show, keep

966
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:14,440
Speaker 3: it up.

967
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: There you go, good luck, good luck, You're not alone.

968
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,040
Speaker 1: I did think that you were gonna cry and then

969
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:24,959
Speaker 1: murder me. Oh yeah, uh huh after that brief moment

970
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: where you thought I killed your baby, I.

971
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 2: Did not think you killed my baby.

972
00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: Well no, no, no.

973
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: Part of my anxiety was fearing that you would feel

974
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 2: like you did. I didn't want you to take that responsibility.

975
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 2: So do you want do you want to share what

976
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:39,480
Speaker 2: had happened?

977
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: Well, so at Canyon Ranch, they had this immortal chamber, yeah,

978
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: is what it was called. But it's a red light bed.

979
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: But it does other things like there's oxygen, there's electro birds,

980
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:57,400
Speaker 1: like sound, someone's talking to you like a robot, and

981
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 1: it's this whole situation like I don't know, like now

982
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 1: relax into your and then like trip trip troop, and

983
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if there's other things happening.

984
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 2: Like currents, putting, yeah, being put in your body too.

985
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:09,960
Speaker 1: It was amazing.

986
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 2: I loved it a lot.

987
00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: Well, Kat was in there and I was like, oh

988
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: here I'm going to give my phone. Either I was

989
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: giving you my phone or you were giving the phone

990
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: to me. But I was already laying in there, and

991
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: we shocked each other. We got shocked. Kat said she

992
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: got electrocuted, but I was like, no, it's like a shock,

993
00:49:32,000 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: like when you pull stuff out of the dryer or

994
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: you shock like it was a shock, and it was.

995
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:39,799
Speaker 1: It was a jolt, but it was You weren't electrocute.

996
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 2: It was.

997
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: You're acting like your hair was like you're stuck.

998
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,080
Speaker 2: But it wasn't just like a static electricity like a

999
00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 2: It was like it was long.

1000
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: It was.

1001
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 2: Yes, it wasn't. It wasn't it was, but in my

1002
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:01,399
Speaker 2: head it was. But it was a you keep going.

1003
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:05,240
Speaker 1: But I thought I was like, okay, everything is okay,

1004
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 1: and I didn't. I wanted you to be okay. Then

1005
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,520
Speaker 1: later you admitted to me that you were very worried.

1006
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 1: I was gonna be worried because you were getting a

1007
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: massage and you said you couldn't feel the baby.

1008
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,799
Speaker 2: So I got my massage. The baby moved a lot.

1009
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,880
Speaker 2: I was getting a facial after this happened, and the

1010
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 2: baby didn't. She didn't move the whole time, So and

1011
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,399
Speaker 2: that's kind of weird. I'm at the point now where

1012
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: she is like she's picking this whole time. I can

1013
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 2: feel her, and so if time goes by, if like

1014
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: thirty minutes go by, it I don't feel her. I

1015
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 2: do get a little bit like, oh, what you're doing.

1016
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 2: So I was worried, and what my anxiety said during

1017
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:49,879
Speaker 2: this facial was, well, that might have shocked her heart.

1018
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 2: And she's a fragile heart. She's probably just lying in

1019
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 2: your belly.

1020
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: Now and laughing now because they know she's fine.

1021
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:00,719
Speaker 2: It's fine. I just had.

1022
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: The baby.

1023
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 2: Is my fear was? My fear was this, what is

1024
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,280
Speaker 2: this going to do to Amy and I friendship?

1025
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,960
Speaker 1: Because Kat had I Cat had already ended our friendship.

1026
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. I didn't want it to be because

1027
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 2: I you.

1028
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: You you were thinking I wouldn't be able to handle

1029
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: that I killed your baby. That's what my anxiety told me.

1030
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:23,960
Speaker 2: So what I was, what I was worried about, I

1031
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 2: was I was like, Amy's gonna I know, Amy, Amy,

1032
00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 2: She's gonna feel responsible, but it's not her fault, Like

1033
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 2: she didn't know that was going to happen. And I

1034
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 2: don't know how we would move on from this because

1035
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 2: I think it would just be too big of a thing.

1036
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 2: I don't know, and so then I just felt really bad.

1037
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh no. And then the

1038
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 2: last five minutes of this facial, I got a little

1039
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 2: tap tap on my belly. So she was she was okay,

1040
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 2: But it did impact the enjoyment. I mean, the facial

1041
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:56,000
Speaker 2: was awesome, but it did. I wish I wasn't thinking

1042
00:51:56,080 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 2: that during it, you know. Yeah, So luckily I did

1043
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,919
Speaker 2: get an ultrasound today. Her heartbeat is right on track.

1044
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: Did you tell the doctor?

1045
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 2: I did not. He was like, do you have any questions.

1046
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 2: I was like, nope, not at all. Everything's fine and

1047
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,759
Speaker 2: we've been fine this whole time. Yeah, no, no, no,

1048
00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 2: So I'm glad that you didn't. But also I googled

1049
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 2: can getting electrocuted hurt a baby?

1050
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: But you didn't get electrocuted. You got shocked. I do

1051
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:24,600
Speaker 1: feel like.

1052
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 2: That's different, but it can. But I just want people

1053
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: to know, don't electricite yourself. It can shocking, it said.

1054
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 2: If it's like a shock like what you're saying, it.

1055
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:39,600
Speaker 1: Was like static electricity, then.

1056
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 2: It's probably fine. If it's just like skin to skin like,

1057
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:45,240
Speaker 2: but if it enters into your body. It can affect

1058
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 2: the baby. So just don't get struck by lightning or

1059
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 2: they said. It was talking about like plugs. Don't see

1060
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 2: your outlets like that.

1061
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 1: Don't stick your finger in an outlet, don't don't do

1062
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 1: it if you're pregnant. Shannon says an electric shock is

1063
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: simply a non fatal contact with the electricity that causes

1064
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 1: a physical reaction or injury, while electrocution specifically refers to

1065
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: an electrical shock that results in severe injury or death.

1066
00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:20,440
Speaker 1: That was Kat's like, I just got electrocuted. We went

1067
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,800
Speaker 1: to bed that night and Kat would FaceTime with Patrick

1068
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 1: before we would go to bed, and she was like

1069
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 1: exclaining to him that night, but she got electrocuted. And

1070
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 1: I just was like, she got shocked, but.

1071
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 2: Patrick did I So Patrick's like yeah, I don't.

1072
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: Well, oh yeah, pellam. At the beginning of the trip,

1073
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: I was like, Cat's anxiety is so cute, and her

1074
00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: husband was like, oh yeah, just wait, and then by

1075
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 1: the end of the trip. By the end of the trip,

1076
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:49,200
Speaker 1: I was like, it's not cute anymore.

1077
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 2: It's because we remember we sat down. When we sat

1078
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 2: down on the plane, I was like, phew, the back

1079
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 2: of art. This was so cool to me. The back

1080
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 2: of the seat, the TV where your t is where

1081
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 2: you're sitting would say it said our name, so it

1082
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:10,120
Speaker 2: said like Catherine said D because I used my maiden name.

1083
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:12,360
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, it feels so nice to

1084
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 2: know weh're in the right seat. And Amy was like,

1085
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 2: why wouldn't we be in the right seat? I was like,

1086
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 2: I know, sometimes it's confusing, like the way that it's written.

1087
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,239
Speaker 1: It can be confusing. On my flight home from Colorado,

1088
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: there was a woman in my seat and I was like, oh,

1089
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 1: are you twelve D or whatever I was and she

1090
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,920
Speaker 1: was like, no, I'm eleven D. I said, oh, well

1091
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 1: you're in twelve D because that's eleven y. But then

1092
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,279
Speaker 1: there was someone in eleven D. So somebody along the

1093
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: who knows where it started, but there was a mistake

1094
00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: and somehow there was an empty seat near me that

1095
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:48,760
Speaker 1: somebody else was supposed to be in there, like, oh, shoot,

1096
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 1: I think I'm supposed to be over there on that one.

1097
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,759
Speaker 1: And I was like, did you know, everybody stay, everybody stay,

1098
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm just going to take this empty seat because I

1099
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 1: was that just seemed simple. And when I sat down,

1100
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 1: this woman next to me. She goes, well, that was refreshing,

1101
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,800
Speaker 1: and I was like what, and she was like, just that,

1102
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: you just took her seat and it didn't cause this

1103
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,759
Speaker 1: chaos and nobody got mad. But I do understand people

1104
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,239
Speaker 1: if they want a specific like I didn't care if

1105
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 1: I was aisle window middle.

1106
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 2: If it was if you had to end up in

1107
00:55:19,760 --> 00:55:21,719
Speaker 2: the middle seat, would you have done the same thing.

1108
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 1: It wasn't I think I was in the middle. It

1109
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 1: wasn't my it wasn't the seat that I had. It

1110
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:31,879
Speaker 1: just that made it simple. And of course I would

1111
00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: prefer an aisle. I used to love a window in

1112
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 1: my younger days, but now that if a case I

1113
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: have to use the restroom, I want that access. And

1114
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,520
Speaker 1: I just thought, well, okay, she found this refreshing. Like

1115
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,920
Speaker 1: most people like you were saying that story earlier. That

1116
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,320
Speaker 1: mom that was like, oh, I'd like the aisle, and

1117
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:52,319
Speaker 1: that one was like no, which everybody has the right

1118
00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: to be aisle. If maybe she has her home own

1119
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 1: health issues that we don't know about. Totally yes, so

1120
00:55:58,560 --> 00:56:02,040
Speaker 1: totally fine. Just yeah, I guess more times than not,

1121
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 1: sometimes people are.

1122
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 2: I don't think I would have done that if I

1123
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,440
Speaker 2: if it was a it was an aisle.

1124
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,359
Speaker 1: Or a I know, but do you know many people

1125
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: it was gonna be like musical chairs, like everybody's trying

1126
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: to figure out where they were supposed to be, and

1127
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 1: it was just like, let's just it was a forty

1128
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 1: five minute flight.

1129
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I thought it was from Colorado to Nashville.

1130
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:25,480
Speaker 1: No, I mean it was maybe Durangoda Peen.

1131
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 2: I can't remember where it was, and that is okay.

1132
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 2: Then I'm not I might do that.

1133
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't nut.

1134
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 2: So Amy doesn't think my anxiety is cute anymore, and

1135
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: the baby's okay, I.

1136
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 1: Still think it's a little bit cute. I just thought

1137
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: it was funny that I told Patrick I thought it

1138
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 1: was cute, and he was like, yeah, just wait, and

1139
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 1: I was like no, I'm never gonna get sick of it.

1140
00:56:44,880 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 1: And then like three days three days later, I'm like, okay,

1141
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: can we.

1142
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 2: Wrap this up? Because I traveled with you before, it's

1143
00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:56,720
Speaker 2: not like I had anxiety.

1144
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:00,439
Speaker 1: I know, but I've never traveled with you pregnant. Yeah,

1145
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 1: it's different, but not bad. I think there's just new anxieties,

1146
00:57:08,000 --> 00:57:11,399
Speaker 1: and I think that they're cute sometimes, unless you think

1147
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:18,560
Speaker 1: I electrocuted your baby. Anyway, it's good times, Kat and I. Overall,

1148
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: let's rate our trip. I give it ten out of ten.

1149
00:57:23,960 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 2: Well, I have to give it a ten out of ten.

1150
00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna do it.

1151
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: Speak your mind.

1152
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,000
Speaker 2: I'm going to give it a nine point five just

1153
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,439
Speaker 2: because I had an hour of thinking my baby died.

1154
00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I'll give it a nine point five because we

1155
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 1: had to see naked people. Yeah, and then oh, I'll

1156
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 1: give it this is nothing to do, like, can you ranch?

1157
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 1: I give it ten out of ten. But travel home,

1158
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: my TSA expired.

1159
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 2: Oh that's what it was.

1160
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 3: Uh huh.

1161
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 1: And I didn't know it had expired because I traveled

1162
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,680
Speaker 1: there with my TSA pre check working. And then when

1163
00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 1: we got to the airport, which we didn't have a

1164
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 1: lot of time to spare, I went through the TSA

1165
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:02,680
Speaker 1: pre check and by the time I got up to him,

1166
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:04,439
Speaker 1: he was like, you don't have TSA pre on your ticket.

1167
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: And I'm like, sure, I do. It's in the fine

1168
00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 1: print and he's like, no, it's not on there. And

1169
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:12,600
Speaker 1: I was like, what, guess I don't know if I've

1170
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: gotten to update you on this because you had to

1171
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:17,040
Speaker 1: go catch your flight because you were going to Nashville

1172
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: and I was going to Colorado. I was in a

1173
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: little bit of a pickle because then I had to

1174
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 1: go get into the standard line and it was long.

1175
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: I was I was so nervous I was going to

1176
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 1: miss my flight. So while I'm in line, I'm trying

1177
00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 1: to figure out what in the world has happened. Turns

1178
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 1: out my TSA pre check expired while we were a

1179
00:58:37,280 --> 00:58:37,919
Speaker 1: canyon ranch.

1180
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:38,959
Speaker 2: That is nuts.

1181
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: What are the odds? It's good for five years and

1182
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 1: it expired, so you had to renew it. And heads up,

1183
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 1: if you want to renew you have to. You can

1184
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 1: either renew it right away. If it's before it expires,

1185
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:55,000
Speaker 1: you're good to go. If it is expired, you have

1186
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 1: to wait three business days.

1187
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:58,760
Speaker 2: Do you have to go in? No, you can do

1188
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 2: it all like to because that would be like when

1189
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: your driver's license expire. Yeah, that wasn't good.

1190
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: But heads up, if you have taste, say TSA pre check,

1191
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,480
Speaker 1: and you think you're nearing your expiration, just go ahead

1192
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: and give it a look.

1193
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:14,360
Speaker 2: See and Amy. That is just a piece of why

1194
00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 2: I like to get to the airport extra early because

1195
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 2: you never know what kind of thing you're going to run.

1196
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: Into Yeah, but guess what I've made my fight.

1197
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 2: By the skinnier teeth is that the phrase I was

1198
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 2: talking to Patrick, I don't know if Amy's gonna make it.

1199
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:30,840
Speaker 1: It was the last person. I was the last person

1200
00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:31,560
Speaker 1: aboard the flight.

1201
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 2: For sure. You didn't make it.

1202
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 1: Live and learn, Live and learn, you live and yet learn.

1203
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: All Right, Well, I hope you all had a good week.

1204
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: Not everybody's on vacation like us. I get that, but

1205
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:48,160
Speaker 1: I hope you had a good fourth of July. And

1206
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:52,120
Speaker 1: that gosh, can you believe it's already July. We're already

1207
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:56,439
Speaker 1: going to be almost think about it, and just seven

1208
00:59:56,520 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 1: more days it's going to be halfway through July.

1209
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

1210
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 1: And then seven more days after that, three quarters, and

1211
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 1: then seven more days after.

1212
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:07,160
Speaker 2: That it'll be over, I know.

1213
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,880
Speaker 1: And then your baby shower is going to be August.

1214
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 1: It's August first.

1215
01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 2: And then the baby's going to be here. Mm hmm.

1216
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 1: Kat was having a lot of anxiety about her baby shower,

1217
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: but that's her story.

1218
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about that another day. That's probably also

1219
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 2: why my anxiety wasn't cute anymore, because that was annoying.

1220
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 2: I talked about it a lot, but.

1221
01:00:29,960 --> 01:00:33,520
Speaker 1: But we solved it. Don't you think Don't you think

1222
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 1: it was good because we solved it. Didn't we come

1223
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 1: up with the we we came up with a plan,

1224
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: like it was good that you were we had we

1225
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 1: had time.

1226
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:45,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, to talk it out, through it out. I didn't

1227
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 2: sleep over this. Yeah. Yeah. So but then I think

1228
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 2: you're you not being part of my family and saying

1229
01:00:55,440 --> 01:01:00,240
Speaker 2: what you said made me feel better, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

1230
01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 2: so thank you for that. Are you sure you felt

1231
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:04,479
Speaker 2: refreshed after your trip?

1232
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 1: I still have fun with you no matter what. I'm

1233
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: sure I did things that were I mean, your stuff

1234
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:16,920
Speaker 1: wasn't even bad. It was just your cute little anxiety

1235
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 1: that that got a little out of control. So we

1236
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: got it all resolved. Yeah, and you're aware of it.

1237
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 2: Yeah for the most part. Yeah.

1238
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 1: I can't think of one thing you weren't aware of.

1239
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:33,560
Speaker 2: Yeah. I knew I was being annoying with the baby shower,

1240
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 2: but I couldn't stop at the same time.

1241
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: Right, So then that's why we paused, and I think

1242
01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:38,440
Speaker 1: we figured it out.

1243
01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then to da, it's happening, Okay, okay, all.

1244
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:48,000
Speaker 1: Right, have the baby shower you need to have, and

1245
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 1: I have the day you need to have.

1246
01:01:50,600 --> 01:02:00,959
Speaker 2: Bye Bye three