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Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.

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Speaker 1: Hey Marcus, good morning, good morning. How are you welcome? Hey, great,

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Speaker 1: welcome to the program. Happy to have you here. Let's

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Speaker 1: hear about the dates that you went out with Brenda.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to hear kind of how you met, about

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on, and where we're at

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Speaker 1: right now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so Brenda and I we met online on an app,

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Speaker 2: and you know, we just kind of mentioned really well

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Speaker 2: on the app, and I decided to take her out.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to for us to meet up and take

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Speaker 2: her out. And after that, I just I didn't hear

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Speaker 2: from her. I didn't hear from her. And I thought

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Speaker 2: we had a good time. You know, I had a

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Speaker 2: great time. I can speak for myself, and it appeared

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Speaker 2: that she was having a good time. But I just

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Speaker 2: haven't heard from her in a little bit. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just curious as to why.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that might have happened. Yeah, so you you thought

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Speaker 1: it was a great date. You know, they all do.

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Speaker 1: But you thought it was a great date and good

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Speaker 1: chemistry and you were feeling it. Except you can't get

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Speaker 1: a hold of her for another date. And so you

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Speaker 1: want to know why of course.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, of course. I thought that the first one was

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Speaker 2: I enjoyed myself. I enjoyed a good time, and it

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Speaker 2: appeared that she was having a good time, you know.

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Speaker 2: And I thought that the chemistry was really strong and

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Speaker 2: and we just seemed to really mesh off that first

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Speaker 2: that first date.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, okay, let's call her now, Marcus, good luck. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Brenda?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it is hi Brenda.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fred. Thanks for answering. By

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Speaker 1: the way, I'm calling from the Fred Show and we

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Speaker 1: are on the radio right now, so I need your

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Speaker 1: permission to continue with the calls. That okay, if we

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Speaker 1: chat for a couple of minutes on the show.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's that's okay.

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Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much. We're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a guy named Marcus says, you mention you on a

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Speaker 1: dating app and you guys recently went on a date

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Speaker 1: to you remember this guy?

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Speaker 3: Is I remember this guy?

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Speaker 1: I remember? Okay, Well, what's going on with him? Because

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Speaker 1: he told us that he thought the date went really

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Speaker 1: well and that he's reached out for another date and

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Speaker 1: you're not responding, So it sounds like there's a good

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Speaker 1: reason why.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he said, no, exactly why he took me to.

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Speaker 1: He took me to like his niece.

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Speaker 3: That was the first date, you know, like the little kid. Yeah, wait,

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Speaker 3: a little kid singing and play the piano.

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Speaker 1: Did he tell you ahead of the time? Did he

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Speaker 1: say that's where you were going? Did he pick you

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Speaker 1: up and take you another odd part?

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Speaker 3: He said it was on to a concert?

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Speaker 1: No, that's a concert.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I wanted to do. I didn't even know

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Speaker 3: any of the kids. You know, you go to something

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Speaker 3: like that, you know the kids, and you suffer through sitting, yes,

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Speaker 3: sitting through those kids music, and you know, I mean,

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Speaker 3: you know not to you know, rag on the kids

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Speaker 3: too much. It's not it's not their fault that he

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Speaker 3: took me to the recital. That's just not something that

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Speaker 3: I wanted to do on the first Wow.

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Speaker 1: So you hear you like a concert, You're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: we're going to Beyonce or whatever. I don't know, we're

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Speaker 1: going to You're in your mind, you're thinking big time artist,

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Speaker 1: a concert, what anybody would think. But instead you're going

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Speaker 1: to a child's recital. Not only that, but it's a

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Speaker 1: family event at that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's awkward too. It's like having to meet

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Speaker 3: somebody film the first time you ever meet like that

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Speaker 3: is very awkward.

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Speaker 1: That's not what I was expecting a whole on a second, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: no kidding. Let me bring Marcus and I forgot to

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Speaker 1: mention that he's here. Marcus, that's a bait and switch. Dude,

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Speaker 1: What are you thinking?

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Speaker 2: Hey, y, what you have to say for your side?

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Speaker 1: Explain this? I thought that the date would be I

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Speaker 1: thought it would be a really clever date.

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Speaker 2: I thought you didn't appreciate seeing some kids, you know,

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Speaker 2: or being you know, getting to see my niece and

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Speaker 2: meet my family. I thought that it was something unusual too.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to do the.

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Speaker 4: Typical of take you out to the movies, take you

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Speaker 4: to dinner or something. I wanted to do something that

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Speaker 4: was a little for you know, I felt was thoughtful,

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Speaker 4: a little more original.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to a child's recital. It was already planned.

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Speaker 1: What thought was it?

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Speaker 2: I thought that it was thoughtful that I've not been

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Speaker 2: on the day I've taken a girl out to you know,

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Speaker 2: see you know, young little kids perform.

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Speaker 1: You know, there's a reason for that. There's a reason

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Speaker 1: why most people don't do that. Okay, I mean, there's

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Speaker 1: a few issues here. One that didn't sound like much

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Speaker 1: fun for her too. You're it sort of sounds like

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Speaker 1: a family event, and this a first date. I mean

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Speaker 1: I could see, like many dates in if you guys

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Speaker 1: are really dating consistently, you're like, hey, I gotta go,

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Speaker 1: I gotta swing by this family event. I can see that.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, and the other thing is you said concert,

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Speaker 1: which everybody is gonna not is gonna think, is not

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Speaker 1: a child's concert. Uh well, we got dinner after Okay,

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Speaker 1: where'd you guys? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and Nicole his Warriors one of those restaurants where,

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Speaker 3: you know, all the kids get a color and books

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Speaker 3: come for us to get to know each other.

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Speaker 1: Marcus, we're trying to keep it sexy. We're trying to

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Speaker 1: keep it growing sexy.

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Speaker 3: No one that you blocked him.

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Speaker 1: So look the guy. It looks like it sounds like

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Speaker 1: he's close to his family. It sounds like, you know,

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Speaker 1: he had a lot of he had high aspirations for

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Speaker 1: this date. He sounds like a you know, I look

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Speaker 1: a big misstep in my opinion, But maybe he's a

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Speaker 1: sweet guy. I don't know how he was around his family.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are looking for a family man.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to find the good here. It was a

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Speaker 1: big misstep, not sexy at all. But but Brenda, would

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Speaker 1: you consider giving this guy another chance? I mean, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if he got the message, but hopefully after

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Speaker 1: this he did and he'll take you on a proper date.

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Speaker 1: Would you consider that we've had way worse?

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Speaker 3: I know I would. I would consider it. You know,

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Speaker 3: get to know each other.

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Speaker 1: You know, Marcus, are you not going to screw this up?

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Speaker 1: It's our money? But are you going to take her

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Speaker 1: on a real date, like on a real dinner where

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Speaker 1: they maybe have you know, like metal silverware? Yes? I will.

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Speaker 2: I will be willing to take her on a on a.

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Speaker 1: Have any like a musical coming up or a place

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Speaker 1: like a soccer game or something. Okay, yeah, Ollie, I

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Speaker 1: will agree to pay for this if you do not

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Speaker 1: take her to any family event of any kind. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm really surprised. I'm very surprised at this outcome. But

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Speaker 1: I'm happy that Brenda, you're willing to give this guy

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Speaker 1: another chance. There must have been some redeeming qualities. So

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Speaker 1: you guys go on a great date. We'll follow up

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Speaker 1: with you to see how it goes, and I wish

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Speaker 1: you guys both the best of luck. You, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thank