WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Secret Millionaire

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning dates. You know, this might be the

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<v Speaker 1>first second date update we've ever done where I won't

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<v Speaker 1>need to pay for the second date at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of it between the two people if they decide to

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<v Speaker 1>go out again. Kevin is on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and Kevin wants to call a girl named Simone.

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<v Speaker 1>The interesting part about this, though, is Kevin wasn't completely

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<v Speaker 1>honest with her when they went out. He's very wealthy,

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<v Speaker 1>his family's very wealthy. He comes for money and usually

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<v Speaker 1>that's a problem for him when he's dating because that's

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<v Speaker 1>all that girls are interested in. So he tried to

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<v Speaker 1>play it a little different this time. Kevin, you know

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<v Speaker 1>that a lot of people are going to be texting

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<v Speaker 1>in going who is he? What's his name? And I

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<v Speaker 1>promised Kevin we wouldn't say who it is. But I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you I talked to him off the air,

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<v Speaker 1>and all he'll let me say is that his family

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<v Speaker 1>got all their money in the tech industry. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's it, right, Kevin. Yep, but I have confirmed it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's legit. Kevin is a very very wealthy man. Really yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like very wealthy. Yeah, that's what he said, just just

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<v Speaker 1>letting go. Yes, very wealthy, Jose. I know you have

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<v Speaker 1>problems paid your car payment. It's more money than you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am, Jose. It's exactly why I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell this girl. Yeah, because that's how people act towards you, right, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>wait a minute, you how rich? I like, wait a minute,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's your monthly paycheck? Have you ever been turned

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<v Speaker 1>down before? Kevin? Yeah, like, you know, denied another date?

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<v Speaker 1>Like you seem like a really nice guy, possibly turned

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<v Speaker 1>down for anything. Ever, nobody's ever turned me down for

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<v Speaker 1>a date, or when I wanted a car, or when

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to play, or when I wanted to buy

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<v Speaker 1>their business. No, I guess you know it's really snobby

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<v Speaker 1>to say, but I haven't. I've been the one doing

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<v Speaker 1>the turning down, you know. Yeah, it's understandable. You have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem that most people don't have, right you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're you're an attractive person for anybody to date,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what you know. At this point, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>have started scare me. I think y'all are going to

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<v Speaker 1>start asking me on dates. Can we just make the

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<v Speaker 1>phone call or yes, I'll make the call. I realize

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<v Speaker 1>it is getting a little uncomfortable. We're just harping on

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<v Speaker 1>your money. Now, all right, I'm gonna doule the phone

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<v Speaker 1>number right now and see if we can get some

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<v Speaker 1>one on the phone. Here we go, Thank you. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Simone? Please? This is Simon. Hi, Simone,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm sorry, where did you see your phone?

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<v Speaker 1>Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning the radio show. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not familiar with that show. Oh so you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one I don't get it. Yeah, you're not supposed to really,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. So if you don't listen to our show,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling you today because you recently went out on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody who does listen to our show

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked me to get a hold of you.

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Kevin. Okay, these text has you a

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<v Speaker 1>few times and hasn't heard anything back. Did you not

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<v Speaker 1>like going out with Kevin? This is just really weird

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<v Speaker 1>that you're I don't know, asking me about that. I understand,

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<v Speaker 1>we make a ton of these phone calls. It's never

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<v Speaker 1>not weird. But do you have a few minutes to

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<v Speaker 1>tell us about your date with Kevin? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this gonna, I don't know, get really weird and personal,

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<v Speaker 1>because I definitely don't want to do that get as

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<v Speaker 1>personal as you want it to get. We're just wondering

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<v Speaker 1>why you're not calling him back, that's all. And he's

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why you're not calling him back. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just if I didn't really get the right kind

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<v Speaker 1>of vibe from him. Was he like too nice? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean we talked to him, he sounded really nice. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>too nice? No, he was appropriately nice. He's the right

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<v Speaker 1>level of nice. I just I don't know. There's just

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<v Speaker 1>something about him that didn't quite come across as a

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<v Speaker 1>kind of person that I would normally want to date.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he creepy? No, he wasn't creepy. He was sort

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<v Speaker 1>of frumpy, which frumpy. Yeah. My first impression was that

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't making a lot of effort for this date,

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<v Speaker 1>so like he dressed poorly. Yeah, I mean it smelt

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<v Speaker 1>like he seemed that he hadn't washed. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was wearing heels and I was wearing a

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<v Speaker 1>really cute dress, and I wanted to make a good impression,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't get the idea from him that was important.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he were you because I always think frumpy immediately,

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<v Speaker 1>I think chubby? Are you not attracted to him because

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<v Speaker 1>of his bodybuild? Cute? Not something like chubby, just something

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<v Speaker 1>like I threw this on and whatever. So you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like he didn't put in enough effort to try to

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<v Speaker 1>impress you. Yeah, he was very polite. It's not like

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<v Speaker 1>he was a jerk or anything. He was a nice person.

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<v Speaker 1>I just had this sort of feeling from him that

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<v Speaker 1>he is not a particularly motivated person or has any

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<v Speaker 1>sort of real kind of hustle. Really, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing more unattracted to me than somebody who isn't motivated.

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<v Speaker 1>I will agree with you on that. And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe that you got. Huh, Yeah, I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>just he just seemed kind of vague and uninspired. And

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<v Speaker 1>I have a lot of passion, and I are the

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<v Speaker 1>people who have a lot of passion. Wouldn't he just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't seem to have a Yeah, you don't about I

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<v Speaker 1>want to date somebody's gonna sit on the couch and

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<v Speaker 1>just watch Netflix all day, suck your bank account dry? Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that completely. Know you want to be with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who wants to make something of himself. What is

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with that crazy person in the background. I'll explain

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<v Speaker 1>to you why jose is laughing so hard. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I might know why you had a hard time

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<v Speaker 1>connecting with Kevin. Yeah. We talked to him a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>and he told us he was trying something different with

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<v Speaker 1>this date. A lot of his previous states judged him

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<v Speaker 1>for how much money he has, so he was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of dumb himself down, I guess, to not

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<v Speaker 1>seem like he was as wealthy as he is. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would somebody do that? It doesn't even make sense. He

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<v Speaker 1>told us that he wanted a normal dating experience with

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<v Speaker 1>a regular girl that he met online. Yeah, but a

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<v Speaker 1>normal dating experience you still like put on a button

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<v Speaker 1>down shirt. I'm listen. As rich as this dude is,

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<v Speaker 1>he probably doesn't even know what a normal guy dresses like. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>who is this person? Is this guy? Some famous person?

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<v Speaker 1>And I know if you looked him up online, you

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<v Speaker 1>would know who he is. Are you gonna tell me?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know what I'm supposed to do

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<v Speaker 1>with this information. I'll just let you talk to him.

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<v Speaker 1>How about that? Hi? Oh my god, Yeah that's Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>He's actually on the other line. I've been listening this

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. Oh my god. Huh, Oh my god, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I called you something. That's totally fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>was actually going for it, you know, going for a

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<v Speaker 1>certain look, so I can totally see what you were being.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I don't know what I supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to do with this information, because whoever this person was

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<v Speaker 1>that you were like trying to pretend to be it's

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's going to get you any more

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<v Speaker 1>dates either, I don't. I want to be clear. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like I was trying to be someone else. I

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't want to divulge everything about my life and

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<v Speaker 1>like how you get obsessed about like my family and

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<v Speaker 1>money like everybody else has gone out with. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think at this point the only thing I can do

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<v Speaker 1>is just ask you who your family is. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of that's what I was avoiding. It. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want it to be about that. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be like some sort of like I'm wooing you with

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<v Speaker 1>cash here. Well, I wouldn't want it to be about

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<v Speaker 1>that either, And I'm sorry that you've had that experience.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why you've had that experience, but give me

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to not be that kind of person. So

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell Simone do you want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with him again? Or do you not want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him because you still think he's boring. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't tell yes, I want to go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>I just need Kevin to promise to be authentic. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, I would love to ask you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>if you'll go out on a second date. I will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. We already know Simone wants to go out. Kevin,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Simone again? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have to pass. I'm gonna have to say no, man,

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<v Speaker 1>really what it didn't work out the way I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>it to. You're the one that called in to get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date, and you're the one that told her

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<v Speaker 1>about the money. I didn't say it. Jubile told her

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<v Speaker 1>about the money. That is true. I just wanted her

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<v Speaker 1>to know what she was missing out on by not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. Why don't you want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her? Now? It sounded like you were into it before.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole point was to be anonymous, and now the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing's kind of blown up in my face. She

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<v Speaker 1>knows who I am, sort of, and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what are. Yeah, she doesn't really know who you are yet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but the money is come into the picture, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's always gonna be a problem for you though, man, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna have to get over that at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be a problem because it keeps making it

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<v Speaker 1>a problem. Yeah. Well, now I just really don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a date with you because of your tone.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you sound kind of bitchy, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>Good luck. I don't want to go out a date

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<v Speaker 1>with you either. Oh oh great, Well maybe I'll date

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<v Speaker 1>one of the actual radio listeners that are other than you.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you want to date one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>with that? Buddy? Hey, trust me, I can get you

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<v Speaker 1>a date with one of our listeners. Text in seven eight,

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<v Speaker 1>five nine two. You know they're only going to be

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<v Speaker 1>interested in you for your money though. That's it. Money

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't buy a personality, oh oh yeah, but it buys

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of other things. Very good point. Kevin broken

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<v Speaker 1>jewel in the morning.