WEBVTT - MisReported 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:14.720 Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:19.320 There's a lot of false stories written about myself and 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:23.200 my family all the time, and you know, I've grown 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:25.960 up with it. I live through it. I'm living through it. 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:29.440 You know, things like we're homeless and living in an RV. 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:33.400 Oh my gosh, the massive amounts of plastic surgery is 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:37.640 just nuts. Things that are just so fabricated and false 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:42.000 that you just feel like you can't ever say anything. 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:44.120 And for so long I was like, I have a 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:47.520 thick skin, a really thick skin, from all these fake stories. 0:00:47.960 --> 0:00:51.040 But then that's why I started this podcast. Essentially, I 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:55.400 started Misspelling because I was like, you know what, they're 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:59.680 all so busy telling my story and making money off 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:01.720 of it. I'm just going to go ahead and tell 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:04.200 my truth. So I put it all out there, and 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:07.120 you guys know, I'm not you know, high on my 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.679 horse and being like, oh I'm great and everything's perfect, 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:11.960 and you know, I'll tell you and I'm a hot 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:14.880 mess well, which happens often. But you know, the bad, 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:18.280 the good, the ugly warts and all. Remind me tell 0:01:18.280 --> 0:01:21.200 you that time I had a wart. Anyway, I tell 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:25.039 it all on Misspelling. I always say it's TMI and 0:01:25.040 --> 0:01:28.839 then I say, mmm, no TMT too much tory never 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:33.800 so yeah. This is a great example of a horrific 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:36.959 story that came out. Daily Mail posted a story with 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:41.520 photos that a Papa Razzi took of our temporary housing 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:44.000 that we were in because we were displaced after we 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:47.600 had mold in our old home. We have been on 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:51.919 the move between temporary housing establishments till we just moved 0:01:52.040 --> 0:01:54.880 in the last couple of months to a permanent residence and. 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:55.880 We are so happy. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:59.240 But had a great experience working with the landlord and 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:01.919 the management company and. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.480 It is totally false. 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:07.960 But to see photos of trash and a trash couch 0:02:08.160 --> 0:02:12.080 all just what they are calling dumped on the street 0:02:12.240 --> 0:02:15.520 by myself and my family, I couldn't allow it to 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:19.080 go on any longer because it's completely false. 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:22.240 I was getting texts from friends from family concerned, what 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:23.079 is going on? 0:02:23.720 --> 0:02:24.560 My kids are. 0:02:24.480 --> 0:02:28.040 Affected, they go to school. You guys, these fake stories 0:02:28.120 --> 0:02:33.560 don't help. So my landlord and temporary housing manager, Katie 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:37.520 from the house they are saying I allegedly trashed, has 0:02:37.560 --> 0:02:40.840 been kind enough since now the second time I've worked 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:44.760 with her, to come on today and we both are 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:47.880 setting the record straight that this is all false, This 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:52.120 did not happen. So from Temporary Housingla dot com, please 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:57.320 welcome the amazing Katie Hi. Hi, there's my amazing landlord. 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:59.840 Hi Katie, Hi Torio. 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:00.360 How are you. 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:05.240 I'm doing okay, Thank you so much for coming on 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:09.720 my podcast today to dispel all spell you see, I 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:13.480 turned around there, dispelled spelling all the rumors out there. 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:17.640 Here she is okay. So we actually come full circle 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:21.600 because a year ago we were had to leave our 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:25.240 rental in Hidden Hills. There was mold and the kids 0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.640 and I were kind of on the move for a 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:31.720 while until we could find a more permanent housing situation, 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:35.640 and you were the first. Actually when we had moved 0:03:35.720 --> 0:03:39.400 last summer, we lived in one of your other temporary properties, 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:44.840 temporary housing properties in La Yep. Yeah, And you were 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:48.520 so kind and we had such a great relationship. In fact, 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.960 I talk about like there's always rumors and false stories 0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.760 that come out about me. At the time that people 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:58.600 were saying, oh, she's homeless, she and her kids and 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:02.320 they're living in an RV. I was actually living in 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:06.520 one of your temporary housings with my kids in Woodland Hills, 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:08.440 so another. 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:11.400 Way, you are living in a beautiful, multi billion dollar home. 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:16.880 There you go, and we left for a few days 0:04:16.880 --> 0:04:20.159 to go on a summer vacation RV trip. Funny, but 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:24.240 here we are again. We lived at your amazing property 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:29.120 in Woodland Hills, such a great house. We were actually 0:04:29.240 --> 0:04:30.960 sad to leave, but we always knew it was a 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:35.120 temporary housing because that's what you do, and we have 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:39.120 moved into a permanent property. But we had a great 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:42.920 experience with you. And I love Katie because she you know, 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:47.400 I always love women, empowering women, and you are so 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:51.159 smart and so informed, and anytime we had a question 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:53.920 of any sorts, you were like on it. No matter 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.719 where she was, she would be out of town, she'd 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:57.920 be on it. I'd be calling her anytime during the night. 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:00.480 And I just wanted to thank you for all that, 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:02.520 and then we'll get into this, Okay. 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.799 Yeah, absolutely, It's been so nice. 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:06.640 You know, I'm so happy that we were able to 0:05:06.680 --> 0:05:09.479 host you for this last year while you had I 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:13.440 remember you had the issue with mold and your home 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.280 and then you needed a place to stay. I was 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:18.360 so happy to host you in multiple homes. It's been 0:05:18.360 --> 0:05:21.560 a great experience. On our part, and I'm happy that 0:05:21.600 --> 0:05:23.720 we were able to provide really good service for you 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:24.279 as well. 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.680 Thank you, I know, and while we have a permanent 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:31.479 residence now, I am going to miss you. I never 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:35.159 missed these terrible stories that come out, so it's all 0:05:35.200 --> 0:05:37.200 over in the news. Katie and I touch base when 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:43.640 Daily Mail posted a story with photos of how I 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:49.760 allegedly trashed your home and they have pictures of stuff 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.880 on the sidewalk, and I was just like, it was 0:05:52.920 --> 0:05:57.160 like that cartoon where the eyes were like. 0:05:55.920 --> 0:05:57.119 Like is that bugs bunny? 0:05:57.160 --> 0:05:57.200 No. 0:05:57.320 --> 0:06:01.159 When Roadbrunner, I was like, oh my gosh. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.799 Absolutely, I've never seen anything so ridiculous in my life. 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:08.240 We replaced furniture all the time in these properties. I 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:11.560 actually replaced three sofas in the last week. Were managing 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:17.320 around fifty homes and it's definitely not headline news, so. 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:18.480 Oh my gosh. 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:23.760 I mean, granted, I have five kids, I have you know, dogs, cat, 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:28.480 we have animals, and I never profess to be the cleanest, 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:32.560 most organized person, you know. I'm always like, oh, you know, 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:37.440 it's it's a messy, chaotic life. But we lead with 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:43.000 our hearts and I would never trash somebody's property, and 0:06:43.279 --> 0:06:45.880 when we moved out, which is way before what they 0:06:45.880 --> 0:06:51.240 are allegedly saying. When we moved out, I was like heartbroken. Castella, 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:55.280 my now turned sixteen year old, since I've seen you, 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:59.080 She and I we even like were washing the bedding 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:02.240 and making sure it was try and doing another cycle 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:06.560 and like trying to fluff up the beds and do 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:10.400 the best we can. But of course, you know, we're 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:13.920 not perfect, and you know, five kids are messy, but 0:07:14.320 --> 0:07:17.000 we would never trash at home. And our neighbors, the 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:20.480 neighbors in that neighborhood are so great. Yea, So I 0:07:20.600 --> 0:07:24.239 was really bummed, you know, But stories like this, Katie, 0:07:24.320 --> 0:07:27.000 like just because from my perspective, I've been through it 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.920 so many times, they always have to have the quote 0:07:30.000 --> 0:07:34.160 unquote source. It can be anyone, and you know, but 0:07:34.600 --> 0:07:36.800 and while people are like, don't read the comments, you 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:39.280 shouldn't read the bad stuff, like you have to at 0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:42.280 some point because you're like, people don't know and they 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:45.320 think this could be true, like you know that we 0:07:45.440 --> 0:07:48.160 just jumped everything out on the sidewalk, and we're like 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:50.720 peace out, Like that's not how it. 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:52.600 Happens, absolutely not. 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.800 I mean, we basically replaced the furniture every couple of years. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:59.880 It's not a big deal. You were great to work with. 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.480 We've managed over fifteen thousand reservations. 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:05.440 It was a you. 0:08:05.400 --> 0:08:09.000 Know, like a normal family of five that stayed. You've 0:08:09.040 --> 0:08:13.000 been lovely or a beautiful mother, and I really respect 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:15.920 you and what you're doing for this world. 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:19.680 So thank you. We're both dog lovers, so yes. 0:08:19.520 --> 0:08:21.240 We have we have a twin dog. 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:27.880 Right, Yeah, I just feel like And Ruth Anne, who 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:30.520 is my manager and one of my best friends for years, 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:34.440 is on here as well. In fact, she helped us move, 0:08:34.559 --> 0:08:37.200 so she saw that none of this was left there. 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:41.679 And Ruth Anne, who is my manager and producing partner 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:47.400 and best friend lifer for what thirty years now, and 0:08:47.440 --> 0:08:51.079 that you you actually helped us move from Katie's property 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:54.680 into our new home, so you saw that I was left. 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:55.680 There ages ago. 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:59.920 First of all, yes, not when the Daily Mail is 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:06.760 suggesting ages ago. And the house was as it always 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:11.200 had been. The furniture was there, it was in fine shape, 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:16.079 there was nothing trashed. Just that word makes me insane 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:17.760 because it's so far from accurate. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:22.120 Yeah, I mean, it's just a completely leave behind. One 0:09:22.160 --> 0:09:26.440 animal carrier and a few toys. But in all fairness, 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.480 you guys were so kind. You were like, just leave 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:32.720 it in the garage because we are doing a big. 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:36.360 We do after a big move out all the time. 0:09:36.760 --> 0:09:39.240 All this is definitely. 0:09:40.440 --> 0:09:43.080 Crazy to me that anybody would take the time to 0:09:43.120 --> 0:09:45.439 take picture of a debris pickup. 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:46.520 From the city. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:48.360 Wait, what is it called. 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:49.200 Actually, it's called the. 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:52.640 Debris pickup Okay, yeah, it's the city offers that with 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:54.440 your trash service, so you can get as much as 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:55.240 you want picked up. 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:57.480 And yeah, we do it all the time. 0:09:57.520 --> 0:10:00.240 When we were replacing furniture, which we replaced all the 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:04.640 time in this business. And it's uh that furniture was 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:06.800 a couple of years old and we decided to actually 0:10:06.840 --> 0:10:08.640 redo how we wanted the house to look. 0:10:08.960 --> 0:10:11.080 And it had nothing to do with you. 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.880 And there were multiple people who stayed at this property 0:10:14.520 --> 0:10:19.200 and like I said, you've been a great tenant and 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.520 I have nothing but good things to say about you 0:10:21.600 --> 0:10:25.199 and my experience with you and multiple properties with my company. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.920 Oh you just got me thinking. I mean, I love designs, 0:10:27.920 --> 0:10:31.439 so if you ever want any way, and the furniture 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:34.120 was beautiful in the house, but I would love to 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:38.080 offer we can we can do anything diy or. 0:10:38.440 --> 0:10:41.360 Yeah please, I you know, yeah, how could we make 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:42.120 it better? Right? 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:44.640 Yeah, I'm on board. 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:56.800 It is crazy though, how vicious that article is. 0:10:57.600 --> 0:10:58.079 It's crazy. 0:10:58.120 --> 0:10:59.960 I'd been contacted, My broker has been content. 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.320 I get my like, over ten or twelve different people 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:03.360 called all day long. 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:05.120 I've never I'm like, it's just a joke. 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:09.000 We put some furniture and it was only out there 0:11:09.040 --> 0:11:09.800 for like a day. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.960 We you know, we had set it up. We told 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:14.320 them the pieces, they was out there. They came the 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.679 next day and got it, and somebody made this huge 0:11:16.720 --> 0:11:20.120 deal about the most ridiculous I've never seen anything in 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.160 my life. And the woman, I don't know which woman 0:11:23.240 --> 0:11:25.320 that told me, she said a neighbor had told her 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:29.960 about this, that the house was trashed, and I'm like, 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:30.880 that's not. 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:35.760 True, Like I I wonder, so we've been wondering. Was 0:11:35.800 --> 0:11:41.600 it actually a neighbor who you know, made up the story, 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:45.280 took the photos and sold it, which is you know 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:51.520 how these things work. The Daily Mail is an outlet. Yeah, 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:55.559 these first stories and they do not do they don't 0:11:55.600 --> 0:11:59.400 fact check, they don't care. They they you know, they're 0:11:59.480 --> 0:12:03.480 sued relentlessly and they don't care about that either. So 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:06.680 but the question is, was it an actual neighbor who 0:12:06.760 --> 0:12:10.000 just wanted to make some cash or was it the 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:13.960 Daily Mail themselves sending a photographer out or was it 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:17.320 just the paparazzi that follows Toy everywhere thought she was 0:12:17.360 --> 0:12:22.440 still there, saw this great opportunity and took pictures and 0:12:22.480 --> 0:12:24.680 then they sent it to the Daily Mail. 0:12:24.920 --> 0:12:27.280 So actually, wait, my. 0:12:27.360 --> 0:12:29.680 Gut says it's one hundred percent not a neighbor. I 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:32.120 don't really think the neighbors in that neighborhood would do that, 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.199 But of course I don't know for sure. I think 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.240 it was probably them just driving by seeing some stuff out. 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:39.000 Let me make a story out of this, you know. 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:43.640 That was my instinct that it was paparazzi who are 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:48.640 always stalking Tory who saw this and their eyes popped 0:12:48.640 --> 0:12:52.000 out of their head with dollar signs and were like, whooh, 0:12:52.080 --> 0:12:54.000 here's an opportunity to make some money. 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:56.800 So I have a theory on this, you guys. This 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:59.679 is like my side hustle, trying to figure out an 0:12:59.679 --> 0:13:03.200 anti anticipate what will be written about me and photographed 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:06.079 and how the narrative will go, which is why I've 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:08.600 tried my best to turn around and create my own 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:12.480 podcast where I can be like, eh, this is the 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.559 way it's happening. So what can they do if I'm 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:18.240 telling it like it truly is. But months ago, Katie, 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:22.880 while I was still there longer than months ago, a 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:27.760 story was released. I don't recall exactly the publication, pretty 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:31.720 much giving away our exact address. And you know, since 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:34.360 we had left Hidden Hills where we had the mold 0:13:34.400 --> 0:13:36.640 issue in the house that we at least there for years, 0:13:37.880 --> 0:13:42.800 we had been going, you know, from Airbnb, Airbnb temporary housing. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.920 This was our second property with you temporary housing La 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:50.680 dot com. And suddenly the address was out there and 0:13:50.960 --> 0:13:54.000 paparazzi showed up. And I do I do my very 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:57.360 best because it's the life I lead. And you know, 0:13:57.600 --> 0:13:59.160 I not saying. 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:01.760 Like woe is me? But if I have five kids. 0:14:01.520 --> 0:14:05.760 And I am a normal human, like I do drop 0:14:05.800 --> 0:14:09.640 offs and pickups, and I have kids ranging from seventeen 0:14:09.720 --> 0:14:12.800 to seven, so I have three school drop offs and 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:16.480 you know, then working and then it's just life. But 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:20.840 I do my best to avoid you know, paparazzi following 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:23.360 us home knowing where we live. Just for the kid's 0:14:23.440 --> 0:14:27.160 sake and for my neighbor's sake, to be honest, and anyway, 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:30.360 someone had put it out where we were, which it 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:33.520 wasn't the exact address, but I guess in hindsight, if 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:35.680 you can go back and look at pictures online of 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:39.520 the property, you could kind of pinpoint where you know, 0:14:39.560 --> 0:14:41.640 we've taken photos in the house and be like, oh, yeah, 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:45.520 that's her, that's the house. And they found it and 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:49.240 the street was lined with paparazzi. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.760 News cruise and it was wild. 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:54.600 But I got to say, and it's moments like this 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:59.160 that melt my heart. The neighbors in your neighborhood jumped 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:04.600 in and they came running up to the car, women 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:08.360 of course, women with kids and their dogs, and they 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:11.360 were like, we got you that one. I just went 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:13.080 up too and was like, you can't be on this 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:15.840 street and they told me they were TMZ and I 0:15:15.880 --> 0:15:17.560 was like, well, you have to get out or I'm 0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:20.480 calling the police. And I was like, first of all, 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:22.840 I'm always so guilty. I'm like, I'm so sorry there 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:26.600 were existing in your universe and causing trouble. 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:29.560 She's like, no, this is awful. They do this to 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:30.080 you guys. 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.560 And it was two moms and they helped me get 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:37.000 the kids inside and they were shielding and of course 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:39.360 those pictures don't come out because no one wants like 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:43.160 good story, you know, but it was so kind and 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:46.640 they said, we're here anytime we exchange information. It was, 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:49.280 you know, one was directly across the street, one was 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:54.120 next door. All my neighbors have been fabulous in the past, 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:57.160 and they were just like, you know, call us Texas. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:59.200 If you see someone you can't come out of the house, 0:15:59.440 --> 0:16:02.960 we'll like, you know, cause a diversion. And like I 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.120 was like, wow, I love when a plan comes together. 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:06.840 That's amazing. 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:10.320 What a supportive neighborhood that is. I know, they're really 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:11.640 nice people in that neighbora. 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:16.240 They're really nice people. But it sometimes I'm a real 0:16:16.360 --> 0:16:19.080 positive person, as are you. And we've connected on this before, 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:22.920 and I you know, there's moments where I get in 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:25.560 my own head and I'm like my light dims and I'm. 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:27.440 Like, oh, this sucks. 0:16:27.720 --> 0:16:31.920 But then I'm reinvigorated to burn bright when I see 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.960 others that are like you know what I do believe 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:37.880 if you're a kind person and you move ahead. 0:16:37.680 --> 0:16:40.120 With that that people will always. 0:16:39.880 --> 0:16:41.960 It'll come back around and help you when you need it, 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:45.720 and I maintain that in life. But they were awesome. 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:49.360 I had a point here, Oh I remember my point. Sorry. 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:54.200 My point was it was after that that paparazzi did 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:57.680 have our address, so they would always come by and 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:00.240 we would never know, and I my kids, I would 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:02.200 always be like, oh, I think I see a paparazzi 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:04.680 and they'd be like, Mom, you're being paranoid. Sure enough, 0:17:04.720 --> 0:17:07.640 it was a paparazzi, and you know, we had to 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:12.000 think of different ways out, and it sucks because sometimes 0:17:12.080 --> 0:17:14.520 I have to you know, i'm taking the kids. I 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:18.040 have to go alternate routes, and it takes longer because 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:20.200 I don't want them to know I'm going to my 0:17:20.280 --> 0:17:23.560 kid's doctor for this reason, and you know, private stuff 0:17:23.560 --> 0:17:25.840 that's about my kids, and my kids want the privacy. 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:31.800 So I believe that that person that took the photos 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:35.160 was probably just someone that knew our address from before 0:17:35.600 --> 0:17:38.119 and didn't know we moved and was just checking in 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:42.040 back back and forth. So when they checked in this time, 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:46.680 they were like, oh wow, I just struck gold. Literally, Yeah, 0:17:46.880 --> 0:17:47.879 I mean, I'm so sorry. 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:51.600 I had no idea that would happen. We've done this 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:52.680 a million times, it. 0:17:52.560 --> 0:17:56.359 Never became new, So it's so it's I'm so sorry 0:17:56.359 --> 0:17:57.200 that that happened. 0:17:57.200 --> 0:17:58.359 I think it's really. 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.080 Just so sad to know that that is what people 0:18:01.160 --> 0:18:04.320 want to watch on news, or that becomes news that somebody, 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:07.879 you know, replacing some burn insure can reflect negatively on 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:10.800 such a lovely person who's a beautiful mother like yourself. 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:13.960 Like I said, I I'm really sorry that that happened. 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:15.280 And I had no idea. 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:18.120 I didn't really realize that happened with the pavarazzi down 0:18:18.160 --> 0:18:18.560 the street. 0:18:18.680 --> 0:18:22.960 I was never even told about that, right, Sorry, No. 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.880 You're right, I didn't. I didn't tell you that part 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:29.680 because our neighbors handled it like they were so cool. 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:32.679 They were always checking in on us, and I felt like, 0:18:32.760 --> 0:18:34.800 you know when people say you have a neighborhood watch, 0:18:34.960 --> 0:18:39.439 I had like a neighborhood watch, just amazing humans that 0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:43.440 were like that went above and beyond to make sure. 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:46.479 So so yeah, when I when I saw you know, 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:49.760 the article and it said like neighbors are furious that 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:53.320 she threw stuff out, I was like, those neighbors are awesome, 0:18:53.800 --> 0:18:57.199 you know, they've like supported us through everything. They know 0:18:57.280 --> 0:19:01.000 the real us, And I don't know. I guess I 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:03.200 guess you get one person to say like, oh, yeah, 0:19:03.200 --> 0:19:05.399 this is not okay, and then you got a story. 0:19:05.480 --> 0:19:08.160 But yeah, so that probably was like in one day 0:19:08.200 --> 0:19:10.800 that happened, correct, Yeah, that it was put out there 0:19:10.800 --> 0:19:11.320 and picked up. 0:19:11.600 --> 0:19:13.919 It was We're really efficient company. We want to make 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:15.840 sure we don't leave things out to bother the neighbors. 0:19:15.840 --> 0:19:17.840 We always we really want to be respectful of the neighbors. 0:19:17.880 --> 0:19:20.239 So yeah, absolutely, we just had it out there for 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:22.800 like a single day. It was picked up on time. 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:26.320 And I have no idea how someone would drive by 0:19:26.400 --> 0:19:28.840 and turn that into a story. Like I said, that 0:19:28.880 --> 0:19:31.639 would reflect negatively on someone who think it's absurd. 0:19:31.680 --> 0:19:33.160 And I'm so sorry that that happened. 0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:35.840 No, I'm so sorry it happened to you because you've 0:19:35.840 --> 0:19:39.400 been so kind to us through multiple you know, temporary 0:19:39.400 --> 0:19:44.080 housing locations. And yeah, we connected right away and we 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:47.480 were both like, what is this is crazy? But yeah, 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:50.440 and in the past, I grew up in a business 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:53.920 where the old school mentality is it's a story. My 0:19:54.040 --> 0:19:56.480 dad used to say, it's a story, let it go, 0:19:57.119 --> 0:19:59.560 you know. Good press is bad press is good press? 0:19:59.600 --> 0:20:01.520 Is you know all of that. It's like, nah, some 0:20:01.680 --> 0:20:05.240 bad press is just bad press. And the next storyal 0:20:05.320 --> 0:20:08.439 Trump that no pun intended there, But the next story 0:20:08.480 --> 0:20:10.479 will come, you know, it'll replace it. 0:20:19.000 --> 0:20:19.359 Also. 0:20:19.480 --> 0:20:23.439 You know what they don't think about nowadays is you know, sorry, 0:20:23.440 --> 0:20:25.760 we were conditioned than to not say a word and 0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:28.760 just be silent, you know, be the higher, you know, 0:20:28.800 --> 0:20:31.560 bigger person and let it go. And that's the classy 0:20:31.680 --> 0:20:34.760 thing to do. Well nowadays with social media, anyone and 0:20:34.800 --> 0:20:37.399 everyone can be like, by the way, fake news, that 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:41.439 didn't happen. But my biggest concern as a mom of 0:20:41.560 --> 0:20:45.400 five and I have, you know, two teenagers, is it 0:20:45.440 --> 0:20:49.280 affects them. And you know, when the RV story came 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.160 out and it was all you know, people at school 0:20:52.200 --> 0:20:55.480 were like, is your family homeless? You know, they believe stuff. 0:20:55.480 --> 0:20:58.000 And my daughter had to explain we were quite literally 0:20:58.080 --> 0:21:00.639 like any other family. We rent in our we were 0:21:00.680 --> 0:21:03.639 on a vacation. But I was like, she shouldn't have 0:21:03.720 --> 0:21:06.960 to explain. And you know, when this story came out 0:21:06.960 --> 0:21:10.679 two days ago, this sucks for them because their friends 0:21:10.720 --> 0:21:13.400 are gonna see this and their friends are gonna be like, oh, 0:21:13.440 --> 0:21:17.520 my gosh, did your family trash a house? And it's 0:21:17.600 --> 0:21:20.439 just not cool. And I don't know where the line is. 0:21:20.480 --> 0:21:23.520 I know, I know everyone needs to make money, and 0:21:23.600 --> 0:21:26.000 everyone has a different way of making money. 0:21:26.000 --> 0:21:28.359 It's not up to us to choose, you know. 0:21:28.440 --> 0:21:30.960 If we think they're taking the higher road making money 0:21:31.080 --> 0:21:34.760 or the lower road, that's their jam. But putting out 0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:40.800 false stories is just incrediblely awful and hurtful on. 0:21:40.800 --> 0:21:43.399 A really like deep level to people. 0:21:43.600 --> 0:21:46.560 And I usually don't say anything, and I usually am like, 0:21:46.680 --> 0:21:48.400