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Speaker 2: ignore this. I'm more or less I'm more or lesson

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Speaker 3: But it all go crazy. I can hear that action.

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Speaker 2: My nigga held it horizontal. Hey, welcome to the black

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Speaker 2: guy who tells podcast. Your host Rod And by the way,

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Speaker 2: whoever wrote these lyrics, uh doesn't understandable lyrics. It says

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Speaker 2: it's I'm more or less a moral or less, but

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Speaker 3: I'm more or less twice so white folks gonna white.

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Speaker 2: Hey, guys, welcome to the Black guy to this podcast.

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Speaker 2: He finds an iTunes stitch of potomatic leave us five

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Speaker 2: star reviews. Today it's time for feedback, which means gonna

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Speaker 2: read all y'all stuff. Okay. The official weapon of the

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Speaker 4: My whole motto moving forward is white people gonna white

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Speaker 4: like move like. That's all I'm gonna say. People say cheer.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, white people gonna like and just walk on

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Speaker 4: why Because I mean, there's no explanation for some shit,

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Speaker 2: What How did we get on that? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Because you were saying white people gonna wite, and I

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Speaker 4: people are like, damn all right, white people gonna whit,

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Speaker 4: and I'm just gonna walk away. I'm not gonna explain shit.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna say white people gonna white. And that

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Speaker 2: That is a pretty twenty eighteen, twenty seventeen mantra right there.

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Speaker 4: I feel you your life will go so much easier.

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Speaker 4: I ain't arguing with you white people gonna white and

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Speaker 2: White people are gonna white. This is a this is true,

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Speaker 2: was who are the good hotels? That was our feedback

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Speaker 3: So maybe they're in the comments. Maybe people left some links.

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Speaker 2: this narrative. You know. It's like if someone said black

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Speaker 2: have falcons Steven says, Hey, Karen and rod Rod, thank

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Speaker 3: You know I don't be knowing.

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Speaker 2: The poe was should we stop saying hotels on the podcast?

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Speaker 2: That was a pretty straightforward poe. Your options were no,

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Speaker 2: So here are the results. Ninety five percent of people

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Speaker 2: shoe Baby left a comment. If you can come up

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Speaker 2: What are the rules? It's like wigger and nigga right. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: Ye, but it's the truth. We had Episode fifteen ninety one,

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Speaker 2: even if they still have all the ads. I'm doing

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Speaker 2: Like should they have not sold the company? Like where

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Speaker 2: The poe was are you ready to forgive Shaye Moisture?

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Speaker 3: What camp was you in?

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Speaker 4: I haven't bought anything from them in a long time,

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Speaker 2: But do you feel like you still have a grudge

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's a difference between you being affected and

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Speaker 4: you'll change your name and come back as something else.

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00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 4: So nobody's ever counseled.

435
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 2: Nobody's ever canceled.

436
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 3: That's all.

437
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,879
Speaker 2: That's all I'm saying. I mean, I mean, you know,

438
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 2: it's like maybe every once in a while somebody actually

439
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 2: does take a hit, But I think for the vast

440
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 2: majority of stuff that people fred over, nothing's really gonna

441
00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: happen to these people. You know, they might get a

442
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,679
Speaker 2: little uncomfortable, they might have to sacrifice something in the

443
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,679
Speaker 2: short term, but you know, like I said, Nate Parker's

444
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:30,119
Speaker 2: gonna come back one day and then it's gonna be

445
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,640
Speaker 2: all and it's gonna start spark up that whole discussion

446
00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 2: all over again. But he's gonna come back one day

447
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 2: because it's just what happens, you know, like it's inconvenient.

448
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 2: Of course he's gotta deal with it, but it just

449
00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,720
Speaker 2: no matter how egregious the thing is. You know, I've

450
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 2: seen Billkzi at a restaurant the other day. Somebody asked

451
00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,160
Speaker 2: him about me too, Like these these niggas just gonna

452
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 2: be around. They rich, they you know, like and shame

453
00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: Mush is a company. You know, if they would have

454
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: if it would have got real bad, they could have

455
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 2: just said, okay, we fall wouldn't come back as something

456
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:05,400
Speaker 2: some other name of and people people would have kept

457
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 2: it moving. Plus, if we're keeping it one thousand on this,

458
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 2: a lot of people just be talking ship.

459
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 4: Yes.

460
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 2: And if Shane Morshit would have actually went out of

461
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 2: business because of that, there's a lot of people that

462
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 2: would have been mad as fun because they're like, I

463
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 2: found the thing that worked for my hair and now

464
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: don't have it no more correct, like it ain't, you know,

465
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 2: Like there's a lot of people that had to quietly

466
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 2: slide to their aisle and by they you know, like

467
00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:33,040
Speaker 2: I feel, y'all, but they gotta sell you know, like online, maybe.

468
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,320
Speaker 4: Because they don't want nobody to see them. But the

469
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 4: people people will buy the product.

470
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 2: It's no offense to people, because I love people, but it's.

471
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 3: You know it, we're.

472
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,360
Speaker 2: We're you know, we're just not as bout it as

473
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 2: as people like to pretend. You know, if people was

474
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,960
Speaker 2: really about it like that so much, ship would be

475
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 2: out of business at this point. But you know how

476
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: to fuck the NFL still doing good and that fucking

477
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: both sides. Was mad at the NFL this year, like

478
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,000
Speaker 2: it just it is what it is, like it'll take

479
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 2: a head, it'll pass over, It'll still be fine. So

480
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 2: that's that's what I mean when I say nobody will

481
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 2: get canceled, you know Falcons. Steven says, I wonder if

482
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 2: our amc theaters I own by the same group my

483
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:18,239
Speaker 2: favorite Oh I'm sorry, this is episode fifteen ninety two

484
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:18,960
Speaker 2: present Oprah.

485
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:23,360
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh one more thing I did forget to mention.

486
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 2: The fucking uh cancel thing is really more about the

487
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:34,360
Speaker 2: people that talk like that too, not the like in general.

488
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:38,399
Speaker 2: I guess enough people could stop fucking with something or

489
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 2: someone where they really couldn't you know, make their way,

490
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 2: Like that's more of an industry thing, Like if you

491
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,320
Speaker 2: do something to upset your industry enough, maybe, you know,

492
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 2: for example, Colin Kaepernick pissed out enough of the white

493
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 2: ownership of the NFL that he may not start in

494
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 2: another NFL game for the rest of his life.

495
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 3: He'll still be around, he can still make his money.

496
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 2: He could moving to activism full time and just be

497
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:06,200
Speaker 2: that nigga from now. But the point being, like, obviously

498
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: it can happen, you know, and it normally happens to

499
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 2: the wrong people for the wrong shit, so people can

500
00:25:12,280 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 2: get canceled. But this whole like we're on the internet,

501
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: you need the hashtag cancel blank. That shit never works,

502
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 2: you know, all these motherfuckers keeps Aboama because we're just

503
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,679
Speaker 2: a tiny pool of people that be on the internet

504
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 2: all the time.

505
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 3: We're not representative of.

506
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 2: The greater picture of America. Before we get these comments

507
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:34,120
Speaker 2: about the president over episode, I was thinking about that,

508
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:37,040
Speaker 2: you know how my timeline was all in a tizzy

509
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 2: and people was arguing calling each other stupid and all

510
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 2: this dumb shit and no, we need to run some

511
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 2: real black women politicians and stuff. I'm like, absolutely, but

512
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 2: y'all don't like them niggas either. For the record, come on,

513
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:53,600
Speaker 2: you know there's people that spend their whole day just

514
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 2: being like, fuck Kamala Harris or you know, I'll never

515
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 2: vote for her, or fuck uh shit. Even Joy Reed

516
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 2: got haters on Twitter and shit. It's just but it's

517
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 2: not real. Those people, for the most part, have no

518
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 2: actual real impact on the world.

519
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 3: It's beyond that keyboards. And that's no offense to them, but.

520
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 2: It's the truth.

521
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 3: They exist, but they not.

522
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 2: Their numbers seem bigger when you're on the Internet, and

523
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: I think if you walked into the average person's house

524
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,000
Speaker 2: and brought up Oprah's name and run it for office,

525
00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 2: the average person would be like, yeah, why not?

526
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 3: Why can't she run?

527
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 2: Right?

528
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 4: And then that's the end of it, because you thought

529
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 4: process goes.

530
00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:36,400
Speaker 2: People keep saying like qualifications, y'all know, the qualifications are

531
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 2: just what the fucking qualifications are? When you say someone's

532
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:42,199
Speaker 2: not qualified for office, what you really are saying is

533
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,639
Speaker 2: I don't think they'd be good at it. But to

534
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 2: actually be qualified to run for president, she meets all

535
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 2: the criteria, Yes she does, she can run. It used

536
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,160
Speaker 2: to be a time when our society would look at that,

537
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,120
Speaker 2: laugh at that and walk away like that's crazy. Why

538
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,640
Speaker 2: did that celebrity think they could do that. I think

539
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,160
Speaker 2: that ship has sled. Maybe I'll be proven wrong. Maybe

540
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 2: we'll find out Trump was a one off and we're

541
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 2: going back to uh to, We're going back to people

542
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: that have storied histories and experience.

543
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,840
Speaker 4: No, we're never going back. He kicked that wide open,

544
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 4: and everybody's like, if this fucking idiot can do it,

545
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 4: why can't I.

546
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,439
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know, you know, I don't know the future.

547
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,639
Speaker 2: This is just how I feel, right So maybe we this,

548
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: you know, maybe we'll go back to we only want

549
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 2: studios politicians that have track records and stuff.

550
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 3: I don't think that's a bad thing. I'd love to

551
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 3: see that.

552
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 2: So if people disagree and that's how they feel, cool,

553
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 2: I hope you're right, you know. But one of the

554
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: things I was thinking about is just how it's not

555
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 2: she meets the qualifications to run for office. The American

556
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 2: people are the problem. Y'all are really scared of the

557
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 2: American people. You're scared that the American people are too

558
00:27:56,400 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 2: fucking stupid to vote in this beyond the popularity contest,

559
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 2: and you're absolutely right to be scared. You know, it

560
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: should scare you that Oprah can make a great speech

561
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 2: and then run for president if she feels like it.

562
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 3: You know, it should be kind of scary that.

563
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:15,200
Speaker 2: That's the qualification for a lot of people, is she's

564
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 2: not eating paste on stage, so let's vote for it.

565
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: That should be that should be scary to a lot

566
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:25,239
Speaker 2: of people. I'm not gonna demean Oprah really, because I

567
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:32,880
Speaker 2: think she's She's a savvy, self made billionaire who I'm

568
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 2: sure is capable of a lot of shit that many

569
00:28:35,119 --> 00:28:37,880
Speaker 2: people told her she couldn't do. So I don't really

570
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,719
Speaker 2: have anything that makes me want to be like, let

571
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 2: me tear her ass down.

572
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 3: I really don't care.

573
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 2: But I do find it kind of I think if

574
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 2: people would be honest with themselves, they're more scared of

575
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 2: the American populace being lolled to.

576
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 3: The voting booth simply.

577
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 2: By I like this person, you know, and that's a

578
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 2: scary thing. But you know, in much of the ways,

579
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 2: what did they say Obama's no more attraction was in

580
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 2: two thousand and eight. He's a celebrity president. He's a

581
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 2: celebrity he's a celebrity. People use that to knock him.

582
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 2: Now we're like, we have an actual celebrity reality TV

583
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 2: show president. Like, you know, I don't know for a

584
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 2: fact what it's gonna take to knock this nig office pedestal.

585
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: If it's Oprah, then it's Oprah. But I don't think

586
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 2: it's I don't think we're even close to that being

587
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 2: the case. And I think it behooves us to take

588
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: a step back and not be at each other strokes

589
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 2: about it because it ain't really a problem yet. You know,

590
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 2: when she starts literally fielding some like some actual like

591
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: campaign staff and stuff, I'll start I'll be like, Okay,

592
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 2: what are her stances, what is she running on? What

593
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 2: is her track record, you know beyond just giving this speech.

594
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 2: And I think everyone's gonna do that. But as of

595
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 2: right now, it just felt like a reason to like

596
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: shit on Oprah for because white people said she should

597
00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: run and even though she didn't say a word about that,

598
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 2: so correct falcons steven says, I wonder if i AMC

599
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 2: theaters are owned by the same group. My favorite teacher

600
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 2: was the last AMC. My favorite theater was the last

601
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 2: AMC to put black pancy tickets on sale. The same

602
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 2: is true with Proud Mary Man. Proud Mary didn't even

603
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 2: have enough Thursday showings in my city, Nope.

604
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 4: And I was telling rondjercy'all was hearing people complaining about

605
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 4: how they're actually some theater's actually had Thursday night showings

606
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:33,239
Speaker 4: and like they were stripping them, like up to an

607
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 4: hour prior to the movie they were stripping them. People

608
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 4: were showing up and basically not being able to see

609
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 4: the movie, and the theater was like, hey, the people

610
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,479
Speaker 4: who you know put out the movie was like, we

611
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 4: can't air and they were like, you can wait till

612
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 4: midnight to see it, which is technically Friday, you know,

613
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 4: to see the movie. So I'm very I don't know

614
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,280
Speaker 4: what the fuck about this movie. You know how many

615
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 4: shitty ass white movies and other genre movies and nobody

616
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 4: gives a fuck about did y'all probably end up spending

617
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 4: more money on advertising and the coast the movie itself

618
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 4: and a lot of them. You don't make no money.

619
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 4: You go into the negative promoting these movies and they're

620
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 4: fucking everywhere. And me and Roger guard a exception to

621
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:11,080
Speaker 4: the rules because me and Rodgers are like so many movies.

622
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 4: We've probably seen more previews for Black for prow Mary

623
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 4: than most the average person. A lot of people didn't

624
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 4: see it, probably because of what they watch and stuff

625
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 4: like that. Certain challenge. You just didn't see it in

626
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 4: certain areas and and shit like that. So you know,

627
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 4: I can understand a lot of people going with the

628
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 4: fuck I didn't know this movie was out. Nobody told

629
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 4: me this movie was out there. When there's it come

630
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 4: out because they haven't been properly promoting it. So it

631
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 4: frustrates me when it comes to this because they'll be

632
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 4: the same people two things that gonna happen, they'll be

633
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 4: the same people go well, didn't do well. Motherfucker didn't

634
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 4: promote it like I like, like on Twitter, they got

635
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 4: them promotions, but the average person is not on Twitter.

636
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:47,960
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like, put it somewhere where

637
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 4: people are actually gonna see this, see it or if

638
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 4: it does quote unquote making money, everybody's gonna be fucking

639
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 4: shocked and surprised.

640
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 3: It ain't gonna make his money.

641
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 4: I mean, this particular movie is not gonna make it money.

642
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 2: They wouldn't even due pressed arounds for it. And also

643
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 2: it's I mean, to be honest, it's probably not gonna

644
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: be very good, you know, just just quality wise, Like,

645
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: but because more about the genre of this, this genre

646
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 2: and the January release date pretty much means your movie

647
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 2: ain't that good, right, So I'm not even going to

648
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 2: see it on some like because I expected to blow

649
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 2: me away. It's just more like it's my favorite genre's impossible,

650
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: white man, it's Taraji p Henson, one of my favorite actresses.

651
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: She gonna be fucking killing niggas and shit, I'm gonna

652
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 2: be hype cause she black.

653
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 3: And I'm gonna leave it at that. Like, I don't really.

654
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: Want to get into the critical analysis of it. Sometimes

655
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 2: I just want to have fun the same way I

656
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: go see madea Halloween like right. So, but one of

657
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 2: the things I think is weird is that they're them

658
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 2: me thinking the movie will be bad and the fucking

659
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: studio acting like it's a fourgone conclusion are two different things.

660
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 2: You play the hand you're dell promote your movie. They

661
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 2: didn't screen this movie, they didn't even So that means

662
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: when interviewers who are critics are doing press tours for her,

663
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,479
Speaker 2: doing press junkets for her, they can't even ask her

664
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: details of the movie because they didn't get to see it.

665
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know how much press she got

666
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 2: to do. I don't know if she was on late

667
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 2: night shows or anything for this movie. I don't, you know,

668
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 2: it feels very weird what they're doing. You know, no

669
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 2: Thursday night release, that's obligatory at this point. Everybody get

670
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 2: a seven o'clock, ten o'clock thing on set on Thursday

671
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 2: night these days to get ahead of the sales, you know,

672
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: kind of gauge what you're looking at. You know. It's

673
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: just really weird. So Proud Mary is a little bit

674
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 2: different than Black Panther because I think Black Panther they knew, like,

675
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,400
Speaker 2: these tickets gonna fucking sell out soon as we put

676
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,239
Speaker 2: them up, and AMC for some reason was bullshitting at

677
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 2: certain locations. But Proud Mary, they just did that all

678
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: over the place. I went to bed Monday night. Black

679
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 2: Panther tickets went on sale, walk up Tuesday morning. Tickets

680
00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: for Thursday and Friday were practically sold out. I'm not

681
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 2: going until Sunday morning, so I'll be on social media fast,

682
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:09,319
Speaker 2: on social media fast all weekend. And friends, a friend

683
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 2: did invite me to go see it at her theater.

684
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: But I'm a bona fid theater snob. I need reserved

685
00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 2: and reclining me.

686
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 4: Come. I'm like that, Like I was like, y'all seas

687
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 4: don't recline it. And I can't reserve my seats. I

688
00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 4: don't go because I want to be able to walk

689
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 4: in there any time I want to. And if somebody

690
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 4: sitting in my seat, better usher, usher, come get them

691
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 4: out there at my seat. Yeah, I can't Goamn snobbish,

692
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 4: I can't go back.

693
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 3: The only thing better be if.

694
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:39,720
Speaker 2: They serve me food.

695
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 4: Come on, some ofm do.

696
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but not that one. Not that one. Sunshine eighty

697
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 2: one says, I swear to goodness. Oprah speech highlights why

698
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 2: she's so good at her job. I was so inspired

699
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 2: by her speech. I really need people to start with

700
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: the idea, the serious idea I should say that Oprah

701
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: Hanks twenty twenty should happened. Yep, I'm claiming Tom Hanks

702
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 2: as her job by I let Oprah e heal Fomac

703
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 2: and she's a check for Gel's ash in piece. Yeah,

704
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm more upset with the idea of people

705
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 2: trying to push it on to her as like you

706
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 2: have to save us for ourselves. Y'all did this, you know,

707
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 2: and I do recognize the hypocrisy of we were like

708
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 2: a famous household name billionaire black women to quote unquote

709
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:33,560
Speaker 2: save us from Trump. But y'all wouldn't dare like y'all

710
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 2: systematically destroy any black woman that is a national politic,

711
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 2: political figure and that you feel could rival Bernie. So

712
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 2: on the left, it's you know, Nina Turner, better stay

713
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 2: in her place. Fucking Kamala Harris, better stay in Helene,

714
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 2: Samon Sanders, better stay in Helene. And anytime one of

715
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 2: them voice anything that makes it sound like they could

716
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: be presidential or gearing up for or run for president,

717
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 2: you immediately see the press cities on these motherfuckers, like,

718
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 2: uh uh, let me tell you what Kamala Harris did

719
00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 2: a long time ago. Let me tell you why some

720
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 2: mom saying this ain't shit, need to turn that ain't

721
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 2: nothing but just this and this, And it's like, wait

722
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,959
Speaker 2: a minute, seems like y'all just want Bernie to run, right,

723
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 2: and black women be damn But then when the polls

724
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 2: come in, y'all black women saved us. Listen to black women, Oh,

725
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 2: black women, lead, get.

726
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 3: Behind them and all this shit, and it's like, nah.

727
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 4: You don't mean it. And then you know when Bernie

728
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 4: ignores the South like he did last time, and that's

729
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,280
Speaker 4: if he makes it this you know, if he runs,

730
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 4: and then if he makes it as far as he

731
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 4: did last time, people just assuming that he's gonna automatically

732
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 4: make it to the end of the race. We don't

733
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 4: know this people.

734
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:48,560
Speaker 2: I'm not even I'm not even trying to reliitigate whether

735
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: how Bernie ran in this campaign. I'm talking about how

736
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 2: the fuck we treat Black women that are potential quote

737
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 2: unquote threats.

738
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 3: Correct.

739
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 2: Now, we don't treat them like we people talk we

740
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 2: I'm not part of this week. People talk like that's

741
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 2: what they want, but they don't act like that's what

742
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 2: they want. Correct That's my point. You know, they don't

743
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 2: look at Kamala Harris at to lead. They look and

744
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:18,919
Speaker 2: they look at like a Oprah. They look at black

745
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 2: women voters as save us, say do you're doing this

746
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: work for us?

747
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 3: That's not what the fuck is happening.

748
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 2: Black women are voting to save themselves and the people

749
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 2: they care about and the issues they care about.

750
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 3: This is now never in that equation is it.

751
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 2: Let me. I'm gonna go to the voting booth because

752
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 2: I need to save these white people. No, I'm going

753
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: to the voting booth because the things that you in

754
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 2: that affect me, and that is the ultimate truth. And

755
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 2: they don't want to line up with that, Like they

756
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: don't actually want to line up and hear like, oh

757
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:58,919
Speaker 2: you know what, Uh, Kamala Harris is running and she's

758
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 2: our leader, and we have to listen to her and

759
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 2: we have to let her lead the way that we've

760
00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 2: been saying black women should.

761
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:06,879
Speaker 3: They don't want to hear that. Oh, Nina Turner, We're

762
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 3: gonna just listen to her.

763
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 2: We're gonna let her lead. We're just gonna put that's

764
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 2: not what they vision. What they vision is the same

765
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 2: thing that they vision with Obama, which is we fucking

766
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: litigate to you what you need to do, we demand,

767
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 2: and then you take your black ass out there and

768
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,359
Speaker 2: do it and it doesn't and then we don't do

769
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 2: anything else.

770
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 3: We don't go to the voting booth.

771
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 2: Again, we don't rally, we don't support, we don't fight

772
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 2: for these causes. We all we do is tell your

773
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 2: ass to do it, and that's it. And I do understand,

774
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 2: and it's a problem, and I understand that the optics

775
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: of that shit is gonna be real fucked up.

776
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 3: I just I don't.

777
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 2: I think partially because of just the way I think

778
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: in scenarios and you know what's most likely and how

779
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 2: people are gonna.

780
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 3: Feel and all that shit. I feel like, even if it.

781
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: Was Oprah, the vast majority of Black women will still

782
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 2: line up and vote for her. She runs as a

783
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 2: DEM and most people that are most Black women for sure,

784
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 2: and hopefully most Black men are gonna definitely feel a

785
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 2: fucking way when they pull the claws out on Oprah.

786
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:15,360
Speaker 2: Like it's easy to sit up here now without conceiving

787
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,839
Speaker 2: it and be like, don't run this, that and the other.

788
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 2: When white people start going in on her, it's gonna

789
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 2: be a lot of us that feel differently about that shit,

790
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 2: because it's one thing for us to say it in

791
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 2: our community, like come on, op you tripping. It's another

792
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:30,880
Speaker 2: one that's gonna be fucking the Washington Post or fucking

793
00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 2: Fox News talking about her hair and her weight loss

794
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 2: and her you know, being sexually assaulted a long time ago.

795
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 2: They're gonna bring up everything that we feel is off

796
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: limits and fucked up, and then we will feel differently

797
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 2: because that's the human being part of us that we'll

798
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 2: rally to somebody that goes, look, they might not be perfect,

799
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: but what's not gonna happen is y'all gonna be fucking

800
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 2: with them, and the nuance will be lost in that

801
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 2: space because that's the actual space that humanity will occupy

802
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: if she decid to run. I just don't think it'll

803
00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,359
Speaker 2: get to that. So I'm not fighting about that as

804
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: of right now, but a lot of people will change

805
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 2: tune if it's you know, people trying to mammy out

806
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 2: Oprah and shit. In three years, it ain't gonna be

807
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 2: a whole lot of she's not qualified and she need

808
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 2: to go. It's gonna be a lot of like, who

809
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,360
Speaker 2: the fuck are you to say she's not qualified? You

810
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: niggas elected Trump? You know that's where it's gonna come

811
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 2: down to. And sometimes I feel like I get to

812
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 2: that place before other people. So I'm just like, Okay,

813
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 2: let me know when y'all catch up, because right now

814
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 2: we're still on the like, she shouldn't run, she's not qualified,

815
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 2: what about these other candidates things? That's cool, and that's

816
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 2: a great point, and maybe we won't never get there.

817
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 2: I hope we kind of never do. But if we do,

818
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 2: y'all niggas are going to flip the one hundred percent

819
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 2: of other way because y'all not gonna want to agree

820
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:47,120
Speaker 2: with these racist ass white people.

821
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 3: That's just the truth of it.

822
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,959
Speaker 2: Who knows. Can you imagine debate between her and Trump

823
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: and the things he would say to her, and y'all

824
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 2: really could just play the fence. I don't think so, man,

825
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 2: So yeah, but I hope it doesn't come to that.

826
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 2: Like this is not a diss at her. I just

827
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 2: I just feel like we have candidates that have a

828
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: political background and I hope that they are encouraged to

829
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 2: run and pessimistically, ultimately, sadly, I still think this country

830
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 2: would not vote for a black woman.

831
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:22,959
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.

832
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 2: So like, I hope I'm wrong, But if they wouldn't

833
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 2: vote for one of their own and Hillary Clinton, I

834
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know how any black woman you

835
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 2: pick could beat Trump, any of them, at least not.

836
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 2: White people need to fix this their selves before we

837
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 2: can have a true democracy where we elect the best

838
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 2: candidate and it can be a black.

839
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 4: Woman, right, because this is their problem. That's he is

840
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 4: not our problem to fix.

841
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 2: She would have to whoever the black woman is, if she,

842
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,160
Speaker 2: she would have to be. She just don't have to

843
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 2: be fucking flawless for most people. Because if if you

844
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: think the ship people were knocking Hillary for was sometimes patty,

845
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: it's gonna be even super petty, what like Kamala Harris

846
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: or Samon Sanders or Nina Turner or somebody, It's gonna

847
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: be even more petty. That's how that shit works. Like,

848
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 2: because white people will not they were protective of Hillary

849
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 2: to a certain extent, they will not be as protective

850
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 2: as a black woman. And in a lot of cases

851
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: they will be downright fucking ingrakees about it, like oh yeah.

852
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 4: They will bring up everything about her, her family members,

853
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 4: her friends, anybody associated with her or connected to her.

854
00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 2: Imagine fashion. Think about how liberal people even talk about

855
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 2: Michelle Obama.

856
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 3: We don't like that shit, you know what I mean?

857
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 2: When we hear liberal white people talk about Michelle even,

858
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,400
Speaker 2: we be like, hey, man, what the fuck like?

859
00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 3: I don't know if you're seeing.

860
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: Her the way we're seeing her, they're not, you know

861
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 2: what I mean, I don't know if it'll connect to

862
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 2: you the way that it connects to us to see

863
00:42:56,239 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 2: that family occupying that space, Like, yeah, it's it's some

864
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,400
Speaker 2: definitely some nuance there, some conflicting emotions there, but ultimately

865
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 2: it does and the signal of achievement and progress symbolically

866
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 2: for a lot of people.

867
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 3: And you can't erase that. But I still remember after.

868
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: Obama one the most liberal white people turning on him immediately,

869
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 2: like Michael Moore and you know, even like even like

870
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 2: the Cornell Weston Tavis Smiley, like there was a lot

871
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 2: of like, now, get to work, nigga, Like we fucking

872
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 2: elected you.

873
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 3: We didn't actually listen to your platform.

874
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 2: We don't care what you ran on, right, just do

875
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 2: what the fuck we want you to do because we decided.

876
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 2: And it was like, oh, y'all just think he's like

877
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: y'all slave, because right, And that's just not how that works.

878
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 2: You have to listen to what you voted for, you know.

879
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 2: And I think, like I said, the Hillary thing is

880
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 2: the Hillary thing said a lot to me about this country,

881
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 2: not because I thought she was so awesome, but literally

882
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:03,399
Speaker 2: because that's the kind of white woman that a lot

883
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:07,439
Speaker 2: of white liberals claim they want. But when the rubber

884
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 2: meets the road. That ain't what they want, you know

885
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 2: what I mean. And she was a great candidate in

886
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 2: my opinion. She still got fifty three million votes, like

887
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:18,160
Speaker 2: it is only second to Obama. Ever, like still won

888
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 2: the popular vote. Like I didn't find like the revisionist

889
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 2: history on this is like she got blown out in

890
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 2: the landslide or what a terrible choice she was. That's

891
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 2: that's actually kind of bullshit. And and for a lot

892
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 2: of reasons, people have agendas to make it seem like

893
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,720
Speaker 2: that's what happened, but that's not that's not the truth

894
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 2: of the matter. But if she couldn't get elected and

895
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 2: no one's doing anything about voter suppression, I don't know

896
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 2: how you're gonna get a black woman elected. You know,

897
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: Like the fight need to be from the ground up,

898
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 2: like voter suppression need to be fought. The party the

899
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: split quote unquote and the party between like the super

900
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 2: liberal people and the and the the part hardcore Democrats.

901
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,800
Speaker 2: That shit needs to be far and result and resolved

902
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 2: in some kind of priests or broker Like some truths

903
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 2: has to be put there. There's a lot of work

904
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 2: that has to be put in before you even get

905
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 2: to whether the fuck Oprah can run or not, you know, correct.

906
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 2: And one of the shortcuts to this that people don't

907
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 2: want to hear. That's scary is that a celebrity might

908
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 2: be able to do all that shit, because then people

909
00:45:23,280 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 2: just go back to being stupid and being like, I'm

910
00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 2: voting for the popular choice and it's fun because in

911
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 2: a large part that's what happened with Obama and Oat.

912
00:45:30,600 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 2: It got to be fun, got to be popular. Young

913
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 2: people got to come out, Oh I placed some first

914
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 2: voters for a black man, you know, like it was

915
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 2: an equality to it that it wasn't. All of us

916
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,959
Speaker 2: knew at the time, like, well, this isn't really real,

917
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,360
Speaker 2: This isn't this doesn't jib with the history of our country.

918
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:49,719
Speaker 2: But people got so wrapped up in the fear of like,

919
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 2: I'm voting for a black guy, and you know, white,

920
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 2: even racist white people, I'm voting for a black guy.

921
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: They still bring it up now now they vote for

922
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 2: Trump and they still like, but I voted for Obama, and.

923
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 3: Like that just mean you was a racist.

924
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 2: Twice one of those votes made you feel like you

925
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 2: acquitted racism, and the other one fucking doubled down on it.

926
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 2: Like how do you reconcile those choices? So anyway, that's

927
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:13,439
Speaker 2: what I think about, and we'll see what happens are Oprah.

928
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 2: But I'm just not fighting no niggas over this right now.

929
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: It's the way too early. It's way too early. You know,

930
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 2: have your hot take, be strong minded all this shit.

931
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:26,160
Speaker 2: But I will join you niggas in three years and

932
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 2: we can fight about it then. Cause good God, even

933
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:33,240
Speaker 2: he says I don't want open to run for president.

934
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 2: I spent eight years watching people ted a Michelle Obama.

935
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 2: I don't want to spend another eight watching him do

936
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,799
Speaker 2: that to Oprah. Yeah, that's like I said, if she

937
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,000
Speaker 2: decides to run, that's something that people gonna really have

938
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 2: to find a way to reconcile.

939
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:46,760
Speaker 3: Anyway, I made.

940
00:46:46,640 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 2: The pos sympl because I legitimately think it should be

941
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: this simple, And every other conversation we're having is kind

942
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 2: of just superfluous. If Oprah verse, if it was Oprah

943
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 2: versus Trump in twenty twenty, who would you vote for?

944
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 2: Third party or not voting Trump or Oprah? Ninety percent

945
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 2: of our audience says Oprah, two percent say third party.

946
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:13,440
Speaker 2: Nobody says Trump. That's the only fucking thing that matters.

947
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 4: I'm sorry to be that for all this nuance and

948
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 4: everybody trying to be it don't matter. And that's if

949
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 4: we even get there, and as if she's even running right.

950
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 2: And and and I mean I could have put The

951
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 2: point I really want to make is I could have

952
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,040
Speaker 2: put just about anybody's hame in there. That's the point

953
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 2: I'm making. So if she finds a way to beat

954
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 2: all the fucking preliminary opponents and all the fucking people

955
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 2: into primaries and all this shit and make somehow it's

956
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,440
Speaker 2: just her versus Trump at the end, she will have

957
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 2: been vetted as much as she could be vetted to

958
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: get to that point. So it's either that or Trump.

959
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 2: And I'm not going Trump ever, so and I'm not

960
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,880
Speaker 2: gonna throw my vote away and I'm not not voting.

961
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,680
Speaker 2: So these are my beliefs. You don't have to share them.

962
00:47:56,120 --> 00:47:59,240
Speaker 2: But obviously a lot of us will vote for Oprah

963
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:05,360
Speaker 2: before fucking letting Trump have four more years anyway, Episode

964
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 2: fifteen ninety three, Honkys and Masters even he says, my

965
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 2: brother's biggest issue with H and M scandal is that

966
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 2: the little boy's mother doesn't see a damn thing wrong.

967
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 2: With it. Either she's willfully ignorant or just doesn't care

968
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 2: because the check was involved. Not all money is good money.

969
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: I so they interviewed the mom.

970
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 4: Is that that's what I'm hearing, And they were saying that.

971
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 4: She was like, well, she don't understand what the big

972
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 4: issue is.

973
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 2: Hmmm.

974
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 4: I ain't reading nothing, but I know it's been going

975
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 4: up and down my Facebook.

976
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm googling it now. I'll say this much, man, Okay,

977
00:48:43,600 --> 00:48:45,479
Speaker 2: let me see. Let me just see her comments before

978
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:48,240
Speaker 2: I say anything, because I don't really want to jump

979
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:53,040
Speaker 2: into this one in form Uh, she says critics crying

980
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: wolf tells them to get over it. Oh, this is

981
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 2: on Fox News. Let me find out better site. Yes,

982
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 2: not saying she didn't say that, but let me find

983
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 2: a better source. Can't be can't be with the Fox News. Okay,

984
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 2: I don't know if there's much better on trying New

985
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: York posts. I think first of all, her wig is

986
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 2: not too tight. That's not a good sign. It's never

987
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 2: a good signed when the wig ain't popping. Anyway, she says,

988
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 2: uh that people calling it racial intensive need to get

989
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,760
Speaker 2: over it. In the series of since the leaded Facebook posts,

990
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:45,399
Speaker 2: them and Terry Mango Stockholm, Sweden of Sweden Guys said

991
00:49:45,440 --> 00:49:47,399
Speaker 2: she didn't support the backlash over the ad, which even

992
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 2: prompted the weekend in his partnership am the mom and

993
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:52,439
Speaker 2: this is one of the hundreds of outfits my son,

994
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 2: this model stopped crying wolf all the time. Unnecessary issue,

995
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:59,279
Speaker 2: get over it and another message. She said she had

996
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 2: been to all of her son's mileing shoes and was

997
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 2: with him when he modeled the hoodie in question. Everyone's

998
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 2: entitled to the opinion about this, She wrote, I really

999
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:11,400
Speaker 2: don't understand but now, but that because I'm choosing not to,

1000
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 2: but because it's not my way of thinking. Sorry. Yeah,

1001
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 2: she not from here, so that's a big part of this.

1002
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 4: Correct. I did not didn't know that, But that makes

1003
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 4: sense for her opinion to be like that. But people

1004
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 4: aren't from the culture. They don't understand not saying that outrage.

1005
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, not saying that.

1006
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 2: Monkey shit isn't universal though, because it's a lot of

1007
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 2: countries when they see black people, they don't have a

1008
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:40,120
Speaker 2: tell like yeah like they I mean, they still got

1009
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: like in the football games, we cover stories all the time.

1010
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 2: I'm throwing but there as the black people and shit

1011
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:49,840
Speaker 2: so I'm not saying she don't understand, but simply because like,

1012
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 2: you have to be American to understand that. I just

1013
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: think literally, some black people don't understand, like if she

1014
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 2: ain't really from here, so like the backlash part of

1015
00:50:57,719 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 2: it with being mostly American like the Weekend and Lebron James,

1016
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 2: she don't understand that part of it.

1017
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 3: I'm sure because she ain't from here.

1018
00:51:06,280 --> 00:51:09,759
Speaker 2: So I like, obviously this ad probably aired a few

1019
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 2: a few places, and if the backlash is mostly coming

1020
00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 2: from niggas in America, she's probably like, what the fuck

1021
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 2: y'all I'm mad about?

1022
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 3: But yeah, she don't gotta understand.

1023
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,399
Speaker 2: You know. This is one of the reasons that I don't.

1024
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,240
Speaker 2: I don't and honestly, I'm not mad at this boy's mama.

1025
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 2: I'm not even I swear to God, I'm not mad

1026
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:29,640
Speaker 2: at this woman. I have no fucking problem with this woman.

1027
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 2: I like, if if you want to be one of

1028
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 2: those black people that chooses not to see this kind

1029
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 2: of shit, or you really just don't think this way,

1030
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 2: more fucking power to you.

1031
00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 3: Okay.

1032
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 2: I hope you eat watermelon in front of people and

1033
00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 2: chicken and you feel fine. That's that a lot of

1034
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 2: this shit that we feel fucked up about is not

1035
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,799
Speaker 2: our fault, and we gotta stop making it each other's fault.

1036
00:51:48,880 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 2: It is not her fucking fault that white people think

1037
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 2: we're monkeys and shit.

1038
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:54,400
Speaker 3: That is racism. That is fucked up.

1039
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 2: If she ain't grow up with that, or she just

1040
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,520
Speaker 2: doesn't think like that, or it didn't cross her mind

1041
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,880
Speaker 2: when she saw her son in that, I'm not gonna

1042
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 2: blame her for that. What I will say is H

1043
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:08,399
Speaker 2: and them is a big ass fucking corporation, and their

1044
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: entire job is to present their clothing in a manner

1045
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:15,280
Speaker 2: that would not be offensive to people. Somebody there should

1046
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 2: have caught it. I don't care that she didn't catch it.

1047
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:21,560
Speaker 2: She's one individual that you know. People I'm sure are

1048
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 2: extrapolating about her son and all this type of Listen.

1049
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 2: I'm just saying someone should have caught it. That's it.

1050
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 2: You know, if it's Halloween and you let your kid

1051
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:32,879
Speaker 2: dress up like a monkey, I would not be mad

1052
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,839
Speaker 2: at your black ass. That's just your child shouldn't even

1053
00:52:35,920 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 2: have to have that fucking hang up. Honestly, it's fucked

1054
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 2: up that we have to be that way, you know,

1055
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 2: it's out of protection for ourselves.

1056
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 3: But it's fuck, it's not right.

1057
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 2: You know, a little kid, little white kid us to

1058
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 2: go called be a monkey, and it's and it's just

1059
00:52:50,480 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 2: there's never an association towards taking his like his lesser humanity.

1060
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 2: You know, we're just like, oh, that little kid, we

1061
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 2: call it. Look, oh he's just a little monkey swinging around.

1062
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:03,399
Speaker 2: You know. I've seen white people that literally didn't even

1063
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,319
Speaker 2: think about that shit referring to like a white kid

1064
00:53:06,360 --> 00:53:08,879
Speaker 2: as monkey or something. But if they would have said

1065
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:10,719
Speaker 2: that shit about black kad, I would have been I

1066
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 2: would have noticed. It's just it's the way I'm built.

1067
00:53:13,160 --> 00:53:15,720
Speaker 2: Like I said, it's not really right. But I definitely

1068
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 2: would have been, like, now, would you have said that

1069
00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:19,640
Speaker 2: about white kid? And what's fucked up is if they

1070
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: would have, I still wouldn't.

1071
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 4: Believe them correct.

1072
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:24,720
Speaker 2: That's just how fucked up racism is. It is fucked

1073
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 2: up our relationships where I can't trust you even if

1074
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 2: you could be my friend, and I still feel like

1075
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:34,720
Speaker 2: I can't really can I really, I don't know. Maybe

1076
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 2: you would have I don't know, so like anyway, I

1077
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 2: don't have any zeal to blame her, but h and

1078
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,680
Speaker 2: them should have caught it regardless, you know, and the

1079
00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 2: people that are like, I blame the mom. I mean,

1080
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 2: I guess if you feel that way.

1081
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 4: But because if they sell product to everybody, you want

1082
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 4: all the dollars.

1083
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 2: And if he put and let's say he tried on

1084
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 2: fifty shirts that day, because you know these modelin shoes.

1085
00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 2: I can see her being like, I didn't catch that,

1086
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 2: Like he fucking fed on fifty fucking shirts, right, They

1087
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 2: took photos, only one of them had that shit on it,

1088
00:54:05,360 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 2: and I wasn't paying ten. I was looking at my phone.

1089
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 2: I don't know what the fuck happened, Like that's the

1090
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 2: one they picked today? Why didn't they just put another

1091
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 2: picture out then? Then this one? He had fifty other

1092
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 2: pictures to pick from and they picked this one. Like

1093
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 2: I get it, but uh yeah, I just don't blame her.

1094
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry not to join y'all. Y'all's anger really dark.

1095
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 2: Knight said, So people out here getting shot because they

1096
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,439
Speaker 2: wouldn't say, have birthday to someone who isn't the guest

1097
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 2: to honor.

1098
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,160
Speaker 3: And you wonder why we interverts don't want to be

1099
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:31,879
Speaker 3: bothered with your.

1100
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 2: Little get togethers. Man, Listen, come on really dark knight,

1101
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,879
Speaker 2: cell that truth, shame that devil. That's why I don't

1102
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 2: go out. Y'all niggas be shooting?

1103
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 4: Uh?

1104
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:43,360
Speaker 2: Should they have? Should they have just sang the birthday?

1105
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:44,000
Speaker 2: Post song?

1106
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 3: Was the post?

1107
00:54:44,520 --> 00:54:47,360
Speaker 2: Should they just sang the birthday song? Yes? Just so

1108
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:51,279
Speaker 2: they wouldn't get shot? No, it's not her party, consequences

1109
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 2: be damn and yes because it's the right thing to do.

1110
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 2: That's about a story where a dude said he went

1111
00:54:59,040 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 2: to someone's birthday and his girlfriend it was her birthday too,

1112
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 2: and he tried to make the people at the party

1113
00:55:05,320 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 2: sing hap birthday to her as well, and they refused,

1114
00:55:08,040 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 2: so he left the party, came back at twenty minutes later,

1115
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:10,880
Speaker 2: shot up everybody.

1116
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 3: Yes, just so they wouldn't get shot. Fifty percent.

1117
00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 2: That is so low.

1118
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 3: That is so low.

1119
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 2: Only fifty percent of y'all will sing a happy birthday

1120
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 2: song to the other woman, knowing that you won't get shot,

1121
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 2: Like this will keep me even getting shot. Only half

1122
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:29,720
Speaker 2: our audience would be like, I ain't risking no bullets.

1123
00:55:29,800 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 2: Let me sing this song.

1124
00:55:31,480 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 4: Because it ain't that goddamn important.

1125
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:36,760
Speaker 2: Forty five percent of y'all will say, no, I won't

1126
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 2: sing the song.

1127
00:55:38,200 --> 00:55:41,120
Speaker 3: Consequences be damn. I will take my chance of these bullets.

1128
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 3: Forty five percent.

1129
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 2: It's almost fifty fifty, y'all, and five percent said yes,

1130
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 2: they sing it just because it's.

1131
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:48,359
Speaker 3: The right thing to do.

1132
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 2: You guys are sweethearts. Okay, I'm with y'all five percent.

1133
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 2: By the way, I don't care. Hey, if it was

1134
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 2: my birthday party and Nicks soone showed up and it

1135
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 2: was day birthday too, I'll be like, let's sing it again, right,

1136
00:55:59,520 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 2: happy birth.

1137
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 3: It wouldn't bother me, not at all.

1138
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 2: But I understand that I am a very kind human

1139
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 2: being that people write items of views and say they

1140
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 2: disagree with my views. Okay, I understand that I have

1141
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 2: a heart for the people that many of y'all don't. Okay,

1142
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 2: But I would have sang the damn song then if

1143
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,480
Speaker 2: I didn't fall into that category, I definitely would have

1144
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:24,000
Speaker 2: sang it on that don't shoot me category, come on,

1145
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 2: which only got fifty percent of the vote.

1146
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 4: Don't shoot me.

1147
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 2: Boy, y'all crazy, y'all crazy, I'm not getting shot for

1148
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 2: to make no fucking point anyway, last episode at that point, anyway, right,

1149
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,960
Speaker 2: you can't make over my dead party.

1150
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 4: If I'm gonna get shot for some it's gonna be

1151
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:42,280
Speaker 4: with a calls and a purpose.

1152
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 2: Baby, Happy birthday. Don't let to me by my back,

1153
00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: nobody but me right, fuck everybody, Episode fifteen ninety four,

1154
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,520
Speaker 2: Lina done them photo bomb. We had a couple of comments.

1155
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 2: Sunshine eighty one says, Lina done them is trash. It

1156
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,800
Speaker 2: will always be trash. I'm glad that Testa said, yeah,

1157
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 2: she did no work. She did walk it back in

1158
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:06,919
Speaker 2: her statement a bit, but any working black woman knows

1159
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 2: why she did that. Leada done them convening the feminist

1160
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:14,640
Speaker 2: ass needs to go quickly, Dia says on the Big

1161
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: Brother issue, Oh well, genuine, When you mention that you

1162
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 2: think people go looking for tweets to justify their anger,

1163
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 2: I agree, But sometimes I actually think they create those tweets.

1164
00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 2: When I see no avatar and numbers in the name,

1165
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:28,480
Speaker 2: I think that person created that account. Then they make

1166
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 2: the comments, so they have quote unquote evidence for outrage. Ooh,

1167
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 2: let's continue to college people out all the best and

1168
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 2: sunny regards deal and.

1169
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 4: That would make sense not for everybody, but for a

1170
00:57:38,600 --> 00:57:39,919
Speaker 4: percentage of them. That would make sense.

1171
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 2: You know what, I never know what's going on in

1172
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 2: the machination these motherfucker's mind. I hope they are. Yeah,

1173
00:57:45,280 --> 00:57:47,320
Speaker 2: I hope they're not doing it, but I don't doubt it.

1174
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 2: I really don't doubt it. Some people would probably go

1175
00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:51,800
Speaker 2: that far for a little Internet.

1176
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 4: Credit, making up figure counts and shit.

1177
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 2: Yes, Kyle says, did y'all see what happened with Dan Harmon?

1178
00:57:56,840 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 2: He was called out by community writer Megan Gods for

1179
00:57:59,320 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 2: sexual harass. Afterwards, he apologized on his podcast, as prompted

1180
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 2: Gods to not only forgive him in public, but also

1181
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 2: encourage people to listen to the podcast because she thought

1182
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,720
Speaker 2: it was a good apology. I thought it was interesting

1183
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 2: because most people seem to make a point of not

1184
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,840
Speaker 2: accepting apology in public. Here are the tweets if you

1185
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: want to see them. I did see the tweets. I

1186
00:58:16,640 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 2: haven't listened to the podcasts and I haven't and I

1187
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:25,600
Speaker 2: saw her initial tweets about the way he was treated

1188
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 2: or whatever. But I think it is it says something

1189
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 2: about her accepting it. I think what is also interesting

1190
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,640
Speaker 2: is how many people that the apology isn't too and

1191
00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:43,080
Speaker 2: it wasn't for will still be like fuck him. I

1192
00:58:43,120 --> 00:58:43,880
Speaker 2: don't accept it.

1193
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 3: But that's the point of apologizing, not for the other party.

1194
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 2: Really, it's for you. Correct.

1195
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 3: It's nice if.

1196
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:53,000
Speaker 2: They feel appreciated and accepted and feel like you learned,

1197
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 2: and they're not obligated to No one's obligated to No

1198
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 2: one's obligated to try to make you feel good for apologizing,

1199
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 2: no one's obligated to accept it or even listen to it.

1200
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 2: You know that anger is as much for them as

1201
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 2: if anything else, And if they want to stay angry

1202
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:09,920
Speaker 2: about it or or cut you off or whatever, they

1203
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:13,280
Speaker 2: are completely within their rights for that. So it is

1204
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 2: to me it's kind of a cool story to see

1205
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 2: somebody accept an apology. But that's more about the climate

1206
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 2: of the way I see the Internet, where people really just.

1207
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,479
Speaker 3: Are like I never accept the pojets, I never back down.

1208
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 2: Nothing's ever gonna be good enough. Which is that right?

1209
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 2: But you know, it's just not the way I vibe

1210
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 2: like most of the time. Most of the time I

1211
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 2: forgive and move on easy, you know, like cause it's

1212
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 2: just like I don't want to be stuck there. So

1213
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 2: if you seem like you mean it, I'm quick to

1214
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 2: be like, oh you know what, cool, Polje accept it,

1215
00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 2: don't even worry about it, like I'll never forget it.

1216
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 2: I'm not stupid. But at the same time, like I

1217
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 2: don't want to hold this power over you for the

1218
00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 2: rest of your life of like you not sorry enough,

1219
00:59:53,600 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 2: like Nigga, you was sorry, you you fucked up.

1220
00:59:56,120 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 3: I fuck up.

1221
00:59:57,200 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 2: I hope people are the same way when I fuck

1222
00:59:59,160 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 2: up with like and they know that I didn't mean

1223
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 2: it and they know that I'm sorry. I hope that

1224
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 2: we can have the same level of like trust and

1225
01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 2: honesty and stuff, because in my personal life that's how

1226
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 2: that works. Only really I've really only seen this like

1227
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 2: power play part of it on social media, right, like

1228
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 2: that in real life when my friends making mistakes towards

1229
01:00:20,240 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 2: me and vice versa, we seem to be more like, hey, man,

1230
01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 2: I know you, I know how you are, and I

1231
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 2: know you wouldn't have meant to do this thing, and

1232
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,120
Speaker 2: you know what, I love you and I forgive you

1233
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 2: and it's cool and you're sorry and we're moving on, right.

1234
01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 4: And if people don't like that in real life, are

1235
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 4: their whole grudges against everybody? And if you're like that,

1236
01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 4: don't nobody really want to bother with you? Like if

1237
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 4: you're the type of person that's just like everybody fuck

1238
01:00:44,120 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 4: up but me, you don't keep friends.

1239
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 2: I made a post on Facebook. I really was asking people,

1240
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 2: and I was serious. This was probably a month or

1241
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:53,960
Speaker 2: two ago now, but I asked everybody on my pages like, hey,

1242
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: when's the last time you accepted apology? And I also

1243
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 2: asked it, asked when's the last time you apologize? So

1244
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 2: it was a couple of trends I noticed, Right, one,

1245
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 2: last time you apologize, much less response. Right, much less response,

1246
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 2: last time you apologize. Also a lot of trivial shit

1247
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 2: like no offense, but like oh, I said to such

1248
01:01:20,360 --> 01:01:24,600
Speaker 2: and my child did. The other thing was a lot

1249
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 2: of child stuff, a lot of family stuff, a lot

1250
01:01:28,120 --> 01:01:31,000
Speaker 2: of my daughter said so and so my son did

1251
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 2: this thing he was supposed to do, and he apologized

1252
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:36,000
Speaker 2: and then da da da da. And you know what

1253
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 2: I picked up from that, Mostly, when we love people,

1254
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 2: when we have to take care of people, when we

1255
01:01:44,920 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 2: have the excuse of childhood to put it on, we

1256
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 2: don't mind being magnanimous, Like we don't mind going you

1257
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 2: know what, I can be gracious under this because you're

1258
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 2: my child, I love you, I'm responsible for raising you.

1259
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 2: I'm responsible for making sure you're a good person, and

1260
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 2: I taught you to apologize, and I taught you are wrong,

1261
01:02:06,440 --> 01:02:11,120
Speaker 2: and at some point it must stop. It does, it does.

1262
01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 2: I don't mean that on just like between children and adults.

1263
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:17,080
Speaker 2: I just mean like, as human beings, there's a cutoff

1264
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 2: in our minds where we're like, I'm never.

1265
01:02:18,640 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 3: Forgiving anyone over this age.

1266
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 2: I'm never apologizing to anyone now that I'm blank age.

1267
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, as much as we talk about growth and

1268
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:29,480
Speaker 2: everyone makes mistakes, when we get a chance to hold

1269
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 2: it over somebody, we definitely latch onto it. So it

1270
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 2: was just interesting to see that, you know, not that

1271
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 2: I don't count those, but I don't really count those

1272
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 2: as much because I'm like, it's your fucking child. We're

1273
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 2: gonna not forgive them. You know. It's not like Facebook

1274
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 2: where you can be like fuck so on and so forever,

1275
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 2: you know, and tell.

1276
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:49,120
Speaker 4: My people outside of a realm that you have to

1277
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 4: care for or you're fucking or anything like that, Like

1278
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 4: just normal human beings that you interact with.

1279
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,919
Speaker 2: But it was you know, and your family, you love them,

1280
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 2: you have to be around them. You can't just block

1281
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 2: your child. You know what I mean, so like it's different.

1282
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 2: But I was like, oh, in those parameters, you can forgive,

1283
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 2: but just forgiving like a friend for saying they're doing

1284
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 2: the wrong thing, or forgiving a celebrity or some shit,

1285
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 2: that shit don't happen as much cause it's just easier

1286
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 2: to throw them away in a lot of people's mind

1287
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 2: or to keep bringing it up no.

1288
01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 4: Matter what they do, because they're not real people.

1289
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't count as human beings. But I don't know,

1290
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:25,080
Speaker 2: it was just kind of an interesting moment. But yeah,

1291
01:03:25,200 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 2: that's cool that she accepted his apology, and yeah, you

1292
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,520
Speaker 2: don't see that very often, and I hope he really

1293
01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 2: did learn from it. And I hope, you know, cause

1294
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 2: it's the alternative to this shit is that people never learn.

1295
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 2: They stay fucked up. We never let them learn, and

1296
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 2: we never let them move past it, and then we

1297
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:47,000
Speaker 2: never moved past it. And it's all I was like, Haha,

1298
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 2: I got you, I got something on you, and that's

1299
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,840
Speaker 2: the end of it. And I'm like, that's not a

1300
01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:52,720
Speaker 2: good space.

1301
01:03:52,440 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 4: To be, no for nobody in, for no body involved.

1302
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,280
Speaker 4: And then those people move turn around and get mad

1303
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 4: at you. How dare you move on? How dare you

1304
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 4: do better? How dare you don't pay me attention? How

1305
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:08,320
Speaker 4: dare you ignore that? I'm mad, gonna be mad forever. Oh,

1306
01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 4: I can't be here with you forever. You can do this,

1307
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 4: but I can't.

1308
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 2: Right, so anyway, even he says, Lena Dunham is like

1309
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:18,560
Speaker 2: a bad case of general to herpees She's never welcome,

1310
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,400
Speaker 2: but she keeps popping up to remione that she's not

1311
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,720
Speaker 2: going anywhere. My favorite episode of the scandal is the

1312
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 2: episode was she guest starred because she was murdered at

1313
01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:27,360
Speaker 2: the end, She's a ball on the ask of humanity.

1314
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 2: The shit staying in the teenage boys underwear and the

1315
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 2: hair on Ron Jeremy's back disgusting. Good for Tessa Thompson

1316
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 2: for calling her out. Yeah, that test of Timson thing

1317
01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 2: makes me kind of sad too, because I'm like, I

1318
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 2: felt like the other white women in that group made

1319
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 2: her take that back.

1320
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 3: Of course, I don't know if it's true or not.

1321
01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1322
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:47,919
Speaker 2: It just felt that way, felt like some shit white

1323
01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:50,360
Speaker 2: people do to us when we speak up, like what

1324
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:52,800
Speaker 2: about this person and why they advitis of the party,

1325
01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 2: And then it becomes like, why are you being so devisive,

1326
01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:56,360
Speaker 2: you that.

1327
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 4: Bitch you with just here talking to me about her?

1328
01:04:58,040 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 4: What are we talking about a year?

1329
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 2: Right? Like lean Na Dunno is a person that can

1330
01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 2: consistently fucks up, and when she apologizes, clearly hasn't learned

1331
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 2: from it. It doesn't mean it.

1332
01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 4: And that's why some people own a fuck up forelver

1333
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 4: because she ain't learning, she ain't evolving, she ain't growing,

1334
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 4: she ain't changing, she ain't really apologizing. Her apologies are

1335
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 4: fucked up. Her apologies a lot of times isn't to

1336
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:21,840
Speaker 4: the group of people that she needs to apologize to,

1337
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:25,560
Speaker 4: and particularly with her she has, it's a lot of

1338
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 4: issues when her feminism doesn't include black women, right, and

1339
01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 4: so when people point that out, she gets offensive and

1340
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,920
Speaker 4: tell us to with the problem. And then you don't

1341
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 4: want to talk to us, You go talk to a

1342
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:40,200
Speaker 4: black man who ain't got shit to do with this situation.

1343
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 3: That's just one of the times, right right right now.

1344
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 4: This isn't having the time.

1345
01:05:43,840 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 2: Multiple times at this point, it's one of It's just

1346
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:49,000
Speaker 2: one of the times she's fucked up. I like, that's

1347
01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 2: a person that you know, I get when people are

1348
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:54,920
Speaker 2: just like, you know, fuck her and fuck her apologies,

1349
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 2: and I.

1350
01:05:55,360 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 4: Wonder people to grow and change and evolved, but she's

1351
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 4: not showing, no reflecting it.

1352
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, she know' seem to you know, maybe she'll get

1353
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 2: that one day, but I don't see why she would

1354
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 2: ever get that because people seem to have such a

1355
01:06:06,240 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 2: low bar for her.

1356
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, and everything you say something is fucked up, fucked up,

1357
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 4: fucked up, Like come.

1358
01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 2: On, always she's always a victim in it always, you know,

1359
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 2: she always the victim in it anyway. But meanwhile never

1360
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,439
Speaker 2: gets canceled, right, She always a victim, but she ain't

1361
01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,920
Speaker 2: never really lost nothing from all her infractions. So it's

1362
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 2: just anyway, fuck her. She's she's really a bad person

1363
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 2: and that like I can't think of a better way

1364
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:35,160
Speaker 2: to put it, but she really just doesn't. She talks

1365
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 2: a good game, but she don't give a fuck about

1366
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:39,240
Speaker 2: any of that ship when it comes to her, it's feminism,

1367
01:06:39,280 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 2: this inclusiveness, this intersectionality, this second she got it, she

1368
01:06:42,920 --> 01:06:47,520
Speaker 2: sucks up. It's fuck all y'all haters, fuck you the

1369
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 2: poe is. Was Tessa wrong to comment on Lena Dunnall

1370
01:06:50,640 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 2: being in that pic? Yes, she should have kept it

1371
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 2: to herself. Fobusent y'all thought that ninety six percent of

1372
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:00,640
Speaker 2: y'all said no, she had every right. I'm on the

1373
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 2: ninety six percent, But I will say this, since she

1374
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:06,880
Speaker 2: did have to issue kind of a clarification, I can

1375
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 2: understand the other side of saying she should have kept

1376
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 2: it to herself if ultimately she was just gonna have

1377
01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 2: to take it back and it was gonna look like

1378
01:07:13,520 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 2: she divided the whole crew. I can understand why someone

1379
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 2: would feel that way, but me personally, I'm glad she

1380
01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 2: said it all right. We got a couple of emails

1381
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:27,480
Speaker 2: no voicemails this week, Simone says one of us hi

1382
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,360
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. I watched one of us on Netflix

1383
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:31,720
Speaker 2: after Rod mentioned it on the show.

1384
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 3: I've seen folks.

1385
01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:35,280
Speaker 2: Talking about it on Facebook, but once Rod mentioned it,

1386
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 2: I figured I might learn something new.

1387
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 3: Despite growing up in Brooklyn being.

1388
01:07:38,560 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 2: Exposed to some aspects of the Hassidic community, that status

1389
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 2: quo issue for divorces involving children was a heart heartbreaking revelation. Yeah,

1390
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 2: you lose your kids if you try to get divorced

1391
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 2: like whichever one y'all trying to get divorced them by

1392
01:07:53,280 --> 01:07:56,600
Speaker 2: no more kids for you, Like the dude had to

1393
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,320
Speaker 2: leave his whole fucking family behind because he wanted to

1394
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 2: be like an actor or some shit, and they was like, yeah,

1395
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 2: well in husidic court, you can't do that. And then

1396
01:08:05,800 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 2: like other like a woman one of the women, like

1397
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 2: her husband was abusive and shit, and people was like

1398
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:13,920
Speaker 2: snitching in her. Like she they had secret meetings about

1399
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:18,479
Speaker 2: like kind of getting out of that hasidic uh, basically life,

1400
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 2: and they were like support groups and shit, and people

1401
01:08:21,320 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 2: would be like snitching on the meetings, snitching on following her,

1402
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 2: taking pictures of her, all kinds of shit.

1403
01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:28,040
Speaker 3: It was scary.

1404
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:31,440
Speaker 2: So often I mean to write and talk about podcasts

1405
01:08:31,479 --> 01:08:33,840
Speaker 2: or books or people the blackoutists introduced me to, but

1406
01:08:33,880 --> 01:08:36,080
Speaker 2: I gul sidetracked and forget trying to do better about

1407
01:08:36,080 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 2: sharing some positive feedback with you both, to make sure

1408
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 2: you have some idea how much I truly appreciate, love

1409
01:08:40,800 --> 01:08:44,560
Speaker 2: you much, love and continue success, Simone, Thank you, Simone.

1410
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 2: Jay Rising a possible white man, Jay black Mirror heard

1411
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:52,040
Speaker 2: you guys mention Black Mirror briefly on ball d sports.

1412
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:54,639
Speaker 3: How how you need how you need to catch up?

1413
01:08:55,120 --> 01:08:55,599
Speaker 3: Of course?

1414
01:08:56,200 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 2: Uh, now here comes a question that if you were

1415
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: paid every time you where ass you be rich? Do

1416
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 2: you plan on reviewing it? As of right now? I

1417
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 2: have no plans on reviewing them. I'm sorry. I may

1418
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:11,280
Speaker 2: not even watch it because one, all mirrors matter to me.

1419
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 3: I don't know why you guys get so stuck on black.

1420
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 2: I don't know. I have mirrors in my house of

1421
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 2: different colors, so I don't understand why it would just

1422
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 2: be black too. If it was called white mirror, all

1423
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 2: you niggas would be mad about it because y'all hypocrites, okay,

1424
01:09:27,560 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 2: and y'all say, oh, this is racist against black mirrors

1425
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:34,320
Speaker 2: and black mirrors matter. No, thank you, Okay, all the

1426
01:09:34,320 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 2: mirrors are equal to me. But also I just, I

1427
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,360
Speaker 2: just I don't think I like it as much as

1428
01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 2: y'all do. And that's no offense to anybody. It's not

1429
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,960
Speaker 2: bad or anything, but I'll just don't have the like, ooh,

1430
01:09:49,120 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 2: black mirror, drop, let me go see this shit like

1431
01:09:51,960 --> 01:09:53,840
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't have them feelings for it. It's

1432
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:57,800
Speaker 2: just okay to me, you know. So I'm sorry, guys,

1433
01:09:57,840 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 2: I know I let a lot of people down.

1434
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 4: And yeah, because up to that question, was definitely talking

1435
01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 4: towards you.

1436
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 2: These are some of the views that people right in

1437
01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:07,160
Speaker 2: and say they don't agree with them.

1438
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 4: I'm assuming I was doing y'all know, y'all ain't got

1439
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:11,200
Speaker 4: to worry about me watching it.

1440
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:15,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, so caring is out. I love that freaking serious

1441
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 2: six episodes. The season just isn't e goddamn enough. And

1442
01:10:18,240 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 2: it's funny. You guys are talking about Jodie Foster on

1443
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 2: the Nerd Off the other day because she directed.

1444
01:10:21,840 --> 01:10:22,640
Speaker 3: One of the episodes.

1445
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:27,719
Speaker 2: But good for her. Someone wrote in d says, since

1446
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:33,080
Speaker 2: I'm playing catch up from last Saturay's podcast with Ray Rock, Sane,

1447
01:10:33,160 --> 01:10:37,440
Speaker 2: Gay Blavity and Very Smart Brothers count as good hotels

1448
01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 2: much love from Texas. No, none of those.

1449
01:10:42,280 --> 01:10:44,439
Speaker 4: They don't run on the platform saying that I am

1450
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 4: a hotel.

1451
01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:49,680
Speaker 2: Literally zero them people are hotels, and at least I

1452
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 2: know Ray Very Smart Brothers for a fact, have mocked

1453
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 2: them niggas, you know what I mean. Not on some

1454
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 2: we the good hotels, they the bad one, but just

1455
01:10:58,280 --> 01:11:01,920
Speaker 2: on some like these fucking tep brothers are ridiculous. I

1456
01:11:02,000 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 2: know a season one and Insecure during the day in

1457
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 2: Montage with Molly, they had a joke about one of

1458
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 2: them dudes te me I'm looking for a black queen,

1459
01:11:09,520 --> 01:11:11,599
Speaker 2: but she gotta be a freak too, you know, so

1460
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 2: they know what they're doing all right. And lastly, Falcons

1461
01:11:15,479 --> 01:11:18,760
Speaker 2: Deva writes saying, hey, Rod and Queen Karen, if your girl.

1462
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:20,760
Speaker 2: Falcons Diva and I finally got caught up on the

1463
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 2: podcast and I commented on the shows this week. So

1464
01:11:23,479 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 2: this emails about a bunch of old stuff. Let's unpack.

1465
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 2: Let's take a trip down memory lane. I hurt, hurt.

1466
01:11:31,240 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 2: It hurt my heart to hear Jail talk about giving

1467
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:36,160
Speaker 2: up comedy. I understand this reasoning, but damn to be

1468
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:38,639
Speaker 2: so good as something. But I have to consider giving.

1469
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:40,479
Speaker 3: It up because Bill's braced my heart.

1470
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:43,000
Speaker 2: I'm someone who chose money of a passion, and I

1471
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:45,759
Speaker 2: love to see folks pursuing that passion. It's funny because

1472
01:11:45,760 --> 01:11:47,479
Speaker 2: my friend and I spoke of the middle school career

1473
01:11:47,560 --> 01:11:49,640
Speaker 2: day recently. We were in different classes, but after we

1474
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 2: talked about what we told the kids her, don't chase money,

1475
01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 2: pursue your passion. Me get the money and use it

1476
01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:59,800
Speaker 2: to enjoy your passion, which brings me to my second point. Rod,

1477
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:01,639
Speaker 2: I can't remember if you mentioned this on the podcast

1478
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:03,280
Speaker 2: if I saw it on Facebook post. But I love

1479
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 2: to see you say that you're gonna start living your

1480
01:12:04,960 --> 01:12:08,479
Speaker 2: best life by traveling enjoying the fruit of your labor. Okay, one,

1481
01:12:08,640 --> 01:12:11,240
Speaker 2: I didn't say that. Y'all assume that that's a little

1482
01:12:11,240 --> 01:12:13,760
Speaker 2: assumption on your part. But I just say, i'manta stop

1483
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 2: being in my way, you know. I like, I don't

1484
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:18,679
Speaker 2: know if that'll necessarily mean travel or not. I mean,

1485
01:12:18,760 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 2: I'm not against traveling. There's some places that I definitely

1486
01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 2: want to go this year that I've you know, been

1487
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 2: thinking about going for a long time. So uh, those

1488
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:32,559
Speaker 2: things are you know, definitely cooking. But I like, yeah,

1489
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 2: but uh yeah, it wasn't just about traveling and stuff.

1490
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 2: But it's just about like a lot of stuff, you know,

1491
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 2: so you know, some of it just being little shit

1492
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 2: you can do every day, you know. And like I

1493
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:49,679
Speaker 2: was really proud yesterday I paid off Caring's student loans.

1494
01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 4: Yes, nigga, I was in my car because you had

1495
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:55,720
Speaker 4: posted it while I was at work. So I was

1496
01:12:55,760 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 4: in my car and uh park and looked at seeing

1497
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:02,720
Speaker 4: a tweet. I started dancing in this car.

1498
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:05,200
Speaker 2: Yeah I've been you know, I've been trying to be

1499
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,120
Speaker 2: disciplined with the way we pay our bills. Don't make

1500
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:10,599
Speaker 2: you dance overpaying certain stuff, and you know, having like

1501
01:13:10,640 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 2: a plan, you know where it's like, Okay, I'm gonna

1502
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 2: pay off this thing and then I'm gonna take that

1503
01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:17,800
Speaker 2: money and be disciplined instead of going to spending that

1504
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:20,320
Speaker 2: money like ooh, I paid off my car. I got

1505
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:23,000
Speaker 2: some extra money. Like no, I paid off my car.

1506
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna put that money towards this loan. Okay,

1507
01:13:25,600 --> 01:13:27,880
Speaker 2: we pay off this loan. Now we're gonna put that

1508
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 2: money towards I don't know, say you have a credit card,

1509
01:13:31,280 --> 01:13:34,160
Speaker 2: or I know, we had an exercise equipment that I

1510
01:13:34,200 --> 01:13:37,720
Speaker 2: paid off this year. Stuff like that where you know,

1511
01:13:38,000 --> 01:13:42,719
Speaker 2: little stuff like that where you're helping yourself without even

1512
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 2: really thinking about it. You know that in the past,

1513
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 2: I probably would have went and I don't know, use

1514
01:13:48,080 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 2: that just been like, oh, I got extra money to

1515
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:53,360
Speaker 2: spend every month, and I've been really disciplined about that.

1516
01:13:53,439 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 2: So sometimes it's not even like traveling and stuff, which

1517
01:13:56,880 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 2: it should enable us to travel, but it's not even that.

1518
01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 2: Sometimes little shit and stuff like taking days off, taking

1519
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 2: a vacation, going places that I just want to go

1520
01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:10,760
Speaker 2: for me, not for the show or anything, so, you know,

1521
01:14:11,000 --> 01:14:15,240
Speaker 2: stuff like that. But I do appreciate you, appreciate your

1522
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 2: comments though, and I definitely want to enjoy the food

1523
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 2: of our labor because I don't know how long we

1524
01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:23,640
Speaker 2: get to enjoy this m you know, like everything with

1525
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 2: this show is always bigger than I thought it would be, So,

1526
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 2: you know, I do worry about if we ever get

1527
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:32,280
Speaker 2: to a point where shit has to change for necessity's sake,

1528
01:14:32,880 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 2: right And I don't think we're even close right now,

1529
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:38,680
Speaker 2: but you just never know if you have to get

1530
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 2: to a point where it's like fuck, I can't just

1531
01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:44,840
Speaker 2: you know, do normal shit or kick it wherever. I

1532
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:47,840
Speaker 2: kick it all the time because people are, you know,

1533
01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:50,080
Speaker 2: seeing this is a bigger deal than it is to me.

1534
01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:52,720
Speaker 4: You know, right now. And I think that happens a lot.

1535
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 4: I think to other people the show is actually bigger

1536
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 4: to them and in their minds than it is to me,

1537
01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,200
Speaker 4: you know, because I do quote unquote no, the show

1538
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 4: is big, But to me, it's like, oh, this is

1539
01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:08,160
Speaker 4: just my little show I do in my in my

1540
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,360
Speaker 4: bedroom with my husband, and we talk and we have

1541
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 4: fans that listen to us, you know, but to us

1542
01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 4: it's still it's not a mom's and pops. Don't get

1543
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 4: me wrong, But I think to other people that love

1544
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 4: to support their admiration towards us, it's larger. Oh, they

1545
01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:28,639
Speaker 4: have a larger feeling than I do about the show itself.

1546
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:35,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, she says, Oh, hold up, just saw

1547
01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:37,679
Speaker 2: the post about cam being free from student lawn depth.

1548
01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 2: These all casts represent my joyous news. Oh so yeah,

1549
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:43,360
Speaker 2: you so you know what's up, you know.

1550
01:15:44,560 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 4: And the thing is, I'm and I also know that

1551
01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:53,840
Speaker 4: we are at a very we're privileged, and we're very

1552
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:56,280
Speaker 4: blessed to be at a position that we're in to

1553
01:15:56,320 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 4: be able to do to some of the things that

1554
01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 4: we do. And I think that at UH mine student

1555
01:16:02,560 --> 01:16:05,280
Speaker 4: loan debts were like the mean rights talked about it.

1556
01:16:05,479 --> 01:16:10,599
Speaker 4: Me and Roger graduated probably a few years before students.

1557
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 2: Well we went to an HBCU. Correct, we stayed in state,

1558
01:16:14,760 --> 01:16:17,880
Speaker 2: and our HBCU just happened to be a public HBCU

1559
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 2: and not private. So I don't think I loaned that

1560
01:16:20,240 --> 01:16:23,040
Speaker 2: it's as much as other people's right. That being said,

1561
01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 2: I mean, there's years we had to defer the payments. Yes,

1562
01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 2: there years we had to ask for like what do

1563
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:31,600
Speaker 2: you call it? Uh, like you had to get a

1564
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,360
Speaker 2: break from your payment. Y'all know what I'm talking about.

1565
01:16:33,720 --> 01:16:36,800
Speaker 2: There's years where I just was behind, you know. So

1566
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 2: we've been fortunate enough to be in a situation where

1567
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:42,840
Speaker 2: we can like overpay our certain bills and we've been.

1568
01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 3: Doing parents for barents.

1569
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:45,120
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1570
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:48,280
Speaker 2: We've been in a situation where we've been able to

1571
01:16:48,320 --> 01:16:52,040
Speaker 2: overpay certain bills and it's been but it's a discipline

1572
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:53,519
Speaker 2: and I learned from my parents, right.

1573
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 4: We hadn't always been in this position. There's been time

1574
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:57,639
Speaker 4: where we had struggled, just like everybody else.

1575
01:16:58,040 --> 01:17:00,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean there's been time it

1576
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:02,160
Speaker 2: was like I hope they cabled on your cut off

1577
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:05,799
Speaker 2: the day and I hope you know. But but we've

1578
01:17:05,880 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 2: always been pretty disciplined and stuff. But it's just like

1579
01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:13,160
Speaker 2: it's easy to because when you especially when you're start now.

1580
01:17:13,280 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 2: I think America does people are a huge just service

1581
01:17:16,479 --> 01:17:19,879
Speaker 2: because it paints this idyllic life that doesn't exist anymore.

1582
01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:21,160
Speaker 3: When you get out of college.

1583
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 2: Most of us are not living on our own yet,

1584
01:17:23,479 --> 01:17:25,360
Speaker 2: no matter how much money you really make, for the

1585
01:17:25,360 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 2: most part, you're gonna need a roommate, you're gonna be

1586
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 2: in an apartment, you may even live with your parents.

1587
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:33,040
Speaker 2: It's just if you can find a job, if you

1588
01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:36,200
Speaker 2: can find a good job. It's just very rare that

1589
01:17:36,240 --> 01:17:40,120
Speaker 2: things go like it go on TV. Right, Oh, you

1590
01:17:40,240 --> 01:17:42,760
Speaker 2: graduated college. Well, now you got a job, and now

1591
01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 2: you're living in the big city making money. You know, like,

1592
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 2: it just doesn't work that way, and so it's almost

1593
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:50,040
Speaker 2: a shock to your system, and part of you starts

1594
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 2: feeling like, am I failure because you know, and you know,

1595
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 2: when you get out of college, normally, at least for

1596
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 2: I think us, your student loan bill doesn't.

1597
01:17:57,240 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 3: Even ca can for like two years.

1598
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:01,360
Speaker 2: So then like you your first student loan bill, and

1599
01:18:01,400 --> 01:18:05,440
Speaker 2: it's normally for it's normally on the smaller side because

1600
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:08,400
Speaker 2: your first one. It's like for a lot of loans,

1601
01:18:08,400 --> 01:18:12,360
Speaker 2: it graduates, right, and it gradually gets bigger, right, and

1602
01:18:12,400 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 2: it's supposed to be moving up as your income moves up.

1603
01:18:15,200 --> 01:18:18,360
Speaker 4: Incomes it don't actually match up.

1604
01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 2: But there's been times where it's like, listen, it's this

1605
01:18:21,680 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 2: or no car. So I have to get a forebears

1606
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:27,480
Speaker 2: because I need to get my car fixed.

1607
01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 4: Right, and I waitress for you know, my first few

1608
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:32,000
Speaker 4: years out of college. So you're talking about somebody making

1609
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:34,559
Speaker 4: two doll thirteen and our plus dips. I was like, hey,

1610
01:18:35,200 --> 01:18:38,280
Speaker 4: this dude, notice not the top priority, right, So you know,

1611
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 4: it's it's a lot to it.

1612
01:18:40,160 --> 01:18:41,960
Speaker 2: You know, we've been through We've been together for a

1613
01:18:41,960 --> 01:18:44,320
Speaker 2: long time, so we've been through the broke times together and.

1614
01:18:44,320 --> 01:18:46,679
Speaker 4: Ship off jobs us, both me and you both.

1615
01:18:46,800 --> 01:18:49,240
Speaker 2: But now we're almost forty, and you know, we're getting

1616
01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:51,960
Speaker 2: to a point where we can kind of handle some things.

1617
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:55,760
Speaker 2: I think our story is not that unique. I think,

1618
01:18:55,800 --> 01:18:58,680
Speaker 2: you know, I think most probably most Americans are kind

1619
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,040
Speaker 2: of living that and you can decide how just that

1620
01:19:01,200 --> 01:19:05,599
Speaker 2: is or not. But we did manage to like keep

1621
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:08,640
Speaker 2: it kind of down from the jump as opposed to

1622
01:19:08,720 --> 01:19:12,080
Speaker 2: a lot of people. But also tuitions have blossomed, Yes,

1623
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:15,439
Speaker 2: they had will past like fifteen twenty years. So I'm

1624
01:19:15,479 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 2: sure there are other people that you.

1625
01:19:17,400 --> 01:19:20,519
Speaker 4: Know getting out there with two hundred three hundred thousand

1626
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 4: dollars loans or so you're literally paying for a car

1627
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 4: you will never own or a house you would never own,

1628
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 4: and you know, you literally got a student loan payment.

1629
01:19:29,160 --> 01:19:30,960
Speaker 4: It's a mortgage payment.

1630
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:34,559
Speaker 2: It's that Susie Ormond shit though, like when people go, well,

1631
01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:36,320
Speaker 2: you know, how do you get out of that? And

1632
01:19:36,360 --> 01:19:38,120
Speaker 2: Susie Ormond said some shit like well, if you say

1633
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:40,400
Speaker 2: five hundred dollars a week, you'll be in. It's like,

1634
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:42,280
Speaker 2: what the fuck I'm getting five hundred extra dollars a

1635
01:19:42,320 --> 01:19:44,679
Speaker 2: week from Susie, right, Well, that's kind of the thing

1636
01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:48,200
Speaker 2: with this is like we were disciplined when we didn't

1637
01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:51,320
Speaker 2: have that much, and I just try to carry it

1638
01:19:51,360 --> 01:19:55,200
Speaker 2: over so that now we have extra, but it's still

1639
01:19:55,240 --> 01:19:57,960
Speaker 2: working for us, and we'll, you know, and we'll continue

1640
01:19:58,000 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 2: after this, like it's still other shit that got be

1641
01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:01,600
Speaker 2: paid off. But you know, I was very happy to

1642
01:20:01,640 --> 01:20:03,880
Speaker 2: hit that mouse stone and be like cool student loan

1643
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:06,679
Speaker 2: paid off. You know. I paid a little extra every month,

1644
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 2: and now we got to a point where it's done

1645
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:13,320
Speaker 2: for Karen. I still have mine, so you know, but

1646
01:20:13,439 --> 01:20:16,479
Speaker 2: I was happy. You know. Okay, back to y'all living

1647
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:18,120
Speaker 2: your best life. I love that you're willing to step

1648
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:20,200
Speaker 2: out saw your comfort zone experience more riding. My late

1649
01:20:20,200 --> 01:20:22,479
Speaker 2: twenties and early thirties, I didn't do much living. I

1650
01:20:22,520 --> 01:20:24,360
Speaker 2: was too focused on paying off that dealing with my

1651
01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:27,360
Speaker 2: fear of being ever being poor again. I was paying

1652
01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,920
Speaker 2: dad and saving but not living. I was turning that

1653
01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:31,960
Speaker 2: my lights would never get cut off. Never mind the

1654
01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 2: fact that the money had not been that tight since

1655
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:35,200
Speaker 2: the first year out of college.

1656
01:20:35,360 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 3: I was stuck. Hey, I'm the same. I still balance my.

1657
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:42,960
Speaker 2: Check book every fucking day and I haven't gotten one

1658
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:45,240
Speaker 2: of those fees or being close to zero balance in

1659
01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:48,519
Speaker 2: so long, Like like, I really have been doing good.

1660
01:20:48,560 --> 01:20:51,560
Speaker 2: I really have been fortunate and making the right decisions.

1661
01:20:51,600 --> 01:20:53,160
Speaker 4: We would get in the era where they would fuck

1662
01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:54,720
Speaker 4: around and be like, oh, you know what, let me

1663
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,200
Speaker 4: post this incorrectly just so you get a feed.

1664
01:20:57,600 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also just when you're close to zero any

1665
01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 2: mistaken for I forgot to carry the one now fucking

1666
01:21:04,040 --> 01:21:06,920
Speaker 2: one hundred dollars in debt because the bank hit me

1667
01:21:06,960 --> 01:21:08,920
Speaker 2: with three thirty five dollar fees or some shit. Like

1668
01:21:09,000 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 2: everyone that's been through this, I think of a certain

1669
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 2: age shout out to Obama another thing he didn't get

1670
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:18,519
Speaker 2: enough credit for. But fix it, kind of fixing the

1671
01:21:18,520 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 2: way that they price gualed you at your bank with

1672
01:21:20,320 --> 01:21:23,639
Speaker 2: that bullshit. But and I bet that's coming back anyway.

1673
01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 2: But but I you know, I still have these habits

1674
01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 2: in me. I don't spend extravagantly. I don't I have

1675
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:33,599
Speaker 2: a car. I don't think of my car as like

1676
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:36,559
Speaker 2: a nice car or luxury car. It was just like cool,

1677
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 2: this is a it's nice for me, you know what

1678
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 2: I mean, Like another person would have been like this

1679
01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:44,360
Speaker 2: car ain't shit. Everybody got these cars. Me I'm like,

1680
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:47,000
Speaker 2: oh you know that shit got ac you know, like

1681
01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 2: I have a man of very small means, right, small imagination, right, And.

1682
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:54,719
Speaker 4: Then sometimes you have to make a physical decisions because

1683
01:21:54,720 --> 01:21:58,160
Speaker 4: I can go, well, I can get what I won't

1684
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 4: and pay a lot of unnecessary money, or I get

1685
01:22:01,640 --> 01:22:05,360
Speaker 4: this that basically does the same thing. Might not be

1686
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 4: as fancy, but I can pay it off. Quiggle.

1687
01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, So you know, I remember when you got your

1688
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 2: new car, and uh, we had to have a discussion

1689
01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 2: between getting an older car that was a luxury car

1690
01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:19,200
Speaker 2: but cheap. You know, I mean we say luxury, but

1691
01:22:19,280 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 2: luxurious for us, y'all, yeah, luxury for us, but it

1692
01:22:21,760 --> 01:22:23,760
Speaker 2: was old. But it was like, you know, it's gonna

1693
01:22:23,800 --> 01:22:27,759
Speaker 2: be super old, like older than probably like two thousand

1694
01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:30,360
Speaker 2: and something like two thousand and two to two thousands.

1695
01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:33,080
Speaker 4: But yeah, but you're talking to somebody who every cart

1696
01:22:33,280 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 4: our own has been the nine to nine. This was

1697
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:38,439
Speaker 4: my first car has been in the two thousands and anything.

1698
01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 2: Right, So I told Karen at the time, I remember

1699
01:22:41,240 --> 01:22:43,880
Speaker 2: being like, look, we could do that and we would

1700
01:22:43,920 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 2: probably spend about the same amount of money, maybe even

1701
01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:49,320
Speaker 2: slightly less, but probably about the same amount of money. Oh,

1702
01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:51,920
Speaker 2: we canna take the same amount of money, get you

1703
01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 2: a card that's like a year old, right old.

1704
01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:56,719
Speaker 4: We're not gonna last.

1705
01:22:57,040 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, and it'll be it'll feel

1706
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:02,840
Speaker 2: like luxury too you because to you, you ain't had

1707
01:23:02,880 --> 01:23:06,040
Speaker 2: a car that got all this shit shut down, you

1708
01:23:06,080 --> 01:23:07,960
Speaker 2: know what I mean, Like your car don't even tell

1709
01:23:07,960 --> 01:23:11,720
Speaker 2: you when the fucking tires flat. No, like you like

1710
01:23:11,800 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 2: all this don't feel like a miracle to you.

1711
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:14,599
Speaker 3: So it was like, we.

1712
01:23:14,560 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 4: Ain't got it's an upgrade because I'm time to tell

1713
01:23:16,880 --> 01:23:19,080
Speaker 4: y'all think I'm bullshit. All my cars has been in

1714
01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 4: the nine to nine. I mean when people go nine nine,

1715
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:24,040
Speaker 4: two thousand, like nine nine, I ain't had no bluetooths,

1716
01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:26,560
Speaker 4: I ain't had no CD players.

1717
01:23:27,000 --> 01:23:28,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, you don't even drive anywhere but like

1718
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:32,040
Speaker 2: to work, at home five minutes away, like, does not

1719
01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:34,240
Speaker 2: spend a bunch of money for nothing on this thing?

1720
01:23:34,400 --> 01:23:37,240
Speaker 2: And you know, and but it's decisions like that that

1721
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:40,600
Speaker 2: it probably saved us, you know, a whole bunch of

1722
01:23:40,640 --> 01:23:43,439
Speaker 2: money and fucking repairs and stuff. But also it probably

1723
01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:45,639
Speaker 2: saved us a bunch of money that you know, somebody

1724
01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:47,120
Speaker 2: else might have went out and bought a twenty thirty

1725
01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 2: thousand dollars car from the dealership type thing and we didn't.

1726
01:23:50,200 --> 01:23:52,519
Speaker 2: So those kind of decisions are the time that we

1727
01:23:52,560 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 2: try to make. But it also enables us to do

1728
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:57,639
Speaker 2: shit like, oh cool, we have a little extra money

1729
01:23:57,680 --> 01:24:00,200
Speaker 2: we can put into this flight so we can ye

1730
01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:03,719
Speaker 2: first class because we didn't spend that money other places

1731
01:24:03,720 --> 01:24:06,519
Speaker 2: that people had to or people would have and you

1732
01:24:06,520 --> 01:24:08,720
Speaker 2: know what I mean. And that's part of that discipline

1733
01:24:08,760 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 2: of let me pay off this bill so that maybe

1734
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:16,240
Speaker 2: right now it sucks, but in six months, when I

1735
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 2: ain't got this bill no more, it's like, cool, this

1736
01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:21,320
Speaker 2: is a little extra income. You know, I can decide

1737
01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:22,719
Speaker 2: what to do it right, And.

1738
01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:25,800
Speaker 4: Like, these are personal decisions that we made ourselves. We

1739
01:24:25,880 --> 01:24:28,360
Speaker 4: know everybody isn't gonna think like us or do like us,

1740
01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 4: but These are decisions that we made, you know, ourselves,

1741
01:24:31,400 --> 01:24:33,000
Speaker 4: because you know, we're not the type of people that

1742
01:24:33,080 --> 01:24:34,480
Speaker 4: quote unquote have to flys.

1743
01:24:34,479 --> 01:24:35,000
Speaker 2: But I know this.

1744
01:24:35,160 --> 01:24:36,880
Speaker 4: Some people that's their thing, and that's so fine if

1745
01:24:36,880 --> 01:24:39,000
Speaker 4: that's your thing, but that's where you put your money.

1746
01:24:39,080 --> 01:24:40,840
Speaker 4: We just opt to put our money somewhere else.

1747
01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:43,880
Speaker 2: And yeah, so anyway, I know that's not why you

1748
01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:45,960
Speaker 2: didn't explore much, but stay with me. What part of

1749
01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:48,720
Speaker 2: it is that a good friend of mine pressuring me

1750
01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:51,200
Speaker 2: so much that I finally came and got my passport

1751
01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 2: when I was thirty two. That year with to Vegas,

1752
01:24:52,880 --> 01:24:55,880
Speaker 2: the Dominican Republic, Hillton Head, and Bahamas. Haven't stopped since.

1753
01:24:56,120 --> 01:24:57,280
Speaker 2: I make it a point to go out of the

1754
01:24:57,320 --> 01:25:00,000
Speaker 2: country annually. I missed, I messed around and got stuck again.

1755
01:25:00,560 --> 01:25:03,360
Speaker 2: Earlier this year, my marriage slash divorce left me with

1756
01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:06,720
Speaker 2: around thirty K and credit card debt and decreased savings.

1757
01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:09,679
Speaker 2: I'm someone that does not carry credit card debt. But

1758
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:12,760
Speaker 2: instead of being stuck, I took my first solo international

1759
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:15,599
Speaker 2: trip this year and it was fabulous. Of course, before

1760
01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:18,120
Speaker 2: doing that, I made my plan to pay off my balances.

1761
01:25:18,280 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 3: I got spreadsheets and shit.

1762
01:25:20,120 --> 01:25:22,320
Speaker 2: Lol. Yeah, that's what you gotta do.

1763
01:25:22,439 --> 01:25:22,639
Speaker 4: Man.

1764
01:25:23,360 --> 01:25:26,479
Speaker 2: Anyway, I love Witness and folks experience the breakthrough to

1765
01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:28,920
Speaker 2: their best life. I'm enjoying this journey with you and Karen,

1766
01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:30,840
Speaker 2: and I can't wait the Witness more. Thank you for

1767
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:33,960
Speaker 2: my lovely Christmas card. I love you guys. PS. My

1768
01:25:34,080 --> 01:25:37,680
Speaker 2: new dog Sasha Michelle loves you guys too. I was

1769
01:25:37,680 --> 01:25:40,000
Speaker 2: listening to the podcast and Thanksgiving the Christmas road trips

1770
01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 2: in North Carolina. Now when I play it, when she's

1771
01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 2: in the car, she perks up and starts wagging a tail.

1772
01:25:44,880 --> 01:25:47,679
Speaker 2: I attached the pictures so y'all can see my new

1773
01:25:47,800 --> 01:25:48,799
Speaker 2: to me baby.

1774
01:25:49,040 --> 01:25:50,360
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you.

1775
01:25:52,120 --> 01:25:52,320
Speaker 4: All.

1776
01:25:52,680 --> 01:25:56,519
Speaker 2: We got Atlanta Falcons. We got Atlanta Falcons.

1777
01:25:56,800 --> 01:25:57,320
Speaker 3: Bi a hond.

1778
01:25:57,360 --> 01:25:59,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna show y'all guys, y all right, look at

1779
01:25:59,200 --> 01:26:04,760
Speaker 2: this little dog, Precious. I feel so bad for this

1780
01:26:04,880 --> 01:26:07,679
Speaker 2: dog when the Eagles stumped that ass tonight. But listen

1781
01:26:08,320 --> 01:26:13,599
Speaker 2: all until then, Sacher Michelle, you get your w okay.

1782
01:26:13,640 --> 01:26:15,080
Speaker 2: I hope y'all do you'll.

1783
01:26:15,120 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 4: Tonight and relaxing too, like bitch, I hope you ain't

1784
01:26:20,240 --> 01:26:21,360
Speaker 4: gonna say nothing about my heir.

1785
01:26:21,439 --> 01:26:24,360
Speaker 3: Right up on the couch looking like, oh, we're taking pictures.

1786
01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:26,479
Speaker 4: Hold up, I know, let me let me position myself

1787
01:26:26,520 --> 01:26:28,840
Speaker 4: for this selfieh I didn't know.

1788
01:26:29,200 --> 01:26:34,920
Speaker 2: Maybe Uh Jabari and Schell have a photo. Get on

1789
01:26:34,920 --> 01:26:38,479
Speaker 2: the runway. All right, guys, that's it for today. Man,

1790
01:26:38,560 --> 01:26:42,719
Speaker 2: thank you. Uh probably go out and see uh probably

1791
01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:50,640
Speaker 2: gonna see Mary uh today and whatnot. So y'all have

1792
01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:54,160
Speaker 2: a good one and enjoy y'all uh playoffs and stuff,

1793
01:26:54,160 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 2: and we'll be back tomorrow with with more of black

1794
01:26:57,200 --> 01:26:58,000
Speaker 2: Out Tips till.

1795
01:26:57,920 --> 01:27:01,240
Speaker 4: That piece o wait oh my said you ain't gonna

1796
01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:01,559
Speaker 4: love me.

1797
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:03,960
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I'm so used to ending the show with

1798
01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:05,479
Speaker 3: Justin and Bossy and stuff.

1799
01:27:05,479 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 2: This week. By the way, I forgot to mention this

1800
01:27:08,200 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 2: too Much is back. It is all right until then.

1801
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:12,360
Speaker 2: I love you.

1802
01:27:12,840 --> 01:27:13,679
Speaker 4: I love you too.

1803
01:27:15,000 --> 01:27:15,520
Speaker 2: Sorry,