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Speaker 2: Oh. I read that as claims that the person who's

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Speaker 3: Now he feels my boobs because he's gay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, you just check in.

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Speaker 1: He's been a good friend. A bit of context here.

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Speaker 1: I Adam twenty seven, male, have been living with my

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Speaker 1: girlfriend Stacy, twenty four, female for three years.

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Speaker 2: Say it, does your mom have it going on?

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Speaker 3: There?

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Speaker 2: We go.

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Speaker 1: We moved into my apartment after dating for one year,

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Speaker 1: and we have a pretty good relationship, despite a few

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Speaker 1: ups and downs. By the way, this comes from EASYO

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Speaker 1: three to sixty seven on the ar slash Okay storytime

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Speaker 1: sub reddit. So we had placed some boundaries about my

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Speaker 1: female friends and her male friends, and we always respected them.

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Speaker 1: I work as a sales manager at a small company.

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Speaker 1: Stacey works as a customer service agent at a real

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Speaker 1: estate company. Recently, she became friends with their coworker, David.

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Speaker 1: The gay friend has been hanging out with him after

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Speaker 1: work quite often. She said, since he's gay, he's an

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Speaker 3: Yeah? What are these boundaries?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Probably like overly hanging out with Yeah with you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, At first I didn't care. One day, when we

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Speaker 1: were on a dinner date, we saw David at the

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Speaker 1: saw Riley, what would you do?

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Speaker 2: I'd say hi and then sit back down it. If

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Speaker 2: then you say hi and you go back to your.

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Speaker 3: Own all alone and look lonely. If you're like I

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Speaker 2: Like pushed his fluid on plea.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, ye sing all alone by myself.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But if you like at a taco stay and then

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Speaker 1: No, if it's explicitly a date, I would not invite

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Speaker 3: Say hi, now I'll know when to hang out with

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Riley, you could probably join our day in mine?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, are you gay?

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Speaker 1: However, here's the thing, nothing about his attitude or talking

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Speaker 1: style felt like he was gay. Well, have you seen

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Speaker 1: that episode of New Girl where Jess is like to Nick,

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Speaker 1: He's like, you're gay because she has you remember have you.

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Speaker 4: Seen your Girls?

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Speaker 2: I've seen a lot of it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So there's an episode where Jess has this guy

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Speaker 1: And this is what that feels like. He was complimenting

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Speaker 1: it genuinely felt like he was flirting heavily and it

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Speaker 1: saw my reaction but didn't care and continued to talk

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Speaker 1: I told Stacy how I felt, and she laughed it off, saying, oh, baby,

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Speaker 2: He wasn't flirting with me.

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Speaker 4: Don't be so jealous.

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Speaker 1: She told me there's nothing to worry about now. I

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Speaker 1: Has she talked to him about it?

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's by and he wants both of them.

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Speaker 2: Mmmm twist.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Pastasia, so.

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Speaker 4: He's just one of them girls.

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Speaker 1: His remarks, his eyes all were very flirtatious. Despite my protests,

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Speaker 1: Stacy continued to hang out with David and text with him.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, Sorry to jump it again. If he

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm trying to say. I'm trying

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Speaker 2: to get okay, you know what, I'll get it.

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Speaker 1: Together, think about what you've done, and then come back okay,

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Speaker 1: Contextual because if I was there, I think I would

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Speaker 2: No other information.

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Speaker 1: We gotta we gotta do one like that. That just,

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Speaker 1: Sana says, unless she knows he's not gay and use

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Speaker 2: Up, they don't hit on their friends partners. I think

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Speaker 1: Yes, at least, says I think Anthony's saying he'd go

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Speaker 2: Correct.

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Speaker 1: I see what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, yo, like, dude, you're so cool, You're awesome.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you're cool.

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Speaker 2: I'm not interested in your girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: But you Okay, that makes so much more sense. You

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Speaker 2: Dang, those are some sick shoes.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 3: I love that dude.

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Speaker 2: Man, Yeah, yeah, your girlfriend's really hot.

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Speaker 1: Are they flirtatious or is it just compliments?

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Speaker 1: We get each other, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Me and the girls are like, Oh my god, I

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Speaker 1: All copped it. They were shopping normally for a while,

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Speaker 1: He's probably here or something like peeking around the corner

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Speaker 2: And how is this dude seeing them and they're not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and she says, why does she suck? She had

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are calling me an insulin homophobic.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It is dependent from people, but I

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Speaker 1: betting rooms that son says. I think she also sucks

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Speaker 1: I really really hope you understand the difference between wearing

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Speaker 1: At first, I want to thank everyone for your support

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Speaker 1: It's been almost one and a half days since I posted,

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to Disney's end. This relationship is over,

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Speaker 1: Her friends confronted her about the half story and refused

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Speaker 2: That was a long.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Opia Colone says, I believe Opie personally. Kimberly find says,

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Speaker 1: But I think regard well, I think because we don't know.

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Speaker 2: They're both kind of yeah, because like a you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: No, I think there were a lot of cases. This

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Speaker 1: It's not okay and they each other. Yeah, Jonica says

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Speaker 2: The more eyeballs you have on the situation, yeah, the

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be there. I want to I

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Speaker 1: I want to be in the room where it happens.

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Speaker 1: Happened God the erin burgh aeron Burg song is no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: that the room where it happens when he sings, When

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Speaker 2: What a voice? Him and those nationwide commercials he's really

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Speaker 1: So Via Colon says, I'm not saying what he did

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you I don't know. We have to

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Speaker 2: trust it. We gotta trust. We gotta trust what we know,

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Speaker 2: we gotta trust the facts. A lot of there were

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Speaker 2: I can only do like, oh, yeah, but it's the

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Speaker 4: Oh you look like the fourth of July.

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Speaker 2: That's good, thank you, thank you. And I think people

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Speaker 6: Hey, Adrian, A lot of people have been asking me,

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Speaker 6: but you know how you're still healthy for those Ramboy movies,

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Speaker 1: I think that was great.

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Speaker 2: Thanks. I don't know. I have to listen to.

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Speaker 1: was only after he continued on and didn't believe her

444
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 1: that she started shutting him down. That's why I think

445
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 1: there was a lot going on on both Yes, That's

446
00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,959
Speaker 1: why I'm like. She talked to him about it, said, hey,

447
00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 1: he's not gay, or he's gay, don't worry, Like, Okay,

448
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 1: it's just my friendship. I think there was a lot

449
00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 1: of toxicity on both science. If I'm being honest with

450
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:06,679
Speaker 1: both size.

451
00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,240
Speaker 4: I want a hot dog, real bad hot dog.

452
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 2: That's good, that's good. Did you see.

453
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 5: No?

454
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: But I know she's in it. Yeah, I haven't seen it.

455
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 2: I need to like, what is it? My mother's ashes?

456
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 4: My mother's ashes.

457
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 1: I haven't even seen. It's a lot of she sounds.

458
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, cool.

459
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 1: Uh Bell Conklin says, Sophia, you can do Jennifer coolish.

460
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:33,880
Speaker 2: Thank you appreciate it.

461
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 1: I'm not really good. I honestly don't think I'm very

462
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 1: good at impressions. I think I'm better with accents. I

463
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 1: can do it.

464
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: I find that when doing an accent, if you think

465
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 2: of a person, it makes the accent much more consistent

466
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,920
Speaker 2: because you'd be like, oh this person you know? No

467
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: true AnyWho?

468
00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: But I think I must are we swapping Riley?

469
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 2: I also appreciate the comments on my shirt. What's at

470
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 2: sponge shirt? Sponge shirt?

471
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

472
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: Oh?

473
00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 3: And then there was what happened to you?

474
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 2: Sire? But what.

475
00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 3: All right?

476
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,359
Speaker 5: We have a very special person here with us today.

477
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 4: It is.

478
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god, dude, anything, how are you doing?

479
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 2: Bro? It's been a while. It's been a while.

480
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,120
Speaker 3: You look great, Thank you. Beer looks a little full,

481
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 3: it's a little brown.

482
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,160
Speaker 2: I just I didn't like it, thank you. I didn't

483
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 2: do anything to it. That's but that's like that sometimes

484
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 2: what it did, that's the vibe, you know what I mean?

485
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:50,040
Speaker 3: Thank you?

486
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 7: Also completely unshaped, like everything not taken care of.

487
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:58,400
Speaker 3: You gotta love it. Have you been the past few weeks?

488
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 2: Pretty good? Just got back from a home trip home trip.

489
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, trip home trip home. Yeah, it was nice.

490
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:11,280
Speaker 2: Saw the fan back in Boston, but up to Maine. Yep,

491
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 2: some good East Coast vibes. Nice, it was nice. A

492
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 2: lot of lake swimming. Yeah, it's nice.

493
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:24,280
Speaker 7: Hell yeah, love How is Paris? Paris is great? Have

494
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 7: you been kind of filled in on our I have

495
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 7: not filled in. I'll give you the tr So basically,

496
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 7: like the whole goal was, Hey, we're gonna go to Paris.

497
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 7: We're gonna like find these like cool, We'll find the

498
00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 7: Eiffel Tower, We'll find like I don't know, people like

499
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 7: rowing or running on the back. We'll run up to

500
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,160
Speaker 7: you Saint Bolton.

501
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 2: Get his take on. It'll be so easy.

502
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 7: And uh, then we got there and We're like, wow,

503
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 7: this is horrendously hard mayhem.

504
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, and Riley freaking rocked it.

505
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:57,920
Speaker 7: And we did end up getting a totally unplugged solar

506
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 7: uh solar powered satellite interneted live stream in the wild.

507
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 7: Got kicked out by the police once came back, held

508
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 7: our grounds.

509
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 2: No no speaking, no speak French speak, no specancy French. Yeah,

510
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: but it was good.

511
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 7: We had We had a blast, went crazy club till

512
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 7: six am, you know, all that good stuff.

513
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 3: It was wild. And then I have my fourth anniversary

514
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:27,800
Speaker 3: with my girlfriend.

515
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 7: Let's go, it's actually today, like the actually anniversary today,

516
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 7: So happy anniversary.

517
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: Does that means?

518
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 5: What does John get for completing four years of a relationship?

519
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 3: What does he get? Whole past?

520
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 2: No, no neighbor a home past.

521
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, Sam's golden not John's golden? Is John and Sam?

522
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 3: I think we started the show. Okay, he started the

523
00:25:58,040 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 3: gold Rules. He's the founder of the gold Rules.

524
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 7: I'm pretty sure he's like, he's like freaking Thomas Jefferson.

525
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 7: He wrote the Declaration of how to Cheat. He wrote

526
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,120
Speaker 7: that he did that. I didn't put my John Hancock

527
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 7: on that, oh.

528
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 2: Wow, but he put his cock on it as I

529
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 2: was looking for it. I didn't didn't go.

530
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 3: I don't because this is whoa, whoa, whoa.

531
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 2: Somebody gom gaty.

532
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,679
Speaker 7: But my last little tidbit until we get to this

533
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,200
Speaker 7: next story. Many of you have known that I have

534
00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 7: had knee issues in the past, the infamous u P

535
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 7: incident of December twenty twenty three where I dislocated my.

536
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 3: Knee while urinating.

537
00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: I'm curious, I have a knee that dislocates easily.

538
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: I was urinating with.

539
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 7: What I thought was a regular, regular stream, you know, everything.

540
00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:01,360
Speaker 2: Everything seemed to be everything conventional urination.

541
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 7: I will say the one unconventional piece. And people might

542
00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 7: not like this, Riley might not like this, But I

543
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 7: was actually leaving to go to the airport from like

544
00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:14,639
Speaker 7: Christmas vacation. You all know how Riley doesn't like Yeah,

545
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 7: airports and Christmas. I was on our team sink muted

546
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 7: of course, you know, phone in, pocket, camera off, all

547
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 7: of that. So I was like heavily multitasking and like

548
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 7: very much rushing and it just whipped out, dislocated pot

549
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:33,439
Speaker 7: back in.

550
00:27:34,200 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 3: But it just does that.

551
00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 7: So that's that's the that's the problem, that's the slippery floor,

552
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 7: that's the crux of the issues.

553
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 2: Hey, what was it a slippery floor?

554
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 3: No, no, I was.

555
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 7: Just stay firmly grasped it. And uh so, now my

556
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 7: knee was already doing really bad. And basically from like

557
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 7: halfway through the trip. You do you remember, Riley, when

558
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 7: my knee started getting bad a paras are, Yeah, you

559
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 7: remember it started getting bad like halfway through Paris. We

560
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 7: fly to our our anniversary spot and it's an island

561
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 7: and our Airbnb is up fifteen flights of stairs with

562
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 7: no elevator.

563
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 2: Fifteen flights.

564
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 3: Fifteen flights. Yeah, so maybe more I didn't count, but

565
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:14,199
Speaker 3: is that even legal? I mean, it's island. I don't care.

566
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,639
Speaker 3: It's not the US. It's like, yeah, it's like an

567
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 3: old Spanish island.

568
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:20,119
Speaker 2: And that's where you you had the anniversary there. You

569
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 2: guys like met there, we had the anniversary, Like that's

570
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:23,680
Speaker 2: your spot that you meant.

571
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, so yeah, I basically like tortured my knee

572
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 7: for and then I had like five hour flight, eleven

573
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 7: hour flight, and then by the time I got here,

574
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 7: my my knee was a cantlope. So I've just been recovering.

575
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 7: Went to the doctor yesterday. It's looking pretty good. So

576
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 7: Mike and surgery we'll.

577
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: See, Okay. I sent some healing vibes in the chat. Yeah,

578
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 2: guys chatting vibes.

579
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 4: Chat.

580
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 2: I missed you.

581
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 3: I missed you chat.

582
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:51,600
Speaker 2: So I was like, why are we swearing?

583
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 5: Oh, that's true, that was the only swear we've had,

584
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 5: and plus we can't add Tom whenever we swear on here,

585
00:28:58,880 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 5: so