1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably SHAKEE d I am 4 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 2: joselle Bryant. 5 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: That what's up. I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being 6 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,239 Speaker 1: here with us. What I know? And this is like 7 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: episode fivey fourteen, Like what is this five thousand and 8 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: twelve and twelve? Yeah, yeah, you're a couple off yung. 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: Thank god for being here. Yes, over and over again. 10 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: We love you guys. Yes, thanks for listening to our 11 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: crazy Yes, we appreciate you. We're happy that we continue 12 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 1: to entertain you and you like, continue to listen to 13 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: our voices. Yes, and listen to us talk. Yeah. Didn't 14 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 1: people say they have sex to our voices or something? 15 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: She said? I think she said it'll play in the 16 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: background as her and her husband are pleasuring each other. No, okay, 17 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: what it wasn't that far, but I think it was 18 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 1: like when he when they would be in the like 19 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 1: she would have it playing, maybe when she's in the 20 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: bathroom getting ready and he's okay, in like in the vicinity. 21 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: And then I think then we took it to the 22 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:16,959 Speaker 1: next level. Was like, oh, you should have sex. You 23 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 1: should have sex to have sex and your Yeah, that's weird, 24 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: extremely yeah, or you can play it for you and one. Yeah, no, 25 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: I can't stand listening to myself. I cannot. I know, 26 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 1: I know. Listen to yourself talk on some other kind 27 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: of apparatus is yeah, weird, it's weird. I can't. I 28 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 1: can't take it. I can't. So yeah, anyway, we are here, 29 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: we are back. We are happy. Reminder to people that 30 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 1: I'm on a show called Love Hotel. Yes, and I 31 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: so the show, the premise show has you been on? 32 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: Like count them, count them, name them, count count them? Okay? 33 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: So we were housewives of Potomac, Yeah, not not many. 34 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: What's the what's the show? I did? Girls, Girls Trip, 35 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: Love Hotel. That's it? Chat room, chat room? Oh yeah, 36 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: I forgot that. Okay, that's it chat room Okay, and 37 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,000 Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah. I don't know how I thought it 38 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: was more than that. You did like a little acting gig, 39 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: Yeah did I I don't know, didn't you? 40 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: Oh you mean outtouchment under the Bravo space just okay? Yeah, 41 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 2: I did a little did a little b et acting situation. 42 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: That was fun. I need to do more of that. 43 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, and and a bunch of one hundred million commercials 44 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 2: one million. 45 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: Okay, so great congratulation, thank you. Moving on, what are 46 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: we talking about? Oh yeah, when does it premiere? And where? Okay? 47 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:51,639 Speaker 2: Me, Ashley, Luanne and Shannon went to Cabo and we 48 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 2: were inundated with the men's. 49 00:02:56,760 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Love Hotel. I will be your love 50 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: of concierge, and I'm checking in four real housewives whose 51 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: love lives are more disaster movie than Ron Please Lord, 52 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: give me somebody. Come and meet ladies. They're established, they're successful, 53 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,920 Speaker 1: they're all hung like bolo men. 54 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 2: Have come to the fotas just to give you the 55 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 2: premise of the show. They brought in like waves of 56 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 2: eight men at a time. Okay, yeah, four of us, 57 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: eight of them, and so we were able to decide 58 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,080 Speaker 2: whether or not we wanted them to stay in the 59 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 2: Love Hotel and okay, so we gave them a key 60 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: or get your ass out of here, and we did 61 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: not give you. 62 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: A key, got it? Yes? Okay. So when they the 63 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: waves of eight men come in, is it like, is 64 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: this all done in the same day? No, So like 65 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 1: the first group, we were with them, I think for 66 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: a week, okay, and we were in Mexico forever. So 67 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: we did first wave I think. 68 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 2: Was for a week, I think, and then by I 69 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: don't know, day four, we were able to figure out 70 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 2: who we want to stay, who we don't, and then 71 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: more came. 72 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: It was another it was called a dating pool. 73 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 2: Okay, there was some more men's came, and I was 74 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: I went through them like like wildfire, like. 75 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 1: Get out, get out, get out. I had all of y'all. 76 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:16,479 Speaker 1: And then the last group came. Okay, got it. But 77 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: so if someone was left over from the first group, yeah, 78 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 1: they could potentially be there at the end. Come yeah, 79 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 1: at the end of you gotta fight for your people, 80 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: got it, Yes? And I was fighting for people that 81 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,839 Speaker 1: had nothing to do with me. Yeah, so because that's 82 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: just who I am. And then I was like kicking 83 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: people off that had nothing to do with me. So 84 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:32,799 Speaker 1: I think, you know, I was all up in it. 85 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: But it was very much. 86 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 2: Girl empowerment, like we all kind of were looking out 87 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,600 Speaker 2: for each other, all the ladies, you know, luamne may 88 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 2: or may not try to steal somebody's man mine, but whatever. 89 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: And I was trying to steal people's men too, So 90 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 1: you know, it was fun times. Okay, have by all. 91 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 1: Well that sounds interesting. Yeah, okay, so when does it premiere? 92 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:56,040 Speaker 2: Oh yes, it's April twenty seven, after the Real Housewives 93 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 2: of Atlanta. 94 00:04:56,839 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I thought it was a Peacock show. 95 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:04,840 Speaker 2: Originally we started off as Peacock and then Gizelle and 96 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 2: went in there and did her one, two, three, and 97 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 2: it was like, okay, we got to put this song bravo. 98 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 1: Oh nice. And I didn't know that. Okay, don't get 99 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: me wrong. 100 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not taking credit for this show. Like 101 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 2: lu Anne and Shannon and Ashley, they did their bit. 102 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, like it was. 103 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: It was nice to be with like some vets that 104 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 2: really knew, like okay, that really just jumped into the whole. 105 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: Yeah world. They were there to make a show and 106 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,560 Speaker 1: they made it. Yeah, and hopefully find love. 107 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 2: And hopefully find love along the way. And yeah, so 108 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 2: we'll see if they found love. I can't I can't 109 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 2: spill it. 110 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:53,080 Speaker 1: Yes, but Ashley is Ashley, I can say that. Okay, Yeah, okay, 111 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: we love her. She tonguing somebody down and promo. Yes, anyway, 112 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: it's great, y'all love it. 113 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: Okay, So I think it's like eight or nine episodes, 114 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 2: maybe I don't know seven or eight. 115 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: And I want you to watch it only so you 116 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 1: could tell me what guys you like. Okay, all right, yes, 117 00:06:12,279 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: so do you think you can watch it? Sure? Okay? 118 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 1: This is this is what do you call your homework? Okay? Yeah, 119 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,479 Speaker 1: all right, homework for Robin twenty seven? Okay, okay. 120 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: So outside of that, as a reminder, I'm doing my 121 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 2: five k run walk with the National Brand Too Much Society. 122 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: Just check my bio. There's some links in there and 123 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,039 Speaker 1: you can join in. By the way, this is my 124 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 1: shady moment, you know. 125 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: I'm doing this with Ashley, and then we have Tim 126 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 2: who's the trainer, and Brand is helping us out, who's 127 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 2: the event planner. 128 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:49,479 Speaker 1: Okay. 129 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: So we all got together and we were like, okay, 130 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 2: we got to get some content so that we could post 131 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:58,159 Speaker 2: to talk about this race. So Tim's like, yeah, you know, 132 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 2: there's a funny thing on TikTok and it shows was 133 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 2: like have you ever seen your friend run? 134 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: Okay? So he's like, we're all gonna run, and so 135 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 1: I go first because I'm just like okay, so my 136 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: run is so tragic okay, I mean, and they caught 137 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: it several different ways she's a runner, I mean of swords, right, 138 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: But the real deal is, like this particular day, the 139 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 1: ground was a little slippery and so I was scared 140 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: to like full out run. 141 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 2: I wasn't like trying to bust a kneecap. But my 142 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 2: run is tragic. So check my instagram because I posted 143 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 2: some tragic runs. Ashley is running like a cartoon character, 144 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: like she is like Speedy Gonzalees. Okay, okay, okay, now, 145 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:48,119 Speaker 2: Speedy Cazalees is there. Speedy Cazalas is the road runner 146 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 2: or whatever, the roadrunner. 147 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 1: It's Ashley. Ass is funny. Mine is tragic. And who's 148 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 1: a trainer? Of course his looks good and brand he 149 00:07:58,200 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: look a mess. 150 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 2: So it's funny. But have you ever seen your friends run? 151 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 2: Like could you imagine? 152 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what you look like when you run? Yeah? No, 153 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:09,760 Speaker 1: right right? Yeah, Like when do you get together and run? 154 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 1: Like do you mean when you say run, you mean 155 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: like sprint? Yes? Like full blown, full out? 156 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, like you start down in the running position. Yeah, yeah, 157 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 2: we turn into Shakiri richards anyway, Richardson, Richardson, yees, listen, 158 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:25,239 Speaker 2: mine is horrible. 159 00:08:25,320 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm horrible too. I'm like really stiff like that. Yeah, 160 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: it's bad. So anyways, check it out, full joint. There's 161 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: an art to running, there's a you know, there's a form. Okay, yeah, okay, yeah, 162 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: well I haven't. I guess I wasn't given that. Okay, 163 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: I'll have to check y'all out. Yeah, check us out 164 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: if you and if you want to join our team, 165 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 1: feel free. It's fun. It'll be fun, you know what. 166 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: I actually would love to. However, every Saturday of my 167 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: life from between now and the middle of July will 168 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: be spent in a basketball gym. It's that's right. It's 169 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: so bad. So are they playing games or just practicing games? 170 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,960 Speaker 1: Game all over the place? Is Carter in it now? Yes? 171 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 1: Oh he's in it? Yeah? Is he good? He's not 172 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: as good as Corey? Does he know that? Yes? Okay, 173 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 1: yeah he knows it because you know, like Carter's small, 174 00:09:14,520 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: We and like this this was we failed as parents 175 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 1: in this sense because we put a lot of energy 176 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: and time and dedication into Corey's athletic development. Yeah, and 177 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: Carter was just always along for the ride. So like 178 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 1: Corey played football, Carter didn't. That was his choice and 179 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 1: that alone kind of puts him in a different space 180 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:42,840 Speaker 1: athletically on the basketball court. And then since Wan coached 181 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:47,959 Speaker 1: Corey's youth team from like third grade to seventh grade, 182 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,719 Speaker 1: he didn't have time to put into Carter. Carter just 183 00:09:51,720 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: got yeah, he got he got the shorten the stick. 184 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: I can admit it, like you know, it's not it's 185 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: not a secret. We can take responsibility. So he's a 186 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: little bit he's not at the same stage as Corey 187 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 1: developmental wise. Okay, but we can get them there. Okay, 188 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: you know now that y'all have decided that y'all there 189 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: was error, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, so we 190 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 1: can get him there. Actually one is actually coaching Carter's 191 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: team now, okay, good, yeah, so he's like volunteering for 192 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: this organization that Carter's playing for. Okay, So so anyway, 193 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 1: between Corey and Carter, I'm gonna be in Phoenix, Memphis, Georgia, Pennsylvania, 194 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,199 Speaker 1: New Jersey. You on the road, Marland d C. Of course, 195 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 1: like every weekend, every you on the road weekend? Okay, lovely, 196 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: is that your shady moment? No, okay, what is what's shady? 197 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:48,959 Speaker 1: So my shady moment, Like y'all know, I always talk 198 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: about I always have my good quality water with me, yes, mountain, 199 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: Mountain valley. Yeah, well we have somehow the people in 200 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: my house strength all the mountain. And now I'm drinking 201 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: deer Park today. Do y'all see this, boot, boot? I 202 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: have a plastic bottle. I got water in a plastic bottle. 203 00:11:09,679 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: I just told the people no plastic exactly, Oh my god, exactly, 204 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: And now I'm drinking deer Park today. Guys, and so, 205 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 1: I always have like a case of like it's usually aquafina. 206 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 1: I don't even know how I got. Deer Park is 207 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 1: worse than dear Park. We prefer aquafina has a taste 208 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 1: to it, and after like a I feel that about 209 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 1: deer Park. Okay, so so we but I so I 210 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: usually have like a backup case of aquafina in my 211 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 1: house just in case we run out of like other stuff. 212 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: But typically you know, my my deliveries on time, you 213 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 1: got enough water, blah blah blah. But yeah, I'm drinking 214 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 1: deer Park bottle water. 215 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 2: We had gone from riches to rags exactly exactly. Okay, 216 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 2: are you about to tell so who's the shady people? 217 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 2: The people in your house? 218 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 1: The people you live with M or your delivery man 219 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: who hasn't delivered my delivery you deliver man. 220 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 2: Okay, I see that, man, I see that. Yes, okay, 221 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:10,200 Speaker 2: So we have some stuff before we random stuff random. 222 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 1: I love. I love random stuff. Okay. First I have 223 00:12:12,760 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: a question for you, yes, okay. First of all, I 224 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: want to say, do you ever go on threads? Yes? Occasionally? 225 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love thread Do you love threads? Yes? Why? 226 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 1: I love it because it's like I don't at least 227 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: the stuff that I that that gets shown to me. 228 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: First of all, I don't post on it. I haven't 229 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: said anything like I kind of want to, like one 230 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: day be like hi and like so, but you have 231 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: your name come up with the topic. Yeah okay, but 232 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 1: I just scroll whatever comes on on my feed, okay, 233 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: and it'll be like and I don't know who these 234 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: people are that are popping up on my threads. Yeah, 235 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: it'll be like random story times, like story time dating threads, okay, 236 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: people talking about, oh, I'm matched with this guy and 237 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to meet him tonight, and then they're like 238 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 1: coming back and updating their story. And then it'll be 239 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 1: people like giving makeup tips and people giving skincare tips 240 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: o people talking about Corey Booker, like, it's just so 241 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:11,839 Speaker 1: love that. Yes, I love it. It's like very it's 242 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,280 Speaker 1: positive community. Yes, it feels like a community versus like 243 00:13:15,320 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: where Twitter is just like toxic, right, So threads is 244 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:23,960 Speaker 1: very community like so on threads and people just put 245 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: up random questions sometimes so on threads, one girl asked. 246 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, I didn't realize that this was 247 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: a thing or a debate, but how do you put 248 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: your bra on? 249 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good question, and this takes me to 250 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 2: somewhere else. But I put my arms in and then 251 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 2: I buttoned it in the back. 252 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: Oh see, I don't do it that way, right, No, 253 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 1: my kid didn't know that. This girl like did not 254 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: know that there was another way. 255 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 2: So my kids, I guess I didn't teach them how 256 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 2: to do it. They just decided to do it on 257 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 2: their own. They they they latch. 258 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: It in the front and then they swing it around 259 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: and then they put their arms in. That's how I 260 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 1: do it. Where did you get that from? I don't. 261 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just I don't. That's just how 262 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,160 Speaker 1: I've always put my breast. Actually weird, and it takes 263 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: too much time. It makes sense. It takes so much 264 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:22,240 Speaker 1: more time. How do you see what you're clasping in 265 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:24,160 Speaker 1: the back? You know where it is? You've done it 266 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: a million times? No, I've done it none, Like, yeah, 267 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: I stepped down it a million time. I know exactly 268 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: what Boo done. No. For me, it's always been like, okay, 269 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: let me look at the class. Yeah, I see it, okay, class, 270 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: turn around, put my arms in okay. So I okay, 271 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: but how do you put on like a T shirt? Now? 272 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: How do you put on like a tank top a 273 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: tank top? Yeah, you should put your arms through. Okay. 274 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: So I step into a tank top and pullice. 275 00:14:57,200 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 2: And it's so funny because like, I dressed in front 276 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 2: of this guy recently, well a while ago anyway, and 277 00:15:03,120 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: he was like, what are you doing? 278 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 1: What happened? And I was like what do you mean? 279 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: And he was like you're why why would you do? 280 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 1: Why would you get dressed like that? Right? 281 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 2: And I was like, because this is how I get dressed. Player, like, 282 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 2: mind your business. As long as I get dressed, like 283 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: that's all that matters. 284 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 1: That is a valid question. It's like what so I. 285 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 2: Long time ago decided to do that because then there's 286 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 2: no under armor under what do you call it? 287 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: Like the deodoran deodorant? 288 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 2: There's no deodorant that like if you put it on 289 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 2: top of your head when it goes down on the 290 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 2: diodorant on the sides. 291 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: Okay, if you step into it, no deodorant, that makes sense? Yes, 292 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: I get that. Okay, Okay, so I step into everything 293 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: that I can't that you can write, like, you can't 294 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: step into this now sweater, but if you if you 295 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,880 Speaker 1: can pull it up that way? Okay? Interesting, all right, 296 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: I now that makes sense. So let's put a poll 297 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: out there, okay, because the braw situation does not make sense. 298 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 1: It makes total sense to me. And then you and 299 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: I watched my kids do that. I'm like, why are 300 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: you doing that? And they were like, I get dressed mom, right, 301 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 1: Like how else were you supposed to do it? But 302 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: you're getting dressed like an eight sixteen year old eighteen 303 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: year old just so that you're young get hurt. Yes, 304 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, put the pole out there. 305 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 1: I need to know. Yes, so how do you put 306 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: your braw on? Yes? And that's that's not a worthy pole. Yes, Rather, 307 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 1: I promise you some other people do it the way 308 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: that I do it? Okay, all right, Yeah, two poles, please, 309 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: Puitar our social media manager. We need two poles out there. Yeah. One, 310 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: how do you put your bra on? Yeah? Do you 311 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: put your arms through first and claps class in the back? Yeah? 312 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: Or do you clasp in the front, twist it around 313 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: and then put your arms through, right? 314 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 2: And then okay, we don't need a poll for this. 315 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: But then how do you put on your shoes and socks? 316 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 2: Do you put sock sock shoe shoe or sock shoe 317 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: sock shoe? 318 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 1: Well, all my shoes are in the garage, so like, 319 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: oh so you'll have your socks on. Yeah, okay, But 320 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: also all right, let's say let's say I am somewhere 321 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: in a hotel. Yes, socks first, in the shoes because like, 322 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: the shoes are the very last thing that I put 323 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 1: on to leave, because I just on. But you're still 324 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 1: you're not because you're you're putting all of it on, right, Yeah, 325 00:17:11,280 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: So I do socked sho socked you what? Yeah? Really? 326 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: Are you sure? I take care of one side, yeah, 327 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:19,800 Speaker 1: and then I take care of the other side, and 328 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: then I'm ready to go to go. Are you serious? Yes, okay, 329 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:32,920 Speaker 1: that's yeah. No, no socks shohoes, sock you socks you? Yeah, 330 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,160 Speaker 1: maybe we do need a pole. Yeah, okay, hey, let's 331 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 1: go for it while we're poland yes, okay, another thing. Yeah? 332 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: Did you know I saw this today that Apple is 333 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:56,480 Speaker 1: putting out some new emojis and they are R and 334 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:59,720 Speaker 1: B singers. They're like female singers. Okay, let me pull 335 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:02,400 Speaker 1: it up on Beyonce's Internet. What are we doing? Yes? 336 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: So okay, So who do you think if if Apple 337 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 1: was to put out a new emojis? Yeah, and let's 338 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 1: say there eight female artists, Beyonce is gonna get her own. 339 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:19,520 Speaker 1: She needs to because they all have their own Beyonce, Beyonce. 340 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 1: Because you're working hard, you're doing your thing, Beyonce. Okay, okay, 341 00:18:24,119 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 1: who else is the R and B? Somebody? It doesn't 342 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:29,800 Speaker 1: have to be R and B. Okay, I'm sorry, misspoke. 343 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 1: It's not just v so female singers. 344 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 2: I would feel put out, Dolly Parton, if I'm feeling 345 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 2: a little country, I would if I'm if I'm feeling 346 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 2: like rapper ish, I might give you a you know, 347 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:53,400 Speaker 2: glow rilla or little Cardi okay, or a little Nikki okay, Okay, 348 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:53,920 Speaker 2: you can. 349 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: Stop me at any time. Okay, No, I just want 350 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: to see who you talking. Okay, so you want to 351 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 1: know who's who? Okay, I don't know who this person is. 352 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,359 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if it's Lena del Rey maybe Okay, 353 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,840 Speaker 1: so I see Beyonce. Yeah, Rihanna, I'll get your re reing. 354 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: But but re Ree would not. I would not put 355 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:12,399 Speaker 1: her when I'm talking about music. Yeah, I would put her. 356 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:14,520 Speaker 1: I think this is Rihanna. I would, I would add her. 357 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:17,640 Speaker 1: I would. If I'm typing something, I put Rihanna. Yeah 358 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,960 Speaker 1: what am I saying? I don't know. I mean, it's 359 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: it's not even like I'll show him to you to 360 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: look like that. Okay, So Rihanna, is that that's Nicky 361 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 1: With that's Nikki, Yeah, that's got Lady Gaga. Okay, that's 362 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 1: gotta be Taylor Swift. All right, we'll put Taylor up. 363 00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: Maybe that's Arian Yeah for sure. I don't know who 364 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 1: this is, long blonde hair, no idea, no clue. I 365 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: assume this is Rihanna. But I'm like kind of like Tyler. 366 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It looks like Tyler. Yeah, because 367 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm if I'm going over to a 368 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: little booze house and I'm gonna let him know that 369 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: is about to get down to the ground. I might 370 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 1: put her in because you know, she has like all 371 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,239 Speaker 1: that hip music, I mean hip motion. Really, yes, but 372 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 1: Tyler months Beyonce, Nikki gotta Taylor Swift. Okay, Nikki would 373 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: give me NICKI gives me like I'm gonna be raunchy 374 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:10,160 Speaker 1: and nasty with you. Yes, Tyler gives me like we're 375 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 1: just gonna have normal sex. Okay, I'm just saying I 376 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: don't think Tyler deserves to be on this. No. No, 377 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: So there's That's why I say. Is this Lina del Ray? 378 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 1: I don't even know who that is? Yeah, okay, so anyway, 379 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,479 Speaker 1: all right, let me show maybe that's Selena Gomette, Oh, 380 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,120 Speaker 1: Selena Gomez. I don't know. I'm gonna show the camera. Yeah, 381 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna show our YouTubers, all right, so y'all can 382 00:20:30,280 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: see and maybe by the time y'all see this, this 383 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,640 Speaker 1: is there already. I mean, subscribe your phone to our YouTube. Yeah, 384 00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,959 Speaker 1: all right, so those are the ladies. Yeah, I'm definitely 385 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:40,600 Speaker 1: throwing Nikki all over the place. Don't know, but I 386 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: feel like I would just yeah, like I don't. I 387 00:20:43,040 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 1: don't even know that I would use it for like 388 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,719 Speaker 1: to express a certain feeling, Like I would just use 389 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: it just because, Yes, okay, I like it. Get your 390 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: Beyonce on, get your Nikki on. So this is upcoming 391 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 1: for the iOS eighteen point five uptaps. 392 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 2: Okay, I I would like since Apple is doing things, 393 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 2: because I just looked this up recently. 394 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: So you know, I have my mini phone, yes. 395 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: And I've been holding onto it to the wheels fall 396 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 2: off because I heard that the iPhone seventeen they were 397 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 2: coming out with a mini verse. So I recently looked 398 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 2: up this information because I'm like, okay, I'm ready for 399 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 2: a new phone. 400 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, they're saying no because they're doing the fold 401 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:26,159 Speaker 1: oh old phone. Okay. So okay, so I have a 402 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: mini because anything bigger hurts my hand. Yes, it does. 403 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 1: It hurt your hand? Yeah, I mean if you hold 404 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: it long enough ye yeah. Yeah. 405 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 2: So I feel like they want all of us to 406 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 2: like have carpal tunnel or something. I don't know, like 407 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 2: this one. 408 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,679 Speaker 1: I had to take the case off because it was 409 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: just too much with the case, right, So then you 410 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: run the risk of but they're actually pretty durable, Like 411 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 1: I've dropped it and it's fine. Okay, So maybe I 412 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: don't know. I feel this, it's not bad. But then 413 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: how do you see, Like, how do you text? Like 414 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:56,080 Speaker 1: I text with one hand? Do you text with two 415 00:21:56,080 --> 00:22:00,200 Speaker 1: hands or one? It's probably too too. Yeah, I got 416 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:03,040 Speaker 1: a text with wine anyway, So I found work on that. 417 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,119 Speaker 1: Give me the minie back. That's all I have to 418 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,880 Speaker 1: say about Okay, okay, all right, moving on, Okay, Next, 419 00:22:10,119 --> 00:22:13,520 Speaker 1: I wanted to see if you were up on some 420 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 1: of the current slang that our kids are using. Yes, 421 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 1: I am, give it to me, Give it to me, 422 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: all right. Do you know what sigma means? Sigma? Yes? No? No? Okay, 423 00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: So the kids don't say that, Yes, they do what 424 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,400 Speaker 1: they said. Well, they they're aware of it. My kids 425 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: don't really say it, but it means like something good 426 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 1: sigma yes, no one, no one. I've not heard it. 427 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,000 Speaker 1: This is not new to me. Okay, And how old 428 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: is this kid? Twelve? I don't know. I'm telling you 429 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: I've heard I have heard it. Okay. Skibbity, Yes, you've 430 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,440 Speaker 1: heard skibbity? Yeah? No, what is that? Okay? Like skibbity 431 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 1: do like like it's good. Bad, it's bad. It's skimbitty, Yes, 432 00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:58,879 Speaker 1: it's bad. I've definitely heard my kids say skibbity, but 433 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: they don't say it often. Okay, de Lulu right, okay, Riz, 434 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 1: Yes you've heard riz semen No, the Riz came out 435 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 1: the penis Riz. This says romantic. No, yeah, I don't. 436 00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't know about that. I've heard my kids. What 437 00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: how do they use it? They say he rizzed? No, 438 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 1: it's not a verb, it's like an adjective. Okay, it's 439 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: like to describe some someone. Are your kids cool? Very? Okay, 440 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 1: because it's very sounding, not cool. I'm just telling you 441 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: this is what it is. Okay, cap yes, lie okay 442 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 1: or not true? Yes, okay, goat of course this I've 443 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: never heard gayat gay. I don't even know how to 444 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:51,640 Speaker 1: say yet. Gayat I means speedy booty yeah, big booty yeah, 445 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:57,480 Speaker 1: okay mid mid? What just mid? No? What's that? It's 446 00:23:57,480 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: like average? My kids definitely say they say, okay average mid. Yes, 447 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 1: some of these I've never heard. Sus. Of course, I 448 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 1: heard that something that is weird busting, Yes, that tastes good? Yes, yeah, okay, 449 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:16,919 Speaker 1: busting busting okay, um, yeah, some of these already know 450 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: drip sleigh Yeah. Bet all right bet bet yeah, like 451 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: I agree? Okay, all right? What about Aura or Aura? Aura? Yeah? Yes, 452 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,840 Speaker 1: do your kids use that? No, like your aura? Yeah? 453 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: So that's the thing. So Aura. So my kids would 454 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: be like Corey would be like, mom, everybody at school 455 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 1: says that you have aura? Oh what does that mean? 456 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god? I love that. What does that mean? 457 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,679 Speaker 1: Like you were like fats? I don't know, it's like 458 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,840 Speaker 1: I have like aura. I don't even know what that means, 459 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: but that means you're fat. Yeah, yes, I love that. 460 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:50,360 Speaker 1: You know, nobody has said that to me. By the way, 461 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:54,879 Speaker 1: speaking of yeah, are we done this list? Yeah? Okay. 462 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 1: So I went to go visit a door at Ampton. Yeah, 463 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 1: there might have been some nineteen year olds that, you know, 464 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 1: I might wanted to get to know me better shooting 465 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: their shot maybe. So I just want you to know 466 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm hot out here with these nineteen year olds. Okay, 467 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: Now they are broke and I can only do one 468 00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: thing with them. Yes, but they find me attractive really, Like, 469 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,199 Speaker 1: did they ask you a do I went on to 470 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:28,000 Speaker 1: get that far out because that's creepy okay, yeah, but 471 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 1: they were like, when is your mom coming? Yeah? When 472 00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:33,440 Speaker 1: can I see talk to your mom? Please don't go, 473 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 1: please do not. 474 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 2: I'm not going to bring any college kids home. Please 475 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 2: do not, only because my kids are in college. 476 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: Okay, if they weren't that I might think about it, 477 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: all right anyway, not anyway, Wait a minute, speaking of 478 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 1: the goat, have we seen Lebron's toes? Oh? Yes, I didn't. 479 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 1: I'll look up Lebron's toes. It man count Oh how 480 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:04,360 Speaker 1: do you walk around with nubs? It's weird? How are 481 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: you actually walking and choose and you have? How how 482 00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: are you playing basketball at forty years old at a 483 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:12,879 Speaker 1: super high level? 484 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,400 Speaker 2: Yes, with your toes. I want y'all look up these 485 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 2: soaps because they look like, I don't know, it looks 486 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 2: like nubs. 487 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 1: Yes, cornflakes, It looks it looks scary. 488 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, so Lebron, I'm gonn neath you to have toe surgery. 489 00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 2: He can get some prosthetic toes. 490 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you could do anything these days. Oh my gosh, yes, 491 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: they look crazy. Okay. Hypothetical question. 492 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,959 Speaker 2: Okay, speaking of speaking of things that you can purchase, 493 00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:40,760 Speaker 2: do we believe that chad Ocho Sinko got a fake penis. 494 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,359 Speaker 1: Do we believe that? Do we ever talk about that? 495 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if we've talked about that, but no, 496 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 1: I don't believe it. I think I've saw him like 497 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,600 Speaker 1: tease about that. He said that. Yeah, I don't believe that. 498 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,879 Speaker 1: You believe that his is already big and he was 499 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: just born big? Well? Did did he say he was 500 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:56,680 Speaker 1: big or someone else that he was somebody else said 501 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,919 Speaker 1: he was big? Okay? Yeah, I don't think he he 502 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,840 Speaker 1: can't surgery. No, Okay, I think he's just being funny. Okay, yeah, okay. 503 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: Hypothetical question for him. Yes, So this was a story 504 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 1: in Chicago. It says Chicago men who spent sixteen years 505 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:19,040 Speaker 1: in prison for wrongful murder for wrongful murder convict conviction 506 00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 1: received one hundred and twenty million dollars. Okay. So the 507 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: hypothetical question, if you were eighteen years old, okay, would 508 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:35,919 Speaker 1: you be willing to take a a murder charge what 509 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:40,960 Speaker 1: and go to jail for for the fifteen years knowing 510 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: that on the other side of those sixteen years, Yes, 511 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna get one hundred and twenty million dollars. Did 512 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:50,360 Speaker 1: they split it? Are you individually? Let's say, are there's 513 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: three men in this picture? Okay, so let's let's do 514 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,120 Speaker 1: both scenarios. Like, so let's say they split it. That's 515 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: forty million forty million. So you give you do sixteen years, 516 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 1: you get forty million. Yes, hell no, no, hell no. 517 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: All right, so if you get one twenty million, might 518 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,280 Speaker 1: think about it, think about it. Yeah, but forty million 519 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: is absolutely now. Yeah, but like I'm look at the 520 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: odds here. You have to go to jail. You have 521 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:18,160 Speaker 1: to stay alive. Yeah, because they're in prison probably Yeah, yeah, 522 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:20,640 Speaker 1: they're they're not in they're in GM POP. They're they're 523 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:21,480 Speaker 1: fighting for their lives. 524 00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to deal with the inner workings of 525 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 2: the jail system. 526 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna like go to the library, get an education. Yeah, 527 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: I'm with you all the do all the you know training, 528 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: what about the what about the fights that break out? 529 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stay. I'm gonna be like the nerves mediator. 530 00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: Come on, guys, can we all just get along? I mean, 531 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: is there some like gang rapes and somebody's like give 532 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,120 Speaker 1: me your give me your toast. I mean, like you 533 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: can have one if they say give me your butthole out. Okay, yeah, no, 534 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 1: exactly exactly, okay, one hundred and twenty million. Now, I 535 00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: don't know. When I saw it, I was like, I 536 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,160 Speaker 1: was like, damn, I'm like, is that a. 537 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 2: Good No, that's not a good bet, that's not a 538 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 2: good wager, that's not a good And there's. 539 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 1: Too many variables here. It's jail prison. It's sometimes the 540 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: cops what do you call them, people, the the wharden, 541 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: the corrections officer. They look the other way. 542 00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, you can't look the other way on my 543 00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,040 Speaker 2: booty gold Yeah no, okay, good point there. 544 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,280 Speaker 1: I didn't think that deep into you, like, yeah, I 545 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: think I go to jail for sixteen years, one hundred 546 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: and twenty million. 547 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 2: Rabbit, and when you come out like just the no, 548 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,800 Speaker 2: no you're not. No, you would not. 549 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I'll rethink it. Yes, thank you. 550 00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 2: Would you want your boys going to jail for one 551 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 2: hundred and twenty million on the other question, no, you 552 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:45,080 Speaker 2: would not. 553 00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: You know, it depends on how like where they are 554 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,719 Speaker 1: in life. I cannot they're not making anything in themselves. 555 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: And I'll come visit you. I cannot, And you're gonna 556 00:29:56,160 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 1: bring him a ship? No? Yeah? Yeah? Will ask Karen 557 00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 1: when she comes out but then yeah, right, that's good. 558 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 2: Okay, So so I have something for you because this 559 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,760 Speaker 2: was actually an actual survey, and it's said that having 560 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 2: sons makes you age faster than having daughters. Studies say, 561 00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 2: this is a whole freaking study really, Yes, suggests that 562 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 2: daughters often provide more social support, which may ease later 563 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,680 Speaker 2: life disadvantages, while parents of sons tend to have lower 564 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:31,640 Speaker 2: divorce rates. So that's fine, you have a lower divorce rate. 565 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 2: But they say that y'all drop dead quick. 566 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:38,240 Speaker 1: Well, how old are these sons? Is it? Are? They? See? 567 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 1: Maybe my sons are too young for me to be 568 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,320 Speaker 1: part of this survey, Like I feel like maybe that's 569 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: once they get older in their adults and then I'm 570 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: an older adult and I. 571 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 2: Need They basically say, sons don't care to take care 572 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 2: of their elderly parents. 573 00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: Why not? Well, I would say generally, I think sons. 574 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: If you have a son that gets married to a woman, 575 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 1: he often is like with the woman's family, so like 576 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 1: when the woman had the you know, when they have holidays, vacations, 577 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: you know, even like the babysit the people who usually 578 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: come over and babysit the kids are usually like the 579 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,800 Speaker 1: wife's because she's because she's controlling that household. Yeah, yes, 580 00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: I don't right, I don't know. I mean, I just 581 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,040 Speaker 1: think that's just typical. Like you just mostly see, like 582 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:30,480 Speaker 1: you lean towards the wife's family and whatever they do. 583 00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 1: It was kind of opposite like me growing up my father, 584 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,800 Speaker 1: we leaned more towards his family, so we were always 585 00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: at my father's mother's house. Yeah, you know, that grandmother 586 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: was the one that always watched us. So for me 587 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: it was opposite growing up. But I mean I can 588 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 1: see why that happens, like, yeah, you know my mom, 589 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: you know, it's taking care of my kids and all 590 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 1: of that. You know, my mom's going I mean, my 591 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: kid's gonna take care of me. But speaking of my mother, 592 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: she called me the other day. I guess she listens 593 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:04,360 Speaker 1: to reasonably shady Mom, how are you? And she was like, gsell, 594 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: I listened to you talk about giving people a hall 595 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: past when you're older. Oh oh yes, what's the update? 596 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: What does she have to say? She said? 597 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,960 Speaker 2: I said, yeah, I wouldn't care, like once I'm like 598 00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,280 Speaker 2: seventy five. She said, You're always gonna care. 599 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: What do you mean you don't care even if you 600 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 1: have breath in your body. You don't care what that 601 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:28,320 Speaker 1: man is doing. I said, Mommy, I promise you I 602 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 1: won't care at all. She was like, yes, you will, 603 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 1: I said mine, especially if. And then your parents came up. 604 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 1: I was like, especially if riving in because we talked 605 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: about your being married for a hundred years, so like, 606 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: why would. 607 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 2: Your mom care what your what your dad died? I 608 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,479 Speaker 2: was like, you know, when you take, when you take, 609 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 2: people have been together forever. 610 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: It's like, do you really care? And my mother was like, yes, 611 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,960 Speaker 1: of course you care. I'll be saying you don't care. 612 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 1: I said, well, mom, I'm here to tell you I 613 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: don't care. All right. I haven't asked my mom that yet. Yeah, 614 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: I have to ask her. Yeah, let us know. Because 615 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: my mother yelled at me. That hilarious. That is funny. Okay, 616 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: So we got a bunch a bunch of emails. Oh wait, 617 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 1: which one do I want to come back to? Oh? 618 00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 2: By the way, by the way, matchmaking is over, let's 619 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 2: walk about matchmaking. So we did our matchmaking, a reasonably 620 00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 2: shaded matchmaking. 621 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: It was so much fun, and we have matched a 622 00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:26,520 Speaker 1: couple of people, yes, like so many couples. It looked 623 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 1: like maybe about eight couples or so, oh my, that 624 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 1: is good. 625 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so we about to let y'all know who's 626 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 2: matched and who and all that, and then let you 627 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 2: guys know who didn't find a match if we didn't 628 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 2: find a match. 629 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: But yes, offer still remains. You start dating and get married, 630 00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 1: Rob and I are going to marry you, yes, absolutely, 631 00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 1: but if it doesn't work out, don't blame us exactly 632 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 1: that too. Yes, yes, we need to yell. 633 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 2: But we're super excited because this was our first endeavor, yes, 634 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 2: of matchmaking the world. 635 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: It was, and you know, I would love to like 636 00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 1: expand it if we could. You know, we're going to 637 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 1: see how this goes once you y'all take the wheel 638 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,400 Speaker 1: and get to know one another. Right, this is very exciting, 639 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: but it was very Yes, it was very exciting to 640 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,240 Speaker 1: receive all of your submissions. Yeah, and I'm super happy 641 00:34:10,239 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 1: for y'all. Yeah. Yeah. 642 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 2: Okay, So wait, if they get married and have a baby, 643 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 2: can they name the baby Jaseel or do they have 644 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 2: to name the baby Robin Robin, Jaseel Robin yeah, either 645 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,160 Speaker 2: one middle names, Yeah, they can, you can interchange it anyway. 646 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: Yes, okay, So is that a requirement. Are we requiring 647 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,839 Speaker 1: them to name their babies after us? They should name 648 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: their baby like reasonably, shady or something they Okay, so 649 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: Giselle Shady, Robin reasonable, that's those are the names. Okay, yeah, 650 00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:52,480 Speaker 1: Robin reasonable brown, Yes, boom done. Here's an email from 651 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,200 Speaker 1: that girl. Oh she self proclaimed that girl. That girl 652 00:34:56,360 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: love it? Yep, she says, absolutely love the show, ladies, 653 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:06,319 Speaker 1: sidebar Giselle. The constant primping and hair flipping using the 654 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,080 Speaker 1: camera as a mirror. What is getting a bit weird 655 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,160 Speaker 1: at times? Who are you that girl? Child? I'm still 656 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 1: gonna watch and support, but not sure if you realize 657 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 1: how often it happens. It also happened on the RHOP reunion. 658 00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,920 Speaker 1: Any who, You ladies are wonderful. I hate you. What 659 00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,480 Speaker 1: is your name? That girl? Did? She? Women? 660 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:30,680 Speaker 2: She doesn't even say her. Okay, that girl, we don't. 661 00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:33,439 Speaker 2: We don't like you until unless you tell us your name. 662 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:36,000 Speaker 2: I'm not here for you, that girl. If I want 663 00:35:36,000 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 2: a hair flip on my hair flip, I want to 664 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 2: fix my hair. I want to fix my hair. 665 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:43,399 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm done. So do you agree or disagree that 666 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,000 Speaker 1: that takes my agree? I might agree, By the way, 667 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 1: can you show them the mirror on the back of 668 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 1: your phone. Yeah. Oh, I gotta make sure I'm a 669 00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,479 Speaker 1: whole mirror on the back of her phone. Yeah, because 670 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 1: like when we film, you need to make sure, like 671 00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 1: spinach is not in your teeth. Yeah, okay, this is 672 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,399 Speaker 1: from Billy Hi Billy. Yes, he says, good morning, ladies. 673 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,279 Speaker 1: I'm a huge fan of you both. Robin miss you. 674 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: On Potomac. I was listening to episode one seventy five 675 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: when my when I okay, when I was younger, my 676 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:12,720 Speaker 1: first boyfriend wanted to have sexual fun with our roommate 677 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 1: and friend at the time. So I assume, like, I 678 00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: don't know what we talked about on one seventy five, 679 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 1: but I guess it has something to do with this, Okay, 680 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:23,600 Speaker 1: he said so reluctantly. After some convincing, I agreed, and 681 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,239 Speaker 1: he joined a few times here and there. It was 682 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,439 Speaker 1: not my thing, but I did it for about threesome. Yes, 683 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,000 Speaker 1: oh okay, yes, so he's talking about having a threesome 684 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 1: with his roommate. His boyfriend wanted to have a threesome 685 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,640 Speaker 1: with his roommate. Ah, these all men, it sounds like it. Okay, Yeah, 686 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,839 Speaker 1: I agreed, he joined a few times here and there. 687 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: It was not my thing, but I did it for him. 688 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: I was noticing a change in my then boyfriend. And 689 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:49,720 Speaker 1: long story short, he is now married and has kids 690 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:54,480 Speaker 1: with the roommate. Of course, So no hall passes or 691 00:36:54,600 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 1: birthday passes for anyone I'm dating, not to mention for 692 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,319 Speaker 1: my current husband, whom I've been with for six years 693 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:04,360 Speaker 1: and married for three. 694 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so this goes to what my mother said. Okay, fine, okay, okay, 695 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,160 Speaker 2: all right. So if the man is gonna if I'm 696 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,799 Speaker 2: seventy five, and he'll be younger, so he'll be let's 697 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 2: say seventy, and he's gonna fall in love with the 698 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 2: person that I say he can go have sex with, 699 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 2: and I don't care, he's gonna fall in love with 700 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,759 Speaker 2: her possibly. 701 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,280 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, that's not a good idea. Think about it. Okay, 702 00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,520 Speaker 1: if you're especially if you're with a younger man, and 703 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna give him a hall pass, yes, and then 704 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: he'll go be with a younger woman. He's going to 705 00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 1: leave you, and then you're he's going to leave you, 706 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:43,239 Speaker 1: that is the plan, and then then grow old and 707 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:46,560 Speaker 1: be like alone when you're growing old and have nobody 708 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:50,000 Speaker 1: to support you. I'll be at jeriatric geriatric journey. Yes, 709 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 1: so I'll be at peace on my geriatric journey. Okay, Okay, 710 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,359 Speaker 1: we'll see. No, I think you need to rethink let's say. 711 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: My mother says no, yes, okay, okay, and so Billy 712 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:04,760 Speaker 1: Billy says Ellen, I think you need to rethink that. Okay, okay, 713 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 1: let me address this. Okay, Hi, Jaselle and Robin. This 714 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:12,239 Speaker 1: is from Fay. I love y'all love the podcast. As 715 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,279 Speaker 1: a federal employee, it's not right to say we were 716 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:19,160 Speaker 1: skipping out of work to get a facial, but that's 717 00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 1: what happened. That's actually what happened. She said. For most 718 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 1: of us, we schedule appointments close to where we live. 719 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,960 Speaker 1: So now that we might have to commute an hour 720 00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:31,080 Speaker 1: each way, we just can't, uh right, So they schedule 721 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 1: appointments closer to the to where they live. Yet so 722 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 1: they can't so they would go all right, so pretty much' 723 00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 1: saying they would go like on their lunch break and stuff, 724 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,879 Speaker 1: but saying, now that we have to commute an hour 725 00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:44,719 Speaker 1: each way, we just can't make it during lunch and 726 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 1: have to wait until we get off work. That's fine. Besides, 727 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: if you're lucky enough to get a parking space at 728 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 1: the Washington Navy Yard or anywhere in DC, you're not 729 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 1: going to move your car for a personal appointment. I 730 00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: can see how that might be confusing. Okay, us we 731 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 1: Giselle was saying, when you work from home and people 732 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,919 Speaker 1: are going to beauty appointments during the middle of the day, 733 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: then it's almost like proving the point of the administration. 734 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:12,040 Speaker 1: But I guess it's possible that they are going to 735 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,959 Speaker 1: these appointments on their lunch break. They could, or they're 736 00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: going you know, maybe they have a shorter work day, 737 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: like they start at seven and finish it for whatever, 738 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like they still have a 739 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 1: more convenient schedule working from home. Yeah, so they can 740 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 1: make a point. But I'm all here for the facials 741 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,759 Speaker 1: during the day. I'm here for that. Yeah. So like 742 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:36,800 Speaker 1: you know, don't come after me. Yeah, I'm not the 743 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: facial police. Yes, Okay, this is a good, reasonable or 744 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 1: shady So there you Okay, give it to me. I 745 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 1: have a question. This is from me ya. I have 746 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 1: a question. It's so funny her name. Okay, I have 747 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 1: a question for my faves. So a few weeks ago, 748 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 1: I went out with my friends and as we are 749 00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:01,359 Speaker 1: about to leave, people don't use punctual anymore. Okay, it's 750 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: hard to me. As I was about to leave, my 751 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,719 Speaker 1: friend offered that I use her bag. It was a 752 00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,120 Speaker 1: YSL bag because it was cuter with my outfit. I 753 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 1: took it and we all got drunk and I lost 754 00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: the bag. 755 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,600 Speaker 2: Of course, but the bag isn't he isn't her closet. 756 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:19,480 Speaker 2: Just for the record, Okay, she ain't really lose it. 757 00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,479 Speaker 1: She said she lost it. She said. I felt so bad. 758 00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,680 Speaker 1: I cried to her and she was like, it's fine, 759 00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,319 Speaker 1: It's just a bag. And I was like, do you 760 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:28,800 Speaker 1: want money? She said no, I want a new bag. 761 00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 1: So over the past few weeks she has been bugging 762 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:37,319 Speaker 1: me to get her a new bag. Okay, keep in mind, 763 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:40,280 Speaker 1: this bag is two thousand dollars. I don't have that money. 764 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if this matters, but she has five 765 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,320 Speaker 1: to six designer purses. Is it shady that she wants 766 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,239 Speaker 1: me to buy her a new bag? No? Absolutely not. 767 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:54,600 Speaker 1: Now you lost it, you are responsible for it. You 768 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,239 Speaker 1: lost it. Yeah, I replaced my bag you lost. I know. 769 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 1: That's a tough one. It's like, I don't think it's 770 00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:03,279 Speaker 1: shady that she wants her to replace. No, but she 771 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 1: can't expect her to be able to replace it, you know, 772 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:13,480 Speaker 1: like because because you're the meth offer her something, say 773 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 1: her money. How much she offered her. She didn't how much. Yeah, 774 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,440 Speaker 1: she didn't say how much. But the girl said no, 775 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,280 Speaker 1: she didn't want money. She just wants a new bag. 776 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,840 Speaker 1: But she got to be real with her, like, I'm sorry, 777 00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 1: I don't I don't have the money to replace this 778 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,839 Speaker 1: bag the full value of the bag. Like I feel bad. 779 00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,560 Speaker 1: Here's some money. Yeah, you know. And that's a lesson 780 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: for the friend totally to never let someone use or 781 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: wear your designer bags ever. Again, I feel like it's 782 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,959 Speaker 1: more a lesson, And she got to like the friend 783 00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 1: just has to kind of yeah, so suck it up. 784 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 1: This happened to my kids, and I can't really remember 785 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:51,600 Speaker 1: the story, but I remember having to replace the replace 786 00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,880 Speaker 1: the bag. So I think a door borrowed one of 787 00:41:53,920 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: her friend's bag. It was like a little Mark Jacobs bag. Okay, 788 00:41:56,680 --> 00:42:04,120 Speaker 1: and Adore got like they had ordered food and I 789 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 1: think all the food was like in the bag. I 790 00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 1: think it ruined the food ruined the bag. So the 791 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,920 Speaker 1: girl's pissed and she just wanted a bag, and I 792 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 1: understood that, so I had to buy the bag, which 793 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:19,879 Speaker 1: I did. 794 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 2: Whatever, And and my thing is my thing is accidents happen. 795 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 2: So the food thing is accident. 796 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,400 Speaker 1: You losing the bag because you got drunken as a 797 00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,760 Speaker 1: skunk is a no. That means you're irresponsible. That means 798 00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 1: your responsibility to fix it. Yeah, yeah, I agree. I 799 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 1: mean I think, but I'm. 800 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 2: Mad at the girl that gave it to her, Like 801 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:38,839 Speaker 2: why do you give it to her? You know, your 802 00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 2: friend gonna get drunk and wild out and leave it 803 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 2: in the bathroom. Yeah, Robin, I'm not irresponsible. Okay, you 804 00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,480 Speaker 2: have left your phone in the bathroom. 805 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:53,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I was really drunk, like my point, my point. 806 00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:57,960 Speaker 2: Yes, you know there's times when you know, like if 807 00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,080 Speaker 2: Rob Robin has degrees of drunk, like either sober or 808 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,080 Speaker 2: really drown there's nothing in between. 809 00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:06,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, so if I'm just drinking, watch out. Okay, it's 810 00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 1: gonna be a night. Oh my gosh, that was a night. 811 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, Okay, thanks for calling me out. Yeah, okay. 812 00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 1: Another email, This is from Soanji says Hi ladies, so 813 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,000 Speaker 1: loved the podcast. I'm just gonna read it how she 814 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 1: wrote it. Okay, so loved the podcast about does your 815 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:29,719 Speaker 1: vjay work? Okay, does your vagina work? Yeah? But so 816 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,960 Speaker 1: love the podcast. Okay, so you enjoyed that episode. Is 817 00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:35,800 Speaker 1: that what you're saying? Okay, all right, I'm stodd Okay, 818 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 1: I thought she used to say she loves the podcast 819 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:41,000 Speaker 1: and then okay, anyway, So when women go through menopause, 820 00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 1: sometimes it doesn't work as well due to dryness issues. Okay, 821 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 1: look it up. As estrogen decreases, so does the elasticity 822 00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,600 Speaker 1: of the vjay. You are lucky if you can avoid 823 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:54,000 Speaker 1: these issues as you get older. Just FYI. If you 824 00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 1: have solutions, share it with your listeners. So I mean, 825 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:01,160 Speaker 1: can't you use lubrication and then you'll make it work? 826 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 1: I mean that Do you think that was what he 827 00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: was getting at when he asked you that question? I 828 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 1: think he was just being crazy. 829 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:14,840 Speaker 2: But yes, I mean, obviously in minute, that's that's what 830 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 2: happens during menopause. 831 00:44:16,400 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: That's textbook. I didn't go through menopause, so to speak, 832 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,359 Speaker 1: so I can't really speak to that. However, Yes, that's 833 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 1: what lubs are for. If you need that, yes, just 834 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:29,440 Speaker 1: like men need the pill. Yeah, but I wonder, Oh 835 00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:34,719 Speaker 1: but what about HRT hormone replacement therapy. Yeah, I'm out 836 00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: on that, so I don't what do you mean? What's 837 00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:39,960 Speaker 1: the question? Yeah, like does that help with lubrication, lubrication 838 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 1: and menopause and stuff. 839 00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 2: I think the HRT balances everything out, balances your hormones out. 840 00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,440 Speaker 2: So yes, that shouldn't help because I think they throw 841 00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,200 Speaker 2: in some testosterone, which is what you need. 842 00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:54,360 Speaker 1: Really Yeah, yeah, I mean I just I'm just wondering, like, 843 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 1: is that what he was talking about? Is that why 844 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 1: he asked that? Okay, I don't know. I don't know, 845 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,200 Speaker 1: but my every works over here. Yeah, yeah, I remember 846 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:03,880 Speaker 1: my dad used to say that. My dad used to 847 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:05,839 Speaker 1: be like because it was like eighty something. He was like, yeah, 848 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: I just want you to know everything's working on my body. 849 00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,239 Speaker 1: And I was like what. First of all, you need 850 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 1: to know that information clearly. And I'm like, what, stop 851 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:20,960 Speaker 1: talking to me. You aren't time out. These all people 852 00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,319 Speaker 1: say anything out their mouths. It is a time out 853 00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 1: for you. Nobody needs to hear that. Yeah, but I'm 854 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:29,560 Speaker 1: gonna talk crazy when I get older. Yeah, yeah, Okay, 855 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,360 Speaker 1: just anything, am I O? We know that? Okay, okay, 856 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:34,960 Speaker 1: definitely know that. No. I want you, okay, last, I 857 00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,279 Speaker 1: want you to read one the one about wine, the 858 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:41,920 Speaker 1: one about the what win does at restaurants? Oh well 859 00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,800 Speaker 1: here's one. Yeah, okay, So this is from Somaya, She says, Hi, ladies, 860 00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 1: I never made comments on shows I listened to, but 861 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:51,640 Speaker 1: this one I had to. I am one hundred with wine. Yes, 862 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,640 Speaker 1: please ask for hot water to cleanse Okay, yeah, okay, okay, 863 00:45:55,680 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, go ahead, okay. So she agrees with wine. Okay, 864 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:04,399 Speaker 1: wy okay, she said. Okay, So for those of y'all 865 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 1: who don't know, Wine used to go to restaurants and 866 00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: ask for hot water to put his utensils in. 867 00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:12,560 Speaker 2: There to clean them, which I found to be very strange. Yes, 868 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:14,960 Speaker 2: but so that the rest of the world No, okay, 869 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:16,480 Speaker 2: no one felt that was strange, but me. 870 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 1: Not the rest of the world. I mean people, A 871 00:46:18,960 --> 00:46:21,719 Speaker 1: lot of people agreed that they either do that or 872 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,080 Speaker 1: they understand why it's done. 873 00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:24,719 Speaker 2: Okay, No, I understood that, but I was just saying, 874 00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 2: like he'd probably get food poisoning faster than the utensils. 875 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:31,680 Speaker 1: Okay, but go ahead, r right, right, so she said, 876 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,160 Speaker 1: I am one hundred with wine. Yes, please ask for 877 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,879 Speaker 1: hot water to clean those silverware. Also, it doesn't matter 878 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:39,960 Speaker 1: if it's a high end restaurant. They also have rodents 879 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:43,800 Speaker 1: and the dishes aren't always clean. When I was younger, 880 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 1: I wasn't as anal. But now if I go on 881 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:48,080 Speaker 1: a date and he doesn't wash his hands before he eats, 882 00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 1: we won't go on another date. I don't care if 883 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:53,359 Speaker 1: he has money, you're not clean, we're not going out. 884 00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,759 Speaker 1: You wear shoes in the house, we're not going out. 885 00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,399 Speaker 1: I was dating a man that was so OCD and 886 00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,480 Speaker 1: I loved it. His home and closet looked like a 887 00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:05,279 Speaker 1: department store. Everything was in its place. Yes, he was 888 00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 1: just a lot to deal with, But it's cleanliness. He 889 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:09,560 Speaker 1: gets a lot of credit for that. We need more men, 890 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 1: more clean men, and I'm here for it. Yeah, I'm 891 00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 1: here for a clean man now. Yeah, But like OCD 892 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,720 Speaker 1: is weird? Yeah, I mean, speaking of rodents. I saw 893 00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 1: a video on Instagram. It was a restaurant in uh 894 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 1: New York City. There was a full on rat. It 895 00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,880 Speaker 1: was like a bar, like a bar full on rat 896 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: running across the bar in the middle of like Tuesday, 897 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,560 Speaker 1: like in the morning. Yeah, I mean there were people 898 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:43,120 Speaker 1: are there, like and they're recording it and they're like, oh, 899 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:46,160 Speaker 1: I got and it's funny. Yeah, I'm like, why a 900 00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 1: y'all even still in there would have been out the door. 901 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 1: Oh Robin would have never gone back. No, yeah, I 902 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,880 Speaker 1: would have ran out the door too. Never. But the 903 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,399 Speaker 1: rat was just i mean, in the middle of the day, 904 00:47:56,520 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: can you imagine, Yeah, that rat is real comfortable. And 905 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,080 Speaker 1: then I've seen a video. Is that a cheesecake factory somewhere? 906 00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:05,840 Speaker 1: People try to say it was DC and it was 907 00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:10,959 Speaker 1: a mouse running across like the ceiling, like oh jeez, okay, 908 00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna move on, and it fell. Yeah, I'm sorry, 909 00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:17,000 Speaker 1: but yes, but yes, another person rode in and they 910 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:20,839 Speaker 1: agreed with Wine and his okay okay, wine support out 911 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:25,360 Speaker 1: here in the street. Yes, yes, okay, let's say okay, 912 00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:30,080 Speaker 1: one more okay and then we can go oh okay. 913 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:34,640 Speaker 1: You remember we talked about the wedding with the theme 914 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: the color. 915 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:40,399 Speaker 2: Scheme, yes, and the colschume. That didn't make any sense, right, 916 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:42,439 Speaker 2: It was like, okay, what was the theme? 917 00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:45,200 Speaker 1: So it was like a bunch of you know, the 918 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:51,320 Speaker 1: colors was like tan and green and bige, yeahch and okay, yes, okay, 919 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,200 Speaker 1: So he had a Patrick had to write back. He said, hey, Robin, 920 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,400 Speaker 1: and I just want to clarify a few things you 921 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,440 Speaker 1: were asking about. Okay. We sent out a save the 922 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 1: Date in April twenty twenty four, was printed a year 923 00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 1: prior to the wedding, and we mailed out the wedding 924 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 1: invitations in October twenty twenty four, six months prior to 925 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,200 Speaker 1: the wedding. So remember the issue. A lot of people 926 00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:14,960 Speaker 1: were like, oh, I don't have anything to wear, and 927 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 1: it's like, but you had time, So clearly I had time. 928 00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: A lot of people who called say they misplaced their 929 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:21,759 Speaker 1: invitation and couldn't find it because it was buried in 930 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,279 Speaker 1: a pile of old mail. I can relate to that. 931 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:30,000 Speaker 1: We also sent out text messages for RSVPs, and guests 932 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 1: had the option to mail back the postcard to confirm 933 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: no evites were sent. I hate evites as well, Robin, Hello, Well, 934 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:40,080 Speaker 1: but overall the wedding was amazing. Ninety eight percent of 935 00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:44,600 Speaker 1: our guests found something in the color palette. Giselle and 936 00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 1: why is everybody coming for me? And just to clarify 937 00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:54,040 Speaker 1: our wedding was very, very casual, not formal at all. Okay, Robin, 938 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,080 Speaker 1: I hadn't thought about it before, but you're right. It 939 00:49:56,160 --> 00:50:00,000 Speaker 1: wasn't totally unfair to ask people to buy something specific 940 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:03,560 Speaker 1: in those colors. I figured, at the very least everyone 941 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:06,600 Speaker 1: has khakis. We did want the pictures to look nice 942 00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:09,280 Speaker 1: in the same scheme. That's not true. I don't have khaki's. 943 00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:16,080 Speaker 1: Do you have khakis? No? No? Right, Patrick, Patrick? But anyway, 944 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:18,879 Speaker 1: I've attached attached some pictures. I loved the special day 945 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: and just saying there are still a few things left 946 00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:21,160 Speaker 1: on our registry. 947 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 2: Hello, el So okay, Patrick, shady, Now that's the shady tell. 948 00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:28,520 Speaker 1: Using okay and knowing that it was casual though the 949 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:29,879 Speaker 1: color scheme makes more sense. 950 00:50:29,960 --> 00:50:33,680 Speaker 2: Yes, and this is his husband, right, Okay, they look amazing. 951 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:37,200 Speaker 2: We'll put this up on our on our site, I 952 00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:39,000 Speaker 2: mean on our Instagram Instagram. 953 00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:40,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, they look amazing. 954 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,680 Speaker 2: Ill, and it is very cute, and I'm happy that 955 00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 2: it's casual and it looks like it's like an outside situation. 956 00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm loving all of this. 957 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,320 Speaker 2: So and so the Moraltu story is it's so funny 958 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,280 Speaker 2: because okay, why do we see the feet and everybody 959 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:54,200 Speaker 2: has on brown shoes. 960 00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:58,640 Speaker 1: On the shoes. The Moratu story is do what you 961 00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:02,080 Speaker 1: want to do. It's your day, whether Gizelle talks about 962 00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:05,440 Speaker 1: you badly or not. Just do what you want to do. Kay. 963 00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: But you know when people kind of him and han, 964 00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 1: what's this? I mean, I see his point. They sent out, 965 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:16,120 Speaker 1: you have plenty of time to get something together, and 966 00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,839 Speaker 1: the fact that it was a casual situation, like, yeah, 967 00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,279 Speaker 1: most of these people probably have some type of work pants. 968 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:23,279 Speaker 1: So the guys probably have some type of work pants 969 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:26,560 Speaker 1: that are khaki ish. Yeah, and I'm sure the ladies like, Okay, 970 00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,040 Speaker 1: we definitely could find something in that color palette totally. 971 00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:30,439 Speaker 1: And then some people had on white. 972 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:35,040 Speaker 2: The ladies had a white so on Atlanta, I guess 973 00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:39,040 Speaker 2: a couple of episodes ago, the invitation said black attire. 974 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:42,959 Speaker 1: Okay, Kenya had on green. Okay, everyone had on black 975 00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 1: with green on. So everybody's like, girl, you got the invitation, 976 00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,440 Speaker 1: why do you have on Like where's your black? And 977 00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:52,080 Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, I didn't see now. 978 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:55,600 Speaker 2: I I'm sure she did not look at that invitation, 979 00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:57,840 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Because like, how many inmotations 980 00:51:57,840 --> 00:51:58,840 Speaker 2: do you get you don't look at it. 981 00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 1: You see the time, you see where it is and 982 00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,719 Speaker 1: you're done, or producer tells you where to go. Yeah, 983 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:07,959 Speaker 1: that part, that's all. Yeah. They probably just said here's 984 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,799 Speaker 1: your schedule. Yes, it's this party on this day, right, 985 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: But I think she was kind of like, Okay, this 986 00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: is a little weird. But then she kind of stood out, 987 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,120 Speaker 1: which you know, she I'm sure didn't mind, right, of course, 988 00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:22,680 Speaker 1: you know that. But I do hate when we had 989 00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 1: these themes for these shows and people don't follow through 990 00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:30,400 Speaker 1: with the theme. Do you yes, really you've done it? 991 00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:33,600 Speaker 1: Have you done that? I always try to do the theme. No, 992 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like I always try. I try. 993 00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:38,920 Speaker 1: But also I did not appreciate when they don't give 994 00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,959 Speaker 1: you enough time to prepare for the for the theme. 995 00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:47,040 Speaker 1: It's like, you're gonna tell me it's it's Indian Bollywood 996 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,360 Speaker 1: Karen like Season two, right, Remember Karen had the Indian 997 00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:55,360 Speaker 1: Indian theme and Monique came in as a as a 998 00:52:55,440 --> 00:53:00,520 Speaker 1: native American. Yes, yes, she's so smart. But I'm I 999 00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 1: think that was intentional or on purpose. I don't think 1000 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,239 Speaker 1: it was like a No, it wasn't. It wasn't. I 1001 00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:08,920 Speaker 1: don't think so oh, I don't know, let's move on. 1002 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:12,200 Speaker 1: I thought she was just being funny. Yeah. So, like 1003 00:53:12,320 --> 00:53:14,880 Speaker 1: you know, when you have something like specific like that, 1004 00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 1: it's like, no, we need time to prepare true right, 1005 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,279 Speaker 1: somehow and somehow I pulled it together. I guess she 1006 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:23,839 Speaker 1: gave us enough time. But like, if it's a color, fine, yeah, 1007 00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:24,600 Speaker 1: but if it's. 1008 00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:27,240 Speaker 2: Color is easy and black is it's super easy. Everybody 1009 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:27,640 Speaker 2: got black? 1010 00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:31,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, black on black. Anyway, we love y'all. We 1011 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 1: don't ever want you. 1012 00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:36,560 Speaker 2: Guys, do not love us, Jude, so don't ever forget 1013 00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,200 Speaker 2: to live your life either reasonable. 1014 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:42,160 Speaker 1: Oh bye bye or both. 1015 00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:53,240 Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady is a production of the Black Effect podcast Network. 1016 00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 1017 00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:00,799 Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite shows 1018 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:03,799 Speaker 2: And you can connect with us on social media at 1019 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:09,680 Speaker 2: Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady