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Speaker 2: My boyfriend's ex is a stalker.

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Speaker 1: This is the wrong podcast for this story.

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Speaker 2: Trigger warning for stalking. I twenty five female, met my

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Speaker 2: current boyfriend, Sean, twenty four male, at work and after

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Speaker 2: some pursuing on my end, we fell into an incredible relationship.

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Speaker 2: We rarely fight, and when we do it's about minor

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Speaker 2: things like him leaving his clothes laid out in the kitchen.

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Speaker 2: We've been together for nearly a year now and living

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Speaker 2: together for a few months with very few problems. He's

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Speaker 2: a great person, extremely patient and kind and always helps

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Speaker 2: me with my problems. My problem isn't with him, though,

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Speaker 2: it's with his ex girlfriend, Willa early twenties female. By

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Speaker 1: I'm Sophia, I'm Riley, and I'm Keon.

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Speaker 2: I don't know everything about their relationship, and honestly, i'm

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Speaker 2: a little friend to ask, but from the times he's

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Speaker 2: mentioned her, I can piece together enough of their story.

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Speaker 2: They met on four chan.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my gosh, my ears.

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Speaker 2: That's scared me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how did you do that?

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Speaker 1: I've never can meet on Reddit? Okay, four chan?

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Speaker 2: When they were much younger? How old were they? She's

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Speaker 2: in her early twenties.

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Speaker 1: How did you know about four chun?

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Speaker 2: How much younger?

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Speaker 1: What is happening here? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Eventually moved in together and broke up just under two

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Speaker 2: years ago. According to Sean, Willa had more problems than

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Speaker 2: a family of substance addicts. They broke up because you

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Speaker 2: to get her professional help, she lashed out and accused

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Speaker 2: him of betrayal. Yikes. Also adding to that trigger warning.

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Speaker 2: We're just gonna add a couple things to this, real

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Speaker 2: quick trigger warning for stalking and mentions of self harm

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Speaker 2: and abusive relationships and substance abuse.

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Speaker 1: Wow, okay, all right?

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Speaker 3: How'd that get it? How that there?

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Speaker 2: She basically disappeared after that, and he spent near a

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Speaker 2: He's never spoken ill of her. I haven't either, until

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Speaker 1: Our lives Oh no, the grim Reaper.

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Speaker 2: Before she physically appeared, she started sending him extremely long

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Speaker 2: messages about how she missed him and couldn't live without him.

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Speaker 2: The messages got explicit mentioning how he'd call them soulmates,

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Speaker 2: how she wouldn't care that he'd given himself away to

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Speaker 4: What's vixed refers to a female fox, but also commonly

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Speaker 4: describes a shrewish, ill tempered woman, or, more recently, a

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, temptress makes sense.

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Speaker 3: So Nellie fortokraphs.

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Speaker 1: So I feel like this stalker has bonded with your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's coming back after all these like skinshit.

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Speaker 2: I told him not to respond because there was nothing

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Speaker 2: asked him to elaborate on those disturbing messages. He explained

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Speaker 3: Why oh that is? That is?

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Speaker 2: I can'try that?

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Speaker 3: Do you want Riley to read that?

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Speaker 2: as weird as that was. What really concerned me was

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Speaker 2: Lo and behold Willam moved into one of the open

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Speaker 1: This is a horror story.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting restraining order right now.

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Speaker 3: And you know what she's gonna say. It's a piece

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Speaker 2: This caught both of us completely off guard when she

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Speaker 2: He told her to leave, and she did, but seemed

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Speaker 2: That was about a month ago, and she doesn't leave

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Speaker 2: questionably that's just illegal. You could get her arrested.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you should, and you should have cameras. You should

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Speaker 3: This what you should home alone, you're.

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Speaker 2: Apart trap it. Sean found her by our bed crying.

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Speaker 2: illegal since then, but the pestermint continues. Second, she verbally

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Speaker 2: She claims to have videos of them in the ludist positions,

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Speaker 2: she's his physical ideal. Third. A few nights ago, she

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Speaker 2: He pushed her away and told her to leave me alone.

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Speaker 2: She's been quiet for a few days, but it's only

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Speaker 1: Uh that's called scheming. Yeah, it's called plotting.

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Speaker 2: She's blotting. She's plotting, called felice. I'm not sure what

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Speaker 2: what legal actions I could take. Literally any so many,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, number one, when the boyfriend would to call the police,

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Speaker 2: No, neither of us can move right now, and knowing her,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure she just follow us wherever we went. Sean

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Speaker 2: won't do anything beyond telling her off. Occasionally. I've tried

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Speaker 2: never hurt anyone but herself. Oh yeah, and her committed

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Speaker 2: I don't know, she's hurting herself. And you approve of that.

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Speaker 3: This is when you be like, you put her somewhere.

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Speaker 4: He's like, that's that's all bad, dude, This is all

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Speaker 2: So I shouldn't worry that much. But I feel like

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Speaker 2: she's a ticking time bomb. She broke into your apartment.

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Speaker 2: That is not benign.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, did you not hear that? The first thing is

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Speaker 1: Then, and your boyfriend's been on this rodeo before. He's

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Speaker 1: to be playing the game. She's playing the game with him.

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Speaker 1: So you need to stop the game completely and do something.

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Speaker 2: It's just a game of tag, literally, Like you call

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you have proof of that.

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Speaker 2: You don't really need to. Like, if it was just

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Speaker 2: But no, it's you are affected by this. So yes,

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Speaker 2: Comment one says, your boyfriend is the problem. I agree,

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Speaker 2: he says, we've been looking for ways to get rid

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Speaker 2: So that's kind of pretty important. That's kind of the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I confront the situation by getting rid of him.

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Speaker 2: I honestly agree, because the fact that he says he's

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Speaker 2: which would make sense if you knew about some of

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Speaker 2: seems like he's indifferent about her attitude. He said that

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Speaker 2: to come arrest her when she inevitably breaks in. Why

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Speaker 2: She broke into your apartment. For f's sake, you deserve

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Speaker 2: that him telling her to back off won't stop her,

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Speaker 2: but doing so every time, keeping distance and documenting it

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Speaker 2: First thing you should do is talk to the complex,

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Speaker 2: show them proof, have them document your complaints. Basically, get

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Speaker 2: get her to leave, or you'll leave and she'll follow

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Speaker 2: because she's nuts. Get to the police. She broke into

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Speaker 2: your house, she verbally pesters you. Get yourself protected and

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Speaker 1: The reason you need to break up with a boyfriend, hey,

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Speaker 1: sap is because he is conditioned to kind of like

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to say anything. He loves it deep down,

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Speaker 2: And I mean I don't know if he necessarily loves it,

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Speaker 2: but I think regardless, he's not protecting you from it.

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Speaker 1: If he didn't love it, he would hate it. Thus,

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Speaker 1: if he hated it, he would have called the police

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Speaker 1: and don't know what had to be done and confronted

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Speaker 2: I think he either is someone afraid or like, you know,

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Speaker 2: just kind of doesn't see it as big of a

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Speaker 2: it's a huge problem.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think he's a lover hate thing

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Speaker 1: and there's still some love there.

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Speaker 2: But there's an update, folks concerning after posting the original story,

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Speaker 2: I took some of your advice and started researching temporary

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Speaker 3: That was crazy, Yeah, it was. It made so much

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend's sister accused me of stealing? Is he a

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Speaker 1: That's key on.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm just too hot.

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Speaker 1: Now he's warmed up. He was too shy to come

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Speaker 1: They have a big house with confusing hallways, genuinely. Who

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Speaker 2: Their house was too dang big.

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Speaker 1: The sister found me as I was looking around helplessly

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Speaker 1: After that day, I hadn't seen Jane until July twenty

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Speaker 3: That's how big their house is.

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Speaker 2: Their house is so big that they.

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Speaker 3: Need cameras in every hall.

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Speaker 1: They know who's coming in and coming.

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Speaker 2: Out, CCTV in their own house, A.

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Speaker 1: Video of me going into a room when she sent

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Speaker 2: So that's when you say, hey, I really you know,

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Speaker 2: but uh, this is me going to the bathroom, me

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then just leave it at that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, trust me a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I tried explaining to my boyfriend the truth behind each video,

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, this is so These are rich people.

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Speaker 2: Whenever we get through that chance.

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Speaker 1: That's cool. After that, he stopped coming into the cafe

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Speaker 2: Why are you even going into that store? Then, I'm

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Speaker 1: Because of that, I begged my manager to change the cafe.

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Speaker 1: You lost your girlfriend, Get up, move on, And I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you didn't. I mean like you could have been like, hey, sister,

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Speaker 2: And then OP would have been like, well, bathroom, blah

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Speaker 2: this makes a lot of sense. Let me go back

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Speaker 1: Oh hear this. He said, he wants me back and

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Speaker 1: we should meet up and discuss it.

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Speaker 2: Let's discuss right now.

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Speaker 1: No, you know, period easy, or you could be mean

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, oh no, sorry, I can't. I've got

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay with it? Then I guess not.

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Speaker 1: At this point, he keeps sending me messages and begging

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Speaker 1: just go and see what he has to say. Another

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Speaker 2: How would you be the a hole?

440
00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 3: I would respond to that friend? I'm like, did he

441
00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:31,040
Speaker 3: give me a chance?

442
00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,560
Speaker 2: Yeah? I'm sorry when I when I told him that

443
00:19:33,600 --> 00:19:35,600
Speaker 2: I didn't steal and he accused me of stealing and

444
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:37,560
Speaker 2: broke up with me. Was that giving me a chance?

445
00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:39,320
Speaker 2: Or I'm dropping that friend?

446
00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? I dropped that friend.

447
00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,200
Speaker 2: Or that friend's been paid off.

448
00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:44,200
Speaker 1: You're not looking at the long game here, Sophia.

449
00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:45,040
Speaker 2: I know he's rich.

450
00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,600
Speaker 1: You say, don't ever ever accuse me of anything ever,

451
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,639
Speaker 1: and then proceeded still from him. But he can't accuse

452
00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,360
Speaker 1: you of it because promise you now you can.

453
00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:58,439
Speaker 2: Steal, and now you rob him blind exactly, and.

454
00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,600
Speaker 4: He's never gonna believe his sister ever again.

455
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:05,159
Speaker 1: And do it writing from the cister all the time. Well, incredible,

456
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 1: Oh at it? Maybe I should have mentioned this from

457
00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:10,159
Speaker 1: the beginning, but he did listen to my explanation for

458
00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,959
Speaker 1: each video. His sister used his proof. I called him

459
00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,000
Speaker 1: after he sent me the text accusing me of stealing,

460
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,679
Speaker 1: and he answered listen and said he didn't believe me

461
00:20:17,720 --> 00:20:20,880
Speaker 1: because why would his sister lie. Then he blocked me everywhere.

462
00:20:20,960 --> 00:20:22,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry if that came across like he didn't listen

463
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,959
Speaker 1: to a word. I said in my defense, Does that

464
00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:25,639
Speaker 1: really help?

465
00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,399
Speaker 2: He didn't listen to a word. You like tried to

466
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,679
Speaker 2: say stuff and he was like, nope, he heard it.

467
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 2: You heard it, didn't listen.

468
00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:33,760
Speaker 3: If anything, it makes it even worse.

469
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,400
Speaker 1: Uh, thank you for the sport. I will also talk

470
00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,200
Speaker 1: to my friends regarding their comments comment number one, Why

471
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,760
Speaker 1: should you go back to someone who doesn't trust you.

472
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 1: You will never feel safe with him or his family again.

473
00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,200
Speaker 1: Let him suffer hope. He says his parents were really

474
00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:49,639
Speaker 1: sweet people, and I got along with his relatives at

475
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,960
Speaker 1: both parties. It was only the sister who was rude

476
00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,800
Speaker 1: and insane. Around an hour after I posted this, I

477
00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 1: also got a message on Facebook from his mom apologizing

478
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,400
Speaker 1: for her daughter's actions and told me that she will

479
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 1: face the consequences for lying. I wanted to answer Joe.

480
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:05,880
Speaker 1: She sent me another message saying that I should meet

481
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 1: with her son and talk to him. Everyone around me

482
00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: is telling me to hear him out, and I honestly

483
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 1: have no idea what to do anymore.

484
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 2: Don't hear him out. Do not hear him out. Okay,

485
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 2: don't hear him out.

486
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 3: You get your shopping list and be like, I'll hear

487
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 3: you out. Just fill out this list.

488
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 2: First, crazy crazy, Okay, good advice. Don't hear him out.

489
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 2: Bad advice.

490
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Speaker 1: Go Riley, hear him out because you like the tea.

491
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,080
Speaker 1: Come on, you could hear him out and plan to

492
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,280
Speaker 1: throw lukewarm coffee at him.

493
00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,720
Speaker 2: That's true. I suppose I suppose that's true.

494
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:39,959
Speaker 3: Let's see how much he begs.

495
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. You get a begging video

496
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 1: out of them.

497
00:21:43,400 --> 00:21:46,399
Speaker 2: I was never gonna take you back. I just wanted

498
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:47,960
Speaker 2: to watch you grobble.

499
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,320
Speaker 3: And you go he he to walk out, So you do.

500
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:54,080
Speaker 2: And then you say, never come back to my coffee

501
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 2: shop again.

502
00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go. I own it now, And I

503
00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 1: want all.

504
00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:02,919
Speaker 2: Of your friends to say I'm sorry for harassing you

505
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 2: at your job.

506
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you spit in their coffee.

507
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 1: Hmmm, to move like that, we have an update. I would.

508
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,120
Speaker 1: I would do it just because I'm wild.

509
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:13,879
Speaker 2: It's just because I'm crazy.

510
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. So last night I got multiple calls from my

511
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 1: ex around eleven pm. When I answered, he was clearly

512
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: wasted and crying and mumbling and begging me to hear

513
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 1: him out, saying he missed me more than anything.

514
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 3: Brother, you had a year.

515
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 2: You had a year?

516
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 1: Okad My other thought, I just remembered it. If you

517
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:35,240
Speaker 1: actually loved op or liked her.

518
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: You would have asked more questions than like the one

519
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: question you asked.

520
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: And you would have missed her and probably had feelings

521
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,520
Speaker 1: say hey, we can work this out. You stole from me.

522
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: If Angelina stole from me, I would be mad, but

523
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:49,919
Speaker 1: I would still want to work it out. I'd be like,

524
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: you can't steal. Come on, I'll buy you that. You

525
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 1: can just have it. You don't have to steal.

526
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: Come on, why did you sneak around?

527
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to think of what she would do. Smarties,

528
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: she would still smartest for me. Yeah, but I would

529
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 1: support her in that.

530
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:06,040
Speaker 2: I'd help her.

531
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: But does her vintage Vintage? They're single stitch, Smarties. I'm

532
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:13,399
Speaker 1: just picking out of that. They're just important to.

533
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: Meet your candy is okay, I'll buy you more in listener.

534
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, anyways, I was kind of sick of this

535
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,119
Speaker 1: whole circus, so I agree to meet him this morning.

536
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,880
Speaker 3: No, yes, give me the tea.

537
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,400
Speaker 2: We want to take get together. I'm rioting and I'm

538
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 2: gonna go. I'm going like directly onto that Reddit post

539
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 2: and I'm saying, girl, what are you doing?

540
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: You can pm her?

541
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say it's Sophia from Okay story Time,

542
00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 2: And I had to I've never done this. I needed

543
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: to go to you directly to say, what are you doing?

544
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 1: Low key?

545
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 2: We should doing that.

546
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 1: We should start sitting the videos. We have to them

547
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,360
Speaker 1: directly so they know how we actually feel.

548
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:01,840
Speaker 4: It's just like little like little videos of I was like, idiot, stupid,

549
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 4: stupid dude.

550
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you do this, and it so feels

551
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: like a little movie. What do they do? Get back together? Okay,

552
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 1: So we met at a cafe. I actually feel this

553
00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: way what We met at a cafe near my job,

554
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: and he looked horrible.

555
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: Good it was struggled.

556
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: I thought I could fix him, but the things he

557
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: told me shocked me.

558
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 2: Entirely a little SOB story, A little SOB story.

559
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 1: How else is he supposed to get back with Yeah.

560
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 2: He can only get back together if he makes her cry.

561
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 1: A little background information because it's important. Yeah, my ex

562
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,880
Speaker 1: boyfriend's family is rich.

563
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 2: We know, we know, we figured that out.

564
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 1: His paternal grandparents are university professor and a lawyer. His

565
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: father is a doctor, and his mother is a nurse

566
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,080
Speaker 1: at the same private hospital. My ex boyfriend is also

567
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: in med school and his sister goes to a private

568
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: high school. My family, on the other hand, is not rich.

569
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 1: I think we are upper class or middle class. I

570
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 1: have no idea how these categories work, to.

571
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 2: Be honest, I think you're upper class. I feel like

572
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 2: you're probably upper.

573
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 4: Class if yeah, the fact that you're like, we're probably

574
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 4: in middle upper class, upper class.

575
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 3: So to the lower class, to the lower class, you're

576
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 3: also rich.

577
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's yeah.

578
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 1: Both me and my sister go to public schools. And

579
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: the most important thing is we don't live in the city.

580
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: My family on both sides are from villages around one

581
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,320
Speaker 1: hundred kilometers away from the capitol where I go to college.

582
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:36,520
Speaker 1: Now back to the meeting.

583
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 2: Okay, so we learned what we already know.

584
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 3: Thank you for the context.

585
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: Okay. I took the advice some of you gave me

586
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 1: and recorded the conversation in case anything bad happened. The

587
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: reason his sister lied about me was because she saw

588
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: me beneath them. She considered that a girl like me,

589
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: poor and pathetic from a village, her words, did not

590
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: deserve to be around people like them. She considered me

591
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: a gold digger who dated rich Menikes. I knew this

592
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 1: was gonna happen.

593
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 2: Yikes, I'm sorry. Who's raising this girl?

594
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:11,000
Speaker 1: Who's raising her Bridgerton? Well, I don't know, Maybe not

595
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,159
Speaker 1: that one. I don't know.

596
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 2: She yeah, she's raised by the Featherington's money.

597
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: Oh that's a burn. She said she never felt guilty

598
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 1: or any remorse for breaking our relationship up, and considered

599
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: that she did her brother a favor.

600
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 2: She just didn't understand. Brother, you cannot associate with the pause.

601
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 2: We'll get the pooral all over you.

602
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: May I X believed her over me because she's never

603
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: done anything like that before, so he thought she was

604
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: telling the truth, especially after she showed him videos.

605
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 2: Of op walking around the house.

606
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,520
Speaker 1: Dude, you know for a fact that this was premeditated

607
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,439
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, what did she give me before she met him?

608
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 2: She specifically she told op to go put that present

609
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: in the room like she set op up.

610
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is weird. I also told him about his friends.

611
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: He said he only told his childhood friend, the one

612
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: who apologized the real reason behind the breakup and told

613
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 1: everyone else that we just didn't get along. He didn't

614
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: know that they knew the story or that I had

615
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: to change job locations because of them. He sent them

616
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: a message in front of me, calling them out on

617
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: their behavior and blocked them. Here's how they went. Jane

618
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: has a friend in high school, Olivia. Olivia is a

619
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: stepsister of one of my ex college friends, Paul. Jane

620
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: told Olivia that I stole from them, and Olivia told Paul,

621
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: who told the rest. The sister also got her punishment.

622
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: Their mother is from a village in the mountains. She

623
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: moved to the capitol for the college and met her

624
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 1: husband there, so the sister's words and actions also hurt

625
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: the mother deeply, especially since her parents still live there in.

626
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 2: The village with the poor Yeah, you gotta break up,

627
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:58,119
Speaker 2: I mean stay, let's keep those good times rolling.

628
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 1: You know what I would do? Give me five hundred

629
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 1: pounds and I'll think about it. No, we're still talking home. No, yeah, no,

630
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: more money may change my mind.

631
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 2: It didn't rough. I'm sorry.

632
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:13,159
Speaker 1: I don't know.

633
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: I can buy my coffee though the fact.

634
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 1: Here's my other question. Do you want to be with

635
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 1: a man with this maturity level?

636
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

637
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: If yes, go right ahead, sister. If no, good, you

638
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:24,760
Speaker 1: don't need that.

639
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 2: Don't need that. You're smarter than that.

640
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 1: Oh man, I really hope that they take this sister

641
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 1: and make her live in the village.

642
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 2: You do like a what's like a movie where they

643
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 2: send like the rich what is it jungle to jungle? What? No,

644
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 2: Like they send like a rich girl to go She's

645
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: gotta go like hurt her keep or something. Yeah, what's

646
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 2: a good movie of that? I'm only thinking of wild Child,

647
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 2: but that's not quite it. She actually school.

648
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: I don't watch those kind of movies.

649
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 3: The Prints on the Popper, No, because she's like chill

650
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 3: with that.

651
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: I need like rich girl is forced to go work

652
00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: off or rich girl decides to get a career and

653
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: and girl needs to get a job. That's I was

654
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: thinking legally blonde, but she wants that.

655
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 2: That's the difference. I need one where she doesn't want it,

656
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: the simple life, the simple life whatever.

657
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 1: Moment's girl Jacket says.

658
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 2: There's still a little bit left at the story though.

659
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got to find that.

660
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 3: What movie called rich Girl.

661
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll take it. There you go, she's a rich girl,

662
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Speaker 1: the little princess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but the little Princess, she's still nice, she's chill

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Speaker 2: about it.

665
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we need someone that like is like descended. I

666
00:29:37,880 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 1: don't know. Anyways, dude, the movie of Dune, said dude, dude, dude, Yeah,

667
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 1: that's kind of the plot line of it anyways.

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00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: Uh, the Lawyer Princess Sophia. There's like way too bro,

670
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,959
Speaker 1: there's like five hundred movies like that. Well, then name

671
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:56,240
Speaker 1: one the Lawyer Princess. Anyways, So this is the rest

672
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: of the story. They took the sister out of the

673
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 1: private school, put her in a public one, and she

674
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 1: will be going to live with her maternal grandparents until

675
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: school starts in the village with the poor with the pulls.

676
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,960
Speaker 1: She is also not allowed to buy anything anymore, like

677
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,840
Speaker 1: designer stuff and whatever she was buying. She will have

678
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: to take the bus to school from now on instead.

679
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: They also downgraded her phone from my iPhone sixteen tous seven,

680
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: and she will get a new phone with her own

681
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: money if she doesn't like this one. Oh no, that

682
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: is rough, I will say, going from my phone to

683
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: like a downgraded one, I would have a heard tome.

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Speaker 2: N iPhone seven. However, will she live?

685
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,600
Speaker 1: They should have give her a flip phone, the boss.

686
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,640
Speaker 1: Oh no, this isn't happening in the near future since

687
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: she refuses to get a job. Wait what this isn't

688
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: happening in the near future, Like.

689
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: She's not gonna be able to buy a new phone

690
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 2: because she's not.

691
00:30:50,080 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: Oh, got it, got it, got it. My ax also

692
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: asked me at the end if there was still a

693
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 1: chance of us getting together, and I told him, I'll

694
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 1: have to think about that.

695
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 2: Think about it, and your answer should be no.

696
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: Okay, Well her answer was yes because she just didn't

697
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:04,719
Speaker 1: want to say it on al ready and get flamed.

698
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 2: Dude, did you charge?

699
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: Would you mind checking checking to see if there's a

700
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: little update or anything? My freaking man. Yeah, now I've

701
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: phoned down graded to draw off. Imagine going from face

702
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 1: identification to thumb print.

703
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 2: I'd get over it.

704
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd get over it. Yeah.

705
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 2: Thea went I went from an iPhone six to I

706
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 2: think this is eleven or twelve.

707
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: You upgraded, Yeah, but that's the.

708
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 2: Only two phones I've ever had, iPhone six.

709
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: In this one, imagine going from that back to the

710
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: other one with bad battery.

711
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 2: Oh, the battery would but the ba But usually it's

712
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 2: because you've like of you like of how many times

713
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: I feel like they just make like you can fix

714
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 2: the battery you know.

715
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: Well, I know the battery thing. That's actually a myth

716
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: because they fixed that part. It's actually that the background

717
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: apps are draining your battery while you're using it. So

718
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: it's not that you're charging it overnight, because some people

719
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 1: will charge it and then unplook at it instead of

720
00:31:57,920 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: a lumber three o'clock in the morning, unplug it. But

721
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: it still does the same. Sorry, I can go all

722
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: day about batteries and iPhones or you saying, keon.

723
00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:04,719
Speaker 3: I found it updated.

724
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: No freaking is it big?

725
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 3: It's medium. No, she's not that bad. It's not that bad,

726
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 3: So I'm gonna put it in the story.

727
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: Whoop, that is great, dude. BacT same time I went

728
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: like this in the door closed really scarily, which guys,

729
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 1: we got another story coming in real quick. I'm predicting

730
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: that they got back together.

731
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Speaker 2: I hope not.

732
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: I think they should.

733
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 2: We do it. Point yes, I not what you want together.

734
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 3: Not what you want.

735
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: What you think happened. I think I don't want them

736
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Speaker 1: to get back together, but they did. Okay, So, hey's

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Speaker 1: John og host.

738
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Speaker 3: We're gonna get back to the stories.

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Speaker 1: But a quick three minute break of ads from our sponsors.

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,800
Speaker 1: Everyone, I don't know if anyone is still interested in this,

742
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: but I came up with a final update to this

743
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: whole mess. I want to apologize to the people who

744
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 1: messaged me and I didn't answer. I don't care. What's

745
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: get on with it. This might disappoint some people, but

746
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: I got back together with my eggs.

747
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 2: Sorry. I knew it.

748
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew it. I knew it. I

749
00:32:58,400 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: knew what I knew, and I knew it.

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00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 3: It's about the money.

751
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 1: It's about the money. We're Rhino book. We're getting a

752
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,480
Speaker 1: movie and a TV series. On the side, Sophia, Sophia

753
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 1: has left. She is out of the room.

754
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 3: Sophia is not looking.

755
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, oh, Pe, you've disappointed me. I don't

756
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 2: like you. You're the ahle like.

757
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 3: I said, like I said, you're the a hole op.

758
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 3: Look at look at Op right in the eyes and

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00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 3: tell her I'm.

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00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 2: Disappointed in you.

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00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: Okay, but their parents had hallways where she got lost.

762
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 2: I feel like that's the only reason.

763
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 3: And you know what that's so.

764
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: Even if Pedro Pascal did this, would you take.

765
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 2: Anyone accused me of stealing then broke up with me

766
00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,880
Speaker 2: for a year and then comes Waltz and back said, oh,

767
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 2: I found out that my sister lied, and I know

768
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 2: I didn't listen to you. They come sobbing. I go,

769
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 2: you dude, well over them by the year, but here

770
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: in love with them after a year.

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00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: Hear me out, you probably haven't seen anyone within that year.

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00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 1: They have a boat with fun stuff. You can get

773
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: on the boat, and they're rich and they'll take you

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00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: on vacation.

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00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 3: What he's like, we can go on my yacht and

777
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: we'll it's your yacht.

778
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 2: I don't need to go on another yocht.

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00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 3: Do you what is your yacht?

780
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: Wait? Do we How did he get there? I think

781
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 1: its butt? Are you here? Yeah, but I didn't say it.

782
00:34:15,200 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: Did you press a button?

783
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 2: It's ther but that it doesn't show up like that.

784
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 3: I don't know.

785
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 2: I don't know anyway, So they.

786
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 1: Got back to it. I knew it. I knew it.

787
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: She would have entertained this if she didn't want to

788
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 1: get back to So for you jump on me, let

789
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 1: me explain myself these past few days, while I was

790
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,399
Speaker 1: on the beach, technically I'm still there. I took time

791
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: to think about this whole situation, and I realized that

792
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 1: I still have feelings for him, Maybe not as strong

793
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,759
Speaker 1: as they were a year ago, but there's still somewhat there.

794
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: Yesterday I message him and told him that I agreed

795
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: to try again, only if you go to couples therapy.

796
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: This was recommended by someone and I love this idea.

797
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 1: He agreed and even suggested to pay for it, but

798
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: I declined and suggested going fifty to fifty. Also suggested

799
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: by someone not to take money from him or his

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00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: family for a period of time. He also so gave

801
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: me a small update on a sister. She's currently at

802
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,760
Speaker 1: her grandparents' house and in the process of changing schools.

803
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 1: After she returns home, she will have to get at

804
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 1: her job or bye bye shopping. The only money she

805
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: will get from her parents are going to be for school,

806
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: but necessities only. I also suggested my boyfriend to get

807
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,440
Speaker 1: her into therapy and he will discuss it with his parents.

808
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: Sorry if this isn't update so we're waiting for I'm

809
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 1: happy that there isn't any more drama and I'm really

810
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 1: hoping getting back together wasn't a mistake. Thank you all

811
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: for commenting and all those that messaged me. Sorry if

812
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: I disappointed anyone for getting back together. Did also some

813
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: clarification I want to make. Some people commented on my

814
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: last post that the story is taking place on the

815
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: same day. It's not my boyfriend's birthday. Last year and

816
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 1: on every year was July thirteenth. The breakup happened on

817
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 1: July thirtieth this year. He messaged me on August sixth,

818
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,400
Speaker 1: I posted asking for advice, days after our first conversation.

819
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: I should have been more specific in my post. Also,

820
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 1: people called the story fake, like it looks like kpop drama. Guys,

821
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,800
Speaker 1: I'm not poor. I live very comfortably. I have a

822
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: part time job because if sure.

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00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 2: She just said she lives comfortably, that's not a poor

824
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,160
Speaker 2: people thing.

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00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I only have a job because I want to

826
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,239
Speaker 1: pay stuff for myself. I feel bad that my father

827
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: is spending so much money on me already, he pays

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00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: my rent. I don't live in a union campus because

829
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: of the conditions there. What because she's rich.

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00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 2: Girl, you're rich too, oh? I live comfortably. As some

831
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:23,800
Speaker 2: people say, we're upper class.

832
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:27,960
Speaker 1: Come on, my university, my utilities and car insurance. We

833
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: also have a pretty big house, even if we don't

834
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: live there in the city and go on holiday two

835
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 1: to three times a year.

836
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 2: Are richt two to three times a year.

837
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 1: I also have my own car that I can take

838
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: to the city with me if I want to, but

839
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: the traffic is terrible, so I prefer public transportation. A

840
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: ten minute bus ride is like almost an hour with

841
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,320
Speaker 1: a car on weekdays, especially in the mornings and evenings.

842
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: The whole thing with the sister started because she considered

843
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: me poor and a gold digger. Yes, they're way richer

844
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 1: than me and my family, but that doesn't mean I'm homeless.

845
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 2: Seems like you're rich too. They're just really rich.

846
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,799
Speaker 1: Yep, And I'm not responding today because I'm at the beach. Sorry, guys,

847
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:07,040
Speaker 1: that's when she says ended.

848
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:11,280
Speaker 2: Uh, I'm disappointed. Whatever, it's a rich girl, It's fine.

849
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 3: I love it.

850
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: Amber says No, she isn't rich. Her parents are rich.

851
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: Eat out the rich.

852
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 2: Riley's classic quote kind of got to she is. She says,

853
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 2: I like public transportation. I just like the commoners. That's

854
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,200
Speaker 2: what it sounded like. I have a call, But I

855
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: like public transportation.

856
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: Makes me feel like everyone else. It makes me feel

857
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: less special, makes me feel humble. Yeah, you all seem

858
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: a bit rich. I agree. Go on a holiday two

859
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: three times a year. Imagine being able to take off

860
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: work that long. I probably could whip that up if

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00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to.

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00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 3: I might need to do that for next year.

863
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, next year, maybe I should get a few holidays before.

864
00:37:47,760 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: Parents and I we would go on holiday like once

865
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,800
Speaker 2: a year as a kid, and usually it was to

866
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:55,440
Speaker 2: visit family in Australia. Like every two three years we

867
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 2: would go to Australia. My fiance is furious. I refuse

868
00:37:59,120 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 2: to hand over.

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00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: My son's money because that's my son's money.

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00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,319
Speaker 2: I female, thirty five, met my fiance two years ago.

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00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: My son four gets on well with him and my

872
00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 2: ex husband. My son's father also likes him. Now to

873
00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: the point three years ago. I want a large sum

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00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,840
Speaker 2: of money in the lottery. Not millions, but enough for

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00:38:17,880 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: a nice life if I work normally, and a good

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00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 2: start for my son. Later, seventy five percent went into

877
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 2: a savings account that my son will have access to

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00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 2: when he's twenty one. By the way, this comes from

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00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 2: Amazing Box thirty five eleven. And if you want to

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00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:31,640
Speaker 2: make your own stories, go to the r slash Okay

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00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 2: storytime subbered it.

882
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 1: I'm Sophia, I'm Riley, and I'm Keon.

883
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 2: And Op says my fiance always thought he had plenty

884
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 2: of money and never let me correct him. I insisted

885
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:46,600
Speaker 2: on a prenuptial agreement and for that the finances were disclosed.

886
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 2: Now the amount in my son's saving account is about

887
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: five times more than anything. My fiance has completely enraged.

888
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 2: He left lawyer's office and ignored all calls for two days.

889
00:38:57,719 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 2: That man is marrying you for your money?

890
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: Oh probably. Now that makes me think. Was there any

891
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 1: news articles about you or any social media endeavors with

892
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 1: your face and the lottery winning.

893
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 2: Mind you or did you find him? Which one? For me?

894
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 2: That was the end of the relationship and I wrote

895
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 2: to him saying that he could have the ring back.

896
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 2: A week later, he was at the door. He would

897
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 2: love me, but was in shock and now wanted details

898
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 2: of where the money had come from. He would love me,

899
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 2: He's like, no, no, no, baby, you don't understand I

900
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 2: would love you.

901
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,600
Speaker 3: I was just just give me the money first, and

902
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 3: then I will love you.

903
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, hand over the money and then I'll hand over

904
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 2: the love.

905
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 4: What.

906
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: He also told me that he had a five year

907
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 2: old daughter from a previous relationship, and that it would

908
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 2: be only fair to split the money so that his

909
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 2: daughter could also benefit from it. Did you know about

910
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 2: the five year old? Is this news? You were plague?

911
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 3: All right, let's play twenty questions.

912
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:56,839
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yeah, dude, break up. Just be done

913
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: with this.

914
00:39:57,360 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 3: He was like, all right, will you have a bunch

915
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 3: of money? I have a daughter.

916
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 2: Now, I've got a daughter. You have to help her.

917
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: And her name is Steve Junior.

918
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 2: Her name is money. Yeah, her name's honey he said

919
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 2: a different name at that time. No, I didn't. He

920
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: sees it as justified as I got the money through

921
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: luck and not through performance. Then you go get money

922
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 2: through performance. I don't know, Go be a dancer. I

923
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 2: gave him back the engagement ring and punted him out

924
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: of my apartment. Since then, I've been getting messages from

925
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 2: various social media profiles and cell phone numbers that I

926
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 2: would be the ahle who was ruining his daughter's future.

927
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 2: I only found out about his daughter that day. He

928
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 2: was your feet once and you didn't know about his daughter.

929
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 1: Okay, that is wild.

930
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 2: He's either lying to you or he lied to you

931
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: about his daughter. He's either lying to you or he's

932
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 2: lying to you.

933
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 4: All of his friends, his family, they're his daughter. You

934
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 4: have to give the money to his daughter.

935
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, lied to you or is lying to you.

936
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 1: Please remind yourself from this man as far as possible. Also,

937
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm a little shocked because everyone seemed to like this guy. Yeah,

938
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: what happened?

939
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 2: I have no clue.

940
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 3: He found his free meal ticket, That's what it is.

941
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 2: I only found out about his daughter that day. I

942
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 2: never saw any photos or anything like that in the

943
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: past years. Why did he think that revealing that he

944
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 2: has a daughter that he never told you about would

945
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 2: be the best play to make you stay, because that

946
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 2: would be like the surefire way to get me to

947
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:28,800
Speaker 2: definitely leave because you lied to me. Yeah, relevant comments

948
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 2: A sleep unit says, not the ale. You did the

949
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,839
Speaker 2: right thing breaking things off, stay broken up. This dude

950
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 2: will ruin your life otherwise, hope, he says, Yes, for me,

951
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,479
Speaker 2: this relationship is over. I'm just shocked at the games

952
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,920
Speaker 2: he's playing now. I still haven't found out whether he

953
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 2: really has a daughter or whether he made it up

954
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: so he could disappear with half the money. Monte Carlo says,

955
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: you knew this guy for two years, got engaged and

956
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: didn't know he had a daughter, and he's upset that

957
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 2: you didn't mention your son's money.

958
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, those are two different things.

959
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 2: Not really really, those are both relevant. I mean, well, honestly,

960
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 2: ohp he's more in the right for absolutely, he absolutely well,

961
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 2: he like, you don't have to disclose anything about your

962
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,840
Speaker 2: son's finances to him. He should absolutely have told you

963
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 2: that he had a child.

964
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying.

965
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 2: Okay, then, yes, I agree with you.

966
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought so. I thought that I must have

967
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: comprehended that comment wrong.

968
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 2: They were saying, just the fact that he's upset that

969
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 2: you like, oh, it just makes sense when he's hid

970
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 2: this thing.

971
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought it was. I thought it said you're

972
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: upset that he didn't tell you about his daughter. Whenever

973
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: you didn't tell you.

974
00:42:40,640 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 2: It's saying like, yeah, this comment was on her side.

975
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,800
Speaker 1: Anyways, everyone should be on the same page. But that

976
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 1: is a wild chapter to skip.

977
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 2: Two yep oh, he says, well, I tried to tell

978
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 2: him about my finances. He never wanted to know. He

979
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 2: always was kind of like, yeah, I'm the man, you

980
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 2: don't have to worry.

981
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: I see. So this is a pride thing. It's not

982
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: kind of money. More about the prague one.

983
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,440
Speaker 2: Taylor says, So, wait, did all this happen before the

984
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 2: prenup was even finished? And did you put in your

985
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 2: sons because you were worried about creditors coming for you

986
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 2: and this gave you an out. I'm just trying to

987
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 2: put the pieces together. Opie says. We sat with the

988
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 2: lawyer to drop the prenup. We had to disclose our finances.

989
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 2: I didn't know exactly whether my son's account was excluded

990
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 2: or not, so I took the documents with me as

991
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: a precaution. When we went through these documents, he stood

992
00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 2: up and stormed out of the office, extremely angry. In

993
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 2: my country, it is customary to set up the bank

994
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: account in the child's name with normal saving accounts. Both

995
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 2: the person who opened the account and the parents can

996
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 2: have access to it, so my son's dad also knows

997
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,320
Speaker 2: about it. My side of the family would love to

998
00:43:41,440 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 2: have access to the money in the event of my

999
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 2: premature passing. That's why it's blocked. Opie also added, I

1000
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 2: probably have some explaining to do. In my country, lottery

1001
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:55,680
Speaker 2: winners are never revealed, as they shouldn't be nice. Sometimes

1002
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 2: they say in which region a ticket was bought. But evermore,

1003
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 2: apart from the financial secut already for my son, there

1004
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,320
Speaker 2: is no sign of the wind in my family. I

1005
00:44:03,480 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 2: used my part of the wind to pay off debts

1006
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:09,040
Speaker 2: and bought myself a car, neither new nor anything special.

1007
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: We live in the same rented apartment and I still

1008
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 2: have my job that pays the monthly bills. I treat

1009
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 2: myself to a two week vacation in Australia once a year,

1010
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 2: but never in luxury. My son wears TMU clothes he

1011
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 2: loves the designs, and I don't have any designer stuff

1012
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 2: myself and also wear my clothes up, so there was

1013
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,240
Speaker 2: never any sign that my fiance was a gold digger.

1014
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 2: On the contrary, I had to fight for him not

1015
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 2: to keep inviting me to dinner or paying for weekend trips.

1016
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,359
Speaker 2: I mostly turn them down. He's buttering you up, girl.

1017
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 2: I grew up in a financially unstable family, so I

1018
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 2: was always very concerned about being frugal. My son's saving

1019
00:44:43,560 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 2: account is also closed to withdrawals before his twenty first birthday.

1020
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 2: You can put money into it, but you can't take

1021
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 2: it out, and even then only he is allowed to

1022
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: do so. And there is an update. I feel like

1023
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 2: your ex fiance is about to start pulling off some

1024
00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 2: count oloff level hijinks. Hmmm, you gotta be ready. You

1025
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 2: gotta be making sure that no one's going to light

1026
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 2: your house on fire to keep an eye out.

1027
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,800
Speaker 1: It's so weird how money can change people.

1028
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:10,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1029
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: Recently there was a passing in my family. There was

1030
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: a family member that got a little weird because she

1031
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: knew about a SAME's account and it was kind of

1032
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,759
Speaker 1: like she knew abotter what a SAMESE account from the

1033
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 1: person that passed. She was like, I need that money now.

1034
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,960
Speaker 1: It's like there's not in the ground yet. Yeah.

1035
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 2: I think people tend to be very weird about money.

1036
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird. Yeah, dude, I could pull this on

1037
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: a friend that I know. Mm. Hmm, but I'm not

1038
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,480
Speaker 1: going to I could.

1039
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:35,920
Speaker 2: But I won't.

1040
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:39,280
Speaker 1: But it was luck that you got into that workers

1041
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: comp issue. You know, maybe you should give me some

1042
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: of the money because I work too, I drive too well.

1043
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 2: Now, I don't know what you're talking about, that workers comp.

1044
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 1: I didn't want to actually say what it was.

1045
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 2: Oh, I see, okay, because that's what I first thought.

1046
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 2: But it's not workers I know.

1047
00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could, I could pull that, but dude, just

1048
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 1: life happens people and they get blessed, then you should.

1049
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,279
Speaker 4: Just share the blessed, share the well, Share the well

1050
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 4: I survived.

1051
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:07,479
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about.

1052
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:09,680
Speaker 2: He's not talking to you.

1053
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about you, Keon.

1054
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:12,959
Speaker 2: But there is an update, folks.

1055
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: Hey, it's Sean here. We're gonna get back to this episode,

1056
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: but a quick three minute break with the as for

1057
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:17,280
Speaker 1: more sponsors.

1058
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 2: Two months later, after receiving many of your tips, I

1059
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 2: took my son to his grandparents, informed the police and

1060
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 2: also my boss.

1061
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: Oh what oh.

1062
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, the police can't do much in my country as

1063
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 2: long as he doesn't commit a crime against me. Pestering

1064
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 2: me on the phone and begging for money doesn't count

1065
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 2: as a crime. I informed my boss, mainly because my

1066
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 2: ex fiance works for a company that we deal with

1067
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 2: almost daily. That's how we originally met. In recent weeks,

1068
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 2: there have been many attempts by his friends and family

1069
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 2: to contact me, all of whom wanted to convince me

1070
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 2: do give him the money, but everyone hung up when

1071
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 2: I asked about his daughter. When my ex fiance showed

1072
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 2: up at my work, he didn't normally have to do that.

1073
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 2: After getting a promotion, my boss called my fiance's company

1074
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 2: and explained that if he took one more step in

1075
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 2: my direction, all contracts would be canceled due to their

1076
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 2: unacceptable behavior. Good on your boss, Holy good, the boss

1077
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 2: is you know your number one? You know, fight protector.

1078
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: Because whatever company you have, they could probably find a

1079
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 1: cheaper contractor yeah, because they're just working with you because

1080
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,479
Speaker 1: they like you. Yeah, I could take that away gone.

1081
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 2: This led to a meeting with my ex fiance's boss,

1082
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 2: my boss, and me. I didn't tell them every detail,

1083
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 2: but when it came to the money, his boss explained

1084
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,880
Speaker 2: to me that my fiance actually wanted to buy a

1085
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 2: large stake in the company and was allegedly just waiting

1086
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 2: for the loan to be paid out. Yeah, you to

1087
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 2: give him money. This made it clear why he wanted

1088
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 2: my son's money so badly. My ex fiance is actually

1089
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 2: a highly respected employee at his company, which is why

1090
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 2: his boss was reluctant to fire him, especially since this

1091
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,880
Speaker 2: probably wouldn't have improved my situation. And similar to the police,

1092
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 2: his boss considered it bad behavior, but it wasn't a

1093
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 2: criminal offense. At the same time, my company is a

1094
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 2: very large client for them, and sweeping the whole thing

1095
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 2: under the rug wouldn't help. After a few days, I

1096
00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 2: received the news that my ex fiance was being transferred

1097
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Speaker 2: to another branch of the company several thousand kilometers away

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00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: from me. Oh wow, sucks for him, but you know

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00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 2: that's what he gets.

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Speaker 1: And his five year old daughter in airports.

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00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, definitely, a five year old daughter is gonna

1102
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 2: have to move somewhere.

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00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: I mean, we're not even gonna hear about this kid

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00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:23,799
Speaker 1: at all.

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00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,760
Speaker 2: He's gonna be like one day, I don't know, something's

1106
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:28,880
Speaker 2: gonna happen. They're gonna be talking and she's gonna be like, Oh,

1107
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 2: how's your daughter, And he's gonna be like, my daughter,

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00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 2: what are you talking about?

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00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 4: Oh?

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00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: Yes, my daughter Lenny. No, you said her name is Honey. Yes,

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00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 2: we call her Lenny.

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Speaker 1: Because it's her middle name, Honey Lenny.

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00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 2: The company's purchasing department also clearly rejected the purchase. Afterward,

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00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:49,760
Speaker 2: I found out via social media that my ex fiance

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00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: actually has a daughter, which is honestly kind of worse

1116
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 2: to me because it means again that he lied about

1117
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 2: having not like about his daughter for five years.

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00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: That's crazy. What like when did he even see her?

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00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Is he a bad dad too?

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00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,239
Speaker 2: I must be. A friend was still following him on

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00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 2: Instagram to keep an eye on him, and when she

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00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 2: looked at his tags from the last six years, she

1124
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 2: actually noticed his ex and a look at her profile

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00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: showed a girl of the specified age. I contacted her

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00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:22,160
Speaker 2: and she willingly explained to me how much he actually

1127
00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:25,320
Speaker 2: wanted a child and how when the ultrasound showed it

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00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:27,760
Speaker 2: was a girl, he left her wow.

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Speaker 1: Because he wanted a song with a lot of money

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00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: already in his bank account.

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Speaker 2: Heyikes. He broke off contact with the mother during the

1132
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:37,040
Speaker 2: pregnancy and willingly gave up all his rights and obligations

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00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 2: as a father. You don't deserve to be a father, dum.

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Speaker 2: If you are not ready to be a parent to

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Speaker 2: a child of any gender, then you don't deserve to

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Speaker 2: be a parent.

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Speaker 1: It's wild that you were signing the prene up contract

1138
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: and this all happened. Yikes.

1139
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 2: She herself is now in a happy relationship and her

1140
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,280
Speaker 2: husband loves her daughter. She never asked my ex fiance

1141
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 2: for money. Following your advice regarding the savings account, I

1142
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 2: contacted our financial advisor and can now say that I

1143
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,919
Speaker 2: must apologize to you. It is indeed a trust fund.

1144
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 2: I just hadn't referred to it as such until then,

1145
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,360
Speaker 2: as it is mainly referred to as a savings account

1146
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:13,959
Speaker 2: in my country. But yes, it is a trust fund

1147
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 2: in the American sense. I discussed with my ex husband,

1148
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 2: the father of my son, once again, how we would

1149
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 2: make the payout, and thanks to your tips, we have

1150
00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 2: now decided on a staggered payout from ages twenty one

1151
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 2: to thirty five, so that he has a contribution for

1152
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 2: several stages of his life. The amount at age twenty

1153
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 2: one has been chosen so that it can be used

1154
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,759
Speaker 2: for college, but at the same time it won't hurt

1155
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 2: too much if he squanders it. All is well that

1156
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 2: ends well far away from this man.

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Speaker 1: I okay. So the thing that I really appreciate about

1158
00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 1: Opie is she brought paperwork she didn't think that she

1159
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,960
Speaker 1: needed because she was making sure she had all her

1160
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,840
Speaker 1: ducks in a row for this marriage. So if she didn't,

1161
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: if that action behind her, and you can see that

1162
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: those are actions she's always had because of this trust

1163
00:50:57,640 --> 00:50:59,840
Speaker 1: fund she set up for a kid. If that was

1164
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 1: the person she was, she would have fellen into a trap.

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00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: Thus that just shows always be who you are, because

1166
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 1: that'll save you.

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00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:10,760
Speaker 2: I think, definitely talk about finances before you get married,

1168
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 2: and also talk about any kids that you've got.

1169
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 1: Just be on the lookout for that I might need

1170
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:17,279
Speaker 1: to call.

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00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:20,400
Speaker 2: And my question about am I the aole was mainly

1172
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 2: because there were actually many people in my circle who

1173
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 2: called me that because I persuaded my ex fiance to

1174
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 2: sign a prenuptial agreement. But for me, a prenup was

1175
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 2: important for several reasons. To secure my son's money. Now

1176
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 2: I know he wouldn't have been able to get his

1177
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 2: hands on it. Two, I started a small business in

1178
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 2: addition to my main job. Nothing big at the moment,

1179
00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 2: but it's still mine. Three I'm saving money so that

1180
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 2: I can eventually realize my dream of owning a house

1181
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 2: in Australia. Fun, and I didn't want to lose that

1182
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 2: money to him in a divorce. In retrospect, I can

1183
00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 2: see how many red flags I overlooked on his part,

1184
00:51:52,640 --> 00:51:55,280
Speaker 2: and I will definitely be more careful in the future.

1185
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 2: And that's the end of that story. Folks. Oh Pee,

1186
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:03,720
Speaker 2: I'm glad you figured that out out before you married him. Yeah, yikes,

1187
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,920
Speaker 2: big old yikes. Make sure people don't have secret kids.

1188
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, and if they have a secret account, see how

1189
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,680
Speaker 1: they do you have a secret account, show your hand,

1190
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: just to see how they react, because it might save

1191
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 1: you a lot of years. Because imagine she got into this, Well,

1192
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 1: she would have been fine because she had a prenup.

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00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but like still, it's just annoying. Yeah, But that's

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Speaker 2: the end of that story and the end of this episode.

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