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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just trying to figure out when the bagpipes

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Speaker 2: are going to play on this National Bagpipe Day. But

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Speaker 2: it's not till seven oh nine. Seven oh nine is

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Speaker 2: sun up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna take a minute for us to get our

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Speaker 3: sunshine in the morning. But just think about how much

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Speaker 3: later the sunsets.

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Speaker 2: I'm fine with that, but I haven't gotten there yet.

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Speaker 2: I'm just in the dark.

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Speaker 1: I know it's really dark.

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Speaker 2: You jump that hour forty so I just every year

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Speaker 2: I harp on this, what's one hour? Actually it's a lot.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot.

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Speaker 2: It's a lot. It's a lot. Today will be So

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Speaker 2: if it's up at seven o nine, it's gonna go

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Speaker 2: down at six fifty seven. It's gonna get even later.

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Speaker 3: Obviously, right peak of summer, it's like eight o'clock.

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Speaker 2: I feel I'm fine until when it gets to be

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Speaker 2: still light when I'm trying to tuck myself in. I

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Speaker 2: don't like it. Light.

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Speaker 1: You're not talking yourself in. I tuck myself in fifty

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Speaker 1: five pm to night.

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Speaker 2: No, no, not now. But the eighth thirty ish.

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Speaker 4: Oh, like.

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Speaker 1: Like July.

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Speaker 2: Right, I don't. I don't tuck myself in. It's seven

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Speaker 2: thirty anymore. You don't, No, no, I don't. I My

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Speaker 2: talking process begins at eight thirty. I should show you

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Speaker 2: my tucking process.

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Speaker 4: I love nothing more.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seems to be getting longer and longer. Now

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Speaker 2: it's you know, it's a tombs, it's a face wash.

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Speaker 1: It's dumbs every night.

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Speaker 2: No, okay, it tastes like sweethearts to me. Now it's

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Speaker 2: a candy.

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Speaker 1: Now we have thumbs everywhere, Like, why.

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Speaker 3: Do we have so many tombs our kitchen, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: easy dessert, Michael loves them.

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Speaker 2: Our latest sunset of the year will be eight oh

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Speaker 2: eight June. You know it's could be summer, guys. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to say it, but yeah, it's summer now.

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Speaker 2: Basically you should be booking your reservations or your Disneyland

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Speaker 2: tickets or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Right this week is not going to feel like summer though.

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Speaker 2: No very wet, But that's a buzzkill.

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Speaker 1: Fine, it's part of the season.

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Speaker 4: But the news is the light light later means you

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Speaker 4: can like be outside and get your steps in longer.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm down. And by the way, we now have

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Speaker 2: seasons in La, so we certainly have them this year. Sure, already,

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Speaker 2: let's go around the table here as we enjoy our grape.

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Speaker 4: Nuts and those and those.

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Speaker 2: And those highs and lows in the last twenty hours,

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Speaker 2: so assistantly, you're high.

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Speaker 3: My high was at a ditch my family on Friday

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Speaker 3: afternoon and night, and I had a sleepover at my

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Speaker 3: best friend Tag's house.

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Speaker 2: You did what y'all talk about?

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Speaker 1: I did just girl stuff. We had caught up.

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Speaker 3: I hadn't seen her since like the holidays, so it

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Speaker 3: was like, you know, it's a nice time to catch up.

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Speaker 1: And it's weird because she's like, did you ask Michael

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Speaker 1: if you can come over and spend the night. It's

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Speaker 1: like I have to ask Michael for permission, but not really,

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Speaker 1: but you kind.

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Speaker 2: Of do, like my heads up if you're not coming.

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Speaker 3: Home, you get like check in and like tell them,

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Speaker 3: all right, you got me with the kids tonight.

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Speaker 2: So it was Tanya, what's your high the last twenty hours.

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Speaker 4: I'm officially one week sugar free and I no big time,

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Speaker 4: big time, so I'm feeling really really good.

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Speaker 2: I lost my favorite sunglasses and I found them. That's

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Speaker 2: like a huge victory.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that is huge.

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Speaker 2: I now I don't give up hope. I always think

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Speaker 2: Now I don't give up hope. They're going to find them.

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Speaker 2: And that was a high for me. What was your low?

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Speaker 3: My low is about to begin that it's just going

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Speaker 3: to rain all week and it's such a bummer with the.

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Speaker 1: Dogs because it's annoying.

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Speaker 2: You're low.

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Speaker 4: I slept a little weird last night. I have like

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Speaker 4: a little bit of a crook in my neck.

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Speaker 2: Funny you say that because the corn of mind low

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Speaker 2: is the the panty line of my uh bed sheets.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know the elasticated.

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Speaker 2: Fitted Yeah, the painty line, the fitted part.

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Speaker 1: Of the anti line. It's just the elastic of the sheet.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the thing exactly.

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Speaker 4: Oh, it was coming up.

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Speaker 2: It popped off. I did not I could not take

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Speaker 1: That is it is the worst, such a pet peeve

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Speaker 2: Weird.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I make Michael go out of the bed and

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Speaker 1: we have to fix it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Michael, what a scent. These are three things that

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Speaker 2: food experts say, never microwave. Just take note, maybe you

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Speaker 2: make these for your bunch. Hard boiled eggs. Never microwave

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Speaker 2: hard boled eggs.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how to do that.

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Speaker 4: Who microwaves hard boiled eggs?

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Speaker 2: A lot of people?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't know these people, but they do it.

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Speaker 1: But do you put the egg raw in there? It?

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Speaker 2: I was singing to heat it up, but it says

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Speaker 2: it's just you could. It's it's really boiling it. So

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Speaker 2: don't boil them with the microbe I was singing, heat

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Speaker 3: What about like when you're yeah, I'm like reheating stuff

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Speaker 3: if it's leftovers, But it says the heat destroys the

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Speaker 3: vitamin C. So then just throw it out if you're

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Speaker 3: not going to finish it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just telling you what they say. Don't

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Speaker 2: do it. And don't do seafood ever. Oh for sure,

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Speaker 2: it's not unsafe, but it'll dry it out. I take

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Speaker 2: I eat dry fish all the time. Food experts are

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Speaker 2: too picky. Today's club you're calling will crush your comfort zone.

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Speaker 2: Monday headlines headlines with siciny, well did you feel it?

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Speaker 3: A three point three magnitooth earthquake struck La about two

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Speaker 3: twenty three this morning, near the epicenter of yesterday's four

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Speaker 3: point one magnitooth earthquake, northwest of Malibu and southwest of

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Speaker 3: Westlake Village. FEMA has extended the deadline for socoled residents

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Speaker 3: affected by the January wildfires to apply for federal aid.

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Speaker 3: The deadline is now Monday, March thirty. First, Newport Beach

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Speaker 3: debuted its new trash inspector wheel, designed to capture trash

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Speaker 3: flowing into Newport Bay and the ocean, and the Dodgers

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Speaker 3: Foundation in La County Parks Department plan to turn Loma

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Speaker 3: Alta Park into Altadena into a beacon of.

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Speaker 1: Hope with two Dodgers dream fields opening.

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Speaker 2: By May Ryan's Rosies coming out a seven forty. She

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Speaker 2: thinks her husband's having an affair. She got that feeling

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Speaker 2: and it's very uncomfortable, the connection to the family with

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Speaker 2: we'll get to that at seven forty this morning. I

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Speaker 2: also got some Halsey tickets for you to win. And

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Speaker 2: here we are again on a Monday. Yeah, Sisney, what

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Speaker 2: did your neighbors ask you to do? Okay?

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Speaker 3: And I feel like it's something that maybe a lot

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Speaker 3: stuck with me all week.

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Speaker 1: So last week they're.

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Speaker 3: Back now and everything's fine, but I'm coming home from

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Speaker 3: school with the kids and They're like, hey, so you

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Speaker 3: know we're going to be gone for a few days

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Speaker 3: to go visit our daughter and this you keep an eye.

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Speaker 1: On the house. I was like, sure that would say.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 5: That met?

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Speaker 1: And so like the whole week, I was just like panic.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what car is that?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: I was literally like if something happens to their house

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Speaker 3: that I feel responsible, But on you, I don't have.

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Speaker 2: A cheek say that guard the house.

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Speaker 1: Literally just like keeping out in the house.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I think they're just saying a FYI

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was total. It was totally that.

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Speaker 3: But I took it like as if I needed to

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Speaker 2: Of the home and I need to put a spotlight

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean any little thing. They kind of

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Speaker 3: filming notices on everyone's like front door, and like I

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Speaker 2: And yeah, walk over and turn lights on and off.

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Speaker 1: No I didn't. I didn't have keys of their house.

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Speaker 2: Stop the paper, so it doesn't stack up.

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Speaker 1: Nobody gets papers anymore.

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Speaker 3: But you know, a little things like that, and it

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Speaker 3: I'm glad they're home now because I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 2: My book, then if they threw that on you, they

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Speaker 3: You know what they always do. They are they are

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Speaker 3: not me for the kids. They'll bring something back for that.

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Speaker 3: It's like their own kids, they have grandkids. It's I

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Speaker 3: live on like the best street in America. Like our

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Speaker 3: neighbors are so nice, everyone's so kind. So that's why

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to blow up so shocked that they

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Speaker 3: bring your kids get by, I know, and like all

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Speaker 2: Do, why don't you stay at their house? Then, I mean,

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Speaker 2: really take this serious. I get in there next time.

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Speaker 2: Maybe called me and she said, I have a question

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Speaker 2: for you, and said, yes, she wants to know what

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Speaker 2: APT means. And I actually tried to explain it to

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Speaker 2: her and I made no sense.

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Speaker 1: It's a drinking game, That's why I said to her.

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Speaker 2: She said, what does that mean? I said, well, it's

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Speaker 2: drinking game. She said, I've never heard of it. I said,

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Speaker 2: because it was in South Korea where they originated this

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Speaker 2: drinking game. I think, isn't that what we were told

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Speaker 2: by Rose?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And also apartment does it?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: And Bruno even reference that in his lyrics.

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Speaker 2: Well, somehow, when I try to explain a movie or

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Speaker 2: a song or TV show, it doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 2: And my job is to communicate. But she was fine with it,

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Speaker 2: but she really went out of her way to find.

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Speaker 1: Out eighty percent of the time you make sense.

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Speaker 2: Well, explain this one to me so I can make

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Speaker 2: sense of it. Flood lighting. It's a new toxic dating trend.

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Speaker 2: Flood lighting. What does it mean?

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Speaker 1: Flood lighting?

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Speaker 2: I don't love any of that conversation. And you're not

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Speaker 7: Well, and so I went on her Instagram because I'm

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it was like golfing and it was for business.

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Speaker 2: All right, Hold on one second. Here's the scenario. Leslie

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Speaker 2: So let's say I need you to say, right, you

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Speaker 6: Go ahead, you have my permission to call.

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Speaker 2: Do that now. And what's this friend of your daughter's

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Speaker 2: Here we go, be very quiet, hanging there. Let's see

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Speaker 7: Oh, thank you so much.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Manny?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? This is Manny.

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Speaker 1: Hi Manny.

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Speaker 3: My name is Amber. I'm calling from Mission via Hill Flowers.

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Speaker 3: How you doing this morning?

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Speaker 6: Did? All right?

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Speaker 1: How are you great? Thank you for asking.

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Speaker 3: Actually, we deliver here locally and we're offering a free

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Speaker 1: It is free.

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Speaker 3: I don't need any cash from you or anything like that,

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Speaker 6: Like a three dozen red roses.

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Speaker 3: We're just trying to promote our business and we ask

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Speaker 3: is there anybody that you want to send free roses to?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's a girl named Sammy. Do you guys deliver

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Speaker 1: all right. What's her name?

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Speaker 6: Her name is Sammy. Got I've got to get our address.

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Speaker 3: Just let's do the note first and then we can

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Speaker 6: You got this? This is your day? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: And then how do you want me to sign it?

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Speaker 6: Love? Manny?

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Speaker 1: Love, Manny, Manny.

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Speaker 2: Your wife Leslie's on the phone. My name is Ryan.

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Speaker 2: Your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I've got

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Speaker 2: Tanya in Siciny with me and your wife Leslie's on

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Speaker 6: Really?

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Speaker 2: Who's Sammy?

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Speaker 6: Sammy's just a friend.

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Speaker 2: You're a friend. You see San Diego that you're sending

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Speaker 2: That's a friend?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, well mar yep, Well you come.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, of course you know I was so Leslie,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also goes to that same college.

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Speaker 2: So weird. I couldn't even ask the question. I didn't

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Speaker 2: So, by the way, remember when she said my daughter's

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Speaker 2: One eight hundred and five to one of two seven

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Speaker 2: Ryan's roses. So go ahead, what did you take away

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Speaker 1: That's why I wanted to know how he was going

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not their daughter, because Leslie would have

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Speaker 7: Yeah. So I guess, like, is he going like is

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Speaker 4: the way they got together is so unconventional that I

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Speaker 4: feel like, sometimes you just have to step outside your

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Speaker 4: comfort zone and do things a little bit differently.

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Speaker 2: So what's the situation.

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Speaker 4: So Coleman Domingo, the actor who from Sing Sing, the

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Speaker 4: movie that was nominated a ton, he was walking the

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Speaker 4: carpet with his husband Raoul Domingo.

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Speaker 2: Was he in a red blazer? Yes, it's the Oscars.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yes, guys, And they have been together for nearly

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Speaker 4: twenty years. But the way that they met is straight

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Speaker 4: up out of a movie, and I thought it was

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Speaker 4: a really important life lesson. So Coleman and Raoul first

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Speaker 4: met in two thousand and five through a Craigslist missed

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Speaker 4: Connections post. So, while visiting NorCal, Coleman noticed a beautiful

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Speaker 4: man outside of Walgreens in Berkeley, but he did not

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Speaker 4: approach him. A few days later, he came across a

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Speaker 4: Craigslist post titled saw you outside of Walgreens Berkeley written

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Speaker 4: by Raoul just hours earlier. So they met three days

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Speaker 4: later and Coleman felt an immediate connection, and then boom,

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Speaker 4: twenty years later, they're still together.

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Speaker 1: I love it, I know.

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Speaker 2: And like some people like times if that happened in

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Speaker 2: your life where you just don't have the braveness to

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Speaker 2: say anything, or you make.

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Speaker 4: Eye contact or make eyes with somebody, like driving down

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Speaker 4: the street and you feel like you have like a

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Speaker 4: thirty and then they're gone. You know, like you should

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Speaker 4: post that somewhere and like seek.

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Speaker 2: It out with craigslis, Like I used to get nervous

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Speaker 2: buying a couch off Craigslist. This is a real leap

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Speaker 2: of faith here totally, but it works out all right,

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Speaker 2: what's a happy story him Lauren, good morning, How are

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Speaker 2: you good?

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Speaker 5: How are you guys?

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Speaker 2: We're good. So it says here you found out your

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Speaker 2: friend's pregnant on Instagram.

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Speaker 5: Yes, so we did over the weekend, which is very exciting.

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Speaker 5: Super happy for my friend, of course, but it was

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Speaker 5: a little surprising to me and to the rest of

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Speaker 5: our friend group. We've been friends with her since high

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Speaker 5: school and granted we don't see each other as often

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Speaker 5: as we used to, but still pretty often, and we would,

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Speaker 5: you know, talk about her fertility journey and starting a family,

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Speaker 5: how she wanted kids. So we were all really surprised

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Speaker 5: that that was how we found out. And I feel

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Speaker 5: like a little hurt about it. I would never say

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Speaker 5: anything to her, but I don't know if I'm like

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Speaker 5: leading into it too much or if I should even

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Speaker 5: feel like slightly disappointed about it.

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Speaker 2: I think you're making this more of a you thing

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Speaker 2: than a her thing, which I had to say it,

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Speaker 2: but like this is I think it's her pregnancy, it's

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Speaker 2: her life, it's her way of communicating. You can't make

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Speaker 2: us about you.

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Speaker 5: That is true. That is true. We just thought, because

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Speaker 5: of how close we all are, that we would find

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Speaker 5: out like in a more I don't know, like personal way.

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Speaker 2: I understand that would be your expectation, but I don't

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Speaker 2: know if you can falter for this. This is what

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Speaker 2: she decided to do, and it's such a happy, wonderful,

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Speaker 2: beautiful thing you can't let it but come about you

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Speaker 2: or your other friends.

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Speaker 3: She might have felt overwhelmed to spread the news that

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Speaker 3: way too, because you know, having to call everybody separately

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Speaker 3: or like, what do you do? It's a bunch of

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Speaker 3: face times, like just it her whole family, and it

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Speaker 3: was just easier just to do a mass, you know,

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Speaker 3: public announcement.

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Speaker 2: And every minute you're upset about this is a minute

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Speaker 2: that you're not fully happy.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 2: Slide. I would let this go. It's really about let

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Speaker 2: them be, you know, happy and excited about healthy pregnancy.

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Speaker 7: Right.

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Speaker 2: Love that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why'd you love that? You called Asalin? Thank you so

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Speaker 2: much for listening.

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Speaker 5: To us, Thank you, bye bye.

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Speaker 2: I did I want to say, like you're making about

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Speaker 2: yourself when it's really not who cares? In a way,

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Speaker 2: I got it. Expectations, Yeah that's.

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Speaker 1: Fine, but how special do you feel when you do

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Speaker 1: have friends?

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Speaker 3: I call you and yeah, give you the lowdown before

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Speaker 3: anybody else knows.

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Speaker 2: It's never happened. But that's not true.

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Speaker 1: I called you.

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Speaker 2: I think I found out you're pregnant here.

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Speaker 1: No, not the twins. I called it with the twins.

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Speaker 1: I told you I was pregnant. I told you ahead

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Speaker 1: of time, but you didn't know it was twins.

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Speaker 2: So see, I did find out something here. I knew

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Speaker 2: there was a big dentistry.

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Speaker 1: I got to do a little bit.

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Speaker 2: There was just a Mark Dennis surprise moment. Everybody's like

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Speaker 2: waving their hair.

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Speaker 4: You guys like that better. I think like what you

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Speaker 4: guys like the surprise. I remember after I got engaged,

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Speaker 4: I wanted to FaceTime you, and then I was like, no,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to do it. I want to surprise them

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Speaker 4: on the air.

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Speaker 2: I like it anyway you want to share happy happiness,

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Speaker 2: like whatever you want to do, just don't call past nine.

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Speaker 2: Just don't call past nine. Let me just jump into this.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people are divided on one. So there's

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Speaker 2: a dude that posts on Reddit about a fight he

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Speaker 2: had with his partner's girlfriend. It was about smelling like

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Speaker 2: a body odor.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 2: So they would go to the gym together and she

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Speaker 2: would not shower, and she would always say, women don't

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Speaker 2: sweat like you do, and we don't sweat the same,

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Speaker 2: and he didn't say anything, but he noticed like it

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Speaker 2: didn't smell perfectly, and so he started to want to

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Speaker 2: say something. So then she would start to use the sauna,

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Speaker 2: and she still refused to sell, so she would work out,

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Speaker 2: use a sauna and not shower, and finally he said,

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Speaker 2: I know you say you don't sweat, but it smells.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, now you're like baking your sweat.

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Speaker 2: And she's upset with him for saying that, and now

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Speaker 2: she thinks that he thinks that she's disgusting. So it's great,

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Speaker 2: a whole stir and a whole you know what storm.

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Speaker 2: So that question is do you tell your partner if

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Speaker 2: there's an odor?

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Speaker 3: You should have the type of relationship where you can

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Speaker 3: tell your partner these things and be like, hey, you

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Speaker 3: should shower, that's gross and then then not be offended.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So do you sweat differently? Like would you not shower?

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Speaker 2: Do you show or less than I do?

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Speaker 1: Do I shower?

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Speaker 2: I shower more? Women and men shower different number of

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Speaker 2: times per week.

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Speaker 1: I don't know one.

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Speaker 2: Showering a little bit more than I used to shower,

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Speaker 2: because you shower at night.

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Speaker 1: There's showers morning and night. There's showers and then there's

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Speaker 1: a rinse. You know, there's difference.

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Speaker 2: I quite like the relaxing, quick hot rints at night.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, I feel like necessary.

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Speaker 2: I just think if you if you sweat clean yourself.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a commercial.

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Speaker 2: That comes on. I don't know who she is. She's

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Speaker 2: an ob g y N and she's developed the uh

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Speaker 2: a yodaant for all your parts. You see that commercial,

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Speaker 2: No Marcas, but Mark, you've seen it. O g y

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Speaker 2: n right, and she's just like she's made theodant for

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Speaker 2: all the parts, all the hot spots. I saw. I

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Speaker 2: ordered it Loom. Yeah, that's it. Is it for men

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Speaker 2: and women? I don't know. I ordered it for myself.

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Speaker 2: I think it's for both. Great. I don't smell like

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Speaker 2: a patch of daisies.

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Speaker 1: Let us know how it goes.

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Speaker 2: Well, you tell me okay, and you smell the fragrance

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Speaker 2: from just sitting.

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Speaker 1: There, get over here.

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Speaker 2: That's great, an, I gotta speak up you.

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Speaker 1: That is so gross.

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