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Speaker 1: Yoh, what's up everybody?

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Speaker 2: Little Football Blues edition Relax Rich of Overpromises.

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Speaker 1: It's Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to Over Promised, our bonus podcast sending you some love,

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Speaker 2: speading the love here on our bonus show. All right,

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Speaker 2: a very special Valentine's Day special. Let's go by the

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Speaker 2: way to start it off. Yeah, as you have the

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Speaker 2: football Blues. Sorry about your forty nine ers. Now I'm

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Speaker 2: in the stage of like sadness. That's the grief stage

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Speaker 2: of men.

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Speaker 1: I got you, Valentine. Oh I did it.

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Speaker 2: I did spot my show. Kind of turn up the riz.

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Speaker 2: Everybody is the day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, happy Valuntine's poppy because look at.

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Speaker 2: You, man, You're sad about your Niners and wearing a

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Speaker 2: mister Rogers sweatshirt right now. Kind of turn up the riz,

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Speaker 2: bring the romance, getting good vibes. Get ready for March madness,

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Speaker 2: basketball and baseball.

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Speaker 1: Bro turn up the rig. I know football is in

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Speaker 1: the rear you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I have a card that you could give

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Speaker 2: any woman you dated in your life. Oh, this is

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Speaker 2: for you, This is for you. Thanks Tommy DeVito. We

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Speaker 2: can go upstairs to my room, but we have to

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Speaker 2: be quiet because my parents are home.

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Speaker 1: Why would you do that? Jersey guy, I live with

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Speaker 1: his parents. That's true, Yeah, it's true.

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Speaker 2: Thank you many, Tommy DeVito, you forgot Thanks for thinking

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Speaker 2: of me, and I wanted to get one last Timy

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Speaker 2: DeVito referencing because I don't know if we'll ever talk

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Speaker 2: about him again. It'll be serving Gobblegold and Deli in

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Speaker 2: New Jersey, sending you love on Valentine's Day, Pappa. And

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Speaker 2: because it's our Valentine's Day special here on over promised

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Speaker 2: you all the stuff we couldn't fit into our show on.

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Speaker 1: Fox Sports Radio.

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Speaker 2: How about we get into loving Valentine theme sports related names.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's that's a very worthy way to say it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say your most romantic Please.

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Speaker 1: That's what I was looking for. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to start with one of your favorites

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Speaker 2: because I know you love his floppy hair? Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: mean Pete Rose. I love his fop Here, how did

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Speaker 2: not throw Pete Rose on the list. Imagine this guy

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Speaker 2: diving headfirst into DMS. Oh oh DM, no, DM, just

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Speaker 2: you know, to throw his game out there and be like, yo, man,

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Speaker 2: I'm the league leading hitter of all time. Let's get

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Speaker 2: down the business. I don't think Pete Rose was dobbing

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Speaker 2: doving headfirst into something else. Pete Rose, he ain't giving

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Speaker 2: you the rose. That's romantic. How about this one? You'll

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Speaker 2: love this one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Some people call him Bobby Magic, but it's really Bobby Valentine. Bobby,

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Speaker 2: will you be my Valentine? See where the fake mustache

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Speaker 2: and glasses? He's cheating because that's love right there.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got one for you. How about Kevin Love. Oh,

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Speaker 2: it's a very loving name for sure, spreading the love

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Speaker 2: like Kevin. Got to do that on this very special day,

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Speaker 2: Kevin Love, I got another one for you.

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Speaker 1: Josh Hart. Josh Hart. Josh Hart's a good, good one.

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Speaker 2: You got to throw that in there on Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: Now you're thinking, how does this one fit in? On?

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Speaker 1: Darling? Like someone's Darling?

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Speaker 2: How does it not? Finn Darling's a romantic name right there.

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Speaker 2: He was so handsome in Shallow Hell.

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Speaker 1: Very handsome man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine if you were going out to dinner with

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Speaker 2: the Darlings. That's very romantic right there. And my favorite

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Speaker 2: number one sports related romantic name, Greg the Hammer Valentine,

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Speaker 2: Greg the Hammer.

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Speaker 1: The wrestler.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, with the blonde moment, Greg, Dude, Greg the Hammer Valentine.

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Speaker 1: You gotta bring the hammer tonight.

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Speaker 2: If you go romance, if you go in wrestlers, how

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Speaker 2: do you not bring up brother love?

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Speaker 1: Because I love you? Aah, love you, dude.

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Speaker 2: I love how his face was all red, well, you know,

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Speaker 2: Man in the nineties saying, Hey, we're gonna paint your

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Speaker 1: I love the gimmicks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he spread love, spread love, spreadshakes, and enjoy your night,

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Speaker 2: and shout out to the Heart Foundation, since we're at it,

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Speaker 2: Heart Foundation. I got a couple others, maybe a little

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Speaker 2: less appropriate, but you look a little like Jimny Anvil Nightheart.

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Speaker 1: You go, what a little bit?

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Speaker 2: What about Dick Paradise? How appropriate is that on Valentine's Day? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Honorable mentions? Yeah, these are real athletes. This guy played

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Speaker 2: hockey in Minnesota. Dick Paradise, You going there tonight? I

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Speaker 1: How about this.

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Speaker 2: One, John David Booty, good luck getting some former Viking

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Speaker 1: Know we wish for everyone.

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Speaker 2: He gets some John David Booty today, Well not him,

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Speaker 2: but you know what I mean, get some Booty tonight.

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Speaker 2: All right? Well, hey, it is over promised. You still

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Speaker 2: got the best one, Rich. He was a former Boston Patriot.

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Speaker 2: I'm forgetting a patriot on Valentine's Day. Oh he is

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Speaker 2: a true patriot, American patriot. Dick Felt shout out to

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Speaker 2: him on his Valentine's Day romance.

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Speaker 1: Romance have ad it now?

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Speaker 2: Something we didn't get to on today's Fox Sports radio show.

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Speaker 2: Very honorable mention ring. I know we mentioned it in

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Speaker 2: the update yesterday with Dan Bayer, But the breakup of

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Speaker 2: Larsa Pippen and Marcus Jordan. No, no, no, how could

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Speaker 2: you even believe in love now that they're not together anymore?

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Speaker 1: My whole life is a lie.

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Speaker 2: But you gotta think like you, Vick Scotti and Michael

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Speaker 1: Yeah, a freaking weird thing, really weird.

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Speaker 2: Look, there was a what sixteen age sixteen year age

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Speaker 2: the point is it is Michael Jordan's son and Pippen's

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Speaker 2: a rough patch. They're not officially done. They just wipe

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Speaker 2: their social media. In today's world, that implies you're done. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you can't be wiping social media and so you're still

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Speaker 2: at it. By the way, wasn't there a rumor that

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Speaker 1: Like something stupid? Five times? Like yeah, we were having

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Speaker 2: College freshman Larson always Larsa always bragged about their love

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Speaker 2: But that's also an indicator that there's trouble in thick

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Speaker 2: paradise sometimes because people bragging about their relationships. It's like,

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Speaker 2: because everybody has some troubles along the way.

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Speaker 1: Now, the story is that they're just calling a time.

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Speaker 2: Out By the way, anytime someone's having trouble on their

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Speaker 2: sex life from now on, I'm gonna be like, oh,

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Speaker 2: best reference of the day. Former hockey player. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: they're calling a time out, they're having issues and trying

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Speaker 2: non specific as to what really happened. But hey, relationships

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Speaker 2: aren't easy. They're tough, and you know, we want to

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Speaker 2: go over some of the advice that people ask foreign

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Speaker 2: and go through during these rough patches of life. I'd

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Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit like I mean, we've been there,

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Speaker 2: We had our fair share of dating, you know, different

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Speaker 2: women over the year since we've been friends. You've said it,

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Speaker 2: and here's a couple pieces of pieces of advice from medio.

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Speaker 2: Number one, don't talk shit about a girl your buddy

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Speaker 2: to the bar, your budd's sitting there crying over his beer. Man.

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Speaker 1: Dude, she's the worst you ever left me. I hate her.

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Speaker 1: They don't know what you do.

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Speaker 2: You say something stupid, like anyway, she was a bitch anyway, man.

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Speaker 2: And then two weeks later, your buddy's like, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm back with Stephanie and you're like, oh, and for you,

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Speaker 1: She always seemed like, you know, not that trustworthy anyway.

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Speaker 2: You know I heard things about her anyway better off

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Speaker 2: And now like he's mad at you because you were

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Speaker 2: I have two buddies that don't talk anymore because one

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Speaker 2: like he was joking but not He's like, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: never liked that dirty horde es abling Yeah. He was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And then you look like the asshole. Yeah, don't be

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Speaker 2: if God forbid, you came to me with a breakup

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Speaker 2: I do if I gave awful advice like effort just

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Speaker 1: That's like, like have.

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Speaker 2: Some thoughtful advice, like the whole idea of like, you know,

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Speaker 2: to get over someone, you gotta get them.

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Speaker 1: There's someone else, like, don't.

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Speaker 2: Give cliche terrible advice of just like uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: through the struggles in the strife, you'll talk to anybody, right,

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Speaker 2: But how about don't seek advice from people who have

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Speaker 2: no knowledge in the dating world or the dating world today,

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Speaker 2: Like I could be talking to my parents or something.

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Speaker 2: My dad, I'm like a hey, why don't you just

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Speaker 2: well that it's not that easy, you know. It's like

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Speaker 2: sometimes they just don't get it because they haven't dated

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Speaker 2: anyone in one hundred and fifty years. So like, you know,

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Speaker 2: seek advice from people who are living it, who understand.

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Speaker 2: But also, you know, don't be giving crap advice either,

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Speaker 2: because it's a lot of things that you're gonna say

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Speaker 2: are way easier said than that relationships aren't easy. But

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Speaker 2: always remind your friend going through some shit that relationships

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Speaker 2: shouldn't be that hard, like it should make you happy.

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Speaker 2: Like I get it, kids, marriage, life, things aren't easy.

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Speaker 2: But if you've got a friend that's always bitching about

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Speaker 2: this girl or a girl that's bitching about how crappier

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Speaker 1: And he sort of made hey, girl, what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: F as the kids say, rich is really really against this.

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Speaker 1: They're a child because you think so, why are you

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Speaker 2: If you're with someone right now, Today's Valentine's Day? Is

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Speaker 2: Is it better if a woman is more understanding that, hey,

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Speaker 2: You know, I do agree with it. You know, what's

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Speaker 1: Day, like think about it? Is it? Is it all?

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Speaker 1: Because when we talk about you say you didn't appreciate

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Speaker 2: You know, But what I'm saying when we talk about

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Speaker 2: Are you projecting like the dinner doesn't matter? Yo, you

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Speaker 2: All that woman you care, you expect something. Here's what

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Speaker 2: I expect. I expect her to be grateful when I

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Speaker 2: I expect. Other ways, Russell Stover's and whitmen the same

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, like is one like is one like?

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Speaker 1: I have a question. I think you got to bring

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Speaker 2: I think it's you can't be as harsh as rich

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Speaker 2: So if you're not willing to take around on this day,

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Speaker 1: To blow your mind. A Whitman sampler is made by

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Speaker 2: Oh well, I'll say they got us by the freaking

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Speaker 2: away boss. And by the way, if she says I

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Speaker 1: I'm reading a whole thirteen dollars on the Woman you love.

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Speaker 2: it's a little bit of what rich is saying. It

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Speaker 2: the rize. Someone just was rude to me reading our feedback.

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Speaker 2: Someone sent me a Valentine's Day card and it said,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, man, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Hey. By the way, isn't that an amateur move? Like,

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Speaker 2: don't get engaged tonight because considered like a gift? Don't

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Speaker 2: they say that about Christmas and every other get engaged

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Speaker 2: on a technical holiday. If you break up, you can't

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Speaker 2: A little reminder from us to you, all right, I

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Speaker 1: We'll see you Tomorpy. Valentine's Papa.

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Speaker 2: Until then, Aribaci Baby, see you in the over promised land. Happy,

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Speaker 2: Happy Valentine's poppy, Happy Valentine's popping, Happy Valentine's popping,