Speaker 1: It's time for the Bobby Bones post show. Here's your host,
Speaker 1: Bobby Bone.
Speaker 2: What a mother nature? You don't think I was gonna
Speaker 2: say it? No? Yeah, I knew you wouldn't say it.
Speaker 2: Did you know I wouldn't say it? And that's why
Speaker 2: you thought it? Or is it just didn't sound anything
Speaker 2: like a mind? I was like, what's up, mother nature?
Speaker 3: No, never was someone else. I would think, Oh, they're
Speaker 3: going to say it, but you don't. You don't curse.
Speaker 2: So we were doing the story in the news earlier
Speaker 2: amy about clutter, and I think mine's a bit of
Speaker 2: a strategic clutter. But I got to clear some of
Speaker 2: this out. Yeah, because I stuff, what do you mean
Speaker 2: everything on your desk?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: That too? No, hold on that. So Eddie and I
Speaker 2: signed each other's We just signed these balls here. So
Speaker 2: what we're signing these balls each other's balls? No, I
Speaker 2: mean we both signed this. We both signed the balls.
Speaker 2: We do a show called too Much Access and the
Speaker 2: new episodes up and I bought too many football so
Speaker 2: we're still signing footballs for basketball shows. But if people
Speaker 2: comment on the Instagram, we just pick one of them randomly.
Speaker 2: So we got to sign one today. So you can
Speaker 2: go comment on my Instagram, mister Bobby Bones and on
Speaker 2: the too Much Access one we did Arkansas women's basketball,
Speaker 2: and we'll just pick one of them and sign up
Speaker 2: today and send the ball off to somebody. I gotta
Speaker 2: get rid of these balls. I have a whole bag
Speaker 2: full of University of Cincinnati stuff they gave us that
Speaker 2: I just left up here, and it's a lot of
Speaker 2: good stuff. So I can give some of that to
Speaker 2: you guys, or I can give it to a caller
Speaker 2: that wants to.
Speaker 4: Call no caller, Yeah, only a Cincinnati fan, true.
Speaker 2: University of Cincinnati. Yeah yeah, But I think I mean
Speaker 2: because I had a shirt, I kind of don't care
Speaker 2: who what I mean, maybe they want to be a
Speaker 2: Cincinnati fan. Well, I don't know.
Speaker 3: Because I had a shirt and some of the football
Speaker 3: dads we were all hanging out and they were like, man.
Speaker 2: So you've been traveling a lot.
Speaker 3: I see the show you're doing, and like yeah, they're like,
Speaker 3: bring me back something next time. So I had a
Speaker 3: Cincinnati shirt. I'm like, oh, I brought it back and like, oh,
Speaker 3: I'm not a Cincinnati fan. He didn't take the shirt,
Speaker 3: So like, I don't know if it's that easy. He
Speaker 3: was like, I'm a big Tennessee fan, man, I don't
Speaker 3: know if I can wear that, so.
Speaker 2: I don't want you to waste He told you to
Speaker 2: bring something back. I know maybe he thought I was
Speaker 2: going to Tennessee. I don't know. It was weird. It
Speaker 2: was very strange. That is weird, and he really took
Speaker 2: him something. Yeah, I have this bag of stuff. I mean,
Speaker 2: we could give aways a prize for a game or
Speaker 2: something when we do crap from the back that's cool.
Speaker 2: But the backpack is really good. It's an expensive backpack
Speaker 2: they gave us, but full of Cincinnati gear, all medium.
Speaker 2: I have all this Arkansas stuff from Charlie Hustle and
Speaker 2: they're still an oiler's box. I guess I gotta get
Speaker 2: rid of it. So all this stuff I've kept for
Speaker 2: a reason, but now I just need to get rid
Speaker 2: of it. It's not garbage. But then all this stuff
Speaker 2: on my desk I need to move at some point,
Speaker 2: like I'm taking the footballs are not going to go
Speaker 2: anywhere because this is like this one. Here is Frank
Speaker 2: Wright and Young Rice Young. They'll be together forever, except
Speaker 2: Frank Craig got fired that they won't be together.
Speaker 4: Well, on that ball.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah. And then this one is one that we
Speaker 2: took from what BYU b Yu. Everybody signed this one?
Speaker 2: Are we just take No? You just took it like
Speaker 2: we use that in some of the shoots. Let's go.
Speaker 2: That's awesome, and you just took it. I don't know
Speaker 2: if I did, but I have to get rid of
Speaker 2: some of this stuff. I have a helmet here from
Speaker 2: Joey Logano that he signed. That's really cool, man. I
Speaker 2: could give that away as a prize or something. Okay,
Speaker 2: do you want it?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: I don't put a NASCAR race helmet. That's pretty cool.
Speaker 2: What am okay? My point is what am I gonna
Speaker 2: do with it? Sit right there? It looks perfect out there.
Speaker 2: Look at that. I would sell it if I donated
Speaker 2: the money to charity. It's it was a fun little
Speaker 2: thing he came in to sign. It's good white. You
Speaker 2: throw your hand in the air. I'll take it to
Speaker 2: do what with?
Speaker 6: Put it in my What Ray was saying, man cave.
Speaker 6: He's got a new house's building. He can put it there.
Speaker 6: I can put it in my little studio area and
Speaker 6: put on display. I think looks really cool. Really should
Speaker 6: to stay on your desk because it looks pretty legit.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: That was that was that was a hard get to
Speaker 6: get that NASCAR relationship. So for me, it'd be a like,
Speaker 6: I say, memorable.
Speaker 2: Thing for me for what me to give it to you? No?
Speaker 6: No, I like, if you're gonna get rid of it,
Speaker 6: I'll take it, because.
Speaker 2: But what if I'm going to give it to a listener?
Speaker 2: What do they do for it? I don't know. What's
Speaker 2: the white one? That's a helmet racing helmet too. That's
Speaker 2: a little helmet, and I think that is one Ryan Blaney.
Speaker 2: That one's pretty cool to I actually wouldn't.
Speaker 6: I would like that to do it, but.
Speaker 2: I should ask Morgan if she wants one of them.
Speaker 2: She's a NASCAR fan. She's the one that would come up.
Speaker 3: You know what I would like though that that what'd
Speaker 3: you say?
Speaker 2: I said, she did all the work to get all that.
Speaker 2: You're the producer of the show. You got paid to
Speaker 2: do that. She volunteered her time to come up here.
Speaker 3: Okay, if she's meeting a fan, that's not really volunteering your.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because she came up out on the air and
Speaker 2: wrote questions.
Speaker 3: But she likes them.
Speaker 2: But his job is to book stuff. That's like the
Speaker 2: last part of the lowest part of his job. But
Speaker 2: you know fine, i'n be call dramatic with you, guys.
Speaker 2: I'll take the arkis on helmet. No, I'm not giving
Speaker 2: away the archis. Do you need to clean your desk up?
Speaker 2: That's the thing that stays, the one thing. I have
Speaker 2: a South Carolina signed ball from Shane Beemer, Yeah, the
Speaker 2: head coach and running back from the shore. Yeah. Anyway,
Speaker 2: I needed to do something with the stuff. It's driving mere,
Speaker 2: but only because I read that story today about clutter.
Speaker 2: Until then it really wasn't. But this stuff I can move.
Speaker 2: If you guys are listening, you can call us. I'll
Speaker 2: give somebody something eight seven seven seventy seven. Bobby, there's that.
Speaker 2: Speaking of money, Morgan, you're thinking about buying a couple
Speaker 2: of things. There are two big purchases that Morgan's thinking
Speaker 2: about buying a boat if she wants to run them
Speaker 2: by us, and let's see how we feel about these purchases. Okay,
Speaker 2: what do you have?
Speaker 7: So the first one is an Apple watch and I've
Speaker 7: looked into it and they're like six hundred dollars. If
Speaker 7: you want it connected to your phone and stuff, and
Speaker 7: I just don't know if it's worth having that all
Speaker 7: the time, Like, is an Apple Watch actually worth it?
Speaker 2: I have an Apple Watch.
Speaker 4: You're not wearing it, but I.
Speaker 2: Do wear it when I work out a lot. I'm
Speaker 2: also a watch guy, so I switch watches a lot.
Speaker 2: If I wasn't a watch guy, probably just wear that
Speaker 2: one only. I guess if you're using it, well, why
Speaker 2: would you use it? What's your main photo?
Speaker 7: Well, I want to be able to track like my
Speaker 7: health because I'm you know, moving this year on my
Speaker 7: mall walks I'm doing I'm trying to get all my
Speaker 7: steps in more making it and there's not really another
Speaker 7: way to track that.
Speaker 2: If you're if it's about health and that I think
Speaker 2: that's really a great use for it. Is that if
Speaker 2: you're using it because you want to talk on the
Speaker 2: phone on it is another way it doesn't work. It
Speaker 2: doesn't sound like good.
Speaker 1: Well.
Speaker 7: The other reason too, is like I know, if it's
Speaker 7: connected to your phone, you can like leave your phone.
Speaker 7: I also want to be more intentional about like leaving
Speaker 7: my phone a little bit on your wrist. Yeah, so
Speaker 7: like at least I can check it to make sure
Speaker 7: it's not work related. Then I don't have to like
Speaker 7: jump on my phone and then I'm stuck on my
Speaker 7: phone because I think it's work but it's not really work.
Speaker 2: I think, knowing you, you'll like the apple one.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I agree some people I have one. I don't worry,
Speaker 5: but I think that one of my really good friends,
Speaker 5: she's similar to Morgan and how they work out, and
Speaker 5: they're actually information they like to know and all the things,
Speaker 5: and she wears it all the time.
Speaker 2: She's obsessed with it, and I wear mine when we
Speaker 2: work out a lot of the times.
Speaker 7: Do you do you look at it when you're working out?
Speaker 7: Like do you set your workouts and stuff through it?
Speaker 2: If I'm working out, But no, I don't set my workouts. Well,
Speaker 2: I'll go if I'm doing like cross training whatever, because
Speaker 2: it's listed as that, I don't like call it cross training.
Speaker 2: I just train, you know. But I'll go and I'll
Speaker 2: push cross training and then it'll start the time and
Speaker 2: it knows kind of what you're doing and adjusts accordingly.
Speaker 7: Do you feel like the calories and stuff on that
Speaker 7: are I would have no idea how to track that
Speaker 7: accurate or not, but yes, sure, I have no reason
Speaker 7: to think it's not.
Speaker 2: They've spent all this money on my heart rate. They
Speaker 2: could do all the crap, So I guess I believe
Speaker 2: that too, But I think, yes, that's a good purchase.
Speaker 2: What was the other one?
Speaker 7: The other one was a dice in hair wrap?
Speaker 2: Oh that one way? But before the apple watch? What
Speaker 2: is that? That dice in hair wrap is like the
Speaker 2: greatest thing ever? Might I mean that dice Bobby used
Speaker 2: to use. No, I didn't use the dice in hair wrap,
Speaker 2: but my wife, you gave me one. Yeah, I gave
Speaker 2: anyone the dice and hair raps awesome.
Speaker 7: Well, and it's like it's supposed to cut down and
Speaker 7: not using it as much heat because it's all like
Speaker 7: two and one.
Speaker 2: You get what your thoughts on. How much is that
Speaker 2: three hundred bucks?
Speaker 7: Oh no, it's also like six hundred. They're both like
Speaker 7: huge purchases. Oh, but you get like they go on sale.
Speaker 7: So I will watch for sales for both of these,
Speaker 7: like when I can buy them on sale?
Speaker 2: Which one would you tell her to get? That dice
Speaker 2: in rap? I've just seen it used. We travel with
Speaker 2: it all the time. It's awesome.
Speaker 7: Is it easy to travel with I thought, yeah, we just.
Speaker 2: Pent a little case. We have, but just spent a
Speaker 2: little case and we roll with it. Yeah, six hundred dollars.
Speaker 2: I'm generous. This is like it's like a roller. It
Speaker 2: looks like an electric roller like hair dry.
Speaker 7: And curls your hair at the same time, so you
Speaker 7: don't have.
Speaker 2: To then build your hair. Great hair products I.
Speaker 7: See, and I have their hair dryer, which I love,
Speaker 7: had awesome, and I have a Dison vacuum also love.
Speaker 7: But I just didn't know since I already have a
Speaker 7: hair dryer, I'm like, is it worth the investment?
Speaker 2: That's cool. You guys get to use hair products. It's awesome.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you're once you go to Turkey
Speaker 2: and find.
Speaker 5: Out, like flip a coin, so you're not going to
Speaker 5: do them both at the same time, not at the
Speaker 5: same time.
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's like twelve hundred dollars.
Speaker 5: Just yeah, drop which one do you want now? And
Speaker 5: then you can save up for the other one.
Speaker 2: Well what would we recommend her to get. I probably
Speaker 2: recommend it you get the eye watch they apt watch first. Yeah,
Speaker 2: just because I think you'll use it for more things
Speaker 2: and that'll be more exciting because it's like you get
Speaker 2: a new refrigerator. That's fun, but it's like a fricking
Speaker 2: refrigerator when you use it, and you're like, I'm annoyed.
Speaker 2: I got it every day, I know, but you don't
Speaker 2: feel like you are. Yeah, it's like the hair thing.
Speaker 2: You'll be like, well, I'm not gonna use this, Although
Speaker 2: you will use it a lot. I think you'll find
Speaker 2: the Apple Watch to be more in front of you
Speaker 2: and you'll get more joy out of it. Quicker, do you.
Speaker 7: Feel like you live a healthier lifestyle for the Apple Watch?
Speaker 7: I feel like that's the expectation I'm putting on it.
Speaker 2: But don't I think if you monitor, I think if
Speaker 2: you already are monitoring for different health reasons, this just
Speaker 2: allows you to do that more effectively. Okay, but I
Speaker 2: definitely wouldn't get it and think it's going to change
Speaker 2: your life.
Speaker 7: No, But I mean I am, like, you know, that's
Speaker 7: the reason is I'm just trying to be more health.
Speaker 2: This is great for that. I agree, that's but don't
Speaker 2: get it and think your life's going to be all
Speaker 2: changed because of that.
Speaker 7: Would my life change for the Dyce and hair rap,
Speaker 7: It's pretty awesome?
Speaker 2: Maybe that one first I do Apple Watch. How do
Speaker 2: you know it's so awesome? Do you use it?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 4: One does.
Speaker 2: Kaitlin does, but she uses the hair dryer on me,
Speaker 2: and she has the thing called it's the fat the
Speaker 2: uh attachment. Yeah, it's the attachment with the spikes on
Speaker 2: it that like dries. Because my hair is long and curly.
Speaker 2: That's it. You diffuse your hair, she does. I never
Speaker 2: fixed my hair, meaning the only time my hair gets
Speaker 2: fixed is if I'm on TV and somebody's doing it
Speaker 2: for me, or my wife's like, you have to fix
Speaker 2: your hair, and I'm like, will you do it for me?
Speaker 2: I don't know how to fix it, especially like this.
Speaker 2: Does she like your long hair? I don't know. She
Speaker 2: says she does, but she's nice like that. She'll tell
Speaker 2: me after I cut it that she didn't if she didn't,
Speaker 2: she want to make me feel bad about it. She
Speaker 2: also knows I'm not growing it out for any reason.
Speaker 2: You look cool, dude, I don't think I do. I
Speaker 2: think I'm starting to look like an idiot. I think
Speaker 2: you look I like wearing a headband though playing basketball
Speaker 2: it's like seventies look like teen wolf. Yeah. I like
Speaker 2: that part of it. But I'm not growing it out
Speaker 2: for any reason other than I'll cut it eventually. I
Speaker 2: got offered a TV show yesterday, and let's go, well.
Speaker 4: What the story.
Speaker 2: The story is if I took the show, I'd cut
Speaker 2: my hair, so something.
Speaker 4: Like that, Are you going to take it? What percentage?
Speaker 2: I literally came last night.
Speaker 4: Can you say what it is?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not a show that exists yet. It's a
Speaker 2: show that they've greenlit to shoot all ten episodes, but
Speaker 2: they haven't sold it to a network yet, so they
Speaker 2: want to shoot it first.
Speaker 4: Like scripted or I'm not an actor, you could.
Speaker 2: Not a thing. So yeah, but that was a question
Speaker 2: when I come back. Yeah, I've acted with a lot. Actually,
Speaker 2: I'm acting like I'm having a good time right now.
Speaker 2: I'm not sucks. I hate being here, thanks, just kidding.
Speaker 2: I do. When I wake up, I try to do
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving in the morning. You get a turkey and everything.
Speaker 4: Gratitude.
Speaker 2: I don't call it that though, because that feels to
Speaker 2: hippy dippy to me. So when I'm stretching because gratitude,
Speaker 2: I always feel like that people are like I do gratitude,
Speaker 2: and that's great for them, But I don't feel like
Speaker 2: I'm that deep and I found though it's the same thing.
Speaker 2: All I'm doing is changing the word. But if I'm
Speaker 2: like Thanksgiving in the morning whenever i'm stretching, cause I
Speaker 2: try to stretch every day, twice a day, sometimes three
Speaker 2: times today, I'm like, Okay, I want to put myself in
Speaker 2: a good spot to be able to be in a
Speaker 2: good mood because I think that affects everybody's work for sure, attitude.
Speaker 2: So I do Thanksgiving to myself. I go around the
Speaker 2: table and say what I'm thankful for when stretching. But
Speaker 2: I'm the only one at the table, So i do
Speaker 2: like three things, and I've told myself the only rule
Speaker 2: is I can't do work first, and I have to
Speaker 2: be specific about work.
Speaker 4: You can do work second.
Speaker 2: It has to be something super specific about work that
Speaker 2: I'm I'm thankful for. But it does put me in
Speaker 2: a better headspace because a lot of times we just
Speaker 2: focus on why things aren't working out for us. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's almost like just seeing the negative stuff on Facebook
Speaker 2: or Instagram if it exists, we amplify the negative. Where
Speaker 2: I'm not trying to amplify the positive. I'm just trying
Speaker 2: to make sure to remember that it exists because it
Speaker 2: does affect me. But if I'm like I just give gratitude,
Speaker 2: I feel like people think I'm teaching yoga class, So
Speaker 2: I do I do thanksgiving to myself?
Speaker 3: Is there anything like consistent? Do you start with like,
Speaker 3: I'm thankful for my life?
Speaker 2: No, not life, but I'm thankful always, Like I'm thankful
Speaker 2: that I get up in the morning. It's miserable, but
Speaker 2: I'm thankful that I have a job that I get
Speaker 2: to go to. That's my first I know. But you're
Speaker 2: saying what's consistent. It's always that I have a job
Speaker 2: that I get to go to that I've created with
Speaker 2: people that I like. And mostly people stay off our balls.
Speaker 2: I like them at that part, But who would get
Speaker 2: on that? Do you mean? Yeah? I mean I deal
Speaker 2: with them a little bit, but mostly most of the
Speaker 2: times when I get in trouble, they're right. And a
Speaker 2: lot of times, though, like our executives, some there are
Speaker 2: a few that even Scuba Steve will go and fight
Speaker 2: for me and never even tell me, meaning they go
Speaker 2: and put out fires and never even it never gets
Speaker 2: back to me. Therefore, I don't get irritated or confrontational,
Speaker 2: because I will if you poked the bear enough times. Bear.
Speaker 2: You know, I've been known to be out of control,
Speaker 2: but I do. I do Thanksgiving and I'm I always
Speaker 2: am like, I'm thankful that I even though this sucks
Speaker 2: waking up early, that I get to go because I
Speaker 2: hated going to jobs. I hated going to wait tables.
Speaker 2: I hated going I hate a hobby lobby after I
Speaker 2: had all those pay days because I couldn't look at
Speaker 2: him anymore. I hated setting up displays. I hated working
Speaker 2: at the marina fixing boats on a boat. That sounds awesome.
Speaker 2: It does until you have to do it in every
Speaker 2: day and you suck at it. Although I was pretty
Speaker 2: good at driving on ice because I'd driven a bunch
Speaker 2: of boats and it's like slide the back, yeah, and
Speaker 2: that's exactly what it was like. So when I started
Speaker 2: sliding into my yard, I was like, I'm on a
Speaker 2: boat and then caught it up drove it right out
Speaker 2: of there. So, yeah, I try to do that in
Speaker 2: the morning. But it does affect me most of the
Speaker 2: time in a positive way, yeah, or it doesn't. It
Speaker 2: keeps me out a really negative spots out of Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm starting there. That's so cool. Too, you have so
Speaker 2: much time in the morning. I'm usually like time, crap,
Speaker 2: I gotta go. I wake up at two or three.
Speaker 2: I create the time. I was also, I don't want
Speaker 2: to wake up that early. Some mornings. My brain is
Speaker 2: just like who. I went to my therapist yesterday and
Speaker 2: he's like, how do you sleep going? I was like, sucks.
Speaker 2: He was like, how do you wake up like this?
Speaker 2: Every time? He was like every time? I said, yeah,
Speaker 2: every time. It feels like somebody's pouring water on me.
Speaker 2: Is it every every every time?
Speaker 3: Because like you know, my wife's you can't tell her
Speaker 3: like you know, you always do this because it's not true.
Speaker 2: My wife says too, don't use always, But I would.
Speaker 4: Say, yeah, you can't use always or never.
Speaker 2: So do you wake up like that every day? It
Speaker 2: feels like I do. I can't think of a time
Speaker 2: where I was like, oh, sweet world, No, that's so no,
Speaker 2: that never happens. Yeah, no, never, But my general wake
Speaker 2: up is.
Speaker 1: Like that.
Speaker 2: And he told well, he told me yesterday that my
Speaker 2: he feels like my brain is a treadmill that I
Speaker 2: am strapped to and can't get off, keeps running, and
Speaker 2: I'm like, God, that sounds I mean, that's perfect. That's
Speaker 2: what it feels like. Sounds terrible.
Speaker 3: Man, Just run baby, keep running with it, keep running
Speaker 3: with it. Does your therapist ever say like that sucks?
Speaker 2: Sort of would say, Ray Mineral, Oh let me play
Speaker 2: this right?
Speaker 3: Oh what does your therapist ever say like, man, man,
Speaker 3: that sucks? Nothing after that?
Speaker 2: No, but I told you. And I went to two
Speaker 2: therapies yesterday because all the ice kept us out of stuff,
Speaker 2: and I won't. I don't want to do online. I
Speaker 2: feel like somebody's gonna hack and watch me. And so
Speaker 2: I did my own and then Caitlyn and I went
Speaker 2: to ours, and I went to him back to back.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a lot. Then I came to work out
Speaker 2: right after. That's why I was so balanced. You were balanced. No,
Speaker 2: but he my therapist, personal therapist, whenever I left a
Speaker 2: few weeks ago, he was like, here's the thing about you, man,
Speaker 2: it's always interesting with you. And I'm like, what does
Speaker 2: that mean? It means you're complicated or this is I
Speaker 2: don't think.
Speaker 4: He says to everybody, do you keep it interesting?
Speaker 2: But I don't do it on purpose? Or am I
Speaker 2: just psychotic? Like I was telling how a balance in
Speaker 2: between thinking I'm the Sun in a heliocentric universe, and
Speaker 2: I don't matter at all. I'm just organic matter and
Speaker 2: nothing matters. And I go from I go from one
Speaker 2: to the other.
Speaker 4: Does that even mean nothing in between?
Speaker 5: I means he thinks everything revolves around him. But then
Speaker 5: other times he's like, I don't even matter, nothing.
Speaker 2: Nothing matter like that.
Speaker 3: What's heliopathic circulation of the son Son.
Speaker 2: And Leo centric? Yeah, heliocentric. What is that.
Speaker 4: You'll use heliocentric, but you won't use gratitude.
Speaker 2: That's a good point. I don't know, because I just
Speaker 2: kidding my job.
Speaker 3: But that's why he thinks you're complicated because you say heliocentric.
Speaker 2: No, I think that's what people woul say. They were
Speaker 2: talking about universe with the sun's middle.
Speaker 3: No, I think it better the way Amy said it.
Speaker 3: You just feel like you're the center of the what
Speaker 3: do you say?
Speaker 2: What you say? Everything around me? But I don't. I
Speaker 2: feel like my job, I'm always having to make the
Speaker 2: decisions and be built around all the time all the time.
Speaker 2: So it's like I have to weigh in on this,
Speaker 2: I have to say this, I have to push this along.
Speaker 2: Or there are times where I'm like, I don't matter
Speaker 2: at all. Nothing matters. We're all gonna be forgotten in
Speaker 2: a few generations anyway. There, it's gonna explode. We're just
Speaker 2: organic matter. What even are our brains?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I like that one. And so those are the two
Speaker 2: places I kind of go between nowhere in the middle.
Speaker 4: So does he give you tools or hope for you
Speaker 4: getting to the middle.
Speaker 2: I'm on a OCD medication. You just take it all
Speaker 2: the time. I take it every hour and have to
Speaker 2: look at it. But I've been on it for like
Speaker 2: eight months. So I'm on OCD medication mostly because with
Speaker 2: you know, a door locks and the cabinets and stuff.
Speaker 2: At night, I will be like, not only can I
Speaker 2: not stop thinking about work all the time, I need
Speaker 2: to make sure and touch all the locks and make
Speaker 2: sure I'll get to bed. And if I don't remember
Speaker 2: everythingle one of them, I gotta get up and do
Speaker 2: it again. And he's like, I see a trend here
Speaker 2: with the different things you do. And so he's like,
Speaker 2: this will be good to calm you down eight percent.
Speaker 2: So I take some sort of pill.
Speaker 3: Does it do you still do the sharpie thing? With
Speaker 3: that pill? You still do it?
Speaker 5: It?
Speaker 2: Feels not work. It doesn't fix me. It just tries to.
Speaker 2: I don't even know what I mean there. It just
Speaker 2: is something that softens it a little bit because it
Speaker 2: doesn't stop.
Speaker 5: Like you're still obsessed with have been on that obsess
Speaker 5: Like who didn't bother you?
Speaker 4: Right now?
Speaker 2: If I'm not OCD about everything, but some of.
Speaker 4: That blackout is is correct me? If I'm wrong, is
Speaker 4: some of it?
Speaker 5: If this is the right word superstition, because you've been
Speaker 5: doing it and not everything's blocked out, then you feel like, oh,
Speaker 5: something's gonna not superstis.
Speaker 2: I don't blame superstition, but sometimes I follow, just in
Speaker 2: case with athletic to you, yeah yeah, yeah yeah, Like
Speaker 2: what's the reason to not Yeah? I mean, I just
Speaker 2: I've been wrong about a lot of stuff. I'm wrong
Speaker 2: without superstition, at least want to be a little supstitious, right,
Speaker 2: But no, no, no, this is to make sure I
Speaker 2: get everything done and nothing gets left undone or unknown. Okay,
Speaker 2: it can't get lost in the mix.
Speaker 4: Let's say you had to do it with a pin,
Speaker 4: would it freak you out?
Speaker 2: I have had to do it with a pin before,
Speaker 2: and I I try to have to suckle the whole
Speaker 2: r I seen that. Yeah, but it's hell, it's it's
Speaker 2: a good You're about to say it's healthy. It ain't healthy.
Speaker 2: It's a good healthy because I have addictive personality. I
Speaker 2: come from a bunch of addicts, and it's like you.
Speaker 4: Could be addicted to other things. Yes, are far worse.
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying this is healthy, healthy, healthy, but
Speaker 2: it's healthier than some of the other choices I can.
Speaker 4: That doesn't harm me that my family made it.
Speaker 5: Yes, when you are addicted to a substance, you hurt
Speaker 5: other people.
Speaker 4: Blacking that paper, I was just bother any of us.
Speaker 2: Except I black it out and then go sniff it. So
Speaker 2: I don't remember how we got on this topic. But
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving two days of therapy. Thanksgiving in the morning. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: let me talk to Jesse, who's on the phone in Illinois. Jesse?
Speaker 2: Are you there? Yes, what's going on? We're doing pretty good?
Speaker 2: What can I help you with? I'm just wondering if
Speaker 2: Might did his binge eating last year. I don't remember
Speaker 2: if you guys talked about it at Christmas, Hey, Mike
Speaker 2: call it Perge, did you do it?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: I didn't do it this year. First time I haven't
Speaker 2: done it. Wow, I kind of over it really. Yeah.
Speaker 8: It used to be fun, and then now it's splitting
Speaker 8: like my Christmas time between my family and my wife's family.
Speaker 8: There's not really the perfect time to do it. So
Speaker 8: I'm like, I don't want to orchestrate getting all this stuff.
Speaker 2: And then what's the history of this for anybody that
Speaker 2: doesn't know.
Speaker 8: So when I as first started, you know, losing weight,
Speaker 8: my idea was, I'm gonna go one day just full on,
Speaker 8: eat whatever I want. So I look forward to this
Speaker 8: one day, so I would eat like pizza, ice cream,
Speaker 8: everything I wanted on one day. After that, it would
Speaker 8: be out of my system and I'd go back to
Speaker 8: eating normal.
Speaker 2: Like I lost over one hundred pounds. What's crazy about
Speaker 2: Mike too, is he'll just post, hey, I had a
Speaker 2: little run today. It's like twenty miles. It's why he
Speaker 2: was like, I can't wait to get off the treadmill
Speaker 2: because it's kind of boring. Seventeen miles. It was a
Speaker 2: tough miles man, Like what the crowd. I don't know
Speaker 2: how he does it. It's it's crazy to see, but
Speaker 2: you did not do that. Nah. I think I'm over it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: as soon as you're over it. As soon as you
Speaker 2: say you're over it, you want it again because you're like,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna do it, and you're like, leave the
Speaker 2: door opens, all yeah, leave the door open. It could
Speaker 2: be open. All right, Thank you, Thanks Jesse, have a
Speaker 2: great day.
Speaker 5: All right.
Speaker 8: Bye.
Speaker 2: Let's see Amy got your son to tell the truth.
Speaker 2: Are you trying to get away with something?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got an email that he that Call of
Speaker 5: Duty or something was downloaded on his PlayStation and we
Speaker 5: don't know that's not.
Speaker 2: You don't you don't play Call of Duty. No, it's
Speaker 2: not easy.
Speaker 4: But it's like he's thirteen.
Speaker 2: Fun thirteen, I don't know old for it. You can
Speaker 2: listen to Drake play Call of Duty. It's a problem.
Speaker 4: Can I thought that that was like, what's the.
Speaker 2: One it's a war it's a war game.
Speaker 4: But isn't there one that's like.
Speaker 3: No, that's where.
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's prostituting.
Speaker 4: Try to tell him. I'm like, there's He's like.
Speaker 2: What level is that Call of Duty? Cat house?
Speaker 5: Either way, before anything's done, there's a discussion and we
Speaker 5: talk about it. Anyway, he knows the rule and obviously
Speaker 5: we have it set up to where we see things.
Speaker 5: So I asked him about it and he said he
Speaker 5: didn't and he had friends over, and so I just said, okay,
Speaker 5: so did one of your friends do it?
Speaker 4: And he was like, no, I don't know what you're
Speaker 4: talking about.
Speaker 5: So then I went back in my brain to a
Speaker 5: podcast that I had heard once where this former CIA
Speaker 5: agent was talking about how sometimes talking to people trying
Speaker 5: to get them to tell the truth, like you don't
Speaker 5: ever say like it. Right then I knew he was
Speaker 5: lying because I got the email, but I don't I
Speaker 5: can't look at him and say, Stevenson, I know that
Speaker 5: you're lying. I mean, I guess I could, but that's
Speaker 5: not helpful in getting him to tell the truth because
Speaker 5: then you're you're calling the liar and he's going to think, okay, gosh,
Speaker 5: I'm a liar. And so you say, I said, Stevenson,
Speaker 5: I know that you're an honest person that wants to
Speaker 5: tell the truth. So then he hears honest, he hears truth,
Speaker 5: and it's like starts to be in his brain. And
Speaker 5: then I just went through a list of other things
Speaker 5: like this is, this is fixable, this is there are
Speaker 5: so many parents and kids in this situation, right now.
Speaker 5: You're not the only kid in this situation right now,
Speaker 5: and we can fix this.
Speaker 2: And I know.
Speaker 5: But I just stayed calm and I tried to just
Speaker 5: encourage him along, you know, and then eventually he said
Speaker 5: he downloaded it, and then I said, let's go upstairs
Speaker 5: and let's delete it. And then next time we talk
Speaker 5: about this, I would love for you to continue to
Speaker 5: tell me the truth. And I just kept saying the
Speaker 5: truth because you were honest. Thank you for being honest
Speaker 5: with me. And then we'll see. I mean, obviously there's
Speaker 5: going to be times where.
Speaker 2: That punish him anymore.
Speaker 4: No, I was like, we deleted, we fixed it, we
Speaker 4: deleted it. I still deleted it. I didn't, but he
Speaker 4: didn't ask.
Speaker 5: So we're not downloading it now because he just didn't
Speaker 5: tell me the truth. I'm trying not to say lie,
Speaker 5: and so we're not going to re download it. Maybe
Speaker 5: we will later. We can revisit it now that I
Speaker 5: know it's not the prostitute one.
Speaker 2: But it's not. It's not it's not.
Speaker 4: Hell wait that I tried it out on him and
Speaker 4: it works.
Speaker 5: But apparently they do this to adults or in like
Speaker 5: even he was talking about hostage negotiation and situation like
Speaker 5: you don't make the person. I guess they don't in
Speaker 5: a nutshell, remind them they're a bad person and they're
Speaker 5: doing a bad thing or something. It's more of like
Speaker 5: in a similar thing, like I know you want to
Speaker 5: do the right.
Speaker 4: Thing like I do, and don't you're talking about Yeah,
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they do it for like hours, man days
Speaker 3: even No, no, no, when they interrogate, interrogate.
Speaker 2: They did it for like two days straight. I don't know.
Speaker 4: In the movies, you hear like seaking and screaming like you're.
Speaker 2: We thought about watching American horror. No, what American horror? No,
Speaker 2: it's a docu docusare American nightmare?
Speaker 4: What is that?
Speaker 2: It's it's a it's a true crime thing, right, Mike,
Speaker 2: have you watched it? When you come to the mic?
Speaker 2: Do I know the story already? We probably talked about it.
Speaker 2: What's basically the story?
Speaker 8: Basically they accused this woman of being a gone girl
Speaker 8: situation where she went missing, said she was kidnapped, and
Speaker 8: then she comes back and then they don't believe her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she got dropped off like by her parents out.
Speaker 8: Yeah, she just pulled up very calm.
Speaker 2: So you're watching all three episodes just relearning the story. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's good.
Speaker 8: Oh, I thought it was really good. It was one
Speaker 8: of those shows like don't had to watch any worry
Speaker 8: about Mike Amy.
Speaker 5: I haven't seen it, Okay, I guess I was just
Speaker 5: gonna ask, maybe they reveal it in the show so
Speaker 5: you don't have to answer.
Speaker 2: But she was accused, I wouldn't even ask that question.
Speaker 2: They're asking for a spoiler.
Speaker 8: Now, I'll just say I'm not that into true crime shows. Yeah,
Speaker 8: and this one, I was like, we have to watch
Speaker 8: every single episode asking.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's like, I don't know the spoiler, but
Speaker 2: will you tell me out loud.
Speaker 5: I didn't know if that part was in the news
Speaker 5: and it was already known, you know.
Speaker 8: I don't because I don't want to know because I
Speaker 8: didn't remember a lot of it. So I learned a
Speaker 8: lot by watching the show. So anything I said, even
Speaker 8: if it was in the news, I feel like it
Speaker 8: would be spoiling her.
Speaker 2: Saw I was number one on Netflix last night. What's
Speaker 2: it called American Horse or American Nightmare? American Nightmare? To
Speaker 2: watch the three episodes and it's not scary.
Speaker 8: No, I mean it's I mean, it's real, but it's real.
Speaker 2: Is it gonna freak me out? I mean it's real life.
Speaker 8: It's scary in the sense that this has happened to somebody,
Speaker 8: but not like it's a horror movie.
Speaker 2: All right, all right, we're done. Everybody good. Yeah, that's
Speaker 2: a great big We will see you guys tomorrow. And
Speaker 2: I don't know how about govt framing in that thing
Speaker 2: or is she going to the ward?
Speaker 4: Only people in the industry can vote.
Speaker 2: How do we do that?
Speaker 5: It's an haven't voted yet, so I don't know how
Speaker 5: to So I haven't got Oh, they sent an email.
Speaker 2: I don't check that email. I haven't checked my work
Speaker 2: email for two years, unless unless you're listening from my
Speaker 2: heart and I can't get enough of it. I don't know.
Speaker 5: I've never had Yeah, I don't know. Eddie got some email.
Speaker 5: I don't know who that was from it. Then later
Speaker 5: in the day Jen Lime Group person something out and
Speaker 5: it's like.
Speaker 4: Hey, let's throw.
Speaker 5: Don't forget to vote for Granger in this category and
Speaker 5: Amy and this.
Speaker 2: But how do you do it? You have to log in.
Speaker 2: I don't have a log in. Yeah, you do have
Speaker 2: to log in. You don't. Yeah you do.
Speaker 4: You log into the work they have, but.
Speaker 2: I mean there's a pound on the password. You started
Speaker 2: an account or something. No, well you send us away.
Speaker 5: You voted for this before. Okay, well your work email
Speaker 5: will just go.
Speaker 2: Will you send us like please, we want to vote
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 4: I'll just go to the email, Jincent, I'll send it.
Speaker 2: Okay, they send it to my because I deleted all
Speaker 2: my emails.
Speaker 4: Guys, you deleted them before this came.
Speaker 2: No, no, I delete them now. I read it and
Speaker 2: you do every day. Yeah, we're done. All right, we're
Speaker 2: gonnavout for Amy and we'll see you guys going