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Speaker 1: It's time to ask the CLO or Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, this is from Angel in Teck.

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Speaker 1: Thelo Angel writes, I spent a week with my parents

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Speaker 1: in Ohio. My dad told me that he doesn't love

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Speaker 1: my mom anymore and he wants to move out. But

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Speaker 1: he needs to know that I'll take care of my

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Speaker 1: mom if he leaves her. I don't want that responsibility.

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Speaker 1: What do I tell him? God? Yeah, I said, well, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, I mean, what do I tell him? Tell him

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Speaker 2: that you don't want the responsibility? You know, I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what else to tell you. See, he

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Speaker 2: wants you to take care of her, but he wants

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Speaker 2: to leave. See right, First of all, Daddy got something, Elsey,

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Speaker 2: did Daddy want to go do something?

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Speaker 3: Mel Yeah?

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Speaker 2: People do fall out of love, People change, people view

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Speaker 2: things differently. Who you are today is not who you

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Speaker 2: were yesterday. That's the case with all of us. So

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Speaker 2: your dad made a decision. That's not your responsibility, though,

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Speaker 2: and you just have to tell him that. Dad, just

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Speaker 2: like you, have to honor your decisions and you're free

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Speaker 2: to make yours. I want to be able to be

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Speaker 2: free to make mine too, and that doesn't include taking

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Speaker 2: care of your mom. Now how old are they is

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Speaker 2: the number one question, right because now if your mama

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Speaker 2: was bedridden or something like that and he tied and

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Speaker 2: he leave it, then he got to make some other arrangements.

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Speaker 3: It can't be.

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Speaker 2: You, you know, because what you can't do. If it's

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Speaker 2: a medical reason why your mother needs caring for, or

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Speaker 2: he just saying stop buying check on her because it's

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Speaker 2: gonna devastate her, that's a whole nother thing. So I

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Speaker 2: don't know enough particulars, but I mean, i'd always look

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Speaker 2: out for my mom if I was you. But at

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Speaker 2: the same time, if he's talking about becoming a caregiver,

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Speaker 2: then popgnna had to make some arrangements.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right? Moving on to Marcus in Monroe. Marcus

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Speaker 1: says I had sex with my cousin's girlfriend. I didn't

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Speaker 1: know they were dating. She had sex with me on purpose.

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Speaker 3: To start over shows.

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Speaker 1: All right, This is from Marcus Monroe, Steve. He said,

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Speaker 1: I had sex with my cousin's girlfriend. He didn't know

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Speaker 1: they were dating. She had sex with me on purpose

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Speaker 1: to make my cousin mad. I don't want any parts

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Speaker 1: of this. Should I be honest with him about how

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Speaker 1: it went down, or wait to see if she tells him,

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, that's that's a lot.

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Speaker 3: I could have hit her in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the case where what he should do?

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Speaker 3: What blo? That's tough one. Well, see the truth is that.

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Speaker 2: See he don't have to lie, but the truth ain't

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Speaker 2: gonna be good. No, but you understand, So I ain't

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Speaker 2: saying you gotta lie. It's all we're trying to figure

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Speaker 2: out is should you say something or not?

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Speaker 3: Period?

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Speaker 2: But now if you wait and and she says something first,

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Speaker 2: how she frames it could look messed up for you.

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Speaker 3: If you try to get out in front of.

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Speaker 2: This m this is gonna look bad anyway.

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Speaker 3: This this this chick is trifling. Yeah, yeah, she's.

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Speaker 2: Gonna use two relatives to get back at each other. Now,

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Speaker 2: I don't see why either one of y'all want her myself?

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Speaker 3: Well, what is it gonna?

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Speaker 2: So he didn't know that that his cousin was dating

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Speaker 2: the girl.

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Speaker 3: Man, I had no idea. She came to me to

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Speaker 3: get with me. Boy, that's cancer.

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Speaker 1: But he's got don't you think he's got to say

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Speaker 1: something though? Because if she says something, it's really gonna

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Speaker 1: be bad get Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, see but what is she gonna say though

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Speaker 3: I slept with she?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she she's trifling, So she'll say I slept with

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Speaker 1: your cousin.

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Speaker 3: Well, then I'll get ahead try to get with me.

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Speaker 1: He tried to get with me your.

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Speaker 3: Cousin, I will get ahead of him. Yeah yeah, because.

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Speaker 2: Look, man, I ain't know nothing about this being your girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: But here's what happened. And man, this is crazy. And

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Speaker 2: then she told me that afterwards, and she tried to

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Speaker 3: But had I known this, it's no way I would

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Speaker 3: have did this. But I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 3: I'm just coming to you like a man, so you

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Speaker 3: can know what you're dealing with. Yeah, so tell the truth.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna be mad.

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Speaker 3: Is the only truth we're gonna tell y'all to.

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Speaker 1: Tal the only one, all right, and let's get back

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Speaker 1: to line next, coming on to Rosandra in Risonda writes,

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Speaker 1: I was entertaining a man in my bedroom and my

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Speaker 1: seven year old knocked on the door and asked if

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Speaker 1: my company was spending the night. Oh, I was in parrass,

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Speaker 1: So I asked the man to leave. He said, I

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Speaker 1: need to discipline my son. What did he do wrong.

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Speaker 3: Sure, well he's seven. Yeah, I don't know that he

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Speaker 3: did nothing wrong. Right, Hey, man, I live here.

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Speaker 2: You don't live here. That's my mama, Dad, ain't your mama.

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Speaker 2: I don't see nothing that the seven year old did wrong.

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Speaker 2: Discipline your son. He's seven, right, I won't talk to

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Speaker 2: my mama now. I don't care who in.

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Speaker 1: There he spending at night?

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Speaker 3: Is he spending a mama?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: You having a sleepover? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because I need to know because normally I come

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Speaker 2: in there around two.

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Speaker 3: Get in the bend with my mama.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing like sleeping with your parents.

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Speaker 3: I like it all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on, last one, Steve, this is This is Jarvis

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Speaker 1: and Inglewood. Jarvis writes, I'm thirty nine years old and

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Speaker 1: my wife is twenty seven. I always make excuses to

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Speaker 1: avoid hanging out with her friends because they are so young.

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Speaker 1: She said, it's unfair that I don't want to be

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Speaker 1: involved in her personal life. Do I have to get

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Speaker 1: to know these young people? Well?

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Speaker 3: Your wife young, don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You know. Now, every now and then you're gonna have

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Speaker 2: to swallow it and just you know, go out on

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Speaker 2: a couple of little nice things with them, you know.

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Speaker 2: But you married this girl. She's twelve years younger than you.

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Speaker 3: They doing young stuff. Yeah, people have to go. You

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Speaker 3: don't have to go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey man, you're gonna get your joystick in practice,

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Speaker 2: video games, work, you choine, sticking practicing, you know. Hey man,

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Speaker 2: when y'all sitting around each other, get on your iPhone

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Speaker 2: and your text, text your wife while she's sitting right

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Speaker 2: next to you, you know, and and and be on

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Speaker 2: your smartphone and just google stuff while they talking.

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Speaker 3: That's all they do. Man. I saw a whole group

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Speaker 3: of young people outside of the park sitting under a tree.

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Speaker 3: They was all on their.

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Speaker 1: Phone, no interaction.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, get you al album. You gotta go to the

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Speaker 3: concerts right all right, J you're listening Harvey Morning Show.