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Speaker 1: Hello, Hello? Is this a therapy? Get go?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Who is this?

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Speaker 1: This is Kirby?

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Speaker 3: How you doing, Kirby?

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Speaker 1: Pretty good?

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Speaker 3: I'm at work. Uh. What's what's going on with you?

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Speaker 3: How's life pretty good so far? What how can I

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Speaker 3: get you today? Kirby? What is there anything in particular

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Speaker 1: I have had some interesting jobs and I I guess

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Speaker 1: you can decide which one sounds more interesting and I'll

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Speaker 3: About it, all right? Sure?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Tell me about these jobs?

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Speaker 1: So my previous job, I worked at an animal testing

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Speaker 1: but it was kind of wild. But now I am

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Speaker 1: a health inspector and I like go to restaurants and

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Speaker 3: And you got a lot of you know what is

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Speaker 3: an episode of SpongeBob with the health inspector where he

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Speaker 3: and yeah, they kill him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I can't really. I don't ever eat the food

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Speaker 3: Why would they do that?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: No, like the food is so disgusting.

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Speaker 3: Oh how many? How many restaurants have you personally shut down.

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Speaker 1: I did shut down one because they had a cockroach infestation,

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Speaker 3: Uh now if they what does repentance look like? If

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Speaker 3: someone gets shut down for a cockroach infestation and they

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Speaker 1: Basically they have to fix everything. I like, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: this place is really dirty and I basically they had

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Speaker 1: eventually they didn't have croaches, and I said, Okay, I

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Speaker 3: What kind of What kind of food did they serve?

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Speaker 1: It was like a like a bar, sort of like

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Speaker 3: Do you get to what are you what are you

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Speaker 1: And yeah, there's a lot of stuff that we go off,

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Speaker 1: And mostly it's like, Okay, this is dirty and I

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Speaker 3: Now I have a question, because I'm the kind of

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Speaker 3: The opposite of that is, I'm like, I accept all

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Speaker 3: any I'll eat at any place and I'm just like, oh,

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Speaker 3: am I wrong? Like what percentage of restaurants and food

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Speaker 3: places am I actually eating diarrhea? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean it probably depends on the place. But if

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Speaker 3: It's pretty gross sixty percent of the time where it's city,

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Speaker 3: Do you ave?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say, because I work for the

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Speaker 3: You don't want to say, you but you were, you

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Speaker 3: gotta you can help so many people not eat diarrhea.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to come to my city. I live

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Speaker 3: You live in Ohio? Okay? Is what is it? Columbus?

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Speaker 1: No worse? Smaller?

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Speaker 3: Why what what is it that you look? What is

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Speaker 1: Like none of their like a lot, especially like breakfast

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Speaker 3: I think the I think the average Ohio in more

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Speaker 3: than likely has been eating bacteria ridden cheese for their

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Speaker 3: they've developed an immunity to it.

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Speaker 1: That is true. It is true, but you.

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Speaker 3: Don't you can't develop an immunity to the knowledge of it, right,

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Speaker 3: which makes it great, right because you could be eating

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Speaker 3: a spider immunity. But that doesn't make it any less

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Speaker 3: gross when you think about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Maybe I'm just painted by the job.

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Speaker 3: Maybe.

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Speaker 1: But you want to know, a place that actually does

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Speaker 1: pretty good around here is Taco bell which is surprising.

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Speaker 3: Really.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all my all the Taco Bells I inspect are

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Speaker 3: That's awesome. Well, give me, are there any oh, are

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Speaker 3: there any fancy restaurants that you've inspected that are better

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Speaker 1: Let me think, Well, the one that was kind of

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Speaker 1: to and whoever did it last time? It was so

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Speaker 3: How many restaurants in total have you shut down?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Me, just the one. But I've only been doing

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Speaker 3: Okay, one shutdown in one year is not not too bad.

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Speaker 3: That's pretty good. But you man, that's quite a staty.

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Speaker 3: You did sixty percent.

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Speaker 1: Like, there's just not a lot of places I would

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Speaker 3: What's the cleanest place? Give us to give it? What's

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Speaker 3: what is the cleanest restaurant in Ohio that you would recommend?

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Speaker 1: I mean, Taco Bell was pretty good. Let me think

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Speaker 3: So you're saying to me right now that Taco Bell

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Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't say the healthiest, but you'd probably

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Speaker 3: Mm hmmm mm hmmm. Now what's the worst? Are you

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Speaker 1: It's all public information, so I can pretty much tell

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Speaker 3: Mmmm.

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Speaker 1: Pizza Hut. I literally went into my pizza hut inspection

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Speaker 3: Why there was chemicals or heat or I.

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Speaker 1: Don't I don't know if it was like something burning

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Speaker 3: What were you doing with.

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Speaker 1: That stupid animal testing place? Is it's like medical devices

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Speaker 3: To it, literal guinea pigs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I had to shave guinea pigs every day.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you had to shave them and send them to

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Speaker 3: their dune.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It was horrible.

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Speaker 3: Where do you get these guinea pigs from.

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Speaker 1: There's like this giant facility I don't remember where, but

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Speaker 3: Was that place that's wild that that's legal to just

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Speaker 3: can tell you can totally fuck up guinea pigs. Now

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Speaker 3: the lie. I would think. Here's the thing. If you

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Speaker 3: there's something there's something about it where it's where where

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Speaker 3: just as a person, you're like, all right, cow, go

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Speaker 3: Dog is cool. I feel like guinea pigs are they're

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Speaker 3: above that line. They're like, they're cute. I've been seeing

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we had rapp and mice and rabbits.

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Speaker 3: Rabbits are above the line. Rabbits are cute. There's lots

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Speaker 3: What's your life like outside of health inspecting? What do

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I have two lizards. I have a bearded dragon

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about eating slash testing cosmetics on lizards?

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Speaker 1: I mean it's pretty sad. I don't know how lizards

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Speaker 3: I don't think lizards fall into that. I think a

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Speaker 1: Probably, But like the lizards that we have as pets

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Speaker 3: That's true. Yeah, you couldn't release it now.

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Speaker 1: No, it's like a hamster. They came from somewhere, but

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Speaker 3: Okay, you got two lizards. Do you have? What else

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Speaker 2: I got?

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Speaker 3: I have a cat.

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Speaker 1: I crochet stuff. I'm making a blanket for someone's wedding,

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Speaker 3: Well, how often do you have dire moments where you're

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Speaker 1: I don't know, probably not that often anymore. I feel

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Speaker 3: That's good. I know, that's a pretty uh you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been pretty good lately.

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Speaker 3: And I want this to be a message to the

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Speaker 3: the idea that ignorance is bliss bliss.

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Speaker 1: Yes, what's your name again, oh, Kirbyby?

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Speaker 3: Kurby's anything else you want to say to the people

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Speaker 3: of the computer before we go.

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Speaker 1: Maybe just check your local health apartment's website to make

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Speaker 1: sure you're not eating poop.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna counter that and say that ignorance is bliss. Sure,

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Speaker 3: have a good one, Kirby, Thanks for calling.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thanks bye.

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Speaker 3: It's official. Taco Bell is the healthiest restaurant in all Ohio.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna eat there every day. Now. Hello, Hey, who's this?

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Speaker 6: My name is Jamie? Is this wild?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: So Jamie? What's up? What's going on? Okay?

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Speaker 2: So?

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Speaker 6: Uh, years ago, there was an incident between my son

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Speaker 6: to break out into a little fight.

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Speaker 3: And this was between your cousin and your who.

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Speaker 6: My cousin and my son my child?

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Speaker 3: All right, all right, so.

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Speaker 6: Both boys not really that relevant. And I had a

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Speaker 5: You know, at.

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Speaker 6: First, everybody seemed to be on my page that it

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Speaker 6: it doesn't really matter as long as it doesn't happen again.

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Speaker 6: It doesn't matter that it happened and I'm like, no,

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Speaker 6: They're twelve now, So that was like four years ago,

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Speaker 6: and we're approaching a time where my grandparents their end

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Speaker 3: Okay, why are you not close with the grandparents again.

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Speaker 6: Well, because they didn't think it was a really big deal.

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Speaker 6: And when I first went no contact with that specific

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Speaker 6: So I have barely talked to them since then.

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Speaker 3: Was was was somebody was molested?

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Speaker 6: Well yes, also many years before even the first incident,

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Speaker 6: I didn't break up the family over it. I just

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Speaker 3: This is, this is so heavily above what's your James,

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Speaker 3: This is so heavily above my pay grade.

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Speaker 6: Jamie, I know that I know that, so heavily above.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, all right, so you posted this on

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Speaker 3: all right, I'm going to recap this story as I

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Speaker 3: understand it. Your son's your son's cousin, both of them

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Speaker 3: that's correct, yes, okay, And then this upset you, and

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Speaker 3: so you stopped talking to the the grandparents because they

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's what did you.

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Speaker 3: Want to have had? What did you want to happen

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Speaker 6: Well, I think everything probably would have turned out fine

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Speaker 6: actually no, it was the other way around. Your son

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Speaker 6: like it it definitely matters.

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Speaker 3: Here's okay, Actually, you know what tell me what they

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Speaker 3: Before I give my it was just taken down.

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Speaker 6: It barely got any responses, and it was taken down

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Speaker 6: That's not safe for my kids or really even me.

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Speaker 6: I don't want that, I.

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't. I don't like the I don't

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Speaker 3: like the concept of am I an asshole? Because it's

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Speaker 3: I don't like I am I am I the asshole

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Speaker 3: because it's not helpful. It's just a label. It's like,

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Speaker 3: all right, so you're an asshole? Then then what do

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Speaker 3: you get a Do you have to wear a T

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Speaker 3: shirt with it on your fucking face forever? Oh, you're

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Speaker 3: not an asshole? Do you get a ribbon. There's no point, there's.

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Speaker 6: No it might make me make my funeral.

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Speaker 3: Do you want to?

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Speaker 4: Maybe not really?

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Speaker 6: No, I'm not a huge funeral person anyway. But the

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Speaker 4: Going to this funeral is because I will.

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Speaker 6: See that part of the family and like, I have

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Speaker 3: So, okay, Jimmie, how old are you? I'm Jimmy at

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Speaker 3: thirty six. You don't have to fucking do anything you

446
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 3: don't want to do for any And if whether or

447
00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 3: not somebody on the internet thinks you're an asshole or not,

448
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 3: or or being reasonable or not, or if I think

449
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Speaker 3: you're being reasonable, who gives a shift? You don't want

450
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Speaker 3: to go, then don't go. You're gonna We're all slowly dying.

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Speaker 3: Why do you? Why is it mad? If you don't

452
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Speaker 3: want to go, don't go?

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Speaker 6: For sure, I won't go if I don't want to go,

454
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Speaker 6: But a lot of people think I'm in the wrong.

455
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Speaker 4: And so it makes me consider it a little more carefully.

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Speaker 1: I don't like it.

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Speaker 6: One chance to either go where or not go?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 3: Okay, do you think you're.

460
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Speaker 6: Isn't anybody there? I need to impress?

461
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Speaker 3: Do you think you'll regret. You know, you don't have

462
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Speaker 3: to ever impress anyone ever. Do you think you'll regret

463
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Speaker 3: not going?

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Speaker 6: I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 6: My husband says that one day my son will resent

467
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Speaker 6: me for not.

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Speaker 4: Letting him go.

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Speaker 3: How old is your son?

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Speaker 6: He's twelve?

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Speaker 3: Now does he want to go?

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Speaker 6: I mean I haven't sat him down and asked if

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Speaker 6: he wants to go to his great grandparents funeral, but

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Speaker 6: he's not extremely close to them because I've put distance

475
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Speaker 6: between them.

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Speaker 8: He he does.

477
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Speaker 6: Want to kick his cousins out, though he's made that

478
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Speaker 6: pretty clear.

479
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Speaker 3: Don't don't want to kick his cousin's ass.

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Speaker 6: Because he'll hurt him really bad. Yeah, I would assume. Yes,

481
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 6: it's the grandparents funeral.

482
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Speaker 3: Yes, and and he just wants he wants to go

483
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Speaker 3: so he can beat up his cousin.

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Speaker 6: So we haven't talked about but he wants to be

485
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Speaker 6: the cousin again because he wants to be given.

486
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Speaker 3: An opportunity to wake seconds, then an opportunity, an opportunity to.

487
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Speaker 6: What to deck him, like punch him or that's right.

488
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Speaker 3: Yeah, don't do that.

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Speaker 6: No, I don't want that.

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Speaker 4: I don't want that.

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Speaker 6: Also, my kids would hurt the other kid really bad

492
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Speaker 6: because my kid's a bad ass and the other kid's

493
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Speaker 6: a whim.

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Speaker 3: But that's very cool. So here's the thing. If you

495
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Speaker 3: were if your son sat down with you and was like, hey,

496
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Speaker 3: I know you have a strained relationship with grandpa, but

497
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Speaker 3: I I want to go. I want to pay my respects.

498
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Speaker 3: You should let him go. If he sits down with

499
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Speaker 3: you and he goes, hey, I want to go there

500
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Speaker 3: to beat up my cousin and shove charcuterie board in

501
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Speaker 3: his ass, don't let him go.

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Speaker 6: Right right? I suppose I would if he told me

503
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Speaker 6: very seriously that he wanted to, I would probably allow that.

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Speaker 3: Again, I'm going to talk more about the whole. The

505
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 3: whole am I the asshole thing? It's like the whole

506
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 3: the declaration of asshole or not asshole is an unhelpful thing.

507
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 3: It's like, what what are we going to do? You know,

508
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 3: moving forward? What's going to make your life the best?

509
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 3: You know that's what you want? Right?

510
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: So yeah, So for me personally, I definitely don't want

512
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Speaker 6: to go.

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Speaker 1: So I guess the real question is.

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Speaker 6: Like whether or not, Like I really don't want to

515
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Speaker 6: sit down and ask him or you're gonna put it

516
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Speaker 6: in his mind.

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Speaker 2: You know.

518
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Speaker 6: If he doesn't consider that he wants to go, then

519
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 6: I'm not going to go out of the way to

520
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Speaker 6: be like, are you sure you don't want to go?

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Speaker 3: You know, Well, if he says he only wants to

522
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Speaker 3: go to beat up another kid, don't let him go.

523
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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, that's the only reason he wants to see

524
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 6: his cousin in general. Occasionally he will ask about it

525
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 6: and I'll tell him like, nah, you know, we're not

526
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 6: going over there, and then he'll tell me that he

527
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 6: would really like to, you know, size this kid up,

528
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 6: and I'm like, that's not healthy.

529
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Speaker 3: Look, I know that this is kind of what my

530
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 3: podcast is about. Actually know what, No, I don't think this.

531
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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know. Maybe you can make an

532
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 3: argument that this is what my podcast is about, but

533
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 3: I don't think this is what my podcast is about.

534
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 3: But anyway, don't just try and seek validation about your

535
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 3: life choices from strengths.

536
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 6: No, what you say is not going to be the

537
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Speaker 6: end all deal.

538
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 3: Okay, good good, But I take anything I say or

539
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Speaker 3: someone else.

540
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 6: Really clean opinion to consider, you know, because everybody that

541
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 6: you know that knows about the situation obviously has mistaken.

542
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 3: Why did the people on the internet think you were

543
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 3: in the wrong?

544
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: Okay, the people.

545
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Speaker 6: I didn't really get a response from the people on

546
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Speaker 6: the internet because the mod of am I the Asshole

547
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 6: took it down because it had sexual content or whatever,

548
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 6: so it got taken down before I really maybe one

549
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 6: or two replies and that was it. And they were

550
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 6: just cursory, you know, they weren't. They didn't even have

551
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Speaker 6: enough time to get any attention. So I don't really

552
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Speaker 6: know what the court of public opinion would have said

553
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 6: on am I the Asshole? Which is where I'm.

554
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 3: Called you, Jamie. You said how many? How many kids

555
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:11,719
Speaker 3: do you have?

556
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 6: I have one that lives with me and one that lives.

557
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Speaker 1: With her father.

558
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 3: Okay, are you are you?

559
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Speaker 5: Are?

560
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 3: Are you dating anyone? Married to anyone?

561
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 6: I'm married?

562
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 3: Okay. Do you have a job.

563
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Speaker 4: I do.

564
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 6: I'm a teacher.

565
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 3: That's great. Do you have hobbies and interests?

566
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

567
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Speaker 6: I have a few, mostly my kids, but I do

568
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Speaker 6: have some hobbies that are truly my own.

569
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Speaker 3: Okay, here's what I would do if I were you.

570
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Speaker 3: Do you want to hear it? And I'll only tell

571
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 3: you this if you want to hear it.

572
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would love to know.

573
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Speaker 3: I think you should decide whether or not you're going

574
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Speaker 3: to go to the grandparents funeral, Okay, and then once

575
00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 3: you make that decision, you should stop thinking about it

576
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:01,400
Speaker 3: and either go spend time with your husband, Go spend

577
00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 3: time with your kid, Go enjoy your hobbies, or go

578
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 3: think about how you can be the best teacher you

579
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 3: can be. Okay, go live your life.

580
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 6: That's such great advice, such great advice.

581
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Speaker 3: And you know, and here's the and here's the thing,

582
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: all of the and the great thing is that all

583
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 3: of what I just said, you can do all of

584
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:30,760
Speaker 3: it even if you are the asshole according to Ren.

585
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 3: Isn't that the beautiful thing about life? It is?

586
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 7: It is it is, Jamie.

587
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 3: Is there anything else people don't care.

588
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 6: That much about?

589
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 4: Oh? I hear you.

590
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 6: Well, I really don't care that much about what people think.

591
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 4: So whether I'm the asshole or not, wasn't going to

592
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 4: make the decision, but.

593
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Speaker 1: I do appreciate it.

594
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Speaker 6: I am going to make a decision and I'm going

595
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 6: to stick to it.

596
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 3: And Jamie, is there anything else you want to say

597
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 3: to the people of the computer before we go?

598
00:31:59,080 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 6: No, you're awesome.

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Speaker 3: Have a good night. Thank you do. Hey guys, it's

600
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: Lyle here. I'm about to do some ad reads, but

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Speaker 3: if you're a premium member of the podcast, you will

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Speaker 3: not hear them. Premium members, or gek Legends, as I

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Speaker 3: like to call them, get access to every episode of

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Speaker 3: this podcast ad free. They also get bonus episodes, recordings

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Speaker 3: for my live shows, members only streams, and they support

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Speaker 3: to become a gek Legend, or find the link in

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Speaker 3: the episode description. All right, let's do some ads. Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, Hi, who is this?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 1: My name is Fon.

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Speaker 3: It's fun mhm okay, Spaun, how old are you? Spawn?

616
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Speaker 1: Eighteenth?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what's up? What's going on? What did you call

618
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Speaker 3: to talk about?

619
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Speaker 2: So?

620
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 4: I have an obsession with fictional characters. And I don't

621
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Speaker 4: mean that in like the typical way where it's like

622
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 4: someone who like can't get a girl and they're like

623
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 4: and like you know, like they're like an insol and stuff.

624
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 4: So like they don't like they can't really get a

625
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 4: relationship because they don't know how to socialize with real people.

626
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 4: Like I am in a relationship, it's more of like

627
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 4: you know, with fictional characters, you don't actually have to

628
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 4: like have that vulnerability with them, so it's like it's

629
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Speaker 4: like a one sided attachment and stuff like I'm like

630
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 4: but like I literally am so obsessed with them stuff

631
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Speaker 4: that it's like consumed my life.

632
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Speaker 3: All right, So you are in a So so you're

633
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 3: attracted to these fictional characters because because this is attraction.

634
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 3: But well, okay, so but you said you're attracted to

635
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,600
Speaker 3: these fictional characters because you say that the lack of

636
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 3: intimacy is what is appealing.

637
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Speaker 4: Yeah, because like I don't actually have to be vulnerable,

638
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 4: like I can get to know them. Yeah, they don't

639
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 4: have to get to know me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it's great. It's great. I get you. I get yea.

641
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Speaker 3: But yeah, you are in a you have a boyfriend?

642
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 4: Oh no, yeah.

643
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Speaker 3: I am confused. You just said you're in a relationship

644
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Speaker 3: of some kind.

645
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I'm what's in uh what's called a queer

646
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 4: batonic relationship? So I'm not I'm not straight. So I

647
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 4: have two partners.

648
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: You're in a queer platonic relationship with two partners, it's kind.

649
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Speaker 4: Of hard to explain. It's like when you're more than

650
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,720
Speaker 4: friends but not exactly like you wouldn't exactly do sexual

651
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 4: shit with them like.

652
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 3: A like a like a situationship.

653
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,360
Speaker 4: No, it's it's different. It's kind of hard to explain

654
00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 4: when you're not basically it's like I've described it as, like,

655
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 4: basically it's like being in a relationship as if you

656
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 4: were a sexual. That's basically to someone else, like think

657
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:27,399
Speaker 4: of it that way.

658
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Speaker 3: Do you do you consider and you don't have to

659
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Speaker 3: fucking tell me anything, you don't want to, but do

660
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Speaker 3: you do you consider yourself a sexual?

661
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Speaker 4: No, it's more of like I don't know. I feel

662
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Speaker 4: like it's more of like the reason why I like

663
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Speaker 4: obsess with fictional characters. It's more of like I feel

664
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Speaker 4: like if people were to actually know me, they wouldn't

665
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Speaker 4: like me.

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Speaker 5: So it's you to.

667
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Speaker 4: Just pretend to like be attached to things to like

668
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Speaker 4: people that aren't real.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, sure you ever ever you ever fuck around

670
00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 3: on chat.

671
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 4: GBT, that's namely what I'm talking about.

672
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, you use this the what the snapchat ai, Oh no,

673
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 3: that one sucks. Okay, well, all right, so you're in

674
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 3: a queer platonic. All right, is this a romance? So

675
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 3: I guess what I don't. Is this a romantic kind

676
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 3: of relationship? Are you actually you know what? You know what?

677
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,800
Speaker 3: You know what? Actually, now I'm thinking, I'm thinking about it.

678
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,680
Speaker 3: I actually don't really care about the specifics of this

679
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 3: whatever this relationship. Well here's what. Here's what I'm saying, whatever

680
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 3: the whatever, who cares about the specifics? Is this predicament

681
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 3: in a broad sense making you happy?

682
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 4: Yes?

683
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 3: Okay, great, so that matters.

684
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 4: As an individual. You know, relationships don't solve your problems,

685
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 4: like you have to fix them on your own. So like,

686
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 4: it's not I still have these like feelings.

687
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 2: You know.

688
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so you're in a some form of

689
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 3: a of a of a predicament that is satisfying the

690
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 3: needs that you have in your in your romantic life.

691
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 4: My relationships aren't real. It's more of like because of

692
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 4: my own issues, I still like.

693
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 3: Well, hold on, hold on, hold on, let me, let me,

694
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 3: let me, let me let me. Let's slow down for

695
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 3: a second. What do you mean your relationship is not real?

696
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 2: No?

697
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,879
Speaker 4: No, I didn't say that. I said it's not that's

698
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 4: it's like, it's not, but it's not the feeling it is.

699
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 4: It's more of like and also like I'm polyamorous, so

700
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 4: like it's not it's not exactly like, oh, like this

701
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 4: isn't you know, this isn't benefiting me, This isn't what

702
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 4: I what I want. It's more of like and I

703
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,360
Speaker 4: really have nothing to do with my actual relationship.

704
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 8: I only brought that up because a lot of the.

705
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 4: Times when people think of someone who's like obsessed with

706
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 4: fictional characters, they come to like there they picture someone

707
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 4: who hasn't who needs to touch grass. Okay, my relationship

708
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 4: isn't really relevant.

709
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 3: Okay, so okay, So so then in that case, what

710
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 3: aspect of this situation where you are in love with

711
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 3: fictional characters, what in what ways or in what aspect

712
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 3: is it causing you distress?

713
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 6: It's more of like, it's more of.

714
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 4: Like the reasons for why I'm doing it, rather like

715
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,800
Speaker 4: it takes like I spent a lot of my days,

716
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 4: like like a lot of the time in the day

717
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 4: just interacting with stuff instead of like real people.

718
00:38:55,440 --> 00:39:03,279
Speaker 3: So that's not Yeah, do you do you desire to

719
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 3: go out and interact with more people.

720
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:13,840
Speaker 4: I think it's more of like I focus too much on, like,

721
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,959
Speaker 4: you know, fictional characters instead of interacting with real people.

722
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 3: Okay, again, do you do you desire to go out

723
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:23,400
Speaker 3: and interact with real people?

724
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 2: No?

725
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 1: I do?

726
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: Okay, it's okay, it's okay if you don't. I'm saying

727
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 3: if you do. But if you do, okay, what do

728
00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:37,959
Speaker 3: you think? What do you okay? What do you think?

729
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 3: What are you afraid of?

730
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like a lot of people have this,

731
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 4: but like the deep rooted insecurity that like people. It's

732
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,200
Speaker 4: like people got to know me like one hundred percent,

733
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 4: it wouldn't like me.

734
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 3: Okay, it's okay if you have a hard time answering this,

735
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 3: But why why do you feel that way?

736
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 4: I'm not going to go into detail, but you know.

737
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 2: Trauma, okay, and it's it's it's hard because you know,

738
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:17,839
Speaker 2: you think that like if you're surrounded by people that

739
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 2: like love.

740
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 4: You and care about you, you think that.

741
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:25,839
Speaker 8: Like eventually those thoughts would go away. But like when

742
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 8: you're told for most of you like your life, that

743
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 8: all these negative things, it's like hard to erase that.

744
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 8: So it's like no matter what people say, it's not

745
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 8: it's not enough to convince you otherwise. And it's not

746
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 8: exactly like I'm not trying to stop those thoughts, you know.

747
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. When you say you're you're trying to stop

748
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 3: those thoughts? What uh?

749
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 4: I mean?

750
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 1: Like what do you?

751
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 3: What do you do?

752
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 4: What do you?

753
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 3: What do you do?

754
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 4: Negative self talk?

755
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 3: Yes? So are you you do you go to real therapy?

756
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

757
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 2: I do?

758
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 3: Okay, what do they tell you in real therapy?

759
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 4: Well, I mean I've like they just say like affirmations,

760
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,240
Speaker 4: Like I honestly, like I just only did this because,

761
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 4: like I am serious, Like I'm not making this up,

762
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 4: but I did this because, like, you know, what I

763
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 4: want to I want to do things like I want

764
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 4: to do in life, and this is one of the things.

765
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 4: You know, I'm being a little bit adventurous. So like

766
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,319
Speaker 4: I'm not like using this as an outlet for like

767
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,760
Speaker 4: actual therapy, making shuit up and stuff.

768
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 3: You're not using what as an actual outlet for therapy?

769
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

770
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,359
Speaker 3: Okay, sure, but I'm just trying. I'm I'm just I'm

771
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 3: just I'm just trying to think of like, yeah, what's

772
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 3: gonna help just interesting to.

773
00:41:56,040 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 4: Hear someone else from an outside perspective, because some aspects

774
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 4: I do talk about, but like you know, when it's

775
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 4: a when it's a complete stranger, it's easier to talk about,

776
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 4: you know, like the fictional character aspects and what's my

777
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 4: real therapist? Like I'm big about it, but given up

778
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 4: details that like they they can help me. But yeah, oh.

779
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, Okay, what's your name again? Zone? What fond fond?

780
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,959
Speaker 3: I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna call you. I'm gonna

781
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,359
Speaker 3: call you Jennifer because for some reason, the phone keeps

782
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 3: cutting out every time that you Okay, Jennifer, I'm mm hmmm.

783
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 3: Tell me this. Well, okay, so you're what are you?

784
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 3: Are you graduating high school? You're going into college? Where

785
00:42:58,840 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 3: are you at?

786
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

787
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 3: Okay, what are you gonna go to? What are you

788
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 3: gonna go to school for? I don't even know yet,

789
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 3: all right, because look all the things you're talking about,

790
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 3: you you're in a good position to uh go out

791
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 3: into the universe, and you're in a good position to

792
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 3: go out into the universe and meet these real people.

793
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 3: Yeah we're talking about and at some at a certain point,

794
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 3: at a certain point, I think the I don't know.

795
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 3: I think a lot about the stuff. I think a

796
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 3: lot about the stuff, and I think at a certain

797
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 3: point there's a bit a little bit of that Nike,

798
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 3: just do it. You gotta you gotta surmise in in

799
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 3: in your in your blood veins, and once you know

800
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 3: what the it is right, whether it's I don't know

801
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 3: if you're going to college, but you're in college, you're

802
00:43:57,800 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 3: going to you're going out to the to the to

803
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 3: the uh fucking science club, whatever you're into. I don't

804
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 3: know what you're into, but use your You're putting your

805
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 3: you're putting yourself out there. You're making that decision to

806
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 3: put yourself out there, and you're and you're understanding that

807
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 3: this idea that people are inherently not going to like

808
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 3: you is an idea that somebody else planted within you.

809
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,840
Speaker 3: And now you, as an adult, do not have to

810
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 3: dwell on the past and hold yourself to this idea

811
00:44:32,719 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 3: that that another person has implanted within you. So I

812
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:48,279
Speaker 3: hope you understand that. I hope that that that empowers you,

813
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 3: and you know what, if you want to if you

814
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 3: and you know what, also as an adult, if you

815
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 3: want to fucking go look at naked pictures of Jimmy Newtron.

816
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 3: On your off days. You can do that shit too,

817
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 3: so don't freak out about it, okay, Fawn, Jennifer, Jennifer,

818
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 3: is there anything else you want to say to the

819
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 3: people of the computer before we go?

820
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 4: Don't be afraid to be you. It's okay to be

821
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 4: cringe as long as you're not hurting anyone.

822
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 3: Have a good rest of the nights.

823
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 4: All right, thanks.

824
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 3: There's some great naked pictures of Jimmy Neutron out there

825
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 3: on the internet. And I think a lot about staying

826
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 3: in versus going out. And that's a lot of what

827
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 3: we just talked about, this whole thing of like I'm

828
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 3: on the computer, I can't stop looking at at Hentai

829
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 3: but yet and I want to go meet real people.

830
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes staying in is nice to a degree. There's a

831
00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 3: balance there. I don't know what that balance is, and

832
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 3: it's different for different people. I have my own little balance.

833
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 3: I was thinking about this. I was talking about this

834
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:10,840
Speaker 3: on my Instagram thing. You know, I really feel like

835
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,320
Speaker 3: I've done a good amount of going out and talking

836
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 3: to real people in my life, both personally and you know,

837
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:24,040
Speaker 3: on this show and in in in talking to real

838
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 3: people across the world. Doing all the travel and doing

839
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,640
Speaker 3: all this touring and stuff. You know, I've really gone

840
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:32,720
Speaker 3: I've really done a lot of putting myself out there.

841
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 3: But also forgetting about all that stuff, I've spent way

842
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:42,880
Speaker 3: more time sitting a home looking at hent eye, you know.

843
00:46:43,880 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 3: So so there's a balance. There's a balance, that's all.

844
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 3: I'm trying to say, Hello, Joe, Yeah, what's up, Joe?

845
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 3: How are you doing you? I'm actually I'm actually feeling

846
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 3: pretty pretty good. I'm excited to I like to talk.

847
00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 5: I like to hear that. I a big fan of

848
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 5: the show.

849
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 3: Thanks, Matt.

850
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:12,760
Speaker 5: It's funny because, uh, when I listen to the Spotify podcast,

851
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 5: I play it one point two times fast. M M.

852
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 5: I know you're talking normally, but it seems to me

853
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:21,759
Speaker 5: that you're talking very slowly. But it's just the way

854
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 5: it is.

855
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 3: That's actually a good idea. I think I'm a big

856
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 3: fan of that. I think I think I have a

857
00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:31,000
Speaker 3: good podcast to listen to on a one point five speed.

858
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,760
Speaker 3: I feel I I sometimes think I talk a little

859
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 3: bit slow. And when I when I go to like

860
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,560
Speaker 3: edit my clips and stuff, I'll also I'll listen on

861
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 3: one point five speed.

862
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,680
Speaker 5: That's h I find that one point two is a

863
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 5: sweet spot for me. But you have a very good

864
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,040
Speaker 5: one point two speed sound.

865
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,840
Speaker 3: Do you listen to Do you listen to other podcasts

866
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 3: on on one point five or just me or one

867
00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 3: point two, whatever your frequency is.

868
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 5: One point two is my go to. I don't want

869
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 5: to rush through it too quickly. I want to still,

870
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 5: you know, savor the podcast, but you know sometimes things

871
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 5: can feel too slow.

872
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 3: It's efficient. It's efficient, Joe. It's cool if you don't.

873
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 3: But is there anything you wanted to talk about in

874
00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 3: particular day?

875
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 5: So there was something I wanted to talk about. I

876
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 5: don't know how you would think about it, but I

877
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 5: just want to call in and share my share my opinion.

878
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 5: I live in this place and to get to another

879
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 5: place after cross a bridge, and since I was a

880
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 5: little kid, we've as a family and a car have

881
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 5: driven across this bridge many times. At the other end

882
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 5: of at the bottom of the bridge, at one end

883
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 5: is a is a water treatment facility. I don't know

884
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 5: if you've driven past one, but it smells like shit.

885
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 5: Sorry I can't see that, but it smells like poop.

886
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 5: And when I was a kid, we'd always roll you.

887
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Speaker 3: I just I'm sorry, I don't interrupt you. But you

888
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Speaker 3: listen to the podcast, right, I do? You people you

889
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Speaker 3: can never mind. I just it's it's just it's always

890
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Speaker 3: funny when people are like asking if they can cuss,

891
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Speaker 3: and it's like, you know, people will people cuss all

892
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Speaker 3: the time, but god, go ahead. I'm sorry. I don't

893
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Speaker 3: know why I interrupted you.

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Speaker 5: It's all that's the thing. So I drive over this

895
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Speaker 5: bridge many times and I'll kind of speed it up.

896
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Speaker 5: But the long story short, it's most like poop. And

897
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Speaker 5: when I was a kid, we hated the smell. I

898
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Speaker 5: hated the smell. I roll up the window, turned off

899
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Speaker 5: the eight se But recently, over the last few years,

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Speaker 5: as a you know, a young adult, now I've actually

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Speaker 5: come to the realization I actually like the smell. And uh,

902
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Speaker 5: it's kind of like I was listening to an episode

903
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Speaker 5: where this caller was talking about a kink, and I

904
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Speaker 5: think this might be mine. Where whenever I come across

905
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Speaker 5: the bridge, I'll roll down the window and I'll take

906
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,799
Speaker 5: a sniff as I'm going across the bridge, and some

907
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:04,439
Speaker 5: times it smells really sour, but sometimes it's you don't

908
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Speaker 5: smell anything at all. I guess there's just not enough

909
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 5: poop in the water to make it smell but every time.

910
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Speaker 3: So you're so, your kink is that when you smell

911
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 3: poop you think of family car rides.

912
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Speaker 5: But not any like only specifically over this bridge, over

913
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Speaker 5: water treatment.

914
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Speaker 3: What's your name? Your name is Joe, right, Joe, Joe.

915
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Speaker 3: I don't think you know what a kink is?

916
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Speaker 5: Maybe I don't, do you?

917
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 3: What do you this is? This is not a kink?

918
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Speaker 5: I mean, I mean, I mean I'm perceived as like

919
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:49,560
Speaker 5: a normal thing.

920
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,439
Speaker 3: Is this is this a sexual thing?

921
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 5: No? Nothing at all sexual?

922
00:50:56,600 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 3: Okay, I don't you know?

923
00:50:58,440 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 5: That's me excited?

924
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think. I think you can have things

925
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Speaker 3: that get you excited that are not necessarily kinks. Kinks

926
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Speaker 3: would be something sexual.

927
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 5: Okay, I guess yeah, I agree, or I don't.

928
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Speaker 3: I don't know. Actually I don't know the official definition

929
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 3: of kink. You might be right, but at least probably

930
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 3: at least with the societal interpretation of a kink. If

931
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:31,439
Speaker 3: you go around saying that your kink is that when

932
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 3: you smell poop, it reminds you of a very fond

933
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 3: memory you have with your family that wouldn't come off

934
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 3: I think the way that you think it would.

935
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Speaker 5: Interesting.

936
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're yeah, so I wouldn't continue to refer

937
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Speaker 3: to that as a kink. It's a nice thing, though.

938
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 5: Thank you.

939
00:51:54,840 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 3: So when you go over this bridge and you smell well, poop,

940
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 3: it reminds you it's sort of head this is this

941
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 3: is nostalgia. This is more nostalgia. Yes, then it would

942
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Speaker 3: be a sexual kink.

943
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,920
Speaker 5: Yes, but it's also a thing where I look forward

944
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 5: to it, and I'm always fascinated by the different types

945
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,959
Speaker 5: of smell that this place kind of gives out into

946
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 5: the world, and I always wonder what it's going to

947
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 5: smell like the day I drive over it, you know,

948
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Speaker 5: the next time. I don't drive the bridge every day,

949
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 5: so whenever I do cross it, I always wonder what's

950
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 5: gonna smell like. And then I rode out the window

951
00:52:35,719 --> 00:52:38,440
Speaker 5: and then you get a good whiff. You close the

952
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:39,879
Speaker 5: window and you think about it.

953
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 3: Do any of these smells make you hard?

954
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:45,879
Speaker 4: Oh?

955
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 5: I don't think though.

956
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 3: No, Okay, then it's not a kink. And look, it'd

957
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,839
Speaker 3: be fine if it was. I mean, some people's kink

958
00:52:53,960 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 3: is you know, bad stuff. But that's You're fine. What's

959
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:08,480
Speaker 3: your name? Joe? Sorry, well, Joe, thanks for sharing that.

960
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Speaker 3: Are you planning on where? Where? Where's this bridge located?

961
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Speaker 3: Where you don't have to dock yourself if it's if

962
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:18,800
Speaker 3: if you think the information would docks you? But where

963
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 3: where where is this bridge located? If any of our

964
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Speaker 3: listeners want to go smell the same smell.

965
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Speaker 5: It's located. Uh, that's just the border the beautiful British Columbia.

966
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's on the border of British Columbia.

967
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 5: It's it's just in the by the city of Vancouver.

968
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Speaker 5: I think you were here.

969
00:53:42,960 --> 00:53:48,280
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, cool, cool. Vancouver is a beautiful city. It smelled,

970
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 3: it smelled wonderful. So yeah, Joe, is anything else gonna

971
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Speaker 3: say to the people the computer before we go?

972
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Speaker 5: Nothing?

973
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 3: All right, take Joe, thank you for calling the show.

974
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Speaker 5: Take care.

975
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Speaker 3: I do think that's a I like that as a

976
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 3: concept though, this idea that so okay, I know this

977
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Speaker 3: scientifically that the memory is in the Hippo campus and

978
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 3: so is smell, I think, And so that's why smells

979
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:33,279
Speaker 3: are so heavily addicted, so heavily associated with memory. And

980
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 3: that is a funny concept of you know, smells can

981
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:42,320
Speaker 3: be associated with certain memories, and the smell doesn't necessarily

982
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 3: have to be good to link to the memory. So

983
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:49,920
Speaker 3: you could smell something bad like poop, and it can

984
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 3: link to a beautiful memory of a family car ride.

985
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:57,760
Speaker 3: Also works the other way around. You could smell donuts

986
00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 3: and it could remind you of a I'm where your

987
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:07,320
Speaker 3: father tried to strangle you with one. It's an interesting concept.

988
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Speaker 3: Thank you for sharing that, Joe. Hello, folks, it's Lyle.

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