WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Baby Clothes

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<v Speaker 1>Looking jewels second day? What do you do when you've

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<v Speaker 1>exhausted all options in the dating world, when plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>fish is thrown you back. You've swiped so many times,

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<v Speaker 1>you reached the end of Tinder, and then your phone explodes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what happens when you get to the end of Tinder. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to call in the big guns and hire

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<v Speaker 1>a matchmaker. And that's apparently what the guy on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update did today. He found

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that he went out with by using a

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<v Speaker 1>matchmaker because nothing else on the planet worked for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan was at a good recap of why you hired

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<v Speaker 1>a matchmaker? I guess so. It kind of makes me

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<v Speaker 1>sound pathetic. Oh that's not what I was going for.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to make it sound like you were

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<v Speaker 1>just using a creative method that a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>don't use. That's I wasn't trying to make a sound

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<v Speaker 1>pathetic at all. Well, now I'm just sad it makes

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<v Speaker 1>the girl who decided to go out with you even

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<v Speaker 1>more pathetic than you. Oh well that's that's a positive. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's something away. They're really pathetic one to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Your email said that you use the matchmaker.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just making fun of it because I don't normally

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<v Speaker 1>see that. Usually it's like online or you meet somebody

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<v Speaker 1>in person. But why hire a matchmaker? You know? You

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned tender and stuff like that, And I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>even when people say they're kind of looking for relationships

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<v Speaker 1>on those kind of sites, they're really not right. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of over just going on dates. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to find something serious. I got all that out of

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<v Speaker 1>my system, you know, and I want to settle down.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know a whole lot about matchmakers. Does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean that the girl is also paying this woman

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<v Speaker 1>to match make her. Yeah, that's the whole point. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>They find someone who's also using their service, who matches

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<v Speaker 1>you to the best of their ability, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>get you in touch with each other. How do they

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<v Speaker 1>figure out who to match you up with? You have

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<v Speaker 1>to spill out a profile, and it's a lot like

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<v Speaker 1>the dating sites online. It's just that this person is

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<v Speaker 1>more professional and they're more serious and they're good. It's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of figuring out, really successfully who your best match is. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you sound like a pitchman, because obviously it wasn't too successful.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not calling me back. I mean it worked for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I thought it was great. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome. Yeah, but apparently the woman you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with didn't think it was as great. What's her name?

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Alyssasa. What did you guys do on your date?

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<v Speaker 1>We went out for lunch. Oh that's very low key.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the latest matchmaker runs it. They want to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure the first day is really easy and low key. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And what was it like when I first matterr Too

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<v Speaker 1>was so pretty? I was nervous cute, but the matchmaker

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<v Speaker 1>suggested this thing to kind of break the ice. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a game called first photo, First photo? And what is

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<v Speaker 1>that like you show a photo when you're a kid

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<v Speaker 1>or something. No, it's like you each just pull up

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<v Speaker 1>the first photo on your phone and show it to

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<v Speaker 1>the other person. Okay, well, I'm glad that they tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that beforehand. That could be really bad. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to delete a couple before the date. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not kidding. So what was your first photo? Then? Mine

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<v Speaker 1>was just my nephew because I've just seen him and

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<v Speaker 1>he's a kid. And hers was her and her mom. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>first off, I was like, oh great, she loves family too. Secondly,

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<v Speaker 1>her mom was really hot. Yeah, so you end up

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<v Speaker 1>marrying the mom. If that's what she's gonna age into,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be okay. And did you tell her that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you tell her how hot her mom was? Over

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<v Speaker 1>and over? Oh no, no, no, no no. So what

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<v Speaker 1>were the awkward moments on the date? Well, okay, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. So we're eating. Everything's going really well, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I noticed there's like a hair on her face,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, hey, I don't want it to fall

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<v Speaker 1>into a food and be this might be a good

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<v Speaker 1>excuse to touch her, you know, weird, So like rub

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<v Speaker 1>her cheek. Yeah, like, hey, he got some on your cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't wanted to fall in your food here, And

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<v Speaker 1>I go to wipe it off. Are you hoping you

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<v Speaker 1>like go to grab the hair and then you touch

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<v Speaker 1>her cheek and time stops and then you guys make out?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you hope for it? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't gonna say that was going to happen, but if

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<v Speaker 1>it did, yeah, that would be fine. Okay, So the

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<v Speaker 1>romantic care in her face what happened right? Well, it

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<v Speaker 1>was it wasn't just on her face. It was in

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<v Speaker 1>her face. It was a real hair. It was the

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<v Speaker 1>hair coming out of her face. Man, you plugged her

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<v Speaker 1>hair on her face right out. How big was his hair?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, it was big enough for me to

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<v Speaker 1>see it across the table. Where was the hair? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it like chin area or mustache aerobike on the side

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<v Speaker 1>of her chin? Kind? Oh? Wow? Was she embarrassed? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think we were both a little embarrassed. What

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<v Speaker 1>did she say? She didn't say anything. She just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stared at me, and I kind of wiped my

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<v Speaker 1>hand on the nepkin and there was just like so anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>he just plugged through. Huh. Yeah, all right. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what else to do. Yeah, I mean you were

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<v Speaker 1>able to recover. Yes, we went somewhere else for dessert.

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<v Speaker 1>The rest of the day went really well, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hugged her goodbye, and it was a really nice hug.

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<v Speaker 1>It was one of those you know, kind of lingered

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<v Speaker 1>for a few seconds. Okay, now was it you lingering

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<v Speaker 1>or her? I think it was both of us where

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't feel her like pushing you away and you're

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<v Speaker 1>still holding on. Yeah, I know, nothing like to test

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<v Speaker 1>And how long has it been since you heard from her.

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<v Speaker 1>Thoks four or five days? Four or five days? And

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<v Speaker 1>have you tried to get a hold of her. I've called,

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<v Speaker 1>I've texted, and I have not heard anything. I have

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<v Speaker 1>not brought up the hair good probably good idea. I thought, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought things were going great. She seemed to really

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time, So I honestly don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>she wouldn't respond to me. Okay, well we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I really appreciate you guys. Ye, no problem,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on brooking jubil in the morning dates. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in for today's second date update. Ethan is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and he's not getting a call back

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<v Speaker 1>from a girl named Alyssa. And I'm actually really surprised

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<v Speaker 1>about it because he took her out on a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>Spa day for their first date. They went out to

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<v Speaker 1>lunch and then he plucked her hair from her face.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, a lot of people eat pay good money

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<v Speaker 1>for that. You should have maybe even grabbed some cucumbers

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant and threw him on her eyes and

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<v Speaker 1>just act like hey, sponde out of the blue. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>like we can get hold of her. Maybe I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that, right, Yeah, if you missed the first part,

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan thinks he's not going to to call back because

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<v Speaker 1>while they were eating lunch, he reached over to remove

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<v Speaker 1>what he thought was a stray hair from her chin,

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<v Speaker 1>and the hair was attached and he ended up plucking

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<v Speaker 1>a hair from her face and it was awkward for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. But he does say the date ended with

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<v Speaker 1>a nice hug. And it's been about four or five

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<v Speaker 1>days since she hasn't been responding to him, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call and find out why. In just a second,

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<v Speaker 1>in retrospect, Ethan, do you wish you would have apologized

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<v Speaker 1>or made a statement about the hair, Like, I don't know, Maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe that's what I did wrong. Maybe I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in like not bringing it up and trying to be

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<v Speaker 1>polite actually made it worse. I don't know. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she's just embarrassed, or maybe she's just mad that you

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<v Speaker 1>took her hair and never gave it back. Yeah, big jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar phone number right now

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<v Speaker 1>and see if we can figure out why she's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting back to you. Okay, okay, great, All right, man,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, speak to Alessa. Please do Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, Alissa? How are you? This is Jewbil from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm good. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the

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<v Speaker 1>Morning the radio show. You're from a radio show. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand why you're calling me. Yes, I am from

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. It's called Brook and Jewil in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm calling you today because we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners about you. What. Yeah, can

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<v Speaker 1>you think of any reason somebody would email our show

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<v Speaker 1>to get hold of you? Did they nominate me? Form

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<v Speaker 1>like a makeover as of d I wish that was

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<v Speaker 1>the case for you. We don't really do stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>so no, no makeover. I'm sorry. I don't understandhy would

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<v Speaker 1>someone email you about me? Then? Because you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date and now you're not calling him back?

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<v Speaker 1>What exciting? His name is Ethan? Oh my god? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember going out on a date with Ethan? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>That that I do. I totally remember that. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan emailed us because he said he really enjoyed going

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<v Speaker 1>out with you. But ever since your date, he's been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to call you and now you're not responding to anything.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was wondering why I just I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Is it? Is it because he plucked a

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<v Speaker 1>hair out of your chin? We just went straight for it,

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<v Speaker 1>did we? He told you that, Yeah, he did. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reason he thinks you're not calling him back

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<v Speaker 1>is because he plucked one of your hairs on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my, so embarrassing. Don't don't be embarrassing. We all

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<v Speaker 1>get a straight hair from now and again. I guess so.

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<v Speaker 1>But why would he tell a radio station there's an

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<v Speaker 1>email you about it? Well for him, he emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>because he wants to get a hold of you, And

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<v Speaker 1>we asked him why he thinks you wouldn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>see him again, and that was the only thing he

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<v Speaker 1>could come up with, because he said, you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a really good time other than that. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have a good time other than that. We did,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's just one thing that putting me out. And

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that he was collecting your hairs one by one. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, did he tell you he was collecting my hair? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I was joking, joke because of the one hair that

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<v Speaker 1>he pulled up. Oh my god, my heart skipped. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't tell us that he was collecting all of

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<v Speaker 1>your hairs. He just thinks that's the one reason you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to see him. I mean, it was completely embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's not what it was at all. No, so

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<v Speaker 1>there's more to it than that. I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>if I should talk about it, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to put his business out there. Well, he wants his

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<v Speaker 1>business put out there, like he actually asked us to

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<v Speaker 1>do this so that his business could be out in

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<v Speaker 1>the streets. So he said he's willing to hear whatever

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<v Speaker 1>it is. So if it's on him, then do you

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<v Speaker 1>mind just telling us? Well, okay, so what did he

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<v Speaker 1>tell you about the d Well? He told us that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys met through a matchmaker, went to lunch, and

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<v Speaker 1>you played a game where you show each other like

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<v Speaker 1>the last photo you took on your phone to try

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<v Speaker 1>to break the ice Okay, yeah, it's the first photo. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And and and we did that, and he showed me

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of his nephew. Okay, and is that a problem?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it was a nephew kind of ugly? No? If

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<v Speaker 1>no one ne he was cute though deal breaker for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea if I never want to make my jeans with

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<v Speaker 1>that line, nobody kept going on for the next thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>He just kept talking about having babies and kids like

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<v Speaker 1>he wants he wants kids like now. Yes, he's completely

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<v Speaker 1>obsessed with having a baby. That's what I got from it, really, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what did he talk about? Well, he said it was

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<v Speaker 1>a dream of his. Anytime he's out and he sees

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<v Speaker 1>something that he likes, his baby clothes, he buys it.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a stash. Yeah, he has a stash and

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<v Speaker 1>his help with baby clothes. Are you kidding? He's a single,

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<v Speaker 1>single bachelor that has a baby clothes stash, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>he said. He even knows the room that he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to convert to the baby room. He's already like nesting

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<v Speaker 1>like a no woman, like getting everything ready at the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes he is. I mean he told me he can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait to hear baby footsteps coming down the hallway, Like

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<v Speaker 1>so baby that was like a little bit too much

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<v Speaker 1>to share. But I don't know, is it. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>refreshing to you to find a guy who's interested obviously

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<v Speaker 1>in family life or is that something you don't want? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>refreshing to know that a guy wants to have a family.

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<v Speaker 1>Some day I do too, But it's creepy day. It's

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<v Speaker 1>collecting baby clothes. He doesn't have a baby. I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>aware for a single girl even to say that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you went over to his house after your

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<v Speaker 1>day and you open up the closet, you just see

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of baby clothes. It's not sexy. What was

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<v Speaker 1>your response to him? I mean my response was just

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<v Speaker 1>to sit there and to listen to him. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he talks still talking about how you can't wait to

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<v Speaker 1>hear his baby, fake dad at hang on, that's not fair.

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<v Speaker 1>Who is it? Oh that's Ethan. Ethan's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening and also talk to you. Apparently he

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't wait any longer and had to pipe in. No,

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<v Speaker 1>man's nothing wrong with one. They have a baby. You've

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<v Speaker 1>been listening to this the whole time? Yeah, because you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't return my calls or my text or anything. So

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<v Speaker 1>you call radio station. They haven't called me and listle.

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked you, and apparently you thought I was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was really weird talking about a baby

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't have. But thirty minutes. What was that

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to say to you? I mean, is it that

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<v Speaker 1>weird that you would think about the baby you might

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<v Speaker 1>have someday for thirty minutes in that while to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about baby? It was I don't know, on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>even if if I were out with a woman and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like talking about the baby that she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>so badly, that would scare me. It wouldn't I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously wouldn't scare you, Ethan, but it would scare a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of dude. Yeah, but like the matchmaker already found

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that I knew was like really serious and one

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<v Speaker 1>a commitment to, so I just figured it wouldn't scare

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<v Speaker 1>that person off. Well, it scared me, Ethan. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I think everyone agrees that it's sweet that you're excited

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<v Speaker 1>about fatherhood. I just but the collecting of the baby

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<v Speaker 1>baby clothes? Do you bring that up often on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date? I mean, first off, to call it a

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<v Speaker 1>collection is kind of going a little overboard. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a collection. It's not like I have a room full

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<v Speaker 1>of the stuff. Okay, so how many items? If we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about just anything happened to do with babies? I've

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<v Speaker 1>got like fifteen things, but like they're not all like

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<v Speaker 1>seven of them are onesies and thinking it's like everybody

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<v Speaker 1>thinks this is a big Joe kaha ho, it's really funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm actually prepared for a fatherhod No. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's great. I just think it's great when you find out,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like two months into a relationship, that you're that

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<v Speaker 1>into it. Ethan. You even told me on the date

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<v Speaker 1>that you already picked up the names for your kids already.

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you been planning this, Ethan? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why you guys think this is weird. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>dreaming about having kids since I was a kid. You

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<v Speaker 1>are the what are the names of your kids that

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have yet? If I can ask? Or is

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<v Speaker 1>that a secret? Well? I mean I want to have

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<v Speaker 1>a boy and a girl, obviously, obviously, Yeah, and you

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<v Speaker 1>get to choose obviously. He said for a boy would

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<v Speaker 1>be Ken, and he would name this girl Sanctuary, Sanctuary

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<v Speaker 1>and Ken. Yeah. The Ken kind of throws me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it is when you come up with Sanctuary. Where does

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<v Speaker 1>you know? You guys can say whatever you want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm probably the only guy in this room on

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<v Speaker 1>this fall that's actually preparing for a childhood. I'm not embarrassed,

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<v Speaker 1>but I thought, I'm not ashamed about that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that people should should reject me because of it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I actually agree with what you're saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>do eat in it. I mean, he knows what he wants.

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<v Speaker 1>He maybe gave you way too much information on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date, and that's his bad for oversharing. But I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't play on having a girl named Sanctuary. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>one you need to negotiate for sure, available we could

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<v Speaker 1>hawk Well, Elyssa, would you like to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Ethan on another date? We will pay for it. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about all this. It doesn't think where you

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<v Speaker 1>all it's crazy. It's creepy. No, not at all, like

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<v Speaker 1>every dude that I've known when we were kids, Like

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<v Speaker 1>we would just sit around the playground and talk about

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<v Speaker 1>the kids we were going to have one day and

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<v Speaker 1>did they collect clothing? Yeah, of course, it's a totally

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<v Speaker 1>normal dude thing. It's a little overwhelming, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that it's creepy. I mean, Alyssa, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're not giving me a chance. I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>should go out again because I have proven to you

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm an honest, straightforward guy and that I have

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<v Speaker 1>a long term plan. And his clock is ticking, Alyssa,

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<v Speaker 1>he doesn't have as much time. I guess, Well, one

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<v Speaker 1>more date wouldn't hurt. Oh, so you'll do it. You'll

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Ethan one more time. I said yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't ask me a game before shas on mine.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Ethan, Oh, thank you, thank you so much. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so excited, and thank you Alyssa for giving me another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>And we can talk about thank you. Worried. Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>discuss names later. I'm just kidding. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the kids again. Well, good luck you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated. Okay, thank you guys, and Alyssa. If

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<v Speaker 1>he says he's on the pill, don't believe him. Broken

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<v Speaker 1>jewel in the morning.