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Speaker 1: My father is a narcissist who keeps creating family drama.

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Speaker 1: I want to write him out to his new family.

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Speaker 1: Do it, do it? Do it practice family Exposed. Sorry

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Speaker 1: if this is really long, but it is a lot

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Speaker 1: to unload. I didn't really know what option to post

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Speaker 1: this under, so I'm just doing it as family drama.

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Speaker 2: I love the tea, Love the tea.

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Speaker 1: When I was very young, and even in a high school,

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Speaker 1: I thought my dad was wonderful and that I couldn't

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Speaker 1: ask for a better dad. It is only now looking

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Speaker 1: back that I realized he was a huge narcissist and

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Speaker 1: a whole and my dad actually was and still is.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Grace nine five five

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Speaker 1: on the arsash Okay Short Time suppared it. So all

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Speaker 1: the ages listed below are the current ages and name

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Speaker 1: names have been changed. So my dad's currently sixty seven.

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Speaker 1: Here's a list of the short synopsis of things for

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Speaker 1: context that he did when we were younger, and then

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Speaker 1: we will get into things that have happened in the

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Speaker 1: last five years. So he would tell my aunt's Ruth

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Speaker 1: Female sixty five and Minna Females fifty seven that one

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Speaker 1: has said something about the other and turn them again

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Speaker 1: each other, and they would constantly fight about things that

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Speaker 1: had never even happened, but that my dad had just

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Speaker 1: told them both that it happened. I remember the Christmas

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Speaker 1: after both my great grandmothers. One lived to be one

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Speaker 1: hundred and the other to one hundred and three. Well,

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Speaker 1: good news, op, you're going to live for a long time.

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Speaker 1: Bad news, as your family drama is going to last

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Speaker 1: a century. They passed away, and they got into a

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Speaker 1: fight so bad that my grandma came into the room

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Speaker 1: I was in and she was crying horribly and asked

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Speaker 1: why they couldn't just get along.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know what to tell her, as I was

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Speaker 1: only seventeen at the time. He would also abused towards

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Speaker 1: my aunt Ruth, both mentally and physically at times. One

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Speaker 1: time he tried to punch her in high school and

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Speaker 1: ended up punching through a window when she ducked. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, jeez jeez. We also found out that he

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Speaker 1: had been telling my mom and as kids similar things

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Speaker 1: about his family and them about us again, kind of

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Speaker 1: like the turning people on each other vibe that he's

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Speaker 1: on manipulating everyone manipulative, thus making us all feel uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: around each other and sometimes causing my mom to think

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Speaker 1: that my aunts and grandma hated her.

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Speaker 2: After the conversation, I hate people that do that where

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Speaker 2: it's like, did you hear what your grandma said about you?

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Speaker 2: Did you hear? It's pretty terrible and and it's all lies.

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Speaker 2: I didn't want to tell you. I don't want to

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Speaker 2: tell you, you know. I don't like to stir up trouble,

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Speaker 2: but you know, I just I feel like it was

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Speaker 2: my it was my but god given duty to let

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Speaker 2: you know the truth.

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Speaker 1: I love stirring up trueuble.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's what you think about there, they're class

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Speaker 2: glassy eyes.

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Speaker 1: He's this isn't really a conspiracy theory, but he's turning

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Speaker 1: everyone against each other so he can get away with

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Speaker 1: the dirty deeds he's doing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah know, pretty whack, pretty whack. Pay attention.

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Speaker 1: So after the conversation where we figured all this out

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Speaker 1: and my grandma cut him off, so basically found out

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Speaker 1: what he was doing. My grandma told my mom that

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Speaker 1: she was my grandparents child more than he was. He's like, yo,

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Speaker 1: your wife, that's more of my kid than you. You

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Speaker 1: ain't my kid. I gave birth to you. But you

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Speaker 1: ain't my kid.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, big eggs, dude, big freaking yikes, big yikes.

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Speaker 1: Now, while my siblings and I were growing up, me

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Speaker 1: female forty one, sister female thirty eight, and brother Mail

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Speaker 1: thirty two, he repeatedly told my brother that he was

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Speaker 1: not wanted as quote, I wanted to divorce your mother

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Speaker 1: after your second sister was born, but was talked until

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Speaker 1: waiting and then into trying one more time for a

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Speaker 1: boy because I needed someone to carry on the family name.

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Speaker 1: And then there's that bs. Jesus, So you are only

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Speaker 1: here because I was forced into it. Jesus, you tell

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Speaker 1: your son that.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, oh my god, I were just wishing

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Speaker 2: for a villain.

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Speaker 1: That literally his villain arc is really going terribly. Also, Kimberly, fine,

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Speaker 1: Grannie's a real one. That's true. Granny knew, Granny knew

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Speaker 1: a time it was she cut him off for a

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Speaker 1: good reason. This really messed up my brother, and he

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Speaker 1: had a lot of behavioral issues all throughout his childhood

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Speaker 1: and his teen years due to this, and only realized

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Speaker 1: his true worth once he met his wife and her

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Speaker 1: dad accepted him and started treating him as a son

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Speaker 1: and that he could be loved and accepted for who

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Speaker 1: he was. Wow, took his wife's dad to you know,

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Speaker 1: basically become his father that we know of. He cheated

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Speaker 1: on my mom with men from around twenty and eight

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Speaker 1: to twenty fourteen when they got divorced, including a long

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Speaker 1: term relationship with Alex during and after his time in Chicago.

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Speaker 1: I have no problem with him being by My problem

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Speaker 1: was the fact that he cheated on my mom when

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Speaker 1: she thought that they were in a monogamous relationship and

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Speaker 1: only wanted to be in that type of relationship. Is

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Speaker 1: he going to play the homophobic card when she's like,

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Speaker 1: you're a freaking cheater and he's like, well, I just

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Speaker 1: love me.

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Speaker 2: Thought I thought you would accept me.

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Speaker 1: I thought you'd be open mind and progressive.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Am so confused by this story.

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Speaker 1: Well you're not this guy. This man sucks. That's all

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Speaker 1: you need to know. That's all anyone needs in a

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Speaker 1: Holly Writes continued to use dating apps even while him

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Speaker 1: and my mom were in therapy.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, yeah, I actually see Henry's like three

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Speaker 2: feet away. I got a to the bathroom. Sorry, sorry,

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Speaker 2: I gotta I gotta, I gotta check his Oh I got.

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Speaker 2: I got a little video from Henry.

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Speaker 1: Rob didn't use the bathroom three minutes ago. Sidebar.

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Speaker 2: When I was in Mexico, one of my friends was

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Speaker 2: on the that app, that app you know, you know,

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Speaker 2: like when you grind the coffee beans, and a guy

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Speaker 2: was like, like literally sent him a video of him

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Speaker 2: giving head unprompted to show what the head experience would

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Speaker 2: be like and said, want some head, dude. So I'm

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Speaker 2: just saying that this guy could have been like cheating

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Speaker 2: in in mass Yeah, like when you're on those when

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Speaker 2: you're on that app, man, it is it multiple times

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Speaker 2: a day falling from the scot It's like it's like

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Speaker 2: you know when you get those like giant bag like

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Speaker 2: bags of like hot dogs you cook on the grill.

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Speaker 2: Imagine that, but just throwing that entire bag every second.

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Speaker 2: She said, boom boom boom, it's raining dogs.

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Speaker 3: Remember Bali.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh man, I haven't thought about him in a while.

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Speaker 1: There might be one person who will be able to

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Speaker 1: decide for that. But anyways, how is he last monk?

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Speaker 3: He's great, He's doing great.

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Speaker 2: That's good man. Is he still abroad? I don't know, honestly,

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Speaker 2: I'll hit him up right now thinking about you. So wow,

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Speaker 2: that's a great throwback. Yeah. Anyways, story chapters.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna go time memory, Like I am, He's gonna

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Speaker 1: bring us too far. So even told the therapist that

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Speaker 1: he did not understand why he couldn't have relations with others,

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Speaker 1: especially men, since my mom was a woman. Hey, I'm

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Speaker 1: not cheating on or I'm not sleeping.

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Speaker 2: With other women. It's all good.

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Speaker 1: After divorce, he moved in and then left two different

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Speaker 1: women with the rent slash mortgage on the houses that

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Speaker 1: they had rent slash bought together. This man just keeps

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Speaker 1: getting better. He then tells us that he's engaged to

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Speaker 1: a woman from the Philippines who is younger than both

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Speaker 1: my sister and I. He's trying to get the worst

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Speaker 1: father of all. I'm bingo goley he is.

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Speaker 2: He is doing well. He's doing well.

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Speaker 3: Mostious man I have ever seen in the reddit.

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Speaker 1: Bro is unsolvable. He's like, if you breathe, I want you.

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Speaker 1: That's why that's a movie's Dad's true. We were all

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Speaker 1: worried about this at first, As we got worried that

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Speaker 1: she was only marrying him to get a green card.

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Speaker 1: I actually had a chance to work with her for

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Speaker 1: about a year in a place where my dad wasn't

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Speaker 1: around to influence my opinion or hers. And she is

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Speaker 1: a wonderful person and I have nothing but respect for her,

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Speaker 1: But I still refer to her as my dad's wife

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Speaker 1: only because she's younger than me. It's it's giving ninety

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Speaker 1: day fiance. Yeah, he's giving big d the wife. The

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Speaker 1: super young wife did ask me once if the family

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Speaker 1: hated her, and I told her that no one hated her.

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Speaker 1: We had just been worried because of the age difference,

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Speaker 1: but that I would make sure to let every knowe

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Speaker 1: what she was really like when my dad wasn't around.

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Speaker 1: Didn't occur to me until much later, which I will

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Speaker 1: be up in the story. Around that time that I

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Speaker 1: that we all hated her, because remember he does that

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Speaker 1: on next point. Once remarried to Leah continued continued using

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Speaker 1: dating apps for flings. My man can't.

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Speaker 2: Stop anyone marrying this guy.

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Speaker 1: Why even though he knows Leah does not like it

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Speaker 1: when he does this. He even complains about the fact

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Speaker 1: that Leah's jealousy is why he can't have any more

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Speaker 1: male friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Also, I love how he's only with

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Speaker 1: women to get into serious relationships like leave them with

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Speaker 1: gets with men in order to cheat on the women

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's all he's done. You know, see balance

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Speaker 2: in the forest. Men are for cheating on your wife.

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Speaker 1: With That's what That's exactly what it leaves.

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Speaker 2: It's like Deuteronomy three twenty sec.

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Speaker 1: It's Indteronomy. Yeah, he wrote his own book and oh god.

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Speaker 1: Next point, he got upset and threatened to sue grandma

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Speaker 1: over the fact that he could not get into his

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Speaker 1: in fishing equipment. Grandma, you are stealing my fish poles.

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Speaker 2: Bro. Please take the court.

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Speaker 1: Take the core so you can bring up all the

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Speaker 1: other insane stuff that you've done. Please please on this day.

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Speaker 1: He also, in the same day, went to Aunt Ruth's

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Speaker 1: house and threatened her and her family because he could

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Speaker 1: not get in there, and tried to kick one of

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Speaker 1: their dogs, which greatly upset her autistic grandson. The next point,

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Speaker 1: we're not even we're not even close to done, OPI.

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Speaker 1: We are just getting This is the preface. By the way,

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Speaker 1: we're not even what he's doing today.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Next point got involved in not one but two male

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Speaker 1: order bride scams, one in Michigan and one in Russia

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Speaker 1: while married to Leah, and lost a great deal of

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Speaker 1: his money while doing so. Would not listen to anyone

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Speaker 1: when we told him that they were scams. I love

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Speaker 1: how he's openly like, hey, he's like married to Leiah,

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Speaker 1: and he's like going to his family like, hey, I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna get this mail order bride. And it's like, one,

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Speaker 1: you are literally married, sir. Two, you're an idiot. Next

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Speaker 1: point family started to receive messages on Facebook from people

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Speaker 1: stating that Dad was one of the last people seen

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Speaker 1: in areas where their family members were disappearing, and they

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Speaker 1: thought that he might be involved in some sort of

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Speaker 2: Dear lady, down low, down, dear love, dear love.

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Speaker 2: No, his DL was stolen.

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Speaker 2: With dear love. Driver's license, Oh, driver's license? Oh spell, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Dad said that this never happened and that his driver's

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Speaker 2: Oh that wasn't enough, and the stuff.

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Speaker 1: So we're breaking the Richter scale, my friend, we are

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Speaker 2: Oh god, Oh sorry, I'm just sorry.

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Speaker 3: What's worse than like spicy sleep, traffic jam, spicy se.

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Speaker 1: I actually don't wish I knew, like what.

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Speaker 2: I mean, There is stuff that's worse like junior murder

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's gonna be bad.

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Speaker 1: So, now, almost a year after everything had calmed down

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Speaker 2: We keep telling them to stop it. Agains up.

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Speaker 2: And they called him the drainer.

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Speaker 2: I want to feel bad for him, I like, I

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Speaker 2: think karma bro dude arva.

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Speaker 1: He had actually fallen trying to do this, hitting his head, shoulder,

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Speaker 2: Few days, acting weird as whole life.

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's really but like I guess it's like

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Speaker 1: it's like uncut gems where dude just gets keeps getting

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Speaker 2: It just keeps lighting.

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Speaker 1: It does spoiler alert, but it freaking does. Sorry, That's

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Speaker 1: the one movie I've ever seen that's with Adam Sandler, right,

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Speaker 2: Is Adam Sandler get worse and worse. He does what

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Speaker 2: he does, but he's so funny, so funny.

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Speaker 1: He gets worse and worse in the movie Wow.

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Speaker 2: And his movies get worse and worse.

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Speaker 1: He has some bad movies.

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Speaker 2: He has some bad but like, can you blame him?

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Speaker 3: He's like one of the most well paid actors, I think,

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Speaker 2: Actor terrible movies.

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Speaker 3: Imagine being an NBA player and you're shooting twenty percent

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Speaker 3: come on, can't be mad, I guess, or being an

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Speaker 2: Can't he just have like can you just get good scripts?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: Like, but that's his thing, man, He's just on just

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Speaker 3: pick the good ones. He's just on a bad team

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Speaker 3: and that's how he gets money.

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Speaker 2: He's not a bad team. He owns the team. Whoa,

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Speaker 2: you know what I own this story. Let's go.

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Speaker 1: When the doctor asked about substance used, he swore that

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Speaker 3: Dang, don't you hate it when you always get your

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Speaker 1: It's every day. When we got the substance test back, surprise, surprise,

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Speaker 1: that's I don't know if I've ever heard of someone

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Speaker 2: That's I guess, like, yeah, why take why do you both?

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Speaker 1: He was sixty four years old at the time. Bro

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Speaker 1: seeing some hic picracy, Wow, some hiccresy hypocrite. Yeah, I'm sorry,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. But there's no sign of violence, and

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Speaker 1: So my brother removed all the pupews and took them

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Speaker 1: Dad's wife did come to the hospital finally. She was

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Speaker 1: the guy that had driven him there and back. This

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Speaker 1: He's being chased by some freaking substance lords that are

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Speaker 2: It's so much like, how do you cut this guy off?

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Speaker 1: How is this guy not in prison?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think he's going to be so like

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Speaker 1: But he's he's made it sixty four years. That's true,

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Speaker 1: He's made it sixty That's what's shocking to me, Like,

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Speaker 2: Dude, He's he's just the goat. He's just the goat.

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Speaker 2: We're good, no way too easy, But it is not

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Speaker 2: that there's still so much more, so much more.

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Speaker 1: We're not even halfway through this story, guys, we're literally

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Speaker 2: The fifty percent mark. Let me just super quickly pause,

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Speaker 2: what do we do?

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Speaker 1: What do you do? Your n op sho is what

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Speaker 1: do you do? Answer in the comments? But I'm curious

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Speaker 2: I mean, you got a limit as much contact with

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Speaker 2: out of your life because he is just a walking

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Speaker 1: So I know we say like you and I often

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Speaker 1: this is one I think you just like restraining order

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00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,879
Speaker 1: every like, there just reaches a point. There just reaches

443
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:01,200
Speaker 1: a point. And literally, like Opie's basically saying people might

444
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,719
Speaker 1: be in danger because of being knowing and being associated.

445
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,640
Speaker 2: Well, I mean there must be. I feel like he's

446
00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:10,359
Speaker 2: been pretty uh, I think he's done some illegal stuff,

447
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,320
Speaker 2: so there might be there might be some ability to

448
00:21:13,359 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 2: get him arrested.

449
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, honestly, get him arrested. It will be for his.

450
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 2: Own good and the good of everyone in the world.

451
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 1: Let me know what you guys think. Maybe that's extreme,

452
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,160
Speaker 1: but that's just this is this extreme guy, which an

453
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 1: extreme dad. He needs to be drained of his freedoms.

454
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 1: The family decided that for everything he had put us

455
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:33,399
Speaker 1: through in the last five to ten years, this was

456
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:35,960
Speaker 1: the final straw, and that the family as a whole

457
00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,720
Speaker 1: as a whole was going to cut him off. I

458
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 1: agreed to send a letter via both text and email

459
00:21:41,920 --> 00:21:43,879
Speaker 1: to him telling him that we loved him, that we

460
00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: could not have contact with him until he cleaned himself

461
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: up and got help. It was also at this time

462
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 1: that after talking to each other openly for the first time,

463
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,360
Speaker 1: that he had been turning us against each other for years.

464
00:21:56,400 --> 00:22:00,119
Speaker 1: So now they're finally coming to the revelation of his

465
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:04,439
Speaker 1: manipulation exactly and gaslighting everyone into believing everything that he

466
00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:08,040
Speaker 1: had said and not what others were saying. Classic narcissists,

467
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:09,880
Speaker 1: And then he needed to get help for that as

468
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: well before we would be willing to have contact with

469
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,119
Speaker 1: him again. He didn't respond to us right away, but

470
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:18,640
Speaker 1: waited until four or five months later. When he finally

471
00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 1: did reply, it was to my siblings and myself, but

472
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,800
Speaker 1: it was not at all what we expected. He rambled

473
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 1: on about how he had gotten clean without any help

474
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 1: and they didn't need any of us anymore, and then

475
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 1: started going on and on about how everything that had

476
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: ever gone wrong in his life was because of my

477
00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 1: Aunt Ruth, my mom, his father, and myself, and that

478
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 1: he was better cutting ties with us because it only

479
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 1: meant that his life would finally go under the room.

480
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 1: So he pulled the now I'm breaking.

481
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 2: Up with you, he said, I'm breaking up with you.

482
00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,919
Speaker 2: I mean that that feels in character, gro what do

483
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 2: you do like? Usually he just break up with you.

484
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 3: Well, he usually cheats and that's how he gets out,

485
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: but like this is new.

486
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, just let him break up with you. Just just

487
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:09,160
Speaker 2: just yeah, you know what. Oh man, I'm so sad.

488
00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, don't do that.

489
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: Please please, please, oh God, day do that.

490
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 1: This continued for a few months, where he would be

491
00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: quiet for a while, but then would message us from

492
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 1: a new phone number or social media account. We keep

493
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 1: blocking him, but he kept finding ways around it. Then,

494
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 1: about a year ago, my grandpa, who had been in

495
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 1: a care center due to advance Alzheimer's. He was very

496
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: combative and even threatened my grandma one night because he

497
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: couldn't remember who she was oh, became very ill with pneumonia.

498
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: Due to all the meds that they had him on

499
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: to keep him calm, he was very inactive. It rarely

500
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 1: got out of bed anymore, and the hospital he was

501
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 1: taking to did not think that he would make it

502
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: through the night. So my grandmother made the decision that

503
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 1: we should contact him. Paul contact or Nah, his father

504
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: is about it's about to be lights out. Do we

505
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 1: contact him? Her? Naw, I say, I know.

506
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,160
Speaker 2: Now, why do you want to contact this guy?

507
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: I don't even think he would care, Like I really,

508
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: I really don't think you would even care. But but

509
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 1: the pole is up. Let us know what you're thinking.

510
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 2: No, do not contact him.

511
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 1: I would not contact So my grandmother made the decision

512
00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 1: that we should contact him. We had left this up

513
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: to her as the head of the family, because while

514
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: she still didn't want to see him, she did not

515
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 1: want to deny him the right to be able to

516
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: say goodbye to his father. He did come right away

517
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: and was shown to my grandpa's room by my cousins

518
00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 1: and my brother. Dad is five eight and two hundred

519
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,880
Speaker 1: pounds at most, when my brother and all my cousins

520
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 1: were between five ten and six three and weigh between

521
00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: two fifty to three hundred and fifty pounds.

522
00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 2: But three one hundred and fifty pounds. But think linebackers,

523
00:24:46,560 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 2: they're built like three hundred and fifty. They're built Bro Bilt,

524
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 2: that is like twice us, those two of us.

525
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,360
Speaker 1: That's so true, dude. Imagine having to go one by one.

526
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,359
Speaker 2: Together is three hundred and fifty pounds.

527
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 1: Dude, got chat? Could me and Sam take one three

528
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: point fifty?

529
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:05,880
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, dude, bro looks like a tank.

530
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 1: I mean like like, dude, I don't know, man, Honestly,

531
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,000
Speaker 1: these pictures seem not so bad, but like, you know,

532
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: what's the craziest thing watching a football or basketball game

533
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: and watching the players walk up to the refs and

534
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, that ref is literally like the shortest

535
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 1: po sho. We knew this may have been a bit excessive,

536
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 1: but we didn't know how he was going to act

537
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: based on all the texts that he'd been sending threatening

538
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: all of us. Grandpa did thankfully improve.

539
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 2: For a while and we were able to get almost

540
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 2: a year with him before he left us.

541
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: After this, we started to give him a chance again,

542
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: but a chat vote no three percent, fourteen percent say

543
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: contact that's crazy sevent no way, kay, dud and lindsay

544
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: what do you kirston?

545
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 2: What's going on? Why?

546
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: After this, we started to give him a chance again,

547
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 1: but kept him at a length and only had contact

548
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: under our terms. Now, he was good for a few

549
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 1: months and even got into meet the grandson that was

550
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:04,720
Speaker 1: born after we had cut him off, who was almost

551
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: two by this time. Although my brother did have a

552
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: good father figure in his life now, he still wanted

553
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:14,760
Speaker 1: that acceptance and respect of his own father. Oh Man However,

554
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 1: this was short lived, and within six months of letting

555
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 1: him back in, he started sending long, rambling texts about

556
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,680
Speaker 1: how everyone was always against him and how everyone else

557
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 1: but him was responsible for everything bad that had happened

558
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: in his life and the entire family caught him off again,

559
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: which brings us to the past. Late summer, when Grandpa

560
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 1: started to get sick again. We found out on a

561
00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:40,639
Speaker 1: Thursday that he was not doing well and that they

562
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 1: didn't think he was going to make it more than

563
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 1: a few days. We contacted my sister on the West

564
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: Coast and she'd caught a plane home on Saturday at noon,

565
00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: since she hadn't been home since Christmas. By the time

566
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: we were able to get to the care home he

567
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: was in on Saturday at two, we were told that

568
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 1: his passing was imminent and to call all family to

569
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,919
Speaker 1: come either goodbyes.

570
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 2: So who say and Nara, who dude? You might have

571
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 2: to call it ghostbusters. Man will haunt you, Man will

572
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 2: haunt you. There's no way this guy dies and your

573
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 2: problems go away. He's got he's got skeletons in the classes.

574
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 1: This isn't Dad, This is Granddad. Oh, this is grandfather Dad,

575
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: Dad is still alive and well. For it.

576
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 2: That is still dang it. Dad is still alive and well.

577
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: Our problems were gone.

578
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: Okay again my grandma made decisions that we needed to

579
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: contact Dad. So this time, however, Ruth made the call.

580
00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: She called him while we are on the drive there,

581
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 1: and he had told her I'm busy working now and

582
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 1: may not be able to make it, to which you replied,

583
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:46,160
Speaker 1: make it or don't make it.

584
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 2: That's your choice.

585
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: It was my choice to advise you of what was happening,

586
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: so you couldn't later say that no one had told

587
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 1: you what was going on, and then ended the call.

588
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 1: My siblings and I stayed till around four point thirty

589
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 1: and then left because my nephew's Mail four and Mail

590
00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 1: two were starting to get feisty and hungry. Now at

591
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 1: around five thirty, an hour and a half later, we

592
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,360
Speaker 1: got a text from my cousin that my dad had

593
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 1: been there and seen Grandpa and then left all within

594
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: half an hour without saying goodbye to anyone before he left.

595
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: About an hour after that, we got the news that

596
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 1: Grandpa had passed away. Now at the funeral, it had

597
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: been originally decided by the pastor that there would be

598
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: a time during both the visitation and the funeral where

599
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 1: friends and family could come up and share stories with

600
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 1: showing about my grandpa.

601
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: My gosh, who do not let that dad on the stage.

602
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:39,200
Speaker 3: I had to do this with my grandpa that died,

603
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 3: and it was called spudtails Vos Day in my Life.

604
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 3: Oh God, he never saw me and I was sick,

605
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 3: and I had to like sit there for two hours

606
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,840
Speaker 3: starting about how great Spud was.

607
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 2: Was he great? No?

608
00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 3: I mean he gave me like a cool, like little

609
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 3: jeep driving car, But that was it.

610
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: That's cool, that is pretty lit.

611
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, but he had four other wives. A lot of

612
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 3: people had a lot to say that day.

613
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: Was I'm sure many of his wives.

614
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 3: Sounds like yeah, yeah, maybe his wives. But so I

615
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,719
Speaker 3: just got PTSD from that. But yeah, don't let them

616
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 3: up on stage.

617
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 2: Dude, don't don't let me do it.

618
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: This all started out well at the visitation, and I

619
00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 1: actually learned some things from my grandpa that I had

620
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: never known about my grandparents and their kindness and generosity.

621
00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: They were both wonderful, kind, generous and amazing people who

622
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 1: consider anyone who is friends with their kids, grandkids and

623
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: great gain and great grandkids as family. My dad, being

624
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 1: who he is, decided to make up stories which we

625
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: were all later told by my grandma, and its where

626
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: flat out lies.

627
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 2: Oh god, what did he say? This? We'll see if

628
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:42,360
Speaker 2: we get to know.

629
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 1: This caused the pastor to cut the part of visitation short,

630
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: and thus during the actual funeral the next day, we

631
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: were in stead asked to write down memories which would

632
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: be confirmed and approved, and then the pastor would read

633
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 1: them off instead of us just getting up and speaking.

634
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: Bro changed the whole funeral play out. This also caused

635
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: no one in the family to speak to him at

636
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: the funeral, and no one in the family has talked

637
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 1: to or heard from him since. Sorry, if that was

638
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 1: a lot, it was a lot for us to process

639
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: as well. Hope you all enjoy the spicy tea that

640
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: is my family and have a great holiday season. And

641
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 1: we have an update.

642
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 2: You're joking.

643
00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: I am not even freaking joking. We still have like

644
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 1: more than a man.

645
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 2: This guy needs to just leave. He just needs to leave,

646
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,959
Speaker 2: all right, real quick, real quick. Boys.

647
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: Chat conspiracies right down in the chat in the comments.

648
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 2: What you think is about to happen? Sam, just give it,

649
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 2: Give me something I think he's gonna I think he's

650
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 2: gonna steal someone's identity.

651
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 1: That's a good one. Do the thing that you accused

652
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 1: someone else of doing. Yeah, Riley, you got anything for us?

653
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 3: I mean seeing this pattern weapon, I think honestly, I

654
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,120
Speaker 3: feel like the rug lords of the people he owes

655
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 3: money to are gonna find him and that's going to

656
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 3: be a whole debacle.

657
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: Oh. I mean he has a lot of enemies, dude,

658
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: So there's a lot of countries, including his own dad.

659
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: My my conspiracy theory is he is going to finally

660
00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 1: get jammed up. He's gonna go to court. He all ope,

661
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 1: he's gonna learn actually of all of the things he's done,

662
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: and then he's gone to prison for the rest of

663
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: his life.

664
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. I wonder if he has any money that maybe

665
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: I could, like op, he could sue for drain his

666
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 2: dad of his cash.

667
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: Her dad, her dad makes it way worse.

668
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: Or he tries to make a business out of, you know,

669
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: doing what he does best and he goes to the

670
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 3: like like Google domain to get it.

671
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 2: Can't. Yeah, we have officially screwed him over, bro.

672
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: I had literally forgotten that he had run around on

673
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: his wives always cheating on other dudes. I literally literally forgot.

674
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 2: I mean there's a lot that he's done. He has

675
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 2: a long list of full life. He's lived a life

676
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 2: that will be remembered.

677
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: Definitely by us at the Bayramid of them. Well, ladies

678
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: and John, there's only one way to find out what

679
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: actually happened, and that is to.

680
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 2: Read the sad story. Let's freaking sue that tea.

681
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: Hold on to your potatoes and grab your tea, because

682
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: just as I thought things couldn't get any crazier and

683
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: not just crazy, but completely freaking insane, I have said

684
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: what the actual f more in the last three days

685
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: than probably any other time in my life. And again,

686
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: Op has lived her whole life with Op as a father. Again,

687
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: this is going to be really long because there is

688
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: a lot that happened between that time and now. If

689
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 1: you're reading this first, you should probably go back and

690
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: read the previous post first to get a ton of

691
00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: context because it'll all be relevant. So in December, So

692
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: December started out really rough for my family as my grandfather,

693
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,760
Speaker 1: my mom's dad this time, passed away after a two

694
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: weeks struggle with a congestive heart failure. He was ninety

695
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: seven years old, and he had a valve replacement about

696
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: ten years ago and it had started to fail again,

697
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: so he was filling with fluid and struggling to breathe.

698
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: He was in the hospital twice between Thanksgiving and the

699
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: first week of December.

700
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 2: Due to this.

701
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: He did have an end of life planned in place

702
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: and refused all but comfort care. This was his choice

703
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 1: and he was very vocal in the last year that

704
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 1: he was ready to leave this life. He did not

705
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: want to self harm. He just missed our grandma, who

706
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: had passed away three years ago, and would say that

707
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 1: if he got sick again, he would rather just go

708
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 1: peacefully than keep fighting it. This did hurt, but we

709
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: all understood. Shortly after he passed away, our father contacted

710
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 1: my brother to ask him for a favor, but didn't

711
00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: even mention my grandfather or offer any condolences for losing

712
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: him in the same year that we lost our other

713
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: grandfather because remember, this isn't his dad that passed away

714
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: this time. My brother made the decision to ignore him,

715
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 1: as this was the first time we had even heard

716
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: from him since our other grandma passed away back in August.

717
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 1: We held the services for our grandpa on December twenty first,

718
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 1: the day after my sister got home for Christmas holiday,

719
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 1: and it was a beautiful ceremony in which my grandpa

720
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: was granted full military honors since my grandpa had served

721
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: in the Navy during the Korean War. My dad never

722
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 1: reached out my sister or I or attempted to contact

723
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: my brother again about our loss. Christmas was great and

724
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 1: we really enjoyed catching up with both sides of the

725
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: family and watching our nephews go crazy over all the gifts.

726
00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: They both got new toy semi trucks. Their dad my

727
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 1: brother is a truck driver, and they are both truck crazy.

728
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: That's adorable toy remote control monster trucks, and we're super

729
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,719
Speaker 1: excited to play with him. On December twenty sixth, there

730
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: was a story on the news that something had happened

731
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: at our dad's apartment complex.

732
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 2: Oh no, look at it me, Oh God.

733
00:34:54,840 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: And a couple of people saw it and wondered anything

734
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: to do with our dad, but then wrote it off

735
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 1: because him and his wife didn't contact us that there

736
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 1: was anything to worry about. On New Year's Eve, I

737
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 1: ended up in the er due to severe back pain

738
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 1: from two bold discs. That I have in my lower back.

739
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: I am currently on medical leave from work because of

740
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,760
Speaker 1: this and lifting restrictions that my doctor had in place

741
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: for me. This all started around last year. This time,

742
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 1: I'm only including it in this post as stress makes

743
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 1: my muscles tense, which in term which in simple terms,

744
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 1: makes the pain worse. I got some muscle relaxes in

745
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: pain meds and was sent home feeling a little better

746
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: at least. Then on January third, around six twenty pm.

747
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 3: That like literally just happened January third.

748
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 2: That's true.

749
00:35:45,560 --> 00:35:49,000
Speaker 1: I was sitting on my couch eating leftovers and watching

750
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: TV when I get a call from my cousin. She's

751
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 1: audibly upset and asks if I've seen the news. I

752
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:58,879
Speaker 1: say no, I don't watch the news. It only makes

753
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 1: me angry. She tells me that my grandma was watching

754
00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 1: the six o'clock news and there was a story that

755
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: my worm donor, my yea seed donor, that my seed

756
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: donor was arrested for second degree.

757
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:23,280
Speaker 2: We were right? What did I not call that earlier?

758
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 2: You did? Riley was like, how could it get worse? This?

759
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 2: This is how it gets worse. That's true. He would

760
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: be remembered. You would be remembered. Wow, wow, second seconds.

761
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 2: Second degree that's almost as bad as first What second

762
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 2: degree means? I'm looking at No, it's not premeditated.

763
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 3: I guess first degree, considered the most serious, involves premeditating

764
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 3: and intentional. Second degree involves intentional unliving without premeditation, without premeditation,

765
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 3: and third degree is less serious form often reckless behavior.

766
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 2: That causes So I think manslaughter.

767
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's intentional, but it wasn't like you thought

768
00:36:59,560 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 3: it through.

769
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like, oh, like I'm gonna do this for fun.

770
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: If there's one thing we've learned, this man does not

771
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 1: think things through ladies and gentlemen.

772
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,840
Speaker 2: So is second degree? Like uh, a second degree?

773
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: What it's like you get in a fight and then

774
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 1: the other person actually pounds.

775
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 2: Oh that's third degree.

776
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:19,720
Speaker 3: That's reckless, that's reckless. Intentional is like I actually.

777
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 2: Want Yeah, I'm got like a cry of passion. Yeah,

778
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 2: Like you hit my car, so I stab you right

779
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 2: ouch with intent to um alive. Yeah, but I didn't

780
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 2: think about doing it beforehand.

781
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 3: Oh boy, But like beforehand's like I know where you live.

782
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,600
Speaker 3: I know that you wake up near six thirty am

783
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 3: every morning, So before that, I'm going to wake up

784
00:37:40,520 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 3: at six fifteen and then plan something and then you're done.

785
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: Because I think like the government's like all right, Like

786
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 2: you know, everyone gets a little kooky every once in

787
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 2: a while, you know, but to like think about it

788
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 2: for a long time, like that's not as chill.

789
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 1: I guess not.

790
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: I guess not. Heat of the moment, Hey of the moment, Mr.

791
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,600
Speaker 1: Says Opie says. Turns out that the story from December

792
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: twenty sixth, remember that one guys was about him and

793
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: that he had accidentally pewpewed someone after they got in

794
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: an argument.

795
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:14,240
Speaker 3: That's whenever they smelt the gunpowder, the pew pew powder

796
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 3: in the apartment.

797
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: I think that's right. The news report stated that they

798
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,720
Speaker 1: hadn't met on a dating app and I had gotten

799
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: together for giggity giggity and party favors and some type

800
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:29,280
Speaker 1: of argument happened. My seed donor of a father told

801
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: the police that it was an accident. It was an accident,

802
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: bro fine, and that he didn't realize that the pew

803
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: pew was loaded or that the safety was off. Oh

804
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 1: my gosh, simple mistake. Yeah, why were you holding it,

805
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: pointing it and pulling it?

806
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 2: That's why it was second togree because it was intentional. Yeah,

807
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 2: most because because if they thought it wasn't intentional, then

808
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 2: they would have put it a third degree. Yeah, and

809
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 2: that is law for you.

810
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: That's like me being like, hey, uh, someone's like the

811
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: judge says to me, Hey, why I did you spank

812
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 1: A Riley's cheeks red? I'm like, I didn't know that

813
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 1: the paddle would would would hurt that make a cheek red?

814
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:08,839
Speaker 1: I didn't.

815
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 2: I had no idea. You don't know until you try.

816
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 1: Oops.

817
00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 2: Oops. You know it's called science, called called science, called

818
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 2: an experiment, hypothesis. This won't make Riley's cheeks red. That's right,

819
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 2: test results it did.

820
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 3: You guys are getting a taste of what it's like

821
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 3: outside of the podcast.

822
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 2: From Oh yeah, Yep, yep, oh yeah. Oh Riley, you've

823
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 2: been a good boy. Three spanks for you.

824
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:34,920
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828
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829
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Speaker 1: Spank your producer. Come, no, that one's no, that one's there.

830
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,319
Speaker 1: I thought you were saying, spank, spank your daddy.

831
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 2: Oh, spank your daddy.

832
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: My grandma was so upset, and not only at this,

833
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: but that she had to find out about it on

834
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 1: the news. My aunt, Ruth sixty five female and her

835
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: husband brought dinner over to my grandma and stayed with

836
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: her until she went to bed. The next day, yesterday,

837
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: we all gathered at my grandma's to show support and

838
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 1: remind her that nothing he does is her fault. He

839
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 1: is an adult sixty seven, and he and healone, is

840
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,280
Speaker 1: responsible for his own actions, and there is nothing different

841
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 1: that she could have done to change him. We were

842
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: also sharing some stories about how we had all experienced

843
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: his violent temper in the past. I have more than

844
00:40:31,520 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 1: one story about stupid little things that he lost his

845
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,400
Speaker 1: temper on me about, but that would be an entire

846
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 1: post in and of itself. Anyways, during this time, my

847
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 1: grandma and aunts brought up a time that he came

848
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 1: to my grandparents' house and my aunt's were there. He

849
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 1: pulled out a peep you, forced one of his sisters

850
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: to hold it to his head, and told them that

851
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 1: if they were all going to continue to fight with

852
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: my mom, they should just go ahead and pull the

853
00:40:56,080 --> 00:41:01,080
Speaker 1: trigger and save him all the drama and by eight wow,

854
00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: mind you.

855
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 3: That's one solution.

856
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: As per the previous post, that he was the one

857
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 1: stirring up all the drama, right, He's like, Yeah, if

858
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: you're gonna keep up his drama, you might as well

859
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: just knock me down now. Meanwhile, he was the one

860
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:17,920
Speaker 1: that was doing all of it, that he was the

861
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: one stirring up all the drama by lying and manipulating

862
00:41:20,800 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: all of them into hating each other in the first place.

863
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,440
Speaker 1: This was the first time I had heard the story,

864
00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:28,080
Speaker 1: and it was super scary to hear even years later.

865
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: By the way, one thing that will never scare you

866
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 1: that we all feel safe, comforted, and good to go

867
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,319
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00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,560
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00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: this one. Unfortunately some of them, but this one. Honestly,

874
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 1: I'll be this is this is might be a top

875
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: tenor guys, because this.

876
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 2: Is this is a gauntlet of a crazy Yeah, this

877
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 2: is a gauntlet, Sam.

878
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 1: I am. I regretfully inform you there is more to

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00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: this story. While we were talking about everything that had happened,

880
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: because remember that pepew somebody don't forget and what we

881
00:42:18,560 --> 00:42:21,279
Speaker 1: knew about the situation, I mentioned that my brother had

882
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 1: received a message from our dad's wife that she was

883
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: upset about a message that my cousin had put on

884
00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: Facebook about being stressed the night before. Nothing in the

885
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 1: message even suggested that I had anything to do with

886
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:37,759
Speaker 1: my dad's situation, and in the comments, my cousin even

887
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 1: says that it's due to stuff that is going on

888
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: the other side of the family. Her dad's sister passed

889
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: away last year and my cousin is the executive of

890
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 1: her state and the family is fighting over some things.

891
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: But our dad's wife, Leah thirty four female, also stated

892
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: that she was upset that we had cut him off

893
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 1: and that if we hadn't, maybe this wouldn't have happened. Leah, Ya,

894
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: you lost this, Leah, that's not it. She says that

895
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: we don't know the full story and shouldn't be putting

896
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: anything on social media about it.

897
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 2: Come on, we know another the story. How is this

898
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 2: not the full I don't want to know the full story.

899
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 1: We know what happened, and we shouldn't be posting anything

900
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 1: about it on social media when we don't know what

901
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 1: we're talking about. Keep in mind, he has cheated on

902
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: her multiple times, including with the guy involved in this

903
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 1: situation Oh my god, the guy he pew pewed in

904
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 1: more ways in one but she is still supporting him

905
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: and is upset with us for not doing this same. Also,

906
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: no one has said anything on social media about this

907
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 1: specific situation. I do partially understand that her supporting him

908
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 1: is part of her culture. She's Filipino and doesn't believe

909
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: in divorce or cutting family off in any situation. But

910
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 1: it worries us that she may not be seeing the

911
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: full picture or maybe being gaslighted by him. So my

912
00:43:55,160 --> 00:44:00,680
Speaker 1: question is, would I be the ahole if I contacted

913
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 1: her family on Facebook they're back in the Philippines and

914
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: advise them of everything he has done over the years

915
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: and what is currently going on so that they can

916
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: try and talk to her about leaving him. That is

917
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: the end of the story, and we will close this

918
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: insane journey by answering the question, would Op indeed be

919
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: the a hole if she told her family back home

920
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: about it, you know, kind of exposing the husband to

921
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: try and get the family to pressure to divorce him.

922
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 2: Exposing the husband.

923
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: Basically maybe exposed this to not the right word, but

924
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:43,879
Speaker 1: she wants to tell the family, Uh so that way

925
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 1: they will be like, Hey, why are you married to him?

926
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: Divorce him immediately? Yeah, I mean, leave him immediately.

927
00:44:50,040 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 2: I doubt that he's you know, like, we want to

928
00:44:52,160 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 2: believe people can change, Sam, but in this case, I

929
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 2: really don't think we have enough to believe it. There

930
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 2: hasn't been enough time. I think this man is a

931
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:07,920
Speaker 2: walking grenade and has been unpinned and is just waiting

932
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 2: to explode in the hands of this poor family.

933
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: Exploded in many hands before he's been.

934
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,600
Speaker 2: He's been exploded in everything he's been. He's been your

935
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 2: daddy has been trained in the hands of every person

936
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: that he's been with before we we we need to

937
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: put a stop to this madness. We need to clog

938
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 2: that drain, clog that train.

939
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,839
Speaker 1: Did we answer that would Op be the a hole.

940
00:45:30,880 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: If she did that, though, if you told the family, no.

941
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: No, no, no, this is like the family needs to know.

942
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think you're right.

943
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 2: When you're married to a guy who does that, if

944
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,800
Speaker 2: you make it on the news, anything about your personal

945
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: life should be exposed.

946
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: That's true. It's already, it's already publicly available in for like.

947
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 3: You're in, Joe, what are you gonna do if it's out?

948
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, get out.

949
00:45:51,840 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, like the to play devil's advocate.

950
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 1: You could say like you're just involving yourself more and

951
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: just like step away from it completely. But she would

952
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: be saving this, this woman by doing that. So I say, good,

953
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,359
Speaker 1: let's let's do God's work. Let's go dog to God's

954
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:10,160
Speaker 1: work and tell the family.

955
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: But that is it, Oh my goodness, that is all.

956
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: There is no more as of yea, we don't know

957
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: if we're going to get an update or something.

958
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 2: Wow, we are many updates deep. But luckily we're deep

959
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:25,879
Speaker 2: as a daddy. We're deep as a daddy. But don't

960
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 2: forget to spank your daddy. So if you love us,

961
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 2: make sure to subscribe.

962
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Speaker 1: We love you and say it amorro