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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: I try to surprise my wife, but it nearly ended

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Speaker 1: Surprises are tricky.

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Speaker 3: Ain't that all right? I'll admit it. I have been

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Speaker 3: the most attentive husband lately. My wife has told me

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Speaker 3: I need to make more of an effort in our

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Speaker 4: I'm Riley, I'm Tom, and I'm Keon and obviously we

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Speaker 4: have a guest today. Today's guest is a man who

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Speaker 4: proves comedy and carbs truly belong together. He's a comedian,

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Speaker 4: best selling author, podcast host, and avid breadmaker now teaming

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Speaker 4: up with Nambay for his brand new break bread collection,

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Speaker 4: which launched on October first. Inspired by his love of baking,

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Speaker 4: especially sourdough, which I'm gonna look into that. The collection

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Speaker 4: You know him from his hit podcast Breaking Bread with

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Speaker 4: Tom Papa, where he shares food and last with guests

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Speaker 4: like Matt Damon, Jimmy Kimmel, and Ali Wong, or from

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Speaker 4: What a Joke with Papa and Fortune on Serious XM.

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Speaker 4: He's released six stand up specials, including his latest Netflix special,

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Speaker 4: Home Free, and is currently on his Grateful Bread Tour.

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Speaker 4: You've seen him on The Today Show, GMA three, Colbert

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Speaker 4: and Conan, and now he's here with us. Please welcome

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Speaker 4: Tom Papa.

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Speaker 1: Finally made it. That's right, I finally made the big time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you're here. Thanks for having me, dude, Thanks

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Speaker 3: for coming. Like he drove like four hours a day

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be about ten going home.

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Speaker 3: It will be uh. But just a reminder, we are

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Speaker 3: here to give good advice. Goofully, but we don't have

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Speaker 3: all the answers. Papa does have more than I do.

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Speaker 3: We only know what we do, so let us know

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Speaker 3: what you would do in the comments down below. So Op,

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Speaker 3: He continues, This f up happened last week. My wife's

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Speaker 3: birthday was coming up. I decided to go big. My

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Speaker 3: She had to go to work early in the morning

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Speaker 3: of her birthday, and I had the day off. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I had time to plan everything out. Okay, I mean,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking, you know, dinner, wine roses.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's already off to a great start. He's thinking

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, and his sole focus is to make his

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Speaker 1: wife happy. Yes, sky sounds fantastic. What could possibly go wrong?

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Speaker 3: Well, he continues, I decided, being the idiot, I am

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Speaker 3: I have no idea what it is today.

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Speaker 3: The plan was as follow. My wife wakes up and

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Speaker 3: I don't mention her birthday. She thinks I've forgotten. She

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Speaker 3: He gets it, he gets it. It's a coin toss

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Speaker 3: You know what I mean, love bombing kind of thing.

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Speaker 1: Come on, do you think she's where do you think

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking she got off work, went to a bar

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Speaker 1: Oh, bakeang should cry right?

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Speaker 1: I mean, how big a hole do you think he was?

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Speaker 1: At the beginning, she was asking for surprise, she wanted

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I think attention because I think they have said

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Speaker 1: Right, she wanted attention. The problem with dudes is you

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Speaker 4: Which head are you thinking with?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, exactly, Yeah, he should have the all heads

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming I'm with you.

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Speaker 1: I didn't see a happy ending coming. Is there more

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Speaker 3: We're like maybe halfway through.

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Speaker 1: I don't like the crying, both of them crying. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do too. We spent the night crying and

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Speaker 3: It probably is pasta.

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Speaker 1: Spaghetti, dude, just the dumb dude idea of fancy ya pasta.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell my friend that, because every time he sees me,

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Speaker 1: He's not crazy, Jarred sauce.

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Speaker 3: About two years? I mean it was mediocre at best

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Speaker 3: to her. And yes, we're working to fix our relationship.

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Speaker 3: I love this woman with all my heart. I had

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Speaker 3: how we feel in did he get out of the doghouse?

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Speaker 1: It sounds like they obviously love each other. Yes, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to take back that she was crying guilty tears,

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Speaker 1: not completely though. I don't think she was doing something

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Speaker 4: Hey over here, it's it's some crazy stuff, right.

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Speaker 1: But I do think that she was probably texting, like

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Speaker 1: talking to somebody else, like my you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Like he's the worst. I don't like him.

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Speaker 3: A little bit of emotional cheating.

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Speaker 1: Perhaps, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, right, emotional cheating like just

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Speaker 1: kind of which, you know, we don't know how long

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Speaker 1: they've been together. We don't know if it's warranted. We

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Speaker 3: certain professions are more likely to cheat according to the.

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Speaker 1: Internet, right, there's like you're a certain kind of a

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Speaker 1: Can't we be both?

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: We've lived, we have, you have your pasta friend, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Yes, it's weird to have people arguing about my relationship

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Speaker 1: I find both of them adorable.

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Speaker 1: My one thing, are we in the suggesting thing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just like I'm gonna let her just go off

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Speaker 3: What's ah, It's called the Kaisen thing, right?

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Speaker 3: No? No, no, no no, It's this like uh like

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Speaker 1: That's right, exactly. Just leave a little note on the counter,

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Speaker 3: What was the last small thing you did for your wife?

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Speaker 1: I made her toast off of the bread that I baked,

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Speaker 3: Okay, we got a second update here. I'm getting so

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Speaker 3: Like some have said, I wasn't really thinking about her

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Speaker 1: Is this the same guy?

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Speaker 3: Same guy? Ah, so people are calling him out. You

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Speaker 1: Oh, people are calling him out in real time. Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: that's it. And it was too big of a it

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Speaker 1: But it does. It doesn't really work that way. You

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Speaker 3: My parents freaked out just because I wanted to bake

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Speaker 1: Boyfriend's a problem. I can tell.

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Speaker 3: I love my mom a lot, and I do want

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Speaker 3: she is with my boyfriend, and I here is my story.

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Speaker 1: Dun't dum dum dum dum dumb.

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Speaker 3: By the way, this comes some Princess cow sixty nine

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Speaker 3: And if you want to spit your own stories, go

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Speaker 3: to the r slash okay story time subreddit. We're here

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Speaker 3: to give good advice goofully, but we don't have all

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Speaker 3: down below. Op says, I am an eighteen year old

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Speaker 1: Ah.

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Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I are in a healthy and stable

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Speaker 1: Healthy and stable, healthy and stable two year relationship. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So living with mom, so the kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, almost going to college.

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Speaker 3: Despite this, my parents believe I will have many more

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Speaker 1: Oh, he's okay, but you should get out there and

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Speaker 3: He doesn't have a car. Maybe you should find one

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Speaker 1: He's not that bright.

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Speaker 3: As a result, they view my boyfriend as a disposable

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Speaker 1: We need more intel. We're not sure whose side we're on.

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Speaker 3: As you can imagine, the past two years have been

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Speaker 3: sounds pretty innocent when you're saying I. After I texted

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Speaker 1: It's three o'clock right now, Okay.

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Speaker 3: I was okay with this, so I went back to

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Speaker 1: You're putting a lot of emphasis on that. I can

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Speaker 3: This really annoyed me, so I responded, I'm just trying

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Speaker 3: A few more minutes went by, and she said, you're

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Speaker 1: Oh over text? Oh this is over Texas and she

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Now this is when I got really pissed,

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Speaker 1: Oh geez. He found it.

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Speaker 3: Very disrespectful of her to say that, because I'm not

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Speaker 1: I believe her.

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Speaker 3: I mean, i'd like to see like a GPA, maybe

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Speaker 3: what college she went to. I don't know. You have

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Speaker 1: Yeah good point, Yeah, good point.

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Speaker 3: But everyone has their troubles.

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Speaker 1: This is just they just don't like this guy to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, like you're you're a parent, right I am.

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Speaker 1: to get clues of what this guy is about and

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Speaker 1: why they think that he's not good for her and

444
00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,920
Speaker 1: maybe slowing her down for maturing and stuff like, Because

445
00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,959
Speaker 1: if I got the call, like me and Doug are

446
00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,920
Speaker 1: gonna make cookies, make sure you clean up, Like, I

447
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:38,399
Speaker 1: wouldn't be sweating it.

448
00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:39,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you would be like, why are you packing so

449
00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:40,560
Speaker 3: much in your day?

450
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Speaker 1: So I'm not right exactly. So I'm not sure if

451
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Speaker 1: the mom's sweating it because the kid's a mess, or

452
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Speaker 1: if the mom's sweating it because she's drunk at the

453
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Speaker 1: pool club. M I need more info.

454
00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:54,239
Speaker 3: So she says, I never get into any trouble. I

455
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,600
Speaker 3: have never had more than a few SIPs of booze.

456
00:19:56,800 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 3: I have never even laid eyes on substances, get good grades.

457
00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 3: It was a good kid going to a prestigious college,

458
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Speaker 3: and I'm willing to work hard in college to ensure

459
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Speaker 3: that I have a successful future. Why the heck would

460
00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,760
Speaker 3: my mother say that to me when I've proven time

461
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,160
Speaker 3: and time again that I strive to be a good daughter.

462
00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:16,320
Speaker 3: Why wouldn't I be ready for college when I have

463
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,919
Speaker 3: already displayed the traits of someone ready to face the

464
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,320
Speaker 3: real world. I feel like, if they are going to

465
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 3: continually negatively reinforce my good behavior, why should I even bother? Okay,

466
00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 3: and we have more context here, do we. Well, she

467
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,399
Speaker 3: got into a prestigious college. Yeah she I mean, she

468
00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 3: doesn't seem like she parties a lot, she keeps her

469
00:20:36,400 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 3: nose clean.

470
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Speaker 1: True, but something Yeah, all right, So what do you

471
00:20:40,000 --> 00:20:42,160
Speaker 1: think you think it's the mom is the problem? I mean,

472
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:44,320
Speaker 1: why is the mom so uptight when she hears we're

473
00:20:44,320 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 1: making cookies?

474
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:46,119
Speaker 3: Helicopter parent?

475
00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe if she's if it's.

476
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,879
Speaker 3: Very like emphasis on this kid to have like a

477
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Speaker 3: good future.

478
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Speaker 1: M m.

479
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 3: It's like, oh, I don't like like this boyfriend vibe.

480
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, this was tough. I feel like this

481
00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:01,240
Speaker 1: is like she she's telling the story and it's like, oh, yeah,

482
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 1: this all makes perfect sense. It's a good, clean kid

483
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 1: and going and it's got this perfect boyfriend, and the

484
00:21:06,119 --> 00:21:09,240
Speaker 1: mom's gonna be like, oh no, wait a minute, Yeah,

485
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,679
Speaker 1: do you know what happened last time they were in

486
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 1: my kitchen alone, they were making this, and we came

487
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 1: home and found them on the counter.

488
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 3: You know what I mean, there's like chicken everywhere on

489
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Speaker 3: the calendar.

490
00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're on the counter.

491
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 3: It's just like, yeah, huge mess.

492
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't know. I feel like there's something that

493
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 1: we don't know.

494
00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:29,240
Speaker 3: And she's playing innocent and just being like, sounds like.

495
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,639
Speaker 1: A great kid, sounds great. I'm just suspicious of what

496
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:33,480
Speaker 1: this mom would say.

497
00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, And sometimes with these stories, all we get is

498
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 3: like one person's perspective and not the other.

499
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:41,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, and there's not so we have to

500
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,520
Speaker 1: be like investigators. We need clues, yes, and so far

501
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of clues. I'm starting to

502
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:50,440
Speaker 1: think maybe the mom's just a cook coock ke getting

503
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:51,960
Speaker 1: that not all moms are great.

504
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 4: But some of our commentars are saying the term making

505
00:21:55,600 --> 00:22:00,199
Speaker 4: cookies could be an innuendo.

506
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, she said, he's she said, well, I'm

507
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 1: gonna make cookies. The mom responded, wait till six. That's weird.

508
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,159
Speaker 1: That is weird because when you just said that, like,

509
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 1: there's another they're up to something else. When they're saying

510
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 1: the cookies.

511
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:16,679
Speaker 4: They're making something.

512
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 1: If I felt if I was suspicious, I would say

513
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 1: I'll be home at six, okay, and then show up

514
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 1: at four. Oh my god, you know, why is the mom?

515
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 1: If the mom doesn't like this situation, and she's like,

516
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:31,960
Speaker 1: wait till.

517
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Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm not buying the end of window.

518
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 1: I think the mom's up to no good at that

519
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: pool club.

520
00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 3: But her husband's there, and her kid.

521
00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,160
Speaker 1: Is the husband there, he might be at work.

522
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 3: Well, they said he was there, so sometime I went

523
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 3: by and it was already past six. My family had

524
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 3: to come home. Yet it's a rule in our house

525
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 3: that my boyfriend is not allowed to come into our

526
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 3: house unless one of my parents are home. I figured

527
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 3: that my plans to bake cookies weren't going to happen.

528
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 3: This made me really pissed off because my mom gave

529
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Speaker 3: me the okay. He said my boyfriend over at six, though, yeah,

530
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,920
Speaker 3: and I was home alone, but it's after six, he's

531
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 3: not here. I was keeping my boyfriend updated on the situation,

532
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 3: and he was also getting annoyed with my parents. It

533
00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 3: was around six thirty when they finally came home. My

534
00:23:15,280 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 3: boyfriend and I canceled our friends to make cookies because

535
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 3: we could tell that they did not want him there

536
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 3: if they were going to come home. After we agreed

537
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 3: on a time, my parents could sense that I was

538
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,639
Speaker 3: getting emotional. They asked me what was wrong, So I

539
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 3: told them that I was upset over the fact that

540
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 3: they came home after six. They said it would have

541
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,480
Speaker 3: been fine to have him over before they got home,

542
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 3: But why didn't they just say so? I'm so sick

543
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 3: of assuming what is right to do. There is such

544
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 3: a lack of communication and it is important for them

545
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 3: to recognize that. We got into another heated argument that

546
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 3: gave me another massive headache. They said something along the

547
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 3: lines of, well, you haven't eaten much today, so we

548
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 3: didn't think it was a good idea to have him over.

549
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 3: What a way to deflect what you haven't eaten much today?

550
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,560
Speaker 3: So we didn't think it was a good idea to

551
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 3: have him over? Uh huh, what does that even mean?

552
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:06,959
Speaker 3: He's the one that cooks.

553
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: I'm going to make an assumption. Okay, she's a bit

554
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: of a drama queen.

555
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 3: Oh ope, like the writers?

556
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh I believe Yeah, I think there's a lot

557
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,919
Speaker 1: going like making big deals out of things that is.

558
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,400
Speaker 1: A parent's just like did you eat lunch? Oh my god,

559
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 1: we were gonna make cookies? Why you hate my boyfriend?

560
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: They just I just asked if you had lunch? You

561
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It feels like one of those.

562
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 4: It's like how is school today? And they just like,

563
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,120
Speaker 4: why are you asking thing?

564
00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:35,119
Speaker 1: Right? Exactly?

565
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 3: Well, God, I'm also seeing it from like an eighteen

566
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 3: year old perspective. I'm leaving a college of three weeks.

567
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,800
Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I are going to the same college.

568
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 3: We're probably gonna have to do long distance. I want

569
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 3: to spend as much time as I can with them.

570
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 3: The only way I can do that if my parents

571
00:24:50,160 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 3: are home and they're not home, and I can't really

572
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 3: spend time with them unless they're home.

573
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: You know, why aren't they going to the boyfriend's house?

574
00:24:56,960 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: Because his family's no good and they and he's a

575
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 1: bum mm and the parents don't like it. Probably we

576
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,200
Speaker 1: don't know why, but why aren't they going on his house?

577
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:09,160
Speaker 3: Then it's kind of like giving me a little bit

578
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 3: of a like the parents are Christian in a way,

579
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 3: because like they're like, we don't want anything to happen

580
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 3: while you're at the house alone, so we're gonna make

581
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 3: sure one of us are here.

582
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then she said you could have had him

583
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 1: over before we got home.

584
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 3: That part's weird.

585
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: There's a lot of weirdness in this. That's why I

586
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,200
Speaker 1: think she's a drama queen. She's kind of popping off

587
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: things that are supposed to be a big deal but

588
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: they're not. Yeah, I'm just assuming, but it sounds like

589
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 1: she's kind of making a big deal out of small things.

590
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 3: We got. We got some people here agreeing with you.

591
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 3: Christina says, yeah, she sounds like she's immature.

592
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:40,439
Speaker 1: Right.

593
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: I become accustomed to their deflection, and it literally makes

594
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,440
Speaker 3: me want to drink wet cement.

595
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: Drama he called it. I did not even see it

596
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 1: in drama.

597
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 3: They also said, remember you always have one mother and

598
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 3: one father and many other boyfriends in the future. This

599
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:59,640
Speaker 3: just proves my point that they see my boyfriend as disposable. Anyway,

600
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 3: After another half hour of deflection and more incoherent points

601
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 3: made by my mother and father, I decided to end

602
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 3: the argument before I lost more brain cells and went

603
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 3: to my room to relax. Well after I spent a

604
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 3: few minutes in my room watching YouTube videos of Okay

605
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 3: story time without knocking. My father came into my room

606
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 3: and said, Hi, are you okay? I just wanted to

607
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 3: say that you should remember that we love you very much.

608
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 1: Yeah.

609
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:28,720
Speaker 3: Have you pulled that move before?

610
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 2: Oh?

611
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you know they're spiraling. Their emotions are out

612
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 1: of control. They can't even control them themselves. They're just

613
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:41,239
Speaker 1: screaming and slamming doors. You can't solve it. They just

614
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: have to grow out of it and grow up and

615
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:47,440
Speaker 1: all that other stuff. And all you can do, and

616
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 1: kudos to the dad, is let them know that they

617
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,479
Speaker 1: love them. We're not pushing you away. We're here for you.

618
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,159
Speaker 1: I love you. And they don't try and solve it,

619
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: don't because they're off on another planet. And my daughters

620
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 1: have told me, you know, after having gone through that, Yeah, like, oh,

621
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 1: I didn't even know who I was at that moment. Wow,

622
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, yeah, there's so much

623
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: help going on and it's just hormones and emotions and

624
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:14,200
Speaker 1: all the things.

625
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 3: Yeah.

626
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, When she says, I just went to my room

627
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: to watch videos, No storm down the.

628
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 4: Hall, slam the door?

629
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 1: Do you hate me? Slam the door.

630
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 4: I mean, we've all been moody teenagers. It's a process

631
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:29,480
Speaker 4: of life. And then you look back into your Wow,

632
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 4: I was such an ass.

633
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, no shade on the girl either, because she is

634
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 1: feeling it. She is going through it.

635
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 3: I appreciate my dad trying to make me feel better,

636
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 3: but I don't like how he was trying to condition

637
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,760
Speaker 3: me to justify all their actions just because they say

638
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 3: we love you.

639
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 1: He's not thinking that much.

640
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 3: When a little while later, my mom actually had the

641
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 3: decency to knock on my door, she asked if she

642
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 3: could come in, so I said no, thank you.

643
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 1: Oh. Mom always gets it the worst.

644
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,879
Speaker 3: Because I wasn't in the mood to talk to her yet.

645
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 3: She asked me if I wanted anything to eat, and

646
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 3: I told her that I lost my appetite. Somewhat left

647
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 3: things on a good terms, but I still feel like crap.

648
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 3: I'm just so sick of being treated like a five

649
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 3: year old when in reality I'm a legal adult who

650
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 3: has demonstrated maturity. I don't think what my parents said

651
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: and did in the situation was justified. The way they

652
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 3: have treated my respect and my kind boyfriend for the

653
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:31,679
Speaker 3: past two years is not justified. I'm just really looking

654
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 3: forward to leaving for college in three weeks. I love

655
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 3: my mom and dad very much. I appreciate everything they

656
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 3: have done for me in the past eighteen years. But

657
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 3: I think some space between us is what we need

658
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 3: to reduce that overbearing parenting.

659
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 1: She solved it herself. Look at that. She's smart. Yeah,

660
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: she said exactly what you said.

661
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 3: She's mature.

662
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:56,560
Speaker 1: She's mature. Let me ask you a question. You're smart, Yeah,

663
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: you're emotionally aware. Some you've lived a life. How long

664
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: does her and the boyfriend last?

665
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 3: I was also in that situation.

666
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: Okay, this is horrible of me to say say it

667
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 1: two months.

668
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, but they've been together for two years, so it

669
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 3: might be a little. I would say six months because

670
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 3: they've been together for two years. Okay, But I was

671
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 3: kind of with a girl over the summer, and then

672
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 3: I met another girl and I was like, hey, we

673
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 3: got to be friends. And then I was with that

674
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:19,840
Speaker 3: girl for three years?

675
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: Right, for three years?

676
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, oh wow, I'm monkey branched. What do you think?

677
00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you're right. I think what happens a

678
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 1: lot is uh, you say you're you're still in it.

679
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: You talk a lot when you first get there talking

680
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,240
Speaker 1: all the time, then not quite as often, get your

681
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: routine and your routine, then maybe something happens a little

682
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 1: bit with somebody or something.

683
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 3: And then you're walking down the hall and you accidentally

684
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 3: bump into someone. Your books fall.

685
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: Yep, that old move. And then the real test is Thanksgiving. Oh,

686
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: when you come home for the first time and it's

687
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: just a little weird.

688
00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, someone said, five days post move, they're not going

689
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 3: to like Arizona University or Miami.

690
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:09,800
Speaker 1: University five days, right.

691
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:13,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, who knows many college changes people. So she has

692
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 3: a little disclaimer before we end this story.

693
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: Okay, we're still in her Okay, I.

694
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 3: Am not hating on my mother's lifestyle, nor anyone else

695
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 3: who lives by a similar lifestyle. Blame by the pool

696
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:26,800
Speaker 3: and everything like that.

697
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's okay, she is dissing it a little bit.

698
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 3: But I feel like it is necessary to mention her

699
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 3: past to better understand.

700
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 1: Uh uh she acts this way. Oh boy, here we go.

701
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 3: Dude, how did you get this right? When my mom

702
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 3: was younger than me, she had really begun drinking large

703
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 3: amounts of booze, going to parties, smoking Devil's lettuce, and

704
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 3: getting with a lot of guys.

705
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: You called that feel like I went to high school

706
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: with her.

707
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: Probably she had had her heart broken several times by

708
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 3: men because they cheated or broke up with her. This

709
00:30:56,640 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 3: is my mother projecting her past experiences onto me. Is

710
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 3: it even rational to think that my mom is jealous

711
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 3: of me because I found an amazing and faithful guy

712
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 3: early on. If I could get any feedback on my situation,

713
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 3: he would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for reading this far.

714
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 3: I feel like you got a lot of life to

715
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 3: live to. I think that's what her mom was trying

716
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 3: to say.

717
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the writer of this she is smart. Yeah,

718
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 1: she's correct. If her mom went through that, she probably

719
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 1: is projecting a little bit. I don't think she's jealous

720
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 1: of her, but she's definitely you know, you carry that

721
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 1: stuff and it's like, however, my kids did not grow

722
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: up the way I did, but I would treat them like,

723
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: oh no, this is what's going to happen.

724
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 4: You know.

725
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you are projecting it a little bit. I

726
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 1: think she's right in a stage where she's making more

727
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 1: out of it than you know. Yeah, it's all like

728
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 1: this big, heavy evaluation and she's treating me this way

729
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: and doesn't respect to respect respect. Eh, just go to school, exactly,

730
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: Just go to school.

731
00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 3: Live some line.

732
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, she loves you. You know her hang ups, her

733
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: past and all of her flaws. You're gonna study them

734
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: your whole life, and there's gonna be new ones that

735
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna come up with at different stages. And you're

736
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: not wrong. She's not wrong. But we're all messy human beings.

737
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: And you just got to kind of ride it out.

738
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's life.

739
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: That's life, and just keep loving each other despite them

740
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: being whack.

741
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,200
Speaker 3: I didn't get it too bad. It was it was

742
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 3: not bad. Did you you went to college rider?

743
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: Huh?

744
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,960
Speaker 3: How was that like leaving for college you go kind

745
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 3: of through this?

746
00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: Uh No, No, not really bad. No were they like

747
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 1: we didn't really fight, Like I fought more with my

748
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: parents when I was like younger, like going into high school.

749
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,800
Speaker 1: It was just kind of growing not We didn't really.

750
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,959
Speaker 1: It wasn't that kind of a household.

751
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 3: That's good.

752
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, they were cool. I mean, you know their parents,

753
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: so they're annoying. Yeah, you do go through stages where

754
00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: you let you're lashing it out because you know you're

755
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: they're your only example of the adult world. Yeah, you know,

756
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: but this the uh, she's gonna do great. Go to

757
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: school and enjoy yourself, break up with your boyfriend, to

758
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: break up with you disposable too, is disposal and she

759
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: kind of knows it too. But she's in love. She's

760
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: got the whole world's changing. That's the one guy that's

761
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 1: that's constant, that.

762
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 3: Is true, amazing and fair.

763
00:33:14,000 --> 00:33:15,200
Speaker 1: Any sweet you like him?

764
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, save it's the mother's no best kind of thing.

765
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 4: Usually Usually mothers know best, and they know they know

766
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 4: their children, you know, better than ourselves sometimes.

767
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, nothing makes you more angry when they're right.

768
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're like, damn it, how she know?

769
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I got another one for you here. Oh yeah,

770
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Speaker 3: this one was right up your alley. Okay you ready?

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Speaker 3: My sister replaced my entire resume with the words garlic bread.

775
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:49,719
Speaker 3: Huh yes, read it. I'm eighteen female, know how hilarious

776
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 3: this may sound, And I promise you this is not

777
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 3: a joke, as I am genuinely freaking out right now.

778
00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,800
Speaker 3: I am soon finishing up secondary school, high school and

779
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 3: looking for my very first job for the summer. So

780
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 3: when I was feeling out my resume, I didn't have

781
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 3: a lot of experience to mention, so I decided to

782
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 3: do hobbies and passion selection taking advice from others. By

783
00:34:11,200 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from deleted and if you want

784
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Speaker 3: to submit your own stories, go to the arm slash

785
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Speaker 3: okay story Tom subreddit. We are here to give good advice.

786
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Speaker 3: Goefully we have the professional mister Tom Pappa here to

787
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 3: help us with that. But we don't know all the

788
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 3: things that are out there. And if you know something,

789
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 3: do you like the comment, please do so down below.

790
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 3: And Op says, I stupidly left my laptop out in

791
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: the kitchen today while I went to the shop to

792
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 3: get some tea, and my mischievous of a sister fifteen

793
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 3: female thought it would be the joke of the century

794
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:45,760
Speaker 3: to delete my hobbies in passion section and replace everything

795
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 3: with a single bullet point saying garlic Brett.

796
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 1: I love this kid.

797
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:53,680
Speaker 3: I had closed the word document saving it before leaving.

798
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,240
Speaker 3: She opened it, changed it without telling me, and saved

799
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 3: it and closed it before I came back. Yes, she

800
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 3: knows bloody well that I'm looking for jobs at the moment,

801
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 3: and she knew I'd spent the afternoon working on my resume.

802
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: If it didn't mess with the formatting, I'm all for it,

803
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. If it sends up to

804
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: another page or made it yanky. Yeah, don't you think

805
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: if you're the employer, if I'd be like, yeah, and.

806
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 3: I'm looking for like I'm going through resumes all day,

807
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:25,479
Speaker 3: one after the other.

808
00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: Garlic bread, garlic bread. You're seeing like hiking, tennis, surf hiking, surfing,

809
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: reading garlic bread. Okay, I'm sold. Yeah, I'm in.

810
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 3: You're hired.

811
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't even have to come in for the interview.

812
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, this actually might increase her chances.

813
00:35:42,360 --> 00:35:42,720
Speaker 1: Yeah.

814
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 3: I came home with the tea anyway, And since I

815
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 3: was happy with my resume, I didn't bother to recheck it,

816
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 3: and I had no idea someone would change it to

817
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:55,400
Speaker 3: garlic bread. While I was gone. I sent it to

818
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 3: multiple job applications from an online hiring site which had

819
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 3: places hiring in my town. I'd say I sent this

820
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 3: garlic bread resume to about twenty to thirty institutions in total.

821
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 1: I want results. I want to hear the results.

822
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 3: It was only after I sent that I decided to

823
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 3: reach out my resume when I notice the horrible altercation

824
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 3: or blessing, I am absolutely mortified. I immediately confronted my

825
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:28,360
Speaker 3: sister about it, getting a strong sense sence that she

826
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 3: was the most likely culprit. And she thought it was

827
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 3: effing hilarious.

828
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 1: Me too.

829
00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 4: It is pretty funny.

830
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 1: It's a great joke.

831
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 3: She literally laughed until she cried while I was standing

832
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 3: there nearly crying from stress and mortification. My sister has

833
00:36:45,480 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 3: always been a joker, and she gets away with bloody unliving.

834
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 3: But this was so serious.

835
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: Oh.

836
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 3: I am sick of her pulling off this site to

837
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 3: everyone around her thinking it's funny or on cool or something.

838
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 3: It was only when I explained to her her the

839
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 3: full seriousness of the situation and that I had sent

840
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:09,399
Speaker 3: it to twenty to thirty places that she understood and apologized.

841
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,959
Speaker 3: See the easy solution here is just remake the job

842
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 3: application and submit it in your sister's name.

843
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 1: It's in the special Skills hobbies little section.

844
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 3: She has no job experience, Yeah, you know, I think

845
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 3: that's all she had was just her hobbies and like passions.

846
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: Well, then she's got a real problem. Even if you

847
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: don't have no, you make it up. Yeah, you're like, yeah,

848
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: you're like, you know, if you would know when you're

849
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,920
Speaker 1: trying to get a job of the off the farm

850
00:37:36,960 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: there and in the South, and you're like, you know,

851
00:37:40,600 --> 00:37:43,919
Speaker 1: I worked in a farm, I did farm management, sawmill. Yeah,

852
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: I did all this kind of stuff, and yeah, you

853
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: pad it and everybody knows what you're trying to do.

854
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 1: You're trying to but it was an experience. If you

855
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: got a resume with just special.

856
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 4: Skills, that is true.

857
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you feel like he didn't work at all.

858
00:37:57,640 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: You didn't not a paper route or volunteering. Yeah, he

859
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: didn't work in a mall sweep something before. Yeah, odd jog,

860
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm tables cutting lines.

861
00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

862
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,280
Speaker 1: One word, so just two words on the whole resume.

863
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: Garlic bread, garlic bread.

864
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 4: I don't know if I see that in the resume,

865
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 4: I'm like this guy, this guy's funny, but also he

866
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 4: can do garlic bread.

867
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,360
Speaker 1: I'm soul Yeah, no kidding woof.

868
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:23,760
Speaker 3: Not sure if she was being genuine, but the words

869
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 3: i'm sorry definitely left her mouth.

870
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: Ah.

871
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 3: Then she had the audacity to blame me for it,

872
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 3: asking me why I hadn't checked it before sending it off.

873
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:34,560
Speaker 4: Mm mmm.

874
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 3: I screamed at her that I had checked in multiple

875
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: times before going to go get the tea and didn't

876
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,720
Speaker 3: expect anyone else to change it while I was gone.

877
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 3: She then backpedaled and insisted that she meant it as

878
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 3: a joke, like it's just a prank bra mentality. But

879
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 3: I'm having none of it. I don't know what the

880
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:56,719
Speaker 3: heck to do now and how to rectify the situation.

881
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,440
Speaker 3: I've never had job hunted before, and we don't know

882
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 3: how serious this stupid mistake is. I live in a

883
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 3: large enough Irish town, but small enough for businesses to

884
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 3: spread gossip. I'm so terrified that they'll all now know

885
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 3: not to hire the garlic bread girl. Should I email

886
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 3: the places I applied to to explaining the situation, or

887
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 3: will I sound like a complete knob?

888
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: Did she get any results? Did anyone like contact her

889
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: and say we don't know we'd talked to you because

890
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: of the garlic bread or she didn't give us results?

891
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 3: Can you see if there's a up thing?

892
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:30,320
Speaker 4: I'm gonn check if there's an updates.

893
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:33,919
Speaker 1: See if there's an update. Wanta go pee by this bush.

894
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: It's she's I like this younger sister though this funny

895
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: she is.

896
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 3: She's a good humor.

897
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 4: I don't have an update, so go ahead finish the story.

898
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:44,440
Speaker 4: But I have some comments from op from the post. Oh,

899
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 4: it's actually pretty funny and pretty lighthearted, so.

900
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 3: We kind of do have an update a little bit,

901
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 3: a little bit. Yeah, so to finish the story. Technically,

902
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 3: it is true that garlic bread is a passion of

903
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 3: mine simply because it's delicious. Yeah, but obviously it's not

904
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 3: worth it in your resume. The businesses probably think I'm

905
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 3: taking the piss and it's extremely unprofessional. I'm so annoyed

906
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 3: that this is my first impression in the working world

907
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 3: and I'm not even hired and I've already left up.

908
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 3: Should I resend them my application with my resume fixed?

909
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 3: Should I move on and try to forget about the

910
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: places I applied and apply to new businesses with the

911
00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:28,880
Speaker 3: rectified resume. Should I just effing move town at this point,

912
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:32,720
Speaker 3: since I've clearly made a fool of myself already. Also,

913
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 3: do I talk to my parents or sister about her stupid, spoiled,

914
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 3: bratty behavior.

915
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 1: I didn't know that she was really good at making

916
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: garlic bread. Yeah, leave it on it?

917
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:43,720
Speaker 3: Did say making?

918
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: I think maybe didn't it say? Oh didn't didn't she

919
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,680
Speaker 1: say something like that that she made it.

920
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,200
Speaker 4: And a bread of garlic bread is a passion of mine.

921
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 4: It's making or eating.

922
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: But ye, probably both makes it and eats it.

923
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 3: Oh I did. I thought she was just she said

924
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 3: either way.

925
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: It's a passion of her. Leave it on the resid

926
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 1: good conversation starter. H And then you can go off

927
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 1: like brand in the interview.

928
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, Tom's Tom's actually one hundred percent correct. A

929
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 4: lot of so I looked at the post. A lot

930
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,800
Speaker 4: of the comments are from managers or people who hire

931
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,879
Speaker 4: no way, and they're like this is you know, from

932
00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 4: like getting all the bland resumes. Yeah, this one stands

933
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 4: out and yet, Yeah, that's really funny. It's gonna make

934
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 4: me laugh. Usually someone will laugh stuff and it would

935
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,800
Speaker 4: make me want to have you come in for an interview.

936
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

937
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's like five people that're like, no, this is hilarious,

938
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,320
Speaker 4: Like this would stand out. I think it's hilarious. I

939
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 4: would call you in for an interview because it's different.

940
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: Even if you're not a person that has a real

941
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,919
Speaker 1: good sense of humor. You'd be like, this is a

942
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,399
Speaker 1: forward thinker. They put something, they did something no one

943
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 1: else did. Let's see what this person's about.

944
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,959
Speaker 3: Yeah right, yeah, yeah.

945
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, it seems like a sense of humor, sense of personality,

946
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 4: just like Jellbi says.

947
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:52,919
Speaker 1: Yeah.

948
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 4: No, A lot, a lot of a lot of the

949
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 4: people replying are like, don't even apologize. Ride the wave. Yeah,

950
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 4: use it to your power. I mean, yes, talk to

951
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 4: your parents about this, make sure it never happens again.

952
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 4: But use this, I guess as a blessing in disguise

953
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 4: as a you know, it will make you stand out.

954
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly. Pretend you're angry with your sister so she

955
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: doesn't sabotage you in other ways that aren't as funny.

956
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, but you'll get a great job and be

957
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 1: hired by good people who will probably let you pee outside.

958
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 3: Probably so, and there might be like a new Italian

959
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 3: restaurant coming around the corner. True, they're looking for people

960
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 3: that know about garlic bread.

961
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, no kidding. I mean a lot of times entry

962
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: level jobs, you're responsible for getting everyone's lunch orders.

963
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 3: That is true. You know, I did not think it'd

964
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,360
Speaker 3: work out that well. I was really thinking, Yeah, you

965
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 3: might need to like look for other places of other regions.

966
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: As an Italian American and a bread baker, I think

967
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 1: this is possibly the greatest resume have ever heard of.

968
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 3: Wow. Yeah, well we got one more segment for you. Okay,

969
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 3: if you still got time, I got time. Okay.

970
00:42:56,920 --> 00:42:59,799
Speaker 1: My name is Tom Papa and I am a stand

971
00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:03,200
Speaker 1: up comedian and a writer and a radio host and

972
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 1: a podcast host. I have the Breaking Bread podcast on

973
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 1: all the places you get podcasts, and I'm just here.

974
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 1: Today's TUIs spend some nonsense time with my friends.

975
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 4: It's honestly been so great. You've been great.

976
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: Thank you.

977
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 4: Everyone's loving it. I know you're on tour. You want

978
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 4: to go ahead and let everyone know about your tour?

979
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you go to tompapa dot com, that'll lead

980
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: you to all the stuff that I got going on,

981
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,000
Speaker 1: and predominantly I'm on tour right now, going all across

982
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: the country. It's called the Grateful Bread Tour, and I'm

983
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: performing in Boston, in New Jersey, and Philadelphia, Florida, Phoenix,

984
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of places all through twenty twenty six,

985
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 1: all leading up to my next Netflix special, which i'll

986
00:43:45,080 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: be doing this time next year, amazing.

987
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 3: We have a new segment called Red Flag, Green Flag.

988
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 2: Hey, it's am We're gonna get back to these stories.

989
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 2: But here's three of it's bads from our sponsors that

990
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 2: keep the show alive.

991
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 1: Red flag, Green flag.

992
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 3: Yes, And I'm gonna ask you some questions, and you're

993
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 3: gonna tell me if this is a red flag or

994
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 3: a green flag.

995
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:06,919
Speaker 1: Red I'm thinking was would be a negative response, and

996
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 1: green I'm thinking positive response.

997
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 4: You're right on it, right there, Okay, Red flag, green flag.

998
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 3: They say they don't eat bread.

999
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: Red flag. Anybody that says they don't eat bread, I

1000
00:44:19,719 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: have to question why you are here?

1001
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 4: What about gluten? What about gluten free?

1002
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 3: What about now they're gluten free?

1003
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 1: If you have celia, if you have celiac, yes, if

1004
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: you have gluten intolerance. I think you should do a

1005
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,479
Speaker 1: little more research because what why have we been eating

1006
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: bread for centuries and now we show up and you

1007
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: can't eat bread? No. It's the thing is, it's not

1008
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: real bread. Bread, my friends, is flower water, salt, and yeast.

1009
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: That's all that goes into bread.

1010
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 3: Not the natural flavors.

1011
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: Look at all. Yeah, look at your bread labels in

1012
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 1: the supermarket, thirty five ingredients, stuff you can't pronounce, sugars,

1013
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: all this other stuff. That combination of stuff makes you sick.

1014
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: Not the bread noted. Enjoy your life.

1015
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 3: Red flag, green flag. They complain about kids these days

1016
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 3: while not knowing how to use air drop.

1017
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,640
Speaker 1: I think I'm answering the right way. If you don't

1018
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,760
Speaker 1: understand the way the world works anymore because you're getting older,

1019
00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 1: it's a green flag. Don't blame other people? Am I

1020
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 1: answering this correctly?

1021
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 3: They complain about kids these days while not knowing how

1022
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 3: to use air drops?

1023
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 1: Okay, then red flag right again. I'm against those people

1024
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 1: that are com y. Yeah, yeah, you know, as someone

1025
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: who loses ground a lot, and you know, can where

1026
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: is the where's the button? Where's the thing? Hot? Do

1027
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,879
Speaker 1: you swipe it? You know? I'm with you.

1028
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,320
Speaker 3: What is six to seven?

1029
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 1: Don't it's you? It's yeah, six seven exactly? No you Tom, No,

1030
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:50,239
Speaker 1: I love six seven. What's weird is that I find

1031
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: myself alone screaming it in places when I don't because

1032
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't roll with my boys anymore by myself.

1033
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 3: Wow.

1034
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 1: And when I hear six am and and start screaming

1035
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: that no one knows what's up.

1036
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:01,879
Speaker 4: He's one of us.

1037
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 3: Red flag green flows. Okay, they claim to live in

1038
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 3: the moment, but panic when the Wi fi drops for

1039
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 3: five minutes.

1040
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give green flag to those people that complain

1041
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: when the Wi fi goes for five minutes, because we're

1042
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 1: all victims. We're all slaves to it. M if it

1043
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,239
Speaker 1: goes down, now, we're all just we're all crippled by it.

1044
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:22,399
Speaker 3: That's a good point. You know how many Wi Fi

1045
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:23,719
Speaker 3: services we have here?

1046
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1047
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:24,840
Speaker 3: Three?

1048
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:25,440
Speaker 1: Really?

1049
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 3: Three different fiber fiber fiber again, yeah, and then also

1050
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 3: satellite just in case throws back around.

1051
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, yeah. I mean it's so important. The whole

1052
00:46:35,600 --> 00:46:36,720
Speaker 1: world runs on it.

1053
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 3: It does.

1054
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:38,920
Speaker 1: I want to act like a bigger person, like we

1055
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: don't need it. You need it. We're connected to it.

1056
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 1: If it goes down, you bet, I'm complaining.

1057
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, we wouldn't be here if it went on.

1058
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 1: The good thing about being here is that you're savvy.

1059
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: You've got everyone here is tech savvy. When you're just

1060
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 1: in a house and you're the dad, for some reason,

1061
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: you're supposed to be the it guy, we look up

1062
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: and I don't know what's going on.

1063
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 3: You fixed the same. First, you can fix the Wi Fi.

1064
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.

1065
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,360
Speaker 3: Red Flag, Green Flag They say they were too busy

1066
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 3: for dinner, but binge watch a whole Netflix season that night.

1067
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna give that red flag really yeah, I mean,

1068
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 1: because what they're saying is I just don't want to

1069
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 1: be with other people right now, right yeah, they can

1070
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: still like this is like friends a friend and they're like,

1071
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 1: I don't have time for dinner, and then they say,

1072
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:32,919
Speaker 1: I watched all of Friends, the whole thing's comedy. Tell yeah,

1073
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: you know what we are at this inflection point. People

1074
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,920
Speaker 1: are important. The pandemic sent us into this weird cave.

1075
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: We have to get back with each other. No one

1076
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 1: goes to happy hour anymore. Like we need each other.

1077
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 3: There's no third place.

1078
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: There's no third place. Exactly, there's no third place and

1079
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,879
Speaker 1: we need it. So now I'm not cool with that.

1080
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 3: Not cool. I don't like the lying part. But I'm

1081
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 3: taking a day to yourself to kind of like, you know,

1082
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 3: get it like Rod a little bit.

1083
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to you want to just be alone,

1084
00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 1: do your thing, but be honest about.

1085
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 3: It, exactly.

1086
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:07,360
Speaker 1: I'm with you.

1087
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 3: Red Flag, Green Flag they call themselves dog parents, but

1088
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 3: don't pick up after their dog.

1089
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: Major red flag. Yeah, and you know this even when

1090
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: you don't eat beans. Yeah, we have two dogs. Yeah,

1091
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 1: it's really my wife and my kids have two dogs.

1092
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: I don't, but I find myself having to walk them

1093
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: and stuff.

1094
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,919
Speaker 3: Oh, don't come on, you love feeding them.

1095
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 1: I don't take care of them. I don't. I really

1096
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: wish I was a better person, but every time I'm

1097
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: walking them like it could be doing something else.

1098
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1099
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to make myself if sound worse,

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Speaker 1: But pick up after your dog and pick it up

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00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 1: and bring it all the way back to your house

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00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 1: and dispose of it. You don't go dropping it in

1103
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,239
Speaker 1: other people's recycle bins and whatever along the way. You

1104
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: gotta carry it home. It's your responsibility.

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00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 3: Okay, that is so foreign to me, because really I

1106
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,960
Speaker 3: am not used to picking up after my.

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00:48:57,920 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 1: Dog because you lived in the country, so you just

1108
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: let them.

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00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 3: Go, yeah, right, and then picking up after them, and

1110
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 3: then also you have to put it in your own

1111
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: trash Candlem.

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00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the city suburban living. You gotta it's

1113
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 1: your job, and there are people that aren't cool with it.

1114
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 1: I just I don't fight it as much as I

1115
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: do when I was younger, you know, when we first

1116
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:17,360
Speaker 1: had a place and people would put it in and

1117
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: be like, oh dude, what kind of person does this?

1118
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 1: The reality is it's most dog people do that. They're

1119
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 1: not the best. There's a lot of dog crap around

1120
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: my neighborhood right now that people didn't even bag up.

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00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 3: Pully go. Yeah, red flag, green flag. They think staying

1122
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 3: in on a Friday is sad.

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00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: Red flag. I mean, like I said, you want to

1124
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 1: be with people. We do need to be with people,

1125
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 1: but sometimes, like you said, you just want to be alone.

1126
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: What's wrong with a Friday with your most favorite person? You?

1127
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I last Friday seven thirty out.

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00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 1: Good for you. Yeah, once in a while, you need

1129
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:53,319
Speaker 1: to do that.

1130
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:54,760
Speaker 3: What do you do on Friday nights?

1131
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 1: I'm performing somewhere.

1132
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 3: How was it the weekends? Do you ever like wish?

1133
00:49:58,160 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 1: Oh?

1134
00:49:58,280 --> 00:49:59,960
Speaker 3: I wish I didn't have anywhere to be on the weekend.

1135
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 3: Well you're kind of prom Tom though, You're like, yeah,

1136
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 3: you're the then I am the weekend.

1137
00:50:04,640 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 4: Oh wow, you're the artist the weekend.

1138
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: That's right. I love thevend Did you like me in

1139
00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 1: the Super Bowl? Yeah? Great, Thank you.

1140
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,280
Speaker 3: I could have done without the mirrored part, but no.

1141
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: It was it wasn't my idea. I get what you're saying, all.

1142
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 3: Right, last one. Okay, red flag, green flag. They clap

1143
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 3: when the plane lands.

1144
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: You look, I'm giving a green because you do it.

1145
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm giving a greed. You do it, given a green.

1146
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 3: Yay, we're alive.

1147
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: We're alive, We're back on the ground.

1148
00:50:36,920 --> 00:50:39,399
Speaker 3: It's not like, yeah, I like it.

1149
00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,359
Speaker 1: It's a little cringey for sure. You know what I'm

1150
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: all for. Let's celebrate some moments. Let's do it. I'm

1151
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:52,439
Speaker 1: completely broken through the other side. I he embraces Yeah,

1152
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: I embrace it. And I know it's a dad thing.

1153
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:58,120
Speaker 1: It's an it's an age thing. But it's also seeing

1154
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 1: clearly thing. Okay. Talk of people on elevators. Yes, applaud

1155
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:06,359
Speaker 1: when the plane lands. Give someone a high five. This

1156
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: is a complete stranger. Just because you're in the produce aisle.

1157
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:13,400
Speaker 1: They picked out a nice cantalope. You know, job man celebrated.

1158
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: Enjoy it, enjoy your life. Yeah, I don't. Goofy's good.

1159
00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 3: Goofy's good.

1160
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. Thank you, thank you. This was

1161
00:51:20,200 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: really a blast.

1162
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm so glad you enjoyed it. I had a

1163
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 3: big good time over here.

1164
00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: All right, good and I'm glad.

1165
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 3: Oh, before you leave.

1166
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 4: We have a couple. We have a couple of comments

1167
00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 4: or donations specifically for Tom. Okay, so you mean I

1168
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 4: could pay for you Tom to come perform in my

1169
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 4: house while I tell you about pop Rocks, grapefruit and

1170
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:42,439
Speaker 4: lo Lorena pskey on. My oldest is doing a story

1171
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 4: on her. Now his idea, you.

1172
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:47,080
Speaker 1: Can hire me to come to your house. Wow, it's

1173
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:52,480
Speaker 1: very expensive. Yeah, it's very expensive. So what do you need?

1174
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 1: Big bucks? Big bucks, But I'll do it.

1175
00:51:54,360 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 3: I could sell a car. What's selling my twenty fourteen

1176
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:58,240
Speaker 3: four fusion help?

1177
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 1: Probably half the cowbot is God.

1178
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,239
Speaker 4: Thank you for two dollars. Tom. I've been a fan

1179
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 4: since the Oh and a Days.

1180
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: Oh nice, Wow, Yeah, I love that. That was a

1181
00:52:08,560 --> 00:52:10,719
Speaker 1: great radio show in New York and they had a

1182
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,680
Speaker 1: huge following. They were really great. Heck you So hello again, Tom?

1183
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 4: Can you do a wheel spin?

1184
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: So?

1185
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,200
Speaker 4: I think we'll we'll. I know you gotta get out

1186
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 4: of here soon, but every one hundred dollars donation we

1187
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 4: have a wheel spine. Would you want to do a

1188
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 4: wheel spin?

1189
00:52:24,600 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 1: For us today. What happens in the wheel spin?

1190
00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 3: You can increase her time. You're basically punishing us in

1191
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 3: a way, but we have to do it anyways, so

1192
00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 3: we'll ben.

1193
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:35,959
Speaker 1: I would love to do that spin on my way

1194
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 1: out the door.

1195
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 4: Thank you, Tom.

1196
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: This was really fun. If anything bad comes up on

1197
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: this wheel, I apologize.

1198
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 4: No.

1199
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 1: I have had a good time. I hope this doesn't

1200
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 1: hurt you too much.

1201
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 3: It's gonna be like two X for five minutes.

1202
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:52,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, this one is for Whitney. Okay, that's one point five.

1203
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:56,359
Speaker 3: Okay, So basically the timer is multiplied for one point five,

1204
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 3: So if someone donates one hundred bucks, it counts as

1205
00:52:58,320 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 3: one hundred and fifty.

1206
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:00,959
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means, but it was fun

1207
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:01,359
Speaker 1: being here.

1208
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:05,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, thank you, Thank you again. Yeah, guys, thanks Babo.

1209
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Speaker 1: All right, enjoy the rest of you, ye,