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Speaker 1: You're listening to mess Nah, it's the middle of a wind.

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Speaker 2: Okay, walking about Also, so we weren't talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you see how it starts. We weren't talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Want to end?

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Speaker 1: That's wait a minute.

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Speaker 2: And that lineup looks fresh and up, it looks Really

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Speaker 4: It's a swoop because you know I'm receding. So like

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Speaker 4: what happens when you get in your upper upper thirties,

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Speaker 4: you they they'll they'll cut this side long, they'll they'll

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Speaker 4: leave this side longer, and then you swoop it over

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Speaker 4: the recession.

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Speaker 3: Now is there prop got to put it in.

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Speaker 1: You got you got a little special combes and you

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Speaker 1: hope that the wind isn't isn't it high function?

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Speaker 3: It's winny. So it's a is this like a baby

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Speaker 3: hair for for a man like that swoop?

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's a bang. It it's a little it's a

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Speaker 1: little bang. It's a little cover. You know what I

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Speaker 3: About is a line on the side like it's giving.

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Speaker 4: This No, no, that's shout out the genesis. My barber

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Speaker 4: and Otis and Finn.

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Speaker 1: It'sund like a hip. They hooked it up. They hooked

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Speaker 5: Genesis the barber's name, and then Otis and Finn sound

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Speaker 5: real hipster.

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Speaker 1: You paid eighty two dollars for the haircut sixty easy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's not bad including tip.

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Speaker 4: Including tip, yeah, twenty percent tip. Yeah, it's not bad.

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Speaker 2: I think you guys can get more haircuts, you know,

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Speaker 2: for sixty dollars. I wish it cost sixty dollars. Get

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Speaker 2: my he yeah, yeah, yeah, I gotta take out a

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Speaker 2: small PPP loan to get just the hair.

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Speaker 1: You gotta let it grow a little bit, though. You gotta,

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Speaker 4: Because I grew up, you know, amongst amongst black people,

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Speaker 4: one amongst black people, amongst amongst the black monks, amongst

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Speaker 4: my people. And I will say, like growing up, the

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Speaker 4: the haircut schedule was crazy. Like every yeah, that's a

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Speaker 1: It's all my lunch money. I was spending on haircut

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, that was broke, no witch lunch money. I

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Speaker 5: was on free lunch. I didn't get no lunch money.

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Speaker 4: Look, my dad looked rich on paper, but he was.

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Speaker 4: But you got money for lunch. That's what I'm trying

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Speaker 4: to say that's what people don't give the kids money.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like you had allowance pretty much.

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Speaker 1: No, don't.

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Speaker 4: I lived in in in Florida with no actor Alcatraz. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I know I had a rough. I would be at

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Speaker 4: my friend's house most of the time. Maybe that's why

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Speaker 4: we'll get into yeah, we'll get into our mess. But

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Speaker 4: I was mostly at my friend's house most of the time,

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Speaker 4: and they were like you, like I was on my

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Speaker 4: best friend's mother's will at one point.

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Speaker 1: At what Charlie took you out? She took me off

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Speaker 1: the wood. What you do now? No, I didn't do anything.

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Speaker 1: He left the Frene open, he took.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so we were gonna do.

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Speaker 2: Ourn now, you know you more man, You chime in

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Speaker 2: and we'll get to you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. We didn't even need to do all that.

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Speaker 3: Just no, no, no, no, you're in now and here.

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Speaker 3: You know how it's done.

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Speaker 1: Thread.

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Speaker 3: What's your mess for the week?

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Speaker 1: Oh you don't.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk.

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Speaker 5: AirPods tricky things to hold on to anything, you know.

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Speaker 1: Why did you make them so small?

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Speaker 2: You know, because they want you to lose them so

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Speaker 1: And that's what it is.

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Speaker 5: I think a new thing at AirPods is like two

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Speaker 1: So oh, I didn't know they just sold them individually.

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Speaker 5: I was on the phone with my mother last week

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Speaker 5: So you know how it says play sound? I want

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Speaker 5: Some thing's gone. No, the case was there. I have

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Speaker 3: He don't pick up. You know, I'm probably sleeping. I

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Speaker 3: hit uber up. They're like, oh, we can get them

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Speaker 2: Them back, which is nothing compared to how much it

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Speaker 5: So I was in We were in Harlem that night

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Speaker 5: But I also saw Dwayne in Chicago that same day.

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Speaker 5: I said, you to come and denominator Dane, mister Wayne

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Speaker 5: may see you. My AirPods go missing. So I was like,

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Speaker 5: since you're in in Chicago, can you can you swing

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Speaker 1: And get my AirPods? And he said, I see what

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Speaker 2: They're on tour and they're getting miles just like your

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Speaker 2: friend girl pretty much platinum they platinum medallion snacks.

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Speaker 5: So now I've been I'm using the chord and I

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe my message I got too many ways to

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Speaker 2: Music, But you need it regardless of what your which

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Speaker 1: Well, the over.

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Speaker 5: Ear ones are good for the winter time, plus you

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Speaker 5: because I guess the wireless ones give brain cancel or something.

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Speaker 5: People are saying they're they're not good for you. Would

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Speaker 5: I get them up anyway, I've lost them too many times.

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Speaker 5: I'm at least five times, like back to back to pack.

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Speaker 2: If it either it's the home or one of the

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Speaker 3: It's a mess. So now I'm just wired down.

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Speaker 2: And yes, yes it looks ugly, but I love that

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Speaker 1: Yes I do.

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Speaker 3: It's very much so a representation at.

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Speaker 2: My friend, representation of my life.

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Speaker 3: Representation matters, Cidney. What's your mess?

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Speaker 2: My mess is that I say yes when I really

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Speaker 2: I got invited to a dinner last weekend, and I

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Speaker 2: it's more than four people, because what are we doing

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Speaker 3: Like considered four times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, space between each other to talk, and we're giving

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Speaker 3: But when it starts to get like six seven eight

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It just it's too much.

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Speaker 1: So you went to the dinner or you didn't go.

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Speaker 2: And like the thing is, it's like I hate when

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Speaker 3: So all these people are not that close with each other.

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Speaker 3: They're cool, but it's not like, Hey, I'm gonna share

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Speaker 2: Katcha with you. You know what I'm saying, it's not that situation.

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Speaker 2: You can't say for Katcha with a stranger now.

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Speaker 1: Is so fucking good.

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Speaker 2: And then like the garlic butter or something with like

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Speaker 3: Ooh, I'm thinking about it now.

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Speaker 1: Salt is good for sharing.

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Speaker 2: The restaurant was amazing, but I could have done without

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Speaker 3: And I like the people, but I think I'm a

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Speaker 3: one on one situation.

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Speaker 2: But we did get a hookup, so the sort of

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Speaker 1: Six people. Six is also an even number.

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Speaker 3: I don't but it's just too many.

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Speaker 2: It's like one person is mute, another person is talking

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Speaker 2: too much. Another person came forty five fifty minutes late.

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Speaker 3: So it's basically you had dinner with four people.

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Speaker 5: Sins if one's not talking and one was that late,

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Speaker 2: But we have to we have to wait for all

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a lot of I got a lot of

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Speaker 5: Do you have any thoughts on anything that you heard,

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Speaker 4: So I've just been listening to like New York Sports

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Speaker 1: Ten ten wins. I just ten wins. You shot out

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Speaker 5: My aunt's radio stays on ten ten wins and it

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Speaker 4: But you know what I love about it, Like you,

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Speaker 3: That's what could you have an opinion about that? He

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Speaker 1: Because you know liberal people that are like, oh he

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Speaker 4: I don't want to fuck the rules are talking about

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Speaker 4: them wonder Yeah they love what's the conservative saying about him?

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Speaker 4: His domestic terrorist CEO killer. You know, they don't care

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Speaker 5: Allegedly, they don't care about size because they ain't got

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Speaker 5: nothing in the pay exactly exactly.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of keys, but no dick.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah. So I like to just I put myself

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Speaker 3: That's scary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's some weird stuff in there. Man.

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Speaker 2: I've had conversations, so I know how you get down

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Speaker 2: and what about dinners?

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Speaker 3: Do you use dinner or you you good?

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Speaker 4: I'm a dinner guy, but man, I can't remember the

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Speaker 1: I don't do that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I like, I like going to like one or

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Speaker 3: Hey man, you want to have a drink at the bar?

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Speaker 1: You know, like it's not a fun it's not like

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Speaker 4: But no, no, no, no, wait, I will say that I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm the type of person where I feel uncomfortable, like

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Speaker 1: Not You're not saying anybody gonna take this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm I'm not an only child, but I grew

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Speaker 1: And so.

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Speaker 4: What I like sharing is I hate when people buy

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Speaker 4: because people buy you.

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Speaker 1: The worst ship and it's.

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Speaker 4: I know, and usually what I want is something like

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Speaker 2: Sound it's not soul and it sounds like you don't communicate.

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Speaker 1: Well no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: For Christmas presents, like for my mom, I just be like,

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Speaker 5: Let me tell you something. I'm thinking about our Christmas

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that's I mean I did the same

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Speaker 1: You know what. Yeah, I've been doing that.

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Speaker 4: I got a zip up like sweatshirt hoodie that I

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Speaker 2: Little beer connect Yeah I don't have it. Does have

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Speaker 1: Two years away from forty. I hope it connects.

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Speaker 4: Jesus long, baby, I got here coming out of my

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Speaker 1: Connected.

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Speaker 3: You got more hair in your ear than you have

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Speaker 1: Is that what you were saying not yet, but this

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Speaker 4: I long for male you male enhancement, male embtterment, Like yeah,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, tell us three things did you feel like most

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Speaker 5: men could do to better themselves in twenty twenty five?

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Speaker 1: Well, in what way though? Financially anything anyway?

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Speaker 5: Any three things anyway you said you off for male

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Speaker 4: Hey man, stop stop going to the gym and doing

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Speaker 4: just one exercise how to lift your body weight and

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Speaker 4: like learn how to get your heart rate up, like

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Speaker 4: learn how to run and legs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yah yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: When you when you work out, you should be squatting,

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Speaker 4: you should be doing pull ups, push ups, and get

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Speaker 5: It just be a lot of men go to the gym.

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Speaker 5: I feel like it's back, shoulders, arms, chest. You got

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Speaker 4: You gotta have an ass, you you gotta have an ass.

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Speaker 4: I have been like I remember the first time I

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Speaker 4: And then yeah, yeah, never, I've never seen it.

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Speaker 1: But it's high, it's high, and it's tight. Yeah high.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. So run yeah I used to. Yeah, I've run

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Speaker 4: My goal now is to be faster than a lifter

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Speaker 5: Okay, years cookie, I think, yeah, lift, stronger than a runner.

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Speaker 4: Okay, there's that second thing. Get pants, Get pants that fits.

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Speaker 4: You have a tailor, like, know how you want them

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Speaker 1: That's important. And then and then you know, have yourself

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Speaker 1: a little etf account that you don't really look at.

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Speaker 4: Stop doing the whole crypto trying to bet the house

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Speaker 1: Just have a little account. The gross eight to twelve

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Speaker 4: Man, wait, let me write that down, said you GK.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is all very boring.

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Speaker 4: Manout no no, no.

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Speaker 2: No, listen, they're not listening to us, So it's got

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Speaker 3: Mouth because they their dirty ears.

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Speaker 4: Because because I feel like a man's whole life now

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Speaker 1: It's gambling, right, it's a gamble.

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Speaker 4: But it's when you make like a bunch of gambles

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Speaker 4: here this that you know they are. They try to

447
00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,240
Speaker 4: just bet the house on everything and then they.

448
00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:31,360
Speaker 3: That's the issue with men. Yeah, well think about it.

449
00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,600
Speaker 2: That's why they date so many people at the same time,

450
00:19:34,680 --> 00:19:37,840
Speaker 2: because they're like not all men got multiple people in

451
00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:40,760
Speaker 2: the on they roster nobody.

452
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Speaker 4: I do think you should be dating, like okay, Like

453
00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:47,280
Speaker 4: for me this time around, I made sure that I

454
00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:52,840
Speaker 4: dated a lot, but like first, second, third type of dates.

455
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Speaker 1: I'm not like in multiple relationships, but.

456
00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:58,520
Speaker 4: Then like when you find somebody, you're like, oh, like

457
00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,560
Speaker 4: I like them because I went out on all these

458
00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,199
Speaker 4: different dates and I saw what was out there, and

459
00:20:04,280 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 4: I but this kind of person is meeting certain needs.

460
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Speaker 3: But that seems like a comparison.

461
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,520
Speaker 2: Will like, well, you're like, well the options is real bleak,

462
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,440
Speaker 2: so I might as well be with this person who's

463
00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 2: better than below average.

464
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:18,960
Speaker 1: But that's not it.

465
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:20,960
Speaker 3: That's kind of what dating needs.

466
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you date, you date.

467
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:24,680
Speaker 5: As I feel like you should date as many people

468
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:28,520
Speaker 5: as you can, right, and you see what you like,

469
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,800
Speaker 5: you see what you don't like, and then when somebody

470
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Speaker 5: stands out.

471
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Speaker 4: The winner, like, yeah, somebody that kind of meets like

472
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Speaker 4: a lot. I would say for me, it would be

473
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,919
Speaker 4: like someone who lowers my anxiety I have, Like I

474
00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,359
Speaker 4: could be into somebody, but like sometimes I'd be like,

475
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,439
Speaker 4: why am I so anxious around this person?

476
00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 3: Like vibe now you need an emotional support girl?

477
00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,920
Speaker 4: No no, no, no, not like that got a little

478
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 4: best on nah nah nah nah, not like he's fine

479
00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:58,840
Speaker 4: in that regard, but like anxious as far as like

480
00:20:58,920 --> 00:21:00,719
Speaker 4: you can't really be yourself around that, got it?

481
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:01,400
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

482
00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:04,160
Speaker 3: You're like, maybe that's butterflies.

483
00:21:08,080 --> 00:21:11,520
Speaker 2: I think we sometimes we confuse butterflies with like your

484
00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 2: body actually giving you hints like this might not be

485
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 2: the move. It's kind of like your body is like

486
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 2: a mood ring sometimes around people, where it's like you're

487
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,960
Speaker 2: next to someone and you're like, oh, I feel calm,

488
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 2: I'm giving the blue. But then there's sometimes you next

489
00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 2: to people like it's red, it's itchy and scratchy.

490
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Speaker 3: I'm feeling like, why am I so stressed?

491
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Speaker 5: It is a song, write it down your body, put it.

492
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Speaker 3: You know, for a small fee, I can get.

493
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,560
Speaker 1: In the move with you. I can get more.

494
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Speaker 4: You're right, don't you start noticing these things when you

495
00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:50,760
Speaker 4: start treating yourself better?

496
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 1: Though?

497
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:51,200
Speaker 6: Right?

498
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:55,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, like your alarm gets better once you start treating

499
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 4: yourself better.

500
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Speaker 1: I think you start.

501
00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 2: Treating yourself better. And also, you know, up into medication.

502
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:02,560
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, The millograms is up. So

503
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:07,240
Speaker 2: I'm feeling I'm feeling less stressed. You know, I'm still stressed,

504
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 2: but my body isn't like reponding like freaking out as usual.

505
00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 4: I haven't went that way yet, but I'm pretty sure,

506
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 4: like I could probably use some like ADHD.

507
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Speaker 3: Stuff and all of us all of us a whole room,

508
00:22:20,040 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 3: its thing.

509
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 4: It's hard.

510
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:40,120
Speaker 7: Yeah.

511
00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 3: So uh so you know you hear, what's what's your mess?

512
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Speaker 1: What's my mess? What we're talking about?

513
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 4: So I think, like what was on my mind when

514
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 4: I wanted to talk to you too? It was like

515
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 4: I'm dating somebody, right and I like them, and that's

516
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Speaker 4: not the mess.

517
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Speaker 6: Okay, But like I do not care if she ever

518
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:08,199
Speaker 6: comes to my house, like we only hang at her

519
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 6: house because statistically, in every category, everything is really better

520
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 6: over there.

521
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,480
Speaker 1: So it's like, why even waste our time going to

522
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Speaker 1: my place?

523
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 2: You know?

524
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Speaker 5: I feel like that's an interesting take because sometimes you

525
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 5: think you like a guy and then you go to

526
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Speaker 5: his house.

527
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 3: And you be like, this is how you live. That's

528
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 3: why you got to go to their house.

529
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Speaker 1: Got to go to that house? How you know?

530
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 2: I was like, I really need to I need to

531
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Speaker 2: really know you, and I don't know you just coming

532
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Speaker 2: to my place.

533
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 5: No, that's true, that's true. I gotta go to the

534
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 5: house at least once, but you don't see. But I

535
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 5: don't need to be back there.

536
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 4: But you don't think once a person like starts like

537
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:48,680
Speaker 4: spending the night, you kind of can catch their.

538
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: Habits and.

539
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 2: You want your best behavior because you hear in my

540
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: house people intending that, you know, like they'll come in

541
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: your house. You're like, they'll take their shoes off. But

542
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,199
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people who just boots on

543
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,960
Speaker 2: the ground and they're apartment just feed five four funk

544
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 2: up and down, always around. Yeah, Tim's in the bedroom, just.

545
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 4: This little little cobbles around stone New York City.

546
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,000
Speaker 1: Crumbs all over the place.

547
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 2: And they're not moping. They don't have a swift or

548
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 2: wet jazz. They don't have no utensils.

549
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:24,080
Speaker 4: No, no, they might say they might have a dust pan.

550
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 4: It's not that like I don't like my place. It's

551
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 4: just that I like my place for me. And you

552
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 4: heard me with my like like I know how to suffer.

553
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 4: I've been taught on how to suffer.

554
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 5: So you're saying, you got a twin sized bed and

555
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 5: chair in the room. He's saying he's got roommates. That's

556
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 5: what he's saying.

557
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 4: I had I have a roommates the room. He said,

558
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 4: I have a roommate. But also prefer having a roommate

559
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Speaker 4: because I'm not home a lot. So it's like I

560
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 4: don't want to pay for a place like I don't

561
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 4: want to yes my side, like people people.

562
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Speaker 1: Be like he's making excuses for what, you know, living

563
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 1: with your chance, let's go. It's like I don't. I don't.

564
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 1: I don't.

565
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 4: I'm not home enough to where like I need to

566
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 4: pay all that money for And you know, I like,

567
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 4: I like my roommate.

568
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:10,600
Speaker 1: I like we got a good way. We be in

569
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: there doing squats. He got he got he gotta like

570
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:17,080
Speaker 1: a fifty you all know him to your do it.

571
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, but like he has like a fifty pound like

572
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 4: weighted vest, weighted vest.

573
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: So like I think living with your doy.

574
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Speaker 4: I think most of the time it's done well for

575
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 4: me because I'm like, oh, I can't let him out

576
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 4: sexy me.

577
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I gotta like, I gotta

578
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: be in here, like doing my weight.

579
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 3: This is your competition in your own home.

580
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, in the weight inst is your emotional support workout.

581
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: This is I've never heard this before. Yeah, I gotta,

582
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:46,480
Speaker 1: I gotta.

583
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:47,159
Speaker 3: Yeah.

584
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 4: I think we both challenge challenge each other, you know

585
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 4: what I mean? Good way, Yeah, say a healthy rivalry.

586
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:53,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

587
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I haven't seen your lifety pack yet, but I

588
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 2: mean maybe he's helping you mentally.

589
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,720
Speaker 4: I think I think we both are like we're physically

590
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,360
Speaker 4: in a good place where like yeah, we I think

591
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 4: like we read a lot.

592
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 5: You go get your book yep, or is it just

593
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 5: Thursdays we read at two?

594
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 4: Like you know, sometimes I'm on like that Lebron James

595
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 4: thing where I have the autobiography of Malcolm X, but

596
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 4: it's the bookmark has been in the same place. Yeah, yeah, no,

597
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 4: look I'm not saying and now all that, but there

598
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 4: was a there's a meme about him where he like

599
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 4: just has like a book and he'll never like he'll

600
00:26:33,840 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 4: act like he's reading it. He's kind of like he

601
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 4: kind of spurred the whole performative.

602
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: Men reading in public.

603
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 4: I missed hit TikTok yet Yeah, prob was you're not

604
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 4: You're not in like the maybe the Sports World Lebron meme.

605
00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 5: That I know was him picking up his his duffel

606
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 5: and walking out of the pass conference with his suit on.

607
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 2: Or the.

608
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 1: You know when he's like happy or whatever, like.

609
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:05,840
Speaker 2: Oh yes he's in the pool and he's like wait, okay,

610
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 2: so so the person you're dating.

611
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,000
Speaker 3: I feel like this is usually how it goes.

612
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 2: You go to a woman's house, and it's just nice

613
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: like they got candles, they got carpete ship whip, okay,

614
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 2: things in the fridge.

615
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: Where friar and she's keeping clean right like.

616
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:25,640
Speaker 4: The very she got the she got the whats called

617
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,800
Speaker 4: she got the she got the thing at night where

618
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 4: it's like wave sounds.

619
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: That's crazy first of all.

620
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 7: Es.

621
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 1: But they got ads, you know what I mean?

622
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 4: You know you got yeah yeah, and then you got

623
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 4: what what use did did she have? That?

624
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: I really like?

625
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 3: So it just sounds like electronics things, air fry.

626
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,639
Speaker 4: You got like a nice little Japanese table, like a

627
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 4: little low table. I like like sitting on the ground

628
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 4: and eating crossing. Good couch couch. I seen like we

629
00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 4: were watching Weapons. I watched like three minutes of that movie.

630
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 4: I was asleep the whole time. It's a good couch.

631
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,439
Speaker 2: Felt like a womb, felt like a couch. Or it's

632
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:18,440
Speaker 2: a bad movie, it's a movie. If it's a bad movie,

633
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: you're hooking up.

634
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 3: You're hooking up.

635
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: It's a good couch. He fell asleep.

636
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 2: Yeah no, But if the movie's bad, you're like, yes,

637
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 2: we can hook up.

638
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 4: We gotta okay, so look we gotta we don't do

639
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,639
Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to be It's fine. We

640
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 4: don't do couch hook up because she has a dog

641
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:38,959
Speaker 4: that's like very active and will try to do let

642
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 4: me get ready, so we gotta like.

643
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 3: Dog listens trying to join in.

644
00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: She don't have a little cage for the dog. No, no, no,

645
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: I mean we're fine.

646
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 3: No, no, it's just I'm putting the dog in the

647
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:57,960
Speaker 3: closet now.

648
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: But he kind of weird. Sounds like all dogs.

649
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 2: Cat would never cat is being in the corner judging

650
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 2: like cat, a cat on.

651
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,080
Speaker 5: The side of the boom bostic side, looking at that's

652
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,640
Speaker 5: how we do it.

653
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: That cat is like you're gonna catch a Charlie Hurst. Now,

654
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 3: don't play too much.

655
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: Lift your leg, lift your leg.

656
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's just it's it's like I don't know

657
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 4: if have we had rich we got rich friends. We

658
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 4: even like growing up like I remember my mom would

659
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 4: use my dad's a dress so I could go to

660
00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 4: a suburban school. And once I started going to a

661
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 4: suburban school and I seen like snack closets.

662
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: Oh, like a pan pantry, that's what it is. That's

663
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: what they call.

664
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: A pantry.

665
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: That closet feels like it should be the name a pantry,

666
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: the den.

667
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 5: The Then the first time I saw a den, I

668
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,800
Speaker 5: was like a downstairs living role or a.

669
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Speaker 3: Second living role.

670
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Speaker 2: But then we had our other friend who's like rich rich,

671
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: she said, a den, that's nothing.

672
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 3: She's like, it's called the parlor. It's another room.

673
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 5: Parlor is the living room that you don't touch. The

674
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 5: den feel like the living room that you actually sit in. No,

675
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 5: the den is just like entertainment only. Parlor is like,

676
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 5: oh we you know, we have little drinks, we're in

677
00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 5: the area, and the little cigar, yes.

678
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 3: Cigar bar. And then the living room is a living you.

679
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 5: Have more than three couches at least pretty much.

680
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:29,480
Speaker 1: Wow, living good rests ottomans.

681
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 4: But no, So it's like if you grow up with

682
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 4: a you're not you're always going to their house. This

683
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 4: is true, you know what I mean, you're not. So

684
00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 4: I think like in this in this regard, it's like

685
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 4: she's the rich French she you know.

686
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 3: She doesn't doesn't have any roommates, roommates.

687
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,239
Speaker 1: I love her. So how do you feel her, how

688
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: she's home?

689
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 3: How do you feel like the women being the bread

690
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:52,760
Speaker 3: women winner?

691
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: She's not the bird winner.

692
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 4: You said, yeah, yeah, yeah, she's not the bread winner.

693
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 4: But but like, no, I like doing for her. And also,

694
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 4: you know I'm handy.

695
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: I know I have. I have messed up certain things

696
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: in both of your houses.

697
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 4: Things have gone around, we have gone awry. But that's

698
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 4: just because I haven't been in my you gotta understand,

699
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 4: I paint.

700
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: I'm not. I haven't been in my furniture assembly bag

701
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: for like years.

702
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 5: So when I messed you and said, can you do this.

703
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:34,360
Speaker 1: You should No, No, I did no, No, but I

704
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: did do it.

705
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 4: We had, you know, we I'm not gonna talk about

706
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 4: your uneven floor.

707
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: But no.

708
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 4: Want to talk about But here's the Here's the thing

709
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 4: is like a lot of the times, like I have

710
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 4: lucked up. I don't know why because I'm five six

711
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 4: point seventy five.

712
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: No, I've lucked up.

713
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 3: Did you just go to the doctor yesterday.

714
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: I'll get your exact he said, let me tell you

715
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: something to me. And you know I have done in

716
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: the house where you're.

717
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 5: Like, you're like, I'm not five six, I'm not five

718
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 5: to seven. I'm five to six point seven five seven five.

719
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 5: I think that means you got a round up.

720
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 4: I know, But I'm just trying to be I'm just

721
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 4: trying to be honest, so transparent, trying to be down.

722
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 3: He would never Okay, So what happened.

723
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 4: And what I'm saying is like I've I've had good

724
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 4: luck when it comes to like getting into relationships with

725
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 4: women who are like doing good.

726
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 3: Yeah you you stay with a battie with a good job.

727
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah yeah yeah thanks curl pattern, thank you, thank you,

728
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 4: thank Trick, thank you, thank you. Yeah, and so like,

729
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 4: but what I find about these women's houses is like

730
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 4: they have nice stuff, but it's very poorly put together.

731
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: Like I remember my last relationship.

732
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 4: I was in her bed and I was like, there's

733
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 4: like a sick there's the bet is like when I'm

734
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 4: in it, I'm like it's like this right, and she's

735
00:32:59,960 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 4: like I don't eat. I mean, so I lifted the

736
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 4: mattress up. You know, she had her her like the

737
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 4: box sprint. Yeah yeah, no, I knew just like that for.

738
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 1: You because I have done that before bed spring.

739
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: I haven't had a raisud such a nice it was

740
00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 2: such a nice bed or like something so simple.

741
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 4: It's like her bedposts like I just like screwed it

742
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:28,400
Speaker 4: back on. And so everything in a woman's house usually

743
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 4: when they got their like life together is like it's nice,

744
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,680
Speaker 4: but the ship is hanging on by a piece of

745
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 4: their hair.

746
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not a handy man.

747
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 2: We do so then we just pick out the things

748
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 2: and when they get here, you're like, okay, somebody.

749
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,600
Speaker 5: Something for the white glove service, and you let the

750
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 5: man do it and then they leave.

751
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 4: So like, I think maybe people might hear this and

752
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 4: be like, oh, like Rufie might be a man who's

753
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 4: just like coming over and is trying to take over

754
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 4: somebody house and sleeping all.

755
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: I'm not even into that. I like, I like my.

756
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 4: Place for me, right, but when I am over her place,

757
00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,480
Speaker 4: you know, like I'm helping out, I'm fixing things.

758
00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm an asset. You know what I mean.

759
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm an asset. And do you hear that?

760
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 4: Man?

761
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 3: Hello?

762
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 2: Hello, Hello? Are you listening? You have to be an asset.

763
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: What are you providing? It's not always financial, it's not

764
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:22,880
Speaker 2: always emotional. You got to be moving things around and

765
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 2: adding into the environment.

766
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,319
Speaker 5: In twenty twenty five, Love asking the question what do

767
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 5: you bring into the table?

768
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 3: Can you build a table? Can you fix the tape?

769
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: The leg? Since table fix.

770
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 3: And I'm not talking. Put a little thing underneath.

771
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 2: The legs, fix the table, order the parts to get

772
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 2: the table to be even.

773
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: Go to the hardware store. Do you know where that is?

774
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 3: You know what a hardware story.

775
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 5: So I had a dude offer the paint my apartment

776
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 5: and hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. I

777
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:53,720
Speaker 5: had a dude offer the paint my apartment.

778
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 3: Look at him, Man, did you hear him?

779
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: It was bad?

780
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:59,120
Speaker 5: That's hold hold on, hold on, let me finish what

781
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

782
00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: He offered to paint my apartment and I was like.

783
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 5: He was like, all right, well, you you can go

784
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 5: get a massage or whatever, and by the time you

785
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 5: get back.

786
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,320
Speaker 1: It'll be done.

787
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 5: I got back half of a half of a wall

788
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:15,439
Speaker 5: was painted. She used a tiny paint brush. It looked

789
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 5: like a nail brush. Oh my said, you wouldn't go

790
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,600
Speaker 5: get a roller, and he was like, oh, I didn't

791
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 5: want to. You know, it hadn't even occurred to him.

792
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 5: Like if you offer to help somebody do something, you

793
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 5: have to do it the right way. Then what ended

794
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 5: up happening is we went to the hardware store, got

795
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 5: some rollers. I had to help paint my apartment, and

796
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 5: I wasn't trying to do that.

797
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 2: The way the walls would have been wet and I

798
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 2: would have been dried. There's no way if I had

799
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,280
Speaker 2: to move a finger, and I will say that, thank you.

800
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: Sidney, thank you, ry drop cry sham wow absolutely powder.

801
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 1: This is giving me anxiety.

802
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 2: Why I'm not gonna you know, I don't want to.

803
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 2: I didn't want to bring it up. But you know

804
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 2: you came over. You've You've done a couple of jobs

805
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 2: for me that was cute, but the last one I

806
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:09,280
Speaker 2: was like.

807
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no, that shoe she okay. So here's

808
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 4: another thing, is like, please consult me when you're ordering things. No,

809
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 4: pay it by right, you've already bought it and you're delivered.

810
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been delivered.

811
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 4: So like you you were having like a shoot thing

812
00:36:28,360 --> 00:36:30,080
Speaker 4: built and like, but you could.

813
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 3: Have said, hey, you need to send that back and

814
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 3: here let me show.

815
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 4: You know, because look, stop getting cheap stuff from wayfair. Okay,

816
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:44,399
Speaker 4: stop doing it, becamera, make sure you say it's this

817
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 4: build for.

818
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:50,240
Speaker 3: This thing was actually.

819
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,760
Speaker 4: In way too complex when you could have just paid

820
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,400
Speaker 4: a little bit more and got like a did they

821
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 4: make these metal ones that like just pop into the

822
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 4: wall and I would have just attached it to the wall.

823
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 4: And it's like this like metal thing that kind of

824
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 4: looks like a locker and it looks cool.

825
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's not really Sydney's aesthetics. And you want

826
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 5: a locker in the room.

827
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, like a gem wa paresthetic. It's not

828
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: Sydney's aesthetic either, Leney weird and yet it's Sydney's athetic

829
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,280
Speaker 1: and it gout like me. It had like the mirrors

830
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:17,600
Speaker 1: on it.

831
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:21,160
Speaker 2: You came into shovel, Let's be honest, and you said

832
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 2: you look like the shelf man you didshovel.

833
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,000
Speaker 1: You said you was you. It was in. It was moody.

834
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 3: You were like, you know, I'm like dealing with some

835
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 3: stuff right now we were talking.

836
00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 1: I had to help you. Yeah, you help me. Try. No,

837
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 1: I'm not well. You was friends friends, but yeah, I'm gay.

838
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 1: But no matter how.

839
00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 4: Many haircuts I get from a non binary person, I

840
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 4: get it.

841
00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:53,759
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not your cup of tea. But in that,

842
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: in that regard, I felt bad.

843
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 4: I felt bad because I was like, oh, like and

844
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,800
Speaker 4: you don't you know that the half hours, you know,

845
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 4: not anything up around Marie.

846
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: Because like, like my closet.

847
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:07,279
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, what about good No, but with you know,

848
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,439
Speaker 4: you're you're a little bit more forgiven, You're a little

849
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 4: bit more forgiven.

850
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: But I stop, I will say, I will say it's me. No,

851
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 1: it's not. It's not your phone, it's not your fault.

852
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: That was just a shanky. It was just a thing.

853
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: You didn't go up or did not go up. It didn't.

854
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I felt bad. I felt bad because I

855
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 4: was also I just was like, you don't even.

856
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 2: Have to pay no, because because something broke while it

857
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 2: like it was it was being honest, you start twisting

858
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 2: and ship and you broke it.

859
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 3: You saw you were twisting it and then.

860
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: It like it popped.

861
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: Man.

862
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, look look somehow I was dealing with you.

863
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 3: You put it into that out he did exactly.

864
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: Man, you can't be by a cheap ship. I said, okay,

865
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 2: you got to get out.

866
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:58,839
Speaker 1: You have to go. Look, man, I fis enough.

867
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 4: You're ordered your ordering, you know, like you order you.

868
00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 1: From a company that does like human trafficking or whatever.

869
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, blame it on the kids on Yeah.

870
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm perfect, but.

871
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 4: I think yeah, yeah, but I think, like you know,

872
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 4: just just ask me and and I'll lead you towards

873
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 4: some better bills.

874
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: Serve me good.

875
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 2: I'm going to task rabbit and I'm gonna and I'm

876
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: gonna yell at a stranger and I'm not gonna.

877
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna judge my friend because you know he's

878
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 3: judging you in there.

879
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, no, I know, I know. But I've

880
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,879
Speaker 1: worked for all three Yeah, another worked for Yeah.

881
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 2: We were there when you were trying to figure it

882
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: out with a mean and we know it.

883
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: Was I did. I figured it out. I've moved swings

884
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: that swing from a ceiling. You know it's and not

885
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: sex swing. Guys.

886
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 2: I just want to let you know this. Select them

887
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 2: our friend books. Yeah, that would be nice.

888
00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 4: But I am I am, I am handy, but yeah yeah,

889
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 4: not with cheap stuff.

890
00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 2: It's like, so tell us where we should be ordering

891
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 2: these things from.

892
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 4: Just I mean, CB two is good, Yeah they a

893
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 4: C B two is good. It's it's better. It's like

894
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 4: it's like the same thing I would say with I'm

895
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 4: big on clothes. I spend I look bohemian, but I

896
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 4: spend a lot of money on my clothes and that's

897
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 4: because like I want things that I could wear for

898
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 4: like a decade.

899
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

900
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 2: Good, Yeah, you got on an acne denim jack right now.

901
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 4: This is a this is a Type three from the

902
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,719
Speaker 4: This is a Levi's Type three from the seventies. Like,

903
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 4: this is very hard, this is hard to get no pockets,

904
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 4: this is no.

905
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: This is no pockets. So we got that before they

906
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: started making pockets.

907
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and from seventy three they didn't have pock

908
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 5: It's in seventy.

909
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: Three they did, but they didn't start putting them in

910
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 1: the Levi' jackets yet. They just put them here here.

911
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,920
Speaker 1: They didn't do I'm going to google it piece. Yeah,

912
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: and then talking about the genes.

913
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 4: Uh, these are only denim from yeah, only them twenty ounce,

914
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 4: twenty ounce, yeah, twenty ounce.

915
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: They sell them a by the ounce. They sell them

916
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:17,880
Speaker 1: by that.

917
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 3: I didn't even know Jenny Announces.

918
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, like I like more of like a

919
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 4: Wabbi sabby thing, especially with like furniture and like house goods.

920
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:31,280
Speaker 5: Like you, they don't want to go to saying wabbi

921
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 5: sabby meaning it's not perfect.

922
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying?

923
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it got a little to it, but

924
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 4: it's like supposed to be there, you know, like it's

925
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:38,640
Speaker 4: supposed to be.

926
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 3: So why are you mad at my mine?

927
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 8: Why it's too wabby? There's no sabby Sabi is. Nobby

928
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 8: is just wabby wyb You know what's crazy?

929
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 3: My you know what's crazy.

930
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:58,759
Speaker 1: I don't realize that.

931
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 5: The only reason why I know what Wabbi Sabby is

932
00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 5: is because literally last night I was watching a clip

933
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 5: on Somebody's Somebody's Real and it was Hank Hill and

934
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 5: Bobby Hill looking at roses. Yeah, and Bobby It's Hank

935
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 5: and Bobby were talking about flowers and Hank was like,

936
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 5: this one is perfect, and he was like, I like

937
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 5: this one it's Wabbi Sabby and Henk was like, whol.

938
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay.

939
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 2: So I mean, how do we make your place better

940
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: for someone to come over too, because like, not every

941
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 2: not all the time, we want to host. Sometimes we

942
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: just want to pull up and put our overnight back down, yes,

943
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:42,640
Speaker 2: and then be treated, but you know, with some treats.

944
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 5: And I've dated guys whose apartments I never went to,

945
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 5: and I was like, I think he don't have a.

946
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 3: Hop Yep, he's a vagabond. Yeah, said it's given you know,

947
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 3: no mad on the road again.

948
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 4: But isn't isn't that the whole theory behind that, Like

949
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,879
Speaker 4: they usually give the best dick I need.

950
00:43:00,200 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: No, I don't need a I don't need.

951
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 5: Better than I need to see where you live. I

952
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 5: need to see how you live because that informs me

953
00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 5: of who you are.

954
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: You are and how you live. Okay, I also think

955
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: the thing is is that I'm the one.

956
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 2: I have a car, so oh, that's just claim the fame,

957
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 2: he said, But I got an automobile, he said, this

958
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:21,400
Speaker 2: is my house.

959
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's basically the road. No, but like she stays

960
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 4: in Queens, I stay in Brooklyn, so that the divide.

961
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 4: The divide on train is crazy, Like I probably would

962
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 4: not even be dating her if I had to take

963
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 4: a train. However, because I have a car, it's a

964
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,880
Speaker 4: twenty minute ride, you know what I mean. So like,

965
00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:49,160
Speaker 4: and she has the dog, so therefore, like most nights,

966
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 4: it's like, yeah, you know, but she's never going to

967
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 4: sex in front of head again.

968
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 2: The kid, that's not that's the old man's mask. You

969
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: guys need to have better names for your pets. I

970
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 2: don't like I don't want to pick named Charles.

971
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,919
Speaker 4: I think I think Ted isn't bad I think ted

972
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 4: isn't bad.

973
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: It's not bad.

974
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: If his name is Teddy. I think that's a good

975
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 3: dog name.

976
00:44:13,280 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 1: I think when when you like.

977
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 4: The thing that I don't like is when people try

978
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 4: to get like creative with the names.

979
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 3: I like, Mochi, that's a cute name for a dog.

980
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 4: No, Mochi's nice, Like yeah, like when it's like a pun,

981
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 4: what do you mean like rufous and and then I'm like, no.

982
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 5: Rufous feels like a dog or looks like yeah, I

983
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 5: feel like.

984
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: A dog name.

985
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 5: And my name should be like a thing. Yeah, like cookie,

986
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 5: come here, cookie, Yeah, like spoons, but.

987
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 3: Like per Neal. There was a girl who had like, ya,

988
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:47,479
Speaker 3: come here per Neal.

989
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: I was like, but that's poor Spanish.

990
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: Yeah you know she's black. She's black and her dog

991
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 3: name is per Neil.

992
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: What have dog looked like?

993
00:44:56,320 --> 00:45:00,800
Speaker 2: It was like a like like a ship to No.

994
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't. It didn't get per nel.

995
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 4: Right, that's the I mean, Oh no, no, no, I'm thinking

996
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 4: about no, no, no.

997
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: Yeah ships.

998
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,120
Speaker 3: She's a hurry furry dog.

999
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was thinking of the one with the ruffles.

1000
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 4: The face, yepecial face full dog.

1001
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:22,760
Speaker 1: Started to start with a ask.

1002
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,040
Speaker 2: So wait, okay, so you're dating her. She hasn't been

1003
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:26,920
Speaker 2: to your house at all. How long have you all

1004
00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 2: been together?

1005
00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 1: Like you have one it's brand new, Yeah, it's brand new.

1006
00:45:32,719 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: Think about the future.

1007
00:45:33,680 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 5: I think we we at the point where she could

1008
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 5: maybe see it in the daytime.

1009
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh no, the daytime is scary. I think nighttime

1010
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 3: is better.

1011
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: Because you know, because you know you're doing it. Might

1012
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: be in there doing Coppaera Livy Space.

1013
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 4: We got an office that we uh like kind of

1014
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 4: we turned into like a workout, like that's where we

1015
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 4: get the toxicity out.

1016
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 5: If he in the office gym, let him get his

1017
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:02,319
Speaker 5: little hot kicks split day moves out.

1018
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 1: But sometimes he'd be in the doorway, you know what

1019
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 1: I mean.

1020
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 4: In the doorway, your doorway.

1021
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 3: I'm sure he's dating somebody, so just tell him.

1022
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: You don't know how to be bringing them back to

1023
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 1: the house.

1024
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:19,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because you can't. You gotta put a hair

1025
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:21,160
Speaker 5: tied on the door or something.

1026
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 4: I like going to Jackson Heights though it's nice, it's

1027
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:24,120
Speaker 4: it's like a vacation.

1028
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:25,920
Speaker 1: Jackson Heights. That's where my AirPods were.

1029
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: I know I could have picked them up for you

1030
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 2: know how rough life is you're like, I'm going to

1031
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 2: Jackson Heights for a vacation. That's that's nice out there though,

1032
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,840
Speaker 2: Like you could get like some massolid chia at one am.

1033
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:38,959
Speaker 1: Like the food is good.

1034
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 5: That's what they keep They keep trying to get me

1035
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 5: to go to Queens for the food.

1036
00:46:41,920 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 1: I have food at home.

1037
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:45,240
Speaker 3: But that's I'm not a food.

1038
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: That's your You're a train taker.

1039
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 3: I'm a train taker or or uber.

1040
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 1: It's tough. It's tough to get out there. It's tough.

1041
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 3: Got cars what you're talking about.

1042
00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: I've got an uber all the way to Connecticut. I

1043
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 2: could get to Jackson I just got an uber code

1044
00:46:56,560 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 2: for tonight. Really okay with Jackson Heights.

1045
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 3: What's the ubercold for some.

1046
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 1: Dinner that I'm going to? Are you going to Jackson

1047
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: Nights for real? For no? But if you're out there,

1048
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: I can give you some restaurant recommendation. I don't need them.

1049
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,360
Speaker 1: I'm not going. I didn't even know my airpots.

1050
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 4: You might start dating a little Zoranar.

1051
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: You better get yourself zor on from Jackson Heights. Yeah,

1052
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:22,800
Speaker 1: he's from Runner Area.

1053
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 3: Over him and then he stole my hairpods'.

1054
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: Hey socialism, Uh.

1055
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 3: What do you think you're gonna get your own place?

1056
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:35,400
Speaker 1: My own place?

1057
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 4: Well, you know, the comedy special comes out on November twenty, right,

1058
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,800
Speaker 4: so there's people your money up, that's my lottery ticket.

1059
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 4: I know she's let no, no, no, I'm no listen.

1060
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 4: It's look, you never know, Yeah, you never know.

1061
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: Look, you put something out you're proud of. It is

1062
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 1: coming out. You brought y'all DVDs to DVY. That's how

1063
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: you beat the algorithm.

1064
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:07,760
Speaker 5: I don't have okay, see this is the beard.

1065
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah that's back when I had the beard. I don't

1066
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 1: have a DVD player.

1067
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 4: You gotta PlayStation five right watching it? It's whoever your

1068
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 4: days is dope? I love that, isn't it?

1069
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 3: The person I'm dating in another country?

1070
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. I know, I'm gonna translate. But you

1071
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,360
Speaker 1: dating somebody? Where are you dating? You date somebody in England?

1072
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:25,839
Speaker 1: I knew it.

1073
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 4: I knew it because it's you're not the only woman

1074
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:31,279
Speaker 4: I've met who who's from here?

1075
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: That's cool that Stayton dudes in like London? Well, I

1076
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 1: mean it really is a strong word. They really are

1077
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 1: they really infiltrating?

1078
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,359
Speaker 3: Were real exotic over there?

1079
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,919
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, how do you like the food out there.

1080
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:48,279
Speaker 5: I feel like the food that I eat in the

1081
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 5: places that I like is good. You know it's not

1082
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 5: Jackson Heights.

1083
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:57,080
Speaker 1: No no, no, no no. We got couples like Cheri

1084
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,799
Speaker 1: out there or whatever. M I don't know what they're

1085
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 1: out there.

1086
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 3: They're not giving beans and toast.

1087
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: Beans into betings and toast. That's that's going good for you.

1088
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 2: Want to don't deflect. I'm talking about when you're gonna

1089
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 2: get your plans.

1090
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,000
Speaker 3: Focused about Brooklyn.

1091
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:17,840
Speaker 1: I don't.

1092
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:21,400
Speaker 4: I don't know, because like if I did get a place,

1093
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:23,760
Speaker 4: I'd probably want to get like a like something cute

1094
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 4: in like a in a spot of Brooklyn that's like

1095
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 4: not as like popular, Like I don't want to do Bensonhurst.

1096
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 4: There's a there's a there's like a Palestinian neighborhood where

1097
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 4: I so happened to be doing work there for a

1098
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 4: lady and I was in her spot and I was

1099
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,919
Speaker 4: like this is nice, like like this is a really

1100
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 4: nice spot, a big kitchen like.

1101
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 2: You Texas, the area was it Kingsington. It's like near

1102
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 2: is it like is nice? Really nice apart park like

1103
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 2: did miss Park area?

1104
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 4: But like they it's like a it's a large list

1105
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 4: Indian a population. But uh yeah, it was like three

1106
00:50:04,120 --> 00:50:06,040
Speaker 4: fifty for the apartment, Like that's not.

1107
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: Between three to buy it?

1108
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, you talking about buying. I thought I was written, yeah,

1109
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 2: let's get Yeah, that's.

1110
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 4: Like the thing is like and I'm not a proponent

1111
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 4: like I'm not a proponent of like I don't think

1112
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 4: buying a house is a good financial investment or whatever.

1113
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: But I think like if you find.

1114
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 2: Some listen to Wabi Sabbi realtor over here talk about it.

1115
00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 3: I didn't even know why you was that you was

1116
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 3: into buying something.

1117
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1118
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you're obviously a collector of good jeans

1119
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:39,760
Speaker 2: and whatnot.

1120
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 1: But but I would buy something why not?

1121
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 4: But also but not not for like that reason of

1122
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 4: like it's an investment, because then people get like people

1123
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 4: like get locked down into a house and I'm like, oh,

1124
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 4: you you.

1125
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 1: Heard about the fifty year mortgage or whatever the hell

1126
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 1: it is?

1127
00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 3: What happened?

1128
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: That's what trump? Yeah, it's crazy.

1129
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 3: What is it?

1130
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,920
Speaker 5: Imagine a fifty years a mortgage that you gotta pay.

1131
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 4: Because the thing about American houses are like we have

1132
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 4: no integrity, Like everything is h and m everything is h.

1133
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 4: So you buy a house and you're like the person

1134
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 4: selling it to you is like the roof is fucked,

1135
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 4: they'll handle it when they when I get there. The

1136
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 4: boiler is about to go out in two months. And

1137
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 4: so you like buy a house and now you gotta

1138
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 4: like you got to start from zero.

1139
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 3: I aren't just supposed to have an inspection.

1140
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 5: And they come and be like that's crap, that's that's shite, yo,

1141
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 5: that's worse.

1142
00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,399
Speaker 4: Some people are selling houses where it's like they say

1143
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 4: no inspection, like why don't.

1144
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,840
Speaker 3: They do such because they don't want you to find

1145
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:38,800
Speaker 3: the cracks.

1146
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 2: And then I would be like, no, thank you, I

1147
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 2: don't need a house that bad.

1148
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 4: We live in America where like capitalism, you know, I

1149
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 4: wanna get too preachy, but we value this is, this is,

1150
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 4: but we value we value like we value profit over sustainability.

1151
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:59,040
Speaker 4: So like that's why everything like fast fashion and ship

1152
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:02,600
Speaker 4: is so big. But like even in like housing, uh uh,

1153
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:05,440
Speaker 4: institutions are buying up houses.

1154
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: Why isn't that illegal?

1155
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 4: Like so like if I'm going up to bid for

1156
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 4: a house against fucking yeah Jackie Morgan Chase and they

1157
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:15,760
Speaker 4: could just bomb.

1158
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 2: They don't need to do mortgage. You're like, I'll pay

1159
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 2: the full and then what happens to the house.

1160
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,320
Speaker 4: They end up turning like something that could be used

1161
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:27,040
Speaker 4: for three units for three families, family to one unit

1162
00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:29,439
Speaker 4: who probably made their money off the war.

1163
00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: In Iraq or something black.

1164
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, like a black rock family, a white family named

1165
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 4: black black Rock.

1166
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 3: I met my family black Rocks.

1167
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 2: I think I used to white family.

1168
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: Black brown family.

1169
00:52:44,600 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, So you said.

1170
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 4: If I need to think, I think I would maybe

1171
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 4: like look into it, like getting something like maybe like yeah.

1172
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 2: So you're like, I don't want to get a place

1173
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 2: until I could buy something.

1174
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 3: Is that what you're saying?

1175
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's nothing like if I can buy something,

1176
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 4: but I also like.

1177
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: Want my I want to be doing like comedy like

1178
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: fool full full full full time, full full time.

1179
00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, but then who knows, like maybe someday I'll just

1180
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 4: like release once.

1181
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 1: This the real goal. The real goal is the.

1182
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:38,720
Speaker 4: Frank Ocean is to like something, release something so good

1183
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 4: to where I don't ever have to release anything again.

1184
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 4: And then like I moved to Japan and like I

1185
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 4: buy a little is a kaya I.

1186
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,400
Speaker 5: Heard Frank Ocean lived in that little Jenga house that

1187
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 5: messing up the timeline.

1188
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:55,040
Speaker 1: I mean the im talking about that building. Yeah, I

1189
00:53:55,080 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: know that.

1190
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 3: You want to be the algebra Jan of Frank Ocean.

1191
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: Frank Caspian c. Yes, that's where he was telling.

1192
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 3: Us about algebra.

1193
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,320
Speaker 2: John, that's where that's that's where I was born born,

1194
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,399
Speaker 2: That's where he's from.

1195
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 3: Remember, because it sounded like a brand of.

1196
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 2: Denims, Eddy Bowers Algebra Jon's like nineties hip hop clothing.

1197
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 5: So let's talk, right, Sidney. We've all been in people's

1198
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 5: apartments that we were like.

1199
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 3: Very bad.

1200
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: I was taking my coat off, Yeah, very scary. Yeah.

1201
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: I will be leading my coat on for the duration

1202
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:38,520
Speaker 1: of this.

1203
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:41,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, you went to I went to a guy's house

1204
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 2: in Newark and it was a trap house.

1205
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:47,319
Speaker 3: He did not tell me that there were guns on

1206
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 3: the table. Uh Newark, New Work.

1207
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 2: The curtains were bed sheets. No no, no, no, no, no, no,

1208
00:54:58,520 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 2: no flat.

1209
00:55:00,320 --> 00:55:00,839
Speaker 1: You didn't know.

1210
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:02,319
Speaker 3: You didn't know city.

1211
00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 1: I don't need to know that. It was still not

1212
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: it was crunched on the side.

1213
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 2: It was not went in and I said, wow, I'm

1214
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 2: really stuck here now.

1215
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: I was.

1216
00:55:16,360 --> 00:55:17,760
Speaker 3: This is the time where I did.

1217
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: Not have cab money like that.

1218
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 2: No, I did not have an I don't even think

1219
00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 2: Uber was like popping at that time. So I was

1220
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 2: just I definitely took through the Path train into Newark

1221
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: to go to this man's house, and so we're in

1222
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 2: the trap House. Obviously we hook up. I can hear

1223
00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 2: a drug deal going on.

1224
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:41,319
Speaker 5: Wait, it was it was drug dealer roommates, Yes, he

1225
00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 5: had roommates.

1226
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:42,359
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1227
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 2: I feel like I think it was a situation where

1228
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,320
Speaker 2: it was like he was renting.

1229
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: A room, oh my room in.

1230
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 2: The Trap House, and I said, you invited me here,

1231
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:56,800
Speaker 2: like I wish he had more sense, like you more shame.

1232
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,240
Speaker 2: But then you know, it's my fault because I still

1233
00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 2: was there and hooked up.

1234
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 3: But I think he could tell how uncomfortable I.

1235
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: Was, because afterwards I was like, Wow, I'd really love

1236
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 2: to get back to Harlem.

1237
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: I would love that.

1238
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 3: Harlem looks really nice right now. He's like, yeah, it's late.

1239
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,359
Speaker 2: I mean I got to Newark at a time where

1240
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 2: he's like, yo, when you get out, don't look at nobody,

1241
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: don't look at me back, just walk five.

1242
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 3: I had to walk five.

1243
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 1: He didn't meet you at the trains things. Don't look

1244
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: at nobody, but also don't look for me. That's crazy.

1245
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:34,320
Speaker 3: Two.

1246
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 1: I was twenty two. He couldn't leave the trap house. No,

1247
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: he could not.

1248
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 2: He could not, And it was it was one of

1249
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 2: those things where I was like, damn, it's me. I

1250
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:45,680
Speaker 2: set this up so bad because he's going to do this.

1251
00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 3: To another girl.

1252
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm sure you are, of course not.

1253
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 2: But if I would have stood up for all the

1254
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:55,800
Speaker 2: girls after me to be like absolutely not, I should

1255
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:58,120
Speaker 2: have left immediately. But I felt like if I would

1256
00:56:58,120 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 2: have walked out, I would have got shot and.

1257
00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 1: Killed for sure. Well you could have got shot and

1258
00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:06,799
Speaker 1: killed in the trap house and home breakfast. At least

1259
00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:09,920
Speaker 1: that would be in our home or shot inside. Is

1260
00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 1: better than me and shot out? Yes, I would love

1261
00:57:12,239 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 1: to know twenty two year old students.

1262
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 3: No, you don't know.

1263
00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 1: You heard it right now. You heard it here first.

1264
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 1: Not the move.

1265
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 4: I mean, I've been to women. I'm not saying all

1266
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 4: women's places aren't good. No, and we've been to bad

1267
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:25,520
Speaker 4: women's place.

1268
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 3: Okay, tell us.

1269
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 1: What they look like?

1270
00:57:28,120 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 3: How bad was it you walk in?

1271
00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 1: Then?

1272
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 3: What the cat on the rug?

1273
00:57:31,920 --> 00:57:32,280
Speaker 1: No?

1274
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 4: I had like a similar situation where me and this

1275
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 4: co worker up that's where you first met me and

1276
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 4: this coworker. She was having trouble finding housing. She was

1277
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 4: going couch to couch, right, Oh, she's going couch the

1278
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 4: couch at the time, and she finally found like.

1279
00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: A little spot. But it's just like a room that

1280
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,439
Speaker 1: might have been like shared with other people or whatever.

1281
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: It was in the hostel.

1282
00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 3: Somebody who's done that.

1283
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 4: We're drinking, and that she was a drinker, like but

1284
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 4: like buckets of beer, so we get there buckets.

1285
00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, year, but he was one of the bros at work.

1286
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 3: That's your homie.

1287
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: Kind of Yeah she was. She was, Yeah, she was

1288
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: in the stock she was. And to mind you, I

1289
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 1: was young. I was like younger, younger.

1290
00:58:20,720 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 4: I was like, you know, twenty four two twenty four,

1291
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 4: but no, like so we we I had. I tried

1292
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 4: to keep up with her drink wise, and uh, I

1293
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 4: was doing I was doing stuff.

1294
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: But then like I was like, yeah, I'm tapped.

1295
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 4: I can't, like I'm done, you like I can't, couldn't

1296
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 4: get I just cut I can't. And I don't ever

1297
00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:46,880
Speaker 4: feel guilty about that either. I do not give a

1298
00:58:46,880 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 4: about not getting it up.

1299
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 1: I do not care.

1300
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 4: I do not care about what not not being able

1301
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 4: to get it up. Okay, yeah, sometimes that's not matters. Yeah,

1302
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 4: there's some Look, the reviews are all across the board

1303
00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 4: with me, Like, there's some women that will be like, oh,

1304
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 4: it was too and then someone like it was some

1305
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 4: woman would be like, I don't know what happened, and

1306
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 4: he was I don't know. She couldn't make it happen,

1307
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 4: and so I didn't feel guilty, but like that though,

1308
00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 4: she went into a rage.

1309
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: She went to a rage and she kicked me out,

1310
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: and I'm an.

1311
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:23,280
Speaker 4: I went drinking beer, but she's you know, she like, yeah,

1312
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 4: she kicked me out like she was sucking Larry the

1313
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 4: Cable guy style.

1314
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: You know what. I'm like, you funk out her and

1315
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 1: she threw you off the bus right in the back.

1316
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, ass ball. She let you get dressed. She threw

1317
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 5: her clothes out behind you.

1318
00:59:41,960 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 7: Yo.

1319
00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 1: It felt like did.

1320
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:46,920
Speaker 3: She have overalls?

1321
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 5: She was she had a cigarette in her mouth, and

1322
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 5: she said, and did she have a due rap?

1323
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: That's what it feels. No, no, no, she wasn't studied.

1324
01:00:00,560 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 1: She wasn't studied.

1325
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 4: She and then it's like four am. I'm out on

1326
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 4: Alabama Ave.

1327
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: In East New York, two thousand and eleven.

1328
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 4: I love Yama Avenue, Yo, baby, by the by the.

1329
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:21,360
Speaker 2: L tram last she kissed you out come.

1330
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: On Alabama Avenue.

1331
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 3: Was it winter or summer?

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01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: Winter? Damn?

1333
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 3: So not only was it just like flasted, it also

1334
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 3: was chili.

1335
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 4: And you know that Jay, I'm shit. I think the

1336
01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 4: Z might have been trying to pick me up at

1337
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:44,600
Speaker 4: that far. Like I was waiting and I was nine

1338
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:48,439
Speaker 4: dollars an hour, yeah, and you were twenty four nine hour?

1339
01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 4: Is my first I had to get a This is

1340
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 4: when I first came to New York, so like I

1341
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 4: couldn't wait to get a job, Like I had to

1342
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 4: get a job or else the money I made opening

1343
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,400
Speaker 4: up for Big Sean and Tallahassee was gonna like burned

1344
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:01,760
Speaker 4: through in like two weeks.

1345
01:01:02,040 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: So I had to get an American Apparel.

1346
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 4: Nine dollars an hour job and American apparel, So you

1347
01:01:06,960 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 4: didn't definitely, and there was no Uber then, and I

1348
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 4: didn't have enough money for a taxi because that was

1349
01:01:12,320 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 4: my Trader Joe's tune in Shells money that.

1350
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: I was you know you okay? So I was right

1351
01:01:17,560 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: you and her was working at Trader Yeah, I had

1352
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 1: been at American Apparel.

1353
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 3: So you were folding and unfolding boxes or licras.

1354
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:34,600
Speaker 2: Which one you said, likeriss likeris.

1355
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 3: In front of the house, but you're talking about on

1356
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 3: the back of the house front house.

1357
01:01:35,600 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 2: Okay, so to wait, so wait a minute. And then

1358
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,520
Speaker 2: you didn't even have like a like a proper coat.

1359
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:45,479
Speaker 2: You had you had on like line yeah, yeah, yeah,

1360
01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 2: you had a wind breaker, the hoodies they had.

1361
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 1: I had one of those Florida clothes.

1362
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I had employee outfit on. You know they give

1363
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 4: you like they give you like two free outfits every month.

1364
01:01:56,400 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you had converse on, so they're not

1365
01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 2: therese are not insult You never had ankle socks underneath.

1366
01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was twenty eleven. We was all dressing like

1367
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:10,440
Speaker 4: LCD sound system, you know what I mean. Williamsburg was

1368
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:12,600
Speaker 4: just just getting gutted.

1369
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 3: So you don't even know what the house looked like.

1370
01:02:15,600 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: You just know that you was no I just.

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01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 4: Know all I saw was dark bed and then I

1372
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:21,600
Speaker 4: was out. But I know that she was just like,

1373
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,400
Speaker 4: you can't like make any noise. I've lived with three

1374
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 4: abused mothers, live with three different You.

1375
01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 3: Were in a way word was a wayward house women.

1376
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:38,880
Speaker 5: And then people hurt, people hurt, people are hurt people.

1377
01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 1: Oh, my god.

1378
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, why did they name it that? Why diould they

1379
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:45,760
Speaker 4: you name an avenue in New York that?

1380
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 3: What you mean?

1381
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,440
Speaker 1: Obama? But they're all named after states?

1382
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 4: Oh really, I think it's not a good state. I

1383
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 4: was not in a good state.

1384
01:02:58,600 --> 01:02:59,240
Speaker 1: Mentally.

1385
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 2: It's learned their lesson now me then, Yeah, what lesson

1386
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:10,240
Speaker 2: was nothing. Gotta get around thet back out there and

1387
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 2: to get back on the field.

1388
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 1: Boys, you gotta get back. You got to see it

1389
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 1: through my boy, you see it?

1390
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, amazing, Yeah, wow, so much mess. I mean,

1391
01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it, like not wanting people

1392
01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,520
Speaker 2: to be in your home. Also not wanting to be

1393
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 2: in somebody's home. I get Like homes, it's a lot

1394
01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 2: to build it up to a place where you're.

1395
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 3: Like, come over, come see it.

1396
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:39,000
Speaker 2: It takes time, It takes money, you know, it takes taste,

1397
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 2: it takes tay, it takes hay.

1398
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:43,640
Speaker 4: So my apartment is my apartment is like it's good.

1399
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:44,520
Speaker 4: It's not a bad apartment.

1400
01:03:44,560 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 1: I got to Yeah, y'all could put it up in

1401
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 1: the slider.

1402
01:03:49,760 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, but no, I just like I said, it's more

1403
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 4: of like a rich kid thing. It's like if the

1404
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,320
Speaker 4: rich kid has the better place. If they got the pants.

1405
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,600
Speaker 5: Come to my house, I would you got on the

1406
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 5: pantry with your good stuff and all the snacks and

1407
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 5: the variety pack of chips and the.

1408
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: Cane for stuff.

1409
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 4: I'm getting the meals, I'm getting the door dash. I'm

1410
01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 4: buying the salmon for the air fright.

1411
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: For the clean air fry. No talapia here, bitch.

1412
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:24,560
Speaker 4: I fear that if whoever the straight men that are

1413
01:04:24,600 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 4: listening to this, I feel like straight man got them

1414
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 4: caked up air friers. They got them caked up air friers.

1415
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 4: If you put anything in there, it all tastes like

1416
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 4: a bread of.

1417
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,680
Speaker 5: Whatever there was. There was this one dude that I dated.

1418
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 5: He had a nice place, duplex situation. He would no, no, no, no,

1419
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 5: straight straight. I fell down those stairs on my birthday

1420
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:52,600
Speaker 5: a couple of months ago. Nice balcony, big ass windows,

1421
01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 5: well washing dryer right outside the front door. Just like

1422
01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 5: doing well on the flip side. I was thinking this

1423
01:05:00,840 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 5: other dude, you know, the towels was always a weird

1424
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 5: color in the bathroom. It was like, Wow, what you

1425
01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 5: got this from your like your childhood bedroom?

1426
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 1: Like why nothing matched?

1427
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 5: I want to say, you know what I'm saying, Like

1428
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 5: he was like putting up his own wallpaper that he

1429
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 5: ordered from I don't know, Sheen or something.

1430
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 1: It was bad.

1431
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 2: I hate when they don't have any small towels. So

1432
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 2: you only got these long ass medium towels that I'm

1433
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: supposed to wipe my whole body and face with.

1434
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,560
Speaker 5: Absolutely and then how it was like maroon or something.

1435
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 5: But she's not gonna see him. Small towns are just

1436
01:05:37,600 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 5: for you. Yeah, but them small towns. That's my regular

1437
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 5: tox on.

1438
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:47,240
Speaker 1: Five six yeah.

1439
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 3: Dale.

1440
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 2: Also the towel that you step on when you get

1441
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:53,000
Speaker 2: out of the shower or you have or you have

1442
01:05:53,000 --> 01:05:56,120
Speaker 2: a mat I have my slippers, don't have a mat o.

1443
01:05:56,760 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 5: You know, it's just and you just step out of

1444
01:05:59,920 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 5: the show the bare floor. Oh my god, when you're

1445
01:06:02,920 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 5: doing it, I'm going to send you your text.

1446
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:09,760
Speaker 1: Yes, no, no, no, no, I want to see you.

1447
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: Gotta bath man.

1448
01:06:13,640 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 5: Even when you go to a hotel, you know, they

1449
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 5: have that little towel that they like, that's your towels there.

1450
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 1: Now in Europe, in Europe, they just got all times.

1451
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,200
Speaker 2: They also don't have a c there, so I'm not

1452
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 2: going by them. Okay, we're doing things different.

1453
01:06:26,760 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 3: Oh they Europe invented the black plague.

1454
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,120
Speaker 1: Were not said, we don't list the.

1455
01:06:31,120 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 3: Advice from them New York.

1456
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 2: They don't watch they kiss the mountains.

1457
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 1: It's good. Look. You don't want to got to do

1458
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 1: a citizenship right. This country is going down, down, down down.

1459
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 2: Now, let's see what's going on over there to find

1460
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 2: other refuge Okay, we read a message.

1461
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:55,920
Speaker 3: Yes, let's read a message and then get on out

1462
01:06:55,920 --> 01:06:56,280
Speaker 3: of here.

1463
01:06:56,600 --> 01:06:57,880
Speaker 1: Hi, Sydney and Marie.

1464
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,680
Speaker 5: I have blasted through mess this past month, and I

1465
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 5: am an instant fan. In a recent episode with Demi

1466
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 5: as a guest, Marie talks about her landlord mess. I

1467
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 5: believe the words were county liquor beach.

1468
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 3: My gas was turned off.

1469
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 5: I had to lie to National Grid to get my

1470
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 5: gas turn back on by telling them I smelled gas,

1471
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 5: because they weren't going to send somebody to the building anyway.

1472
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:21,160
Speaker 5: My landlord recently tried to install a Google Home in

1473
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:24,520
Speaker 5: our apartment so they could control the temperature remotely from

1474
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 5: their home based on what they felt was appropriate, so

1475
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 5: freezing us in the winter and boiling us in the summer.

1476
01:07:31,200 --> 01:07:33,440
Speaker 5: Luckily we were able to block this, but they were

1477
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 5: still banning people in the basement from using heaters in

1478
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:39,720
Speaker 5: the winter, where it can get down to negative for fahrenheit.

1479
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 3: Quality of life mess.

1480
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,080
Speaker 5: Since I've binged the show at such an alarming rate,

1481
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 5: I've noticed this is the first time Marie's landlord has

1482
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 5: been put on. Blessed the one or the whole rental

1483
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:57,400
Speaker 5: system at large. Blessings to Sydney for finally getting an apartment.

1484
01:07:57,800 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 5: I wanted to reach out because I'm a volunteer for

1485
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:03,240
Speaker 5: a tenant run organization called Rate the Landlord.

1486
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 3: We are just like Glassdoor, rate MD, et cetera.

1487
01:08:06,640 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 5: We are a professional and anonymous platform for sharing landlord

1488
01:08:09,920 --> 01:08:13,960
Speaker 5: mess and keeping our communities informed. Landlords get to know

1489
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 5: everything about you, but renters go into the equation with

1490
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,840
Speaker 5: zero information about who the fuck is going to control

1491
01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 5: their quality of life. I just wanted to put y'all

1492
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:23,920
Speaker 5: onto this site because I think it's a great way

1493
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 5: to put the power back into the hands of the

1494
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 5: people when it comes to the landlord tenant dynamic.

1495
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:29,760
Speaker 1: That's it.

1496
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 5: Thanks for bringing all this fun and light into the world. Okay,

1497
01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 5: so I guess that's not really a message, but now

1498
01:08:36,320 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 5: we need one one yeah, pretty much. But I guess

1499
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 5: if I mean yeah, you could rate your landlord in

1500
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:49,400
Speaker 5: case you really want to drag somebody so people moving

1501
01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:50,680
Speaker 5: into a new building can know.

1502
01:08:50,840 --> 01:08:51,519
Speaker 3: I need to do that.

1503
01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:53,240
Speaker 2: I need to do that for my building right now,

1504
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:56,719
Speaker 2: because our packages are getting stolen, I mean some broken

1505
01:08:56,760 --> 01:09:00,320
Speaker 2: early yeah, coming into the mailroom, ripping the packages and

1506
01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:04,560
Speaker 2: taking the contents and then schedutling and just leaving and allegedly,

1507
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 2: you know, it's like somebody who doesn't live in a building.

1508
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 2: But it's happened like four times, and they're like, oh,

1509
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 2: people are coming from the parking lot, sneaking into the building,

1510
01:09:12,960 --> 01:09:15,919
Speaker 2: then using a credit card to get into the mailroom

1511
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:16,920
Speaker 2: and then taking this stuff.

1512
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 3: And they're like, well, it's New York. That's what the

1513
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 3: that's what the landlord decent is.

1514
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:21,559
Speaker 1: They have cameras.

1515
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:25,280
Speaker 2: They have cameras, and they sent the video to one

1516
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 2: of the tenants and they're.

1517
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 3: Like, you know, it's New York. It's not really much

1518
01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 3: we could do. No, it sounds like they need to

1519
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:30,960
Speaker 3: increase the security on that day.

1520
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:33,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just crazy that he said that. And

1521
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 2: it's like I've been writing them, I've been in the portal.

1522
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 2: I'm in the portal every fucking week. They have not

1523
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 2: responded to me. Allegedly, they don't respond to the black people.

1524
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,679
Speaker 2: It's just crazy, you know, responding to the black and

1525
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,599
Speaker 2: I'm ready, I'm ready to use that.

1526
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 1: You got it? Got it? Yeah? But also like three

1527
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: one one, yeah, three, I.

1528
01:09:52,400 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 5: Called everyone one the minute I got home and didn't

1529
01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 5: have guess.

1530
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,240
Speaker 4: I remember, I had a like a waterfall situation when

1531
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 4: it came the leaks in one of my apartments. Called

1532
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:03,160
Speaker 4: three one one they there was men fixing the roof.

1533
01:10:03,200 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 4: The next day, boom, three one one is like the

1534
01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 4: way to go. But like living see, like living in

1535
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 4: a place like that where like you have a lot

1536
01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 4: of tenants, they'll like insulate you from ever getting to

1537
01:10:16,400 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 4: the whoever runs the actual building or whatever.

1538
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:21,600
Speaker 1: It'll be under some LLC blah blah blah. Yeah you

1539
01:10:21,640 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 1: know that.

1540
01:10:21,920 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 3: You know how America does manage the company?

1541
01:10:24,120 --> 01:10:26,280
Speaker 5: Well, if you want to rate your landlord, it's rate

1542
01:10:26,560 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 5: the landlord dot org.

1543
01:10:28,280 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let's do that. Go ahead, let's do it.

1544
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 5: Drag them, tell people where they can find the special,

1545
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 5: tell people where they can see you, and then tell

1546
01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 5: us where they should eat in Jackson Heights.

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01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:40,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then maybe if you need to paint their apartments,

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01:10:40,360 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 2: but not use any task rabit things, build a shelf

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Speaker 2: and whatnot.

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01:10:44,400 --> 01:10:47,200
Speaker 3: Let's you don't do that no more.

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Speaker 4: Let's see my special comes out on November twentieth on YouTube.

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01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,040
Speaker 4: I would say watch it on YouTube share to link,

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01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 4: but you can also see it on Amazon. Yeah, it's

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01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:02,640
Speaker 4: licensed to three one hundred pound Gorilla. You find me

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01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:08,200
Speaker 4: on Instagram on Instagram roofed underscore a guy of I

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01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 4: couldn't get the I couldn't get my neck.

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Speaker 1: You know, somebody got it.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, I just want to thank you too, because

1559
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 4: like ever since I started comedy, you two have always

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01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 4: been like the first two that have always like co

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01:11:19,560 --> 01:11:23,599
Speaker 4: signed me and y'all are just the best. Y'all are

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01:11:23,600 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 4: the best, are the best. There's so many people in

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01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:29,200
Speaker 4: the comedy community that like I give credit for and

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01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:34,160
Speaker 4: like you tour high regard Angels and if you and

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01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 4: if you want to eat Jackson Heights, Angel is a

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01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:39,759
Speaker 4: good restaurant, a really good restaurant.

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01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:42,120
Speaker 1: Angel is a really good Jackson Heights.

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01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 2: Why don't you take us there? If we've you know,

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Speaker 2: basically you jump started your career.

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01:11:45,680 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 1: You just I mean, we'll catch the we'll catch the

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01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: f train right now, train. We got the car situation

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01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 1: you got? You want the car speaker that, don't worry.

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01:11:57,040 --> 01:11:59,240
Speaker 3: I want door to door service, baby pick us.

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01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 4: Up and then.

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01:12:02,920 --> 01:12:07,679
Speaker 1: Feels like it won't take us. Shout out stands war forever.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, thanks for being here, guys.

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01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 2: Make sure you keep reviewing us, sharing, make sure you're

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Speaker 2: leave in.

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01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:21,639
Speaker 1: Send us some messages. Is actually myth. Yes, thank you,

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Speaker 1: See you next week. Boy.

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01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 5: and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Boston. Executive produced

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