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Speaker 1: Hello, Hey, what's up man? What's your name?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: My name is Jimmy.

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Speaker 1: Well, Jimmy, what's going on? Jimmy has life?

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Speaker 3: Dude. Life is fucking incredible, especially now that I'm talking

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Speaker 3: to mister Lyle the therapy that go, Oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, that is so sweet of you to say, Jimmy,

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Speaker 1: that is so sweet of you to say, tell me

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Speaker 1: why else?

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Speaker 2: Life?

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Speaker 1: Life is? Life is going so incredibly.

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Speaker 3: Well. I uh, there was a I'm a musician, there

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Speaker 3: was a while for I want to say, like twenty

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Speaker 3: twenty four, twenty twenty five where there was a huge

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Speaker 3: drought in my life in terms of like shows and

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Speaker 3: getting out there and playing with people. But I'm actually

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Speaker 3: at my Dand's rehearsal right now at my house. We

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Speaker 3: have a show on Saturday, and I have another one.

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Speaker 3: I have two more coming up this month. Like life

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Speaker 3: has just been busy as shit, and it feels like

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Speaker 3: everything's going in the right direction. I met a girl

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Speaker 3: like a week ago and things are going like super

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Speaker 3: with that.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like it just seems like life is on the

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Speaker 3: up and up.

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Speaker 1: I love.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, no no, sorry, I please.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: So I love hearing when someone's life is going well,

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Speaker 1: you know sometimes yeah, yeah, sometimes for you a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, you know, life is going bad. But other

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Speaker 1: times life is going good.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to think I kind of uh, you know

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Speaker 1: that old parable. Uh, this is one of the things

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Speaker 1: in life I really haven't yet figured out, and I'll

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Speaker 1: probably die not having it figured out. But do you

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Speaker 1: know that parable of the fucking I feel like it's Chinese,

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Speaker 1: but it's like a Chinese uh uh. Smart wise guy.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he's a monk, but he's like

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Speaker 1: a wheah guy.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't know that. I don't know the

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Speaker 3: proper name either, don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's a wise guy. And you know, a

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Speaker 1: boy breaks his leg or something and then oh, like

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Speaker 1: a maybe like a boy gets a horse or some shit,

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Speaker 1: and the boy is like, oh, this is great. I

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Speaker 1: got a horse, you know.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: And then the wise guy's like, we will see if

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Speaker 1: it's great. And then the boy is like, A, I

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Speaker 1: broke my leg on the horse. This sucks, and the

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Speaker 1: wise guy we will like, we will see if this sucks.

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Speaker 1: And then the conscription officers come and they they don't

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Speaker 1: draft the boy because he broke his leg, and they're like,

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Speaker 1: see it didn't you know? This is great? And he's

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Speaker 1: like the words yeah, and so I don't know if

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Speaker 1: life is this. I don't know if life is a

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Speaker 1: series of attempting to make good things happen to you externally,

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Speaker 1: such as great relationships and thriving career, or if it's

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Speaker 1: more of an internal I'm gonna make sure I have

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Speaker 1: some kind of like mental baseline of sanity regardless of

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Speaker 1: what's going on in my life. I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 1: I can't towards life is way better when like life

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Speaker 1: is good, I think that. I think it's pretty easy.

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Speaker 1: I think saying otherwise.

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Speaker 3: That's kind of ale. That's a bold assumption?

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Speaker 5: Are you thinking in that?

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Speaker 1: I well, you know what's funny is people think about

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Speaker 1: it like it's a bold assumption, and I think of it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of cope in some sense, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like when my life's not going well, I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like the Buddhist monk. I'm like, we'll see.

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Speaker 1: But in my heart, I'm like, no, this does it

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Speaker 1: is good things are good and bad things are bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I totally get you know. I always wanted

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Speaker 3: to ask I've always wanted to ask you because I

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Speaker 3: feel like you don't get asked enough. How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: How you people ask people? You know, people ask me

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Speaker 1: all the time.

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Speaker 3: And you would, God the fucking question everything.

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Speaker 1: I do I do. What kind of music does your

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Speaker 1: band play?

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Speaker 3: Uh, that's a great question.

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Speaker 5: We kind of play like uh if the Beatles and

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Speaker 5: the Police and Green Day and like I don't even

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Speaker 5: know they all had like a baby and they were

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Speaker 3: We make like sort of alternative rock. It's very like poppy.

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Speaker 3: My my drumming comes from like a jazz and like

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Speaker 3: rock inspired backgrounds, So I kind of I have elements

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Speaker 3: of that in in what I play. But my guitarist

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Speaker 3: into the Beatles and uh and like all those harmonies

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Speaker 3: and those and those cheat ass chords. But I love

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Speaker 3: it like him and I we just met earlier this

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Speaker 3: one of my best friends is he's a keyboard player,

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Speaker 3: and we just got him to hop on our upcoming

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Speaker 3: shiit and things sound like super well. So I'm hoping

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Speaker 3: that he continues to play with.

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Speaker 1: Us, and so, how did you meet this lady that

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Speaker 1: you met a week ago?

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Speaker 3: I think you would like this story. Actually, I was

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Speaker 3: mutuals with her on Instagram for like a year or so.

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Speaker 3: She's an artist and I was just a big san

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Speaker 3: of her artwork, so I only followed her like business account,

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Speaker 3: and then like her personal came up in my suggested

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Speaker 3: and I was just like, yah, we've been mutuals for

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Speaker 3: long enough, and I request to follow it. She accepted,

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Speaker 3: and then like two months later, she posts on her

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Speaker 3: story just like no caption, no music. It was just

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Speaker 3: a hard picture of a Spider Man pinball machine somewhere,

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Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god, that's insane. I

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Speaker 3: want to play that pinball machine. So I just replied

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Speaker 3: to the story and I was like, that's sick as fuck.

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Speaker 3: Where is that? And then literally just from that response,

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Speaker 3: we started like a three day long conversation.

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Speaker 6: And then a couple.

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Speaker 3: Bodies of mine ran a festival in my hometown. So

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Speaker 3: I was attending that festival and just like working one

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Speaker 3: day and she pulled up and then we've just been

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Speaker 3: hanging out ever since.

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Speaker 1: Wow, I like it just like that's a that's a

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Speaker 1: very long Instagram DM game, right, because you didn't message

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Speaker 1: her immediate, because you didn't mess with her immediately. So

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Speaker 1: you played it smart, you really did, because you didn't

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Speaker 1: mess with her immediately when she accepted your followup request,

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Speaker 1: you waited for a natural way to begin a conversation.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Smart, Because the thing is is like I wasn't actively

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Speaker 3: time now, and like I'm I'm bisexual, so I don't

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Speaker 3: really look at interactions with females the same way as

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Speaker 3: like a straight guy would, like it's just like another friend,

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Speaker 3: and so like I wasn't the there was no intent

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Speaker 3: behind me sending that message to be like I think

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Speaker 3: I'm going to go on a date with this girl.

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Speaker 3: I was just more genuinely curious about where the pinball

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: Another thing that I noticed just now is maybe there's

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Speaker 1: maybe it's something about being bisexual you can get away

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Speaker 1: with saying females in a way that doesn't sound weird.

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Speaker 3: I'd say, actually a really bad habit of mine that

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Speaker 3: I've been trying to shake. And I'm glad that you

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Speaker 1: Well, it's one of it's you know, it's one of

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Speaker 1: those It's one of those words where like the difference

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Speaker 1: between it being weird it's all I feel like. It's

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Speaker 1: about the like the word itself. It's not inherently, uh

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Speaker 1: like a weird word. But if you like in a

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Speaker 3: I guess that's true. Yeah, but yeah, I I do.

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Speaker 3: I do really hate the fact that I say that

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Speaker 3: and that it's in my vocabulary. So I appreciate you

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Speaker 3: pointing that out.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's not like, uh, well, I think

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Speaker 1: it's it's like when someone's like, yeah, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 1: you But the way you said it was a very

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Speaker 1: matter of fact. It's like when like when I am

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: No, And I guess I guess that's sort.

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Speaker 3: Of like my uh my thought process when like, you know,

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Speaker 3: thinking about what I'm gonna say. It's just that that's

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Speaker 3: how it naturally occurs, you know, and so.

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Speaker 1: Now you go ahead.

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Speaker 3: I was I was gonna say, I come from like

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Speaker 3: a really like womanizing Italian family. So the way that

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Speaker 3: I've I've been raised, I've been like slowly trying to

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Speaker 1: Fascinating. Yeah, wait, tell me tell me more about that.

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Speaker 1: What what kinds of habits did your dad and his

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Speaker 3: They're just like they talk about women in a really

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Speaker 3: growing up would be like driving with my dad somewhere

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Speaker 3: and he would see like an attractive girl walking down

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Speaker 3: just I just said my real name. See you don't

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Speaker 3: like he's always like, oh, high, honey, like like all

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Speaker 3: like slightly flirting them, but not really like you know

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Speaker 3: how like old guys, like old Italian guys tend to

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Speaker 8: It's like hey, yeah, and then like how they talk

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Speaker 8: behind closed doors like it's they it's always just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Like well like that that kind of that kind of behavior,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 1: Mmmmmm. What can I ask you a question? I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it's a rude question, but I'm gonna ask

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Speaker 1: it anyway, No, go ahead. What your was your dad

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Speaker 1: upset when he found out you were bisexual?

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Speaker 3: It's a really funny story.

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Speaker 6: Actually, I'm glad you asked.

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Speaker 3: He He told me that he was gone for the

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Speaker 3: night and I was seeing a trans dude at the time. So, uh,

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Speaker 3: he came home at like two thirty in the morning

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Speaker 3: and like essentially walked in on us having sex.

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Speaker 2: Mm and.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like my my door was shut, like in my room,

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Speaker 3: Like he didn't like actually see us, but he heard us,

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Speaker 3: and he was just like what the fuck? And uh.

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Speaker 3: And then the next morning he was like crying, being like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, like why didn't you tell me?

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Speaker 6: Like you know, I, I you shouldn't have let me found.

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Speaker 3: Out like that. Like the thing that he was most

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Speaker 3: upset about was that he wanted to know so that way,

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Speaker 3: if his friends ever made a homophobic comment around him,

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Speaker 1: this in my life with my folks, Like the less

442
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 1: obligatory my relationship with them is, the better. It is,

443
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,960
Speaker 1: so like and it's hard when it's toughest. Shit when

444
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,479
Speaker 1: you're nineteen, I mean you know, because like you're like

445
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 1: fresh into like trying to get your own money and

446
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,480
Speaker 1: your own life and shit. But like if you don't

447
00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 1: have you want to kind of focus on getting your

448
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:15,919
Speaker 1: own money in your life and ship because you have

449
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:20,920
Speaker 1: all these like other threads connecting you to your parents

450
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: other than just the relationship, because like there's fucking money

451
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: and the work and everything, and I feel like it's

452
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: hard to like repair that personal relationship if you still

453
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 1: have those ties, Obviously it's hard to you know, uh,

454
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:39,679
Speaker 1: it's hard to like make your way and get your

455
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:42,760
Speaker 1: own money and shit. But like I think, especially dude,

456
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,480
Speaker 1: especially if this fucking this isn't even a thing where

457
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 1: like this isn't even a thing where working for your

458
00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: dad is such a great job, you know, like you'd

459
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 1: be making more money with like a minimum wage thing.

460
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 1: And I guess it's been busy, but like I think

461
00:23:56,560 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: you should probably work on like doing doing the best

462
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 1: you can to figure out what that job you had

463
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: to get out of to get I would, I would

464
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:07,639
Speaker 1: work as best as you can to get out of

465
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: that first, and then try to just repair your relationship

466
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: with your dad, just like as your dad, you're trying

467
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,880
Speaker 1: to like seven different things at once.

468
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 3: That's a that's honestly really fantastic advice. And it's funny

469
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 3: you say that because I was kind of having this

470
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:32,439
Speaker 3: exact conversation, uh with that girl, and she told me

471
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: the exact same, like yeah, so I and I'm not

472
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 3: like unaware that I should I should be probably looking

473
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 3: for another job, but I also have really bad executive

474
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 3: dysfunction when it comes to ship like that. So I

475
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 3: just I'm I'm a big procrastinator. I'm sure you understand,

476
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,640
Speaker 3: and especially like when ship, when ship starts to.

477
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,880
Speaker 6: Go well in like one direction, I just kind of.

478
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 3: Like jump headfirst into that and put everything else on hold.

479
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 3: But I I dogation, come back to reality. Yeah, come

480
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:09,920
Speaker 3: back to reality.

481
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: Come back to reality. Medication guy, I mean I could,

482
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: we could, we could talk for nine hours about executive dysfunction,

483
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: which I'm you know, I'm I'm I'm fucking twenty eight

484
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: and I'm still like trying to figure out how to

485
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: solve for X on that one. But okay, tell me

486
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 1: about your mom. What's going on with your mom?

487
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 2: All right?

488
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:33,800
Speaker 3: Uh So she has been like an addict my whole

489
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 3: life with like cocaine and pills and whatnot. Refuses to

490
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 3: admit and alcohol as well. It's like a big one.

491
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 3: She refuses to admit that she has a problem, and

492
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,199
Speaker 3: like hasn't for years. Uh So that kind of like

493
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 3: severed our relationship.

494
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: A little bit.

495
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 3: When I was thirteen ish, I walked in on her

496
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 3: like literally doing coke and I was like, all right, yeah,

497
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 3: I'm out. So we were kind of like on the

498
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 3: rocks for a little bit, like it took a while

499
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: to get back to seeing each other again, but recently

500
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 3: I repaired our relationship. Like she went a couple of

501
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 3: years ago, she went like manic because she was doing

502
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 3: so much, so much drugs, and she was like, you know,

503
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:19,239
Speaker 3: hitting up like family members with dementia.

504
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,960
Speaker 6: For money and like like just doing like.

505
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 3: Really scummy things. And it got to the point where

506
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 3: I was just like, all right, I gotta I.

507
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 6: Gotta do something, like I gotta I gotta be in her.

508
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:31,919
Speaker 3: Life and just like make sure she's not gonna fucking

509
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 3: kill herself, you know. And then I came back and

510
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: things were good for a while, but like anytime that

511
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 3: there would be an issue, like there was a The

512
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 3: best example is, I don't know if you heard you're

513
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 3: in New York, right or just like outside of Yeah,

514
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 3: I'm in New York. Okay, see you You definitely saw

515
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 3: the smoke and shit from the wildfires up in Canada, right, yeah?

516
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 1: Oh sh are you in the middle of that shit?

517
00:26:58,800 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: Oh?

518
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 3: I was like right smack in the middle of it.

519
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:04,479
Speaker 1: Whoa, So I'm like the sky it's definitely like, uh,

520
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 1: it's definitely. It's It's very funny that like, uh, the

521
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: sky turns orange and smoky. And then the next day

522
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 1: everyone's like, oh, well that was weird, all right, anyway,

523
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 1: let's go to let's go get brunch, right, Like, I.

524
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 3: Had a fucking gig in Hamilton, Ontario that day, which

525
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 3: I don't know if you know anything about that city,

526
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:30,919
Speaker 3: but it is the steel capital of Ontario. So like

527
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 3: right after the day after the sky was orange, I

528
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 3: played a show like essentially outside while it was like

529
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,120
Speaker 3: super smoky, and I was like hyperventilating the entire time.

530
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 3: I could not breathe. And anyways, like right after that show,

531
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 3: I'm at home, like at my mom's house, and she

532
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 3: is like, oh, I want to make pizza at home today,

533
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,119
Speaker 3: And I didn't think much of it. I'm just like, oh,

534
00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:55,959
Speaker 3: that's very nice of her.

535
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 2: You know.

536
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,080
Speaker 3: She was like making the dough and shit, like the

537
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 3: cool you know pizza, but the outside was still super smoky.

538
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 3: And then she turns the oven up to five hundred degrees,

539
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: throws a stone in there, covered an olive oil, and

540
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 3: just leaves it. So the entire house just becomes like

541
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 3: a big olive oil hot box. Is like, yeah, she

542
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 3: went and like took a shower while she like preheated

543
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 3: the oven with the stone covered in olive oil in it,

544
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 3: and she didn't tell me that she had left it

545
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 3: in there, so by the time I realized, the entire

546
00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 3: house was just full of smoke. And then I tried

547
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 3: to open the windows, but I couldn't because there was

548
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 3: smoke outside. So it was like I was I was

549
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 3: literally dying, Like it felt.

550
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 6: Like I was having an asthma attack, and I don't

551
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 6: have asthma.

552
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 3: So I just like politely said to her, I'm like, mom,

553
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 3: I really appreciate, like you making this pizza for me

554
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 3: and doing all this work, but I literally cannot breathe,

555
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 3: like it feels like I'm suffocating. I have to go.

556
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 3: And I went and stayed the night at my grandparents,

557
00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 3: and then the next day I go back and she

558
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 3: was in like a really bad mood, and I just

559
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 3: asked her what's wrong, and she was just like, well,

560
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 3: it feels like anything that I do for you, like

561
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 3: any nice thing that I do for you, you never

562
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 3: she ate, and like everything that I do is is

563
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 3: like a problem and whatever, and I'm just like, I

564
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 3: love you, and I appreciate everything that you do for me,

565
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 3: but like I can't enjoy a meal when I can't breathe,

566
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 3: Like it wasn't personal towards you why I left yesterday.

567
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 3: It was just like I literally couldn't breathe. And then

568
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 3: she just started going off about like how I don't

569
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 3: care about her, and like how how the way that

570
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 3: I act and is exactly like my father and and

571
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 3: blah blah blah. And that was just like I don't

572
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 3: know how to navigate a conversation without like setting them off,

573
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 3: because anything that like any kind of like constructive criticism

574
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 3: or like anything that I say to her, that's like

575
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 3: maybe you should try doing this instead of this. She

576
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 3: views it as like a personal attack, and I have

577
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 3: to like scream over and over again that like I'm

578
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 3: attacking you like I'm coming from a place of love,

579
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,720
Speaker 3: you know, yeah, and.

580
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean dude, it's so hard with like, uh,

581
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 1: you know what's funny is like in pretty much parents

582
00:30:09,520 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: are an interesting to any kind of like blood relationship

583
00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: is an interesting because like pretty much every relationship in

584
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: your life, romantic or friendship, it's like if you come

585
00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: to an impasse, there comes a point where you're like,

586
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: all right, I guess we should break up or we

587
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:26,960
Speaker 1: shouldn't be friends anymore if it's going to be like this.

588
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: But with your parents, it's tricky. It's like, ah, but

589
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: that's my fucking that's my mom, you know, that's my

590
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 1: fucking Yeah, you know, but there is But I also

591
00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 1: I think I do think there are ways to honor

592
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: that without having it encroach upon your own personal sanity,

593
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:46,840
Speaker 1: you know.

594
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I think the what I've discovered is like

595
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 3: I I work best with my parents and I and

596
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 3: I have the best relationship with them when I see

597
00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:02,680
Speaker 3: them in like small doses. Yeah, So I think like

598
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 3: moving in with my with my non nah, because she's

599
00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,720
Speaker 3: like always been a second mother to me. Like I

600
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 3: used to go to her house every day after school.

601
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 3: My elementary school is like five minutes walking distance from

602
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 3: her house. So I've spent quite a bit of time here,

603
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 3: and I feel very comfortable here. So it's no, it's

604
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 3: not like a huge and I lived here for quite

605
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 3: a bit too, so it's not like a huge change

606
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 3: in environment for me. So I'm I'm really happy that

607
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:29,479
Speaker 3: I can just like take a little bit of a

608
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: break because things have kind of been a little tense

609
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 3: lately at times, and I'm just constantly like having to

610
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 3: bite my tongue and like try to be as kind

611
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 3: and like like kill them with kindness essentially, like any

612
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 3: time that they're upset about something else and they start

613
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,840
Speaker 3: to take it out on me, because that's another thing too.

614
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 3: They'll get frustrated with like external things in their life.

615
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 3: Like my mom gets really frustrated anytime she has to call.

616
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 6: Like the phone company or like the.

617
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 3: Internet company, and like that'll literally like ruin her and

618
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 3: your day, and she'll like start bringing at me for

619
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 3: the littlest things just because she had to like talk

620
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 3: to a phone operator a little bit, or like my

621
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 3: will have a bad day.

622
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: It works, Yeah, well I think no, no, no, don't be sorry.

623
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: I think everything everything you're saying it like you're you're

624
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: going about it in the very smart way, which is like, dude,

625
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna fucking like try to be the bigger person.

626
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to be kind, I'm gonna try to

627
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: be respectful, and like that's all you can fucking do, man,

628
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: Like be chill, be respectful, limit the amount of time

629
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: you spend with them, Try to get off your dad's

630
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 1: try to get off. It's it's a bummer. I mean,

631
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,240
Speaker 1: try to get off your parents payroll like as soon

632
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: as you can, you know, especially if I mean especially

633
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: if your parents payroll is like below what you would

634
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: make if you were just like doing your own thing,

635
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,240
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, that's that's kind of I would

636
00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: say's like the closest you can get to, like, the

637
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 1: the more you have your own thing going on and

638
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,960
Speaker 1: you can kind of like be in intentional control of

639
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: how much time you spend with your parent's, probably the better.

640
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: I mean, you got so much chick on them, and

641
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 1: you've been busy. You got you got, you got gigs,

642
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 1: you got a lady with a you got a girlfriend

643
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 1: with a spider Man pinball machine? Wait, is it like

644
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: one of those real Is it like a real pinball machine?

645
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 1: Or is it like one of those like plastic ones?

646
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 8: No?

647
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 3: No, no, no, okay, So so I probably should have specified this.

648
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 3: She doesn't own the pinball machine. She she was attending, uh,

649
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 3: some kind of like roller derby thing in Buffalo. Oh cool,

650
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 3: they they had they had the pinball machine there and

651
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:29,120
Speaker 3: that's where she took the picture.

652
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 1: But so, your life is going good, but it's not

653
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: going as well as I thought. Yeah, it was I

654
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: thought you were like I found a girlfriend who has

655
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,320
Speaker 1: a Spider Man pin ball machine in her house type

656
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 1: of life.

657
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 3: No, but, but but I I do think that that's

658
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 3: a possibility for the future. I don't think either of

659
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 3: us would be opposed to getting a Spider Man pinball

660
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 3: machine if we were to ever move in together.

661
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: So, you know, if I ever make it go ahead.

662
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, if I ever do, I'm gonna

663
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: throw like a fucking gecko plush on a name it Lyle.

664
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: If you if you ever have to make sure that

665
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,719
Speaker 1: you you know, if you and your girlfriend go in

666
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: on a Spider Man pinball machine together, make sure you

667
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 1: have some sort of prenuptial agreement.

668
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 3: With that, you know, because who takes it?

669
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, over the Spider Man.

670
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 6: Yeah.

671
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 1: What's your name again? Man, Jimmy, Jimmy, mm hmm, Jimmy.

672
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 1: I really enjoyed talking to you, man. You got a uh,

673
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 1: you got a good spirit to you.

674
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 2: Thank you, man.

675
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 3: I really enjoyed talking to you too. It's uh. I've again,

676
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 3: like I've been calling for for such a long time.

677
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 3: I'm really glad that you answered now and not like

678
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 3: in the past, because I feel like any conversation that

679
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 3: I would have had with you before, I would have

680
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:48,919
Speaker 3: like manic and fucking out of my mind. So no feeling. Yeah, man, Yeah,

681
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 3: don't look at those other text messages.

682
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,360
Speaker 1: Okay. I was scrolling you know what. It's funny. I

683
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 1: was scrolling through them, and I was like, I was

684
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,200
Speaker 1: talking about the good stuff.

685
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you. There's been a lot

686
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:01,919
Speaker 3: of shit.

687
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 1: Did I ask you already if there was anything else

688
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: you want to say to the people of the computer

689
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: before we go?

690
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 3: You have not, But there is something I'd like to

691
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 3: say to the people of the computer. Uh, do what

692
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,120
Speaker 3: you love and don't let anybody else tell you that

693
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 3: you can't do it. If you're passionate about something and

694
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 3: you believe in yourself, fucking do it.

695
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: That's beautiful, beautiful.

696
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 3: I also want to say I will see you in September.

697
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 3: Is it you're coming to Toronto?

698
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I'll be there in a fucking yeah, September

699
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: ninth and tenth.

700
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 3: Awesome, dude, what do I What do I say to

701
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 3: you when I go up to after the show to

702
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 3: like make you remember this phone.

703
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 1: Call spider Man pin mull.

704
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, all right, got it?

705
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: If you give me some. I'm not I won't remember

706
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,879
Speaker 1: either your real or fake name, but if you tell

707
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: me things about what we're talking about a lot, I

708
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: a hundred percent guarantee I will remember you if you

709
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: just give me details of this phone call.

710
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:03,000
Speaker 3: Okay, got it. Sorry, this is the absolute final thing.

711
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 3: At your previous Toronto show, I asked you a really

712
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 3: dumb question, and I've been embarrassed about it ever since.

713
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: Do you ask it to me when I was on

714
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: stage or or after the show?

715
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 3: Yes, while you're on stage? While uh you were, you

716
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 3: were taking questions, and I raised my hand and I

717
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 3: was just like, what's your favorite method of smoking weed

718
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 3: or something like that?

719
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:23,040
Speaker 1: Oh, and.

720
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 3: I think you said like joint if I if I

721
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 3: had to guess, But I just remember feeling really embarrassed

722
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 3: after that, Like it was just a stupid, sickid fucking question.

723
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:37,720
Speaker 1: That's a fair question. I should just do something funnier.

724
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: I should have been like, uh see, I can't even

725
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: think of anything funnyest right now.

726
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean, wait's.

727
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,720
Speaker 1: Cool, Wait, it's cool, Everything's fine.

728
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's part you know, bull machine rocks.

729
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: Anyways, Jimmy, good luck, see man.

730
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 3: Yes you will take care, bro.

731
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: See Jimmy. That was Jimmy, good guy, Jimmy. Yeah, we

732
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: talked a lot about parents, parents, ship on here. It's tough.

733
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: I'm glad his life is going well.

734
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 2: You know.

735
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: There you have it, folks. Here, things can turn around

736
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 1: right there quick. Just some some good evidence of that

737
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:30,359
Speaker 1: from mister Jimmy. Hey, what's up man? What's your name?

738
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:31,399
Speaker 2: What's up? Dude?

739
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 7: My name is Chris.

740
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 1: Chris. Nice to meet you. Chris. You texted me something.

741
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 1: I don't really know what it means, but I'm curious

742
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:41,839
Speaker 1: to talk to you about it.

743
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,320
Speaker 7: So, uh, I'll start by saying, you read my GAK

744
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 7: mail a while ago. I'm the guy from gay Lord who,

745
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 7: uh there's that unsolved murder?

746
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 1: The guy from gay Lord, who's that unsolved murder?

747
00:37:57,880 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 3: Oh?

748
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: Did you did you like uh send me an email

749
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: being like shout out if anyone has any uh information

750
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: about this murder?

751
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 2: Yeah?

752
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,400
Speaker 1: Okay, I do vaguely remember that. I assume nobody reached

753
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 1: out to you at all.

754
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 7: No, dude, no, but it's still unsolved. So that's just

755
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 7: is what it is.

756
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: You texted me and you said these real estate agents

757
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: have no idea. You said, you said, these real estate

758
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:35,440
Speaker 1: agents have no idea what I'll do to them.

759
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, dude, so uh, I'm I'm a marketing guy, so

760
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 7: I make videos and take really good photos and.

761
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: Are you are you? Are you here to do another promotion?

762
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 2: No?

763
00:38:52,400 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 7: No, it's just, uh, I started working with these real

764
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 7: estate agents and I'm making them do really funny shit.

765
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 1: Like a fuck with them or on or like to

766
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: help them, to help them.

767
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 7: Yeah, but it's just a lot of unorthodox stuff.

768
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: So okay, like what.

769
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 7: Uh So I'm getting them to uh like stage fake robberies,

770
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 7: painting their face and then painting their signs to match it.

771
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 7: Just a bunch of funny skits like that to make

772
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 7: them trying to like post new listings to be more funny.

773
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:33,640
Speaker 1: That's cute. I like that. Okay, I'm you know what

774
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: good this is? Like, this is wholesome and cute. I

775
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: thought this was good. I thought that you, like, had

776
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 1: a real estate agent that crossed you and you wanted

777
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: to kill.

778
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:48,400
Speaker 7: Them, that would be dark. No, there's there's enough murder

779
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 7: in my town, so I'm not trying to contribute to that.

780
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:52,520
Speaker 1: Do what's going on in Gaylord?

781
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 2: Where?

782
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 1: First of all, where is Gaylor is that Texas.

783
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,840
Speaker 7: Uh, northern Michigan. So the middle finger, first knuckle.

784
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: Okay, and our like genuine question how much tourism comes

785
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 1: to Gaylord purely of the fact that it's called Gaylord.

786
00:40:14,160 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 7: Not much, to be honest, dude. We're actually considered the

787
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:23,880
Speaker 7: golf mecca, so we have like more golf courses per

788
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 7: square mile than anywhere else in America. I want to say,

789
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 7: hopefully you know what back checks me, but I think

790
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 7: it's America. So we got a lot of golfer bros

791
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 7: coming in and out, and then in the winter we

792
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 7: got our little Midwest ski hills and that kind of stuff.

793
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: Is there a sign anywhere that says welcome to Gaylord,

794
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: or like I am a gay Lord or something like

795
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: that where people line up to take photos?

796
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 7: So I'm a mirror liist and I kind of started

797
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 7: the contemporary street art scene here in town. But there's

798
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 7: one other mirror you know, that super cheesy thing where

799
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:05,320
Speaker 7: people paint the town's name and then put like stuff

800
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 7: people are doing in the letters. Sure there's one of

801
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 7: those on a coffee shop here, but other than that,

802
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 7: I don't know if the word's Gaylord or anywhere.

803
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 2: But like on the highway and stuff.

804
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: Well wait, so what kind of murals do you do?

805
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: Have you done a cheesy little thing like that?

806
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 7: I try to do things like more respectful. I did

807
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 7: like a really cool Budda one on our Chinese restaurant here.

808
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 7: But other than that, I like to stick to like

809
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 7: doing stuff of local wildlife and the plants and stuff

810
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 7: just honor, like what actually makes this area cool instead

811
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 7: of the tourism bullshit?

812
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:47,479
Speaker 1: Keim, what give me? Give me some of the best

813
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 1: local wildlife of Gaylord.

814
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 7: So you already looked up the elks we have in

815
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:59,239
Speaker 7: the enclosure, but we have the Pigeon River Forest. It

816
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 7: basically starts here in the Sturgeon Valley, which is a

817
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:06,479
Speaker 7: really cool valley that the Glaciers made on their way

818
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 7: through five hundred thousand years ago or whatever. Maybe it

819
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 7: was sooner than that. But in that valley we have

820
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 7: a very large wild elk population. We've got a ton

821
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 7: of cool birds. I'm a wildlife photographer as well, so

822
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 7: I love finding the birds and I'm a big fan

823
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 7: of beavers, pine martins, all that kind of stuff.

824
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

825
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: Cool, cool. How about plants. We got a lot of plants.

826
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, we got our state flower the trillium. The mushroom

827
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 7: that everyone's looking for in the summer is the morale.

828
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 7: Have you ever had one of those?

829
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: No, it's a morale.

830
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 7: It's like a super well, it's kind of a rare mushroom,

831
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 7: but it's big, like the more North East dish that

832
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 7: you go, but it's super rare mushroom. That's kind of

833
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 7: a delicacy. It's pretty fun if you need like some

834
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,720
Speaker 7: extra money and you got a good mushroom spot because

835
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 7: you can fill up a couple bags and then just

836
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:09,399
Speaker 7: knock on restaurants back doors and chef will buy them

837
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 7: from you.

838
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: Cool man. Wait, so what's your So you sound like

839
00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: a guy who you don't have like one job. You

840
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:20,320
Speaker 1: sound like you cobble together your income from like five

841
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: different things.

842
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

843
00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:28,760
Speaker 7: So I've always been into like filming adventures and stuff

844
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 7: because before all this, I was a ski instructor that

845
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,479
Speaker 7: traveled the country like picking a new mountain every year

846
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:40,279
Speaker 7: and whitewater raft guide. So like with those kind of adventures,

847
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,280
Speaker 7: it's just been awesome to like have the cameras out

848
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:47,840
Speaker 7: and record those memories for myself. But in that process

849
00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 7: I got good at it, I guess, So for like

850
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 7: three years I worked at my local resort doing all

851
00:43:56,280 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 7: their marketing and all their content. The marketing shit just

852
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 7: kind of happened because it's easier to convince someone to

853
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 7: pay me year round if I'm like creating Google ads

854
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 7: and that kind of stuff, but just an excuse to

855
00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 7: get paid make little films and that kind of stuff.

856
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm hmmm. What kind of adventure videos would you make,

857
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:26,440
Speaker 1: like just of you doing like extreme sports and things

858
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: like that.

859
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, I love your classic like banger addits that you

860
00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:31,840
Speaker 7: see of action.

861
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:35,919
Speaker 1: Sports, bangerd Way, what's a banger? Oh, a banger edits?

862
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: I think it's a banger Reddit. I was like, what

863
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: the fuck is that?

864
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 7: But I've also filmed like more cerebral stuff like hitchhiking

865
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,839
Speaker 7: from Michigan to Florida, like all the characters I'd meet

866
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 7: on the way.

867
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 2: Mmmm, that kind of stuff.

868
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 1: How what kind of characters did you mean on the way?

869
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 1: I'd like to because you know, I mean, I like,

870
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 1: I make, you know, my little travel documentaries and what

871
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: I'd like to do a hitchhiking one at some point.

872
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, dude, if you're like in the way you are,

873
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 7: I think it would work out pretty well. For you.

874
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:14,760
Speaker 7: My favorite guy that I met was this dude Cajun Party.

875
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 7: I was at a waffle house in Cornell, Georgia, and

876
00:45:21,040 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 7: he came up to me in the waffle house and

877
00:45:22,800 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 7: he was like, Hey, you got a big backpack. You

878
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 7: kind of look like me. Do you want to come

879
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 7: check out my place? And I was like, sure, I'll

880
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 7: check out your place. So he took me behind Love's

881
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 7: truck stop. And you've probably seen these like at the

882
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 7: bigger truck stops, but if you go in the little

883
00:45:39,400 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 7: woodsy areas right behind them, they'll be like makeshift paths

884
00:45:43,960 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 7: that are like lined with funny garbage like tires and stuff.

885
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,319
Speaker 7: And then you get back in there and there's like

886
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 7: tiny communities of like bums and people that are just

887
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 7: like flying signs for a living or trying to get

888
00:45:56,280 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 7: out of that town. He was really interesting and I checked.

889
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 7: I ended up at that same gas station like three

890
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,400
Speaker 7: years later with this girl that I was driving to Florida,

891
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 7: and I was like, we're stopping at that gas station.

892
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 7: You've got to stay by me because I don't know

893
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 7: what's going to happen, but I'm going to take you

894
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 7: back there. And I went back there and his dog,

895
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 7: crack Head, ran right.

896
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:19,759
Speaker 2: Up to me.

897
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:23,239
Speaker 7: And then Cajun is still there, just living his gas

898
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:23,959
Speaker 7: station life.

899
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: Did he remember you?

900
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 7: Oh for sure. Yeah, he was yelling family and then yeah,

901
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 7: we had a nice little chat and gave.

902
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,240
Speaker 1: Him, Man, that's cool.

903
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 4: Man.

904
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:36,760
Speaker 1: So when you say it would work out for someone

905
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: like me, what does that mean? What kind of people

906
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: does it not work out for?

907
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 2: Well?

908
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:46,720
Speaker 7: I think like, one you're smart and two you're extroverted,

909
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 7: and so I think those two things would work out

910
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:54,239
Speaker 7: in your favor. My thing, when I hitchhike, I never

911
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 7: camp with anyone, like, even if the gas station bums

912
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 7: are like, you can stay here and we'll keep you say,

913
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 7: I'm just not going to fall asleep around strangers that

914
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:08,240
Speaker 7: live behind gas stations. Yes, so just yeah, just staying

915
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 7: smart with stuff like that.

916
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: Do you do you find it to be a dangerous endeavor?

917
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 7: So back when I was nineteen and I was living

918
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 7: in my eighty eight Florida Conta line and was driving

919
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 7: out to Summit County in Colorado, my van broke down

920
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 7: just as I got up the mountains like west On

921
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 7: I seventy out of Denver, and this guy in a

922
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 7: big black escalade was like, something's wrong with your van, dude,

923
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 7: you got to pull over. So me and my buddy

924
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 7: pulled over, and he was already on the phone calling

925
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 7: a tow truck, and he got off the phone and

926
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 7: was like, I'm gonna get your van fixed. Someone's coming

927
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,319
Speaker 7: to grab it right now. If you want, you can

928
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:53,480
Speaker 7: work with me for a couple of days and we'll

929
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 7: get you up into the mountains with some more like

930
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 7: walking around money and like, you know, have something stable.

931
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 7: And we agreed to that, and this dude essentially he

932
00:48:05,320 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 7: ended up kidnapping us for three days. I don't know

933
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 7: if it was like a human trafficking thing that he

934
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 7: was trying to do, but he took all our IDs,

935
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 7: the forty bucks we had left, and he told us

936
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 7: to take showers, so we took showers, and he stole

937
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,280
Speaker 7: all the clothes we were wearing and gave us bathrobes.

938
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 7: So that was kind of the last time that I

939
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:33,440
Speaker 7: like really trusted someone to be friendly if I was

940
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 7: in a pinch on the road.

941
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: Interesting days, damn.

942
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 2: Dude.

943
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,719
Speaker 7: And we started at the hotel Tiatra. That was the

944
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 7: first like night that we slept, so we were like, oh, badass,

945
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 7: we're in like a fancy hotel, and that's when he

946
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 7: stole our clothes. And then that night I was like, dude,

947
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,840
Speaker 7: we have to go to the van to get new clothes.

948
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,759
Speaker 7: I'm not going to live in a bathrobe right now.

949
00:48:57,320 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 7: And that's when he started like laying down the stuff

950
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 7: that I'm not going to see the van again, and

951
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 7: that it's not gay to suck someone's dick if you

952
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 7: get money for it.

953
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

954
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, as we all know, kind.

955
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 2: Of spiraled out exactly. Yeah. I mean, a job's a job, dude.

956
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 2: They call a hand job for a reason.

957
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

958
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

959
00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: Do you know I have this thing where I'm like, uh,

960
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: I haven't I haven't yet been the victim of any

961
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: horrible crimes. I mean not, I haven't yet been the

962
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: victim of any horrible crimes on the road as a

963
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 1: result of trusting a stranger. And thus I'm pretty open.

964
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: So you know, I'm due for something. We'll see what

965
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 1: happens when I'm in Alaska with these you know, fishermen

966
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:41,280
Speaker 1: and stuff.

967
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 7: But uh, than dude, No, I I think you're gonna

968
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 7: be gucci. Like, like I said, you you've met so

969
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,719
Speaker 7: many people and talked to so many people like I

970
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 7: think you're going to get a read on someone being Yeah, yeah.

971
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 1: I do feel like I have a decent I'm a

972
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 1: bad judge of Kara in some senses because I'm fairly trusting,

973
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 1: and I usually don't read a lot of people to

974
00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:12,440
Speaker 1: be the worst I usually read people to be is

975
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, Oh, this person's a little unstable or off

976
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: the rocker. But I don't really read people where I'm like, oh,

977
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,640
Speaker 1: this guy is like actively hostile. But I think I

978
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: have a I have a decent dish radar for that

979
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 1: kind of thing.

980
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 7: Do you have any kind of like protection, like even

981
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 7: like pepper spray or maybe a little knife or anything

982
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 7: that you travel with.

983
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: In case if anyone hears this. Yes, I'm heavily armed

984
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: at all times. I have a grenade. I keep a

985
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: fucking explosive charges underneath the gecko suit at all times,

986
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 1: just in case if I gotta go rogue. So don't

987
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:56,239
Speaker 1: fuck with me. If you're planning to.

988
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:02,920
Speaker 7: Well there, you should consider something like just like if

989
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:05,880
Speaker 7: somebody's got you, like tanned or something, I want you to.

990
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 2: At least have a fighting chance.

991
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,360
Speaker 1: But how funny would.

992
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 2: Remember to scream and be really loud.

993
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 1: How funny would it be if I started keeping a

994
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: switchblade in my tail?

995
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 7: So you're like a Pokemon now and you yeah, tail

996
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 7: whip for your attack.

997
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 2: Yeah dope, dude.

998
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,719
Speaker 7: Oh no, one of those like morning stars, you know,

999
00:51:25,800 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 7: those like maces on the chain type of thing. Yeah, yeah,

1000
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 7: because then you could spin around and get a lot

1001
00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 7: of momentum and probably like take out a crowd if

1002
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 7: you needed to.

1003
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 1: Dude, there literally is a Pokemon that has I fuck,

1004
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,600
Speaker 1: what's what's the name of this fucking pokemon? They have

1005
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:43,160
Speaker 1: a Is it slow Bro? Hold on, I'm googling this.

1006
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 2: Is it slow the salks it better?

1007
00:51:46,120 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think it's I think it's slow Bars,

1008
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: the one I was thinking of where he has like

1009
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 1: a fucking mace on his tail.

1010
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 2: I'm looking that up right now.

1011
00:51:54,719 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 7: Isn't he just like pink and squishy?

1012
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: No, you're thinking of slow Poke?

1013
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, okay, he does.

1014
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 3: Wow?

1015
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:07,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, No one to know. That's why no one

1016
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: fucks with slow Bro.

1017
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 2: Hey.

1018
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: What's your name?

1019
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 4: Man?

1020
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 2: My name is Chris.

1021
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: Chris. It's been nice talking to.

1022
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 4: You, Chris.

1023
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:15,320
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

1024
00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go Yeah.

1025
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 7: I just want to say, if you're looking for a

1026
00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 7: good deal on cordless.

1027
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 2: Knew it.

1028
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 3: I knew it.

1029
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew it.

1030
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 4: I knew it.

1031
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead and all right, go ahead.

1032
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 7: Okay, So if you're looking for a good deal on

1033
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 7: cordless oregon Ogre organ Organizers, you can go to Dumbledore's

1034
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 7: affordable four door dwarfolder Emporium and get him for super cheap.

1035
00:52:37,880 --> 00:52:42,720
Speaker 7: That's where Liam Neeson leased his niece's Nissan, so there's

1036
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 7: a lot of good deals there.

1037
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:46,920
Speaker 1: I respect that you. I thought you were gonna plug

1038
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: your own business, but I respect that you plugged a

1039
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: fake funny business instead.

1040
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:54,640
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, dude, fuck yeah.

1041
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling Mauseie around the universe.

1042
00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:58,080
Speaker 2: Sounds good, brother.

1043
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: Peace later, man, you know what He's right? I'm getting

1044
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: a gun?

1045
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 4: Who's from.

1046
00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 3: Picked?

1047
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 2: Hello? Hello?

1048
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 1: What's up?

1049
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,760
Speaker 2: Man? Is this wild?

1050
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 3: Yes?

1051
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 2: Sir?

1052
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: Who is this?

1053
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 4: This is Osvaldo?

1054
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 1: Osvaldo? What's going on?

1055
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 4: As?

1056
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:23,560
Speaker 1: That's a cool name.

1057
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 2: Oh, I appreciate that.

1058
00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 4: I think it means in Spanish or spend night Spaniard Spanish.

1059
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:34,319
Speaker 1: Oh I thought I thought it was no che.

1060
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 4: Uh no like night as in like a knight with

1061
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 4: a sword and armor.

1062
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh at knights? But do you feel do

1063
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: you feel knight like?

1064
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:48,160
Speaker 5: You know?

1065
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 4: Sometimes? I do not often though?

1066
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 1: What makes you feel knight like?

1067
00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 3: Uh?

1068
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 4: I feel like I can just do what a knight does.

1069
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 4: I don't know, Oswaldo, Yeah, yes, sir.

1070
00:54:06,360 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: What made you want to call me today?

1071
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 2: Well?

1072
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 4: I wanted to tell you a story about how my

1073
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 4: friend stole four hundred bucks from me and got fired

1074
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 4: from my job in less than a week.

1075
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:18,240
Speaker 1: Oh geez, what happened?

1076
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 4: All right? Well, first of all, this guy's name will say,

1077
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 4: we'll say George. That's his name. And what happened was

1078
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 4: we work at a dairy queen. Are you familiar with

1079
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 4: what a dairy queen is?

1080
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 2: Oh?

1081
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: I am very familiar with what a dairy queen is.

1082
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:42,160
Speaker 4: Really, Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's perfect one. So I

1083
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 4: got him a job at dairy queen after working there

1084
00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 4: for about like six months, And what happened was we

1085
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:52,799
Speaker 4: decided to go into the summer last summer to start

1086
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,279
Speaker 4: a power washing business so we could make a little

1087
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 4: bit of extra money. And we went into it about

1088
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 4: like four or five hundred bucks seats right for equipment

1089
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:04,960
Speaker 4: and everything, and.

1090
00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1091
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 4: I just felt like he wasn't gonna he wasn't good

1092
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 4: enough to put the effort in. So what I did

1093
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 4: was I was just like, I don't know if I

1094
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,320
Speaker 4: want to do this with you anymore. But prior to this,

1095
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 4: he was like, he told me that if I ever

1096
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 4: wanted out, he would pay me back for like the

1097
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 4: UH might have of the equipment, and he'll just keep

1098
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 4: the equipment.

1099
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: So I asked for that.

1100
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:33,879
Speaker 4: To happen for the money, and he decided he didn't

1101
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 4: want to pay me, and a week prior to that,

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Speaker 4: he had got caught stealing like five dollars from a

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00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 4: cash register seven times.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Apparently our camera's got like a new AI system in

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00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:55,399
Speaker 4: him or something. So he had gotten caught stealing five

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Speaker 4: dollars seven times. And the crazy part is is that

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00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 4: like he was like a perfect employee, he had nothing

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00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 4: to lose, and then he did that, and then he

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Speaker 4: had also stolen from me, and it was kind of

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00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 4: like a double whannie because my brother is just my manager,

1112
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 4: my manager, so he kind of stole from me and

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00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 4: my brother at the same time, and you know, that

1114
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Speaker 4: kind of sucked.

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Speaker 1: So so what's your relationship, like with this guy, Now,

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00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 1: do you ever call him out on this?

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00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:24,680
Speaker 3: I did. I tried.

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Speaker 4: I uh so I texted him and he said, I'll

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00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 4: get you the money in a week. So then I

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00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 4: was like, all right, I'll give him a week. You know,

1121
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 4: four hundred dollars that our age isn't or at that age,

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00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 4: it wasn't the easiest to come by, you know. And

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Speaker 4: I give him a week and I texted him back

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Speaker 4: and then he kind of just ignored me. So, you know,

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Speaker 4: I asked my parents what to do, and they were like, uh,

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Speaker 4: I don't know. They're Mexicans, so they were like, it's okay,

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00:56:57,280 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 4: just let it, let it happen or whatnot. And I

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Speaker 4: was like, no, I want my money.

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Speaker 3: I'm poor.

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Speaker 4: I was seventeen, So I kept texting him about it.

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00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 4: No response, and then I think I even went as

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00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,279
Speaker 4: far as texting his dad. You know, I had his

1133
00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 4: dad's number and he was a really good friend of mine,

1134
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 4: so I hated to do it. But after that happened,

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00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 4: After I texted his dad and no response, I kind

1136
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:27,760
Speaker 4: of just gave up. And one day he texted me

1137
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:30,439
Speaker 4: he was like the fact that you could throw away

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00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 4: our friendship for four hundred dollars egregious, And.

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Speaker 1: I was like, he's the one throwing away your friendship

1140
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:36,800
Speaker 1: for four hundred dollars.

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00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:38,480
Speaker 7: That's what I figured.

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00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 4: You know, looking back, I think I could have been

1143
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 4: a little more selfless.

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00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:47,760
Speaker 1: I can't just tell your friend. You can't just let

1145
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 1: him like steal from you.

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00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 2: I cannot.

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00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: You're right, yeah, I mean that that was that was

1148
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: on him. I mean you guys, I mean did he

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00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: offer to pay you back or like, did he offer

1150
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: to did he apolo or offer to pay you back

1151
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: or any of that shit?

1152
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 2: No, he didn't.

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00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 4: And you know what the worst part is, the day

1154
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 4: before I told him I stopped, we had gotten a

1155
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 4: like a thousand dollars job mm, and I felt bad

1156
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:14,000
Speaker 4: because I knew I was leaving, so I was gonna

1157
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 4: let him do it all by himself and get all

1158
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 4: the money because I knew I was gonna leave. And

1159
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,280
Speaker 4: then he also didn't pay me back after that, so

1160
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 4: it's kind of just like.

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Speaker 2: The worst of both worlds. MM.

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00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 4: I think I could have I think I would have

1163
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 4: rather had kept him as a friend and down the

1164
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 4: four hundred though, But me and him.

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00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 1: Why, why why do you feel like? Wait, you guys

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00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: are cool now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Now, we kind of just like stopped talking for

1168
00:58:42,640 --> 00:58:44,440
Speaker 4: like a couple of months, and then we saw each

1169
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 4: other playing basketball one day, and basketball brings each other

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00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 4: to a peace.

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Speaker 2: I guess.

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Speaker 1: Did you ever did you ever talk about it? Did

1173
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 1: you ever like he never?

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00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 2: Is?

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00:58:57,880 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 4: He is?

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00:58:58,480 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 7: He?

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Speaker 1: Do you think he would do that to you today?

1178
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: Or do you think he has changed?

1179
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:12,400
Speaker 4: Oh that's a great question. You know that I don't

1180
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 4: think I do, because I genuinely I haven't had like

1181
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 4: a down to earth conversation. We've talked about our lives

1182
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 4: and how it's been after. But no, you know, I

1183
00:59:22,880 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 4: think he has changed. He was a he was a

1184
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 4: great kid. He just got caught up doing doing some

1185
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 4: bad stuff between work and between me.

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00:59:32,480 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 1: You know, do you guys, I mean, do you guys

1187
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 1: hang out a lot? It's just like your like super homeboy.

1188
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 2: I used to.

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00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 4: But well, I got him the job because I was.

1190
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 4: I would work with him like every day because he

1191
00:59:46,280 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 4: was my best one of my best friends. And it's

1192
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 4: unfortunate that he like had to do that, you know,

1193
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 4: because I lost one of my best friends there. You know,

1194
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 4: I have a not too great history with that best

1195
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 4: friend stuff. Unfortunately.

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Speaker 1: How's your life going now? In general my life.

1197
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 4: I think I've never been better in my life.

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01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: You know what, great? Great great.

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Speaker 4: I just got back from the three week road trip,

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01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 4: the best trip of my life, the best three weeks

1201
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 4: of my life with my favorite people in the world,

1202
01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 4: and I'm like on a high that I don't want

1203
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:20,520
Speaker 4: to come down.

1204
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Speaker 1: To cool Man. Well, well, I'm glad that everything worked

1205
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: out for you. I hope your friend doesn't steal money

1206
01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: from you again. You have a good name, as Valdo.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate that. I appreciate that.

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01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the

1209
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 1: people of the computer before we go?

1210
01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 4: Life is what you make of it?

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Speaker 3: Cool?

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01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 2: I like it.

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01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 1: Thank you as Valdo.

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01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:49,520
Speaker 4: All right, thank you for talking to me.

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Speaker 1: I'll see by, as Waldo. Bye, as Valdo the Night,

1216
01:00:57,640 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 1: the Dark, Knight of the Soul. That was as Valdo.

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01:01:04,720 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: Should I have said more? Sometimes I want to just uh,

1218
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: I want to just I want to just listen. I

1219
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: don't have much to say. I don't have a I

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01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of good Uh. I'm not like,

1221
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Speaker 1: oh you should you know? I mean sometimes I am,

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01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,400
Speaker 1: but I don't want to force it. I don't I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Uh, I don't have advice for everything. That's like being

1225
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:29,760
Speaker 1: a gecko talking on the phone. Anyway, that was as Valdo.

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Speaker 1: That was the podcast. I had a good time on

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Speaker 1: this podcast. I liked talking to Jimmy. I liked talking

1228
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:43,160
Speaker 1: to uh. Who else did I put in this podcast?

1229
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 1: It was something about hitchhiking. I didn't I recorded it

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01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:47,840
Speaker 1: the other day, but I remember talking. I remember I

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01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: liked talking to that guy too. That was good. I

1232
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 1: think we did. I think we did a solid podcast today.

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01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 1: What do you guys want to talk about? I mean,

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01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,480
Speaker 1: you can't. I'm not in the room with you right now.

1235
01:02:03,480 --> 01:02:08,760
Speaker 1: When you're listening to this, you're probably on probably somewhere else. Okay,

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01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:13,280
Speaker 1: all right, Do I have anything else to say? Oh? Oh, yes,

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01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: I released. Well, okay, I'm on tour right now. I'm

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01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:24,360
Speaker 1: filming a comedy slash storytelling special at the Bellhouse in Brooklyn,

1239
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:31,440
Speaker 1: New York, on August twenty ninth, and I'm I'm touring

1240
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: my show across twenty five cities around around the United States.

1241
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:39,600
Speaker 1: You can get tickets to everything at Therapy Gecko tour

1242
01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: dot com. I have a have a bonus episode of

1243
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: the podcast out today. So I feel gross doing this.

1244
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: I just but well, we gotta do it. We gotta

1245
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 1: do it. We got to talk about the things that

1246
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: we're doing on the podcast, and we're gonna do it.

1247
01:02:56,320 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 1: There's a bonus episode out today on patreon dot com

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01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:04,480
Speaker 1: slash Live Forever. It's some stuff from one of my

1249
01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 1: live shows. So my live show is like it's half

1250
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:11,800
Speaker 1: talking to people from the audience and half me giving presentations.

1251
01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 1: And I've been uploading the parts where I talk to

1252
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: the audience on my Patreon, so I have uploaded that onto.

1253
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: I think we're going to do. This is from a

1254
01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 1: show of mine in Chicago a couple of years ago,

1255
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:32,480
Speaker 1: and we're gonna put a little preview of the bonus

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Speaker 1: episode right here. Got you can tell me in your

1257
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 1: own words.

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Speaker 10: With you about my dad being weird with my boyfriend. Yes, okay,

1259
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 10: so I noticed that he how.

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01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 1: Do I say it?

1261
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 10: I had a boyfriend. He was very attractive. He was

1262
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 10: a blue collar, hardworking, very attractive Italian man. And my dad,

1263
01:03:57,520 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 10: him and I were sitting in the kitchen. My dad

1264
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 10: looks at him and he goes, okay, my dad's fifty

1265
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 10: He's like fifty five. Now he goes, where are you

1266
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 10: staying tonight?

1267
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 5: Are you going home?

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01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:11,120
Speaker 10: And my boyfriend's like, no, I'm staying here. He goes, oh,

1269
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 10: are you gonna stay downstairs with me?

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Speaker 1: And I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa? Did he go

1271
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:22,400
Speaker 1: you know, maybe I'm not staying here? No, he stayed.

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01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 1: He was very eager to stay. I don't know why,

1273
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 1: but he was. Why do you think he's homophobic?

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01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 10: So he every time there's an AD and there's a

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01:04:32,840 --> 01:04:36,440
Speaker 10: gay couple, he's like, I don't know why gay people

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01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 10: need to push an agenda on us.

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Speaker 1: I think your dad sounds like he likes gay sex

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01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:53,600
Speaker 1: but not gay commitment. But he's but he's But he's

1279
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: also been like.

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Speaker 10: I could never see a big hairy strong man on

1281
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 10: top of me. Why would you?

1282
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 1: You could never see a big, hairy, beautiful Italian Italian

1283
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:10,120
Speaker 1: six man on top of me? That would be yucky. Okay.

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01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: That was a preview of the bonus episode this week.

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01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: You can go to patreon dot com slash lyle forever

1286
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:21,480
Speaker 1: to listen to that bonus episode, as well as lots

1287
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: of other bonus episodes as well as AD free episodes.

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Speaker 1: And that's it. That's all. I gotta say, man, thank

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01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: you guys for listening. I'll be back again in a

1290
01:05:34,880 --> 01:05:38,920
Speaker 1: few days. Twice a week we will do this podcast.

1291
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: We will talk to people as a get go. It

1292
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:44,520
Speaker 1: will not always be perfect. It will always be exactly

1293
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 1: what it is, and that's good. Why should anything be

1294
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: anything other than what it is? That's life, all right.

1295
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to this thing. Thanks for hanging out

1296
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: with me. I appreciate it. GEK bless you all. See

1297
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 1: you guys around the universe. And don't don't do anything crazy.

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01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:06,919
Speaker 1: Don't do anything too crazy. Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 9: Ken goes on the line taking your phone calls every night.

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01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 4: The repin Can goes to it.

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01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 3: His eye's teaching you.

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Speaker 9: A loud in your life, but he's not ready.

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Speaker 10: An expert