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Speaker 1: So exotic magnique fique says, so I eighteen male was

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Speaker 1: When my father was twenty one and my father was

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Speaker 1: getting married to a pretty much his reward. Oh, and

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Speaker 1: So if I trip up, it might be because of that.

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Speaker 1: When I was ten, my mom admitted to my dad

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Speaker 1: I wonder if it worked out? This one is do

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Speaker 4: It's complicated now that I know that she was a

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Speaker 3: It wasn't like a love marriage. It was was it

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Speaker 1: I don't want to put in giving away uh yeah,

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Speaker 3: Her hand in marriage. That's that's part of the business transaction.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I will, yeah, I will ruin you if

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Speaker 2: I will report you for a crime.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Sophia, Callan says, I'm worth at least the most

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Speaker 1: Oh, like I will give you forty goats like a dowry.

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Speaker 1: Let me get guess you're worth of zero camels?

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Speaker 1: You're saying men aren't worth camels.

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Speaker 1: We all do the camel calculator right now at the end. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Our Yeah, and I watch you guys, the guests, So

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Speaker 1: Yeah, after graduation, I'm going to Egypt with my uncle

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Speaker 1: What's MBS? Someone tell us what MB is.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, but I was really weird. But I did

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Speaker 1: Then I want all I have to. Then I won't

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Speaker 1: It's a weird thought process, but it's mine. So I

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Speaker 1: So that was weird, but I didn't bring it up

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Speaker 1: because I imagine like the uncles on the dad's side.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but they did talk.

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Speaker 1: My mom works in finance six', five blue eyes for

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Speaker 1: it's weird because my mom isn't HOW i remember her.

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Speaker 1: Exactly she has short, hair and she looks really really.

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Speaker 2: But did she receive? Any, money yeah we.

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Speaker 4: Don't know was it like a dowry situation where she

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Speaker 1: The, MONEY well i mean. She couldn't she wouldn't she

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Speaker 1: if it's. Like guarantee it's. Not guarantee it's, not guaranteed but.

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Speaker 2: It's possible. It possible. Marriage, BROKER oh i don't think. That's,

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Speaker 5: Fact On The blue eyes six five, crust fund this

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Speaker 5: that's like Men in america that that.

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Speaker 1: Description that are in.

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Speaker 2: No, way, yeah dude she.

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Speaker 6: Did it she broke down. THE numbers i don't.

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Speaker 1: Believe that i'll show you.

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Speaker 4: The video well you you go find one.

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Speaker 1: Six five Fine Three blue eyes. Finance, guy, yeah yes

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Speaker 1: trust with a. Trust, fund yes six', five is tough, Six,

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Speaker 4: A massive AMOUNT i think i only know one person. Who's,

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Speaker 4: SIX seven.

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Speaker 1: YEAH i guess. I, DON'T know really i don't have many.

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Speaker 1: SIX five friends i have like two friends that.

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Speaker 2: ARE over six i have one six five Friend that's. Not,

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Speaker 2: RILEY'S dad yeah I guess if I'm friends.

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Speaker 1: With riley's dad maybe she was almost as tall as

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Speaker 1: me and was taller. THAN my, uncle i mean obviously,

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Speaker 1: AS a kid i thought, she was tall but. We

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Speaker 1: all do but she's legitimately six. Foot one, something she's.

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Speaker 1: Tall shout out she let me and my uncle in,

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Speaker 1: when we went but she didn't recognize, me at first and,

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Speaker 1: it WAS awkward so i, didn't say anything but then

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Speaker 1: she suddenly did and she hugged me, and broke down

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Speaker 1: crying and kept saying thank you. To my uncle and

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Speaker 1: she actually fell because it was like her legs couldn't,

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Speaker 1: i think it was because she kept calling me by

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Speaker 1: all the baby names she had For me in arabic

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Speaker 1: and saying things like my.

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Speaker 2: Heart.

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Speaker 6: Is bad oh.

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Speaker 1: After we, BOTH calmed down i asked her why, she

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Speaker 1: stopped writing and she told me that she started hating

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Speaker 1: herself for not being in my life and STARTED believing that,

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Speaker 1: i hated her that she doesn't have social media so

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Speaker 1: she couldn't, find me online and that. Email wasn't personal

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Speaker 1: she eventually tried something drastic and her husband got her,

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Speaker 1: mental health help which oh.

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Speaker 2: Brought her to.

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Speaker 1: A GOOD place but i led to her but that

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Speaker 1: led her to writing.

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Speaker 2: A lot less she WAS.

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Speaker 1: Sad when i TOLD her that i would be leaving

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Speaker 1: DIDN'T matter because i was. Still her heart she promised to.

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Speaker 1: Write more again she also said that she knew she

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Speaker 1: Could come to canada for my engagement and my marriage,

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Speaker 1: when it happens but pretty much begged me to live

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Speaker 1: stream them all and that way my. Dad won't know

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Speaker 1: she barely told me anything about her because she kept

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Speaker 1: making me tell Her about. Things i've done but she

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Speaker 1: did tell me about her job and all the actors.

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Speaker 2: That she's met who.

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Speaker 6: She has to be a model if, She's, that tall

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Speaker 6: yeah it. Has to be, i'm just saying what?

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Speaker 5: Are YOU saying if i was A girl and i,

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Speaker 5: Was six once i'm, doing two things one being a

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Speaker 5: model or two JOINING.

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Speaker 6: The w nba.

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Speaker 2: Let's FREAKING go, but i like? Why why?

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Speaker 6: Not you're tall if.

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Speaker 4: You're, over six feet you can only be a model

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Speaker 4: or in THE. W.

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Speaker 2: N b a i'm just SAYING that's what. I would do.

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Speaker 1: Let us, Tell, the comments yeah let us know if

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Speaker 1: there are other things that six foot and above women

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Speaker 3: There's, Anything else yeah i'm just SAYING this one i

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Speaker 3: WOULD do if i was six to one.

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Speaker 5: As A woman if i was me right now, WITH

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Speaker 5: woman parts i would.

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Speaker 1: Be doing, That all right let's finish this up and

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Speaker 1: Stop talking about. Riley's women parts so it sucked when

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Speaker 1: my uncle CAME back and i, had to go, and

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Speaker 1: WE cried but i felt, better about it even though

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Speaker 1: my uncle made promise not to. Tell my, dad since

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Speaker 1: then she's been writing to me, a lot more and

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Speaker 1: we've been emailing. As well too she actually sent me

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Speaker 1: a video of her and a Top actress in egypt

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Speaker 1: when she got the actress to say hi to me.

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Speaker 1: AND my girlfriend i don't know how many of you

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Speaker 1: are going to read this GIANT thing, that I wrote

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Speaker 1: but i am thankful for the few of you who

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Speaker 1: helped me out and helped me make.

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Speaker 2: MY mind UP i.

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Speaker 1: Guess i felt a lot better SINCE then because i

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Speaker 1: know that my, mom loves me and that is.

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Speaker 2: Where, it ends.

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Speaker 4: Well at least five hundred and eighty six people have, read, That,

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Speaker 4: story right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the best ones, the best ones the the the best,

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Speaker 1: of the.

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Speaker 4: Best like that they ended with the reunited.

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Speaker 3: Like, being reunited yeah are we on the side of?

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Speaker 3: THE mom now i was.

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Speaker 4: Always on the side of.

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Speaker 2: The.

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Speaker 1: Mom honestly yeah what even, THE cheating part i.

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Speaker 4: DIDN'T like THAT i don't i, don't CONDONE cheating but

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Speaker 4: i think there were extenuating circumstances that made me feel

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Speaker 4: for her a.

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Speaker 1: Little bit more and, it's also like if you're, being

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Speaker 1: superate issue if you're being given away for, a business

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Speaker 1: deal how much actual ability do you have to get

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Speaker 1: out of a relationship that is not.

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Speaker 2: Good, For you Yeah i'm making i'm.

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Speaker 3: Making, an assumption yeah but my personal thought on, it was.

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Speaker 3: Like thanks right my personal thought on, it was like

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Speaker 3: maybe she's in this scenario where she can't or doesn't

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Speaker 3: feel like she, has any options, and she, was you know.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she and it's.

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Speaker 3: Definitely a possibility she wasn't down for it, thence you

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Speaker 3: know it wasn't it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: A love, marriage so yeah and like the only way

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Speaker 1: out was to, Just do it, just do it.

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Speaker 2: Just do it just pull. The rip, corder, She's happy Happy.

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Speaker 4: And also egypt's divorce system has been criticized for being

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Speaker 4: discriminated discriminatory and putting. Women at risk women have two,

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Speaker 4: options for divorce compulsory mediation and. No, Fault divorce.

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Speaker 2: Huh and so what happens in? EACH of those.

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Speaker 4: I don't know i would have to. Look that up

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Speaker 4: but but my point, of, that, is if like if

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Speaker 4: there's so few, options for divorce especially when technically she's

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Speaker 4: at fault, And, it's, ILLEGAL like YEAH i think i

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Speaker 4: feel like there's.

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Speaker 2: There's, no, chips yeah yeah if she.

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Speaker 4: Had, gone for, DIVORCE you know.

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Speaker 1: I think that but you know what else is perfectly

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Speaker 1: timed to see how many?

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Speaker 6: Camels, YOU'RE worth yeah i just. Set, this up.

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Speaker 7: One it's ready we're Gonna.

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Speaker 6: Start, With, sophia okay sophia how?

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Speaker 2: Old are?

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Speaker 6: You? Twenty two? Okay how much what's your? Height and

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Speaker 6: cinema which height?

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Speaker 4: Do?

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Speaker 6: YOU have seven, i don't know, FIVE to seven.

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Speaker 4: I, don't know.

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Speaker 7: Seven one seventy.

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Speaker 2: What's the length?

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Speaker 7: Of?

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Speaker 6: Your hair okay what color? ARE your eyes i don't like.

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Speaker 4: THE next question.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's closer to the long one?

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Speaker 4: And?

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Speaker 2: They're? Brown, one what?

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Speaker 6: No THEY'RE not oh i.

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Speaker 4: GUESS it is i, Don't like that.

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Speaker 6: So, get the, pickle all right.

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Speaker 3: That's.

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Speaker 6: Not, even true right?

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Speaker 4: Normal than you why are you PICKING the last.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know i have no idea how?

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Speaker 6: Big boobs are don't.

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Speaker 4: Even, consider that?

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Speaker 6: Okay, didn't? Sporty normal? Chubby your fat?

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Speaker 2: Calculate?

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Speaker 6: Which one wait but is?

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Speaker 1: MY hair longer i think your, hair is longer but it's.

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Speaker 6: Not that long?

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Speaker 1: Is that like is that LIKE? A?

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00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:06,639
Speaker 4: B c yeah i feel like it's closer to be

450
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:08,879
Speaker 4: is because my hair is.

451
00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:12,159
Speaker 1: Not long enough i'm. Talking about boobs is that? Like

452
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:12,680
Speaker 1: a cup?

453
00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:13,879
Speaker 2: Beacups? Sea, cup deep.

454
00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 4: Okay just keep it with the middle one and then.

455
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 4: Calculate it everything.

456
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,399
Speaker 6: Calculate you were, worth.

457
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 1: All right that's a get out? Of candle?

458
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 6: Close all, right all right h?

459
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 2: WHAT are you i knew. THAT was coming i knew.

460
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 6: That was coming let's be fal'll, be for? Real all right?

461
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 6: How how many how's all are you in? Cinem how's?

462
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:40,679
Speaker 6: All are?

463
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,239
Speaker 2: You five eleven i'm.

464
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:43,760
Speaker 6: FIVE eleven too i don't.

465
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,719
Speaker 2: Think that's true you don't? Think five?

466
00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 7: Eleven you're, blonde, i'm blonde yeah, hair, length long, long, blue, Eyes,

467
00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 7: beard body no. We'll, go middle, yeah all right calculate

468
00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:58,879
Speaker 7: you were, worth.

469
00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 2: Camels?

470
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 4: Wait how many? How many caimbles? Was?

471
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 2: On sixty think so with more?

472
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:11,119
Speaker 4: Camels than?

473
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 6: Me how's? Aller you him?

474
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 2: Six foot Blonde i'm not what? World?

475
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 7: Is this blodron, this is brown brown hair length, short

476
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 7: middle short uh.

477
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 2: Middle blue, Hair blue. Guys i'm green i'm closer to

478
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,320
Speaker 2: green hazel.

479
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 6: No facial hair body STARS this.

480
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,680
Speaker 2: One i have i'm probably closer to the.

481
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,240
Speaker 6: Viddle, Middle one, calculate oh.

482
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 1: Beyond.

483
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 6: LET'S a, GO i mean i am.

484
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: YOU know what i want? To go to this? NEXT

485
00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 2: story partner i wants to Get?

486
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 3: Into TWELVE dude am i a hole for telling my

487
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 3: ex that her kid and her life is?

488
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: Not my problem is it your kid and? Your ex's

489
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 1: kid because if, that is true then maybe it.

490
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 2: Is your problem.

491
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 3: But double down This Comes from final landscape forty, one to,

492
00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:19,879
Speaker 3: SEVENTY who says i thirty mail don't know what to

493
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 3: do about my EX girlfriend who I will call, jane

494
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,960
Speaker 3: twenty seven female who ended up cheating on me after dating. For.

495
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 3: Five years Ouch me and jane were childhood friends for

496
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,520
Speaker 3: AS long as. I can remember i never thought in

497
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 3: a million years that she would do this to me

498
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 3: or be the type of person. WHO would cheat i

499
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 3: thought we had a great relationship with our normal, ups

500
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,080
Speaker 3: and downs like. Any other couple about, A year ago

501
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,880
Speaker 3: i was contacted BY some girl i didn't know. THROUGH

502
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 3: social media i don't usually respond to messages SENT by people,

503
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 3: i don't know, but this girl Who i'll call sam

504
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 3: the term of them, As you will sam sent me

505
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 3: a Message saying that jane was.

506
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:57,359
Speaker 2: Cheating on me.

507
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 3: Oh ouch ouch somehow She. KNEW about jane i told

508
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 3: her please provide any. Proof she had she ended up

509
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 3: sending me screenshots of text messages of her Friend we'll

510
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 3: call kevin twenty Eight mail and jane. Texting each other

511
00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:14,320
Speaker 3: the thing that shocked me the most Was the text

512
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 3: jane had sent about.

513
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 4: Her.

514
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: Being pregnant regnant she put that over text, with who's

515
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:32,880
Speaker 2: uh this is? A conspiracy theory might? Not be opiees?

516
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 1: WHAT is better i feel like it's better If. It's

517
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 1: not opie's honestly at this, point.

518
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,679
Speaker 2: That, yeah in actuality it actually that your.

519
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 4: Partner, is, CHEATING yeah yeah.

520
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,679
Speaker 1: I would rather i would rather be the other persons

521
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,040
Speaker 1: because now you can like it's it's you can, separate

522
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 1: MORE exiting And, i don't.

523
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

524
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 4: Messy, break.

525
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

526
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 3: We were talking about having a baby at THE time

527
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 3: before i, discovered the cheating and we decided not to

528
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 3: have one yet until we. WERE financially stable, i was heartbroken.

529
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 3: Say the least sam sent me A video of kevin

530
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 3: drunkenly admitting About sleeping with.

531
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 2: Jane without protection keep, It wrapped Up.

532
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 3: Boys and girls sam told me that she had Gotten

533
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,399
Speaker 3: hold of kevin's phone while he was out and. Was

534
00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 3: left unlocked she wanted to let me know about the

535
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,879
Speaker 3: issue because she didn't want me to have false hopes

536
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 3: of me being the father to a kid that could possibly.

537
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 3: Not be mine If, you are jane do you like

538
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 3: reveal or not reveal the cheating and? Pregnancy or not

539
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 3: because you are like basically a third Party. Other than

540
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 3: kevin we've.

541
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 1: Said before like, not your monkey, not your CIRCUS but,

542
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 1: LIKE i think i think in this case, maybe the

543
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:55,920
Speaker 1: pregnancy and it's so much a, Lot, yeah stuff yeah to.

544
00:25:56,119 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: Not say anything AND it's LIKE i if i knew,

545
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 1: all OF, that and I especially because i'm, a third

546
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 1: party actually. Would BE easier so i, just, be like

547
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: hey here's the information.

548
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 2: THAT is true i, don't know here but.

549
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 3: Here, you go exactly but there's but there's more, ladies and?

550
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: GENTLEMEN is moror i thanked her and asked how. She

551
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 3: found me she said She had found jane's social media

552
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 3: account that was linked that linked back to me. In

553
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 3: the post jane's social, media is open but she doesn't

554
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 3: really use it that much other than making posts about us.

555
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 2: Or, shopping set, wait.

556
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: Really Quick isn't is? Jane the girlfriend jane's the.

557
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 4: Pregnant, ex girlfriend okay.

558
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 3: Wait, oh Oh, Yes sorry jane sorry, for. The, Confusion

559
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 3: earl there jane is. Not the whistleblower jane is the.

560
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 3: Pregnant ex girlfriend.

561
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: Let's let's get a recount of. All, the characters yes So,

562
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: We have.

563
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 4: Sam sam whistleblower.

564
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: Is the whistleblower the person who revealed Revealed the, Cheating

565
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 1: let's go sam's. Are, Just goaded true jane was, the

566
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: cheating Girlfriend and then kevin was the a fair partner guy,

567
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:12,159
Speaker 1: the mister mistress and then who is the person who is?

568
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: Being cheated on op is being cheated On? By bye

569
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: jane we got, it all there we.

570
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 2: Got it. ALL been Good i.

571
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: Thank sam for letting me know and saved all the

572
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 3: screenshots she had sent to me along.

573
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:31,360
Speaker 2: With the, video the video The video of kevin admitting

574
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 2: He slept with.

575
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 3: Jane, without, protection okay yes that was THE video That

576
00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 3: i was it was uh Admitting.

577
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 4: To Her sam so i'm, imagining, she's like yeah so what?

578
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 2: About that pregnancy basically basically which is? Which is crazy

579
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: you want?

580
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 3: TO a, baby i mean you gotta be wasted to

581
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 3: reveal that Which came apparently. Heaven Was insane so jane

582
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 3: the cheating lady was visiting her mother, at THE time

583
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 3: so i took the liberty of packing jane stuff and

584
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,919
Speaker 3: other important and other important. Essential she owns jane came

585
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 3: home later that day looking all. HAPPY and jittery i

586
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 3: had to put on a fake smile when she delivered

587
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 3: me the news that she was pregnant.

588
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 4: And hugged me, oh my gosh she's.

589
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 3: Covering it up it seems like she's trying to pass it,

590
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 3: Off as.

591
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 2: Oh, pea's Baby yeah. Not heaven's baby this is.

592
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 4: A class case. Classic, of corruption corruption and, we, need

593
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 4: regions okay and we need a whistleblower the highest start.

594
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 2: Crack this case why we need.

595
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 1: To stop blowing other things and stop blowing the whistle

596
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 1: why don'pen?

597
00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 2: On THIS case so i told her we should go,

598
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:07,400
Speaker 2: out to celebrate, and she agreed NOT knowing what i

599
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: have in.

600
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,960
Speaker 3: STORE for her i ended up driving her back to

601
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 3: her mother's place and she was as and she was

602
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 3: as confused to why, we, Were THERE uh and i

603
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 3: told her that she could just drop the act already

604
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 3: and TOLD her that i know.

605
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:25,400
Speaker 1: ABOUT the cheating i love. A, good trap wow she

606
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: looks like a deer In headlights if i'm.

607
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 3: Describing it, correctly of course she tried to DENY it

608
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 3: until i showed all the screenshots TO her that I Got, from.

609
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 2: Sam Man and then. Sam, WALKED in ah, i caught.

610
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 2: YOU red hands i created the story to bring. On our,

611
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,760
Speaker 2: show just, kidding just, kidding.

612
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: You're on okay story to?

613
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 2: What you, do that's right.

614
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: New traveling shoke jane ended up breaking down and confessing

615
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 3: that the eating was. IN fact prue i asked how

616
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,280
Speaker 3: long the cheating, was Going on and jane was a

617
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 3: bit hysterical before telling me that She was seeing kevin

618
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 3: behind my back for the. Last TWO years then i

619
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 3: then asked if they had warn protection when she cheated On,

620
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 3: me with kevin and she dead.

621
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: Were they like just Releasing, just, full no no not

622
00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: even like.

623
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 3: A little, whoop, you know yeah, at that point do

624
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 3: you even try to put, up that defense like.

625
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: To USE protection but i swear. He pulled out. We

626
00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 2: don't Know i'm getting i'm getting the vibes that the. Answer.

627
00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: IS no Yeah i told jane we were done and

628
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 2: to never.

629
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 3: Contact me again she lost it and started crying EVEN

630
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 3: harder after i took out her belongings from the trunk.

631
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:50,480
Speaker 1: Of my car two years is such.

632
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 2: A long time.

633
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: THAT'S a lie i feel, LIKE that's like i feel. Like,

634
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 1: that's unforgivable yeah.

635
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: Years OF cheating, but, i.

636
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,120
Speaker 1: Think, like like WHAT there's a i think there is

637
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: a difference between cheating on a partner and it being

638
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,719
Speaker 1: like one time and then, immediately saying something and then

639
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: like cheating for two years, and saying nothing like you know?

640
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: What you're, Doing like that like the two years of

641
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: cheating is. So much worse the degree, degree it's cheating, first, Degree,

642
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,920
Speaker 1: CHEATING cheating well i. FEEL like it i think. It's

643
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: capital cheating we.

644
00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 2: Looked at up. THE other day i believe.

645
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 3: It was capital it's like capital, is first degree but

646
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 3: it's like of the.

647
00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:33,240
Speaker 1: Most heinous variety it's of the most heinous of the

648
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: MOST because we've i feel like you can come back

649
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: from like a we like an.

650
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 2: Instance of cheating BUT.

651
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 3: Although and i won't dive too deep in, this rabbit,

652
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 3: HOLE uh you i feel like, maybe capital cheating if

653
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 3: we're really, getting into it is like cheating in front

654
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 3: of your partner on purpose to like like if we're

655
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 3: going like, the most heinous, THE most devious i feel

656
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 3: like cheating on your partner in front of in, front

657
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 3: of them like like, get at what like what situation are?

658
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 3: You in this so capital cheating is like the worst

659
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: cheating in the, most like devious. Evil maniacal way if that's,

660
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 3: what it is that's how. We're defining it what? Is

661
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 3: evil maniacal like cheating in Front OF your but i.

662
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: Feel like, if you're cheating. YOUR partner knows i think

663
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 1: it's worse to cheat behind. YOUR partner's, back.

664
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 2: I agree true like, THE grain, reveal, i GUESS.

665
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: Yeah so i guess you want to do the worst

666
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 1: cheat for two years and then, on your, anniversary she's,

667
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 1: LIKE come back i have a, surprise for you and

668
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: it's her in the, throes of passion.

669
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 2: With her lover that is, definitely capital. Cheating, all right.

670
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 3: Uh she refused to get out, of the vehicle and

671
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,720
Speaker 3: she begged. For another chance jane even told me that

672
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 3: she WOULD get the a word if it means staying with.

673
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:52,440
Speaker 4: Her, terminate the pregnancy.

674
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: TERMINATING the pregnancy i kind of got. SPOOKED hearing that

675
00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: i didn't expect her to go so low. WITH that

676
00:32:57,280 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 3: option i told her that whatever she decided is not

677
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 3: gonna undo the damage she has done to the. BOTH

678
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 3: of US i ended i ended up Having to get

679
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 3: jane's mother involved and explain the situation to her and

680
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 3: showed her the EVIDENCE and conversation i. HAD secretly recorded

681
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 3: i Had secretly recorded jane's mother apologizing for.

682
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 2: Her daughter's actions whoa op.

683
00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:22,920
Speaker 4: Has just all this is a family, like childhood friend

684
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 4: so he knows the, mom really well.

685
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 6: That's, even.

686
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 3: Point yeah after a, Couple of minutes jane finally got

687
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 3: out of MY vehicle and i drove off without looking

688
00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 3: back or giving her a chance to speak. To. ME

689
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 3: again yeah i ended up breaking DOWN myself after i,

690
00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 3: got BACK home and i couldn't eat or sleep right.

691
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 3: After what happened and this was a repeated cycle that

692
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 3: lasted for a. Couple of months it's been almost a

693
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 3: Year now and i've nearly recovered, from the incident but

694
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 3: the scars. Are still there just, Two weeks ago jane

695
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 3: messaged me since the breakup and told me that she

696
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 3: wanted to.

697
00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 1: Get back together why would op want to? Get back

698
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: together what?

699
00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 4: Do, you offer yeah what do you offer? In this relationship.

700
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: SHE'S in finance, i, TOLD her no i don't need

701
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 1: your trust, fund STRAIGHT up and.

702
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 3: I blocked her then a, Few days ago jane showed

703
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 3: up at. My front door, What?

704
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 2: Is this jane she has. A boom box i've.

705
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 3: Told you sometimes there was a whole whole debate on

706
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,320
Speaker 3: like basically like if you someone went to someone's house and,

707
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 3: like HAD bags and, i was like don't bring bags

708
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 3: because it's uh assuming that you get to say just

709
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 3: like show up.

710
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 2: And, just beside yeah put, The Bags outside but i'm.

711
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 3: Not gonna lie she looked like a TOTAL mess when

712
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 3: i saw her through the doorbell camera and she was

713
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 3: asking me to. SPEAK to her i didn't, let HER

714
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 3: in so, i told her what the heck. Do you

715
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,399
Speaker 3: want Jane said that kevin ended up ghosting. Her soon

716
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:07,200
Speaker 3: after she gave birth. To, THE baby, oh i mean.

717
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 1: Who would have thought the moral caliber of someone that

718
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: would cheat with someone?

719
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 2: For two years who get they Don't know.

720
00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 3: WHERE kevin is i told her that was her problem

721
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 3: to deal with and Reminded her that kevin was the

722
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 3: guy she left me.

723
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 2: For two.

724
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 7: Years two.

725
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 3: Years two years she begged me to help her because

726
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 3: she had not gotten any sleep and she's basically on her.

727
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 2: Own her mom her parents ended up kicking her out

728
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 2: of the house after She.

729
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:41,560
Speaker 1: GAVE worth and i, MEAN like. Consequences, I guess so

730
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 1: i DON'T know if i, would do that what your kid?

731
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: Out OF there yet I don't.

732
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 4: Think i would, just because, of you know fear for. The,

733
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 4: CHILD safety yeah.

734
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't kick. My kid OUT but like I feel

735
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: like OPE going to uh or this this WOMAN going

736
00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 1: to ope and saying take.

737
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 2: CARE of this i feel like it. Doesn't, make, sense

738
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 2: yeah no it doesn't make.

739
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 3: Any sense totally jane said that cheating on me was

740
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 3: her biggest mistake and that she doesn't like being.

741
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 2: A single mom and taking care of a child. On

742
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 2: her own you should have. Thought about that you.

743
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 4: Can't say that, it's a mistake implies like that you didn't,

744
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 4: think about it and, then you like, upon further consideration

745
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 4: the mistake Is, maybe on yeah you can't make a

746
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 4: mistake over the course. Of two years that's.

747
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 2: Just, your life yes that. Is, AN action.

748
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: YES i cheated i can't imagine two. YEARS of lying

749
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: i couldn't imagine.

750
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 2: Absolute.

751
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 3: In sanity oh she Asked me if i'm willing to

752
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 3: take care of her kid as if it.

753
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 2: Was my own.

754
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 4: Nie said no she keeps.

755
00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 1: Uping the, ants he's, LIKE all right i know you

756
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: said you don't want to. BE with me i know

757
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: you said you don't want to help me take care.

758
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 2: Of the kid but what.

759
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,919
Speaker 1: If you became the Single parent freaky? Friday switch place.

760
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: IT'S pretty. GREAT i know i just broke down CRYING

761
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 2: and said i. CAN'T take it i can't take how.

762
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:11,360
Speaker 2: Fun IT is.

763
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:16,359
Speaker 3: But i got pissed and told her to f off

764
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 3: and that uh and that as far AS her and,

765
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 3: i are concerned there is no MORE.

766
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 2: HER and i.

767
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 3: I said that the kids she made while cheating on

768
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 3: me was. NOT my problem i told her every ounce

769
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 3: of LOVE and respect i had for her DIED.

770
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 2: The moment i found out. About THE. Cheating in uh

771
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 2: in case most of.

772
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 3: YOU weren't aware i was the unfortunate victim of being

773
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 3: stood up on my OWN birthday when.

774
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 2: I was eight i was. Unaware of.

775
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:48,359
Speaker 1: This i'm, Sorry, it's like hey you want to look?

776
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: At my filmography say if you want to LOOK. AT

777
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: my IMDb i was famous for being stood up on.

778
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,440
Speaker 1: My eighth birthday, Nobody, showed up. Sam nobody should.

779
00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 2: Nobody showed up.

780
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: That is sad out of ALL the, Friends i had

781
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: jane was the. One, jan person.

782
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 4: Sure have you ever been stood up?

783
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,759
Speaker 3: On your birthday i've been at a birthday where someone was.

784
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 3: Semi stood up.

785
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 6: That's so sad i've been stood before my birthday that what?

786
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: Does that mean? Did you wait that's. Not even true

787
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 2: we're going. To, keep reading friend. That's not. True keep

788
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 2: reading jane left soon.

789
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: After while crying her friends are now blasting me on

790
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 1: social media for not stepping up and Telling me that

791
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: i'm not a real man After all that jane's, done,

792
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 1: for me DONE and that i owed.

793
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 2: It, to, her.

794
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 3: Dude dude she gives, you eighth birthday that means something attended.

795
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,000
Speaker 2: Your eighth birthday take care of the kid. For eight years.

796
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 3: That kid, is that's right that's what that is, a

797
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 3: fair trade fair. Trade to me, they also said even

798
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 3: though she, made a mistake she was. There for me

799
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 3: so it would be, horrible like wait there your eighth birthday.

800
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 3: EXACTLY and more i guess talking about the, five year

801
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 3: relationship what? Did she do but, she was like for

802
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 3: two of those years she was hooking up with another guy.

803
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 3: Exactly exactly what she was not there for. Him, AT all,

804
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 3: Yes i agree so it would be horrible of me

805
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 3: to not be there for her. And the kids SO

806
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 3: retta am? I the ahle first Question here is opie

807
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 3: the a whole four?

808
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:33,919
Speaker 4: Abandon this child you can't abandon a, Child, That IS yeah.

809
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 1: NO i don't I don't think opie has any responsibility

810
00:39:38,040 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: to this Child. Or to jane as soon as you

811
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: cheat on me, for two, years you're.

812
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 2: Done it's. Over it's over. We're not friends do we Agree?

813
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:51,399
Speaker 3: With how ope so the child thing. Is pretty easy

814
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 3: do we Agree?

815
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 2: With?

816
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 3: How ope, uh hand, olds you know basically completely, shutting

817
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:57,799
Speaker 3: it down.

818
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:57,920
Speaker 6: Not.

819
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 2: ENTERTAINING anything yeah i think like.

820
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 4: He needed to do that because she wasn't. Taking, the hint.

821
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, HE was like i will. Not do this did

822
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 2: you like, What about This what, about she's like do

823
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 2: you want?

824
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 5: To?

825
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 2: Get together no what about taking care of my child for?

826
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 2: Its entire. Life, definitely not yeah. She did not she did.

827
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 3: Not, get that like just from from a, pure strategy

828
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 3: perspective if we're trying to win back the partner so

829
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 3: that we have someone to help.

830
00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: Take care, of your kid wouldn't, you, be like hey

831
00:40:28,120 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 2: let me treat.

832
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 1: You, to dinner hey let me like you from a

833
00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 1: pure from a pure strategy perspective, in.

834
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 2: This check that totally. Isn't, adoption people yeah exactly