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Speaker 1: Hey, we welcome back to bed your Happy Hour. I'm Joe.

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Speaker 1: I'm we are here with not one, not two, not three,

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Speaker 1: but four guests. We are here with Spencer, John m Jeremy,

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Speaker 1: and hakem All from Gen season and they are Grant's

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Speaker 1: best friends. According to Grant, I don't know how you

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Speaker 1: guys feel. Do you guys all like Grant? You're all

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Speaker 1: cool with?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, that's my guy right there.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I would have been insulted if I wasn't chosen. So

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Speaker 2: I'm glad. I'm glad it's reciprocated. You know.

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Speaker 4: It's like you're not really sure and then she says

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Speaker 4: she likes you too.

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Speaker 2: It's nice.

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Speaker 5: This is good, some solid reassurance being called on to

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Speaker 5: this podcast.

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Speaker 6: For sure.

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Speaker 1: Was there anyone Grant didn't get along with?

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Speaker 3: I think Grant was like Switzerland.

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Speaker 7: Grant got along with everybody.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's Hakeem? What's new with you?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 7: I'm I started a new job, been working out getting

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Speaker 7: my body ready for Paradise. Okay, yeah, I've been. I've

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Speaker 7: been reading too. Fun fact, I've never finished a book before.

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Speaker 7: So this year, I'm like, this is gonna be the year.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna fish a book, never really finished a book,

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Speaker 7: no even school, Yes, Spark notes Serena, you know this,

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Speaker 7: Come on girl, what you mean?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 5: How does it feel that you're one of two people?

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Speaker 5: So it's just you and Jonathan that have been invited

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Speaker 5: to Paradise?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 6: Yes, so how does it feel?

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Speaker 7: It's very very honestly, I don't get why I was,

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Speaker 7: I feel like, but it's so I'm so appreciative of it,

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Speaker 7: and I'm so thankful.

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Speaker 5: I feel like if I was in your shoes would

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Speaker 5: be though, like anticipating my friends to start getting their calls.

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Speaker 3: Also, oh absolutely, I mean sorry, I can't be.

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Speaker 5: The only one down there, like it can't be me

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Speaker 5: Jonathan and all the girls, or it could it be?

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Speaker 6: I guess?

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Speaker 3: Also no, no, why would not?

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Speaker 2: I say?

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Speaker 7: Like I'm thinking in the back end too, Like I

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Speaker 7: talked to Jeremy very frequently, and I'm always like Germany,

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Speaker 7: we go make sure year behind coming to Spence.

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Speaker 3: That's my boy.

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Speaker 7: You guys know I ride or die for I mean,

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Speaker 7: you know I went back from my boy in that

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Speaker 7: mental law and then James you already know Jay misses

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Speaker 7: my doll. So like, yes, if please don't don't leave

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Speaker 7: me by mysel. I mean, Jigs is my guy too.

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Speaker 7: He's part of the gang. But you got to bring

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Speaker 7: the whole gang, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Okay, that's enough from you. Wait wait, wait,

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Speaker 1: last hockey out of grants women, is there anyone that

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Speaker 1: you're interested in just looking based off a headshot you

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Speaker 1: can throw out there.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think the no drama l Alex. I think

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Speaker 7: she matches my personality a lot. I think she's uh,

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Speaker 7: she's stunning as well. I think she carries herself very

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Speaker 7: well too, So I'm a big fan of her. I'm

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Speaker 7: a huge fan of her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, nice. Uh, and Spencer isn't engaged her?

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Speaker 6: I like her too.

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Speaker 3: Oh, she's the.

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Speaker 1: Only actually I actually out of her headshat, I think

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Speaker 1: I have her. I have her in like my top three.

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Speaker 6: No, you didn't, but that's okay. We can pretend you yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 6: I do can to.

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Speaker 2: Tell her she's right. Just agree, just agree.

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Speaker 1: That, Spencer. What's new with you any anything?

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Speaker 4: No busy holiday season for the business and outside of that,

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Speaker 4: just getting back into the groove of everything new year,

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Speaker 4: setting some good goals and yeah, nice, that's all.

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Speaker 1: That's new John the first time we're having you here.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: What's new with you anything?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I started my first year in medical school. It's crazy,

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Speaker 8: it's as hard as to say it is, but I

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Speaker 8: really love it. And we're starting our second semester right now.

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Speaker 2: So on the.

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Speaker 1: Grind, what what type of doctor are you trying to be?

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Speaker 8: Well, I'm gonna I'm gonna be pretty open, but I

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Speaker 8: think orthopedic surgery right now.

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Speaker 2: That's where that's.

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Speaker 3: Where I had nice.

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Speaker 6: I had orthopedic surgery.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, really what happened?

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Speaker 5: I had orthoscopic surgery on him meniscus terror when I.

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Speaker 6: Was like sixteen? No way, what were you doing dancing?

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Speaker 2: Gotcha?

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Speaker 8: Got you for my a c L in both minute guys.

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Speaker 8: So I've had the same It's tough. I wasn't work

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Speaker 8: on anybody.

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Speaker 6: No, it's rough. It's rough.

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Speaker 5: My mom actually has one right now, so maybe in

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Speaker 5: four plus years you could do surgery on her knee.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, just give me a call.

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Speaker 1: Short years and then Jeremy.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Not much?

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Speaker 1: What's new?

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Speaker 9: Working? Traveling? Nothing? Nothing new on my end.

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Speaker 1: What we saw. I think there was rumors of like

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Speaker 1: you and Maria or something. Is that true? No, the

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Speaker 1: game you could jump in, you could, you could.

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Speaker 9: Remember.

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Speaker 10: He's a cool personal friends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I figured. And you guys are all

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Speaker 1: everyone in this chat is single?

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Speaker 9: Right?

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Speaker 2: Damn right? Currently?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 1: What everybody? Everyone's down to go to Paradise, Jeremy.

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Speaker 5: It's not that long away. It's not that long away.

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Speaker 5: In January February.

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Speaker 4: I look like I need a tan. Right, this is Dallas.

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Speaker 4: It's snowing right now. I need a tan.

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Speaker 9: So you don't complain.

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Speaker 10: It's like ten degrees in New York.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's really cold on here. Okay, So Grant,

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Speaker 1: what could you tell us about Grant? We're getting ready

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Speaker 1: for his season. You guys are his closest friends from

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Speaker 6: What was Grant's style on gen season?

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Speaker 5: I feel like everyone kind of has a different approach

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Speaker 10: I'll tell you because so I roomed with Grant in

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Speaker 10: New Zealand. Love the guy, by the way. I think

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Speaker 10: he'll be a great lead. Dude naps all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: Back to my room. He was asleep until the second.

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Speaker 2: We'd be having guy talks and then we look around,

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Speaker 2: Grant's gone.

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Speaker 6: And just to sleep. He was a stealthy nappert.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I will say I there were a few guys

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Speaker 2: Actually pretty early on.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, just an awesome guy that's looking for his person,

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Speaker 4: his forever. So I am amped to see him find

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Speaker 4: that being on the show. Prior to being on the show,

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Speaker 4: I hadn't watched the full season ever, and now I'm

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Speaker 4: obsessed with reality TV, so you.

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Speaker 2: Rum Yeah, I love the drama. I love it. What

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Speaker 5: I actually that totally lines up for me, Spencer, that

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Speaker 2: But yeah, no, I'm just amped to watch. We're going

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Speaker 4: Me and my friend group all my best friends who

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Speaker 2: For me, it's a little weird.

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Speaker 5: You well, it's all fir because you were on the show.

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Speaker 5: But do you think it's going to be more fun

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Speaker 5: watching this season, or do you think it was more

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Speaker 5: fun watching your own season?

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Speaker 6: It's not a trick question.

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Speaker 5: I just think like watching yourself can be really stressful.

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Speaker 5: Whereas you're watching like your be the lead.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be so much, so much easier watching him.

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Speaker 4: I was, you don't know how things going to turn

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Speaker 4: what makes it and what does it? So, Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: Did you guys see Did you guys see a change

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Speaker 8: was gonna say. Well, I mean, Jeremy, maybe you have

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Speaker 2: I mean, I didn't see much change other than he

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Speaker 8: So looking forward to Jeremy.

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Speaker 4: Jeremy was there when the night that it was actually

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Speaker 2: How do you guys feel about Jen? And we start talking.

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Speaker 2: He goes, yeah, I'm.

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Speaker 4: I actually got the acts on the same night and

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Speaker 4: it was definitely you can see that.

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Speaker 2: He was he was really really broken up about it.

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Speaker 4: So No, I definitely saw a shift that night in

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Speaker 4: New Zealand when he kind of just told us all

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Speaker 4: they loved her before he had even told her, right, Jeremy,

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Speaker 4: I mean that maybe Jeremy can take it, go for it.

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Speaker 10: Jeremy, I was pretty I can't say I'm shocked to

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Speaker 10: the guys who were also competing for Jen's hart. So

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Speaker 10: I think I think he'll do great as a lead.

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Speaker 10: I'm super excited to watch the season. I think he'll

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Speaker 10: You know, he's a mature guy. He's thirty one, thirty two,

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Speaker 10: been in long relationships, Like I don't think he's afraid

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Speaker 10: to show his emotions and really, you know, sort of

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Speaker 10: lead a relationship.

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Speaker 9: Nice.

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Speaker 5: Having not met him, like we've only met him kind

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Speaker 5: way better. I don't know if I would pick Jen

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Speaker 3: I'm just keeping a bean. Thank you, Jen, Jen's dad girl,

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Speaker 7: Right, she didn't invite me to her birthday party, but

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Speaker 3: So like that he's I think he's gonna go for a.

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Speaker 7: Girl that is more low key at his you know

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Speaker 3: She's a little princess, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 7: So like you you see her, you know, like yeah,

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Speaker 5: I just don't see it, Like I don't see Grant

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Speaker 7: Super low key, Like he doesn't even post on social media,

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Speaker 1: you give him? Haw Cam, you go first.

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Speaker 3: Damn, it's gotta be me.

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Speaker 4: I think in that situation, you have to fall back

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Speaker 2: Where you're going on these.

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Speaker 4: Elaborate dates and you know, such high stakes, being able

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Speaker 2: Would she be willing to move? Am I willing to move?

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Speaker 2: You know? Just kind of becoming a little more realistic.

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that's that's tough anybody else.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I think I think what Spencer said is true.

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Speaker 10: Those like logistical things are important. But even like when

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Speaker 9: It's like, who do I.

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Speaker 10: Want to do nothing with? Like at the end of

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Speaker 10: the day, Like, yeah, dates, our fun trips are fun, butlake,

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Speaker 9: When we're like doing nothing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: And who like between those two girls, like you really

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: And another thing, I think I think everybody's got like

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Speaker 8: in that moment, if he gets to that tough decision,

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Speaker 8: he's got to think of his relationship with both women

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Speaker 8: Will we both enjoy this that whatever that is for

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Speaker 8: That's tough, that's a very tough call to make. But

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Speaker 2: Something good luck to him. That's what that's what's going

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Speaker 7: I would think about it is I know one of

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Speaker 3: We come from a little bit more broken families.

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Speaker 7: I know he has like a I'm not going to

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Speaker 7: So I would say, like looking at it like deeper

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Speaker 7: they can be in the you know.

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Speaker 3: In the world.

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Speaker 7: So I think that's for me, That's what I think about,

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Speaker 7: So I just think about my kids and who would

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Speaker 7: I'm sure both of the ladies if he does fall

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Speaker 7: both of you guys in the sex right, because everyone.

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Speaker 3: Has different kind of techniques on how they parent.

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Speaker 7: If you say, like, so, I think if you find

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Speaker 5: You think And I mean, look, anything's possible. But when

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Speaker 5: I could definitely see him falling for more than one

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: I mean to me, he seems like or maybe it's

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Speaker 10: But I guess we find out.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I feel like he's screaming, like fall

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Speaker 5: in love with like seven girls.

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Speaker 6: About to fall like everyone.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Grant is a love That boy falls in love

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Speaker 7: and he falls quick.

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Speaker 3: That boy's a motion.

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Speaker 9: One for one person.

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Speaker 6: Like nine girls gonna catch his eye and he's going

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Speaker 6: to be like all in.

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Speaker 3: He's not, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 8: Go ahead until I also think he's really intentional about

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Speaker 8: have a purpose. I think he really wants to find love,

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Speaker 8: so he's gonna look for it and he's gonna find it.

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Speaker 2: He's not gonna just say that I love you, I

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Speaker 3: I don't think I'll get no.

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Speaker 2: No, he's actually gotta fall in love with a lot

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Speaker 7: I bet you, I will bet you my my life

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Speaker 7: savings that Grant will fall in love with two women

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Speaker 5: When I say seven, I don't think he's actually gonna

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Speaker 7: Yeah, like your wild she's not serious, but two women

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Speaker 1: Do you think there's a chance that Do you think

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's yeah, no, yeah for sure.

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Speaker 1: What do you think? What do you what do you

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Speaker 1: think are some red flags for Grant when it comes

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Speaker 1: to women?

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Speaker 3: Drama, drama, drop, he hates.

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Speaker 1: That's not great.

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Speaker 2: He was, Yeah, he was.

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Speaker 4: Not great, but he was like I think Kaking was

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Speaker 4: just saying he was Switzerland. When we were all in

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Speaker 5: I'm always interested in that because I think there's a

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Speaker 5: that are like, I hate drama, But sometimes that doesn't

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Speaker 5: So like, I mean, I'm curious to see how he

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Speaker 6: Having a hard time and like this isn't going well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, great question.

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Speaker 1: All four of you could potentially be in paradise and

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Speaker 1: some of grants women could be in paradise. Are you

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Speaker 9: I don't think so.

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Speaker 8: I think I think you got to get another person

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Speaker 8: We say, talk do a lot, so you never know,

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Speaker 8: you never know.

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Speaker 4: I would I would like to say no, but come on, yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna be in the back of your mind for sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you.

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Speaker 7: But you.

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Speaker 9: Though no that I don't think.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, no, but no, no, no, no, no, because what you

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Speaker 7: you can't get to be a person that you're not

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Speaker 7: if you said something here but like but.

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Speaker 1: You but you only but you potentially only see ten

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Speaker 4: But yeah, it's definitely go to be in the back

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Speaker 4: of your mind like it. It doesn't have to be

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Speaker 4: still get to know the person, but it's definitely gonna

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Speaker 4: see it, it's going to be it's gonna be sitting

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Speaker 4: there like you saw it, you know.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely absolutely the sale, end all judgment.

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, I agree. I think that's I think that's

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00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:07,200
Speaker 1: the way to do it. Are you guys all comfortable

449
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:12,840
Speaker 1: with your reputation if going into Paradise, if you are

450
00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,280
Speaker 1: all were all to go with what everyone's.

451
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 7: Seen of you, I mean sure, I would say yes,

452
00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 7: But I don't want any more spiders.

453
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:23,640
Speaker 3: That's about it.

454
00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:26,360
Speaker 7: Like that's cool, Like I'm cool with like what how

455
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 7: like what you guys think of me?

456
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 1: But I spider, you're definitely getting spiders.

457
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: Why would that? What do you mean?

458
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,080
Speaker 7: Don't say that I gotta tell them what I don't

459
00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 7: and don't want. So I'm gonna tell them I don't

460
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 7: want that ship.

461
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,199
Speaker 2: You're right, that's gonna work. That's gonna work. Keep doing.

462
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 4: You guys know what I'm terrified of. I'm terrified of

463
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 4: finding my life partner and my perfect person I could

464
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:50,679
Speaker 4: spend forever with.

465
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 2: It scares the ship out of me. It's terrifying. I

466
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:54,880
Speaker 2: can't deal with it.

467
00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 10: That.

468
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I just couldn't do it.

469
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 7: Psychologist, so scared, Serena, Can I can I say something?

470
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: Yeah?

471
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 7: So I was watching because I've been watching back the

472
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:09,359
Speaker 7: later seasons, So like, first of all, I thought you

473
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 7: were black.

474
00:22:10,280 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then your mom added me on Instagram.

475
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

476
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 7: Mom, and missus by the way, she's a total doll.

477
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 7: Mom's total doll. And she's a total babe too. She's gorgeous.

478
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 7: But I just don't want to know it. I had

479
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:24,639
Speaker 7: no clue you were half Indian. So I just I

480
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 7: just think everybody needs to know that because people think.

481
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 1: I do mention it.

482
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 6: I do talk about my Wait, you're not black. I

483
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 6: know I talk about.

484
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 5: My Indian culture, but I just don't appear half Indian.

485
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 6: I do a lot. A lot of people think I'm

486
00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:43,200
Speaker 6: half black.

487
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

488
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 7: I I definitely did some creeping so I definitely did

489
00:22:47,680 --> 00:22:49,000
Speaker 7: some digging with the family tree.

490
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 2: So are you.

491
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 7: Literally family on my Instagram? Loved the fam Just wanted

492
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 7: to give a shout out to you, but yeah I did.

493
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 3: I didn't not know you were half Indian until your

494
00:22:59,160 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 3: mom ANDed me.

495
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 5: So I'm glad you're lived in. I'm glad that. I'm

496
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:03,920
Speaker 5: glad that's out there now.

497
00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:08,320
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you for that. You know what, hell

498
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 1: is great? Thank you? What about Okay, Grant Grant, what

499
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: about his rapping abilities and like now we're seeing spoilers

500
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: where he's like he's giving me a little like R

501
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 1: and B nineties kind of vibe here.

502
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 9: Well, I'll speak on this.

503
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 10: There was a there's a piano in our like living

504
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 10: room in New Zealand.

505
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 9: That dude is talented.

506
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 10: I would just be like sitting it would be like

507
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 10: me and maybe I don't know, like Jonathan in the room.

508
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 10: Grant would come in and you just start like riffing

509
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 10: on the piano and just like lyrics. I'm like, yo,

510
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 10: you're amazing at this. Like he's I don't know how

511
00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,280
Speaker 10: to any of the cross like on on TV and

512
00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 10: like what they're gonna do with that, But like in

513
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 10: the trailer he's playing, uh, he's playing a song on

514
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 10: the piano. He wrote that during our Oh.

515
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, we sensed that that was an original and original

516
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 6: for sure.

517
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then on any bus ride whenever we were

518
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 4: freestyle wrapping, Grant was the ringleader for any of it.

519
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,000
Speaker 4: Super talented.

520
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 2: I did not freestyling, but granted, he's really good.

521
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 10: I feel like they.

522
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 6: Need to show because.

523
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 5: He's clearly a naturally musical person and he's passionate about music.

524
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 5: He's like expressing himself through different like instruments and vocals

525
00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 5: and all these things. I just think they need to

526
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 5: show it in a way that doesn't come across as

527
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 5: kind of cringey, because like, if they just show me,

528
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 5: I think he could potentially I haven't seen the season yet,

529
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 5: but I think it can potentially come across when you're

530
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 5: watching it as like, ooh is this cool or is

531
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 5: this an awkward moment? Like if I'm in the room

532
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 5: for it, But like if you guys are all on

533
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,120
Speaker 5: a bus and you're just freestyling and having a good

534
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 5: time and he jumps in and he like say, then

535
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 5: that's cool.

536
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 6: Cool, but when like, I like, they get to show.

537
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:02,880
Speaker 5: It in a more like organic way so it doesn't

538
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 5: feel like someone's thrown him at a piano and be like,

539
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 5: hey man, go sing to that girl that you love.

540
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: I think they will. I mean he's the only guy

541
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 1: on I mean remember so now he's got a lot.

542
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 9: Of yeah there the lead.

543
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:17,399
Speaker 5: Yes, And I thought it was like when he came

544
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 5: out of the limo and his wrap to gen we

545
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 5: were all like, where is this going?

546
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 6: And then I was like, oh no, like this was

547
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 6: actually like he came across really great. So I'm curious

548
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 6: to see how looks.

549
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 1: Could could each of you. John will start with you

550
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:32,800
Speaker 1: give us a fact about Grant that the viewers may

551
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:33,239
Speaker 1: not know.

552
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 8: Grant can probably moon walk better than a lot of

553
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 8: a lot.

554
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 2: Of people, you know. But oh, y'all saw that. Y'all

555
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 2: saw them when we were thundered down under it.

556
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, so that counts.

557
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 2: That counts well yeah, yeah, everybody else.

558
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,680
Speaker 8: Everybody else is worried about embarrassing themselves. Here he goes

559
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 8: walking out on stage like coolest dude you'll ever meet.

560
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 2: So there's my fact.

561
00:25:55,640 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 11: Hakeem, Mom, let's think I had Jeremy.

562
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 12: I'll Grant's actually a super philosophical person where we'd just

563
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 12: be like in the room and he'd like throw out

564
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 12: these scenarios like civilization type philosophy questions and he'll like,

565
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 12: he'll really try.

566
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 9: To engage people.

567
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 10: And yeah, he's he's very philosophical.

568
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 3: He's a Dominican and Jamaican.

569
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:37,960
Speaker 2: The sec.

570
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 3: How is that something that no one would know because

571
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 3: you don't know that.

572
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 6: I didn't know that.

573
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,119
Speaker 1: I mean, no one even knew Serena was Indian. So

574
00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: I trust trust to.

575
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 6: Checking people's back cross.

576
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: Like what I mean, I know it's anyways.

577
00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would just say Grant's just incredibly talented person.

578
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 2: We've been over the.

579
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 4: Musical talent that he has, moonwalking, and he can also gritty.

580
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 4: I mean, he's just got he's got dance much for days,

581
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 4: he can sing, he can I mean, just a super

582
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 4: talented guy and I'm excited to see.

583
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 2: That shine on every Monday night.

584
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,919
Speaker 1: Right, do you guys think he's someone that could could

585
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: potentially be blindsided as far as like falling for a

586
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: woman who may not be as far as as far

587
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 1: along as he thinks she is.

588
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 9: I think I get to anyone.

589
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 10: Be blindsided like love blondes.

590
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 2: Yeah that's fair.

591
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I think with him, he's a person

592
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,480
Speaker 7: that wants to get to know everybody, and he's willing

593
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 7: to get anyone a fair shot.

594
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 3: He doesn't look at just like looks.

595
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 7: He kind of wants to get to know their souls,

596
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 7: find if that's their soulmate. So I he has potential

597
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 7: maybe getting blinded by love, and hopefully that doesn't happen.

598
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,880
Speaker 7: But I do think with his big heart, he wears

599
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 7: his hard in the sleep. I think it's a very

600
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 7: very very big possibility.

601
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,919
Speaker 5: Do you think Grant's red flags are like if like, oh,

602
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 5: like if you were to warn the women about anything other?

603
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, what would you say his red.

604
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: Warn some of these women about Grant gossip?

605
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 2: I wouldn't.

606
00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 7: I just don't gossip. Don't if you have nothing good

607
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 7: to say, just don't say it at all. I mean,

608
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 7: he's gonna get picked out by the.

609
00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 1: No, no, we're saying that. We're saying the opposite way.

610
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 6: You're gonna tell these Grant red flags.

611
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 2: Got nothing Grant as a.

612
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 3: Red flags? Oh he'll get a red flags.

613
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 1: That's two guys, let's see Spencer, Jeremy, what do we

614
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 1: got anything?

615
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, you're a offuly quiet down there.

616
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, yeah, no, I got red flag.

617
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 4: Grant doesn't know how to pack accordingly because he almost

618
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 4: had to use some of my clothes during GEN season.

619
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 2: Some make sure make sure you're packing for the trips.

620
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: But outside of that, I mean, you also had really

621
00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:07,800
Speaker 2: nice clothes during the trip.

622
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 8: He might have just been doing that to try to

623
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 8: put on some of your drip, though, I don't know.

624
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 2: In his defense, in his.

625
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: Defense Jeremy, well, okay, grants red flags.

626
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 9: Maybe timeliness.

627
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: He's late, he's late to the party.

628
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 5: He's gonna be real tired. They need to make sure

629
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 5: they load him up with coffee and energy drinks.

630
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 7: He doesn't have any red flags. He'll be on time

631
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 7: for every day.

632
00:29:36,080 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 1: Everyone's got everyone's got the flag. He's got something.

633
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 13: Okay, Okay, you've got red flags, you guys.

634
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: You guys have been you guys have been off GEN

635
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: season for a decent amount of time. Now, have any

636
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: of you gotten into relationship that maybe didn't last as Long's.

637
00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 6: The dating life been like for you, guys.

638
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 2: I've been on and it was someone I knew before

639
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 2: the show.

640
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I've just been around focusing on Now, are.

641
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 9: You going to see her again?

642
00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: No?

643
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 6: No, you said no pretty quickly.

644
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: It didn't go you're you're you're stuttering and mumbling over there.

645
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 2: No yeah, no, no, yeah.

646
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 6: And yeah no romantic connection.

647
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 4: No, hm hmm, it's just you know, awesome, awesome woman.

648
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 4: The date was actually good. I'm just very narrowed down

649
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 4: to focus on what I'm looking for. And I'm old,

650
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 4: so I've dated a lot of people and I kind

651
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 4: of know what works, what doesn't work, and there are

652
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 4: some things that just might not have worked the long term.

653
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 2: Fair I'm looking for long.

654
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 6: Term, So what's your dating life like?

655
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 3: Honestly, it's non exist is that?

656
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: Because what is that? Because you know you're going on Paradise?

657
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: Nah?

658
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 7: Because I was unemployed so I don't need to be

659
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 7: taken out girls.

660
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 3: I'm broke, and because yeah, I'm paradise too.

661
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 7: Like to be honest with you, when you like meet

662
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 7: a woman and you kind of exchange information and then

663
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 7: they find out, oh, you go on another dating show

664
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 7: to kind of be like, oh, so what's that going

665
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 7: to be? Like? I just kind of just want to

666
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 7: take you know, I don't, so I just don't want

667
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 7: even want to take it there and then something comes

668
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 7: down there like oh well me and the camebra, dam

669
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 7: you're about to get married?

670
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 3: Then he went on paradise.

671
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 7: You know, I don't want that to have to be

672
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 7: a problem for me. So I'm just laying low key,

673
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 7: being casual.

674
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 6: John, What about you dating?

675
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: Yeah? No, I met a girl.

676
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:01,280
Speaker 8: She's really cool, really really nice. I mean it's it's

677
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 8: early vibes, so.

678
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 6: I can't really how'd you guys meet?

679
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 8: I can't really call it, but we met like their mutuals.

680
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 8: Somebody who I used to work with was she connected us?

681
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 2: And like I said, it's early vibes. But I don't

682
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: know if things go any.

683
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:16,920
Speaker 8: Better than they have gone, then I don't know if.

684
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 2: Graduation. Thank you, thank you. I appreciate it.

685
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 6: Jeremy running through New York.

686
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, I.

687
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 10: Just started dating again, Like I wasn't dating for a

688
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 10: long time after the show, partially because I didn't want to,

689
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 10: partially because I was busy, But like, now that life's

690
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 10: been settled, I'm starting to get it back.

691
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 5: You guys have your eyes if you do or don't

692
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 5: go to Paradise. Just past cast members current cast members

693
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 5: from Grant season. Do you have your eye on anyone Keen.

694
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 5: Last time you were here, you mentioned liv.

695
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:55,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I don't. I don't know her, but.

696
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,719
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean she's uh, I think she's gorgeous.

697
00:32:59,000 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: She's absolutely gorgeous.

698
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,960
Speaker 7: I think she has a personality that can probably match mine,

699
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 7: and I think she can keep up with me, maybe

700
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,719
Speaker 7: can like kind of humble me a little bit, kind

701
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 7: of like bring me down to her. So yeah, I'm

702
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 7: kind of looking forward to possibly meeting her and Alex.

703
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 7: To Alex, I get if he's not engaged to uh, to.

704
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 3: Grant, you.

705
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 7: Have a chance what possibly? But I want the best

706
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 7: for him. So if it's her, I love that for him,

707
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 7: you know so?

708
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: But yeah, Okay, so let's say let's say let's just

709
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,160
Speaker 1: let's say that Alex goes really fine in the season

710
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: and Grant breaks her heart and then you meet her

711
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: and she's like, I still have feelings for Grant. What

712
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: would you say about Grant to make her be like

713
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: I no longer like him? You have to talk, you

714
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,400
Speaker 1: have to talk a little shit about Grant. What would

715
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: you say, because now you're trying to date this girl?

716
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: Is that I know I'm just thrown it out there.

717
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 7: I mean, well, it's my best friend, so like if

718
00:34:01,640 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 7: they made it to the point that he's like in

719
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 7: love with her, probably not going to talk to her

720
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,839
Speaker 7: to keep it one hundred percent honest with you.

721
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 14: But that because there's a girl on Grand Season that

722
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 14: actually went on a date with my brother, so I

723
00:34:16,200 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 14: couldn't who is this.

724
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 2: Girl it is? It was lat Yeah, that's where I'm from.

725
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,360
Speaker 6: Somebody I know just posted.

726
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 5: A story because that she's from Utah as well, just

727
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 5: being like, yay, my friends, she.

728
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 4: Seems my brother had nothing but great things to say.

729
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 4: She seems awesome. But I can't date someone that on

730
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 4: dates with my brother. That's I'm the older.

731
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, but what happened?

732
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 2: Why?

733
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 6: I know, second date? You know I should and then

734
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 6: let us know I haven't.

735
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 2: I haven't done. He wasn't even one that told me.

736
00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 2: Producers told me because she had.

737
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 6: Mentioned it interesting. Are you close with your brother?

738
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:06,839
Speaker 2: Well?

739
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, even more interesting than.

740
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, no, no, it just didn't come boys.

741
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 6: Are so weird.

742
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 5: He was like, hey, man, you know that show you

743
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 5: went really far on. I actually went on a day

744
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 5: with a girl who's on it now.

745
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 2: No, No, he never said anything. He has to know, right,

746
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: you know what, he doesn't.

747
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 6: He might not.

748
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, if he doesn't, he's not reality TV guy. Yeah,

749
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,280
Speaker 4: he got a kick out of me being on the show.

750
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 4: I heard that from my brothers. So maybe he has

751
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 4: no clue, so he doesn't.

752
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 6: He doesn't follow the show. It's still early.

753
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: John, not you because you're potentially dating someone, but Spencer, Jeremy.

754
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: Any names you would want to throw out or be

755
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,680
Speaker 1: willing to throw out that you are interested in.

756
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:58,759
Speaker 9: Yeah, probably that girl.

757
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 5: Look at Lewis, you know, are you saying that because

758
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 5: he's looking so mad at you right now?

759
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 3: That's exactly no.

760
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 10: No, no specific names. Also, like the goals to not

761
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 10: go on Paradise, I'd love to meet someone before then.

762
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 7: So so wait, So so Maria goes on Paradise and

763
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 7: she's like, yo, I want to meet Jermy.

764
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 1: You go to put their friends they know each other.

765
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 3: But that's what I'm saying.

766
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 7: If they went on Paradise and she's like, you know what,

767
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 7: I want to get to know them on a romantic level,

768
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 7: You're not going to want to get to know anybody

769
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 7: specifically on a romantic level.

770
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 9: Ill say, like, you could have texted me.

771
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,359
Speaker 1: Okay, by Spencer, how about you?

772
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 4: I mean, the producers do their job, and everyone that's

773
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,120
Speaker 4: on the show is gorgeous, and I'm kind of an

774
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 4: in person. Get to know them, see if we vibe,

775
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 4: if we work well together. As we've mentioned already, they

776
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 4: can only show so many assets of someone's personality, So

777
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 4: I guess we just have to go and see who

778
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 4: I gravitate towards, who gravitates towards me, and kind of

779
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 4: go from there.

780
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:15,479
Speaker 3: Ooh boo, you guys are boring, boo boo.

781
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 5: I kind of predicted that was the only one to

782
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,160
Speaker 5: throw a name. I would have been shocked if spensor

783
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 5: Jeremy thread.

784
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,680
Speaker 1: Keim's got backups to He's got about seven more names

785
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 1: to people will throw out.

786
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 7: There's girls that attracted to there's girls that you would

787
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 7: see and you're like, oh, she's beautiful. You had kept

788
00:37:38,280 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 7: every audacity like, yes, she's gorgeous. I wouldn't mind seeing

789
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 7: her on the beach. It's not They're gonna be like,

790
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,640
Speaker 7: you can only talk to that girl now that you

791
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:46,880
Speaker 7: mentioned her on I'm gonna talk to everybody and get

792
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 7: to my subjected to just one person if you say

793
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 7: the person's name man, you feel me.

794
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 3: Like I'm watching I'm just the pot.

795
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 2: I don't know who's gonna be there.

796
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 7: Okay, so you don't know who Grant's girls are, but

797
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 7: you know Dad is your homie. You don't you know

798
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 7: what t Dad is your brother, but you don't know

799
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 7: the girl.

800
00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 9: We have one picture of girl.

801
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm just throwing the pot too. You

802
00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 3: are my boy, these are these are my guys?

803
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 2: You too, James.

804
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 3: You're not You're not You're.

805
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 9: Not a single.

806
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 3: So no, no, no, no, no, hold on, hold on,

807
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 3: hold on, no.

808
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,400
Speaker 1: Hold on Now you're not taking all right, John, But

809
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 1: do you want to Is there is there someone that

810
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: you would throw I mean you would throw out that.

811
00:38:35,200 --> 00:38:36,719
Speaker 1: I didn't want to put you in that situation, but

812
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: your friend's doing it.

813
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 2: So no, and no, there's nobody that would throw out

814
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 2: like we would have to. We would have to see,

815
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 2: we would have to see if you got.

816
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,080
Speaker 6: Gonna say you throw the girl, make sure she looks liked.

817
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 6: Go to the girl that you're dating.

818
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 1: Right now, I came you sent You're out of roll

819
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: and just going to start with you. Is there anything

820
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: that you've learned about yourself in the in the dating world,

821
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:08,720
Speaker 1: since being on Gen season that you may have changed.

822
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I'm a people pleaser, so like I've

823
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 7: learned that about myself, so I kind of value the

824
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,840
Speaker 7: person more than I value myself. So I put everything

825
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 7: into that person and then there's nothing left for me

826
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 7: in that situation. And that's a big problem for me

827
00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 7: just in life is in general, like my friends, I

828
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 7: put everything, everything in my friends, my family, and then

829
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,719
Speaker 7: I kind of have nothing left for myself. I don't

830
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 7: think that's very healthy for me. I know that's certain

831
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 7: things that I have to work on, and I know

832
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 7: there's reasons why that happens, but yeah, I think that's

833
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 7: the most important thing is to make sure not to

834
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 7: lose myself when I'm in a relationship and not just

835
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,359
Speaker 7: put all and everything just into that person. Because I

836
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 7: am a person too that needs my love and my

837
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 7: energy and my time too, So I just need to

838
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 7: make time for myself as well and my goals and

839
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 7: what I want.

840
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: And I humble brag, You're just a self, this wonderful

841
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: man who just I know you that I can see

842
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 1: I see you taking it like, wow, that's so sweet,

843
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: that's so that's so nice.

844
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 3: Joe Hey, listen, you're pushing hockey.

845
00:40:16,840 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: You're pushing all your friends right now, and I'm enjoying it.

846
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: But somebody's gotta fun with you a little bit.

847
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:30,840
Speaker 7: Jeremy on a daily basis, fucks with me every day

848
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 7: every week.

849
00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 6: This one podcast.

850
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 7: Send us lyrics to songs that we don't give a

851
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 7: fuck about you as his background background, Uh my best

852
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,720
Speaker 7: friends to all about the rest of you guys, anything

853
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 7: that anything.

854
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, push their nerves no, go ahead, go ahead, Johnny,

855
00:40:57,760 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 2: you go for ut. I was gonna say, pushed them nervous.

856
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 8: I mean a lot of times I was nervous to

857
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 8: tell and I would let it like get in my

858
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 8: head a little bit. But having gone through like what

859
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 8: we experienced on the show, it's like, you push through,

860
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 8: you're gonna have a great time regardless of just beat itself.

861
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 2: That's what I learned.

862
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 8: I took that away and I feel like it's it's

863
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 8: it's helping me kind of thrive, not only dating, but

864
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 8: like in.

865
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 6: Life, like Spencer, you're up.

866
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 4: My time on the show has shown me how valuable

867
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 4: my time is, and I just don't want to waste

868
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 4: any time dating. I know what I want, know what

869
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 4: I'm looking for, So I'm not just going to go

870
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 4: on dates to go on dates, which I had done previously.

871
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just putting a lot more.

872
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 4: Thought into how I spend my time with people and

873
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:48,240
Speaker 4: making sure that the time that I spend with people

874
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 4: is with people that I want my life long term.

875
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 4: And that's extends to friendships as well. You know, obviously

876
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 4: these guys on the call are guys that I want

877
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 4: my life for a long time, so I spend time

878
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 4: talking with them, But there have been other people that,

879
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:08,280
Speaker 4: you know, I don't see myself knowing them for very longer,

880
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 4: wanting to spend time with them or being interested.

881
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:13,280
Speaker 2: So just being selective with my time.

882
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:14,560
Speaker 1: Jeremy, how about you?

883
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

884
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,720
Speaker 10: Yeah, Like two things. One something that I was trying

885
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 10: to like work on even before the show, and the

886
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,839
Speaker 10: show just helped like speed that up. Is just how

887
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 10: important communication is. Like obviously on the show you need

888
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:30,719
Speaker 10: to not not force it, but like it's it's a

889
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 10: small timeline. You only get so much time, so you

890
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:35,760
Speaker 10: really need to learn how to how to communicate very openly.

891
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,919
Speaker 10: And then just like in dating in general, like I'm

892
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,720
Speaker 10: so I mentioned this before, but I'm so tunnel vision

893
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 10: like I don't. I don't like every girl, but then

894
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Speaker 10: when I like a girl, like I want to be

895
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Speaker 10: with you, I want to spend time with you. So

896
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Speaker 10: it's more about like me trying to set like personal

897
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Speaker 10: like boundaries, like self control, like if I like you,

898
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Speaker 10: I want to see you every day.

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Speaker 5: But I know that is definitely for you at least

900
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Speaker 5: because you.

901
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Speaker 1: You will see them, will you will see them everything? Okay,

902
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:07,840
Speaker 1: we just heard from We just heard from Grant and

903
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Speaker 1: he said, what's up to you guys, and that he

904
00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:10,839
Speaker 1: misses all of you?

905
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Speaker 13: That was just my boy.

906
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Speaker 6: Has he told you, guys, anything about the season? Nothing?

907
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Speaker 5: Is he saying like you don't have to tell us

908
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:25,600
Speaker 5: why he told you obviously if you don't want to,

909
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 5: But like, has he been really tight lipped or has

910
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 5: he come back and kind of been like this is

911
00:43:30,600 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 5: semi where things are at or what went down or

912
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 5: how he's feeling, or has he been like, don't ask me, I'm.

913
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Speaker 6: A vault.

914
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: Came.

915
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,000
Speaker 3: I think this one's for you. I'm chilling, bro, she

916
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:48,360
Speaker 3: knows everything happens.

917
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Speaker 9: Why are you looking away when you're answering that?

918
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 1: I'm so happy you've gotten casted on paradise because I

919
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,279
Speaker 1: just can't wait to have you on this podcast again.

920
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Speaker 3: It is a lot of fun.

921
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,799
Speaker 1: Honestly, thank you guys so much for coming on and

922
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 1: taking time out of your busy days. How Cam, I

923
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 1: know you're driving in a car and the rest of

924
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: you guys are working in busy So thank you guys

925
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 1: so much.

926
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Speaker 2: Of course, thanks griving you guys, and thank.

927
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Speaker 1: You to all our listeners for tuning into Bachelor Happy Hour.

928
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Speaker 5: And don't forget to watch Grant's season premiere next Monday

929
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Speaker 5: on January twenty seventh. We are so excited to see

930
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,320
Speaker 5: his journey unfold. And don't forget to tune into Bachelor

931
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 5: Happy Hour. We released new and exclusive recaps and interviews

932
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Speaker 5: every single week.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and howkeem when we're doing an outro, just

934
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Speaker 1: stop talking, Okay, thank you guys, Urt you guys, so

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it.