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Speaker 1: into our show from one of our listeners named Bobby.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if that's how he pronounces it, but

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Speaker 1: Bobby emailed us and told us he went on on

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Speaker 1: a date that had two very distinctive sides to it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: and I'm reading out of his email. He says, quote

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Speaker 1: one side was very uncomfortable and odd, and the other

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Speaker 1: was fun and enjoyable. That pretty much describes every Craigslist

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Speaker 1: But before we hear about your date, tell us about

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Speaker 1: the girl you went out with. What's her name, Caroline?

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Speaker 1: We can't do anything with that. Okay, it's gonna get

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Speaker 1: Where'd you meet Caroline? We met online okay, And what

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Speaker 1: she was the hottest match I've had in an entire

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Speaker 1: It was like, I'm sorry, is there like a problem

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Speaker 1: like court documents that she had printed offline. Six cases.

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Speaker 1: I felt like I was in school, like in trouble

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Speaker 1: like totally But the records didn't actually say what I

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Speaker 1: So she asked me to explain each one. Who Oh

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Speaker 1: Were you totally honest with her? Yeah, we talked through

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Speaker 1: explain every court date he's ever had. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: we go, lawyer. Well, we're gonna give Caroline a call

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Caroline? Please speaking this? Hi Caroline.

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Speaker 1: Young Jeffrey. I'm a radio host. Hi Caroline. You're not

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Speaker 1: familiar with Young Jeffrey. That's actually not that shocking, Caroline.

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Speaker 1: I'm Brooke. We're a radio show. You said that part already. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Bobby had a great time on his night out with you,

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Speaker 1: We're peer pressuring this guy. Okay, what'd you do? Bobby? Okay?

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Speaker 1: I'd be serious, Caroline, this would be good for you.

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Speaker 1: We'll bring some chicken wings. It'll be fun. Moving ninety

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