WEBVTT - Next Time Your Child Is Upset, Try This Parenting Hack

0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.880
<v Speaker 1>Sistany as a mom, see what you think of this.

0:00:03.279 --> 0:00:07.080
<v Speaker 1>The next time your child is upset, they say, you

0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:11.200
<v Speaker 1>do this according to a child psychologist, and you will

0:00:11.240 --> 0:00:15.200
<v Speaker 1>calm them down. And that is I see you're upset

0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.880
<v Speaker 1>right now, I'm here for you. It's just three things.

0:00:18.920 --> 0:00:22.439
<v Speaker 1>It acknowledges their feelings, reassures them that they're not alone,

0:00:22.680 --> 0:00:25.520
<v Speaker 1>and creates space to calm down without feeling judgment.

0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:27.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I would like that as an adult, I

0:00:27.480 --> 0:00:28.680
<v Speaker 2>do a hybrid of that.

0:00:29.120 --> 0:00:29.600
<v Speaker 1>What do you do?

0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I do acknowledge that they're upset, because I know that

0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:37.680
<v Speaker 2>that's important to acknowledge. But I'm almost more like, I

0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:39.960
<v Speaker 2>know you're upset and it really sucks, but we need

0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:40.559
<v Speaker 2>to get over it.

0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:42.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but get over yourself.

0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I get too harsh towards the end, so

0:00:44.440 --> 0:00:46.080
<v Speaker 2>maybe I need to do that. I'm here for you.

0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:49.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean I usually you're in a rush. She needed

0:00:49.400 --> 0:00:53.760
<v Speaker 1>to quiet down, right, and I see you're upset right now,

0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for you. That's what they say works almost

0:00:56.680 --> 0:01:03.000
<v Speaker 1>all the time. Today's quote for a Monday you outgrow

0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:06.760
<v Speaker 1>people when you outgrow the version of yourself that kept

0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:07.360
<v Speaker 1>them around.

0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:11.000
<v Speaker 3>So true, so true.

0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:13.800
<v Speaker 1>On air filled by the Home Depot.

0:01:13.920 --> 0:01:15.920
<v Speaker 3>This Memorial Day. Turn up the heat with the Home

0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:19.479
<v Speaker 3>Depot next grill for burner gas grill and the stylish

0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:23.000
<v Speaker 3>glen Ridge Falls seven piece dining set plus free delivery

0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:25.839
<v Speaker 3>the Home Depot. How doers get more done? See home

0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:28.160
<v Speaker 3>depot dot com slash delivery for details