WEBVTT - Ep. 24 A Visit from The Nanny 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio podcast 0:00:05.600 --> 0:00:10.360 wine Down Monday. Hey, um, Jen and we were just 0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:14.800 talking about how we wake up. I know, I woke 0:00:14.880 --> 0:00:18.160 up this morning and I looked at Instagram. That's how 0:00:18.360 --> 0:00:21.599 did you see my post? That's not actually didn't see 0:00:21.640 --> 0:00:23.880 your post, but that is the very first thing I did. 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:26.880 I'm like, oh, I wonder if anyone commented on sprinkle 0:00:26.920 --> 0:00:30.280 we had, But what did you Well? I posted something 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:33.600 this morning, and it always puts me in the front. 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:37.879 How you start your first five minutes of your day 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:43.239 really sets the whole groundwork for the entire day. It 0:00:43.360 --> 0:00:47.400 sets the whole tone. If you start off going this 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:53.760 Monday awful, what's going to happen? You're going to get 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:56.400 out of bed, get in the shower, get on your 0:00:56.440 --> 0:01:00.600 spin bike, whatever you're doing. Whatever you're doing you're spinning, think, well, 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:05.160 that's what I did. So I posted something this morning. 0:01:05.319 --> 0:01:08.360 It was Sometimes we forget how magical it is just 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:11.240 to wake up in the morning, take a breath, wiggle 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:14.760 your toes and open your droopy eyes and take a 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:18.920 moment to feel some gratitude that you're alive and that 0:01:19.640 --> 0:01:24.119 you get to live this amazing day. Also, you are 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:28.080 exchanging a day of your life for whatever you do today, 0:01:29.080 --> 0:01:34.120 So it's important to really set the tone and be positive. 0:01:35.080 --> 0:01:37.319 But no matter what's going on, wouldn't that be great 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:42.839 if you could actually be regimented in that kind of mindset? 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.720 You have to train. You have to train yourself. Well, 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:48.360 Mike and I woke up and thought, this morning that 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:50.320 was fun Well, that is not a good way to 0:01:50.360 --> 0:01:55.680 start the tone. What did you guys fight about? Well, 0:01:55.800 --> 0:01:57.800 let me just say it's really funny because what we 0:01:57.880 --> 0:02:02.720 thought about. He just asked me coming in the exact 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:04.640 same thing, and I go, and I go in my head, 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:06.440 I'm like, oh, I'm gonna save that for the podcast 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:10.360 because I said, this morning, are you okay? And it 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:14.040 turned into a complete s show. You're welcome Easton for 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:16.400 not having to blue that. But then when we walked 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:19.360 down the stairs going to record this podcast, goes what's wrong? 0:02:19.480 --> 0:02:23.280 And I was like, nothing, honey, But I was like, 0:02:23.960 --> 0:02:25.560 we just got into a huge fight because you got 0:02:25.560 --> 0:02:28.799 mad at me for asking you what's wrong? But yet 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.120 I just so here. I always said we were last 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:33.079 week we were gonna talk about therapy. You have a 0:02:34.240 --> 0:02:39.000 therapy moment right now. Details. So what did you just see? 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:41.480 How you how hypocritical you just were? Trust me. As 0:02:41.480 --> 0:02:45.720 soon as I said, I was like, let me just 0:02:45.720 --> 0:02:47.480 take it back. But see how easy it is to 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:50.679 when you see something. So this morning when I saw him, 0:02:50.720 --> 0:02:54.040 he had woken up earlier. Uh he woke up about 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:57.360 an hour earlier than me. And you know, Jolie was 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:01.280 she's in this mood where she just wants her the 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:03.000 first thing she wants in the morning is to wear 0:03:03.000 --> 0:03:05.320 a dress. And it's just if you you don't put 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:08.639 a dress on her, then it's a complete just it's 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:12.200 it's a nightmare. She screams, it's it's very frustrating. So 0:03:12.880 --> 0:03:14.000 but you know, we had to get her ready for 0:03:14.000 --> 0:03:15.600 school as it was a little chillier this morning, and 0:03:15.600 --> 0:03:17.200 we don't wouldn't want to put her in a dress, 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:19.880 So a little bit of a thing there, but we 0:03:19.880 --> 0:03:21.800 we kind of were like passing and I just said, hey, 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:25.240 are you okay, and he was like yeah, I'm just 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:28.400 walking into the bathroom and I was like, oh okay, 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:31.880 Like um sorry, Like I didn't meet I just was 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:35.040 asking if you were okay, Like I'm sorry. It just 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:36.600 came from nowhere where I was just like kind of 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:38.680 walking by a straight face walking to bath and get something. 0:03:38.680 --> 0:03:41.640 It's like, oh, you okay. I'm like yeah, I'm I'm fine. 0:03:41.680 --> 0:03:43.880 I'm just going through the morning. And then it was 0:03:44.040 --> 0:03:47.760 that was one thing. The second thing was we were 0:03:47.760 --> 0:03:49.480 all going to drop Jolie off together and then she 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:53.640 was going to go somewhere before we came here, and 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:55.560 Julie and I started walking out the door and I 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:57.600 like halfway closed the front door. She's like, oh, are 0:03:57.600 --> 0:03:59.160 you gonna wait for us? I don't know. I just 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:00.480 said I said, hey, are you going to wait for me? 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:02.240 Because I still had to go in the kitchen. But 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:05.640 he just was so already mad that I asked the 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:08.040 question before that he kind of already shut me off. 0:04:08.080 --> 0:04:09.560 And then I go, you know what, bab, why don't 0:04:09.560 --> 0:04:11.520 you just take Jolia to school? And he's like, no, 0:04:11.640 --> 0:04:13.560 come on, let's go. He's like I'm like no, I 0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:16.359 can tell you're frustrated. And now he's I'm fine, I'm fine. 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:21.320 I'm like you were hid and I was like I'm fine. 0:04:21.360 --> 0:04:23.600 I was like I can't go outside with Joliana. But 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:26.520 that right there, that tone is what gets me, like, 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:33.520 an't if I ask you if you're okay, okay, but well, 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:34.800 I don't know. You just seem like you were like, 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:37.960 but why why can't you just be like, of course 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:40.200 and then that be it? But why do you have 0:04:40.240 --> 0:04:44.280 to ask? Why does it matter? I love everything about this, 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:48.840 but it's so fascinating because this is like so many 0:04:48.920 --> 0:04:52.560 people can relate to this, And what I've learned is 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:57.560 it's perspective you can I had a thing recently where 0:04:57.640 --> 0:05:01.200 three people told me the same story. They were all 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:04.719 together and witnessed the same event, and they each told 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:07.279 it to me differently, And I think that's what's happening. 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:10.960 Mike perceived what Janna was asking in a completely different 0:05:10.960 --> 0:05:16.400 way than you intended it. You misinterpreted the tone, But 0:05:16.440 --> 0:05:19.120 I said, but I just don't understand why he couldn't 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:22.120 have just been like, yeah, I want to know, why 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:24.799 are you okay? Triggered you well, and so he comes 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:27.240 so so okay, So then time out, So then he 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:30.720 leaves because are you because I'm like when he when 0:05:30.720 --> 0:05:33.160 he responds in that way, I'm just like, clearly you're 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.080 not okay, and I can't get to wherever you're at 0:05:35.160 --> 0:05:38.080 right now. And Jolie's sitting like standing there. I'm like, 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:41.560 please just take her to school, Please take her to school. So, 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:43.440 you know, he leaves, takes her to school, and he 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:46.880 comes back and I'm waiting for my uber and you know, 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:53.440 he comes in and he says, Michael, I say that 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:56.000 I can embraced hers and give me a hug. I said, 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:59.839 I'm sorry that, you know, if my reaction could be 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.840 pre sensitive at times, it's just my kind of your 0:06:02.839 --> 0:06:05.440 saying my interpretation like how that makes me feel when 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.240 it's kind of we're just getting our days started. I'm 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:09.919 still trying to wake up, and I'm just kind of 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.960 walking through the bedroom. And after you know, fifteen minutes 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:14.880 of us being up together, I here are you okay? 0:06:15.320 --> 0:06:17.920 I'm like, God, the day just started, Like yeah, I'm fine? 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.280 Like why am I being questioned so triggered by are 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:22.160 you okay? Did you guys used to have that be 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:26.280 my whole thing? Like what I told her is my 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:30.240 whole issues with not feeling good enough are so ingrained 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:34.160 in me that if I here, are you okay? That 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.520 triggers me to think, am I not acting like I'm 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.560 supposed to be acting? Am I not doing what you 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.359 need to me to be doing? And so I'm like, 0:06:40.920 --> 0:06:42.560 should I be doing something else? And then I'm all 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:44.279 of a sudden not confident in what I'm doing in 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:46.520 that moment. Again, it goes in, it goes in phases. 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.080 I'm not like that every single day seven It's just 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:51.960 some certain times are more sensitive than others. I don't 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:55.440 know why, it's just I am So then, what's the 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:57.680 difference between you asking me when you see my face 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.720 when we're walking down here, when you ask me if 0:06:59.720 --> 0:07:03.240 I'm okay? How how is could you say? How contradicted 0:07:04.320 --> 0:07:15.600 struggling we're walking? No? I wasn't at that point. So interesting, 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:17.560 Like I know that it's like you guys are like 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:21.200 dealing with it emotionally, but for an outsider, it's so 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:24.040 fascinating to see the way people interact men and women. 0:07:24.480 --> 0:07:27.160 And then here's my question for you guys. After the 0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:29.360 hug and he said, I'm sorry, are you able to 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:31.440 let it go and move forward? Because my problem is 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.040 I will hold onto it for a day and a 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.160 half and I cannot let it go. So that's how 0:07:35.160 --> 0:07:38.280 we used to. We used to not We used to 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:41.120 not be able to rebound as quick. Now we're able 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:44.640 to rebound faster but it's still inside of me right now. 0:07:44.680 --> 0:07:46.559 Like I walked in being like, why is it okay? 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:48.400 If I just ask you a simple question? Why do 0:07:48.440 --> 0:07:50.960 you get so why do you have to go straight 0:07:51.000 --> 0:07:53.040 to your I'm not good enough, I'm not this. I 0:07:53.120 --> 0:07:57.640 just asked a freaking question and wondering if my husband's okay? 0:07:57.640 --> 0:07:59.280 Why why does it have to be? Like why do 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:02.080 you have to go into year? What gave you the 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:05.440 inclination to ask me if I was okay this morning? 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:08.360 You just seemed annoyed. You seemed quiet and annoyed, and 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:11.680 you know, maybe it was Jolie, maybe it was you 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:13.800 were in your head. I don't know, But why is it? 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:15.800 Why is it wrong of your wife to ask you 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:17.880 if you're okay or not. I'm not saying it's wrong. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:19.640 I never said it was wrong. And you went straight 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:23.240 into your stuff and then took it out. Is it 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.720 not a man woman thing? Because if Jannah asked me, 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:30.240 I would be like, you're so sweet for caring and 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:34.160 being so like intuitive into seeing my body language. And 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:40.520 men hate that s they don't want women diggy. So 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:43.160 I was married to someone for a really long time 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:47.120 who was the worst morning person on the planet, and 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:50.640 I'm a morning person. I wake up happy. I'm so 0:08:50.720 --> 0:09:00.480 excited a SpongeBob, and so is Rocko. He hops off, 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:04.800 good morning. So I would walk around the house and 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:08.760 I would be walking on eggshells because the energy was 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:14.160 so dark and so frustrated and so angry. And I 0:09:14.240 --> 0:09:21.600 learned I would say, hey, everything okay, everything sucks. The 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:25.520 world's dark, you know, like he was just so angry 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:30.160 and so frustrated in the morning. And it's really hard. 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:33.240 Now I'm with somebody who doesn't mind if I ask 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:37.600 are you okay? And it's a totally different experience, it 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:42.320 really is. I think are you okay is just one 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:44.920 step from we need to talk? It is you're right. 0:09:45.000 --> 0:09:47.960 It's like, oh now I have to open up. Great, 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:50.920 now we're you know, I have to pull out my emotions. 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:54.000 So I'm just wondering if you were in your head 0:09:54.080 --> 0:09:58.080 and the energy that Janna was getting was kind of 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:01.920 like closed up, and that's probably why are you? Like 0:10:02.320 --> 0:10:06.120 are you okay? And maybe the tone was just you know, 0:10:06.160 --> 0:10:11.719 it was a completely just misinterpreted that's it. Yeah, I 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:13.440 think it's just it was just a miss in general. 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:15.920 I see. I just I think there are times when 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:20.640 you when when he is just fine and I do 0:10:20.840 --> 0:10:22.959 just ask a simple and you know, and I'm missing 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:26.400 the situation. But I just feel like today there was 0:10:26.440 --> 0:10:30.480 something that you weren't that you were frustrated, that you 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:33.640 weren't just okay and walking into the bathroom. Because the 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:37.800 response that you gave back to me was so like 0:10:38.000 --> 0:10:42.440 just so like like just so annoyed at me that 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.800 I was like, there, this didn't just come out of nowhere. 0:10:46.040 --> 0:10:48.240 But I understand that, and I'm sorry that that your 0:10:48.240 --> 0:10:50.160 first reaction is to feel like you're not good enough, 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:51.600 because I don't want you to feel like you're not 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:55.079 good enough. 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We're going to table it at the moment 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.240 because we really are just so excited that you're in 0:14:14.320 --> 0:14:16.800 studio with us today. Thank you so much for taking 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:19.960 the time to be here. And we were talking about 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:23.240 how we start our mornings, and I loved you were 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:26.120 talking to producer Amy Amy earlier about how you start 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:29.960 your mornings, and I start mine terribly. I look straight 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.160 at Instagram, which is the worst possible thing to do, 0:14:32.240 --> 0:14:36.160 because I immediately just like my life socks. These people's 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:39.000 are better like. And then but you you start your 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:44.720 morning feeding chickens. No, not well, no, I said, the animals. Okay, 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:49.280 that's my tropical fish. My dog and I have some 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:53.920 wild birds so that live on you know, on the 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:59.080 house and on the property. So yeah, that's my great pleasure. 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.720 When I first get up, I put on my champ music. 0:15:03.920 --> 0:15:07.320 I don't need to wear clothes. I just like to 0:15:07.640 --> 0:15:11.960 kind of beat chill and naked and walk around. Do 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:18.960 you walk around butt naked? That's amazing? I love that stick. 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:23.000 You know, once I get home, if I'm by myself, 0:15:23.520 --> 0:15:27.320 and even where I live, don't you get cold? Well, 0:15:27.360 --> 0:15:31.920 if I'm called, then I put on Okay, having a 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:36.920 huge assortment of robes. So yeah, it's just so this 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.440 is so like nostalgic for us. I feel like because 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.240 I grew up watching The Nanny, it was one of 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:47.920 my favorite shows. Why have they not rebooted that show yet? No? Actually, 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:50.320 and mean it was like it was a huge success something, 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:55.760 but it isn't a reboot, but um, you know, you 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:58.520 never know, something may happen. It seems like something that 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:03.280 the fans would like, and uh, they certainly know where 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:07.880 to find me. But you know, recently I've been thinking 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.560 more about it, and I think that if I come 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:12.960 up with the right hook, yeah, I feel like that's 0:16:12.960 --> 0:16:15.600 a That's the theme nowadays is kind of bringing back 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:21.720 older shows and kind of bringing the Murphy Browns that 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:24.200 those those worked, So it's like why not you know 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:27.160 in cable, I feel like needs that. Well for me, 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:30.800 it would have to be really like you need Cardi 0:16:30.800 --> 0:16:33.720 b is what you said, Well, that would make it 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:37.440 for me. I can all come together and make sense 0:16:37.480 --> 0:16:41.160 and be fresh and everything like that, and she would 0:16:41.200 --> 0:16:46.560 be the nanny. I'd be some mom I SYLVI are 0:16:46.680 --> 0:16:51.080 in this version, Um, and get some sexy Latino to 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:54.240 play my husband warning the perfect and then get like 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:58.760 some Obama type to be Mr Sheffield. Fine, I love it, 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:04.080 like a totally fresh version. But um, but you know, 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:07.399 if it doesn't make my hearts sing, then you know 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:11.280 I'm I'm always writing, I'm always producing, I'm always doing things. 0:17:11.600 --> 0:17:14.480 And my organization, Cancers MANCA, keeps me very busy to 0:17:14.480 --> 0:17:17.480 do and that really makes my hearts sing. You know, 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.800 I feel like I got famous. I got cancer and 0:17:19.840 --> 0:17:22.640 I live to talk about it. And I'm talking and 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.399 I think that we have cancers. MANCA movement is really 0:17:25.440 --> 0:17:29.480 making a debt, like we're really changing the way people think. 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:33.160 And this year at our Health Summit at Dorothy Chandler 0:17:33.240 --> 0:17:39.480 Pavilion on October, the theme is how you live equals 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:43.280 how you feel, So we really want to connect those 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:48.040 thoughts for people to really start. If you don't feel great, 0:17:48.840 --> 0:17:52.760 you gotta look at how you're living. It's always because 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:56.960 of that, so very rarely is it because of anything else. 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:00.240 Environmental what you you know, And we have a very 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:03.560 progressive program called Detox your Home because the home is 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:06.200 the most toxic place we spend the most time and 0:18:06.200 --> 0:18:09.240 and ironically have the most control over. So start there 0:18:09.240 --> 0:18:12.399 with the in on and around your challenge. What are 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:15.399 you eating all of your personal carer items? What are 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.040 you cleaning gardening with? Just kind of start with that, 0:18:18.400 --> 0:18:22.400 and you would be amazed if you just decided I'm 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:25.720 not going to do industrial farm foods anymore because that's 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:30.160 just full of agri chemicals that are not serving anyone 0:18:30.240 --> 0:18:35.560 well but the aggri chemical companies. And you know, can 0:18:35.640 --> 0:18:38.640 you start with stuff like that? And then you gotta 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:42.159 look at what's your toothpaste? Does it say do not 0:18:42.359 --> 0:18:46.600 swallow or quote poison control? It's like do not use that? 0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:51.239 Never looked at started So her said, like, you know, 0:18:51.320 --> 0:18:53.280 she's we have a three year old almost three year 0:18:53.280 --> 0:18:55.800 old daughter, and I was reading it says do not swallow, 0:18:55.880 --> 0:18:57.280 and I was like, maybe we should we need to 0:18:57.280 --> 0:19:00.359 get her like better toothpaste because she swallows it. Tooth 0:19:00.400 --> 0:19:03.440 bays should be like food. Man, if you kind of 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:08.280 put stuff in your mouth that's toxic. The food. The 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:12.119 mouth is the gateway to everything. People don't even realize. 0:19:12.160 --> 0:19:16.359 I mean, you can't get you know, like root canals. 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:20.320 That's not good. You get extractions. You have to be 0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:22.520 so careful you're with the right person because if you 0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:26.479 get cavitation in the drawline from a back moler, you 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:29.800 know you're asking for breast cancer. There's so many things 0:19:29.840 --> 0:19:34.280 when you if you have skin problems, you know you'll 0:19:34.320 --> 0:19:37.280 go to a germatologist and they're trying to give you 0:19:37.400 --> 0:19:41.080 stuff to suppress the symptom that's showing up in your skin, 0:19:41.520 --> 0:19:45.800 when really nobody is looking at hormones or or liver. 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:52.280 Skin is liver, brain is gut. If you have brain 0:19:52.400 --> 0:20:01.560 fog any, you know, dementia, Parkinson's, schizophrenia, depression, anxiety, look 0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:10.600 at your freaking gut. The gut is and you know, 0:20:11.040 --> 0:20:19.480 it's a lot of fun. It's fun. It's fun. The 0:20:19.640 --> 0:20:25.240 universe is constantly presenting us with opportunities to, uh, you know, 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:30.320 journey on this journey of self refinement. That's the only 0:20:30.359 --> 0:20:33.440 reason why we're here is so that our souls can 0:20:33.480 --> 0:20:37.320 become more refined. And get more woke. How you've been 0:20:37.320 --> 0:20:41.480 battling cancer for two years? Uh no, I am eighteen years. 0:20:41.480 --> 0:20:45.119 Well it took my two years and eight doctors to 0:20:45.200 --> 0:20:49.040 get a proper diagnosis. So that's is that my phone? 0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:57.479 Nok ah? Where it is? Ladies and gentlemen, do you 0:20:57.640 --> 0:20:58.960 I do people just come up to you and ask 0:20:59.000 --> 0:21:01.560 you to laugh? Yes, they do. I call that my 0:21:01.680 --> 0:21:06.359 seal act. Is it just kind of like and you know, 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:10.600 I mean it's uh, you know, my voice is very 0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:13.840 distinctive and thank god I found the way to monetize it. 0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:17.360 Let me tell you that. But my mom was once 0:21:17.400 --> 0:21:20.000 being interviewed and they said, did she have a funny 0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:22.840 voice when she was a kid, And in a very 0:21:22.920 --> 0:21:25.119 similar voice, she said, we never knew she had a 0:21:25.160 --> 0:21:34.240 funny voice. I'm not as unique in Queens, but it 0:21:34.400 --> 0:21:39.720 still is unusual even in Flushing. Was it hard though, too? 0:21:39.960 --> 0:21:43.200 Did you feel like typecasted because of it? After the Nanny? 0:21:43.840 --> 0:21:46.320 You know? I mean I was. I wasn't mad at 0:21:46.400 --> 0:21:49.400 the typecasting at the time because I felt like I 0:21:49.440 --> 0:21:55.280 was in a groove with uh, like when I first 0:21:55.560 --> 0:21:59.520 started the shows that were on TV. Was welcome back 0:21:59.560 --> 0:22:04.359 cod happy days, laverneon Shirley and then my first movie 0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:07.720 was Saturday Night Fever, so I kind of slipped right 0:22:07.720 --> 0:22:14.240 in and then you know, I, you know, being funny, 0:22:14.720 --> 0:22:19.879 pretty young with a funny voice, you know, that was 0:22:19.960 --> 0:22:22.840 my sweet spot and I you know, it was. It's 0:22:22.920 --> 0:22:26.240 good to be specific in this business. You know, not 0:22:26.359 --> 0:22:30.199 everyone can be Meryl Street and the rest of everybody 0:22:30.240 --> 0:22:33.560 who's non specific. You know, I think I have a 0:22:33.640 --> 0:22:36.280 heart of time. You can be the greatest actor in 0:22:36.320 --> 0:22:41.959 the world and basically go unnoticed. But if you're you know, 0:22:42.080 --> 0:22:45.520 if you have stark quality, then maybe you'll be noticed. 0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:49.439 And maybe not. Everybody wants to be a celebrity. You 0:22:49.440 --> 0:22:52.480 know a lot of actors are really shy and they 0:22:52.560 --> 0:22:55.320 just want to be serious actors. But you know, I 0:22:55.359 --> 0:22:58.000 don't I don't know if problem being a celebrity. I like, 0:22:59.000 --> 0:23:03.000 you know, leveraging my celebrity for the greater good, which 0:23:03.000 --> 0:23:05.000 it looks like you've done with all your cancer sponsor 0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:07.280 and you know, outspoken you are about things that you've 0:23:07.320 --> 0:23:09.600 been through, something that Janna and I talked about a 0:23:09.600 --> 0:23:12.920 lot on here were big advocates for therapy, personal therapy, 0:23:12.960 --> 0:23:16.040 A couple of therapy. I love it. What is it? 0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:18.240 How has that like helped you kind of overcome things 0:23:18.240 --> 0:23:20.040 in your life? For just do you still see a 0:23:20.040 --> 0:23:22.840 therapist to this day? I kind of tell listeners about that. 0:23:23.480 --> 0:23:26.840 I'm on, I'm on a little break right now. But uh, 0:23:27.160 --> 0:23:31.560