WEBVTT - Part One: Rebecca Felton: The First Female Senator (was also a pro-lynching activist)

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<v Speaker 1>Also media, Welcome back to Behind the Bastards, a podcast

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<v Speaker 1>where we tell you everything you don't know about the

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<v Speaker 1>very worst people in all of history. And we have

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<v Speaker 1>quite a special episode for everybody this week. And to

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<v Speaker 1>tell that special episode, we have a special guest, the

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<v Speaker 1>great Samantha McVeigh, host of Stuff Your Mom Never Told

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<v Speaker 1>You in the podcast and the book Stuff your Mom

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<v Speaker 1>Never Told You. I should say, Samantha, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 2>To the show. I don't know he.

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<v Speaker 3>Either way, you did, Jesus stuff Mom never told you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's early morning for me, you know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's one friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, well I haven't slept o'clock my time, So there.

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<v Speaker 2>You go, speaking of friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi Sam, Hi, how is everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good, Sam. I wanted to know, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>anything about the first female senator?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh? First, not the see Now I'm confused because I

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<v Speaker 3>remember the pantsuit senator, which we do talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh, And I have to go back.

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<v Speaker 3>To my book.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the first female senator, right, This is the

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<v Speaker 1>lady who was technically the first female senator. She didn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually do the job of a senator really, but she

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<v Speaker 1>was an activist who kind of got it as an

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<v Speaker 1>award late in life after women got the vote because

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<v Speaker 1>she was She was also a major suffragette activist. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name was Rebecca Felton, and she was technically the first

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<v Speaker 1>female US senator. Now that all sounds great, right, That

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sound like the subject for a buy in the

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<v Speaker 1>Bastard's episode. Unfortunately, Rebecca wasn't just a suffragette, right. She

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't just someone who was an activist for that. She

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<v Speaker 1>was an activist for a lot of things, including lynching.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, I was gonna say she was racist. Wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>she racist?

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<v Speaker 2>She was a plantation racist.

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<v Speaker 3>Georgia, Georgia.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, this is a Georgia story.

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<v Speaker 3>The actual first senator I was thinking about was a

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<v Speaker 3>black woman. But maybe I'm wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't know the elected first senator off

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<v Speaker 1>the top of my head right now. I read about

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<v Speaker 1>her when I was doing the research for this. But

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<v Speaker 1>I'm purely focusing on the mod the white technically because

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<v Speaker 1>she fits for our purposes here on behind the Bastards.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I'm so excited to talk about racist. I love

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<v Speaker 3>talking about racist. This is one of my favorite hobbies.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go, all right, So, Rebecca an Latimer was born

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<v Speaker 1>on June tenth, eighteen thirty five, somewhere near Decatur, Georgia.

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<v Speaker 1>Felton's family was rich.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, cool well, such a it's such a local story.

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<v Speaker 3>This is too close to home.

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<v Speaker 4>This is full on a Samantha McVay episode.

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<v Speaker 3>It is literally my home, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the first female senator was Hattie I forget

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<v Speaker 4>her last name. She finished her husband's after he died.

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<v Speaker 4>She finished her husband's term because it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was after Rebecca, after Rebecca Felton, there was a

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<v Speaker 1>senator who actually got to do some of the work,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was because she taken over for her husband.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the first elected female senator was some time

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<v Speaker 1>after that. Yeah, Felton was the first technical female senator. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>She's a Decatur girl. Her family is rich as hell,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was going to be raised and spend all

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<v Speaker 1>of her early life living on a seven hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five acre plantation with a big white mansion that

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<v Speaker 1>is still around to this day. Sam since your indicator,

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<v Speaker 1>you could go see the Latimer home or I's just

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<v Speaker 1>until pretty recently. Yeah, this is where she would have

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<v Speaker 1>been raised and obviously a seven hundred and twenty five

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<v Speaker 1>Acre plantation. They owned a lot of people, right The

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<v Speaker 1>Latimer family own a huge number of enslaved people. It

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<v Speaker 1>will not surprise you to hear that Rebecca's family had

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<v Speaker 1>been rich basically as long as there had been white

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<v Speaker 1>people on the East coast of North America. Her ancestors

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<v Speaker 1>had been early settlers and had fought in the Revolutionary War.

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<v Speaker 1>So they had been prominent Americans in pre Revolutionary times

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<v Speaker 1>and after the war. They're kind of part of the

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<v Speaker 1>first elite class in this new country.

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<v Speaker 2>Right Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Her family, at the time of her birth lives in Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>but they'd initially lived in the far East coast. They'd

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<v Speaker 1>been on the Potomac right like literally, they'd had a

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<v Speaker 1>huge estate on the Potomac for like two hundred years,

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<v Speaker 1>and not long before Rebecca was born. When her dad

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<v Speaker 1>was like seven years old, the family left for Decatur.

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<v Speaker 1>She would later write of this move, quote, the family

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<v Speaker 1>left behind them the splendid brick residents, the capacious barn

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<v Speaker 1>and outbuildings, all built of brick, perfectly sound and useful

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<v Speaker 1>at this present time, a home of former wealth and luxury,

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<v Speaker 1>to adventure life, fortunate and happiness, and a sparsely settled country,

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<v Speaker 1>fully half of which was still inhabited by Red Indians.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is like her dad's generations is still what

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<v Speaker 1>she's being raised to feel about, like what the family's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Why we left the Northeast for Georgia, right, is because

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<v Speaker 1>there was more adventure there, It was more open, there

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<v Speaker 1>was more space. It was only inhabited by these natives.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, I was gonna say, So she was there before

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<v Speaker 3>the Trail of tears, like she helped you outations.

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<v Speaker 1>The trailft tears happens as she's a girl, basically, right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's an early early things she would have been

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<v Speaker 1>aware of, right, is the Trail of tears, And in

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<v Speaker 1>her autobiography, by the way she writes about it is

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<v Speaker 1>like a horrifying thing. Like she at least as an

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<v Speaker 1>adult after the war, doesn't see as this is good.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's also she's very critical of her family and

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<v Speaker 1>the South as an adult decades later. So don't take

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<v Speaker 1>that to mean that as a kid growing up in

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<v Speaker 1>this rich family that's like colonizing this region, She's not

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily feeling like it's wrong while she's living it. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>this is something she'll come to recognize later in life.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know why the Latimers left the Potomac

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<v Speaker 1>for Georgia other than you know what they said, more adventure.

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<v Speaker 1>I think probably the real reason was that by selling

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<v Speaker 1>that land and the more crowded East, they were able

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<v Speaker 1>to afford to buy a much larger plot of land

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<v Speaker 1>in a place with a better growing climate. One of

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<v Speaker 1>my sources for these episodes is the exceedingly good history

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<v Speaker 1>books Southern Horrors by Crystal Feimster, and she writes that

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<v Speaker 1>by the time Rebecca was born, the Latimer family owned

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<v Speaker 1>not just their vast plantation, but a flour mill, a

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<v Speaker 1>blacksmith shop, a wood shop, tavern, general store, and post office.

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<v Speaker 1>They ran Decatur. Really, they owned Decatur pretty much. The

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<v Speaker 1>Latimer family runs Decatur in its early Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Our theme is come to Decatur where it's greater. So

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<v Speaker 3>maybe they are the ones that placed that there. That's

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<v Speaker 3>why they did that.

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<v Speaker 1>That is more or less why why she seems to

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<v Speaker 1>think that they gave now the Latimer fa Latimer's East

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<v Speaker 1>Coast family land had was sold to the Potomac Boat

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<v Speaker 1>Company and made into a park outside of DC that

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<v Speaker 1>I think still exists today. So I don't know that's

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<v Speaker 1>cool Anyway, Rebecca did not write that autobiography that I

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<v Speaker 1>get some of this info from until she was like

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<v Speaker 1>in her eighties, And so again we shouldn't assume that

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<v Speaker 1>her thoughts in it always reflect your thoughts at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>For example, in her autobiography, she writes extensively about the

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<v Speaker 1>reason her family was able to buy land in Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>in the first place, which was something called the Yazoo

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<v Speaker 1>Land fraud. The New Georgia Encyclopedia describes this as the

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<v Speaker 1>quote bizarre climax to a decade of fringely speculation in

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<v Speaker 1>the state's public lands. See In the immediate wake of

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<v Speaker 1>the American Revolution, the state of Georgia, like many states,

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<v Speaker 1>was broke and running low of young men. It was

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<v Speaker 1>unable to defend its claims to the western Yazoo Land,

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<v Speaker 1>so named after the river, So the legislature solicited pitches

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<v Speaker 1>from speculators who wanted to create new settlements in the

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<v Speaker 1>unsettled areas, and this led to a series of failed

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<v Speaker 1>attempts to create communities in the seventeen eighties. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>really hard to do that out there, right, So after

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<v Speaker 1>those kind of go bunk, Georgia tries to seed the

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<v Speaker 1>land to Congress. They're like, well, make this federal land.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to deal with this shit anymore. And

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<v Speaker 1>Congress says, wait, why we don't want to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>what are you talking about? And so then in the

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<v Speaker 1>seventeen nineties, after a bunch of back and forth public pressure,

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<v Speaker 1>the governor transfers thirty five million acres to four companies

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<v Speaker 1>that had paid a total of about half a million dollars. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>the only way to actually do this transaction was for

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<v Speaker 1>the governor to bribe a huge number of people, because

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<v Speaker 1>most of what they were doing to kind of force

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<v Speaker 1>this through was technically illegal. His I think his assumption

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<v Speaker 1>was just, well, this is such a pain to everybody

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<v Speaker 1>having this land that if I have to break the

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<v Speaker 1>law to get onto someone else's hands so the Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to deal with it, it'll be worth it

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody. But then the news finds out, and the

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<v Speaker 1>news finds out that this guy has basically like bribed

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<v Speaker 1>away a huge chunk of the collectively owned like land

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<v Speaker 1>of Georgia. As you know, the white people in Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>see it, and so there's years and years of lawsuits

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<v Speaker 1>and countersuits and the Yazoo fraud kind of dominates Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>state politics for around twenty years now. The Native American

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<v Speaker 1>tribes in the area also get involved and start in,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, counter suing and whatnot, because it's their land

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<v Speaker 1>being sold and they have some issues with it, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them are like, we should at least get

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<v Speaker 1>some money for this, right. So there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>court fights over this. The land eventually gets seated finally

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<v Speaker 1>to the federal government in eighteen oh two, like Georgia

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<v Speaker 1>had wanted to do originally, and the federal government pays

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<v Speaker 1>Georgia one point twenty five million dollars to extinguish the

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<v Speaker 1>remaining claims on the territory. That means they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>pay off, for example, a lot of these tribes who

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<v Speaker 1>say they have claims to this area and then for

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<v Speaker 1>the New Georgia Encyclopedia. As cotton culture spread across Georgia,

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<v Speaker 1>the national government proved unable to extinguish Creek and Cherokee

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<v Speaker 1>claims to land quickly enough for white Georgians who were

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<v Speaker 1>rapidly laying claim to inland at tracks through the land

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<v Speaker 1>lottery system. Anger over this matter fueled the development of

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<v Speaker 1>the state's rites philosophy for which George's leaders became notorious

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<v Speaker 1>in the eighteen twenties and eighteen thirties. Is they continually

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<v Speaker 1>proud of the United States to complete the process of

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<v Speaker 1>Indian removal. In a sense, the Yazu land fraud helped

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<v Speaker 1>lead to the Cherokee Trail of Tears in eighteen thirty eight.

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<v Speaker 1>So purpose, Yeah, the purpose is horror, but like that

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<v Speaker 1>that's this is Rebecca's understanding of like how her family

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<v Speaker 1>gets to Georgia later, which is she realizes it's because

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<v Speaker 1>of this fraud that like violently displaced these people, and

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<v Speaker 1>she has very early memories of the Trail of Tears.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a thing that I think is upsetting to her

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<v Speaker 1>even from a young age before she fully understands it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I suspect that's kind of why she spends so

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<v Speaker 1>much time as an adult trying to understand what had

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<v Speaker 1>caused it. But this is something she writes about a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>so she knows, my comfortable family life in Georgia only

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<v Speaker 1>was possible because these people were robbed and because of

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<v Speaker 1>this fast fraud, like we should never have been there,

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<v Speaker 1>which is something she's going to like talk about pretty

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<v Speaker 1>openly later, but again, isn't really thinking about at the time, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>We shouldn't assume she knew any of this as a

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<v Speaker 1>little girl.

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<v Speaker 3>You're starting to build her up like she's actually like

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<v Speaker 3>human and kind, so I'm really the interested in ware

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<v Speaker 3>the story goes.

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<v Speaker 1>The tough thing about Rebecca is she says the right

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<v Speaker 1>thing like sixty percent of the time, but if you

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<v Speaker 1>interrogate it, like most of the time when she says

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<v Speaker 1>the right thing, it's for a really bad reason, and

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<v Speaker 1>we get we'll get to all of that. She does

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<v Speaker 1>sound weirdly woke at points.

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<v Speaker 3>Like this is like the white women's hears those that

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<v Speaker 3>that we were like, yeah, we definitely need that intersection

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<v Speaker 3>because without it it's very one sided. So this is

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<v Speaker 3>where we're at with her, right, Okay, okay, okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So from an early age, Rebecca is aware of how

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<v Speaker 1>much of her daily comfort and security is provided for

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<v Speaker 1>by the women in her family, and most of her

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<v Speaker 1>like most interesting recollections of her childhood is her talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how much she admired the older women in her family,

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<v Speaker 1>These who are in charge of these huge households and

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<v Speaker 1>plantations and are kind of organizing the affairs of all

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<v Speaker 1>of these workers and enslaved people. She really admires like

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<v Speaker 1>the ladies in her family more than it because that

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<v Speaker 1>in part because that's who she has direct contact with.

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<v Speaker 1>But she also sees very accurately that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>Southern culture is held up by the labor of these women, right,

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<v Speaker 1>even though they don't get a lot of credit for it.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of these women that she admires as a

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<v Speaker 1>girl is missus Lucy Talbot Swift, who Rebecca described as

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<v Speaker 1>the mother of eleven children, all reaching maturity except two

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<v Speaker 1>that live to eleven and twelve years. Her industry, her management,

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<v Speaker 1>and her executive ability and caring for and carrying on

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<v Speaker 1>household affairs are still wonderful memories. So this is like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is who she's raised to idolize. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>best woman you can be in the South, Right, Is

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<v Speaker 1>this like Lucy Swift? You know this lady who has

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<v Speaker 1>eleven kids, nine of them make it to adulthood, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's really good at managing a household. Right, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>successful woman.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's what we call leaning.

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<v Speaker 1>In exactly exactly. And so Rebecca is raised to idolize

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of woman all her clothing. All of Rebecca's clothing,

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<v Speaker 1>every blanket, and every pillow she ever used were all

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<v Speaker 1>handmade and all crafted by her female relatives or by

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<v Speaker 1>enslaved people, usually by enslaved people being like watched over

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<v Speaker 1>by your female relatives, right. One of Rebecca's first specific

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<v Speaker 1>recollections about her own life is that she was given

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<v Speaker 1>a pony at a very young age. So this was

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<v Speaker 1>her pet, which again shows that she's a very wealthy girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also a practical tool for the farm. She writes, quote,

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<v Speaker 1>the Negro boys learned to plow with him, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was the dependence for going on mill with a sack

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<v Speaker 1>of corn on his back for more than a dozen years.

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<v Speaker 1>And her family also owns a bunch of race horses.

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<v Speaker 1>So all of their and this is kind of worth noting,

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<v Speaker 1>all of their wealth and all of their luxury items

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<v Speaker 1>are alive. This is a wealthy family, but they primarily

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<v Speaker 1>think of their wealth in terms of like material goods.

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<v Speaker 1>They basically have what they make. They don't go out

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<v Speaker 1>and buy stuff. They don't have a ton of ready

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<v Speaker 1>cash necessarily, but they own people, which are worth way

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<v Speaker 1>more than just about any other commodity you can own.

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<v Speaker 1>And they own horses in livestock. Right, that's what makes

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<v Speaker 1>them rich. That's what makes you rich in this day,

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<v Speaker 1>right in the South, is that you have human beings.

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<v Speaker 1>In the first few dozen pages of her autobiography, she

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<v Speaker 1>refers to the people her family owned exclusively as nurses, servants,

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<v Speaker 1>and help. In one passage describing a great feast held

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<v Speaker 1>in her plantation, she writes, white farmers came with their

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<v Speaker 1>colored men. So it's interesting she seems to be almost

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<v Speaker 1>hiding or trying to avoid, even maybe unconsciously describing these

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<v Speaker 1>people as slaves and what her family's doing as slaving

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<v Speaker 1>for a weirdly long time. Now, that doesn't keep up

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<v Speaker 1>the whole book. She finally makes a direct and open

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<v Speaker 1>reference to slavery, the first that I found on page

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<v Speaker 1>fifty three, and it's a lot more common after that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just weird how long it takes her to use

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<v Speaker 1>that word. I thought that was kind of worth noting.

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<v Speaker 3>So she may have subconsciously understood a this is kind

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<v Speaker 3>of bad because this is a person, because she refers

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<v Speaker 3>to them as people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And she also is writing this decades later, after

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<v Speaker 1>the Civil War or after freedom in the twentieth century.

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<v Speaker 1>Right the early twentieth centuries when this book gets written.

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<v Speaker 1>So some of this is certainly her referring to these

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<v Speaker 1>people more by the modern terms than by you know

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<v Speaker 1>what she would have called them at the time. Her

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<v Speaker 1>first and direct open reference to slavery, at least that

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<v Speaker 1>I found was, came when discussing a woman she admired

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<v Speaker 1>whose husband had passed away early and left her to

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<v Speaker 1>manage an entire plantation and family. Quote, there were slaves,

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<v Speaker 1>but nobody to direct but the anxious woman who had

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<v Speaker 1>this large family black and white to provide for. And

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<v Speaker 1>you see this a lot in like Southern narratives before

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<v Speaker 1>the Civil War, where they will both refer to the

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<v Speaker 1>people they own as family and as you know, property.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's also literally true in most of these cases, right,

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<v Speaker 1>most of these slaves people are related to the people

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<v Speaker 1>who own them, or not most, but a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>them are.

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<v Speaker 2>It's very common.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, that's what companies do today. We're family, right,

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<v Speaker 3>or do this because we love the job, not because

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<v Speaker 3>we have to be paid.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's we're literally family because I own you and raping

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<v Speaker 1>in order to make more people that I own.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and then I'd discard you if you were no

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<v Speaker 3>longer more selues. Yeah, horrifying, Yeah, yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca's very aware of that dimension of it too as

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<v Speaker 1>she gets older. Now, Rebecca is open about the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that most wealthy Southern women were raised to be ornaments

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<v Speaker 1>in this period of time. They're made for early marriage

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<v Speaker 1>and child rearing. They're not supposed to make decisions about

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<v Speaker 1>anything too important. In her book, Crystal Feimster ads from

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<v Speaker 1>a young age, Rebecca was integrated into a hierarchical social

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<v Speaker 1>order that sanctioned male dominance that discouraged female autonomy. Because

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<v Speaker 1>Southern white women were legally subordinated to and he economically

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<v Speaker 1>dependent on their fathers and husbands, they had little choice

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<v Speaker 1>but to accept paternalistic domination in exchange for male protection

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<v Speaker 1>and a measure of discrete power within the household. As

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<v Speaker 1>an obedient and dutiful daughter, Rebecca could count on her

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<v Speaker 1>father's care. It was he who came to a rescue

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<v Speaker 1>when she found a drunken man hanging on their front gate,

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<v Speaker 1>shouting the most awful things. The man served as a

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<v Speaker 1>reminder of the dangers that lay outside the sheltered security

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<v Speaker 1>of the plantation, and her father's protective and watchful eye.

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<v Speaker 1>Rebecca and the other young women of her class were

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<v Speaker 1>always closely guarded and never traveled without male chaperones.

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<v Speaker 3>She's a owned as well, like she is property. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>she's so close.

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<v Speaker 1>She comes to understand very quickly that women can't have

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<v Speaker 1>a cap on their ambitions and a cap on what

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<v Speaker 1>they can do, no matter how smart and capable they are.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's going to gradually understand that. And this this

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<v Speaker 1>understanding starts when she's a girl, which is that like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a dangerous world out there for me a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I need the protection of a man, my father and

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<v Speaker 1>then my husband, right, and then if I don't have that,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel naked and unprotected to the world. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>she's raised to feel from being a very little girl.

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<v Speaker 3>And so there's other men, by the way, fear from other.

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<v Speaker 1>Men, and it's it's never explicitly stated as such, but

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<v Speaker 1>there's a social contract she comes to understand, which is

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<v Speaker 1>that women in the South do what they're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>and make themselves small, and in exchange, they get protection

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't have to work. Right, That's that's the

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<v Speaker 1>promise for rich women, right, there's plenty of poor lady,

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<v Speaker 1>white ladies in the South.

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<v Speaker 2>Who have to work because they know not tony people.

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<v Speaker 3>And technically the women that she admires work a lot

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<v Speaker 3>in they do giving the household.

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<v Speaker 1>But they're working at it managing the work of people

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<v Speaker 1>they own. That is also a big part of it, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So there are accounts, I mean, and again that's also

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<v Speaker 1>not always what happens, because not all of these, especially

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<v Speaker 1>the higher you get in wealth, these these white like

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<v Speaker 1>mistresses of the plantation, it's almost the more money you have,

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<v Speaker 1>the less you're expected to do. And in fact, there

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<v Speaker 1>are accounts by white women and extremely wealthy plantation households

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<v Speaker 1>from like letters where we see them talking about panicking

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<v Speaker 1>when their husbands and sons are away and they have

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<v Speaker 1>to be in charge of the help themselves. This isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the overwhelming norm, but it wasn't uncommon, and it gives

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<v Speaker 1>you an idea of how much agency high status women

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<v Speaker 1>in the Old South are expected to seed. In Southern Horrors,

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<v Speaker 1>Finster quotes a South Carolina matron named Emily Harrison who

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<v Speaker 1>wrote in her diary, I shall never get used to

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<v Speaker 1>being left as the head of the of affairs at

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<v Speaker 1>home I am constituted so as to crave a guide

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<v Speaker 1>and protect her. I am not an independent woman, no,

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<v Speaker 1>nor ever shall be. That's a woman writing it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a rich woman.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>That is not what Margaret Mitchell told me about the

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<v Speaker 3>Antebell himself. So I'm really.

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<v Speaker 1>Turns out some of it that might have getten glorified

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<v Speaker 1>it just a little bit. Turns out Gone with the

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<v Speaker 1>Wind wasn't a perfect recollection. Rebecca's story is a lot

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<v Speaker 1>like Scarlett O'Hara is. Honestly, they have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>comparisons to make.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm starting to wonder if Margaret Mitchell actually knew her,

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<v Speaker 3>because she was from Georgia's well, so.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean almost very good chance Rebecca's and Rebecca's very

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<v Speaker 1>famous after the war too, like knew of her, certainly.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if they were social. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>As a girl, Rebecca attended multiple slave weddings on the plantation.

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<v Speaker 1>She was candle holder for quote, one big Negro wedding

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<v Speaker 1>at her grandmother's house. Through this reminiscence rose colored as

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<v Speaker 1>it is in her words, we still see glimpses of

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<v Speaker 1>the brutality of the slave system. And this is you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about like, what is a fond memory of her girlhood.

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<v Speaker 1>The girl was a housemaid, but the groom lived several

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<v Speaker 1>miles away and came to his wife's home every Saturday

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<v Speaker 1>to stay until Monday morning daylight. The patrol system was

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<v Speaker 1>still enforced throughout the South. Colored men going to the

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<v Speaker 1>wife's house were given a pass, and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>wise precaution. Slaves were too valuable to allow one of

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<v Speaker 1>them to be beaten if he did not have a pass.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's talking about this because of like the fear

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<v Speaker 1>of slave uprisings. You can't go around even if you're

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<v Speaker 1>like heading over to your fiance's place for the night

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<v Speaker 1>without a pass. And she's like, it was a good

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<v Speaker 1>precaution because otherwise, you know, they're too valuable to just

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<v Speaker 1>like beat them because they don't have a pass. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's the only thing she thinks about, Like the wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>of the slave system is, Oh, it stops the property

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<v Speaker 1>from getting damaged.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh right, Like I can't lose those because my money

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<v Speaker 3>is my currents.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it would be really bad if this got hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>So she describes the courtship process of this enslaved couple

0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:01.440
<v Speaker 1>in a way that's still sent her own experience, which

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<v Speaker 1>I also find quite telling. Quote The colored boy came

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<v Speaker 1>one night after supper to ask for the girl, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was present at the asking. I was very fond

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<v Speaker 1>of the bride to be, and I became a close listener. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>because this young woman was Rebecca's family's property, the man

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<v Speaker 1>wound up asking Rebecca for permission, and she relates that

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<v Speaker 1>whole conversation. Will you treat your wife decent if I

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<v Speaker 1>allow you to marry her? Will you act the dog

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<v Speaker 1>and beat my good darkie when you get mad with her?

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<v Speaker 1>He gladly answered no. Now, I expect you to behave yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>If you come here to live. It's my house you

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<v Speaker 1>will live in with your wife, but you are welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to if you behave yourself. Do you like see again,

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<v Speaker 1>she doesn't see this as like she says, this is

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<v Speaker 1>I think a fundamentally like natural and good relationship, Like

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<v Speaker 1>she's working out looking out for this girl because she

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<v Speaker 1>cares about her. But you also see like that casual

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<v Speaker 1>use of a slur that she doesn't even I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>it would say like, oh, that was just what we

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<v Speaker 1>called them, you know, that wasn't like a term a

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<v Speaker 1>hurtful term, and it's like, yeah, I mean it's pretty racist, Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all like and I'm sure you used worse terms

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<v Speaker 1>actually in eighteen fifty or whatever the hell this was.

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<v Speaker 1>But you see this like she is really invested in

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<v Speaker 1>depicting this as like a familial relationship. This is someone

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<v Speaker 1>I care about, But this woman is not allowed to

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<v Speaker 1>get married without this random teenage girl saying it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and like harranguing her adult husband who can't go there

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<v Speaker 1>without a pass otherwise he'll get beaten and murdered by

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<v Speaker 1>random guys on horses anyway, the South.

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<v Speaker 3>No, this really is like the way Gone with a

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<v Speaker 3>win wants to tell you that they wanted to be enslaved.

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<v Speaker 3>They were tweeted, well, they were more basically who happened.

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<v Speaker 4>There's definitely a bunch of articles that compare Scarlett O'Hair,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like Scarlet.

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<v Speaker 2>Too to yeah, Rebecca Felt, very Rebecca.

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<v Speaker 4>Felton, you know, I mean they're like they're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>the real Scarlet.

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<v Speaker 3>Is Rebecca Felt.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a bunch of articles like.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty much definitely like and this is like Scarlett O'Hair.

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<v Speaker 1>The character probably would have gotten into politics after the war, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>He absolutely would her husband right right.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't call Rebecca's autobiography good, but it is legiti

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<v Speaker 1>be fascinating because of the glimpse it gives us of

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<v Speaker 1>pre war southern plantation life. This is not just true

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<v Speaker 1>of horrible things. And I want to read you one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite paragraphs, just for like color about daily

0:22:09.640 --> 0:22:11.199
<v Speaker 1>life back then. This is her talking about when she

0:22:11.240 --> 0:22:13.880
<v Speaker 1>was a little kid and rural schools of my earliest days.

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<v Speaker 1>Nearly all of us wore a cord around our necks

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<v Speaker 1>with a little wallet of brimstone and esphodia tied on

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<v Speaker 1>as an itch preventative, and the warts my mind, how

0:22:20.960 --> 0:22:22.880
<v Speaker 1>to get rid of the itch and warts on their

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<v Speaker 1>hands occupied so much of general conversation at recess time,

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<v Speaker 1>and a surprising part of the whole thing was the

0:22:27.600 --> 0:22:30.520
<v Speaker 1>imparent indifference to both itch and warts and the rude

0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:33.280
<v Speaker 1>homes with the majority of the pupils were domiciled. Just

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<v Speaker 1>a little like, look into this rich girl is still

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<v Speaker 1>going to a school that her dad has built indicators,

0:22:38.640 --> 0:22:40.879
<v Speaker 1>so like the poor kids come there too, and all

0:22:40.920 --> 0:22:42.800
<v Speaker 1>of them are constantly wearing all this stuff on them

0:22:42.800 --> 0:22:46.000
<v Speaker 1>because they're itchy, they're filled with lice, and like anyone

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<v Speaker 1>who's not growing up like Rebecca rich On a plantations

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<v Speaker 1>just covered in warts all the time. That's just normal

0:22:51.000 --> 0:22:54.840
<v Speaker 1>life in like the fucking countryside for poor people, just

0:22:54.880 --> 0:22:57.080
<v Speaker 1>little bits like that, Like they don't even notice the

0:22:57.119 --> 0:22:59.160
<v Speaker 1>itch anymore because it's just their normal life is being

0:22:59.160 --> 0:23:03.680
<v Speaker 1>so completely fucking covered in warts. Anyway, it's awful. It's

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<v Speaker 1>good not to live in the past.

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<v Speaker 3>So when we're saying warts, it's obviously not just warts, right,

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<v Speaker 3>Like if it's itchy and callouses maybe and then yeah,

0:23:11.880 --> 0:23:13.120
<v Speaker 3>these type of things and.

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<v Speaker 2>All sorts of shit.

0:23:14.000 --> 0:23:17.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure, okay, all right, people's skin was fucked up

0:23:17.240 --> 0:23:17.680
<v Speaker 1>back then.

0:23:17.880 --> 0:23:18.879
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, what has happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, yeah, yeah, Well we'll get back to more

0:23:22.440 --> 0:23:26.320
<v Speaker 1>of Rebecca's life and more skincare tips from the pre

0:23:26.440 --> 0:23:39.800
<v Speaker 1>war South, but first here's ads and we're back so

0:23:40.280 --> 0:23:43.240
<v Speaker 1>you can find yourself at times forgetting that Rebecca's book

0:23:43.240 --> 0:23:45.760
<v Speaker 1>is the account of an unapologetic bigot, because whole pages

0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:47.960
<v Speaker 1>go by where she just like writes about weird little

0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:50.040
<v Speaker 1>details of farm life in this period of time that

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<v Speaker 1>I do find interesting. So when she's an adolescent, her

0:23:54.440 --> 0:23:57.120
<v Speaker 1>parents buy a separate home indicator away from the plantation

0:23:57.240 --> 0:23:59.920
<v Speaker 1>so she can attend a fancy private academy. The teacher

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<v Speaker 1>there was one John S. Wilson, and he hated dancing

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<v Speaker 1>more than the town from Footloose did. He banned any

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<v Speaker 1>of his students from dancing, not just at school events,

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:10.479
<v Speaker 1>but recreationally on their own time. You'd like sign a

0:24:10.520 --> 0:24:12.960
<v Speaker 1>contract that if you're there as a pupil, you will

0:24:12.960 --> 0:24:15.480
<v Speaker 1>never dance in or out of school, and if you dance, it.

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<v Speaker 2>Gets to expel you.

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<v Speaker 1>And Rebecca writes that at the time, she's like an

0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:23.280
<v Speaker 1>adolescent twelve or thirteen, this terrified her because I love

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 1>to dance like I loved Candy. There's not much else

0:24:26.080 --> 0:24:29.000
<v Speaker 1>to do for a little girl in the eighteen fifties,

0:24:29.240 --> 0:24:30.840
<v Speaker 1>and she really wants to dance.

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<v Speaker 4>What's what's job problem?

0:24:32.600 --> 0:24:33.120
<v Speaker 3>What the fuck?

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<v Speaker 2>Bro a weird religious thing? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I have to ask, did y'all is this just a

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<v Speaker 3>Southern thing? And this is gonna be horrifying And I'm

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:43.840
<v Speaker 3>gonna be like really embarrassed that I told y'all this.

0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:47.960
<v Speaker 3>Did y'all have a Civil War ball in your school?

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<v Speaker 2>Not in tech, not in Plano, Texas in the ninth

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<v Speaker 2>have it.

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<v Speaker 3>In Texas nineties history outside of time I was in

0:24:56.040 --> 0:24:56.600
<v Speaker 3>the nineties.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't even don't even ask about Los Angeles, you know

0:24:59.400 --> 0:24:59.840
<v Speaker 4>the answers.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Yeah, well, like we literally had to dress up,

0:25:03.040 --> 0:25:07.920
<v Speaker 3>find dresses that were antebellum mine was brightened away, and

0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:11.280
<v Speaker 3>then do the dances, the traditional dances, sell them.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, so really was it just me?

0:25:14.000 --> 0:25:17.520
<v Speaker 3>And imagine being the only person of color. Literally there

0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:22.080
<v Speaker 3>was two Asian people actually doing this. No, y'all didn't

0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:24.760
<v Speaker 3>experiences none of the learned the dances.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>No. I went to a huge school district where like

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<v Speaker 1>fucking half the kids in my school district were like

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<v Speaker 1>from Southeast Because there's so much of like Texas instruments

0:25:33.640 --> 0:25:34.960
<v Speaker 1>and stuff, and there half of my school was from

0:25:34.960 --> 0:25:39.600
<v Speaker 1>like Southeast Asia. It would be really weird dress that

0:25:39.640 --> 0:25:42.440
<v Speaker 1>would would not have gone over you think of.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so really, like y'all didn't have any of the

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:49.119
<v Speaker 3>real like retelling of these.

0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I definitely got got some lost cause narrative in my education. Sure,

0:25:53.480 --> 0:25:56.160
<v Speaker 1>but we never like dressed up like Texas.

0:25:56.520 --> 0:25:58.159
<v Speaker 3>I was told by someone who lived in Texas that

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:00.600
<v Speaker 3>we didn't study history outside of Texas. History like that

0:26:00.720 --> 0:26:01.240
<v Speaker 3>was our.

0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:03.920
<v Speaker 1>We have a Texas history class, but we sure had

0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:05.760
<v Speaker 1>other history. The schools where I went to in North

0:26:05.760 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Texas were pretty good. Uh, it's just that you know,

0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you get it filmed. No, it was a public school.

0:26:12.359 --> 0:26:14.360
<v Speaker 1>I only ever went to public school. There's really good

0:26:14.359 --> 0:26:16.600
<v Speaker 1>public schools in North Texas because there's a there's like

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:18.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of businesses and stuff there.

0:26:18.240 --> 0:26:20.119
<v Speaker 3>We only had one school, high school. So you're going

0:26:20.160 --> 0:26:20.760
<v Speaker 3>to tell me about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's I mean when I grew up in a

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:26.480
<v Speaker 1>in like rural Oklahoma, like my school there was one

0:26:26.520 --> 0:26:28.359
<v Speaker 1>school in the entire town and it was tiny. But

0:26:28.400 --> 0:26:30.520
<v Speaker 1>North Texas is very densely populated.

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<v Speaker 3>That's fair.

0:26:31.560 --> 0:26:32.000
<v Speaker 2>That's fair.

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 3>So okay, my, yeah, it's I got it.

0:26:37.480 --> 0:26:39.440
<v Speaker 1>She goes to this school and this teacher who doesn't

0:26:39.440 --> 0:26:41.760
<v Speaker 1>want her dancing, and her parents are eventually say like, look,

0:26:41.800 --> 0:26:44.240
<v Speaker 1>this is the right thing for you. We'll dance when

0:26:44.240 --> 0:26:48.520
<v Speaker 1>you graduate, right. She's very upset, and she's particularly upset

0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:50.760
<v Speaker 1>that she has to stop dancing for a while because

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:52.960
<v Speaker 1>there's a big dance coming up into Catur and she

0:26:53.080 --> 0:26:56.040
<v Speaker 1>has the hots for the town judge, the Honorable Edward

0:26:56.160 --> 0:27:00.720
<v Speaker 1>young Hill. Now she's twelve or thirteen at the judge.

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:04.440
<v Speaker 1>He's got to be thirty or something right or more,

0:27:05.280 --> 0:27:07.320
<v Speaker 1>but she describes it as one of the handsomest men

0:27:07.440 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 1>she ever knew, and notes that at several previous dances

0:27:10.840 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>quote several times the judge would ask me to dance

0:27:12.960 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>with him, and he was a splendid dancer. Now, I

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:17.959
<v Speaker 1>don't know if this judge was grooming her or if

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:22.080
<v Speaker 1>this was really innocent. She's twelve or thirteen. It's really

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:24.080
<v Speaker 1>not weird for girls of her status to get married

0:27:24.080 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>at like fourteen or fifteen. They get sold off, so

0:27:29.000 --> 0:27:33.440
<v Speaker 1>this isn't super weird. That said, her parents are clearly

0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:37.520
<v Speaker 1>they're not. Is like, if her parents are aware that

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:39.520
<v Speaker 1>this judge might be making the moves on here, they

0:27:39.560 --> 0:27:41.439
<v Speaker 1>don't see him as a good enough match to have

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 1>it worth her not graduating from this private school, So

0:27:44.000 --> 0:27:45.919
<v Speaker 1>she's not allowed to go to the dance, and she

0:27:46.040 --> 0:27:48.720
<v Speaker 1>graduate graduates from school, at which point her parents throw

0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:52.040
<v Speaker 1>her a dance party to celebrate. She's a rich girl,

0:27:52.800 --> 0:27:55.400
<v Speaker 1>and she writes lovingly of plantation life, but she also

0:27:55.440 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 1>complains about the role of women in southern culture at

0:27:57.600 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 1>the time. She noticed early on that many of her

0:27:59.600 --> 0:28:02.480
<v Speaker 1>teachers and governesses were northern women who had moved to

0:28:02.480 --> 0:28:05.680
<v Speaker 1>the South for work. Quote no Southern woman of means

0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 1>ever proposed to work at anything outside of home. Rapid

0:28:08.920 --> 0:28:11.400
<v Speaker 1>marriage was the goal as early as fourteen or fifteen,

0:28:11.600 --> 0:28:13.119
<v Speaker 1>and it was seen as a stigma to not have

0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:15.159
<v Speaker 1>received at least one marriage offer by the time you

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:18.480
<v Speaker 1>had advanced into long dresses as a girl. She don't

0:28:18.480 --> 0:28:20.880
<v Speaker 1>have to accept your first marriage offer. But you're kind

0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:22.840
<v Speaker 1>of scene as like fucked up if by the time

0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:25.640
<v Speaker 1>you're wearing like long dresses, someone's not trying to get

0:28:25.640 --> 0:28:25.919
<v Speaker 1>with you.

0:28:26.280 --> 0:28:27.399
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>So, perhaps the most sympathetic thing about Rebecca is that

0:28:30.760 --> 0:28:34.040
<v Speaker 1>she clearly just naturally paid attention anytime a woman in

0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:36.280
<v Speaker 1>her world was allowed to act with the slightest bit

0:28:36.320 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 1>of autonomy. You can just kind of catch that from

0:28:38.440 --> 0:28:41.160
<v Speaker 1>bits like this. In her autobiography, she writes about an

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 1>unforgettable church service where quote, I heard a woman pray

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:47.120
<v Speaker 1>in meeting for the first time. It came like a

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 1>clap out of a clear sky. She had been talking

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:51.440
<v Speaker 1>to a bunch of mourners and broke loose in the

0:28:51.440 --> 0:28:53.480
<v Speaker 1>fervor of her pleadings. It was the talk of the

0:28:53.480 --> 0:28:55.480
<v Speaker 1>town for a good while. Some said it would not

0:28:55.560 --> 0:28:57.320
<v Speaker 1>do at all. Others said she was so good that

0:28:57.360 --> 0:28:59.760
<v Speaker 1>she must be forgiven, but the majority said she should

0:28:59.760 --> 0:29:04.240
<v Speaker 1>have silent. And this lady is like famous in town

0:29:04.280 --> 0:29:07.040
<v Speaker 1>because she keeps praying aloud at these big public prayer meetings,

0:29:07.160 --> 0:29:09.400
<v Speaker 1>but she's the only woman who does it, and it's

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.960
<v Speaker 1>noted as being really weird. And Rebecca can't not pay

0:29:13.000 --> 0:29:14.960
<v Speaker 1>attention to this as a little girl, because this is

0:29:15.000 --> 0:29:17.440
<v Speaker 1>like the one woman who's bucking the system even a

0:29:17.440 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 1>little bit and showing that like no women can do,

0:29:19.680 --> 0:29:22.120
<v Speaker 1>like at least something like at least pray in public.

0:29:23.200 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 3>That's props because even the Southern Baptists today wouldn't allow that.

0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:30.600
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, yeah, that's tough in certain denominations to this day.

0:29:31.280 --> 0:29:33.840
<v Speaker 1>So what we see from a RecA noticing this stuff

0:29:33.880 --> 0:29:35.960
<v Speaker 1>is that this is a girl who is smart and

0:29:36.000 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 1>who from a young age knows that her society is

0:29:38.920 --> 0:29:41.280
<v Speaker 1>only going to allow her to marry and produce children.

0:29:41.520 --> 0:29:44.320
<v Speaker 1>The most autonomy she's ever going to exercise is managing

0:29:44.400 --> 0:29:47.600
<v Speaker 1>a household. By her own accounts, she doesn't really start

0:29:47.640 --> 0:29:50.800
<v Speaker 1>to chafe under this load until after the fact, after

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 1>the Civil War, because the comfort and security and convenience

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:57.320
<v Speaker 1>of her privileged life owning slaves protected by her father

0:29:57.760 --> 0:30:00.040
<v Speaker 1>meant more than any ambition she might have nursed. In

0:30:00.040 --> 0:30:02.880
<v Speaker 1>other words, once things start to get hard, she realizes

0:30:02.920 --> 0:30:05.600
<v Speaker 1>how unfair this is, but she doesn't seem to when

0:30:05.600 --> 0:30:09.120
<v Speaker 1>it's working properly, because it's just really nice to have

0:30:09.160 --> 0:30:10.120
<v Speaker 1>everything taken.

0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 3>Care of for you. Yeah, oh comfy, This is so

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:13.600
<v Speaker 3>nice and cozy.

0:30:13.960 --> 0:30:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, nice and cozy. When she was halfway between fifteen

0:30:17.600 --> 0:30:20.160
<v Speaker 1>and sixteen, Rebecca went to college in Madison, Georgia. The

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>location had been picked because it was close enough that

0:30:22.320 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 1>she could return home in less than two days if

0:30:24.320 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 1>she took ill, which tells you something about the priorities

0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:29.640
<v Speaker 1>of the time. Now, this is not a college like

0:30:29.680 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 1>we have today. The goal was to train upper class

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:35.920
<v Speaker 1>girls to be interesting and useful wives, not to nourish

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:39.120
<v Speaker 1>their individual gifts or allow them to pursue dreams. So

0:30:39.160 --> 0:30:41.800
<v Speaker 1>this isn't a college like we'd call it, right. This

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:43.480
<v Speaker 1>is just a college to try to make everyone the

0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:45.200
<v Speaker 1>same kind of wife, more or less.

0:30:45.840 --> 0:30:48.480
<v Speaker 3>I think that's out of the University of Georgia today.

0:30:49.120 --> 0:30:51.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's not bad.

0:30:51.080 --> 0:30:53.400
<v Speaker 1>I bet they still got this wife's school going, so

0:30:53.440 --> 0:30:56.560
<v Speaker 1>she gets her diploma and being married an eighteen fifty

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>two and a year or so later, right after she

0:30:58.720 --> 0:31:03.000
<v Speaker 1>turns eighteen, right, she marries William Harrold Felton, a thirty

0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:05.320
<v Speaker 1>year old former doctor who'd quit medicine to become a

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:08.120
<v Speaker 1>state legislator and then a preacher. They'd met in an

0:31:08.120 --> 0:31:12.520
<v Speaker 1>almost ludicrously storybook fashion when she's she's the valedictorian of

0:31:12.520 --> 0:31:15.640
<v Speaker 1>her college, and he also speaks at her graduation ceremony,

0:31:15.880 --> 0:31:17.680
<v Speaker 1>and they both kind of wind up speaking about like

0:31:17.720 --> 0:31:20.280
<v Speaker 1>their differing their beliefs about what makes a good Christian

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:22.959
<v Speaker 1>wife and mother, and they have the same opinion about that,

0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:25.800
<v Speaker 1>and so they hit it off afterwards and wind up

0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:27.480
<v Speaker 1>getting engaged and then married.

0:31:27.600 --> 0:31:29.360
<v Speaker 2>And today we would.

0:31:29.160 --> 0:31:32.800
<v Speaker 1>Say a thirty year old doctor hitting on an eighteen

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 1>year old who just graduated college's pretty gross, right, It's

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:39.880
<v Speaker 1>not great.

0:31:41.280 --> 0:31:43.640
<v Speaker 2>Leo would be like, I'm not illegal, but not ideal.

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:47.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'd call this a little odd, but it's not

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:49.960
<v Speaker 1>weird for the time, right, eighteen thirty is not like

0:31:50.000 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 1>an insane split at the time. And more importantly, they

0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:56.880
<v Speaker 1>do they have a super long and committed partnership like

0:31:56.880 --> 0:31:59.160
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of evil. But they're together and seem to

0:31:59.200 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>really love each other. There is such a they're kind

0:32:03.320 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 1>of together, but they're seem to be really happy together.

0:32:07.440 --> 0:32:10.520
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know, like they're some people. Being a

0:32:10.520 --> 0:32:13.200
<v Speaker 1>good partner to someone isn't a moral term. You could

0:32:13.200 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 1>be your wife to and shitty.

0:32:16.120 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they are together, are villains and they're okay with it.

0:32:20.040 --> 0:32:22.400
<v Speaker 3>Their love is y an.

0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Evil power couple. Yeah, so at this point Rebecca couldn't

0:32:26.080 --> 0:32:27.880
<v Speaker 1>have been living a more normal life for a girl

0:32:27.920 --> 0:32:30.400
<v Speaker 1>of her class an era, the couple moved to a

0:32:30.440 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 1>plant after getting married, they moved to a plantation near Cartersville,

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.160
<v Speaker 1>and they Rebecca starts putting out babies. She spends the

0:32:36.200 --> 0:32:38.760
<v Speaker 1>next years several years caring for her first children and

0:32:38.800 --> 0:32:41.880
<v Speaker 1>managing what she described as a considerable number of slaves.

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:44.719
<v Speaker 1>In her book, Crystal Feinster puts the number of enslaved

0:32:44.720 --> 0:32:47.280
<v Speaker 1>people they start with at fifty, which shows you how

0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:50.280
<v Speaker 1>wealthy the Latimer family was. Yeah, right, Like, if you

0:32:50.400 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 1>got five or six slaves, you're doing vet way better

0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:55.960
<v Speaker 1>than most white families. Like fifty as soon as you

0:32:56.000 --> 0:33:00.240
<v Speaker 1>get married means that your family is rich. She would

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:03.680
<v Speaker 1>ultimately give birth to five children, a girl and four boys.

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:04.320
<v Speaker 2>But only one.

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:08.520
<v Speaker 1>Well none of her sons actually lived to adulthood, so yeah,

0:33:08.840 --> 0:33:12.480
<v Speaker 1>this doesn't go Childhood is not is not going to

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>be great for her. It's not great for a lot

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:16.160
<v Speaker 1>of women in this era. But so far, it's nice.

0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 1>She's having her kids, she's starting her farm. You know.

0:33:20.080 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 1>The Civil War doesn't start brewing until she's like twenty five,

0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 1>right when she's already a young mother, and one of

0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:27.840
<v Speaker 1>her sons has already died of some weird illness as

0:33:27.840 --> 0:33:30.160
<v Speaker 1>it is, that's when kind of things get started and

0:33:30.200 --> 0:33:34.200
<v Speaker 1>people really start ramping up. Talk about secession. Now, Rebecca

0:33:34.280 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>claims that she and her family did not support secession.

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 1>As an older woman. Decades later, she would write if

0:33:40.200 --> 0:33:42.720
<v Speaker 1>there had been no slaves, there would have been no war,

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:45.120
<v Speaker 1>as a direct counter to the lost cause myth, which

0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:48.520
<v Speaker 1>she despised. That's another interesting thing about Rebecca. She hates

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:50.960
<v Speaker 1>the lost cause myth because, among other things, it's like

0:33:51.000 --> 0:33:54.040
<v Speaker 1>slavery was not and she's like, no, of course, slavery

0:33:54.120 --> 0:33:56.080
<v Speaker 1>was literally why we did it. I was there and

0:33:56.280 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 1>right right lived right Therely.

0:34:01.520 --> 0:34:03.360
<v Speaker 3>She was honest, I guess. Yeah.

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 1>She would later add to fight for the perpetuation of

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:08.279
<v Speaker 1>domestic slavery was a mistake. The time had come in

0:34:08.320 --> 0:34:10.560
<v Speaker 1>the United States to wipe out this evil. The South

0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 1>had to suffer. And even when our preachers were leading

0:34:12.760 --> 0:34:15.320
<v Speaker 1>in prayer for victory during the war, and black robed

0:34:15.360 --> 0:34:17.399
<v Speaker 1>mothers and wives were weeping for their dead ones who

0:34:17.400 --> 0:34:19.680
<v Speaker 1>perished in the field of battle, I had questions in

0:34:19.719 --> 0:34:21.319
<v Speaker 1>my own mind as to what would be the end

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:25.360
<v Speaker 1>of it. And I don't Again, she doesn't condemn slavery

0:34:25.440 --> 0:34:30.560
<v Speaker 1>and succession secession while it's happening, but she clearly I think,

0:34:30.560 --> 0:34:32.720
<v Speaker 1>and I don't have trouble believing. At the time, she's

0:34:32.760 --> 0:34:35.320
<v Speaker 1>not excited about it. She thinks it's going to be

0:34:35.400 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 1>a really bad idea that's going to endanger everything she loves.

0:34:39.560 --> 0:34:42.960
<v Speaker 3>So was she calling slavery evil or the war evil?

0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>She's calling slavery evil there, But that's again, much later,

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:49.799
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't call it at the time. She just thinks

0:34:49.840 --> 0:34:52.200
<v Speaker 1>that is a really bad idea. This is a bad

0:34:52.239 --> 0:34:55.400
<v Speaker 1>idea because it's risking her comfort, it's risking everybody's comfort

0:34:55.960 --> 0:35:00.160
<v Speaker 1>for the sake of in guaranteeing that you can spread slavery.

0:35:00.840 --> 0:35:03.239
<v Speaker 1>And it's it's not weird. We have accounts for a

0:35:03.320 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of slave owners and a lot of people related

0:35:05.600 --> 0:35:08.160
<v Speaker 1>to slave owners who later fought for the Confederacy who

0:35:08.200 --> 0:35:09.560
<v Speaker 1>never thought secession was.

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 2>A good idea.

0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:12.440
<v Speaker 1>A ton of the men who died fighting for the

0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:15.400
<v Speaker 1>Confederacy did not support secession until it happened.

0:35:15.480 --> 0:35:15.640
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:18.640
<v Speaker 1>That doesn't reduce anyone's moral culpability. They still chose to

0:35:18.680 --> 0:35:21.720
<v Speaker 1>fight for the Confederacy. It's just true that plenty of people,

0:35:21.760 --> 0:35:23.759
<v Speaker 1>even who supported the Confederacy were like, I don't know

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:26.000
<v Speaker 1>if we can pull this off. Guys, I don't know

0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:29.560
<v Speaker 1>if this is meant work. Yeah, Like I just I

0:35:29.600 --> 0:35:33.560
<v Speaker 1>got my worries. So one of the most yeah I

0:35:33.600 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 1>got some issues with this. One of the most disturbing

0:35:36.520 --> 0:35:38.919
<v Speaker 1>experiences for her in the lead up to and start

0:35:38.960 --> 0:35:41.400
<v Speaker 1>to the war, and this would have been disturbing for

0:35:41.560 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 1>millions of Southerners besides her, was that it began with

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:47.960
<v Speaker 1>a disruption to the source of all of their comfort. Right,

0:35:48.480 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 1>all of the comfort for rich Southerners is provided by

0:35:51.320 --> 0:35:56.439
<v Speaker 1>enslaved black people. Gossip spreads rapidly on plantations, and among

0:35:56.520 --> 0:35:58.719
<v Speaker 1>other things, you've got poor white workers there too, who

0:35:58.800 --> 0:36:01.359
<v Speaker 1>often talk with their enslaves colleagues, and the slaves talk

0:36:01.440 --> 0:36:03.279
<v Speaker 1>to themselves about the coming war and what it might

0:36:03.360 --> 0:36:06.040
<v Speaker 1>mean to them. Because they're also people, and because gossip

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:08.840
<v Speaker 1>spreads both ways, quite a few white owners and white

0:36:08.840 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>overseers overhear slaves talking about the war, and they reported

0:36:12.280 --> 0:36:14.440
<v Speaker 1>back to the owners. They talk about it amongst themselves,

0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:17.160
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of these enslaved people are talking about like, well, shit,

0:36:17.200 --> 0:36:21.360
<v Speaker 1>we might get to be free right now. This panics

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:24.040
<v Speaker 1>a lot of these owners. And you have to understand,

0:36:24.480 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 1>prior to the kind of rays of hostilities, the dominant

0:36:28.160 --> 0:36:31.399
<v Speaker 1>belief among women like Rebecca is that they truly loved

0:36:31.440 --> 0:36:33.560
<v Speaker 1>the people that they owned and were loved by them.

0:36:33.600 --> 0:36:37.319
<v Speaker 1>In turn, Rebecca really did think she treated Mammy, who

0:36:37.360 --> 0:36:39.560
<v Speaker 1>is like her nanny who raises her as a second mother,

0:36:39.600 --> 0:36:42.040
<v Speaker 1>even though she slaps Mammy at one point, she has

0:36:42.080 --> 0:36:43.279
<v Speaker 1>to apologize, but like.

0:36:43.239 --> 0:36:43.880
<v Speaker 2>She doesn't see that.

0:36:43.880 --> 0:36:45.520
<v Speaker 1>The fact that she would even think to do that

0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 1>shows she not treating this woman really like a mother,

0:36:49.680 --> 0:36:52.040
<v Speaker 1>and the fact that her family owned this woman means

0:36:52.040 --> 0:36:54.239
<v Speaker 1>that it's not really That kind of relationship does not

0:36:54.280 --> 0:36:57.400
<v Speaker 1>occur to Rebecca or rich ladies like her. The wealthy

0:36:57.440 --> 0:36:59.640
<v Speaker 1>women of the South are weighted on hand and foot

0:36:59.680 --> 0:37:02.319
<v Speaker 1>by an slaved black women who are very often their

0:37:02.360 --> 0:37:05.799
<v Speaker 1>primary sources of emotional comfort too. Now, I'm not asking

0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>you to sympathize with these ladies because they're all awful,

0:37:08.360 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 1>but you do need to try to understand what it

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:13.040
<v Speaker 1>would do to a person to go to bed one

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:16.840
<v Speaker 1>night feeling like I'm surrounded by these people who I

0:37:16.960 --> 0:37:20.200
<v Speaker 1>consider family, who take care of my every need, and

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:24.839
<v Speaker 1>then you overhear one of them say something and suddenly realize, oh,

0:37:24.880 --> 0:37:27.680
<v Speaker 1>these people might not care about me. They might murder

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 1>me for a chance to escape to the Union lines.

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:34.200
<v Speaker 1>It completely shatters some people's minds. That switch flipping is

0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:36.560
<v Speaker 1>the first panic that runs through the South before any

0:37:36.560 --> 0:37:38.720
<v Speaker 1>shots are fired, because people are like, wait a second,

0:37:38.800 --> 0:37:42.879
<v Speaker 1>especially after John Brown's raid, Wait a second, they might

0:37:42.920 --> 0:37:46.840
<v Speaker 1>not be happy, like right, Obviously, a lot of especially

0:37:46.880 --> 0:37:50.399
<v Speaker 1>the owners and the men and whatnot, the overseers, they're

0:37:50.440 --> 0:37:52.960
<v Speaker 1>beating these people to keep them in lying they're running

0:37:53.000 --> 0:37:56.160
<v Speaker 1>slave patrols. But women like Rebecca, who are mostly interacting

0:37:56.160 --> 0:37:58.520
<v Speaker 1>with the women in their house, it's easier to lie

0:37:58.560 --> 0:38:01.640
<v Speaker 1>to yourself about that. Showing up at the weddings, you're

0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:05.080
<v Speaker 1>calling these people your family, your mam right, And there's

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:09.760
<v Speaker 1>this sudden realization like, oh, these people and I don't

0:38:09.800 --> 0:38:12.360
<v Speaker 1>have the same interests, and things might just have gotten

0:38:12.360 --> 0:38:13.799
<v Speaker 1>a lot more dangerous for me.

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:17.319
<v Speaker 3>They don't benefit the same way I do from them

0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:20.640
<v Speaker 3>constantly working to the point that they almost die. That's odd. Yeah,

0:38:20.680 --> 0:38:21.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't understand.

0:38:21.520 --> 0:38:22.400
<v Speaker 2>It's so crazy.

0:38:22.719 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 1>Rebecca writes about one of these panics. We had a

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:28.800
<v Speaker 1>Methodist campground on our plantation in eighteen sixty. Immense crowds

0:38:28.840 --> 0:38:31.440
<v Speaker 1>were in attendance on Sunday exercises, among them the governor

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:33.400
<v Speaker 1>of the state. The crowd was so great that I

0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:35.680
<v Speaker 1>could not leave our tent as we were cooking and

0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:38.239
<v Speaker 1>feeding people the most of the day. On Sunday night,

0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:40.560
<v Speaker 1>while the mourner's bench was crowded and people shouting down

0:38:40.560 --> 0:38:43.359
<v Speaker 1>into the auditorium, there were neighbors and friends inside our tent,

0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:45.960
<v Speaker 1>armed to the teeth, waiting for midnight to go out

0:38:46.000 --> 0:38:48.719
<v Speaker 1>and quietly suppress a rising that had been reported to

0:38:48.760 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 1>them late in the afternoon. The dread of Negro insurrection

0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:54.359
<v Speaker 1>and social equality with negroes at the ballot box held

0:38:54.400 --> 0:38:57.320
<v Speaker 1>the Southern whites together in war or peace. That rising

0:38:57.360 --> 0:38:59.560
<v Speaker 1>was a false alarm, but the terror of these risings

0:38:59.560 --> 0:39:02.160
<v Speaker 1>made the sun fathers and husbands desperate as to remedies.

0:39:02.360 --> 0:39:04.360
<v Speaker 1>It is the secret of lynching instead of as a

0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:07.000
<v Speaker 1>legal remedy. It was born in the blood and bred

0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:09.840
<v Speaker 1>in the bone, and a result of domestic slavery in

0:39:09.880 --> 0:39:13.360
<v Speaker 1>the Southern States. That's again her making a point about

0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:17.520
<v Speaker 1>later that lynching in the post war period comes out

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 1>of the same thing that these these slave raids and

0:39:20.680 --> 0:39:23.080
<v Speaker 1>slave patrols came out, which is this fear of a

0:39:23.320 --> 0:39:26.880
<v Speaker 1>social equality with black people. And she's not going to

0:39:26.920 --> 0:39:29.880
<v Speaker 1>accept that later in her life as a lynching advocate.

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:32.560
<v Speaker 1>Only at the end of it will she write that, like, oh,

0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:35.160
<v Speaker 1>you know what, lynching is just another example of white

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:36.920
<v Speaker 1>people trying to stop social equality.

0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:37.359
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:39:37.640 --> 0:39:39.000
<v Speaker 1>She's not going to see that her whole life. But

0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 1>it's interesting that she can write it out that clearly

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:42.320
<v Speaker 1>in her autobiography.

0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:46.000
<v Speaker 3>Horrific and she's so close to the point, but so

0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:46.720
<v Speaker 3>far Yeah.

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:47.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:39:48.200 --> 0:39:51.080
<v Speaker 1>According to Feinster, this was a near universe kind of

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:53.799
<v Speaker 1>these kind of panics where a New Year's universal experience

0:39:53.880 --> 0:39:56.400
<v Speaker 1>in the South. After John Brown's eighteen fifty nine rate

0:39:56.480 --> 0:39:58.719
<v Speaker 1>on Harper's Ferry, which acted as a forced reminder that

0:39:58.760 --> 0:40:00.880
<v Speaker 1>the people they owned are not, in fact chill with

0:40:00.920 --> 0:40:04.040
<v Speaker 1>the status quo from Southern Horrors quote as far away

0:40:04.040 --> 0:40:06.640
<v Speaker 1>as Florida, Susan Bradford's side, we feel we can trust

0:40:06.680 --> 0:40:08.920
<v Speaker 1>none of the dear black folk. I am afraid to

0:40:08.960 --> 0:40:10.719
<v Speaker 1>say a word, for fear it will prove to be

0:40:10.920 --> 0:40:13.759
<v Speaker 1>just what should have been left unsaid. In eighteen sixty one,

0:40:13.800 --> 0:40:15.839
<v Speaker 1>a widow moaned in a letter to her sister, can

0:40:15.880 --> 0:40:17.959
<v Speaker 1>we cope with an enemy abroad and one at home?

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:20.160
<v Speaker 1>Negroes are fully live to the state of things and

0:40:20.200 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 1>are much more sensible than one would suppose. I can

0:40:22.560 --> 0:40:24.919
<v Speaker 1>imagine all sorts of noise at night and sometimes think

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 1>they are right at my door. I really there's a

0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:32.200
<v Speaker 1>degree of satisfaction in that of like this woman finally

0:40:32.280 --> 0:40:33.680
<v Speaker 1>being like, oh, I don't even know if I can

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:36.040
<v Speaker 1>ask them if they're thinking about freedom, because then they

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:38.279
<v Speaker 1>might say they are, and I'm scared about what they're

0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:42.560
<v Speaker 1>not willing to tell me. Right, there's a little bit

0:40:42.560 --> 0:40:45.880
<v Speaker 1>of payback, just and these ladies starting to realize how

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:49.520
<v Speaker 1>wrong they've been about the community they've grown up.

0:40:49.400 --> 0:40:53.799
<v Speaker 3>In, all right, essentially realizing these are human beings who

0:40:54.000 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 3>have the same intellect as everyone else and has probably

0:40:57.600 --> 0:41:00.880
<v Speaker 3>already thought of how to escape those this moment and

0:41:01.000 --> 0:41:02.640
<v Speaker 3>maybe the vengeance that they deserve.

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:03.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:41:03.560 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Possibly, Yeah, you would have had it coming. You know

0:41:05.960 --> 0:41:12.240
<v Speaker 1>who else has it coming? The sponsors of this podcast.

0:41:12.239 --> 0:41:15.200
<v Speaker 4>And it's just a dick pill ad mm hmm.

0:41:15.800 --> 0:41:23.960
<v Speaker 2>Let's hope and we're back.

0:41:24.600 --> 0:41:24.719
<v Speaker 3>So.

0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:27.719
<v Speaker 1>Felton does not write about her own fear of a

0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 1>slave insurrection in her autobiography, but she does discuss a

0:41:31.040 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>letter from her mom, who was home alone at the

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:35.640
<v Speaker 1>family plantation one night. This is part of why many

0:41:35.640 --> 0:41:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Georgians were leery of war. The men knew that they

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:39.560
<v Speaker 1>were going to have to leave their wives at home

0:41:39.600 --> 0:41:41.320
<v Speaker 1>to fight, and the women knew they were going to

0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:44.680
<v Speaker 1>be left at home by their husbands, possibly forever. Still,

0:41:45.000 --> 0:41:48.160
<v Speaker 1>after the war started, Rebecca and the Felton family were

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:51.920
<v Speaker 1>as patriotic as any Southerners. She diverted production from of

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:54.760
<v Speaker 1>cotton to corn in order to help feed her starving country,

0:41:54.880 --> 0:41:57.719
<v Speaker 1>and her husband volunteered as a doctor for injured soldiers.

0:41:58.000 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 1>These people's reservations did nothing to stop them from volunteering

0:42:01.080 --> 0:42:03.640
<v Speaker 1>to help the fight for slavery and the fall of

0:42:03.680 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 1>eighteen sixty one, a few months after the Battle of

0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:08.640
<v Speaker 1>Fort Sumter, a woman named Betsy Witherspoon, who lived as

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:11.560
<v Speaker 1>the sole white person in the society Hill Plantation, was

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:15.440
<v Speaker 1>murdered by her slaves. This sparked a panic. Feinster quotes

0:42:15.440 --> 0:42:17.400
<v Speaker 1>one woman who wrote her mother in law not to

0:42:17.480 --> 0:42:19.799
<v Speaker 1>touch the soup their slaves had cooked for them. Her

0:42:19.840 --> 0:42:22.920
<v Speaker 1>recipient replied, hitherto, I have never thought of being afraid

0:42:22.960 --> 0:42:25.319
<v Speaker 1>of negroes. I had never injured any of them. Why

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:27.399
<v Speaker 1>would they want to hurt me? I feel that all

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 1>the ground is cut away from under my feet. Why

0:42:29.640 --> 0:42:31.480
<v Speaker 1>should they treat me any better than they have done?

0:42:31.560 --> 0:42:32.240
<v Speaker 1>Cousin Betsy?

0:42:32.840 --> 0:42:32.960
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:42:32.960 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 2>Why should they you own them?

0:42:34.640 --> 0:42:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Like? Right?

0:42:35.440 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:42:37.120 --> 0:42:39.160
<v Speaker 1>Is this like direct realization of like, oh shit, why

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:41.799
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't they kill me? I'm like, yeah, they got no

0:42:41.840 --> 0:42:42.440
<v Speaker 1>reason not to.

0:42:43.320 --> 0:42:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:42:44.520 --> 0:42:47.319
<v Speaker 1>So the war went on still, and you know, as

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:50.080
<v Speaker 1>terrifying as cases like this were, and as much as

0:42:50.080 --> 0:42:53.759
<v Speaker 1>this fear of slave uprising and fear of violence is

0:42:53.840 --> 0:42:56.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of baked into the Southern psyche after this point,

0:42:56.680 --> 0:42:57.440
<v Speaker 1>violence by.

0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:58.439
<v Speaker 2>Black people.

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:02.440
<v Speaker 1>We would say liberatory justified violence, but that's not how

0:43:02.440 --> 0:43:03.839
<v Speaker 1>these people think of it. This is going to stay

0:43:03.920 --> 0:43:06.680
<v Speaker 1>rooted in their minds long after the war. Right, and

0:43:06.719 --> 0:43:10.040
<v Speaker 1>despite that, the vast majority of enslaved people in the

0:43:10.040 --> 0:43:15.040
<v Speaker 1>Confederacy either escaped without doing any violence or remained shockingly

0:43:15.120 --> 0:43:17.920
<v Speaker 1>loyal to the people who had owned them. Rebecca Felton

0:43:17.920 --> 0:43:21.120
<v Speaker 1>herself credited the black enslaved women that she and other

0:43:21.200 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 1>white people owned across the Confederacy for stopping a mass insurrection.

0:43:25.719 --> 0:43:29.600
<v Speaker 1>As Feiinster summarizes, Felton specifically argued that the fidelity and

0:43:29.680 --> 0:43:32.800
<v Speaker 1>general excellence of colored women scattered all over the Southland

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:36.520
<v Speaker 1>had prevented slaves from turning on their masters. Southerners, she explained,

0:43:36.560 --> 0:43:40.040
<v Speaker 1>own their security of Confederate homes to their faithful female slaves.

0:43:41.160 --> 0:43:44.560
<v Speaker 1>Now that's her take. Now, this is a phenomenon, a

0:43:44.640 --> 0:43:45.440
<v Speaker 1>documented one.

0:43:45.520 --> 0:43:45.680
<v Speaker 4>Right.

0:43:45.800 --> 0:43:48.160
<v Speaker 1>Most of the people who were enslaved in the South

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:52.680
<v Speaker 1>don't try to commit like a violent uprising to escape.

0:43:52.680 --> 0:43:55.600
<v Speaker 1>If they escape, they just leave. And a large, a

0:43:55.640 --> 0:43:59.680
<v Speaker 1>weird number of them like don't leave until it's over right.

0:43:59.719 --> 0:44:02.440
<v Speaker 1>They they a weird number of people do kind of

0:44:02.480 --> 0:44:05.640
<v Speaker 1>stay with these families and again or run away, but

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:07.680
<v Speaker 1>without doing any kind of violence. And there's a couple

0:44:07.800 --> 0:44:10.520
<v Speaker 1>reasons for that, right. One of them is that, as

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I said, many of these people are related. They are

0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:18.279
<v Speaker 1>often the children and grandchildren of the people who own them. Now,

0:44:18.280 --> 0:44:21.600
<v Speaker 1>these family relationships are sometimes hidden from the outside, but

0:44:21.640 --> 0:44:24.680
<v Speaker 1>they're often, if not always, widely known to members of

0:44:24.680 --> 0:44:28.879
<v Speaker 1>the household. And that makes things fucking complicated, right, even

0:44:28.920 --> 0:44:31.000
<v Speaker 1>if they own you, even if it's fucked up and unfair,

0:44:31.040 --> 0:44:34.680
<v Speaker 1>if that guy's like your dad or your uncle biologically

0:44:34.840 --> 0:44:37.520
<v Speaker 1>and you were raised, or if you're one of these

0:44:37.640 --> 0:44:40.960
<v Speaker 1>women that Rebecca like credits with calming you know, everyone

0:44:40.960 --> 0:44:43.319
<v Speaker 1>else down from violence. Maybe part of why you're doing

0:44:43.360 --> 0:44:45.200
<v Speaker 1>that is you nursed a bunch of these young white

0:44:45.280 --> 0:44:47.759
<v Speaker 1>kids when you were when they were babies, and you

0:44:47.840 --> 0:44:50.760
<v Speaker 1>just can't square yourself with murdering them because as evil

0:44:50.800 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 1>as these people are, you're not. And you recognize that

0:44:54.040 --> 0:44:55.880
<v Speaker 1>this person was a baby that you held at your

0:44:55.880 --> 0:44:57.759
<v Speaker 1>breast and you don't want to see them killed. Like

0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 1>it's hard, it's complicated, Like the relationships that are created

0:45:01.160 --> 0:45:04.239
<v Speaker 1>by this abominable system are really complex, and the way

0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:07.200
<v Speaker 1>people react as the war pushes more pressure on them

0:45:07.200 --> 0:45:12.880
<v Speaker 1>are complex and multifaceted. Right, Yep, The morality of slavery

0:45:12.920 --> 0:45:15.040
<v Speaker 1>isn't complicated, but what it does to people's heads is

0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:15.920
<v Speaker 1>very complicated.

0:45:16.080 --> 0:45:16.279
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:45:16.800 --> 0:45:20.000
<v Speaker 1>For example, as Rebecca Felton almost never reports a bad

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:23.200
<v Speaker 1>memory of her childhood or even young adult life, she

0:45:23.280 --> 0:45:26.040
<v Speaker 1>lived a charmed existence and only grew more racist over

0:45:26.080 --> 0:45:28.640
<v Speaker 1>the course of her life. But I think you could

0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:32.360
<v Speaker 1>argue she was at her least bigoted or least openly

0:45:32.400 --> 0:45:37.280
<v Speaker 1>bigoted when she owned people, right, because there's this weird

0:45:37.280 --> 0:45:40.360
<v Speaker 1>degree of paternalism where she only kind of expresses positive

0:45:40.480 --> 0:45:43.160
<v Speaker 1>opinions of the black people that she owns when she

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:44.000
<v Speaker 1>doesn't own them.

0:45:44.200 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 2>She's really racist.

0:45:45.600 --> 0:45:48.359
<v Speaker 1>And that's also very interesting, right in terms of her

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:50.720
<v Speaker 1>psychology and what's going on in this lady's head.

0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:56.680
<v Speaker 3>Like mind blowing, because she really dissects these levels of

0:45:56.760 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 3>understanding the enslaved people in such a way that it

0:46:01.120 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 3>kind of feels like she could have been a heroine

0:46:04.120 --> 0:46:04.760
<v Speaker 3>in this story.

0:46:05.280 --> 0:46:09.680
<v Speaker 1>But instead it's weird, and there are pieces where I

0:46:09.680 --> 0:46:13.080
<v Speaker 1>think she has things very right. For example, she's very

0:46:13.160 --> 0:46:15.480
<v Speaker 1>racist and racism is going to be a major motivating

0:46:15.520 --> 0:46:18.120
<v Speaker 1>factor in her life, but I actually think the motivation

0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 1>behind her main racism in life and the motivation for

0:46:22.480 --> 0:46:26.000
<v Speaker 1>her activism later is because the Civil War makes her

0:46:26.040 --> 0:46:29.239
<v Speaker 1>hate Southern white men. That is a huge part of

0:46:29.320 --> 0:46:32.200
<v Speaker 1>all of her belief system and everything that comes afterwards.

0:46:32.640 --> 0:46:36.279
<v Speaker 1>What's forming right now is a deep anger in her

0:46:36.440 --> 0:46:38.680
<v Speaker 1>at the society she was raised and at the lies

0:46:38.760 --> 0:46:41.280
<v Speaker 1>she was raised with, and at the men who told

0:46:41.280 --> 0:46:43.360
<v Speaker 1>her it'll be fine if you just let us control

0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:46.799
<v Speaker 1>everything and led their society to ruin, and she is

0:46:47.120 --> 0:46:49.319
<v Speaker 1>the failure of southern white men is going to be

0:46:49.360 --> 0:46:51.759
<v Speaker 1>like the main thing that motivates everything she does as

0:46:51.800 --> 0:46:54.240
<v Speaker 1>an adult. And I think that's also very interesting.

0:46:54.440 --> 0:46:57.560
<v Speaker 3>Okay, And it feels like like I don't understand because

0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:59.800
<v Speaker 3>I should not lead to racism.

0:47:00.120 --> 0:47:04.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's I mean, she's racist before, but the motivation

0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:08.840
<v Speaker 1>for the racist activism, like the white racist activism, is

0:47:08.880 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>motivated by the fact that she thinks that white men

0:47:10.760 --> 0:47:13.759
<v Speaker 1>have failed to protect white women, right, So that's where

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:16.360
<v Speaker 1>she becomes pro lynching is because she's like, we white

0:47:16.360 --> 0:47:20.520
<v Speaker 1>women need to take a responsibility for our own defense

0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:23.359
<v Speaker 1>on ourselves because these white men are fucking useless. That's

0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:25.200
<v Speaker 1>a big part of why she believes in the vote

0:47:25.520 --> 0:47:27.440
<v Speaker 1>is what white women need the vote in order to

0:47:27.520 --> 0:47:30.200
<v Speaker 1>enforce white supremacy because white men are too weak to

0:47:30.200 --> 0:47:33.080
<v Speaker 1>do it on their own. That's Rebecca Felton's ideology, and

0:47:33.120 --> 0:47:35.799
<v Speaker 1>it's forming right now because when.

0:47:36.120 --> 0:47:38.280
<v Speaker 3>He's saying white men just didn't do it right.

0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:39.920
<v Speaker 2>We didn't do it right. You didn't.

0:47:40.000 --> 0:47:42.239
<v Speaker 1>Well, clearly you didn't. We gave you the chance. When

0:47:42.280 --> 0:47:44.440
<v Speaker 1>I was a girl, the rule was we give up

0:47:44.440 --> 0:47:48.200
<v Speaker 1>our autonomy for permanent safety and comfort, and you guys

0:47:48.440 --> 0:47:51.600
<v Speaker 1>threw that away because you wouldn't compromise with the rest

0:47:51.600 --> 0:47:54.239
<v Speaker 1>of the union even a little bit about slavery. And

0:47:54.280 --> 0:47:57.360
<v Speaker 1>because you wouldn't compromise, not only did we lose slavery,

0:47:57.440 --> 0:47:59.560
<v Speaker 1>but we lose lost all of our wealth and comfort

0:47:59.600 --> 0:48:01.560
<v Speaker 1>and have to work for a living now. So I

0:48:01.560 --> 0:48:04.399
<v Speaker 1>don't trust you anymore. That's her justification later for why

0:48:04.440 --> 0:48:05.360
<v Speaker 1>women need the vote.

0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:05.640
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:48:05.840 --> 0:48:09.000
<v Speaker 1>First of all, white women fucking suck, White men fucking

0:48:09.000 --> 0:48:09.440
<v Speaker 1>suck sorr.

0:48:10.200 --> 0:48:10.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:14.319
<v Speaker 4>First of all, never trust men. Second of all, that

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:16.759
<v Speaker 4>is not what you to do with this girlfriend.

0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:19.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I mean, I'm not calling it good logic.

0:48:19.800 --> 0:48:21.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that it is really interesting to me

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:24.680
<v Speaker 1>that I do think the motivation for her, more even

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:27.799
<v Speaker 1>than the racism, is that she's like, well, fucking white

0:48:27.840 --> 0:48:30.920
<v Speaker 1>dudes are useless, and that's really really interesting. Is a

0:48:31.000 --> 0:48:32.080
<v Speaker 1>justification for lynching.

0:48:33.640 --> 0:48:37.040
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, not a justification for lynching, but like.

0:48:37.280 --> 0:48:38.960
<v Speaker 2>No, but it's weird.

0:48:39.840 --> 0:48:41.719
<v Speaker 3>Her hostilities pointed in the wrong area.

0:48:41.800 --> 0:48:44.680
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the call is coming from inside the how Yeah,

0:48:45.239 --> 0:48:45.560
<v Speaker 4>what are you?

0:48:45.680 --> 0:48:48.440
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna tell this whole story is like how she gets.

0:48:48.160 --> 0:48:49.799
<v Speaker 3>There, right, okay, okay?

0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:53.920
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, you know, after the war, which they lose,

0:48:54.360 --> 0:48:56.680
<v Speaker 1>the Felton family has to sell their plantation and things

0:48:56.719 --> 0:49:00.680
<v Speaker 1>go very much downhill for them. And more than the recklessness,

0:49:00.719 --> 0:49:02.799
<v Speaker 1>she came to blame southern men for what she saw

0:49:02.880 --> 0:49:07.440
<v Speaker 1>as the chief evil of slavery missagen nation. Something she recognizes,

0:49:07.520 --> 0:49:09.400
<v Speaker 1>I think she sees it at the time and she

0:49:09.440 --> 0:49:11.799
<v Speaker 1>speaks out about it after the war, is that you

0:49:11.880 --> 0:49:15.279
<v Speaker 1>can't stop white men from raping their slaves and impregnating

0:49:15.360 --> 0:49:18.040
<v Speaker 1>many of them, and many do this, in fact, for

0:49:18.080 --> 0:49:20.319
<v Speaker 1>the economic benefit as much as anything, because a new

0:49:20.360 --> 0:49:23.280
<v Speaker 1>slave is a new slave. Now it's a later scientific.

0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:24.560
<v Speaker 3>We need to take a pause. What the fuck?

0:49:25.480 --> 0:49:30.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she hates the miss the inbreeding. That's a big

0:49:30.280 --> 0:49:33.239
<v Speaker 1>part of her Again, it's white men she's pissed at,

0:49:33.320 --> 0:49:34.919
<v Speaker 1>but it's not white men who pay the price.

0:49:35.480 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 3>She kind of like a girl catches her man cheating,

0:49:38.760 --> 0:49:40.920
<v Speaker 3>she goes after the woman instead of the man. Right,

0:49:41.280 --> 0:49:42.280
<v Speaker 3>this kind of scenario.

0:49:42.520 --> 0:49:44.839
<v Speaker 4>With all the schools she went to, did she never

0:49:44.880 --> 0:49:49.160
<v Speaker 4>take basic math because she's like basically going, She's going

0:49:49.239 --> 0:49:50.880
<v Speaker 4>one plus one equal seven?

0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.120
<v Speaker 1>What are we doing worth noting Other women of her

0:49:54.160 --> 0:49:57.759
<v Speaker 1>class and time are able to recognize this and take

0:49:57.800 --> 0:50:00.840
<v Speaker 1>the right conclusion. The Grimkey sisters, who are very prominent

0:50:00.880 --> 0:50:03.000
<v Speaker 1>abolition activists in the period of time where she's a

0:50:03.000 --> 0:50:06.799
<v Speaker 1>young woman grew up on plantations owning people realized it

0:50:06.840 --> 0:50:09.560
<v Speaker 1>was evil, left and became activist against it. And part

0:50:09.600 --> 0:50:11.120
<v Speaker 1>of one of the reasons they said it was evil

0:50:11.160 --> 0:50:13.640
<v Speaker 1>is that all these white men are raping these slaves. Now,

0:50:13.640 --> 0:50:15.480
<v Speaker 1>they didn't think miscegenation was evil. They thought it was

0:50:15.520 --> 0:50:17.160
<v Speaker 1>evil to rape a white woman or to rape a

0:50:17.160 --> 0:50:19.719
<v Speaker 1>black woman, right, and they believed it was rape either way,

0:50:19.760 --> 0:50:21.319
<v Speaker 1>and they were And that's part of what the grim

0:50:21.440 --> 0:50:24.000
<v Speaker 1>Keys were saying, is that, like, this is wrong. Because

0:50:24.040 --> 0:50:28.640
<v Speaker 1>of that, Felton recognizes that it is really fucked up

0:50:28.680 --> 0:50:32.000
<v Speaker 1>that these men are doing this, but she does not

0:50:33.080 --> 0:50:35.239
<v Speaker 1>think it's fucked up for the same reason she thinks

0:50:35.239 --> 0:50:38.000
<v Speaker 1>it's fucked up because race mixing is wrong, right, And

0:50:38.040 --> 0:50:41.359
<v Speaker 1>while she does acknowledge that sometimes unfortunate enslaved women are

0:50:41.440 --> 0:50:44.120
<v Speaker 1>raped by their brutish masters, she's also vocal in her

0:50:44.160 --> 0:50:46.480
<v Speaker 1>belief that a lot of these enslaved women are willing

0:50:46.520 --> 0:50:47.640
<v Speaker 1>partners to scandal.

0:50:47.880 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:50:48.520 --> 0:50:50.160
<v Speaker 1>This is easy to ignore if you just skim over

0:50:50.200 --> 0:50:52.479
<v Speaker 1>her work. You can miss it and think that, like, oh,

0:50:52.520 --> 0:50:56.680
<v Speaker 1>she's saying some pretty good stuff here, but that's not

0:50:56.760 --> 0:51:00.239
<v Speaker 1>really what's going on. One of the strangest things about

0:51:00.239 --> 0:51:02.520
<v Speaker 1>reading Felton is that the language she uses around slavery,

0:51:02.560 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 1>she calls it a curse or an abomination, sounds appropriate,

0:51:06.200 --> 0:51:09.520
<v Speaker 1>and her disgust with Southern men and the Confederacy almost

0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:12.200
<v Speaker 1>seem woke. When she's talking about what idiots these white

0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:14.400
<v Speaker 1>guys are. She does better than even a lot of

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:17.600
<v Speaker 1>the abolitionists because she knew these fuckers right, She knew

0:51:17.640 --> 0:51:19.680
<v Speaker 1>them as men, and she knows how fucking wrong they

0:51:19.680 --> 0:51:21.960
<v Speaker 1>were right, And so it is kind of satisfying to

0:51:22.000 --> 0:51:24.439
<v Speaker 1>read for that. But the core of it, her real

0:51:24.480 --> 0:51:26.719
<v Speaker 1>issue with them is race mixer, and that so you

0:51:26.760 --> 0:51:31.000
<v Speaker 1>can never forget that, right, she writes in her philmography.

0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:33.719
<v Speaker 1>As a rule, slave owners were careful of the health

0:51:33.719 --> 0:51:36.040
<v Speaker 1>of their slaves. The profit in it made them careful.

0:51:36.200 --> 0:51:38.280
<v Speaker 1>There were bad masters, many of them, but the increase

0:51:38.280 --> 0:51:40.480
<v Speaker 1>of slave property before the Civil War attests to the

0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:43.120
<v Speaker 1>good breeding and housing of slaves. The crime that made

0:51:43.160 --> 0:51:45.680
<v Speaker 1>slavery a curse lies in the fact that unbridled lust

0:51:45.680 --> 0:51:48.160
<v Speaker 1>placed the children of bad white men and slave pins

0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:50.800
<v Speaker 1>on auction blocks, and no regard was shown to parentage

0:51:50.840 --> 0:51:54.759
<v Speaker 1>or parental responsibility in such matters. Now again, you can

0:51:54.840 --> 0:51:56.839
<v Speaker 1>just read that last bit and be like, Yeah, it's

0:51:56.840 --> 0:51:59.000
<v Speaker 1>really fucked up to put your own kids in auction blocks.

0:51:59.000 --> 0:51:59.400
<v Speaker 2>I get it.

0:51:59.520 --> 0:52:01.800
<v Speaker 1>She's not saying that's the fucked up thing. She's saying

0:52:01.960 --> 0:52:04.799
<v Speaker 1>slavery was great except for this. She's saying, we took

0:52:04.880 --> 0:52:07.400
<v Speaker 1>really good care of them, except for the rape. You

0:52:07.400 --> 0:52:09.279
<v Speaker 1>can see how good we took a care of them

0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:11.239
<v Speaker 1>by how many more of them there were, you know,

0:52:11.320 --> 0:52:12.040
<v Speaker 1>over the years.

0:52:12.600 --> 0:52:13.919
<v Speaker 2>But also rape.

0:52:14.400 --> 0:52:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, And you can really get a feel for

0:52:18.160 --> 0:52:20.600
<v Speaker 1>her beliefs when you understand that while Rebecca thought violent

0:52:20.680 --> 0:52:23.319
<v Speaker 1>rape was pretty bad, would upset her far more were

0:52:23.320 --> 0:52:26.480
<v Speaker 1>the male slave owners who claimed to have consensual relationships

0:52:26.480 --> 0:52:28.560
<v Speaker 1>with black women they owned, because a lot of these

0:52:28.560 --> 0:52:31.600
<v Speaker 1>guys will describe, at least in like small gatherings, some

0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:33.799
<v Speaker 1>of these women as like their wives. That's the thing

0:52:33.800 --> 0:52:35.879
<v Speaker 1>that happens all throughout slavery. There's always white dudes who

0:52:35.880 --> 0:52:39.600
<v Speaker 1>will marry quote unquote women that they own. And yeah,

0:52:39.640 --> 0:52:42.040
<v Speaker 1>here's here's Rebecca. I remember well a noted home in

0:52:42.040 --> 0:52:44.640
<v Speaker 1>middle Georgia where a rich man lived in open alliance

0:52:44.640 --> 0:52:46.879
<v Speaker 1>with a colored woman, and where governors and congressmen were

0:52:46.880 --> 0:52:48.680
<v Speaker 1>often invited to dine, and where they were glad to

0:52:48.719 --> 0:52:51.360
<v Speaker 1>go in his will. There were other men of distinction

0:52:51.400 --> 0:52:53.440
<v Speaker 1>in Georgia who also defied the marriage law of the

0:52:53.480 --> 0:52:55.800
<v Speaker 1>state by keeping up to two households on the same plantation,

0:52:56.120 --> 0:52:58.400
<v Speaker 1>one white and the other colored. And both women were

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<v Speaker 1>afraid to make the matter outcry, make the public outcry.

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<v Speaker 1>They're in lie the curse of slavery. And I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that's where the.

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<v Speaker 2>Curse of slavery.

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<v Speaker 1>I think actually these are like arguably these cases where

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<v Speaker 1>some weird guy decides that, like, this person he owns

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<v Speaker 1>is his wife, probably some of the less abusive.

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<v Speaker 2>Than some lot of the other relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's like, no, this is the great evil is

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<v Speaker 1>because they're breeding and treating each other like equals and

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<v Speaker 1>they're not. We wouldn't say, but that's how she sees it, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Except a person is owned and the coersion is the

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<v Speaker 3>most likely like they are not more more than consented.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, anyway, that's part one.

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<v Speaker 3>How you feeling wonderful? Wonderful?

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<v Speaker 2>Excellent?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you want to plug your pluggables.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Samantha. You can find me on the podcast stuff

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<v Speaker 3>Mom Never Told You with my co host Annie. We

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<v Speaker 3>also wrote a book, same titles, Stuff Mom Never Told You.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been out for a minute. He's also on like

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<v Speaker 3>audiobook so you can listen to us try to read

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<v Speaker 3>our books in a weird man yay. Also, I'm on Instagram. Haha.

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, check out that on Instagram and check out the

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<v Speaker 1>next episode of this podcast where we'll have Samantha back

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<v Speaker 1>in a day or so.

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<v Speaker 2>Good night, Whoo Whoo.

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