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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: I was at Danielle's show at Gotham last night in

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Speaker 2: the city. Danielle, you outdid yourself. It was a perfect

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Speaker 2: night in honor of mental health, and the comedians were

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Speaker 2: funny as hell. The food was great. It was great

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Speaker 2: seeing the whole crew. Thanks for a great night. Oh,

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Speaker 2: you did a great job last night raising money for

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Speaker 2: Happy Jack. It's all about mental health, and thank you

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Speaker 2: for making it all about laughter last night. Laughter is great,

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Speaker 2: it is it just a.

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Speaker 3: Little bit helps helps a lot.

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Speaker 2: That's why I think Amen's sister. Hey, I was reading

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Speaker 2: this in the New York Post the other day. I

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Speaker 2: just want to get your take on it. No, Danielle,

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Speaker 2: you had a wedding. Yes, you send out your invitation. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you get RSVPs. Yeah, sometimes they sometimes they actually RSVP,

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Speaker 2: sometimes they don't. And then, of course it's the day

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Speaker 2: before the wedding they call, oh my god, I forgot

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Speaker 2: I've read I didn't know it, and I did the

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Speaker 2: same thing. Luckily, a lot of people, most people were

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Speaker 2: very very quick in replying yes I'm gonna be there,

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Speaker 2: and no, I can't be there. Here's a new take

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Speaker 2: on it. This woman decided to draft a statement for

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Speaker 2: brides and grooms to use when their guests haven't responded

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Speaker 2: to invitations by the deadline. Here's the message. We're sorry

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Speaker 2: you can't make it to our wedding. Our RSVP deadline

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Speaker 2: has passed and you, unfortunately did not respond. The message

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Speaker 2: goes on to say, we would have loved to have

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Speaker 2: you attend, but final numbers have now been turned in

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Speaker 2: and your presence will be missed and it's been signed

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Speaker 2: the writing room. What do you think about that passive? Well,

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Speaker 2: you think it's passive aggression.

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Speaker 1: I get it, though, because let me tell you, you

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Speaker 1: have to at a certain point.

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Speaker 3: You have to turn your numbers in.

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Speaker 1: It's not like you know, you go to a regular restaurant.

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a catering hole usually, and it's expensive

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Speaker 1: and it pisses me off. Even if someone does r

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Speaker 1: SVP and then decides not to come the last minute.

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Speaker 1: I understand things happen, but if it's not an excuse

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Speaker 1: that you can really use an excuse.

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Speaker 3: I still got to pay for that food. I gotta

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Speaker 3: pay for that plate.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think all this is understood, but some people

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Speaker 2: don't understand it. Does it make sense right, But to

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Speaker 2: have a look, it starts with the save the date card,

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Speaker 2: then it's in the invitation, and now it's this the

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Speaker 2: third prong. Well, you didn't get back to me in time.

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Speaker 2: Would have loved to have you there, but it's the

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Speaker 2: door is closed. Yeah, you can't come.

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Speaker 1: But the problem with this, I think also is it

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Speaker 1: opens a door to people going, oh no, I still

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Speaker 1: want to come, and then you get five, six, seven

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Speaker 1: people that still want to come in At that point,

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Speaker 1: what do you.

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Speaker 2: Do said I can't. I love you, but we can't

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Speaker 2: the numbers are in.

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Speaker 4: I think they should switch it a little bit, move

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Speaker 4: the date up a little before they send that email

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Speaker 4: and just say I'm so sorry you can't make it

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Speaker 4: to the wedding. We're gonna miss you, and then all

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Speaker 4: that wave that comes in like oh no, we're going

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Speaker 4: to go. Then you can include them because it's for

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Speaker 4: the actual That's a good idea. I mean that kind

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Speaker 4: of seems like you're chastising them a little bit. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 4: which I understand because it's very irritating to not get

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Speaker 4: an RSVP, But I don't know, I think.

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Speaker 2: It is a little it sounds a little passive.

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Speaker 3: It does sound a little passive, but I understand I

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Speaker 3: missed the dates.

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Speaker 4: You're not allowed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can not come. Doors will not be opened.

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Speaker 1: But I do get it, and it's such a pain

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Speaker 1: and they as to have to chase people down from RSVPs.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you guys all know from things you've done terrible.

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Speaker 2: I'm reading the comments below this story though, people are

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Speaker 2: saying it's a bit tacky, but people have the invite

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Speaker 2: for four months. It's also tackying and considerate not to reply.

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Speaker 2: It is scary, says he is the biggest defender when

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Speaker 5: To this, which is why I kind of agree with

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Speaker 5: the article. Guilty is charged. Twice now in the past

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Speaker 5: three months, I had people calling me. So they called

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Speaker 5: my and they said, look, you didn't respond. The deadline passed,

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Speaker 5: you're coming or not, And they literally put me on

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Speaker 5: the spot and I told them point blank, I can't go.

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Speaker 2: So both times they got.

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Speaker 5: To me, but both times I was guilty for not

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Speaker 2: But they made the effort to call me personally. I know,

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Speaker 2: but can you imagine sitting down with a list of

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Speaker 2: people you have to call? Okay, let me go call

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Speaker 2: all these people that mister deadline. Will We'll start with scary.

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Speaker 4: Yes twice now and it's a stressful time in their lives. Anyway.

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Speaker 4: If the one thing you can do is just reply

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Speaker 4: yes or no, just reply?

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Speaker 2: What do you do? What happens? He's beating the phone?

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Speaker 2: Why are you beating the phone? I'm trying to get

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Speaker 2: somebody on you? Okay, okay, well do you do that?

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Speaker 2: A boy beating the phone? I just said, I couldn't

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Speaker 2: hear a crumbum. You're being a crumbum. You're a real crumbbum.

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Speaker 2: You're being a crumbum. Who do you have? Okay? Lee?

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Speaker 2: On nineteen? She's going through this right, Lee is going

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Speaker 2: through this right now? That's what I'm hearing. High Lee?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? Hi?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 6: My rsp t D was on Monday? And I have

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Speaker 6: six I have six people who's not are okay that?

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Speaker 2: You know? That's that's a lot. You know six people

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Speaker 2: that six phone calls you have to make maybe leave

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Speaker 2: a message, maybe text. That's a lot. You shouldn't have

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Speaker 2: to go through that. Enough going on? Lee? Really?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Can maybe they nailed out the card on Monday. Some

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Speaker 6: think I'm some grace for usp.

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, of these six people, do you really

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Speaker 2: want them there? I mean, are they really like six people?

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Speaker 2: You really really have to have there? Can you let

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Speaker 2: it slide?

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Speaker 6: Three family?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so that's the three that you care about. You

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Speaker 1: text them. The other ones you just don't text.

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Speaker 3: A bunch of crumbs, a bunch of crumb.

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Speaker 1: Bums that you should write in the card. Sorry, you're

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Speaker 1: such a crumbum, and you bum.

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Speaker 2: You really are.

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Speaker 6: So we wish diary on these people.

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I know, but what if they come to

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Speaker 2: the wedding and they make sure we have drains on

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Speaker 2: the We don't ever.

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Speaker 4: Really specify when we're wishing that diarrhea to kick in.

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Speaker 2: Now, yeah, kick him right there when you're doing the

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Speaker 2: chicken dance.

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Speaker 3: We need to be specific.

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Speaker 2: It could happen, which diarrhea of the crumbumbs, you crumbum,

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Speaker 2: all right? For the six people who passed the Monday

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Speaker 2: deadline of getting your rs VP back to Lee, we

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Speaker 2: wish diarrhea up on you. I don't know. Some people

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Speaker 2: actually send a text and they said they don't want

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Speaker 2: to say no, so they just don't send a response.

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Speaker 2: Well that's horrible that's awful.

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Speaker 4: Nose are fine?

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Speaker 2: All right? Lee? You know, are you gonna really I mean,

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Speaker 2: are you gonna just try to chase him down? You're

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Speaker 2: gonna try to give him a call today?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, in a couple of days, I'll give him. I'll

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Speaker 6: give him some time. It's it's okay. I also, if

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Speaker 6: they're listening right now, I'm sorry. And I hope they

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Speaker 6: get a text from you, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, unfortunately you have diarrhea. Whoever you are, alright, Lee,

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Speaker 2: thank you, good luck and you have a wonderful wedding

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Speaker 2: and a wonderful marriage.

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Speaker 6: Okay, thanks for having me on.

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Speaker 2: There you go. I mean sometimes you don't you give

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Speaker 2: them an envelope with a stamp on it, you know, right? Yeah, absolutely,

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Speaker 2: But then you have to find a mailbox.

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Speaker 3: They do still have there everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Hello Samantha, Hello, So talk about it. Your wedding is

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Speaker 2: April thirteenth. Your RSVP day was March fifth. You're still

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Speaker 2: wedding for people to tell you if they're coming or not.

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Speaker 3: Today's the twenty first, yep.

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Speaker 6: And they ignore me or they say I'm gonna let

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Speaker 6: you know, I'm gonna have to see if someone can

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Speaker 6: watch my baby. And by the way we sent her,

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Speaker 6: but save the dates, like a whole entire year before.

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Speaker 6: So if you're still waiting for someone to watch your baby,

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Speaker 6: I mean, come on, yeah, those areas heads up.

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Speaker 1: Those are people who really don't want to come in

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Speaker 1: my book that say, you know what, because if they

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Speaker 1: had a year in advance, you can find a baby

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Speaker 1: center a year in advance.

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Speaker 6: And then like some of them will helmet they're coming.

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Speaker 6: They'll testing to say, hey, I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 6: coming anymore, and I'm just like, can you let me know?

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Speaker 6: And I have to let my venue know two weeks

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Speaker 6: before my final count, so you know, texting people every

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Speaker 6: day or like we're getting fights about it. So I

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Speaker 6: support these people that are saying that they're doing a

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Speaker 6: cutoff because you know, if I can go back, I

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Speaker 6: could do that, and I get the snap. I gave

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Speaker 6: the stamp to everyone, so all they have to do

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Speaker 6: is bring it to the mailbox.

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Speaker 2: That's it. But Samantha, this article I was reading from

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Speaker 2: the post. I mean it's another printed piece of stationary

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Speaker 2: that you send out right and it says, sorry you

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Speaker 2: missed the deadline. We would have loved to have seen you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but we have to have a final count, have a

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Speaker 2: n iceed day. I mean that that's actually more work

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Speaker 2: than just ignoring them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot more words than need too.

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Speaker 6: But you know, you know they're probably they probably have

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Speaker 6: a lot of less stress in their life right now

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Speaker 6: than I have. Trying to see if people.

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Speaker 2: Are yeah, I know, no, you're putting a wedding together

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Speaker 2: is stressful. So let me put this out there. If

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Speaker 2: you're listening to our show right now and you have

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Speaker 2: that R s VP kind of lingering, you know, right

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Speaker 2: in the junk drawer or on you know, in the

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Speaker 2: kitchen by the phone, you know, do it, do it?

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Speaker 2: Be proactive with that today, get it.

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Speaker 6: Done, especially at the stamps on it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Samantha, thank you very much. Sorry I'm

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Speaker 2: losing my voice. Have a great day. Yeah, this party

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Speaker 2: girl voice thing is like, well, we've.

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Speaker 3: Done a lot this week where we've used our voices.

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Speaker 2: We're partying, yeah a little.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We were out all day at the Scream Truck event

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Speaker 2: in the wind and the cold, and then we lapped

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Speaker 2: our asses off last night. That takes the voice away.

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Speaker 3: Of course.

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Speaker 2: We had a great night. Danielle.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for coming absolutely, Thanks for throwing it.

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Speaker 2: No thanks for throwing it.

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Speaker 3: You're welcome.