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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: It's time for the Almost Famous podcast. We are very

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Speaker 2: excited today because we have love. I would say this

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Speaker 2: this episode is about love, it's about kinship, it's about soulmates.

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Speaker 2: We have Dean and Kaylen here with us to talk

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Speaker 2: about so many important things coming up. Hello Dean and Kaylen.

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Speaker 3: Hey Ben, Hey, Ben and Ashley.

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Speaker 4: Hey, so your wedding is coming up.

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Speaker 5: And I have to say that so many people will

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Speaker 5: still come up to me after four years of us

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Speaker 5: being married and five and a half of us being together,

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Speaker 5: and they're like, can you believe it happened? But like

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Speaker 5: I think about you guys like that. I think like

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Speaker 5: you in Paradise and like Dean left, you know, came

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Speaker 5: back for you, and he was in this phase that

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Speaker 5: everybody said he was in. Now friends know it's a

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Speaker 5: little bit more complicateding that, but everybody was like, oh,

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Speaker 5: he's the target, like f boy, right, Nobody got called

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Speaker 5: that more than Dean, and look at him proving everybody wrong.

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Speaker 2: Well, for the.

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Speaker 6: Record, I don't think it's fair to compare the two

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Speaker 6: because your guys story the lead up to it was.

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Speaker 3: A lot longer than ours at least.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Caitlin and I the lead up was less than

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Speaker 6: a week, but you guys had your whole.

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Speaker 3: Fin and all that stuff.

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Speaker 6: And so I do think that maybe they're still They're

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Speaker 6: in the same sport, but you're playing major leagues. We're

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Speaker 6: playing Triple A baseball essentially. But yeah, no, it's interesting.

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Speaker 3: It was.

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Speaker 6: I always refer back to the movie definitely maybe one

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Speaker 6: of my favorites. Ryan Robitts is amazing and Isla Fisher,

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Speaker 6: I believe is her name, is also really amazing in

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Speaker 6: it too, and they have a conversation and they're talking

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Speaker 6: about finding the perfect person to be with for the

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Speaker 6: rest of your life. And I think it's Isla Fisher

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Speaker 6: that says it's not who, but when. And I really

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Speaker 6: believe if I met Kaylan on the first season of

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Speaker 6: Paradise that I did Bachelor in Paradise season four when

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Speaker 6: I wasn't f boy, I don't think it really maybe

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Speaker 6: it would have.

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Speaker 3: Worked out, who knows.

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Speaker 6: I do think the two years of growth between four

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Speaker 6: and six, the seasons are really what helped change me

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Speaker 6: and show me the light and show me, you know,

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Speaker 6: what kind of person I wanted to be.

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Speaker 3: I guess in the future.

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Speaker 2: So I want to dig into this a little bit

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Speaker 2: because we've never talked about this on the show. But Dean,

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Speaker 2: if there's one person that did The Bachelor, that's a

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Speaker 2: friend of mine that I know personally that I'm like,

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Speaker 2: he could have cared less if he would have done

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Speaker 2: this show or not. In fact, I don't think he has,

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Speaker 2: Like I don't think the show has any impact on

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Speaker 2: his life other than his like relationship with Kaylan, And

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Speaker 2: I don't think Dean cares at all about the fame.

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Speaker 2: I think he likes coming to some of the events

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Speaker 2: because we have friends there and we get to have

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Speaker 2: a great time. Sure, but Dean, you're one of I

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Speaker 2: would say, the few success stories coming from the show.

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Speaker 2: So you do a show that you don't really want

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Speaker 2: to do, you're not really thrilled that you did it

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Speaker 2: after the show, but then you go back on Paradise

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Speaker 2: and you find love on it. At any point in time,

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Speaker 2: do this ever feel like a big joke to you,

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Speaker 2: like that this was like the world like coming back

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Speaker 2: at you and saying you don't know everything.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I.

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Speaker 6: Mean there's a lot to I guess unpacked from that,

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Speaker 6: I do I do appreciate the show.

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Speaker 3: It helped my bank.

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Speaker 6: Account quite a bit and so that I'll always have

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Speaker 6: an incredible amount for it.

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Speaker 7: You get a call then and you out on this

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Speaker 7: because I remember the conversation leading in to Bachelor in

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Speaker 7: Paradise season six and I was like, Dean, just do

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Speaker 7: it for the followers and the money, Like why would

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Speaker 3: And you were like the only person I talked to

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Speaker 6: We hadn't even met yet, and I texted you, I

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Speaker 6: got your number somehow, and you were like, one thousand

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Speaker 3: Why wouldn't you be stupid? Not too?

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 3: What was the question again?

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Speaker 2: So this ever, like, is this ever like laying in

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Speaker 2: which will get into in a little bit. Does it

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Speaker 2: ever just like feel wild to you that you met

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Speaker 6: You know, I think we can all kind of attest

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Speaker 6: to it. If you look at it from the outside,

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Speaker 6: it definitely looks weird, but going through it, like, yeah,

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Speaker 6: we fell in love on a TV show and that's

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Speaker 6: weird to say and weird to live, But it doesn't.

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Speaker 6: You know, like we're all of us are so far

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Speaker 6: removed from the show so many years past that like

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Speaker 6: sure we still talk about it and we have these

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Speaker 6: podcasts and all these things that we are allowed to do,

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Speaker 6: but like we don't really incorporate any of that stuff

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Speaker 6: into our everyday life. So just is it doesn't feel

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Speaker 6: weird to me. It just feels like we met just

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Speaker 6: like any other couple might have met. That's how I feel,

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Speaker 6: at least, how do you feel?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I kind of feel the same. I forget often

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Speaker 8: that we did the show, that we met on the show,

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Speaker 8: and I mean technically I slid into his DM six

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Speaker 8: years ago and then bailed on my approval.

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Speaker 3: We all know that story when you go to that

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Speaker 3: far the story.

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Speaker 8: No, it just doesn't feel it doesn't feel like we're

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Speaker 8: a reality TV couple. Like I look at I don't know,

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Speaker 8: these Netflix dating shows and all these different shows, and

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Speaker 8: they feel like a reality TV couple And I just

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Speaker 8: don't feel that for us.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I would say the same would be for

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Speaker 6: you guys as well. I mean Ben, obviously Jess was

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Speaker 6: never on the show, but like it doesn't see I

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Speaker 6: feel like what so many people do nowadays, what those

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Speaker 6: Netflix shows are, Like, they'll they'll try to convince everyone

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Speaker 6: else that they're in love by posting or doing whatever

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Speaker 6: they do on social media or whatever it is. And

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Speaker 6: I feel like the true the couples that are truly

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Speaker 3: And I feel like that maybe that's where we Yeah.

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Speaker 8: And I feel like we keep a lot of our

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Speaker 8: relationship private too, Like there are some things that are public,

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Speaker 8: but then there's a lot that people don't know about us.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I try to be public as public as I can,

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Speaker 6: but then every time I do, you hit me under

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Speaker 5: Well, everything h Deane says in the podcast makes a

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Speaker 5: headline because he's like, so real.

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Speaker 4: You guys, I actually think it's less weird that we met.

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Speaker 2: Or unwise because I want to be.

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Speaker 4: On I wise unhinged all of it.

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Speaker 6: So, Like I've had friends dads come out of the

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Speaker 6: like my friends from high school's dads have reached out

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Speaker 6: to me, like sharing a headline of something so stupid

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Speaker 6: that I said, and they're like, hey, maybe you should

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Speaker 8: Some time you said that your brother's getting pregnant up.

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Speaker 4: Was the weirdest by far.

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Speaker 5: That is the one that I like called Jared and

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Speaker 6: I'll say a lot of things not realizing it, and

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Speaker 6: then the aftermath is when I start to put things

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Speaker 6: in a perspective of what I said. Jokingly obviously, but

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Speaker 6: like when friends, parents are that you haven't talked to

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Speaker 6: in a decade are coming out and saying like, hey,

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Speaker 6: maybe you should button it up a little bit, That's

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Speaker 6: when you know, maybe, uh maybe, Calen.

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Speaker 2: This is like get judgment with that.

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Speaker 8: This is like every day with us, So I either

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Speaker 8: forget that this isn't normal for other people to be

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Speaker 2: Yeah sorry, the uh well, the headlines. I don't think

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Speaker 2: the head lines have given Dean enough credit. But this

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Speaker 2: is a question for Kaylen. Dean is currently accomplishing something,

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Speaker 2: Kylen that is incredibly impressive, and I'll explain why it's

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Speaker 2: so impressive in a bit. But Dean is, in short,

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Speaker 2: climbing every fourteen er in the state of Colorado leading

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Speaker 2: up to your wedding to get in better shape for

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Speaker 2: the wedding.

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Speaker 4: What's a fourteener for those who don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's a mountain that's fourteen thousand feet at its peak.

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Speaker 2: And so, Caylen, he's been gone a lot leading up

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Speaker 2: to this wedding. How has that been for you? You

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Speaker 2: are You're similar to my wife in a lot of

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Speaker 2: ways where you can function alone pretty well. But I

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Speaker 2: know there is a tad of missing your partner, especially

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Speaker 2: as you lead up to a wedding. So walk us

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Speaker 2: through what you've been doing leading up to this wedding

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Speaker 2: while Dean has been getting in shape.

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Speaker 8: Well, I'm not. I'm not accomplishing anything quite as impressive as.

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Speaker 3: You absolutely are. What every day is an accomplishment?

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Speaker 8: Oh, beautifully supportive, But no, this is like Dean does

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Speaker 8: these things, like you know, he goes to Pakistani, goes

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Speaker 8: Stop and this one has been the longest. So it

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Speaker 8: definitely got to the point where I called him and

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Speaker 8: I was like, I just miss you and I don't

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Speaker 8: it's just been you know, three months, and it's been

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Speaker 8: too long. And I was talking to my therapist and

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Speaker 8: she was the one who brought me to that realization.

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Speaker 8: And she was like, it sounds like you just miss him,

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Speaker 8: Like can't you just say that? And I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 8: I just don't really like talking about feelings or like

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Speaker 8: I was like, no, I miss you. And it's yeah,

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Speaker 8: it's been a long three months. I'm super proud of him.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, we got We got in a little scuffle a

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Speaker 6: got into a pretty hairy situation on one of the mountains.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Dane like he's doing this and then he puts

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Speaker 8: himself in situations to make it more scary because he

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Speaker 8: gets bored, and that really freaks me out. I'm like,

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Speaker 8: you're already doing this, I already have anxiety. Now you're

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Speaker 8: doing things that are more dangerous, which really makes me angry.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, And I was like texting her about it, like

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Speaker 6: explaining the story, and I was like embellishing some certain

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Speaker 6: I didn't realize that she was feeling this way, and

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Speaker 6: had I known that, I obviously would have maybe eased

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Speaker 3: Story a little bit.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, we got not in like an argument, but

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Speaker 6: there was a contentious phone call.

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Speaker 3: I guess about it all.

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Speaker 6: But I do feel like it's been three months. Yes,

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I just wanted to be able to stand up there

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Speaker 3: But like it just you can just do it. You

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to know. You don't know. No, you

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Speaker 2: And when you're Kaylen, you get a text from Dean

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Speaker 5: Yeah, No, this all ties into your wedding, because wasn't

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know if i'ssarily calm down per se.

440
00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,840
Speaker 6: I still think that the bug is still in me.

441
00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:34,200
Speaker 6: I'll do obviously a lot more exploring with Klan, which

442
00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,720
Speaker 6: would be great. And that's the thing too, Like I

443
00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:38,720
Speaker 6: would have loved for Kaylin to have joined me for

444
00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:41,960
Speaker 6: some of these, but I understand if you're not locked

445
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,679
Speaker 6: into the mindset of climbing a mountain, it's hard to

446
00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,240
Speaker 6: get motivated to do it, especially when it's hard and

447
00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:52,000
Speaker 6: you're tired and get cold or whatever. But there's no

448
00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,960
Speaker 6: plans immediately after the wedding to go out and climb

449
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 6: Dnali or something like that.

450
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Speaker 3: Maybe next year.

451
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:10,199
Speaker 2: There's so much here to then transfer into the wedding.

452
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,680
Speaker 2: First off, Kayl and I I spent many nights talking

453
00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:19,200
Speaker 2: about the two of you. I think whn Dean first

454
00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:21,359
Speaker 2: told me that, hey, he's going to do this because

455
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,520
Speaker 2: he was going to calm down, and I was talking

456
00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:24,600
Speaker 2: to Jess and I was like, I don't feel like

457
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,359
Speaker 2: I've had to calm down or stop most of my

458
00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:31,359
Speaker 2: life because I'm married like that that is something I

459
00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,560
Speaker 2: don't know who's telling people that, But there's a lot

460
00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 2: of freedom in marriage, I've found. And as he's been

461
00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:41,560
Speaker 2: climbing these you have been planning a wedding that is

462
00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,679
Speaker 2: coming up very soon, and to kind of transition to

463
00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 2: that has him being away made it easier for you

464
00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 2: to plan this wedding because you know, he maybe doesn't

465
00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:54,679
Speaker 2: have as much of an opinion on things, or has

466
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,160
Speaker 2: it been harder. How's the wedding process been.

467
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I think it's been a comedy of both. I

468
00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:03,639
Speaker 8: really really love planning, so I've I've been having a

469
00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,360
Speaker 8: blast of this, Like I feel like I should have

470
00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 8: done this professionally because I love it so much. But

471
00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 8: there are things where like I want his opinion and

472
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,639
Speaker 8: maybe he doesn't have service where he's like not super

473
00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 8: responsive because he's been climbing. There's a lot of decisions

474
00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,760
Speaker 8: I made on my own and he just has to

475
00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:22,239
Speaker 8: live with it.

476
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, And well that's the thing too, I want to

477
00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:25,960
Speaker 3: live with it. I want you to make.

478
00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 6: All these decisions because you have such great taste and

479
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:33,040
Speaker 6: your opinion is more is worth so much more when

480
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 6: it comes to this space, I think, and yes, I

481
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 6: want to be equal partners when it comes to planning

482
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 6: all these things.

483
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Speaker 3: But like, if you want something a certain.

484
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 6: Way, I don't want it another way to the point

485
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 6: where I'm going to fight you on it because.

486
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 3: I want you to have everything your way, you know

487
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 3: what I mean?

488
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 8: Yeah, And the important things like we agreed on together,

489
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 8: like our first dance song, his aisle song I wanted

490
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,880
Speaker 8: him to pick out and it's very him. I don't

491
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 8: think anyone's ever walked down the aisle to the song

492
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Speaker 8: that you sure?

493
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Speaker 3: Sure?

494
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:04,000
Speaker 6: But yeah, I know that there was a men's aisle song.

495
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 6: Did you guys do that at your writings?

496
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 3: Yeah?

497
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 2: I was already I think I did, Yeah, because I

498
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:13,800
Speaker 2: kind of walked down with my like groom's men before

499
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 2: everybody else. And I think there's a unique song playing.

500
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Speaker 8: Then Okay, that's pretty unique.

501
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 3: It's pretty What was your song, Ben? Do you remember?

502
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 2: I don't remember. I knew you're asked. I was like,

503
00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 2: but as far.

504
00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:29,920
Speaker 6: As the wedding planning goes, like I try to be involved,

505
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,879
Speaker 6: but we have two wedding planners who are fantastic and

506
00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 6: they're they're absolutely crushing it for us, and it's it's

507
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,280
Speaker 6: really the biggest obstacle that we've been faced with with

508
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 6: this whole thing is just the people that own the.

509
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,400
Speaker 3: Venue have been a bit of a challenge to deal

510
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 3: with that.

511
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 6: They say something and then they go back on their word,

512
00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 6: and then they change everything completely, and then we agree

513
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 6: to something, but then they think that we agree to

514
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,360
Speaker 6: something else and it's and.

515
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 8: We put our deposits down, so we're kind of stuck

516
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:58,359
Speaker 8: into it. That's been the most stressful part of the

517
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 8: whole process is the venue and do with the people

518
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 8: behind it. And I'm excited to never have to deal.

519
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 4: With it again.

520
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, we're excited for the wedding because we don't

521
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 3: want to have to deal with them.

522
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, speaking of the venue, I know that Jared asked

523
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 5: you this on the podcast.

524
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 4: It's beautiful.

525
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,320
Speaker 5: We're so excited to check it out people, But Jared

526
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 5: was like, it seems so dean, but actually, Kaylen, you

527
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 5: were the one that was really wanting it to be here,

528
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 5: and that also I just want to like kind of

529
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 5: like tie it into just your overall essence. I was

530
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 5: at dinner with a few, like outside dinner with Jill Chen,

531
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 5: you know, from from Bachelor Vision yesterday and she was like,

532
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 5: I feel like Kaylen is such a different person, not

533
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 5: in like a good way. Then she was back on

534
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 5: her seasons, like she was the pageant girl in her

535
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 5: season right, and now she's this nature girl.

536
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,160
Speaker 4: So how like, how has.

537
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 5: Dean evolved you into this being now like kind of

538
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 5: your style as well?

539
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,879
Speaker 8: Yeah, I think you brought out a lot of parts

540
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 8: of me that were always there, but like I could

541
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 8: embrace more, Like I never I were a makeup like

542
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 8: I feel like three times a month now, I like

543
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 8: never wear versus before I would always wear makeup every

544
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 8: single day. Like was fully like that pageant girl and

545
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 8: not really comfortable in myself. I was like, you know,

546
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 8: had this facade on all the time. And I don't know,

547
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 8: I've just been able to embrace myself and enjoy the

548
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 8: outdoors like it's still you know, hiking is a challenge,

549
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,800
Speaker 8: but I'm getting better, but I do enjoy like being

550
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 8: in nature a lot more. And just that whole aspect.

551
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 8: That's that he's introduced.

552
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 3: Me too well.

553
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 6: And as you said too, that's been a part of

554
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 6: your family for so long. Your miller size, Yeah, her

555
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 6: grandparents have a sprinter van. Her uncle has hiked a

556
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:44,960
Speaker 6: bunch of fourteen ers as well.

557
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Speaker 8: I just never thought it was like something ingrained in

558
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,159
Speaker 8: me and something I could do. It was like me

559
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 8: limiting myself. And Dean is really good at pushing himself

560
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 8: and telling himself that he can do anything, and part

561
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 8: of our relationship has been like telling me, I can

562
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 8: also do anything that you can.

563
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, some times you struggle with it still, but you

564
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:05,239
Speaker 6: can do more than I can. So yeah, I don't know,

565
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 6: but yes, I mean it's The wedding venue thing was

566
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 6: funny because I didn't even know that we were going

567
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 6: to get married in Colorado. There was one venue in

568
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 6: particular that or two venues in particular that I.

569
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 3: Was really gung ho about. One of them was expensive.

570
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 6: I thought we were gonna get a friend discount because

571
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,159
Speaker 6: my friend owns it, but his sister didn't let us.

572
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,879
Speaker 6: The other one was they gave me a scholarship to

573
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 6: go to college, and so I was excited to maybe

574
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 6: potentially get married on their property because they basically helped

575
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 6: me get a higher education, which I really appreciated. But

576
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,159
Speaker 6: the venue just didn't work out for what we wanted.

577
00:25:34,440 --> 00:25:35,919
Speaker 6: And then we went up and saw this one. It

578
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 6: was the second one that we saw and we pulled

579
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 6: up and Kaln's like, this is it. I was like,

580
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:41,680
Speaker 6: we haven't even we haven't even gone out of the

581
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 6: car yet. What are you talking about. She's like, I

582
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 6: don't care.

583
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 3: This is it. I know this is exactly where we

584
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:45,160
Speaker 3: want to get married.

585
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,879
Speaker 8: And it was covered in snow. We couldn't even see it.

586
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 8: But I really wanted it to be an experience, Like

587
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 8: I don't know, I've talked to so many people who

588
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 8: have gotten married and they can't really spend time with

589
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 8: everyone that they want to, and so I wanted the

590
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 8: weekend to be all about our friends and family getting

591
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 8: together and have that quality time with them. So the

592
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 8: unique venue kind of.

593
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:03,919
Speaker 4: Allows for that.

594
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,360
Speaker 8: Just like slow down, not be stressed, and enjoy everyone.

595
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 6: Yeah, and sorry, I just I feel like we're just

596
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:11,719
Speaker 6: talking on over here.

597
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 2: Sorry.

598
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,160
Speaker 6: I just want to say too, your weddings are amazing.

599
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 6: But what we really wanted to do, and what Kayln

600
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 6: I think really wanted to do too, was like make

601
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 6: it more. You know, like if you go to a

602
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 6: wedding and everyone's kind of like doing their own thing

603
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 6: until the ceremony happens, that's great. But what Kaylen wanted

604
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,679
Speaker 6: to do was make it more of like a group

605
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 6: group dynamic, and so everyone's going to be like staying

606
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 6: on the property. We have like games and stuff planned

607
00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 6: and hopefully it just makes it more of like.

608
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Speaker 3: A unique experience. We're all about the unique experience.

609
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's going to be. I mean, I know this

610
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 2: area and it's it's got to be one of the

611
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 2: most beautiful places in the US where you guys are

612
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 2: getting married. And I think for anybody that's coming from

613
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 2: la or maybe not, has never been in the Colorado Mountains,

614
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 2: I think they're going to be shocked.

615
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 4: That would be me.

616
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you're going to be shocked at just

617
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 2: what the mountains do for you and to you and

618
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: what and and kind of what you see and experience.

619
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Speaker 2: And you know, I've been to Colorado weddings where there's

620
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 2: been a moose walk through the wedding, where there's been

621
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,639
Speaker 2: a bear, you know, like coming through and everybody has

622
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 2: to come in from the reception because the bear is

623
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 2: down to eat the food. Like those are the things

624
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 2: that make it amazing and special. Well as you know,

625
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,280
Speaker 2: as we kind of dive in and as you get

626
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: a week away, I would love to hear both of

627
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 2: your kind of emotions around the idea that you are

628
00:27:36,720 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 2: getting married next week or you know a little over

629
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 2: a week away, that this is coming up soon, that

630
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: you've kind of been prepping for it for a while.

631
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:49,479
Speaker 2: And so I want to start with Kaylin, how are

632
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: you feeling, you know about being married.

633
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 8: I'm excited. I mean, it's just so crazy because I

634
00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 8: had a crush on Dean for so long and like.

635
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 4: It it's really crazy.

636
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 8: I remember seeing you on my TV and I was like,

637
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 8: that guy is so hot and handsome, and then I

638
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 8: met you and thought the same thing. And it's just

639
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 8: so wild that I'm marrying this guy that I watched

640
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 8: on TV and had the biggest crush on ever. And

641
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 8: you know, we've created this life together. We live in

642
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 8: a home. We do kind of feel married. But it's

643
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 8: nice to actually go through with the wedding and call

644
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 8: him my husband, which is crazy. This is our last

645
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 8: week of being fiance's before we're husband and wife.

646
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:29,880
Speaker 2: But he.

647
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:31,959
Speaker 4: I don't know.

648
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 8: I was like just going through my vows and like

649
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,359
Speaker 8: trying to fine tune them and stuff, and this is

650
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 8: potentially I don't know in them. But I remember when

651
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 8: he dumped me on the beach and I was like

652
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 8: so heartbroken. And it wasn't necessarily like I had loved

653
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 8: him yet, but I knew that I would never meet

654
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 8: anyone like Dan ever again, Like he is the most

655
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 8: special person ever, and so I was like, it's all

656
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 8: downhill from here, like I'm screwed yea, And so it's

657
00:28:59,320 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 8: just crazy.

658
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 4: I just love him so much.

659
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 2: Agree with that, Dean.

660
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 4: Oh, I love that so much.

661
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 5: It's so relatable to be like, look, I well it

662
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 5: sucks because now I'm going to have to marry my

663
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 5: second place.

664
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:13,680
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm not going to be with him.

665
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 6: Yeah.

666
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 3: I really helped you out there, didn't I. Yeah, it's

667
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 3: weird to be such a chick.

668
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 2: It's weird to.

669
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: Be marrying a fan. I guess I never expected that.

670
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,360
Speaker 2: You free.

671
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 3: I guess that's cool. Yeah, I know, you're right. I'm

672
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 3: excited to be married.

673
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 6: Obviously, I've been pretty marriage averse for a large portion

674
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,360
Speaker 6: of my life, and then even the first probably half

675
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 6: of our relationship, I was pretty marriage averse. Not that

676
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 6: I was lifelong partnership averse, because I think once Kaitlyn

677
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,880
Speaker 6: came into my life is pretty It didn't maybe happen

678
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 6: as fast as it did for me as it did

679
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 6: for you, but it was pretty quick for me to

680
00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,480
Speaker 6: know that I was wanting to spend the rest of

681
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 6: my life with.

682
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 3: You, and the wedding is just.

683
00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,479
Speaker 6: An way to kind of like seal the deal on that,

684
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 6: which is really nice and I agree like going around

685
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 6: and being able to call you my wife instead of

686
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 6: having to say do I say fiance, do I say girlfriend?

687
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 3: Do I say wife? That'll be nice to not have

688
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: to worry about that anymore.

689
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,400
Speaker 6: But yeah, it's great kind of what you were alluding

690
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 6: to earlier, Ben like having someone in your life that

691
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 6: cares about you more than you care about yourself is

692
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 6: a really really interesting feeling. It's something I've never really

693
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 6: experienced in my life until now. And just to know

694
00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 6: that for the next sixty or seventy or eighty years,

695
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 6: like we're always going to have each other's back, and

696
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 6: you have a bad day, you can come in and

697
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,719
Speaker 6: complain to your partner about how bad of a day

698
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 6: you had, and.

699
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 3: You can kind of rely on that.

700
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 6: Like, it's pretty cool to be able to know that

701
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 6: we're going to get to just continue to build and

702
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 6: grow together for however.

703
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 3: Long we get to live.

704
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 6: I do feel like I'm going to be like one

705
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,320
Speaker 6: hundred and eighty years old when I die. Caitlin might

706
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,480
Speaker 6: make it two hundred, So it sucks.

707
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 3: For me, like eighty years if you're in a widow

708
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 3: or but I'll take anything I can get.

709
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 6: Every day is a blessing and I'm super super happy

710
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 6: to be able to continue to build on that. And

711
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 6: it just feels like too, like our relationship is so young.

712
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 6: You know, you guys have both been in your relationships

713
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 6: for probably a little bit longer than us.

714
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 3: I'm sure you can attest too like.

715
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 6: It feels like we just started dating like a week

716
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 6: ago in a lot of ways, but obviously we don't.

717
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 6: Like we know more about each other than anyone else

718
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 6: on this planet, and so it's just it's an exciting

719
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 6: time for sure.

720
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 2: Ashlely, Can I ask one question real quick that was

721
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 2: on the rundown that I don't understand? Yeah, I really

722
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 2: have no clue where this comes from. I've never heard it.

723
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on here, but it was

724
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 2: written down on the prep and I had got to

725
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 2: ask it. It says you're considering becoming born again virgin

726
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 2: pre wedding? Is this still something you're doing?

727
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 4: This is definitely something that they made mention of that

728
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,160
Speaker 4: he shouldn't have made mention of.

729
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 8: Okay, Duane's just talking out of his butt again.

730
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 3: Sounds pretty standard for me. I don't even remember why

731
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 3: I brought that up.

732
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 8: You were like, that would be so cool if we

733
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 8: didn't have sex until the wedding. Oh yeah, so we

734
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 8: would become born again virgins.

735
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, well you can go the next week.

736
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 2: Wow. Yeah, okay, so we're nine days away. I'm assuming

737
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 2: this is no longer a part of the plan.

738
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, start the hell.

739
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 4: I'm I'm so glad you threw that one in.

740
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,480
Speaker 2: Ben, I'm done. That was all I got. I saw it.

741
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't give what's going on here,

742
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 2: but I want to ask.

743
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 6: All right, Yeah, I think my problem is I feel

744
00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,959
Speaker 6: like on these podcasts, especially when Jared is co hosting

745
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 6: and Kaylen sit right next to me, I just feel

746
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 6: I forget that people listen to this and I just

747
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 6: talk like I'm talking to my friends, and so it

748
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 6: just gets out of handsome time.

749
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 4: That that makes good content.

750
00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 5: All right, So, Kaylin, we've seen you try on so

751
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 5: many dresses on social media and like, oh my goodness,

752
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 5: you're gonna look good in everything.

753
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 4: Did you settle on just one or you're gonna have multiples?

754
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 8: I have a ceremony dress and a reception.

755
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, cool? And like, do you want to tell

756
00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 4: a style?

757
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 5: Is it what we'd expect from a nature wedding or

758
00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 5: is it different?

759
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 4: Different?

760
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 8: It was surprisingly so easy for me because I did pageants,

761
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 8: so I've worn so many different styles of dresses since

762
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 8: I was fifteen, and there were two styles that I like,

763
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 8: I knew I wanted. I went in and I was like,

764
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 8: I want this style for the reception and I want

765
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 8: this style for the ceremony. So the second dress I

766
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 8: tried on was the dress I'm wearing for the ceremony

767
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 8: or yeah, ceremony, and then I think it was like

768
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 8: the fourth dress or my reception. So I knew immediately

769
00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 8: super easy. I feel like they're not super natury.

770
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,680
Speaker 3: Okay, get a train, Yes, you are going to have

771
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 3: a train.

772
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 8: Did you think no?

773
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 3: Well no, I didn't think you were going to And

774
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 3: that's awesome.

775
00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

776
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 3: Are you gonna have a veil?

777
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh that's awesome.

778
00:33:50,360 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 8: Any other questions, Uh, garter.

779
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, this is.

780
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 4: Something blue, something borrowed, and something new.

781
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,320
Speaker 8: Yeah, my grandma just said she has her handkerchief. I

782
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,000
Speaker 8: think she's like eighty five. Her handkerchief from when she

783
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 8: was eighteen years old, and it's blue and it's old.

784
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 3: So and her grandparents are letting me wear their pocket

785
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 3: walk I know.

786
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 8: I was like, you kind of have the old and

787
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 8: borrowed covered because it's my grandma's dad's pocket watch. It's

788
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 8: this vintage cool pocket watch. So he's gonna be wearing that.

789
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,840
Speaker 6: And I also have a ceremony interception outfit. I'm changing

790
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 6: between the two.

791
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 5: Yes, here, you are so Dean, like, there's a lot

792
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 5: of talk around your outfit because you wanted to wear

793
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 5: some silly stuff like what is that called? Like those

794
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 5: things with strings that cowboys wear around their neck.

795
00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: Dean and I wore these the VMA's together. Yeah, and

796
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,960
Speaker 2: with a T shirt. Oh no, we looked really good

797
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 2: at that.

798
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 3: I remember that VMA Awards. That was pretty funny. Yeah.

799
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 3: I my style is bad.

800
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,400
Speaker 6: It gets worse every year. I feel like I used

801
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,720
Speaker 6: to be semi stylish. I've not really so much anymore.

802
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 6: But yeah, I've got a bunch of bolow ties that

803
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 6: I'm gonna decide on the day of, and I've got

804
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:02,000
Speaker 6: a long tail tuxedo with shock. Caitlyn wasn't really super

805
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 6: keen on it first, but I think she's maybe come

806
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 6: around on it. But that was the reason I got

807
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 6: I got a second talx just in case the long

808
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 6: tail ends up feeling silly the day of, so then

809
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 6: I'll just have a backup. But I don't think it will,

810
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 6: and so that what I'll do is I'll just change

811
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 6: between them between the ceremony and the reception. But yeah,

812
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 6: my style is it's not about me obviously that day

813
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 6: at all, but it is, well, it's about you.

814
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,879
Speaker 3: All eyes are going to be on you. That's perfectly fine.

815
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:27,720
Speaker 4: It's about us.

816
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 3: It's about us.

817
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 8: I'm not marrying myself.

818
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 6: Sure you're not, but I'm just saying, like, all of

819
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 6: the attendees are going to be looking.

820
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 3: At you, not looking at me.

821
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 8: They'll be looking at you.

822
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 3: They're not not even going to realize that I changed

823
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:38,880
Speaker 3: TUXI does.

824
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 4: But you are going to wear the bow? Wellow, how

825
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 4: do you say.

826
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 5: Itlolo and Caitlyn. You didn't want him to, but now

827
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 5: you're cool.

828
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 4: I like it.

829
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,919
Speaker 8: With his second outfit. But the first outfit it should

830
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:51,760
Speaker 8: be more formal with a bow tie or something.

831
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 4: You look great in a bow tie. I know John

832
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 4: Johnson comes out, he.

833
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 8: Thinks it's so basic. But I saw Sophia Bush. Her

834
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,760
Speaker 8: wedding was so beautiful. It was bed What do you mean.

835
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 4: They're being divorced?

836
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,960
Speaker 8: Oh? Sei is okay?

837
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,719
Speaker 4: He was just really cool bow tie.

838
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 8: It was like, I think it's called a western bow tie.

839
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,920
Speaker 8: It's like a thinner one and it's.

840
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 4: Actually like a bow. Oh yeah, that.

841
00:36:14,360 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 8: Sounds ugly, but it looks cool and it droops down.

842
00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll get I mean, I'm gonna buy a bow tie.

843
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 3: I'm going to have options, that's the thing.

844
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 6: But my my instinct and my intuition is telling me

845
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 6: to wear the bolo tie, to wear the long tail.

846
00:36:26,400 --> 00:36:27,719
Speaker 8: I like the long tail with the bow tie, and

847
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 8: then bulletie for the second.

848
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 3: We'll see. That's the thing. I can cycle through the options.

849
00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:33,720
Speaker 4: Okay, so many things to decide in just nine days.

850
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna have been in the in the room

851
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 6: helping me get dressed, and he can tell me what

852
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 6: he thinks looks best and what doesn't look good.

853
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 2: So I mean, I did you well. I remember when

854
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: Diana and I chose he was together. Yeah, he was

855
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 2: my date to an awards show, and I didn't I

856
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,680
Speaker 2: didn't like know what to wear to this thing. I

857
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: had no idea, So I texted Diana. I was like,

858
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 2: what do you wear to a red carpet show when

859
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 2: everybody's taking pictures and everybody's going to be like better

860
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 2: looking and more suave than you and I? And we're like,

861
00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 2: let's go T shirts, jackets, bulow ties and just see

862
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 2: where it takes us. And we did, and we might

863
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 2: have got best dressed. We definitely pulled it off.

864
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 6: And the fact that we both like matched but didn't

865
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 6: match was was a big selling point as well. I

866
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 6: remember one thing that sticks out to me about that

867
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 6: night was I had just gotten a new haircut and

868
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,359
Speaker 6: I think, like, maybe I did it myself or my

869
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 6: friend did it, and it just looks so bad.

870
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 2: Guys.

871
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 4: It was the American Music Awards. I didn't think, like

872
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:34,160
Speaker 4: the v.

873
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,720
Speaker 2: We weren't cool enough to get invited to the VMA's

874
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 2: that what you're saying.

875
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 4: And now I see this and this is what.

876
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 2: They're saying, Oh it looks good.

877
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 4: Oh I'm gonna send this to you guys. Did you

878
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 4: google it too?

879
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 8: This does look good, way better than I don't know

880
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 8: why I was picturing you guys wear your like cow

881
00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 8: shirt and wolf shirt with a bolo tie.

882
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 2: Well, I tell you what, you two are a beautiful couple.

883
00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 2: We're very excited to be there to celebrate with the

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Speaker 2: two of you. In fact, final questions, you're going on

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Speaker 2: a honeymoon. I'm assuming. I don't know anything about this.

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00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 2: I haven't heard about it. Are you leaving right away?

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00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:12,719
Speaker 2: Where are you going?

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Speaker 8: No, we are going to South Africa in December, and

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00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:17,959
Speaker 8: Dean on our podcast just told me for the first time,

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Speaker 8: we're doing a mini moon and we're going to Madeira.

891
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 8: I'm really excited.

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00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 4: About sweet plan.

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00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: Mini moon.

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00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, mini moon, well, just because it's how the Africa

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00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:27,280
Speaker 6: wouldn't happen till December.

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Speaker 3: That's so far away.

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00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:28,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Are we still going to Hawaii together?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: In October. I'm pumped.

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00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,280
Speaker 2: In October then, yeah, we're going to Hawaii together.

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00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 6: So I actually we were falling asleep last night and

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00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,399
Speaker 6: I was like, do you think Ben's going to bring

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Speaker 6: his golf clubs to Hawaii?

905
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 3: And I don't know, you should ask it. So, Ben,

906
00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:44,800
Speaker 3: are you going to bring our golf clubs to Hawaii?

907
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:45,760
Speaker 2: I am buddy.

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00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 3: Let's go.

909
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go. Let's go. Hey, we love you so much.

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00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 2: One more questions.

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00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 7: I have to interrupt you because I see another weird

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00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:55,800
Speaker 7: one on the rundown.

913
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 2: That must be.

914
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 5: Dean after the wedding due plan on reversing you.

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00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 6: Oh man, that's just gonna be half that. We have

916
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 6: to talk about that. I guess at some point.

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Speaker 4: The iHeart producers know way too much about you.

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Speaker 2: Wait, why I didn't know. I didn't know you had

919
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 2: a vasectomy.

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Speaker 6: I don't, but I might get one after the wedding,

921
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Speaker 6: just so I could reverse it, Dean, just but just

922
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 6: so I could reverse it, get it done.

923
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Speaker 4: So hot and.

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00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 8: Cold, He's like, I want kids.

925
00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:23,919
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't.

926
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, we want to.

927
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Speaker 4: Get one so you can say he reversed it. Yes.

928
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's just stupid because I have buddies that

929
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 2: are at their age where they're getting them. Dean, don't

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00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 2: do that to yourself. There's so much to that, Like it.

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Speaker 4: Hurts, no guarantee the bes.

932
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Speaker 6: It's so funny how hot and cold we've been as

933
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 6: a couple too, like she really wanted kids. When we

934
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 6: first started, I didn't, and now I really want kids

935
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 6: and she doesn't, and so it's just it's gonna be

936
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 6: I do.

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00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 2: I'm just we're not.

938
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Speaker 6: Yeah, we're not ready yet, but both my brothers are

939
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 6: so many years and seeing them be parents has like

940
00:39:56,400 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 6: lit this fire within me. And we like thought maybe

941
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 6: we were pregnant like a month ago, but then we

942
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Speaker 6: turned out not to be, and I was like really

943
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 6: sad about it. You were, yeah, of course as that,

944
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 6: and Kaitlyn was like screaming it from the rooftop, was

945
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 6: like and over, I'm like sulking in the corner over here.

946
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: It's weird that you thought she was pregnant when you

947
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 2: guys haven't had heard immaculate conception.

948
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,560
Speaker 4: Right, guys.

949
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't want to be the mom that now

950
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 5: like tells all my other friends that they need to

951
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 5: have kids, because I've already do this with Ben often.

952
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 5: But listen, you guys are definitely meant to be mom

953
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 5: and dad someone.

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00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 2: But like he's just playing, let's just do it, because

955
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 2: like Dean and I are about the same age, Kaylin

956
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,959
Speaker 2: and Jess about the same age. Let's just plan this out.

957
00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 2: At the same time.

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Speaker 6: What's your timeline, Ben, I don't know, soon probably yeah,

959
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:51,040
Speaker 6: well okay, well let's just keep us posted on the schedule.

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Speaker 2: Everything sorted out in Hawaii? Yeah, there we go, everyono

961
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 2: can see. Yeah, wouldn that'd be great to Hawaii babies.

962
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Speaker 3: Very confusing.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we're very Yeah, we're very excited for the two

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Speaker 2: of you. This has been a long time coming. We

965
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,480
Speaker 2: cannot wait to celebrate with you. I know our listeners

966
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 2: are excited to see the pictures. Uh, Dean, I hope

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00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 2: you're posting all the wedding pictures and not just mountain pictures.

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00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 6: It'd be nice to finally get a new post up,

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00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 6: but that's not on top of a mountain.

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00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 2: Ye. So but until well, lessen two weeks from now.

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Speaker 2: We'll see you soon. Thanks, thanks for having us, guys.

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Speaker 4: We love you, baby, you guys very excited.

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