WEBVTT - Episode 27 Ft. Karen Civil 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:10.440 West up, I might have a good time today because 0:00:10.440 --> 0:00:12.560 I got my girls with me and slip service. I'm 0:00:12.560 --> 0:00:20.640 angela ye, I'm Stephanie Sanil Loorial, Karen sivil here nay, yeah, 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:24.560 I give him my little sexy voice. I love Karen. Okay, Now, 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:28.400 first off, we do a tip, alright. So today's tip is, 0:00:28.840 --> 0:00:32.320 say you check your boyfriend's cell phone and you see 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:35.040 some text messages of him with another check, but you 0:00:35.040 --> 0:00:36.680 don't want him to know he checked your checked his 0:00:36.720 --> 0:00:38.559 phone because you never want to let somebody know that. 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:40.559 So how do you deal in a situation like that? 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:42.640 How do you convey to him that you know that 0:00:42.720 --> 0:00:47.520 he's doing something grimy without telling him how? Um? Well, 0:00:47.520 --> 0:00:50.879 that recently happened to me um, And I just kind 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:52.760 of said it because I was like, I have my 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:55.360 emotions were running and I was already upset, and I'm like, 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:58.400 I saw it. I was like, at this point, bucket, 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.040 two wrongs make it right. So I was okay with it. 0:01:01.120 --> 0:01:03.640 He said, two wrongs make it right. I'm like, I 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:07.720 know you were wrong, and I was, yeah, but excuses 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:11.840 my behavior because you were wrong first. So it's okay, okay, 0:01:12.000 --> 0:01:13.600 all right, So what do you do. Do you tell 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:16.280 a guy like Karen told him and I've seen what 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:19.720 was in your phone? I checked it? Yeah? What not me? 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.720 I hold it down until I find the perfect piece 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:25.120 of evidence to kill him. What but you already have 0:01:25.200 --> 0:01:27.800 the evidence? I know, but there could be more. You know, 0:01:27.880 --> 0:01:32.399 you just gotta wait for more. If I can't, I 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:34.800 can't hold it depends like it depends like if I 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:37.120 find them just talking, I'll let them tall. No, you 0:01:37.160 --> 0:01:39.560 saw some real like I have fun with you last night, 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:49.880 so I have to go home. Yeah, forget it? Noah, 0:01:51.040 --> 0:01:53.280 I tell everything. I'm like, I went through this, I've 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:55.440 seen this. That's that. In the third I don't I'm 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.160 not the type to hold it back. And what's the 0:01:57.160 --> 0:02:00.520 worst thing you've ever seen in somebody's phone? Mm hmm 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:02.760 if you had to think of the worst than you 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:06.800 said that. She was like maybe like a pussy picture? Yeah, 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.640 picture you have a pussy. That's a problem for me. 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:12.760 I don't want no woman? Was it a pretty pussy? 0:02:13.000 --> 0:02:19.280 I don't think response? No, somebody my boy sent that. 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:22.280 I mean to the message that you saw the picture? 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:25.320 What it was? Martha Like, I didn't see the whole message? 0:02:25.360 --> 0:02:27.280 Threat on the photo. I kind of he kind of 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:29.640 caught me going through it and I've seen it and 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:33.400 I was like, yeah, why is this pictures of her pussy? 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.200 That's not her pussy, that's something I was on it. 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.760 She was just trying to show me something. What. Yeah, 0:02:37.760 --> 0:02:41.560 I'm sure she was. Man are terrible like liars. Yeah, 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:44.639 what's the worst thing you've seen? Karen? Um, It hasn't 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:47.880 It hasn't been too bad. So you know, now the 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:51.600 iPhones you can send the voice notes. So now it 0:02:51.639 --> 0:02:53.560 made a little bit harder because it was it was like, 0:02:53.600 --> 0:02:56.600 no more text messages I can see, but he saved 0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.440 the voice notes, so like I never thought about that. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:01.560 But when you're trying to snoop and you have to 0:03:01.600 --> 0:03:05.560 hear the voice, no, you know, it's loud. So so 0:03:06.000 --> 0:03:08.200 that was really the only thing that was like super bad. 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:10.480 It's just like I'm like, okay, it's one thing you 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:12.160 can't say that you didn't say this or you didn't 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.000 mean it in this way. It's like it's your fucking voice. Yeah, 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:17.399 we expected you enough to go really the extra mile 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:19.400 to make sure the text or he was being lazy, 0:03:19.440 --> 0:03:21.400 he could have been driving. It was like let me, 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:24.240 let me text this bitch real quick or say whatever. 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:27.240 That's more incriminating to me. I would never send yeah, 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:29.640 I not do the Yeah it was it was voice 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:32.680 and I just got so frustrated. What weather like I 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:34.239 love you or I missed that. I don't think I 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.600 haven't even got Oh, but the new you can press 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:40.040 that button in the tacks by mistake and you could 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.960 send twenty minutes of a car. Yeah. I have to 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:46.400 be careful. I don't even put my phone in my 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.200 back pocket because I'm good at that with the with 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:50.480 the butt dialing. People hear me be like, yeah, so 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.160 what are you doing, And I'm like at home. I'm like, no, bitch, 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:56.560 you're not at home. It's like they have my whole conversation. Listen, 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:59.360 I really caught somebody like that, Like the dude to me, 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:01.440 he's out of town and I'm by myself whatever whatever, 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:03.360 and I heard this bitch in the background and they're 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.280 kind of like arguing and going back and forth, and 0:04:05.320 --> 0:04:08.360 I'm like, it was a voice note. He sent it 0:04:08.440 --> 0:04:11.320 to me by mistake, And this idiot gonna tell me no, 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:13.680 it was somebody I was walking past in the store. 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:16.320 I swear that God like and I'm like, y'all, I 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:19.839 talking to it. And then he was like, no, that 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.120 was it wasn't no, that was that somebody else just 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:24.400 walking past. They weren't talking to me. At what point 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:25.839 did the guy just say, let me at least just 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:30.400 tell the truth? Never? Never? They never never never, They're 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:32.840 fine with just like taking the lot all the way, 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.760 all the way through. I've never had someone go, like, 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:38.960 in my years of relationships, go, you know what, I'm sorry, 0:04:39.000 --> 0:04:41.520 I sucked up whatever the case may be. It's like, 0:04:41.600 --> 0:04:43.800 why were you snooping? Why did you do this? I'm like, 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:49.320 you know I was gonna because I did this because 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:51.479 I knew you weren't being honest and I had to 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:54.599 do this. So technically I have a reason for doing 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.920 what I was doing. What's your reason? That's why you 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.080 never get one. That's what Guys don't understand that if 0:04:59.120 --> 0:05:00.880 I already know you're doing something, but you want to 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:02.440 admit it and you keep lying to me, now you're 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.000 forcing me to be You're forcing me to be a 0:05:05.040 --> 0:05:07.080 detective and be a snoop. But not only that, I 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:09.719 feel like you're trying to say that I'm an idiot. 0:05:09.920 --> 0:05:13.160 You know what, You're insulting my intelligence basically, you know 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:15.040 what I mean, And they like, like you said, they'll 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:17.240 take the lie as far as they can and they'll 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:21.920 flip it like guys are math. They're manipulated at flipping situation. 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:24.160 And even with all the evidence in their face, they're 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:26.039 still going to line like, I don't know what you're talking. 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:28.200 Oh you're talking about it's not like that. That's the 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:30.080 answer to everything. It's not like that. What are you 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.120 talking about? I'm like, that's not even an answer. I'm 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:36.960 just trying to get stuff together. What they come up 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:40.200 with the craziest excuses and they're like, oh, you shouldn't 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.120 have looked for that, because you know, sometimes you make 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:43.640 something out of nothing, and if you look for something, 0:05:43.640 --> 0:05:45.240 you're gonna find it. And you don't trust me so much, 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:46.800 so now you drove me to go do something I 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.440 would have never normally did because you keep on question 0:05:51.360 --> 0:05:55.760 no answer, have you ever cheated and gotten me? Or 0:05:55.920 --> 0:06:01.599 karen me, you ever cheated? And yeah, I've got I've 0:06:01.600 --> 0:06:05.440 got me. I've gotten caught before. Not in my last relationship. 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:08.040 I didn't cheat. And any time that I ever did anything, 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:11.440 I told on myself because I'm honest, like I have 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:14.440 a guilty conscience. So you tell somebody I always tell 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:19.080 I said, stop telling her your yeah, like will be 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.120 have broken up and I'm like, oh, so what I 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:25.480 fucked somebody else? And she like t they're not even together. 0:06:25.560 --> 0:06:27.800 Why are you admitting what you're doing? It's none of 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.760 his business. I don't know. I'm just I'm just like that. 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.440 I mean, I'm not gonna snitch. Don't get it twisted, 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.960 but like, I have something like with my conscience because 0:06:35.960 --> 0:06:37.800 I want someone to be honest with me. So I 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:39.800 try to get somebody the same respect. But you can't 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.880 respect somebody that's just a sucking asshole, but also the 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:44.680 type of person if you tell her something about her 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.000 man you like, listen, but tell you this. You can't 0:06:47.040 --> 0:06:49.400 say nothing she's telling Let me tell you. I'm gonna 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:54.640 try even before you finish. Your loyalty is to me 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:59.320 this night. Okay, that's fine, So you're supposed to you're 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.560 my friend, and he should understand that if his friends 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:03.760 see me doing something and he didn't tell his friendaction. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.560 But you know, it may be awkward for some people 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:07.440 to be in the middle of it. Now, Now, what 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.480 if you don't break up and she comes over. Now 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:12.760 it's awkward when she's staying, he's giving her attentions because together, 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:16.119 it's awkward because you're a liar. She told me the truth. 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:18.760 You should funk with her, like, yea, that's really your friend, 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:21.320 like she held you. That sounds good. That's how I 0:07:21.320 --> 0:07:23.720 would look at it, don't you guys, Guys don't look happy. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.119 I've had people telling me ship about and I won't 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:27.840 tell the dude like this is who told me. I 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:30.320 had people tell on me and I see the guys. 0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:32.720 You know what I mean? You hate him? No, you 0:07:32.760 --> 0:07:35.119 know what? Honestly, I'd be like, that's your man. One time. 0:07:35.760 --> 0:07:39.560 One time my exes friend told me something he did 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:41.600 and I told him stop working with him. I kept 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.320 it real because I was like, that's not your friend. 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:45.840 Like my friend is never gonna go to my boyfriend 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.320 and be like, Yo, this bitches shet and on you. 0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:51.320 That sounds crazy. I was like, I was mad at him, 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:52.800 don't get me wrong, but I was like, yeah, that's 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:55.280 not your man, Like why is he telling me your business? 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:58.480 That would have been my spy. I don't know. I'm 0:07:58.520 --> 0:08:00.800 just not like that. I don't know. Maybe tell me 0:08:00.880 --> 0:08:05.960 stupid whatever, But I I don't like that. Y'all going tomorrow? Yeah, 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:12.880 some pures. What a y'all doing? Yeah? Definitely? Are you here? Yeah? 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:17.160 I mean I know you've been cheated. Have you ever 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:23.280 got caught cheating, Stephanie? Yeah, But I think this is 0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:26.120 I think everybody knows this about me already. You know, 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.240 I got caught cheating. I um, I was honest about 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:31.720 I cheated, and then I told my man about it 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:35.359 and now we're broken up with you know. They always 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.280 they always say that if you cheat on somebody and 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:39.400 you don't get caught, and you're probably not going to, 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:41.640 you shouldn't tell. I know, and I agree with that, 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:44.560 but if you get caught, you should admit it. But 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:46.800 and I'm and I mean, I'm on the other end 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:48.480 of you know, I go through a nigga's phone and 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.679 I don't find anything, and I always feel like stupid 0:08:50.920 --> 0:08:55.000 because they delete everything. They're not exactly. Yeah, I don't 0:08:55.960 --> 0:08:58.160 every guy cheats. You think every guy. I don't think 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:00.480 every guy. I don't necessarily. I don't want to put 0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:02.960 that on all guys. You know, the particular ones that 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:06.840 I have dated have cheated. I don't want to say, oh, 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:10.000 I haven't. I haven't dated every man uh in the world, 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:11.839 so I can't say everything. But I feel like at 0:09:11.840 --> 0:09:13.839 that certain age then they started to slow down a 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.120 little bit. But I feel like right now, in our 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:19.200 little time, he's popping. I feel like, yeah, he's popping, 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.959 and he got a good Instagram. And you know, I 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:25.480 honestly believe my last boyfriend and cheat on me and 0:09:25.559 --> 0:09:27.880 I don't. My son's father he told me that he 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:30.400 cheated on me. I called him talking to a girl, 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:31.960 but I never really called him. I don't think he 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:34.720 ever cheated on me either, but I think he told 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.840 me that just got me tight. I think because he 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:40.160 took it back. He took it back. He um, he 0:09:40.240 --> 0:09:41.760 told me that he lied to me about it, that 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:43.440 he never cheated on me. He was just trying to 0:09:43.800 --> 0:09:46.800 you know, stupid. Well for all the asshole ship that 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:50.480 I was doing, that everybody knew about. I've used that before. 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:52.880 But yeah, but I mean I've been cheated on, Like 0:09:52.920 --> 0:09:54.880 my hex fiance cheated on me. One of my best 0:09:54.920 --> 0:09:58.160 friends like, what did you do to her? Right now? 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.080 She was just like, hey, do you know something? You 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:02.520 you know, there's a difference between girls who are your 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:04.680 friends and girls who are trying to be you, you 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:06.400 know what I mean. So she wasn't your friend now 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:08.599 she looked at my friend, but you didn't realize that 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:11.040 at first. No, and I stood friends with her after 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:14.559 she sucked my man? How can you stay friends with 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:16.760 somebody who sucked your men? Because we were kids? We 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.160 were kids. But um, I ended up calling her wife 0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:23.040 anyway because she stole two thousand dollars from me. Okay, 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:28.480 well think about boss two thousand color. She was stealing 0:10:28.480 --> 0:10:31.880 your dick. Yeah exactly. I know everybody, but please, everybody 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:33.320 and their mother just teld me to stop hanging out 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:34.599 with this girl. And I'll always be like, oh, but 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:38.200 she's my best friend. I got from But I got 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.280 cut cheating once and I told because I got cut, 0:10:41.040 --> 0:10:43.040 you know, I was dating this guy and I told 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:44.640 him that I was going out of town. I said 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:47.080 I was going to be listen. It was like, I 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:50.839 was like, I'm going to Spain. I don't know why. 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.760 It probably was if I could tell you, let me 0:10:57.800 --> 0:11:00.920 see how long goo is? It? Maybe like ten years ago? 0:11:01.600 --> 0:11:03.960 And I was like, I'm going to Spain. I'll be 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.319 back in a few days. And I guess it didn't 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:08.120 sit right with him, and he showed up in my house. 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.800 We had another guy over there. But I'm gonna tell you. 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.240 What happened was that we had broken up, and so 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.360 while we were broken up, I started talking to somebody 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:17.040 else and then he was like, oh, I'm gonna come 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:18.640 visit you. Him gonna come to New York. I said, okay. 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:20.240 He brought his flight and then we got back together. 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:22.600 But I felt bad because the other guy had already 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:25.000 brought his fight and was coming out and everything. So 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:26.840 I told him I got back with my boyfriend, and 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:28.520 I was like, you know, so you could still come with, 0:11:28.679 --> 0:11:30.520 like go hang out and stuff, but I can't. You know, 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:33.720 I got back with my ex, and so I just 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.040 had to pretend I wasn't gonna be there. So my 0:11:36.120 --> 0:11:38.240 boyfriend came and I just let him in the house. 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:42.719 I introduced them to each other. I wasn't doing what 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.240 you introduced them to each other, and it was like 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:51.000 leave him outside, and then I was like, I was like, 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.000 I'm sorry, I lied, But when we broke up, I 0:11:53.040 --> 0:11:54.800 told him he could come and he got his flight 0:11:54.880 --> 0:11:57.160 and we never did anything, but you know, and what 0:11:57.320 --> 0:12:00.720 happened he left, he left you or he he just laughed. 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:02.319 We still stayed together for a little while after that. 0:12:02.400 --> 0:12:05.120 He was cheating anyway, So that's why we broke up, 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:07.160 and I didn't really we got back together with still 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:08.599 I don't even know why I got back together. I 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:13.320 didn't really care. That's why I see. I didn't. I didn't. 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:15.360 I didn't ever have it that bad. I feel like 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:19.600 I was good in relationships, but my issue was people 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:24.080 would send me messages or you know, texts and certain things, 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:26.440 and I'm just a nice person, so sometimes I don't 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:29.920 realize that somebody's flirting with me. So a person at 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:31.439 the time I was dating, like picked up but he 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:35.040 knew my password and he was just like knew it. No, 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.079 he knew it because I would put it in I 0:12:37.080 --> 0:12:39.960 would like when we were bad or something like that 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:44.000 and just typing in so um. So he was just like, well, 0:12:44.000 --> 0:12:45.920 I want to see your phone, and like he just 0:12:46.000 --> 0:12:49.200 took it, and I was like, I got so nervous 0:12:49.240 --> 0:12:51.640 because I know, I was like, I'm not doing anything wrong, 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:56.080 but these messages, yeah, they may seem incriminating, and then 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:58.320 he's gonna be like, why is this person textually, why 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:00.600 is this person, What is this? Why a texting at 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:02.719 this time? So you don't have it set up on 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.760 my um my eye cloud. So then when he had 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:07.680 the phone, I went to my eye cloud and I 0:13:07.760 --> 0:13:09.800 locked the phone, and he was, so, you're just gonna 0:13:09.840 --> 0:13:12.200 lock your phone. We had a whole big argument over it. 0:13:12.480 --> 0:13:14.800 He was smart for doing that. I went right to 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:18.360 my computer, like I locked myself in the media digital. 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:20.520 Come back to the room and he was like, open 0:13:20.559 --> 0:13:22.840 the door. I'm gonna give me back my phone. I 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:24.520 was like not letting him out of been like, let 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:27.240 me see your phone. Yeah, you know you wasn't going 0:13:27.280 --> 0:13:29.679 to get that damn phone. But now I look so guilty. 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:31.040 He eventually gave me back to me, But now I 0:13:31.040 --> 0:13:33.200 look so guilty. I just did not want him to 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:35.240 get hurt reading what people were saying to me, even 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:38.320 though I wasn't responding. I just didn't want him to 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:40.920 be like, oh, you're cheating, you're talking to this person, 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:42.560 and it was like people he knew too, So when 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:46.720 you're gonna let me pan that pussy? Yeah and terms 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:50.280 but yeah. So it's like I just didn't want any issues, 0:13:50.360 --> 0:13:52.360 and I was like, I'd rather I'd rather just take 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.560 what he thinks rather than him seeing this. It's hard 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:57.760 to set the tone, like when you're reading something a 0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:00.920 post that when you're the person in the conversation, it's 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:07.280 always gonna seem like what like if you send the 0:14:07.360 --> 0:14:09.000 smiley face like he would get me like, why are 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:12.760 you sending a smile because I'm happy, could be happy. 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.760 I can't be happy, So I just didn't. I was like, 0:14:15.840 --> 0:14:18.880 I don't want any problems. I know you should read 0:14:18.920 --> 0:14:20.720 somebody's phone or let them read your phone. I mean, 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:22.640 like you said, if my boyfriend was like, let me 0:14:22.640 --> 0:14:25.760 see your phone, I'd be like, I don't even winker 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:27.960 than me. So I really have no show what nobody 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.960 to ask. Every time every time I go through Nigga's phone, 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:32.960 I always get disappointed. Like you said, they'd be on 0:14:33.040 --> 0:14:37.320 point to delete stuff quick. And I learned that anything 0:14:37.320 --> 0:14:41.200 on my phone, I don't delete anything from three years ago. 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.560 I do with text messages. I just feel like it's 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:46.880 just so incriminating conversations do you talk about with friends? 0:14:47.320 --> 0:14:50.240 I'm like, I just want to make sure let's clean 0:14:50.280 --> 0:14:53.080 this up. How to do that? You know, because I've 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:57.000 seen him and I like I snatched his phone or whatever. Whenever. 0:14:57.040 --> 0:14:58.880 He was like, you only got three messages, That's what 0:14:58.960 --> 0:15:01.000 I'm saying. So I'm like, I have this motherfucking thing. 0:15:01.080 --> 0:15:03.960 He flipped. Now I'm gonna start deleting my messages, you know, 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:06.920 And I don't. I just always think, like, god forbid, 0:15:06.960 --> 0:15:08.880 I'm in a restaurant or something happens and up, you know, 0:15:09.120 --> 0:15:11.640 my phone automatically locks, but god forbid, I put it 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:13.440 down for like a minute and someone takes it and 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:17.200 something like I don't want. I don't want what I'm saying, 0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:20.600 what we talk about Loria talking about Angela. But I 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:22.960 would say with our group chats, like where we do 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:25.280 a kind of sat I delete those. Yeah, I mean 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:29.360 I guaranteed the group chat. Yeah. Groups they have the 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:33.360 craziest group chat kind of my group chats, those are 0:15:33.360 --> 0:15:34.880 the first thing to go. I'm like, oh my god, 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.240 you have to leave, because I'm like, if people see 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:41.800 the people that I have like three different ones and 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:44.080 some are like my regular friends and others or celebrities, 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:46.200 I'm like, if people know the ship that we talk about, 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:47.920 oh my god. Like I was like, let me, let 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:49.920 me delete this and I'll go back to make sure 0:15:49.920 --> 0:15:51.200 I did. I was like because we shouldn't even be 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:54.640 talking about anyway. Green shot Queen, like, I have so 0:15:54.680 --> 0:15:57.040 many screenshots, I'll go right, ahad the girl, look at 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:02.600 this here, screenshot every everything. It's funny though, you know, 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:04.720 but I don't never think it's funny. But it might 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:07.840 seem malicious to somebody else. It is it is to 0:16:07.920 --> 0:16:10.120 someone else, not to us. It's funny because they may 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:12.640 not get your humor. People know me. It's like a 0:16:12.840 --> 0:16:17.479 powerful like you know, sweet girl, but then we may 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:19.840 get Yeah, we make them. You make them jokes in 0:16:19.920 --> 0:16:23.080 the you know those jokes fly on. Do you have 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.720 a name for your vagina? Let's start with you know, 0:16:25.800 --> 0:16:27.760 don't start with me. Let's go around. It definitely has 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:31.920 any more gorgeous? Yeah, well it's about regular or is 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:41.000 it like no regular gorgeous? Noteous gorgeous. If you can 0:16:41.080 --> 0:16:44.840 name your pussy, what would it be? Baldy? That sounds 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:52.840 like a dude. Well, it's guy's name. Yummyyum. Okay, so 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:54.800 sounds like a pet. You know what when I like 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:58.400 sing when I do in my wraps, I always referred 0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:00.680 to instead of saying pussy, I like to say yummy. 0:17:01.000 --> 0:17:04.520 So that's what you call your said, I call it Karen. 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:10.600 What's your vagina's name? This is difficult. I never about 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.959 this though, because I you could grand if it's just 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:16.240 just like right now after top of you, What would 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.720 you let me think of a name for her? Saying? 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:27.440 Can I call a kiki? Oa? Like? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah, 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:30.520 like good, like a good laugh a good kiki? Yeah 0:17:31.160 --> 0:17:32.840 like that name, that's a good Let's don't have a 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:40.000 little kiki. Yeah you want some kikake? Little kiki? What 0:17:40.080 --> 0:17:46.080 about yours? And her name is Memai? Yeah, MAMAI why 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.480 did you give it that name? Made it up? But 0:17:48.960 --> 0:17:55.840 Sue switched. It means little sister in Chinese. Ye, my 0:17:55.880 --> 0:18:03.040 little sister. Sounds crazy, though, come fuck my little thoughts. Hey, 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.119 I just need that up. Not like that was freestyle? 0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:09.040 Was that was good? I like the other name because 0:18:09.080 --> 0:18:18.639 I swear she had a different name like meymade better. 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:30.200 I like a little sister better that Mema. That's actually 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:32.520 not bad. Okay, So there you go. I was gonna 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:36.480 take that home. I think she is somebody's a child. 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:39.520 Now let's talk about dating, okay, because obviously all of 0:18:39.560 --> 0:18:41.960 us are in the industry, and I'm sure all of 0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:45.280 us have dated guys in the industry. Now, people always 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:47.159 ask me, do you date ordinary guys but you date 0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:49.520 a regular guy? What do you think it's better a 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:52.040 guy and industry are a regular guy and for what reason? 0:18:52.560 --> 0:18:58.120 M So, I dated the regular guy and he just 0:18:59.359 --> 0:19:01.440 he just didn't like get it. So I kind of 0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:05.280 want somebody who's around the industry. He doesn't necessarily to 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:07.240 be a music It can be maybe in sports, some 0:19:07.280 --> 0:19:09.920 type of entertaining, but just something around the business where 0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:14.720 he knows the life that I'm gonna live and well, 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:20.359 you know, obviously here he has to have a career, yeah, 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:23.400 and and and be good from there. But it's it's hard, 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.480 you know. I tried to dibble and dabble a little 0:19:25.520 --> 0:19:28.280 bit everywhere. Like you date the main person, I'm like, Okay, 0:19:28.320 --> 0:19:30.440 that didn't work. You date the side person, Like, okay, 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:32.600 that didn't work. You date the regular dude, I'm like, 0:19:32.640 --> 0:19:34.800 that didn't work. So now I'm in a place like 0:19:34.840 --> 0:19:37.800 I'm talking to three different guys who are in their 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:41.119 different stages. So I'm like, okay, maybe it's like a documentary, 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:48.200 like who think, because they're all in three different stages. 0:19:48.240 --> 0:19:50.800 So I'm like, okay, we will figure out what they do. 0:19:50.880 --> 0:19:52.479 You let them know, Like you know, I'm dating at 0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:55.920 the guys I'm dating, No, well, we're talking like it's 0:19:55.960 --> 0:19:58.640 not even anything, it's not anything serious, but they look 0:19:58.680 --> 0:20:00.560