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Speaker 1: Second date updated.

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Speaker 2: What do you do if you've been on the dating

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Speaker 2: apps for so long you start seeing the same people

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Speaker 2: on there over and over and over.

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Speaker 3: Does that happen?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Are you like deleat it? And the two years later

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Speaker 3: you get it and you're like you again.

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Speaker 2: You start thinking like, oh, they haven't found somebody yet,

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Speaker 2: Oh that catfish account is still active. At that point,

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Speaker 2: they're not potential soulmates to you anymore. They're more like coworkers,

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Speaker 2: just occupying the same space as you every single day.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Sarah, good to see you.

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Speaker 2: And that's where one of our listeners, Patrick found himself recently,

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Speaker 2: and he chose to do something about it. So let's

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Speaker 2: find out Patrick, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 6: It's funny to think that the people that are you

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Speaker 6: are seeing are also seeing you and thinking the same thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know, but it sounds like you were

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Speaker 2: on the dating apps for a long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I was. Unfortunately, he's like, why bring it up, Jeff, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: thanks for reminding me.

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Speaker 2: But it says that you decided to do something about

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Speaker 2: it to change that. What did you do?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 1: I kept seeing the same people, so I expanded my location.

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Speaker 3: To drive four hours for a year.

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Speaker 2: Now basically, okay, so you expanded your search to farther away,

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Speaker 2: and who did you end up matching with?

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Speaker 1: Her name was Lisa, and our first day actually ended

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Speaker 1: up being a vacation.

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Speaker 3: What wait? Is that far away that you had to

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Speaker 3: take a whole weekend and get there?

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Speaker 5: What the heck?

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Speaker 1: Well, it was kind of more of a separate trip.

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Speaker 6: Whoa You invited her on a vacation and she said, yes.

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Speaker 1: Well it happened to coincide with the work vacation, so

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Speaker 1: I just thought I would bring her and it sounded

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Speaker 5: Because every time sometimes I feel like were I go

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Speaker 5: on a vacation and a girl always joke like, oh

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Speaker 5: my god, take me with you, But like you don't

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Speaker 5: actually take them with you. That's a stranger.

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Speaker 3: Brod, No, you don't live in her city.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I told her, I told her, right, Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so confused.

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Speaker 6: And you're calling this a work vacation. Aren't those two

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Speaker 6: words that don't go together.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of sponsored by my work. It's a five

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Speaker 1: day trip that we could take if we want.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you spent five days together?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Well it was supposed to be five days. It actually

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Speaker 1: lasted about a day and a half.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, that's not good. Why, well what happened?

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm not quite sure. Actually we were staying in

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Speaker 1: the same room, and of course we were going to restaurants,

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Speaker 1: we were seeing the sites, doing all the stuff and

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Speaker 1: having a really good time. In my mind and my.

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Speaker 6: Gosh, like, you're staying in the same room, did she? Like,

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Speaker 6: there's just so many layers to that, Like you're meeting

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Speaker 6: this person for the first time, and you're going to be.

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Speaker 3: Using the same bathroom, is all I can think.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, to be fair, we can't talk about anything without

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Speaker 2: talking about the bathrooms. If Brooks involved in.

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Speaker 6: The conversation, that like makes it super awkward, right, oh,

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Speaker 3: To get ready and having the line.

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Speaker 5: Just like when you have to to you got a

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Speaker 5: hold of days sometimes, right?

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Speaker 2: Is that why she ghosted you after a day and

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Speaker 2: a half?

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Speaker 1: I hope not. I mean I didn't take all that

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Speaker 2: For sure. They're like a moment bro like tell us

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Speaker 2: Like how did it go up to that point?

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Speaker 1: Well, I thought it was going, well, you know, we're

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Speaker 1: having a lot of laughs. She seemed to be enjoying herself.

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Speaker 1: I was enjoying myself. And we went on this bike tour,

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Speaker 1: like the first day we were there, and we were

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Speaker 2: Well that's what she said, yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: She got off the bus at the next stop, and

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happened to me, but I just

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Speaker 3: Oh man, that's was it one of those so much?

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Speaker 6: Because after I drink sometimes there was.

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Speaker 1: No alcohol in all of that. Actually, okay, I don't

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Speaker 1: know why I got emotional. It's probably I imagine it

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Speaker 1: because I've been on the apps for so long and

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Speaker 1: then I finally found somebody that I connected with and

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Speaker 1: we were in a beautiful place and there was one dramatic.

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Speaker 6: Again, it's not dramatic. That's just having feelings. Man, that's

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Speaker 6: all right.

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Speaker 2: Dust in your eye could be either on.

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Speaker 3: What do you think she meant by I can't make

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Speaker 1: That's what I would like to find out. I mean,

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Speaker 1: when I got back, she was kind of packing up

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Speaker 1: all her stuff, and yeah, I gave her space, and

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Speaker 1: then she left, and I haven't really heard anything except

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Speaker 1: she texted once that we're probably better off friends.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you planned a lot of activities for

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Speaker 2: your vacation and some people when they traveled, they don't

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Speaker 2: like to do that.

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Speaker 5: Let's do one activity maybe too, but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, mostly do beach time, no bike tours.

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Speaker 3: Jo and I could never vacation together.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she realized you weren't compatible in that way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that could be. She seemed to be

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Speaker 1: into all the little things that plans for us, though it's.

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Speaker 6: Just so much time together, and she's adventurous enough to

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Speaker 2: Maybe she just wanted the free vacation to like lie

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Speaker 2: be going to the zoo and going.

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Speaker 6: To the and she was just getting what she thought.

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since that happened.

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Speaker 1: It was about a week ago, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And obviously you're upset about it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm very upset. I mean, in front of strangers.

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Speaker 3: In front of strangers. You're fine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, maybe she's still even there now. Maybe she's

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Speaker 5: Maybe she moved.

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Speaker 2: Let's find out when we call her, we'll come back.

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Speaker 2: We'll try and get you your second date update right

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Speaker 2: after this hold on second date update. Some people like

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Speaker 2: to go out to a restaurant for a first date.

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Speaker 2: Others might see a concert or hit a mini golf.

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Speaker 2: But not our listener Patrick. No, he jumps straight to

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Speaker 2: a five day vacation for his first date with Lisa.

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Speaker 2: At least it was supposed to be five days, but

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Speaker 2: she cut things off after just a day and a half.

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Speaker 3: But she did it in a pretty respectful way.

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Speaker 2: The last thing that she said to him was I

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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 2: The last thing he said to her was because he

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Speaker 2: cried from that comment. Understandably, he built up a lot

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Speaker 2: of hope, and those bike tours can make you chaf

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Speaker 2: real bad too.

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Speaker 6: Not only that, but he's been on the dating apps

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Speaker 6: for years, so it's like years of pent up frustration

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Speaker 5: And I think it's worse when you think things are

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Speaker 5: going well Ryan, this is great, and then I don't

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Speaker 2: The thing is, he still doesn't understand what prompted her

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Speaker 2: to say that. Patrick, if you had to guess, what

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Speaker 2: do you think it is?

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was my breath. You breath usually have gum

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Speaker 1: and I didn't have.

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Speaker 3: He'ld be an aic.

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure why that would prompt her to say,

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Speaker 6: I don't know why I can't make you happy, but I.

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Speaker 2: She didn't have gum either, Bro the romantic tragedy of

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Speaker 3: That makes sense.

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Speaker 6: I mean, maybe you guys can try to get just

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Speaker 6: a single date together.

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Speaker 3: Maybe that will be the key here.

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Speaker 1: I like that, But we do live in different cities,

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Speaker 2: Meeting up is a vacation in itself, so hey, that

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Speaker 5: Kind of fun. It's like once a month someone takes

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Speaker 2: I could be. Let's start with trying to get Let's

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Speaker 2: And I'm going to dial her number right now. Let's

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Speaker 2: see how this goes. Hullo, Hey, is this Lisa.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, who's this?

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Speaker 2: Hey, thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're

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Speaker 2: called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: Lisa, Hey, Lisa, good morning.

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Speaker 4: Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Sorry to interrupt your day like this, but we're doing

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Speaker 2: a segment on our show. It's called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you're familiar with that, but one

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Speaker 2: of our listeners named Patrick has asked us to reach

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Speaker 2: out to you.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, okay.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Like, oh wow?

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Speaker 4: No, not oh wow?

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Are you surprised to be hearing from Patrick?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just surprised. Well, I guess I'm not surprised

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Speaker 4: because he seemed pretty desperate.

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Speaker 2: Oh desperate? Oh come on, that's a pretty harsh judgment

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Speaker 2: for someone that you hung out with for like a day.

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Speaker 2: Trust day in half.

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Speaker 4: Trust me, you'd be saying the same thing if you

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Speaker 4: know all the things that he said and did. What.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's so wild. Like we talked to him, he

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Speaker 3: seems so mellow.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe as you because he's not in loving you

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Speaker 4: like he was.

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Speaker 2: That's not fair either. I was sensing love vibe.

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Speaker 1: But.

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Speaker 3: He can't be in love with you.

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Speaker 6: I mean, he just sounds like he really liked you

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Speaker 6: and you two finally connected.

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Speaker 4: He was behaving as if he loved me.

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Speaker 2: Oh what happened to make you say that? Because I

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Speaker 2: don't think we have the full story, Like we know

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Speaker 2: that he did a lot, and you.

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Speaker 6: Agreed to go on a five day vacation with him,

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Speaker 6: which is wild.

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Speaker 4: That's the thing. It was just it was a lot,

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Speaker 4: and yes I agreed to go on this trip, but

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Speaker 4: there didn't need to be extra pressure on top of it,

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Speaker 4: and there was.

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Speaker 3: Okay. How so, so our first.

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Speaker 4: I could totally see myself proposing here. He wasn't talking

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, holding my future kidding.

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Speaker 4: No, this is beyond. Like he then wanted to stop

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Speaker 2: Okay, but did you tell him ahead of time that

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Speaker 4: I'm not against love and marriage and all those things.

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Speaker 4: It's more that I don't need it on my firm state,

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Speaker 5: It's true.

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Speaker 3: Ring shopping is wild.

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Speaker 6: Maybe it was a local artisan shop and he was

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Speaker 5: For a necklace.

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Speaker 2: Well, we don't have to speculate on like what he

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Speaker 4: Talk to you.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 4: He is.

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Speaker 3: Give him a.

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of bummed out that I haven't heard from you.

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Speaker 1: You haven't returned to any of my calls the messages.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Like I said it, really I didn't think it

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Speaker 3: Was that hard to hear?

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Speaker 1: You yeah, much, it was too much. Yeah, I know

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Speaker 3: Okay, page, that's a good timeline to lay out after

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and that reminds me of the time. Also, you said, oh,

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 1: Isn't that what everybody wants in life? I mean, I

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Speaker 4: Should have known a guy who invites to girl on

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Speaker 4: a five day vacation is serious.

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Speaker 6: Maybe he could slow it down, though, you know, maybe

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Speaker 1: I could pump the brakes.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, dude, you're never playing hard to get bro

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm skeptical if he's capable of that, but if.

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Speaker 2: He's able to dial it back, pull back the reins

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Speaker 1: Lisa? Before you say anything, I just that day you

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Speaker 1: left me on the bus and when you said you

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure that's usually a romantic selling point. But yeah,

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Speaker 2: sounds like your second date is definitely gonna be cash.

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Speaker 4: I mean it seems like a lot of pressure. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sometimes opposites a track.

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Speaker 6: He is hopeless romantic and you are more like Alexis.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think she's gonna wake up in bed with a

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Speaker 2: It's up to you, though, Lisa. We're not trying to

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Speaker 2: That being said, would you give him one more chance?

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Speaker 4: I am open to it. It's just I need some

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Speaker 1: Like ninety I've already dialed it back.

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Speaker 5: I feel it right now. It's totally I'm not sure.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure he likes you anymore, honestly.

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Speaker 5: Honestly, did he hang up?

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Speaker 1: Why don't we just talked on the phone for a

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Speaker 1: There's yes, let's start start.

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Speaker 2: At least you were wrong. You can make him.

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Speaker 1: Happy, definitely. She just made me happy with the phone call,

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Speaker 1: for sure.

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Speaker 5: Smile.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is.

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Speaker 2: Not rookie Jeffrey in the Morning Man. That was a

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Speaker 2: missed opportunity on my part. I apologize to everyone. Would Yeah,

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Speaker 2: because she said that she agreed to a phone call,

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Speaker 2: why didn't we hang up and call her back right there?

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Speaker 2: Could have just knocked it out while we were on

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Speaker 3: Need to hear anymore. I have a feeling that she

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, we should try to get him for an

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Speaker 2: I guess. You know. We're gonna let them work it

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Speaker 2: out on their own because they agreed to talk off

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Speaker 2: the air, so that's good. Who knows if it's going

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Speaker 2: to be a true love connection or not. That's going

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Speaker 3: I would like an update from them. Yeah, they end

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Speaker 3: up talking for a minute. I'd like to hear where

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Speaker 3: they're at. By the time two months hit, they should

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Speaker 2: At least. But even if it didn't work out for them, lately,

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Speaker 2: we've had plenty that did and you can hear them

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Speaker 2: all on our Second Day podcast. They're up online wherever

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Speaker 2: you get yours. Abrooke and Jeffrey