1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: It's that time, time, time, time, looking load. 2 00:00:07,720 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 2: Michael Very Show. 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 3: Is on the air. What love is this. 4 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 2: That calms our hearts? 5 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 4: Whispers the promise into the dark that we are love, 6 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 4: Yes we are love. And to you forever, though we 7 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 4: were homeless in need of rest, gave us a name. 8 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 2: And daily bread. 9 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 5: How we are love? 10 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 6: Yes, we are love. 11 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 7: It's our Adoption special and to you forever. We're gonna 12 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 7: get saty today. 13 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 8: I know some people tune into talk radio because you 14 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 8: want to be pissed. 15 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 2: Off and mad. Not your day. 16 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 8: I'm sorry, I'd love to have you every other day, 17 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:20,840 Speaker 8: not today. Adoption is very important to us. This is 18 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 8: the most meaningful show we do per year. National Adoption 19 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 8: Day this year is this Saturday, twenty third, but obviously 20 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 8: we won't be live on the air on that day, 21 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 8: so we chose today. 22 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 2: Why not tomorrow because. 23 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 8: Tomorrow is our annual Thanksgiving show, and that's also important 24 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 8: to us. We're going to talk about news of the 25 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 8: day throughout the course of the year, the way every 26 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 8: other show does. But we have some things that are 27 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 8: important to us, and we understand that's not for every listener. 28 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 8: The things that are important to us or mother's Day, 29 00:01:55,880 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 8: Father's Day, Adoption Special, our Thanksgiving Special, our Veterans Day, 30 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 8: our Memorial Day, and we just think it's important to 31 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 8: stop the crazy world from spinning and pay tribute to that. 32 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 8: President Trump understands the importance of adoption during one of 33 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:20,600 Speaker 8: his State of the Union addresses. One of the most 34 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 8: beautiful moments. Of course, Rush Limbaugh getting the Presidential Metal 35 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 8: Freedom will always stick in my mind. But one of 36 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 8: the most beautiful moments was the story about an Albuquerque 37 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 8: police officer named I think it Ryan Holettes. I forget 38 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 8: we're going to hear it in just a moment. I 39 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 8: forget how you pronounce it. But we marked this years 40 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 8: ago for our Adoption Special. It's just a beautiful, beautiful moment, 41 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 8: and President Trump knew. 42 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: It because we have seen tonight the most difficult challenges 43 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: bring out the best in America. We see a vivid 44 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: expression of this truth in the story How the Who 45 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: Lets Spend of New Mexico. Brian Holets is twenty seven 46 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: years old an officer with the Albuquerque Police Department. He's 47 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: here tonight with his wife, Rebecca. 48 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 2: Frank you Ryan. 49 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: Last year Ryan was on duty when he'sa a pregnant 50 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 1: homeless woman preparing to inject heroine. 51 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:43,119 Speaker 2: When Ryan told. 52 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: Her she was going to harm her unborn child, she 53 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: began to weep. She told him she didn't know where 54 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:55,440 Speaker 1: to turn, but badly wanted a safe home for her baby. 55 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: In that moment, Brian said he felt God speak to you, 56 00:04:01,040 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: will do it because you can. 57 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 2: He heard those works. 58 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: He took out a picture of his wife and their 59 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: four kids. Then he went home to tell his wife Rebecca. 60 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,960 Speaker 2: In an instant, she agreed to adopt. 61 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 3: So let's name their new daughter Hope. 62 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:30,039 Speaker 1: Ryan and Rebecca, do you embody the goodness of our nation? 63 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 2: Thank you. 64 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 8: I not only want to be the most powerful military 65 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 8: force in the world. I not only want to have 66 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 8: an economy with the most opportunity in the world. I 67 00:04:44,120 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 8: not only want to make the best movies, television, music, food, clothing, 68 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 8: airplanes in the world. I want to be a people, 69 00:04:56,960 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 8: a civilization, a culture values life. 70 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: That's who I want to be. That's who I want 71 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: our people to be. Very important to me. 72 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 8: Ryan Holett told his story at the RNC, and I 73 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 8: really think if there wasn't so much hatred for Donald 74 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,599 Speaker 8: Trump by the left, I really think that this story 75 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 8: should have received even more attention, and it really does 76 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 8: represent the goodness of humanity and drilling down the goodness 77 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 8: of Americans. For all the talk, this is what the 78 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 8: goodness of Americans is. This is not just an adoption story. 79 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 8: It's a beautiful story about life and sacrifice and sharing 80 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 8: and compassion and mercy and love. 81 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: I love this story. Do you remember him telling this 82 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 2: at the RNC. 83 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 9: Hi, I'm Ryan Holitz. I'm a police officer from New 84 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 9: Mexican co. In twenty seventeen, I had an encounter that 85 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:06,840 Speaker 9: changed my life forever. I had just started my shift 86 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 9: and responded to a call for service at a gas station. 87 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 9: When I arrived, I saw a man and a woman 88 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 9: sitting on a grassy slope. I recognized the tepteale signs, 89 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 9: a needle, a spoon. I knew immediately that they were 90 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 9: preparing to inject themselves with heroin. 91 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:25,839 Speaker 2: Sadly, this is a common sight for me. 92 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 9: I encountered the ravages of addiction every day, but nothing 93 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 9: could prepare me for what I discovered as I approached them. 94 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: The woman was very pregnant. 95 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:40,279 Speaker 9: In my shock, I asked her if she knew that 96 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 9: she was harming her baby by doing drugs. 97 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 2: She crumbled and burst into tears. 98 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 9: Two worlds collided as I knelt down beside her, a 99 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 9: police officer and an almost drug addict, brought together by 100 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 9: forces outside of our control. As we talked our humanity, 101 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 9: this ind from our stations in life was made abundantly clear. 102 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 2: Her name was Crystal, and in the midst of her. 103 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 9: Suffering, she confided that she loved her unborn baby. 104 00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 2: She wanted the best for her child. 105 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 9: In that moment, I saw her the way that all 106 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 9: of you who know and love and addicts see them 107 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 9: as fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, children, cousins, and friends, as 108 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 9: human beings full of value and dignity. 109 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 2: But robbed of their potential by this disease. 110 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 9: When Crystal said that she was looking for a family 111 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 9: to adopt her baby, God showed me exactly what I 112 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 9: had to do. Without hesitation, I told her that my 113 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 9: family would welcome her baby through adoption. Today, our beautiful daughter, 114 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 9: Hope is a thriving two year old. Crystal is fast 115 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 9: approaching three years of recovery. She's a dear friend and 116 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 9: a constant inspiration to me and others. I hold a 117 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 9: special place in my heart of those facing opioid addiction. 118 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 9: And that's why I'm enormously grateful to the President for 119 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 9: his leadership in fighting this deadly enemy. 120 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 8: Everything we do promotes life, life at birth, dignity in 121 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 8: life till death. 122 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 9: Captain something wrong, well, something must be right. 123 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 2: You're listening to Michael Berry. You know, elections aren't the 124 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 2: beginning and the end of what matters in life. 125 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 8: Very sweet when we consider the human condition, faith, family, science, medicine, commerce, transportation, literature, art, love, 126 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 8: When we consider the human condition and the things that 127 00:08:54,120 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 8: really matter over the continuum of eternity. It has become 128 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 8: the case in America, and there's nowhere else in the world. 129 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: This is the case that the issue. 130 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 8: Of abortion has become a talking point in every conversation. 131 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 8: It's crazy, it's crazy, But I don't think we can 132 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 8: argue against abortion. Whatever your position is as to whether 133 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 8: the federal government should outlaw it across the country, or 134 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,559 Speaker 8: it should be outlawed across the country to outlaw it, 135 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 8: or whether states should be able to decide, and if 136 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 8: states can decide, as Dobbs said, that they should prevent 137 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,280 Speaker 8: it or allow it or leave it to the vote. 138 00:09:48,320 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 8: Whatever your position on all of those things. Everyone can 139 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 8: have their own position. What I hope we could all 140 00:09:55,480 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 8: agree on is that life is sacred and that we 141 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 8: would all prefer that when a woman is pregnant, she 142 00:10:07,360 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 8: choose life because that is a baby, and that there 143 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 8: is an infrastructure in place, because I can assure you 144 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 8: because we adopted two children. I hear from people constantly 145 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 8: asking questions about adoption. Sometimes it is should we yes, 146 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 8: you don't need to finish the question. Yes, you should 147 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 8: adopt if you're thinking about it, Yes, should we do 148 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 8: domestic or international? Those are very complicated questions. I'm not 149 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 8: going to address those today. Do your own research. Bringing 150 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 8: a child into your home is a major decision. I mean, 151 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 8: you research which vehicle you buy before you bring a 152 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 8: vehicle into your home, or decide whether to bring a 153 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 8: vehicle into your home. Bringing a child into your home 154 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 8: is going to be a major thing. This thing is 155 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 8: most likely going to outlive you. But the answer is 156 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 8: always yes. The answer is that this is going to 157 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:06,960 Speaker 8: bring joy into your life, and that's a beautiful, wonderful thing. 158 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:12,199 Speaker 8: The aspects of adoption I would like to address today, 159 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 8: And if you're new to the show, we're not talking 160 00:11:14,440 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 8: politics today, just so you know, we take a break 161 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 8: from politics on our national on our adoption special every 162 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 8: year is the Joys of Adoption. This is one that 163 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 8: it's a news report from. It comes from my hometown 164 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,439 Speaker 8: of Houston, or my adopted town. I'm originally from Orange, 165 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 8: Texas in Southeast Texas. It's a news report from KHOU TV, 166 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 8: which is a TV station in Houston. But a woman 167 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 8: who adopted a little girl she helped during a terrible 168 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 8: hurricane and storm that came through Houston called Hurricane Harvey. 169 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 8: I wish you could see the video that goes with it, 170 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 8: but I think you'll get the point just from this. 171 00:11:57,360 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 10: Running down the hall of the fifteenth floor of the 172 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 10: Core House downtown, twenty three months old, Bella is full 173 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 10: of joy and excitement. She's running toward the woman she's 174 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 10: known since Hurricane Harvey? 175 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:09,920 Speaker 5: Are you so? 176 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 11: I would have never guessed that, you know, just by 177 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 11: me dropping off donations as a result of Harvey, that 178 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 11: I would have ended up with an entire baby. 179 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 10: The pairs heading into the courtroom that will change their 180 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 10: lives forever does. 181 00:12:21,960 --> 00:12:24,800 Speaker 11: Granted too, that the day has finally come. We've been 182 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 11: waiting for this day for the entire twenty eighteen. 183 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,439 Speaker 10: Doctor Bernaita Baker opened up her home to Bella right 184 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 10: after the storm. 185 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 2: She'd been living in a car with her dad. 186 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 10: Bella's mother was never in the picture, and Bella's father 187 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 10: couldn't provide a stable home, so he agreed to give 188 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 10: her up for adoption. 189 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 12: And this is exactly what you want to do for 190 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 12: the child as a doctor. 191 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 10: Yes, and today a judge made the undeniable bond Doctor 192 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 10: Baker and Bella's share unbreakable. 193 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 9: Granting your petition for adoption and the request for a 194 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:54,560 Speaker 9: name changes branded. 195 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 2: Congratulations, Thank you, Thank you. 196 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,920 Speaker 10: Doctor Baker now looks forward to spending her first Christmas. 197 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 2: With Bella as mother and daughter. 198 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,199 Speaker 11: This was my first official Christmas as a mom. 199 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 2: Okay for a song. 200 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 11: This is a Christmas miracle, one that I could have 201 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 11: never planned or prepared for, and one that I definitely 202 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 11: never expected. 203 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 2: Look look at the camera. 204 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:18,439 Speaker 10: After their first official portrait, Bella led her new family 205 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 10: out of the courtroom stealing. Not just doctor Beakers hardened 206 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 10: to walk the way. 207 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:31,880 Speaker 8: This one is another one that just the ladies, if 208 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:34,079 Speaker 8: you were still wearing makeup at this. 209 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: Hour of the day, gets you. It's a news report 210 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: from w zz MTV. 211 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,839 Speaker 8: A little boy invice his whole class to his adoption hearing. 212 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 2: This one gets me. 213 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:48,439 Speaker 6: Yes, a big family. 214 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:56,920 Speaker 13: Family with an even bigger heart. 215 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:00,320 Speaker 6: Michael Orlando Clark Junior. 216 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 14: Who he is a very active and silly, silly. 217 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 6: Kindergartener, invited his entire class to watch this moment. 218 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 15: It is ordered Michael that your forever mom and dad 219 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 15: will be David Andrew Eaton and Andrea Luis. 220 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 6: Melvin and cheer him on one, two, three. 221 00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 15: Sometimes their journeys have been very long. They've included miracle 222 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 15: and change for the children and family, and incredible community 223 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 15: support as you were able to see today in Michael's 224 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 15: adoption hearing with his whole kindergarten class and school being 225 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 15: here to say we love you, we support you, and 226 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 15: we'll be here not only today but in all the 227 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 15: years in the future. 228 00:14:50,720 --> 00:14:53,120 Speaker 6: It's safe to assume how Michael feels. 229 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 16: We've been working with Catholic charities and the workers there 230 00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 16: have just been amazing. Love my daddy, Wow, I not 231 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 16: my daddy so much. 232 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 2: This is just too much. This is just too much. Yeah, 233 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 2: it's been amazing. 234 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 16: Obviously how supportive they've much. 235 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 8: Man, that one gets me every child. Every child should 236 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:28,640 Speaker 8: have that opportunity. I have at least one parent prefer too. 237 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 2: What a beautiful thing, Michael Barry. 238 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 8: Every year, reading the emails I get from you related 239 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 8: to adoption, I will invariably hear from a mother who 240 00:15:56,760 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 8: gave up their child. And I think for many years 241 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 8: such women hid in shame, as if they were bad people. 242 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 2: A mother are giving up their child. I don't look 243 00:16:09,160 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 2: at it that way. 244 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 8: I look at it as a very heroic and brave 245 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 8: and courageous and difficult. 246 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 2: Thing to do, and I think we should honor it. 247 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:21,160 Speaker 8: If we're going to say to women, if you get 248 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 8: pregnant and you don't want or can't care for that child, 249 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:32,520 Speaker 8: wait don't kill it. God placed that child inside you 250 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:38,440 Speaker 8: for a reason. Bring that child into this world. There 251 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 8: is somebody waiting. That child will have a chance, there's 252 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 8: somebody waiting to raise that child. Yes, it's difficult to 253 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 8: go through a pregnancy. Yes it's painful to give birth, 254 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 8: but you will have done something beautiful and wonderful. And 255 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,800 Speaker 8: that child may be the child that here's cancer or 256 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 8: solves the Rubik's cube or whatever it is. That wonderful 257 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:06,880 Speaker 8: child's going to do this was a story out of Austin, 258 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 8: Texas on KVU kV UE of a woman who met 259 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 8: the child that she gave up for adoption fifty two 260 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 8: years later. And I just these stories are just so 261 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 8: powerful and beautiful. 262 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 14: For family history turns up a family one woman didn't 263 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 14: even know she had, and it. 264 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 2: Turned into a reunion one mother never thought would happen. 265 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,160 Speaker 13: Kv's Christy Millward follows the story of a mother meeting 266 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,200 Speaker 13: her daughter for the first time in fifty years. 267 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 2: I can't work, my goodness. 268 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 6: It's an anticipation you can only imagine. 269 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 2: I don't know what I want to do. 270 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 3: I want her to be here. 271 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 6: From waiting outside, I. 272 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,239 Speaker 2: Hope, my goodness, I don't know. 273 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:47,320 Speaker 14: It's so hard for me to wait any longer. 274 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 6: To pacing indoors. 275 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 2: I can't breathe. 276 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,440 Speaker 6: Donna Pavey is ready to meet someone. 277 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 13: Special to fifteen nine minutes. She's counting down the minutes. 278 00:17:55,920 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 13: It's to sixteen to meet her daughter. I wanted to 279 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 13: with me fifty years ago as a young mother. Pevey 280 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 13: says she was forced by her parents to give her 281 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 13: child up. She's thought about her ever since. 282 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 3: Every day. 283 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 13: Donna Sewan, Dianna Bordoline say they've wanted to meet their 284 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 13: big sister as long as they can remember. 285 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 6: I've been looking forward to this day for thirty years. Excited, 286 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 6: nervous to calm their nerves. The three look at photos and. 287 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 13: This is me, play the piano and even listen to 288 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:28,320 Speaker 13: a little Elvis. 289 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 6: They can't believe this day is here. We just always 290 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 6: felt like my mom was missing something. 291 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 17: I always wondered where she was, what she could be 292 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 17: doing back outside. 293 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 6: Payvee consents her daughter is close, text her. 294 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 2: And see how much long are we gotta wait? Where 295 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 2: are they? 296 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:49,520 Speaker 13: Finally, after hours of anticipation, agony, in five decades of wondering, 297 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 13: a mother is able to run to her daughter. 298 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 6: This is the first touch in fifty two years. Wow, hug, 299 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 6: they just get told tight enough. 300 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 13: Sharon Glynnon found out she was adopted only two days 301 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 13: ago after her adoptive parents have died, and she went 302 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:17,439 Speaker 13: in search of her family history. A DNA test pointed 303 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 13: her to Payvee back inside. The family doesn't waste any 304 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 13: time making up for lost time. 305 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 6: I feel like I'm floating. 306 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: It is surreal for me. 307 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:40,240 Speaker 14: Oh yeah, I'm finally breathing a little, even though they've 308 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 14: never met. 309 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 13: It's clear the two are similar, from looks to matching shoes. 310 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 6: This is a moment Payvee didn't think was possible. 311 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,520 Speaker 17: I knew I'd see her in heaven, but I never 312 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:51,879 Speaker 17: dreamed this day would come. 313 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 13: Now, neither mother nor daughter will let the forever bond 314 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 13: these two have always shared, ever fade away. 315 00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 6: I'd never want to let her go. 316 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 2: Man, That's what it's all about, by that, that you 317 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,520 Speaker 2: felt that deep down in that woman's soul. 318 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:13,520 Speaker 8: Because before we were doctors and lawyers and firemen and 319 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:15,880 Speaker 8: cops and all that we are, human beings, were mothers 320 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 8: and fathers, and that's that's that's at our core who 321 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:23,959 Speaker 8: we are. Another one from NBC Dallas DFW. 322 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 18: If I could have taken care of him, I would have, 323 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 18: but it just wasn't right to do that to him. 324 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 12: She ended up getting married, working in the TV news 325 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 12: business and now in the public Information office at the 326 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 12: Arlington Police Department. But back then, as a teenager, she 327 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 12: says her life was unstable and she simply couldn't care 328 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 12: for her newborn son. 329 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 18: It was all I could do to sign those papers 330 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,719 Speaker 18: and walk out the door and leave them. 331 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:49,800 Speaker 2: It was really hard. 332 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 12: Then one day, a few months ago, her phone rings. 333 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 3: It was an awkward first conversation after. 334 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 12: It was a name she didn't know, Wes Fenner's calling 335 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 12: from Newark. 336 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 19: She was not expecting a phone call at work saying Hi, 337 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,840 Speaker 19: I'm your Did you did you put child up for 338 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 19: adoption in nineteen seventy five? 339 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 3: That was pretty pretty an odd phone. 340 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 2: Call nineteen seventy five, but I went, oh my. 341 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 12: A few weeks later they agreed to me did a 342 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:24,640 Speaker 12: hotel in till that's her waiting in the parking lot, 343 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 12: staring at a nearby pond. 344 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,159 Speaker 18: And then I hear a voice behind it goes, it's mom, 345 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 18: it's me. 346 00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:37,280 Speaker 19: It was overwhelming. You know, I'm not a huge crier, 347 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,880 Speaker 19: but it was definitely one of those moments. 348 00:21:45,400 --> 00:21:47,680 Speaker 2: We both started crying and hugging, and. 349 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 19: It was kind of like looking at myself, a slightly 350 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,400 Speaker 19: older version of myself. 351 00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 3: In the mirror. 352 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 18: I wiped away his tears, You wip wiped away mine. 353 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 19: How do you described me and your birth mother the 354 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 19: first time after forty five years? 355 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 3: And we'd probably hugged for twenty minutes. 356 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 12: Turns out she had tried to search for him years ago, 357 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 12: but couldn't find him. 358 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 18: All I had to go on was his birthdate and 359 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 18: the fact he was born in Terran County. 360 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:17,439 Speaker 12: He tried to find her too, but always got cold feet. 361 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,280 Speaker 3: I've been thinking about doing this for over a decade. 362 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 18: I've thought about him every day since he was born. 363 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 12: She had no idea where her son was living, how 364 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 12: he was, even if he was still alive. Now she 365 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 12: knows he went on to have a good life with 366 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 12: a loving family and worked for a major bank and 367 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 12: start a family of his own. 368 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 18: You know, you wonder about nature, virgus nurture. We send 369 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 18: each other song lyrics back and forth, and he listens 370 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 18: to the same music I do, and we like the 371 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 18: same movies. We had the same snarky sense of humor. 372 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 18: I'm going, yeah, this is my kid. 373 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:57,959 Speaker 3: We're still playing ketchup. 374 00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:03,960 Speaker 18: I'm looking forward to the next because meeting him wasn't 375 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 18: the ending of the journey. It's an ongoing journey. 376 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 12: It's just the beginning. After a mother and her baby 377 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 12: boy finally met forty five years later. 378 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:24,359 Speaker 8: You know, this is what matters in life. This is 379 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:30,359 Speaker 8: what matters in life, his children and families and love. 380 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,159 Speaker 8: I spend a lot of time on politics, and I 381 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 8: spent a lot of time talking about. 382 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 20: Fighting for our country, and I believe it. But we 383 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 20: must remember what we're fighting for. We're fighting for families. 384 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 20: We're fighting for children or fighting for their futures. Never 385 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 20: lose sight of us. It's our adoptions is our. 386 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 2: Annual Michael Show Adoption Special. My kids are adopted. I 387 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,600 Speaker 2: think it's very important to me. 388 00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 8: I believe in it. I think it's part of our mission. 389 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 8: It's part of my advocacy, part of my values. Glad 390 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,880 Speaker 8: you're here with us. I understand. Every year I hear 391 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 8: from a couple of folks who go I tuned in 392 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,399 Speaker 8: to hear the news of the day. I know, and 393 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 8: you're not going to get it today, and I'm sorry 394 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 8: for that, I really am. But this is important to us, 395 00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 8: and we do it every year, and every year I 396 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 8: hear from someone that last year you talked about adoption 397 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 8: and we adopted, or last year you talked about adoption 398 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,639 Speaker 8: and I reached out and found or reconnected with a 399 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 8: child that I had put up for adoption, or last 400 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:49,120 Speaker 8: year you talked about adoption and I went searching for 401 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:54,640 Speaker 8: my birth mother or father or both, and I connected 402 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,640 Speaker 8: And I'm so glad I did so it's important to us. 403 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 8: It was a I woulda did a Super Bowl ad 404 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 8: a while back. Do you remember what year this was? 405 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 8: But it was it was pretty good stuff. It was 406 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 8: a It was an adoption featuring a Paralympic gold medalist 407 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 8: swimmer named Jessica Long. 408 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 2: See if you remember this, Missus Long. 409 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 21: Yes, we've found a way to girl for your adoption, 410 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 21: but there are some things you need to know. She's 411 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 21: in Siberia and she was born with a rare condition. 412 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 21: Her legs will need to be amputated. I know this 413 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:44,320 Speaker 21: is difficult to hear her life. It won't be easy 414 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 21: at all. 415 00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 6: It might not be easy, but it'll be. 416 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 17: I can't wait to meet. 417 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,440 Speaker 2: We believe there is hope and strength and all of us. 418 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 2: Toyota proud partner of Team USA. 419 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,159 Speaker 8: If they sold a couple extra Toyotas from that spot, 420 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 8: so be it. But they make you look at life 421 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 8: very differently. And children who are not born completely quote 422 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 8: unquote healthy. This next one is the heartwarming moment a 423 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 8: daughter surprises her stepdad and I haven't addressed it yet 424 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 8: on today's show. But children need love. They also need 425 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:54,760 Speaker 8: direction and discipline and guidance and correction. Did I say 426 00:26:54,800 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 8: correction from parental figures? And that's mothers and fathers and 427 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:04,880 Speaker 8: uncles and grandparents and teachers and coaches. And my call 428 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 8: to you is, if you marry a person who had 429 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:12,920 Speaker 8: children already, you don't have to be their primary parent. 430 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 8: You don't have to assume that role, especially if they 431 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,719 Speaker 8: have one who is. But why not in that moment 432 00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:24,040 Speaker 8: give love to that child. I see so many cases 433 00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 8: of people. If you fall in love with a person, 434 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 8: their children aren't baggage. If you fall in love with 435 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 8: a person and they have children, you owe it to 436 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,480 Speaker 8: that person that you love to be as good as 437 00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,679 Speaker 8: you can and as good as those kids were willing 438 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,959 Speaker 8: to let you be to them. And some will reject 439 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 8: you at first, and you owe it to humanity. You 440 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,320 Speaker 8: owe it to humanity to be good to those kids, 441 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 8: to love them and let them know that you love them, 442 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 8: to care enough about them to disaib on them. You 443 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:05,200 Speaker 8: owe it to them. You owe it to society. 444 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 2: To do that. 445 00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 8: This is a beautiful moment where a little girl whose 446 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 8: stepdad raised her as if he was her own dad, 447 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 8: and she surprises him with the big news. 448 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 6: Can you read it? 449 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:17,639 Speaker 3: Out loud. 450 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:24,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I open, but don't say anything because Haley 451 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 5: hasn't opened hers. 452 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 6: Can you read it? 453 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 5: Yeah? 454 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 1: I know your birthday is thirteen days away, but I 455 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,479 Speaker 1: am too excited to hold it in. 456 00:28:36,040 --> 00:28:36,879 Speaker 2: What do you get it? 457 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 14: Bed? 458 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 2: What do you get in? 459 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:42,120 Speaker 21: Bed? 460 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 2: Has ever? Once? 461 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:48,720 Speaker 14: I could hit at poder day, But in the is 462 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 14: I know that it would make you happier that what. 463 00:28:56,440 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 22: I'm about to say today to one two thousand two Bed. 464 00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 14: We would share it forever as we grow, Haiti? Did 465 00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:14,280 Speaker 14: you I belive this, dog, Haiti? 466 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 22: That yell could be ye happy birthday and happy Vattletales day. 467 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 22: You stole her heart from day walk, but today she 468 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:26,800 Speaker 22: stole your last thing forever. 469 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 23: Everybody says that. Everybody thinks that she to daddy man. 470 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 14: Everybody says she worship up to the ground. 471 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 2: I won't come, but I'll I'll worship the down. 472 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 10: She walks up. 473 00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,280 Speaker 14: I love you, I love you, Love you? 474 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 2: Who was too serious? 475 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 8: We can't be that serious in here, people trying to 476 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,960 Speaker 8: drive home getting all choked up. If you're anything like me, 477 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,120 Speaker 8: so here's comedian Leo Allen. 478 00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 16: You know they say you can never go home again. 479 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 16: At least that's what my parents say. At least that's 480 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:17,360 Speaker 16: what the letter from their lawyer said. I'm adopted, and 481 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 16: I'm glad that my parents were honest enough with me 482 00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 16: to tell me that I'm adopted. But why every day 483 00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 16: that seems excessive, That seems. 484 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,320 Speaker 2: And I'll never forget. Well my parents first told me. 485 00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 16: I was adopted, because it was a very emotional day 486 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 16: for everyone in my whole family, because that was the 487 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 16: same day my parents decided to tell my brother he 488 00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 16: was gay. That's rough on a five year old. Laughter 489 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 16: really is the best medicine. You remember that time on 490 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 16: Good Times when Penny got adopted. Did you watch Good Times? 491 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: Mom? 492 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 2: Oh? Man, I wore Good Times out. 493 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 5: Maybe I wanted too much, you know, wanting to be 494 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 5: a mother, wanting. 495 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 6: Someone to love. 496 00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:26,920 Speaker 5: I knew it was a long shock from the beginning. Melana, Honey, Hey. 497 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 2: Jay, are you crying. I'm not crying, Michael. 498 00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 6: It just encouraged me though. 499 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 2: Now that you're not leaving, I'm gonna have to eat 500 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:36,680 Speaker 2: thumbus cookies. 501 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,040 Speaker 5: I'd almost given up hope. 502 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,479 Speaker 17: Well, you know, in the past, Miss Woods, it was 503 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:48,520 Speaker 17: very difficult for single parents to adopt. But laws have 504 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 17: changed and times have changed. And there are so many 505 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 17: older children waiting for a good home. And anyway, we 506 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:59,280 Speaker 17: got such glowing reports about you, especially for mister Bookman, 507 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,719 Speaker 17: that well, we decided that one could get just as 508 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 17: much love as to. 509 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:05,520 Speaker 3: Thank you, Penny. 510 00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,480 Speaker 5: I know we have so much to learn about each other, 511 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 5: but I promise you I'll love you more than any 512 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:12,800 Speaker 5: mother's ever loved a little girl. 513 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 8: Oh, Mama, you remember when we didn't know that Penny 514 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:23,880 Speaker 8: was Janet Jackson. Sheted some fine little girl on the 515 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 8: TV show. Well, you didn't watch it, so you want 516 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 8: to know. I remember thinking that grows fine. And then 517 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:32,760 Speaker 8: one day. 518 00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 2: There she was singing on stage. Oh Penny's all gone. 519 00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 10: Oh she was already. 520 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 2: I had no idea