WEBVTT - Be Safe, Be Careful, Be Cautious

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<v Speaker 1>Flame Flame. If you watch your coffee time the baby

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<v Speaker 1>you know the name Flame my bro also known as

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<v Speaker 1>my Roe Flame. Come in with last and come in

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<v Speaker 1>with Jim Love loundes. Baby, you better catch it when

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<v Speaker 1>you can drop a knowledge from fatherhood to politics, shouting

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<v Speaker 1>now comics, just paying homage. What's up? Tips? Yeah you know?

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<v Speaker 1>She raised shot towns on speaking to the grown a

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<v Speaker 1>second year. We're gonna last, coming and kicking and at

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<v Speaker 1>the end we leave it with just a lift you

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<v Speaker 1>spirits speak. You want to revisit so your first second listen,

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<v Speaker 1>young folks, so you slip, oh folks that we dig it. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>no fish do what you do? Ca no this do

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<v Speaker 1>what you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Can't?

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<v Speaker 1>No fish do what I do? No this.

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<v Speaker 3>Week, Hey, hey, hey, this is flam Monroe and welcome

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<v Speaker 3>to this week's episode of Laugh and Learn along with

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<v Speaker 3>my great producer mister Aaron and we got a special

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<v Speaker 3>guest co host today.

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<v Speaker 2>I bring me in at the Man.

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<v Speaker 3>But right now I just want to tell you guys,

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<v Speaker 3>thank you for joining us. I am a little delayed.

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<v Speaker 3>It's been a week y'all. When I tell y'all from

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<v Speaker 3>last Thursday, the thirteenth, un two yesterday I can tell

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<v Speaker 3>you right now my life has been a roller coaster.

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<v Speaker 3>Rat I had. I was in a rental car that

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<v Speaker 3>had an electrical fire that burned up fans, my iPhone, uh,

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<v Speaker 3>some drags, some costumes, some gowns, some weeks, some other

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<v Speaker 3>things that I will not mention that y'all ain't y'all

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<v Speaker 3>be It is my my panties.

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<v Speaker 2>So but thank god, we were not in the car.

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<v Speaker 2>We were at an event.

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<v Speaker 3>We were at Chris Spencer's one hour taping, which was fantastic,

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<v Speaker 3>and it just jeep Wrangler, Chrysler. You got to do better.

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<v Speaker 3>But you will do better because I got a trick

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<v Speaker 3>for your ass, so get ready for it. I can't

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<v Speaker 3>talk about it publicly, but y'all get y'all get the affidavia.

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<v Speaker 3>And then my daughter's out of control, found out we

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<v Speaker 3>have to move. We don't have to move out of

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<v Speaker 3>our house to another house. It's just a lot going

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<v Speaker 3>on in the world, so in my personal life. But

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<v Speaker 3>I am here today, and I wish I was here

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<v Speaker 3>On a happy note, on a joyful note, I'm usually

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<v Speaker 3>a pretty pleasant person. But the world has become so

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<v Speaker 3>great and so dark than the last four or five

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<v Speaker 3>days so while it was happening to me personally, it

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<v Speaker 3>was also happening to America on a different level.

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<v Speaker 2>When we're going to get to that, and I got my.

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<v Speaker 3>Very special guests, who I think is pertinent and very

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<v Speaker 3>important to have on this part of this conversation today

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<v Speaker 3>because she's a white woman and the experiences for her.

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<v Speaker 3>We're watching the same thing, but our experiences can be

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<v Speaker 3>very different. But in this situation, I don't know that

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<v Speaker 3>it's very different. It's just the situation were just different

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<v Speaker 3>skin colors. So ladies, young, please help me. Welcome my

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<v Speaker 3>friend and yours Flayman for Life and one of my

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<v Speaker 3>smartest claimants, the one and only Bobby Clifford.

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<v Speaker 1>Why thanks for having me again.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like fifty people screaming but they can't hear me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>of course, how are you, Bobby? How's everything in Boston?

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<v Speaker 1>Everything is pretty good. We just had the We just

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<v Speaker 1>had the Boston Marathon. It was the ten year anniversary

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<v Speaker 1>of the bombing, so that was pretty emotional.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it seems like only a couple of years ago

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<v Speaker 3>because it's still fresh.

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<v Speaker 2>In my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it does, it is. It's so it's so triggering.

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix put out a pretty interesting three part docuseries that

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<v Speaker 1>I watched. I wasn't sure if I was going to.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, I had to. I had to keep shutting

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<v Speaker 1>it off and getting it up and getting down because

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<v Speaker 1>it's amazing how much something can like trigger you or

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<v Speaker 1>make you nervous. Because we were really even though I

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<v Speaker 1>don't directly touch Boston, they had all of us. Governor

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<v Speaker 1>Patrick had us all in our houses with our doors locked.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, anybody within a twenty mile radius. It was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty It was pretty amazing. It was it was an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting docusaries if people are interested in it.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy, yeah, I listen.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, I never wanted to run a marathon,

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<v Speaker 3>and after these bombings that at the Boston Minison, that

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<v Speaker 3>really deterred me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, well it was enough. I didn't want to run,

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<v Speaker 2>but m I got to run and be shut up.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I don't even want to get out of the

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<v Speaker 1>car and walk into stopping shop. I'm exhausted those little scooters.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh, I don't look. I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 2>be in the vicinity. Y'all run bike rad jump our

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<v Speaker 2>walk way. I gotta go jumped in my car. But Bobby,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what was so tragic about that.

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<v Speaker 3>That's ten years ago, and now we're experienced something that

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<v Speaker 3>with the n RA and these gun laws just not

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<v Speaker 3>being looked at, just being made an asterisk or footnote.

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<v Speaker 2>It has gotten out of control.

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<v Speaker 1>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so many crazy shootings now for people accident to

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<v Speaker 3>mind you, these are accidentally going to the wrong addresses,

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<v Speaker 3>driving up in the wrong driveway, making them. And mind you,

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes it's not even our fault because we were right

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<v Speaker 3>down our era. We wrote down the richest because our

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<v Speaker 3>eraror me and Bobby was pre phone, pre internet, So

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<v Speaker 3>in order for somebody to give you directions, you had

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<v Speaker 3>to write down turn left for this corner, turn right

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<v Speaker 3>at this landmark, turn turn right and left at this

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<v Speaker 3>streeting corner. But now GPS will send you directly to

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<v Speaker 3>where you want to go. Here's the issue. Sometimes GPS

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<v Speaker 3>is glitchy and will send you to the wrong get dress.

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<v Speaker 1>They certainly will. Oh, they will send you over the

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<v Speaker 1>river and through the woods. I always put the fastest.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like on the scene. I mean, it's absolutely crazy

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<v Speaker 1>where it has you go. Take a lot, one way,

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<v Speaker 1>take a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>They trying to control the whole world with AI, but

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<v Speaker 3>AI still is glitchy Ie that car that I was

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<v Speaker 3>in last week, my car is in the shop for

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<v Speaker 3>the exact same reason why they said my car was

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<v Speaker 3>not a limit, but then you gave me a rental

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<v Speaker 3>car that did the exact same thing. Mistakes happened, accidents happen,

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<v Speaker 3>but people dying because you accidentally weighing the wrong doorbell

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<v Speaker 3>or went to the wrong driveway. Do you know that

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<v Speaker 3>a bone? Ladies Jehovah's Witness Girl, Scout cookies and trick

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<v Speaker 3>and treating are now a thing of the past, because

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<v Speaker 3>who's going to risk walking up to a stranger's home

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<v Speaker 3>and ringing the doorbell and facing murder or or maiming

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<v Speaker 3>or you know, paralysis or whatever. It is out of control,

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<v Speaker 3>and it has happened a couple of times this week.

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<v Speaker 3>So I want to start with the young lady, twenty

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<v Speaker 3>year old young in upstate New York. Her name was

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<v Speaker 3>Kaylin Gillis. She was riding with friends. They were going

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<v Speaker 3>to a party. They pulled in the driver driveway of

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<v Speaker 3>man's home. He was on the porch, Kevin Monahan, that's

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<v Speaker 3>his name, correct, yep, and he shot and killed the girl.

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<v Speaker 2>He's on the porch, she's in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>No, the gauge shotgun with a twelve gage shotgun, like

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<v Speaker 1>not even like she was an animal.

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<v Speaker 3>So do you know and do you know what kind

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<v Speaker 3>of damage a twelve gauge thus the hole that it

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<v Speaker 3>leaves in a body.

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<v Speaker 1>She was so tiny From the few pictures we've seen,

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<v Speaker 1>she looks like if she weighed one hundred pounds silk

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<v Speaker 1>and wet, you know that would have I can't even

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<v Speaker 1>imagine he got off and just shot started shooting at

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<v Speaker 1>the car. These poor kids flame. I think of how

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<v Speaker 1>panicked they must be. They were an upstate New York

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<v Speaker 1>where the cell phone reception is so horrific that that

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<v Speaker 1>they couldn't even get nine one one on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>They had to go to the next town. By the

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<v Speaker 1>time they got to the next town, when they called

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<v Speaker 1>nine one one, they had the paramedics meet him and

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<v Speaker 1>they pronounced the poor baby dad right there in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine now he has been he has been

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<v Speaker 1>uh charged with second to remurder. But it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to bring that mother's baby back.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not going to bring the person who was drug

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<v Speaker 2>because she was a passenger.

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<v Speaker 3>She wasn't even the driver. Imagine sitting with your friends

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<v Speaker 3>in the carbaby and you watch one of your friends

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<v Speaker 3>get the light blown out of it. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>the damage that I've done to the other people in

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<v Speaker 3>the car will go on forever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I kind of even.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's mind boggling. I'm glad they charged him.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think he should have been charged with second

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<v Speaker 3>degree murdered. I think he should have been charged with

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<v Speaker 3>first degree murder. She hadn't got out the car. She

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<v Speaker 3>technically she was on his property, but she was in

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<v Speaker 3>a passenger in the car with the driver. Not that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm phoning the driver. But this is why the gun

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<v Speaker 3>laws need. This is why and I already need to

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<v Speaker 3>have some control of the gun laws. But at this

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<v Speaker 3>point you're never going to get all the guns from people.

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<v Speaker 3>People have arsenals. We discussed that before on here. It

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<v Speaker 3>is too And you were telling me the most disturbing

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<v Speaker 3>story i'd heard about somebody that said had two year

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<v Speaker 3>old had a gun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what she was on. I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>the Chris Formo show who she calls in and she said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've already got my two year olds. You probably know

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<v Speaker 1>the weapon some hand done, and she already had a

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<v Speaker 1>shotgun to get them started. I'm like, started for what.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even let my kid play with just just

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<v Speaker 1>any type of playgun because I didn't want to remember

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<v Speaker 1>picking something up and you know, thinking he pointed at

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and harm them in case it was a BB gun,

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<v Speaker 1>put somebody's eye out or whatnot. The crazy thing about

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<v Speaker 1>New York is they don't even have the stand your

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<v Speaker 1>ground laws they have. They have a very broad version

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<v Speaker 1>of I don't know, duty to retreat. I believe that

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<v Speaker 1>calls when you you know, you think you're in trouble,

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<v Speaker 1>you remove yourself. So this guy, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to go on, you know what he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to try to And you actually had a very good

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<v Speaker 1>point where just popped in my head is you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be second agree murder. Maybe not because if you were

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<v Speaker 1>sitting on the porch with a gun waiting for somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a plan.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, You're sitting on your porch.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't go in the house to get the gun

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<v Speaker 3>because and not according to the report, you were already

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<v Speaker 3>sitting on the porch, but the gun you you were

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<v Speaker 3>waiting for something to happen. So they can go down. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>here's the thing, both Caucasian. But the other story where

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<v Speaker 3>the black guy was killed with the white We're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>get to that story. We you know, this guy's only

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<v Speaker 3>charge with I think he charged with third degree mans

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<v Speaker 3>slaughter and something else with more charges may be pinning

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<v Speaker 3>because it's going to be attempted murder because the young

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<v Speaker 3>man's have added.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we'll get to that story down the line.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it is barbaric to me that these gun laws

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<v Speaker 3>have not changed, and it's happening more and more and

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<v Speaker 3>more accidents happened by b I have went at the

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<v Speaker 3>grocery store on the phone or just distracted, coming out

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<v Speaker 3>pushing my car, walked to a car that looked like

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<v Speaker 3>the car that I was driving at the time, and

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<v Speaker 3>had went to the door and actually pulled on the door,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, and we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, oh my god, you have.

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<v Speaker 3>The wrong damn car, you know, because most cars now

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<v Speaker 3>all you have to have is the key on your person.

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<v Speaker 3>And the doors were open, So I'm pulling and pulling

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<v Speaker 3>like what and so it looked like I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>break in because I'm pulling and pulling. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 3>pay attention that I met the wrong car. So many

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<v Speaker 3>cars look exactly alike.

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<v Speaker 1>I've done that myself. My mother reminded me of time

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<v Speaker 1>as a child, but I did it. Like twenty years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't necessarily lock our drawers as much. We didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously we had violence and we had crime

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<v Speaker 1>and whatnot, but we didn't. I got all the way

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<v Speaker 1>in the car, seatbelt on, put the keys in, and

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<v Speaker 1>my key wouldn't go in, and I'm like, what in

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<v Speaker 1>the world. I just have a much to look in

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<v Speaker 1>the backseat and there was amends and unfortunately didn have

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<v Speaker 1>a in my life at the time. There was a

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<v Speaker 1>man's baseball cap and I went, this isn't mine. So

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<v Speaker 1>I hopped out and I had no issue, which is

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<v Speaker 1>which is sort of what our next? Our next? Uh

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<v Speaker 1>said of the cheerleaders that you know, the next topic

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be the same type of thing that

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<v Speaker 1>happened to them.

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<v Speaker 3>And they were at a great school, and uh where

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<v Speaker 3>was it in Texas? It was in oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Some private yeah, some some some cheerleaders.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they went to the wrong car, young the wrong

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<v Speaker 3>car and got shot and oh my god, they didn't

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<v Speaker 3>break They weren't even trying to break here. And you

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<v Speaker 3>know when somebody is up to violence or up to

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<v Speaker 3>no good, they look on their face, they look in

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<v Speaker 3>their eyes. These were just young girls after practice went

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<v Speaker 3>them and they got shot and shot.

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<v Speaker 1>It is in the driver's sept and looked over and

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<v Speaker 1>there was a man in the car. And she must

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<v Speaker 1>have looked around and realized it wasn't her car, and

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<v Speaker 1>it hopped out well that her car. The man came up.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a Carlo Pedro Rodriguez, he's twenty five, came

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<v Speaker 1>up to their car. So she rolled the window down

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<v Speaker 1>to apologize to him, and he took He just went

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<v Speaker 1>off with his handgun.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is the climate of the world that we

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<v Speaker 3>live in. Not only is it is it anger or resentment,

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<v Speaker 3>it is fear. Everybody is afraid of everybody afraid. We're

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<v Speaker 3>afraid of kids because kids, especially in Chicago, my hometown,

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<v Speaker 3>they jacking you at eleven and twelve years old at

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<v Speaker 3>the gas station. They're setting you up. They'll ask you

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<v Speaker 3>for some change, or they'll pull if you pull them

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<v Speaker 3>into park to go into the gas station or pull

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<v Speaker 3>the gas They'll pull in front of you and behind

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<v Speaker 3>you and a carra will pull it on the side

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<v Speaker 3>of you, so you can't get away. It is, Bobby,

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<v Speaker 3>It is so crazy right now in Alabama.

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<v Speaker 2>Just happened.

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<v Speaker 3>This just happened in Alabama, four k on the fifteenth,

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<v Speaker 3>four kids were shot going a car in a car.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, Bobby. I just I have children, and when

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<v Speaker 3>I hear about kids, my kids age, I think that

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<v Speaker 3>could be my fucking kid. That could be one of

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<v Speaker 3>my kids. And I would not survive it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a strong person, but I would not survive something

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<v Speaker 3>like that. I don't believe happened to my My heart

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't take it because I'm over it. So going to

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<v Speaker 3>hard because I'm not gonna make a long episode because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm feeling very emotional today. We're going to go to

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<v Speaker 3>Kansas City, Missouri. Sixteen year old Ralph y'all beautiful young man,

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<v Speaker 3>intelligent and smart and not not that any of that matters.

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<v Speaker 3>He could have been the worst kid on the planet.

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<v Speaker 3>He was still a sixteen year old kid went to

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<v Speaker 3>the wrong house to meet his siblings and according to

0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.200
<v Speaker 3>the man who shot him, he said he rang the doorbell,

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<v Speaker 3>but a cod to the kid who is survived and

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<v Speaker 3>is still alive, thank you Jesus and coherent, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>on the road to recovery. He said, he never even

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<v Speaker 3>touched the door handle. He never got a chance to

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<v Speaker 3>ring the doorbell. As soon as he hit the porch,

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<v Speaker 3>eighty four year old Andrew Lester shot him in the

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<v Speaker 3>head one time and then shot him in the arm

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<v Speaker 3>the second time. Bobby, that is so unfathomable to me

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<v Speaker 3>that you couldn't call the police. You couldn't say get

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<v Speaker 3>away from my door. You wasn't in the house. You

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<v Speaker 3>were just on the porch. And the sad part to me,

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<v Speaker 3>as a black person in this country, because the Constitution

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<v Speaker 3>made us as black people only three fifths of a person,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think that Andrew Lester saw that this kid

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<v Speaker 3>looked like a ten, eleven, twelve year old kid. In

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<v Speaker 3>the face. All he saw was the color black. And

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<v Speaker 3>he shot not once, and the first shot landed in

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<v Speaker 3>his head. That wasn't enough. He had to shoot him again.

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<v Speaker 3>The saddest part of that whole story to me, Bobby,

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<v Speaker 3>was the boy ran off and ran to two neighbors'

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<v Speaker 3>homes that denied him. So that whole little neighborhood, at

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<v Speaker 3>least the surrounding area. Thing like they all had the

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<v Speaker 3>same mindset of how they thought. It was the third

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<v Speaker 3>person's house that he went to. He made it to

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<v Speaker 3>three people's house after being shot twice, once in a

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<v Speaker 3>head and the person who he laid on the ground

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<v Speaker 3>bleeding and dad, the lady thought that he was dead.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why she called because I'm not even sure if

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<v Speaker 3>she would have tried to help him. He was still

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<v Speaker 3>like he passed out, so she thought he was dead.

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<v Speaker 3>Bobby white Man, black boy. He's out of bond. He's

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<v Speaker 3>out on bond for two hundred thousand dollars. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know what his financial situation is, but I do know

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<v Speaker 3>that that is a different level of racism in that

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<v Speaker 3>age demographic. Let me say this, and say this clearly

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<v Speaker 3>famous because y'all know I'm fair and you know i'm

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<v Speaker 3>a give I'm not giving him a pass, but I

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<v Speaker 3>want to see the whole picture. That age demographic is

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<v Speaker 3>a different level of racism than our age demographic from

0:16:56.480 --> 0:17:00.160
<v Speaker 3>fifty to sixty. That one was eighty. They grew grew

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<v Speaker 3>up in a whole different mindset. That's not to say

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<v Speaker 3>that what he did was right at all, but damn,

0:17:07.160 --> 0:17:09.639
<v Speaker 3>you couldn't have called now one one, you couldn't have

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<v Speaker 3>called the police. But when they don't see a person,

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<v Speaker 3>they only see a color. That is where we are

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<v Speaker 3>right now. I want them to take everything from this man.

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<v Speaker 3>I want them to take everything that he has worked

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<v Speaker 3>for his entire life, his home, his savings, his PINCHI

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<v Speaker 3>and everything, because I just don't think it's right. He's

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<v Speaker 3>out of jail on two hundred thousand dollars a bund.

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<v Speaker 3>Do I think anything is going to happen to him?

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<v Speaker 3>I think because he's he's that old, he's that old

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<v Speaker 3>racist in that demographic, that he would die before going

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<v Speaker 3>to jail. That that is my take on it. That

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<v Speaker 3>is how I feel. But I want to hear from

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<v Speaker 3>This is important to me by because you, as a

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<v Speaker 3>white woman, I want you to be very honest with

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<v Speaker 3>us and tell us what you see and what you feel.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I think it completely has to be racism. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean because to me that can't you look at a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>He was the slightest, little wispful of I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how tall. I know that Lester said he looked out

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<v Speaker 1>and thought thought he star six foot tall man. But

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't mean the kid's actually six foot tall I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be interested to see how tall he was. He also

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<v Speaker 1>looked like a little kid. And don't you ask first,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't bring a gun, you know, a gun out

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<v Speaker 1>without asking. Now they do have the standard ground in

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<v Speaker 1>the state that they were in, but you have to

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<v Speaker 1>feel threatened. He didn't threaten. He didn't try to break in,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't break a lock, he didn't try to climb

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<v Speaker 1>in through a window. He didn't. He didn't do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>And then to shoot him twice once he he's down

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<v Speaker 1>on the ground that that wasn't enough. They said that

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<v Speaker 1>the the boy said that. As he was running away,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, now, don't get you don't come around here

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<v Speaker 1>again like some old the Western movie or something. I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm absolutely I can't believe it. He was

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<v Speaker 1>has the two charges. One could have a life sentence,

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<v Speaker 1>the other one could be through three or fifteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>One was arms criminal action and then the other one

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<v Speaker 1>was selling assault. We'll see he should get something. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care how old he is. If he did the crime,

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<v Speaker 1>you've got to do the time right. It's not fair

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<v Speaker 1>and he should be it should be fine or something.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you say he's he's gonna get a lifcensance. He's

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<v Speaker 3>eighty four, ain't gonna last much longer. And I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>that might be like this, and I'm and I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>the stress of this and that this will take a

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<v Speaker 3>toll on him, because you know, unless this is something

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<v Speaker 3>that he has regularly done. And I hate to say

0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:37.520
<v Speaker 3>it like that, but a lot of times they have

0:19:37.560 --> 0:19:39.800
<v Speaker 3>gotten away with this on numerous a case and so

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<v Speaker 3>it's nothing. It's nothing to them. There is no no

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<v Speaker 3>what is the what is that when you're conscious? There

0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:48.480
<v Speaker 3>is no conscious. I'm like, I've done it before, I

0:19:48.480 --> 0:19:50.359
<v Speaker 3>got away with it. I'm gonna do it again. The

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<v Speaker 3>same way with make Bees down there in Georgia when

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<v Speaker 3>they killed Amad Aubrey. You know, that guy had been

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<v Speaker 3>a police officer for twenty plus years and there's no

0:19:59.200 --> 0:20:01.720
<v Speaker 3>man telling me he had gotten away with this. But

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<v Speaker 3>it was so disheartened by me because he looked like

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<v Speaker 3>a young boy. I love the fact that his mom

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<v Speaker 3>brought him home immediately because what it showed to me

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<v Speaker 3>because he was home in like three days and he's

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<v Speaker 3>still in bad shape. But he's on the man that

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<v Speaker 3>if that area or if that part that neighborhood or

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<v Speaker 3>that town is racist where those neighbors would help him.

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<v Speaker 3>Who knows who works in the hospital, who's affiliated with

0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:28.400
<v Speaker 3>this man he's eighty four. It could be a grandson

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<v Speaker 3>and niece, a nephew, a kid or whatever that wants

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<v Speaker 3>to say, Hey, we're looking out for him, So we're

0:20:35.600 --> 0:20:37.399
<v Speaker 3>going to do something to this kid while he's in

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<v Speaker 3>the hospital. So he could never testify, you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know. I don't know, but I'm glad that he's

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<v Speaker 3>home safe because you never know who's affiliated with home.

0:20:45.760 --> 0:20:48.399
<v Speaker 3>It's just safer for the young man. But by that

0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:53.080
<v Speaker 3>scary story, it's nine bogglen and I hate to think.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate to be such a conspiracy theorist to say, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>wouldn't nobody do nothing to him to in the hospital?

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<v Speaker 2>I watch Lifetime.

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<v Speaker 3>I watch all these crazy movies where you see people

0:21:03.760 --> 0:21:06.399
<v Speaker 3>doing things in the hospital. So if I didn't think

0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:10.359
<v Speaker 3>conspiracy theory before, y'all have shown it to me in movies,

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<v Speaker 3>so I would not think that it really does happen.

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<v Speaker 3>It had to come from somewhere. Your imagination is big,

0:21:16.080 --> 0:21:18.640
<v Speaker 3>but it had the story, had the basis of those

0:21:18.680 --> 0:21:20.120
<v Speaker 3>stories had to come from somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you got to think flink when we were kids,

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<v Speaker 1>would it be a crazier story or something that would

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<v Speaker 1>be more far fetched than us sitting at our at

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<v Speaker 1>our desks doing our work and someone coming in with

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<v Speaker 1>an AK forty seven and shooting the school up. So

0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:40.040
<v Speaker 1>it's not the conspiracy theories. They might sound far fetched,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was far fetched to us as kids. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is the reality that kids that are thirty and

0:21:45.680 --> 0:21:48.200
<v Speaker 1>younger have had to live with, you know, since Columbine

0:21:48.200 --> 0:21:50.720
<v Speaker 1>I had to live with. So no, it's not so

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<v Speaker 1>far fetched. And then me from the hospital side, I

0:21:53.320 --> 0:21:55.399
<v Speaker 1>already mentioned to you, I'm thrilled that he was home

0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:59.119
<v Speaker 1>because there's all sorts of infections in hospitals, so the

0:21:59.200 --> 0:22:01.800
<v Speaker 1>quicker's home health theory is and then the less chance

0:22:01.840 --> 0:22:05.240
<v Speaker 1>that he has for you know, becoming a more step.

0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:07.639
<v Speaker 1>And then he got he got a call from the

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<v Speaker 1>White House, which I thought was great. I'm sure as

0:22:09.840 --> 0:22:11.960
<v Speaker 1>a young kid that would be like so exciting to me,

0:22:12.680 --> 0:22:14.520
<v Speaker 1>Joe Biden calling. I'm like, I'd love to see what

0:22:14.600 --> 0:22:15.760
<v Speaker 1>that conversation was, like.

0:22:16.880 --> 0:22:18.720
<v Speaker 3>I wanted to do I want to does Joe Biden

0:22:18.800 --> 0:22:20.680
<v Speaker 3>remember that conversation? That's the better question.

0:22:22.280 --> 0:22:24.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know, but he's been begging.

0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:26.880
<v Speaker 1>Joe Biden for years, has been begging for some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of gun control, right, So the more not that he

0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:33.080
<v Speaker 1>wants to see anybody get hurt. But I'm sure these

0:22:33.160 --> 0:22:37.200
<v Speaker 1>these cases help bolster you know, background checks and all

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<v Speaker 1>the different ways that you could. Actually you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>to take people's guns away, but how in the world

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<v Speaker 1>do we make it better? And I definitely think strict,

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<v Speaker 1>more stringent background checks, especially for people that have been

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<v Speaker 1>met Yaliell. You know, if somebody was pink papered at

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<v Speaker 1>some point, you know of forceably put into the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they necessarily should be able to have

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<v Speaker 1>a gun. If a fella can't have it, then want

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<v Speaker 1>our legal gun. They shouldn't be able to have gun too.

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<v Speaker 1>I loved that his case is at actually being more

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:07.360
<v Speaker 1>of a catapult. It brought up the cheerleader case, right,

0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:10.000
<v Speaker 1>It's it's making us talk about all of the other

0:23:10.040 --> 0:23:13.440
<v Speaker 1>cases that are in the news recently. He got great support.

0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I mean I first started Viola Davis had it and

0:23:15.880 --> 0:23:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Sherry Shepherd both had it on their pages, and that's

0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:21.199
<v Speaker 1>where I first went. And all of a sudden it

0:23:21.280 --> 0:23:23.400
<v Speaker 1>kind of just unfolded from from.

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<v Speaker 2>There and and they do have a go funding page.

0:23:26.920 --> 0:23:29.320
<v Speaker 3>They raise the money for him and his family, you know,

0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:31.399
<v Speaker 3>for medical bios and meerical he's going to it's going

0:23:31.440 --> 0:23:33.119
<v Speaker 3>to be a long recovery. It's going to be a

0:23:33.280 --> 0:23:34.240
<v Speaker 3>long recovery.

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<v Speaker 1>Well certainly is because plains forget about the forget about

0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:39.639
<v Speaker 1>the physical aspect. You don't think this kid's going to

0:23:39.720 --> 0:23:40.920
<v Speaker 1>have mental health issues.

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<v Speaker 3>The bank, Yeah, if he has fireworks, if he hears

0:23:45.680 --> 0:23:47.240
<v Speaker 3>the bank, it may it may send him.

0:23:47.480 --> 0:23:49.560
<v Speaker 1>He's gonna need a lot of He's gonna need a

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<v Speaker 1>lot a lot of help. I was noticing as I

0:23:52.680 --> 0:23:54.879
<v Speaker 1>was trying to look up stuff about gun violence, the

0:23:54.880 --> 0:23:57.879
<v Speaker 1>BBC had statistics out that we're saying that there's a

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<v Speaker 1>rise in the standard ground states that they there's been

0:24:03.640 --> 0:24:06.160
<v Speaker 1>a rise in homicides of ten percent over the past

0:24:06.200 --> 0:24:09.400
<v Speaker 1>three years, which is sort of sort of a lot

0:24:09.480 --> 0:24:14.000
<v Speaker 1>of alarming to see any type of any type of

0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:17.679
<v Speaker 1>increase it Also, I was noticing that a lot of

0:24:17.680 --> 0:24:21.400
<v Speaker 1>these constitutional carry states are the standard ground states. They

0:24:21.400 --> 0:24:24.200
<v Speaker 1>don't match up one for one, but they're pretty close.

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<v Speaker 3>So, yes, he does have a GoFundMe page. Byby it

0:24:28.119 --> 0:24:31.960
<v Speaker 3>was created by his anti faith spoon more and at

0:24:32.040 --> 0:24:34.080
<v Speaker 3>to date, right now, Bobby, I'm looking at he has

0:24:34.160 --> 0:24:37.160
<v Speaker 3>They were looking for two point five million, he has

0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:40.919
<v Speaker 3>raised three point two hundred three point two million dollars

0:24:41.280 --> 0:24:44.200
<v Speaker 3>three point two hundred and seventy seven thousand and thirty

0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:47.320
<v Speaker 3>and thirty dollars. I'm going to donate. I am definitely

0:24:47.359 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 3>going to donate because I want to be a part

0:24:49.040 --> 0:24:51.879
<v Speaker 3>of this, and I think it's just tragic that we

0:24:51.960 --> 0:24:54.919
<v Speaker 3>live in such a time and these are children. You know,

0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:58.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm fifty years old, so I know I'm past the

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:01.320
<v Speaker 3>halfway point. Know I'm me and God are gonna be

0:25:01.320 --> 0:25:04.600
<v Speaker 3>face to face one day soon. I mean, I hope

0:25:04.640 --> 0:25:07.320
<v Speaker 3>he's previous me. I hope he's as pretty as me.

0:25:08.240 --> 0:25:08.679
<v Speaker 3>Not pretty.

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:11.800
<v Speaker 2>But these are babies.

0:25:12.119 --> 0:25:15.960
<v Speaker 3>We're worried about our and at our age, sixteen would

0:25:16.000 --> 0:25:18.040
<v Speaker 3>be a grand kid. I got a kid at sixteen

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 3>because I was a late bloomer, but sixteen will be

0:25:20.520 --> 0:25:22.840
<v Speaker 3>a grand kid. We don't want to We're already old,

0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:25.840
<v Speaker 3>worried about social security, medicare. You know, at fifty years old,

0:25:25.880 --> 0:25:28.399
<v Speaker 3>every day you wake up there's a new ailment. You know,

0:25:28.520 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 3>at this age, we may yawn and throw our back out,

0:25:31.400 --> 0:25:33.560
<v Speaker 3>stretch too hard and catch a Charlie Hord. You know

0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:37.680
<v Speaker 3>you don't need those right, Okay, I don't need those

0:25:37.800 --> 0:25:40.919
<v Speaker 3>worries on top of my grains. Like you said, my

0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:43.439
<v Speaker 3>grand baby at church at school, baby go to the

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:45.560
<v Speaker 3>corner market for me and get some milk and some bread,

0:25:45.680 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 3>and they never come back because some lunatic has come

0:25:48.800 --> 0:25:51.359
<v Speaker 3>up in here, just grown to the shot the place

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 3>up and my baby was just collateral damage because they

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:55.640
<v Speaker 3>were in the wrong place at the wrong time.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have to really keep our eyes on these

0:26:00.400 --> 0:26:04.520
<v Speaker 1>cases too, because you know the two the two standard

0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:07.080
<v Speaker 1>ground cases in the in the recent media where the

0:26:07.200 --> 0:26:11.080
<v Speaker 1>zimmern George Zimmerman and the Amount Aubrey Aubrey didn't work

0:26:11.119 --> 0:26:14.480
<v Speaker 1>for them. You know, they they all got life sentences.

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:17.480
<v Speaker 1>But for George Zimmerman, he was acquitted of all crimes.

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:21.840
<v Speaker 2>Which around and still walking.

0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Around, yeah, probably in his yellow vest.

0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:31.320
<v Speaker 3>Being Carson is over this case for for Ralph y'all,

0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:33.960
<v Speaker 3>So I hope that being and being Causon is usually

0:26:33.960 --> 0:26:36.800
<v Speaker 3>the man to go to to get these civil cases done.

0:26:37.320 --> 0:26:40.280
<v Speaker 3>You know, I know that the family should be should

0:26:40.280 --> 0:26:44.960
<v Speaker 3>be paid compensated fantastically, but that still will, like you

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:47.320
<v Speaker 3>said about that will never change the fact that this man,

0:26:47.400 --> 0:26:49.560
<v Speaker 3>who this young man will probably be damaged for the

0:26:49.600 --> 0:26:50.960
<v Speaker 3>rest of his life with PTSD.

0:26:51.760 --> 0:26:56.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. No, it's crazy even the the you think of

0:26:56.440 --> 0:27:00.359
<v Speaker 1>young kids with guns. That they just arrested two kids

0:27:00.359 --> 0:27:02.639
<v Speaker 1>for that Alabama shooting that happened over the weekend at

0:27:02.640 --> 0:27:06.680
<v Speaker 1>the sweet sixteen party, and and it was a massacre.

0:27:06.760 --> 0:27:11.800
<v Speaker 1>That was like the best one news news media outlet

0:27:11.560 --> 0:27:13.880
<v Speaker 1>put put that it was a massacre, and my god, wasn't.

0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:15.720
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, how does the sixteen and a seventeen

0:27:15.800 --> 0:27:18.800
<v Speaker 1>year old get guns? So we're back to the gun control.

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:22.040
<v Speaker 1>There's gonna be there's gotta be a tighter way to

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:24.680
<v Speaker 1>keep the guns from the kids. And if they got

0:27:24.720 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 1>them from the parents, there were two brothers, do we

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:28.320
<v Speaker 1>charge the parents?

0:27:29.440 --> 0:27:31.560
<v Speaker 3>No, you go right there, Bobby there, you go right.

0:27:31.640 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 3>You're gonna have to start charging these peers. And I

0:27:34.680 --> 0:27:39.119
<v Speaker 3>say that, and even though I know there is we

0:27:39.200 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 3>have access to some weaponry. That weaponry, but and I say,

0:27:42.840 --> 0:27:46.040
<v Speaker 3>and I'm saying that because what have you tauched your kids?

0:27:46.200 --> 0:27:49.760
<v Speaker 3>You know you don't you don't touch this. I don't care.

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:52.520
<v Speaker 3>You start them at two up until twenty five. You

0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:55.440
<v Speaker 3>don't come and you don't touch this. If you get angry,

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:57.959
<v Speaker 3>you come and tell me. But you don't touch some things,

0:27:58.040 --> 0:28:01.639
<v Speaker 3>you know. I think that the garing styles have changed

0:28:01.680 --> 0:28:04.440
<v Speaker 3>because these children are not afraid of their parents. In fact,

0:28:04.480 --> 0:28:07.320
<v Speaker 3>they challenge their parents. I'm living there right now. They

0:28:07.400 --> 0:28:11.640
<v Speaker 3>challenge their parents. We unfortunately were not. Unfortunately, we were

0:28:12.000 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 3>afraid of our parents and not afraid to ask or

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:17.399
<v Speaker 3>not afraid to be around, but afraid to cross the

0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:19.919
<v Speaker 3>land in a respectful way. There was some level of

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:23.600
<v Speaker 3>respect that we had as parents, as children to our parents.

0:28:23.800 --> 0:28:26.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't think that these kids, this generation, has that.

0:28:26.760 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 3>I think that they feel fearless, and they do shit

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:32.120
<v Speaker 3>that they make them fearless and it ends up tragic

0:28:32.240 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 3>and they don't understand that you may die, but you

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 3>break your mom and dad's heart, you break your siblings,

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 3>your grandparents' spirit and heart because and I'm not blaming

0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:45.080
<v Speaker 3>the kid, I'm blaming the situations of life.

0:28:46.520 --> 0:28:49.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, I don't. We definitely don't. My mother would

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 1>just give you a look. Well, she would put her

0:28:51.640 --> 0:28:53.520
<v Speaker 1>hands in assist and hold it down by her side.

0:28:53.560 --> 0:28:57.760
<v Speaker 1>So nobody else could see it, and we knew you

0:28:57.800 --> 0:29:01.160
<v Speaker 1>stepped your mind because there was the World bankings. You know,

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:03.520
<v Speaker 1>we did things a little bit differently. I don't know

0:29:03.560 --> 0:29:05.719
<v Speaker 1>if we necessarily have to go back to the purporal

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:08.600
<v Speaker 1>punishment of when you and I grew up, but I

0:29:08.680 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 1>think that there's probably a happy medium. You know, there

0:29:11.400 --> 0:29:14.880
<v Speaker 1>has to be consequences. You know, I look at teachers.

0:29:14.880 --> 0:29:17.640
<v Speaker 1>We've talked about this in past episodes. You know, we

0:29:17.720 --> 0:29:20.360
<v Speaker 1>have to worry about the social emotional well being of

0:29:20.400 --> 0:29:23.200
<v Speaker 1>a kids. Well, if a kid punches another kid in

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:25.560
<v Speaker 1>the face, he should get suspended. There has to be

0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 1>some sort of punishment so that doesn't do it again.

0:29:28.760 --> 0:29:30.640
<v Speaker 1>But when you say, oh, just go back in and

0:29:30.640 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 1>stay away from a little jimmy, pull little jimmy. Now

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 1>is to sit over there, you know, wetness pants, hoping

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 1>that the other one doesn't hit them again. You know,

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 1>there's got to be some I don't know, we have

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:42.640
<v Speaker 1>to think about the way that they're raising the kids,

0:29:42.640 --> 0:29:44.920
<v Speaker 1>because we're not doing it right. We're not doing it

0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:49.240
<v Speaker 1>even we've talked about also not paying attention. Children have

0:29:49.280 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>to be more engaged, They have to be aware of

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:54.640
<v Speaker 1>their surroundings. They all have an iPad or an iPhone

0:29:54.640 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>in their face at all times. They text each other

0:29:57.040 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 1>instead of just actually say hey, you want to go

0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 1>for lunch? You know, texting it's silly. We've gotta we've

0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 1>gotta do, got a little do a little bit better.

0:30:03.920 --> 0:30:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Somebody has to sit back and and I'm guilty of

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:09.560
<v Speaker 1>it myself. I wanted my son to have more than

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:12.360
<v Speaker 1>I had, and I think I did too much because

0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I didn't he didn't have to think about I want

0:30:14.640 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 1>those pants.

0:30:16.400 --> 0:30:18.440
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, we're all on we're all guilty of that

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:20.520
<v Speaker 3>in our age demographics by because that was all of

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:22.480
<v Speaker 3>our mindset. I want, I want, I want my kid

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:24.280
<v Speaker 3>to have everything that I couldn't have. What we did

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:27.040
<v Speaker 3>realize was that we were entitling them and spoiling the

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 3>hell out of them and damaging them. Because a lot

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:32.200
<v Speaker 3>of these children are damaged because they want instant gratification

0:30:32.480 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 3>right now, right this moment. They don't want to work

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:36.760
<v Speaker 3>for it, They have no patience to wait for it.

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:39.320
<v Speaker 3>It is just out of control. And yeah, we can't

0:30:39.400 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 3>just blame them. My daughter, my sixteen year old daughter,

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:43.400
<v Speaker 3>asked me yesterday, you don't even know anything about me?

0:30:43.440 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 3>What is my favorite color? It changes from week to week.

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 3>So I the last thing I remember it was a

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:51.320
<v Speaker 3>orange and purple. No, that's not it. What is my

0:30:51.400 --> 0:30:54.000
<v Speaker 3>favorite food? That changes when we do. You can't fault

0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:56.960
<v Speaker 3>the pearance for that, because these young kids change their

0:30:56.960 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 3>minds from day to day, especially young girls. So I

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:02.960
<v Speaker 3>felt bad, but then I realized, like, girl, you changed.

0:31:03.120 --> 0:31:04.880
<v Speaker 3>I didn't know you changed it. You didn't send me

0:31:04.880 --> 0:31:05.840
<v Speaker 3>an email.

0:31:05.960 --> 0:31:06.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:31:07.920 --> 0:31:09.960
<v Speaker 1>Because if you ask too many questions, they think you're

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:15.280
<v Speaker 1>grilling her. You know, Yeah, that's exactly it. So you know,

0:31:15.520 --> 0:31:18.000
<v Speaker 1>so maybe she's telling she's reaching out in a different way.

0:31:18.080 --> 0:31:19.920
<v Speaker 1>So maybe that's we have to listen to our kids,

0:31:19.920 --> 0:31:22.440
<v Speaker 1>not exactly what they're saying, but they need more time

0:31:22.480 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 1>with mom and dad, and we have to ask more questions,

0:31:25.720 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 1>and we have to put more parameters. You know, if

0:31:27.600 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 1>they're under eighteen, they still need things from you. So

0:31:31.080 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 1>you can hold those things back.

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 3>It's not easy in my house. In my house, they

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 3>pass eighteen, they still need shit for me good, you know,

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 3>I know.

0:31:39.960 --> 0:31:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean I had a twelve year old at my

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:44.880
<v Speaker 1>son's age, and I'm like, Jesus, I'm still picking up

0:31:44.920 --> 0:31:46.760
<v Speaker 1>your prescriptions.

0:31:49.480 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 3>We want to send the prayers out to all the

0:31:51.640 --> 0:31:56.320
<v Speaker 3>victims of these ladies shooting, even and they're still having Meanwhile,

0:31:56.400 --> 0:31:59.520
<v Speaker 3>no mind you, mad shootings haven't stopped. They're still having

0:31:59.520 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 3>mass shoot But to these personal ones, these accidentally going

0:32:03.840 --> 0:32:06.960
<v Speaker 3>to the wrong homes, pulling up on the wrong driveway, Bobby,

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 3>people are so bitter, so angry, so afraid.

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:16.680
<v Speaker 2>Because a lot of people are afraid. I don't think.

0:32:16.480 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 3>That that eighty four year old man was afraid. I

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:21.080
<v Speaker 3>think that he knew exactly what he was doing. I

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:23.320
<v Speaker 3>don't think that the sixty five year old man in

0:32:23.440 --> 0:32:25.560
<v Speaker 3>Upper State, New York was afraid. I think that they

0:32:25.800 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 3>knew what they were doing, and they don't know. I'm

0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:30.800
<v Speaker 3>not going to say that they said that they figured

0:32:30.840 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 3>they could get away with him, but I don't think

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:34.880
<v Speaker 3>that it's their first time doing something like that. They

0:32:35.040 --> 0:32:36.560
<v Speaker 3>just seem too comfortable with it.

0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:38.720
<v Speaker 2>You don't go straight to shooting.

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Especially the sixty five year olds. I'm with you on

0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 1>that he could see them. You know, I don't know

0:32:44.280 --> 0:32:47.120
<v Speaker 1>he meant to kill them, but I certainly meant to

0:32:47.280 --> 0:32:51.600
<v Speaker 1>scare them. Something that just popped in my mind is

0:32:50.360 --> 0:32:54.160
<v Speaker 1>so eighty five and I'm thinking eighty five with a gun.

0:32:54.560 --> 0:32:57.560
<v Speaker 1>If I'm telling my mom who's in her late seventies,

0:32:57.800 --> 0:33:00.680
<v Speaker 1>that she really likely circle on the drain were driving.

0:33:01.040 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 1>You know, if they get to a certain age and

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 1>they need to start having they need to start to

0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:10.120
<v Speaker 1>be retested and whatnot. Maybe we should be doing that

0:33:10.200 --> 0:33:14.120
<v Speaker 1>with that's another gun control. After X age, you know,

0:33:14.160 --> 0:33:17.240
<v Speaker 1>our eyesight starts to go and stuff after whatever age

0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:19.880
<v Speaker 1>and mental acuity. I have people in my own family

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 1>to two of my aunts and uncles, their brother and

0:33:22.280 --> 0:33:25.760
<v Speaker 1>sister both have dementia. They should they have weapons? No,

0:33:25.920 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't think Maybe they shouldn't have weapons. Maybe we

0:33:28.680 --> 0:33:30.560
<v Speaker 1>need to start pulling some of that stuff down.

0:33:31.520 --> 0:33:34.080
<v Speaker 3>And what and what? What would this was a sixteen

0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 3>year old black boy and a twenty year old white girl.

0:33:36.840 --> 0:33:39.239
<v Speaker 3>What Why wouldn't the warning shot have been enough? If

0:33:39.280 --> 0:33:41.880
<v Speaker 3>he would have shut there the shot gun in the air,

0:33:42.040 --> 0:33:43.920
<v Speaker 3>they would they would have pulled out and rolled away

0:33:43.920 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 3>from there. If the man would have shot that gun

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:48.480
<v Speaker 3>through a window, his window, that boy would have ran

0:33:48.520 --> 0:33:49.480
<v Speaker 3>off the port.

0:33:51.080 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 2>That's what makes it like, is this were.

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<v Speaker 3>You trying to do this?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you want to do this?

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<v Speaker 3>Because there's so many other ways, even in that crucial moment,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just want to scare you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to hurt you.

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<v Speaker 3>Get off my porch, So shoot through the window, shoot

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<v Speaker 3>up in the air, you know whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, think of the girls and the cheerleaders. What were

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<v Speaker 1>they doing. She ran back to the car, got inside,

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<v Speaker 1>she lowered the windows, say I'm sorry, there's no standyard

0:34:15.719 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>ground there. He came after. He was the aggressor and

0:34:18.680 --> 0:34:21.799
<v Speaker 1>came after her. What was the point? And I think of,

0:34:22.200 --> 0:34:24.480
<v Speaker 1>like my son, you raised some of this public is

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<v Speaker 1>very sexist. But I always said, don't hit anybody. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>hit a girl. Ever, Like he had to go after

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<v Speaker 1>a little girl in a little costume that made him

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<v Speaker 1>feel like what more of a man?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What was what was she doing that? He felt threatened?

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<v Speaker 3>And with that and with that situation, he damn sure

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<v Speaker 3>did wrong because if she had the time to go

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<v Speaker 3>and get in her car and pulled up to his car,

0:34:47.239 --> 0:34:49.239
<v Speaker 3>he had time to think about it or pull off

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<v Speaker 3>with just he sat there. It's like I'm gonna do it?

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<v Speaker 3>Is it is mind boggling. I'm going to ask everybody

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<v Speaker 3>just to be safe. You don't know what's going to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Stay prayed up, if you pray to whoever you pray to,

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:06.000
<v Speaker 3>stay safe. And again, this episode I would like to

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<v Speaker 3>be called self preservation is the first lot of nature.

0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:11.000
<v Speaker 3>But how can you self preserve when you're a teenager.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not supposed to have a weapon, You're not supposed

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:16.360
<v Speaker 3>you don't even you shouldn't even be thinking about dying

0:35:16.440 --> 0:35:18.960
<v Speaker 3>at fifteen to sixteen. You should be thinking about the

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:22.520
<v Speaker 3>next dance, or the next girlfriend or boyfriend, or what

0:35:22.680 --> 0:35:24.600
<v Speaker 3>snacks I'm gonna have. But what I'm gonna do with

0:35:24.640 --> 0:35:26.520
<v Speaker 3>my friends this weekend, when we go to the mall

0:35:26.640 --> 0:35:29.240
<v Speaker 3>or to the movies. None of that is even safe anymore,

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:32.680
<v Speaker 3>Bobby the word They always say, we're too old. No, unfortunately,

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:35.400
<v Speaker 3>y'all too young. Y'all don't know why we ever feel

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<v Speaker 3>like to safely walk through a mall and shop, to

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<v Speaker 3>safely hang out, to go to lunch with your girlfriends

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 3>or your guy friends and play basketball on the basketball

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<v Speaker 3>court for fear of anything going down, and you don't

0:35:46.160 --> 0:35:48.279
<v Speaker 3>make it home to your family. It is, it is.

0:35:48.880 --> 0:35:50.759
<v Speaker 3>It is a situation that I hate that we have

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<v Speaker 3>to still talk about in twenty twenty three, And unfortunately,

0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:55.759
<v Speaker 3>it looks like it's going backwards instead of forwards. I

0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:58.160
<v Speaker 3>was never taught to walk backwards. I was only taught

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<v Speaker 3>to walk on.

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<v Speaker 1>It's supposed to look for back when we were kids,

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<v Speaker 1>it was gang violence, right, So that's what you were

0:36:03.600 --> 0:36:05.520
<v Speaker 1>afraid of. Your kids were going out with the gangs.

0:36:05.560 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 1>These are gangs. These are adults that are coming after him.

0:36:08.480 --> 0:36:11.160
<v Speaker 1>Like again, what the cheerleader is with that? Rodriguez, he

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.400
<v Speaker 1>was twenty five, He comes up, he shoots her. He

0:36:13.480 --> 0:36:15.960
<v Speaker 1>knew enough to run away and go home. They arrested

0:36:16.040 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>him as home he fled to see. It wasn't like

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:22.080
<v Speaker 1>he stood around and took its consequences. So and I

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<v Speaker 1>even the sixty five year old guy that shot the

0:36:24.880 --> 0:36:27.759
<v Speaker 1>girl in the wrong driveway, he shot the car as

0:36:27.800 --> 0:36:30.000
<v Speaker 1>it was fleeing. He didn't come up and shoot it

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<v Speaker 1>like look in her eyes. So I mean, talk about

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<v Speaker 1>a coward. I don't know as a society. A for

0:36:37.520 --> 0:36:40.720
<v Speaker 1>a while I took a reprieve from from the news.

0:36:40.719 --> 0:36:43.400
<v Speaker 1>Only now I feel like I'm kind of out of

0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:46.440
<v Speaker 1>it because it's so depressing. There's nothing. We're getting worse

0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 1>and worse.

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<v Speaker 3>And those those are very valid points by because they

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<v Speaker 3>can't use their mental illness. Because even the eighty four

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<v Speaker 3>year old man Andrew Lester, his neighbor tried to help

0:36:55.560 --> 0:36:57.319
<v Speaker 3>him clean up the damage that was done. So you

0:36:57.360 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 3>can't say that you're afraid or you exactly and he

0:37:00.400 --> 0:37:02.480
<v Speaker 3>ran away. If you try to clean it up, yes,

0:37:02.680 --> 0:37:04.839
<v Speaker 3>if you try to clean it up, then you knew

0:37:04.840 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 3>that you did wrong.

0:37:05.760 --> 0:37:08.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because if the guy was really so, if he

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<v Speaker 1>really sought it, Let's even say he was mentally ill.

0:37:11.640 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>Let's say he did have some sort of dementia, right,

0:37:13.840 --> 0:37:16.240
<v Speaker 1>and he called the police. You would have left everything

0:37:16.280 --> 0:37:19.080
<v Speaker 1>so that the police could see the state and see

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:21.320
<v Speaker 1>where he broke in or where he was doing whatever.

0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>But he didn't do that. He tried to hide everything,

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:27.080
<v Speaker 1>so he knew he did wrong. There was no dementia.

0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:30.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't think there was. He was terrified for himself,

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<v Speaker 1>not for the poor kid.

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<v Speaker 3>The sad part is they have allowed this mental illness

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<v Speaker 3>to get away for so long that everybody used it

0:37:38.440 --> 0:37:40.920
<v Speaker 3>as a scapegoat, and it's just not working for everybody.

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:41.480
<v Speaker 2>It is.

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<v Speaker 3>Ladyesmen, I don't know what to tell y'all, but please

0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:46.879
<v Speaker 3>be careful, be safe, be cautious, because we just aren't.

0:37:47.239 --> 0:37:49.680
<v Speaker 3>We just don't know, but we have to watch this

0:37:49.760 --> 0:37:52.480
<v Speaker 3>case unfold. And I hope that this case is a

0:37:52.600 --> 0:37:54.719
<v Speaker 3>landmark breakthrough case. I hate that it happened to this

0:37:54.800 --> 0:37:57.400
<v Speaker 3>young man, but me and Bobie talked earlier.

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<v Speaker 2>This young man's life has a purpose, and this may

0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:00.440
<v Speaker 2>have been purpose.

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<v Speaker 3>God will make some changes hoping from this case, because

0:38:03.920 --> 0:38:06.319
<v Speaker 3>it gets worse. When every time you think it's you're

0:38:06.360 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 3>not gonna hear anything worse. Good God, two days later

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:12.520
<v Speaker 3>it shows up. So be safe, be cautious. Thank you

0:38:12.560 --> 0:38:15.160
<v Speaker 3>for joining us here at Laughing, Learn and listen. May

0:38:15.200 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 3>fifth and six, I'm a Youngers Comedy Club and the

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know for sure today that y'all know. And

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<v Speaker 3>May fourth, I'm doing Sherry Sheppard Show Comedy Corner. We

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<v Speaker 3>appreciate you guys here. Every Monday, I'm at Free Voices

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<v Speaker 3>at the Hollywood Lab at the world famous Hollywood Laugh

0:38:35.000 --> 0:38:38.800
<v Speaker 3>Factory on Sunset in LA with my co host Memphis

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<v Speaker 3>Will and we have the most bonkers banana adult grown

0:38:43.239 --> 0:38:45.839
<v Speaker 3>up time that all the stuff that you miss as

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:50.360
<v Speaker 3>a kid, from musical chairs to dance contests to birthday

0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:53.879
<v Speaker 3>shoutouts at fifty years old, Come and get your come

0:38:53.920 --> 0:38:56.080
<v Speaker 3>and get your twelve year old life, because we act

0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 3>like twelve year olds.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a running man, Willy. He was setting the

0:39:02.600 --> 0:39:03.520
<v Speaker 1>Bobby Brown for the.

0:39:03.440 --> 0:39:06.880
<v Speaker 3>Love of God, Bobby Cliff. I had never seen my

0:39:06.920 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 3>co host do a vacclap. He took his two hundred

0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:11.239
<v Speaker 3>and sixty pound ass and did a backslip, and I.

0:39:11.239 --> 0:39:12.719
<v Speaker 2>Was in print. Now, mind you.

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:14.360
<v Speaker 3>I thought I was gonna have to give a mouthful

0:39:14.400 --> 0:39:15.360
<v Speaker 3>mouth off because.

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:20.520
<v Speaker 1>Because we forget, we forget that our minds we're still

0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:22.359
<v Speaker 1>eighteen years old. And then all of a sudden your

0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:25.400
<v Speaker 1>body catches up and you're like, oh shit, excuse me.

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:27.799
<v Speaker 3>I say, if you fall out now this laugh alone,

0:39:27.840 --> 0:39:30.560
<v Speaker 3>you can do that. I can't pick your big ass up.

0:39:30.600 --> 0:39:32.680
<v Speaker 3>I ain't no frame. But we have the.

0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 2>Most fun time. Y'all have to come out.

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<v Speaker 3>It's on seven thirty every Monday night at the world

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:40.560
<v Speaker 3>famous Hoby Wood laugh Actor. Come and get your life,

0:39:40.560 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 3>Come and get your joy. Thank you guys for joining

0:39:43.120 --> 0:39:45.160
<v Speaker 3>us here laughing, learn and here in laughing. We have

0:39:45.280 --> 0:39:48.040
<v Speaker 3>the same model that will never change. Here and laughing

0:39:48.040 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 3>that we are not trying to get you to change

0:39:49.600 --> 0:39:51.520
<v Speaker 3>your mind. We are only trying to get you to

0:39:51.600 --> 0:39:53.919
<v Speaker 3>use your mind, because the mind is a terrible thing

0:39:54.000 --> 0:39:57.799
<v Speaker 3>to waste. If you independently think for yourself, you don't

0:39:57.840 --> 0:40:00.840
<v Speaker 3>always won't always be agreed with, You might not always

0:40:00.840 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 3>be liked, but you will love that you made a

0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:07.080
<v Speaker 3>decision for yourself. You didn't allow anybody else to control

0:40:07.120 --> 0:40:09.480
<v Speaker 3>the puppet strings. I cut those strings a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 3>We appreciate you, Bobby Cliffin. I could not have done

0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:14.160
<v Speaker 3>the show where I can say my mind is all

0:40:14.200 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 3>over the place, but I appreciate you for your love,

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:20.600
<v Speaker 3>your support. I appreciate you, Bobby for coming on as

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:25.560
<v Speaker 3>a wonderful Irish woman and as white as you can

0:40:25.600 --> 0:40:29.120
<v Speaker 3>get with your blond hair and your black glasses, always

0:40:29.200 --> 0:40:33.440
<v Speaker 3>being fair and Bobby of every American that looked like you,

0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:36.279
<v Speaker 3>thought like you, and treated people like you. God, I

0:40:36.280 --> 0:40:38.480
<v Speaker 3>would love this country to live in and fightful.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, bless you, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 2>God, bless you, Bobby.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you for being a fair person and seeing people

0:40:44.840 --> 0:40:46.960
<v Speaker 3>for people and not what you want them to be,

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:49.719
<v Speaker 3>but for who they are. We appreciate you here. Thank

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<v Speaker 3>you Aaron, Thank you Flaymett. Thank you guys for supporting

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<v Speaker 3>the Black Effect Network. This weekend in Atlanta, Georgia at

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<v Speaker 3>the Pullman Yards to show it sold out they are

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<v Speaker 3>having at Black Effect Festival.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately I will not be there.

0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:11.399
<v Speaker 3>I got another gig, but you guys go and show

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<v Speaker 3>support for my boy Charlamagne, the guy who's hosting along

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<v Speaker 3>with Jesse Hilarry's Horrible Decisions, who were there, Michelle Williams,

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<v Speaker 3>so many other podcasts. It's a great meeting, greed a hobknob.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a great place to sell your businesses and to

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<v Speaker 3>segue and interventions and all of that. So I look

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<v Speaker 3>forward to you guys telling me all about it next week,

0:41:32.480 --> 0:41:34.239
<v Speaker 3>because a bitch got a book and I'm going to

0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:36.440
<v Speaker 3>get my paper. But I thank you for joining us

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<v Speaker 3>here Laughing Learn. Thank you Ain. We will see you

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<v Speaker 3>guys next week. Be safe and in the words of TTG,

0:41:41.640 --> 0:41:44.320
<v Speaker 3>and keep your head on the swivel. This is Slay

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