1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:04,160 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo Our chief love Officer, 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Gabe in Chesterfield, Colo, Gabe Wrights. 3 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: My wife made our home office her second closet and 4 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: it's too cluttered for me to work in there, so 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: I moved my desk to the sitting area in our bedroom. 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,800 Speaker 1: She told me that my desk can't stay there. Should 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: I put her stuff out and get my office back? 8 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 2: Well, bro, let me ask you a question. When you 9 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 2: take her stuff out, what how you think that's gonna work? 10 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 3: Now? 11 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,639 Speaker 2: She didn't already decided that her clothes she needs more 12 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,880 Speaker 2: closet space, So she then took your office and turned 13 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 2: that into a closet, which was a bit rude. Yeah, 14 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 2: especially without especially without conferring with you, talking to you 15 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 2: about it. And then when you said, well, I'm gonna 16 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:01,600 Speaker 2: move my desk in the bedroom, she said, can't stay that. Well, 17 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: then ask her where does she propose that you take 18 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: care of the business from. 19 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 4: Okay, I like it, I like it. 20 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 3: Where do you propose that I take care of this 21 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:14,199 Speaker 3: business from? 22 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: Because you done took my office and turned it into 23 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 2: a closet, right, and you know, look, an office should 24 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 2: have a certain aura to it to put you in 25 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 2: the mind frame to work, work, not like you jammed 26 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: up in somebody's closet, sleeves all on the back of 27 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 2: your neck. 28 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, what is all of that? Yeah? 29 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: I don't know the size of y'all's house, but you 30 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 3: all do. 31 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 2: All have a space problem because if you turning offices 32 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:47,320 Speaker 2: into closets, and you turn the bedroom into offices, you know, 33 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: y'all's only solution is or you can go in there 34 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 2: to her and say. 35 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 3: Hey, look we need a bigger place and see how 36 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 3: that fly. 37 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 2: Oh, but you're gonna have to get this man a space, 38 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 2: because every man should have at his house, especially if 39 00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 2: he's a homeowner, well apartment everybody. Every man should have 40 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 2: his version of a man kve his little area, a 41 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 2: little space in the corner. That's his computer. Kids can't 42 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 2: use it. That's his monitor, that's his game control center, 43 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: whatever it is, that's just his Okay, maybe he got 44 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: a little sofa in the TV in the basement somewhere, 45 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 2: whatever size house y'all got, every man should have that. 46 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,079 Speaker 3: All right. All right, Well, we're gonna get your bra 47 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 3: off the frontato off this. We're gonna get your braw 48 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:34,519 Speaker 3: for them. 49 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: Moving on to Calendra and Macon, Calenda writes, after sex, 50 00:02:41,760 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 1: my husband is all almost always gets out of bed 51 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: and sleeps on the sofa. It's a big disconnect for me, 52 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: and I've told him that I don't like it. I 53 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: even asked him if the sex is that bad. He 54 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: won't give me a reason. Why does he get out 55 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: of bed and sleep on the sofa? 56 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 2: Probably because he's hot? Hot, and hell on here you know, 57 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 2: not keep you from cutting, and he don't want to 58 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 2: push you off and all this here. 59 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 3: But she ain't bad. It's not because it's bad. That 60 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 3: ain't it. 61 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, but he won't get well. 62 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 2: If it's bad, they're gonna go somewhere. So that ain't 63 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: what it is. It ain't bad because. 64 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 4: He married, won't Why won't he just. 65 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 3: He don't want to hurt the feelings. 66 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 2: I don't want your own me touching me and asking 67 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 2: me nothing talking. 68 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 4: You don't want her touching talking. 69 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 3: To you, going here on the couch. 70 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 4: Up. 71 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 3: You got to recover, all right. 72 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: Moving on to Ricky and Little Rock, Ricky writes, my 73 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: girlfriend compares me to her exes a lot, so I've 74 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: decided to give her a taste of her own medicine, 75 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: and I told her that no one makes spaghetti like 76 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: my ex wife. 77 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 4: She told me that she will remember that. 78 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: Is it cool to be playing these types of games? 79 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 2: No, she said, I'm gonna remember that. Okay, they don't 80 00:04:21,880 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 2: forget anyway. No, now she remember that. I don't know 81 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 2: why she does that. Ladies, you can't bruise a man's 82 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: ego like that. Yeah, you're always comparing you to your. 83 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 3: Ex's and all like that. That what's wrong with you? Lady? 84 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 3: You're wrong now, my man? Now, how you get back 85 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: at her is not that way? 86 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 4: Who my ex wife can make some spaghetti. I love 87 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 4: her spagetti? Do you make it like my ex wife? 88 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: Oh? 89 00:04:55,360 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know the thing about the spaghett It 90 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 2: wasn't good enough to keep y'all together? 91 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 3: So how good that spaghetti was? 92 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 2: You left it and her? 93 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:12,799 Speaker 1: That was her name though, Steve, his name is Ricky Edith. 94 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, you go so deep on the old. 95 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:19,679 Speaker 3: Ricky and Edith. 96 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 4: Edith Edith eat itth Edith. 97 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 1: Wow, she said, I'll remember that all right, Last one, Steve, 98 00:05:28,760 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: Last one. 99 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 4: Charita in Memphis. 100 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 1: Sharita writes, I've been married for almost fifteen years, and 101 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: i stopped having sex with my husband because he does 102 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 1: not know how to talk to me. He stopped asking 103 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: for sex after month two? Why has he lost interest 104 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 1: in having sex? Does he have someone else? 105 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: Well, he stopped asking for sex after month too. Y'all 106 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 2: been married almost fifteen years. 107 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 4: Fifteen years. 108 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 3: You're just not right near. 109 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 4: It hasn't been bothering you. 110 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: I don't even understand. I don't even want to stand 111 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 2: the concern anymore. 112 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 4: She's wanting a wyse he lost interest in sex? 113 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 3: And does you lost interest in sex in me? Thirteen 114 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 3: years ago? 115 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 4: I know. 116 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 2: I don't think it's time for a letter. Yeah, yeah, 117 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. What's you know? 118 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 119 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: Who deaf? A long way? 120 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: So he was he was talking to her crazy, so 121 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,040 Speaker 1: she says, So she stopped having sex with him. 122 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 4: That was the problem, and initially. 123 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: Well talking to him crazy, talking to her in general 124 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:54,479 Speaker 2: or why they was in the act in general? 125 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, just period? Yeah, in general. 126 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's why she stopped having sex in the 127 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 1: first place, because he does not know how to talk 128 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 1: to her. 129 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 2: Okay, so something wrong with him? He ain't you rap right? 130 00:07:12,960 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: I can't help you. It's just too much in here. 131 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: And that's missing thirteen years, fifteen, talking to you crazy. 132 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 3: I don't know. I can't help you. 133 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 4: He stopped having sex after month two. 134 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: Yes, thelo just don't know. 135 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 4: Thank you, Celo, see all them all. You're listening to 136 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 4: The Steve Harvey Morning Show.